[HN Gopher] 'Great Resignation' gains steam as return-to-work pl...
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       'Great Resignation' gains steam as return-to-work plans take effect
        
       Author : remt
       Score  : 327 points
       Date   : 2021-06-30 12:25 UTC (10 hours ago)
        
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       | ziggus wrote:
       | Fine, you want to WFH? Awesome, expect a pay cut. Part of a
       | modern white-collar salary has some expectations built into it,
       | like the fact that people need to be compensated for the
       | inconveniences of leaving their homes and coming to the office
       | and therefore having to pay for things like childcare, cars,
       | clothing, parking, etc.
       | 
       | Don't have those expenses anymore? Then why should I compensate
       | you the same as if you did?
       | 
       | Why should I pay you more than some other remote worker in India,
       | who'll work for a third of your pay?
        
         | CountDrewku wrote:
         | >Don't have those expenses anymore? Then why should I
         | compensate you the same as if you did?
         | 
         | Because you're paying people to complete a job, not for what
         | they do outside of work hours genius. Are you paying people who
         | have kids and longer commutes more money? Didn't think so.
         | 
         | >Why should I pay you more than some other remote worker in
         | India, who'll work for a third of your pay?
         | 
         | They're 1/3 as good. If that's such a good option then why
         | haven't you done it already?
         | 
         | Good luck getting qualified workers with that attitude.
         | Capitalism works both ways bud and isn't an employer only
         | benefit. Right now employees have the upper hand and if you
         | want to bring decent talent in you should probably be
         | competitive.
        
           | rblatz wrote:
           | What about being Indian makes someone 1/3 as good?
        
             | bluGill wrote:
             | Going rate for someone in India that is as good as me is
             | about 60% of my pay. So if they are making 1/3 as much as
             | me they are not as good as me (though not 1/3)
        
               | rocknor wrote:
               | > Going rate for someone in India that is as good as me
               | is about 60% of my pay
               | 
               | Ah, totally not an inflated sense of self worth... do you
               | have a source for that number? New grad salaries for even
               | graduates of top CS programs in India are between 1/4th
               | and 1/3rd of $100k [1]. For most other good graduates
               | it's lower.
               | 
               | So what you said is incredibly ignorant and arrogant. Do
               | better. You're not as special as you think.
               | 
               | https://www.glassdoor.com/Salary/Google-Software-
               | Engineer-Ba...
        
               | bluGill wrote:
               | I'm not a new grad though, I have many years of
               | experience, and a history of being worth paying. I'm not
               | allowed to see real numbers, but I'm told that real pay
               | is around that range by those who do in my company. Note
               | that in India people work longer hours, so per hour you
               | are getting down to less than 50% of my wages.
        
               | rocknor wrote:
               | > Note that in India people work longer hours
               | 
               | Grasping at straws here.
               | 
               | > I have many years of experience, and a history of being
               | worth paying
               | 
               | Seems like your ego can't handle it. Why do you think
               | that there aren't similar people elsewhere in the world?
               | You can't keep throwing random numbers without sources to
               | back them up. The reality is that your job can be done by
               | many others living in a country with lower COL with much,
               | much less money.
        
               | CountDrewku wrote:
               | >your job can be done by many others living in a country
               | with lower COL with much, much less money
               | 
               | Then why isn't it being done by them already? Do you
               | think companies hate saving money and just prefer to
               | throw it away on more expensive employees who aren't any
               | better?
               | 
               | Someone has an inflated self worth and ego issues but
               | it's not the guy you're responding to.
        
               | rblatz wrote:
               | I'll give you a hint, it's related to the parent topic.
               | Companies insisting on people being in the office and not
               | remote.
        
               | bluGill wrote:
               | The person I'm comparing to is essentially my equal in
               | ability, except for the things that are different between
               | living in the US vs India.
               | 
               | I know col is better in India, that isn't as big a deal
               | as you think because once you get past food and housing
               | to luxuries to buy things are more expensive there.
               | (Except servants are dirt cheap, while I wouldnt dream of
               | one here )
        
         | al2o3cr wrote:
         | Why should I pay you more than some other remote worker
         | in India, who'll work for a third of your pay?
         | 
         | You know they have plenty of bossy assholes in India too,
         | right? Hell, GPT3 could probably do 80% of most managers' jobs
         | already...
        
           | wait_a_minute wrote:
           | Yup. Some annoying middle manager threatens to hire cheap
           | labor abroad? Use GPT3 to automate that manager's job so we
           | can all get back to writing code. Lol
        
         | yohannparis wrote:
         | You are both right and wrong.
         | 
         | Sure, you can hire a remote worker in India for less; go ahead.
         | 
         | But how people are paid as nothing to do on how they spend it
         | to work. If someone has a partner that can take care of the
         | children at home and walk to work, are you going to pay them
         | less than someone who needs daycare, a car, a parking pass?
         | 
         | You pay to get skills executing a task. You put a price on it,
         | adjust it to market value, and done. Who cares if the worker is
         | in Bora-bora sleeping under the stars or in a suburban house in
         | LA commuting in a new leased car.
        
           | spacedcowboy wrote:
           | Exactly. As a software engineer (now for 30 years), I've
           | always considered myself a techno-whore. I sell technical-
           | skills for money, and I'm fine with that. I'm very good at
           | it, my stuff has been in several keynotes where the company
           | wants to show stuff off..
           | 
           | I'm not especially invested in my employer, other than the
           | stock price going up for all those lovely RSU's, but that
           | hasn't stopped me working hard for one company for the last
           | 16 years. The thing is though, that I work to live, not live
           | to work.
           | 
           | I don't get a free lunch, but TANSTAAFL is as true now as it
           | ever was; more important to me is that WFH (for me) is a
           | major benefit, and this past year has shown it is (a)
           | possible, (b) functional, and (c) oh so desirable.
           | 
           | So, for the first time in 16 years I'm seriously considering
           | jumping ship. There's a chance I'll be promoted in
           | October/November (one of those keynote things again) which
           | comes with a healthy up-tick in bonus/salary so I'll probably
           | stick around for that, but thereafter ? Close inspection of
           | the market will ensue.
        
         | PenguinCoder wrote:
         | Because you're still competing for me against local companies.
         | You need to pay market rate at least for the area , for the
         | work you want. Sure market rate in India is cheaper; but can
         | they do what you actually need, in the time you need it? AT the
         | time you need it ?
        
           | CountDrewku wrote:
           | The entire remote worker in India thing is a fear mongering
           | tactic. If it was so much cheaper and more efficient they
           | would have all done it years ago.
        
         | enoughalready wrote:
         | Salaries aren't based on expenses, but that'd be pretty neat if
         | they were. :D
         | 
         | With that said, I'd gladly make less than those that have to
         | work in the office.
        
           | wait_a_minute wrote:
           | You don't have to choose - plenty of remote jobs that are
           | competitive on pay too. There's lots of code to write.
        
         | bluGill wrote:
         | > Why should I pay you more than some other remote worker in
         | India, who'll work for a third of your pay?
         | 
         | Because someone as good as me in India makes a lot more than a
         | third of my pay. They do make a lot less them me, but not that
         | much less.
         | 
         | Because someone in India isn't in the same timezone as me. Call
         | me at your local 2pm and I'm wide awake. Call someone in India
         | then and you get them out of bed. Of course some reading this
         | will discover that India is a better timezone than mine. I work
         | with great people in Australia, India, and Mexico - it isn't
         | possible to have a meeting with all at the same time because
         | the timezones don't overlap right.
        
         | rblatz wrote:
         | Your last line is the part most people overlook. Offshoring and
         | outsourcing have typically come with quality trade offs, not
         | because Indians are somehow inferior engineers, but because
         | companies have used in person offices to paper over a lot of
         | process and communication issues.
        
