[HN Gopher] Dear Mom, I'm Dropping Out
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       Dear Mom, I'm Dropping Out
        
       Author : sberens
       Score  : 40 points
       Date   : 2021-09-17 17:13 UTC (3 days ago)
        
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       | jenny91 wrote:
       | I want to chime in with a bit less negativity. Universities can
       | really be a bit behind on CS compared to industry, and it's
       | really hard to teach a lot of the practical stuff. You can
       | absolutely get a lot more out of industry experience than school
       | in that field, and the author seems well posed to do that with
       | their intrinsic motivation to do this stuff.
       | 
       | All the information is online these days. Universities are good
       | at teaching things for two things: they guide you through the
       | field in the right order and teach you what's important, and
       | there's someone pushing you to do your work with deadlines and
       | such. (Of course the value of universities is not just in the
       | teaching/learning bit.) If you have the motivation for 2, and you
       | have a good guide/job to do 1, then a unviersity might not offer
       | you as much value.
        
         | sberens wrote:
         | Appreciate the positivity! I'm definitely grateful for the
         | first two years at university; I wouldn't be where I am now
         | without them! Like you say though, now I feel like I have (1)
         | and (2) covered, so I'm not getting the same amount of value
         | anymore :/
        
         | quonn wrote:
         | Universities teach the stuff that has stood the test of time.
         | It has been relevant in the 90s and is relevant now. Everything
         | else changes.
         | 
         | The whole debate is only in issue in the US where it's always
         | tied to debt. Come to Europe and enjoy university for free!
        
       | Aqueous wrote:
       | Have to say this because I've seen this attitude become
       | pathological: You don't have to be "killing it" all the time.
       | There's no rush. Time isn't running out.
       | 
       | Finish school. Slow down. Think about what you want to do.
        
       | ibraheemdev wrote:
       | Is this a repost? I seem to remember seeing this a few days ago.
        
         | sberens wrote:
         | My submission was put in the pool! You can read more about it
         | here: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=26998308
        
       | Communitivity wrote:
       | Ok, so some straight talk.
       | 
       | Follow your dreams, but after you get the degree. A degree now
       | days primarily is a signifier of two things: you have the the
       | patience and discipline to stick through it and do well, and you
       | are able to conform. The biggest benefits conferred by a degree
       | are the networking you will do while at a good college, and being
       | able to pass hiring gatekeeper checklists. This is doubly so if
       | you plan on doing any kind of research.
       | 
       | There are still places that will block you if you do not have a
       | degree. The person that does it is an initial screener that is
       | just looking at a checklist and nothing more. This probably
       | (possibly?) does not apply if you have software engineer at a
       | FAANG company on your resume.
       | 
       | Who am I to comment? I basically did this, but went the corporate
       | route. I dropped out to work in the corporate world, rather than
       | startups. For family reasons I am unable to move to SV or NYC.
       | After a career spanning 25 years I am making roughly $180k
       | salary, not counting benefits, in Maryland.
       | 
       | I have worked my rear off to get there, and I am in the process
       | of going back to get my bachelors...because there are positions
       | where the division head has to sign a waiver for me to be hired
       | to the project in that position, because I do not have a degree.
       | 
       | There is a caveat..I am in a somewhat degree-obsessed are,
       | defense consulting. Still, I urge the OP to reconsider.
        
