[HN Gopher] 112 Gripes About the French
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       112 Gripes About the French
        
       Author : samclemens
       Score  : 374 points
       Date   : 2021-07-16 01:10 UTC (1 days ago)
        
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       | rgoulter wrote:
       | Does anyone know whether this had any impact on relations?
       | 
       | My experience with seeing discussions online doesn't give me much
       | confidence in the persuasive ability of "here are logical reasons
       | why what you're feeling is wrong".
        
         | afarrell wrote:
         | Online discussions are a lot more scatterbrained than sitting
         | down to read a book. People are more willing to take a second &
         | more logical look before responding when they cannot tweet
         | back.
         | 
         | Also, this has a lot of reasons why the reader is right to feel
         | a certain way.
        
           | rgoulter wrote:
           | I saw a comic from 1898 "Un diner en famille"
           | https://fr.wikipedia.org/wiki/Un_d%C3%AEner_en_famille which
           | I understand the captions to be "Let's not discuss the
           | Dreyfus affair" and "they discussed it".
           | 
           | I won't disagree that the internet can exasperate things like
           | this.. the comic feels _too_ familiar in the internet-age.
        
       | BiteCode_dev wrote:
       | As a french, it reminds me very much of the FM 3-24
       | Counterinsurgency manual: a pragmatic and clear book that tries
       | to make approachable what seems an impossible topic to handle.
       | 
       | That's really a side of the american culture I'd like we promote
       | more.
       | 
       | Also a proof militaries are not devoid of humanism.
        
         | jhugo wrote:
         | In case anyone is interested in a link:
         | https://fas.org/irp/doddir/army/fm3-24.pdf
         | 
         | It's indeed an interesting read.
        
       | nodejs_rulez_1 wrote:
       | _> France sounded like a muslim country back then:
       | 
       | >> Most French girls before the war had far less freedom than our
       | girls back home. A great many were not permitted to go out
       | without a chaperone. France is dominantly Catholic in religion
       | and in morals..._
       | 
       | Can you imagine: from that to disallowing fathers to do a DNA
       | test in less than 100 years!
        
         | dang wrote:
         | " _Eschew flamebait. Avoid unrelated controversies and generic
         | tangents._ "
         | 
         | https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html
        
         | Bayart wrote:
         | What are you on ? It's perfectly legal, there's just a process
         | to follow because it's completely illegal to take someone's DNA
         | without their consent, unless there's a criminal procedure with
         | sufficient proof.
         | 
         | Sneaking a paternity test by taking someone's DNA
         | surreptitiously would be not only worthless as a legal
         | document, but also put you on the spot for litigation.
        
           | nodejs_rulez_1 wrote:
           | Following your logic: 'French girls were fully permitted to
           | go out but there was just a process to follow - presence of a
           | chaperon.'
           | 
           | Seriously, just open Wikipedia and read about different
           | countries e.g.: _In the United States, paternity testing is
           | fully legal, and fathers may test their children without the
           | consent or knowledge of the mother. Paternity testing take-
           | home kits are readily available for purchase, though their
           | results are not admissible in court and are for personal
           | knowledge only._
        
             | cycomanic wrote:
             | Except that taking someone's DNA without their consent (or
             | the consent of their guardians) is nothing like making
             | girls (and women) be accompanied by a chaperone.
             | 
             | I always find it fascinating that many American people
             | believe very strongly in individual freedoms, the same
             | people often believe these freedoms do not apply to
             | children (or teenagers) and parents should have
             | unconditional ownership over their children.
        
               | true_religion wrote:
               | But do you really need the consent of all the guardians?
        
               | cycomanic wrote:
               | Yes, generally you do. In many countries you need consent
               | of all guardians for all serious interventions, like
               | operations, school changes, travel outside the country...
               | 
               | So why should a paternaty test be different?
        
           | dang wrote:
           | Please omit personal swipes from your HN comments, regardless
           | of how wrong another comment is or you feel it is. It just
           | makes things worse. Your comment would be fine without that
           | first bit.
           | 
           | https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html
        
       | Ostrogodsky wrote:
       | Only 112? Joking, I like the Frenchies.
        
       | CPLX wrote:
       | The actual text: http://www.marshallfoundation.org/library/wp-
       | content/uploads...
        
         | hef19898 wrote:
         | That text is as important now as it was then. And it can easily
         | be used everyone, with slight adaptions, by replacing France
         | and the US with other nations.
        
           | danieldbird wrote:
           | Israel and Palestine? That would be a good read.
        
           | lotsofcows wrote:
           | Other way around. This text seems very similiar to:
           | https://www.amazon.co.uk/Instructions-British-Servicemen-
           | Fra... https://www.amazon.co.uk/Instructions-American-
           | Servicemen-Br...
        
       | FabHK wrote:
       | Delightful. Plus ca change:
       | 
       | > 49 "Why do they knock of work for two to three hours every
       | day?"
       | 
       | > They keep their stores open two to three hours later than we
       | do. (They did when there were things to sell; there's no point in
       | keeping a store open if the shelves are bare.)
       | 
       | > The long lunch hour is a custom which is not confined to
       | France. It is found in Italy, Spain, the Balkans and many parts
       | of Germany. It is a custom we find annoying because it interferes
       | with our comfort (as tourists) and because it differs from our
       | way of doing things.
       | 
       | > The average Frenchman maintains that a lunch eaten at leisure
       | is a lot better than a chicken-salad-on-toast gobbled down at a
       | drugstore counter. "We take time to live as well as work," one
       | Frenchman said.
       | 
       | ETA: It does take a more sombre turn in the chapters about France
       | vs. Germany (Questions 69 etc.), which appears to indicate that
       | many soldiers felt that they should have sided with the Germans
       | rather than the French.
        
       | j4yav wrote:
       | The actual document in pdf format seems to be here:
       | http://www.marshallfoundation.org/library/wp-content/uploads...
        
       | danans wrote:
       | The questions in the chapter entitled "the French and the
       | Germans" paint a picture that despite defeating the Nazis and
       | witnessing their atrocities, many American servicemen harbored
       | deeper sympathies to German culture than to French, and this
       | pamphlet was intended in part to fix that. Examples of questions
       | in that section:
       | 
       | "The French aren't our kind of people . The Germans are"
       | 
       | "The French are not as clean as the Germans"
       | 
       | "The Germans are easier to get along with than the French,
       | because the Germans are law abiding"
       | 
       | This is reminder that despite the US being at war with the Nazis
       | in WWII, the heinous beliefs behind the Nazi agenda had a lot of
       | resonance in many other countries, including the United States.
       | In fact, in recent years, it's become better understood how
       | Nazism was inspired in part by the Jim Crow laws and culture in
       | the US.
       | 
       | https://www.ushmm.org/collections/bibliography/nazism-and-th...
       | 
       | https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2018/04/30/how-american-r...
       | 
       | https://www.history.com/news/how-the-nazis-were-inspired-by-...
        
       | k__ wrote:
       | Interesting.
       | 
       | I always had the impression, the US citizens and french citizen
       | where buddies. Because of the independence war and the statue and
       | everything.
        
         | eplanit wrote:
         | Allies, not buddies.
        
         | afarrell wrote:
         | I had plenty of gripes about my brother when I was growing up.
         | Those gripes were trivial but real and talking about them is
         | far healthier than not.
         | 
         | I miss him terribly now.
        
         | neximo64 wrote:
         | One of the 'gripes' is:
         | 
         | "One Frenchman told me the French practically gave us the
         | statue of liberty. How do you like that?"
        
           | k__ wrote:
           | :D
        
         | chrisseaton wrote:
         | Not sure if you are joking?
         | 
         | > France is the country with the deepest, most sedimented
         | reservoir of anti-American arguments. Its long genealogy has
         | been well documented over the years, most recently by Philippe
         | Roger, who argues that French anti- Americanism is older than
         | the United States (Roger 2002).
         | 
         | https://scholar.princeton.edu/sites/default/files/meunierces...
        
           | sidibe wrote:
           | Admittedly I'm not clicking on the link (2002 is peak
           | antipathy both ways due to Iraq war build-up), but I've seen
           | similar stuff that doesn't account for French people have a
           | negative attitude towards everything compared to other
           | countries. If you ask French people in a poll whether they
           | approve of something they are much more likely to disapprove
        
             | cycomanic wrote:
             | And I would add that includes many French things and France
             | as well.
        
           | morsch wrote:
           | > Surprisingly, polling data reveals that France is not
           | drastically more anti-American than other European countries
           | - even less so on a variety of dimensions.
           | 
           | ibid
        
             | chrisseaton wrote:
             | I'm going to suggest to you that when trying to get the
             | most out of a research paper, you might want to read beyond
             | the second sentence of the abstract.
             | 
             | It balances and talks about the paradoxes - such as the
             | French obsession with McDonalds.
        
           | eplanit wrote:
           | The French love insulting Americans nearly as much as the
           | Brits enjoy insulting the French (it's like a sport there).
        
           | ekianjo wrote:
           | France is well know as being the little Russia and certainly
           | a deep reserve of anti American sentiment. Mostly due to
           | media and education brainwashing.
        
             | unishark wrote:
             | When the USSR broke up, I had a school teacher at the time
             | who said Russia will cease to be an enemy and become like
             | France, an ally that opposes us a lot and causes headaches
             | just out of national pride.
        
             | coldtea wrote:
             | Spoken like a true American who only heard about those
             | places from TV shows, movies, and mass media "coverage"...
             | 
             | "media and education brainwashing" LOL
        
               | smcl wrote:
               | I think you both need to read the book this submission is
               | based on and try to apply some of its lessons in this
               | thread.
        
               | coldtea wrote:
               | Beyond common ground and "we're all human" triteness,
               | there are also deep cultural faults...
               | 
               | The book is right in addressing the ones it does.
               | 
               | But not every aspect of a culture is valid.
        
               | smcl wrote:
               | I was trying to say: stop doing this US/EU stereotype
               | insult exchange stuff. It's boring and it's been done to
               | death on basically every platform where people have been
               | able to (pseudo)anonymously communicate.
        
             | [deleted]
        
         | retrac wrote:
         | France and the United States could not be more alike in
         | national spirit (as elusive a concept as that is). Born of a
         | similar era in revolution with practically the same slogans.
         | Their constitutions paraphrase each other. Both deem themselves
         | the birthplace of the modern republic and democracy, perhaps
         | modern civilization itself.
         | 
         | With all that in mind, I wouldn't say buddies. More like
         | siblings... with a serious rivalry going on.
        
       | QuesnayJr wrote:
       | I've never heard of this. I'm reading the original right now --
       | it's amazing.
        
         | QuesnayJr wrote:
         | This website has serious problems with its voting culture. The
         | serial downvoters should be banned from the site, but they
         | never will be, because dang doesn't see the problem. You can't
         | take disagree, and you can't agree.
         | 
         | Whatever, I'm out. Life's too short.
        
           | chrisseaton wrote:
           | Can you not see that your down-voted comment contributes
           | absolutely nothing? You haven't seen it before and you're
           | reading it now... ok... so what? What can anyone do with that
           | information? Why did you post it? What was the point?
        
           | _Nat_ wrote:
           | On some sites, folks will up-vote things that they agree with
           | and down-vote things that they disagree with. Or, sometimes
           | up-votes are a mode of expressing emotional-support or
           | communal-acceptance. Maybe that's what you're used to?
           | 
           | Here, folks tend to prefer substance. They'll often down-vote
           | you even if you express a view that they agree with if your
           | comment doesn't contribute something worth reading. And they
           | might up-vote your comment, even if they disagree, if it was
           | interesting to have read.
           | 
           | This is more of a place to exchange ideas than find
           | validation. You're not being rejected on a personal level --
           | down-votes aren't personal attacks. And people don't
           | necessarily disagree with you, either.
        
           | sydthrowaway wrote:
           | I've found 'chat'-style comments are downvoted i.e the
           | internet equivalent of small talk.
        
             | howaboutnope wrote:
             | Except when they're not. For example, when something about
             | a specific retro computing feat is posted, people will just
             | ramble about something very faintly related that they saw
             | or did or purchased or dreamed about recently. E.g. topic
             | is about an Amiga accelerator card, and there will be
             | someone mentioning how they recently cleaned up the Amiga
             | 500 they had in the garage -- like, who cares? Exactly like
             | the comment we're discussing now: nobody cares except the
             | author of that comment. Yet I never see those downvoted,
             | and I know if I responded to them pointing out that this
             | isn't their blog, _I_ 'd get downvoted.
             | 
             | I just looked at the front page, this is literally the
             | first discussion I clicked on before even getting to search
             | for "retro" or "Amiga" as I would have otherwise:
             | 
             | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=27864139
             | 
             | What is the content here? "For some reason I thought
             | something else"... okay? Yet that isn't greyed out, it is
             | the _top_ comment. Why? Because of  "Karnaugh map"? There
             | are no replies because it offers nothing to discuss except
             | more such ramblings about what someone might have
             | encountered or lazily assumed (or pretends they have
             | assumed so they can casually drop that they know a thing).
        