       | 1270018080 wrote:
       | An anecdote: I quit my soon to be "hybrid" job to move to a fully
       | remote one.
        
         | rpmisms wrote:
         | Same. Management offered an exception, but I'd rather not be
         | the odd one out, so I just left.
        
       | Johnny555 wrote:
       | _95% of workers are considering changing jobs_
       | 
       | That seems awfully high unless "I thought about it, but decided
       | to stay here" counts as "considering".
       | 
       | In my peer group, it's probably closer to 20%. It's probably much
       | higher in low paid jobs like service workers, but I imagine that
       | most McDonalds workers consider changing jobs every day even
       | under normal circumstances.
        
         | staysaasy wrote:
         | In my experience people regularly spend years/decades on the
         | verge of quitting, occasionally even actively interviewing just
         | to confirm whether the grass is really greener elsewhere.
        
       | ladyattis wrote:
       | I think this is being over stated. I do think there's a trend
       | towards WFH but it's not WFH all the time. It seems the hybrid
       | model looks like the most viable model to keep HR and employees
       | happy. It's probably due to the fact that there's still a
       | childcare shortage which will put more pressure for one spouse to
       | stay home even in the summer. So if Google and company want to
       | get back to nearly 100% on-site then they'll have to invest
       | heavily into supporting their employees outside of the workplace
       | in things like childcare to make the transition more sustainable.
        
       | eric4smith wrote:
       | I think regardless of the stats, there is a movement of people
       | wanting a better work and life balance.
       | 
       | But what will this mean for society?
       | 
       | For one, I see in the immediate future a bit of a reduction in
       | commerce for a while. This is simply because people will have
       | less money To spend. Duh.
       | 
       | Still... humans always persist and adapt.
       | 
       | Therefore in maybe 5 years there will be more of a Renaissance
       | and a big change in how we work, shop and play which could be
       | positive in unexpected ways since some people will learn to live
       | with less.
       | 
       | Unfortunately though this will lead to a bigger segment of the
       | population that won't have enough to live on.
       | 
       | And the segment of the population that are "driven" to create
       | will get richer serving that lower segment in innovative ways.
       | 
       | So the wealth gap will increase for sure. And probably pretty
       | widely.
       | 
       | I know some of you reading this are getting triggered just about
       | now...
       | 
       | But what else do you expect? I'd love to hear how the next 5-10
       | years would play out.
       | 
       | But it would be silly to say that so many people stopping work
       | will not have some measurable (most likely negative) effect on
       | the economy and what we normally expect from society.
        
         | helen___keller wrote:
         | > I'd love to hear how the next 5-10 years would play out.
         | 
         | You, me, and every economist, analyst, and investor.
        
           | lotsofpulp wrote:
           | Assuming US military continues to be functional and at the
           | top, and US society remains relatively peaceful and
           | productive and reliable, then next 5 to 10 years will being
           | decrease in price of dollars and increase in price of other
           | asset classes.
           | 
           | Just like it has for many decades now. Some things that may
           | de-rail this are war, sudden demographic changes, societal
           | instability, weather catastrophes and/or changing weather
           | patterns, or some other destabilizing force that causes the
           | US to no longer be the premiere option for "order" compared
           | to the rest of the world.
        
         | onlyrealcuzzo wrote:
         | It's hard for people to have less money to spend when there's
         | 5x as much M1 [1], and 32% more M2 [2], and for the entirety of
         | the last year - the personal savings rate was at an all time
         | high [3].
         | 
         | People have more money now than ever before. I wouldn't expect
         | a reduction in commerce in aggregate because ~3% of the
         | workforce quit temporarily or even permanently.
         | 
         | I won't be surprised if inflation gets so high that there's a
         | reduction real terms. But that hasn't happened yet.
         | 
         | [1] https://fred.stlouisfed.org/series/M1SL
         | 
         | [2] https://fred.stlouisfed.org/series/M2SL
         | 
         | [3] https://fred.stlouisfed.org/series/PSAVERT
        
           | mahogany wrote:
           | How did the M1 supply increase $12+ trillion? That's
           | surprising to me, especially when it doesn't include bank
           | reserves, and anyway it's much more than even the total
           | amount of quantitative easing from what I can tell.
        
             | onlyrealcuzzo wrote:
             | The Fed's balance sheet increased by $4T.
             | 
             | Federal deficit was $3.1T
             | 
             | Bank lending for mortgage originations increases M1 - this
             | increased by over $1T.
             | 
             | Total = $8.1T
             | 
             | Since the Fed bought most of the government's debt, though,
             | a lot of that $3.1T government deficit should be included
             | in the $4T balance sheet increase of the Fed.
             | 
             | So this could possibly only account for half of it. I'm not
             | sure.
             | 
             | Other personal debt (which includes auto loans) isn't even
             | up another $1T. Margin debt in stocks is up $260Bn. Anyone
             | else know what the rest is?
        
         | seneca wrote:
         | Meta-response, but what is with the carriage return after every
         | sentence, (and sometimes in the middle)? It's a jarring way to
         | write.
        
           | eric4smith wrote:
           | Haha good point. I learned to do it so it's easier for people
           | to read instead of a wall of text.
           | 
           | People usually get bored with a wall of text.
           | 
           | My sentences are longer on desktop - but I was writing on
           | mobile now.
        
             | mikestew wrote:
             | _I learned to do it so it's easier for people to read
             | instead of a wall of text._
             | 
             | There's a new technology call "paragraphs" that a lot of
             | people are using these days. I don't know that it'll catch
             | on long-term, but it might be a worthy middle-
             | 
             | road
             | 
             | between walls of text
             | 
             | and unnecessary line feeds.
        
             | polynomial wrote:
             | I am
             | 
             | really glad
             | 
             | not everybody does this
        
               | okprod wrote:
               | Technically their text's line breaks are at the end of
               | finished sentences. I don't write as staggered but after
               | 20 years out of school I've also shifted toward writing
               | mostly in bullet points.
        
               | twic wrote:
               | I have separated
               | 
               | the sentences
               | 
               | that were in
               | 
               | the paragraph
        
           | AznHisoka wrote:
           | It makes it easier to read. I don't like reading big
           | paragraphs and text that span all the way across the screen.
           | I wished more people was like OP.
        
           | sn41 wrote:
           | Reminded me of good-old Troff pages.
        
           | saiojd wrote:
           | In my opinion it's an instinctive response to HN's line
           | spacing being too low, and paragraph width being too high.
           | But That being said, the people here are disproportionally
           | used to starting at packed lined of code so the problem
           | doesn't get picked up.
        
       | dalbasal wrote:
       | "Great Resignation" is an annoying term, but IMO this is a
       | current development worth following. Just.. there must be a
       | better way of following than these articles.
       | 
       | These're put together like school projects. Some anecdotal human
       | story, some quickly summarised generalizations and speculation,
       | some "quick stats" from 3rd party sources that I suspect they
       | don't study very deeply. It's rote.
       | 
       | Anyway... the timing of the current labour & money markets to WFH
       | necessities throws a lot of cards in the air. The second and
       | third order implications of WFH are pretty vast... pretty
       | unpredictable too.
        
       | okprod wrote:
       | Obviously depends on the sector. I have a number of friends at JP
       | Morgan and other banks/funds, none are considering leaving over
       | no, or less, remote work.
        
         | aynyc wrote:
         | Funny you said that. Two of my friends just resigned. They
         | aren't moving to low cost areas, they are staying in NYC. They
         | just got jobs with hybrid approach that they like.
        
       | donohoe wrote:
       | Am 'flagging' this article. Even if true, it is not clearly based
       | on anything substantive IMHO.
        
         | okamiueru wrote:
         | Care to explain why you think that? The sources in the article
         | are clearly stated.
        
