[HN Gopher] Underrated Reasons to Be Thankful
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       Underrated Reasons to Be Thankful
        
       Author : dynm
       Score  : 911 points
       Date   : 2021-11-25 13:11 UTC (1 days ago)
        
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       | capnahab wrote:
       | I am thankful haemoglobin can carry so much oxygen without the
       | iron in it turning to rust. Otherwise we wouldnt be able to
       | breathe. Well described here,and i have no affiliation
       | https://wol.jw.org/en/wol/d/r1/lp-e/102010332
        
       | pfdietz wrote:
       | "it's surely better than the light of consciousness vanishing
       | entirely when the sun eats the Earth in 7.5 billion years, no?"
       | 
       | The Earth will lose its oxygen in about 1 billion years and
       | undergo runaway warming in about 1.4 billion years. By the time
       | the Earth is eaten by the Sun (if it is; mass loss by the Sun
       | might prevent this), the Earth will have been sterilized for
       | longer than it has currently existed.
        
         | kiba wrote:
         | This is assuming that humanity or our successor won't do any
         | stellar engineering or starlifting, or moving the Earth for
         | that matter.
        
         | pfdietz wrote:
         | Also, thankful that (despite the timescale for O(1) changes to
         | O2 in the atmosphere being ~10 million years) not once since
         | the Precambrian did O2 levels fall low enough to wipe out
         | vertebrate life.
         | 
         | Although I'm not sure it's really correct to be thankful for
         | effects of observer selection bias.
        
           | ask_b123 wrote:
           | I think it is perfectly correct. It is a great thing to be an
           | observer and I'm thankful I can be subject to the effects of
           | observer selection bias. :)
        
       | esarbe wrote:
       | Hot shower in the morning.
       | 
       | Think about it; how many of your ancestors did have the option of
       | having a _hot_ _shower_ _every_ _morning_. Think about the labor
       | involved!
        
       | maceurt wrote:
       | Not going to argue my point or bring up any real evidence because
       | this guy didn't either, but Hunter Gatherers absolutely lived
       | better lives than we do now and the amount of human beings who
       | die to homocide or suicide is higher now than during that time
       | period. This time period is hell, just look at suicide rates and
       | mental illness rates. No other point in human existence has our
       | life held as little meaning as it does now. And our biggest
       | killer in the West happens to be a disease that has some of the
       | worst comorbidites. Most people in the west are living their life
       | in a inflammation, sleep deprived, vitamin defficient, hormonally
       | disrupted brain fog.
       | 
       | I also don't think people realize how the suffering of lack of
       | pleasure and of short excruciating pain like being eaten, is
       | infinitely better than a lifetime of stress, deppression, and
       | nihilism. Slavery to pleasure is the worst hell, and most of us
       | are enslaved in one way or another.
       | 
       | p.s. False positivity doesn't do shit for your brain, it can
       | actually cause harm. Even if it could do something good, you are
       | basically just brainwashing yourself to have a less truthful
       | understanding of the world. Joy is self-evident for Joyful people
       | and doesn't require deceiptful mantras.
        
       | Mary-Jane wrote:
       | > Due to some [reason], an overpopulation calamity hasn't yet
       | happened and we might coincidentally stabilize at a level that's
       | somewhat close to what maximizes average utility...
       | 
       | Given the birthrate trends in developed countries, it's more
       | likely the population will peak and then decline as prosperity
       | spreads. The cause isn't hard to discern - child labor laws -
       | they turn children from potential assets into guaranteed
       | liabilities.
       | 
       | A declining population will be a bad thing; our modern way of
       | life is built on systems that depend on growth (from Wall Street
       | to our tax structures to the various Social Security safety nets
       | countries have in place); take that away and we will have real
       | problems.
        
       | ldehaan wrote:
       | I'm thankful for my kiddos, single dad full time for years and
       | after the alternative i wouldn't have it any other way. I've got
       | a shock of white now because of them though :D I couldn't be more
       | thankful. And I'm gonna stay single until they grow up so they
       | know beyond a doubt how important they are.
        
       | hunter2_ wrote:
       | If we have something like #2, would that debunk the idea that
       | backing things up exclusively on magnetic media (HDD, tape) is
       | sufficient for restoration? I've never found optical media to be
       | particularly reliable, but it might be a decent hedge against a
       | huge magnetic event.
        
         | mrleinad wrote:
         | I know optical media deteriorates over time, so in order to be
         | a hedge, you would need to record it over and over again
         | periodically, preparing for an event you are not sure when it
         | might come. Poses a problem with waste and needed resources.
        
       | supernova87a wrote:
       | There is really something to the idea that despite the daily news
       | and political doomsaying that goes on every day, it's hard for
       | people to remember or celebrate the long progression that we've
       | experienced towards living in the most peaceful, materially
       | prosperous, and positive trajectory time in the history of
       | humanity.
       | 
       | (I think there was a podcast on Hidden Brain about this. Also
       | video like this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DwKPFT-RioU).
       | 
       | It's really good to periodically think about how much we benefit
       | from, say, the miracles of air conditioning, available
       | infrastructure and cheap travel beyond your town, clean water and
       | air, medicine, vaccines, public health -- and reset what you're
       | grateful for. And stop making every little transgression of
       | modern life feel like a disastrous setback.
       | 
       | But of course it's very unfashionable to point this out when
       | someone's <xyz> cause is being neglected, or is in the news and
       | everyone is outraged. Of course when you make such comparisons
       | you get hissed out of a room for being so callous, because
       | anyone's relative suffering is supposed to be treated with utmost
       | respect. And the short, acute, headline making problems are
       | always louder than the long progression of gradual improvement.
       | 
       | But taken in perspective, by intelligent people who can discuss
       | such things, we've really reached the age of 1% problems. (which
       | are being exposed because our huge disastrous human-generated
       | conflicts, etc. are decreased compared to 100 years ago). Health,
       | social issues, etc. are such luxuries to have problems about now
       | (and glad to have them discovered and debated), but remember how
       | wonderful a time we live in. We aren't generally dying of
       | terrible diseases during childhood, etc. or because of world
       | wars. More people are living longer to experience the wonders of
       | humanity than ever before. Although, things like climate change
       | we'd better allow to rise to the top of our list of problems,
       | soon...
       | 
       | Anyway, definitely very thankful for all these things, and all
       | the daily unsung people who make our humanity's progress
       | possible.
        
         | notfed wrote:
         | Related: a TED talk by Steven Pinker about his analysis on
         | whether the world is getting better or worse:
         | https://www.ted.com/talks/steven_pinker_is_the_world_getting...
        
           | uwagar wrote:
           | didnt he goto that TED talk on epstein's jet? ;)
        
             | watwut wrote:
             | The bigger issue is that historians and sociologists tend
             | to complain each time he makes sweeping claims about their
             | area of expertise.
        
       | lisper wrote:
       | I've done a lot of traveling in less developed countries. That
       | has taught me to be thankful for the fact that I live in a house
       | with heat and air conditioning, and hot and cold running water
       | that I can drink without getting sick. Many people in developed
       | countries (especially the U.S.) take these things for granted,
       | but in many parts of the world these are things people only dream
       | of.
        
         | lovecg wrote:
         | Modern plumbing and sanitation is one of those things that's
         | nearly invisible and taken for granted, but is almost
         | miraculous how well it works most of the time. If I had to
         | choose, I'd rather have a weeklong electric outage than a
         | weeklong water supply disruption, it's not even close.
        
         | autarch wrote:
         | Oddly, I regularly think about how great plumbing is, and I've
         | been noticing this for the past 5-10 years, I think (I'm in my
         | 40s).
         | 
         | I think one day I was probably in the shower and thinking about
         | how awesome it was to have a hot shower. Then I started
         | thinking about how great not having to use a "night soil pot"
         | or an outhouse is, especially in hot or cold weather.
         | 
         | I don't think I've spent as much time contemplating the joy of
         | HVAC systems, but I know I've thought about them from time to
         | time.
        
           | lisper wrote:
           | > I don't think I've spent as much time contemplating the joy
           | of HVAC
           | 
           | You haven't spent enough time in hot, humid climates. Go to
           | Houston in the summer and you will not have to contemplate
           | for long.
        
             | autarch wrote:
             | I've been there. I've also been to Taiwan in the summer
             | multiple times.
        
               | lisper wrote:
               | Without air conditioning???
        
               | autarch wrote:
               | No, fortunately. AC is pretty pervasive there, and my
               | mother-in-law's house has it.
        
               | lisper wrote:
               | OK, well, try it without AC some time and you will be
               | amazed how quickly you will learn to be thankful for it
               | :-)
        
       | agumonkey wrote:
       | That rotten milk is edible and quite tasty AND that heated up
       | again it becomes semi-fluid and even more delicious than before.
        
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       | riazrizvi wrote:
       | Thank you, a lovely list.
       | 
       | 7, 23, 24 were driven by the common unusual political occurrence
       | of fair economic opportunity. These rare times where a balance of
       | power occurs, by special circumstances, between the former
       | autocratic rulers and everyone else.
       | 
       | In Britain (7), domestic Royal monopolies were abolished etc
       | creating an economic and legal environment where entrepreneurs
       | would be rewarded. So people started investing their very
       | expensive free time tinkering because it might lead to profit.
       | 
       | Ancient Greece (23) developed the Solonian Constitution which
       | similarly protected the property rights of 'citizens' like never
       | before, so Athens became a cultural center of tinkerers,
       | hustlers, thought leaders, influencers etc, and the ideas are
       | what we still have today. Because unlike with Ancient Phoenicia,
       | the Greeks wrote on clay, not on perishable papyrus.
       | 
       | (24) Obviously the US Constitution managed to establish unusual
       | property rights for its European male citizens, and again we see
       | hustlers, thought leaders, influencers etc, because their efforts
       | are far more likely to be rewarded. But this time we see what
       | this political environment looks like close up and we see regular
       | people's bright ideas materialize in society because the law
       | protects them.
       | 
       | I am thankful that we still today, I mean 11/26/2021 today, still
       | maintain the balance of power that enables our egalitarian laws
       | to stand, and hope that some new technology won't kill that
       | balance.
        
         | jaclaz wrote:
         | To be picky, the timescale/locations of #23 is way off:
         | 
         | Socrates (Athens= 470-399 BC
         | 
         | Plato (Athens) 423-348 BC
         | 
         | Aristotles (Athens) 384-322 BC
         | 
         | Archimedes (of Syracuse) some 2-3 centuries later 287-212 BC
         | 
         | Euclid (of Alexandria) was active in Alexandria around 300-270
         | BC
         | 
         | Hyppocrates (of Kos) 470-360 BC
         | 
         | Pytagoras (of Samos) 570-495 BC
         | 
         | Thucydides (Athens) 460-400 BC
         | 
         | Herodotus (of Halicarnassus) 484-425 BC
         | 
         | Aesop (?) 620-564 BC
         | 
         | Solon (Athens) 630-570 BC
         | 
         | Pericles (Athens) 495-429 BC
         | 
         | Aristophanes (Athens) 446-386 BC
         | 
         | Sophocles (Athens) 497-406
         | 
         | the:
         | 
         | >That some unknown miracle blend of circumstances happened to
         | arrive in Athens in 500 BC leading a tiny city of 250k people
         | to produce Socrates, Plato, Aristotle, Archimedes, Euclid,
         | Hippocrates, Pythagoras, Thucydides, Herodotus, Aesop, Solon,
         | Pericles, Aristophanes, and Sophocles, and that it might be
         | possible to intentionally recreate such conditions today around
         | the world and spur incredible human flourishing, and why aren't
         | we working on this?
         | 
         | is more accurately something _like_ :
         | 
         | In the course of several centuries over a vast territory
         | comprising almost all inhabited mediterranean countries some
         | 10-15 people excelled in their fields and many of them happened
         | to live in the main city (and cultural capital) of the area.
         | 
         | Sounds a lot less a miracle, between 630 and 300 BC is three
         | centuries.
        
           | mistermann wrote:
           | > is more accurately something like:
           | 
           | > In the course of several centuries over a vast territory
           | comprising almost all inhabited mediterranean countries some
           | 10-15 people excelled in their fields and many of them
           | happened to live in the main city (and cultural capital) of
           | the area.
           | 
           | Your restatement excluded what I think is the most
           | interesting part:
           | 
           | >> and that it might be possible to intentionally recreate
           | such conditions today around the world and spur incredible
           | human flourishing, _and why aren't we working on this_?
           | 
           | "Why aren't we working on this" seems like a very good
           | question, one that you don't hear very often - "Why don't we
           | _even encounter_ these sorts of questions more often? " might
           | be an interesting sibling question.
        
             | jaclaz wrote:
             | Because recreating _such conditions_ isn 't possible,
             | basically because _such conditions_ never existed and the
             | idilliac setup the article seems to describe never
             | happened.
             | 
             | The article seemingly conveys (at least to me) the idea
             | that "by miracle" all those famous philosophers, writers
             | and mathematicians were in the same place at the same time
             | (and possibly had coffee or dinner together), this simply
             | never happened.
             | 
             | So, if the idea is about creating brand new conditions
             | (which ones?) capable to create a city/location where -
             | over three centuries - a handful of people, excelling in
             | their field lived, this has already been done, let's say
             | Rome 200 BC - 100 AD, London 1600-1900, i.e. more or less
             | the capitals (administrative and/or cultural) of large
             | empires that lasted several centuries.
        
