[HN Gopher] Thought-Terminating Cliche
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       Thought-Terminating Cliche
        
       Author : deegles
       Score  : 93 points
       Date   : 2021-08-20 15:04 UTC (7 hours ago)
        
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       | diplodocusaur wrote:
       | 1 day ago ... https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=28236851
        
         | detaro wrote:
         | no discussion, nearly no points, thus irrelevant.
        
         | dang wrote:
         | HN users appreciate links to previous threads, but only if
         | there are actual comments there.
         | 
         | Also, we don't count posts as dupes if the previous post didn't
         | get significant attention. See
         | https://news.ycombinator.com/newsfaq.html.
        
       | jrootabega wrote:
       | "Thought-Terminating Cliche" is also an autological term: it can
       | describe itself.
        
       | wwarner wrote:
       | Ooh that pushed my buttons. When someone responds to me with one
       | of these phrases, it gets my hyper-logical dander up!
        
       | flurie wrote:
       | I find it interesting that the submitter posted this as a result
       | of deciding that "calories in, calories out" was a thought-
       | terminating cliche[1]. Given that it's a pithy rephrasing of the
       | first law of thermodynamics, I'm curious if the submitter feels
       | the same way about the other laws.
       | 
       | [1] https://news.ycombinator.com/reply?id=28246836
        
         | twic wrote:
         | It's true, but it's irrelevant because you don't control the
         | calories out.
        
           | [deleted]
        
         | deegles wrote:
         | Responding to any discussing about weight loss with that phrase
         | fits the description.
        
           | only_as_i_fall wrote:
           | Does it?
           | 
           | Weight loss methods include a lot of pseudo science and I
           | think it's important to keep in mind that whatever low fat or
           | low carb or paleo diet you try is ultimately only going to
           | succeed if you lower your calorie intake or raise your
           | calorie expenditure.
           | 
           | Obviously there are some exceptions to that rule if you
           | aren't accounting for changes in calorie absorption or bmr,
           | but everything I've seen or read seems to show that those
           | variations are miniscule.
        
           | strbean wrote:
           | When dealing with addiction, more thinking often ends in
           | better rationalizations for addictive behavior. For that
           | reason, I'm not sure "Thought-Terminating" is inherently a
           | bad thing.
           | 
           | Anecdotally, I've seen tons of people fight through different
           | fad diets with no success. They spend tons of time talking
           | about ways to trick their metabolisms, naturalistic arguments
           | about what to eat and not eat, etc. Perhaps they would be
           | more successful if they stopped over-thinking and focussed
           | purely on reducing their portion sizes and increasing their
           | exercise. Again anecdotally, it seems like usually exercise
           | is emphasized along with diet at first, but quickly gets
           | dropped. Within a couple weeks, the fad diet is forgotten as
           | well.
        
           | ASalazarMX wrote:
           | Specially because humans can't eat all matter. All calories
           | come out, but some are undigested and don't contribute to
           | nutrition.
        
           | flurie wrote:
           | Continued, sustained discussion predicated on the phrase
           | itself rather seems to disprove your point, doesn't it?
           | 
           | Additionally, from the link:
           | 
           | > Bennett explains that exceptions are made to the use of
           | phrases, that would otherwise be considered thought-
           | terminating if they are used in addition to evidence or
           | strong claims.
        
             | smorgusofborg wrote:
             | When I hear sports discussions they don't spend a lot of
             | time reminding us that everything is subject to the same
             | gravity. If some jackasses did it would become a thought
             | terminating cliche, and eventually we would be breaking out
             | of it, but it would be tainting the direction of each
             | discussion from the point where it was invoked.
        
               | kazoomonger wrote:
               | I think this analogy doesn't quite hold, as you don't
               | have athletes saying "I can't throw as far as you because
               | of gravity", whereas you really do have people making
               | ridiculous claims when it comes to weight loss.
        
               | flurie wrote:
               | Interestingly, I find myself subject to the opposite
               | quite often. It's a common cliche in the US to describe
               | superlative athletic ability as "defying gravity." Would
               | you consider that a thought-terminating cliche?
               | 
               | I'm happy to continue to discuss this with you, but I
               | would ask that you please refrain from name calling.
        
         | pc86 wrote:
         | It's a pithy rephrasing of an incorrect overgeneralization of
         | the first law. Calories aren't the only thing that can affect
         | weight. There are medical conditions, hormone levels, thermic
         | effect of food, and at least one or two other things that are
         | escaping me right now.
         | 
         | Is it going to explain 20 pounds of bodyfat? Absolutely not.
         | But "calories in, calories out" isn't backed up by the science.
        
           | taneq wrote:
           | It is. If you think it isn't then you're missing something
           | (like maybe calories excreted unmetabolized?) But it's also a
           | bit of a reductio ad absurdum and isn't a very interesting
           | take on the problem (and I say this as someone who also used
           | to spout it.)
           | 
           | Within a pretty tight margin, calories in minus calories out
           | DOES predict weight gain. The real question is _why_ someone
           | feels the need to eat more calories than they burn even when
           | they already have ample stores of calories, and what they or
           | others can do to change this. And THAT is a much more
           | interesting question.
        
