[HN Gopher] Smart kids should skip high school (2015)
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       Smart kids should skip high school (2015)
        
       Author : exolymph
       Score  : 49 points
       Date   : 2021-09-13 21:10 UTC (1 hours ago)
        
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       | Upvoter33 wrote:
       | I knew a few kids who went to college very early. To say that it
       | messed up their life is an understatement. Schools should figure
       | out how to teach smart kids useful stuff while they get to learn
       | how to be social with kids their own age.
        
         | eynsham wrote:
         | Lots of people start doing olympiads (often there are
         | relatively big correspondence programmes and similar to train
         | people before selecting teams for the international ones). I
         | was never intelligent enough to do well in them, alas.
        
       | nonameiguess wrote:
       | This woman dropped out of high school and illegally became an
       | underage prostitute because she was struggling with depression. I
       | don't mean to minimize her experience or suggest there is
       | anything intrinsically wrong with that, but I don't think you can
       | just project whatever terrible school experiences led her to that
       | and think everyone has that bad of an experience in high school.
       | 
       | This reminds me a bit of Scott Alexander's extreme bias against
       | school, due to all of the extreme bullying he faced.
       | 
       | It might make more sense to say kids who are having a truly awful
       | experience in high school should skip high school, rather than
       | just "smart kids should skip high school." I think I was a pretty
       | smart person, perfect SAT score even, and I certainly could have
       | learned everything I learned in high school must faster with less
       | wasted time if I studied on my own, but I don't think the
       | experience was worthless. It's the last time I had real, truly
       | close friends. It was the last time I competed hard in real
       | sports leagues. Theoretically, I could have tried to find other
       | ways to do those things, but there's some benefit to just being
       | around the same people all the time and doing things together if
       | you don't hate each other and make each other's lives awful.
       | 
       | I don't know what else I would have done. I may have been
       | academically ready for college a lot earlier, but I wasn't
       | socially ready. I wasn't socially ready even at 18 and probably
       | should have waited even longer. You can't just actually go to
       | work even if you're able to because of child labor laws.
        
       | ChicagoBoy11 wrote:
       | I skipped 5th grade and I can't for the life of me really
       | pinpoint what possible negative impact it has had on my life.
       | And, even if you suggest that there really wasn't any positive,
       | either, just as a sheer function of entering the labor force one
       | year earlier, the lifetime income impact is quite significant. I
       | certainly don't want to dismiss that I had one less year of fun
       | elementary school times with friends, but it's fairly clear to me
       | that the way we've organized schooling isn't really rooted in
       | anything that really promotes the success of an individual, but
       | more what is socially most efficient/easiest.
        
       | rejectedandsad wrote:
       | I generally think advice from .001% fringe elites is less than
       | useless, it's actively harmful. People like you are completely
       | detached from reality and most of you have nothing but active
       | disdain for people of lesser intelligence like me - hell, you
       | probably would support euthanizing people with IQs like mine.
        
         | thegypsyking wrote:
         | Congrats, you're the cringiest person on the entire website.
         | You should really go to a psychiatrist or something based on
         | your post history.
        
           | [deleted]
        
           | dang wrote:
           | You can't attack another user like this, no matter how bad
           | their posts are or you feel they are. Posting like this is a
           | bannable offence on HN.
           | 
           | I'm not going to ban you because we haven't warned you
           | before, but please read
           | https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html and stick to
           | the rules from now on.
        
         | darthvoldemort wrote:
         | Friend, I remember your posts from the past several months. I
         | honestly think you need to go through some therapy. You have
         | been through a lot of bad experiences because of your parents
         | and because of unrealistic expectations put on you. It's not
         | your fault.
         | 
         | But being angry like this is really toxic for yourself. Life
         | should be happier than this for you. Please find a way to talk
         | to a therapist because you need to release your anger, get past
         | your trauma, and find happiness.
        
           | rejectedandsad wrote:
           | My parents don't understand why I believe this actually,
           | they're pretty smart and went to selective institutions. I,
           | on the other hand, am an example of generational decline with
           | nothing to live for because people like GP think state
           | schoolers that didn't skip multiple grades are subhuman.
        
             | Dylan16807 wrote:
             | There's no reason to think GP believes that, or that the
             | typical person "like GP" thinks that.
        
             | darthvoldemort wrote:
             | You need to learn to be happy being who you are, not who
             | you "should" be. If your parents are toxic, then take a
             | break from them. Surround yourself with people that make
             | you happy and forget about your past. You should really see
             | a therapist because this anger and resentment is not the
             | way to live your life. You're still young and you can have
             | an incredibly happy life. Please consider it strongly.
        
         | dang wrote:
         | We've banned this account for repeatedly abusing HN. Attacking
         | other users like this is totally not cool.
         | 
         | We can all empathize with the difficult experiences you've been
         | through, but translating that into hundreds of off-topic HN
         | comments is not a good use of energy. You've been doing this
         | for a long time, with multiple accounts, and we've asked you to
         | stop many times. Many other HN users have had difficult
         | experiences too, and they're not behaving this way. It's time
         | to stop doing this.
         | 
         | https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html
         | 
         | We detached this subthread from
         | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=28517375.
        
