[HN Gopher] The burgeoning business of OnlyFans consulting
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       The burgeoning business of OnlyFans consulting
        
       Author : pavanyara
       Score  : 68 points
       Date   : 2021-11-11 16:01 UTC (7 hours ago)
        
 (HTM) web link (thehustle.co)
 (TXT) w3m dump (thehustle.co)
        
       | doodlebugging wrote:
       | ...OT and not substantive comment deleted.
        
         | vmception wrote:
         | I didn't react to this post but I can tell that its mostly just
         | that it isn't substantive, so double check the HN guidelines.
         | Its not the story or potential reality - which _also_ doesn 't
         | help here - its that your post doesn't add anything, which is a
         | community enforced requirement here that enough people pay
         | attention to that they don't feel the need to respond. Like,
         | maybe if this was an Ask HN thread about being a startup
         | payment processor for OnlyFans while simultaneously
         | moonlighting on the platform, then your short story would help
         | add to the discussion. So even though the divineness of the
         | topic did prompt the selective enforcement, it is really just
         | that young adult fiction isn't the kind of comment useful in
         | the general threads.
        
           | doodlebugging wrote:
           | Thanks for the clear explanation. I appreciate it.
        
       | teslabox wrote:
       | While the rise of OnlyFans is potentially more lucrative for the
       | people who in years past might have gotten a one-time payment
       | from Playboy/Playgirl, for _society_ OnlyFans is a symptom of
       | late-stage degenerate capitalism.
       | 
       | During the last financial crisis I ran across _Money and the
       | Crisis of Civilization_ [0], a piece about the monetization of
       | services which have traditionally been performed for free: child
       | care, meal preparation, etc.
       | 
       | While I'm not opposed to women making more than a one-time fee
       | for showing their nipples to the world, I don't think it's
       | sustainable. The vast majority of OnlyFans' payments go to a very
       | small percentage of the "content creators". And how many of those
       | who actually pull in 6 figures will be able to bank it for after
       | they inevitably lose their looks?
       | 
       | Could meaningful work be subsidized so women who don't actually
       | want to show their nipples to the world can get by without
       | feeling pressured into trying to make a quick buck?
       | 
       | [0] https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=29190513 (just submitted
       | pls upvote thx. :)
       | 
       | Some quotes:
       | 
       | > In ancient times entertainment was also a free, participatory
       | function. Everyone played an instrument, sang, participated in
       | drama. Even 75 years ago in America, every small town had its own
       | marching band and baseball team. Now we pay for those services.
       | The economy has grown. Hooray.
       | 
       | > Essentially, for the economy to continue growing and for the
       | (interest-based) money system to remain viable, more and more of
       | nature and human relationship must be monetized. For example,
       | thirty years ago most meals were prepared at home; today some
       | two-thirds are prepared outside, in restaurants or supermarket
       | delis. A once unpaid function, cooking, has become a "service".
       | And we are the richer for it. Right? > > Another major engine of
       | economic growth over the last three decades, child care, has also
       | made us richer. We are now relieved of the burden of caring for
       | our own children. We pay experts instead, who can do it much more
       | efficiently.
        
         | paulpauper wrote:
         | _While the rise of OnlyFans is potentially more lucrative for
         | the people who in years past might have gotten a one-time
         | payment from Playboy /Playgirl, for society OnlyFans is a
         | symptom of late-stage degenerate capitalism._
         | 
         | Capitalism has always had some 'degeneracy'. Prostitution,
         | alcohol, cigarettes, gambling and other vices long predate the
         | modern era.
         | 
         |  _While I 'm not opposed to women making more than a one-time
         | fee for showing their nipples to the world, I don't think it's
         | sustainable. The vast majority of OnlyFans' payments go to a
         | very small percentage of the "content creators". And how many
         | of those who actually pull in 6 figures will be able to bank it
         | for after they inevitably lose their looks?_
         | 
         | I dunno, how is it any worse than working in your 20s at crappy
         | jobs, versus making considerably more money at only fans. If it
         | were such a lousy deal for content creators, wouldn't they
         | choose other work instead?
         | 
         |  _Could meaningful work be subsidized so women who don 't
         | actually want to show their nipples to the world can get by
         | without feeling pressured into trying to make a quick buck?_
         | 
         | There are tons of possible career paths.
        
