[HN Gopher] More Americans say they're not planning to have a ch...
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       More Americans say they're not planning to have a child, U.S.
       birthrate declines
        
       Author : mariojv
       Score  : 30 points
       Date   : 2021-11-21 18:21 UTC (4 hours ago)
        
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       | holonomically wrote:
       | The world is expected to have ~11B people by the year 2100. There
       | are plenty of people even if some countries have declining birth
       | rates. [1] Better immigration policies solve any problems that
       | nations with declining birth rates might have but that requires
       | having politicians that are willing to put aside xenophobic
       | concerns to implement sensible immigration policies.
       | 
       | 1: https://ourworldindata.org/future-population-growth
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | mercy_dude wrote:
         | Declining birth rate is a symptom, not a disease. Immigration
         | may be a workaround but not a fix.
         | 
         | The key reason why young Americans don't want to have children
         | is because the cost of living including raising a child has
         | been exploding for last 20yrs. Housing, healthcare, insurance,
         | student loans and cost of education- all have gone up
         | exponentially when the actual wages have not gone up.
         | 
         | Immigration is a workaround but it has inevitable side effects.
         | Including dilution of labor, assimilation and not to say many
         | Of the core issues mentioned above affect immigrants alike.
        
           | toomuchtodo wrote:
           | How do you square this with the fact that the birth rate is
           | also low in European countries with reasonable cost of living
           | and robust safety nets.
           | 
           | Maybe people just don't want kids when they're educated and
           | higher income.
        
           | holonomically wrote:
           | Then it's better to address those problems directly instead
           | of scare monger about declining birth rates because the world
           | has plenty of people and will continue to have more for the
           | foreseeable future.
        
         | tuatoru wrote:
         | 1. North America has less of a "problem" than nearly everywhere
         | else, since (overall) it has traditionally tolerated extremely
         | high immigration rates, and potential migrants see it as a
         | desirable destination.
         | 
         | Politicians reflect their voters' views. In most countries
         | immigration rates are at least an order of magnitude too low to
         | compensate for low fertility and will stay that way.
         | 
         | 2. Most of the projected increase in global population is due
         | to an expected increase in lifespan, meaning a greater number
         | of old people. They don't have kids.
         | 
         | The big reservoirs of working-age people are in sub-Saharan
         | Africa and rural India. Not many of them have the skills and
         | funds to enable intercontinental migration. Yet.
         | 
         | Not sure why declining birth rate is a problem, though. Maybe
         | we'll get around to automating some of the things.
        
           | holonomically wrote:
           | Good points. I'll elaborate what I meant by sensible
           | immigration policies. Sensible immigration policies includes
           | a better social safety net and education programs to allow
           | people to immigrate even if at the moment they don't have the
           | right skills or funds.
        
             | [deleted]
        
             | tomatofarmer wrote:
             | That is sensible only to you. I love how policies are
             | designated as 'common sense' to try to promote acceptance.
             | Let me decide what is common sense.
        
               | holonomically wrote:
               | What exactly in what I said is not sensible?
        
               | tomatofarmer wrote:
               | There is substantial untapped and underutilized potential
               | already within the country. Using tax money to support
               | immigration of those that possess neither skills nor
               | funds, is frankly a slap in the face to all tax payers,
               | and a signal to Americans that we are giving up on them.
               | 
               | But of course one powerful group needs cheap labor, and
               | the other powerful group needs more voters. Thus, with
               | collaboration of the media apparatus, what you suggest
               | will continue to be branded as sensible.
        
               | holonomically wrote:
               | I really don't get how you inferred all that from what I
               | said. A social safety net and better education programs
               | are better for everyone, including the people in whatever
               | country happens to be implementing those programs and
               | policies.
               | 
               | The issue with media bias is another matter entirely and
               | is unrelated to what I was saying but I recommend you
               | stop viewing everything with a conspiratorial lens. It is
               | not helpful for having a productive discussion.
        