               | mistermann wrote:
               | My interpretation of the intended meaning[1] of the
               | author was to attempt to reproduce ~ _conditions
               | conducive to producing this sort of effect_.
               | 
               | If you reconsider the idea under this reframing, does it
               | seem like more of a reasonable, "maybe worth a try"-class
               | idea?
               | 
               | [1] where "such conditions" ~= "of the kind, character,
               | quality, or extent"
        
             | watwut wrote:
             | What about saying that such conditions exists right now in
             | contemporary world. We have great amount of thinkers and
             | scientists and technologists and populists and cult
             | leaders.
             | 
             | All of them producing and moving world forward. It is
             | crowded competition, actually.
        
               | notahacker wrote:
               | Yep, the cynic in me thinks that actually creating the
               | conditions where a dozen people's speculation on stuff
               | dominates discourse for a couple of millenia like the
               | Greek philosophers is less about the quality of
               | speculation, and more about ensuring that not much else
               | of note is written down...
        
               | mistermann wrote:
               | Lots of stuff gets written down nowadays, but so much of
               | it is crap, and most of everything kind of vanishes into
               | the ether of old forum posts as time marches on.
        
               | watwut wrote:
               | A lot more crap or even super high quality thinking
               | vanished in that era.
               | 
               | Socrates was even refusing to write at all. All we know
               | is what Plato wrote for his own reasons.
        
               | mistermann wrote:
               | I wonder if it would be possible for these people and
               | others to produce in a more collaborative manner, perhaps
               | with a shared roadmap, strategy, etc. To me, it seems at
               | least plausible, what's your take?
        
               | watwut wrote:
               | Socrates was not particularly collaborative. Lived
               | through dictatorship+revolution led by his students and
               | got killed after. The resentments were real. Quite a few
               | people were tortured and killed in that story of
               | betrayal, revolution, contrarevolution, amnesty and
               | broken amnesty.
               | 
               | Like seriously, it was way more violent and bloody then
               | your average western society now. And we don't even go to
               | regular wars against other cities and don't keep slaves.
               | Neither of those two are collaboration.
               | 
               | And now you can actually become citizen without being
               | born from citizen father.
        
               | mistermann wrote:
               | This difference would be advantageous to us though
               | wouldn't it?
        
           | aduitsis wrote:
           | That today, thousands of years later, we have managed to
           | retain what those people said or wrote is also a very good
           | reason to be thankful.
        
           | lr4444lr wrote:
           | Plus, Archimedes not only was from Syracuse (Italy) but
           | flourished under a complete (even if benevolent) monarch.
        
           | pratik661 wrote:
           | Also, the capital of a major economic/military power will
           | usually attract the ambitious people from the surrounding
           | regions. Its equivalent to saying "wow, so many famous actors
           | lived in Hollywood!"
        
           | lnxg33k1 wrote:
           | And Aristippus the inventor of capitalism? :D Or Antisthenes
           | the one I use to see how the mental issues were valued in the
           | past? :D
        
           | Lamad123 wrote:
           | Some of those haven't been reported to sit foot or have much
           | to do with Athens!! At least Archimedes and Pythagoras.. Even
           | Aristotle was a foreigner to Athens, although he learned a
           | lot from his Athenian counterparts! Herodotus wasn't Athenian
           | either!!
        
         | HWR_14 wrote:
         | (7) was driven by the invention of patent law. Expressly royal
         | monopolies on inventing stuff.
         | 
         | (23) is because it's not independent random events. First,
         | Plato literally taught Aristotle and was taught by Socrates.
         | Second, Athens was the capital of an empire (okay, technically
         | a league) so of course the best and brightest descended on
         | Athens.
         | 
         | So, literally like Hollywood attracting actors or SV attracting
         | startups, it's a self-perpetuating cycle.
        
         | matbatt38 wrote:
         | Also #23 is mostly based on slavery. It's easier to have smart
         | elite when nobody really works
        
           | riazrizvi wrote:
           | Slavery was widespread.
        
       | blackbear_ wrote:
       | I actually wondered why the industrial revolution didn't happen
       | in China, great to see one possible explanation menioned in the
       | article [1].
       | 
       | Does anybody know other theories about this?
       | 
       | [1] https://www.imf.org/external/pubs/ft/fandd/2017/03/book3.htm
        
         | _hao wrote:
         | There's a very good book that goes into it (and other things)
         | by Ian Morris -
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Why_the_West_Rules%E2%80%94For...
        
         | andi999 wrote:
         | Personal opinion: same reason why it didn't take off in ancient
         | Greece (steam engine was invented back then) , no shortage of
         | cheap labor.
        
           | JackFr wrote:
           | There's an argument to be made that the Black Death broke
           | Europe (or especially Britain) out of a local minimum, by
           | killing off labor. This reduced the necessary rate of return
           | to physical capital and innovation. (Why invest in an iron
           | plow, when you can just set more serfs to the task with
           | wooden ones?) and ultimately this planted the seeds of the
           | industrial revolution.
        
           | rrss wrote:
           | though Hero's engine is _a_ steam engine, it is practically
           | useless as anything besides a curiosity and certainly could
           | not have powered an industrial revolution
        
             | andi999 wrote:
             | Yes, but I am confident if there would have been demand,
             | they would have improved on it. It can open temple doors so
             | I do not think it is too far away from a useful machine.
        
         | versale wrote:
         | This is clearly an idealistic approach. A materialistic view is
         | better explained in Fernand Braudel's "Civilization and
         | Capitalism, 15th-18th Century".
        
         | lenkite wrote:
         | Same reason it didn't happen in the Gupta Empire in India
        
         | cyberpunk wrote:
         | I'd recommend guns germs and steel by Diamond if you're
         | interested in such thoughts. He doesn't cover china, but the
         | book is basically about this topic. Nice easy read, recommended
         | if you've got time to kill over the holidays.
        
         | mwcampbell wrote:
         | I assume the intent of that item is to be thankful that the
         | industrial revolution happened at all, not that it happened in
         | England specifically.
        
         | nine_zeros wrote:
         | Armchair philosopher - From my reading, it appears that the
         | corporation structure really took stronghold in Europe, giving
         | huge incentives to tinkers and risk takers.
         | 
         | That, and the collapse of Dutch East India outposts to British
         | East India company opened up access to new trade. Resources
         | from the new world also jumpstarted the process. It was the
         | perfect combo of corporate incentives and unrestricted access
         | to global resources that propelled people to wealthier lives
         | and thus, higher level of productivity (you can spend years
         | researching on steam engines if you don't have to spend your
         | life farming). This is exactly the state of America since after
         | WW2, if you were to compare.
         | 
         | In comparison, China was not handed any colonies, lacked the
         | corporation structure and was caught up in dynastic infighting.
         | There was no new world to extract resources from and almost
         | certainly wasn't united the way it is today.
         | 
         | No systemic incentive structure and inability to access global
         | resources left people in poverty or produced little in the way
         | of innovation.
        
       | makach wrote:
       | Well that article made wonders with my preexisting depression
        
         | cmehdy wrote:
         | If you are receptive to lists of gratitude, it is worth noting
         | that one of the many tools of cognitive-behavioural therapy
         | (CBT) is to try to keep a journal of everyday gratitudes[0]
         | (something like "write 3 a day in a journal" works, but other
         | things like open prompts about "what are you grateful for this
         | week?" can also work). Plenty of other examples out there[1]
         | can help too.
         | 
         | Not everybody will enjoy doing that or benefit from it, but CBT
         | overall is proving itself to be very valuable for people
         | suffering from clinical depression, and if that tool from the
         | toolbox doesn't resonate with someone it's always possible to
         | look at other tools[2] too.
         | 
         | [0]
         | https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_gratitude_...
         | 
         | [1] https://positivepsychology.com/gratitude-journal-pdf/
         | 
         | [2] https://www.therapistaid.com/index.php/tools/cbt/none
        
       | arduinomancer wrote:
       | #5 is actually pretty amazing if you think about it
       | 
       | If zero-calorie sweeteners didn't exist I feel like we would view
       | discovering one as a holy grail/miracle drug
       | 
       | I bet a ton of obesity has been prevented just due to diet soda
       | 
       | Imagine if the same thing existed for carbs
        
         | tejohnso wrote:
         | I wonder why #5 singles out aspartame though.
        
           | sm4rk0 wrote:
           | That's really weird. I'm not thankful for aspartame or other
           | sweeteners, and even less thankful for corrupt food agencies
           | approving them. Refined sugars aren't healthy, but aspartame
           | isn't a solution. In my household, a kilogram of sugar lasts
           | for months if not a year. Yes, we do buy food with added
           | sugar, but always avoid artificial sweeteners, except when
           | they are unavoidable in drugs or food supplements. I'm 192cm
           | 75kg in early 40s and just occasionally ride a bike or take a
           | walk.
           | 
           | #5 is like: I'm thankful that you can smoke a cigarette and
           | not die immediatelly of it.
        
             | arduinomancer wrote:
             | What science are you basing that on?
        
               | bricss wrote:
               | > When your body processes aspartame, part of it is
               | broken down into methanol.
        
               | arduinomancer wrote:
               | Which is also found in citrus fruits.
               | 
               | Do you think those are unhealthy too?
               | 
               | > Aspartame is one of the most rigorously tested food
               | ingredients.[5] Reviews by over 100 governmental
               | regulatory bodies found the ingredient safe for
               | consumption at current levels.[6][7][8][9][10] As of
               | 2018, several reviews of clinical trials showed that
               | using aspartame in place of sugar reduces calorie intake
               | and body weight in adults and children.
               | 
               | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aspartame
        
           | bobsmooth wrote:
           | Because its the most famous/infamous and is the most studied.
        
       | AlbertCory wrote:
       | Great article overall.
       | 
       | 10 and 13 are somewhat contradictory.
       | 
       | 10 posits "the hard problem of consciousness" and "for whatever
       | reason we have phenomenal experiences" while:
       | 
       | 13 says "That selfhood is possibly an illusion... and the idea
       | that you are the same person you were yesterday is an illusion
       | your brain-meat gives to you"
       | 
       | I happen to think 13 is closer to the truth. As we learn more
       | about the brain, it will become more clear that "consciousness"
       | is just a movie your brain puts on for you. Bats and dogs and
       | dolphins watch different movies, but we cannot say they are "not
       | conscious."
        
       | scubakid wrote:
       | Not about to start being grateful for aspartame, sorry
       | -\\_(tsu)_/-
        
         | that_guy_iain wrote:
         | Why, what has it done to you?
        
           | scubakid wrote:
           | Nothing concrete I can point to of course, I'm just wary of
           | being actively grateful for it... it seems to me that some of
           | the subtle and/or knock-on effects may not be fully
           | understood, and there could also be better alternative
           | sweeteners that didn't make this list.
        
             | that_guy_iain wrote:
             | > it seems to me that some of the subtle and/or knock-on
             | effects may not be fully understood
             | 
             | There have probably had hundreds of studies done by people
             | who were actively trying to prove something and wrote that
             | they fully believe that there are bad side effects yet not
             | one states they proved something.
        
               | cheese_it wrote:
               | I've found that aspartame gives me really bad insomnia.
               | Almost every time this happens I'll go through what I ate
               | that day and it's always something containing aspartame
               | that was not in my normal diet. This is how I learned
               | that those flavor packets that are mixed into water
               | bottles and some zero-calorie flavorings used at coffee
               | shops contain aspartame.
        
       | wintermutestwin wrote:
       | I'll take this space to mention two simple life changing
       | gratitude practices that I have habitualized:
       | 
       | 1. Every morning, before I allow myself to look at
       | email/news/etc, I think of three things that I am grateful for.
       | 
       | 2. Every night at bedtime, my partner and I tell each other three
       | things we are grateful for about each other and one thing that we
       | are grateful for about ourselves.
       | 
       | I find that bookending my days with gratitude like this makes it
       | easier to live each day in a state of thankfulness.
        
         | quickthrower2 wrote:
         | Being grateful is good! But being jealous, angry, bitter etc.
         | are also valid emotions, not sins. (I don't believe in Dante's
         | Inferno etc.). Those emotions are signal that something needs
         | fixing. Sometimes it can be fixed in a second if it's a silly
         | thing. Sometime it can take a lifetime, if it's grieving for
         | example.
        
         | uwagar wrote:
         | i hope ur life gets less boring and more adventurous ;)
        
         | pkdpic wrote:
         | I love this and Im going to try this with my partner. Thank you
         | for sharing it :^)
        
         | mensetmanusman wrote:
         | Our family's ancient religious practices also incorporate these
         | rituals.
         | 
         | It's great giving the children an opportunity every night to
         | share what they are thankful for. My favorite was 'blankets' :)
        
         | k8sToGo wrote:
         | To me this sounds too much like the daily scrum meetings or
         | stand ups where you have to come up with something just so you
         | can say something and, in this case, go to bed.
         | 
         | But I only mean this as a joke. I think it is great to have
         | "rituals" that help us look and appreciate more stuff what we
         | have already or where we are and where we came from.
        
