[HN Gopher] How to rest well
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       How to rest well
        
       Author : rognjen
       Score  : 291 points
       Date   : 2021-12-02 08:24 UTC (1 days ago)
        
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       | 2-718-281-828 wrote:
       | Sorry, but this is one of those articles where I don't care about
       | the content but only about the discussion here.
        
         | jader201 wrote:
         | I almost always prefer reading discussion of a topic from many
         | people, vs. a monologue of one person's opinion.
         | 
         | That's the way I almost always use HN, for better or worse.
        
         | shoto_io wrote:
         | no need to be sorry about :) I always jump to the discussions
         | first before reading the article.
        
           | 2-718-281-828 wrote:
           | I mean I tried reading it but it was so shallow an meandering
           | - couldn't bear it
        
       | bobthechef wrote:
       | Josef Pieper[0] has written about leisure at length. What we call
       | "rest" today is largely either idleness or recreation and
       | something meant only to "recharge us" so that we can continue to
       | work. But this is ass-backwards and not leisure. Leisure is what
       | we work for and this was reflected, among other things, in the
       | medieval culture of religious feasts. Our modern culture is a
       | work-centric culture, but the middle ages were more of a leisure-
       | centric culture.
       | 
       | To better understand what leisure is, Pieper points to the
       | etymological roots of words like "school" (from the Greek word
       | for "leisure") and points to the distinction between the liberal
       | arts and the servile arts (the former are superior to the latter
       | and what the latter exist to enable). By definition, work is for
       | the sake of something; you don't work for work's sake. Our
       | culture either worships work for its own sake (an absurdity and
       | largely a neurotic distraction from our own nihilism) or it
       | terminates with a preoccupation with consumption and indulgence
       | of various appetites. A culture frustrated by a false
       | materialistic/mechanistic anthropology will produce this kind of
       | vulgar ethos.
       | 
       | [0] https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/767958.Leisure
        
         | mattgreenrocks wrote:
         | This is one of the few books I re-read on a yearly basis. It is
         | convicting.
        
       | dec0dedab0de wrote:
       | One thing that really helps me rest better is sleeping on my
       | back. It's more difficult to fall asleep that way, but the sleep
       | I get seems to count more. I dont know why, but it does. I've
       | been doing it since I was a kid, so it's gotten easier, but It's
       | still a struggle to not roll over a few times a week.
        
         | WesolyKubeczek wrote:
         | Looks like you're my opposite number or something. I cannot
         | become sleepy unless I'm on my back, but then to actually
         | sleep, I need to turn over.
        
       | justinzollars wrote:
       | Best advice for quality of sleep: Stop drinking.
        
         | BareNakedCoder wrote:
         | Best advice for quantity of sleep: don't stop drinking :)
        
           | drclau wrote:
           | Rather, be more selective about what you drink, and when. :)
           | 
           | Typically, you want to avoid even water some time before
           | going to sleep, such that you won't wake up to go to the
           | bathroom.
        
       | marcoslozada wrote:
       | Essential for entrepreneurs!
        
       | oedmarap wrote:
       | One of the strategies that changed my sleep quality for the
       | better is to stop taking coffee after 9 AM; after learning that
       | caffeine has a half-life of around 6-7 hours[0], but a quarter-
       | life of around 12 hours. If you have a cup of coffee at noon, a
       | quarter of that caffeine can still be circulating around your
       | brain at midnight.
       | 
       | [0] https://youtu.be/k5BMGmf1ai0
        
         | glogla wrote:
         | Pedantic HN style comment: doesn't half-life of 6 hours always
         | imply "quarter-life" of 12 hours? :)
         | 
         | (though I wouldn't have realized that without your comment, so
         | thanks for that)
        
           | christophilus wrote:
           | Depends on if it's linear or a curve, right?
        
             | KMag wrote:
             | A constant half-life is necessarily an exponential decrease
             | (linear curve on a logarithmic plot). So, yes, if the half-
             | life is 6 hours without qualification, then the quarter
             | life will be 12 hours.
             | 
             | Though, in real-life you get things like enzyme saturation,
             | depletion of chemicals consumed in the metabolism of the
             | chemical, etc. Real world pharmacokinetics are probably not
             | exactly constant half-lives.
             | 
             | For example, IIRC, the average American adult male
             | saturates his alcohol dehydrogenase at about 3/4 shot of 80
             | proof liquor per hour. Below saturation, I presume ethanol
             | has something close to a constant (and short) half-life,
             | but that exponential decrease is only observed at alcohol
             | concentrations where the effects of alcohol aren't very
             | obvious. So, for most practical purposes, the biological
             | half-life of ethanol doesn't apply and its metabolism is
             | better approximated as a constant rate process.
        