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       | akomtu wrote:
       | Well, in America, children are just leverage to extract money
       | from parents: healthcare, kindergartens, universities, all of
       | them try to grab as much money as they can. Insufficient
       | birthrate will be covered by immigration, until one day, just
       | like in Rome, immigrants outnumber the natives and tell them to
       | disappear.
        
         | thatcat wrote:
         | Associated cost has a role in suppression of birth rate but
         | even socialized countries have signifigant declines in birth
         | rate
        
           | toomuchtodo wrote:
           | The value of children declines as a country develops and
           | industrializes. China and the United States share a total
           | fertility rate of 1.7.
        
         | diego_moita wrote:
         | > one day, just like in Rome, immigrants outnumber the natives
         | and tell them to disappear.
         | 
         | Really? Wow, when did that happen?
         | 
         | I went to Rome 3 years ago and the overwhelming majority of
         | people there were Italians. Even many of the tourists in the
         | Vatican were from other parts of Italy.
        
           | akomtu wrote:
           | I meant the ancient Roman Empire.
        
             | diego_moita wrote:
             | It is Europe buddy. Every country there was invaded and
             | occupied by someone else at some time in history, with or
             | without immigrants.
             | 
             | The history of Europe is basically 3000 years of someone
             | invading someone else's country and stealing their cows.
             | Actually, the Italians spent most of their history doing
             | exactly that to themselves. Up until the unification at
             | late 19th century, Italians killed more Italians than any
             | barbarian invasion.
        
               | akomtu wrote:
               | My point is that every nation follows the same life
               | cycle: the golden age, stagnation, social strife and
               | internal squabbles, normalization of amoral behavior, the
               | steep decline of birthrate and replacement by invaders,
               | be it barbarians or another civilized nation. We're
               | somewhere at last stage, but the US is big and it may
               | stay another hundred years in this quasistable state.
        
           | tomjen3 wrote:
           | > Really? Wow, when did that happen?
           | 
           | Importing barbarian fighters to swell the declining rank of
           | the empire is one of the theories of the decline and fall of
           | the Roman empire.
           | 
           | > I went to Rome 3 years ago
           | 
           | About 1600 years too late to be relevant for GPs example.
           | 
           | And for the record, he is wrong about it being relevant to
           | emigration to the US today. Despite having Senators in the
           | Senate on the Capitol hill (Rome had Senators in the Senate
           | on the Capitoline hill), the US is not the Roman republic or
           | empire and the problems they face are not the same.
        
           | cma wrote:
           | Looks like they got roped into the neonazi/"great
           | replacement" stuff by someone (probably Facebook/YouTube
           | algorithm).
        
             | jesuschristhn wrote:
             | The Migration Period is a noncontentious event within the
             | historiography of Rome (i.e. the Roman Empire). It's not
             | related to anything regarding events from today. I disagree
             | with the original assertion that the "natives" were
             | "replaced" but it's not disputed that the Germanic tribes
             | mixed with the native Italics and possibly contributed to
             | the collapse of the Western Roman Empire, ignoring the
             | actual sack of Rome in 410 by the Visigoths, a Germanic
             | tribe invited into the Roman Empire to bolster its
             | declining population, which is probably what the original
             | poster was referencing.
             | 
             | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sack_of_Rome_%28410%29
        
           | jesuschristhn wrote:
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Migration_Period
        
       | vmception wrote:
       | Finally one of these surveys that even allows for the answer that
       | people just aren't interested.
       | 
       | It is always hilarious how this sociology field only attracts
       | people that think children are the most fulfilling thing they
       | ever did and _everyone_ else must want that so there must
       | therefore be some _other_ problem like economics.
       | 
       | Turns out the onion satire article was spot on
       | 
       | https://www.theonion.com/study-finds-american-women-delaying...
        