           | actually_a_dog wrote:
           | > I dunno, how is it any worse than working in your 20s at
           | crappy jobs, versus making considerably more money at only
           | fans. If it were such a lousy deal for content creators,
           | wouldn't they choose other work instead?
           | 
           | I would take issue with the word "instead" here. I suspect
           | that the vast majority of OF creators have ordinary, wage-
           | labor type jobs in addition to their online work.
           | 
           | IMO, a better question to ask is "what percentage of OF
           | creators make more than the median retail sales worker?"
           | Currently, that number is $27k according to BLS here:
           | https://www.bls.gov/ooh/sales/retail-sales-workers.htm
        
           | mikestew wrote:
           | _versus making considerably more money at only fans_
           | 
           | There's an large amount of assumption in that statement,
           | while parent asked, "how many are _really_ making any decent
           | money? " I mean, you even quoted it, but then just kept on
           | going as if the question were never asked. I have no idea if
           | OnlyFans pays about the same as retail work for the majority,
           | or if OnlyFans content creators need to go buy rakes to
           | collect their money, and I have no idea how to even find out.
           | But if you have insight the rest of us don't, I'm ready to
           | read it, because IMO it's kind of the basis of the point
           | parent was making.
           | 
           |  _If it were such a lousy deal for content creators, wouldn
           | 't they choose other work instead?_
           | 
           | The same could have been said about coal miners 100 years
           | ago...or maybe even today. I don't want to whip out the
           | privilege card, but to assume "just go find another job!",
           | well...
        
           | _nothing wrote:
           | > If it were such a lousy deal for content creators, wouldn't
           | they choose other work instead?
           | 
           | I don't disagree with you overall, but by the sheer number of
           | people I know who hate their jobs yet feel like they can't
           | leave, I can tell you it often doesn't work this way. Not
           | saying you're doing this, but people have used "well if it's
           | such a bad job then they should just find a different one" to
           | justify everything from bad warehouse work conditions to
           | underpaid fast food positions to sweat shops elsewhere. I
           | think it's been well demonstrated that it is not always so
           | simple for people to leave lousy jobs.
        
         | stopagephobia wrote:
         | Disproportionate $ go to the top because everybody want the
         | hottest girl. Digital media mean that everybody can get her
         | stuff the same, basically as many as will pay. It aint like a
         | strip club where maybe the hottest girl is already giving
         | somebody else a lapdance so you take the next one down.
        
         | vorpalhex wrote:
         | People have always paid for their food to be prepared outside
         | their homes even in ancient Rome with food stalls.
         | 
         | People paid for the colliseum, and well known fighters reaped
         | rewards for their wins.
         | 
         | Yes, I am sure OnlyFans attracts many people who think it's
         | easy money only to realize that just like Youtube or Twitch
         | it's a difficult fulltime job that requires very heavy
         | interpersonal skills. That doesn't seem like a failing of
         | capitalism.
         | 
         | > Could meaningful work be subsidized so women who don't
         | actually want to show their nipples to the world can get by
         | without feeling pressured into trying to make a quick buck?
         | 
         | If it isn't making money, it probably isn't meaningful, with
         | the exclusion of volunteer work. Capitalist societies use money
         | as our value indicator for services as tempered by demand.
         | 
         | What meaningful work do you think should be subsidized?
        
           | jjoonathan wrote:
           | The economic notion of "value" is weighted by wealth. Feeding
           | a poor starving kid has no "value" -- because the kid has no
           | money to pay you with. Merging up all the banks to win
           | bailouts has extraordinary "value," because it helps people
           | with lots of money obtain even more money.
           | 
           | Associating the wealth-weighted "value" that economies
           | optimize with the non-wealth-weighted concept of value that
           | we all treasure is the largest PR coup of the last few
           | centuries.
           | 
           | Markets and economies do a lot of good for the world, but
           | whoo boy is there a big difference between what they pretend
           | to optimize and what they actually optimize.
        