             | dkeidowb wrote:
             | Are there any examples of this? If its half-life is 6
             | hours, then after six hours half of the caffeine is still
             | there, and we know caffeine has a half life of 6 hours. I
             | don't know of any molecules with a non-linear half-life but
             | I might be completely wrong
        
               | wfn wrote:
               | There's a whole area for this - pharmacokinetics. See
               | e.g. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Biological_half-
               | life#Rate_equa... for examples of e.g. first order models
               | (exponential elimination rate, etc.) It has to do with
               | protein binding dynamics among other factors I have no
               | idea about. Remember that you are dealing with biological
               | systems.
               | 
               | Some of these processes to do with elimination and
               | clearance are very much non-linear and are modelled with
               | diff equations. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Physiologic
               | ally_based_pharmaco...
        
               | shmel wrote:
               | There aren't many with zero-order pharmacokinetics
               | (linear curve decay). The only notable exception is
               | alcohol though.
        
               | owenversteeg wrote:
               | Interesting, for a second I thought that had to be wrong
               | because I was aware of aspirin and alcohol, but
               | apparently they are the two common ones and the vast
               | majority are a bit more complex, which also makes sense
               | if you think about it logically I suppose.
               | 
               | It looks like in addition to those, others with zero-
               | order pharmacokinetics include salicylates (salts of
               | salicylic acid incl. aspirin), omeprazole (for
               | indigestion), fluoxetine (antidepressant), phenytoin (for
               | epilepsy), methanol (a poisonous alcohol) and cisplatin
               | (chemo medication.)
        
           | kevinmgranger wrote:
           | It serves as emphasis. Most people have interpreted "caffeine
           | has a half-life of X hours" to mean "oh so it's fine to have
           | it just X hours before bed.
           | 
           | By explicitly calling out the quarter-life, it prompts people
           | to think if a quarter of the amount would still affect them.
        
           | marcosdumay wrote:
           | Even if it was as simple as any physical system, it is still
           | something one might not realize for never making the correct
           | question.
           | 
           | Technically those two phrases mean the same, but people will
           | draw very different conclusions from them.
        
         | jasfi wrote:
         | I only have decaff, rarely though, and only before 9AM as well.
         | Otherwise I have green tea, and not after 1pm.
        
           | swah wrote:
           | And how is your sleep?
        
           | sg47 wrote:
           | I switched over to mushroom coffee since I couldn't tolerate
           | decaf. Still has some caffeine but doesn't leave me jittery.
        
           | yawz wrote:
           | I have a very similar approach, but I usually drink a 2nd cup
           | of green tea in the morning. I feel it helps my intermittent
           | fasting.
        
           | speeder wrote:
           | I wonder why for coffee you have it decaff but you are happy
           | with tea, that has more caffeine than coffee.
        
             | Y_Y wrote:
             | I hear that often enough. I think the confusion is that
             | it's true by dry weight of beans/leaves, but a cup of
             | coffee will typically have more caffeine than a cup of tea
             | by a factor of a few.
        
             | throwawaywrench wrote:
             | Tea of any kind doesn't have more caffeine than Coffee. And
             | green tea has less caffeine than black tea.
             | 
             | https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/nutrition-
             | and-h...
        
               | koonsolo wrote:
               | It was about decaf
        
         | ggregoire wrote:
         | Why talk about half-life and quarter-life here instead of full-
         | life (which I guess is around 18-24 hours)? Having less than a
         | quarter of caffein in your system does not impact your sleep?
        
           | amalcon wrote:
           | It's an exponential decay, so full-life is not really a
           | coherent concept. Detectable (but unnoticeable) levels will
           | persist for quite some time and undetectable levels will
           | persist for a bit after that.
        
         | person23849 wrote:
         | I've done the same thing, started remembering a lot more
         | dreams, not sure if that's an indicator of better sleep though.
        
         | gregoriol wrote:
         | My non-sleep nights suddenly make sense, thanks!
        
         | brendan0powers wrote:
         | This is one of those things you just have to try and see if it
         | works. I've quit caffeine completely for a few weeks, and
         | didn't notice a difference in my sleep quality.
        