       | api wrote:
       | WFH has the potential to end the worst macroeconomic trend of the
       | last 20-30 years, which is the "you have to be in one of four or
       | five cities to do something" trend. We have to fight for it.
       | Resign, resign, resign.
       | 
       | The four of five cities where you "must live" are: San Francisco
       | (Bay Area), New York, Los Angeles, Seattle, and perhaps Boston.
       | Nothing happens anywhere else, or so goes the meme that has been
       | deeply embedded into the culture of GenX and younger.
       | 
       | It results in "no good jobs or unaffordable housing, pick one."
       | Without good jobs it's impossible to build your career. Without
       | affordable housing it's impossible to accumulate wealth or raise
       | a family. The working class of the top-tier cities is pushed into
       | poverty as well as their housing costs start to become >50% (or
       | more!) of their wages.
       | 
       | Oh, and all the interesting culture that made those cities "cool"
       | to begin with gets priced out and leaves.
       | 
       | Building more housing in these cities won't work. The fact is
       | that if we try to cram all opportunity into 4-5 cities there is
       | nothing that will make those cities affordable save some massive
       | government-subsidized sci-fi super-arcology housing project (that
       | would probably suck to actually live in). If we build more then
       | more people will come, the city FOMO feedback loop will intensify
       | in the culture, and prices will go even higher.
       | 
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Law_of_rent
       | 
       | The "everywhere else" cities all lose too as their talent base
       | leaves, forcing companies to leave as well. Everyone loses except
       | property owners and rentiers in top-tier cities.
       | 
       | WFH can geographically diversify. Over time if some returning to
       | office occurs, people may look for jobs _in their new local
       | areas_ pumping more talent into the talent pools of those cities.
       | Capital and VC is already more willing to geographically
       | diversify than ever before, so the old  "you can only raise money
       | in the Bay Area" canard is just about dead.
       | 
       | Edit: this hyperconcentration is also a contributor to America's
       | political polarization, since it turns everywhere into a bubble
       | where people are surrounded only by people who think like them.
       | The physical community becomes a filter bubble.
       | 
       | I also wonder just how large a contributor to wealth inequality
       | this could be. It seems like wealth inequality has exploded over
       | the same time period that the "you must be in one of a few
       | cities" meme became deeply embedded in culture.
       | 
       | Yes there has always been a draw to the big "alpha world cities,"
       | but the trend I'm talking about is beyond that. Starting in the
       | late 90s to early 2000s it became the idea that if you were not
       | in one of those cities you couldn't do anything at all. You
       | simply "must" be there.
        
         | ishjoh wrote:
         | This is what I've been turning over my head for the last few
         | months. This is an incredible opportunity for younger
         | generations to build wealth and live the American dream. If
         | software folks aren't forced to live in the 5 American alpha
         | cities they'll be able to buy houses in more affordable
         | markets, they'll be able to have children, and they'll be able
         | to save for retirement.
         | 
         | What I've been struggling with is how can we amplify this
         | message and get it into the mainstream consciousness. This is a
         | huge opportunity for older generations in leadership positions
         | to help younger generations.
        
       | cm2187 wrote:
       | Keeping in mind the job market has been essentially frozen for
       | over a year. We will likely see movements both ways (company
       | making redundancies that were on hold because of the pandemic,
       | and people making moves they couldn't do because of hiring
       | freezes). So the numbers may have little to do with return to the
       | office.
        
         | nerfhammer wrote:
         | Yea I bet it's just everyone who would have changed jobs anyway
         | over the previous 18 months feel safer doing it now
        
       | sgt wrote:
       | Great way for companies that allow WFH to gain access to skilled
       | employees at a lower price.
        
       | kaycebasques wrote:
       | Here's a blog post outlining why I left Google this month (June
       | 2021) to take a 1-year sabbatical:
       | https://kayce.basqu.es/sabbatical/prologue/
       | 
       | (Per AnIdiotOnTheNet's feedback here is a summary of my
       | motivations and a compare/contrast with the ideas mentioned in
       | the CNBC post) The main thing for me was the prospect of having
       | kids in the next 5 years. It doesn't seem like it will ever get
       | easier to have a sabbatical than it is right now. It helped me to
       | think of the decision as a tradeoff between money, energy, and
       | time. When you have a full-time job you optimize for money and
       | sacrifice your energy and time. Taking a sabbatical means that
       | I'm choosing to sacrifice money in order for more energy and
       | time. Maybe this is helpful way to think about burnout: burnout
       | is sacrificing too much time and energy for money. Not wanting to
       | commute any longer was a secondary decision but not my primary
       | concern. The article states "Either they're unfulfilled from
       | their jobs or their priorities have changed", I would say both of
       | those were relevant in my experience. Last this article is
       | suggesting that people are resigning because they have better
       | opportunities elsewhere. I do worry that I'm taking this
       | sabbatical as a terrible time. It could be a great time to switch
       | jobs and lock in a full-remote position. I think there are two
       | general groups of people participating in this potential "great
       | resignation": sabbatical / gap year people like me who are doing
       | it from a "life is short" philosophy and others who are doing it
       | to land a better job. The motivations to resign are probably very
       | different depending on what group you're in.
       | 
       | Edit: Someone left an angry comment (deleted a few seconds ago)
       | stating that I keep linking to this post and it seems like I'm
       | doing it as a bot. I will note here that I'm not a bot and I'm
       | sorry if my comments are coming off as robotic, but I put a
       | tremendous amount of effort into that blog post and I'm just
       | trying to share my perspective without spending a lot of time on
       | one-off comments. The fact that this conversation is coming up so
       | frequently on page #1 shows that a lot of people are thinking
       | about it. And because I actually took the leap I figure that my
       | post is a good "skin in the game" anecdotal explanation of why
       | one person actually participated in this "great resignation".
       | (Edit 2: I put in a summary of my blog post and a
       | compare/contrast of my motivations with the CNBC article's
       | content so this last paragraph is now obsolete)
        
         | AnIdiotOnTheNet wrote:
         | Personally I don't have a high tolerance for the "look at this
         | link" style of post. It's low-effort and feels like an ad even
         | if it isn't.
         | 
         | Now, if said link is accompanied by a brief overview of the
         | contents or some other insight or commentary, that's much more
         | acceptable.
         | 
         | For the record, I did not down vote you, I'm just offering
         | perspective on why someone might have.
        
           | kaycebasques wrote:
           | That is understandable, thank you for the feedback. I'll add
           | some more context to the original comment.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | gaws wrote:
         | I'd like to follow your blog, but I don't see an RSS feed link.
         | Will you consider adding one?
        
           | kaycebasques wrote:
           | Thank you for reading and yes I can do that. If you want to
           | contact me [1] I will let you know when it's up and running.
           | 
           | [1] https://kayce.basqu.es/contact
        
           | Tyr42 wrote:
           | atom also works.
        
