[HN Gopher] Ask HN: What's your ideal city in a 100% remote world?
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       Ask HN: What's your ideal city in a 100% remote world?
        
       In the last year many jobs in computing/software development have
       gone fully remote. If given the opportunity to work remotely from
       anywhere in the world where would you go? Or if you've recently
       transitioned to a remote work environment where are you thinking of
       moving?
        
       Author : alecbcs
       Score  : 31 points
       Date   : 2021-11-05 15:01 UTC (8 hours ago)
        
       | runjake wrote:
       | It would be not a city. It would be somewhere rural. In fact, it
       | _is_ somewhere rural.
       | 
       | It's quiet, and there's just enough infrastructure to head down
       | the road on bike or foot for some lunchtime exercise.
       | 
       | But, if you like the big city, or working from the woods, that's
       | fine, too.
        
       | Bjorkbat wrote:
       | Might be the city I'm currently living in: Albuquerque, NM.
       | 
       | It's very inexpensive, and sits at the foothills of the Sandia
       | Mountains and Petroglyph National Park. It's almost always sunny,
       | yet is rarely too hot for outdoor activities. As far as bike
       | infrastructure goes it may just be in the top 10 for US cities.
       | You almost need to go out of your way to not be an outdoorsy
       | person here. It has a decent amount of restaurants, breweries,
       | things to do, but if you're particularly starved for
       | entertainment then there are cheap flights to Austin and Denver.
       | Indeed, what makes Albuquerque really great is that you could use
       | it as a nice place to decompress in-between destinations.
       | 
       | There are some downsides though. Crime is pretty bad, as is the
       | poverty rate, but a lot of places here in the US are struggling
       | with that right now. Truth be told the thing that annoys me the
       | most may be the Gross Receipts Tax. Basically, if you freelance,
       | your services are subject to what's basically a ~7% sales tax,
       | only for services.
       | 
       | But given how inexpensive everything is, and how much I get, I
       | can't really complain too much about the GRT.
        
         | eunoia wrote:
         | Out of curiosity what are your thoughts on Santa Fe?
        
       | brailsafe wrote:
       | Where I am now, nearish to central Vancouver. I'd love to live in
       | other places for some time for other reasons, but they're all
       | cities in Europe with different ages and cultures. Smaller places
       | are great to visit, but are boring and lack breadth of novelty.
       | It takes me 4 mins to walk to the gym where I bump into people
       | I'm gradually getting to know, then 2 mins to the next cafe where
       | I might get to know someone, then 2 mins to groceries, 30 mins to
       | the mountains, 2 hrs to whistler if I can get a car or bus.
        
       | lookalike74 wrote:
       | Has anyone heard Chattanooga TN is cool?
        
       | alophawen wrote:
       | I been working remote for the last 8 years, and thank you covid
       | for even more work!
       | 
       | I moved far out the country side and picked up farming, animal
       | keeping and all that.
       | 
       | When I need some think time, I have a 1-2 hour walk in the woods
       | listening to the birds and experiencing nature. This is where I
       | want to die. I left the big city and am never looking back.
       | 
       | OP, why do you consider living in a city for remote work???
        
       | dixie_land wrote:
       | If starlink/rural fiber is more broadly available, I'd see many
       | people forgo cities altogether. Why live in 500sqft when you can
       | have 500 acres all to yourself.
        
         | kaesar14 wrote:
         | Other people?
        
           | QuercusMax wrote:
           | And amenities like restaurants, grocery stores,
           | orchestras....
        
           | giantg2 wrote:
           | This could support either side depending on one's view of
           | people.
        
       | arduinomancer wrote:
       | Personally I think the ideal would be to have a big property in
       | the countryside like 1 hour outside a big city.
        
       | dial8nowplz wrote:
       | Preferably one that manages to keep the progressive policies that
       | have ruined most major coastal cities far away but at the same
       | time, having some semblance of infrastructure so I can make great
       | use of the geo arbitrage available to me thanks to living in said
       | rural area. This is one of the reasons why I am highly optimistic
       | about starlink. Once the tech is mature and fully deployed I'll
       | be able to develop and live on my 100 acres where I will not be
       | subject to any sort of virtue signaling by individuals whose
       | ancestors are the cause of most problems we see today in our
       | current societal climate.
        