       | motohagiography wrote:
       | Kid's being dumb, especially if he was at McGill and is Canadian.
       | e.g. Have fun getting a US work visa to work with all those cool
       | people without finishing your undergrad. The friction from the
       | same degree/visa issue cuts you out of taking jobs in Europe. Any
       | company bigger than a startup that has an actual HR department
       | won't give you P&L responsibility because if something goes wrong
       | they are exposed to the accusation you weren't objectively
       | qualified, and even though it's bullshit, it will keep him out of
       | most management roles, and reduce his bargaining position on
       | every job he does. Even if he fails and uses his tech skills to
       | take a government job, he's going to spend his life working for
       | (and likely antagonizing) the long tail of people who only barely
       | graduated, and that was their high water mark. This isn't 1995
       | where you can "learn computers" and become a valuable asset. Most
       | of the skills he has, he is - or will - be competing against
       | offshore shops, and even against them, he will be competing
       | globally against people who have mobility between countries
       | (facilitated by degrees) to enter and leave his market as they
       | please, with a lot more talent and leverage. When he wants to go
       | do a quick masters in something he finds interesting, he's also
       | shut out, even if he could probably teach anything he becomes
       | interested in.
       | 
       | Maybe he does a series of startups and one hits. Maybe he's
       | lucky, or brilliant, but the opportunity cost of 4 years in your
       | early 20s is insignificant compared to the same time in your 30s
       | and later. The feeling of this kid's parents isn't sadness or
       | disappointment in foregone dreams, it's awe at how stupid he is
       | being while still managing to dress and feed himself unassisted.
       | 
       | Dear Kid - you're making a staggeringly poor quality decision, go
       | back to school.
        
         | MattGaiser wrote:
         | > Even if he fails and uses his tech skills to take a
         | government job
         | 
         | Governments are some of the most picky about credentials.
        
         | dang wrote:
         | You broke the site guideline against name-calling quite badly
         | with this. Please review the rules and stick to them:
         | 
         | https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html
        
           | motohagiography wrote:
           | I apologize, and sincerely. Unwelcome avuncularity line
           | crossed. Will be more conscientious. Thank you for the yellow
           | card.
        
         | diskzero wrote:
         | This is really interesting observation. Much like the author, I
         | also dropped out partway through a degree to do startups. Boy
         | was I surprised when I (US citizen) was stopped by Canadian
         | immigration and asked to show my degree when I was arriving in
         | Vancouver, BC for a meeting. This was in 1998. I later finished
         | my degree thanks to Apple's then generous at the time support.
         | I feel that I valued the education more as an older adult, but
         | I also wish I had just completed my degree earlier, as it was a
         | lot of work completing a degree and working full-time.
        
         | sberens wrote:
         | I'm actually a US citizen!
         | 
         | Like I said in the essay, I have a full time offer from
         | Facebook in Menlo Park, so I don't think your point about large
         | companies holds.
         | 
         | In the case that I want to do a masters, I think I can reapply
         | for admission to McGill and finish off my degree.
         | 
         | "awe at how stupid he is being while still managing to dress
         | and feed himself unassisted" I'm stealing this insult lol
        
           | motohagiography wrote:
           | Thanks and congrats on the citizenship lottery:)
           | 
           | However, be suspicious of anyone who hires you. It's very
           | difficult to tell if we are smart or just easily manipulated
           | by people who tell us we are. (hint: if you aren't already
           | rich, seriously evaluate the likelihood of the latter) The
           | time it takes to go back and finish your degree after you are
           | 30 can work out to a few hundred thousand dollars in deferred
           | wages/opportunity cost, meaning you aren't going to do it
           | because it's not worth it, and you're going to be under that
           | ceiling for good unless you find a way to really build
           | wealth.
           | 
           | There is zero cost to you spending another couple years in
           | school right now, especially if you are FB level talent. It's
           | all there waiting for you.
           | 
           | Drop out to run a profitable company, never drop out for just
           | a job, especially a fancy one. Prestige is what they offer
           | you when it's not worth it.
        
       | talentedcoin wrote:
       | I mean, so, just looking at one of the courses this person has
       | singled out ....
       | 
       | https://writeofpassage.school/#pricing
       | 
       | I'm not sure what to think about dropping out of college to spend
       | $4-$7k on a course about writing? That is definitely getting up
       | to the level, at least, of what some college courses would cost.
       | 
       | As far as dropping out just generally goes ... what's the rush?
       | Especially if you're close to being done in any case? People
       | shouldn't write off the utility of the credential itself,
       | regardless of their own personal feelings on the subject.
        
