[HN Gopher] How to permanently delete your Facebook account
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       How to permanently delete your Facebook account
        
       Author : gigama
       Score  : 602 points
       Date   : 2021-10-06 09:28 UTC (13 hours ago)
        
 (HTM) web link (www.facebook.com)
 (TXT) w3m dump (www.facebook.com)
        
       | streamofdigits wrote:
       | In many parts of Europe Whatsapp is _physically embedded_ in the
       | landscape (in neighborhood signs of community  "watch" groups).
       | 
       | People have sleepwalked into a nightmare and nobody is really
       | honest enough to admit it. Banana republics pretending their are
       | sophisticated and caring societies.
        
       | MrDresden wrote:
       | I thoroughly oppose the idea that to be able to have meaningful
       | human relationships, I need to subscribe to a walled garden run
       | by a profit hungry private entity with an extremely bad track
       | record of handling privacy, security and ethics.
       | 
       | I exited their whole ecosystem 2 years ago. Never found the urge
       | to go back.
       | 
       | Leaving all of the fake-ery of Instagram and noise of Facebook
       | behind has improved my day to day life immensely.
       | 
       | Many of my Whatsapp contacts had already begun to move to Signal
       | so that helped. Some of the rest I talk to through Twitter. With
       | the viable rest I call or use sms.
       | 
       | A lot of them I just let go (were dead relationships already).
        
       | pcmoney wrote:
       | When I did it in 2016 I wrote a small script to undo every
       | activity I had ever done. Then I deleted it. Also changed the
       | password to a max length so it was impossible to login for the
       | 30days.
        
       | stevecat wrote:
       | Something seems to remain on their servers though.
       | 
       | I own a very short gmail.com address which I'm (far too) proud of
       | but it does receive a lot of other people's mail; there are
       | apparently a lot of people called Steve who don't understand how
       | email addresses work.
       | 
       | Someone created and then permanently deleted a Facebook account
       | with my address. Which has permanently locked me out of ever
       | using my email address with Facebook (they block +alias addresses
       | and gmail/googlemail.com too). I use Facebook casually to keep in
       | touch with family/friends and have had to keep an old email
       | account alive just for it. Facebook support are no help.
       | 
       | /rant
        
       | yawaworht1978 wrote:
       | The best options are: - never sign up in the first place - give
       | entirely fake data, as much as possible - change data to rubbish
       | data afterward - just never log in again, I am pretty sure
       | dormant accounts are the worst, nothing to collect, nothing to
       | track, no ads can be placed there in a meaningful way.
       | 
       | A dormant account with rubbish data is the best way to hinder
       | their profits.
        
       | roydivision wrote:
       | Most of the time tech companies have their fans and detractors.
       | In virtually any discussion about tech companies, you'll find
       | people for the company in question, and others against, Apple and
       | Google are great examples.
       | 
       | I find it interesting that I don't think I've ever come across
       | any discussion about Facebook (and I read a lot of them) where
       | anyone is defending them. Either people are strongly against the
       | company, or at most they admit grudgingly that they do use
       | Facebook services because everyone else they know uses it.
       | 
       | The only people I ever hear championing Facebook are Zuckerberg
       | and other top management.
       | 
       | I don't have a Facebook account, so possibly all the positive
       | discussion is on Facebook itself and I'm not seeing it.
        
         | antihero wrote:
         | I would imagine that the proponents of Facebook are the huge
         | _huge_ amounts of people who are less technologically savvy,
         | don 't really give two shits about privacy surrounding data
         | they perceive to given up willingly, and aren't really involved
         | in any sort of discourse.
         | 
         | However, they absolutely love the fact that they've been able
         | to keep in contact with family, old friends, and see the value
         | of the human connection they are able to get through Facebook
         | as far greater than the negatives.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | dougmwne wrote:
         | I'll step into that role then. I am a member of some Facebook
         | groups that have been hugely helpful on a personal level. The
         | community page software may not be perfect, but it is
         | accessible and can bring together a really heterogeneous user
         | base with diverse perspectives, much more so than Reddit. The
         | groups pages are entirely separate from the toxic feed. I would
         | be absolutely bummed if they were to blink out of existence.
        
           | simpss wrote:
           | As a counter point to this. Facebook has (tried and mostly
           | succeeded) to replace community forums that used to be either
           | public or with open registration and without the negative
           | effects of facebook.
           | 
           | Stuff that's running phpbb or other similar software.
        
           | asdff wrote:
           | I was bummed too when fb blinked my community ran forums out
           | of existence
        
         | TomSwirly wrote:
         | I am unfortunately still on Facebook - I moved to another
         | continent in the last few years and it's the only way to keep
         | track of people.
         | 
         | At least from my friends, everyone hates it, left, center and
         | right-wing alike.
        
         | hdhdbid wrote:
         | At least in my opinion for this on HN, you get downvoted very
         | quickly on HN to have such an opinion.
         | 
         | I work for FAANG. I generally dont comment on HN but recently I
         | read every thread about FAANG to have a thread that read like
         | you should be ashamed to work there. I replied, Even before i
         | worked there, I used their products to keep in touch woth my
         | family/friends, at a startup I worked at we used open source
         | tech from these companies, I also have always benefited from
         | owning the stock in my retirement account via index funds. So
         | why is it that working for the company is not ok but being a
         | consumer, investor etc ok. And also asked if there's an
         | acceptable list of companies to work at without moral
         | judgements. Pointed out that people have strong feelings about
         | big tech, big pharma, big oil etc etc. As you'd imagine, I was
         | downvoted pretty soon and you realize trying to convince a
         | stranger on the internet is pointless and gains you nothing.
        
           | hncurious wrote:
           | A lot of people on HN downvote for disagreement, which I
           | think creates a chilling effect, reinforces groupthink and
           | results in a warped view of reality. For what it's worth, I
           | try to balance that out by upvoting gray'd out comments that
           | are sincere or well argued regardless of whether I personally
           | agree with the statement or not. One of the things I
           | appreciate about HN is seeing positions that challenge my
           | existing ideas.
        
           | ploum wrote:
           | The fact is that working for a company is investing a lot of
           | your time and energy to make this company more powerful.
           | 
           | Your work count. Really.
           | 
           | So your work should be as much as possible aligned with your
           | moral values. Lot of people blind themselves with the salary
           | and weak justification. I find that complete hypocrisy.
           | 
           | Now, is the company you are working for aligned with your own
           | moral values?
           | 
           | Only you can answer that ;-)
        
             | hdhdbid1 wrote:
             | Its funny, lot of the responses for this thread are
             | investing my retirement money and profiting off it is fine,
             | using products/services of such companies is fine, but
             | working there, that's where I draw the line, that's just
             | morally wrong. Its a lot of I'll draw the line where I want
             | to and belittle others who do it differently.
        
               | asdff wrote:
               | It's not like people are going to their broker and saying
               | "buy facebook" then going online and saying "ban
               | facebook." Most people probably have no clue that their
               | retirement indexes include like 1% facebook stock in the
               | mix. With the way retirement funds are set up in this
               | country you really don't have much choice in the
               | investment mix unless you are savvy and with time on your
               | hands to study and pick your own horses.
               | 
               | Using another example, I'm against war and violence too,
               | but that doesn't make me a hypocrite for paying taxes
               | that go on to buy bombs, and paying taxes that fund war
               | is just not the same thing at all as me working for
               | Blackwater directly.
        
               | naivsdaya wrote:
               | Ok, let's agree that some of us have a moral position
               | against x and are benefiting financially from x but are
               | too busy or too ignorant to do anything about it.
               | 
               | And, lets also agree that being employed a company is
               | bad, the argument still seems to breakdown soon enough.
               | Generally, the engineers are to blame because they make
               | enough money and could choose other options, but not
               | others capacities of employment e.g. a driver, cleaning
               | staff, cook at one of their food courts etc. at the same
               | company. They could've found other options too if they
               | really wanted. Should a person making minimum wage now
               | look into a company and its moral decisions in the
               | past/present before taking up a job. Generally seems to
               | come down to, oh its wrong but beyond a $ amount (an
               | arbitrary line I just drew for myself), which just seems
               | a very inconsistent moral position to me. Well, if you
               | still think its a reasonable position to say its wrong
               | but when the benefit you reap is > $x, can one of you
               | tell me above what $ amount do the moral values apply?
        
               | asdff wrote:
               | I mean, I wouldn't work minimum wage for a company like
               | this either. There is no shortage of job opportunities
               | these days at the bottom level what with most every
               | business having staffing issues.
        
               | circlefavshape wrote:
               | How about working there and doing a bad job? Is that a
               | moral postion?
        
               | hetspookjee wrote:
               | Well I think there's quite the difference any. A regular
               | user of Facebook is worth roughly tens of euros. But
               | working there rewards you with a salary that's easily
               | upwards of 200k. Given that they're not losing money if
               | you, you could consider yourself as one of the few power
               | users around by providing a value to evil corp north of
               | your salary. So I think you can definitely differentiate
               | between a regular user contributing 50euro of value, or
               | contributing >200k of value. Making numbers up here but
               | suffice to say you're talking about an order of
               | difference north of 100x. Definitely something to think
               | about I reckon, and definitely something reasonable to
               | draw the line at. Imagine hyping the evil corp and adding
               | 100+ users would equate to a year of working there,
               | roughly.
        
               | naivsdaya wrote:
               | So it is morally wrong but only above a $ amount? :)
               | 
               | Anyway, the irony is interesting, some people on HN
               | unable to control the urge to tell a stranger on the
               | internet that he/she is morally inferior without
               | considering how it makes them feel, while blaming another
               | platform for similar effects and how it negatively
               | impacts people.
        
               | hetspookjee wrote:
               | No, you argued that people draw an arbitrary line
               | regarding morals when working for evil corp vs consuming.
               | I tried to indicate to you why that line isn't so
               | arbitrary as it indicates a factor of x100, or whatever
               | exact number it is that is many times larger.
        
           | wintermutestwin wrote:
           | FWIW, I own stock in a lot of companies that are net-
           | negatives for society directly and through index funds. When
           | these companies succeed in the market I get a consolation
           | prize.
           | 
           | In our modern market, I don't believe that my owning FB stock
           | is contributing to their success. If I were to work for them
           | I would be.
        
           | devilduck wrote:
           | People on HN do not influence anything significant
        
         | jasode wrote:
         | _> I don't have a Facebook account, so possibly all the
         | positive discussion is on Facebook itself and I'm not seeing
         | it._
         | 
         | We don't like to admit it but the HN demographic is a self-
         | reinforcing "filter bubble" on some topics such as Facebook,
         | Uber, Apple. Outside of HN, almost all non-techies I interact
         | with don't complain about them.
         | 
         | I remember seeing a lady's gardening channel on Youtube and
         | wondered how she got so many lucrative sponsorships since her
         | subscriber count and view counts seemed too low. I later
         | learned it's because _the majority of her gardening fans '
         | interactions and video views actually come from Facebook and
         | not Youtube_. Same for demographic of sewers for quilts &
         | clothes.
         | 
         | So the Venn Diagram with one circle being female
         | gardeners/sewers and the other circle being HN commenters have
         | virtually no overlap. Hence we're in a filter bubble. The
         | gardeners/sewers aren't complaining about Facebook because it's
         | a positive in their lives and HN commenters never see that. I
         | also read somewhere that Pinterest and Instagram are also more
         | heavily skewed towards females.
         | 
         | (Because I don't have a Facebook account and got a lot of my
         | info about FB from HN, it made me ignorant of the various
         | communities that use FB in positive ways. I often wonder what
         | other ways HN distorts my views that I'm totally unaware of.)
        
