[HN Gopher] Ask HN: How do you stay motivated and productive?
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       Ask HN: How do you stay motivated and productive?
        
       I don't have any motivation to do many of my tasks at work. They're
       all boring and frustrating. It's just a job, not a career, so
       there's no incentive to push through this just to get to the next
       level. Also, switching jobs internally or externally doesn't seem
       to be a likely option.  Any ideas on how to increase motivation at
       work?
        
       Author : giantg2
       Score  : 33 points
       Date   : 2021-10-06 19:06 UTC (3 hours ago)
        
       | xupybd wrote:
       | Time for a new job. You've probably been there too long and have
       | gotten fed up with the way of doing things.
        
       | eigengrau5150 wrote:
       | > It's just a job, not a career
       | 
       | What's wrong with this? You realize that if you died today your
       | job would get posted before your obituary, don't you?
       | 
       | Don't let your job mean too much to you. Do the job, get paid,
       | and find meaning, community, and fulfillment _elsewhere_.
        
         | mastrsushi wrote:
         | This. so. much.
         | 
         | If your life feels empty and you're unhappy working for some no
         | name company in an entry level role, do you really think being
         | chief sr. lead back end architect at Google is going to flip
         | everything around?
        
         | giantg2 wrote:
         | Nothing wrong with it. It just eliminates the option of pushing
         | through this to get to the next level.
         | 
         | It doesn't mean too much to me. But it does mean that I get a
         | paycheck that I use to support my family. I just need to be
         | motivated and productive enough to keep the job.
        
           | badpun wrote:
           | Usually, if you're visibly underperforming, you get clear
           | warning messages from management before you actually get
           | fired. They tend to be very motivating. Alas, if you're not
           | getting them yet, then your performance doesn't look as bad
           | from the outside as you think.
        
             | giantg2 wrote:
             | I'll likely get a porr rating this year based on their
             | feedback. Interestingly enough, they say I've somehow
             | turned it around in the past couple months eventhough I
             | didn't change anything.
             | 
             | The only real feedback I got on why I'm off track is that
             | I'm slow. I also agree that I'm slow. Management and I
             | agree that I'm slow due to a high level of context
             | switching. I brought up that maybe a new team with less
             | switching would be better for me. They are discouraging
             | that.
        
           | eigengrau5150 wrote:
           | Little clue: there is no "next nevel" when you're working to
           | realize some other asshole's dream. The "next level" is more
           | of the same, with a small pay raise and a more prestigious
           | title if you're lucky.
           | 
           | If you want to do something meaningful with your life, stop
           | making rich assholes even richer and get the fuckers to
           | invest in _you_ so you can realize your own dream.
           | 
           | Be a fuckin' entrepreneur instead of some entrepreneur's
           | flunky.
        
             | giantg2 wrote:
             | Too risky. I have a family to support.
        
               | icedchai wrote:
               | I've seen entrepreneurship go wrong and become just
               | another thing tying you down. You're beholden to
               | investors, customers, and vendors. And also employees,
               | complaining about bounced or late paychecks.
        
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       | throwaway888abc wrote:
       | Remember why you started.
       | 
       | If the situation/conditions are different now and you are not
       | happy or your expectations are not fulfilling: Time for change ?
        
         | giantg2 wrote:
         | I'm not happy, but I don't think another position would make me
         | any happier.
        
       | themodelplumber wrote:
       | Sorry to hear about it...
       | 
       | Motivation is an unfortunately difficult placeholder word when a
       | lot of other words and descriptions could work better. Could it
       | be that your preferred perspectives and roles are blocked by
       | others at work, and your ability to believe in a good outcome is
       | compromised? Just as one example. In this case it might help to
       | reframe your role and your tools, in a way that still fits your
       | skills. In this way, differing descriptions of the problem can
       | sometimes offer new leverage.
       | 
       | Same with "boring". Can your perspective on boredom be described
       | in a different way that highlights solutions that weren't on the
       | table before? I have one friend who finds a lack of ideation
       | boring, because he's a conceptualizer. I have another friend who
       | finds a lack of physical stimulation boring.
       | 
       | And we would need to know, are you only temporarily comfortable
       | ruling options out before trying them, and are you eventually
       | going to feel more willing to allow for random unknowns and
       | outside possibilities and try them? In such a case we could put
       | switching jobs externally and internally both back on the mood
       | board, which at least gives you more local control over the
       | general process.
       | 
       | There's a lot of ground to cover but I hope you find yourself
       | getting some good ideas as you ask around. Good luck and may you
       | find yourself in an awesome new work situation.
        
