[HN Gopher] Don't build your castle in other people's kingdoms
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       Don't build your castle in other people's kingdoms
        
       Author : riidom
       Score  : 191 points
       Date   : 2021-11-04 15:49 UTC (7 hours ago)
        
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       | simonswords82 wrote:
       | Same applies to fintech - I see a lot of new fintech startups
       | building their solutions on existing no/low code platforms.
       | 
       | Whilst this gets them out of the gate faster all the problems in
       | OPs article apply. In addition, their margins are squeezed as
       | they have to pass on the cost of the no/low code platform. Also
       | means the no/low code platform now needs to be InfoSec/Due Dilled
       | which doubles that pain too.
        
         | soco wrote:
         | They hopefully imagine moving out of that platform once a
         | certain size has been reached.
        
           | simonswords82 wrote:
           | Perhaps - but that's a lot of work to do in addition to
           | scaling up a company/adding features etc. that you've perhaps
           | just managed to get traction on.
        
       | tomphoolery wrote:
       | I got about 20% of the way through and clicked off after the
       | author went down a whole analogy rabbit hole.
        
         | tejohnso wrote:
         | > I got the pixelart itch again and have a blog to write so I
         | thought I would combine the two. This week I created a little
         | metaphorical fable about building your castle in other people's
         | kingdoms.
         | 
         | At least you were warned :)
        
         | allemagne wrote:
         | The title (and the section headings) communicates the analogy
         | really well, much of the following article really was a fun if
         | indulgent deep dive into it.
        
       | devmunchies wrote:
       | Article never used the words, but it comes down to owning your
       | own "channels" and owning "distribution". Everything else is
       | modular and changeable without disruption to $$$.
        
       | opatdchan wrote:
       | Web3 solves this.
        
         | namlem wrote:
         | That's the hope, but it's far from certain that it will.
        
         | the_optimist wrote:
         | We don't understand the dynamics of "web3" at all yet, but
         | early entrants look pretty much like another layer of
         | abstraction that simply rolls up to the same thing.
        
           | opatdchan wrote:
           | You don't understand it because you refuse to even try it.
        
             | the_optimist wrote:
             | You explain here that you do not know me, which is perhaps
             | obvious. Please provide the counters to the original
             | statement, if you have them.
        
       | splitstud wrote:
       | Yeah but what if you don't have a kingdom? What if you don't need
       | a catle?
        
       | namlem wrote:
       | Easier said than done. Mailing lists suck because email sucks.
       | Running things off an independent website sucks because getting
       | traffick to an independent website sucks. Platforms make things
       | way easier because the returns to scale are enormous.
       | 
       | I hope that someday we have platforms that are more democratic,
       | so that those who use them aren't at the mercy of petty
       | dictators. Perhaps something like the Ethereum blockchain could
       | help with that, who knows?
        
       | gjvc wrote:
       | wise words
        
       | golemotron wrote:
       | The same message as this: https://blog.codinghorror.com/are-you-
       | a-digital-sharecropper...
        
       | mdoms wrote:
       | Excellent article. One of the best examples I have seen of this
       | is an instructional wood worker named Steve Ramsey. He has
       | excellent content on Youtube but almost every video he makes has
       | a call to action to buy his complete video sets on his website.
       | And, for me at least, it worked! I knew I'd be getting excellent
       | content beyond the scope of what was available on Youtube (eg,
       | complete with PDF plans, cut lists etc) and he charged a very
       | fair one-off fee, not a Youtube recurring subscription.
       | 
       | And now, his viewership is drying up due to changes in the
       | Youtube algorithm (and his lack of posting, caused by the
       | algorithm preferring a style of video he's just not interested
       | in). But he is moving a lot of content to Tik Tok and other
       | platforms, and continues to drive viewers to his own kingdom.
        
       | schnevets wrote:
       | Nice article, but some of the writer's earliest examples are "rug
       | pulls" that happened 10+ years ago... surely the "new" generation
       | of creators have ingrained these lessons already?
       | 
       | As a follow-up, I'd want to hear the writer's opinion on how to
       | filter the corrupt kings from the "safe products". MailChimp and
       | Squarespace are easy examples, but are name brand ecosystems like
       | Steam and Spotify necessary evils, or would the writer encourage
       | sticking with indie alternatives like itch.io and Bandcamp?
       | 
       | It is going slower than one would expect (or desire), but I do
       | think technology is bringing us to an ecosystem that is more
       | equitable for creators. Personally, I'm interested in the rules
       | and expectations for tools that would be equitable to creators
       | while remaining sustainable. It seems like there are offerings
       | beyond web hosting and e-mail distribution that are worth
       | exploring.
        