             | vorpalhex wrote:
             | There's a reason we don't practice pure capitalism. The
             | starving kid can't pay you but the Fed absolutely will, and
             | the cost of food is amazingly low current inflation meat
             | prices aside.
             | 
             | You can make grandiose statements about value but at some
             | point you need to offer a concrete example. What is
             | currently not valued that should be?
        
               | jjoonathan wrote:
               | Labor. Having capital is overvalued, doing work is
               | undervalued. Doing shit work is especially undervalued.
               | Systematically and intentionally.
               | 
               | Take note that I am using the colloquial definition of
               | value, here -- not the economic definition. Equating the
               | two is not innocent, it is equivalent to the assumption
               | "capitalism is good," which rather ends the conversation.
               | 
               | The failure of American capitalism to live up to even the
               | weakest of its promises -- "a rising tide floats all
               | boats" -- for 80% of Americans over the last 40 years is
               | nothing if it is not grandiose. Still, the "grandiose
               | statements" of mine were meant to exercise the limits of
               | the weight function. The actual realization of this
               | prioritization is a million and one instances of "I
               | thought markets are supposed to improve and optimize over
               | the long term, why did this thing get worse?" Followed by
               | "Did it get worse? Think about it again from the
               | perspective of a market that values rich peoples'
               | investment accounts over anything you care about, and ask
               | yourself if made things worse for _them_ or if it is
               | functioning exactly as intended. "
               | 
               | Spoiler alert: it's functioning exactly as intended.
        
         | junon wrote:
         | > late-stage degenerate capitalism
         | 
         | You're not going to win a lot of hearts with that sentiment.
        
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           | drBonkers wrote:
           | I think many pro-capitalists agree that our current iteration
           | of capitalism is unsustainable and degenerate.
        
         | SamPatt wrote:
         | Many - possibly even most - sex workers do it because they like
         | it.
         | 
         | Have you actually talked to sex workers?
         | 
         | It's super common to lament what sex work says about society
         | bla bla bla but never even listen to the women themselves.
         | 
         | Maybe many women love showing off their bodies and making
         | friends and money and maybe many men like seeing naked women
         | and talking to them and maybe there's absolutely nothing wrong
         | with any of this.
        
         | jrm4 wrote:
         | Our modern economy is so complex that "meaningful" is
         | (meaningfully, lol) impossible to precisely define.
        
         | kevinmchugh wrote:
         | > Even 75 years ago in America, every small town had its own
         | marching band and baseball team.
         | 
         | They still do, it's through the high school. Very, very few
         | people have ever paid for a marching band's services.
        
         | Mikeb85 wrote:
         | > the monetization of services which have traditionally been
         | performed for free: child care, meal preparation, etc.
         | 
         | The idea of paying for meal preparation outside the house goes
         | back at least 5000 years. Bars, restaurants and food vendors
         | have been around at least as long as written history.
        
           | tuatoru wrote:
           | As have town ovens (prepare your loaves, and pay for them to
           | be baked) and probably laundry services too, for those who
           | could afford more than one set of clothes. Childcare was
           | mostly done by slaves, which is a capitalised form of the
           | same thing.
           | 
           | It's really a question of degree.
        
         | tuatoru wrote:
         | > late-stage degenerate capitalism.
         | 
         | What specifically is your objection?
         | 
         | Strip clubs and peep shows have been around for a long time,
         | including during protocapitalism, degenerate or not. This is
         | not a new incursion of the economy into social life. It's just
         | much safer for the workers, and on average much more poorly
         | paid because of the scale-free medium.
         | 
         | Is your objection to the inevitable result of scale-free
         | networks, the winner-take-all nature of internet-mediated
         | commerce? I can agree with that. A society in which 0.01%
         | become very rich while everyone else starves is not a healthy
         | society.
         | 
         | No-one seems very keen on balkanising the internet, though, and
         | no-one's been able to crack the coordination problems involved
         | in other possible solutions.
        