               | pseudalopex wrote:
               | People who read the comments first like when someone
               | highlights an interesting part of the article. It led
               | some people to learn about Karnaugh maps probably. And it
               | didn't have lots of competition.
               | 
               | The top comment of this discussion is a link to the
               | scanned book.
        
       | overgard wrote:
       | What strikes me me as amazing is that straightforward answers are
       | viewed as "omg". We live in a society where its viewed as
       | shocking that people shared their thoughts.
        
       | richk449 wrote:
       | I'm intrigued by the choice to conclude with this:
       | 
       |  _" France is a decadent nation"_
       | 
       | How does one measure decadence? The Germans said, "Democracies
       | are decadent".
        
       | baby wrote:
       | I'm guessing such a book exists in south korea at the moment?
       | I've heard that there's a lot of tension between the US army and
       | the locals. One soldier even raped some local girl back in 2011.
       | 
       | The problem is that people in the army are not the most educated
       | people, and thus they're not the best ambassadors when abroad.
        
         | nickserv wrote:
         | Right, because well educated, wealthy men don't rape
         | teenagers...
        
         | nradov wrote:
         | Military personnel on average have more formal education then
         | the general public. High school drop outs aren't even allowed
         | to enlist anymore without a special waiver. Almost all
         | officers, and many enlisted, have Bachelor's degrees. Senior
         | officers usually have Master's degrees.
        
           | deregulateMed wrote:
           | >without a special waiver
           | 
           | Oh wow so difficult for a recruiter who is paid per recruit
           | to fill out. /s
           | 
           | The military is often the last resort for many people, as a
           | result it attracts a different demographic.
           | 
           | >officers, and many enlisted, have Bachelor's degrees.
           | 
           | So? Aren't most deployed people non officers?
        
             | nradov wrote:
             | The availability of waivers is strictly limited. Recruiters
             | are only NCOs; they lack the authority to grant waivers on
             | their own and they aren't paid per recruit (although
             | failure to meet quota could result in a negative fitness
             | report).
             | 
             | https://www.thebalancecareers.com/us-military-enlistment-
             | sta...
        
           | ShinyRice wrote:
           | _Officials_ are probably more educated than the general
           | populace, since they almost always need a university degree,
           | but enlisted personnel might even be high school dropouts, so
           | I wouldn 't trust any regular soldier to be humble and
           | respectful.
        
             | nradov wrote:
             | You're just completely wrong and obviously didn't bother to
             | check the facts before commenting. The US military has a
             | much lower proportion of high school drop outs than the
             | general public. Your lack of trust is irrational, elitist,
             | and offensive.
             | 
             | https://www.statista.com/statistics/232726/education-
             | levels-...
        
           | baby wrote:
           | That doesn't coincide with the amount of kids that are hired
           | in the military.
        
       | ThePadawan wrote:
       | > (...) tensions began to rise between the French and the U.S.
       | military personnel stationed in the country, with the former
       | seeing the latter as arrogant and wanting to flaunt their wealth,
       | and the latter seeing the former as proud and resentful.
       | 
       | Well. I mean...
       | 
       | Joking aside, the text is amazingly blunt and honest, in a rather
       | refreshing way.                 "The French don't bathe."
       | The French don't bathe often enough. They can't. They don't have
       | real soap. (...) The Germans took the soap.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | afr0ck wrote:
         | I like the fact that the French didn't like American presence
         | on their sole and had offensive feelings towards that, while at
         | the same time, they were forcefully present all over Africa
         | with totalitarian and oppressive military administrations.
         | 
         | In Algeria, many fought in WW2 as part of the French
         | Expeditionary Corps (e.g; my great-grandfather) with the hope
         | that in case the allies win, Algerians could possibly negotiate
         | some sort of self-governance. on the 8th of May 45, thousands
         | of Algerians protested for independence. The civilians faced an
         | immediate annihilation by the French military [1], resulting in
         | up to 30,000 dead civilians. And who can believe this happened
         | in the aftermath of ending NAZI Germany?!!!! I mean that's very
         | ironic but well ...
         | 
         | [1]
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/S%C3%A9tif_and_Guelma_massacre
        
           | ashtonkem wrote:
           | A lot of the allied leaders get a better historical
           | reputation because they're naturally compared to their
           | opponent, Hitler. Without Hitler there as a foil, most of
           | them would be treated far worse by history.
           | 
           | Charles de Gaulle should get more crap over his behavior in
           | Algeria than he does. Same for Churchill and his behavior in
           | India.
        
           | jollybean wrote:
           | Geopolitical ambitions were well beyond the daily awareness
           | of French citizens, moreover, we don't know what the average
           | French citizens view on those things would be.
           | 
           | Most of them just lived through existential horror.
        
         | SimeVidas wrote:
         | Also, page 35:
         | 
         | > The French haven't had paint for a long time.
        
         | eplanit wrote:
         | It's true. Europeans of that era did not bathe everyday. My
         | stepfather escaped nazi Germany, and moved to the us in the
         | 40s. He grudgingly adapted to daily bathing (my mother's
         | insistence), but remarked how very American that is. He was
         | very 20th century European, for sure.
        
           | coldtea wrote:
           | > _It 's true. Europeans of that era did not bathe everyday._
           | 
           | Americans of a very close earlier ear didn't bathe everyday
           | either...
        
             | eplanit wrote:
             | That's true. It was the 1970s when we were pressuring the
             | stepfather.
        
             | jhugo wrote:
             | Many Americans of the _exact same era_ probably didn 't
             | bathe every day.
        
               | eplanit wrote:
               | And true in Europe today. Ever been on a train in Germany
               | in the summertime?
        
               | techrat wrote:
               | Ever been on the L in Chicago in a car without working
               | air conditioning?
               | 
               | Spoiler: Everybody stinks.
        
               | ThePadawan wrote:
               | As a German, I want to add that on German trains, "in the
               | summer" implicitly means "without working air
               | conditioning" ;).
               | 
               | (Sort-of-jokingly. On ICEs, you're most likely to
               | actually freeze body parts off due to the harsh AC. On
               | local trains, you'll dehydrate due to excessive sweating.
               | There is no middle ground.)
        
               | eplanit wrote:
               | Wrong. Try Japan. They're clean, polite, and courteous.
               | Crowded trains in August (like all year) are surprisingly
               | absent of body odor (and litter, and noisy people, ...).
               | 
               | Different folks are indeed different in some ways.
        
               | conceptme wrote:
               | Asians sweat less and their sweat does not stink as much
               | for some reason.
        
               | yarcob wrote:
               | I read that body odor is controlled by the same gene as
               | the one for ear wax.
               | 
               | People with wet/creamy ear wax smell. People with
               | dry/crumbly earwax don't smell.
               | 
               | I'm not sure if it's true in general, but it's true for
               | me and my partner.
               | 
               | One of our kids has creamy ear wax, and the other has
               | crumbly ear wax. I'm curious if only one of them will
               | need deodorant once they get to puberty...
               | 
               | Genetics is fun.
        
               | ThePadawan wrote:
               | Well if you want to compare Japan to other countries, you
               | should be aware that the fear of being a burden to others
               | due to one's body odor is a very Japanese phenomenon [0].
               | 
               | [0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Taijin_kyofusho
        
           | tinco wrote:
           | (European here) my grandparents bathed I think once per week,
           | we often joked about this in the family. My uncle who is a
           | commercial construction inspector/engineer arranged for a
           | full bathroom model a couple years before they died. When we
           | went to sell the house he complained the bathroom was unused
           | and looked the same as the day he signed off on it.
           | 
           | Despite this, they never smelled bad to me, they certainly
           | had a recognizable smell, but it wasn't foul. Contrasting
           | with myself, if I don't shower for a day, I'll get remarks
           | from my girlfriend the next afternoon, and on the third day I
           | smell so foul I can smell it myself. I also get more randomly
           | itchy.
           | 
           | I wonder if by showering daily I'm somehow tampering with my
           | bodies ability to fend off some foul smelling bacteria or
           | something. Besides fearing to smell bad for a couple weeks
           | (months?) to find out, I also enjoy showering to start my day
           | fresh and I like the way it makes my hair feel.
        
             | viburnum wrote:
             | Yes
             | 
             | https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2020/07/hygien
             | e...
        
             | sgerenser wrote:
             | A young Steve Jobs famously thought that as long as you ate
             | a certain diet, you could skip showering/deodorant and
             | still smell ok. His coworkers/manager at Atari did not
             | agree and put him on the night shift:
             | https://techpp.com/2017/02/24/steve-jobs-facts-you-might-
             | not...
        
             | fouc wrote:
             | There might be other factors too, like changing into
             | pajamas at night (possibly changing underwear or no
             | underwear), and then fresh clothes in the morning?
             | 
             | As for hair, there's a whole "no shampoo" movement, takes a
             | few weeks for the scalp to adjust.
        
               | 0des wrote:
               | To what extent is someone's "smell" a product of their
               | local dermal biome and what they've been inoculated with,
               | so to speak, via sharing deodorant, clothing, activity
               | level, diet, etc?
        
             | hellbannedguy wrote:
             | I think once your body is used to showering daily, it is
             | never the same in terms of microbes, or it takes years to
             | get back to whatever.
             | 
             | I need to bathe daily. If I don't I get a sore under my
             | arm, and I can smell myself.
             | 
             | I had a girlfriend, well kinda, who didn't believe in
             | showering, and she did smell. I never had the nerve to tell
             | her.
             | 
             | My grandfather didn't bath, and didn't have an odor. He was
             | small, and very skinny though.
             | 
             | My best friend didn't bath, and he did smell. I should have
             | habituated to his smell since I saw him so much, but no.
             | His smell was so bad, I needed to put down a towel before
             | he sat on any chair.
             | 
             | I saw my grandfather once a year.
        
           | zorked wrote:
           | About 1/3 of Germans still don't bathe every day. 1/6 of the
           | French don't bathe every day.
        
         | thih9 wrote:
         | Number 48. seems related, both about cleanliness and being
         | blunt. I was glancing through the text and I was very surprised
         | when I found it.
         | 
         | > "I'd like the French a lot better if they were cleaner."
         | 
         | > That's perfectly understandable.
        
         | rsynnott wrote:
         | > the text is amazingly blunt and honest
         | 
         | It would likely have been written to be comprehensible to
         | people with a fairly low reading level.
        
           | djrogers wrote:
           | Why? The US literacy rate in the 1940s was 97.1%, and the US
           | military had special programs to teach the illiterate to
           | read. During WW2, 95% of illiterate recruits achieved minimum
           | literacy within two months through the special training units
           | developed for that purpose.
           | 
           | I know it's easy for some people to think of a trigger puller
           | as a dumb grunt - even more so one who served 80 years ago,
           | but it's not accurate or fair.
           | 
           | [0] https://nces.ed.gov/naal/lit_history.asp [1]
           | https://library.syr.edu/digital/guides/s/soldiers_lit.htm
        
             | rsynnott wrote:
             | I didn't mean it as a value judgement; it's clearly written
             | to be very comprehensible. That's a good thing!
        
           | hellbannedguy wrote:
           | I think more writers, especially technical writers, should am
           | for this type of writing.
           | 
           | I like simple.
        
             | mattkrause wrote:
             | The DoD produces documents that are either
             | 
             | a) incredibly clear and straightforward, or
             | 
             | b) completely impenetrable (esp. anything with a diagram)
             | 
             | There is no middle ground. Seriously though, the Army's
             | writing manual is top-notch and most high schools would be
             | better for spending a month or three teaching from it.
        
           | eplanit wrote:
           | People weren't as fragile and sensitive then. It was better
           | in that way.
        
             | gambiting wrote:
             | Except that it's actual nonsense. Not long after WW2 the
             | congress tried to ban comic books for spoiling the
             | youth,just couple decades later people were holding public
             | protests against the Simpsons, and the first TV show to
             | mention the word "period" was met with similar level of
             | protests as if that's something dirty and unspeakable.
             | 
             | No, it's the exact opposite - "back then" people were far
             | more fragile and sensitive and doing or saying the wrong
             | kind of thing could have serious consequences on your life.
        
               | 0des wrote:
               | You are both right, in some ways we have become less
               | bashful about certain aspects of life, but also society
               | today is a bit more particular about some things. It is
               | no longer enough to disagree with someone, you must
               | destroy their will to continue.
        
               | eplanit wrote:
               | Those are examples of a morally conservative society, in
               | which a Judeo-Christian value system was in place, and
               | when there was a stronger emphasis on conformity. I guess
               | the sensitivity was in breaking those rules. In those
               | times too, however, children were taught "sticks and
               | stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me".
               | 
               | Now, everyone is comfortable with talk of sex and
               | biological realities...but a book critical of
               | transgenderism is literally called "violence":
               | https://www.rt.com/usa/529308-american-booksellers-
               | associati....
               | 
               | I guess critics of such topics are today's Juvenile
               | Delinquents. /s
        
               | whoaisme wrote:
               | Yeah I wish we could go back to the days when people
               | weren't so sensitive. Nowadays a black man can't even
               | look at a white woman without getting hanged not to
               | mention all the pearl grasping about the queers.
        