       | ngokevin wrote:
       | After visiting many countries, and living in 10 US states this
       | past year...
       | 
       | Mexico City. I lived there a month, I enjoyed the food even more
       | than Japan, Vietnam, LA. People are friendly, lot of action and
       | culture, felt extremely safe, cheap.
        
       | dielll wrote:
       | A Town in Kenyan coast called Malindi. It literally has the beat
       | beach in the world, at Watamu
        
       | jifii3 wrote:
       | Iceland, some AirBnB's have amazing internet access while still
       | being in the middle of nowhere.
       | 
       | Was there for a ~week and it was super cool, made huge progress
       | on a project during work hours, and enjoyed every minute of it.
       | 
       | I still prefer the 'city' life long-term.
        
       | Mikeb85 wrote:
       | Somewhere in the middle of nowhere. I currently live in a small
       | town in the mountains. Love the mountain aspect of it. The
       | townspeople are progressive in some ways (they try to be 'woke'),
       | but extremely regressive when it comes to development (NIMBYism
       | on steroids). Housing is a major problem, all the restaurants are
       | shit, nothing gets built pretty much ever, most of the tax burden
       | is on the few businesses there are, etc... But it is one of the
       | most beautiful places in the world, objectively (at least outside
       | the town).
       | 
       | Also, lots of the replies so far in this thread mention big
       | cities. I'm wondering what the appeal of cities would be in a
       | 100% remote world without restaurants as, presumably, restaurant
       | workers would be moving to jobs that are remote, no? Or are they
       | just the new serf class?
        
         | j_walter wrote:
         | OP is most certainly talking about software development jobs
         | being 100% remote...not all jobs being 100% remote.
        
           | Mikeb85 wrote:
           | Ah gotcha. Saw the title and thought more philosophically
           | about it. Missed that line. I mean, for me, 100% remote is
           | more or less reality (choose not to take a job that restricts
           | me geographically, have some side hustles).
        
         | tapan_jk wrote:
         | Off topic but [maybe] relevant...
         | 
         | > Somewhere in the middle of nowhere.
         | 
         | A part of me too desires this. For a software engineer, what
         | you need most is good network connectivity, which is now
         | possible in many places.
         | 
         | The other part of me is convinced that would not be a good move
         | in the long run. If I move away from the city, my kids'
         | education will suffer, my mother (who also lives with me) will
         | lose the social connect that keeps her in good spirits. Growing
         | up in a small place, I always longed to move to a city. Now
         | that I have "been there done that" in terms of living a city
         | life, I do not want my children to go through the same cycle.
         | 
         | It would be nice to have the best of both worlds. Have a second
         | home someplace remote, and go live there for short duration as
         | circumstances permit.
        
           | nostrademons wrote:
           | > It would be nice to have the best of both worlds.
           | 
           | That was supposed to be the idea behind suburbs, but a lot of
           | people think of them as the worst of both worlds now.
           | 
           | Personally I think it's pretty nice to live 30 minutes
           | outside a city but still have enough property for trees and
           | open space, though.
        
           | Mikeb85 wrote:
           | All of this is true. Hence why we're actually moving to the
           | middle of nowhere in Europe. Because the middle of nowhere
           | there is still 30 minutes from cities, whereas even being
           | 'somewhere' in Canada is 4 hours from the closest city,
           | nevermind the actual middle of nowhere. Plus more family in
           | Europe.
           | 
           | But the middle of nowhere, actually, has always appealed.
           | You're right though, it has drawbacks.
        
         | gremloni wrote:
         | I find that people approaching woke but not "there" yet are the
         | best.
        
           | Mikeb85 wrote:
           | Sarcastic 'best'?
           | 
           | The 'locals' are extremely unfriendly, actively try to
           | sabotage new businesses, bring in foreign workers and lock
           | them into work/living arrangements to take advantage of them,
           | heck (attempt to) take advantage of all workers, etc...
           | 
           | But they claim to not be whatever 'ism' isn't politically
           | popular.
        