           | kazoomonger wrote:
           | CICO is 100% backed up by science. The point of repeating
           | CICO is that there are people that legitimately try claiming
           | "I ate only an apple a day and I can't lose weight!". This is
           | clearly impossible.
           | 
           | Now, you can get more specific than that and say "well this
           | medical condition makes you more hungry" or "this medical
           | condition means you can't get as much energy as you should
           | from eating". But fundamentally, a condition like say PCOS
           | isn't magic. It doesn't make you absorb food better,
           | otherwise we would have already evolved to use that
           | absorption process.
           | 
           | Having said all that: yes, no two people are exactly the
           | same, we're not bunsen burners, etc. But the reason you're[1]
           | fat is because you eat too much.
           | 
           | [1]: general you, not you specifically
        
             | pjc50 wrote:
             | > It doesn't make you absorb food better, otherwise we
             | would have already evolved to use that absorption process.
             | 
             | This is itself a thought terminating cliche. Has anyone
             | actually _checked_?
        
             | quietbritishjim wrote:
             | > It doesn't make you absorb food better, otherwise we
             | would have already evolved to use that absorption process.
             | 
             | While I don't know about the first half of this sentence
             | (though I have my suspicions!) it's pretty obvious the
             | second half is false. You're saying that we all have to
             | process food identically because evolution has selected the
             | optimal result in humans. But evolution does not product
             | perfectly consistent results. In fact it relies on
             | producing inconsistent results! Because sometimes small
             | flaws turn out to actually be a benefit and get selected,
             | that's how evolation works. So the fact that humans are a
             | result of evolution does not prevent different people from
             | having different abilities to absorb nutrients.
             | 
             | > But the reason you're[1] fat is because you eat too much.
             | 
             | You went to the trouble of mentioning CICO and then totally
             | forgot about CO! Obviously you could extend this sentence
             | to "... and/or you don't do enough exercise" but, similar
             | to the previous point, there are likely to naturally be
             | variation in calorie outputs. In fact "running hot" might
             | seem like a weakness but could be a perfectly valid
             | evolutionary strategy, presuming it gave some other benefit
             | (like sharper mind or stronger body, better for obtaining
             | more food). It's quite possible for both strategies to be
             | baked into one set of genes, perhaps selected by activity
             | in childhood.
             | 
             | ---
             | 
             | It's self evident that CICO is true. It's just completely
             | worthless for providing any insight. Very much a thought-
             | terminating cliche as originally described.
        
               | philwelch wrote:
               | > You went to the trouble of mentioning CICO and then
               | totally forgot about CO! Obviously you could extend this
               | sentence to "... and/or you don't do enough exercise"
               | but, similar to the previous point, there are likely to
               | naturally be variation in calorie outputs.
               | 
               | This is technically true but a but specious. Obviously
               | you shouldn't eat as much as Michael Phelps if you don't
               | train like Michael Phelps. But it's probably a lot more
               | actionable for you to eat fewer calories than for you to
               | start training like an Olympic athlete.
        
               | kazoomonger wrote:
               | > it's pretty obvious the second half is false
               | 
               | It's really not. As I said above, people are not
               | identical. Yes, evolution doesn't produce perfectly
               | consistent results. However, absorbing nutrients is the
               | direct foundation for the only thing that matters in the
               | process of evolution: reproduction. You can't reproduce
               | if you die from lack of nutrients. Given how much of
               | humanity's existence has been staving off starvation and
               | famine, any improvements would be heavily selected for,
               | and would quickly spread.
               | 
               | As an extreme example, if you could survive on an apple
               | per day, the next famine that rolled around would leave
               | you pretty free to repopulate with your superdigestive
               | genes, since most everyone else would be dead.
               | 
               | > You went to the trouble of mentioning CICO and then
               | totally forgot about CO!
               | 
               | I don't really understand the point you're trying to make
               | in this paragraph. Even if some people "run hot" or they
               | have some magic gut that lets them survive on an apple
               | per day or whatever, it's still a fundamental truth that
               | if they're fat, they're eating too much. Yes, someone can
               | exercise more or whatever to change their output, but the
               | reason they're currently fat is because they're currently
               | eating too much.
               | 
               | > It's self evident that CICO is true. It's just
               | completely worthless for providing any insight. Very much
               | a thought-terminating cliche as originally described.
               | 
               | Yes, no, and no. As described above, there really are
               | people that think "I eat just an apple a day and I can't
               | lose weight!". CICO is a baseline for saying "no, that's
               | impossible". It's not a thought-terminating cliche, it's
               | making sure that everybody is on the same page of
               | accepting basic science.
        
               | Zababa wrote:
               | > Given how much of humanity's existence has been staving
               | off starvation and famine, any improvements would be
               | heavily selected for, and would quickly spread.
               | 
               | If that was true, shouldn't we have evolved to hibernate
               | at some point?
               | 
               | > You can't reproduce if you die from lack of nutrients.
               | 
               | You also can't reproduce if you can't run fast when a
               | wolf is hunting you. Those muscles are going to take some
               | energy even while not running away from a wolf. I think
               | you're trying to reduce evolution and reproduction to a
               | single variable, which is a mistake.
        
               | sushisource wrote:
               | > It's just completely worthless for providing any
               | insight
               | 
               | I dunno, I think you might be surprised by how many
               | people genuinely do not seem to understand it. It's
               | valuable to them if they are willing to listen, problem
               | is a lot of the time they really aren't, hence their
               | problem.
        
           | philwelch wrote:
           | _How_ do these things affect weight?
           | 
           | Thermic effect of food, for instance, seems to be the
           | phenomenon where the metabolism increases after a meal.
           | Metabolism is calories-out. So thermic effect of food isn't a
           | refutation of CICO, just a complication. CICO is still the
           | primary mechanism of weight control.
           | 
           | The main _actual_ counterexample to CICO is water retention.
        