         | [deleted]
        
       | sulam wrote:
       | I realize this advice may be appropriate for some people, but
       | speaking personally as a parent who is both lucky enough and
       | financially fortunate enough to send both of my girls to a
       | private school, I think it's misguided for them. The school they
       | go through is K-12, diverse, and the high school portion of it is
       | pretty amazing. I'm personal friends with several of the teachers
       | and I can say with all honesty that the classes they teach are
       | easily the equal of the most interesting college courses I took
       | at a very well regarded university. Obviously I haven't sampled
       | every single class, and I'm sure there are some duds, but I've
       | sampled enough to feel like I have a pretty good feel for it. It
       | would be a huge mistake for my kids to forego the opportunity to
       | learn more about the world with those teachers.
        
         | TheOtherHobbes wrote:
         | What would happen if that kind of education was available to
         | everyone?
         | 
         | What would happen if world-lead expert personal tuition was
         | available to everyone? (Obviously impractical, but let's
         | pretend, as a thought experiment.)
         | 
         | To what extent are we standing our own feet as a species by
         | prioritising hierarchy and economic discrimination over free
         | access to the best possible education for everyone?
         | 
         | Especially for those who want it and can benefit from it?
        
         | memco wrote:
         | > the classes they teach are easily the equal of the most
         | interesting college courses I took at a very well regarded
         | university
         | 
         | If they can handle this, then they could take college level
         | classes and get high school credit and college credit at the
         | same time.
         | 
         | I went to an alternative high school that met on a community
         | college campus and had 50% of the requirements for HS
         | graduation for junior and senior year served by taking college
         | courses. I was only able to get about half a year of college
         | credit this way, but I was able to get half a year head start
         | on college. In hindsight, I would have liked to start that
         | process a year earlier and skipped as much HS as I could. I
         | don't think that path is for everyone, but if you're capable
         | and motivated I recommend exploring alternative pathways for
         | reducing the traditional HS experience in favor of more
         | profitable uses of time & talent.
        
       | subsubzero wrote:
       | My Wife left high school after sophomore year, she didn't like
       | the bullying etc. and got into "middle college" a program with
       | college level classes at the local community college taught by
       | professors. She got into NYU and a few others once she graduated
       | so there is a path outside of high school for some. I do feel
       | like there is a valuable lesson to be learned from high school
       | besides education and that is socialization. Going straight to
       | college after middle school seems unrealistic for 99% of folks
       | anyway so what will be filled with that 4 years before college
       | starts?
        
       | Avicebron wrote:
       | My friend did this in hs (well, he "dropped out sophomore year")
       | to go to college, he got his degree in math and is doing quite
       | well. But I will say there is something to be said for having a
       | traditional social experience of hs which i thoroughly enjoyed
        
       | munificent wrote:
       | I'm naturally suspicious of anyone's "shoulds" about education
       | unless they base them on research in sociology, psychology,
       | and/or pedagogy. Otherwise, they are usually based on the
       | person's own personal history and our interpretation of our
       | history is always suspect and biased.
       | 
       | (The author's disclaimer means my point doesn't apply to the
       | linked article.)
       | 
       | It may be the case that the author's high school experience
       | wasn't worth the time, but that's a _retroactive observation._ It
       | 's probably true that for some people high school is a net good
       | and for some it isn't. But unless you have an effective way to
       | distinguish one from the other _before_ they go to high school,
       | it 's hard to draw actionable advice from that fact.
        
       | peter_l_downs wrote:
       | Fun way to make this argument is to use College/University
       | instead of highschool and then, if people more or less agree on
       | that, also suggest Highschool. You can keep moving down the
       | stack. At some point, people start to be concerned about
       | socialization, which is a very fair concern. I did not learn
       | anything in highschool (or college) but I made friends that I
       | have to this day and learned how to be a human in a world of
       | other humans. Hard to untangle things after the fact but I went
       | straight into the working world after highschool and I am really,
       | really glad that I ended up eventually going to college solely
       | because of the people I met there and the ways they challenged me
       | to grow and become a better person.
       | 
       | edit: there are obviously ways to get this socialization without
       | being in a traditional, horrible, highschool environment. I do
       | not know if I would homeschool my kids or not!
        
         | bernulli wrote:
         | It's worth to emphasize your edit: the alternative to high-
         | school is not restricted to solitary confinement.
        
         | thegypsyking wrote:
         | I'm wondering if there is a way to create some sort of less
         | structured alternative to the government education system. I
         | think socializing with people of different classes, beliefs and
         | abilities is necessary, and I would probably not send my kind
         | to some kind of system where he would only meet other high IQ
         | peers, but the gov education is >95% wasted time. Perhaps a
         | combination of homeschooling + mandatory sports team
         | participation + some artsy stuff?
        