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       | a-dub wrote:
       | interesting. yolo-inflation.
        
       | null_object wrote:
       | I honestly don't know whether these articles are over-stating
       | their case, and neither do I know how typical my own experience
       | is, but for some reason it bothers me that the tone of the HN
       | discussion is so reflexively dismissive.
       | 
       | I understand that a lot of people will respond to a question of
       | whether they _intend_ to quit their job with a _' you bet!'_ even
       | at the best of times, but I'm seeing a lot of people quitting and
       | switching right now, as different company plans are crystallized
       | for the 'new normal'.
       | 
       | In my current company (for another 2 months) I was interviewed to
       | join a team of 12 tech developers, and a couple of months ago the
       | first of the switchers quit to leave for another company
       | specifically because they were guaranteeing remote-first work.
       | 
       | Then another _five_ of us quit over the following few weeks. We
       | met up last week for a goodbye lunch in the park: half the team
       | that I joined a year ago leaving the company over the Spring and
       | Summer.
       | 
       | Is a 50% quit-rate normal? Maybe each of us had slightly
       | different priorities and plans for the future? But I do know for
       | sure that people are reflecting more than I've ever experienced
       | before, about their work environment, the balance in their lives,
       | and prioritizing other things than 40-50 hours each week sitting
       | in front of a screen, inside an office.
        
         | mdorazio wrote:
         | I can only speak from personal experience, but fwiw I'm
         | currently consulting with 2 non-tech Fortune 500 companies.
         | Both have implemented "hybrid" return to office policies where
         | employees have to live within 100 miles of the office and be
         | able to come in 1 day a week or 1 day a month depending on
         | team.
         | 
         | I've talked with executives in charge of large teams at both
         | companies about this issue and so far it looks like the actual
         | resignation rate due to the policy is less than 10%. Hiring, on
         | the other hand, has gotten significantly harder and candidates
         | are citing need for wfh as a reason they're not interested in
         | open roles.
         | 
         | So, personally I think tech workers are overrepresented in the
         | "wfh or quit" discussions, but there's a longer-term shift of
         | some kind that's going to play out, especially in hiring.
        
           | notional wrote:
           | > employees have to live within 100 miles of the office and
           | be able to come in 1 day a week or 1 day a month depending on
           | team.
           | 
           | This is much more reasonable than what I've seen most places
           | offer. I don't mind the sound of that at all!
        
             | sethammons wrote:
             | if one day a month, just fly in. I fly in for a week per
             | quarter (pre-covid). My main office is in SoCal, but I live
             | several states away. Budgets pay for the travel.
        
           | matt_s wrote:
           | Purposefully designed office time would be immensely better
           | for folks that need dedicated time to do work.
           | 
           | That means better organized meetings with a purpose rather
           | than a bunch of weekly meetings that are there just cuz.
           | 
           | I think it is some personalities just need human interaction
           | more than others and when they are in management/executive
           | roles they want people in the office.
        
           | quaffapint wrote:
           | I would love hybrid. Going in a day a week would be great.
           | Enough time to plan things and then get to working on it
           | remotely. Unfortunately my company is going full 100% back in
           | the office citing that's where everyone will be in a couple
           | years.
        
           | pjc50 wrote:
           | > "hybrid" return to office policies where employees have to
           | live within 100 miles of the office and be able to come in 1
           | day a week or 1 day a month depending on team.
           | 
           | This is where I suspect a lot of places are going to end up
           | in the medium term. I'm not back to the office in the first
           | place, and I'm aware that I have a nice office and moderate
           | commute, but I still want _some_ wfh time, as well as _some_
           | time seeing my colleagues. A balance.
           | 
           | The problem is that in a hyper-optimizing environment balance
           | is something to be eliminated.
        
             | Bishizel wrote:
             | The problem is that the req to live within 100mi doesn't
             | allow workers to fully engage in location arbitrage in the
             | way the workers would like.
             | 
             | I think most people want a better work/life balance, which
             | is what all this ultimately represents. I imagine the
             | eventual long term settle is somewhere more in the "wfh,
             | but with team gatherings for a few days once a month" in a
             | lot of industries.
        
               | bluGill wrote:
               | There is one exception to your location arbitrage: those
               | who want a hobby farm. if you need to go to the office
               | every day your hobby farm will be close to the city. If
               | you only go in once a week a 1.5 hour drive doesn't sound
               | so bad and you can move farther out meaning more land for
               | the same number of people who want a horse or whatever.
               | 
               | This is only a tiny subset of people though, and is more
               | the exception that proves the rule.
        
               | 0xffff2 wrote:
               | If you're in a major metro like the bay area, 1.5 hours
               | still doesn't get you far enough to afford anything like
               | enough land for a hobby farm on anything short of a FANNG
               | salary.
        
               | mdorazio wrote:
               | I think you nailed it, but an added wrinkle is that I've
               | seen a lot of people (myself included) have _worse_ work
               | /life balance with wfh. When there's no separation
               | between you and "the office" it's very easy to just never
               | stop working. The number of night time emails and after
               | hours meetings I've gotten skyrocketed after everyone
               | started working from home, and it's a similar situation
               | across my broader friends & coworkers cohort.
        
               | ta345iuyr wrote:
               | That's a personal problem for you to solve by setting
               | boundaries, honestly. I doubt those late emails will ever
               | not be a thing, I've worked at a lot of places in things
               | other than software and it never ends, regardless of
               | working from home or office.
        
           | onion2k wrote:
           | 10% of people leaving during a time when hiring has gotten
           | significantly harder sounds like a _serious_ problem for any
           | company.
        
             | mdorazio wrote:
             | It's really not. Normal attrition rate is probably more
             | than that and a good portion of the people leaving over wfh
             | policies probably would have left for other reasons anyway.
             | So the added resignations over wfh aren't a huge burden
             | _yet_. It will become a big problem if hiring continues to
             | be very difficult, but we won't know if that trend holds
             | for some time.
        
             | sokoloff wrote:
             | A greater percentage than that leave every year anyway, so
             | it doesn't sound all that dire. (I'd love for it to be that
             | dire as we've gone remote-first with pretty good support
             | for that, but I don't think it's actually going to be as
             | massive a tailwind for us as this and similar articles
             | suggest.)
        
               | akiselev wrote:
               | IME 10% turnover is basically background noise of the
               | unavoidable "my spouse got a better job and its right
               | next to the kid's college" sort. That's practically a
               | near-unicorn-level employer with lots of money and
               | negligible amount of dysfunction.
        
           | makeitdouble wrote:
           | For now tech workers are at the edge, but I think if a
           | company lets its engineering team have it, the other roles
           | will come for it as well.
           | 
           | We've already seen it before the pandemic: where engineers
           | had one day or half a day a week of remote as an exception,
           | it generally resulted in a push to have it applied to the
           | other roles that could work from home (marketing etc.)
        
           | cableshaft wrote:
           | Job hunting right now.
           | 
           | I know if I get two job offers and one is any form of WFH
           | Hybrid (or a "you can _probably_ work it out with your
           | manager ") and the other is 100% Remote, I'm taking the 100%
           | remote position, unless the hybrid is like 2x the pay.
           | 
           | Right now there's a lot of recruiters trying to sell me on
           | various nebulous hybrid positions (sounds like the companies
           | don't really know or have committed to anything just yet, or
           | are afraid to let potential hires know what they're really
           | planning), but there's equally as many recruiters contacting
           | me for 100% remote (and plans to stay that way) as well.
           | 
           | I don't mind meeting up with other employees on the
           | occasional fun team-building outing, but I really don't want
           | to work in an office again.
           | 
           | I likely have permanent Tinnitus in one ear thanks to my time
           | in open offices and I had to turn music up to block out
           | multiple conversations to concentrate, for one reason why I'm
           | not in a hurry to go back, let alone there still being
           | uncertainty about this or future pandemics (I'm vaccinated,
           | but delta or delta plus or the next crazy variant might still
           | fuck me up, and I don't want to be stuck having to go to an
           | office when I start feeling uncomfortable about the spread of
           | those).
           | 
           | Also I don't want to deal with paying and transporting my
           | dogs to doggy daycare everyday, or spend 2+ hours a day
           | driving to and from work. I've done plenty of that in the
           | past, and it always sucked.
        
             | slumdev wrote:
             | > Right now there's a lot of recruiters trying to sell me
             | on various nebulous hybrid positions (sounds like the
             | companies don't really know or have committed to anything
             | just yet, or are afraid to let potential hires know what
             | they're really planning), but there's equally as many
             | recruiters contacting me for 100% remote (and plans to stay
             | that way) as well.
             | 
             | A recruiter (household name tech but not FAANG) pitched me
             | on a position that was "1 day a week" in an office 300
             | miles from my home.
             | 
             | I knew my conditions* wouldn't be met, so I turned him
             | down.
             | 
             | *The company covers my airfare and meals. I fly out and
             | back same day. The morning outbound never departs before
             | 8AM. The return never arrives after 6PM.
        