         | smoldesu wrote:
         | You don't understand! Their website uses fancy German fonts and
         | neon color gradients, clearly they know what they're doing. And
         | check _that_ out, I can pay my $7,000 tuition via Apple Pay! Be
         | right back, I 'm going to go cancel the rest of my semester.
        
           | dang wrote:
           | " _Don 't be snarky._"
           | 
           | " _Please don 't post shallow dismissals, especially of other
           | people's work. A good critical comment teaches us
           | something._"
           | 
           | https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html
        
           | sberens wrote:
           | Unironically, the whole system to pay tuition has awful UX.
           | 
           | The main benefits of the course that I see are:
           | 
           | - focus on writing _online_ , they make you make a personal
           | website, they give you advice for twitter, medium, etc
           | 
           | - community--people here are much cooler than average college
           | students, they are successful, interesting, connected, and
           | experienced in writing online and are more than willing to
           | share their advice
           | 
           | - there are no grades, which allows me to optimize my time
           | how I want
        
             | talentedcoin wrote:
             | Idk. I am skeptical but I wish you luck! All I would say is
             | (speaking from direct experience here), just be sure in
             | your own mind that you are not just taking the external
             | validation you would receive through college and proxying
             | it with something else like "another course". There are
             | lots of paid courses out there -- some are good and some
             | are bad, but none of them can approximate the experience of
             | working on a problem yourself first.
             | 
             | With respect to writing specifically, there is no magic
             | bullet. Writing takes practice and learning some tricks to
             | optimize your own workflow. You could, after all, practice
             | that in your spare time and stay in school :) Don't quit a
             | program just to do things you could have done while staying
             | in.
        
       | igalakhov wrote:
       | Very well written!
        
       | MattGaiser wrote:
       | The important part of a degree as a Canadian is TN. Makes a heck
       | of a lot easier to get into the USA.
        
       | paxys wrote:
       | Buried towards the bottom of the essay is the fact that the
       | author has accepted a full time offer from Facebook. So yeah, the
       | last year of college (and a degree stamp) is meaningless as long
       | as he plans to stay in the tech world.
        
         | WrtCdEvrydy wrote:
         | Sometimes these offers are contingent on getting the degree, as
         | a way to get an intern or low level employee then get them to
         | senior after they graduate.
         | 
         | This person will get a rude awakening when they need to go the
         | next step and realize "almost a degree" isn't really a degree.
        
         | diskzero wrote:
         | I noticed that and was slightly surprised. Does anyone know if
         | there is a special visa carve-out for non-degreed Canadians?
        
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       | aaroninsf wrote:
       | "I realize that I'm in the final stretch of college now, but I
       | just can't bear to waste another second bogged down by things my
       | brain screams are irrelevant when I think (dare I say know) I can
       | replicate everything college can give and hopefully more."
       | 
       | I had to double check that this was no satire, as this is
       | remarkably ignorant. Ironically it demonstrates that no, Simon
       | does not "know", what a classical general education is and what
       | it is supposed to provide, specifically when delivered in an
       | environment that considers academic knowledge and research as
       | valuable as ends, not means.
       | 
       | Dear Simon, a four year education at a credible institution is
       | neither about resume-packing skills nor partying to build a
       | network...
       | 
       | I can't decide if such misplaced self confidence is more
       | demonstrative of generic individual hubris based on no actual
       | world experience,
       | 
       | or an indictment of the conversion over the last decades of four-
       | year college education into a de facto half-million-dollar
       | glorified boot camp,
       | 
       | but either way, what a shame.
        