           | antasvara wrote:
           | There's pros and cons to any style of teaching, but the
           | Montessori method has some of what you're looking for.
           | Specifically, it allows students to move as fast or slow as
           | they want in any particular subject area.
           | 
           | I went to a Montessori school for a year in middle school,
           | and I remember being in a class with 5th graders doing math
           | at the 9th grade level. I also remember a few kids in 5th
           | grade doing math at a 4th grade level. The key was that the
           | teachers could teach their subject at all of those levels.
           | 
           | I feel like some of this could be implemented in a less
           | structured educational system. Being able to move at varying
           | different paces while still socializing with peers of the
           | same age is a good combination. I would add a little more
           | structure than Montessori schools though, to make sure that
           | students are moving at least at a baseline pace. It also
           | takes some scheduling work to make sure that teachers aren't
           | teaching an hour lesson to one student at a time.
        
             | thegypsyking wrote:
             | Interesting, I'm from Eastern Europe so never heard about
             | this system. Sounds like a good alternative to public
             | schools or boarding schools for sure.
        
         | barbazoo wrote:
         | > I did not learn anything in highschool (or college)
         | 
         | Is this really the case or do you just not remember specific
         | things you learned or even abstract concepts around learning
         | itself that are hard to quantify?
        
           | ElFitz wrote:
           | Not the parent, but I really couldn't say.
           | 
           | I personally spent most high school classes either sleeping
           | or playing on my laptop, and often literally learning about
           | what we had been seeing in class when reading the exam's
           | title. Often doing things like completing the math exams
           | based on recollections from middle school. And yet got by,
           | year after year, as well as anyone else.
           | 
           | I then spent over a decade having a hard time figuring out
           | how to actually take and keep any kind of notes, study and
           | how to learn things that didn't just "come to me" on their
           | own.
           | 
           | Quite a weird experience.
           | 
           | Looking back, I can only wish it had been different. But
           | that's pointless.
        
           | peter_l_downs wrote:
           | I don't know, how would I?
        
             | SECProto wrote:
             | If you don't know whether you learned anything, you
             | shouldn't state definitively "I did not learn anything in
             | highschool (or college)"
        
             | Jtsummers wrote:
             | Do you know math? Did you rediscover it, learn it from
             | materials or individuals outside of school, or learn it in
             | school?
             | 
             | Repeat that exercise with other areas of knowledge.
        
       | dang wrote:
       | Discussed at the time:
       | 
       |  _Smart Kids Should Skip High School_ -
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=11509374 - April 2016 (65
       | comments)
        
         | exolymph wrote:
         | Ha, I didn't even remember, I thought this was first time
         | round!
        
       | cosmotic wrote:
       | At the very least, please be aware of AP classes that you can get
       | college credit for instead of having to essentially retake the
       | same courses later.
        
       | andrewstuart wrote:
       | >> enduring the sociocultural hell of high school
       | 
       | It's an important part of life and becoming an adult in so many
       | ways and skipping it deprives the child of the opportunity for
       | the good and bad experiences that humans need to experience to
       | become balanced adults.
       | 
       | Life has bad bits for everyone. Chopping out high school
       | preemptively is not only not a solution but is actively
       | detrimental.
        
         | hackinthebochs wrote:
         | Nothing about high school is relevant to the real world. At no
         | other point in your life are you in forced proximity with
         | random people within your age cohort, who have no
         | responsibilities outside of school work and maximizing their
         | social status. This is an unnatural environment and nothing
         | about it is necessary to becoming a functioning adult. The
         | benefits that high school does bring to social development is
         | not exclusive to high school. But it brings so many detrimental
         | experiences as to be a net negative in many cases.
        
           | Avicebron wrote:
           | I'd be interested in what you describe as detrimental
           | experiences and why they potentially weren't net positive in
           | ways that you might not immediately recognize
        
             | qsort wrote:
             | Anything can 'potentially be net positive in ways you might
             | not immediately recognize'. There is literally no event
             | that description does not apply to.
             | 
             | In many cases the 'negative experiences' are daily abuse.
             | 
             | I myself had a horrible and painful time in high school,
             | but listening to people of various backgrounds I concluded
             | it's pretty much hit or miss. I can't generalize from my
             | negative experience, but you can't generalize from your
             | positive one either.
        
             | tonyarkles wrote:
             | Getting slammed into lockers, having people steal your
             | notebooks, having half your friends spontaneously turn on
             | you...
             | 
             | I'm reading into your comment a little bit and projecting
             | my own thoughts of "these things might have been character-
             | building." That might be true, but for some they could also
             | end up causing PTSD/similar things, difficultly trusting
             | people, severe low-self-confidence, etc.
        