             | flurie wrote:
             | Is it? If a body is retaining additional water and
             | absolutely nothing else, it can be the result of consistent
             | changes in external temperature, a lack of micronutrients,
             | or a result of illness. In the absence of these, the amount
             | of water in the body remains quite consistent. I'm not
             | talking about water that comes with glycogen as part of an
             | unexpected calorie surplus, because that is not permanent.
             | 
             | You are correct that water weight can cause spikes in
             | weight measurement, but this is just a contributor to
             | weight as a noisy measurement, not an example that it is
             | not helpful.
        
               | philwelch wrote:
               | I agree with you that it isn't a significant or important
               | factor in most cases, but it is technically a
               | counterexample, and is probably the _most_ significant or
               | relevant counterexample.
        
         | woopwoop wrote:
         | I've always been confused by the "calories in, calories out"
         | claim. It is usually used to mean that weight gain/loss is
         | proportional to calorie surplus/deficit. But I don't understand
         | how that is a restatement of the first law of thermodynamics.
         | What I could believe is the claim that the number of calories
         | stored in a person's body is proportional to their lifetime
         | caloric surplus, from which it follows that the change in the
         | number of calories stored on a person's body over a period of
         | time is proportional to their caloric surplus over that period.
         | But weight is not proportional to stored calories, since fat is
         | more calorie dense than protein. So in order to gain muscle,
         | lose fat, and maintain the same weight, doesn't a person have
         | to run a caloric deficit?
        
         | Zababa wrote:
         | I think the problem is that "calories in, calories out" is not
         | that easy since it's hard to measure the calories in and the
         | calories out precisely. "Calories out" especially, as most
         | people will just tell people to use a TDEE calculator or some
         | other approximation. When you're then asking them to have a 500
         | calories deficit, it is very possible that it won't work for
         | them as they (as in, the tool they used) overestimated the
         | "calories out" part.
         | 
         | Edit: to expand on that, "calories in, calories out" is a
         | classic motte and bailey (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Motte-
         | and-bailey_fallacy). Here the motte is "it's easy for anyone to
         | lose weight, just input a few numbers in a few apps". The
         | bailey is "calories in, calories out is scientifically true".
         | I've never seen advocates of calories in, calories out offering
         | a more precise way to measure the consumption of calories than
         | a TDEE calculator that you can find online, where you usually
         | input your weight, height, age and sex. The "calories in" part
         | is easier to deal with, as if you measure everything you put in
         | your mouth, you have the upper bound of the calories you can
         | absorb. Still, the calories out are hard to measure reliably,
         | especially in people that already have a slower metabolism than
         | others (which makes it easier for them to gain weight in the
         | first place).
         | 
         | There's also the distinction that "calorie intake" is often
         | meant as "what you put into your mouth" but is actually "what
         | you actually absorb".
        
           | MichaelGroves wrote:
           | > _I think the problem is that "calories in, calories out" is
           | not that easy since it's hard to measure the calories in and
           | the calories out precisely._
           | 
           | You don't have to, precise calorie counting is a strawman
           | argument against CICO. All the fat people I've ever known,
           | which is most of my family and many of my friends, all eat
           | way too much. I ate too much too, ever since I was a kid.
           | Huge portion sizes and constantly grazing throughout the day
           | without set meal times were the norm for me and those around
           | me. After hearing CICO repeated often, I recognized these
           | behaviors in myself and corrected them. I didn't need to
           | count calories for any of it. Where I would once buy a pizza
           | and devour it over the course of an evening, I now save half
           | for lunch the next day. Anybody can do that if they choose
           | to. By eating less, I've lost about 75 lbs in 5 years.
        
             | Zababa wrote:
             | So your refutation against that is your personal
             | experience? I'm glad it worked out for you but that seem a
             | bit weak.
             | 
             | > precise calorie counting is a strawman argument against
             | CICO
             | 
             | Precise calorie counting is what most people talking about
             | CICO promote though. And not to "get an intuition for how
             | much calories are in food", what you hear most often is
             | "calculate your TDEE, eat 500 calories under".
        
               | MichaelGroves wrote:
               | The most important message of CICO is not "count your
               | calories". It's _" you're fat because you eat too much."_
               | Matter isn't materializing out of the aether and putting
               | itself into your ass, it comes from you eating too much
               | food. Fat people are fat because there is an imbalance in
               | how much they eat and how active they are. And in modern
               | American society, the vast majority of it is from a
               | culture of binge eating. This is what I've observed not
               | only in myself, but in every other fat person I've met.
               | 
               | There are all kinds of coping mechanisms people use to
               | excuse themselves and stay fat. _" I don't eat more than
               | normal, I'm just a genetic anomaly who absorbs more
               | nutrients from food than everybody else.."_ Well assuming
               | that wasn't BS, the answer is _still_ to eat less. Or _"
               | CICO is just a thought terminating cliche"_; if I had
               | fallen for that BS, I'd still be fat. I'm glad I saw
               | through those lies.
        
             | balfirevic wrote:
             | > I would once buy a pizza and devour it over the course of
             | an evening, I now save half for lunch the next day.
             | 
             | Do you have trouble falling asleep while hungry?
        
         | carry_bit wrote:
         | "mass in, mass out" is another truism, yet not many people plan
         | their diets around that.
        
           | pjc50 wrote:
           | How many people measure their exhalation mass, though?
           | 
           | (Yes, weight loss is substantially through exhaled CO2)
        
           | flurie wrote:
           | I agree with you that this is both correct and unhelpful, but
           | there's an interesting reason for that! It's because a good
           | bit of weight loss is achieved through exhalation. If we had
           | a way to measure that consistently and accurately, it would
           | be more helpful information.
        