           | treesknees wrote:
           | Outside of our bubble I don't see complaints about the
           | company itself, but complaints about the product and content.
           | 
           | It seems nobody is very happy with Facebook. I have family
           | members who will always agree that Facebook is full of
           | uninformed opinions and everyone always seems to be
           | disagreeing/arguing and it's full of complaining and
           | political posts. And yet people continue to use it.
        
             | asdff wrote:
             | > And yet people continue to use it.
             | 
             | In my experience the people complaining about the junk
             | content on facebook have checked out from using facebook
             | very much years ago. Among my millenial peers at least
             | engagement across all social networks has dropped like a
             | stone. FB just exists to dump wedding photos now.
        
       | aritmo wrote:
       | I do not understand what is the fuss about deleting your Facebook
       | account.
       | 
       | 1. Create a VPS 2. Install one of those Facebook scraping tools
       | 3. Use your account credentials and start scraping. 4, Facebook
       | will freak out, lock you out and ask for passport and ID cards.
       | Do not provide any.
       | 
       | During their next account purge, they will remove your account.
        
         | gambiting wrote:
         | Or....just click throught the form few times and have it
         | deleted this way, what's the big deal?
        
       | fxtentacle wrote:
       | I like how "deactivate account" still keeps Facebook Messenger
       | fully enabled and all of your posts remain online. That's
       | probably so that your friends can ask you why you deactivated
       | your account ;)
        
         | [deleted]
        
       | cyberpsybin wrote:
       | Unpopular opinion: Facebook is quite decent and gives sufficient
       | controls over privacy to its users. Google on other hand is
       | horrendous.
        
         | pmlnr wrote:
         | > sufficient controls over privacy to its users
         | 
         | He? By how, showing a cookie window in EU and not even
         | respecting the settings in there?
        
           | stevecat wrote:
           | The privacy controls in-app are pretty good with regards to
           | who you share your posts with, etc. but I don't think that's
           | the same type of privacy that causes people to leave.
        
             | cascom wrote:
             | I think of that more as visibility than privacy.
        
         | micromacrofoot wrote:
         | You're talking about privacy from other users, generally when
         | people refer to privacy problems and Facebook it's about
         | privacy from Facebook (most people have none).
        
         | nobody9999 wrote:
         | >Unpopular opinion: Facebook is quite decent and gives
         | sufficient controls over privacy to its users. Google on other
         | hand is horrendous.
         | 
         | I'm not concerned about which "friends" can see my posts, it's
         | the _platform_ hoovering up every keystroke.
         | 
         | Which in-app privacy controls can stop that?
        
       | kosasbest wrote:
       | Had to temporarily whitelist the page and turn on JS to view
       | (there wasn't even a <noscript> message saying I needed JS). Then
       | since I am in Spain, I got a bunch of Spanish, when I'm an
       | English speaker. This is bad UX. I expected better from FB.
        
         | kevmo wrote:
         | This is intentional.
         | 
         | They don't want you to be able to do this, so they make pages
         | unusable.
         | 
         | I tried to delink Facebook and Instagram recently. They make
         | you re-sign into FB via Insta... and it refused to sign me in
         | (I was 100% using the correct password and tried many times).
         | The sign-in just kept failing, until I was like "This is
         | intentional, and Facebook will not let me de-link the apps."
         | and gave up.
         | 
         | Really time for the FTC and DOJ to take Facebook all the way to
         | trial for this sort of stuff. No more settlements!
        
       | bserge wrote:
       | Their definition of taking a break is strange. Just don't visit
       | Facebook lol
       | 
       | Also, are they still doing the shadow profiles thing where they
       | create "accounts" for your name in order to entice other people
       | to join Facebook? And if _you_ join, people you might know are
       | conveniently already waiting for you. That always seemed shady as
       | hell.
        
         | oldie wrote:
         | As far as I know, they are. And, since I don't have a Facebook
         | account, I can't find a way to submit a GDPR subject access
         | request.
        
         | shapefrog wrote:
         | Many moons ago I purged everything I could, left a generic
         | profile picture and barely logged in since. That way I 'own' my
         | shadow profile and it is harder for someone to pretend to be me
         | via a facebook account (I operate a 'plant your flag' policy
         | for security as much as anything else on these public
         | platforms).
         | 
         | Nobody is holding a gun to your head to log back in to the
         | account any time soon. I think the last time I actually did log
         | in was > 12 months ago.
        
         | maxehmookau wrote:
         | It's the same language used by gambling companies. "Take a
         | break" rather than "Break your cycle of addiction by leaving us
         | for good".
         | 
         | Not entirely surprising.
        
           | mrits wrote:
           | You don't defeat alcoholism by giving up a type of liquor.
           | You can't quit Vodka and switch to Tequila and expect to have
           | a different experience. Quitting Facebook/Instagram hurts FB
           | but doesn't do much to help yourself when you do the same
           | things on TikTok.
        
         | markx2 wrote:
         | You don't need to visit facebook, you just need to visit a page
         | that has their script embedded.
         | 
         | nextdns.io does a good job of blocking facebook. They base
         | their block on https://github.com/jmdugan/blocklists which has
         | this list
         | https://github.com/jmdugan/blocklists/blob/master/corporatio...
        
           | tremon wrote:
           | That blocklist is very narrow, I would suggest using
           | https://www.github.developerdan.com/hosts/lists/facebook-
           | ext... instead.
           | 
           | Or just use this RPZ policy (add *.<domain> wildcard entries
           | as well, omitted for brevity):                 instagram.com.
           | *.       cdninstagram.com. *.       messenger.com. *.
           | facebook.com. *.       fbcdn.com. *.       fbcdn.net. *.
           | fb.com. *.       fb.me. *.
        
             | hetspookjee wrote:
             | So through the downtime of Facebook I learned they have
             | their own registrar which makes it, I think, a lot easier
             | to figure out all domains related to that registrar and
             | simply black list any and all domains hosted on that
             | registrar? Than you know for sure that even a typo page
             | won't be tracking you. I just don't know how to find all
             | domains related to a given registrar and if that is even
             | possible.
        
       | heurisko wrote:
       | My experience deleting Facebook has been strange. Maybe I didn't
       | do it right, but I have continued to receive "sign in with
       | 1-click" emails, and at one time I was notified somewhat
       | disconcertingly that someone had memorialised me.
       | 
       | I don't find a problem with WhatsApp.
        
       | cblackthornekc wrote:
       | I did this a year or so ago. I knew it was complete when I got an
       | email from Paypal saying my Facebook account was unlinked. Funny
       | thing...I don't remember linking my Paypal account.
        
       | bborud wrote:
       | I think it should be a legal requirement that users are able to
       | configure retention of their data. For instance that any content
       | you post will only be retained for N number of weeks/
       | months/years. And that social media platforms over a certain size
       | have to agree to auditing to ensure that this data is actually
       | deleted.
        
         | quaintdev wrote:
         | This argument is flawed. How can you be sure if the policy is
         | enforced at back-end?
         | 
         | The better way is to create a solution where users have control
         | over data and the apps interact with data. This should have
         | been the model from the beginning but now I guess it will never
         | happen. Even if someone successfully implements this it will be
         | just as hard IPv6 to adopt if not more.
        
           | bborud wrote:
           | Audits.
           | 
           | (And yes, I've worked for companies that deal with lots of
           | data that has strict retention limits by law, and oh boy were
           | there audits and oh boy are you in trouble if/when you screw
           | up)
           | 
           | As for your proposed solution: I don't think I understand
           | what you mean. Could you expand on it?
        
             | quaintdev wrote:
             | True audits are really good way to keep companies in check
             | but what about a company like TikTok or companies in other
             | countries where you are not sure if the audits are not
             | compromised.
             | 
             | Regarding the solution I was talking about check out Solid
             | by Tim Berners Lee
        
         | dotancohen wrote:
         | As someone who implements these types of requirements, this
         | suggestion just adds complexity where none is needed. In the
         | software, and the database, and the backup strategy, and for
         | the average user. Complexity requires time, money, and
         | introduces bugs and user error.
         | 
         | Right now we are required by law to remove user data upon
         | request (Europe). That law is strong enough to cover those who
         | need it.
        
           | bborud wrote:
           | Are you suggesting that not inconveniencing developers is
           | more important than a right to privacy? I'd have to disagree
           | with you if this is the case.
           | 
           | I've worked both for companies that fall under extra scrutiny
           | by government due to market position and for companies that
           | deal with data that has strict retention limits. Yes, it
           | increases complexity, but the laws that seek to protect
           | people's privacy are far more important than any
           | inconvenience to companies.
           | 
           | (And yes: in both cases there were regular audits and any
           | lack of compliance had very real consequences)
        
             | dotancohen wrote:
             | > Are you suggesting that not inconveniencing developers
             | > is more important than a right to privacy?
             | 
             | I would very much appreciate if you could show me which of
             | my words led you to that conclusion. Thank you.
        
           | Zy-Zario wrote:
           | Actually, Telegram already does that. Similar to how your
           | gmail account is automatically deleted after a certain time.
        
           | sleepyhead wrote:
           | Actually GDPR requires you to delete data when no longer
           | needed. How long data is needed depends on what type of data
           | it is. For example financial transactions are covered by
           | other laws to be kept for certain amount of time. If data is
           | linked to a survey that is completed then, by law, that data
           | is no longer needed and should be deleted. How long should
           | photo likes and comments be kept? I don't think there are
           | good guidelines or judgements regarding this but it is
           | nevertheless something to take into consideration and in most
           | cases delete data based on age.
        
         | [deleted]
        
       | arkh wrote:
       | So here is an idea about deleting accounts. Usually people may
       | want to undo it sometime but if it's deleted it is deleted.
       | 
       | One of the things required by the GDPR is a way to export your
       | data and even import it (article 20, right to portability). So
       | you should implement a way to do that.
       | 
       | Then when users ask to delete their account, create an export,
       | encrypt it with a one-time use key which you mail to the user,
       | store this encrypted dump and remove the rest of the data. Now if
       | the deletion was an error the user can get their key in their
       | email and get their account reinstated. And no one in your
       | company can access the data in the meantime.
        
         | ghego1 wrote:
         | Technically very smart solution, but legally way too risky.
         | 
         | If there's ever a breach, for example someone steals the key
         | and then accesses the data, the fine will be super high given
         | that the company has retrained data after the user asked to
         | delete it.
         | 
         | To mitigate such risk, the company would at least need explicit
         | consent of the user, at which point it's just as simply asking
         | the user to not really delete their account.
         | 
         | A viable option, legally speaking, could be to send the dump to
         | the user, in a way that can be easily imported back if the user
         | ever wants to login again.
        
           | arkh wrote:
           | > for example someone steals the key and then accesses the
           | data
           | 
           | It was why I schemed it so the key is sent to the user but
           | not kept by you. Someone steals the user key? They can ask
           | for a restore but they won't have access to the data unless
           | they've got the user login info too. An employee steals the
           | encrypted data? Enjoy the time spent cracking the
           | cryptography.
           | 
           | A little like one of the solutions for deletion in Event
           | Sourced systems but instead of completely losing the keys,
           | you give it to the user first.
        
       | cotton-cho wrote:
       | I deleted my Facebook account straight after the Cambridge
       | Analytica scandal. Now I just have a fake one as I got an Oculus
       | for my birthday and I also use Facebook to access the Marketplace
       | as Kijiji and Craigslist are sometimes really dry in my area as
       | most people use FB market.
        
