[HN Gopher] Picking Co-Founders the Army Officer Way
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       Picking Co-Founders the Army Officer Way
        
       Author : Chan_Yuk_Chi
       Score  : 84 points
       Date   : 2021-08-23 12:17 UTC (10 hours ago)
        
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       | bambax wrote:
       | I'm sure the US military is a formidable force; but despite this,
       | the US as a country loses many (most?) wars it engages in. So the
       | lesson to learn may not just be, how to build a good team on the
       | ground, but: how to pick your battles wisely.
       | 
       | A startup CEO isn't just a platoon leader: they are also a
       | politician and a strategist. That's what makes it so difficult.
        
         | ryanmarsh wrote:
         | When you have the opportunity to train with non-US militaries
         | one quickly learns a bit of gratefulness. Our officer and non-
         | commissioned officers are far more professional, and our junior
         | enlisted are far better trained. There are some exceptions.
         | British Royal Marines and SAS really impressed me.
         | 
         | So why does the US lose wars? Because we don't let the military
         | fight them to win. How else does a 21st century military lose
         | to someone living in the sixth century?
         | 
         | The officer corp spends 10x more time restraining soldiers than
         | gassing them up. It's difficult to fathom what we're capable of
         | (even with the law of armed conflict).
        
           | JamesSwift wrote:
           | I was never actually in the "armed" forces, but I did serve
           | in the military, and I don't think the issue was lack of
           | military force in Afghanistan. The problem was that we
           | started off with overwhelming force, destroying civilian
           | lives, and giving every opportunity for the taliban to
           | generate anti-american sentiment in the process. It required
           | a nuanced approach from day 1 and we didn't start that
           | approach until day 300 (philosophically speaking). We needed
           | to win the trust of the civilian population and we did
           | nothing to secure that trust.
        
             | ryanmarsh wrote:
             | Exactly. This weird 21st century idea of military as
             | gracious nation building conquerer is weird and we are not
             | good at that.
             | 
             | Note that, conversely, force on force "wars" are won very
             | quickly. We should have left Afghanistan in 2002.
        
           | jl2718 wrote:
           | A FRENCH SOLDIER'S VIEW OF US SOLDIERS IN AFGHANISTAN
           | 
           | https://warriorlodge.com/blogs/news/16298760-a-french-
           | soldie...
        
             | redis_mlc wrote:
             | - yes, the generation described was good. But obesity,
             | single-parent households, the Adam Walsh case and wokeness
             | is absolutely destroying today's generation.
             | 
             | (What the author admitted was that Europeans were already
             | has-beens, as seen in the Balkans wars where the UN fotces
             | were both ineffective and cowardly.)
             | 
             | - one of the reasons Russia threw in the towel in 1990 was
             | that American GIs learned electronics at home, which
             | Russians couldn't match (a Russian general said that in an
             | interview.) An American tanker who used say a PS2 daily for
             | example will destroy a squad of Russian tanks.
             | 
             | Why American children cannot play outside alone since 1981
             | 
             | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Adam_Walsh
        
           | HWR_14 wrote:
           | > So why does the US lose wars? Because we don't let the
           | military fight them to win. How else does a 21st century
           | military lose to someone living in the sixth century?
           | 
           | I mean, yes. If the US goal was to "win" by which you mean
           | wipe out the Taliban (and with it the entire population of
           | Afghanistan), that could have been accomplished in very short
           | order with no loss of US lives on Sept. 12th 2001.
           | 
           | The US loses wars because most people in the US (and
           | worldwide) don't want to live in a country that
           | indiscriminately wipes out entire populations.
        
           | mellavora wrote:
           | Hannibal is famous for never losing a battle, over a decade
           | campaigning on foreign soil.
           | 
           | And he lost the war.
           | 
           | Because of political forces outside his control
        
           | neffy wrote:
           | The US didn't lose the war in Afghanistan, it won that
           | remarkably quickly. It lost the peace - temporarily at least.
           | 
           | But personally I wouldn't be quite so quick to write off 20
           | years of somewhat liberalism, and widespread internet access,
           | in terms of that nation's development.
        