           | gauchojs wrote:
           | Me too - but I stopped for 30 days and didn't cut other
           | caffeine sources..
        
           | tarsinge wrote:
           | Actually for me I sleep better at night with caffeine in the
           | morning. I find it helps with having a proper active / rest
           | cycle, i.e. concentrate energy and stress during the first
           | part of the day so I can start to wind down in the afternoon,
           | instead of hovering around mildly stressed all the day and
           | the evening.
        
           | bradlys wrote:
           | I found it didn't improve my sleep quality or my ability to
           | fall asleep. However - I do feel like I have a slightly
           | easier time getting out of bed now.
           | 
           | I've been off caffeine for a year or more. Having it actually
           | makes my stomach slightly upset now. Similar to sugary drinks
           | - I can't do them anymore. Once I gave them up - I couldn't
           | go back.
        
         | Terry_Roll wrote:
         | This link unfortunately doesnt really address the chemical
         | imbalances which are normalised throughout society as stress
         | and aging. If you consider yourself to be just a complex
         | chemical reaction with a consciousness as the end result of the
         | complex chemical reactions which have evolved over thousands of
         | years, then I'd simply be looking at chemical solutions for
         | good rest.
         | 
         | Its not strictly true that caffeine has a half life of 6-7
         | hours, nicotine reduces this to 3-4hrs and some prescription
         | drugs also affect the half life either by shortening it or
         | increasing it, in extreme to 24-48hrs.
         | 
         | I found a few grams of Taurine will improve and increase sleep,
         | the science is out there, the more you take the more you sleep
         | and you can sleep through fire alarms and all sorts so use with
         | caution.
         | 
         | Now a restless mind can also keep people awake, so increasing
         | 5-alpha reductase by consuming Glycine can then break down
         | cortisol. You will laugh your head off with lots of Glycine, so
         | dont blame me if you laugh your head off in a stressful
         | situation and get fired from a job or something!
         | 
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/5%CE%B1-Reductase#List_of_conv...
        
         | Tenoke wrote:
         | I'm not certain how relevant that is. I definitely don't feel
         | more awake 6 hours after coffee let alone 12 so clearly not all
         | effects are still there. Claims like these are quoting numbers
         | while implying things which aren't true a priori.
         | 
         | Sleep is admittedly easily disrupted but I also haven't noticed
         | a difference in sleep quality when skipping my afternoon cup.
        
           | pps wrote:
           | Different people reacts differently. I normally drinks 2-3
           | cups a day, last one sometimes after 8 PM. So to test some
           | claims about coffee being so bad etc, I completely removed
           | coffee from my life for a month - zero difference. And the
           | same is true for Yerba Mate for me (although with Yerba I
           | definitely feel different for few hours). But I believe that
           | some simply react more to this substance.
        
         | hvgk wrote:
         | This. One cup a day here at 07:30 and that's it. Was actually
         | life changing.
        
       | jordanmorgan10 wrote:
       | I guess I missed the most important step which probably was don't
       | have three kids under 7.
        
       | helpfulmandrill wrote:
       | So we've got to optimize rest now? I'm so tired of this world.
        
         | HPsquared wrote:
         | Tired? Sounds like you need more rest.
        
         | glial wrote:
         | Relevant recent post from the always delightful Convivial
         | Society:
         | 
         | https://theconvivialsociety.substack.com/p/you-cant-optimize...
         | 
         | Takeaway:                    There are two key points. First,
         | our exhaustion--in its various material and immaterial
         | dimensions--is a consequence of the part we play in a techno-
         | social milieu whose rhythms, scale, pace, and demands are not
         | conducive to our well-being, to say nothing of the well-being
         | of other creatures and the planet we share. Second, the
         | remedies to which we often turn may themselves be
         | counterproductive because their function is not to alter the
         | larger system which has yielded a state of chronic exhaustion
         | but rather to keep us functioning within it. Moreover, not only
         | do the remedies fail to address the root of the problem, but
         | there's also a tendency to carry into our efforts to find rest
         | the very same spirit which animates the system that left us
         | tired and burnt out. Rest takes on the character of a project
         | to be completed or an experience to be consumed. In neither
         | case do we ultimately find any sort of meaningful and enduring
         | relief or renewal.
        
         | unethical_ban wrote:
         | We always have. This article is for the person who doesn't
         | understand, or hasn't implemented, good work/rest balance.
        