         | pdonis wrote:
         | _> Simon does not  "know", what a classical general education
         | is and what it is supposed to provide_
         | 
         | This still raises the question: is the education Simon is
         | getting at McGill actually providing this? I strongly suspect
         | the answer is "no", since almost no college now actually
         | provides what a "classical general education" is supposed to
         | provide. Particularly if one is getting a CS degree. That's a
         | specific credential for a specific career path, and the
         | education that comes with it is focused on that.
         | 
         |  _> an environment that considers academic knowledge and
         | research as valuable as ends, not means._
         | 
         | This again raises the question: is any college now actually
         | such an environment? Certainly the governments that pay for the
         | research don't view it as an end, they view it as a means.
         | After decades of that system, that attitude has percolated down
         | to the professors and students.
        
       | glangdale wrote:
       | A common thread in these endless discussions is what a shallow
       | and reductive view the pro-dropout people have of university.
       | This guy thinks the biggest dig against McGill is that they teach
       | web development (!) with an old stack, and he "knows" that he can
       | "replicate everything that college can give and hopefully more".
       | 
       | I hope Facebook can pay this kid in Dunning-Krugerrands.
       | 
       | What a lot of early dropouts don't seem to realize is that the
       | normal university experience in is very tail-loaded towards the
       | tough, interesting courses. You can blitz through a couple years
       | of basics and fume about how slow stuff is, or that the Intro
       | Programming is in the "Wrong Language (TM)", but most of what I
       | remember being good were 300- and 400-level courses. As you
       | specialize, you also pick up a _lot_ of these courses, relatively
       | speaking.
       | 
       | There's also a lot to be said for, I dunno, all the _other_
       | courses that you could be doing at a university for intellectual
       | breadth. It 's not a vocational school.
       | 
       | Oh well, he has a starter job at a tech company, which will
       | probably be for life. That's how that works, right?
        
       | keithwhor wrote:
       | There are a lot of comments here that echo my sentiment.
       | 
       | Simon, I am a Canadian founder. I got my first job offer in the
       | US (San Francisco) at 25 years old. I took it right away. It was
       | not FAANG, though I was interviewed there many times: not once
       | was I given an offer. My degree was in Biochemistry, not CS. I
       | probably would have been over the moon to get an offer from FB.
       | So I can understand how you feel.
       | 
       | However; I think you should consider finishing your degree. The
       | job offer from Facebook will always be around -- or some
       | equivalent. If you can get that at 20/21 you can get it at 21/22.
       | The only time where I'd recommend somebody drop out is if they're
       | committed to a project that is either clearly a business or has
       | the potential to be one and they're pursuing entrepreneurship. I
       | know a number of founders that have pursued this route and are
       | quite successful. That said; college is really a once-in-a-
       | lifetime experience. I wouldn't trade my time in college for
       | anything, even though coming to Silicon Valley at 25 years old
       | made me feel ancient. If you focus your last year on personal
       | growth, hacking, friends, your network, building relationships -
       | both at McGill and around Silicon Valley - you'll be even more
       | set up to succeed post-graduation.
       | 
       | Re: the FB offer. The ugly truth you're glossing over is that
       | working at FAANG can -- for many -- ultimately be just as boring
       | as coursework in college. If you want to get into startups and
       | like the energy surrounding them, my recommendation is use your
       | last year of college to (1) kick college's ass and get that
       | degree so immigration is easier and (2) start a badass side
       | project.
       | 
       | That's my $0.02 but YMMV. Shoot me a DM on Twitter if you feel
       | like chatting.
        
       | ykevinator3 wrote:
       | Simon stay in school, you'll be 30 one day, then 40, you're so
       | close, just finish it, this is a really stupid decision.
        
       | kindle-dev wrote:
       | I think this is a bad idea. The author is clearly self motivated,
       | so why does he want to start a full-time dev career so early?
       | College is basically the best time in most people's lives to
       | explore ideas that they have. College students are smart enough
       | to build something significant, and have enough time to do so. I
       | know so many people who have atrophied motivationally at Facebook
       | and other big tech companies. The ones that haven't devolved into
       | general apathy are more focused on climbing the corporate ladder
       | or making more money, not anything truly fun and inspirational.
       | Personally, I would love the opportunity to go back to college
       | and have the time I need to explore my ideas.
        