             | francisofascii wrote:
             | > companies don't really know or have committed to anything
             | just yet
             | 
             | That is a good point. My company doesn't know or has not
             | set a return policy. So I imagine it is hard for recruiters
             | and hiring managers to give an honest answer. And I wonder
             | if it is better to wait until more companies have set a
             | firm policy.
        
             | Bishizel wrote:
             | I think a lot of people are doing this same thing (I know
             | several personally). Getting 2 hrs back a day is amazing,
             | and after having it for a year it is really hard to give
             | up.
             | 
             | > I don't mind meeting up with other employees on the
             | occasional fun team-building outing, but I really don't
             | want to work in an office again.
             | 
             | I think this is probably where a lot of companies will
             | settle out; wfh, but with monthly or quarterly
             | workshops/meetups for teams.
        
           | beerandt wrote:
           | >Both have implemented "hybrid" return to office policies
           | where employees have to live within 100 miles of the office
           | and be able to come in 1 day a week or 1 day a month
           | depending on team.
           | 
           | This sounds a bit too much like jobs that claim 10% or 25%
           | travel that pull a bait and switch, or don't hire the 2nd
           | opening for your position, so your responsibly to "cover" for
           | the dept really means double work, or same amount of work but
           | more like 60-75% travel.
           | 
           | Same with jobs the promise of a 40 hr week, but ends up being
           | 60 hrs to handle everything that's your responsibility.
           | 
           | So my question is: what guarantees or addl compensation are
           | people getting (in writing) to keep the one day a month from
           | turning into more?
           | 
           | Excuses like: "oh that one day is for our staff meeting- if
           | your team leader wants weekly update meetings in the office
           | you need to be there"
           | 
           | Or "you're responsible for coordinating and meeting with your
           | team as needed to fulfill the responsibilities of your
           | position"
           | 
           | Etc
           | 
           | Extra day off or extra days salary or just compensation for
           | extra commute? Or just put up with it til it crosses a line?
        
             | zippergz wrote:
             | This is why I am glad to both be 100% remote, and be so far
             | from the office nearest that there is no way they could
             | argue with a straight face that I need to come in. They
             | could fire me if they decide they don't want remote people
             | any more, and that's fine. But at least there's no pressure
             | to come in to the office "one day a month" creeping to "one
             | day a week" creeping to "three days a week."
        
         | redisman wrote:
         | It's also not just WFH. Covid made many people think hard about
         | their lives with all the extra idle time they had and traumatic
         | and world changing events tend to do that. I left my job in
         | February because I realized I wasn't happy and could do better.
         | I had just slowly gotten used to the insanity but covid snapped
         | me out of it
        
           | [deleted]
        
         | foobarian wrote:
         | Interesting game-theoretic play: play chicken with return to
         | work plans. Big co promises remote-first work indefinitely,
         | scoops a bunch of talent from competitors who return to office
         | first, then later go back on their word when nobody else is
         | offering those terms. Even if some get to stay remote new hires
         | may not be offered that.
         | 
         | Corollary I guess is that some of us might be able to lock in a
         | remote-only position if we act now.
        
           | whatshisface wrote:
           | They could pull the same trick with pay, healthcare, or
           | anything else they offer when their employees are starting.
           | There's a reason they don't do that.
        
             | foobarian wrote:
             | They may not alter the existing terms but they could change
             | future offers they make.
        
           | analognoise wrote:
           | As someone who wants to stay remote, this theory gave me
           | anxiety.
        
             | dougmwne wrote:
             | It's not really realistic. Remote workers would often have
             | no intention to relocate. If a company changes its policy
             | later, the majority of those people will just quit. It
             | would also create a ton of bad will and so there is no real
             | advantage for a company to self-immolate like that. Hiring
             | is hard, but a mass exodus of your best employees is
             | harder.
        
           | slumdev wrote:
           | Requiring someone to come in to the office when it's been
           | promised all along that he would be WFH permanently?
           | 
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Constructive_dismissal
        
       | fullshark wrote:
       | Talk is cheap
        
       | vuldin wrote:
       | Many look at this current situation and draw conclusions around
       | how much office-centered work employees are willing to put up
       | with, which is great. But others are looking at this as an
       | opportunity... workers leaving companies means openings at those
       | companies.
        
       | vmception wrote:
       | Keep boosting those compensation packages
        
       | eigenhombre wrote:
       | I have started to go back (my choice) to the office roughly
       | 1x/week, to a downtown Chicago hi-rise, still mostly empty.
       | 
       | It's been pretty nice -- 9 mile bike ride, then squatting in a
       | small office or conference room with a view over the Lake, maybe
       | 1-2 colleagues to have lunch with or a "water-cooler" discussion,
       | all on a floor that was laid out to support hundreds of people.
       | 
       | I fully expect this to change once more people are there. The
       | layout is mostly open floor plan, with anonymous desks in rows.
       | Noise always was a problem before we all started staying home.
       | I'm lucky enough that I can choose how often to go in, but a
       | reading of this thread shows that many aren't as lucky.
       | 
       | What it highlights for me is that how quality of the workspace
       | really does matter (especially acoustics), and that companies
       | must compete along this axis, along with many others (location,
       | WFH fraction, compensation, etc.).
        
       | iandanforth wrote:
       | Mozilla serves as an interesting example here. They are very much
       | a Silicon Valley company and have a ton of that same energy. Even
       | before the pandemic they had a globally distributed workforce and
       | so had to develop processes that brought people together. Twice a
       | year, for example, they had a company all-hands event to bring
       | everyone to the same place. Usually somewhere fun. Now they
       | aren't a _large_ company by any means but if the  'culture'
       | you're worried about preserving is a group of fun-loving, hard-
       | working, highly talented and motivated engineers committed to a
       | goal that's ultimately beneficial for the world then Mozilla is a
       | pretty damn good example that distributed can work.
       | 
       | Now, due to both economics and the pandemic Moz had shut offices
       | and even more people are fully remote. We'll have to see if that
       | crosses some previously hidden tipping point where the culture is
       | eroded because the MV office doesn't exist, but I suspect not.
       | It's the mission, people, and processes which make it a great
       | place to work.*
       | 
       | * My knowledge is second hand, I don't work for Mozilla or speak
       | for them.
        
         | cmrdporcupine wrote:
         | Anecdotally I personally know several people who have left
         | Mozilla in the last year, and not because they were laid off
         | but because they were very frustrated with how things had been
         | going internally (not necessarily with remote work.) They just
         | went through a huge round of layoffs, but I see job postings
         | from them constantly. Somethings not right over there.
         | 
         | I interviewed with them a couple years ago and it didn't work
         | out; I feel like I dodged a bullet.
         | 
         | As for offices/WFH -- in that case I was specifically attracted
         | to a hybrid model (work remotely but go into the local office
         | 2-3 days a week). I would have not been interested in a purely
         | remote model. I suspect many companies flirting with pure-
         | remote will run into this.
        