           | lovecg wrote:
           | There's some research behind this though. It's the act of
           | thinking of something to be grateful for that's useful - it
           | strengthens your "gratitude muscles". It was surprisingly
           | hard for me to come up with three new things day after day
           | initially. Try it for a week - you have nothing to lose and
           | the potential upside is huge!
        
           | cgriswald wrote:
           | Maintaining sleep hygiene takes precedence to me over
           | essentially anything else and coming up with four things
           | before sounds anxiety-inducing. We do this type of thing
           | before our evening meal, instead. For me, anyway, this is
           | much lower stakes and so there is less anxiety. Which results
           | in it just sort of flowing out--especially after doing it for
           | awhile--but not in an 'autopilot' sort of way.
        
             | wintermutestwin wrote:
             | Part of the point of our bed time ritual is to look for and
             | accumulate "gratefuls" throughout the day. In this way, I
             | am training my pattern recognizing CPU to spot the
             | positives rather than the negatives that it tends to focus
             | on.
        
           | AlexCoventry wrote:
           | "I'm thankful for the way the adversity you gratuitously
           | create in my life advances my spiritual practice. Sweet
           | dreams!"
        
       | ChrisMarshallNY wrote:
       | I really like that list!
       | 
       | Thanks!
        
       | TwinProduction wrote:
       | Hahaha this article is a lot more meta than I thought it would be
       | on a Thanksgiving morning.
       | 
       | Great article nometheless; it seems like we just got really,
       | really lucky.
        
       | autarch wrote:
       | > 11. That it happens to be a game-theoretic equilibrium to have
       | a near-equal sex ratio, although honestly, I have no idea what
       | things would be like if that wasn't the case and maybe it would
       | be fine.
       | 
       | Well, let's think about if this would be fine.
       | 
       | If there were a 10:1 female to male ratio, I think we'd expect
       | that a modern, "civilized" society would be reasonably fine for
       | everyone. There'd probably a lot more polygamy and polyamory than
       | we have now, but the polygamy wouldn't be the "old school
       | backwoods fundamentalist" type, because women would be in charge
       | of the government and effectively make all the laws. I wouldn't
       | be surprised if there were also a requirement that all healthy
       | males donate at the sperm bank once a month from the onset of
       | puberty to age 50 or so. This doesn't seem too onerous.
       | 
       | If there were a 10:1 male to female ratio ... it would be a
       | dystopian hellscape that's makes me shudder just to think of it.
       | Women would have basically no rights. There'd be an incredibly
       | high level of violence. Nearly everyone except the alpha males
       | would be miserable a lot of the time.
       | 
       | Anyway, that's my idea of how things might be like in an extreme
       | scenario. If we're talking 1.1:1 or 1.2:1 either way it might not
       | be a big deal, though I'd expect men outnumbering women to get
       | bad at a surprisingly low ratio, well before even 2:1.
       | 
       | Note that this isn't because I think men are inherently bad and
       | women inherently good. It's simply that nearly everyone has a
       | very strong genetic drive to reproduce. In the world with more
       | women than men, everyone who wants to have a biological child can
       | do so quite easily. In the opposite world, most men cannot do so,
       | which means reproduction is a scarce resource. And we know what
       | humans do in response to a very strong need for a scarce
       | resource.
        
         | jiri wrote:
         | Wow, this seems like our society needs to control this ratio in
         | the future! We can have more peaceful society if we reduce "men
         | count" to keep ratio above 1:1.1 (male:female) :-)
        
           | ateng wrote:
           | This is done "accidentally" with major conflicts in history.
           | Post WWII Soviet, for example. Lots more men than women got
           | killed during the war and the post war male:female ratio is
           | (from memory) around 1:1.15
        
       | huttongrabiel wrote:
       | There's an interesting paper that touches on #2. From Assistant
       | Professor Sangeetha Abdu Jyothi. Definitely worth a read.
       | 
       | https://www.ics.uci.edu/~sabdujyo/papers/sigcomm21-cme.pdf
        
       | soheil wrote:
       | I think it's important to be thankful only about stuff that are
       | not descriptive but took some agency to make happen. To keep
       | rehashing that we should be thankful that sun exists or that
       | earth has a magnetic core to shield us against the nasty solar
       | flares, etc. fall in the first category and devalue the idea of
       | thankfulness. Because you wouldn't be here to talk about it
       | otherwise.
       | 
       | So let's show thankfulness for things that took agency to make
       | happen so we learn to do more of those things.
        
       | achillesheels wrote:
       | _That even though we evolved as ruthless replication machines,
       | we've somehow risen out of the muck and we currently find
       | ourselves running cultural software that's way out of sync with
       | what game theory would dictate, and perhaps we can seize the
       | moment and build a civilization that can tame the brutal dynamics
       | that created us._
       | 
       | This. Our scientific understanding on how humans cooperate to not
       | simply feed each other, but prosper with endless creative
       | opportunities of cultivation, demonstrates we are at a tipping
       | point to potentially permanently limit the recurrence of violence
       | inter-generationally. Think of it as reversing unjust hereditary
       | trauma. So many humans being born now see a path to their own
       | prosperity, this century will be remembered as leaving the Planet
       | of the Apes behind.
        
         | juanani wrote:
         | I am grateful for the ignorant. I think we are heavily misguied
         | yowards violence being the problem and not violence lead by
         | greed. Greed leads to violence. We are just conditioned/tamed
         | to believe what gets repeated 24/7 on the screen. I am grateful
         | for the plug. I see we wont have a choice to unplug from our
         | Utopic visionaries soon enough.
        
         | __s wrote:
         | ??
         | 
         | I feel quite the opposite. Game theory helps understand why
         | people act, & it let's you reverse engineer what they really
         | value, as opposed to what they claim to value
         | 
         | It's like saying physics has been conquered because airplanes
         | should fall out of the sky. No, your existing notion was
         | flawed, but reality didn't change
         | 
         | People don't act towards incentives because of game theory,
         | it's that game theory models their incentives. If you're acting
         | differently, it means you've built a different incentive system
         | 
         | This is important because it means game theory can be used to
         | construct incentives to guide corporate behavior (ie we can
         | avoid tragedy of the commons by forcing externalities to be
         | accounted for, rather than left for the people), but pleas that
         | corporations will act for the incentive of moral goodness is
         | only a method to fool public debate into letting the tragedy go
         | on. Because it's in the corporate interest to not pay for their
         | externalities
         | 
         | Maybe we're getting at the same thing, & I'm just picking up
         | too much of a "shed thy mathematical yolk" vibe
        
       | wholinator2 wrote:
       | Im thankful for the miracle of modern medicine which has allowed
       | my mother to see so much more of my life than otherwise would've
       | been possible. And though there are many bad things that have led
       | to the situation, the good things still exist also. The extension
       | of the human life may seem strange or counterintuitively painful
       | at the large scale but for the individual human/family is the
       | most important thing about our modern existence.
        
       | butwhywhyoh wrote:
       | I can't tell if this article is tongue-in-cheek or not. These are
       | all just excruciatingly detailed versions of "I'm thankful the
       | human species came out on the positive side of a lot of dice
       | rolls".
       | 
       | Just say you're happy to be alive and move on.
        
       | hasmanean wrote:
       | Was this article written by a shill for aspartame?
       | 
       | They just threw it in there as something to be thankful to for,
       | right after the sun, the earth, nature etc.
        
         | jaqalopes wrote:
         | This blogger (whom I like don't get me wrong) is a health crank
         | who has written before about the health harms of sugar and how
         | aspartame is comparatively not as bad. It's part of his beat,
         | if you will.
        
       | lnxg33k1 wrote:
       | I'm grateful to have been born in the good part of the world
       | which allows me to be grateful that we're allowed to sustain our
       | lifestyles thanks to the exploitation of others, and I'm not the
       | exploited one
        
         | cyberpunk wrote:
         | Yaay! Me too. Wait.. :/
        
       | endorphine wrote:
       | I'm thankful for all the humans over the centuries, all over the
       | Earth, that created music which I can experience, now,
       | effortlessly. I'm thankful for all the strong feelings that that
       | music awakes. Thank you everyone putting their heart out there
       | through music.
        
       | krosaen wrote:
       | > That the FDA, Health Canada, and the European Food Safety
       | Authority all agree that at the doses humans consume, aspartame
       | is perfectly safe--not genotoxic, not carcinogenic, does not
       | cause an insulin spike--or at least has small, unknown harms,
       | meaning that people with a sweet tooth can avoid the large, known
       | harms of sugar with minimal exertion of willpower, and this is
       | still true even though people for some reason seem to reject and
       | despise this extremely lucky fact.
       | 
       | 2020 paper published in Cell:
       | 
       | "Short-Term Consumption of Sucralose with, but Not without,
       | Carbohydrate Impairs Neural and Metabolic Sensitivity to Sugar in
       | Humans"
       | 
       | https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32130881/
       | 
       | From Huberman Lab (deep link to part where he talks about this):
       | 
       | https://youtu.be/E7W4OQfJWdw?t=4404
       | 
       | Takeaway: if you consume artificial sweeteners with foods that
       | increase blood glucose, your brain will learn to secrete insulin
       | in response to artificial sweeteners even when consumed by
       | themselves. So if you drink diet soda all the time with and
       | without snacks - you can throw your insulin regulation system out
       | of whack and even cause pre-diabetes!
        
         | maneesh wrote:
         | Sucralose isn't aspartame...
        
           | krosaen wrote:
           | apparently it applies to all artificial sweeteners, including
           | plant based ones like stevia
        
       | pydry wrote:
       | >That even though the turn humans made from hunter-gatherer bands
       | into agriculture pretty clearly made life worse, it eventually
       | led to the industrial revolution
       | 
       | Which also made life worse to begin with. Without the enclosure
       | movement depriving peasants of their land and pushing them to
       | work in the factories in horrendous conditions for pitiful pay it
       | likely wouldnt have happened.
       | 
       | Though I'm pretty thankful for the workers' movement that
       | followed that led to innovations like the weekend and
       | criminalization of child labor.
        
         | koheripbal wrote:
         | Hunter gatherers routinely starved to death, and had violent
         | confrontations with other tribes. This is evidenced by the
         | different propagation of Y chromosomes vs mitochondrial DNA, as
         | well as other evidence.
         | 
         | It was not better. It was just different, and ultimately less
         | safe than living in agricultural communities.
         | 
         | The unibomber's manifesto goes into a lot of detail on the
         | merits of nativeist life, and many modern anarchists subscribe
         | to this philosophy and co-opt it into a neo-socialist dogma,
         | but it is entirely without scientific merit.
        
         | indymike wrote:
         | I'm thankful that I was born in the late 20th century, in a
         | country where working in a factory paid well, farming isn't
         | done with slave labor, where wars are limited (unless you live
         | where the war is) and my middle class standard of living and
         | lifespan would be the envy of kings in the not so distant past.
         | It's an amazing time to be alive, and so easy to see the
         | negative. The truth is, for many of us, we're living a life
         | that our ancestors couldn't imagine. Let's keep striving to
         | make life better on earth for everyone.
        
         | okr wrote:
         | I would like to see evidence, that people were pushed into the
         | factories. I was under the impression, that many went into the
         | factories, because working in agriculture was not easy, as
         | machines were not common.
         | 
         | And once factories were there, humans improved working
         | conditions there. While in agriculture, well, way more
         | difficult to do, as the work had to be done.
        
           | hn_throwaway_99 wrote:
           | In seeing what has recently happened in China, I would agree.
           | A gigantic migration has occurred in the past few decades
           | where Chinese peasants moved from rural areas to the cities
           | to work in factories. I thought for a long time "Why would so
           | many people do this? This factory conditions are quite
           | horrible, or at least the definition of soul-crushing
           | monotony.
           | 
           | I watched a pretty good documentary about this, and the
           | answer pretty clearly seemed to be _opportunity_. It 's kinda
           | similar to how legions of people move to LA to be actors. 99%
           | of them will be worse off for the experience, many of them
           | much more so, but even the chance to escape the conditions of
           | their situation is a powerful draw for a lot of people.
        
             | Turing_Machine wrote:
             | > "Why would so many people do this? This factory
             | conditions are quite horrible, or at least the definition
             | of soul-crushing monotony.
             | 
             | Because, as horrible as the factory conditions might seem
             | to modern eyes, they weren't, in general, as horrible as
             | being an agricultural stoop labor peasant (either in the
             | west in premodern or Victorian times, or in China today).
             | 
             | Serfs were running away to the cities way back in the
             | Middle Ages, long before any Enclosure Acts.
             | 
             | The expected payoff wasn't nearly as low as it is for
             | acting. While life in the cities wasn't a bed of roses by
             | any means (deaths from infectious diseases were at a
             | horrific level, to name just one downside), the one big
             | advantage was that you no longer had a "master" or "lord of
             | the manor" who essentially had the power of life and death
             | over you. Yes, a factory might have a cruel foreman, and
             | many did, but the workers were allowed to _change jobs_.
             | Serfs didn 't have that privilege.
        