             | hackinthebochs wrote:
             | Specifically the forced proximity with people who may bully
             | you, or encourage damaging or anti-social behavior, as well
             | as the environment where social status, and the avenues
             | available to gain it as a high school student, is the end-
             | all of your existence.
             | 
             | How many bad habits are learned in high school, from catty
             | behavior, to acting out for attention, to being physically
             | dominant, to spending money on flashy gear, to gain status?
             | How many environments outside of high school do these
             | behaviors result in meaningful, lasting status gains? Not
             | many, at least none that can be considered healthy
             | environments. If the goal of high school is to prepare kids
             | for adulthood, they don't do a good job of it.
             | 
             | Granted, not every school is like this and not everyone has
             | these experiences. But putting teens in a social pressure-
             | cooker among their age cohort will result in some very
             | unnatural local optimums for behavior.
        
               | Avicebron wrote:
               | While I am not and won't dismiss your personal
               | experiences with high school, but I think there is value
               | in that pressure cooker environment, even if unpleasant.
               | College and the workforce/academia is rife with similar
               | bad habits that I can see myself not being prepared for
               | if I hadn't had a dose of the petty viciousness (albeit
               | with somewhat less consequence in the long term). It's
               | one thing to be emotionally abused by some catty behavior
               | in a setting that is less likely to screw your life over
               | or at least gives you a chance of redemption post hs.
               | Than to find out that even worse cattiness exists within
               | your PhD program and now you're royally screwed over with
               | it becoming harder and harder to get a fresh start.
        
           | dleslie wrote:
           | > who have no responsibilities outside of school work and
           | maximizing their social status.
           | 
           | I suppose this might be true in middle-class, suburban areas;
           | but where I grew up, and I imagine in similar places
           | elsewhere, there were plenty of working teenagers who held
           | responsibility for their family's well-being. They worked in
           | the family corner store/restaurant/shop/farm during the
           | weekends and evenings. Others provided primary care for
           | family members; their younger siblings or infirm adults.
        
           | majormajor wrote:
           | Let's certainly not make it more like the internet, where you
           | can set things up so you only see those who agree with you
           | already and disdain everyone else without risk of
           | confrontation.
        
           | antasvara wrote:
           | >Nothing about high school is relevant to the real world.
           | 
           | I wouldn't say "nothing." Going to school 5 days a week
           | mimics a workweek, even if the timing is off. Being with
           | random people of your age group in close proximity is a
           | little extreme, but it has some similarities to working in an
           | office with a random assortment of personalities. Having
           | tasks assigned to you that you then have to complete isn't
           | exactly how workplaces function, but having a baseline
           | ability to complete work that isn't your favorite is a
           | valuable skill.
           | 
           | Now, all of these things are taken to the extreme in high
           | school and that should be adjusted. However, saying that none
           | of high school is relevant is a stretch.
        
         | rossnordby wrote:
         | Removing high school doesn't necessarily deprive a child of
         | formative experiences, it just changes them.
         | 
         | It's possible for the change to be bad (e.g. parents in a cult
         | pulling their kids out of school to move to The Compound), but
         | I'd wager that if you took a kid who felt like high school was
         | a terrible experience and gave them other constructive options
         | and the resources to pursue them, it'd almost always be a net
         | win.
         | 
         | The value of the 'high school experience' is contextual, not
         | everyone will experience the same balance of good and bad. For
         | some people, the bad is so overwhelming that it goes beyond the
         | point of constructive and well into destructive. Those
         | situations aren't hard to detect.
        
         | afiori wrote:
         | people have many different experiences of school,
         | 
         | a nice discussion on the topic can be found here
         | https://astralcodexten.substack.com/p/book-review-the-cult-o...
        
         | hellbannedguy wrote:
         | Americans who go to public schools get enough of the "bad bits"
         | in grade through middle school to prepare us for life.
         | 
         | I used to get knots in my stomach on the first day of school. I
         | just knew there would be an after school fight, and I would be
         | involved even though I tried to remain invisible.
         | 
         | I should have gone to a community college instead of high
         | school, but didn't even know it was an option at the time.
         | 
         | (I wasen't a big kid, but taught by my Irish father to never
         | back down from a male on male confrontations. That might
         | explain some of my problems with bullies? By the time I hit
         | high school, I was so beyond fighting, and any form of bullying
         | --to any of my classmates. I really didn't like high school,
         | with the exception of a few girlfriends. Everything I should
         | have learned in high school, I made up for at a community
         | college in a semester. I remember sitting in a chem class with
         | 35 year old nursing students, and I was in heaven. I loved
         | college so much, I didn't want it to end.)
        
         | codingwageslave wrote:
         | Being chained to a desk memorizing facts isn't an important
         | part of life
        
         | elboru wrote:
         | I constantly hear about how hellish is high school in the US.
         | Do other countries experience the same? I enjoyed the high
         | school equivalent of my country, met some of my best friends
         | there. My peers don't seem to ever mention bad experiences
         | during that period. Is it really as bad as in the movies?
         | Stereotypical bullies, popular guys vs nerds and all that?
        