             | carry_bit wrote:
             | You can just weigh yourself periodically, weigh what you
             | consume, and then compute how much mass has left your body.
             | 
             | As a diet, you could plan out what you want to weigh over
             | time, and then before each meal calculate how far below
             | that goal you are and limit your consumption to the
             | difference.
        
           | philwelch wrote:
           | It's also technically more accurate since CICO doesn't
           | account for water weight.
        
       | at_a_remove wrote:
       | I will throw out a personal un-favorite. When talking about the
       | fear of violence from the mentally ill, someone will say --
       | almost as if the string were pulled on a talking doll -- "the
       | mentally ill are more likely to be subject to violence than to
       | ..." and away we go.
       | 
       | It may be true, but it does not actually address the question.
       | The question is, are they more violent than those who are not
       | mentally ill?
        
       | the-dude wrote:
       | But that is just communism.
        
       | narrator wrote:
       | A related concept is the association fallacy [1], which is a more
       | subtle form of the ad hominem fallacy.
       | 
       | It works like this:
       | 
       | A. You believe X.
       | 
       | B. A crazy person also believes/believed X.
       | 
       | C. Since you believe X and a crazy person also believed X, you
       | are a crazy person.
       | 
       | D. Optionally: I won't consider your argument unless you tell me
       | why being a crazy person is ok. Why do you support doing crazy
       | people things like being a serial killer?
       | 
       | Example:
       | 
       | A. You are against cigarette smoking.
       | 
       | B. The Nazis were also against cigarette smoking[2].
       | 
       | C. Therefore you are a Nazi.
       | 
       | D. Optionally: I won't consider your argument unless you tell me
       | why being a Nazi is ok. Why do you support anti-semitism?
       | 
       | The latest updated version of this is: What you believe is
       | arbitrarily labeled a conspiracy theory. People that believe in
       | conspiracy theories believe the earth is flat. Why do you believe
       | the earth is flat?
       | 
       | [1]
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Association_fallacy#Guilt_by_a...
       | 
       | [2]
       | https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/251213.The_Nazi_War_on_C...
        
         | threatofrain wrote:
         | I find that the use of "logical fallacies" to be an
         | intellectual smell as well.
         | 
         | For example, the ad hominem fallacy, where we might trust a
         | doctor just because they are a doctor. Or when we might avoid a
         | restaurant just because of popular opinion (bandwagon fallacy).
         | It's strange that people would seek out these fancy words when
         | we can just say _credibility_.
         | 
         | Similarly, we culturally expect that judges are not receiving
         | re-election funds from the parties that appear before their
         | court, and not because money necessarily damages their
         | judgment, but rather for the sake of judicial _credibility_.
         | 
         | The effective judgment of credibility is not as simple as
         | logic.
        
           | lisper wrote:
           | > the ad hominem fallacy, where we might trust a doctor just
           | because they are a doctor
           | 
           | That's not an ad hominem fallacy. At worst it's an argument
           | from authority. Ad hominem is something like: the person
           | advancing this argument has done something bad, therefore the
           | argument they are advancing must be false (or the converse --
           | the person advancing this argument has done something good,
           | therefore the argument they are advancing must be true).
           | 
           | An argument-from-authority fallacy is a kind of ad hominem,
           | usually employed with respect to some third party not
           | involved in the dispute: "This person has a credential, and
           | they say X, therefore X must be true." The problem is that
           | this might not be a fallacy depending on the specific
           | credential and the value of X. If someone is a doctor, then
           | what they have to say about medicine is actually more likely
           | to be true than someone who is not, all else being equal.
           | Asking your doctor for advice on how to fix your car, on the
           | other hand, is something you probably ought to avoid, unless
           | your doctor also happens to be into cars.
        
           | [deleted]
        
           | narrator wrote:
           | The modern trend in political discussion is to ignore the
           | finer points of the issue and just look at _who_ is backing
           | what side of the argument. The finer points are only for
           | properly accredited specialists debating in private so as to
           | not confuse the public. One 's job as a member of the public
           | is blind faith in their authorities and denigration of
           | dissenters.
           | 
           | However, the idea of a logical fallacy is one can take an
           | argument apart and out it back together and identify bad
           | arguments without relying on an authority figure's arbitrary
           | pronouncements. If one reads a restaurant review and the
           | reviewer said they didn't like the restaurant because some
           | hated person said they liked the food there, we can easily
           | conclude that this is the association fallacy at work and
           | disregard that review. If we see 1000 1 star reviews because
           | A Bad Person said he liked the food there, and we believe it,
           | we are falling for the bandwagon effect fallacy, by a bunch
           | of people who believed the association fallacy.
        