             | brailsafe wrote:
             | I feel like the parent wasn't referring to specifically
             | your situation, but rather centre-left people rather than
             | very-left people
        
       | tuckerpo wrote:
       | Some totally rural fjord town in north east Iceland. I like being
       | left alone.
        
       | iExploder wrote:
       | Singapore, but the hourly rate would have to be in truckloads of
       | gold.
        
       | rococode wrote:
       | Tokyo!
       | 
       | Pros:
       | 
       | - Safe almost everywhere even at night and generally very clean
       | 
       | - Infinite amount of things to do, you'll never finish exploring
       | new restaurants (with delicious food) and stores
       | 
       | - International events happen there: conferences, concerts, etc.
       | 
       | - Very walkable (including the metro), especially around city
       | center
       | 
       | - Reasonable housing prices - high, but comparable to cities in
       | the US
       | 
       | - Politeness is baked into society and unpleasant interactions
       | with strangers are very rare
       | 
       | - Rest of the country is fairly accessible by train for a weekend
       | trip, and there's plenty of beautiful nature if you get out of
       | the city
       | 
       | Cons:
       | 
       | - Difficult language and few people speak any English
       | 
       | - Fairly closed society/culture, you'll always be an outsider
       | (but there are plenty of expats)
       | 
       | - Toilets in restaurants often suck and public trash cans are
       | rare
       | 
       | - Bureaucracy is quite bad and inaccessible if you aren't fluent
       | in Japanese
       | 
       | - Work culture is bad, though being remote could make that a non-
       | issue
       | 
       | Some runner ups:
       | 
       | - Lisbon (excellent weather, low prices)
       | 
       | - Copenhagen (super safe, great quality of life)
       | 
       | For me though, the top 3 criteria by far are 1) a lot to do, 2)
       | very safe, and 3) don't need a car, and Tokyo is pretty much the
       | only major city that meets those.
        
         | truetraveller wrote:
         | >few people speak any English
         | 
         | Is this true? I would think that at least 50% would be able to
         | speak English. Perhaps even up to 80%. Anyone else with first-
         | hand experience?
        
           | mywaifuismeta wrote:
           | It's true. 50% may know a few words, but probably less than
           | 5% speak good enough English to have a regular conversation
           | about something more complex than the weather. You can
           | definitely live in Tokyo without knowing Japanese and do
           | everything you need to do, but your options, socially and
           | otherwise, are always going to be limited.
        
         | biehl wrote:
         | Copenhagen is great. Barcelona was great too. Lisbon looks very
         | nice too. I imagine it like a slighly smaller and less
         | expensive Barcelona.
        
         | VirusNewbie wrote:
         | >Reasonable housing prices - high, but comparable to cities in
         | the US
         | 
         | If you count number of bedrooms, but if you look at sq.footage
         | isn't it much much higher than almost anywhere in the US?
        
           | brailsafe wrote:
           | The U.S is probably uniquely excessive when it comes to
           | McMansions and overall bigness of everything. You don't get
           | affordable giant places in either country though if you live
           | in a dense urban centre.
        
         | flakiness wrote:
         | Cons: It's very humid in summer and very chilly on winter. The
         | traffic is less than ideal if you are a car person (although
         | this doesn't matter to you).
         | 
         | Coming from Tokyo to Bay Area and having family here, I
         | wouldn't miss it much. Only things I miss are friends and food,
         | which are both from my cultural attachment.
         | 
         | That's said, many youngstars from Tokyo go back after staying
         | here for several years, probably because of the loneliness and
         | the boredom. So your points well taken.
        
         | Dracophoenix wrote:
         | You're just the kind of person I've been looking?
         | 
         | 1)How long have you been in Tokyo?
         | 
         | 2)What part of Tokyo do you live and work in?
         | 
         | 3) How easy/hard did you personally find establishing a
         | relationship (in the non-romantic sense) with the locals?
         | 
         | 4) (If you're an American) How do you handle you're taxes?
         | 
         | 5) What were some of the more surprising things about Tokyo
         | that aren't mentioned enough?
         | 
         | 6) How easy is it to get out into the countryside?
         | 
         | 7) Where does one find expats to hang out with who aren't
         | coworkers?
        