         | tombert wrote:
         | NOTE: Not the author.
         | 
         | I can't speak for Facebook, but I definitely feel like Apple
         | made me stagnate intellectually. It didn't help that every time
         | I wanted to work on something open source, I would get a
         | nastygram from their legal team telling me that doing so would
         | be grounds for termination.
         | 
         | That said, at least for me, college required a type of stick-
         | with-it-ness that I don't really feel I obtained until having
         | to sludge through horrible office jobs for years. Having to
         | work for megacorps that I hated forced me to finish work that I
         | didn't want to do, and trudge through meetings I didn't have
         | any desire to go to. After the hundredth "glorified data entry"
         | assignment and thousandth "sprint planning that I'm only
         | relevant for two minutes of", pushing my way through college
         | felt somewhat easy in comparison.
         | 
         | My path would be virtually impossible to recommend to people,
         | but I honestly wouldn't change the order of how I did things
         | given the option.
        
         | fullshark wrote:
         | Perhaps a taste of the working world will give them a greater
         | understanding/appreciation of what college will offer if they
         | decide to go back. A lot of people waste their college years
         | cause they simply went cause it was what you do.
        
         | CivBase wrote:
         | > I think this is a bad idea. The author is clearly self
         | motivated, so why does he want to start a full-time dev career
         | so early? College is basically the best time in most people's
         | lives to explore ideas that they have. College students are
         | smart enough to build something significant, and have enough
         | time to do so.
         | 
         | What does this have to do with actually going to college? If
         | the degree and courses don't matter, it sounds like OP would be
         | better off just not working for a couple years in a sort of
         | "pre career sabbatical". If you're going to dedicate your time
         | to exploring ideas without an income, you might as well not
         | waste your time on useless classes and accrue unnecessary debt.
        
         | paxys wrote:
         | For the last couple of years the "best time in most people's
         | lives" has been paying $40K for the professor to shuffle
         | through years-old powerpoint decks over Zoom. It's hard to find
         | anyone graduating today who isn't fully disillusioned with the
         | college system.
        
           | netizen-936824 wrote:
           | Is it really any better to sit in a grand lecture hall while
           | the same tired professor slogs through a years old PowerPoint
           | in person?
        
             | paxys wrote:
             | No, but at least people are now realizing the absurdity of
             | the whole situation. Plus there were at least other
             | benefits of college outside of lecture halls that are no
             | longer available.
        
       | ctvo wrote:
       | Must be extraordinary to hop to New York City for a month, then
       | fly to SFO as a young person, with not a (mentioned) care in the
       | world about running out of money.
       | 
       | With the above context, I think we can agree the risks for this
       | person is low. If things go badly there's a landing spot.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | fatnoah wrote:
         | Yeah, I'm not sure what "risk" this person is taking. They can
         | afford to move around the country while not working, plus they
         | already have an offer from Facebook (which would likely be >
         | $100k) for employment.
        
         | Doches wrote:
         | I'm setting a calendar alert to check for an "Our Incredible
         | Journey" post from the OP in about 18 months...
        
       | gtvwill wrote:
       | This kids a middle management wet dream for easy abuse labor. Is
       | willing to drop out of secure education for in-secure work. No
       | long term fin capital from years worked to weather a rough
       | employment period. No further education tickets to class him as a
       | threat to taking managements jobs.
       | 
       | Basically lining himself up to be a slave to the system.... He
       | will make a good cog in the machine.
        
       | purpleflame1257 wrote:
       | I think the author has some unresolved anxiety issues that
       | therapy might address better than dropping out would.
        