       | willis936 wrote:
       | Deleting social media accounts is a bad idea. You should squat
       | them and never log in.
        
         | acwan93 wrote:
         | I was going to write this. It's a way to prevent online
         | identity theft, to avoid someone impersonating you online.
         | 
         | I kept my social media accounts even though I stopped using
         | them. If someone ever impersonates me, I can use these inactive
         | accounts to say those are definitely mine.
        
           | tdrdt wrote:
           | It doesn't prevent identify theft. Someone can still create
           | an account using your name.
        
             | willis936 wrote:
             | But no one can make you remove connections from an existing
             | social media account.
        
       | 0x_rs wrote:
       | I wish there was a way to do so without having to ask people you
       | haven't seen or met for more than a decade (if they can even
       | still access) to verify that it is indeed you trying to access
       | with the same mail an account that's been sitting for way too
       | long still. I understand the possible risk and inconvenience, but
       | I can't be alone being struck with an account like that. Hell,
       | I'm too afraid to even see if it's public and visible now, since
       | the last time I tried to delete it (for the fourth of fifth time,
       | because spammers kept turning it back on by trying to login years
       | ago, I presume) it kicked me out before I could accept the new
       | ToS. I haven't received any responses on my queries to provide a
       | contact for GDPR requests that isn't a blackhole, also. I should
       | probably just try sending one at the disabled accounts address
       | too.
        
         | martin_a wrote:
         | Well, I think you've done everything you can. The GDPR requires
         | a response from the data handler in a timely manner. If
         | Facebook fails to do so, for whatever reason, you're free to
         | contact your privacy/data regulation authorities.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | _ttg wrote:
       | Faster shortcuts:
       | 
       | https://deletefacebook.com/
       | 
       | https://deleteinstagram.com/
       | 
       | It's probably by design, but from experience most people will
       | need non-trivial discipline/hacks to get around the 30 day window
       | and avoid reflexively logging in. Would be curious to know how
       | many people who try deleting their accounts follow through to the
       | end
        
         | jcims wrote:
         | If folks can't go cold turkey I'd suggest unfollowing everyone
         | first. It makes the site much more useful _and_ easier to quit.
        
           | abyssin wrote:
           | This was the trick that made it possible for me to stop being
           | addicted to Facebook. You don't have to fight the urge to
           | load the app. You get a strange sense of satisfaction from
           | slowly unfollowing everything. And the more you unfollow, the
           | less what you're shown is interesting. You retrain your brain
           | by getting less and less dopamine hits from the action you
           | couldn't control. Then a day comes where you load the app and
           | there'a simply nothing to see.
        
         | bennyp101 wrote:
         | I deleted mine 3 or 4 years ago, and I did end up logging in a
         | couple of times during that 30 day window - "Oh, I'll just have
         | a quick look at those wedding photos" or "I want to go on that
         | trip so I best keep it logged in for that" kind of thing -
         | purely instinctive at the time to find that info.
         | 
         | I imagine if you are hooked on the whole 'social interaction'
         | thing, the 30 day sliding window is ... unhelpful.
        
         | jb1991 wrote:
         | I deleted mine 2 years ago, and definitely followed through on
         | it. Once it was done, it was absolutely zero problem to have it
         | out of my life. The only thing I'm curious about though, is
         | what would happen if I try to login again. I'm terrified to
         | even try, for fear that somehow it wasn't actually deleted even
         | though that's exactly what I did.
         | 
         | Update: I decided to finally try logging in and thankfully it
         | said it could not locate an account under my email. So I guess
         | that's a good thing. I do wonder if it triggered something else
         | though, just by my trying to login.
        
           | DownGoat wrote:
           | If your email has ever appeared in any breaches, your account
           | probably has had many login attempts.
        
             | jb1991 wrote:
             | Yes, but were those other login attempts using the actual
             | password that was correct when my account was active? I'm
             | probably just being paranoid... of _course_ FB deleted my
             | account and all its details.
        
       | haunter wrote:
       | The irony here that it's harder to delete your HN account and all
       | your comments
        
         | raxxorrax wrote:
         | HN has anonymous accounts and personally identifiable
         | information can be hidden or removed by the user, which to me
         | has the same effect. HN complains to me that I cannot reset my
         | pwd if I ever forget it because I didn't even share my mail.
         | 
         | People often claim anonymous platforms are doomed to fail but I
         | think social media is the main problem currently.
        
           | asdff wrote:
           | >removed by the user
           | 
           | Only within a certain timeframe. Unlike reddit eventually
           | your comments are no longer deletable or editable by you, and
           | you have to email the webmaster in this case to ask for an
           | old comment to be manually deleted, its not even an automated
           | mechanism.
        
           | mattowen_uk wrote:
           | I changed my HN username earlier this year for _reasons_.
           | 
           | However if you search HN via the Algolia search link at the
           | bottom of this page, you can still find my old posts under my
           | old username.
           | 
           | Not to mention the 1,000s of self-hosted HN scrapers out
           | there.
        
             | fossuser wrote:
             | You can email dang and they'll work with you depending on
             | what privacy stuff you need, but yeah it's a manual
             | process.
             | 
             | People have changed the users on old comments they no
             | longer want associated with themselves and such. There was
             | discussion a while back about it (I haven't taken advantage
             | of this myself).
        
         | dahart wrote:
         | Is it harder, are you sure? There isn't a button, but HN also
         | doesn't try to talk you out of it.
         | 
         | Unlike Facebook, Hacker News has no Personally Identifiable
         | Information on you, didn't ask for any, and isn't trying to
         | gather any. Email address might be the lone exception, but you
         | can use any throwaway email you want. So you might have chosen
         | to share some, but other than email, HN has no way to index it
         | or even know that it's personal to you. There's no network, no
         | photos, no credit cards. There are no ads that HN is selling
         | your PII to. Unlike FB, HN doesn't do any EU specific business
         | or target EU residents in any way, so combined with the
         | complete lack of PII, it's very likely GDPR does not apply to
         | HN. Comments aren't enough, they don't act as a catalog of PII.
         | 
         | That said, have you tried emailing HN to see if they'll happily
         | delete your comments? If there was a legitimate problem that
         | you needed to erase, if your identity become known against your
         | will, I'd bet the mods here would be happy to help you.
        
         | wintermutestwin wrote:
         | I wonder at the time limit to edit/delete a comment on HN. I
         | try to think carefully about the things I say and often have a
         | change in heart about saying something long after the change
         | window has expired. Is the logic behind this limit explained
         | anywhere?
        
         | thujlife wrote:
         | you cant
        
           | shapefrog wrote:
           | hence the irony ...
        
       | NabiDev wrote:
       | Just upload some bannable content. That is way faster then
       | regular process.
        
       | swamp-agr wrote:
       | The situation is quite interesting here.
       | 
       | - Imagine, you're living outside of USA/UK/Europe.
       | 
       | - Formally, it's possible to proceed with "Permanently delete my
       | account".
       | 
       | - You will even receive email assuring you that two weeks later
       | profile would be completely deleted.
       | 
       | - Then, couple years later you'll occasionally seen email from
       | facebook that someone tried to log in into your ("permanently
       | deleted") account.
       | 
       | - You'll try to log in, probably restore and change the password
       | among the way.
       | 
       | - And after that you'll be successfully logged in. And the
       | profile's state would be like nothing changes. Nothing.
       | Completely.
       | 
       | - You'll contact Support. Seriously? They'll ignore you.
       | 
       | - Maybe some interaction with 3rd-party websites triggered
       | cancellation of the process, you thought.
       | 
       | - Then, you'll implement blacklist just to avoid any interaction
       | with facebook, something similar to:
       | https://pastebin.com/FAV2f9eA and try to repeat the flow again.
       | 
       | - Then another 2+ years later situation will repeat again. Deja-
       | vu. And again. And again.
       | 
       | There's no way to delete facebook profile if facebook didn't
       | really care about its users.
        
         | c8g wrote:
         | probably you were in a hurry or distressed and didn't read the
         | text while deleting the account and probably, you have disabled
         | your account. They will offer an option to disable account in
         | case you change your mind later. Please stop spreading
         | misinformation.
        
           | swamp-agr wrote:
           | Disagree.
           | 
           | - I explicitly check to avoid any "disabling".
           | 
           | - The only intent was to permanently delete the account.
           | 
           | - You can believe me or not and I did it really careful.
        
             | iforgetti wrote:
             | Move to a European country and Sue there for GDPR
             | violation.
        
               | flipbrad wrote:
               | You don't need to live in the EU/EEA to invoke GDPR
               | rights. Case in point: the UK authority upheld a US
               | resident's GDPR claim against Cambridge Analytica (and
               | yes, Facebook was involved). https://ico.org.uk/about-
               | the-ico/news-and-events/news-and-bl...
        
               | dahart wrote:
               | What do you mean "upheld"? The story in your link
               | describes the company refusing to comply and then ends.
               | It's true that you don't have to be currently living in
               | the EU to invoke your GDPR rights if you're an EU citizen
               | traveling abroad, or if you're a foreign citizen
               | traveling or residing in the EU. GDPR applies to
               | companies that market to people in the EU or do business
               | in the EU. BUT - GDPR is an EU law, it does not apply to
               | US citizens living in the US, which is why the company in
               | your story was legally entitled to refuse to comply.
        
               | flipbrad wrote:
               | You're quite wrong. GDPR _can_ apply to citizens in the
               | US, and the link I posted shows the ICO enforcing it in
               | their favour. SCL Elections Ltd was taken to court and
               | then fined PS15,000 for not complying with that US
               | resident 's request.https://ico.org.uk/about-the-
               | ico/news-and-events/news-and-bl... I expect that US
               | resident could also have brought a civil lawsuit, at
               | least in UK courts, for damages.
               | 
               | The EU and UK GDPRs can also apply to companies in the
               | US, or elsewhere. That's because location of the business
               | (including subsidiaries) OR location of the individuals,
               | are hooks under the GDPR's territoriality tests in
               | Article 3. You usually need one or the other though; the
               | way GDPR Article 3 works, it's pretty hard to imagine it
               | applying to a US-only business in respect of US resident-
               | individuals.
        
               | dahart wrote:
               | Yes it can apply to US citizens in certain cases, I
               | thought I agreed with you on that, did I not? It's still
               | a fact that GDPR does not always (or even normally) apply
               | to US residents doing business with US companies. UK
               | courts have no authority over US companies operating only
               | in the US with US residents who aren't traveling abroad.
               | Cambridge Analytica is a _British_ company, that is why
               | GDPR applies to them. So yes, I was wrong to conclude
               | prematurely based on your link that this example is one
               | where the company was legally entitled to refuse to
               | comply. But the take-home message doesn't change - GDPR
               | doesn't automatically apply to non-EU residents or non-EU
               | companies, unless or until one or both parties has some
               | EU involvement.
        
               | flipbrad wrote:
               | The part I most disagreed with is "GDPR is an EU law, it
               | does not apply to US citizens living in the US". Yes it
               | does, I provided an example. Your follow up is a lot
               | closer to the mark.
        