       | jstx1 wrote:
       | London is great.
       | 
       | So are many other large and diverse multinational cities. Many of
       | them also happen to be great for in-office tech job
       | opportunities.
        
       | baybal2 wrote:
       | I will still want to live in a big city, and I will still likely
       | rent a place in a coworking fitted as I wish.
        
       | Luuseens wrote:
       | Somewhere in Croatia. Good weather, good food, good internet.
        
         | telesilla wrote:
         | If you can get line of sight, from a hill-top chalet on one of
         | the many islands, to a cell tower: Croatia is fantastic.
         | Fishing, sailing, people with a big sense of humour.
        
       | mayormcmatt wrote:
       | If I had to choose one, it'd be Stockholm (or perhaps any Swedish
       | city with water access).
       | 
       | A couple years back I did take a two-week trip there consisting
       | of one week sightseeing, one week remotely working for a West
       | Coast agency. My work hours were around 4pm to 1am-2am Stockholm
       | time, which was just on the edge of comfortable. My reasoning is
       | as follows:
       | 
       | 1) Fast internet everywhere I went, even the countryside
       | 
       | 2) Great tea and coffee -- excellent cafe culture, too
       | 
       | 3) Had a chance to meet some of the most kind, intelligent
       | engineers I've ever known while there (and some now working here
       | in the States, too); would love to collaborate and be motivated
       | by working with them again
       | 
       | 4) It felt very safe at all times of day (compared to where I
       | live now, at least)
       | 
       | 5) Active sailing culture, as I've recently become interested in
       | that sport/hobby
       | 
       | 6) Really fun bike culture, especially groups like at
       | Bagarmossens cykelkok
       | 
       | 7) Didn't seem like owning a car is necessary, even to travel
       | outside the city/intercity
       | 
       | 8) Perhaps an unpopular opinion, but I enjoy how vices like
       | alcohol and rich foods are more expensive there, so I went easy
       | on them and felt healthier
       | 
       | Finally, nothing to back this up on, just a "feeling": the vibe
       | is simply more chill, less dysfunctional than here in the States.
       | Felt like many sectors of the citizenry, government, and business
       | community had agreed upon a framework for a basic and decent
       | standard of lifestyle. Certainly Swedes could chime in and tell
       | me some hard truths that I missed while there (I've only stayed
       | in Sweden for a month, cumulatively).
       | 
       | Things that would be hard are, definitely, finding housing that
       | doesn't break the bank (Stockholm is majorly backed up, with
       | rentals expensive). Also, my wife and I mastering a new language
       | now, in our forties could be a challenge. I did start taking
       | classes for it, for fun, before the pandemic.
       | 
       | If Sweden were off the table, my other remote choice would be
       | Kagoshima, Japan. Nothing like living next to a volcano!
        
       | 999900000999 wrote:
       | Chicago.
       | 
       | Friendly people , cheap housing, great public transportation.
       | Tons of things to do.
       | 
       | No visa issues, it's much easier to move cities they countries.
        
         | floppydiskette wrote:
         | I love Chicago, but where are you finding cheap housing?
         | Genuinely interested what areas.
        
         | codegeek wrote:
         | Brutal Winter.
        
           | 999900000999 wrote:
           | Let the wrath of God humble you.
        
       | GDC7 wrote:
       | Lagos, Nigeria.
       | 
       | That's where young people are.
       | 
       | Looking at history exciting stuff (both positive and negative)
       | happen where there is a huge concentration of young people
       | interacting with each other.
       | 
       | English proficiency is quite good as well.
        