           | chriswarbo wrote:
           | > I find that the use of "logical fallacies" to be an
           | intellectual smell as well.
           | 
           | I find there's an over-obsession with logic in some
           | discussions too; as in, ancient-greek-style modus ponens
           | stuff. To me, that's not particularly interesting when it
           | comes to the real world[1]; after all, logically-speaking we
           | _could_ just be a brain in a jar, or whatever.
           | 
           | An argument being "logical" (as in, not self-contradicting)
           | is _not_ enough to make it credible; it 's just a very low
           | bar, which lets us dismiss the most nonsensical claims
           | quickly. Arguments which cross the "logical" bar should
           | _also_ align with empirical evidence, have a likelihood that
           | 's at least comparable to alternative explanations, etc.
           | 
           | ---
           | 
           | I don't think "conspiracy theory" has quite become a thought-
           | terminating cliche yet. It can usefully describe a common
           | failure-mode in thinking.
           | 
           | In particular, conspiracy theories become less and less
           | likely as they're inspected closer and closer; e.g. requiring
           | even more people to be "in on it" (making it less likely to
           | be kept secret), requiring ever-more elaborate epicycles to
           | explain-away observations/experiments/events, etc. They can't
           | be _disproved_ , but who cares? That's not a good enough
           | reason, on its own, to affect anything.
           | 
           | Another legitimate use of the phrase "conspiracy theory" is a
           | particular case of "affirming the consequent" (i.e. getting
           | implications the wrong way around). For example "if X is
           | true, Y would make so much sense", where X is the
           | "conspiracy" and Y is some well-known/self-evident fact about
           | the world. This might be true, but the mistake is to treat Y
           | as proof of X: this would give us "if X is true, Y would make
           | so much sense, so X is true", which is an elaborate way of
           | saying 'if X is true, X is true'. Here Y isn't actually proof
           | of anything, it's just a _distraction_.[2]
           | 
           | [1] In _artificial_ contexts, like mathematics and
           | programming, I find logic to be fascinating and rich; e.g. I
           | spent a _lot_ of time studying topics like type theory and
           | co-induction at grad school!
           | 
           | [2] The "logical fallacy" here is assuming (X -> Y) -> (Y ->
           | X)
           | 
           | PS: From a bayesian perspective, 'if X were true, Y would
           | make so much sense' _is_ evidence for X. It 's not _proof_ ,
           | but it makes X more likely (essentially by ruling-out the
           | potential for Y to disprove X). However, (a) the change in
           | likelihood depends on the prior probability, if X were wildly
           | unlikely then such weak, indirect evidence cannot make up for
           | that; and (b) this sort of nuance of probabilities is
           | negligible compared to the wild chains of "logic" spewed by
           | the conspiracy theorists I know.
        
         | pjc50 wrote:
         | > A crazy person also believes/believed X.
         | 
         | This is more a form of spam filtering; given finite
         | intellectual effort, strangers who talk about certain subjects
         | get ruled out of consideration. Just as sending a lot of mail
         | about Cialis will get your IP on a list.
        
           | miteyironpaw wrote:
           | Isn't spam filtering a large part of what these cliches are
           | used for, or at least what the people using them think
           | they're for? e.g. "That's just your opinion." "Now is not the
           | time." "Here we go again."
        
         | rspeele wrote:
         | On the other end, how about:
         | 
         | A. The mainstream media, M, is biased and sometimes delivers
         | incomplete or inaccurate information. They tell
         | $mainstream_story.
         | 
         | B. Alternative source, A, rejects $mainstream_story and says
         | that actually, $alternative_story is the truth.
         | 
         | C. Any data M points to to debunk $alternative_story and
         | support $mainstream_story is assumed to be fake or manipulated,
         | because M lies.
         | 
         | D. There is no need to apply the same skepticism to A and their
         | arguments, because by going against M, they have already
         | demonstrated that they are "good guys".
        
           | potta_coffee wrote:
           | This is why I trust precisely zero media.
        
           | etchalon wrote:
           | This is so very much a thing and I love how it's structured
           | here.
        
       | MarkLowenstein wrote:
       | Whatever.
        
         | still_grokking wrote:
         | There is nothing to see here, please move on.
        
       | kazinator wrote:
       | Thought-terminating EE dad joke:
       | 
       | If your thought bus isn't terminated, you will get unwanted
       | reflection.
        
       | Graziano_M wrote:
       | Words are violence.
        
         | HKH2 wrote:
         | It's just a social construct.
        
       | ChrisArchitect wrote:
       | previous related discussion only 4 months ago:
       | 
       |  _What are some thought-terminating cliches in the software
       | industry?_ https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=27012428
       | 
       | and earlier only a year ago a few discussions:
       | 
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=23521426
       | 
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=22722522
        
       | motohagiography wrote:
       | Was introduced to this concept some years ago, and have found
       | since that challenging a thought-terminating cliche is seldom
       | welcome. In group settings and often on teams, most people are
       | content to be aligned to the perception of what represents power,
       | with no thought as to whether it is moored to reality, truth, or
       | has consistency with anything external. These cliches are a
       | mechanism that facilitates that non-relationship to the world.
       | 
       | A friend recently observed that he had more in common with people
       | in his opposite political tribe than he did with ostensible
       | centerists, and he said it was because the people on the other
       | team also believed something, where the ones in the middle were
       | in-effect, nihilists, or believing nothing. I mention it because
       | when I thought of nihilisim, I always interpreted it as an active
       | kind of anti-belief, or against all belief, instead of a bland
       | passivity, detached from a moral anchor or foundation. For this
       | kind of nihilist, the thought-terminating cliche is the necessary
       | boundary of their ontology about the world. It's the person
       | saying, "it is what it is," as they do horrible things. If you
       | have ever spent time in bureaucracies, it is easy to see how a
       | bunch of people trained to accept small injustices passively can
       | be mobilized into an atrocity machine. They're "de-moralized,"
       | which we misuse to describe frustrated efforts, when what it
       | means is that by lacking roots to beliefs and replacing them with
       | this thought-termination, they do not exercise moral agency.
       | They're just following orders.
       | 
       | I've concluded the cliches are worse than thought terminating,
       | they are jingoistic slogans of nihilism people repeat to justify
       | and release themselves from moral agency. All this is to say,
       | it's an important concept. Thought-terminating cliches are the
       | mental reference points for the origins of what we understand now
       | as the banality of evil.
        