               | helpfulmandrill wrote:
               | But on the other hand, the Enclosures provoked a number
               | riots[1], so I don't think everyone agreed with you that
               | "free" city life was better than rural serfdom, with
               | common rights intact.
               | 
               | [1]
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enclosure#Enclosure_riots
        
               | Turing_Machine wrote:
               | Of course everyone didn't agree. People don't work that
               | way. Even today, there are people who prefer living in
               | cabins without electricity or running water somewhere out
               | in the Brooks Range of Alaska. However, most people don't
               | do that (though a large number claim to aspire to
               | something like that, few actually do it, and of the ones
               | who actually do it, even fewer stick it out once the
               | realities set in).
               | 
               | The point is that the migration to the cities was in
               | progress long before the Enclosure Acts came on the
               | scene.
        
               | helpfulmandrill wrote:
               | I'm not sure that is the point. I personally don't think
               | we can treat the choice made by such large numbers of
               | people as comparable to the choices of a few modern
               | cabin-dwelling weirdos. I think we should take seriously
               | what appears to have seemed preferable for large numbers
               | of people at the time, given the information they had,
               | and lacking the benefit of centuries of hindsight.
        
             | Aunche wrote:
             | > 99% of them will be worse off for the experience, many of
             | them much more so
             | 
             | Chinese migrant workers aren't comparable to aspiring LA
             | actors. 99% of people aren't stupid or easily deluded by
             | dreams. You don't decide to move into a factory because you
             | think you'll become the next Andrew Carnegie. You do so you
             | can send money to your family in case if the harvest isn't
             | good or they need to see a doctor. People have it so good
             | here that they have completely forgotten all the hardships
             | of preindustrial life.
        
             | okr wrote:
             | Opportunity, yes, it describes it pretty well.
             | 
             | I also have seen friends from east europe leaving their
             | home countries for opportunity in the west, even when
             | judging from my warm, cosy, settled place, i thought, that
             | their jobs were crappy. But it was opportunity for them.
             | 
             | And now they also judge from their warm, cosy, settled
             | place. and try to make working conditions better for for
             | their fellows.
        
             | watwut wrote:
             | > Why would so many people do this? This factory conditions
             | are quite horrible, or at least the definition of soul-
             | crushing monotony.
             | 
             | Another part of the answer is that their lives in
             | agriculture were not all that great either. Many of them
             | could have moved back, but they did not, because as bad as
             | this was, it was still better or comparable. The factories
             | made them earn more money and regular money.
             | 
             | People tend to romanticize the agricultural or even
             | hunters-gatherers lifestyle. In ideal conditions, it can be
             | good. But conditions are not always ideal.
        
           | mikewarot wrote:
           | I was going to argue about the dangers of factory work, then
           | I remembered just how dangerous a scythe can be. Work, in
           | general, was a dangerous thing back then.
        
           | Veen wrote:
           | It depends on your definition of "pushed" or "forced". People
           | often migrated from country to city for economic reasons. It
           | was the only way to make a living for many. Others simply
           | wanted to make more money or take advantage of other
           | opportunities. You might say economic circumstances forced
           | them to give up agriculture for factory work.
        
             | okr wrote:
             | I agree. Or as someone above said, it created opportunity.
        
           | helpfulmandrill wrote:
           | Google "The Enclosures". In Britain people had their right to
           | subsist off common land removed by Parliament[1].
           | 
           | You can argue that the move from agriculture to industry,
           | from countryside to city, would have happened anyway. What is
           | indisputable is that for many people, the possibility of
           | subsisting in the ways they had before were systematically
           | removed by the state (at the time under the complete control
           | of the property-owning classes).
           | 
           | [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enclosure#Parliamentary_Inc
           | los...
        
             | Aunche wrote:
             | Would enclosures not have happened if industrialization
             | didn't? IMO this was inevitable because peasants simply
             | lost the leverage that they had received after the black
             | plague. Countries like the US had no such laws, yet they
             | all went through the same industrialization occurred all
             | the same.
        
               | helpfulmandrill wrote:
               | I don't know. Impossible to tell, I guess. I'm just
               | pointing out that choice didn't come into it for many
               | people. What choices they would have made had history
               | gone differently, I can't say.
               | 
               | Whatever might, hypothetically have happened in another
               | timeline, as a matter of historical fact it was _not_ a
               | peaceful, free-market process of people voting with their
               | feet.
        
           | pratik661 wrote:
           | Theres been some research in modern day Bangladesh that seems
           | to suggest that a presence of a garment factory in a village
           | (aka sweatshop to some people) is associated with higher
           | educational attainment for women and school completion rates.
           | 
           | Basically, garment factory work requires some level of
           | literacy and numeracy. Having a factory in your village which
           | provides jobs and independence vs farm labor work provides
           | people an incentive to complete a certain level of schooling.
        
           | netcan wrote:
           | The story is complex. There aren't really no "gimme evidence"
           | answers to these kinds of issues. A lot of people over
           | centuries in many countries give you a lot if stories.
           | 
           | One major factor was population growth. This was due to the
           | coming of American crops (corn, potatoes, etc) and the green
           | revolution (fertilizers, machinery, etc.).
           | 
           | Another major factor (say in Ireland, where I'm from) was a
           | change in the social-political system. There was a shift from
           | old the old lordship order to a more modern landlord order.
           | Relationships (rights, obligations) between lords/landlords
           | and the landed an unlanded peasantry... Today we might call
           | it rural unemployment and/or a small farm debt crisis. The
           | latter half of this change is known in Ireland as "the land
           | wars."
           | 
           | There were also "pull" factors. These are more complicated,
           | because they do involve choice. Cities offered a lot of hope.
           | You _might_ do very well in a city. Many did poorly though,
           | and food /sanitation was often worse. A lot of the migration
           | was (for example) adolescents sent to work as domestic
           | servants... so thinking in terms of "homo economicus" is best
           | tempered with some visualisations... say Oliver Twist.
           | 
           | Similar things happen today in developing economies. Rural
           | unemployment and stagnation. Cities that offer shiny
           | opportunities in a game with few winners and many losers.
           | Hence urban slums, 80 hr workweeks, etc.
           | 
           | Working conditions in factories was also a 200+ year process.
           | Unions played a big role. Politics played a big role.
           | Revolutions and fear of revolutions played a big role. In
           | Ireland, Soviet and pre-soviet revolutions were the threat
           | that catalyzed land and labour reforma immediately before
           | independence from the UK and after it. The Irish independence
           | war was contemporary to the Russian Revolution, so the
           | politics were naturally intertwined.
           | 
           | For the most part, material conditions for the poor were a
           | lot worse in the cities for most of the industrial era(s).
           | Education was better and people became more worldly in
           | cities. Rural peasantry tends to be culturally stagnant by
           | default. Marx, in his day, saw this migration as the
           | preceding factor to revolution. He was snobbishly dismissive
           | of peasants' ability to evolve culturally, so revolution had
           | to wait until a generation or two was seasoned by city life.
        
       | jll29 wrote:
       | I like this more unusual list of things to be grateful for, as it
       | complements well what one is usually reminded to be grateful for.
       | I'd like a more fundamental point there, though:
       | 
       | Gratefulness seems to be primarily a ternary operator: "<SOMEONE>
       | is grateful to <SOMEONE> for <SOMETHING>." (like "a ? b : c" in
       | C).
       | 
       | That second SOMEONE is the one that the being grateful is
       | directed at, as they are responsible for things being the way
       | they are. (Being grateful to anyone not causally connected to
       | what one is grateful about seems most weird.)
       | 
       | Does that not mean that every grateful person acknowledges God's
       | existence, at least implicitly?
        
         | thwave wrote:
         | Unless gratefulness is actually binary (x is grateful for y),
         | and directing this gratefulness towards someone is completely
         | optional. (One might argue that the object of gratefulness is
         | optional as well, and you can be grateful simpliciter, in an
         | unqualified way. But to them I'd say there's an implied,
         | general, object: the world, life, existence, or something like
         | this.)
        
         | mistermann wrote:
         | > That second SOMEONE is the one that the being grateful is
         | directed at, as they are responsible for things being the way
         | they are. (Being grateful to anyone not causally connected to
         | what one is grateful about seems most weird.)
         | 
         | How does one go about (accurately) decomposing causality in a
         | system this complex and poorly understood though?
        
           | shrimp_emoji wrote:
           | And a system founded on a complete misunderstanding of the
           | ternary operator
        
           | ssener2001 wrote:
           | This is also good point. Maybe the following paragraph can
           | help. "causes is the two things coming together or being
           | together, which is called 'association;' they suppose the two
           | things cause one another. Also, since the non-existence of
           | one thing is the cause of a bounty's non-existence, they
           | suppose that the thing's existence is also the cause of the
           | bounty's existence. They offer their thanks and gratitude to
           | the thing and fall into error. For a bounty's existence
           | results from all the bounty's conditions and preliminaries.
           | Whereas the bounty's non-existence occurs through the non-
           | existence of only a single condition.
           | 
           | For example, someone who does not open the canal to water the
           | garden is the reason and cause of the garden drying up and
           | the non-existence of bounties. But the existence of the
           | garden's bounties is dependent on hundreds of conditions
           | besides the man's duty and the bounties come into being
           | through dominical will and power, which are the true cause.
           | 
           | Yes, 'association' is one thing and the cause is another. You
           | receive a bounty, but the intention of a person to bestow it
           | on you was the 'associate' of the bounty, not the cause. The
           | cause was divine mercy. If the man had not intended to give
           | you the bounty, you would not have received it and it would
           | have been the cause of the bounty's non-existence. But in
           | consequence of the above rule, the desire to bestow cannot be
           | the cause of the bounty; it can only be one out of hundreds
           | of conditions.... from meaning of Quran "
        
         | vcxy wrote:
         | > Does that not mean that every grateful person acknowledges
         | God's existence, at least implicitly?
         | 
         | No. It means that the emotion of gratefulness isn't always a
         | simple reduction to what you have there. Similarly, I think
         | thwave who replied to you is also wrong. The emotion doesn't
         | have to always follow such a simplified framework or be legibly
         | caused. Of course it has to have some causal chain, but I think
         | the legibility could be as opaque as "X is grateful for Y
         | because Z suggested that maybe they should be" where Z didn't
         | have anything to do with Y, Y doesn't necessarily do much for
         | X, and so on. It doesn't make the emotion of gratefulness any
         | less valid. I expect the ways the emotion could come about is
         | varied enough to avoid these simplifications.
        
           | mensetmanusman wrote:
           | Actually, it depends on if there is free will, which by
           | definition is supernatural, else we have as much choice to be
           | grateful as a rock.
        
       | skim_milk wrote:
       | >25. That evolution happened to settle on this trick of "love" to
       | serve the interests of evolution rather than, like, causing us to
       | feel like we're being burned alive every time we don't find mates
       | or feed our kids or whatever
       | 
       | I liked the article but this strikes me as strange because this
       | is clearly not the same for everyone. Depending on who you ask
       | there's a sizeable population of people who, because of
       | environment and genetics, cannot focus on the "love" parts of
       | relationships and are predisposed to focus on fears of
       | abandonment etc to stay in relationships without lots of help and
       | drugs.
       | 
       | Be happy you got a decent dice roll if you regularly feel
       | positive about your relationships, triply so if this "positive
       | affect" guides the majority your life decisions!
        
       | ElectronShak wrote:
       | I'm thankful for the Internet, you wouldn't be reading this
       | otherwise
        
       | pkdpic wrote:
       | Im thankful to have a job and a roof over my head and a little
       | bit of savings. Not having to really worry about money still
       | blows my mind now and then.
       | 
       | Looking across the street every day in California and seeing the
       | homelessness crisis in full swing is an ever present reminder of
       | what this economy and this society can do to you if you slip up
       | for even a second and / or have even a minor run of bad luck.
       | 
       | Working in software isn't always easy or fun or fulfilling but
       | its still an incredible privilege to be working in this industry.
        
         | LiquidPolymer wrote:
         | This strikes home for me. I come from an extended family of
         | laborers and addicts. All of us had the same future: miserable
         | work, low wages, multiple bankruptcies, and early death.
         | 
         | I'm 57. I've worked as a photographer for 32 years, made a
         | great living and traveled the world. I've collaborated with
         | incredible people, and seen (and documented) amazing things.
         | 
         | I live in a beautiful house (I paid it off years ago) in a
         | great city. I have zero debt and have so many options about
         | what I'll do.
         | 
         | My retirement investments have been done very well (good luck
         | getting me to stop working). I have a wonderful family and an
         | incredible daughter.
         | 
         | I never take any of this for granted. I am so thankful. My
         | siblings, cousins, aunts, etc see me like an alien creature. At
         | 57 I'm the oldest living male in generations of my family.
        
           | [deleted]
        
         | human wrote:
         | I don't think you read the piece.
        
         | quickthrower2 wrote:
         | California sounds so extreme in this regard. When I started
         | working in software in the UK I made much less than say a
         | hairdresser, and never saw homeless people (not in a city
         | so...). I didn't feel this stark difference that being in 2020s
         | + SF seems to highlight.
        