         | leobg wrote:
         | Haha. I said the same thing to Tim Ferriss in 2010 when he
         | talked about "hacking" meditation. He did not take that well.
        
           | mrweasel wrote:
           | That is hilarious. Ferriss is an interesting guy, but there's
           | something funky going on when you're trying to "hack" century
           | old concept. It's basically Schwarzenegger telling you to
           | sleep faster.
        
         | rocketpastsix wrote:
         | Unfortunately, yea we do. Now that more people are working from
         | home the lines between work and not work are incredibly
         | blurred. Add the increased connectivity we all have
         | (email/slack/teams/etc on phones, laptops as work computers),
         | it is essential we build good and meaningful habits of rest.
        
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       | thejackgoode wrote:
       | I've been doing "shallow rest" (think your typical mindless binge
       | on anything) for whole my life and it has been difficult to
       | convince myself or even find resources to become involved in
       | resting, making it "deep rest" as mentioned in the article.
       | Anyone has a good personal perspective on how to learn to do it?
        
         | neltnerb wrote:
         | I think it's the same as trying to form any other habit
         | intentionally.
         | 
         | Have a bed that you sleep in.
         | 
         | Don't do anything in that bed other than sleep. If you are
         | laying trying to sleep and find you cannot, get out of that bed
         | and go elsewhere.
         | 
         | This trains you to associate that bed with sleep and nothing
         | else. It makes it so that when you go there in the future you
         | have an ingrained habit that tells you it is time to sleep.
         | Even reading in bed screwed it up for me.
         | 
         | I think basically the same approach fits any other activity. If
         | you want to get deeply in the flow for learning karate you have
         | a dojo that you associate with it. You get way less distracted
         | because you only do one thing there.
         | 
         | I think sleep or laying still and meditating is about the most
         | useful kind of rest for me, so I originally mostly talked about
         | sleep. I think that the ability to get deeply into a task is
         | generally strongly associated with environmental cues. Bowing
         | before you start karate practice is a formal way to move into
         | deep practice, even if you're practicing on your own.
        
         | ddek wrote:
         | Judging by OP, I'd say I have a pretty good handle on 'deep
         | rest'. I think it's more because I'm quite deliberate than
         | because I planned it this way, but it functions well as rest. I
         | have almost total separation of work and personal life.
         | 
         | Be purposeful with sleep. Work out how many hours you need,
         | have a schedule, stick to it. I do 2200-0600, if I'm out late I
         | still get up at 0600, a few 'short' nights a week won't ruin my
         | energy. Also, if I'm stuck at home, nothing interesting happens
         | after 10pm. Distractions like my phone are kept in another
         | room.
         | 
         | Push mindless binging out for more intensive activities. As OP
         | says, rest does not have to be relaxed. It doesn't have to be
         | solitary, although it can be. The things I do (and what they
         | bring me) are: board gaming (social), tennis (social,
         | competition, exercise), running (solitary, calming, exercise),
         | woodworking (solitary, satisfaction), Age of Empires II
         | (competition), and piano (solitary, creative). It seems a lot
         | when I write it down, but I still have a fair amount of
         | downtime.
        
         | andai wrote:
         | Go to the sauna, get a massage, or float in a warm salt water
         | tank for an hour.
        
           | kvgr wrote:
           | Sauna is great, no phone and temperature shocks are great for
           | me to calm down the brain.
        
           | chaoz_ wrote:
           | Is that why Finland is happiest country in the world?
        
         | 0x008 wrote:
         | I just go for walks without taking my phone with me. Works
         | alright.
        
           | tinyhouse wrote:
           | Same. But my brain is consistently thinking about stuff. I
           | wonder if it's still rest?
        
             | 0x008 wrote:
             | If you do not chase the thoughts or try to actively think
             | it should stop sometimes and not think all the time.
             | 
             | If I understand the article correct then rest is not about
             | "not thinking". Rest can also be about engagement (for
             | example sports or a making music). Just using different
             | parts of your brain which are usually not directly used for
             | work.
             | 
             | If it never stops thinking try meditation practice, it will
             | help after a couple times already (for me at least).
             | 
             | Also sometimes it can be good to "reset" the brain by going
             | into the wilderness or a retreat or have a day nap.
        
             | mrweasel wrote:
             | That's why I go for walks. I believe it frees up time for
             | the brain to think through stuff without getting
             | interrupted. Sure it might be a series of incohernt
             | throughs and ideas, but that's fine, now they've been
             | processed and the mind can relax.
        