         | giantg2 wrote:
         | I definitely don't believe in good outcomes. I don't think
         | performance is rewarded, and the next level is unobtainable.
         | The systems only get more complex and unstable. The company has
         | been making a string of decisions that have a negative impact
         | on employees too.
         | 
         | I'm a midlevel application engineer mostly maintaining systems
         | that move data from a legacy system into a cloud system.
         | There's a high level of context switching and constant PRD
         | support issues. It's a terrible environment for me, yet most
         | other postings don't seem any better.
         | 
         | I haven't completely ruled out internal or external moves, but
         | I'm tired of people saying "just leave". I have posted to a
         | couple internal and external roles, but didn't get them (not
         | enough "real" Android experience). I have some professional and
         | personal things that limit some of my choices and can make the
         | switch difficult/risky.
         | 
         | I am a conceptualizer. I do think it's a lack of ideation, or
         | that the even when new ideas are presented they aren't pursued.
         | I think I'd love a job as an architect, but that's unobtainable
         | from my current level.
        
           | 908B64B197 wrote:
           | > I'm a midlevel application engineer mostly maintaining
           | systems that move data from a legacy system into a cloud
           | system.
           | 
           | The real question is: Are you working for a tech company or a
           | regular business that "happens to do tech".
           | 
           | If the latter, it's time to jump ship.
        
             | the_only_law wrote:
             | FWIW I was very surprised to learn that the former will
             | have little interest in you if you're entrenched in the
             | latter.
             | 
             | Or so it seems.
        
             | giantg2 wrote:
             | IT is a cost center here
        
           | the_only_law wrote:
           | > I think I'd love a job as an architect, but that's
           | unobtainable from my current level.
           | 
           | I've thought this for years, given how many crazy things I've
           | designed and architected in my head, but never built.
           | 
           | But just as I found out with programming, I have a feeling
           | it's a lot more boring when applied to "real world" problems.
        
           | themodelplumber wrote:
           | God, you reminded me what an energy drain it was to be in
           | such a situation. I hear you there. I hope you'll take good
           | care of yourself in your daily routines while you get this
           | bigger-picture issue sorted.
           | 
           | > I think I'd love a job as an architect, but that's
           | unobtainable from my current level.
           | 
           | You do seem like the exact kind of person who would benefit
           | from using an architect's tools and perspectives. Fortunately
           | being big-picture tools in large part, they are very readily
           | adaptable to any process you want.
           | 
           | IDEO design interviews and videos on YT, and lectures on
           | systems thinking are sometimes a fun way to rekindle this
           | type of mindset for problem-solving purposes.
           | 
           | (An open-ended, architectural process of designing the system
           | that will get you into your next fulfilling position? Not
           | everybody can do that, but based on what you wrote, you'd go
           | to the front of my line...)
        
             | giantg2 wrote:
             | Thanks!
             | 
             | "An open-ended, architectural process of designing the
             | system that will get you into your next fulfilling
             | position?"
             | 
             | It's certainly a challenging task. There are some
             | significant constraints in my situation. I'm tempted to
             | just not care, let them eventually fire me, and find a low
             | stress job like working at Lowe's. It's boring but the
             | expectations at $11/hr f you money at the opposite end of
             | the spectrum (as in you don't pay me enough to care).
        
               | themodelplumber wrote:
               | yw. The temptation makes sense to me. I know a lot of
               | people who have done something similar.
               | 
               | I remember one who was a top salesman at a solar company,
               | but totally burnt out. He had four custom houses in
               | locations around the world; he sold them all & narrowed
               | down his possessions into a single carry-on. Broke up
               | with his GF and poof, his new interim life had started.
               | 
               | He jumped around to a few different positions (f-u-style)
               | before eventually re-anchoring.
               | 
               | In a lot of cases this is something like a personal
               | transformation process, as well, or can be described as
               | such...
        