       | FooBarBizBazz wrote:
       | There's a flip side to the sunk cost fallacy:
       | 
       | I might not fly around the world to pick up a $100 bill. But if
       | I'm _standing right next to it_ , I pick it up.
       | 
       | Let's say this kid is right that 4 years for a McGill degree
       | isn't worth it (though it is). That's not the decision now. The
       | forward-looking cost is _only one year_ , not four years.
       | 
       | Pick up the $100 first.
       | 
       | Also, a lot of the "college isn't worth it" arguments are for
       | English degrees from West Podunk University. A CS degree from
       | McGill is a completely different animal. One year? Worth it.
        
       | eitu_s wrote:
       | Great letter!
        
       | par wrote:
       | My most recent job (for a well established fintech company)
       | actually verified my diploma with my university, and even asked
       | me to correct a small, related detail i had mistakenly put on my
       | resume! This kid will get background checked some day and start
       | regretting this.
        
         | glangdale wrote:
         | The kid, unless he is very stupid, won't falsely claim to have
         | graduated. They don't background check you on things that you
         | don't claim.
         | 
         | That said, I wonder if a university will confirm a partially
         | completed degree. If not, it becomes something that rounds down
         | to zero at anywhere that takes background checking seriously.
        
         | quonn wrote:
         | Hmm. I never got background checked. But I would also never put
         | anything false. Honestly, you only have one life and university
         | is a significant part of it. It has nothing to do with your job
         | - nothing at all. A few decades down the line this will be
         | clear.
        
       | zinodaur wrote:
       | I think its okay to drop out because you have your own ideas you
       | are excited to work on. You can always go back to school and
       | finish your degree if you need it for a visa.
       | 
       | Don't drop out and work for FB though. I can tell you are fired
       | up and excited to do things - but big corporations like FB will
       | suck you dry and you will get nothing in return.
        
       | dimmke wrote:
       | I did a year of college and dropped out and began my career at
       | 20. It's definitely possible to have a good career as a software
       | engineer without it, but it definitely put me at a disadvantage
       | in some situations. Only one time that I explicitly know of
       | professionally but it also caused some problems with feeling
       | insecure.
       | 
       | If you've already gotten a job at FB just make sure the offer
       | isn't contingent on completion of degree and you're probably
       | fine. But be aware there might come a time where you'd wished you
       | had finished.
        
         | woleium wrote:
         | I dropped out, went back to do a MBA part time (while working
         | full time) about 10 years later because almost all director
         | level positions I was looking at required it. It was hard work,
         | but it worked out for me.
        
         | chana_masala wrote:
         | Yep. I graduated in the top ten of my high school, had a full
         | scholarship to the state university, and already had about a
         | year's worth of college credits from AP classes. I made it one
         | semester. Too much instant freedom discovering drugs and
         | parties. I should not have lived in the dorms. After a ten year
         | gap year and years of professional experience I am now
         | finishing up my degree.
        
         | google234123 wrote:
         | If you already have a engineering job at FB then they wont care
         | if you finished your degree.
        
         | tombert wrote:
         | I have a similar story; I finished about 1.5 years at FSU, and
         | due to a lack of motivation and depression (and the two feeding
         | into each other), I decided to drop out when I was 21. I was
         | extremely lucky to find work as a software engineer really
         | quickly, and I managed to piece together a pretty awesome
         | career making a pretty reasonable salary, but there's been
         | several occasions where not having a degree made my life
         | measurably worse.
         | 
         | Since then, nine years after dropping out, I managed to
         | complete my degree at WGU (which has its own share of valid
         | criticisms). I don't know if the degree will "help" me more
         | than my experience has, but at elast it's one less inferiority
         | complex I have to deal with.
        