         | inter_netuser wrote:
         | "Thought-terminating cliches are the mental reference points
         | for the origins of what we understand now as the banality of
         | evil."
         | 
         | there is research into this? how did we get from "zomg
         | conspiracy" to "banality of evil"?
        
           | herval wrote:
           | Hannah Arendt said it in that very book:
           | 
           | "[Eichmann] was genuinely incapable of uttering a single
           | sentence that was not a cliche," and he used these cliches as
           | a mental defense mechanism to avoid thinking about what he
           | was doing for the Nazi Party."
           | 
           | https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Thought-
           | terminating_clich%C3%A...
        
         | ehnto wrote:
         | I have noticed it's more prevalent in people with very strong
         | routines, perhaps mundane jobs and a very structured life. I
         | imagine it's because they've got strong incentive to maintain
         | the status quo but they're also tired of talking about the same
         | thing over and over, so they serve as social shortcuts to
         | getting to a new topic (or getting you to go away).
         | 
         | One other thing I see it used for is to divert from negative
         | topics people are tired of re-hashing. Talking about drought in
         | a farm town gets pretty tiresome as the months go on, that's
         | when you start getting the "it is what it is" statements. They
         | care really, they just gain nothing from talking about it
         | constantly.
        
         | darkerside wrote:
         | I don't disagree with your principle. That said, we need to
         | release ourselves from thoughts at times. We can adjudicate
         | forever whether the blue you see is the same as the blue I see,
         | or which is the superior potato chip, or whether to take the
         | road less traveled or not. And if we remain locked in eternal
         | debate, we end up like Sylvia Plath's protagonist, watching the
         | figs shrivel up as life passes us by.
         | 
         | People sometimes learn of Kahneman's system 1 and system 2
         | thinking and decide it's a failure to ever use system 1. No!
         | System 1 is used for most of our day, to free us up for the
         | decisions that really matter. An underrated aspect of the art
         | of making decisions is deciding which decisions to make
         | deliberately.
        
       | adamrezich wrote:
       | disappointed to see 0 results for CTRL+F "emotion." it's not so
       | much that the cliche "terminates your thought" these days as much
       | as it is that it triggers a learned emotional response to the
       | trigger stimuli that _then_ results in a cessation of any logical
       | processing. when I first noticed this around 2016 I became very
       | aware of it whenever I encounter it, and have since become aware
       | of just how many of these trigger-responses I 've unwittingly
       | learned over the years, leading me to do what I can to avoid this
       | style of thinking.
        
       | onoira wrote:
       | > It's nothing personal.
       | 
       | > I'm just saying.
       | 
       | > No need to get defensive.
       | 
       | > I never said I didn't like it.
        
         | darkerside wrote:
         | If you say so.
         | 
         | Let's table it.
         | 
         | Anyway.
         | 
         | So... how about them Yankees?
        
       | da_chicken wrote:
       | I would say the most common one IT people would be familiar with
       | is: "We've always done it this way."
        
         | twic wrote:
         | "It's best practice" might be even more lethal. Or "It's how
         | Google do it" if you're in Silicon Valley.
        
         | ballenf wrote:
         | I thought it was "let's put it in the backlog".
        
           | jacobsimon wrote:
           | LOL
        
         | maleldil wrote:
         | To be fair, people don't often challenge that. I usually say
         | "It's how I'm used to doing it, but I'd be happy to hear a
         | better alternative". I don't think anyone ever offered one.
        
       | recursivedoubts wrote:
       | the #1 thought-terminating cliche I see amongst reasonably
       | intelligent people: conspiracy theory
       | 
       | it's amazing how this phrase will shut down critical thought in
       | otherwise smart folks
        
         | ryandrake wrote:
         | Critical thought requires falsifiability and evidence, but
         | conspiracy theory only requires belief.
        
           | still_grokking wrote:
           | And here we go again...
           | 
           | What you're talking about is actually the cliche of a
           | "conspiracy theory".
           | 
           | A lot of things that are called like that aren't anything one
           | could call "a theory" at all. The point is: Any random BS
           | claim isn't a conspiracy theory.
           | 
           | A conspiracy theory is nothing more than speculating that
           | some parties are working or worked together in secret
           | (conspired) to achieve something. That's all. Such a theory
           | can usually be falsified. (At least in theory).
           | 
           | But there is this framing that "conspiracy theory" means some
           | arbitrary BS. That's actually why labeling something as
           | "conspiracy theory" immediately shouts down critical thought
           | in a lot of folks. Just call something "conspiracy theory"
           | and the cliche kicks in and people will dismiss that
           | something as BS.
           | 
           | By the way: The English version of the Wikipedia disagrees.
           | But only the English version. I've also looked at Boarisch,
           | Deutsch, Espanol, Francais, Italiano, Nederlands, Polski,
           | Russkii. Only the English version adds that a conspiracy
           | theory "is an explanation for an event or situation [...]
           | when other explanations are more probable. The term has a
           | negative connotation, implying that the appeal to a
           | conspiracy is based on prejudice or insufficient evidence."
           | Should we proceed to construct a conspiracy theory form that
           | observation? Someone got obviously their framing into
           | Wikipedia!
        
             | the_af wrote:
             | I disagree that many conspiracy theories can be falsified.
             | How often believers, when confronted with evidence, find it
             | convincing and dismiss the conspiracy?
        