         | mdoms wrote:
         | > MailChimp and Squarespace are easy examples, but are name
         | brand ecosystems like Steam and Spotify necessary evils, or
         | would the writer encourage sticking with indie alternatives
         | like itch.io and Bandcamp?
         | 
         | The author does not say you shouldn't use other kingdoms. To
         | the contrary he says you should use the heck out of them. Just
         | don't set up your whole castle there.
        
       | ed wrote:
       | The insane amounts of money people have made building products on
       | "other people's kingdoms" suggests the author is wrong.
        
         | josephcsible wrote:
         | It's high-reward, sure, but the point is it's high-risk too.
         | Look at everyone who was doing great in someone else's kingdom
         | until the king kicked them out with no recourse.
        
           | ed wrote:
           | The author is making a moral argument and presenting it as if
           | it's a business argument. It's not. Zynga still made
           | boatloads of money, and employed thousands of people, before
           | the rug got pulled.
           | 
           | The article does not specify good vs bad platforms. Is
           | Apple's App Store good or bad? Would the author not want to
           | start Epic?
           | 
           | What about building B2B tools for Salesforce, or apps for
           | Shopify?
           | 
           | Platform Risk is a form of risk that can be mitigated.
           | Building on platforms is itself a mitigation for distribution
           | risk.
        
       | jonny_eh wrote:
       | Don't open your store in a mall. What if the mall closes or
       | raises your rent?! (sarcasm!)
        
         | marcosdumay wrote:
         | I've seen enough store-owners get bankrupt because they decided
         | to move into a mall.
        
         | lapinot wrote:
         | The power relationship between a mall and a store has nothing
         | to do with the one between you and some multi-billion dollar
         | evil corp.
        
           | Kye wrote:
           | Simon Property Group isn't any more moral than Google or
           | Amazon.
        
             | josephcsible wrote:
             | The point is that Simon's ability to harm you is way lower.
        
         | josephcsible wrote:
         | If the mall kicks you out, or raises rent so high you can't
         | afford to stay, there will be other nearby places to go, and
         | it's easy to retain your customers when you move somewhere
         | else. If Apple kicks you off of the App Store or YouTube bans
         | you, it's way, way harder to keep your users or audience.
        
         | cowpig wrote:
         | This is a facile comparison.
         | 
         | If your local mall was attempting to secure a de facto monopoly
         | on all commercial real estate within driving distance, and was
         | doing so by offering subsidized rents in the short-term funded
         | by billion-dollar funds that demand a return on their
         | investment, then you would have taken a few steps closer to,
         | without having arrived at, an honest analogy
        
         | esjeon wrote:
         | That's why businesses always try to make their revenue model
         | diverse, so that, even when one or two of them dry up, the
         | business still have some breathing room left. This is a
         | business 101 stuff.
         | 
         | When you open a store in a mall, you better have another store
         | outside the mall. Otherwise, you'll get killed rather quickly.
        
       | okhuman wrote:
       | This message applies to your repo on Github too.
        
         | josephcsible wrote:
         | Not nearly to the same extent, though. It's easy to move your
         | repo over to GitLab or Savannah or something if need be.
        
           | c_joly wrote:
           | Except when folks use the github url of their repository as
           | their homepage I guess.
        
           | okhuman wrote:
           | it's not git thats valuable, it's all the social interactions
           | around it - your issues, discussions, actions would be very
           | hard to move. Github is only releasing more vendor lock in
           | features as time goes on.
        
       | ipsin wrote:
       | Here I am reading, following this reasonable argument and...
       | _boom_ pop-up  "call to action" interrupts the hell out of it.
       | 
       | I realize the conversion rate could be lower, but why not put
       | this CTA in a non-pop-up form at the end of the article? If I
       | really enjoyed it, that seems like the point where I'd be on
       | board with signing up.
        
         | anm89 wrote:
         | Agreed. Just out of principle, I'm never signing up for
         | anything that attempts this method.
        
           | 9387367 wrote:
           | Same, stopped reading and closed the tab.
        