           | WJW wrote:
           | > How else does a 21st century military lose to someone
           | living in the sixth century?
           | 
           | Part of the reason is this type of chronic underestimation of
           | the enemy. The Taliban may hold some socially outdated ideas,
           | but their use of digital communications and machine guns is
           | absolutely not "from the sixth century". Rule 1 of warfare is
           | to never underestimate your opponent.
           | 
           | The main problem the US had was that from basically day 2
           | (day 1 being spent winning the conventional war) they were
           | looking for a way to leave the country again and everybody
           | there knew it. If you are not looking to annex the conquered
           | territory indefinitely (which is extremely unpopular in
           | western countries for PR reasons) then eventually you will
           | have to leave and so your opponents only need to find a way
           | to survive until then.
        
             | HWR_14 wrote:
             | > The Taliban may hold some socially outdated ideas, but
             | their use of digital communications and machine guns is
             | absolutely not "from the sixth century
             | 
             | Of course it's not. And the US should know that. They
             | trained the Taliban in he 80's to fight the Russians.
        
         | chrisseaton wrote:
         | > I'm sure the US military
         | 
         | I don't think this post is about the US military though.
         | Uniforms look Singaporean.
        
           | bambax wrote:
           | The post is about how we should learn about leadership from
           | the military. The US army is the mightiest military force in
           | the world. But that's not enough to win wars. Winning wars
           | seems more interesting than having great teams.
        
             | chrisseaton wrote:
             | > But that's not enough to win wars.
             | 
             | The blog post never says it is.
             | 
             | > Winning wars seems more interesting than having great
             | teams.
             | 
             | It's ok to write blog posts about a variety of things, even
             | if you think there's something potentially more interesting
             | elsewhere.
        
               | bambax wrote:
               | Sure, but it's not like those things "elsewhere" are
               | completely unrelated. It's implied that building great
               | teams "military style" are a great solution to many
               | problems, and are applicable to the corporate world.
               | 
               | I would like to point out that having a great military
               | force is not enough for what's important -- many times,
               | it's not even needed!
        
           | GravitasFailure wrote:
           | From the author's bio, "Space Lawyer and Founder. Former
           | Singapore Army officer. Sci-fi author in general." Though I
           | suspect the uniforms in the third and fifth pictures aren't
           | Singaporean or American.
        
             | jcranmer wrote:
             | The fifth picture, from its source attribution, is
             | (Scottish, I think) Highland Territorials in a trench in
             | France in 1914.
        
         | freedomben wrote:
         | > _A startup CEO isn 't just a platoon leader: they are also a
         | politician and a strategist. That's what makes it so
         | difficult._
         | 
         | In the US, the head of the military _is_ a politician (the US
         | president). As a side effect of that the majority of high
         | ranking officers are politicians as well, albeit playing a
         | different game since it 's the politicians they are trying to
         | impress rather than the people.
        
       | adwww wrote:
       | Co Founders are already quite often reasonably gung-ho risk
       | takers.
       | 
       | I think what's often lacking are attributes like empathy - I'm
       | not sure trying to further militarise startups helps that.
        
         | irq-1 wrote:
         | Empathy is addressed as a negative:
         | 
         | > ...the overfamiliarity problem. That one founder will become
         | too comfortable, start taking liberties with the others that
         | they would never dare to do in any other context, by virtue of
         | the fact that 'they're all friends'.
         | 
         | Dealing with our own and others immaturity, or lack of
         | professionalism, in a caring and sympathetic way seems like a
         | fundamental difference between the military and private life.
         | The military kicks you out or keeps you down, and non-military
         | groups try to help everyone grow while tolerating problems. I
         | wonder what the military attitude would be to the common
         | business idea of growing into the job, or learning on the job?
         | (Or the Dilbert principle.)
        