           | kortilla wrote:
           | If you weren't in a city that's the difference. You only need
           | to travel like 20 miles south of San Francisco to never see
           | homeless people. Mountain View might as well be a different
           | country.
        
           | WalterBright wrote:
           | When I'd visit London on business in the 80's, the homeless
           | were very much present and visible. The concierge at the
           | hotel told me not to leave the hotel before 6AM (I had jet
           | lag and was headed out for a walk) because I'd be easy meat.
        
             | dave1999x wrote:
             | London really cleaned up in the 90s. There is still visible
             | homeless, but nothing like US cities with homeless camps.
             | Officially, there are a lot of "homeless" but far fewer
             | "unsheltered"
        
               | WalterBright wrote:
               | I've lived in Seattle since the 70s. I never saw tents
               | until recently.
        
         | axiolite wrote:
         | > Im thankful to have a job
         | 
         | I think you've got that backwards. Everyone is thankful for
         | money and possessions. A job is just how you happen to get
         | them. Would you be unhappy to be very wealthy, without a job?
         | 
         | > seeing the homelessness crisis in full swing is an ever
         | present reminder of what this economy and this society can do
         | to you if you slip up for even a second and / or have even a
         | minor run of bad luck.
         | 
         | I've known a lot of homeless people. Their circumstances are
         | overwhelmingly caused by drug addition or mental illness. Not
         | that anyone will admit to it.
         | 
         | If you're willing and able to work full-time, you can manage a
         | reasonable living. There are government and private programs to
         | support the disabled, unemployed, keep the impoverished who
         | don't fit those categories from starving, etc. Not to mention
         | charities, and friends/family groups who will help most anyone
         | who doesn't get enough support from those programs, or just had
         | "bad luck". Mental illness and drug addition does a good job of
         | cutting you off from all those sources of support.
        
           | late2part wrote:
           | _Would you be unhappy to be very wealthy, without a job?_
           | 
           | Yes.
        
           | kortilla wrote:
           | > Would you be unhappy to be very wealthy, without a job?
           | 
           | Absolutely. Working on stuff for my job that I'm passionate
           | about gives me great fulfillment. Being paid for my skills is
           | recognition from society as to the value I provide.
        
             | esyir wrote:
             | Eh, between the two, I'd reckon it'd be foolish not to go
             | with the wealth. I can always get a job, or use the
             | breathing room provided by wealth to gain skills for a job.
             | The inverse is not nearly as reliable.
        
           | WalterBright wrote:
           | > A job is just how you happen to get them
           | 
           | I happen to enjoy my job very much. I'd feel useless and
           | bored without it.
        
             | axiolite wrote:
             | If you didn't have to worry about money, you'd have ample
             | time to find fulfilling hobbies to occupy your time.
             | 
             | You could even do all the parts of your job that you enjoy,
             | while skipping all the unpleasant parts of it.
        
               | WalterBright wrote:
               | I created my own job by starting my own business, which I
               | enjoyed a lot and it paid well.
        
           | ronbarr wrote:
           | I feel sad for you if you see work only as a way to make
           | money. A good job with a team that is working together
           | towards a goal is a very satisfying experience. I would be
           | unhappy to be very wealthy without a job. There are many
           | people who end up lost because they don't have a sense of
           | purpose, and a job helps with that.
        
             | someelephant wrote:
             | I agree with everything you're saying except for your usage
             | of purpose. To me, life is not about doing meaningful and
             | purposeful things. It's about satisfying yourself. With the
             | right incentives, we can satisfy ourselves in ways that are
             | meaningful and purposeful. Finding the right work with the
             | right people is extremely satisfying. If you don't enjoy
             | your work, it's likely you are not working on the right
             | things or you have some mental health issues which are
             | lingering beneath the surface.
        
               | xpe wrote:
               | It can be both. I would guess that most people, once they
               | have satisfied their basic needs, begin to strive to help
               | their kids, their friends, their community, and possibly
               | even their country and/or world.
        
         | chasil wrote:
         | I was lucky enough to have spent my youth in one of the five
         | least expensive places to live in the United States, and I
         | stayed. I can easily buy a home for $30,000 here, and I have
         | done so a few times.
         | 
         | I was fortunate enough to find a company where I live that
         | wrote their major systems in assembler in the late 1960's; they
         | use UNIX/Linux to glue modern systems to a vertical wall of
         | technical debt. This is an endless amount of fun.
         | 
         | I go only so far into these legacy systems (we even have an
         | emulated VAX running VMS, which I keep at arm's distance). I
         | should be thankful for having an unprivileged VMS account. I
         | don't want to run that system.
        
         | elzbardico wrote:
         | I hear you man, I hear you
        
         | igorkraw wrote:
         | If you can and aren't already, maybe consider organising with
         | less privileged workers for things like striking in unison. Or
         | getting politically active to grow economy and society so it
         | will be kinder and allow a slip up.
         | 
         | One of the many reasons I would never move to the US is that in
         | Europe I _don 't_ feel like a minor slip up or bad luck will
         | send me into financial ruin. I'll need surgery on my shoulder
         | soon and hopefully it should be fully covered by my health
         | insurance, no added charges. It's an example that comes up
         | again and again and I'm sure people in your position worry less
         | about it, but it's something I keep seeing play a role with my
         | acquaintances and online
        
           | aksss wrote:
           | If you have talent, show up, and a clean criminal record, you
           | can make it in the US without a problem. There's more money
           | than talent, meaning if you have talent, there are people
           | ready to give you plenty of money. It's not hard in and of
           | itself. It says something that many people's problem in the
           | US is getting in their own way. People in other places in the
           | world have far less mobility opportunities than we have here.
           | I'm thankful for that.
        
             | igorkraw wrote:
             | If you compare globally sure, if you compare with Europe,
             | the data tells a different story. The US are 27th in social
             | mobility behind all of the northwestern European nations
             | with high taxation (data from the WEF, infographic from the
             | site I link to).
             | 
             | While Germany and the other European nations are far from
             | perfect and I like some of the business aspects of the US,
             | coming from money matters more in the US than in Europe,
             | statistically.
             | 
             | https://www.visualcapitalist.com/ranked-the-social-
             | mobility-...
        
               | mdp2021 wrote:
               | Very grateful for your notification of the existence of
               | visualcapitalist.com (It also has RSS, though through an
               | external provider)
               | 
               | I wanted to reciprocate revealing something along the
               | lines, but apart from ourworldindata.org (which has a
               | numeric approach instead of notional), I can only find
               | the promising JunkChart,
               | https://junkcharts.typepad.com/junk_charts/ , and The
               | Economist's Graphic Detail,
               | https://www.economist.com/graphic-detail?page=1 , blogs.
               | 
               | Edit: the said branch of The Economist seems _very_
               | promising: the latest article,  "Just like modern humans,
               | honeybees avoid each other amid plagues // They segregate
               | behaviours in different parts of their hives to prevent
               | parasites from spreading" as a stub shout heading reads
               | <<Social distan-sting>>. Thank you dear editor!
        
           | gjs278 wrote:
           | that will only increase prices for poor people
        
           | thegypsyking wrote:
           | I moved from europe to the us because I could never become
           | financially independent with the low compensation and high
           | taxes in EU. I would never wish for us to ever be as
           | unambitious and hard to grow as the eu is.
        
             | Aeolun wrote:
             | I think it's quite possible to find a middle road there.
        
             | cafeoh wrote:
             | You would never wish it for those that achieve growth or
             | for the people suffering homelessness, debt,
             | precariousness, etc? My gut tells me we both have very
             | different ideas on what ambition is/can be, what form of
             | growth is valuable, and how economic liberalism weighs in.
             | 
             | Ethics aside, the taxes I've been paying out of my salary
             | since I've been in the industry allows me today to benefit
             | from an incredible financial safety net as I'm attempting
             | to put together my own R&D software company.
        
             | mojuba wrote:
             | On Europe vs. the US: if you consider private health
             | insurance in the US a part of your taxes, then the
             | difference is not that big anymore. In fact it may even be
             | the other way around: in the US you may be overpaying for
             | health services if you are insured [1]
             | 
             | [1] https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2021/08/22/upshot/h
             | ospit...
        
           | kortilla wrote:
           | A minor slip up doesn't ruin people financially in the US the
           | vast majority of the time. That's why it's a non-issue
           | politically.
           | 
           | Your perspective of US life is just shaped by what they
           | report on in the news/reddit/here/etc. Nobody reports on the
           | people that live boring, comfortable lives.
        
             | nine_zeros wrote:
             | Even if a minor slip up doesn't ruin you, the paperwork,
             | hassle and the constant fear is ridiculous. That's no way
             | to live a civilized life - and I say this as an American
             | who has experienced better care even in third world
             | countries.
        
             | igorkraw wrote:
             | I know enough US citizens personally that I can assure you,
             | I'm aware of the correction that needs to be applied _but_
             | consider that you might be underestimating how bad things
             | are in the US because _you_ are comfortable.
             | 
             | I personally would not want to live in that system. I am
             | 29, debt free, with a university education from one of the
             | countries top universities where I spend 1.5 years extra
             | for an exchange and having needed hospitalisation multiple
             | times in my life. This experience is something that,
             | statistically, not many US citizens my age have (especially
             | the debt freeness), and I have had enough interactions with
             | exchange students who expressed genuine surprise I had no
             | second thought of going to the hospital to appreciate this
             | carefreeness over the benefits the US system might bring
             | for people like me in the happy path.
             | 
             | But that's personal opinion of course.
        
         | WalterBright wrote:
         | In Seattle anyway, 90% of the homeless are either drug addicts
         | or alcoholics. Becoming one is a choice under your control, not
         | god smiting you.
         | 
         | > Working in software
         | 
         | is a heluva lot better than stoop labor, what people have done
         | for millennia. Every time I work on the yard I'm reminded again
         | at how hard stoop labor is, and how I'm glad to work sitting in
         | a comfy chair in a warm house with the stereo playing in the
         | background. And I can play on HN when waiting for the test
         | suite to run.
        
           | renjimen wrote:
           | > Becoming one is a choice under your control
           | 
           | To an extent. Some people are predisposed to addiction and
           | the poor are much less likely to have the knowledge or
           | support required to recognise or battle addiction.
        
             | WalterBright wrote:
             | I know that some people are predisposed to addiction. It's
             | harder for them, sure, but becoming an addict is still a
             | choice for them. I know some who chose to get and stay
             | clean, too, despite being predisposed.
             | 
             | I wager that poor people are far better at recognizing
             | addiction than non-poor. I hired a stoner once, not
             | recognizing it. He robbed the company blind to pay his
             | dealer.
             | 
             | Social workers are always trying to get the homeless
             | addicts into rehab. They generally refuse to. It is their
             | _choice_ , not lack of money. In fact, I suspect that the
             | lack of money is _caused_ by their choice to be addicted.
             | After all, addicts lose interest in their jobs and
             | employers don 't want stoners and drunks coming to work.
        
               | mysticmode wrote:
               | This is a sort of response that makes the conversation
               | stink and as well has no optimal solution would come out.
               | > I know that some people
               | 
               | I know that this writing will make no change in your
               | bigoted perception but at-least it might to others. So,
               | I'm writing it.
               | 
               | Addiction is NOT a choice, and it is a form of chemical
               | imbalance that happens in our complex brain that makes
               | the person get into addiction with any substance. It
               | could be said like any other mental health illnesses. AND
               | when the person who got addicted doesn't get enough
               | support and the compassion (likely not from you) to the
               | way where they can be able to stay away from their
               | addiction, there is a possibility that such person could
               | go worse.
        
               | WalterBright wrote:
               | > Addiction is NOT a choice
               | 
               | Drinking alcohol is a choice, so is sticking the needle
               | in your arm.
               | 
               | > likely not from you
               | 
               | I support programs for treatment for addicts. Successful
               | treatment, however, involves the addicts accepting
               | responsibility. Nobody ever said recovery is easy. It
               | isn't. Compassion is in order to help them recover.
               | 
               | But ultimately it's still up to them to make the choice.
        
               | adriand wrote:
               | A heartless and uninformed perspective that is all too
               | common among people born into privilege (you may not have
               | been but in my experience, most people who believe this
               | were).
               | 
               | The majority of addicts are people who have experienced
               | trauma. Often this is childhood trauma, specifically
               | sexual, emotional or physical abuse. Of course it may
               | also have occurred in adulthood. Veterans are one common
               | example but there are millions of other causes.
               | 
               | Shit happens man. You can be an armchair judge but it's
               | all too easy to go off the rails in this world. Be
               | compassionate! Instead of "you made some bad choices"
               | maybe try thinking, "there but for the grace of god go
               | I".
        
               | WalterBright wrote:
               | I never said compassion was unhelpful. If compassion
               | helps an addict choose to stop using, great! But it's
               | still, in the end, the addict's choice.
        
               | adriand wrote:
               | You could choose compassion but instead you choose
               | judgment.
        
               | WalterBright wrote:
               | Asserting that people have agency over their lives
               | empowers them. That does not preclude compassion for the
               | state they're in. Not at all.
        