           | Turing_Machine wrote:
           | Yep. Jump in my face, and I'm not only _not_ going to sign up
           | for your newsletter /install your app/whatever, I'm going to
           | actively avoid ever visiting your site again.
           | 
           | Your metrics may show that you get 0.2% signups with this
           | method rather than 0.15%, but they likely don't show the much
           | larger number of people who won't be coming back to your
           | skeevy site, ever.
        
         | thrower123 wrote:
         | When I am "called to action" like this, my action is usually to
         | close the tab.
        
         | LeifCarrotson wrote:
         | > I realize the conversion rate could be lower, but why not put
         | this CTA in a non-pop-up form at the end of the article?
         | 
         | It seems you've answered your own question.
        
         | foogazi wrote:
         | The subscribe to newsletter button ? It seemed unobtrusive
         | enough on mobile
        
           | ipsin wrote:
           | I think that's the key distinction. On mobile you would
           | navigate and dismiss the same way.
           | 
           | On a web page, I tend to scroll using a single finger or
           | knuckle on the arrow keys. Requiring a mouse at that point
           | (or extra keypresses, if those even work) breaks the reading
           | experience.
           | 
           | If this is a castle, it's not a very inviting one.
        
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       | anm89 wrote:
       | This lesson extends to almost everything in life. Too many people
       | wrap up their goals and aspirations to things that are really
       | someone elses thing at the end of the day. It frequently doesn't
       | end well.
       | 
       | This is a really great article.
        
         | colinmhayes wrote:
         | Well it's easy to say "don't build your castle in other
         | people's kingdom", but when 95% of people live in someone
         | else's kingdom and like it there it's much harder to actually
         | pull that off.
         | 
         | The author laments content creators trying to bring viewers
         | into their discord or twitter instead of personal website but
         | conveniently ignores the fact that people are much more willing
         | to go to and likely to return to sites they already visit.
         | 
         | I don't think content creators are especially happy to be
         | reliant on youtube, or twitch, or whatever other site they're
         | on. But the reality is that's where the people are. When
         | creators have left those platforms they've consistently lost
         | the vast majority of their viewers, because the reality is that
         | there are plenty of other creators on the platform for viewers
         | to migrate to.
        
           | svachalek wrote:
           | The article discusses that. The idea is go where the people
           | are and try to get them to come to your own kingdom. Use
           | their platform to advertise your platform. I'm sure this is
           | harder than it sounds, but it's pretty amazing the size of
           | the organizations that don't even seem to be trying.
        
             | colinmhayes wrote:
             | Well the thing is it's probably much easier to do this
             | incrementally. If you put a link to your site on your
             | youtube videos your conversion is going to be terrible. If
             | you put links to your twitter and discord it will be
             | better. Then you can try to get people on your discord to
             | go to your site since they're already deeply invested in
             | your community. Anyway, building your castle in as many
             | communities as possible seems like a much better defensive
             | tactic than spinning your wheels trying to create a new
             | kingdom.
        
           | adventured wrote:
           | > when 95% of people live in someone else's kingdom
           | 
           | Everyone lives in someone else's kingdom, except those people
           | who own kingdoms.
           | 
           | Articles like these, repeated on HN year after year because
           | they represent popular fantasies (and are thus always voted
           | to the front page), are universally misleading and wrong.
           | 
           | Challenge someone to list how they plan to build a successful
           | business, starting from scratch, outside of existing
           | kingdoms. You'll get a lot of evasiveness in response in
           | terms of answers.
           | 
           | It applies to online businesses as well as offline
           | businesses.
           | 
           | Need advertising? You're in someone else's kingdom. Need
           | marketing? You're in someone else's kingdom. Need cloud
           | hosting or services? You're in someone else's kingdom. Need
           | access to the Internet? You're going to span numerous
           | kingdoms that you don't own. Need to process payments? Again,
           | multiple kingdoms you don't own. Need a domain or access to
           | an app store? Kingdoms you don't own. Need retail goods to
           | put in your store? Numerous kingdoms you don't own. Need
           | manufacturing for your widget? Numerous kingdoms you don't
           | own. Need delivery services beyond local? Someone else's
           | kingdom. Need utilities for anything? Someone else's kingdom.
           | Need government licenses for anything? Someone else's
           | kingdom. Need to travel at distance, by train or plane, for
           | sales or similar? Someone else's kingdom. Need
           | teleconferencing? Very likely someone else's kingdom. Need to
           | sell something online? Someone else's kingdom (most likely;
           | even if you just use Shopify).
           | 
           | And on and on and on it goes. The alternative scenario of
           | trying to do everything yourself is hell.
           | 
           | A better premise would be: be careful where you build your
           | castle, and consider putting it on wheels.
        