           | quirkot wrote:
           | this comment is getting down voted, but I think it's correct.
           | The author later states:
           | 
           | > "professionalism means being able to knuckle down and shift
           | your mindset into one focused on working, one aimed at
           | achieving an objective or mission success"
           | 
           | Which explicitly removes dealing with "the whole person" from
           | the definition of professionalism. If a co-worker's spouse
           | died last night, the professional thing to do is
           | compartmentalize. This is the opposite of empathy
        
             | bumby wrote:
             | That was not my experience in the military.
             | 
             | Sure, in tough (particularly time sensitive) situations
             | you're taught to compartmentalize to get the job done. You
             | don't want someone lost in thought about a cheating spouse
             | when bullets are flying. But in general, people were
             | treated as complex individuals.
             | 
             | From the OP: > _The military kicks you out or keeps you
             | down, and non-military groups try to help everyone grow
             | while tolerating problems._
             | 
             | The military puts a premium on training and accountability.
             | Are you physically unfit? Your fire team or squad leader
             | will take time away from their own family to train you.
             | Have a substance abuse problem? The military will often try
             | multiple times to help you overcome it. If your spouse
             | dies, I can all but guarantee you your military unit will
             | be checking on you regularly and helping to make sure you
             | have the resources to deal with it. I've never seen that
             | type of effort in the private sector from the organization
             | level. I wonder if people are confusing a "tough" or
             | "accountable" culture with an uncaring one.
        
               | quirkot wrote:
               | Oops. My brain parsed that last part as an email
               | signature and I didn't read it. I meant to support the
               | claim that the author describes empathy as a negative.
               | 
               | I wasn't in a military, but just a "basic training" is
               | far more than I ever got at work, so I've always assumed
               | cultural emphasis on training was much higher in military
               | orgs
        
           | alisonkisk wrote:
           | You seem to be conflating abuse with empathy, perhaps by
           | misunderstanding "overfamiliarity".
        
           | strgcmc wrote:
           | I feel like we should separate professionalism (i.e. the
           | spectrum of familiarity to over-familiarity) from empathy.
           | 
           | To me, how I want to see empathy applied in a military
           | context, is nothing to do with familiarity or chumminess, and
           | everything to do with the idea that, if you are my commander
           | and you order me to battle, to fight and to die, that you do
           | so carrying the full weight of that responsibility, that you
           | understand my life and my worth as a human being, and that
           | you empathize with the gravity and danger of what you are
           | asking me to undertake, and that you won't spend my life in
           | vain.
           | 
           | That is the real root of empathy, in the military, for
           | leaders to really truly understand the both mundane and yet
           | impossible weight of what they are asking their soliders to
           | do. If you cannot empathize with the human condition at that
           | level, then you should not be fit for military leadership
           | (naive of me, I know).
        
         | altrus wrote:
         | From the Article:
         | 
         |  _What I actually learned is that if something is right, it's
         | right. Context makes a slight difference but fundamental
         | principles hold true. There are laws of nature._
         | 
         | The article isn't suggesting militarizing start ups - it's
         | providing some context on which elements of the military
         | officer selection process are transferable to the start up co-
         | founder selection process.
         | 
         | edit: clarity
        
       | sdrinf wrote:
       | I've seen, and read many, many of these kind of articles on how
       | to _evaluate_ potential co-founders (they 're mostly generated as
       | part of a shutdown, and I get it, there were a lot of feelings
       | involved). I put forth the problem, that _evaluation_ is actually
       | the -relatively- easier part; finding startup cofounders who both
       | operate at sufficiently high levels of competence, _at skills
       | that are complimentary to yours_ , and _can operate a startup_
       | (ie operating under conditions of knightian uncertainty /Goal
       | ambiguity/Isotropy) is the very, very difficult challenge.
        
       | rjsw wrote:
       | Wondered if it was going to suggest this [1].
       | 
       | [1]
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Purchase_of_commissions_in_the...
        