         | thorin wrote:
         | Are you originally from Africa? I'd put Lagos very near the
         | bottom of places to live from what I've heard, but I'm sure it
         | would be "exciting". If I was single I'd probably pick
         | something like Pucon, Chile ( a beautiful town with great
         | kayaking / outdoors ), Beachburg, Ottawa in the summer for
         | kayaking, NZ for the beautiful environment and low population
         | density.
         | 
         | As I'm not single and have a family to attend to I'd probably
         | stay where I am or move to a village in the Peak District (UK).
        
       | higeorge13 wrote:
       | Tech scene in the balkans is great for a couple weeks. Athens,
       | Belgrade, Zagreb, Sofia were great remote weeks for me, in nice
       | coworking spaces, cheap accommodation and food and lively night
       | life and friendly people to hang out.
       | 
       | Having worked from almost everywhere around Europe, my next plan
       | would be Seoul though.
        
       | 1270018080 wrote:
       | Small, dense, walkable. Does it exist in America? I don't think
       | so.
        
         | thatfrenchguy wrote:
         | San Francisco obviously. Perfect density, access to nature,
         | perfect climate. You just have to pay for it.
        
           | ngokevin wrote:
           | Wouldn't say walkable though. Public transit doesn't feel
           | super well-connected. If you have the cash to Uber
           | everywhere, it's good though it's a lot of traffic to go
           | through to go a few miles.
           | 
           | The time of the slow sparse public transit or the costly Uber
           | ended up having me still just drive everywhere, and then
           | worry about parking everywhere I went.
        
         | gwill wrote:
         | mid sized cities like Milwaukee could make the list. Not sure
         | if that's dense enough though.
        
         | drstewart wrote:
         | Madison
         | 
         | Santa Fe
         | 
         | Burlington
        
           | 1270018080 wrote:
           | I've been putting together a list of walkable cities to
           | potentially move to, and Madison and Burlington are on the
           | list.
           | 
           | Most of America is a 1/10, they're 6/10s, which isn't bad.
           | All ranked by my totally arbitrary scale. But what I'm
           | looking for is a 9+/10. Aspen, Colorado is a good example,
           | but I would never be able to buy a house there as they start
           | at $8 mil.
        
         | endisneigh wrote:
         | Somerville, MA. Manhattan, NYC, etc.
        
         | kaesar14 wrote:
         | I'd plug New Haven here!
        
         | pivo wrote:
         | Boston fits that description well, it's why I love living here.
        
       | Ancalagon wrote:
       | Anyone else afraid to say exactly where, for fear it might become
       | too popular? :)
        
         | 1270018080 wrote:
         | Wichita, Kansas. Everyone move to Wichita, it's great. Trust
         | me.
        
           | coolspot wrote:
           | Can't agree more!
           | 
           | The crafting beer is great there, housing is affordable,
           | crime is non-existent. And Internet is 10GBps full-duplex for
           | each household.
        
         | ngokevin wrote:
         | Don't worry, it won't become popular unless it has a craft beer
         | scene
        
           | giantg2 wrote:
           | For homebrewers, that can be anywhere.
        
       | culopatin wrote:
       | Buenos Aires
        
         | bwb wrote:
         | tax system etc is insane though... but agreed, if they could
         | build a working gov/economy it is one of my all time fav
         | places. Patagonia and amazing coastline not "far" too.
        
           | culopatin wrote:
           | Just get paid in an account abroad and avoid all that.
        
       | sokoloff wrote:
       | I'm already living in one of my top choices: Cambridge, MA. (Four
       | real seasons, high educational attainment generally, good public
       | schools [some of them anyway].)
       | 
       | I'd love to buy a place on a TVA lake in TN and spend most of the
       | summers there.
       | 
       | Younger and without kids, I'd have given serious consideration to
       | moving to Costa Rica during/after COVID.
        
       | poulsbohemian wrote:
       | I'd really like to go check out Slovenia. Everything I've read /
       | heard indicates that it is a more affordable Switzerland. Be at
       | the beach and skiing in the same day, high quality of life, etc.
        