       | Bostonian wrote:
       | The Western world has gone beyond tolerance to approval and
       | celebration of non-procreative lifestyles.
        
       | diveanon wrote:
       | Good, the world doesn't need more people.
       | 
       | Adoption is always a great option if you want a child to raise.
        
       | eigengrau5150 wrote:
       | Parenting is the hardest unpaid job known to man. No wonder
       | nobody wants to do it.
        
       | iammisc wrote:
       | Perfect. Will mean the future generations are much more
       | religious.
        
       | jl2718 wrote:
       | Anecdotally, the problem is much worse among those that
       | contribute more in taxes than consume in public benefits. This is
       | the real problem. Low-skill high-fertility immigration will not
       | solve it. Child tax credits will not solve it. Welfare programs
       | will not solve it. These problems all exacerbate the problem by
       | growing the population below the net-income line. You may say
       | that these people are more necessary or useful than those above,
       | but that is a different debate.
       | 
       | Net-income-positive Americans are choosing not to be parents
       | because the law is openly hostile to it. Some examples:
       | 
       | Child support: The _minimum_ guideline is 33% of income for a
       | single child, non-deductible. US /CA taxes take ~55%, so that
       | leaves 12%. If you have a great tech salary of $150k, that leaves
       | you with a living budget of $1500/mo. The only way to survive
       | here on that is in your car. (I have done this. Not a career
       | enhancer.) Meanwhile, nobody needs $4000/mo extra to raise a
       | child, unless they are paying somebody else to do it. This is why
       | women have a hard time finding mates. The only men that are
       | willing to take that risk of relationship breakup are those with
       | nothing to lose. It's horribly dysgenic, and frankly awful for
       | the kids it is trying to protect, because now they end up with a
       | working mother and a deadbeat father, by design. And by the way,
       | this is not a gendered issue. The first I became aware of it was
       | by a woman that was forced to both give up her kids and pay her
       | ex.
       | 
       | Child care: The licensing, certification, and insurance
       | requirements have turned this into a human farming business. When
       | I was growing up, kids just sort of roamed, and then the police
       | started notifying parents that they had to send them to certified
       | daycare, so my mom got the certification until some professional
       | daycare moved in and started calling the inspectors any time we
       | went outside to play in the woods. Now it's much worse; daycare
       | costs more than most jobs pay, and those with nothing to lose
       | just ignore the law anyway.
       | 
       | The only way it makes legal sense to have children is if both
       | parents are either on welfare, or part of an immigrant community
       | that operates outside of the rules. My recommendation to my
       | children will be to move out of the country immediately after
       | graduation to a place that is more financially and legally
       | family-friendly, then start finding a partner and having children
       | right away. The opportunities for this decline much faster than
       | any goals other than professional athletics.
        
         | crateless wrote:
         | I have been recently picturing a dystopia (utopia?) wherein
         | women sell their eggs to some kind of govt. agency which in
         | turn hires women who are willing to carry babies to term.
         | 
         | These babies are then raised in child group homes by state
         | employees all the way from infancy. Meanwhile the state pays
         | for their education until they either graduate or until some
         | kind of arbitrary deadline.
         | 
         | Thus the problem could become cost effective due to economies
         | of scale thereby partially mitigating the cost problem.
         | 
         | However, it is still unclear whether to then make childbirth
         | opt-in or something along those lines.
         | 
         | If we are going to farm kids, then why not do it properly?
         | 
         | /s
        
         | uejfiweun wrote:
         | Yeah, there is simply just too much risk involved in marriage
         | and children these days if you aren't above a certain financial
         | line. In our current environment, where you can't afford a
         | house and rent rapidly increases each year, the prospect of
         | losing 50% or more of your income is simply too much to bear.
         | 
         | I'd guess that in the next 10 years, these problems come to a
         | head, and we end up with significant deregulation of some of
         | these anachronistic policies. But it will get a lot more dire
         | before this happens.
        
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