       | jl2718 wrote:
       | Imagine you sign up to be a startup founder at YC. It's a salary
       | job, and the pay is low, very low. The promotion schedule is pre-
       | determined, almost invariant of your success. You develop a
       | specialty and your team is assigned to you, rotating once every
       | two years. Most teams only work on one problem, but if you are
       | one of the very best, you get called to work on many small
       | problems. There is almost no requirement for entry into the
       | program except an extremely brutal training that keeps most
       | people out of it. There are only two benefits. First, you get to
       | be part of something that might change the world for everybody
       | else. Secondly, you will gain respect, experience, and trust to
       | start your own business when you get out.
       | 
       | So there you are, on a team with a bunch of people you have never
       | met before. You are now stuck together. If somebody is a problem,
       | you deal with the problem because you can't get rid of the
       | person. There is a structure, but you're all on the same path to
       | those roles. All your grievances point to YC and not your team.
       | You're all getting screwed equally, but no matter how bad it
       | gets, you all chose this, and you all depend on each other.
       | 
       | You get a problem you didn't choose. You might think it's stupid.
       | Too bad. Your team owns it now, and they depend on you. You
       | succeed or fail together - nobody cares about praise or blame.
       | Your team makes all the decisions. Nobody is looking over your
       | shoulder. Nobody inserts their suggestions. You report only on a
       | need-to-know basis. Nobody can tell you what to do. If you do
       | something wrong, it will come back to you later in the report
       | out, but not now. The only way to get rid of you is by trial of
       | your peers for an ethical violation.
       | 
       | So what it comes down to, is that you just do your job, and you
       | don't worry about anything else. You can and must work
       | effectively with almost anybody in that situation.
        
         | dang wrote:
         | This doesn't resemble how startups or YC work in any way. In
         | fact, I believe this comment has the fun property that
         | literally every sentence is wrong.
         | 
         | Being a startup founder is not a "job at YC", your team isn't
         | "assigned" to you, founders are not specialists, it's not a
         | "salary job", you choose the problem you're working on, you
         | decide who's hired (and fired), usually they're people you've
         | met before, and so on. But here's the best part:
         | 
         | > trust to start your own business when you get out
         | 
         | You've already started your own business. That's what 'founder'
         | means!
         | 
         | Edit: but from https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=28279288 I
         | think your point was that being a startup founder is _not_ like
         | being in the military, in which case...good point :)
        
           | dmoy wrote:
           | Right, my interpretation of reading GP's comment was that it,
           | in great detail, explains how it works in the military. Just,
           | using startup terms.
           | 
           | I didn't read it as them implying that's how startups
           | actually work.
           | 
           | And then, reading between the lines, it seems like a very
           | fair critique that the article doesn't jive with the reality
           | of the military.
        
         | skeeter2020 wrote:
         | I don't have experience with the US military, but in Canada
         | officers are very different from NCOs in terms of the
         | individuals, their training and their roles. It feels like
         | you're comparing start-up founder with regular enlisted, which
         | isn't really the point the OP was trying to make.
        
         | ARandomerDude wrote:
         | The world you just described is what Hollywood thinks the
         | military is like. The actual military is very different from
         | this.
        
           | jl2718 wrote:
           | This is both true and untrue. I hate to say it this way, but,
           | the vast majority of the military doesn't do anything, so
           | maybe you get a lot of blustering about nothing. The closer
           | you get to combat, the more it is like this. I sat through
           | hundreds of command briefings, and I can't recall a single
           | instance of tactical spot correction. That could be the basis
           | of a command relief. Orders are superior to any rank.
        
         | adenozine wrote:
         | Right, well, that's very interesting but is entirely made up.
         | The primary factor of the military is the high-risk and
         | discouragement of dropping out and getting discharged. It's not
         | like a job, where if it sucks enough you can just leave and
         | find a new one.
         | 
         | Your comment seems to be a long-winded version of "Why don't we
         | all just work together and get along?"
         | 
         | It's impossibly naive to believe such a mindset possible in
         | capital-oriented businesses.
        
           | [deleted]
        
           | dragonwriter wrote:
           | > It's not like a job, where if it sucks enough you can just
           | leave and find a new one.
           | 
           | There's timing issues in some cases (and more issues during
           | an emergency with stop-loss in effect) but otherwise if you
           | are enlisted, you can not reup after your period of
           | enlistment. If you are commissioned you can resign your
           | commission. And you can almost certainly get another job, on
           | favorable terms, because most public and many private
           | employers apply hiring preference for veterans.
        