               | dahart wrote:
               | GDPR is an EU law. It doesn't automatically apply to
               | people in the US. That's the only reason I replied - your
               | original framing left an implied suggestion that it might
               | commonly or by default apply to US citizens, without
               | discussing under what conditions. Arguing that you don't
               | have to be an EU resident leaves the misleading
               | impression that the EU doesn't have to be involved. I
               | think it's important to note that the EU part is required
               | _somewhere_ in the company-customer relationship for GDPR
               | to have any say in the matter, and it's important
               | specifically because this is a common misconception and
               | the misconception is being abused in some cases to coerce
               | compliance where it's not legally required. I know this
               | as a US business owner that gets emails from US companies
               | on behalf of US citizens that are demanding certain
               | actions and rights under GDPR, without a legal basis to
               | do so.
        
               | cutler wrote:
               | Pre- or post-Brexit?
        
               | OJFord wrote:
               | Why would that matter?
               | 
               | Here are the changes: https://assets.publishing.service.g
               | ov.uk/government/uploads/...
               | 
               | Afaik it's entirely administrative, e.g.:
               | 
               | > ~~an adequacy decision by the Commission~~ relevant
               | adequacy regulations under section 17A of the 2018 Act
               | 
               | ('the Commission' being the European Commission, and no
               | longer relevant.)
        
               | TomSwirly wrote:
               | > Why would that matter?
               | 
               | Because since Brexit, the UK is no longer protected by
               | the GDPR.
        
               | OJFord wrote:
               | That is perhaps pedantically true in a way you almost
               | certainly don't mean, that there is no longer 'the GDPR',
               | there is now the EU's GDPR and the UK's GDPR (both using
               | that name) ... but basically false.
               | 
               | As I said above, it was kept with the necessary
               | amendments. That documents title: GDPR - Keeling
               | Schedule. Introductory paragraph:
               | 
               | > This schedule has been prepared by the Department for
               | Digital, Culture, Media and Sport. It is intended for
               | illustrative purposes only to assist the reader in
               | understanding the changes to be made to the retained
               | General Data Protection Regulation by the Data
               | Protection, Privacy and Electronic Communications
               | (Amendments etc)(EU Exit) Regulations 2019 (as amended by
               | the Data Protection, Privacy and Electronic
               | Communications (Amendments etc)(EU Exit) Regulations 2020
               | (subject to Parliamentary approval) when these come into
               | force.
        
               | sbarre wrote:
               | Yes that sounds entirely reasonable and practical.
        
               | Nextgrid wrote:
               | I'm pretty sure you can't "sue" under the GDPR. The best
               | you can do is report them to your country's privacy
               | regulator but so far all of them are absolutely
               | incompetent or unwilling to enforce the regulation.
        
               | TomSwirly wrote:
               | Hello from Amsterdam!
               | 
               | I'm confused. Are you expecting me to spend hundreds of
               | thousands of Euros to get together a team of lawyers and
               | spend years litigating with Facebook?
               | 
               | It's not even clear if I have standing. And what damages
               | would I get? $3.50?
        
               | OneTimePetes wrote:
               | Couldnt you transfer your account temporary?
        
               | swamp-agr wrote:
               | I am in the middle of exactly that process!
        
               | puglr wrote:
               | What are the actual remedies available to you in your
               | jurisdiction? Which one(s) are you pursuing?
        
           | [deleted]
        
           | itomato wrote:
           | "disabling" until later is the opposite of immediate
           | deletion. Please stop spreading disinformation.
        
             | c8g wrote:
             | Even your computer has delete and cancel button. Isn't the
             | cancel button opposite of immediate deletion when I am
             | explicitly trying to delete file. Hope you can understand
             | and don't mock others.
        
         | Le_Dook wrote:
         | I live in Ireland. A while after GDPR came into effect, I went
         | about deleted a Microsoft account I didn't use anymore. Deleted
         | it on the site, contacted support to request all data be wiped.
         | Done. About 3 years later I get an email that it was accessed
         | and they disabled it for illegal activity. Deleted it in the
         | site, contacted support to request all data be wiped. Honestly
         | think it's more worthwhile to just change the account info to
         | garbage and leave it
        
           | OJFord wrote:
           | I live in the UK, I tried to delete my PayPal account (that I
           | never wanted to create, it came out of what I thought was a
           | 'guest checkout' flow) and was repeatedly told I needed to
           | provide PII that they didn't currently have in order to
           | 'verify' my identity so they could delete it.
        
             | Svperstar wrote:
             | I got locked out of my PayPal, after 5 years of inactivity
             | PayPal finally deleted the account themselves.
        
             | toyg wrote:
             | Now even youtube wants your PII to "verify your age" for
             | the silliest of videos.
        
           | swamp-agr wrote:
           | You cannot be quite sure
           | 
           | - that someone who takes over your "garbage" account
           | 
           | - could fake someone else (on your behalf)
           | 
           | - with a traces on corporate servers that will lead
           | authorities to you in the future.
           | 
           | It might be highly unlikely to happen, though.
        
             | hardlianotion wrote:
             | One way to leave is to garbage the account, then put a max
             | size password on it, generated randomly. Then forget about
             | the whole thing. Maybe that is safe enough?
        
               | epicide wrote:
               | Until they actually delete the data, there's a way for
               | someone other than you to get to it. It could require a
               | terrible password reset feature or a breach, but the data
               | is still there.
        
           | shrimpx wrote:
           | I now actively avoid signing up for services unless I really
           | really need to, just to avoid this mess. These shady deletion
           | practices effectively kill new signups -- in my case, at
           | least.
        
         | trutannus wrote:
         | This is a bit hyperbolic, and a little unbelievable. Is it
         | possible that you experienced a bug in Facebook? Or that
         | someone else had access to your account, which prevented the
         | deletion? You've essentially asserted that you've caught
         | Facebook lying about the account deletion process, while not
         | showing us any proof outside of your comment.
         | 
         | Not located in US/UK/Europe, however my deleted account is
         | fully deleted. Can't even 'reset' the password on it since
         | there's no email found when I try to use the reset.
         | 
         | I don't like Facebook, but I don't think there's a point in
         | getting riled up by one person's comment on HackerNews. It
         | reminds me of the thread where someone was claiming they were
         | under surveillance for using ProtonMail.
        
           | swamp-agr wrote:
           | Yes, it is possible that I experienced a bug at least three
           | times (2010, 2014 and 2020), certainly.
           | 
           | It might be the case, sure.
           | 
           | Last email (as of today) about permanent deletion was one
           | year ago. During next year I will give it another try: log in
           | and come back to you, then.
        
             | trutannus wrote:
             | No need to get hostile. You've made an unsubstantiated
             | claim, I'm asking for some proof of which there's still
             | none. Remember, I tried the exact same test with the login
             | as you, and couldn't reproduce.
             | 
             | Like I said, there's a number of reasonable reasons why
             | your account didn't get deleted, all of them pass the
             | Occam's Razor test a little better than "Facebook just
             | didn't delete _my_ account /is not deleting accounts in
             | secret".
             | 
             | You're making a statement which, if true, is huge -- that
             | Facebook is secretly retaining accounts after deletion,
             | despite multiple credible sources (IE: TIME) running
             | detailed articles to the contrary. On top of that _your
             | anecdotal evidence_ is contradicted by _my anecdotal
             | evidence_. So I hope you understand if I don 't take this
             | at face-value.
        
         | winternett wrote:
         | Nobody seems to remember the time back when FaceBook forced
         | everyone on the platform to use their real name... It was
         | exactly the point their plan to gather data matured I believe.
         | 
         | This is also why many sites and apps offer verification
         | programs as well in my understanding... Verifying a user's ID
         | has been a practices for ages now, but it did nothing to stop
         | the growth of disinformation because that's not what
         | verification was for IMO.
         | 
         | An unregulated private company asking you for official
         | government documentation and your real name is definitely
         | tracking you in my opinion. Even friends commenting with your
         | name and family associations/connections on your account can
         | easily ID everyone.
         | 
         | They are not a government agency with the authority to ask
         | people for government ID, but somehow they convinced everyone
         | to use their real name, and it didn't stop the decay of conduct
         | decorum on the platform, it only served to track information
         | more accurately.
         | 
         | Even people who have never registered for FB are indexed by
         | them based on tagged photos and in posts that others have made
         | about them using their names.
         | 
         | They also track people based on interactions across other apps
         | entirely not associated with FB... That's IMO why certain sites
         | slowed and faulted mysteriously when their domain went offline.
         | 
         | I am willing to bet that they have a really interesting splunk
         | (or similar tech) dashboard they can look at and search any
         | time they want full of analytics based on almost every human on
         | earth.
         | 
         | Account privacy settings have always been a very ambiguous
         | "shell game" with FB and other social apps, and often do not
         | work properly, what makes anyone think a "delete account"
         | request would ever be honored by such a company that
         | manipulates it's user base?
         | 
         | I also suspect that each of the major social platforms do the
         | same type of info gathering to varying extents as well.
         | 
         | This is some serious "James Bond island cave villain" stuff,
         | and whatever congressional action comes next (if anything does)
         | may tell us where the future is going for our privacy and
         | personal info rights... :|
        
           | xadhominemx wrote:
           | > An unregulated private company asking you for official
           | government documentation and your real name is definitely
           | tracking you in my opinion.
           | 
           | This is nothing unusual? It's extremely common for a private
           | company to request identify verification
        
             | freebuju wrote:
             | There is no legitimate reason for Facebook, or any other
             | social media website, to require a copy of your ID other
             | than for purposes of renting your authentic profile to
             | advertisers.
        
             | winternett wrote:
             | Sure, for a dentist or doctor's visit, it's totally
             | reasonable. But if you were asked for your ID every time
             | you bought a burger at McDonalds, it would be considered
             | suspect and a potential privacy invasion by most.
             | 
             | The same is the case with social media. They don't need
             | your government ID, and they're not authorized to demand it
             | like the health care industry is.
        
               | frumper wrote:
               | Now they can just track the card you used to all your
               | purchases, or maybe even facial recognition. ID's aren't
               | needed for them to know who you are in many cases.
        
               | nepthar wrote:
               | > they're not authorized to demand it like the health
               | care industry is.
               | 
               | There is no governing body that determines who is and who
               | is not "authorized" to request ID in the United States.
        
               | winternett wrote:
               | Yes there is... Congress does it regularly by creating
               | and amending laws like HIPAA.
        
               | frumper wrote:
               | Which law restricts a business like McDonalds from
               | requesting an ID? It sure isn't HIPAA.
        
               | SavantIdiot wrote:
               | We've already agreed in the TOU for our credit cards that
               | the debtor/merchant is entitled to access to information
               | about you from your credit card company. It is far more
               | intrusive than government ID, yet people freak the fuck
               | out about ID but swipe their VISA 10,000 times per
               | second.
               | 
               | This is how Scientology tracked me for almost three
               | decades even after I changed addresses a dozen times. I
               | bought something from them once on Visa, and they
               | constantly got updates on my personal info.
               | 
               | How are you OK with VISA and not OK with ID on a social
               | media site when the former is far worse than the latter?
               | 
               | We've already given up privacy.
               | 
               | Please help me understand if I'm wrong. I'd like to not
               | be so cynical.
        
               | winternett wrote:
               | Credit Card industries are regulated by law, the laws are
               | weak as well though, and also rarely enforced, so card
               | companies can really push boundaries in secretive ways
               | with privacy invasion anyway.
               | 
               | In contrast to social media, where there is not any
               | substantial regulation yet, it's the wild west with your
               | information right now... They can sell your phone number,
               | anything saved on your phone, everything you post, and
               | even possibly run a keylogger from their mobile app on
               | your device...
               | 
               | Mobile (installed) apps can collect precise location data
               | on you once you install their app... Credit card
               | companies can potentially track you and gather personal
               | data as well if you install their (native) mobile app. As
               | phones evolve, it will eventually become normal to be
               | tracked and to not be able to opt out if regulation
               | (laws) aren't made and enforced to protect individuals
               | from privacy invasion.
               | 
               | This is why I use web sites instead of installing single-
               | use apps, but also why certain companies want to end
               | support for browser based sites, and why some services
               | can only accessed via installed apps.
        