           | hammyhavoc wrote:
           | I left my school at sixteen in the UK. Five years of barely
           | sleeping, dreading the next day, crying for fifteen minutes
           | before going in and experiencing endless torment and violence
           | including being knocked unconscious on several occasions,
           | having my glasses shattered on multiple occasions, bullying
           | by members of staff, and on one occasion having someone punch
           | the bridge of my glasses quite literally inside of my nose,
           | and yes, there's still a scar to this day, and yes, it
           | knocked me out cold. To say that I was genuinely suicidal at
           | several points is putting it lightly, and that's without
           | going into the problems outside of school. "Fag" or "faggot"
           | is a word I never want to hear again in my life.
           | 
           | I wanted to transfer. I wanted to be home schooled. I wanted
           | to do absolutely anything but be there. I had a plan though:
           | start my own business whilst I was still at school so that I
           | would have goals at sixteen, and it wouldn't be like I was
           | bumming about doing nothing when I left. So I did that.
           | 
           | Fast-forward to me now twenty-eight and I'm very happy,
           | working on my own terms with my own biz. Life is good.
           | Partner of six years, wonderful family. Never went to
           | university.
           | 
           | Did it build character? Yes. Would I go through it again? I
           | can only say that I'm glad I will never have to. However, it
           | gave me insight to knowing what schools of the time were
           | willing to overlook and tolerate, and will definitely inform
           | my style of parenting when it comes to problems at school.
        
         | handrous wrote:
         | Adult work & social life has practically nothing in common with
         | high school. Neither does college. The only times any of that
         | looks even a little like high school is when something's gone
         | very wrong.
         | 
         | From about 6th or 7th grade through graduation, school is a
         | weird environment all its own.
        
           | tailspin2019 wrote:
           | > Adult work & social life has practically nothing in common
           | with high school.
           | 
           | Some might say it is similar to being in prison though...
           | 
           | At least for part of high school that's what it felt like at
           | times for me. The biggest issue being the forced labour -
           | sorry, I mean "homework" - of which the burden was
           | substantial and the benefits not at all clear.
           | 
           | At the time I remember being very depressed that even when I
           | was at home and away from the school that I often didn't
           | enjoy, instead of indulging in my hobbies (which,
           | coincidentally, is how I learnt practically all of the
           | specialised skills that I used to kick off my techology
           | career) I was forced to complete endless hours of dull and
           | unsurprising homework. I understand the benefits in
           | moderation but the sheer amount assigned to me was actively
           | detrimental to the point of robbing me of a big chunk of my
           | free time as a teenager.
           | 
           | I desperately wanted to continue teaching myself programming
           | (this was in the early 90's) but instead I had to complete
           | some mindless essay about sedimentary fucking rocks.
           | 
           | Not to mention that I had undiagnosed ADHD so the homework
           | took me forever and created considerable stress.
           | 
           | Having said that, it was so bad (and felt so pointless) that
           | even though I was academically pretty strong and had wanted
           | to go to University from quite a young age, I instead quit
           | school at 16, immediately got a job in a business consultancy
           | (using my self-taught programming/design skills) and was
           | running small software projects for huge multi-national
           | businesses within a year. By the time most of my peer group
           | graduated University, I had about 5 years of a software
           | development career under my belt and had already started my
           | first business.
           | 
           | In retrospect I don't think I would have done anything
           | different, apart from putting about 500% less effort into the
           | sedimentary rock essays.
        
             | handrous wrote:
             | Damn, you're me except I did finish high school. In
             | hindsight I very much wish I'd gotten my GED at 15 or 16
             | and snagged an associate's degree by age 18. Turns out non-
             | elite college gen-ed classes are _easier_ and have way
             | lower time requirements than the high school I went to
             | (which was just, like, a totally normal high school,
             | nothing special), so it 'd have been a breeze. I had no
             | clue about that, and just (reasonably, I think?) assumed it
             | was even harder than what I was already doing. Could have
             | put more time in at my tech job, which _was_ hugely
             | valuable to my future, too.
        
           | convolvatron wrote:
           | worse - when 'adult' situations go sideways, you can often
           | take a sideways look - and damn if they aren't all acting
           | like they are still in high school.
        
           | thegypsyking wrote:
           | Jail is 100% like high school, from the experiences of the
           | people I know who spent time in the can at least.
        
       | eynsham wrote:
       | I found school academically useful for two reasons. First, I am
       | very lazy, but I also don't want to look it, so I actually took
       | notes, did problem sheets, &c.--and in lessons, since I had
       | nothing better to do, I paid attention and talked about the
       | material. This assumes of course that the school is able to
       | impart something useful, which may not be the case.
        
         | Ekaros wrote:
         | The structure really helped me. So I did quite well, could have
         | done better, but that really wouldn't have mattered in the end.
         | The less structured University went less well. But lot of it
         | was also good teachers in good school.
        
       | jrm4 wrote:
       | Broadly, I think the mistake is thinking that "what is taught in
       | school" is somehow _objectively_ good or necessary.
       | 
       | I've come to think of it more in terms of "School helps people
       | navigate a world in which you are generally expected to go to
       | school."
       | 
       | Some people will get a great deal of value from it, and really
       | need it, whatever "it" is -- it could be what's in the books or
       | it could be what's in the people around you.
       | 
       | Some people may not need it much at all.
       | 
       | Furthermore, of course what makes this especially complex is the
       | variance in "schools."
        