           | read_if_gay_ wrote:
           | There's also an excerpt from the NYT in there, number 33.
        
           | ThePadawan wrote:
           | Well yes, but you also use that fact to be blunt and
           | dishonest, like saying "Yep, the french don't wash. Guess
           | they're just uncultured. They're still our allies, get used
           | to it!"
        
           | jamesmontalvo3 wrote:
           | Perhaps also to enable the French to read and understand it?
           | You wouldn't want them just reading the gripes (which are
           | short and simple) and then not reading the responses.
        
           | bonaldi wrote:
           | Which makes it all the more impressive that it's quoting
           | Tacitus and such like. There's an important distinction
           | between reading level and intelligence, and I think we
           | conflate the two in modern writing. Simple language doesn't
           | need to be simplistic.
        
             | memling wrote:
             | > Which makes it all the more impressive that it's quoting
             | Tacitus and such like.
             | 
             | There's a common trope about "8th-grade" education in the
             | US, and a fairly common response to it, e.g., https://www.g
             | rc.nasa.gov/WWW/K-12/p_test/1895_Eightgr_test.h....
             | 
             | There are, of course, reasons for the differences that
             | aren't merely reactionary "people are dumb now" or
             | "technology FTW!!1!" I suspect some of the quoting of
             | Tacitus is due to a more classical emphasis, even in early
             | education (see, for example, the McGuffey Readers[1]),
             | where Latin and Greek were more widely studied, and their
             | authors more integrated into the grade-level curriculum. I
             | didn't read Herodotus or Tacitus until college (a classics
             | course) and was pleasantly surprised by how readable and
             | accessible they were.
             | 
             | [1] https://www.gutenberg.org/ebooks/14640
             | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/McGuffey_Readers
        
         | rdiddly wrote:
         | Yeah I kept thinking you'd never get away with talking that way
         | now.
        
       | baby wrote:
       | This whole thing is amazing. It still reads really well today,
       | like there's no tone of racism and nothing seems inappropriate
       | (which is a hard thing to achieve with time).
       | 
       | I wish we had such a book currently on how arabs and the muslim
       | world are different, but not so different than us.
       | 
       | > We didn't come to Europe to save the French, either in 1917 or
       | in 1944. We didn't come to Europe to do anyone any favors. We
       | came to Europe because we in America were threatened by a
       | hostile, aggressive and very dangerous power.
       | 
       | > In this war, France fell in June of 1940, We didn't invade
       | Europe until June of 1944. We didn't even think of "saving the
       | French" through military action until after Peary Harbor -- after
       | the Germans declared war on us
       | 
       | I can't stop reading, this is so interesting, this is really a
       | lesson on racism and discrimination. I'm curious about who wrote
       | this.
       | 
       | > It was inevitable that some Frenchmen would rub some Americans
       | the wrong ray=. City people often rub country folk the wrong <<ay
       | the same goes for a Pittsburgher in New Orleans or Texan on Fifth
       | Avenue. We Americans believe in the value of differences -- if
       | basic political beliefs and goals rest on a common foundation.
       | "Unless you bear with the faults of a friend you betray your
       | own."
       | 
       | another one:
       | 
       | > You don't have to love the French. You don't have to hate them
       | either. You might try to understand them, The more important
       | point is not to let your feeling blin d you to the fact that they
       | were and are our allies. They were in 1917, too. The most
       | important question any people can ask itself is this: "Who fights
       | with us? Who fights against us ?"
       | 
       | This one could apply to our relationship with China maybe?
       | 
       | > Yes, we quarrel with the French. The members of a family argue
       | pretty freely inside the home ; We quarrel with our allies, We
       | don't quarrel with our enemies -- we fight them.
       | 
       | I like how this one is phrased so that it sounds like France gave
       | more money. I also really thought that France gave the statue to
       | the US entirely.
       | 
       | > In France, 180 French cities, forty general councils, and
       | thousands of anonymous Frenchmen contributed a quarter of a
       | million dollars (not francs) towards the statue, (The United
       | States raised $280,000.)
       | 
       | that's how much a cocktail was back then:
       | 
       | > A. G.I., comes out of a night club in the States and says, "A
       | buck and half for a Scotch and soda".
       | 
       | that one can apply to the homeless crisis in the US:
       | 
       | > Some of the French are scroungers. Hungry people lose their
       | pride. An empty stomach does not worry about losing face.
       | 
       | France sounded like a muslim country back then:
       | 
       | > Most French girls before the war had far less freedom than our
       | girls back home. A great many were not permitted to go out
       | without a chaperone. France is dominantly Catholic in religion
       | and in morals. The immoral Frenchwomen are, of course, the
       | easiest women for us to meet. That's why we meet so many of them.
       | 
       | this one is hilarious:
       | 
       | > This always startles Americans - at first . Kissing on both
       | cheeks is the traditional French greeting between old friends.
       | For their love making, the French prefer privacy, if available,
       | just as we do.
       | 
       | It's interesting how the second part goes into "germans are so
       | much nicer than french people".
       | 
       | PS: holy shit I can copy/paste from an old picture of a book O_o
        
         | 11thEarlOfMar wrote:
         | Right off the bat:
         | 
         | "The right to speak involves the duty to listen."
        
         | himinlomax wrote:
         | The statue itself was paid by the French, the US funds were for
         | the pedestaland earthworks.
        
         | bumby wrote:
         | > _I wish we had such a book currently on how arabs and the
         | muslim world are different_
         | 
         | I also wish we had such a book currently on how progressive and
         | conservatives are different
        
           | mbfg wrote:
           | sometimes groups of people are just nasty, bad people worthy
           | of mocking and ridicule. You can't always pretend that
           | situations are around reasonable differences of opinion with
           | each side being honest actors. Each situation is going to be
           | different. the english/french situation may be one way and
           | the progressive/conservative situation may be different.
        
             | coldtea wrote:
             | _sometimes groups of people are just nasty, bad people
             | worthy of mocking and ridicule_
             | 
             | Yes, conservatives aren't just people with a different
             | belief system than yours. They are bad people, liars, evil,
             | rotten to the core, and deserve to die.
             | 
             | /s
        
               | tobltobs wrote:
               | How did you decide that he meant conservatives == nasty,
               | bad people?
        
               | coldtea wrote:
               | It was a statistical observation. The people who phrase
               | it the way the parent did, usually tend to be on a
               | specific side.
               | 
               | (The other side has its tell-signs as well).
        
               | hallway_monitor wrote:
               | If you are liberal you believe conservatives are greedy,
               | amoral and probably evil.
               | 
               | If you are conservative you believe liberals are stupid
               | and probably brainwashed.
               | 
               | This is America.
        
               | coldtea wrote:
               | And if you're neither, you can see through both charades.
        
               | mbfg wrote:
               | You need to evaluate verifiable facts and come to
               | conclusions. In discussion regarding two sides, A against
               | B, you don't just say well each has it's good points,
               | each has it's bad, we have to be fair and balanced. No,
               | this is especially where newspapers have it wrong. You
               | are fair and balanced when you appropriate praise and
               | scorn to sides based on the externally verifiable facts,
               | and the honestness of their actions. You don't blindly
               | give both sides equal footing for fairness.
               | 
               | When a man beats up a wife, _you don't say_, well, look,
               | she probably wasn't the easiest to live with, and he had
               | it tough dealing with her. He is a good business man, and
               | a pillar in the community. so look both sides have
               | positives and negatives. (Well to be fair as a society we
               | usually do, do this, but clearly we are wrong).
               | 
               | No the facts say otherwise.
        
               | bumby wrote:
               | I don't think the point is advocating some sort of moral
               | relativism but rather to steel-man both sides in good-
               | faith rather than respond to some sort of caricature of
               | each.
        
               | mbfg wrote:
               | Yes i agree caricaturing is clearly wrong. But i am
               | saddened by this group think that all groups of people
               | should be given even standing as all having positives and
               | negatives. People should be given standings based on
               | verifiable evidence with regard to their actions. If your
               | group is composed of bad actors, your group is bad. We
               | don't have to treat you fair and balanced.
        
             | [deleted]
        
             | bumby wrote:
             | I think interrogating those differences can help you either
             | find out if they are borne of "nastiness" and ignorance, or
             | if there is actually fundamental difference in values that
             | should be explored.
             | 
             | E.g., Someone could assume a person is against voter ID
             | simply because they want to disenfranchise specific groups
             | or they can legitimately be concerned about fraud. If we
             | just assume the former, it misses any opportunity to make
             | rational arguments about the claims of the latter.
        
               | techrat wrote:
               | Yet if you look at all the cases of actual election fraud
               | and voter fraud, they (almost?) exclusively fall on the
               | side pushing voter ID the hardest.
        
           | 11thEarlOfMar wrote:
           | I'll use myself as an example:
           | 
           | - Voters should show proof of citizenship when voting.
           | 
           | - The US needs to take a serious look at implementing
           | Universal Basic Income, and not just because of the
           | automation of jobs.
           | 
           | - Abortion should be legal up to the earliest that a fetus
           | has survived out of the womb, roughly 3 months.
           | 
           | - We should celebrate diversity, and, we should be able to
           | talk about what makes us different. Without risking censure.
           | 
           | - We should have a clear, straightforward and streamlined
           | path to citienship for anyone who wants to become an
           | American.
           | 
           | - Mass media has done a masterful job of brainwashing
           | Americans for the purpose of polarizing us, which drives
           | outrage, clicks and ad revenue.
           | 
           | What label do you apply to me? How about none? People's
           | beliefs are on a spectrum, they aren't binary. But we should
           | each understand the 'first principles' of why we believe what
           | we believe, and dig deeper than a news article. Once you view
           | people in this way, you actually have to get to know them
           | before you can decide whether their beliefs align with yours.
           | 
           | Labeling people and judging them based on a superficial
           | observation is the opposite of inclusion. I was taught that
           | in grade school 50 years ago.
        
             | Shingbogle wrote:
             | I would obviously apply a more progressive label to you.
             | UBI, not anti-abortion, celebrating diversity, citizenship
             | approval, MSM being dodgy.
        
             | yardie wrote:
             | > - Voters should show proof of citizenship when voting.
             | 
             | You'll get no disagreement on this from any liberal. In
             | fact the disagreement lies not in proving citizenship but
             | in the methods to do so. If you have to show proof to
             | register then why do you need to show proof to vote? In
             | fact, if you have ID that proves you are a valid voter then
             | registration shouldn't be necessary at all.
             | 
             | Republicans not only want you to show citizenship. They
             | want you to show it 2, 3, 4 times in the bottom of a locked
             | filing cabinet stuck in a disused lavatory with a sign on
             | the door saying "Beware of The Leopard".
        
               | bumby wrote:
               | > _If you have to show proof to register then why do you
               | need to show proof to vote?_
               | 
               | Isn't the argument that you need to prove the person
               | voting is the same person who registered? Where I live,
               | you only need to give a name and address verbally to vote
               | and that can be gathered online fairly easily.
               | 
               | (Just to be clear, I'm not saying voting fraud is rampant
               | but can understand the risk)
        
               | throwawaycanal wrote:
               | >You'll get no disagreement on this from any liberal.
               | 
               | Maybe in France but in the US you will absolutely get
               | disagreement from liberals.
               | 
               | >If you have to show proof to register then why do you
               | need to show proof to vote?
               | 
               | If you showed proof to get your driver's license then why
               | do you need to show proof to drive?
               | 
               | If you showed proof to purchase/register your vehicle why
               | do you need to show proof of registration when you get
               | pulled over?
               | 
               | >In fact, if you have ID that proves you are a valid
               | voter then registration shouldn't be necessary at all.
               | 
               | In fact, if you have ID that proves you are over 21 then
               | registration of your firearm purchase shouldn't be
               | necessary at all.
               | 
               | Etc. Etc. Etc.
        
               | bumby wrote:
               | > _If you showed proof to get your driver 's license then
               | why do you need to show proof to drive?_
               | 
               | The general counter to this is that one is a privilege
               | and the other is a right. Usually any hurdle to
               | exercising a constitutionally protected is going to
               | receive some pushback. The same goes for the firearm
               | registration issue.
        
               | throwawaycanal wrote:
               | >The general counter to this is that one is a privilege
               | and the other is a right.
               | 
               | True. People on both sides of the isle use the "privilege
               | not a right" counter on various issues.
               | 
               | >Usually any hurdle to exercising a constitutionally
               | protected is going to receive some pushback. The same
               | goes for the firearm registration issue.
               | 
               | Exactly. Owning a firearm is a right so this example
               | still works here.
        
