[HN Gopher] This Is Water (2005)
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       This Is Water (2005)
        
       Author : mrpf1ster
       Score  : 69 points
       Date   : 2021-08-28 17:49 UTC (5 hours ago)
        
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       | makapuf wrote:
       | As a non native, I had to read it first, then listen to him while
       | reading it again to begin to understand it. Thanks to have posted
       | this and allowed me to discover this talk, you made my evening.
        
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       | Tarsul wrote:
       | the speech is pretty good. Basically he advocates for thinking
       | for yourself, compassion, less egoism.
       | 
       | I find it very weird that they made a book out of it with 144
       | pages. How come 144 pages? Pretty easy, every page only has one
       | line. But the people on amazon like it so who am I to judge.
        
       | ismaildonmez wrote:
       | Every now and then I listen to the recording
       | https://youtu.be/PhhC_N6Bm_s to remind myself that this is water.
        
         | jstx1 wrote:
         | The crowd clapping and cheering approvingly at his example of
         | how _not_ to think is a great moment.
        
       | Tarsul wrote:
       | his storytelling reads very differently when you know that he
       | killed himself 3 years after this talk and was depressed for the
       | last 20 years of his life.
        
         | snet0 wrote:
         | "Good Old Neon" reads entirely different in the context of his
         | suicide. It's almost a different story when you put it in that
         | space.
        
       | taylorwc wrote:
       | This and Bill Watterson's commencement speech at Kenyon[0] are
       | both things I read a few times a year---challenging and
       | relatable.
       | 
       | [0] https://web.mit.edu/jmorzins/www/C-H-speech.html
        
         | tartoran wrote:
         | This is great. Thanks for posting it
        
       | Emigre_ wrote:
       | I liked Infinite Jest and Consider The Lobster And Other Essays.
       | Not easy reads in my opinion, especially Infinite Jest obviously,
       | but interesting and original books.
       | 
       | The movie The End of the Tour (2015), although most probably
       | inaccurate in his portrait of the man (from what I've read), is
       | an enjoyable fiction that just happens to use Wallace as one of
       | the characters. I recommend it.
        
         | sbelskie wrote:
         | End of Tour is enjoyable and most of the words are his own, but
         | there is a clear need to make it a story about a guy who later
         | commits suicide, and so all the acting and tonal stuff is
         | inflected to that end. Having read the book first, the movie
         | just seemed so much sadder and devoid of a lot of the joy that
         | made the book so incredible.
        
           | Emigre_ wrote:
           | Yes... I enjoyed it... I think it was sad, yes, but it has
           | been a while since I watched that movie...
        
         | boldslogan wrote:
         | the editor for ij released his edited version of a book dfw
         | left, or remnants of a manuscript called pale king. have you
         | read it?
        
           | Emigre_ wrote:
           | No, I haven't... Have you?...
        
             | boldslogan wrote:
             | ive read ij, with the footnotes and it took me so long I
             | think I forgot some of the first part of the book while
             | reading the later part. I enjoyed it kind of like a tv
             | series but with so many episodes I forget the first season
             | but kept watching.
             | 
             | So on one hand Ive heard the hype, and it was good...but I
             | wonder if it was shorter it could have had a bigger punch
             | (like 1984 or something else) and while typing this I
             | wonder if this tv show analogy ( Rick and Morty comes to
             | mind) is a kind of good analogy? Or maybe im a
             | philistine...
             | 
             | I was almost going to buy the Pale king today but ill get
             | it soon and start reading it.
        
               | Emigre_ wrote:
               | I hear you, it took me a long time too to finish it
               | too!... :D
        
       | nuclearnice3 wrote:
       | "What will you say? What will you do?" "Oh -- I don't know."
       | Eliot's sorrow and exhaustion dropped away for a moment as he
       | became enchanted by the problem. A birdy little smile played over
       | his lips. "Go over to her shack, I guess. Sprinkle some water on
       | the babies, say, 'Hello, babies. Welcome to Earth. It's hot in
       | the summer and cold in the winter. It's round and wet and
       | crowded. At the outside, babies, you've got about a hundred years
       | here. There's only one rule that I know of, babies -- : "'God
       | damn it, you've got to be kind.'"
       | 
       | Kurt Vonnegut
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/God_Bless_You,_Mr._Rosewater
        
       | davidpelayo wrote:
       | Waoh! I didn't know this guy. Really interesting! Thanks for
       | posting.
        
         | codq wrote:
         | Oh wow, you've got quite a journey if you decide to dive into
         | the life and work of David Foster Wallace.
         | 
         | A troubled, but absolutely brilliant mind. Enjoy!
        
       | blakesterz wrote:
       | Probably not a popular opinion... I first heard him read this
       | shortly after it came out, and at first I thought it was great,
       | but the second time I heard it, it fell apart. This fell flat for
       | me considering it was a commencement speech. It reads like it was
       | written by a sad lonely man, for other sad lonely men. He was
       | speaking to a huge auditorium full of parents and children, and
       | he wrote something for himself. He couldn't imagine a world where
       | there was more than his life, outside his water. The world of
       | every parent in that room. I've always felt like he made his
       | point in ways he never meant to.
        
         | nuclearnice3 wrote:
         | I really like your analysis. But rather than falling apart, for
         | me, it reifies the truth of the entire piece.
         | 
         | As Tarsul points out elsewhere in the thread, he was a
         | profoundly sad man and killed himself a few years after this
         | speech.
         | 
         | At the end of the day, neither the old fish nor the young fish
         | could escape the water.
        
       | mandliya wrote:
       | I listen to this speech every 2 months. I have known a colleague
       | for years now, but he became a good friend because I was able to
       | understand his perspective in a useless conflict. This speech is
       | so powerful, and calls attention to true human virtues which are
       | easily forgotten (empathy, compassion). It is good reminder of
       | how we live our lives as center of our own universe, completely
       | unaware!
        
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       | dang wrote:
       | Past threads with comments (not many):
       | 
       |  _This is Water [pdf]_ -
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=27747931 - July 2021 (1
       | comment)
       | 
       |  _David Foster Wallace: This Is Water_ -
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=25507754 - Dec 2020 (1
       | comment)
       | 
       |  _David Foster Wallace: This Is Water_ -
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=25405924 - Dec 2020 (2
       | comments)
       | 
       |  _This Is Water - David Foster Wallace_ -
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=17436613 - July 2018 (3
       | comments)
       | 
       |  _This Is Water - David Foster Wallace_ -
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=12482325 - Sept 2016 (3
       | comments)
       | 
       |  _This is Water - David Foster Wallace 's commencement speech
       | from 2005_ - https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=5731340 - May
       | 2013 (4 comments)
       | 
       |  _This Is Water_ - https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=5685071 -
       | May 2013 (1 comment)
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       |  _David Foster Wallace: This is Water_ -
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=5679086 - May 2013 (2
       | comments)
       | 
       |  _This is Water (2005)_ -
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=5672961 - May 2013 (1
       | comment)
       | 
       |  _" This is water, this is water."_ -
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=2909239 - Aug 2011 (29
       | comments)
       | 
       |  _This is Water (David Foster Wallace on Life)_ -
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=2342230 - March 2011 (1
       | comment)
        
       | awaissamdani wrote:
       | I came back to this like 5 times in a year. Thanks for making it
       | 6ixth.
        
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