               | jimpix45 wrote:
               | I also like doing this and I'll try to focus on what I'm
               | seeing during my walk which helps my brain not to wander
               | worrying about work or other stressors but it allows me
               | to be in the moment.
        
         | treme wrote:
         | Non-Sleep Deep Rest (NSDR):
         | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pL02HRFk2vo&
         | 
         | Yoga Nidra version
         | https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=yoga+nidra+20+m...
         | 
         | try either, and see how you feel compared to your usual rest
         | methods, gl
        
         | jasfi wrote:
         | Make it a goal for a specific day. Turn off all your devices,
         | except for your phone (if you really have to be contactable or
         | check something).
        
           | mlac wrote:
           | I'm taking this to the extreme and purchasing a bluetooth
           | home phone, so I can leave my phone in a room with the base
           | station, and still pick up if someone calls / texts
           | throughout the day. But no apps or anything. Gives me a way
           | to get out of connection anxiety.
           | 
           | Something like this: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B086PYS5VG?smi
           | d=ATVPDKIKX0DER&ref_...
        
         | tradesmanhelix wrote:
         | I find that whatever I'm doing (binging a show, taking a walk,
         | playing a video game, etc.) is much more restful when I'm fully
         | present. For me, this means putting my phone and any other
         | distracting technology away (or even turning it off) and just
         | fully immersing myself in whatever I'm doing.
         | 
         | Additionally, I find a bit of boredom is helpful in making an
         | activity restful. For example, I love The Expanse TV show but
         | sometimes it's very slow moving and I find myself wanting to
         | stimulate my brain more than it's currently being stimulated by
         | the show if that makes sense. However, I've found that if I
         | embrace the boredom, resist the urge to take my eyes off of the
         | TV, and just "float" in the moment so to speak, after about
         | 15-20 mins the discomfort fades and I lose myself in the
         | narrative. I find this "losing of oneself" in an activity or
         | experience to be very restful and rejuvenating.
        
         | Davexon wrote:
         | Travel alone to scenic places with no connectivity.
        
       | machiaweliczny wrote:
       | I was on the weeding and got super tired once so I wanted to take
       | nap. Couldn't really nap (I can't) but just relaxed body and
       | tried to not think about anything for 20 minutes. I felt after
       | that like after whole night good of sleep. Was very surprised
       | that it worked.
        
         | themodelplumber wrote:
         | That's a great result. Sometimes I think resting as "waiting
         | while doing nothing" is good enough if it simply keeps one from
         | working during the bottom of a local ultradian pattern. Coming
         | back up out of that pattern by itself should naturally feel
         | better.
        
         | randcraw wrote:
         | How different is that from alpha meditation, where you free
         | yourself from all thoughts, thereby entering a pre-sleep state
         | of mind?
        
       | doreal wrote:
       | One of my favorite essay is Adorno's "Free Time" in _The Culture
       | Industry_ [0]. When someone talks of work and rest as opposite, I
       | always think of this quote:
       | 
       | >I have no hobby. Not that I am the kind of workaholic, who is
       | incapable of doing anything with his time but applying himself
       | industriously to the required task. But, as far as my activities
       | beyond the bounds of my recognized profession are concerned, I
       | take them all, without exception, very seriously.
       | 
       | Free Time and Rest are actually what makes us intelligent and
       | creative. Work is experienced within its own constraint while
       | free time let us explore and make fortunate mistakes.
       | 
       | [0]: http://xenopraxis.net/readings/adorno_freetime.pdf
        
       | curtson wrote:
       | This is actually a great read that helps me understand and
       | appreciate the importance of rest.
        
       | l33tbro wrote:
       | Honestly just take magnesium before bed and thank me later. 150mg
       | should do it.
        
         | pps wrote:
         | I'm on 200mg of magnesium taurate. Magnesium l-threonate years
         | ago when the hype for it started. Absolutely no difference in
         | anything. Also taking l-theanine + apigenin (mix that Andrew
         | Huberman recommends) - same effect. But for people with not-
         | the-best diet magnesium is definitely beneficial for health so
         | it's good to take it anyway.
        
           | l33tbro wrote:
           | Might it be a biochemistry thing rather than diet? I eat very
           | few processed carbs and sugars and enjoy deep, restful sleep
           | with most off-the shelf magnesium.
           | 
           | L-theanine is fantastic too with my morning coffee. Alertness
           | without the jitters.
        