               | lelanthran wrote:
               | > If you have to show proof to register then why do you
               | need to show proof to vote? In fact, if you have ID that
               | proves you are a valid voter then registration shouldn't
               | be necessary at all.
               | 
               | Why don't you ask every other country why they do such a
               | thing? Seriously, if the issue was as clear-cut as you
               | make it out to be ("Those peoples are just trying to
               | suppress the votes of their opponents") then the US would
               | not be one of the few places in the world where this is
               | controversial.
               | 
               | It's not controversial in some of the largest democracies
               | in the world, and yet you want us to believe that you
               | really think that it is controversial?
        
               | bumby wrote:
               | The short answer is that doesn't always work because the
               | U.S. is different in important aspects (and this doesn't
               | mean necessarily claiming American exceptionalism).
               | 
               | I think there are some problems when you bring in the
               | "Why don't you ask every other country?" argument. For
               | one, not every country has the same protections that the
               | U.S. carries in the Bill of Rights. This is why you
               | can't, for example, use this defense when it comes to
               | banning intolerant speech even though it may be done
               | elsewhere.
               | 
               | I think the generous interpretation is this law feels
               | like a "show me your papers" statute which the United
               | States generally has a philosophical angle against. It
               | would be comparable in some people's eyes to a "Show me
               | your vaccine card" enforced by the State. Pragmatically,
               | the ID law may also create de facto racial profiling.
               | Although I think the opposite side of this feels the
               | issue is more about State vs. Federal immigration
               | enforcement than really striking down the "show me your
               | papers" provision.
        
             | bumby wrote:
             | You're correct. I should have been more clear that
             | progressive and conservative labels are more apt for
             | individual viewpoints and not as a defining characteristic
             | of the person. I think that logic can still be applied,
             | though. The point I was trying to make is that with any
             | label (whether French/American or conservative/progressive)
             | it's more productive to try and find clarity about the
             | opposing viewpoint rather than just slapping on a rigid
             | label lacking nuance.
             | 
             | While I wouldn't want to label 11thEarlOfMar personally, I
             | think it can be helpful to look at each of those views in
             | the context of a larger framework because it helps
             | understand what value systems you operate with to either
             | find inconsistencies or common ground.
             | 
             | Edit: I think the fact that people are so quick to either
             | label their personhood or assume someone else is doing the
             | same is indicative of the problem. It's also a bit
             | troubling that a post simply advocating for contextually
             | understanding differences would get downvotes. I don't know
             | if that's a problem with my inability to communicate that
             | point effectively or something worse.
        
               | 11thEarlOfMar wrote:
               | To be clear, I agree with your original post that some
               | type of mediation between the poles would be helpful.
               | 
               | Reflecting a bit more, it's hard to imagine that a
               | government could convince it's people to go to war
               | without a large degree of brainwashing to demonize the
               | foe. To some degree, we need our soldiers to believe that
               | they people they kill are deserving of death, even though
               | the they were most likely brainwashed and drafted into
               | the conflict on false pretenses. In a symbolic way, this
               | happened in the US in 2020, but this time, private
               | industry and the government entered symbiosis in
               | polarizing citizens into a civil conflict. And people
               | were killed.
               | 
               | We owe it to ourselves to peel back a couple of layers of
               | the onion, and understand and respect other well
               | supported beliefs, even if those beliefs differ from our
               | own.
        
               | [deleted]
        
         | danans wrote:
         | > It still reads really well today, like there's no tone of
         | racism
         | 
         | Since both countries were at the time white majority and
         | controlled, there wasn't any need to address race in any way.
         | There was no "race" dimension. Therefore, I wouldn't take the
         | lack of racism as a virtue, but just that it would be off-topic
         | for the purpose of the book.
         | 
         | EDIT: Look through the book - every illustration of French,
         | Germans, and Americans depicts white people. The book, as
         | typical of the era, just doesn't address race. It only
         | addresses culture.
        
         | mlok wrote:
         | If I understand well, the Statue of Liberty was a gift from the
         | French _people_ (not the French State) but the pedestal was
         | american : there was none when the statue arrived, and it
         | waited for a year there in its crates.
         | 
         | "The promoters of the statue in France formed an organization,
         | the French-American Union, in 1875. The group issued a
         | statement calling for donations from the public and presenting
         | a general plan specifying that the statue would be paid for by
         | France, while the pedestal upon which the statue would stand
         | would be paid for by Americans."
         | 
         | Source : https://www.thoughtco.com/who-paid-for-the-statue-of-
         | liberty...
        
         | 411111111111111 wrote:
         | Another thing that's been mostly sweeped under the rug wrt WW2
         | is that Russia both did the most damage to the German army and
         | paid the highest price.
         | 
         | America only started their offensive after Russia started
         | winning and likely only wanted to deny them Europe. And the
         | heavy casualties in the war likely caused Russia to fold on the
         | cold war as well, there were just not enough able men after the
         | war to create families with about 80% of the male population in
         | their prime dead. That low birth rate circle continues to date.
         | 
         | The world would've been a very different place with the USSR
         | still in power and indoctrinating europes youth for
         | generations.
         | 
         | America likely did save the Democratic western Europe at that
         | time, just not from Germany.
        
           | scottLobster wrote:
           | Marshall Georgy Zhukov: "Today [1963] some say the Allies
           | didn't really help us ... But listen, one cannot deny that
           | the Americans shipped over to us material without which we
           | could not have equipped our armies held in reserve or been
           | able to continue the war."
           | 
           | Stalin himself is also reported to have said the Soviets
           | couldn't have won the war without American aid, among other
           | Soviet leaders.
           | 
           | Worth nothing that Russia was the 2nd largest recipient of
           | American lend-lease (after the British), which started well
           | before the Normandy landings. Yes they were in the unenviable
           | position of the being German bullet sponges, but they
           | couldn't have even done that without American supplies. So
           | it's arguable the US did save Europe from Germany: 100%
           | indirectly at first and more directly later.
        
           | postingawayonhn wrote:
           | No western democracy could have paid the human cost the USSR
           | did. Arguably they only paid such a high price due to their
           | industrial underdevelopment which was partly due to their
           | economic and political system.
           | 
           | It's often said that the war was won with British
           | intelligence, American steel, and Soviet blood.
        
             | coldtea wrote:
             | > _Arguably they only paid such a high price due to their
             | industrial underdevelopment which was partly due to their
             | economic and political system._
             | 
             | Very arguably, as it's actually the opposite: the socialism
             | forced mass force industrialization, and prepared USSR
             | better for WWII than Russia ever had any chance of being.
        
               | SiempreViernes wrote:
               | Well, technically the Tsardom is _also_ a economic and
               | political system.
        
               | coldtea wrote:
               | Yes, it just wasn't a very effective one in comparison...
               | In fact it was dying for decades before 1905 and finally
               | 1917 put it out of its misery...
        
             | smhost wrote:
             | > their industrial underdevelopment which was partly due to
             | their economic and political system
             | 
             | I'm sorry? They went from a peasant society immediately to
             | defending against multiple foreign invasions (including the
             | U.S.) to fighting and defeating the fascists, all in three
             | decades. That was achievable only due to their economic and
             | political system.
        
               | baybal2 wrote:
               | > They went from a peasant society immediately to
               | defending against multiple foreign invasions (including
               | the U.S.) to fighting and defeating the fascists, all in
               | three decades. That was achievable only due to their
               | economic and political system.
               | 
               | This is old, debunked propaganda trope recited for a
               | millionth time.
               | 
               | No, USSR never went to industrial giant overnight, for a
               | reason it never been it. USSR relied on single digit of
               | large factories for everything during the war.
               | 
               | Even tiny Eastern European countries USSR invaded were
               | heads above USSR, to the point the first thing USSR did
               | there were stealing all factory equipment, and relocating
               | it to new factories in USSR.
        
               | jtrip wrote:
               | His intent was not to suggest that the USSR was always
               | backwards, but rather that due to it's history the
               | development was not undertaken until the war. The Tsars
               | didn't do it because they were busy being feudal masters
               | and the communists because they were nation building and
               | hadn't faced the german onslaught yet. Atleast, that is
               | how I understand it. His comment is not an underhanded
               | insult.
        
             | afterburner wrote:
             | The USSR pay a high price because they suffered a massive,
             | brutal invasion for years, against 80% of the German
             | forces. None of that happened to the western countries.
        
             | guythedudebro wrote:
             | > Arguably they only paid such a high price due to their
             | industrial underdevelopment which was partly due to their
             | economic and political system.
             | 
             | So arguably it had nothing to do with the largest war of
             | all time waged against them explicitly for their
             | annihilation?
        
             | [deleted]
        
             | SiempreViernes wrote:
             | Could you clarify what you mean with "economic and
             | political system"? Do you count the Tsar's reign and the
             | years of civil war under that heading?
        
           | refurb wrote:
           | Russia did pay a massive cost for WW2, but they also paid a
           | high cost due to: 1) their attempt to placate the Nazi's with
           | their non-aggression pact and attempt to avoid war (which
           | they weren't that prepared for), 2) the Great Purge in the
           | late 30's where they executed and imprisoned a massive number
           | of experience officers, which they had to replace, 3) their
           | tactics (no retreat) which resulted in massive encirclements
           | and POWs who were starved to death.
           | 
           | Eventually the USSR learned and with support of the UK and US
           | in terms of materiel turned into a formidable fighting force.
           | But a decent amount of their casualties were somewhat self-
           | imposed.
        
           | bennysomething wrote:
           | True but the USSR was ally of Germany, two dictator states
           | started world war two.
        
             | Intermernet wrote:
             | What history have you been reading?
        
               | invincing wrote:
               | I think it's a reference to this pact:
               | 
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Molotov%E2%80%93Ribbentrop_
               | Pac...
        
               | bennysomething wrote:
               | Ha! Think we posted at same time.
        
               | bennysomething wrote:
               | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Molotov%E2%80%93Ribbentro
               | p_P...
               | 
               | Also USSR pretty much annexed eastern Europe after the
               | war, in a way they are the only country that won anything
               | out of ww2.
        
             | FabHK wrote:
             | The USSR and Germany concluded a non-aggression-pact in
             | 1939 with a secret amendment to divide Poland and the
             | Baltic states between themselves. This late became known as
             | the Molotov-Ribbentrop Pact (or Hitler-Stalin-Pact, or
             | Nazi-Soviet-Pact). With the Sowjet occupation of Bukovina
             | in 1940 and definitely the German attack on the USSR
             | ("Operation Barbarossa") in 1941, the pact was defunct.
             | 
             | In December of 1941, after Pearl Harbour, the US entered
             | the war, and then you had the main combatants in place:
             | 
             | The allies with the USSR (Stalin), USA (Roosevelt), British
             | Empire (Churchill), France (de Gaulle), Republic of China
             | (Chiang Kai-Shek), against
             | 
             | The axis with Germany (Hitler), Italy (Mussolini), and
             | Japan (Hirohito).
        
           | JackFr wrote:
           | Swept under the rug as well is the Luftwaffe secret training
           | facilities in the Soviet Union (in circumvention if the
           | Treaty of Versailles) and among other things the Soviet
           | invasion of Poland 2 weeks after the Nazis.
           | 
           | The Soviet Union paid a very high price, but their hands were
           | not clean.
        
         | heffer wrote:
         | > nothing seems inappropriate                 "The French can't
         | drive a car. They can't keep it up. They ruin vehicles."
         | The French, on the whole, certainly do not drive as well, keep
         | a car up as well, or protect their vehicles as well as we do.
         | Neither do women, compared to men.            We have had more
         | mechanical training, more technical experience. And at the
         | present time we have incomparably better maintenance
         | facilities.
        
           | themeiguoren wrote:
           | It's an anachronism that doesn't fly today, but to be fair
           | this seems descriptive rather than prescriptive.
        
           | baby wrote:
           | The first line is one of the questions right? So it doesn't
           | count.
           | 
           | The rest doesn't seem inappropriate to me, I can believe it
           | to be right.
        
         | Hendrikto wrote:
         | > This one could apply to our relationship with China maybe?
         | 
         | This is absolutely nothing like the situation with China, which
         | is definitely NOT an ally of the west.
         | 
         | Shortly after assuming his position as President of the
         | People's Republic of China, Xi Jinping disseminated a secret
         | internal paper with his most important views and plans,
         | including the 7 biggest threats to China in his eyes. In 2013,
         | this "document number 9" was leaked. Among the 7 threats were
         | democracy, human rights, and independent media.
         | 
         | Seriously, China does not just have a different culture with
         | slightly different ideas. They view our most fundamental values
         | as their biggest threats.
         | 
         | https://www.nytimes.com/2013/08/20/world/asia/chinas-new-lea...
         | 
         | Edit: As pointed out by several commenters, my remarks refer to
         | the Chinese Communist Party, not to the Chinese people.
        