       | otikik wrote:
       | You sound like you might be burned out. If that's a possibility,
       | my advice for you would be: get some professional help. A lot of
       | psychologists offer a free first session. Take one.
       | 
       | If you don't want to do that, I would advise concentrating on
       | improving everything that isn't your job instead.
       | 
       | Spend quality time with you r family. Exercise regularly. Eat
       | healthy. Reconnect with old friends, or make new ones. Do some
       | creative hobby from time to time. Sleep enough hours.
       | 
       | Those things compound. It will be much easier to endure those
       | boring tasks at work if the rest of your life is enjoyable.
       | 
       | And you might find it easier to find a different job once you're
       | have a more positive mindset.
       | 
       | The worst that can happen is that you feel better and your work
       | situation doesn't change.
        
       | randycupertino wrote:
       | This is bad advice, so don't do this, but here's what I do when I
       | have a big project to tackle and want to work through it: I
       | basically bribe myself with snacks or other stuff I like. Two
       | more hours and I'll go make a peppermint tea with honey and
       | lemon. Four hours in, I'll sit with legs up the wall in yoga
       | pose. Six hours have some gummy bears. Etc etc.
       | 
       | It's not a good practice for all-encompassing stuff like the job
       | overall, but for specific dreaded projects it tends to work well!
       | 
       | The other thing you might like to check out is Cal Newport's book
       | "So Good They Can't Ignore You." His premise is basically that
       | all jobs suck and are just jobs, and how you train yourself to
       | "enjoy" them is to become the expert at the processes and things
       | you do and do them so well that you end up enjoying the work for
       | the sheer satisfaction of it. I don't know if I'm explaining that
       | part well but basically you kind of learn to enjoy the
       | frustration parts by learning to master them.
       | 
       | When all else fails, become friends with your coworkers and now
       | you have friends at work to bond with and that makes it
       | enjoyable!
        
         | the_only_law wrote:
         | > His premise is basically that all jobs suck and are just
         | jobs, and how you train yourself to "enjoy" them
         | 
         | Sure, all jobs suck, but I'd be a hell of a lot more content in
         | some, than others.
        
         | giantg2 wrote:
         | "become the expert at the processes and things you do and do
         | them so well that you end up enjoying the work for the sheer
         | satisfaction of it."
         | 
         | I've hit this before. The environment on this current team
         | doesn't really allow me to become an expert. I'll add that book
         | to my list though. Thanks!
        
           | randycupertino wrote:
           | It's sort of a mindfuck almost because at least when I did it
           | myself for the #1 thing I had to master at work it was sort
           | of a "hate it so much you love it" situation. It was budgets.
           | So I hyped myself up so much to tackle the damn budget that
           | in some weird twisted way I started enjoying doing it and now
           | it's like, "AHHHH HAAAA I WILL CRUSH YOU" when budget
           | projections come up. Although truth be told I still loathe
           | doing it, I just make such a big dumb "thing" over it in my
           | head that I enjoy it more for the stupidity and theatrics.
           | The second you finish it, they change it! Wahoo! Lol.
        
       | halfjoking wrote:
       | Spite has been a great motivator for me lately. Be like Michael
       | Jordan and take it personal:
       | 
       | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ss5Ndz0tn9o
       | 
       | Then do the bare minimum as quickly as possible so you have time
       | to plan and do what's necessary to change your situation.
        
         | giantg2 wrote:
         | I did that one year. Got a needs improvement rating for
         | political reasons. Thought I'd just kick ass the next year and
         | get the highest rating. Nope. They don't follow their own rules
         | so I can't spite them within the constraints of the system they
         | run.
        
       | pmdulaney wrote:
       | If you happen to be a Christian I recommend _Spiritual
       | Depression_ by David Martyn Lloyd-Jones. Addresses many of the
       | reasons people get in a funk or a rut.
        
         | giantg2 wrote:
         | I might check that out. This lack of motivation is really just
         | around work and not other aspects of life.
        
       | jstummbillig wrote:
       | > Also, switching jobs [...] externally doesn't seem to be a
       | likely option
       | 
       | Why is that?
        
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