       | invokestatic wrote:
       | Towards the end of high school, I started a fairly profitable
       | startup, and went on to do that for a few more years after in
       | lieu of college. At the time, I really struggled with my parents
       | desire to keep me in school and my own desire to drop out and get
       | a GED. They won out. And actually, I'm glad they did. Even though
       | my grades were very poor and I never did homework, I really do
       | think I came out of high school better than I would have been
       | with only a GED.
       | 
       | Now, 6 years out of high school, I attend a community college
       | part-time to work on a bachelors degree. Funny how I completely
       | discounted higher education just a few years ago.
        
         | renewiltord wrote:
         | Fascinating story. How did the startup go?
        
           | invokestatic wrote:
           | My partner and I grew apart and we shut it down in 2018.
           | Funded everything since then.
        
       | errantspark wrote:
       | I'm a highschool dropout, but I did a decent job of attending
       | most of the way through anyway cause all my friends weren't
       | fuckups. I have a hard time imagining what sort of person I'd be
       | if I didn't have that growth with a cohort of friends.
       | 
       | In terms of my success as a human who is part of society I don't
       | think anything has been as helpful as the social skills that I
       | learned in high school. I don't think it's the only way to learn
       | these skills, but I certainly feel like my social-learning
       | velocity was by far the highest in high school.
       | 
       | Ultimately how other people perceive me influences my quality of
       | life more than any other thing. I don't think as a "smart kid"
       | skipping high school would have helped me, I think it would have
       | hurt me a lot. I feel like my life opened up immensely when I
       | accepted that being smart and correct and having a deep
       | understanding of the problem at hand matters so much less than
       | being able to get along with people.
        
       | huachimingo wrote:
       | Instead of skipping, why not show them advanced material? Like
       | bachilleratos or 1st Uni semester...
        
         | sodality2 wrote:
         | The International Baccalaureate high school program is
         | international and offers exactly that, my experience with it
         | has been incredible so far and I know that it's helped me
         | prepare for college in uncountable ways. Our capstone essay is
         | 4000 words on a class of our choice, so whatever the student is
         | passionate about, they can write their essay on. This is a
         | perfect solution to students who may be intelligent but
         | unmotivated outside of their interest area. For example, mine
         | is about peer-to-peer networking; I spend most of my nights
         | doing research for the paper and it certainly is preparing me
         | for college.
         | 
         | It's not available everywhere I believe, but if it's available,
         | there's another option compared to AP classes or regular
         | classes (or other magnet/governor schools).
        
         | asdff wrote:
         | A lot of public schools these days let students take these sort
         | of classes at a local community college and these credits can
         | even transfer into your undergrad. Probably not available in
         | more rural parts that don't have these colleges though.
        
       | quantumsequoia wrote:
       | In order to make a convincing argument, the author needs to
       | elaborate more on how the time should be spent instead
       | 
       | While I can agree with him high school is a lot of tedium and
       | busy work, I'm skeptical sitting around at home doing whatever
       | you want will result in a more enriching use of time
       | 
       | There will be the natural tendency to avoid learning about things
       | you don't like, which can result in a biased worldview. There is
       | the natural tendency to procrastinate. There is the need to
       | interact with people with different perspectives who will
       | challenge your ideas. I don't see this will be an environment
       | that helps budding minds flourish.
       | 
       | I might have been more inclined to agree with him pre-pandemic,
       | but the experience has taught me I (and probably most other
       | people too) actually suck at using time well when there is no
       | structure
        
         | ghaff wrote:
         | Effectively the argument would seem to be for homeschooling,
         | probably in a minimally structured way.
        
       | Ekaros wrote:
       | I think high school education was very good for me. Then again we
       | had proper educational system here. Much more so than university,
       | which I think had much less effect.
        
       | darthvoldemort wrote:
       | I read somewhere that kids with IQ 140 waste about half their
       | time in school. Kids with IQ of 170 waste all their time at
       | school. It's no wonder that kids with IQ 145 or greater are
       | mostly home schooled, because there's no real school that can
       | handle them and the issues that come with those kids. Skipping
       | high school definitely sounds like a better path, especially
       | given the social problems with being with kids so much older than
       | you.
        
         | endisneigh wrote:
         | Source?
        
           | darthvoldemort wrote:
           | I didn't know but I simply googled it. It's from Leta
           | Hollingworth, a researcher on gifted children from the
           | mid-20th century, her book "Children Above 180 IQ".
        
         | maximus-decimus wrote:
         | What percentage of people have a 145 IQ? That sounds really
         | high.
        
           | jeffbee wrote:
           | 145 is ~ the top tenth of 1 percent. In a large high school
           | there might be one such person.
        