               | maroonblazer wrote:
               | How much of a choice is it to be attracted to a given
               | individual? Or to crave a certain kind of food? Or to be
               | consumed with a specific kind of work? Or to care for
               | your child?
               | 
               | I.e. I think we overestimate how much of a 'choice'
               | certain outcomes are for most people.
        
               | refurb wrote:
               | The choice is not the in feeling, it's in the action.
               | 
               | At least when it comes to addiction, there can be no
               | recovery unless _there is a conscious choice to do
               | something about it_. Nobody can save these people unless
               | they want to be saved.
        
               | blago wrote:
               | It was 100% my choice to smoke 1.5 packs per day for 20
               | years. Just like it was my choice to quit. The first
               | choice was easy, the second was not. You don't choose how
               | you feel about things, but to a large extent you choose
               | how you act.
        
               | WalterBright wrote:
               | People often conveniently claim they had "no choice" so
               | they can absolve themselves of responsibility for their
               | actions.
               | 
               | > How much of a choice is it to be attracted to a given
               | individual?
               | 
               | Don't confuse ones' choices with ones' desires. You have
               | free will, you can indulge in the bad predilections, or
               | not. Your choice.
               | 
               | Nobody said making the better choice is easy.
               | 
               | If I had my druthers, I'd eat nothing but donuts and ice
               | cream all day. But I choose otherwise.
        
               | kiba wrote:
               | _People often conveniently claim they had "no choice" so
               | they can absolve themselves of responsibility for their
               | actions._
               | 
               | Choices or no choices, or free will, doesn't absolve
               | someone of consequences, responsibility, or reality
               | stemming from actions being undertaken.
        
               | meken wrote:
               | I agree with this.
               | 
               | I've often contemplated that given that the part of me
               | that has a poor work ethic and refuses to get help has
               | generally won out, I would easily be on the streets if I
               | was born into a family of low socioeconomic status,
               | rather than having lots of savings and living in a nice
               | apartment. Also, I've spiraled downwards many times, and
               | I'm lucky that food, isolation, internet are my vices,
               | rather than hard drugs.
               | 
               | In the times I've finally "decided" to improve my life, I
               | honestly have no explanation for why I did that, versus
               | continue to spiral downwards.
        
               | foobarian wrote:
               | > In the times I've finally "decided" to improve my life,
               | I honestly have no explanation for why I did that, versus
               | continue to spiral downwards.
               | 
               | It's interesting how much these kinds of choices are
               | affected by people around you. E.g. when I had classmates
               | depending on me to finish a part of a project, or a
               | partner needing a good night sleep, I am much less likely
               | to goof off into the wee hours of the night playing video
               | games or such.
               | 
               | Makes me wish I could have recognized this way earlier
               | and set up periodic "check-ins" with a group of friends.
               | I've seen some people accomplish this via "life coaches."
               | Some people have really involved parents. Explains why
               | people with poorer backgrounds may do worse - less of
               | this kind of involvement. Conversely I wonder if
               | church/temple participation helps the other way.
        
               | kiba wrote:
               | _I know that some people are predisposed to addiction. It
               | 's harder for them, sure, but becoming an addict is still
               | a choice for them. I know some who chose to get and stay
               | clean, too, despite being predisposed._
               | 
               | A fairly useless way to think about when it comes to
               | solving problems in our society.
               | 
               | At the end of the days, people's choices are determined
               | by large number of factors, most of which we are unaware
               | of or currently ill equipped to understand.
               | 
               | It would be like a person having a seizure and people
               | deciding to blame said person for making a choice to be
               | corrupted by a devil.
        
               | WalterBright wrote:
               | A seizure is not the same thing at all. Nobody can choose
               | to have a seizure, or choose not to have one.
        
               | ineptech wrote:
               | Seizures were once thought to be caused by sinfulness. We
               | used to think problem gambling was a decision, until we
               | discovered a drug that can cause it. I don't think we
               | know why addicts become addicts just yet, so it might be
               | a little early to orate upon it.
        
               | [deleted]
        
               | kiba wrote:
               | _A seizure is not the same thing at all. Nobody can
               | choose to have a seizure, or choose not to have one._
               | 
               | Nobody chose anything without being dictated by physics,
               | biological, sociological, and cognitive factors.
        
               | esyir wrote:
               | This is a fun one, let's take the case of mental illness.
               | 
               | Assume we know the person's addiction and subsequent
               | dysfunction is from said mental illness. The person
               | doesn't want to be treated, as is often the case. Do you
               | 
               | A: let him carry on as is, resulting in both self-harm
               | alongside other externalities
               | 
               | B: Violate his right to self determination and have him
               | committed to a mental institution.
        
               | [deleted]
        
           | boplicity wrote:
           | >In Seattle anyway, 90% of the homeless are either drug
           | addicts or alcoholics
           | 
           | That's a big claim to make. Do you have any sources?
        
             | WalterBright wrote:
             | The "Seattle is Dying" video produced by KOMO, the local TV
             | station.
             | 
             | "60 Minutes" also ran a segment on the Seattle homeless a
             | couple years ago. They went in looking for people who were
             | down on their luck. They found drug addicts and alcoholics.
        
               | boplicity wrote:
               | Your number of "90%" isn't even close to accurate:
               | 
               | https://our.news/external/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fhotair.com%2
               | Far...
        
               | rkk3 wrote:
               | Not really, he was just referring to Chronic Visible
               | Homeless, your article doesn't break out SUD for that sub
               | group but even at just the Chronic Homeless level (many
               | who aren't on the street) it puts the rate at 2/3 having
               | substance issues.
        
               | seanmcdirmid wrote:
               | The drug addicts and alcoholics are much easier to find
               | than the people down on their luck, who mostly are still
               | functional and instead make up the more invisible portion
               | of the homeless population. They are also the most easily
               | helped by existing resources (easy cases that don't
               | involve rehab and can live independently).
        
               | alexanderdmitri wrote:
               | Here's a write-up from Seattle's government about the
               | root causes of homelessness in the city:
               | https://www.seattle.gov/homelessness/the-roots-of-the-
               | crisis
               | 
               | This is a take on the issue by the Seattle Times:
               | https://www.seattletimes.com/seattle-news/homeless/why-
               | are-p...
        
               | WalterBright wrote:
               | I remember that ST article. Their statistics have
               | problems - for example, a big reason people lose their
               | jobs is because of drug addiction or alcoholism. The same
               | for evictions. The same for their own families throwing
               | them out.
               | 
               | Drug addiction and alcoholism is the proximate cause of a
               | lot of calamities in peoples' lives.
        
               | pininja wrote:
               | When I hung out with a homeless guy in North Beach, SF
               | for a good hour while he was painting his perspective on
               | shelters was that the addicted folks were in shelters,
               | and non-addicts that went to shelters were treated as if
               | they were addicts. He felt rather de-humanized by the
               | whole system and so he stays on the street.
               | 
               | I haven't seen these videos yet, but I'm curious if they
               | went to shelters or streets.
        
           | erect_hacker4 wrote:
           | Addiction is a choice. Classic HN.
        
           | xpe wrote:
           | Describing human actions as either 'under one's control' or
           | 'not' is an oversimplified and inaccurate world view.
           | 
           | I think the evidence suggests a different understanding:
           | 
           | 1. One individual's willpower varies significantly over time
           | (over a day for example)
           | 
           | 2. One individual's set of options varies in many ways -- not
           | limited to education, awareness, culture, economic
           | opportunity, and luck.
           | 
           | 3. Many important actions are not consciously decided.
           | 
           | This plays out in many ways.
           | 
           | Many individuals that achieve some kind of success mistakenly
           | over-attribute it to hard work or intelligence --- and
           | downplay the role of culture, opportunity, privilege, and
           | luck.
        
             | WalterBright wrote:
             | I understand that today it is popular to assert that people
             | are just hapless victims of circumstance, that they don't
             | have agency.
             | 
             | I don't buy it.
             | 
             | Furthermore, when people _take responsibility_ for their
             | lives, they tend to have much better outcomes. I 'm old,
             | and I've observed this play out constantly. Blaming others
             | and circumstance might make one feel better, but it is
             | completely _useless_.
             | 
             | And lastly, successful treatment for addiction and
             | alcoholism involves the person _taking responsibility_ for
             | the addiction.
        
           | WalterBright wrote:
           | For those who disagree, take a look at Alcoholics Anonymous.
           | It's about making choices. I don't believe it is a mean,
           | heartless, compassion-less organization.
        
         | thowaway959125 wrote:
         | > Looking across the street every day in California and seeing
         | the homelessness crisis in full swing is an ever present
         | reminder of what this economy and this society can do to you if
         | you slip up for even a second and / or have even a minor run of
         | bad luck. Working in software isn't always easy or fun or
         | fulfilling but its still an incredible privilege to be working
         | in this industry.
         | 
         | I'm a senior software engineer with decades in the industry,
         | but a few years ago I completely burned out, ended up addicted
         | to alcohol, and lost everything.
         | 
         | And when I say lost everything, I mean _everything_. I ended up
         | in a homeless shelter.
         | 
         | Climbing out from there to get back into the industry was an
         | insane battle. I finally got control over all of it and back on
         | my feet, but I have a new found respect for just being able to
         | keep a roof over my head and pay bills now.
         | 
         | That's all I want. I use my free time to give back to society
         | now.
        
           | pkdpic wrote:
           | Thank you so much for sharing this, its deeply inspiring and
           | feels like really important context / wisdom for someone
           | still at the beginning of their dev career. This is exactly
           | why HN can be such an amazing community (imho). Im more and
           | more thankful for that as well.
        
           | major--neither wrote:
           | yikes! glad you climbed back.
        
           | 2OEH8eoCRo0 wrote:
           | Thanks for sharing. I'm glad you're doing well.
        
         | _huayra_ wrote:
         | Even things like not having to budget for groceries and the
         | occasional going out to eat is something I often take for
         | granted. I stay frugal, but have never really had to hem and
         | haw about whether I should spring for the organic produce or
         | fair trade coffee.
         | 
         | "I can't afford this" is a lot more difficult of a circumstance
         | to be in than "boy that was a dumb idea to purchase some
         | pricey, fancy, but nasty cheese on a whim"
        
           | pkdpic wrote:
           | I could agree more with this, word for word. It still hits me
           | almost every time I go to the grocery store somehow.
        
       | krisrm wrote:
       | Realized after reading this that it's American Thanksgiving
       | today. Happy Thanksgiving to our American friends. I'm thankful
       | for a lovely forum where we can read and share articles like this
       | one.
        
         | borepop wrote:
         | Agreed. The tone of the HN comments section is occasionally
         | somewhat more contentious now than a few years ago, but it has
         | not generally devolved into the sort of partisan pissing
         | match/bad-faith clusterfuck seen elsewhere in the interwebs. To
         | some extent I attribute that to the fact that valuing science
         | and reason can be a helpful quality in moderating the tone of
         | interaction, even among anons. Which is really a lucky thing.
        
           | Method5440 wrote:
           | Prove it, you partisan hack. :)
        
         | kubb wrote:
         | Also respectful condolences to the Native Americans in their
         | day of mourning.
        
         | throwamon wrote:
         | On Thanksgiving I'm especially thankful I'm not a Native
         | American living a few centuries or decades or even seconds ago.
        
       | swader999 wrote:
       | I'm happy that ice floats.
        
         | dclowd9901 wrote:
         | Happier that water freezes at a pretty tolerable temperature
         | and happens to be our main source of sustenance. Makes adding
         | water ice to things a very refreshing experience!
        
         | pfdietz wrote:
         | And that the carbon 12 nucleus has that excited state at just
         | the right energy to make the triple-alpha process work.
        
         | jasonladuke0311 wrote:
         | I wrote an essay about this for my AP Chem test in high school.
         | I still remember this question almost 25 years later!
        
       | blago wrote:
       | Only 12 hours ago I was grateful the we hadn't been hit by
       | another, even more dangerous, COVID variant but's that's back on
       | the table now.
        
       | decremental wrote:
       | I'm thankful for the HN moderator dang.
        
       | moneywoes wrote:
       | I'm thankful for Hacker News and this post
        
       | flycaliguy wrote:
       | I really like this idea of listing things to be thankful for. I
       | might just start up a mega list in my house for my kids to
       | contribute to. Maybe a binder? Something we can revisit together
       | and contribute to.
        