             | 6510 wrote:
             | > Challenge someone to list how they plan to build a
             | successful business, starting from scratch, outside of
             | existing kingdoms.
             | 
             | I'm not about to share that information, sorry.
        
             | allemagne wrote:
             | >A better premise would be: be careful where you build your
             | castle, and consider putting it on wheels.
             | 
             | No, the analogy (and the article) is fine, we're just busy
             | torturing it all to hell on our way to some mirage of
             | isomorphic purity. The concept of "your kingdom" does not
             | need to be something you completely control in a 100% self-
             | sufficient way in every conceivable context to be a useful
             | way to think about marketing indie games or other real-life
             | situations.
        
         | sneak wrote:
         | Sadly you can't build apps that can send notifications on the
         | most popular phone on the planet without subjecting yourself to
         | arbitrary censorship by Apple and a 30% cut of revenues.
         | 
         | You also can't build apps that use decentralized backends that
         | receive notifications on that platform. All notifications have
         | to come from the centralized app developer.
         | 
         | Sharecropping is beginning to be the only way.
        
           | rambambram wrote:
           | I did hold that belief for some time, but I solved it with
           | the most reliable notification-method I came across thus far,
           | and that's plain simple email from my own domain.
           | 
           | I understand this is not possible for specific apps that need
           | smartphone notifications to function properly, but when you
           | think about it: a lot of (web)apps don't need that.
           | 
           | In general, one might need less notifications than one
           | thinks.
        
           | tommek4077 wrote:
           | This is so great on the last android versions. I can shut all
           | your noisy messages down. You think they are important, they
           | are not.
        
         | riidom wrote:
         | Definitely, it's not only about games, and not even only about
         | marketing your content of whatever topic on SM.
         | 
         | Somewhat also applies to buying your stuff mostly on Amazon,
         | hurting your local business. Or any other business that also
         | knows how to deliver its stuff inside a package to your door.
         | 
         | (Just in case it wasnt obvious: Not my blog, just following it)
        
           | spaced-out wrote:
           | >Somewhat also applies to buying your stuff mostly on Amazon,
           | hurting your local business.
           | 
           | What if you can't afford to buy real estate in your local
           | community, and don't own any stake in any local businesses?
           | How does spending more money, and driving 20+ minutes, enrich
           | your experience in any way?
        
             | riidom wrote:
             | I wrote that from the customers perspective, though. If the
             | shop is too far away to be comfortable to reach (20mins in
             | your example, mileage my vary), there are usually options
             | to get it sent to your house.
             | 
             | Yes, you need to make a new account probably, but that's
             | just minutes, and only in case you are shopping there for
             | the first time.
             | 
             | I had a talk with someone about that, and he was like,
             | "Well I'd had to open 1-2 accounts every week at various
             | shops and completely loose control over it". But I think
             | the true problem in this case is a different one.
        
           | Nasrudith wrote:
           | Seriously that talking point of "buying stuff on Amazon hurts
           | your local businesses" is such an incredibly false dichotomy.
           | The stuff on Amazon has long often been from a local
           | business, often one you haven't heard of because of its
           | obscure but cheap location.
           | 
           | And that is before getting into the other trade fallacies,
           | opportunity costs, and relative advantages.
        
       | jnwatson wrote:
       | This is the libertarian fantasy: just build the entire platform
       | yourself and you don't have to deal with the pesky decisions of
       | other companies.
       | 
       | Yes, you have to choose your dependencies carefully, but where
       | does it end? Steam could go away tomorrow. The game engine you
       | license could go out of business. Your hosting provider, your DNS
       | provider could kick you off.
       | 
       | If you don't entertain new platforms, you are leaving money on
       | the table. I'd wager that Japanese game manufacturers missed
       | hundreds of millions of dollars by being late to embrace Steam.
        
         | eldavido wrote:
         | Nailed it. This article is a textbook example of why STEM
         | people shouldn't be so quick to dismiss things like political
         | science.
         | 
         | What we're talking about here is governance -- laws, norms, and
         | fairness. Nobody lives on an island. Even on land that's
         | "yours", you're still reliant on things like roads, water
         | pipes, and other shared public infrastructure. You don't like
         | how someone's running things, vote them out or leave, but don't
         | pretend you're better off doing everything yourself. "Self-
         | sufficiency is the road to poverty" as a famous economist said.
         | 
         | Incidentally I've been watching the walking dead again (season
         | 8) and a lot of this stuff is the subject of the show. It's
         | definitely had some rough patches but at its core, it's a show
         | about how to build communities and large-scale civilizations,
         | and what effects various leadership styles have on each
         | society's long-term prospects. Very relevant.
        