             | MichaelMcG wrote:
             | The primary point they are making is that the military is
             | unlike a civilian job where you can quit and not show up
             | tomorrow, the time remaining on your contract determines
             | how long until your ETS date.
             | 
             | If you get sick of the green weenie in year two of your
             | standard 4 year contract, you still have the threat of a
             | less-than honorable discharge/UCMJ action forcing you to
             | show up and put in a minimal effort.
             | 
             | Job satisfaction is huge civilian side, but is almost a
             | foreign concept in the military--all until your retention
             | counseling and you opt to renew your vows or chase that
             | smart, young, DD214 hottie that just moved into town.
        
           | gumby wrote:
           | > ...the military is ... not like a job, where if it sucks
           | enough you can just leave and find a new one.
           | 
           | For a lot of people it is (once you reach the end of your
           | required period). And if you don't want to advance you can
           | simply bump along -- up-or-out only applies to commissioned
           | officers.
        
             | [deleted]
        
           | jl2718 wrote:
           | > It's impossibly naive to believe such a mindset possible in
           | capital-oriented businesses.
           | 
           | That is the perspective I was inviting to the table by
           | writing this; just that it is a very different situation. I
           | have no validated perspective on whether you are right or
           | not, although I do have one experience failing to disprove
           | the above.
        
         | travisjungroth wrote:
         | I'm not sure what your conclusion is. YC should model itself
         | after special operations? You just wanted to post an idealized
         | description of special operations?
        
           | jl2718 wrote:
           | No; this is just an elaboration on the author's concept to
           | give perspective on where it may be apt or lacking.
        
             | travisjungroth wrote:
             | But what's your point?
             | 
             | The first word of your comment is "Imagine", then a bunch
             | of description, then the last line is a summary of this
             | imagined world. Ok, I imagined, now what?
             | 
             | You've taken a romanticized narrative of the military and
             | then abstracted the terms so they could apply to startups.
             | I can't engage with it as an analogy because it's an
             | imaginary YC on top of an imaginary military. I can't
             | engage with it as a position because you haven't made any
             | claims outside the scope of this world you described.
        
               | jl2718 wrote:
               | Ok well, frankly, I wrote this because I didn't quite get
               | the author's point. To begin, military officers do not
               | choose their team. I elaborated on the situation in order
               | to highlight the situational differences between choosing
               | startup cofounders and being put on a military team. I
               | may have put this in an idealized form, but I think it is
               | a bit closer to reality than most civilians would expect,
               | at least in combat operations.
               | 
               | P.S. I should also mention that I have zero clue what YC
               | is like in present or past form, so I couldn't
               | competently draw a direct comparison, instead inviting
               | the reader to make their own.
        
               | travisjungroth wrote:
               | With your other reply, I think I understand your point
               | better. The situation of the military is super different
               | from startups. Maybe also implied that means that we
               | can't bring over giant lessons. I _really_ agree with
               | this.
               | 
               | I think the more different the context, the more
               | _specific_ the ideas you bring over should be (the trend
               | seems to be the more different, the bigger the idea). So
               | instead of trying to tell me the value of communication,
               | I 'd rather know in detail how one unit handles
               | debriefings. Then I can maybe pick up some tips or try
               | the whole thing.
        
         | valclay wrote:
         | This reminded me of this scene from Saving Private Ryan:
         | 
         | Private Reiben : Oh, that's brilliant, bumpkin. Hey, so,
         | Captain, what about you? I mean, you don't gripe at all?
         | 
         | Captain Miller : I don't gripe to _you_ , Reiben. I'm a
         | captain. There's a chain of command. Gripes go up, not down.
         | Always up. You gripe to me, I gripe to my superior officer, so
         | on, so on, and so on. I don't gripe to you. I don't gripe in
         | front of you. You should know that as a Ranger.
         | 
         | Private Reiben : I'm sorry, sir, but uh... let's say you
         | weren't a captain, or maybe I was a major. What would you say
         | then?
         | 
         | Captain Miller : Well, in that case... I'd say, "This is an
         | excellent mission, sir, with an extremely valuable objective,
         | sir, worthy of my best efforts, sir. Moreover... I feel
         | heartfelt sorrow for the mother of Private James Ryan and am
         | willing to lay down my life and the lives of my men -
         | especially you, Reiben - to ease her suffering."
         | 
         | Mellish : [chuckles] He's good.
         | 
         | Private Caparzo : I love him.
        