           | dimmke wrote:
           | Yeah. I could go back and finish (though I'd guess I would be
           | starting from scratch now), but I'm now at a level where it
           | doesn't matter.
           | 
           | It would be so weird to be taking English classes with a
           | bunch of 18 year olds just to add a line item to my resume
           | nobody would read anyways.
           | 
           | I've had times where it felt like I had to work harder, but I
           | think a lot of that was self imposed and working hard is
           | important in being a good software engineer anyways.
           | 
           | You can go on the CSCareerQuestions subreddit and see many
           | posts from people who did the bare minimum and have CS
           | degrees with no idea how to get into the industry.
        
       | chas wrote:
       | While I did computer engineering and not computer science, I
       | frequently come back to how useful of an intellectual foundation
       | my college education was. It's basically a whirlwind tour of
       | humanity's greatest hits in a given domain. While it's hard to
       | tell which ones are going to be a big deal for you, there are
       | certain collections of skills that have been super useful to
       | combine in the past, so getting the whole cognitive standard
       | library under your belt is a great use of time.
       | 
       | While I thought I'd be focusing 100% on discrete math in my
       | computing life, I was really happy to have been exposed to
       | gradients and convolutions when neural networks came to
       | prominence. I've also recently gotten interested in power
       | electronics and have been really grateful for having previously
       | been exposed to several varieties of transistors and having had
       | half a semester of thermodynamics. Not to say that this
       | background was really enough to be productive, but it was really
       | nice to already know that these subjects exist and be familiar
       | enough with their broad outlines to not have to completely
       | bootstrap multiple fields at the same time.
       | 
       | I'm a little salty about this though because, at the time, there
       | were a ton of classes that I thought were boring and useless. I
       | was wrong (at least about the uselessness) about for vast
       | majority of them.
        
       | ljm wrote:
       | > [...] what would be the use of credentials issued by a
       | university thousands of miles away that still taught PHP for web
       | development? Would success in the far more complex task of
       | building startups from the ground up not be credential enough?
       | [...]
       | 
       | I'm reminded of the recent post about the 22 year old who said
       | they had failed: "Your mistake was thinking you could go into,
       | say, a CS degree and have nothing to learn."[0]
       | 
       | Of course, dropping out and starting a career at FB (or similar)
       | is hardly a bad move. Who can say if it's the right thing to do
       | or not? It's hard to discern a positive motive, though, when 95%
       | of the reasoning is why college isn't great, and the bit about
       | Facebook or throwing startup ideas at the wall to see what sticks
       | barely passes as a footnote. Generally the best decisions don't
       | come from focussing on what you don't want to do.
       | 
       | [0]https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=28575317
        
       | frazbin wrote:
       | tl;dr - dropped out to work in red hot job market.
        
       | TameAntelope wrote:
       | This is what I think my father must have meant when he said, "I
       | hope you never visit SF because if you do you'll never leave."
       | 
       | If I were 21ish and had gotten this far, I absolutely would have
       | made this choice, and it absolutely (for me) would have been the
       | wrongest choice I could have made in that moment.
       | 
       | The credential matters, and is worth 10 fold the value of that
       | checked box on interview applications. To the people whose
       | opinion Simon likely cares about, it proves you can stick with
       | something that's unpleasant long enough to see it through to
       | completion. Completing college (or not, as it's something I
       | haven't done) sticks with you in conversations, in social
       | interactions, and in the minds of others.
       | 
       | If you ever want to do anything besides bootstrap your own
       | startup all the way to product/market fit (not as easy as you
       | possibly think right now), not finishing college _will_ create a
       | little nugget of, if not doubt, then  "prove it now" mentality in
       | the heads of the people whose opinions you care about (both
       | professionally e.g. investors and personally e.g. friends).
       | 
       | If you're 20 or 21, your primary advantage is time. You _do_ have
       | the time to finish up college, and _then_ do all of these things.
       | You can do both, and pretending like you can 't is just giving in
       | to that underdeveloped prefrontal cortex.
       | 
       | Simon, I hope I'm wrong, but this is a mistake. You will regret
       | this.
        