               | SavantIdiot wrote:
               | > Credit Card industries are regulated by law,
               | 
               | This is a good point. Even though they are ignored, there
               | at least is something to use in litigation.
               | 
               | > and even possibly run a keylogger from their mobile app
               | on your device...
               | 
               | Like the Emoji apps that were doing this years ago.
               | 
               | > instead of installing single-use apps,
               | 
               | I keep my app use extreeeemmely limited.
               | 
               | We need serious regulation on social media sites that
               | collect this much personal information, meaning stuff
               | people post that is intended for a very limited,
               | controlled audience, and not wall posts that are public
               | to everyone. (Like HN.)
               | 
               | I think the problem is what someone pointed out to me
               | yesterday: tying DMs to a "real" identity. Purchases are
               | already tied to who we are, and so are every form we sign
               | that has significance. Phone companies know whos in our
               | address books. Email is 100% insecure, always has been.
               | The last thing to protect is the DMs.... which is
               | probably too late.
        
               | rvnx wrote:
               | It's called a loyalty card what you describe
        
               | cratermoon wrote:
               | The carrot to get you to sign up for the loyalty card is
               | the promise of discount prices. The shelf price says $X,
               | but "Members pay just $Y". Of course $Y is closer to the
               | true price. Sometimes they'll send out a mailer with
               | extra coupons, usually somewhat customized based on your
               | past purchases. But now they get to track all your
               | activity. This is not nefarious to the extent it's used
               | to plan inventory and purchasing, but to the extent that
               | your store profile is sold to other companies, it becomes
               | nefarious.
               | 
               | A casual reading of the terms and conditions might lead a
               | person to object, that it says they don't sell your data.
               | A close reading notes that it says they don't sell to
               | "third parties". But they leave out the fact that any
               | other company the store does business with is _not_ a
               | third party. They technically don 't sell your data to
               | them, they provide your data to other companies during
               | the normal course of transacting business with them.
               | Thus, your data flows through the system, unchecked.
        
               | winternett wrote:
               | Yes, they make a lot more money off of using and selling
               | the data you create than what you save... And they also
               | lay you off as a cashier and make you check out and bag
               | your own groceries... the future is lookin bleak... lol
        
             | rubylark wrote:
             | Is it? Maybe its my unconscious avoidance of industries
             | with that practice, but the only other private corporation
             | I can think of that has requested my ID is Costco. I can't
             | think of a single software service or social media that has
             | wanted my ID for anything. On the other hand, Facebook has
             | never asked for my ID either, I assume because I have an
             | old enough account that I was grandfathered in.
             | 
             | Edit: I thought of two more: airlines and banks. But I
             | assume both of those industries are required to by
             | regulation.
        
               | input_sh wrote:
               | Oh I can think of many others: cryptocurrency exchanges,
               | many payment providers, some server providers, Twitter
               | (during verification), freelancing platforms (like
               | Upwork) and even Pornhub.
               | 
               | Sometimes it's a legal obligation (under KYC), sometimes
               | it's pressure from credit card companies, and sometimes
               | it's just websites making shit up to enforce their own
               | rules.
        
               | winternett wrote:
               | Crypto exchanges do it because of mandated government
               | income tax reporting requirements and potential for
               | payment fraud (also a regulated industry).
               | 
               | Twitter requires ID and personal information (i.e. your
               | phone number) for verification even from users that are
               | not involved in any sort of purchasing or income
               | scenarios.
               | 
               | Reddit started out not caring about who anyone was, but
               | over time IP based tracking and other things started to
               | creep in...
               | 
               | Private companies that aren't regulated nor involved in
               | conducting regulated business should not be asking for
               | any government issued ID nor personal user data if you
               | ask me.
        
               | winternett wrote:
               | In order to be verified on Twitter and YouTube, you need
               | to present government ID. I wasn't talking about FaceBook
               | in that reference. FaceBook's algorithm likely verifies
               | people over time based on requiring their actual
               | (government record) name versus the content in their
               | posts, possibly combined with facial recognition from
               | posted photos and family associations.
               | 
               | I always chose to never use my real name on any social
               | media accounts, if it was required I'd probably elect to
               | not sign up, but their EULAs frequently are revised to
               | serve whatever purpose they want because there is no
               | meaningful regulation in place to limit their data mining
               | practices on pretty much anyone because others post info
               | about you in some way over time, even if you don't have
               | an account.
        
         | classified wrote:
         | They lie about everything else, why would this be different?
        
           | sgregnt wrote:
           | How this exageration contributes to a discussion here? It is
           | very popular now to bash facebook. This kind of herd
           | conformism and unsubstantiated claims are harming hacker news
           | community in my humble opinion.
           | 
           | If you do not bring new evidence or ideas, please refrain
           | from exaggerated accusations.
        
             | demygale wrote:
             | All discussions about Facebook must include a reminder that
             | they lie about everything. Pretending that they are
             | trustworthy or reliable is disingenuous. Truths about
             | Facebook's lying can't be repeated enough.
        
             | hetspookjee wrote:
             | Ah please. It can easily be found in the record that almost
             | every statement made by Facebook is a lie or not truthful.
             | Just one influential for me is the promise not to do
             | anything with WhatsApp and Facebook. Incredibly naive at
             | the time to approve that acquisition on the pinky swear
             | they'd hold their word. At this stage I'm astounded by any
             | official taking the word of Facebook. Their incentives to
             | spin are insurmountable.
        
         | j2bax wrote:
         | //Imagine, you're living outside of USA/UK/Europe.
         | 
         | Are you saying that Facebook doesn't enable full account delete
         | outside of countries that require it by law?
        
           | IlPeach wrote:
           | Would you be surprised?
        
           | Nextgrid wrote:
           | There's no reason to believe it's a "full" account delete
           | even in the countries covered by the GDPR considering they
           | brazenly breach the GDPR with their "consent" flow.
        
             | 1024core wrote:
             | So why are there no consequences? Why isn't there a red
             | corner Interpol arrest warrant for Zuck out?
        
               | Nextgrid wrote:
               | The regulators who are supposed to enforce the GDPR are
               | either incompetent or unwilling to do so. I suspect there
               | might be political problems with stepping up enforcement
               | considering a lot of politicians rely on social media &
               | ads (which is powered by non-consensual data processing)
               | to help with their (re)-election.
        
               | ta1234567890 wrote:
               | Because the US government wants to maintain access to FBs
               | data. Shutting down FB would be a big blow to
               | surveillance, hence they will never do anything serious
               | against it. They'll just put on a show, scream publicly
               | in outrage about what FB does or whatever, and then
               | nothing substantial will come out of it, because they
               | never intended to do anything in the first place.
        
             | nobody9999 wrote:
             | >There's no reason to believe it's a "full" account delete
             | even in the countries covered by the GDPR considering they
             | brazenly breach the GDPR with their "consent" flow.
             | 
             | Given FB's business model, and the fact that they create
             | "shadow" profiles for folks who don't even have FB
             | accounts, I have no doubt that while their UI might pretend
             | that your account has been "deleted", all the data still
             | exists for their use.
             | 
             | Which is why, when I left Facebook in 2014, rather than
             | attempting to delete or disable the account, I posted a
             | goodbye to those on FB that I cared about and explained
             | exactly why I was leaving (their predatory and invasive
             | business model).
             | 
             | I then logged out and haven't returned. I did this because
             | I figured that _any_ activity on their platform would be
             | logged and stored with everything else they 'd already
             | collected.
             | 
             | And that was seven years ago. Given what we've seen from
             | them since then, it's pretty clear that I was right.
             | 
             | Just go away and don't look back. Otherwise you'll just
             | give them more data.
        
               | cratermoon wrote:
               | > I have no doubt that while their UI might pretend that
               | your account has been "deleted", all the data still
               | exists for their use.
               | 
               | They don't even have to pretend to delete your account,
               | they can actually delete it. But through some linguistic
               | slight-of-hand (i.e., lying) they obscure the fact that
               | your account is not all the data they have on you. Your
               | "account", in a strict sense might just be your username
               | and password. It happens to also be associated with the
               | entire pile of data that is a profile. Once a user no
               | longer has an account, it's what you call a "shadow
               | profile".
        
               | nobody9999 wrote:
               | >They don't even have to pretend to delete your account,
               | they can actually delete it. But through some linguistic
               | slight-of-hand (i.e., lying) they obscure the fact that
               | your account is not all the data they have on you. Your
               | "account", in a strict sense might just be your username
               | and password. It happens to also be associated with the
               | entire pile of data that is a profile. Once a user no
               | longer has an account, it's what you call a "shadow
               | profile".
               | 
               | A likely scenario. Although I'd say that removing a
               | userid and password from their auth db doesn't qualify as
               | "deleting" an account. Rather, that's _disabling_ an
               | account. And IIUC (I 'm not in the EU and not familiar
               | with all the details) the GDPR/EU privacy folks would
               | likely agree with that assessment too.
               | 
               | Perhaps someone with more knowledge of the GDPR could
               | weigh in on what sorts of fines _could_ be levied against
               | Facebook for pulling a stunt like that on European
               | citizens?
               | 
               | Edit: Levied is a more accurate term than "leveled".
        
             | swamp-agr wrote:
             | From data modelling point of view it's a challenge to wipe
             | the user data since it will affect a social graph. And
             | there're different strategies to handle corner cases (e.g.
             | how to deal with reactions/replies on "deleted" comments or
             | with reactions on your photos or your reactions on
             | different news, mark as deleted and wipe the content or
             | completely remove nested graph). And it actually makes user
             | tracking much harder (please keep in mind, they're tracking
             | users that have not register yet, in that case user profile
             | might be converted from one user type to another if they
             | are going to continue track you (why didn't want that?)).
             | 
             | It might be much easier to extend account entity with
             | something like:
             | 
             | - is_deleted (boolean)
             | 
             | - deleted_time (utctime)
             | 
             | - is_suing_us (boolean)
             | 
             | - legal_case_id ...
        
               | dleslie wrote:
               | This all seems to be problems for them surveillance
               | capitalist, and not the user.
        
               | sgregnt wrote:
               | Is facebook here different than other apps? If you
               | publically post something on internet, good luck trying
               | to delete it...
        
               | Nextgrid wrote:
               | Facebook collects way more data than what you choose to
               | publish. Not to mention, if you want to delete something,
               | _Facebook_ should delete it. Whether other third-parties
               | archive it is beyond scope.
        
               | avs733 wrote:
               | exactly...I regularly see arguments about how technical
               | compliance with laws or user wishes as 'its hard' as if
               | 'hard' is a counter argument to compliance...
        
           | TomSwirly wrote:
           | They flout the GDPR, so why wouldn't they flout this?
        
           | Gulfick wrote:
           | Looks like I'll be on Facebook forever.
        
           | swamp-agr wrote:
           | I don't know
           | 
           | - whether they partially disable functions on purpose
           | 
           | - or there are region-dependant backend code errors.
        
         | rjzzleep wrote:
         | There is, you basically spend a year rewriting your profile
         | step by step with garbage data. Then delete the garbage posts
         | and replace them with other stuff. It's long and it takes
         | effort.
         | 
         | I assume that when you do it all at once they will just disable
         | you and keep the old snapshot in their facebook graph.
        