       | short12 wrote:
       | Show boobs
       | 
       | That will be one thousand dollars please
        
       | vmception wrote:
       | > To date, she estimates she's dispensed advice to 26k adult
       | content creators -- college students, single moms, retail
       | workers, and white-collar professionals.
       | 
       | > There's a misperception that online sex work is easy money. But
       | in the _vastly populated_ digital tundra, getting visibility is
       | no simple task.
       | 
       | People want to argue with me when I mention that over the last
       | year I've been able to correctly assume people (women, because
       | thats who I talk to) have a subscription service, and they've
       | found it refreshing when I asked. An erotic subscription service
       | about their body. I've never gotten it wrong.
       | 
       | They're just not telling you about it.
       | 
       | Many men make it their entire identity to make sure _everyone
       | knows_ they wouldn 't pay* for anything related to visually
       | sexually stimulating entertainment, but the analytics data shows
       | a very broad distribution of society of every background does
       | subscribe and/or pay later in the funnel. It's not even gendered
       | as many performers are consumers too as they do market research
       | on competitors, cross promote, and also reshare earnings -
       | tipping others because they had a good day. (And many non-
       | performer consumers are women as well, organically funneled or
       | just friends). I think the platform earnings from performers
       | resharing is not well discussed as people quizzically wonder
       | about why OnlyFans grows so much.
       | 
       | Its extremely strange to me that people are willing to normalize
       | the supply side, but pretend the demand side is some marginalized
       | man far away instead of a fairly consistent distribution of
       | _everyone around them_. I 'm fine with helping normalizing the
       | demand side instead of "Nordic model-lite".
       | 
       | *Also, many subscriptions are actually free. It's a funnel. See,
       | the consulting article above.
       | 
       | I don't say "hey! you look like you have an OnlyFans" I say "I
       | wanna subscribe, I like supporting local businesses", I've
       | literally gotten anything from private snapchats, patreons,
       | patreons for non-sexual hobbies, Onlyfans, etc, all in person so
       | no bots. Good rapport too! And you don't have to actually pay
       | anything, but now you know the link or the top of the funnel to
       | browse, or consider it.
       | 
       | My new go-to supporting a direction of empowerment that
       | conveniently matches my carnality is "support local". It was
       | really frustrating when I was in a tech hub and many of the
       | people only supported an exclusionary form of empowerment that
       | didn't include performers or sex workers (or gogo dancers, or
       | atmosphere models or anything that any one female developer
       | somewhere on Twitter once said 'no' to). Not only did I dislike
       | that the performers were never asked and just assumed to be
       | irrelevant, privileging one kind of professional's goals over the
       | other without even a discussion of greater inclusion, it was also
       | just _simply boring_ for me. How many times do I have to hear the
       | groupthink that all performers are coerced people with no
       | interest /capability in choosing that for themselves when I know
       | that a couple of the empowered people in the office are also
       | erotic performers or some subset of sex work. People are glad
       | they can confide in me instead of simply resorting to a geofence.
       | It just took me a while to recalibrate the wording for a more
       | impervious and durable consensus, and 2020, erotic content
       | creators are my favorite part of the pandemic.
        
         | slibhb wrote:
         | Creepiest thing I've read on this website by a good margin.
         | 
         | "Sex work" is an interesting subject because it divides
         | leftists into those who view it as a further intrusion of
         | markets into peoples' lives (bad) and those find it
         | "empowering" (good).
         | 
         | I have a basically Freudian (conservative) view that repression
         | is necessary for civilization. We're testing that right now. I
         | don't think free-market love will go any better than free love
         | did. We'll see.
        
           | vmception wrote:
           | I'm glad at how so many people - the performers, the women -
           | are willing to ignore all of this and provide personalized
           | erotic entertainment as the progressives liberalize the
           | supply side and aim to make that safe.
           | 
           | The only thing happening here is that I'm pointing out that
           | the discussion of the demand side is comparatively immature.
           | The performers all know the analytics showing such a wide
           | population of consumers. The consumers are mostly silo'd and
           | don't know the breadth of it. Everyone just nods and agrees
           | with the people saying exclusionary prohibitory things so as
           | not to be targeted and vilified as "the creepiest thing". But
           | I think I'm in a good position to help normalize this already
           | existing reality, as I have practically zero consequences
           | aside from a post potentially losing consensus and visibility
           | in tech circles.
           | 
           | "Use your platform! Silence is violence!" As the leftists
           | say.
           | 
           | To your point, we share the observation that some people
           | exclude forms of female empowerment that overlap with the
           | patriarchy. But its just a venn diagram. From my perspective,
           | the empowerment goal has always been "choice", which some
           | people distort to "not _that_ choice! " because they meant
           | the choice of exploitative labor for a FAANG.
           | 
           | The population is actually broad enough to flip on this very
           | fast. They just don't know yet!
        