       | emernic wrote:
       | Toluca, Mexico. It's extremely cheap, cool/temperate all year,
       | and some of the suburbs (e.g. Metepec) are quite safe. Reasonable
       | proximity to the US (geographically, temporally, and to some
       | extent culturally) would make it a practical option for
       | Americans. It's a profoundly "not hip" city, but as someone who
       | just wants to be left alone in my apartment all day, I consider
       | that a plus. The main downsides are extremely high elevation and
       | sub-par internet speeds (likely requiring some careful apartment
       | hunting).
        
         | felgueres wrote:
         | You are setting the bar extremely low. Besides nevado de toluca
         | (ridiculously beautiful mountain) there's little to no
         | incentives for this place
        
       | stickinote wrote:
       | I've always thought Vancouver, BC would be a nice spot but, it's
       | quite expensive.
        
         | neilk wrote:
         | Remote worker and Vancouver resident here. Vancouver is the
         | second most expensive city in the world, measured by cost of
         | living to prevailing wage. Only Hong Kong scores higher.
         | 
         | If, like me, you work in tech with American funding, it's
         | conceivable to have a "normal" life in the downtown core,
         | including buying property. But everyone else is fleeing the
         | downtown core, the Greater Vancouver Area, or even the entire
         | province.
         | 
         | Anecdote: I know an arts administrator who moved to semi-rural
         | Nova Scotia. She went from barely being able to afford a
         | basement apartment to buying a pretty large house. It's pretty
         | weird to imagine arts administration even being possible from a
         | town in nowheresville... but the pandemic has created strange
         | situations. She just flies into cities when she has an actual
         | event or performance to manage.
        
         | api_or_ipa wrote:
         | Vancouver BC is magical and (IMO) one of the most beautiful
         | cities in the world. In July & August, hands down the most
         | beautiful place in the world, but still, 8 months of the year
         | it's dark, wet and cold. If you're passionate about getting
         | into the mountains or on the water and you can tolerate the
         | rain, it's a wonderful place. Lots of wealthy people in
         | Vancouver own boats to go sailing in the summer and a condo in
         | Whistler to ski in the winter and their quality of life
         | unbeatable. On the other hand, I know a couple people who moved
         | from Vancouver to Canmore, Alberta because they still got their
         | fill of mountains, but they traded a bit colder of climate for
         | significantly more days of sunshine. It's all a trade-off in
         | the end. Regarding affordability: Vancouver is expensive if
         | you're working for a local company & paid in CAD, but if you're
         | earning a US salary (esp Bay Area), Vancouver feels
         | substantially more affordable than most large US cities (again,
         | IMO, it's _very_ hard to compare cost-of-living between
         | countries).
        
           | 908B64B197 wrote:
           | > Vancouver is expensive if you're working for a local
           | company & paid in CAD
           | 
           | What explains such depressed wages for local developers?
           | Aren't local companies interested in competing?
        
       | VirusNewbie wrote:
       | I've been remote for a while and so I stayed in Orange County.
       | It's very nice, strikes a good balance of the other big cities in
       | CA but lower CoL compared to Bay Area and Los Angeles.
       | 
       | I've traveled all over europe and my favorite city for living
       | would be Budapest. It seems like it had a low CoL but a very
       | vibrant community in addition to being walkable and beautiful.
       | 
       | Haven't met any Hungarian engineers so I don't know how the
       | developer/startup community is, so if anyone knows chime in.
        
       | bwb wrote:
       | Valencia, Spain. Amazing weather all year long, great biking,
       | great beach, and beautiful old city along with beach city all in
       | one place. Oh and they Turia is a giant park that runs through
       | the middle of the entire city and is sunk into the ground.
        
       | slackfan wrote:
       | If I can work from anywhere in the world, why in all flying hells
       | would I work from a city?
        
         | ngokevin wrote:
         | I've been nomadic living in both rural and urban areas. Because
         | cities have events, people to meet, food to eat. There's a lot
         | of conveniences.
         | 
         | For rural, I've lived in a town where there was only one
         | restaurant, and it was a Mexican place that closed at 4PM. One
         | small grocery store during height of the pandemic, no masks.
         | I've driven 3 hours to make a grocery run to an Asian grocery
         | store and get boba tea. In the US at least, I feel like I stick
         | out like a sore thumb in rural areas in a time people were
         | getting randomly attacked due to skin color. The nature is
         | great though.
         | 
         | For urban, I've been able to go out at 1AM+ and get delicious
         | cheap food at a restaurant and feel the energy of the city as
         | everyone was still out drinking and wandering. Or I can get
         | into pickup basketball games. Or listen to porch concerts
         | walking down the neighborhood
         | 
         | It's nice to go back and forth.
        