       | MrJagil wrote:
       | Good timing, I've been meaing to ask HN: what's the best book on
       | "sleep"?
        
         | i_love_limes wrote:
         | This is a very popular and quite detailed pop science book on
         | sleep written by a prof of neuroscience:
         | https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/34466963-why-we-sleep
        
           | 600frogs wrote:
           | This book actually gets quite a lot of hate on HN as parts of
           | it have been debunked (or are at least heavily argued about):
           | https://guzey.com/books/why-we-sleep/
        
             | doitLP wrote:
             | Slightly off topic but I always understood these types of
             | books (scientific, biographical, medical) go through
             | extensive fact checking before legit publishers will
             | publish them. Is that not the case? Or did the author just
             | serve as his own fact checker for that book?
        
             | pps wrote:
             | I wouldn't call it "debunked". All these were later
             | answered by author, I don't have sources, but I remember it
             | was on author's blog and also on some podcasts*. I remember
             | that he said all these will be answered also in second
             | edition.
             | 
             | EDIT: 90% sure it was on one of these https://duckduckgo.co
             | m/?q=matthew+walker+site%3Apeterattiamd...
        
             | belval wrote:
             | Thank you for sharing, this was an interesting read. I
             | wonder if the rest of the book also suffers from this.
             | 
             | To be fair though (not that it excuses it) but pop-
             | science/livestyle book written by academics to gain more
             | notoriety usually suffer from this issue that a lot could
             | be fixed by doing X. Livespan by David Sinclair also does
             | this by basically pinning everything on aging.
             | 
             | It makes for a good read but I think it's best to always
             | keep a healthy skepticism.
        
           | nojs wrote:
           | Note that this book tells you all about why we sleep, and
           | gives you a lot of scary stats, but almost nothing practical
           | about _how_ to sleep better. If you already know sleep is
           | important and want actionable advice, this book won't help.
        
             | helpfulmandrill wrote:
             | The actionable advice for me was just "you have permission
             | to sleep 8 hours, it isn't a waste of your life. No animal
             | escapes the need to sleep, and thinking you can 'game the
             | system' by robbing yourself of sleep night after night is
             | the height of arrogance."
             | 
             | I never had any problem sleeping, I just wouldn't let
             | myself do it enough.
        
             | kmtrowbr wrote:
             | This is not true -- he does give good advice, it's just
             | that it can be summarized in a single page. In fact the
             | last page of the book has his 12 tips. They are widely
             | shared across the internet -- here is one such place:
             | https://fastlifehacks.com/matthew-walker-12-tips-for-good-
             | sl...
             | 
             | So the book is mostly documenting his research into the
             | negative effects of a lack of sleep. Totally worthy and
             | interesting. But the great thing for YOU is that you don't
             | need to read the book. Just those 12 tips.
             | 
             | I'm 41. Over the years I have tried lots of ways to sleep
             | well: various herbs, pills, etc. Ultimately I found, for
             | me, there's no way to hack it. Good sleep is a part of
             | lifestyle. Matthew Walker says the most important thing is
             | routine: now I get in bed at 9:30pm, I read for an hour, I
             | fall asleep around 11pm, I wake up at 6:55, etc. Almost
             | every day, I allow some flex on the weekend. And a party is
             | a party, I give myself a freebie on those (sadly
             | increasingly rare) occasions.
             | 
             | You must get reasonable daily exercise. You can't drink a
             | lot of alcohol and expect to sleep well. Don't bring your
             | devices into the bedroom, read a paper book. Try to get
             | cozy at night. Chamomile tea is wonderful. Look into sleep
             | masks as I found as I got older I became more sensitive to
             | light & a sleep mask helps. Spend some money on your
             | bedroom: a good mattress, fan, blinds, the right
             | temperature, etc.
             | 
             | It totally works! I sleep fantastic these days! Best of
             | luck to you in turn.
        
         | pps wrote:
         | Not books, but I recommend Huberman Lab podcast on YT (at least
         | two episodes on sleep) and
         | https://themattwalkerpodcast.buzzsprout.com/
        
           | drclau wrote:
           | I second Huberman Lab podcast. He has now a monthly
           | newsletter too, and September's was about sleep. You can read
           | it here:
           | 
           | https://hubermanlab.com/toolkit-for-sleep/
           | 
           | Thanks for the second suggestion, I'll have a look.
        