           | davidjytang wrote:
           | I tried to download my Facebook data once and found that it
           | had all my ancient and deleted posts, ancient relationship
           | status, ancient cities of dwelling, etc.
           | 
           | Anyway how would filling in garbage help in deleting Facebook
           | account?
        
             | _0ffh wrote:
             | I think the idea is to seed mistrust in the data because
             | there is no way to distinguish between the genuine and the
             | fake data you put on your account. So the fake data makes
             | the genuine practically useless.
        
               | everybodyknows wrote:
               | Exactly. Taking it to the next level, leave your own
               | tracking info in the fakery, e.g. "favorite vacation:
               | France". Then if someone cold-spams you with tickets to
               | Paris, you'll know why.
        
         | raverbashing wrote:
         | Maybe a better idea would be to actively go against the Terms
         | of Service for FB and obfuscate the data in your account
         | 
         | - Remove all photos and replace them with other images (nothing
         | illegal)
         | 
         | - Change all data relating to your person
         | 
         | - Create several posts with unrelated data
         | 
         | - Like as many pages as you possibly can
        
           | a_imho wrote:
           | Exactly. Deleting is giving up control over your account.
        
         | kelnos wrote:
         | I do wonder if manually deleting everything: every post, every
         | photo, every comment, every interaction, will actually delete
         | things behind the scenes, or if FB keeps everything regardless.
        
         | cratermoon wrote:
         | The problem is that fundamentally, to Facebook, a user's login
         | account is a separate thing from the user's profile. You can
         | delete your _account_ , and with a straight face Facebook can
         | assert you've deleted it. But your _profile_ , the mass of data
         | and content that you put on Facebook with your account, and all
         | the data associated with it through their social graph and
         | algorithms, that never gets deleted.
         | 
         | In a very real sense, "you" still exist in Facebook. That's why
         | when, weeks, months, or years later, when you login, Facebook
         | recognizes you. You create a new "account", and Facebook very
         | conveniently associates everything it knows about you (which it
         | never forgot) with your new account.
        
           | fakedang wrote:
           | I tested this quite recently actually. I typed my Facebook
           | password to login with all sorts of mistakes, although the
           | core part of it remains the same, with some minor changes
           | (all caps, a capital letter, an extra character, etc). In all
           | cases the passwords were accepted.
           | 
           | Which leads me to think that Facebook passwords might just be
           | stored as searchable text rather than hashes. Granted I'm no
           | cryptography expert though.
        
         | e12e wrote:
         | > Imagine, you're living outside of USA/UK/Europe.
         | 
         | Technically, with GDPR you only need to visit the EU to delete
         | your account... So I suppose one might a vacation out of
         | deleting Facebook, LinkedIn etc accounts?
        
       | ComodoHacker wrote:
       | I guess this page monthly hits serve as input for some KPI for
       | their PR dept.
        
       | burnt_toast wrote:
       | I recently shut down a small business and have been having
       | nothing but trouble trying to remove it's presence online.
       | 
       | Facebook made me wait two weeks before giving me the option to
       | delete it and now it's just stuck on "deleting". Bing emails me
       | weekly saying I need to update my listing yet I've tried 3 times
       | to mark it as closed to no avail.
       | 
       | The only one I've been able to remove it from has been Google so
       | far. It's quite frustrating.
        
       | Program_Install wrote:
       | I wish more people would consider the deletion of facebooks from
       | their lives. It has become the most dangerous form of SkyNet, and
       | most voluntarily hand their lives to them. Nothing worse than
       | idiots attempting to make themselves relevant for no reason other
       | than trying to be relevant.
        
         | colechristensen wrote:
         | Companies tracking and profiting from your every move are
         | everywhere. If you're not live-blogging your entire life on
         | Facebook it's really quite far from the worst offender in the
         | surveillance economy.
        
       | black_13 wrote:
       | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Right_to_be_forgotten I wish this
       | was something that was a universal right. Not just for social
       | media but truly have a right to privacy.
        
       | Pinegulf wrote:
       | Isn't 'delete' a bit misleading? The page does not say that whey
       | would delete your data, only 'account'.
        
       | cascom wrote:
       | Why would I want to delete my Facebook account?
       | 
       | I abhor Facebook, I never log on, I haven't used WhatsApp or
       | Facebook messenger, etc. for several years, So I don't feel like
       | I'm giving them any information, but deleting my account only
       | hurts me by giving away a free option? What am I missing?
        
         | VLM wrote:
         | The way to fight people who advise to use FB less or just don't
         | login and scroll all day long, is to reframe the problem as an
         | extremist binary choice, either use FB three hours per day
         | every day or go to huge effort to delete everything. Most
         | people will choose the less extreme of the "binary" options of
         | continuing to use FB. Its a common sophistry trick.
        
         | tremon wrote:
         | You're adding to Facebook's network value by having a Facebook
         | presence, however minimal you deem it to be. You're inducing
         | other people into giving Facebook information on them by
         | maintaining a Facebook account.
        
           | eddieroger wrote:
           | Isn't this why they consider Daily/Monthly Active Users and
           | not just accounts? If I have a Facebook account that I never
           | log in to, I'm upping their count of users, sure, but not the
           | DAU/MAU count, which is what marketers care about for reach.
        
       | baby wrote:
       | Lost friends because they deleted their Facebook and I can't
       | reach them anymore :(
        
       | sfblah wrote:
       | I think I'd rather have a script I could put on a Raspberry Pi
       | that periodically did actions on their site or via APIs to waste
       | their computing power. If a few million people did that, it might
       | make a difference. Sure, they'd try to block it, but maintainers
       | could evolve the software, like ad blockers do.
        
       | shadowfaxRodeo wrote:
       | I got rid of Facebook, Instagram, and WhatsApp about 4 years ago.
       | Facebook and Instagram was easy, but people who have WhatsApp
       | really think you're weird for not having it.
       | 
       | Deleting WhatsApp, while annoying for me personally, has resulted
       | in many people I know joining Signal or Telegram -- the network
       | effect can be broken by being belligerent.
       | 
       | If you don't want to have a conversation about why you deleted
       | WhatsApp, simply say it's a moral issue, nobody wants to know.
        
         | wutbrodo wrote:
         | > If you don't want to have a conversation about why you
         | deleted WhatsApp, simply say it's a moral issue, nobody wants
         | to know.
         | 
         | Is this really true? I do a smattering of weird/non-conformist
         | things for moral reasons, and people are always _overly_
         | interested. IME, if you say "I don't do X for moral reasons" to
         | someone who does X, they take it as a personal attack. It's
         | closely related to the concept of "anticipated reproach". While
         | they may pay lip service to it, most people aren't
         | fundamentally able to understand the concept of moral
         | pluralism/relativism, and won't be satisfied with "I think it's
         | wrong but it's no black mark on you if you don't think it is".
        
         | waylandsmithers wrote:
         | Maybe I'm just old or out of it? I've never used WhatsApp and
         | don't see why I would need any chat apps other than just normal
         | texting on my iPhone.
        
           | mgarciaisaia wrote:
           | It's not that you're old - you simply are not that poor.
           | 
           | WhatsApp first value proposition has been to enable cheap
           | ("free") messaging while, at least here in Argentina, SMS
           | would still cost a lot of money. The Android SMS experience
           | is bad, too - or at least it's not a nice one.
           | 
           | Add groups, multimedia, audio calls with no long-distance
           | fee, or even video calls (I don't think the phone system
           | offers an alternative, at least here), and all of that being
           | "cross-manufacturer" (we have 92% Android users here, so you
           | still don't want to leave your two iOS friends out) and it's
           | pretty much clear _why_ WhatsApp works best.
           | 
           | Signal & Telegram could have make it, too - but WhatsApp was
           | probably first, and they offered support for some feature
           | phones back then when they still were around.
        
         | wintermutestwin wrote:
         | Is the problem that a lot of non-US mobile providers don't
         | include SMS for free?
         | 
         | I'm probably showing my ignorance around SMS and iMessage, but
         | why can't SMS simply use your data allowance? Doesn't iMessage
         | do this?
        
           | mimentum wrote:
           | SMS runs through a different protocol and has different set
           | standards; https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SMS
           | 
           | iMessage is a proprietary messaging system
        
             | wintermutestwin wrote:
             | Any idea why so many providers charge for SMS?
        
               | kelnos wrote:
               | Simply put, because they can. They may have a monopoly or
               | near-monopoly on SMS service, so they can do what they
               | want.
               | 
               | That was the state of affairs in the US until fairly
               | recently; most carriers (in the US at least) offer a
               | pretty standard plan that includes unlimited texting.
        
         | asdff wrote:
         | Do you live outside the US? I always hear how popular WhatsApp
         | is on here but honestly I don't know a single person who uses
         | that app in the US. Or any chat platform for that matter.
         | Everyone just texts and calls at least in my younger millenial
         | circle. I guess in other countries they still charge for texts
         | and calls like its 2002 and maybe WhatsApp is more popular
         | there to get around paying for each text message?
        
           | kelnos wrote:
           | I live in the US, and there are 4 or 5 people I talk to via
           | WhatsApp as our primary communications channel. I'm also a
           | member of 2 or 3 group chats that are used occasionally that
           | I get value out of. I managed to move one group chat over to
           | Signal, but the others didn't budge. I also find that
           | WhatsApp is often the go-to for short-term ad-hoc group
           | chats, like for a bunch of people who are on a trip or
           | vacation together.
        
         | jasode wrote:
         | _> Deleting WhatsApp, [...], has resulted in many people I know
         | joining Signal or Telegram -- the network effect can be broken
         | by being belligerent._
         | 
         | This practical application of your advice _depends on where a
         | particular person sits in their social hierarchy_.
         | 
         | E.g. an influential person that's a "hub" or "connector" in
         | their social circle can switch from WhatsApp to Signal ... or
         | insist on email only ... or insist on no email and only
         | hardcopy snail mail (Donald Knuth) -- and others will follow
         | their lead or accommodate them.
         | 
         | On the other hand, if you're one of the folks at the "spokes"
         | or "edges" of social graphs... being defiant by deleting
         | WhatsApp doesn't accomplish anything because others don't care
         | to switch to reach you.
         | 
         | The above difference in social influence happens in Asia
         | countries where many use WhatsApp beyond personal relationships
         | for business to sell items or find work. If the business
         | contacts you depend on for getting income use WhatsApp, you
         | deleting WhatsApp just means you get $0 because they'd rather
         | deal with other vendors who don't force them the hassle of
         | switching to Signal. Power and leverage in social graphs
         | matter.
        
           | shadowfaxRodeo wrote:
           | This is an excellent point.
           | 
           | I'm no influencer, but i do have a big family and lots of
           | very close friends. I'm very lucky.
           | 
           | Many people are isolated and struggle to make and maintain
           | friendships -- especially over the last year. They don't have
           | the luxury of being able to take a stand.
        
           | nobody9999 wrote:
           | >being defiant by deleting WhatsApp doesn't accomplish
           | anything because others don't care to switch to reach you.
           | 
           | I disagree. It accomplishes at least one thing -- WhatsApp
           | isn't tracking/recording _your_ messages any more. That 's
           | what _I_ would care about.
        
             | MadWombat wrote:
             | So you prevent them from recording your conversations with
             | friends by having no conversations and no friends.
        