         | 1-more wrote:
         | > Many men make it their entire identity to make sure everyone
         | knows they wouldn't pay* for anything related to visually
         | sexually stimulating entertainment
         | 
         | They're telling you they're probably fine with stealing it.
         | Wack.
        
           | vmception wrote:
           | A lot of times I reply with economic theory, deadpan
           | 
           | "Supporting local businesses helps money circulate in the
           | local economy" and don't really acknowledge the copyright
           | infringement, misogyny, exclusionary ideas of empowerment,
           | moral policing, or the specific actions the performer,
           | content creator or sex worker does. Can pivot to vilifying
           | Amazon for more fun.
        
           | bilbo0s wrote:
           | That's how I would interpret that statement.
           | 
           | Why pay when it's free?
           | 
           | That it's not supposed to be free rarely crosses the minds of
           | those types of "consumers".
        
         | GDC7 wrote:
         | > Many men make it their entire identity to make sure everyone
         | knows they wouldn't pay* for anything related to visually
         | sexually stimulating entertainment, but the analytics data
         | shows a very broad distribution of society of every background
         | does subscribe and/or pay later in the funnel
         | 
         | Is it though? Sex work radically transposes the moment when the
         | man manages to get a yes. It moves from being when you said a
         | particular thing or made a move to kiss her to when you
         | actually earned the money to pay for sex work.
         | 
         | The moment you receive the paycheck or make the monthly budget
         | of expenses is the moment where you de-facto managed to get
         | your "Yes" for a sexual encounter, with 100% certanety.
         | 
         | (That is unless you are very rude or particularly ugly or
         | dirty)
         | 
         | Many men (including me) can't get enthusiastic (both body-wise
         | and mentally-wise) about the aforementioned scenario.
         | 
         | It's like being an NFL owner and paying to win the SuperBowl,
         | you get the ring and lift the Lombardi trophy...but the 100%
         | chances granted by your payment goes to void any enthusiasm and
         | genuine joy.
         | 
         | There must be a chance of failure or being potentially turned
         | down (at least in my opinion). Working the odds is good ,
         | making sure that they are in your favor is great, but they
         | should never be 100% like in sex work because then what's the
         | point?
        
           | vmception wrote:
           | Honestly I don't know what you are saying here. What scenario
           | are you talking about specifically? A man manages to get a
           | win? What does that even mean, are you talking about the
           | probability of convincing a women to have sex with a man?
           | 
           | This conversation and article is about online porn and erotic
           | streamers.
        
             | GDC7 wrote:
             | > A man manages to get a win?
             | 
             | Typo, I meant a "yes".
             | 
             | > What does that even mean, are you talking about the
             | probability of convincing a women to have sex with a man?
             | 
             | I mean a sexual encounter of any kind, real or virtual,
             | real-time or delayed.
             | 
             | Enthusiasm for a "yes" comes from the possibility of it
             | being a "no".
             | 
             | At least that's how my brain works, and there are some
             | literature pertaining as to how we perceive positive
             | outcomes as the opposite of the negative outcome we lived
             | in fear of.
             | 
             | That's the reason why NFL owners don't pay to outright win
             | the SuperBowl and even regular people try to make 2
             | balanced teams when playing flag football or 5-a-side
             | soccer.
             | 
             | Or maybe I am just overthinking it, but I don't mean sex
             | work should be illegal , matter of fact it should be
             | legal...I was just pointing out that paying for sex work
             | moves the joy of receiving a "yes" all the way back to when
             | you receive a paycheck or make a monthly budget and that is
             | not the same thing, so that's maybe why many men don't
             | engage in it.
        