             | motohagiography wrote:
             | Unless you went to HS with one of biggest gifted programs
             | in a major city, where that level was common. I would say
             | with some certainty they were fine with college aged social
             | activities.
        
             | tofof wrote:
             | I feel the need to be pedantic here, because your post
             | makes a couple simplifications in the same direction that
             | skew the results by roughly an order of magnitude.
             | 
             | 145 is the top _three_ tenths of 1 percent, not the top
             | tenth. The average high school size in the US is 854
             | students [1]. In an average school, you would expect there
             | to be 2.5 students with 145+ IQ. The largest school in each
             | state is about 5-10x the average size school for that
             | state. Let 's call a large school 3x average, then. In a
             | large school, you would expect to find 7.5 students with
             | 145+ IQ, or roughly 2 per graduating year.
             | 
             | "About 8" and "Maybe 1" are almost an order of magnitude
             | apart.
             | 
             | 1: 2011 Dept of Ed statistics https://nces.ed.gov/pubs2011/
             | pesschools09/tables/table_05.as...
        
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           | darthvoldemort wrote:
           | Every 15 IQ points from 100 is one standard deviation away,
           | where 100 is the average. So 145 is 3 standard deviations
           | away from average or 99.7%.
        
             | lkbm wrote:
             | I think it's 99.7% _within_ three standard deviations
             | (e.g., in either direction) so presumably half as many are
             | three standard deviations _above_ the mean--99.85% (top
             | 0.15%).
             | 
             | Tiny % either way.
        
       | chrisaycock wrote:
       | It sounds like the author just went to a lousy high school. I was
       | fortunate enough to go to a private school (my tuition was waived
       | because my mother was a teacher there) where I took a ton of APs
       | in small classes. Compare that to the large gen-ed courses at
       | college where the pace was glacial and the tests were multiple
       | choice.
        
         | brighton36 wrote:
         | What percentage of students go to lousy high schools...
        
       | kthejoker2 wrote:
       | Disclaimer: I'm smart (ask my mom!), skipped a grade, went to
       | college at 16, F*ed around and found out, made it out alive on
       | the other side, would not recommend.
       | 
       | Premature optimization is the root of all evil ...
       | 
       | "Some" smart kids should skip "some" high school ... maybe.
       | 
       | But more importantly, a ton of hand-waving here about how
       | unnecessary high school was as a crucible of learning and self-
       | improvement - hint: passing the GED is not the same as high
       | school.
       | 
       | Also pretty optimistic (again, from experience) to expect a
       | smart, lazy kid (the target audience for high school skipping) to
       | "macro-plan" a 4 year "unschooling" experiment for their ages
       | 14-18.
        
       | brighton36 wrote:
       | I dropped out of high school in the late nineties, and went
       | straight to work at a dot com. My life (best I can tell) was
       | never impacted negatively, and I far surpassed my friends in most
       | measures (certainly financially) as a result. My only regret is
       | having not dropped out sooner.
        
       | jeffbee wrote:
       | If you can't figure out how to benefit from high school then
       | sure, it's a big waste of time. It is also a unique setting in
       | American life. In no other setting is such a broad range of
       | activities, athletics, and arts available to a person. You aren't
       | very likely to find opportunities to participate in competitive
       | sports and athletics, amateur bands and orchestras after high
       | school. I, personally, just ignored the academic parts of it
       | after I'd piled up enough AP tests and whatnot for admission to
       | selective colleges. Hell, in my senior year I barely had any real
       | classes at all. I filled up my schedule with three different
       | music subjects, newspaper/yearbook/photography, sports, and
       | pointless electives like drafting, which was, by the way, a lot
       | of fun. High school is also, how to put this politely, a rather
       | unique atmosphere of sexual experimentation. Skipping that and
       | attending a college where everyone is much older than you is not
       | going to replace that.
       | 
       | College, on the other hand, was an abject waste of four years.
        
       | akoluthic wrote:
       | If you have a plan and motivation, go for it. Assuming you need
       | to make money, you can either be self employed, in a partnership,
       | or employed by someone else. The first requires you be a good
       | business person, which is not a common innate trait but can be
       | learned to some extent. The second is often a great option if you
       | have equally motivated partners with complementary strengths. The
       | third usually requires some sort of signalling to get employers
       | to hire you. Having a degree is part of that signalling. This is,
       | of course, completely ignoring that some professions _require_ a
       | degree, like being a doctor, which is rewarding work. As a
       | teenager, you often have no idea what you will find meaningful
       | and rewarding later in life, making this type of decision quite
       | risky.
        