           | GuB-42 wrote:
           | We have to make a distinction here. The book is about the
           | French, the people, and how they are when you live with them
           | in their own country.
           | 
           | Almost all news about China are not about the people of
           | China, but instead treat China as a single entity defined by
           | its government.
           | 
           | I think GP has a point is that we could get a better
           | understanding of China by considering the people, their
           | culture and how they live on a day-to-day basis rather than
           | by focusing on Xi Jinping.
           | 
           | I'd like to see more reports of westerners actually living
           | there, rather than government talk.
        
             | long_time_gone wrote:
             | == The book is about the French, the people, and how they
             | are when you live with them in their own country==
             | 
             | But almost entirely through the lens of "they are our
             | longest ally and have fought alongside us multiple times."
        
           | nicbou wrote:
           | To reply in the style of the book, China learned lessons from
           | its history just like we learn from ours. They cannot easily
           | forget the century of humiliation that was brought upon them
           | by the West.
        
           | stkdump wrote:
           | Isn't the republican party dismantling democracy right at
           | this moment? Also, America is a friend of human rights mostly
           | as lip service, see Hague Invasion Act. And the calling
           | American corporate media independent is a stretch. If these
           | are the most fundamental values to Americans, they do a poor
           | job defending them.
        
             | analognoise wrote:
             | We donate more to humanitarian causes than the next 10
             | countries combined. We openly admit we're not perfect and
             | work to make things better. We do more good than anyone
             | else - by a MASSIVE margin. We openly admit we've made
             | mistakes.
             | 
             | Where does this reflexive anti-American bullshit come from?
        
               | cycomanic wrote:
               | The what you call "reflexive anti-american bullshit"
               | comes because of post like yours, which without evidence
               | spout claims such as "we do more good than anyone else -
               | by a assive margin".
               | 
               | The US (as in government) like all large powers are doing
               | a lot of self interested power politics. They have
               | overthrown many democratically elected governments and
               | supported (and sometimes even put in place) some of the
               | worst dictatorships in the world, because it was in their
               | geopolitical interest. They invaded a sovereign country
               | and presented lies to justify the invasion. They jave
               | introduced a massive worldwide surveillance system, that
               | is essentially spying on everyone. Have used that
               | aperatus to spy on allies, and used it for to gain every
               | economic advantage they could get.
               | 
               | Is pointing this out "anti-american bullshit". Has
               | someone who did these things done more good than anyone
               | else by a massive margin?
        
               | analognoise wrote:
               | Go look up humanitarian giving. These are quantifiable
               | numbers. We do more than the next 10 countries rolled up.
               | 
               | We AGREE about the negative bullshit the US has done.
               | We're actively trying to work on that shit, none of us
               | like it. We've actually done a stellar job looking at our
               | history and current practices and saying "That was fucked
               | up" and "We should fix this going forward."
               | 
               | But we still do WAY more good than, like I said, the next
               | 10 countries combined.
               | 
               | https://www.statista.com/statistics/275597/largers-donor-
               | cou...
               | 
               | So it's not all roses, but... Yeah, I wouldn't dismiss us
               | as a net benefit.
        
               | nautilius wrote:
               | Your source says that, per capita, Germany pays more than
               | the US.
        
               | analognoise wrote:
               | Did your per Capita calculation roll up the populations
               | of the next 9 countries it would take to equal the US?
        
               | nautilius wrote:
               | So your point about why the US are great and morally
               | 'stellar ' (to use your word) is that it's --- big? Wow,
               | that's anticlimactic.
        
               | analognoise wrote:
               | Add up all those populations. We're exceedingly generous,
               | although less so than the Germans.
        
               | Intermernet wrote:
               | You know how you just got all defensive and insulted
               | about a generalization made about America? That's how the
               | Chinese, Iranians, Russians, Iraqis etc. feel when you
               | make generalizations about them.
               | 
               | The recent US leadership hasn't done a very good job of
               | representing "American Values". You can expect anti-
               | American sentiment from this.
               | 
               | It may not be justified when referring to individuals,
               | but neither is the xenophobic response to any of the
               | countries listed above.
               | 
               | Fight the governments, not the people.
        
               | long_time_gone wrote:
               | There is some inherent human nature to viewing your own
               | actions with incredible nuance, while reflexively
               | generalizing the actions of others.
               | 
               | If it happens to me it's bad luck, if it happens to you
               | it's bad planning.
        
               | analognoise wrote:
               | ...the countries that repress their own citizens and
               | don't have a free press? You go to China and point out
               | abuses. See how it goes. Or Russia - just don't stand by
               | any windows.
               | 
               | Those countries have legitimate issues we call out. We
               | call ours out too. That's the difference.
        
               | baby wrote:
               | Have you heard of Navalny?
        
               | analognoise wrote:
               | Yeah he's legit - he was poisoned twice trying to speak
               | the truth. That's not something that happens in the US.
               | Surely that counts for something?
        
             | overgard wrote:
             | If you're looking at the dismantling of human rights I
             | think the left and right are equally culpable.
        
           | grey-area wrote:
           | It would be more accurate to say that Xi and the CCP view
           | democracy, the media, and human rights as the greatest
           | threats to their power, and they're right - when running a
           | dictatorship these things are a problem.
        
           | tehjoker wrote:
           | Isn't China our biggest trading partner. This sounds like
           | xenophobia.
        
           | dnhz wrote:
           | Each comment GP made corresponds to quote following the
           | comment. i.e.:
           | 
           | >This one could apply to our relationship with China maybe?
           | 
           | >> Yes, we quarrel with the French. The members of a family
           | argue pretty freely inside the home ; We quarrel with our
           | allies, We don't quarrel with our enemies -- we fight them.
           | 
           | With that said, I wouldn't interpret the US relationship with
           | China as one of alliance nor as one of enmity (yet).
        
             | SiempreViernes wrote:
             | Uh, the US military has declated China it's main adversary
             | and the US just had a presidency that used "clash of
             | civilizations" to describe the relationship with China, why
             | do you think "enmity" is not an appropriate word?
        
               | dnhz wrote:
               | Because the relationship with China is more complicated
               | than that. You can see it in the NIH funding research at
               | the Wuhan virology lab or all the made in China goods
               | that the US consumes.
               | 
               | It makes sense for the military to recognize the other
               | forces that pose the biggest threat. But regarding
               | declarations by politicians, it appears to me that
               | internal politics in both countries are driving
               | politicians to make such statements. As in, both American
               | and Chinese leadership see advantage in creating an
               | external enemy. Naturally, as China's power rises, the
               | relationship changes texture, but how much of our
               | attitude change is recognition of the changed situation
               | versus a change in attitude induced by the political
               | class?
        
         | jl6 wrote:
         | And one day, successive iterations of OCR, copy & paste, and
         | machine learning will have us remembering the events of Peary
         | Harbor.
        
           | Intermernet wrote:
           | Peary harbour was the site where the confederate forces of
           | Robert Peary, in 1909, fought the communist forces of Franz
           | Ferdinand. Ferdinand's forces were armed with revolutionary
           | fire-arms, fitted with sights known as "Cross-hairs". This
           | was immortalised in the song "Take Me Out" by the band "The
           | Beegees", famous for their Delta-Blues sound, in 2067.
        
             | rascul wrote:
             | > in 2067
             | 
             | Music from the future? ;)
        
         | cafard wrote:
         | Hah. The first encounters between the French and the US in WW
         | II were hostile: The US landings in Morocco against French
         | resistance.
        
           | rualca wrote:
           | > Hah. The first encounters between the French and the US in
           | WW II were hostile: The US landings in Morocco against French
           | resistance.
           | 
           | I feel this statement grossly misrepresents history. French
           | north Africa was controlled by Vichy France, which was Nazi
           | Germany's puppet regime and did not represented french
           | sentiment or opinion.
           | 
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Operation_Torch
        
             | kevinmchugh wrote:
             | Thanks. My initial read of the other comment was that the
             | US was fighting the French Resistance, when it was the
             | opposite.
        
             | Bayart wrote:
             | Vichy did represent French sentiment at the beginning.
             | Things changed with time.
        
               | rualca wrote:
               | > Vichy did represent French sentiment at the beginning.
               | 
               | No, not really. The Vichy regime was the dictatorship
               | puppet regime imposed onto the remaining french territory
               | after the third republic was dissolved, and enacted
               | policies imposed by Nazi germany such as rounding up Jews
               | to hand them over to them. It grossly misrepresents the
               | french sentiment of the time to even suggest that France
               | suddenly had a change in heart and decided to not only
               | accept Nazi Germany as it's political and ideological
               | compass but also jump enthusiastically and head-on onto
               | the Holocaust to the point of eclipsing even Franco's
               | Spain.
        
               | TMWNN wrote:
               | As Bayart said, you are mistaken. Although de Gaulle's
               | forces claimed that the Vichy regime was illegitimate, it
               | it very difficult to justify the claim based on either
               | popular support (Vichy and Petain almost certainly had
               | the support of the majority of French at the surrender of
               | the Third Republic, and for years afterward) or
               | diplomatic recognition (Vichy had recognition from dozens
               | of countries, including the US and Canada). Conversely,
               | de Gaulle himself had difficulty in justifying his claim
               | that he was legally acting on behalf of the Third
               | Republic.
        
               | Bayart wrote:
               | You're mixing up things, misconstruing what I said and
               | ignoring the timeline.
               | 
               | The national sentiment in June 1940 when Petain formed
               | the last government of the 3rd Republic was _very_ pro-
               | Petain and the country as a whole was pro-armistice. The
               | Vichy regime was formed on the basis of popular support
               | to lead a policy that, if it didn't gather the
               | unconditional support of everyone, didn't alarm many. You
               | have to keep in mind the Parliamentarian 3rd Republic was
               | seen as having failed miserably. All the while 1.8 French
               | men were held as PoWs in Germany and the government was
               | expected to gain them back.
               | 
               | Until mid-1941 pro-Vichy sentiment remained high and the
               | Resistance movement was at best paltry, with people like
               | de Gaulle seen as trouble makers.
               | 
               | Germany invaded the USSR on the on June 22, prompting the
               | Communists in France to enter the Resistance. At the same
               | time the systemic plunder of the French economy, with the
               | help of Vichy, was coming into fruition and starting to
               | be felt. Real antisemitic and repression policies started
               | being implemented in the second half of 1941.
               | 
               | The Vel d'Hiv Roundup happened in mid-1942. In June 22
               | 1942 French workers were incentivised to leave France to
               | work in Germany. Two months later, on August 22 work
               | _conscription_ was instituted and accelerated in late 42
               | / early 43 while the Germans invaded Southern France, up
               | 'til now nominally in the hands of the French government.
               | 
               | From _that_ moment national sentiment truly turned, Vichy
               | lost all the good will it still had, the French lost all
               | illusions that Petain was anything more than a mop and
               | large amounts of youths trying to dodge slave work in
               | Germany entered the Resistance.
               | 
               | I think you << grossly misrepresent >> French sentiment
               | much more than I do.
        
         | DonaldFisk wrote:
         | > This one could apply to our relationship with China maybe?
         | 
         | When the relationship was different from today's, during WW2,
         | the US Army published a Pocket Guide to China:
         | 
         | https://archive.org/details/PocketGuideToChina1943-nsia/mode...
        
         | fortran77 wrote:
         | > It still reads really well today, like there's no tone of
         | racism and nothing seems inappropriate (which is a hard thing
         | to achieve with time).
         | 
         | How about this:                   Some Frenchmen have certainly
         | gypped some Americans . We          remember the times we were
         | gypped . We forget         the number of times we were not. How
         | many times were         you treated fairly, honestydeg' ?
         | Were you never "gypped" back home -in towns near         army
         | camps ? (See question 4 83),
        
           | _Nat_ wrote:
           | Are you suggesting that the term " _gypped_ " may've been
           | racist? Presumably because its etymology may be a reference
           | to a stereotypical behavior attributed to gypsies, which some
           | might regard as a racial-slur for [Romani
           | people](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Romani_people)?
           | 
           | That passage doesn't give me that vibe -- it seems to be
           | trying to suggest that the relevant behavior, " _gypping_ ",
           | _isn 't_ culturally unique, but rather could be found back in
           | the United States, too.
           | 
           | Concerns about terminology etymologically-based on cultural
           | stereotypes aside, it doesn't read like the author was
           | expressing a racist perspective, but rather trying to speak
           | to such preexisting-perspectives as to dispel them.
           | 
           | Would probably want to do some checking on this first, though
           | I'd suspect that " _gypsy_ " wasn't widely regarded as
           | offensive back then, either, much like " _Negro_ " literally
           | just meant " _Black_ ". Seems like sometimes terms are retro-
           | historically recast as racial-slurs, apparently in an attempt
           | to create a gap between historical-texts which use such terms
           | and later-texts which don't. Kinda like depreciating an API
           | in favor of a clone as a mode of depreciating the
           | corresponding ecosystem.
        
             | pseudalopex wrote:
             | Gypped isn't offensive just because they prefer to be
             | called Romani. It equates Romani with swindlers. Saying
             | some French and some Americans swindle too isn't the same.
        
               | _Nat_ wrote:
               | It's better to understand what people are trying to say
               | than to misattribute false interpretations.
               | 
               | For example, in this case the speaker clearly wasn't
               | trying to equate Romani to swindlers. Any logic arriving
               | at such a faulty conclusion would seem fallacious,
               | presumably due to over-simplification.
        