         | Barrin92 wrote:
         | For me personally, quality of life. No need for a car, I love
         | theatre and as a kid I had to commute two hours to get to the
         | next chess club because I lived in the middle of nowhere.
        
           | legerdemain wrote:
           | Theater can be live-streamed. You can play chess online with
           | anyone in the world. Why would you need to live in a city to
           | enjoy these experiences?
        
             | Barrin92 wrote:
             | I hope that's a joke because sitting in front of a screen
             | isolated at home isn't a replacement for experiencing a
             | play live. I've played enough online chess during the
             | pandemic for a lifetime, I want to sit in a club with a
             | beer and my friends over a physical board having face-to-
             | face conversations, there's no online replacement for that.
             | And in a city that is always only 15 minutes away by foot
             | and I wouldn't trade it for anything.
        
               | legerdemain wrote:
               | That's why there are different kinds of people in the
               | world. I wager there are lots of people like me on this
               | site. If warm food regularly appeared at my door, I'd be
               | happy never leaving my room and interacting with the
               | world exclusively using my computer. I think it's useful
               | to be aware that not everyone is a social butterfly who
               | demands constant IRL interaction!
        
         | SamuelAdams wrote:
         | A lot of commenters come from wealthy / well off backgrounds. I
         | agree with you, I like the openness and quiet that rural towns
         | and areas bring. My only requirements are clean water and fast
         | internet.
         | 
         | Both of which were a problem in the farm house I grew up. Since
         | moving to a city I'm always marveled at the difference between
         | city water and well water. And now I get internet faster than
         | 25 Mbps, consistently.
        
           | giantg2 wrote:
           | It depends on the well and city. I've had wells that had poor
           | water quality. I've also lived in cities that had terrible
           | water. So far the best water for me has been from a high
           | quality well.
        
           | ngokevin wrote:
           | Software engineers like openness and quiet even more so than
           | average. To get away. Hence why everyone is a hiker that
           | wears Patagonia :) I'm sure lots of people's long-term dreams
           | here are not software, but to live some Stardew Valley life
           | or bake bread and make beer or something
        
       | browningstreet wrote:
       | Budapest, with a side spot in Spain, and my ski pass in the Alps
        
       | gremloni wrote:
       | Bangalore, India
       | 
       | It has great weather, a nice mix of people since there are a lot
       | of transplants both from other parts of India and international,
       | good food, safe and relatively clean compared to other large
       | Indian cities.
        
       | Snoozle wrote:
       | I think about this a lot as I have been fully remote since 2019,
       | but have yet to execute on a family move.
       | 
       | If I didn't have a dog, I would definitely spend a few years in
       | places like Portugal, Thailand, Vietnam, and other countries in
       | which I could have a nice experience relatively cheaply. The time
       | zone is a bit of a challenge though, as work starting at midnight
       | makes it hard to enjoy.
       | 
       | For settling down, though, I would have a hard time living too
       | far from a big city. I've tried to live the quieter life, but I
       | just need the energy that comes with those large communities.
       | Boston, NYC, London, Toronto, Chicago. Preferably a small town
       | house near public transportation.
        