           | allemagne wrote:
           | The political angle here is totally disconnected with what
           | the analogy is trying to get at. We can safely assume the
           | author is not trying to advocate complete and total self-
           | sufficiency in every context all the time.
        
         | josephcsible wrote:
         | > Steam could go away tomorrow.
         | 
         | Sell your game on your own website too.
         | 
         | > The game engine you license could go out of business.
         | 
         | Use a FOSS engine, so even if the original maintainers totally
         | abandon it, someone else can fork it.
         | 
         | > Your hosting provider, your DNS provider could kick you off.
         | 
         | You can switch to a new hosting/DNS provider transparently to
         | your customers.
        
         | allemagne wrote:
         | Calling this article a "libertarian fantasy" seems unfair. The
         | author does explicitly recommend entertaining new platforms,
         | but being prepared with a backup plan for when these platforms
         | are no longer viable for whatever reason.
         | 
         | Where does it end? They call out these options as presumably
         | being "safe enough":
         | 
         | - A website on a domain you own - A mailing list - Own and
         | license your Intellectual Property - Sell your merch on your
         | site - Your own reputation
         | 
         | We can extend this logic to an unrealistic degree and do
         | nothing but make your game/app/service completely agnostic to
         | any platform in every way, but we can acknowledge that such
         | perfection is unattainable without throwing out the value of
         | being platform-agnostic in realistic ways.
        
           | Karrot_Kream wrote:
           | > Where does it end? They call out these options as
           | presumably being "safe enough":
           | 
           | Is there any data around why these are safer than the
           | alternatives? Because the article is just a classic case of
           | nerd philosophy; there's _no_ justification of the actual
           | risks involves in these platforms aside from vague anecdotes
           | and analogies, then using these vague anecdotes to drive
           | recommendations.
        
             | allemagne wrote:
             | I don't know, I think you can go ahead and use your best
             | judgment on whether it's riskier for an indie game studio
             | to go all-in on marketing through a social media juggernaut
             | or trying to steer people to channels like a mailing list
             | that they control. This is not a research paper.
             | 
             | I'm sure there's lots to criticize in "nerd philosophy" but
             | an article that boils down to "avoid vendor lock-in" with a
             | cute analogy is just a weird target to choose. If you can't
             | help but read a certain ideological slant onto it and can't
             | possibly understand it separate from that reading, I think
             | that says more about you.
        
       | amelius wrote:
       | Yes, this is why AppStores are such a bad idea.
        
       | cletus wrote:
       | This is nothing new. In tech circles we've been talking about
       | this since at least the Zynga-Facebook era (eg [1]) and probably
       | much earlier.
       | 
       | I mean it's good advice. Often you don't have a choice or at
       | least the alternatives are so bad you'll hamstring yourself by
       | avoiding a potential loss (eg Youtube).
       | 
       | There are risks on another's platform but there can be benefits
       | too.
       | 
       | [1]: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=4093796
        
       | 999900000999 wrote:
       | My counter argument is it can be nearly impossible to build an
       | audience outside of a kingdom. Many popular YouTubers will try
       | and splinter off and create websites where they can monetize
       | better. I'm even subscribed to one of these websites because I
       | really do want to support the Creator, but I still consume almost
       | all of their content on YouTube. YouTube makes it very easy to
       | upload something and for people to consume it.
       | 
       | If your video on getting better gas mileage is on GasBro.net I'll
       | never find it. If it's on YouTube I might .
        
         | domador wrote:
         | Additionally, often there is only a single kingdom for a given
         | type of audience. One can't simply migrate to another kingdom,
         | and it's very difficult to create a new, viable kingdom.
         | 
         | One of the ways these kinds of problems could be addressed
         | could be through laws that limit the speed and the degree to
         | which monopolistic platforms can unilaterally change their
         | terms and conditions. Other kinds of laws could help protect
         | creators that earn a living through these platforms, such as
         | laws mandating a certain rudimentary level of customer service
         | for money-making creators. Hopefully these kinds of laws would
         | reduce the number of horror stories where a platform simply
         | decided to ignore a creator's customer service request to the
         | point where they lost their source of income, oftentimes due to
         | a technical problem caused by the platform itself, and which
         | the platform was unwilling to have an actual human look into.
        