         | paxys wrote:
         | The credential matters - until you get your first job. A few
         | years from now no employer (at least in tech) is going to
         | reject him for not having a college degree when he has
         | "Software Engineer at Facebook" on his resume.
         | 
         | I was recently looking to switch jobs and actually removed the
         | "education" section from my resume because it was taking too
         | much space. Prospective employers care much more about work
         | experience and other relevant projects than the college courses
         | you took a decade ago.
        
           | smoldesu wrote:
           | This has also been my experience. Without a degree, finding
           | people interested in your CV is pretty tough. Once I started
           | citing some previous contract work though, things started to
           | open up. It's obviously no replacement for a degree, but I
           | guess most people just want another party to vouch for your
           | credibility.
        
           | TameAntelope wrote:
           | True, until you attempt to move into an officer position at a
           | company. It's a requirement for every organization I've
           | spoken to or with colleagues about, both large companies and
           | at startups.
           | 
           | For very early stage startups, or if you're a cofounder,
           | that's different. The further into in a company's lifetime,
           | the more required it is, in my experience. In other words,
           | it's _a_ barrier to _some_ things.
           | 
           | Not to say that it's everyone's path, but I don't think
           | everyone realizes that there _is_ a ceiling, and it does not
           | get easier to obtain an undergraduate degree than it is if
           | you 're 20 and have already completed three years worth of
           | the program.
        
             | paxys wrote:
             | What is an "officer position"? I work at a large tech
             | company (and have worked at several others, including
             | Microsoft) and several of my directors, VPs and equivalent
             | have had no formal degree. This is common when employees
             | rise through the ranks or come in via acquisitions.
             | 
             | Companies aren't going to ask for college transcripts when
             | offering you a promotion. What matters is your experience
             | and performance, that's it.
        
               | TameAntelope wrote:
               | A VP is an officer (a director is not), and I've worked
               | with people who were asked for exactly those things when
               | interviewing or being considered for such a promotion,
               | both internally and interviewing for a role externally.
               | 
               | I agree that what you say about experience and
               | performance _should_ be the only thing that matters, but
               | it 's naive to think that's simply "true", with no
               | caveats, qualifications, or exceptions.
               | 
               | I don't think it's as common as you think as you progress
               | in your career beyond an individual contributor,
               | generally in the tech industry, and specifically at
               | Microsoft I'm 75% sure what you're saying is _not_ the
               | case, with a very small handful of exceptions.
        
               | zahllos wrote:
               | Another aspect to consider: this is all a very US-centric
               | view. In the UK, getting hired without a degree is not
               | impossible (I did it) but very difficult, and some
               | processes will simply filter you out. Large employers
               | like IBM want a 2.2 equivalent degree from a good-ish
               | university, doesn't matter what, and you can potentially
               | go and work for them. Even FAANG, those that are here,
               | e.g. Google, Amazon, Facebook, will primarily recruit
               | people with degrees.
               | 
               | Ditching the degree will also make it harder to move
               | abroad if you want to in the future, since most
               | immigration formalities evaluate education level. This is
               | definitely true when it comes to emigrating _into_ the
               | US, for example.
               | 
               | Also, if you ever decide you need to go back to
               | university (school) to learn about something in the
               | future, I don't know about the US, but in Europe, a
               | condition of entry to masters programmes is always
               | holding a bachelors degree. So if you have to go back to
               | school here, likely you'll be going back to bachelors
               | level. I don't even know how valuable your existing
               | credits would be - I can tell you that they tend to
               | expire in the EU.
               | 
               | So, there are some consequences to this choice. I'm not
               | judging, each to their own, but if it were me, I'd say
               | life isn't a race and unless you are already sat on a
               | potential unicorn and it 'has to be now' Bill-Gates-
               | style, a couple more years while you finish your degree
               | is nothing.
        
         | johntiger1 wrote:
         | If you have time, then why not do it later in life?
        
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