       | ryandrake wrote:
       | My criteria... good luck--many conflict with each other, and I
       | don't really think this unicorn town exists.
       | 
       | English speaking
       | 
       | Very low population density (rural-er is better)
       | 
       | Inexpensive, reliable high speed internet for work
       | 
       | Low tax burden (state income tax + sales tax + property tax)
       | 
       | Affordable land + housing
       | 
       | Unpolluted air and water
       | 
       | Good schools and universities
       | 
       | Politically stable
       | 
       | Culturally moderate: not overly liberal or conservative
       | 
       | Legal gambling: nice to have :)
       | 
       | Things I don't care about:
       | 
       | Access to cities, music scene, art scene, any scene really
       | 
       | Sunshine/warm weather
       | 
       | Walkability
       | 
       | Neighborhood culture (I'd prefer to live far enough from my
       | neighbors that I never see them)
        
       | muzani wrote:
       | I'm happy where I live now. Bangi, Malaysia. Great food, and it's
       | cheap enough to eat at a restaurant every day. Everything from
       | the humble fried rice to wagyu steak.
       | 
       | It's next to Putrajaya which has some amazing parks, whether it's
       | skate parks or just picnic spots. Weather is great. Lots of
       | beautiful people. About half an hour's drive from a cinema or
       | major mall, but that's not too bad.
        
       | ralmidani wrote:
       | In almost every respect (with the weather being the only thing I
       | might wish to see improved), Dublin, Ohio (and Columbus in
       | General) has exceeded my wildest dreams since we moved here in
       | June.
       | 
       | https://wallethub.com/edu/best-worst-small-cities-to-live-in...
        
       | binarynate wrote:
       | I've been thinking about this a lot. My criteria:
       | 
       | - Warm winters
       | 
       | - Sunny (>200 avg. sunny days)
       | 
       | - Good music scene
       | 
       | - Good tech scene (for meeting other founders)
       | 
       | - Beautiful nature nearby
       | 
       | - Reasonable cost of living
       | 
       | - In the US
       | 
       | Based on these criteria, I think I've landed on Austin, Texas as
       | the best option. Here are other places I considered, though:
       | 
       | - California: L.A. or San Francisco would honestly be my top
       | choices, but the high income tax rates push the cost too high.
       | 
       | - Phoenix: A cool city, but my perception is that its music and
       | tech scenes are not as vibrant as Austin's. Also, I don't think
       | the desert is very beautiful.
       | 
       | - Nashville: In a lot of ways it's like Austin, but smaller. It's
       | still one of my top picks right now because it's closer to my
       | family, but I'm leaning toward Austin because winters in
       | Nashville are still relatively cold.
       | 
       | - Miami: This city excels in all of my criteria except for the
       | music scene, which appears to be severely lacking. So, that takes
       | it out of the running.
       | 
       | - Denver: Meets a lot of my criteria and seems beautiful, but I
       | think its winters are too cold.
        
         | achillesheels wrote:
         | I've done extensive business travel in Denver, and, being a CA
         | native, I did not find the winter to be that harsh. In fact,
         | because it's up in the mountains, most of the cold and snow
         | melts away by high noon. You're left with sunny skies until the
         | frost returns at night, but it definitely helps with needing to
         | shovel snow I'd imagine :P
        
           | binarynate wrote:
           | Thanks for mentioning that--that's helpful to know
        
           | eunoia wrote:
           | Don't listen! Denver is prone to harsh winters that weed out
           | the weak. Yearly winter total population fatality rates
           | average around 8%. If the weather doesn't get you first you
           | might asphyxiate from the extremely low oxygen.
           | 
           | I hear New Jersey has better nature anyway.
           | 
           | Source: sarcasm.
        
         | jasonladuke0311 wrote:
         | Denver winters aren't that bad, which I found a pleasant
         | surprise after moving here.
        
           | binarynate wrote:
           | Interesting--it sounds like I may have overestimated how cold
           | it gets there. Basically I'm looking for a climate that is
           | noticeably warmer in than the winter than my current
           | location, Indianapolis.
        
         | syndacks wrote:
         | I'm not sure what kind of music scenes you're looking for, but
         | Miami has one of the best for electronic music in the US, as
         | well as probably latin and reggae.
        
           | binarynate wrote:
           | You're right--I should have mentioned that for live music,
           | I'm mostly into indie rock and indie pop. I do like some
           | vocal-driven electronic music (like Sylvan Esso), but when I
           | checked Songkick for concerts in Miami, I mostly saw shows
           | for pure EDM and DJs, which aren't my cup of tea for live
           | music.
        
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