         | esjeon wrote:
         | Just bait and switch. You don't have to be loyal to the
         | platform that helped you grow, because it has been _using_ you
         | from the beginning. It has always been a mutual relationship,
         | but people somehow realized it late.
         | 
         | YouTube being the most profitable platform only means that
         | people will consider it as /a/ primary target, but nothing
         | prevents them from using other platforms. As long as the cost
         | is justifiable, multi-platform approach is always better.
         | Luckily, operating on multiple platform is extremely cheap.
        
           | notTheAuth wrote:
           | Agreed. Just put your commercials on YT, Twitch, but always
           | link to your wallet; whether it's Patreon or a tshirt store
           | elsewhere.
           | 
           | Decouple. Take advantage of network effects. Model income
           | generation wide and deep.
           | 
           | It's all about extending social geometry.
        
             | vanviegen wrote:
             | If Google was a bit more like Apple, all of these things
             | wouldn't be allowed under YouTube's TOS.
        
               | notTheAuth wrote:
               | Fair doesn't mean the same.
               | 
               | I align with Apple a bit more as they actually do
               | interesting manufacturing R&D; they're all terrible on
               | the software and privacy side.
               | 
               | Google is 3-4 useful websites, cloud software hype, and
               | resource consumption.
               | 
               | We could write desktop software that recurses over
               | personal data, abstracts useful metadata, and share that
               | with each other. Users pay for bandwidth when they could
               | just utilize their computer better.
               | 
               | Somehow we've anchored our agency to doing that via cloud
               | providers who externalized their real costs onto startups
               | which is why they're rich.
               | 
               | I'm really hopeful the future of hardware comes with
               | power savings and performance that make building a
               | business with off the shelf parts tenable again. But who
               | knows
        
         | zeteo wrote:
         | Historically almost everyone built their castles in someone
         | else's kingdom. The barons may have complained a lot, but in
         | practice they were much more likely to build another palace in
         | the capital than in some remote swampy place where the king's
         | writ ran less.
        
           | Nasrudith wrote:
           | Well given feudalism even chances are the count or baron's
           | castle wound up somebody else's kingdom or empire by force if
           | they had it beforehand.
        
         | zild3d wrote:
         | thats why the article has
         | 
         | > Rule #2: SHAMELESSLY USE THE OTHER KINGDOMS JUST LIKE THEY
         | ARE USING YOU!
        
           | colinmhayes wrote:
           | Ok but trying to lure people to your own site they've never
           | heard of is much more difficult than luring them to your
           | twitter or discord. Creating a community that spans multiple
           | widely used platforms is much more effective than just
           | shouting into the abyss for people to come to your bespoke
           | solution.
        
       | Hithredin wrote:
       | But..., that's the way to conquer the welsch. It worked well
        
       | rkunal wrote:
       | You can not create the universe. When building any thing new, you
       | have to rely on current ecosystem. Earlier people relied on Kings
       | and Bishops. Today, it's the banks and the platforms.
       | 
       | The advice should be, create your own mini ecosystem as soon as
       | possible.
        
       | legrande wrote:
       | I never liked digital/virtual sharecropping. Hosting your own
       | site might mean people can't discover you as easily, but if it
       | means a service like Youtube/OnlyFans doesn't pull the rug from
       | under your feet, then self-hosting is essential. I operate a BBS
       | that has been going strong for over 15 years, and it's all self-
       | hosted, well sort of (it's on a VPS) but the VPS provider is
       | well-known and renowned and unlikely to go under anytime soon.
       | The VPS provider also has many customers they wouldn't give up
       | too easily.
       | 
       | That said: I have prepared myself if my BBS gets banned for
       | whatever stupid reason. I've practiced and developed my own
       | _drill_ to get everything up and running again under a new
       | provider should that happen. It 's important to do this, because
       | communities don't like down time and will go elsewhere like
       | Discord etc if they notice a bunch of downtime on your server(s).
        