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       | nicbou wrote:
       | The answers to each gripe are simple, straightforward and
       | convincing. I love how it's written.
        
         | roland35 wrote:
         | I wish that people would listen to responses to common
         | misconceptions on Facebook and Twitter these days.
         | 
         | The answers are all great, but I could also understand why an
         | American soldier would have those gripes in the first place!
        
         | hollander wrote:
         | It's prejudice vs logic and wisdom.
        
           | fffdkkkj wrote:
           | Its simple propaganda from the war department..
        
           | eplanit wrote:
           | To me it is logic and wisdom, with some (appropriate) bias
           | towards its audience.
        
       | jollybean wrote:
       | Same thing in the UK during the years long wait for D-Day.
       | 
       | Americans were very well paid relative to their UK peers and of
       | course didn't have the existential angst of broken nation facing
       | uncomfortable odds. American GI's would be jovial and upbeat
       | while having definitely enough money to spend at the pub, which
       | caused problems.
        
       | drglitch wrote:
       | The original is a delight to read. Sadly, I can't help but wonder
       | how many would be "triggered" by the answers today.
       | 
       | How do we, as a society, start accepting rational self-criticism
       | again?
        
         | johnchristopher wrote:
         | > How do we, as a society, start accepting rational self-
         | criticism again?
         | 
         | A good starting point would be to stop using the word "trigger"
         | when someone reacts in a way you don't like to something you
         | say.
         | 
         | Personally I interpret it as a way to diminish the other side
         | position by suggesting they don't have control over their
         | emotions regarding some subjects. Not a good start.
        
           | thatguy0900 wrote:
           | ? but trigger was started and used by that side themselves.
        
             | afarrell wrote:
             | I'd advise reading the book "112 Gripes about the French"
             | and then applying that same empathy to the people you
             | dislike in our modern era.
        
               | thatguy0900 wrote:
               | Where did you get I disliked anybody? Parent used "sides"
               | before I did, and it's seems absurd to say the right
               | started trigger to mock the left
        
               | afarrell wrote:
               | > Parent used "sides" before I did
               | 
               | My philosophy is that I don't care who started it. I care
               | how I respond to try to improve things.
               | 
               | (Though I myself have a lot to learn as well.)
        
             | gnzg wrote:
             | my understanding is that the word trigger is used in
             | psychology to describe a wide range of traumatic responses.
             | e.g whenever a war veteran suffering from ptsd hears
             | firework it may trigger a strong traumatic response.
             | //victims of abuse can get "triggered" by the presence or
             | even mention of their abuser etc
             | 
             | it applies to a wide range of traumas and responses some of
             | which might be more or less extreme, so it does include
             | some small things: if you ever get a minor burn, the idea
             | of touching a potentially hot surface might make you
             | somewhat uncomfortable - you could call that a triggering
             | experience even though it's not nearly as intense as the
             | other examples.
             | 
             | Triggering experiences are generally considered to
             | reinforce trauma and generate unncessary distress and
             | should therefore be avoided
             | 
             | And so we use trigger warning before movies etc to warn
             | users of potentially upsetting/triggering content such as
             | war, torture, sexual violence and various forms of abuse,
             | it's really not that big of a deal
        
               | khawkins wrote:
               | This was the original idea, that some people with genuine
               | traumatic experiences and were currently suffering from
               | mental illness could choose to opt-out before proceeding
               | on to read/watch something. But the concept got wildly
               | out of hand as activists, especially younger adults,
               | began obsessively applying it to nearly any piece of
               | written word and anything they could frame as traumatic.
               | 
               | For example, if you're about to present a movie to a
               | captive audience that involves depictions of rape, it
               | would be good that someone who has experienced rape,
               | especially recently, knows that it will ahead of time and
               | has the ability to opt-out because it might trigger a
               | traumatic episode. The circumstances where you have a
               | captive audience and it's not clear from the context what
               | will be depicted are actually quite rare, so its usage
               | should be rare.
               | 
               | But young people, trying to signal their virtuous
               | compassion and understanding to like-minded individuals,
               | would put "trigger warnings" at the top of blog posts
               | about things like "racism" or "homophobia", and all that
               | would be discussed would be that they overheard a slur at
               | the store.
               | 
               | At some point, the dominant use of trigger warnings was
               | by people with thin skins, ready to get offended on
               | behalf of "victims" who had suffered, at worst, nothing
               | more than people being rude or mean to them. Pretending
               | like these kinds of negative encounters are anything
               | close to the mind-breaking trauma of getting raped or
               | watching your fellow soldiers explode in front of you is
               | disgusting, and eventually everyone caught on that the
               | activists were trying to equivocate real trauma with
               | "hurt feelings". Worse, they were effectively teaching
               | young people to internalize and exaggerate negative
               | experiences so that they could identify as someone with
               | PTSD. That doing this made them unique and gave them
               | extra attention from others who wanted to actively show
               | compassion to victimized people. For lonely young people
               | who want a cause, it was extremely attractive because it
               | gave them identity, purpose, and community. But in
               | reality, it was largely a perverted roleplay which
               | coddled everyone involved and made them emotionally
               | fragile.
               | 
               | The original concept of trigger warnings is solid, but
               | should be practiced only where necessary and never
               | attached to the phrase "trigger warning", as that
               | nomenclature has been ceded to the activists.
        
           | drglitch wrote:
           | Is there a more appropriate word to describe this? Honest
           | question as a non-native English speaker.
           | 
           | Seems like this is a commonly used term/usage: https://www.go
           | ogle.com/amp/s/dictionary.cambridge.org/us/amp...
        
             | adamjb wrote:
             | "Offended" would be my suggestion. "Triggered" is only
             | really used in this sense as part of bad faith culture war
             | discourse, mocking the idea of trigger warnings.
        
               | Shorel wrote:
               | I don't think they mock the idea of triggers.
               | 
               | They leverage and weaponize the concept, which is
               | arguably worse.
        
               | bkirkby wrote:
               | I've heard advocates of trigger warnings share their
               | lived experience by talking about what "triggered" them,
               | using that word specifically.
        
               | wffurr wrote:
               | There's a big difference between describing one's own
               | experience and labeling others.
        
               | dogorman wrote:
               | The word is used in the context of PTSD. e.g. _" hearing
               | fireworks triggered flashbacks from the war"_
               | 
               | More generally, a "trigger warning" is a "content
               | advisory warning" by another name.
        
         | watwut wrote:
         | I have never seen triggered in relation to self-criticism.
        
         | varajelle wrote:
         | Do you have any example of answer that is "triggering" today?
        
         | pell wrote:
         | > How do we, as a society, start accepting rational self-
         | criticism again?
         | 
         | You might want to start with taking critique from the people
         | you deem to be "triggered" seriously. That would be a first
         | step in rational self-criticism. Otherwise you're selling a gut
         | reaction as rationality to yourself. This is a common mistake
         | people make. You might end up disagreeing with their critique -
         | that may well be - but even then in most cases you'll likely
         | take something from it, might be able to understand the topic
         | at hand with some further nuance or get a deeper understanding
         | of your position and its merits.
        
       | kxter wrote:
       | Amazing read, to get a glimpse of 'gripes' of Americans back in
       | the day. Reminds me of the whole "Freedom Fries' fiasco. Times
       | may change. Some gripes stay.
        
       | tamaharbor wrote:
       | As Steve Martin once said, "Those French have a different word
       | for everything!"
        
       | gregsadetsky wrote:
       | Fantastic read!
       | 
       | Via the French Wikipedia page about this booklet [0], I learned
       | that the probable author is Leo Rosten, author of "The Joys of
       | Yiddish" [1]..!
       | 
       | That makes sense as "Joys" is an incredibly funny and witty read
       | on the interplays between Yiddish and English in the US. Much
       | recommended
       | 
       | From Rosten's Wikipedia page [2]:
       | 
       | --
       | 
       | In his book, The Joys of Yiddish, he defines the word chutzpah as
       | "that quality enshrined in a man who, having killed his mother
       | and father, throws himself on the mercy of the court because he
       | is an orphan."
       | 
       | ---
       | 
       | [0] https://fr.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nos_amis_les_Francais
       | 
       | (Funnily, the booklet's title was translated to "Our friends the
       | French")
       | 
       | [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Joys_of_Yiddish
       | 
       | [2] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leo_Rosten
        
         | vanous wrote:
         | Omg. Kaplan. H _Y_ M _A_ N K _A_ P _L_ A*N. :) Thank you.
        
         | yesbabyyes wrote:
         | Wonderful. I found that book in my mother's library--love it!
        
       | ryanianian wrote:
       | Thank you for adding this. It's faded/hard to read. Anyone got an
       | OCRed or retyped version?
        
         | ronjouch wrote:
         | I couldn't find one and am considering working on a
         | restoration. See thread
         | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=27865583
         | 
         | EDIT see also https://www.e-rcps.com/gripes/
        
       | jtlienwis wrote:
       | Left out my favorite from Steve Martin. "The French have their
       | own word for practically everything!"
       | 
       | But seriously, left out from the list of great of Frenchmen
       | Laplace, Lagrange, Galois, DeLambert etc. But I guess the list of
       | mathematicians would have made the book too thick.
        
       | muststopmyths wrote:
       | Question 78: A 73% casualty rate for the French in WWI seemed
       | bonkers to me at first glance, but it probably makes sense for
       | the kind of war it was
       | 
       | Ref: https://www.facinghistory.org/weimar-republic-fragility-
       | demo...
        
       | julienfr112 wrote:
       | I kind of wonder why it's always acceptable to have general
       | critics about the Frenchs, but take exactly the same discours and
       | replace it replace it with Jews or Blacks, and sundenly, it
       | becomes completely racist and unacceptable.
        
         | cycomanic wrote:
         | Have you watched any stand-up comedy. Lots of comedians are
         | making fun of the idiosyncrasies of different ethnicities,
         | nationalities, religions. The problem is generally, who is
         | doing it and how you do it.
        
         | afarrell wrote:
         | As a mixed race person married to a Jew, I think it would be
         | tremendously healthy for a well-informed person to write one of
         | each --- but within a specific national and time-bounded
         | context.
        
         | CydeWeys wrote:
         | You can't compare a nationality to an ethnicity/religion and a
         | race, respectively.
        
           | isbvhodnvemrwvn wrote:
           | Why?
        
             | danans wrote:
             | Race operates on an individual regardless of their
             | behavior. It is a construct that is based on physical
             | appearance only. Race is something that an individual has
             | no control over.
             | 
             | Culture and ethnicity are constructs derived from
             | behaviors, including language, manner of dress, interests,
             | etc.
             | 
             | Culture/ethnicity is something that depending on the
             | individual, they can have far more (though not total)
             | control over, via changing manner of dress, language, etc.
             | 
             | Discrimination can be based on either one, but the
             | immutability of the former distinguishes it from the
             | latter.
        
               | julienfr112 wrote:
               | Yeah, maybe French people could just unfrench their
               | frenchiness...
        
               | danans wrote:
               | The whole point of the pamphlet is they shouldn't have to
               | in order to be accepted by the American troops, but a
               | white French person with sufficient linguistic and
               | cultural flexibility could pass for a white American, and
               | largely would in contexts where they did not have to
               | speak.
               | 
               | And black person could never do the same.
        
               | seszett wrote:
               | A black person could pass for a white person in contexts
               | where did not have to show their skin colour, it's not
               | that different or even rare.
        
           | epivosism wrote:
           | Which is more important, culture or race? Same-culture bonds
           | of language, ideals, values, traditions look stronger to me.
           | I connect to people from my hometown, of my culture,
           | regardless of race, way more than to people who just randomly
           | have my race but don't know any of my memes or have similar
           | values.
           | 
           | Another example: bonds within military units are cultural,
           | not racial; if race were more powerful you'd expect soldiers
           | from mixed-race countries to change sides due to stronger
           | racial pulls - which I don't think happens, and which would
           | be super problematic, wouldn't it? A Japanese-American
           | soldier is American first, right? Suggesting that race is
           | incomparably larger of a gap than culture has some really
           | serious implications.
        
       | animal_spirits wrote:
       | > For the right to speak involves the duty to listen. The right
       | to criticize involves the responsibility of giving "the other
       | side" a fair chance to make its point.
       | 
       | I wish this could be chiseled in rock somewhere prominent
        
         | Jkol wrote:
         | Can't be that hard or expensive, let's make it happen
        
           | wrycoder wrote:
           | Well, go for it!
        