               | still_grokking wrote:
               | If you can present evidence you can prove or falsify it,
               | right?
               | 
               | So it's falsifiable. Otherwise you couldn't ever present
               | any evidence.
               | 
               | Whether someone is willing to believe in some evidence
               | shown doesn't change anything about the fallibility
               | property.
        
               | the_af wrote:
               | But a conspiracy theory is a social construct not subject
               | to rational thought. The notion of falsifiability only
               | makes sense in the context of a conversation between
               | actors willing to accept this.
               | 
               | The context of conspiracy theories is different. It's
               | emotional. Goalposts get shifted, evidence is made up, no
               | rational discourse possible.
               | 
               | So they cannot be falsified.
        
           | recursivedoubts wrote:
           | The topic isn't what your own personal definition of a
           | "conspiracy theory" is.
           | 
           | Rather it is whether the term "conspiracy theory" can be
           | introduced into a conversation and terminate thinking.
        
             | the_af wrote:
             | The claim that calling something a conspiracy theory is
             | _always_ done in order to shut down inconvenient or
             | provocative conversations is, itself, a thought terminating
             | cliche.
             | 
             | "Someone called my rant a conspiracy theory, therefore I'm
             | on to something!"
        
           | inter_netuser wrote:
           | Every scientific hypothesis starts without evidence.
           | 
           | So it must be treated as "conspiracy", and not critical
           | thought, according to you?
        
             | coaksford wrote:
             | Not being falsifiable and not having evidence aren't the
             | same thing. Conspiracy theories are usually centrally
             | dependent upon something that is both outlandish and
             | impossible to disprove, or some reasoning that is
             | constructed so that it cannot be disproved, as any effort
             | to disprove it is undertaken by "them" by definition and is
             | suspect because they're all in on it the conspiracy.
             | 
             | There can be no evidence yet, it becomes a problem when
             | unfalsifiability makes evidence irrelevant.
        
               | rspeele wrote:
               | Example of unfalsifiability:
               | 
               | Alice: Trump won Georgia, but the Dominion voting
               | machines flipped it. Look at how many votes came in for
               | Biden late at night.
               | 
               | Bob: It took a long time to finish counting the mail in
               | ballots, and precincts report their results in large
               | batches. Anyway, there was a hand recount of all the
               | paper ballots that were scanned by the machines. If the
               | machines had flipped votes, the paper ballots would still
               | show the originals.
               | 
               | Alice: Then the hand recount was faked.
               | 
               | Bob: But observers from both parties were present for the
               | recount. By this time the machine flip theory was
               | widespread, so the Republican observers would be on high
               | alert to make sure the recount is right.
               | 
               | Alice: Those might not be real Republicans. Like the
               | Secretary of State, they are probably RINOs. Plus the
               | paper ballots themselves were fraudulent. The signatures
               | were faked.
               | 
               | Bob: So do you still think the Dominion machines did
               | something wrong, or did they accurately scan the
               | fraudulent paper ballots? Anyway, the state bureau of
               | investigation did a signature audit in Cobb county and
               | found no intentional fraud and only a couple of mistakes
               | where somebody signed for their partner or something.
               | 
               | Alice: The GBI is in on it. The fraud was really in
               | Fulton county, so that's where they should've done the
               | signature audit. Didn't you see that batch of secret
               | ballots they hid under a table and pulled out when nobody
               | was looking?
               | 
               | Bob: The security camera footage shows that the ballots
               | from under the table are the same ones that were opened
               | from envelopes while the observers were watching. They
               | were just the next batch waiting to be scanned, nothing
               | abnormal about them. The state released the whole footage
               | online, including the parts Trump's lawyers conveniently
               | skipped past.
               | 
               | Alice: I know it was stolen. The details of how they did
               | it might never come out, but I can tell Trump really won.
        
             | phaemon wrote:
             | That is literally the opposite of how scientific hypotheses
             | start.
             | 
             | I'm guessing you're not a scientist.
        
               | pfarrell wrote:
               | Exactly. Most scientific hypotheses start after "hmm...
               | that's weird."
        
         | user-the-name wrote:
         | Or, maybe you just believe in conspiracy theories that aren't
         | worthy of anyone's attention.
        
         | tptacek wrote:
         | So basically, on message boards, the notion of a "Thought-
         | Terminating Cliche" is deployed the same way "Logical
         | Fallacies" are, to appeal to the celestial referees for a TKO
         | in an argument. And in that sense, "Thought-Terminating Cliche"
         | is itself a "Thought-Terminating Cliche", disappearing down its
         | own throat uroborotically+. Neat!
         | 
         | + _A term that now exists._
        
           | still_grokking wrote:
           | I would go even so far to say a thought-terminating cliche is
           | always made up from some logical fallacies.
           | 
           | Hard to think of an example that isn't.
        
           | recursivedoubts wrote:
           | I suppose the phrase can reflexive, although I have to admit
           | this is the first time I had heard of the concept, and
           | "cliche" appears to imply long-and-tired usage.
           | 
           | It doesn't appear to be a common thought terminator,
           | certainly not on the level of "conspiracy theory", the
           | application of which we have seen, in both extreme and
           | humorous terms, with respect to the covid lab-leak
           | hypothesis, for example.
        