       | aunty_helen wrote:
       | > OnlyFans ALMOST banned porn which would have left content
       | creators out of hundreds of thousands of dollars. Only Fans
       | (under heavy pressure) reversed the plan... for now.
       | 
       | This is the problem, at face value this happened and is now being
       | used as evidence for the article's premise (which I enjoyed and
       | agree with).
       | 
       | In reality it was a viral marketing move by onlyfans to promote
       | porn on their website. You can't just come out and say to a bunch
       | of Dads hey we got porn come take a look. But you can say hey
       | we're banning all the massive amounts of porn we've got! oh no
       | oops no we're not, all the porn you know and love is still there.
       | We're sorry (TM)
       | 
       | Just like how no wives at some school are getting jelous how
       | their husbands are looking at another mum's onlyfans... but I see
       | paid articles about this all the time.
        
       | antonzabirko wrote:
       | A lot of people need to see this. If you don't control something,
       | you will be disappointed eventually. Philosophically this can
       | even be extended to your mortality.
        
         | 9dev wrote:
         | Ah, but this brushes an interesting, yet inevitable fact: there
         | _is no such thing_ as control. We tend to imagine to have
         | control to various degrees, as that makes it easier to cope
         | with the chaos around us. Still, we have to accept the fact
         | that we're all going to die, eventually, for example. Many
         | people never do that; they simply pretend they're immortal,
         | until one day something bad happens and shakes them awake.
         | 
         | I guess what I'm getting at is that change is inherent to life.
         | By accepting that things will change, no matter how much
         | ,,control" you imagine to have about them, you will probably be
         | happiest in the long run.
        
           | marc_io wrote:
           | True, but we always have some sort of agency over this.
        
       | rp1 wrote:
       | The advice is, in essence, to prioritize your mailing list over
       | audiences on proprietary platforms like Twitter and TikTok. This
       | may work for some, but mailing lists seem like they would be
       | really ineffective for a lot of use cases.
        
         | setpatchaddress wrote:
         | The advice is more generalizable than that: move your audience
         | into content in spaces that you own -- not spaces that Zuckbook
         | or Google or TikTok own.
        
           | rp1 wrote:
           | I don't think the advice is the move your audience to spaces
           | you own. The advice is to move your audience to spaces you
           | own that intersect with spaces they go often. E.g. moving
           | users into a forum you run wouldn't work because it would
           | require your users to explicitly go to your forum. Mailing
           | lists work because people go to their email inboxes often.
           | I'm struggling to think of another place people go often that
           | isn't a proprietary platform.
        
         | LegitShady wrote:
         | A mailing list is generally made of people who are a lot more
         | engaged and willing to support you. Twitter and tiktok are
         | places you use network effect to try to grow your committed
         | customer base but the conversion rate is much lower than a
         | mailing list.
         | 
         | I think it also depends on business model and product but
         | mailing lists are fundamentally more targeted than social
         | media. You still need both to some degree.
        
         | jrm4 wrote:
         | Not necessarily "prioritize" so much as "make sure you have
         | good and solid backup." Proprietary platforms are free
         | advertising that can get taken away whenever, so understand the
         | risks of using them. Good mitigation is to maintain strong
         | lines of communication beyond those.
        
         | kingcharles wrote:
         | Mailing lists probably don't work well for some demographics
         | that don't use e-mail significantly, e.g. teens.
        
         | riidom wrote:
         | Yes, it's pretty focussed on mailing lists as alternative.
         | Having a comment section may work too, but then, it shouldn't
         | be hosted by discurs of course, and you have the trouble of
         | managing it.
         | 
         | Same goes with your own forum, but it's not worth mentioning it
         | almost, since nowadays everyone seems so opposed to a forum.
         | But I believe, a good alternative for a mailing list is RSS
         | (for the people who are tired of signing up for stuff).
        
       | amelius wrote:
       | Facebook built their castle in Apple's and Google's kingdoms.
        
       | teddyh wrote:
       | One thing about domain names:
       | 
       | Choose both a registrar _and top-level domain for your domain
       | name_ carefully. Neither your registrar nor your chosen TLD
       | registry should be in the habit of suspending domains at the drop
       | of a hat, or be at risk of going out of business suddenly.
       | 
       | For TLDs, I have said before1 that if you mostly trust your local
       | government, your national ccTLD should suffice. In fact, it
       | should be your default choice unless you have strong indications
       | it does not fulfill the above criteria.
       | 
       | 1) https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=21614298
        
         | SCLeo wrote:
         | Are there aggregated lists of registrar and TLDs that match
         | such criteria? (Read: Has anyone already done this homework for
         | me?)
        