         | nonameiguess wrote:
         | I was a US Army Officer for 8 years, worked in heavy armored
         | units commanding tanks, and I upvoted this. I understand
         | exactly what you're saying. This may be an "idealized" view of
         | the military, but it's accurate in the broad details. You don't
         | get to choose your team, you don't get to choose your mission,
         | you can't quit, and you get no financial reward for excellence.
         | It's very different from running a startup.
         | 
         | That said, the writer of this article does seem to recognize
         | this, and I think his aphorisms are correct. Form a team that
         | all trust each other, one way or another, have well-defined
         | duties but be prepared to do each other's jobs when necessary,
         | be ready for a quick change of mission and focus.
         | 
         | I think the analogy falls down in that you really need
         | technical specialists in business. I don't think the Army way
         | of taking someone broadly trained and experienced in
         | "leadership" and putting them in charge whether they know the
         | domain or not is your best bet. We do that in the Army because
         | we don't have a choice and we have a ton of auxiliary staff in
         | the form of senior NCOs and warrant officers and even civilian
         | contractors who are technical experts and can help you with all
         | that. If you have the runway to splurge on that kind of
         | technical support staff to your senior leadership at a startup
         | (and they'll actually listen and not get hurt egos), go for it,
         | but I don't think most do and the founders need to understand
         | the domain they're trying to work in.
        
       | quirkot wrote:
       | I'm sorry. What?
       | 
       | > "In basic training, we had to shout everything and repeat every
       | instruction we were given." ... "So that one day, if we're
       | getting shot at or shelled, we'd repeat instructions we were
       | given clearly so that the message could be passed down the line
       | without the individuals passing it on having to think about it."
       | 
       | The reason for repeating is maybe someday help a dude pass along
       | a shout ... as opposed to confirming the accurate receipt and
       | understanding of the order? Maybe the shout thing is a nice side
       | benefit, but in no way is it the primary reason
        
         | alisonkisk wrote:
         | Repetition helps generate accurate receipt and understanding.
        
       | ryanmarsh wrote:
       | I've found many parallels between combat leadership and
       | business/leadership/dev/ops
       | 
       | The principles of good leadership in "open ended" problem spaces
       | seem to apply no matter the other variables.
       | 
       | Too often personal emotional reactions to the military or war
       | (often misconceptions) overshadow the lessons and they are
       | dismissed.
       | 
       | I've had people smugly dismiss these ideas because of where the
       | lessons were learned.
        
       | etothepii wrote:
       | I agree with the OP that trustworthyness is a key requirement for
       | building a successful co-founder relationship.
       | 
       | What I can't work out is how you would measure trustworthyness or
       | (perhaps more importantly) how you would establish if you are
       | good at measuring trustworthyness.
        
       | icegreentea2 wrote:
       | The author goes out of his way (and I think it was a good call),
       | not to call out "army things" that make for good co-founders, but
       | to frame it as "these are qualities of good choices that were
       | made obvious to me in an army context". Specifically:
       | 
       | * Trustworthy
       | 
       | * Professional
       | 
       | * Competency
       | 
       | What other (non-business) contexts could we frame this type of
       | article as? I suspect team-sports will stick out as an example,
       | but where else?
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | InitialLastName wrote:
         | For all of the flack that artists get, the "workaday" side of
         | the arts (think orchestra members, studio musicians,
         | professional theater casts and crews, film and cartoon studios)
         | emphasize this like crazy. Talent can get you through an
         | audition, but showing up reliably and on time, being
         | comprehensively prepared, and performing at a consistently high
         | level will keep you employed.
        
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