             | jimpix45 wrote:
             | I third Huberman Lab podcast - he has a lot of great
             | content. His recent one about ADHD was really interesting!
        
       | sdevonoes wrote:
       | > A 20-minute nap provides an energy boost comparable with a cup
       | of strong coffee (without the later crash).
       | 
       | This is not true for me. If I get a 20-minute nap in the middle
       | of the day, I wake up wasted. It takes around another 20 minutes
       | for me to get really awaken.
        
         | tradesmanhelix wrote:
         | Anecdotal, but for me this means I'm sleep deprived. When I'm
         | getting enough sleep on a regular basis, a 20-minute "nap"
         | (even if it's just closing my eyes and listening to something
         | like [0]) is extremely refreshing.
         | 
         | [0] https://youtu.be/dPqCRyzhXn8
        
         | mrweasel wrote:
         | I have that issue, and I've tried with anything from 5 minutes
         | to 30 minutes. Regardless of the time frame I wake up feeling
         | confused, sleepy and my head hurts.
        
         | el_benhameen wrote:
         | I'm curious how folks here manage a midday nap. I usually fall
         | asleep quite well at night, but unless I'm unusually exhausted
         | (stayed up too late, one of the kids was up during the night),
         | I can't calm my mind enough to actually sleep during the day.
         | Even if I can manage to do it, it takes a long time, so a
         | 20-minute nap really takes an hour+ given the wind-down time.
        
         | khariel wrote:
         | Something to factor in here is if you're sleep deprived. I can
         | normally nap for 20 minutes and get said boost, but not when
         | I'm sleep deprived. In that case, it feels way harder to wake
         | up at the 20-minute mark, I also wake up groggy and I feel like
         | napping longer (and that's what normally ends up happening).
        
           | droopyEyelids wrote:
           | You hit the crux of the problem here.
           | 
           | Our brains compensate for sleep deprivation by releasing
           | increased dopamine in the striatum, which is involved in
           | motivation and reward, and the thalamus, which is involved in
           | alertness. On top of that, one of the effects of sleep
           | deprivation is a reduction in your ability to tell how sleep
           | deprived you are.
           | 
           | If you're sleep deprived, you're running on a natural high.
           | If you get just enough sleep to get close to rested, that
           | extra striatum and thalamus dopamine stops, and you also
           | regain your ability to perceive yourself.
           | 
           | That feels really bad. Not only do you forego the high, but
           | you can feel every bit of the lack of rest. It's like the end
           | of a bender. The only good thing is knowing you're making
           | progress back to relatedness.
        
         | Juliate wrote:
         | Been there.
         | 
         | If you haven't do so already, perhaps you could try to
         | experiment within +/- 5/10 minutes, to see where you sleep
         | cycle hits better. It can make a whole lot of a difference.
        
         | hvgk wrote:
         | Same trouble here. I find it's better to get up and go for a 20
         | minute walk instead. That pulls all the right strings in my
         | brain.
        
           | xwdv wrote:
           | 20 minutes is too long. You can get similar benefits by
           | performing a few minutes of depth jumps to shock the central
           | nervous system.
        
             | formerly_proven wrote:
             | I agree - don't talk a walk, it's an unnecessary hit on
             | your productivity. But, depth jumps require you to get up,
             | which again seems unnecessary to me if you can just taser
             | the CNS directly to wake it up.
        
               | flerchin wrote:
               | Like an actual taser?
        
               | probotect0r wrote:
               | No, that would require moving your arm, which seems
               | unnecessary. A figurative one will have to suffice \s
        
               | mlac wrote:
               | To get primed for the day, my protocol involves 3 cycles
               | through a cold plunge (28 degree salinated water) and a
               | sauna. On the third cold plunge I use the taser to boost
               | the CNS.
               | 
               | Would not recommend this unless you've studied the Wim
               | Hof method and have medical supervision.
        
               | flerchin wrote:
               | Really not sure if this is satire.
        
               | mlac wrote:
               | I would not recommend mixing electricity with salt water.
        
               | ninjinxo wrote:
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phaser_Taser_Energy_Raiser_
               | Met...
        
               | oweiler wrote:
               | Because this is HN, I don't know if this is sarcasm or
               | not.
        
               | codeisawesome wrote:
               | Had us in the first half...
        
             | hvgk wrote:
             | It's not just about that. You get time to process things in
             | that 20 minutes.
        
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