               | nobody9999 wrote:
               | >So you prevent them from recording your conversations
               | with friends by having no conversations and no friends.
               | 
               | You're absolutely right. Because there's no such thing as
               | other messaging apps, email, social media platforms,
               | SMS/MMS, telephone, written correspondence or discussion
               | over a beer/coffee/meal. Only WhatsApp exists.
               | 
               | Gee, I wish someone would invent some or all of of those
               | things -- I'm _so_ lonely!  /s
        
           | raxxorrax wrote:
           | > because others don't care to switch to reach you.
           | 
           | I don't think it is worth holding contact in that case.
           | Contrary to popular belief is that you don't miss out on
           | anything.
           | 
           | Business contacts are another matter, but every professional
           | understands if you want to use other channels. Same principle
           | applies. If they don't make the effort, it wasn't a good
           | contact anyway, although there are side effects because
           | convinience is important. A bit of excentricity isn't a deal
           | breaker, on the contrary.
           | 
           | Clout chasing is exactly the angle social media tries to
           | satisfy.
        
             | jasode wrote:
             | _> I don't think it is worth holding contact in that case.
             | _
             | 
             | That's a common counterargument that's similar to _" then I
             | guess they weren't very good friends, were they?!?"_ -- but
             | oversimplifies the complexity of social life. It's not a
             | simple binary dichotomy between "very good friends" and "no
             | friends".
             | 
             | People also have an in-between status of _" weak ties"_
             | that are mutually beneficial :
             | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interpersonal_ties
             | 
             | These types of relationships are more fragile and easier to
             | "lose" by putting up barriers to communication. It's not
             | realistic to impose a condition of _" either you follow me
             | to the Signal network or you weren't really my friend at
             | all"_ on the whole world. Everybody doesn't have same
             | weight of importance to everyone else and that's ok.
             | Dunbar's Number may also be relevant here.
             | 
             |  _> , but every professional understands if you want to use
             | other channels._
             | 
             | No they don't if you're one of hundreds of "disposable
             | vendors" in Asia or other parts of the world using WhatsApp
             | for business. The other business professional (with more
             | leverage) just ignores your excentricity and works with
             | others who don't inconvenience them.
             | 
             |  _> , although there are side effects _
             | 
             | If the "side effects" are $0 income, that's a really big
             | deal. It seems like you swept this aside.
             | 
             |  _> Clout chasing _
             | 
             | It's not about about chasing "clout". Unfortunately, I used
             | the word "influential" and I forgot that it has been
             | tainted by recent phenomenon of "social media influencer".
             | I couldn't think of a better word for "significant
             | connector node on a social graph" other than "influential".
             | (I think it's irony that by Donald Knuth insisting on USPS
             | snail mail for correspondence -- and people actually
             | getting past that friction to contact him -- that actually
             | _proves_ he has clout.)
             | 
             | In any case, I think your perspective is shaped by your
             | experience in Western Europe so you really can't empathize
             | with how some people (farmers, etc) _depend_ on WhatsApp
             | for their livelihood. They don 't use it like a TikTok type
             | of social network.
        
               | bookofjoe wrote:
               | Remember Klout?
        
           | badRNG wrote:
           | You aren't asking your contacts to delete WhatsApp as well in
           | solidarity or to fully "switch", you are asking them to
           | simply use Signal to communicate with you. If you mention you
           | are uncomfortable using WhatsApp, and they aren't willing to
           | use Signal to message you, they likely aren't worth talking
           | to.
           | 
           | I deleted Facebook/Messenger awhile ago, and asked that
           | people use Signal to communicate with me. All of the people I
           | cared to speak to use Signal to message me, and many of them
           | have used it for other purposes as well. That hasn't
           | precluded them from using whatever they were using before.
           | This only applies to the personal sphere of my life,
           | conducting business with WhatsApp may be a different issue
           | entirely.
        
         | xtracto wrote:
         | I find Whats App to be the easiest of the 3: Whoever has
         | WhatsApp has a mobile phone. So, it's just a matter of sending
         | them SMS instead of WhatsApp. The odd situation is when
         | contacting companies via WhatsApp, but most companies usually
         | have alternative methods of contact.
        
         | orangepanda wrote:
         | > Deleting WhatsApp, while annoying for me personally, has
         | resulted in many people I know joining Signal or Telegram --
         | the network effect can be broken by being belligerent.
         | 
         | Network effect is irrelevant for pure messaging services. If
         | someone needs to talk to you, they'll send a pigeon if they
         | have to.
        
           | shadowfaxRodeo wrote:
           | Which messaging app do you think most people would join...
           | one with nobody else using it, or one with everyone else
           | using?
        
           | lopis wrote:
           | You underestimate the power of convenience. It doesn't bother
           | me much, but I've lost friends because we couldn't keep in
           | touch anywhere other than facebook and whatsapp. Eventually,
           | anyone can stop needing to talk to you.
        
             | nobody9999 wrote:
             | >You underestimate the power of convenience. It doesn't
             | bother me much, but I've lost friends because we couldn't
             | keep in touch anywhere other than facebook and whatsapp.
             | Eventually, anyone can stop needing to talk to you.
             | 
             | Then I guess they weren't very good friends, were they? If
             | they were, they might make an effort, no?
        
               | kelnos wrote:
               | Perhaps not, but often there's value in maintaining
               | casual friendships.
        
               | nobody9999 wrote:
               | >Perhaps not, but often there's value in maintaining
               | casual friendships.
               | 
               | A good point. I can't (and don't pretend to) speak for
               | anyone else, but I want to be around people who want to
               | be around me. And not all of those.
               | 
               | Take from that what you will.
        
         | dmead wrote:
         | I don't understand how telegram is less immoral than Facebook.
        
           | shadowfaxRodeo wrote:
           | Because it doesn't collect personal data to sell to
           | advertisers.
        
           | fsckboy wrote:
           | Facebook is a monopolist, Telegram is not
        
         | dotancohen wrote:
         | I could have written this comment word for word.
         | 
         | People get _offended_ when you tell them that you don't have
         | Whatsapp. But I let them hold that hot coal themselves.
        
           | pacija wrote:
           | How _dare_ they not having xmpp and matrix accounts while I,
           | the real mensch, selfhost both _servers_.
           | 
           | And what's with all the downmods and downright flags lately?
           | I'm trying to be funny here.
        
             | netizen-936824 wrote:
             | No humor allowed. HN is srs bsns
        
               | strken wrote:
               | Generally it's no zippy one-liner putdowns, more than no
               | humour. I think the general idea is that if you want to
               | criticise something, you should directly write out an
               | argument against it.
               | 
               | In this case the joke wasn't even related to the
               | discussion, since neither Signal[0] nor Telegram are
               | self-hosted anyway.
               | 
               | [0] You can sort of self-host Signal, but last time I
               | looked there was no way to change the URL in the client
               | without rebuilding it, and it's not federated, so that's
               | pretty pointless unless you also get all your friends to
               | install your new version too.
        
               | pacija wrote:
               | Some people are shallower and less humorous than the
               | others, and can't get the reference and joke where others
               | can. I am fine with that, not that I want to be king of
               | HN with best karma of them all. I just like to hang
               | around bright humorous people, not shallow smugs.
               | 
               | The discussion was about some people getting offended
               | because some other people don't have whatsapp accounts.
               | 
               | I selfhost xmpp (ejabberd) and matrix (synapse) servers
               | for my friends and family. When someone asks - and this
               | happens fairly often - how come I don't have [insert evil
               | big tech IM company here] account, and how can I be
               | contacted, I say I can be contacted by means of open
               | federated protocol like xmpp or matrix, using open source
               | apps like conversations or element, having account on one
               | of many xmpp or matrix servers, including ones that I
               | administer.
               | 
               | Most people say 'ok whatever man', but some say tell me
               | more and get to get in touch with me.
               | 
               | Because of my knowledge and skill to avoid Evil Greed,
               | and because I am actively working on liberating people
               | from it, I think of myself as a better man than those who
               | argue whether Signal is better than WhatsApp or Viber or
               | whatever. And at the same time I remind myself I am no
               | better than anyone or anything else in the Universe. And
               | I am quite auto-ironic about it.
               | 
               | Is this enough lines of explanation?
        
               | TeMPOraL wrote:
               | On the contrary. HN loves humor. You just need to put
               | some effort into it (or get lucky with timing).
        
               | AnIdiotOnTheNet wrote:
               | Eh, I think it is a good rule personally. At least for
               | reddit-style low-effort one liner humor, not that I
               | haven't been guilty of posting that myself.
        
           | zionic wrote:
           | This is so strange, no one in my social circle uses WhatsApp
           | or has ever asked me to use it to talk to them. It's all
           | iMessage, Snapchat, and a growing group of people on Signal.
        
             | emerged wrote:
             | Same here, I've never even heard someone I know say the
             | word "WhatsApp" in my life.
        
             | lucasverra wrote:
             | Usa?
             | 
             | Cause what parent described is common in EU + LATAM
        
             | tonylemesmer wrote:
             | I tried to precipiate a shift away from Whatsapp the last
             | time they did a privacy grab a year or two ago. But so many
             | people use it for group messaging. The gravity around
             | Whatsapp is enough to prevent people swapping to Signal in
             | my circles.
             | 
             | Now I've got so many messaging apps. I just want one. Only
             | one.
             | 
             | (based in the UK)
        
             | Flashtoo wrote:
             | I assume you're in the US. In most of Europe Whatsapp is
             | the main communication platform. SMS is dead and Android is
             | more popular than iOS, so no iMessage either.
        
             | shadowfaxRodeo wrote:
             | Understandably, people who don't use WhatsApp, don't think
             | it's weird that other people don't use WhatsApp.
             | 
             | People who do have WhatsApp, probably have it, because most
             | of the people they know have it.
        
             | hnlmorg wrote:
             | Messaging clients tend to be regional. WhatsApp is massive
             | in Europe. From what I gather WeChat is dominant in
             | mainland China but Hong Kong still used WhatsApp (though I
             | think they might be coming round to Signal?) and the US,
             | who have a higher ratio of Apple users vs the rest of the
             | world, tend to use iMessage a lot more.
        
               | unyttigfjelltol wrote:
               | Interoperability between these systems should be a public
               | policy goal. I don't have to buy an AT&T phone anymore to
               | call my friends; not sure why I have to buy iOS to chat
               | with them.
        
               | hnlmorg wrote:
               | I agree with you but this is a problem that date backs to
               | the 90s (anyone remember Bitlbee, Trillion, Pidgeon,
               | etc?). Unfortunately incompatibility is seen by
               | businesses a feature rather than a flaw -- despite the
               | annoyances it causes for users.
        
               | sbarre wrote:
               | At one point the US Govt did mandate interoperability on
               | AOL Messenger, once it became the dominant platform.
               | 
               | So there is precedent for this, but we live in very
               | different times now.
        
               | zaik wrote:
               | What if we made a Internet Standard for messaging and
               | presence?
        
               | javagram wrote:
               | SMS, MMS, and RCS are examples of such standards,
               | although only SMS/MMS have full support on both iphone
               | and android.
        
               | hnlmorg wrote:
               | There's been a few open standards. The problem isn't that
               | standards exist, it's that walled gardens are generally
               | more profitable.
               | 
               | In fact Google Talk, Facebook Messenger and Skype were
               | all either based upon, or supported XMPP...and now don't.
               | Slack used to support IRC and not doesn't. There's a term
               | often credited to Microsoft that also applies here:
               | embrace, extend, extinguish.
        