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       | seba_dos1 wrote:
       | > meaning that people with a sweet tooth can avoid the large,
       | known harms of sugar with minimal exertion of willpower
       | 
       | Aspartame tastes so awful I can't see how that's going to make me
       | thankful.
        
         | brink wrote:
         | On top of it tasting bad, it gives me migraines. The only
         | theory I have for why that is is that I'm allergic.
        
           | Kranar wrote:
           | Another more plausible explanation is that it's
           | psychological. It's common among many who believe aspartame
           | is unhealthy that it gives them migraines or headaches, but
           | in a double-blind study, every single person who self-
           | reported adverse reactions to aspartame were unable to do so
           | over the course of the study. On the other hand, those who
           | claimed sensitivity rated very high on various psychological
           | metrics such as perceived stress and anxiety:
           | 
           | https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4364783/
           | 
           | This is not to say that you don't genuinely feel something
           | and are just making it up, but that it's not a consequence of
           | aspartame and is rooted in an entirely different phenomenon
           | that you've associated with aspartame for one reason or
           | another.
        
         | jturpin wrote:
         | Diet sodas to me taste awful, but lately I've been putting a
         | single packet of Equal in my coffee with some vanilla and it
         | tastes great. Lord knows I can cut out the sugar wherever
         | possible.
        
       | dham wrote:
       | > That large animals like humans seem to be able to develop
       | sophisticated defenses against parasites that parasites can't
       | counter-adapt against, meaning that parasitism is way less of an
       | issue for us than it is for smaller animals, which is good
       | because parasites are bad.
       | 
       | The lack of parasites probably leads to most auto immune diseases
       | in humans.
        
         | avl999 wrote:
         | citation needed
        
           | dham wrote:
           | Basically after populations are treated for parasites (in 3rd
           | world countries) the rate of autoimmune diseases goes up.
           | It's thought that since the immune system has nothing to do,
           | it starts attacking itself which makes sense from an
           | evolutionary stand point.
           | 
           | https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1618732/
        
       | okl wrote:
       | > Imagine a puddle waking up one morning and thinking, "This is
       | an interesting world I find myself in, an interesting hole I find
       | myself in, fits me rather neatly, doesn't it? In fact it fits me
       | staggeringly well, must have been made to have me in it!"
        
         | EForEndeavour wrote:
         | Obligatory:
         | https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Manga/TheEnigmaOfAmig...
         | 
         | > "This hole...! It was made for me!"
         | 
         | > A short horror manga story by Junji Ito. A boy named Owaki,
         | and a girl, Yoshida, meet on Amigara Mountain, where an
         | unsettling discovery has been made. An earthquake has created a
         | huge fault in the mountain, and human-shaped holes are
         | scattered across the face of the fault line. It soon becomes
         | clear that the holes are "calling" to the people they are
         | shaped like. So what happens when they enter the hole? Well,
         | you can be sure that massive amounts of claustrophobia and
         | Nightmare Fuel are involved.
        
         | elwell wrote:
         | It's all perspective.
        
         | mistermann wrote:
         | Imagine if it actually was! That'd be pretty funny I think.
        
       | a_wild_dandan wrote:
       | I'm thankful that the freak accident of multicellular life
       | happened, possibly once ever, billions of years ago.[1] The near
       | impossibility of that momentous event happening could be The
       | Great Filter that explains the Fermi Paradox.[2] Thanks for being
       | here, fellow multicellular friends.
       | 
       | [1] (Start at 2:15)
       | https://www.wnycstudios.org/podcasts/radiolab/articles/cellm...
       | 
       | [2] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fermi_paradox
        
         | 5faulker wrote:
         | When we understand that life is an opportunity rather than a
         | given, it really changes our perspective on life.
        
       | kwertyoowiyop wrote:
       | I'm thankful for every HN user and moderator who helps remove
       | political or mean comments.
        
       | quickthrower2 wrote:
       | Re #15 I watched a show about a boy who got infected with ecoli.
       | The defence was plasma transfusion (I think) which was
       | experimental at the time. He survived ... barely. The bacteria
       | tore through his body, made a hole in his stomach. The point is
       | out sophisticated defence goes beyond the immune system into the
       | knowledge, technology, science. Imagine what covid would be like
       | without technology, governments, money, coordination. May have
       | spread more slowly at the global level of course without
       | technology but would be way more deadly.
        
       | pyrrhotech wrote:
       | I'm thankful we still live in a society with personal and
       | economic liberty. Both those on the far left and the far right
       | are trying to take those from us, and the center is vanishing as
       | America becomes more polarized each cycle. I'm convinced one day
       | in the future, we will no longer have the freedoms we enjoy
       | today, so I live each day to the fullest knowing that nothing
       | good lasts forever.
        
       | noisy_boy wrote:
       | I am thankful for online bill payment. I remember my dad having
       | to go and queue up for paying electricity and water bills every
       | month - even when it was sweltering hot.
        
       | WalterBright wrote:
       | Every day you can wake up, put your feet on the ground and stand
       | up, is a beautiful day.
        
       | mgraczyk wrote:
       | I'm thankful for Hacker News and internet cultures that support
       | and share articles like this. Things that are intellectually
       | gratifying without being overly specific, topical, or focused on
       | any particular goal. Just interesting thoughts for the sake of
       | their interestingness.
        
       | alexanderdmitri wrote:
       | Thankfulness as an end is not necessarily valuable or positive. I
       | think the associated feeling does little to the make the world a
       | better place, I put it in the same category as remorse.
       | 
       | Just as remorse should lead to rectifying action, thankfulness
       | should lead to reciprocal action to provide objective value.
       | 
       | What's interesting is the impetus between internal perception and
       | outward action both share is a sense of indebtedness.
       | Thankfulness becomes a passive accumulation of debt in this lens,
       | whereas remorse casts our hero in a more active role.
       | 
       | I think also actions spawned from thankfulness will be more
       | comedic [dynamic] in nature and whereas those from remorse will
       | tend toward the tragic [static]. The efficacy of either approach
       | will reflect the constraints of the systems they are acting
       | within and how well conceived the individual's solution is.
       | 
       | Not sure where I'm going with this. Spitballing, not preaching
       | ...
        
         | bobsmooth wrote:
         | >Thankfulness as an end is not necessarily valuable or
         | positive.
         | 
         | I strongly disagree. I moved to a new city and the experience
         | allowed me to truly appropriate all the things I have. My
         | living situation only improved slightly but being thankful has
         | massively improved my mental health.
        
         | polishdude20 wrote:
         | I think thankfulness is more of a tool to be used to counter
         | act nihilism. That's why it can be useful. not on its own, but
         | as a buttress against despair.
        
           | alexanderdmitri wrote:
           | I think this very good point. There is an undeniably good
           | vibe to it. Maybe something akin to a general faith?
        
         | exolymph wrote:
         | > Thankfulness as an end is not necessarily valuable or
         | positive.
         | 
         | Yes it is; it makes me feel good.
        
           | alexanderdmitri wrote:
           | If the inherent value is solipsistic and self-justifying,
           | then it is more likely to be detrimental to the overall
           | system. This would make it a net negative.
        
             | [deleted]
        
       | fnord77 wrote:
       | how about: Ice is less dense than liquid water, so it floats.
       | That means bodies of water don't freeze solid in the winter,
       | which would have precluded life anywhere colder than the tropics.
        
       | mrtnmcc wrote:
       | "Oh, and also that the universe exists at all"
       | 
       | That's the one to keep coming back to. Could've been nothin.
        
         | AnIdiotOnTheNet wrote:
         | On the other hand, nothingness has no cause or means for
         | suffering.
        
           | a_wild_dandan wrote:
           | Which comes back to #19:
           | 
           | > That even if, as most scientific-minded people seem to
           | assume, there is no afterlife, that's not ideal, but is much
           | better than other possibilities like, say, being tortured for
           | eternity.
           | 
           | Like, we could all be a bunch of Boltzmann brains[1] popping
           | into existence in an empty universe, writhing with
           | unimaginable pain in every pseudo-neuron of our temporary
           | brains. But it's not like that, at least yet. Which is pretty
           | cool.
           | 
           | [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boltzmann_brain
        
             | saltyfamiliar wrote:
             | There is no "we" that could be like that if it's boltzmann
             | brains all the way down. It could very well be mostly
             | unimaginable agony that exists, it's just that the
             | temporary boltzmann configuration of "posting a thought on
             | HN as a human with human memories" happens to not be a part
             | of that.
        
         | 323 wrote:
         | Some, like Stephen Wolfram, say that the universe must exists,
         | that non-existance is not possible.
         | 
         | https://writings.stephenwolfram.com/2021/04/why-does-the-uni...
        
       | elil17 wrote:
       | I'm thankful for yeast. It's so, so convenient that we have a
       | non-pathogenic bacteria which will eat pretty much any simple
       | sugar, can be found on the surfaces of most fruits, and is
       | essentially effortless to cultivate, which also does a bunch of
       | useful things like leaven bread and make a bunch of delicious
       | short chain fatty acids (both in bread and on their own, like in
       | marmite) and make alcohol (although that one maybe does more harm
       | than good)!
        
         | sombremesa wrote:
         | Alcohol definitely does more good, just consider the uses it
         | has aside from being ingested.
        
           | cyberpunk wrote:
           | Also, consider how many flights went smoothly because of
           | alcohol.. I mean, outing myself as British here but (every
           | flight) without a stuff gin or three, that woman in-front of
           | me would have had a stern talking to I can tell you! :}
        
             | quickthrower2 wrote:
             | I wonder if British are more reserved because they've
             | evolved to have about a unit or two of alcohol in the blood
             | stream at all times at which point it's the sweet spot. I
             | jest of course. Also I'm a Brit.
        
               | cyberpunk wrote:
               | Well, we certainly developed an effective preventative
               | against malaria... And that's before we get to the
               | ballmer peak [0], which I think many of us experienced at
               | one point ;)
               | 
               | 0: https://xkcd.com/323/
        
               | PapaSpaceDelta wrote:
               | I suppose that I have to put this:
               | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VTSCppeFzX4 here. Many a
               | true word...
        
         | pfdietz wrote:
         | Yeast are not bacteria. They are eukaryotes.
        
           | CogitoCogito wrote:
           | Well to be fair the poster was referring to starters for
           | bread which contain natural populations of both yeast and
           | bacteria. So really we should be thankful for both yeast and
           | bacteria. :)
           | 
           | That said, just as the other poster I'm also thankful for
           | pedants like yourself. This is a mistake I probably make
           | myself all the time.
        
           | dgb23 wrote:
           | I'm thankful for nerds who make corrections so I can learn
           | some interesting fact.
        
             | matheusmoreira wrote:
             | I'm thankful for wikipedia which has probably taught me
             | more biology than my professors ever did. So many detailed
             | articles, and it's actually fun to read them because they
             | contain so many details that never seem to get mentioned in
             | school. The abundance of links lead to a fun exploration of
             | the subject and a massive respect for nature and its
             | designs.
        
             | victorcharlie wrote:
             | Actually, yeasts are unicellular fungus. I believe that
             | fungus are the most important life-form in this planet _by
             | far_.
             | 
             | Pretty cool, huh? :)
        
               | bckr wrote:
               | > unicellular fungus
               | 
               | Belongs under the Eurkaryote heading, no?
        
               | Trex_Egg wrote:
               | yes
        
               | dgb23 wrote:
               | That is pretty cool! Paul Stamets is worth mentioning
               | here. One can find a ton of media presence, books and
               | projects from him. Very interesting stuff!
        
               | noisy_boy wrote:
               | For a second I thought you were referring to Stamets on
               | Star Trek. Stamets, mycellium... tribute or coincidence?
        
               | thewakalix wrote:
               | > Stamets is inspired by a real-life mycologist of the
               | same name.[1]
        
               | noisy_boy wrote:
               | Thanks - just saw his wikipedia page - very interesting.
        
               | HWR_14 wrote:
               | Fungi, like plants and animals, are eukaryotes. However,
               | eukaryotes and bacteria occupy the same rung in the
               | taxonomic divisions (they are domains), so it's the more
               | appropriate correction. The third domain is prokaryotes.
        
               | riedel wrote:
               | My wikipedia fact checking tells me that the third domain
               | is archaea which together with the bacteria are
               | prokaryotes. Or did I read sth wrong?
        
               | dan_mctree wrote:
               | >I believe that fungus are the most important life-form
               | in this planet by far.
               | 
               | Would love to hear more about this!
        
         | butwhywhyoh wrote:
         | I'm thankful for oxygen because we can breathe it! And it can
         | be found pretty much everywhere in the atmosphere of planet
         | Earth. And I'm thankful for all the other elements that I'm
         | composed of. They can even be used to do other miraculous
         | things. Wonderful!
        
           | amelius wrote:
           | Nestle is fighting over control of freshwater sources. I
           | reckon oxygen is next.
           | 
           | In the future, be thankful with your wallet.
        
             | lisper wrote:
             | You don't have to wait. Oxygen bars are already a thing,
             | and have been for quite a while.
             | 
             | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oxygen_bar
        
               | blowski wrote:
               | For a moment, I thought it was going to be an empty
               | chocolate bar wrapper. I wonder how much better this
               | actually is.
        
             | pfdietz wrote:
             | Nestle uses 0.003% of humanity's fresh water consumption,
             | so I'm sure you're properly allocating your worry budget
             | there.
        
           | matheusmoreira wrote:
           | I'm thankful for mitochondria which allows us to use the
           | oxygen to perform aerobic respiration, enabling more complex
           | forms of life. It seems they were once bacteria which were
           | somehow absorbed by eukaryote cells and turned into an
           | organelle, an hydro-eletro-chemical power plant. Thanks
           | bacteria!
        
             | amelius wrote:
             | Be careful with certain anti-bacterial drugs, they might
             | affect your mitochondria.
        
         | SubjectToChange wrote:
         | Yeast is a type of fungus.
        