           | teddyh wrote:
           | Unless you somehow live in two countries at once, there
           | should only be one obvious option for you. However, if what
           | you are asking is: "If my local ccTLD is _not_ trustworthy,
           | what TLD should I choose?", then unfortunately I don't really
           | have an answer for you.
        
         | riidom wrote:
         | And to add to that (personal experience):
         | 
         | If you buy everything from one hand at once (server space,
         | domain, associated email), make sure you have a way of changing
         | provider and keep domain and emails without it being a hassle.
        
           | teddyh wrote:
           | Word. If you have regular backups, and if some downtime is
           | not really a problem, it _might_ be fine to use web server
           | hosting, e-mail (and in extreme cases even DNS hosting), from
           | some fly-by-night el cheapo provider. But your domain name
           | registrar? Pick them carefully, don't skimp, and make sure
           | they have good support. Because when things go pear-shaped,
           | you _really_ want to be able to actually _talk_ to someone to
           | change your web server or e-mail DNS records (or even DNS
           | servers) to somewhere else.
           | 
           | Full disclosure: I work at such a registrar. No, you're
           | probably not in our target market.
        
         | caylus wrote:
         | Note that .us and several other ccTLDs have the unfortunate
         | disadvantage of not allowing "private registration", forcing
         | you to either expose your real name, address, phone number, and
         | email, or violate their terms by providing fake information and
         | risking suspension for that reason.
        
           | teddyh wrote:
           | If you don't want anything to be traceable back to you, ever,
           | then I'm afraid that your only realistic option is .onion.
        
         | everybodyknows wrote:
         | ".us" is ostensibly restricted to US-linked parties -- but
         | currently enforcement responsibility rests in the hands of
         | Godaddy:
         | 
         | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/.us
        
         | nightfly wrote:
         | And if you have an exotic/fancy tld, have a backup .com/.net
         | domain ready and maybe live at all times
        
           | LeifCarrotson wrote:
           | I'd argue that on today's Internet, if you don't have a .com
           | domain, you _do_ have an exotic /fancy TLD and therefore need
           | to have the .com domain live and redirecting to your exotic
           | TLD.
        
             | frosted-flakes wrote:
             | Your local ccTLD is the exception.
        
         | LogonType10 wrote:
         | The ccTLD of Iceland ".is" only suspends domain names after a
         | valid court order in Icelandic jurisdiction.
        
           | judge2020 wrote:
           | Wasn't there drama regarding archive.is being removed by some
           | TLD operator?
        
           | teddyh wrote:
           | IIUC, there are many such TLDs, but you should really only
           | use these if you yourself are a citizen, and your
           | organization is based in the country in question.
        
             | LogonType10 wrote:
             | Really? What other countries offer such guarantee?
        
               | sergiosgc wrote:
               | My country's TLD (.pt) holds Portuguese courts as the
               | ultimate arbitrator. There are simpler administrative
               | procedures for suspending or claiming domains, but in
               | case of conflict courts have the final word.
               | 
               | I imagine most countries' TLDs operate in the same
               | fashion.
        
               | LogonType10 wrote:
               | That's encouraging. I guess I'm wondering if suspension
               | of domains is up to corporate discretion or if the
               | government of Portugal precludes that and requires a
               | court order for suspensions.
        
       | rvz wrote:
       | Seems like any startup that is an app-only product or is sitting
       | on someone else's open APIs will learn the hard way.
       | 
       | Notable victims: Meerkat, [0] YOLO and LMK [1].
       | 
       | [0] https://www.fastcompany.com/3043716/twitter-only-gave-
       | meerka...
       | 
       | [1] https://arstechnica.com/tech-policy/2021/05/snap-cuts-off-
       | yo...
        
       | unsungNovelty wrote:
       | TLDR;
       | 
       | Publish (on your) Own Site, Syndicate Elsewhere (POSSE) :)
       | 
       | https://indieweb.org/POSSE
        
       | Igelau wrote:
       | > racist barbarians
       | 
       | I got a good chuckle out of the unintentional cognitive
       | dissonance of this phrase.
        
       | asasidh wrote:
       | The king's rug pull.
       | 
       | This is why open standards like podcast are much better than
       | being in a walled garden. Monetization will be based on the
       | quality of content and your own efforts towards it and not
       | instant.
       | 
       | Look at the ease to exit just like the ease of entry.
        
         | rambambram wrote:
         | > Look at the ease to exit just like the ease of entry.
         | 
         | Amen.
        
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