       | cletus wrote:
       | So I have one bone to pick with these posts talking about "x% of
       | people _considering_ quitting ". That actually doesn't mean
       | anything. People consider doing lots of things all the time that
       | will never happen. It's no different to using a Twitter poll as a
       | source.
       | 
       | Yesterday I saw someone post about JP Morgan doing this and that
       | person was suggesting a "hack" of choosing not to disclose your
       | vaccination status to get out of a return to office (or at least
       | delay it). It's worth noting that the EEOC has ruled private
       | companies can fire people for not being vaccinated so proceed
       | with caution.
       | 
       | As for the FAANGs, I do see some value in physical presence with
       | your coworkers. This does allow interactions that otherwise
       | wouldn't happen. The food and amenities has value. There's no
       | doubt in my mind that a physically colocated team, all other
       | things being equal, will have a closer team dynamic than a remote
       | one.
       | 
       | But... times have changed. As software engineers in particular,
       | we're in a fairly privileged position where we have a lot of
       | options on where can work. Several big companies have already
       | seen what way the winds are blowing and allow permanent remote
       | work (eg FB, Twitter and even Google is in the early stages of
       | this).
       | 
       | So you as an individual software engineer have the power to be an
       | agent for change if this is something you care about and that is
       | to vote with your feet if the company you work for forces your
       | hand.
       | 
       | Personally, I lived in NYC for 10 years and there's a lot I liked
       | about it but it reaches the point where you're choosing to live
       | somewhere old, small and probably noisy but convenient or putting
       | up with a commute, which really just robs you of time. At least
       | in the tri-state area you can read or something. In the Bay Area
       | where many have to drive, it's worse. And commutes are often much
       | longer.
       | 
       | So I know I've made a lifestyle choice to move somewhere cheaper
       | and warmer.
       | 
       | But a "great resignation"? I don't see it. Many don't have the
       | options you do working in tech so they'll grumble about it but
       | will comply and go back. I do wish we'd stop reporting people
       | "considering" quitting as meaning anything at all however.
        
       | lumost wrote:
       | It's WFH and higher than expected inflation. As an employee
       | you're likely facing substantial cost increases in food and
       | potentially shelter. People haven't been traveling all that much
       | during COVID - but I'd bet that travel and other expenses are
       | going to see higher inflation in the near future.
       | 
       | Companies have grown accustomed to a 2% "performance" raise. This
       | year it's suspect that 2% keeps you treading water. Why wouldn't
       | we expect employees to move?
        
       | thekingofravens wrote:
       | I see everyone quitting jobs like FedEx that honestly have
       | nothing to do with remote work (it was never an option) and still
       | probably counting towards this statistic. There are larger forces
       | at play than that debate right now.
        
       | toss1 wrote:
       | Right, so management will insist on ending WFH, key workers will
       | resign in droves, management will convene meetings to understand
       | the issue, resulting in new more liberal & permanent WFH policies
       | 
       | In short, they could avoid all the high costs related to
       | unnecessary employee turnover by doing the same thing up front,
       | but will fail to do so.
       | 
       | And the rule of thumb that you must switch jobs to advance salary
       | & benefits is still true. The only way around it is to get the
       | new offer and ask current employer to match it (this time WFH
       | instead of salary), but that only works once per employer.
        
       | acid__ wrote:
       | Eh, I love my company and I love my coworkers and I'm
       | unbelievably excited to see them in person.
       | 
       | In fact, I've already started going back into the office (since
       | April) and 1) my productivity is easily 5-10x what it was before
       | 2) I've had amazing so many conversations that never happened
       | over zoom -- both productive and personal - and as more of our
       | company's employees return over the coming months I'm even
       | excited for more.
       | 
       | Most other engineers here that I've talked to have expressed the
       | same sentiment. Over 50% of our SF office (hundreds of employees)
       | has already voluntarily signed up to return over the next few
       | weeks.
       | 
       | Maybe I'll switch to a WFH company when I'm ready to start a
       | family or something, but for now -- I love my team and I can't
       | wait to all be back together.
        
         | moistly wrote:
         | You are super-productive _and_ you are spending a lot of time
         | having amazing conversations. That makes sense. Yup. Must be
         | working sixteen hour days.
        
           | acid__ wrote:
           | You sound overly dismissive and uncharitable. There are many
           | opportunities that occur when one doesn't need to turn every
           | conversation into a 30 min video call. As one example, my
           | office (like many others) provides lunch.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | toast42 wrote:
         | > my productivity is easily 5-10x what it was before
         | 
         | How are you measuring this? Those numbers seem incredulous.
        
           | frumper wrote:
           | well he gets done by 11am(8am-11am?) so 8 hours into 3 hours,
           | 8/3 != 5x let alone 10x, sounds like maybe an exaggeration
        
             | acid__ wrote:
             | Wait, who in tech is starting work at 8am? My average day
             | starts around 10. 10x is an exaggeration to be sure, but I
             | will happily defend 5x.
        
             | [deleted]
        
           | wait_a_minute wrote:
           | I'm pretty sure it's BS propaganda.
        
             | acid__ wrote:
             | "BS propaganda"? What would I possibly have to gain by
             | lying...? Other people are allowed to have differing
             | perspectives and opinions.
        
             | tomtheelder wrote:
             | Oh, get a grip. Have you considered that other people might
             | have different experiences from you?
             | 
             | The switch to WFH _destroyed_ my productivity and made me
             | extremely depressed. At a previous company I switched to
             | remote because of a move and the same thing happened, so
             | it's not the pandemic that's causing it either.
             | 
             | Different people are different. For me, WFH is absolutely
             | soul sucking.
        
           | acid__ wrote:
           | I'd maybe get 1-2 hours of semi-productive time per day in.
           | Write code 1 or 2 times per week. Honestly, I was pretty
           | shocked at how I could get away with that and it was very
           | demotivating to not have any reason to do more.
           | 
           | Now I'm firing on all cylinders for 7-9 hours a day,
           | completing the entirety of a previous WFH day by 11 AM, and
           | it feels _really_ good.
        
         | dougmwne wrote:
         | Glad it's working well for you. I'm the polar opposite and I
         | hope we both will continue to have a plentiful choice of
         | workplaces where we can work in the style that's best for each
         | of us.
        
           | acid__ wrote:
           | >I hope we both will continue to have a plentiful choice of
           | workplaces where we can work in the style that's best for
           | each of us.
           | 
           | 100% agreed! The sudden industry-wide acceptance of WFH is
           | very welcome, and I'm glad that you and people like you are
           | gaining many more options for WFH-friendly employers.
           | 
           | There's a good chance I'll develop a strong WFH preference
           | over the years as my life priorities change, too. Always nice
           | to have options.
        
       | 2OEH8eoCRo0 wrote:
       | Lovely. When I quit my job and started searching for new work the
       | Covid-19 pandemic began. Now that I quit and begin searching
       | again everyone is quitting. My timing is impeccable.
        
       | 6510 wrote:
       | I imagine mobility to do a lot of economic optimization. All
       | those jobs held by overqualified people who would be more
       | valuable elsewhere.
        
       | frankbreetz wrote:
       | >>a whopping 95% of workers are now considering changing jobs,
       | and 92% are even willing to switch industries to find the right
       | position, according to a recent report by jobs site Monster.com.
       | 
       | This seems very high to me and little suspect, what is even more
       | suspect is that they didn't link the report.
       | 
       | I have seen a few of these articles, but no good report that
       | tracks this over time and all the articles dismiss or omit the
       | possibility that more people are quitting because there is build
       | from the past year and half where people were afraid to switch
       | jobs. I think this is most likely.
        
         | bryanrasmussen wrote:
         | >This seems very high to me and little suspect, what is even
         | more suspect is that they didn't link the report.
         | 
         | does a jobs site have a reason to maybe exaggerate that number?
        
         | Bombthecat wrote:
         | It could be true, if asked, a lot of people will be like : yeah
         | yeah, sure i will change jobs! Any moment now!
         | 
         | Did you apply?
         | 
         | No no
         | 
         | Do you plan to?
         | 
         | Any day now!
        
           | KyleBrandt wrote:
           | I think from a fanicial perspective this is because salaried
           | (or salary like) positions are sort of illiquid. Kind of like
           | houses, moving is a pain so people often do not want to sell
           | unless the profit is significant.
        