           | elil17 wrote:
           | True lol thank you. Meant to say "microbe"
        
         | CogitoCogito wrote:
         | I like this and totally agree! I baked two naturally leavened
         | loaves of bread this morning for thanksgiving and am currently
         | drinking a beer. On a regular day I would eat some form of
         | yogurt as well. It really is an amazing little part of life. :)
        
         | HWR_14 wrote:
         | Alcohol let our ancestors survive. Weakly alcoholic beer was
         | far healthier than water because its production likely killed
         | germs in the water.
        
           | 6gvONxR4sf7o wrote:
           | I recently read that that's a myth, unfortunately.
        
             | rags2riches wrote:
             | Brewing typically involves boiling. That can kill a germ or
             | two, or so I've read. That's true for brewing tea as well.
        
           | bumby wrote:
           | Edward Slingerland Haha written about a hypothesis that beer
           | was the major reason for inventing agriculture. I don't know
           | how well received that theory is, but it was an interesting
           | and unique take
        
           | axiolite wrote:
           | > Alcohol let our ancestors survive.
           | 
           | Only true in dense cities and perhaps onboard seafaring
           | vessels. Most of humanity could find unpolluted sources of
           | water.
           | 
           | You could also say that, without the crutch that was small
           | beer, humanity might have been motivated to learn and
           | implement water treatment/purification techniques and proper
           | sanitation systems centuries earlier.
        
         | jchook wrote:
         | Also yeast is used frequently in medical and biological
         | scientific studies, and helps us learn more about the role of
         | DNA, aging , and certain kinds of cancer.
        
         | adrian_mrd wrote:
         | Thankful for marmite :)
        
           | cyberpunk wrote:
           | Damn right. Vegemite isn't even shiny...
        
         | chronogram wrote:
         | > alcohol (although that one maybe does more harm than good)!
         | 
         | Alcohol in the medical field is critical in doing good. A lot
         | of harm has been prevented by alcohol.
        
         | dclowd9901 wrote:
         | I had this same exact thought the last time i was making
         | bagels. What an absolute miracle it is! And whoever came up
         | with using it to fluff and soften bread through some natural
         | symbiotic reliance of raw nature is just such an incredible
         | step it seems utterly designed from above.
         | 
         | Yes, I'm saying maybe a god exists and loves us because they
         | gave us bread.
        
           | TimTheTinker wrote:
           | Benjamin Franklin thought beer was enough proof that there is
           | a God who loves us and wants us to be happy :-)
        
             | kwertyoowiyop wrote:
             | "Every good quote eventually gets attributed to Lincoln,
             | Wilde, Churchill, or Jobs."
             | 
             | -- Benjamin Franklin
        
             | flatiron wrote:
             | https://www.anchorbrewing.com/blog/say-what-says-who-
             | benjami...
             | 
             | He never said that.
        
               | TimTheTinker wrote:
               | Interesting, thanks!
               | 
               | Looks like he actually said something similar about wine
               | though:
               | 
               |  _We hear of the conversion of water into wine at the
               | marriage in Cana, as of a miracle. But this conversion
               | is, through the goodness of God, made every day before
               | our eyes. Behold the rain which descends from heaven upon
               | our vineyards, and which incorporates itself with the
               | grapes to be changed into wine; a constant proof that God
               | loves us, and loves to see us happy!_ (from a 1779 letter
               | from France to his friend Andre Morellet)
        
               | luckman212 wrote:
               | Never let the truth get in the way of a good story.
        
       | bluishgreen wrote:
       | "That other animals have more cone cells than humans, e.g. birds
       | with four and shrimp with up to 16, and so probably see colors we
       | can't even conceive of which, yeah, that limitation of our minds
       | is frustrating, but it also hints that there are huge unseen dark
       | continents of qualia lurking out there which someday we might
       | find a way to visit."
       | 
       | This is based on a misunderstanding regarding the rise of qualia.
       | It is processing power and not sensor capacity or at least both
       | together in some combination with processing power doing the
       | heavy lift. Humans have less cones but several OOM more neurons
       | to make sense of what we have. So no - the shrimp doesn't see in
       | spectacular color.
       | 
       | Experimentally proved:
       | 
       | https://www.jhunewsletter.com/article/2015/12/mantis-shrimp-...
       | 
       | https://www.science.org/doi/abs/10.1126/science.1245824
        
         | ravi-delia wrote:
         | It's still true that if we had cones outside our current color
         | range we'd have new qualia, even if animals don't.
        
           | 323 wrote:
           | In 100 years it will probably be possible to genetically
           | engineer humans with more or extended range pigments, which
           | are sensitive to IR / UV.
           | 
           | Or maybe we'll just have bionic hyper-spectral eyes which
           | plug directly into the optical nerve.
        
             | lovecg wrote:
             | ...and sadly those humans still won't be able to describe
             | their experiences in any way we would understand. "It's
             | just its own color that's separate from all the others. You
             | know, the color the black lights are".
        
           | hardlianotion wrote:
           | Would we? It seems possible that some other sensation could
           | be overloaded as well - ie seeing red where others see only
           | blackness...
        
             | ravi-delia wrote:
             | I mean, it seems clear we don't have any real consistent
             | definition for qualia. I'd argue that every distinct color
             | you can see is a different qualia, although an argument
             | could be made for a single "color" qualia which takes on
             | different forms.
        
       | LAC-Tech wrote:
       | Great now I'm terrified by how utterly screwed the world will be
       | when another Carrington Event happens.
        
       | Findecanor wrote:
       | I'm thankful for living in a time when there is modern medicine,
       | in a country with modern healthcare, without which I would not be
       | alive today.
       | 
       | BTW. If society does not prepare for the next Carrington Event,
       | it will suffer greatly. Technology is great, but it would be
       | stupid to create too hard dependencies on it. Also, there will be
       | a next pandemic - as there always have.
        
       | dheera wrote:
       | > That the Earth hasn't recently been hit by a solar flare as
       | powerful as the 1859 Carrington event
       | 
       | Is anyone thinking about what to do? It's only a matter of time
       | before we have another flare 2X or 3X the magnitude of the
       | Carrington event.
        
         | dclowd9901 wrote:
         | If it really would set power lines alight, there isn't a hell
         | of a lot you can do aside from going off the grid and having a
         | small warehouse full of electrical wiring.
         | 
         | Emergency and catastrophe planning has to happen at the
         | national level. I would like to see more leaders (especially
         | these days) come into office with ideas about how to recover
         | from catastrophic events quickly.
        
           | dheera wrote:
           | By what mechanism do they set power lines on fire in a way
           | that it wouldn't set the lines in my house on fire? Is it the
           | power lines themselves or is it just vicious currents being
           | induced in the lines that cause devices plugged on the other
           | end of the power lines to go up in smoke?
           | 
           | If the grid just shut off power for 24 hours until the CME
           | passed would that solve the problem?
           | 
           | I can easily go 24 hours without power, but not months.
        
             | 323 wrote:
             | My understanding is that the flare will induce currents in
             | the sub-station transformers, and this is the big problem.
             | Not sure if disconnecting them helps to prevent damage.
        
           | mistermann wrote:
           | > Emergency and catastrophe planning has to happen at the
           | national level. I would like to see more leaders (especially
           | these days) come into office with ideas about how to recover
           | from catastrophic events quickly.
           | 
           | Me too. I'm hoping we'll get lucky and a relatively small-
           | scale catastrophic event will occur, demonstrating to us how
           | ill prepared we are both materially and
           | socially/culturally/cognitively/etc, and that lesson will
           | provide the incentive for us to launch a serious project to
           | get our act cleaned up.
           | 
           | And in the event that no political leaders rise to the
           | occasion, I am hoping that normal civilians realize there is
           | a problem and begin _seriously_ discussing the risks we are
           | running, perhaps eventually leading to some sort of a plan
           | that our leaders do not have the ability to formulate, or
           | perhaps even realize we need.
        
             | 323 wrote:
             | > I'm hoping we'll get lucky and a relatively small-scale
             | catastrophic event will occur ... and that lesson will
             | provide the incentive for us to launch a serious project to
             | get our act cleaned up.
             | 
             | The current pandemic makes me pessimistic regarding this.
             | There is basically no wake up and preparations for a 10%+
             | mortality virus. And that without discussing where the
             | virus came from...
        
         | bobsmooth wrote:
         | Hopefully our satellites are there to detect it and hopefully
         | the world reacts quick enough to shut down the power grid.
         | Would still be horrible, but there are mitigations.
        
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       | omnicognate wrote:
       | You'll not make me thankful for aspartame however hard you try.
       | Some good ones there, though.
        
         | fnord77 wrote:
         | I am thankful for sucralose.
        
           | swader999 wrote:
           | Honey and maple syrup.
        
             | npsimons wrote:
             | Agave nectar.
        
               | swader999 wrote:
               | I will have to try this.
        
           | tyleo wrote:
           | Same. I have a sucralose energy drink every day after lunch.
           | I generally don't add sugar and buy low-sugar products. The
           | joy this drink gives me sometimes feels like a drug trip.
           | 
           | Shameless plug: https://www.alaninu.com/products/energy-
           | drinks-12pk-cosmic-s...
        
             | randlet wrote:
             | > The joy this drink gives me sometimes feels like a drug
             | trip.
             | 
             | Caffeine is a drug so saying "it _feels_ like " is rather
             | understating it.
        
               | tyleo wrote:
               | Agreed but while I drink and enjoy coffee, the equivalent
               | caffeine from this drink somehow seems to pack more of a
               | punch.
        
           | uep wrote:
           | Maybe not the right thread for this, but it seems there are
           | downsides.
           | 
           | https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6363527/
           | 
           | https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7014832/
        
             | maneesh wrote:
             | Make sure to focus on the aspartame section, which doesn't
             | show the same insulin effects as other sweeteners
             | 
             | It is hard to understand how aspartame influences the gut
             | microbiota because this NNS is rapidly hydrolyzed in the
             | small intestine. In fact, even with the ingestion of very
             | high doses of aspartame (>200 mg/kg), no aspartame is found
             | in the blood because of its rapid breakdown (29).
        
       | zivkovicp wrote:
       | Sometimes I think #1 could have gone either way, and that would
       | still be OK. -\\_(tsu)_/-
        
       | matbatt38 wrote:
       | Most items are speculative, subjective or even historically
       | inaccurate.
        
         | notreallyserio wrote:
         | Maybe that's why I found this article kind of weird or off-
         | putting. A lot of these things, if they happened or didn't
         | happen, would have meant I wouldn't be alive and thus I
         | wouldn't know to be unhappy about it.
        
           | latortuga wrote:
           | Many things we are traditionally thankful fit the same
           | criteria. I'm thankful for my business partner who I may
           | never have met under different circumstances. Just because
           | something could not have been, doesn't mean you can't be
           | thankful it did.
        
       | danschumann wrote:
       | Feelings wheel is the most underrated thing I have discovered
       | this year.
        
       | LocalH wrote:
       | I'm thankful for existence itself. Sure, it's not always
       | pleasant, but the mere fact that we perceive reality as we do is
       | a fascinating rabbit hole, one that I wish I had discovered
       | decades ago. The subjective experience of existence is one of the
       | big unknowns left in this world, one that I don't think we'll
       | _ever_ truly understand. That 's good though, because human
       | curiosity is one of the wonderful, amazing things we have the
       | capability to do (if other Earth-native, non-human sentient
       | beings have similar curiosities, they don't have nearly the
       | ability to explore them, that we know).
       | 
       | I hope everyone who reads this is having a good day today. May
       | you all have fortune and blessing in your lives.
        
         | tim333 wrote:
         | Yeah if there was nothing at all things would be a bit dull.
        
         | yourapostasy wrote:
         | I wish more people were aware that we are likely the only
         | radio-using sapients in a 4'ish light year sphere around us [1]
         | (4.4 ly for a 1MW broadcast, where the most powerful radio
         | transmitter in the world is at 2MW). And that we're roughly in
         | the center of the KBC Void [2], about a billion light years
         | from the nearest "normal" baryonic density of the currently-
         | known universe.
         | 
         | We might not be alone inside the KBC Void, but if we aren't,
         | they and us are on a pretty isolated island of sapients in the
         | currently-known universe.
         | 
         | Sapience is astronomically, vanishingly rare as far as we can
         | tell so far. Some of us treasure it and are thankful for it
         | accordingly. Perceiving reality at the level we do, with the
         | understanding we only scratched an atom of the total surface so
         | far, is both inspiring and humbling at the same time.
         | 
         | [1] https://www.quora.com/How-far-do-radio-signals-travel-
         | into-s...
         | 
         | [2] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/KBC_Void
        
       | maxpaj wrote:
       | Alternative title: "All the things that make it so that I can
       | experience typing this into something we call a computer."
        
       | Lamad123 wrote:
       | 0. That some HN commenters rush to call bullshit out when they
       | detect a lot of it.
        
       | AtlasBarfed wrote:
       | "12: That private life exists and that markets, while we all
       | (some?) appreciate their power to allocate resources, don't
       | permeate every single part of life, that there are moments of
       | beauty and grace that aren't best understood as competition and
       | harnessed selfishness."
       | 
       | Hackernews/Facebook in annoyed response: Um, we're WORKING ON IT.
       | Sheesh, penetrating all aspects of off-time via social networks
       | will have to wait for Meta.
        
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