         | RHSeeger wrote:
         | I love the idea of this, but it also plays poorly with
         | 
         | > Brandolini's law, also known as the bullshit asymmetry
         | principle, is an internet adage that emphasizes the difficulty
         | of debunking false, facetious, or otherwise misleading
         | information: "The amount of energy needed to refute bullshit is
         | an order of magnitude larger than to produce it."
         | 
         | But I guess, to be fair, giving the other sides a fair chance
         | to make it's point doesn't mean you need to provably debunk it
         | if it's wrong.
        
           | shijie wrote:
           | This just seems like a rather clever permutation of ad
           | hominem.
           | 
           | "The reason I won't refute your argument is that it is so
           | incorrect that it would take me forever to explain why."
        
             | [deleted]
        
             | RHSeeger wrote:
             | You're looking at it wrong. It's that there is so much bull
             | out there that it would be impossible to refute it all.
        
             | robgibbons wrote:
             | Not really. Ad hominem is directing the subject of your
             | argument at the person instead of their ideas.
             | 
             | Brandolini's law is more like the adage, "a lie can travel
             | halfway around the world, while the truth is lacing up its
             | boots." It's very easy to spout correct-sounding lies in
             | such a volume that countering them becomes an academic
             | challenge.
        
             | wrycoder wrote:
             | Or as Pauli said, "Not even wrong."
        
         | ARandomerDude wrote:
         | It would be spray painted then the legislature would vote to
         | remove it.
        
       | rsynnott wrote:
       | Question 74 is kind of astonishing in a modern context. I mean, I
       | suppose maybe the average soldier in the 40s didn't understand
       | what the Nazis _were_ in the way they would now, but I'm
       | surprised it needed to be addressed.
        
       | holografix wrote:
       | I find this an embarrassingly entertaining read! I particularly
       | like this bit:
       | 
       | "The French are not up-to-date. They're not modern. They're
       | living in the past."
       | 
       | "... The World Almanac for 1945 concludes that as far as social
       | legislation is concerned, "France is in the vanguard" .. The
       | French were certainly up-to-date in establishing old age
       | pensions, compulsory insurance against illness, disability and
       | death, maternity insurance, and so on. It was France that
       | introduced the forty-hour work week."
       | 
       | Clearly the author views theses social policies positively. I
       | wander if that was what the average American thought back in 45.
        
         | rsynnott wrote:
         | The US established basic social insurance in the 30s, and
         | generally ~all industrialised nations were going in this
         | direction in the era fairly uncontroversially; at the time I
         | don't think it was particularly contentious.
         | 
         | The idea that social welfare is a partisan issue, with one side
         | considering it to be, essentially, a bad thing, is really a
         | fairly modern invention in the US; Reagan era.
        
         | ekianjo wrote:
         | Nobody worked 40 hours weeks after the war in France, except
         | maybe civil servants.
        
           | fcantournet wrote:
           | That's not the point. It never was the point, it's never been
           | the point of ANY law about ANY duration of the work week. It
           | defines the LEGAL duration of a week's work because that's
           | going to be used for calculating the PAY.
           | 
           | Wehn we went from 39h -> 35h for instance with the same pay,
           | we're just compensating for the massive increases in
           | productivity that occured while salaries stayed flat for 30
           | years.
           | 
           | And civil servants basically work the same hours per year as
           | workers in the private sector, in France. Always have since
           | 1945. In 2019 it was 1640h vs 1703h effective hours per
           | years, a 3.8% difference.
        
         | Archelaos wrote:
         | > Clearly the author views theses social policies positively. I
         | wander if that was what the average American thought back in
         | 45.
         | 
         | Probably most of those who voted for Roosevelt in 1944 and some
         | others who voted for Dewey for other reasons. The results of
         | Roosevelt's New Deal led to a comparatively wide support of
         | social policies in the US for decades.
        
       | Jkol wrote:
       | The opening paragraphs are lovely and absolutely not what I'd
       | expected based on the name. This is the America we want to live
       | in.
       | 
       | "We insist upon the right to express our own opinions. But we
       | also believe in the right of others to express their opinions.
       | For the right to speak involves the duty to listen...We know that
       | the truth can only be found through open and honest discussion,
       | and that the common good is served through common attempts to
       | reach common understanding".
        
         | echelon wrote:
         | We need to be reminded of this.
         | 
         | The left and right are so divided that they're intolerable of
         | one another. Neither side believes the other is worth listening
         | to.
         | 
         | It's a shame.
         | 
         | We're all animals traversing a complicated landscape. There's
         | daily pain and suffering, and then we die. We should remind
         | ourselves how similar everyone actually is, and that the
         | diversity of our views are humanity living and breathing
         | through our mortal, aging bodies.
        
           | nobleach wrote:
           | What's worse, that division is extremely profitable to some.
           | So they spend their resources stoking that division. This
           | only serves to drive the wedge deeper. Meanwhile, it's like
           | the classic game of Three Card Monte. We are so busy hating
           | the people we're told are "our enemy", that we ignore
           | potential real enemies.
        
           | michaelmrose wrote:
           | One side wants trans people to be able to use the same
           | bathroom and universal healthcare the other side talks about
           | shooting democrats and Myanmar style coups.
           | 
           | It is impossible to be tolerant of the Fourth Reich or those
           | who if they don't condone it will at best tolerate it for tax
           | cuts.
           | 
           | Our unresolvable division is because 10% is evil and 30% is
           | nuts and the remainder can't have anything they want if they
           | don't embrace the crazy.
           | 
           | These people will sacrifice our actual values for pale
           | shadows of same.
        
             | techrat wrote:
             | In Portland.
             | 
             | One side of the crowd holds signs like "Down with the Fash"
             | and "Trans Rights are Human Rights."
             | 
             | The other side of the crowd literally wearing "RWDS"
             | Patches (Right Wing Death Squad) and "Pinochet Did Nothing
             | Wrong" shirts.
             | 
             | Some of the people in this thread: "Huh! I don't see any
             | difference between the two. Both sides! Hurr durr."
        
               | echelon wrote:
               | You're painting the entire right as Nazis though. That's
               | not at all accurate. Some people just don't want to be
               | taxed, want their guns, and are afraid of the theory of
               | evolution.
               | 
               | You're failing to see the huge distribution of people on
               | both sides.
               | 
               | There are Nazis on both sides, but there aren't many. The
               | majority are closer to the middle, and the media uses the
               | extreme examples to enrage and divide for dollars.
        
           | techrat wrote:
           | Right there with the 'both sides are the same' false
           | equivalence... In case you're wondering why.
        
             | elefanten wrote:
             | What a knee-jerk, unserious reply. You performed the
             | perfect example of the point gp was trying to make.
        
             | [deleted]
        
               | mvid wrote:
               | I literally watched him say it, live
        
               | NikolaeVarius wrote:
               | Oh look, video evidence
               | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JmaZR8E12bs
        
             | overgard wrote:
             | I think if you are willing to ignore 50% of the population,
             | well, I don't know what to tell you other than that history
             | does not look kindly on partisans.
        
               | rayiner wrote:
               | Not just 50% of the population. Folks on the left will
               | sniffily tell you that stuff where the vast majority of
               | the rest of humanity agrees with the right isn't even up
               | for discussion.
        
               | snypher wrote:
               | We shouldn't have the hubris to think the "vast majority
               | of the rest of humanity" agrees with us at all.
        
               | esrauch wrote:
               | Your sentence is really the same divisive "other side is
               | crazy" crap that everyone else is complaining about.
               | Folks on both the left _and right_ (under US definitions)
               | will sniffily do that same thing and act like their
               | positions are obviously correct and the other side
               | obviously unreasonable.
        
               | rayiner wrote:
               | When was that? 30 years ago? Try having a conversation
               | today with a progressive about virtually any issue where
               | American conservatives may agree with people in Asia or
               | Africa (or even a big chunk of moderate Democrats).
               | 
               | I noticed this particularly acutely in how progressives
               | have rallied around Muslims but you can't actually talk
               | about a bunch of stuff my Bangladeshi mom and aunts
               | believe. Same sex marriage is one example, but also
               | abortion, gender roles, child rearing, civil order,
               | religion in schools, etc.
               | 
               | Ironically, as a result, you can't have public
               | conversations about a bunch of stuff many Democrats
               | (particularly non-white Democrats) believe. When Obama
               | have a speech about dads raising their kids, he was
               | shouted down by white liberals. Can't talk about Latino
               | views on abortion, or Muslim views on gender roles and
               | procreative marriage.
        
               | systemvoltage wrote:
               | The left controls all corporations and big tech (see
               | Google's new policy for misinformation). So one side has
               | an unreasonable amount of power.
        
               | techrat wrote:
               | >well, I don't know what to tell you other than that
               | history does not look kindly on partisans.
               | 
               | "Bad men need nothing more to compass their ends, than
               | that good men should look on and do nothing."
               | 
               | If the only way to stop an act of violence is with an act
               | of violence, allowing it to happen in the first place, as
               | you would condemn the response of violence, ends up being
               | the greater evil.
               | 
               | Also look up 'The Paradox of Tolerance.'
               | 
               | Saying it is to be 'partisan' to call out injustice is
               | the ultimate in hypocrisy.
               | 
               | History has already condemned those who stepped back and
               | did nothing.
        
             | spiderice wrote:
             | How, exactly? I don't see any claims to equivalence in GP's
             | comment at all.
        
             | [deleted]
        
         | dheera wrote:
         | xkcd doesn't agree with the "duty to listen".
         | 
         | https://xkcd.com/1357/
        
           | orthoxerox wrote:
           | Randall makes a typical mistake: the constitution bans one
           | specific form of censorship, therefore all other forms of
           | censorship are acceptable.
           | 
           | They are not, they just aren't so unequivocally bad that you
           | can ban them in the constitution with a single sentence.
        
             | JumpCrisscross wrote:
             | > _the constitution bans one specific form of censorship,
             | therefore all other forms of censorship are acceptable_
             | 
             | The First Amendment is perhaps the most powerful
             | manifestation of the philosophy of free speech in our world
             | today. As a result, we have a habit of conflating the two.
             | But a culture of free speech can wither while the First
             | Amendment remains strong (and vice versa).
        
             | [deleted]
        
             | lisper wrote:
             | The exercise of editorial discretion in a privately owned
             | publication or forum and censorship are two very different
             | things.
             | 
             | What steams my clams is that the people who complain about
             | private forums exercising editorial discretion tend to be
             | the same people who insist that private property rights are
             | sacrosanct, and so, for example, private property owners
             | should be able to ban union organizers from their property
             | [1]. This strikes me as brazenly hypocritical. Either free
             | speech trumps private property, or private property trumps
             | free speech. You can't have it both ways.
             | 
             | [1] https://www.natlawreview.com/article/supreme-court-
             | holds-uni...
        
           | remram wrote:
           | I don't see those things as incompatible at all.
           | 
           | "giving the other side a fair chance to make its point" (from
           | very next sentence) doesn't mean they can't blow that chance
           | by being obnoxious, unfair, offensive, or plain wrong. I
           | don't think the OP argues that this "duty to listen" extends
           | forever, that you have to keep listening after you have
           | determined that "the other side" is being an asshole.
        
             | Stupulous wrote:
             | I think a tit-for-tat approach is fair. If the other party
             | is demonstrably not listening to you, you can drop the duty
             | to listen (and you should probably just disengage). If
             | someone is participating in good faith, but wrong or an
             | asshole/obnoxious/offensive, I don't think that justifies
             | censorship.
             | 
             | In any argument at least one and frequently both positions
             | are plain wrong. Both parties think that is true of the
             | other. If that were a reason to drop free speech norms,
             | they would always be dropped.
             | 
             | Civility is an aspirational value, but communities that
             | enforce it invariably will do so in a biased way. Rude
             | behavior is easy to spot in the outgroup and easy to
             | overlook in the ingroup. Offensiveness is nebulously
             | defined- someone might be offended by the word 'asshole',
             | someone else by the banning of vulgarity. How a community
             | defines civility privileges people from backgrounds that
             | define it similarly. Those closest to the issue will have a
             | harder time keeping their emotions in check- eg. a white
             | person might have an easier time arguing dispassionately
             | about racism than a minority.
             | 
             | If you can get around those issues, I think you should.
             | Civil discourse optimizes for a lot of the factors that
             | justify free speech in the first place. Not so with being
             | wrong; a major benefit of free speech is that those who are
             | wrong and participating can be righted, to the benefit of
             | all parties.
        
           | NikolaeVarius wrote:
           | xkcd isn't exactly an arbiter of truth
        
           | sowbug wrote:
           | That xkcd actually reinforces the duty to listen, but
           | clarifies that nobody has a right to a _specific response_
           | from listeners.
        
       | everyone wrote:
       | It is a great read. Thanks for the link!
        