         | giantg2 wrote:
         | I mean, if the poll was on the monster website it makes perfect
         | sense. People are only going there to post or apply to jobs. 5%
         | posting and 95% applying sounds about right to me.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | enoughalready wrote:
       | My work had plans to return to the office, but it's looking like
       | the delta variant is going to allow us to kick the can down the
       | road a bit longer. Looking at the UK numbers ramp up, despite 80%
       | of their population being vaccinated, it seems likely the US will
       | experience a bigger wave of infections.
        
       | underseacables wrote:
       | I think WFH is also primed for abuse, but I haven't heard
       | anything from companies of what they are going to do, or what
       | employees are going to do, about preventing and avoiding abuse.
       | it's easy and rather flip and just say well if you don't do your
       | job you're going to get fired, what does that mean exactly, and
       | how long would it take? I think there's also a trust issue, a lot
       | of people who want to return to the office just don't trust their
       | colleagues to actually do the work from home.
        
         | CountDrewku wrote:
         | What abuse? Do you think people sitting the office are actually
         | doing work at all time? Anyone who pays attention at the office
         | knows people are constantly wasting time socializing and
         | surfing the web. It's all a facade to pretend like more work is
         | being done. If anything COVID uncovered the fact that most
         | modern jobs are unnecessary, or can be completed in very little
         | time and don't require a 40 hour work week.
         | 
         | The focus should be on whether goals and projects are being
         | completed not how much people have their asses in office
         | chairs.
        
         | dangus wrote:
         | It's only primed for abuse if your company is so incompetent
         | that it has no idea what your actual job is supposed to be.
         | 
         | For a company like that, how hard is it _really_ for someone
         | inside the physical office to hide the fact that they 're
         | watching cat videos all day? What does the physical office
         | space have anything to do with it? We basically carry around
         | portable entertainment devices that can fit in our pocket.
         | 
         | On top of that, a lot of companies have sophisticated HR
         | software that monitors employee activity, some that even takes
         | periodic screenshots.
         | 
         | It's hard for me to pin "abuse" on working from home.
        
         | nklop wrote:
         | The whole "don't trust employees to do the work" thing is an
         | interesting statement. It reveals a lot about how the business
         | measures and keeps track of its own performance.
         | 
         | Just how much was being done in the office pre-pandemic? Those
         | businesses likely didn't actually know. well they sure looked
         | busy, right?
         | 
         | The abuse aspect is also interesting. Friend of mine got
         | verbally abused. On zoom video _with_ audio. While it was
         | recording. So that was an experience when HR got involved.
         | 
         | Overworking is another aspect. That is still being explored.
         | Plenty of scope for that to blow up as well.
        
       | RandomLensman wrote:
       | I think WFH is just a symptom, but not the cause. The pandemic
       | working situations exposed some truths about work for probably
       | quite a few people: the rather pointlessness of many tasks was
       | previously masked by camaraderie in the office or the new
       | impressions from travelling.
       | 
       | So folks might want to do something else but might be difficult
       | to actually find something that isn't the "same", really.
        
       | sakopov wrote:
       | Interestingly, yesterday I had a conversation with someone who
       | works in HR at a tech company and they said that it's been
       | incredibly difficult to lure candidates away from existing jobs
       | because most are afraid of jumping ship in current economic
       | climate. I know it's anecdotal, but this is currently how I feel
       | myself as well. I realize that there are numbers and stats behind
       | the so-called "Great Resignation" but it does make me question if
       | this is a micro event when looked at on a larger scale.
        
       | polishdude20 wrote:
       | I just gave in my resignation at a college I worked for. Part of
       | my decision was the fact that I'd have to go back to the office
       | and teach in-person. I know in person learning is superior for
       | students vs online but I got too used to working from home.
        
       | jordache wrote:
       | I wonder how much of this dynamic applies to us in the technology
       | space?
       | 
       | Within our job market, are we seeing similar 'great resignation'
       | patterns? Anyone with direct insight?
        
       | himinlomax wrote:
       | Hypothesis: an underestimated reason why people don't want to go
       | back to the office is not (just) because they like WFH, but
       | because offices suck hard for knowledge workers when they need
       | not. The reason why is based on a major historiological mistake,
       | see the book Deep Work
       | (https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/25744928-deep-work)
        
         | seneca wrote:
         | Completely agreed. I like working from home, but more to the
         | point I can't work in an open office plan.
        
         | sylens wrote:
         | This is it. Who wants to go back to open office floor plans?
         | Give me a shared office and maybe my answer changes
        
       | fartcannon wrote:
       | They sent around a form at my work asking everyone what their
       | preference would be. The first guy replied to everyone with his
       | preference: 100% wfh. Since he replied-all, so did everyone else.
       | We got through about 20 employees, all stating their preference
       | as WFH before a manager shut down the reply-all.
       | 
       | A week later we got an email saying people wanted 2-3 days in
       | office.
        
         | cableshaft wrote:
         | Yep, a blatant and botched attempt at manufactured consent
         | right there.
         | 
         | If you want to stick it to them you should put out an informal
         | poll with all employees and publish those results separate,
         | show everyone how the company is lying to you.
        
         | frumper wrote:
         | That sounds about right, except my organization landed on full
         | return to office for nebulous "business reasons"
        
         | ryandrake wrote:
         | Hilarious! I wonder (not really) if they would have kept the
         | reply-all going if the consensus response was "2-3 days"...
         | Sounds like a case of a survey with only one correct answer.
        
         | apozem wrote:
         | This reminds me of a saying I read on Stratechery: Workers
         | tweet, managers email.
         | 
         | Public discussions are good for, you know, the public. Keeping
         | things private just means the manager is the only one who knows
         | the whole picture.
        
         | rpmisms wrote:
         | Yeah, never did the chain email in my old job, but every single
         | person I talked to wanted to stay remote. Management said
         | "We're hearing that people want to come back to the office".
         | After that, headcount dropped from ~40 to ~28, including me.
        
       | ffggvv wrote:
       | i remember at my first job we had company wide satisfaction
       | surveys yearly. there was one question about whether employees
       | planned to leave within the next 2 years. the results always
       | showed greater than 70% saying yes.
       | 
       | yet the attrition rate was way lower. in the time i was there
       | almost no one left
        
       | bayesian_horse wrote:
       | When 95% are trying to switch to a better job, what are the
       | chances of actually finding something better?
        
       | okareaman wrote:
       | I was extremely lucky to WFH during the first 12 years of my
       | software career. When I finally got a job in an office I was
       | shocked at how awful it was. The 2 hours commuting every workday,
       | the flickering fluorescent lights, the noise of coworkers, the
       | smell of burnt coffee or popcorn, the boss that drops by to see
       | how you're doing and causes you to lose a hour of concentration
       | so I might as browse the web until quitting time. I couldn't
       | function in an office, so I was lucky to do my best work at home
       | which I am still proud of. I'm not proud of anything I
       | accomplished while sitting in office jail.
        
         | nrmitchi wrote:
         | > the flickering fluorescent lights, the noise of coworkers,
         | the smell of burnt coffee or popcorn, the boss that drops by to
         | see how you're doing and causes you to lose a hour of
         | concentration so I might as browse the web until quitting time.
         | 
         | Was this at a "tech" company of any kind, or a non-tech company
         | with a small number of software engineers? This sounds more
         | like an archetype based on Office Space rather than a real
         | office that I have been in any time in the last 6 years.
        
           | standardUser wrote:
           | I think the inability to control light, noise, temperature,
           | scents and walk-up bosses/coworkers are more of less
           | universal among offices.
           | 
           | But all of those things are trivial and unimportant in the
           | shadow of the miserable 1-2 hour of commute every day, which
           | is truly a waste of time, resources and our limited human
           | lives.
        