         | ineptech wrote:
         | I don't think this is a good example. If your position is, "We
         | should do X because of Y" and I respond "conspiracy theory",
         | I'm taking the position that Y is inaccurate. You could respond
         | e.g. by citing evidence of it.
         | 
         | If OTOH I respond, "Ah, it is what it is", I'm disagreeing that
         | we should do X but without taking any position on Y or
         | explaining why I disagree. That's what TFA is discussing - ways
         | to weasel out of a discussion without being pinned down to a
         | position or an argument.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | ilaksh wrote:
         | It's also amazing (but maybe not really surprising) that
         | "conspiracy theory" isn't in the Wikipedia article. I wonder if
         | someone tried to add it already.
        
           | dane-pgp wrote:
           | Maybe "they" removed it...
        
             | ilaksh wrote:
             | If you have ever tried to edit something on Wikipedia, you
             | will know that other people deleting your edits is not
             | uncommon. Or a conspiracy theory. Anyone who uses that word
             | might have felt like they needed to delete it from the
             | article.
        
             | ilaksh wrote:
             | This is a previous version where it was in there.
             | https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Thought-
             | terminati...
             | 
             | And the last entry in Talk is about how it was removed.
        
               | still_grokking wrote:
               | I've upvoted the grandparent as I though "nice joke".
               | Than I've read your comment...
               | 
               | There seems to be a reframing of the term "conspiracy
               | theory" going on right now. I've noticed also something
               | odd:
               | 
               | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=28251945
        
           | dang wrote:
           | The examples they do give are all bland and unprovocative.
           | There are many more, of course.
        
           | bitwize wrote:
           | This is because Wikipedia itself uses "conspiracy theory" to
           | flag ideas its editorship deems should not be taken
           | seriously.
        
       | hume_annoyed wrote:
       | FYI "You're overthinking this" is given as if in advice, but it
       | only means 'I am bored, not committed, and/or no longer
       | listening'.
        
         | ilaksh wrote:
         | I think it's quite a rude and disrespectful phrase.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | d883kd8 wrote:
         | "you're underthinking it"
         | 
         | "no, I'm thinking the right amount"
        
       | okareaman wrote:
       | One I see a lot of these days is "An X would say that" as in "a
       | MAGA Trump supporter would say that" or "a far left liberal would
       | say that" implying that whatever was said was made up dogma with
       | no basis in reality.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | BiteCode_dev wrote:
       | My all time favorite: "you'll understand when you will be X"
       | 
       | At the beginning, I really took it at face value, and patiently
       | waited until I was X. Older. In a relationship. Having my own
       | business.
       | 
       | I was very naive, I though people shared experience and knew
       | something about life. Every time I ended up being disappointed
       | when reaching the point X actually prove the other side was full
       | of crap.
       | 
       | I didn't understand that it was only a way to stop the
       | conversation. It had nothing to do with logic, it's a matter of
       | saving face, getting out of a boring interaction, or about power.
       | 
       | A lot of human interactions are like that: if you think people
       | means what they say, you are misunderstanding the communication.
       | I used to take so many things literally, I though people chose
       | their words for their dictionary sense. Turns out only a small
       | part of communication is actually about the literal sense of
       | words, like technical documentation or giving direction to reach
       | the bakery, which I'm good at.
       | 
       | It's also a fact that is obvious to most humans, although they
       | are mostly oblivious to their own fluency, since it's as
       | transparent as walking to them. People on the autistic spectrum,
       | however, need to figure it out.
       | 
       | But don't worry, you'll understand it all when you will be Z.
        
       | jka wrote:
       | If threads of conversation were series of git commits, then the
       | way to avoid these would be to stop, apply revert(s), and then
       | resume from the previous good-faith, high-value commit.
       | 
       | Sadly that's not particularly applicable to linear time-based
       | human conversation, and people exploit that in meetings and other
       | environments to sidetrack, limit and shut down discussion (while
       | it's also true that some tangents are _introduced_ to achieve
       | similar ends).
       | 
       | Are there good strategies to 'roll back' while maintaining
       | composure and context during important conversations? Or is it
       | necessary to move the conversations to other (threaded, for
       | example) mediums?
        
         | ilaksh wrote:
         | Good point. My impression is that it comes down to things like
         | hierarchy, tact, charisma, political acumen. And if someone is
         | deliberately derailing, there might not be an indirect strategy
         | that's effective. You may simply have to bring it up again
         | explicitly.
         | 
         | And personally I think that if it's clear someone is
         | interfering then it may be necessary and advisable to call them
         | out on it depending on the urgency. But it's not a minor issue.
         | Something like that can absolutely kill a project or your
         | career.
         | 
         | My belief is that they only way to really be free of that is to
         | have the ability to fire people who do too much politicking or
         | whatever. Such as being the boss.
        
           | dane-pgp wrote:
           | > You may simply have to bring it up again explicitly.
           | 
           | Depending on the circumstances, it might be possible to bring
           | up the issue later via email or a group chat, saying
           | something like "One idea from the meeting which I think
           | wasn't fully explored was...".
           | 
           | For in-person meetings, though, I think that we can probably
           | learn a lot from the rules of order used in places like
           | parliaments and courts, where discussions are deliberately
           | arranged to be turn-based, with an ostensibly neutral party
           | (the speaker or the judge) who guides proceedings but isn't
           | an active participant in the flow of dialogue.
        
         | darkerside wrote:
         | I don't know about strategies, but I think the key principle is
         | not to take it personally. It can be difficult when someone is
         | dismissive of something you think is important, but hanlon's
         | razor suggests that you take it as me ignorance. Recognize that
         | this conversation is your opportunity to open their eyes to why
         | something you care about is important.
        
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