       | avalys wrote:
       | I skipped 7th grade. I was also young for my grade as it was,
       | with a summer birthday that meant I was in the youngest cohort
       | just past the cutoff. This had absolutely zero effect on me in
       | high school and I got great grades and did some notable stuff and
       | got into MIT. But the result was that I entered MIT nearly two
       | years younger than most of my peers.
       | 
       | I turned out fine - but in retrospect I had a lot of growing up
       | yet to do, and I think I would have made better use of my college
       | experience if I had been able to do that growing up before
       | college as opposed to during freshman and sophomore year, where
       | you make a lot of decisions that will influence your life for a
       | while. I missed many opportunities at MIT because I didn't really
       | understand how the academic and professional world worked and
       | what would be important to focus on for my career - let alone
       | more personal matters. Looking back now I wish I had actually
       | taken a year off before college, as opposed to skipping a grade
       | in a hurry to get there, and I encourage every high school
       | student and parent I know to think in these terms.
       | 
       | This will of course be very situational. Yes, if you are in a bad
       | high school with bad teachers and bad students, you might be
       | better off skipping it in favor of some alternative. But in
       | general, a lot of growing up is just getting experience and doing
       | things, and high school is how you get a lot of that experience
       | before you go to college and have to do bigger and more
       | consequential things. Don't be (or don't let your kids be) in a
       | hurry to get ahead of that curve.
        
         | toast0 wrote:
         | I skipped the last year of High School; I took (and passed) the
         | California High School Profeciency exam as soon as a I could,
         | but was convinced to stay one more year and they made the
         | credits work to get me a degree. Then I did two years of
         | Community College and got an AS before transferring to an out
         | of state 4-year engineering college (where it took me three
         | more years to get a BS, because the curriculum weren't
         | aligned). Community College felt a lot nicer than high school,
         | and the two years of college experience made it easier to
         | manage living in the dorms and later with my not-yet spouse.
         | Having almost all of my humanities already taken care of was
         | nice too. Having a gap in hard Math classes wasn't great
         | though; having swapped that information out, it was hard to
         | page it back in.
        
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         | CrimpCity wrote:
         | So if you could go back in time would you take a gap year?
         | 
         | In general I think freshmen / sophomores don't take enough
         | advantages & don't understand the professional implications of
         | their time in college.
        
           | avalys wrote:
           | Yes - actually I had just finished editing my post to say
           | that. For me at least I think it would have made a major
           | difference. You are absolutely correct - I still sometimes
           | kick myself over stupid decisions I made as a freshman and
           | sophomore.
        
             | dylan604 wrote:
             | >I still sometimes kick myself over stupid decisions I made
             | as a freshman and sophomore.
             | 
             | You and every other single human on the planet ;-)
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | Yeah. It's not like being 18 rather than 16 transforms
               | you into this somber mature freshman.
        
           | dvirsky wrote:
           | I skipped a year in elementary school and had a gap year
           | (because I was in Israel I couldn't start university because
           | I was supposed to do mandatory military service, and had a
           | year to wait). Man oh man, did this year suck. I had no
           | skills to manage myself with no routine, all my friends were
           | a year older than me and started their military service. I
           | worked for a few months, but then I just did nothing for what
           | seemed like an eternity: I slept during the day, I was alone
           | most of the time, internet was a couple years away so I
           | didn't even have that, I honestly can't remember what I did
           | but it was terrible.
        
             | senkora wrote:
             | This was how 2020 was for me. It was awful, and I never
             | want to feel that way again.
             | 
             | I did have a plan for how to spend that time in a way that
             | was meaningful, but COVID trashed it and I was left with
             | nothing.
        
         | david_allison wrote:
         | > Looking back now I wish I had actually taken a year off
         | before college, as opposed to skipping a grade in a hurry to
         | get there, and I encourage every high school student and parent
         | I know to think in these terms.
         | 
         | 100% agreed. I took a year out to work in software before
         | University. Despite being completely disregarded by employers,
         | it changed my perspective on independence, time management, and
         | the risk of not making the most of opportunities. It's one of
         | the best life decisions that I've made.
        
         | elijaht wrote:
         | I would agree with you in general about a gap year before
         | college- but mostly from the perspective of it's a great time
         | in life to be responsibility-free and do something meaningful
         | 
         | I think everyone is immature/makes poor decisions/could have
         | chosen better paths their first couple of years in college
         | regardless of age of matriculation. The first time you live
         | with little supervision, have to start thinking about a career,
         | etc. is going to be rough regardless of whether you are 17 or
         | 20 because it is all such a new experience
        
         | HWR_14 wrote:
         | If it helps, you probably would fuck up your freshman and/or
         | sophmore year anyway. Growing like that is an important part of
         | the college experience.
        
         | jrm4 wrote:
         | And if you don't do one before college, ABSOLUTELY do one after
         | if you're doing grad school, no matter what anyone tells you.
         | 
         | I'm going to guess that many (probably not most, but many) of
         | us here come from a tradition where education is paramount and
         | deviating from that without a clear plan is like deadly
         | frightening to the parents et al.
        
         | ghaff wrote:
         | Heh. I skipped eighth grade, was young for my class anyway with
         | a late year birthday, and also went to MIT.
         | 
         | Yes, I was young for college but it's not like college students
         | as a whole are these mature individuals. Was probably for the
         | best overall.
         | 
         | Honestly, MIT is probably a better place than most for
         | individuals who are maybe a bit atypical relative to other
         | places.
        
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