               | nobody9999 wrote:
               | >What if we made a Internet Standard for messaging and
               | presence?
               | 
               | That's a wonderful idea. In fact, we've had such a
               | standard since 1999 (protocol codified in 2004[0])
               | 
               | It's called XMPP[1]
               | 
               | [0] https://www.ietf.org/rfc/rfc3920.txt
               | 
               | [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/XMPP
        
               | wtetzner wrote:
               | Not only that, but a lot of closed messaging platforms
               | were originally built on XMPP.
        
               | scbrg wrote:
               | Interoperability is tricky when one set of apps has end
               | to end encryption as a requirement, and the other set has
               | absence of end to end encryption as a requirement.
        
               | Vinnl wrote:
               | Then again, I've kinda given up on email privacy since at
               | least half of my emails go to Google's servers anyway.
               | I'm not sure if we can avoid Facebook having my IP
               | address (or whatever future attack vectors are found
               | after the protocol has been standardised) if I message
               | WhatsApp users from my Signal account.
        
               | dylan604 wrote:
               | I don't mind the interoperability. Take email for
               | example. Even if you avoid Gmail/Google, so many people
               | do, so Googs eventually gets your email anyway. So we
               | chat, even if you don't use FB, if someone you chat with
               | does, they still get that conversation. So the
               | interoperability provides a buffer or insulator between
               | you and the company you are wanting to avoid.
        
               | mrweasel wrote:
               | > WhatsApp is massive in Europe.
               | 
               | You're completely right that messaging clients is
               | regional, but it's even more regional than just "Europe".
               | I'm always confused when people claim that WhatsApp is
               | huge in Europe, because I know literally only two people
               | who use it. They only use WhatsApp because they have
               | friends outside Europe.
               | 
               | I think we need to think in terms of single countries
               | when talking messaging apps. Again take WhatsApp. Pretty
               | big in Germany and Spain, but almost non-existing in
               | Denmark (who instead rely more on Facebook Messenger or
               | iMessage).
        
               | Nimitz14 wrote:
               | It's nr 1 in Germany UK Spain Italy Portugal Switzerland
               | Austria Belgium Netherlands Norway Greece. That's like
               | 90% of Europe.
        
             | rtkwe wrote:
             | It can depend a lot on where in the world you and your
             | friend group are or are from. It's quite popular with the
             | Indian H1B contractors in my office in the US for example
             | but not too many of my US friends use it. Same story with
             | my fiance and her lab groups which have a lot of European
             | grad students and post docs, it's quite common there too.
        
             | emptyfile wrote:
             | I don't even know what iMessage is.
        
               | Macha wrote:
               | Something something american teenagers bubble colours?
        
               | egypturnash wrote:
               | Apple's SMS/IM client. Only available on Apple operating
               | systems.
        
             | saberience wrote:
             | In the UAE (Dubai, Abu Dhabi, etc), it's almost impossible
             | to live without WhatsApp since almost every business does
             | customer support using it.
             | 
             | Want to get a delivery? You'll be told about it via
             | WhatsApp. Want to order food online? WhatsApp. Want to pick
             | up your laundry? WhatsApp. etc. It's everywhere here and
             | totally dominant. Deciding not to use it would make your
             | life significantly harder.
        
           | toto444 wrote:
           | I have (and have always had) a dumb phone so obviously no
           | Whatsapp. I don't really undertstand its appeal. Being part
           | of tens of groups that sends you notifications constantly
           | because someone's posted a picture of their cat but you don't
           | leave not to offend anyone does not sound a cool thing to me.
           | 
           | If people need to send me some information they text me. If
           | sending a text is too much for them maybe I did not really
           | need to know what they wanted to send. If I want to
           | communicate with my friends and family I call them like we
           | used to do in the 20th century.
        
         | nicbou wrote:
         | In Europe, people just assume that you have it. I often get the
         | first contact from pensions and airbnbs on WhatsApp. I
         | convinced a few people to switch to Telegram, but there are
         | still a few stragglers on WhatsApp and even Facebook Messenger.
        
           | Pawka wrote:
           | I'd say in parts of Europe. E.g. in Slavic regions Telegram
           | is popular. In other regions Signal. Among my circles FB
           | messenger seems to be the most popular.
        
           | throwaway525142 wrote:
           | I believe Telegram is inferior to WhatsApp due to missing
           | default end-to-end encryption.
        
           | raxxorrax wrote:
           | It is sadly very common in western europe, but you can easily
           | live without it too.
        
         | red_trumpet wrote:
         | I mostly agree with your comment, having deleted WhatsApp
         | myself this spring. However I have a problem with that.
         | 
         | > many people I know joining Signal or Telegram -- the network
         | effect can be broken by being belligerent
         | 
         | Did you not _use_ the same network effect to get people to join
         | Signal /Telegram? While I agree that Signal is morally better
         | (being a non-profit and all), it is still a closed garden,
         | which makes such network effects possible. And this in itself
         | is a moral issue, I think. Personally I would like to use a
         | system like, where everyone can choose his own server. But
         | nobody in my social circle uses it, so I'm stuck with walled
         | gardens...
        
           | shadowfaxRodeo wrote:
           | My issue is with Facebook, not with the network effect
           | itself. Happy to use the network effect to get people off
           | Facebook.
        
           | jakecopp wrote:
           | Get them onto Element, it's brilliant! [1]. Matrix is an
           | aggressively open garden - it even bridges to other social
           | networks [2].
           | 
           | [1]: https://element.io/
           | 
           | [2]: https://matrix.org/bridges/
        
             | arnoooooo wrote:
             | I would not call Element brilliant. I have had a hard time
             | getting others to adopt it. Fluffychat (Matrix client as
             | well) is more user-friendly.
        
           | asdff wrote:
           | IRC never went anywhere, you aren't stuck.
        
         | Helmut10001 wrote:
         | Use mautrix-whatsapp [1] on a home server to bridge Matrix chat
         | to WhatsApp and (optionally) add a dedicated VoIP phone number
         | for WhatApp.
         | 
         | Allows you to connect to/chat with WhatApp users using
         | Matrix/Element.
         | 
         | [1]: https://github.com/mautrix/whatsapp
        
           | lucasverra wrote:
           | how to ping you to know a bit more of that experience ?
        
             | chagaif wrote:
             | I have also been using this for nearly a year now, you can
             | reach me at https://chagai.website
        
           | nisegami wrote:
           | Not GP commenter, but I suspect you're mistaking a functional
           | issue (not wanting to use Whatsapp's applications) from a
           | moral issue (not wanting to use the Whatsapp platform).
        
             | Helmut10001 wrote:
             | Somewhat you are right - but it is difficult to
             | differentiate between the two: I don't want to use Whatsapp
             | for moral issues, but I also a) don't want to loose
             | connections to people who still use the platform and b) I
             | don't believe in actiely convincing peole of anything. They
             | have to reach these conclusions themselves - until then, I
             | can choose mautrix to stay connected, limiting my
             | interaction with the platform to the bare minimum.
        
         | croh wrote:
         | Why isnt it possible to delete amazon account permanently ?
         | Amazon still doesn't give option to delete purchase history
         | which is kind of super annoying.
        
           | Traster wrote:
           | I think Amazon is actually a different story to a certain
           | extent. Sure, you can delete your account, but at the end of
           | the day you've transacted with them and they can keep a
           | record of who they've transacted with, right? Personally I
           | think it would be unreasonable for me to demand that a shop I
           | buy from delete the record of who purchased it.
        
             | malka wrote:
             | > I think it would be unreasonable for me to demand that a
             | shop I buy from delete the record of who purchased it.
             | 
             | Why ? for recent transaction, they need to keep it for tax
             | purposes but they have no legal need to keep old records.
        
               | tut-urut-utut wrote:
               | In some countries, they need to keep it for 10 years for
               | tax and audit reasons.
               | 
               | I wouldn't call 10 years "recent transactions". Heck, for
               | most of the online shops, it's more like "forever".
        
               | Sosh101 wrote:
               | Which countries?
        
               | kelnos wrote:
               | I don't think "need" matters here. They have a record of
               | a transaction, and they want to keep that record. I don't
               | think I have a right to demand that they delete that
               | data.
               | 
               | The GDPR/CCPA/etc. likely has different requirements
               | here, and probably requires deletion after they're no
               | longer needed (for tax purposes or whatever).
               | 
               | But I personally have financial records going back
               | decades, so I can't fault a company for wanting to do the
               | same thing.
        
             | jan_Inkepa wrote:
             | Also at least in the EU you're legally mandated to keep
             | transaction history along with customer information for
             | some number of years iirc. Don't know how that combines
             | with gdpr.
        
               | hdjjhhvvhga wrote:
               | Actually the GDPR is very clear about this.[0] Instead of
               | setting an arbitrary limit, it says it should be the
               | shortest period necessary in the context of other laws
               | and requirements. So if you need to keep the records for
               | 5 years for tax reasons, you should delete them after 5
               | years.
               | 
               | [0] https://ec.europa.eu/info/law/law-topic/data-
               | protection/refo...
        
               | jan_Inkepa wrote:
               | Thanks for clarifying + supplying references :)
        
               | orwin wrote:
               | Yes, and one of the cost of the implementation was
               | actually the justification of keeping data, and
               | segregating said data. We had some data we could keep 10
               | years, some (most) only two, some had to be deleted once
               | the client left.
        
           | OldTimeCoffee wrote:
           | Because Amazon still has to have a record of the purchase.
           | It's part of routine recordkeeping laws while running a
           | business.
           | 
           | They could unlink it from your purchase history, but they
           | would still have to maintain the record of the purchase. I
           | believe this is effectively what 'Archiving' order does.
        
       | c7DJTLrn wrote:
       | I'm hard boycotting Facebook now. I've never had an account with
       | them and only used WhatsApp, but stopped using that a while ago.
       | Used to enjoy my Oculus Rift, sold it when the forced account
       | merging was announced and bought an Index to replace it. I was at
       | a conference today and skipped a talk by a Facebook engineer. As
       | petty as it sounds, I'm staying clear of anyone or anything
       | associated with FB. Everyone working for them is complicit.
        
       | usefulcat wrote:
       | My first thought was immediately "first, build a time machine.."
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | alphabet9000 wrote:
       | Does FB still attempt to Guilt you when you try to quit, e.g.,
       | showing 5 pictures of your Friends saying that your friends will
       | "miss you" ?
       | 
       | Brandon will miss you. Catherine will miss you. David will miss
       | you. Kevin will miss you. Sarah will miss you.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | SavantIdiot wrote:
       | I am curious as to what happens to the data.
       | 
       | This is why we need whistleblowers. It could be very easy for
       | Facebook to knowingly keep this information and just make it a
       | trade secret. The risk of being exposed for lying probably
       | doesn't matter since there are so many ways around it without
       | "lying".
       | 
       | But who am I kidding. I would love to know which private company
       | has the most personal info:
       | 
       | - Lexis Nexis,
       | 
       | - West Law,
       | 
       | - Cellphone companies,
       | 
       | - TRW (credit rating companies)
       | 
       | - VISA (Amex, Mastercard), or
       | 
       | - Facebook
        
       | bennyp101 wrote:
       | I actually ended up creating a new Facebook account, with fake
       | name/details and no friends. Most of the local information for
       | the village I live in, and the surrounding ones is posted and
       | discussed on Facebook.
       | 
       | So, if we want to join in on the Halloween trail, need to know
       | about it on there. Christmas window displays? Yep, on Facebook.
       | 
       | It's kinda annoying, and I figure they probably know who I am -
       | but at least I'm not directly giving them info :/
        
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