               | redis_mlc wrote:
               | > maybe I am just overthinking it
               | 
               | Making relationships directly transactional is corrosive
               | - that's the problem with OF.
               | 
               | Making relationships transitory is also corrosive -
               | that's the problem with Tinder.
               | 
               | OF and Tinder are in the process of destroying the West
               | by destroying women psychologically. Already 25% of women
               | are on head meds, and that's rapidly climbing.
               | 
               | You can watch the Fresh and Fit YT channel, which has
               | conversations with mainly OF women, to see the effect.
        
               | vmception wrote:
               | In my brain it is a form of entertainment that has
               | nothing to do with elevating a scenario built around
               | scarcity or effort or policing sexuality.
               | 
               | For me, the enthusiasm of a "yes" is the response of them
               | having a streaming service. I don't really think further
               | than that or extrapolate what specific actions are going
               | to happen there. I do _hope_ to see them naked whether
               | they sent me something on their streamer-persona 's
               | snapchat or if I switched to a courtship game or if I
               | ever approached them at all! But if that's not possible
               | then that's fine, and also normal, not really sure why/if
               | that needed to be said. How people look is a factor in
               | whether an interaction is attempted, not really news.
               | 
               | I think it is unnecessary to segregate this, and that's
               | my view of almost all sex work. Earn.com which was
               | acquired, was all about paying to reach VC's inboxes and
               | it worked and many VCs participated in it. In your
               | analogy, it would mean less to reach them due to paying
               | for the campaign to get their attention. Its just not a
               | standard that was really brought up. Do I really need to
               | point out the one-to-one relation between how erotic
               | performer's services work on streaming sites?
        
               | version_five wrote:
               | > joy of receiving a "yes" all the way back to when you
               | receive a paycheck or make a monthly budget
               | 
               | I think I get it, that there's "thrill of the chase"
               | element that you don't get with paid encounters. There is
               | definitely a difference, but there is still some element
               | of searching for and finding something you're interested
               | in.
               | 
               | And that aside, do you not like going to a restaurant
               | because you knew you could as soon as you earned the
               | money to buy the meal? Maybe it's not the same as eating
               | a fish you caught yourself, but it's still enjoyable isnt
               | it?
        
               | GDC7 wrote:
               | > And that aside, do you not like going to a restaurant
               | because you knew you could as soon as you earned the
               | money to buy the meal? Maybe it's not the same as eating
               | a fish you caught yourself, but it's still enjoyable isnt
               | it?
               | 
               | The difference is that I don't want to have a sexual
               | intercourse with the resturant's chef :)
        
       | darkwizard42 wrote:
       | As with any new subject/market there will be those that dig/pan
       | for gold and those that sell the shovels.
       | 
       | When app-based dating took off, there were people who reviewed
       | your profile and customized it for you (including crafting
       | messages to prospective partners). Someone on reddit (can't find
       | this right now) started a whole business on this when she was so
       | desperate for money she took to reviewing profiles for $5
        
       | ivraatiems wrote:
       | This article reads like PR for its subject, to be honest, and
       | I've never heard of the site that it's from. Is The Hustle at all
       | reliable?
        
         | darkwizard42 wrote:
         | The Hustle is a pretty common site shared on HN. I would say
         | its mostly focused on 5 minute reads that give a slightly-
         | deeper-than-google overview of a topical subject.
         | 
         | They have had some good pieces in the past but are definitely
         | in the quick morning read category.
        
         | jjoonathan wrote:
         | My immediate take was "you know the gold rush is over when
         | shovel consultants start pushing ads your way."
         | 
         | "The Hustle" sounds like a shovel consultant.
        
         | harrisonjackson wrote:
         | They were recently (last year?) acquired by HubSpot. I'm not
         | that familiar with their recent content but I am a fan of their
         | team and the HustleCon youtube vids.
         | 
         | Their founder has a podcast that is good fuel for anyone that
         | likes to chat about startups, business, VCs, crypto, etc. The
         | cohost had a startup that was acquired by Twitch. They're
         | pretty entertaining together and the content is consistently
         | good.
         | 
         | https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/my-first-million/id146...
        
         | ufmace wrote:
         | It kind of is PR, but you can still take some useful
         | information from it. It does seem pretty plausible that a "gold
         | rush" on Onlyfans-type content is in full swing, and if you
         | want to make more than pocket change and are not already
         | famous, you're going to need some marketing hustle.
        
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