       | tasogare wrote:
       | Did the book address the topic of rapes by US soldiers? This was
       | a big issue after liberation, and still is a major issue near US
       | bases nowadays (in particular Okinawa).
        
         | fvdessen wrote:
         | No. 75 years later this topic is still taboo
        
           | orwin wrote:
           | It's honestly not taboo anymore. Multiple history books have
           | breached the subject, and we can now say that while they were
           | rape from US soldiers, the sentiments were inflated because
           | the liberation let a lot of locals distraught, angry an
           | hungry. Also US military had a bad reputation for multiple
           | other reasons (some racism maybe, but also the bombing and
           | the fact that they sort of replaced the germans as an
           | occupation forces (it was temporary however). When looking
           | for stories about US rapes, historian saw that the sotries
           | were extremely localized (None came from brittany, although
           | this was one of the first liberated area and also a poor
           | one).
           | 
           | Also, US soldier were rude, assertive and agressive towards
           | women, and this was caused by racism and too much ego (French
           | woman image from back home and stories from WW1, and their
           | own self-inflated image)
        
             | eplanit wrote:
             | "US soldier were rude, assertive and agressive towards
             | women, and this was caused by racism and too much ego"
             | 
             | Do you regard French and Americans as different races?
        
               | Jasper_ wrote:
               | What's considered "a different race" has changed over the
               | years and the classifications we have today is mostly
               | along social and political boundaries. Before WWII,
               | Polish natives were often seen as of a different race,
               | today we would consider them Caucasian.
               | 
               | Note how the remaining big race classifications
               | recognized by the US Census are divided up mostly based
               | around areas with which we still have some political
               | tension or heavy political history: Asian, Middle-Eastern
               | European, Latin American and African, and Native American
               | and Native Alaskan, and Hawaiian.
        
               | eplanit wrote:
               | I think you're conflating race with ethnicity and
               | nationality, which makes all three concepts meaningless.
        
               | rvense wrote:
               | The connotations of the term race has changed. It was
               | definitely common in the fairly recent past (WWI) for
               | English people to speak of Germans as a different race,
               | indeed using the term more like we would use ethnicity
               | today. See also the English division of India into
               | martial and non-martial "races".
               | 
               | You are implying a use of the term which is more
               | influenced by biology and some vague, folksy notion of
               | genetic/darwinian relation, often focused on skin color
               | etc. I understand your distinction. but it is, almost by
               | definition, more modern.
        
               | cycomanic wrote:
               | As a German (who also lived in Sweden, Australia, NZ) I
               | always cringe when I hear how Americans (from both sides
               | of the political spectrum) use the the term race as
               | something that actually has some sort of
               | biological/genetic basis.
               | 
               | There is absolutely no scientific basis for the racial
               | categories used today.
               | 
               | Apart from the fact that the genetic differences between
               | all humans are tiny compared to different races in
               | animals (which is I guess where the term comes from),
               | there is also the fact that many ethnicities which are
               | lumped under a common race differ more from each other
               | than from many other "categories", e.g. Africa has more
               | genetic diversity than all other continents combined.
               | Therefore one "black" person might differ significantly
               | more from another "black" than from a Caucasian or Asian
               | person.
               | 
               | I mean the irony that there is the "racial" category of
               | "African-American".
               | 
               | I think this is also not just semantics. The use of the
               | term race associates much larger differences than there
               | actually are, which makes it easier to justify
               | discrimination/hate.
        
               | eplanit wrote:
               | The definitions I've known have remained stable until
               | very recently. I'll stick with Race: genetics; Ethnicity:
               | the group/tribe one "grows up" or is most shaped by;
               | Nationality: the country you're in/from.
               | 
               | They can all align to (mostly) one group, like in India
               | and China, or can be mostly aligned like in northern
               | Europe, or a melting pot like the US.
               | 
               | It's the "connotations" (i.e. conflations) that are the
               | reason that almost everything is labeled "racist".
        
               | Jasper_ wrote:
               | Please try and define "genetics" in a way that isn't, in
               | some way, sociopolitical. To give one example out of many
               | thousands across history, still somewhat alive today: do
               | you consider South Koreans and Japanese people to be the
               | same race? Do you know if those groups consider
               | themselves to be of the same race?
               | 
               | The concept of race very much predates our understanding
               | of genetics, which is a relatively modern science.
        
               | eplanit wrote:
               | I didn't define race in any sociopolitical way --
               | precisely the opposite, in fact. The socio-political
               | aspect comes from the Nationality+Ethnicity parts.
               | 
               | My wife is Chinese, and feels a racial kinship to Asian
               | people from many countries: Japan, Korea, Vietnam, ...
               | Refers to all as Asian.
        
               | rvense wrote:
               | > The definitions I've known have remained stable until
               | very recently
               | 
               | As stated, they were not. Race and ethnicity (and also
               | words like breed and stock) were much more synonymous 100
               | years ago. If you aren't keenly aware of semantic shifts
               | like this, you will misunderstand older texts.
               | 
               | I'm also not sure if you're actually suggesting that
               | China and India are (by any definition) racially and
               | ethnically homogenous. If you are, I must encourage you
               | to study those countries more.
        
               | fridif wrote:
               | The only thing meaningless here is your attempt to be
               | poetic.
        
         | unishark wrote:
         | Question 81 mentions problems caused by US soldiers.
         | 
         | Crimes by foreigners generally cause a lot of outrage,
         | regardless how common they are. I saw stats a few years ago
         | that had the crime rates of US troops in Japan lower than the
         | native population. While the crime rates of immigrants was
         | higher than natives. But one of these topics is politically
         | correct and the other is not.
        
           | JKCalhoun wrote:
           | Not sure you want to call rape (or crime in general) by the
           | local population "politically correct".
        
             | [deleted]
        
           | lukebuehler wrote:
           | Yep just came across it as well:
           | 
           | > If you were a French soldier, whose land had been invaded,
           | whose wife or sister or mother had been taken into a German
           | concentration camp and raped or killed, you might have found
           | it difficult to control Your emotions.
           | 
           | > Lastly, a good many French women have been in terror of
           | American troops, especially in Paris. Our SIP records testify
           | to a deplorable amount of drunkenness, molesting of women and
           | street fights -- by americans.
        
           | watwut wrote:
           | You cant compare general crime rates of soldiers today, when
           | it is big political problem and army does a lot to cut it
           | down. Up to disallowing soldiers to even leave the base.
           | 
           | With rape specifically after war, years ago in completely
           | different situation.
        
       | agumonkey wrote:
       | Impressive honesty in the first pages
        
       | cerved wrote:
       | I like the French translation, Our Friends the French
        
       | ronjouch wrote:
       | What's the copyright situation of this book?
       | 
       | Say I want to restore it, clean it up, and publish a nice epub
       | (using as source the PDF already linked in a comment here). Is it
       | copyright infringement, or is its copyright expired now?
       | 
       | "112 gripes" was published in 1945, thus sites like
       | https://www.biblio.com/blog/2010/07/how-to-determine-if-a-bo...
       | suggest it's expired . But also, it was republished in the US in
       | 2004 (ISBN 1-4191-6512-7). Does this make it "freshly-re-
       | copyrighted until 2004 + 70 years?", or is the year that counts
       | for copyright the _original_ publishing date?
       | 
       | --
       | 
       | (More general question: how can I check if a book is still
       | copyrighted? Webpages like the one I linked above aren't very
       | precise and leave room for interpretation; is there something
       | easier / more canonical to use?)
        
         | nmcfarl wrote:
         | Most US government publications are are public domain:
         | https://www.copyrightlaws.com/copyright-laws-in-u-s-governme...
         | 
         | But determining the copyright status of anything old is really
         | much harder than it should be.
        
           | ronjouch wrote:
           | Thanks and thanks for the link; didn't know about this sub-
           | case.
           | 
           | Repeating a point of my original question, in case you have
           | something to say about it: "112 gripes" was published in
           | 1945, thus sites like
           | https://www.biblio.com/blog/2010/07/how-to-determine-if-a-
           | bo... suggest it's expired . But also, it was republished in
           | the US in 2004 (ISBN 1-4191-6512-7). Does this make it
           | "freshly-re-copyrighted until 2004 + 70 years?", or is the
           | year that counts for copyright the _original_ publishing
           | date?
           | 
           | EDIT okay forget about the re-publish question, another HNer
           | commented about it.
        
         | bencoder wrote:
         | > Does this make it "freshly-re-copyrighted until 2004 + 70
         | years?", or is the year that counts for copyright the original
         | publishing date?
         | 
         | Any changes (spelling, typos, the typesetting) in the new
         | publication would be under a new copyright term. In practice,
         | if you make your copy from the earlier out of copyright edition
         | then you're fine. (Assuming you are correct that the earlier
         | edition is truly out of copyright)
        
           | acabal wrote:
           | This is incorrect. In the US new copyright is only awarded
           | for acts of authorship. Minor spelling or punctuation
           | changes, or typo fixes, are not authorship. See
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sweat_of_the_brow
        
           | ronjouch wrote:
           | _> Assuming you are correct that the earlier edition is truly
           | out of copyright_
           | 
           | Given that it is:
           | 
           | - A US Gov document (see other comment about it)
           | 
           | - From 1945 (so, from 1923-1963) and without an explicit
           | Copyright symbol on the document
           | 
           | , I tend to believe so. Maybe I can find not-for-profit
           | lawyer advice to confirm it.
        
         | Gucio wrote:
         | I would be interested in a cleaned up version of this text. If
         | you plan on rewriting the content from the PDF, I can lend a
         | hand !
        
           | ronjouch wrote:
           | Sure, thanks! Ping me at ronan foo jouchet bar fr . Will get
           | in touch if I follow-up on making this happen.
        
       | wyck wrote:
       | As an outsider who speaks both french and english, and has been
       | to both countries, it always stuck me how similar Americans and
       | French people are. Both sides would rather die than admit they
       | are so similar in terms of spirit an attitude, and this brotherly
       | hate is the main reason they are so similar. It's pretty funny.
        
         | dudul wrote:
         | Can you expand on that? I have dual citizenship, have spent
         | each half of my life in both countries and I find French and
         | Americans very different. How do you see them as similar?
        
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           | supergarfield wrote:
           | Not the OP---I agree they're very different, but there's a
           | striking resemblance in how both countries think their
           | political and intellectual culture is civilization's crowning
           | achievement and the entire world should adopt it. (Of course,
           | the US has been more able to do export theirs than France in
           | recent decades.) IMO this shapes both countries'
           | relationships to the rest of the world.
           | 
           | I have less first hand experience, but I also think the level
           | of distrust in the government (esp. central / federal) among
           | rural populations is particularly high in both countries by
           | developed nation standards.
        
             | dudul wrote:
             | I couldn't disagree more. International policies are
             | completely different in the US and in France. The US are
             | extremely interventionist and some may say "aggressive",
             | this is not at all the French doctrine. It was very clearly
             | apparent during the 2nd war in Iraq. France ignored NATO
             | for decades until recently.
             | 
             | As for a more philosophical point of view, again, disagree.
             | Universalism is indeed a concept of the French Republic
             | while the US vision is exceptionalism. These are complete
             | opposite.
             | 
             | Finally, I guess there is a certain amount of distrust of
             | the government in rural areas (is it specific to France and
             | the US?) but where in the US the expectation is that the
             | government should be doing as little as possible, in France
             | the expectation is that it should do much more to
             | help/support people. The relationships of Americans and
             | French to their respective government are complete opposite
             | again. In France, people expect a lot from the government
             | who is supposed to be the great equalizer.
        
             | PoignardAzur wrote:
             | _> I have less first hand experience, but I also think the
             | level of distrust in the government (esp. central  /
             | federal) among rural populations is particularly high in
             | both countries by developed nation standards._
             | 
             | I don't think they're really comparable.
             | 
             | The most obvious example is policing. In the US, local law
             | enforcement has a lot of independence and discretion, to
             | the point "sheriff has to grudgingly cooperate with out-of-
             | touch FBI guy" is a literary cliche. In France, in rural
             | areas the default expectation is that gendarmerie
             | (basically centralized military police) will handle most
             | serious problems.
             | 
             | In France the central state is pervasive in a lot of areas
             | that are either local or privatized in the US.
        
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       | kimchidude wrote:
       | "Our friends the French" (the book's title in France) is a much
       | softer title.
        
         | pseudalopex wrote:
         | American soldiers griping about the French wouldn't have wanted
         | to read Our Friends the French. And French people tired of
         | American soldiers griping wouldn't have wanted to read 112
         | Gripes About the French.
        
       | fortran77 wrote:
       | The France of 75 years ago sounds like a paradise compared to the
       | France today, which I don't feel particularly safe in--at least
       | in Paris.
       | 
       | See: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Antisemitism_in_21st-
       | century_F...
       | 
       | and the fact that murder is not prosecuted:
       | 
       | https://www.nytimes.com/2021/04/17/world/europe/sarah-halimi...
        
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