           | handrous wrote:
           | This basically just describes the offices of most small- to
           | large-sized tech companies that aren't part of West-coast
           | tech culture (some of which has spread beyond the West coast,
           | but does not dominate like it does there).
           | 
           | There are _lots_ of them and they may well represent a larger
           | proportion of dev employment in the US than either stodgy-
           | old-established-bigtech (IBM, telcos) or ones that are a part
           | of the aforementioned West-coast tech culture. They tend to
           | develop industry-specific products (or, often, a whole bunch
           | of industry-specific products) but are _definitely_ tech--and
           | often even purely-software--companies.
        
           | okareaman wrote:
           | These were all software companies in or near Silicon Valley.
           | Cube farms, not open office. Maybe you are one of the lucky
           | ones to get your own office (with a door)
        
             | astrange wrote:
             | The one time I had an office with a door it was my worst
             | location, because it didn't have a thermostat so it got too
             | hot to leave the door closed.
             | 
             | It's surprising how bad smelling the coffee from a
             | Starbucks iCup machine is though.
        
         | oh_sigh wrote:
         | The 2 hour commute is your fault, not the fault of office
         | job's. My commute is 10 minutes.
        
           | dougmwne wrote:
           | I mean, that's a pretty harsh way to put it. It takes a very
           | flexible lifestyle to be able to move 10 minutes from your
           | office every time you get a new job. That is also likely to
           | severely impact your finances. For some workplaces, it would
           | be a financial impossibly to live that close for anything
           | less than an executive salary. Often it's far more optimum to
           | work remote if you want to minimize your commute.
        
             | handrous wrote:
             | Plus, lots of business/office districts don't have _any_
             | public schools of even middling--let alone good--quality
             | within a 10-minute commute radius.
        
           | okareaman wrote:
           | Move closer. Why didn't I think of that?
        
             | delecti wrote:
             | I think "get a job closer to your home" is a reasonable
             | suggestion, even if that commenter was a bit blunt about
             | it. In my most recent job search I avoided applying to
             | positions that were further than I was willing to commute,
             | even though they're in the same metro area.
        
         | cronix wrote:
         | So, 2 hours a day. That's 10 hours a week. That's 40 hours a
         | month. That's 480 hours a year, or about the equivalent of 3
         | entire months working 40 hrs/wk, sitting in traffic, doing
         | nothing productive. Napkin math says you lost a lot more than
         | ambience.
        
         | SavantIdiot wrote:
         | Cube farms of the 80's/90's were the worst. Cube etiquette was
         | in its infancy. Loud talkers, ice chewers, farters, snifflers,
         | oversharers, too much A/C, too little A/C, awful ergonomics,
         | 6'x4' compressed cubicles, shared cubicles. Then there was the
         | crappy cafeteria food, enormous parking lots with 15 minute
         | walks to your car if you showed up after 8am, ... oy.
        
           | bootlooped wrote:
           | But didn't they make the office even worse by going from
           | cubicle to open office? Often less space per person, less
           | privacy, noise travels further, visual distractions, etc...
        
             | mng2 wrote:
             | Yeah, I never expected to feel nostalgic for cubes.
        
       | BoiledCabbage wrote:
       | I wish data and statistics weren't so frequently abused.
       | 
       | This article told me nothing concrete of value.
       | 
       | "Hey this number is big" - Yes, but was it also big before? How
       | much bigger is it now? 2%? 10%?
       | 
       | Is the cumulative number larger than just the sum of months under
       | quarantine? Ie this is just pent up demand and if we averaged it
       | across months it'd look normal? Historically what percentage of
       | people thinking about changing jobs at some point in time
       | actually do within 12mo? 10%? 70%?
       | 
       | Without any context to me this article is just as likely to be
       | the precursor to a follow up articke about "the major job
       | resignation that never materialized" as is it to be about an
       | actual change in positions.
        
         | nr2x wrote:
         | The survey is also from a job website, this isn't Pew.
        
       | steelframe wrote:
       | I'm now working at my 4th Big Tech company and am about 20 years
       | into my career. At this point I have absolutely zero interest in
       | socializing with any of my co-workers outside of official
       | capacity.
       | 
       | Maybe it's because I'm in an "return to IC" phase of my career,
       | but I'm finding that 90% of the other ICs are at least 10 years
       | younger than I am. Then there are the managers, who are primarily
       | people who have been with the company for 15+ years and all seem
       | to be at least 10 years older than I am.
       | 
       | I'm thinking this "everybody back to the office" push is going to
       | be the thing that gets me to finally leave the Big Tech scene.
       | That, and the fact that I can probably get a comp bump of at
       | least 10% by going with a smaller company that has a desperate
       | need for my skillset. (As it turns out, no Big Tech company seems
       | to ever have a "desperate need" for anything.)
        
       | nklop wrote:
       | Hey thats me. I quit my office job to go remote. Don't regret it
       | at all
       | 
       | Office work is weird and too political. It was like game of
       | thrones every day. The boring bits with pointless drama to
       | determine who sits on an uncomfortable chair.
       | 
       | Key question I have now when I have a face to face meeting: why
       | exactly am I sharing oxygen in close proximity with this person?
       | Especially after this silly commute just to do so.
       | 
       | BTW I now make more money than my boss's boss. Why would I want
       | to go back? There's that pragmatism as well.
        
       | 0xB31B1B wrote:
       | I think too much of the blame here gets put on the
       | "executive/managerial" and capital class for the back to office
       | drive and not enough gets put on the soulless HR machine at these
       | mega companies. A huge amount of the value and work the HR org
       | does is manage things in the office, mange in person conflicts,
       | manage relationships, etc. With remote work, so much of the
       | impetus for these busybodies is gone, and the scope of the chief
       | of HR role is decreased quite a bit. I think a lot of the "back
       | to work" chatter is these type of people making up more or less
       | baseless justifications for the amount of influence they had 18
       | months ago.
        
         | aspaceman wrote:
         | The "Return to Work" process is also a huge project for their
         | resume line :)
        
       | jonahbenton wrote:
       | The Departed said it best:
       | 
       | "World needs plenty of bartenders."
       | 
       | Every employee- and every manager- at every not-trivially sized
       | firm is replaceable.
       | 
       | Resigning is ABSOLUTELY THE WORST response, both individually and
       | collectively, for those interested in enshrining a more remote
       | friendly ecosystem.
        
         | dragonwriter wrote:
         | > Resigning is ABSOLUTELY THE WORST response, both individually
         | and collectively, for those interested in enshrining a more
         | remote friendly ecosystem.
         | 
         | Not if you are refining in favor of entrepreneurship providing
         | remote-friendly work, or taking available remote-friendly work.
         | Heck, even just withdrawing labor from the market arguably
         | helps.
         | 
         | Reducing the supply of workers who treat remote-hostile work as
         | acceptable is the only way to enshrine a more remote-friendly
         | ecosystem.
        
       | tl wrote:
       | CNBC's primary sources are one anecdote and an opinion piece from
       | NBC. This is a garbage article in support of a narrative of a
       | fight between labor and capital over remote work. And my anecdote
       | suggests that it doesn't exist.
        
       | tqi wrote:
       | Assuming this is an unusual spike, I think it's good people are
       | self sorting into companies based on whether or not they are
       | embracing WFH. It seems clear from data and the conversation here
       | that there are several different camps of people. If every
       | company went fully remote, wouldn't we just end up with the
       | inverse of the old situation, where there will be some % of
       | people miserably working from home while wishing to be in an
       | office?
       | 
       | Isn't the ideal scenario that we have a mix of companies with
       | different models, so people can choose what works for them?
        
       | simonh wrote:
       | I think there's going to be a bit of a disconnect between worker
       | retention and new hiring. Companies are going to want existing
       | workers to go back to the office. Yes I think most will
       | accommodate an increased proportion of working from home, but
       | they're going to want to hold the line that if they want you in
       | the office they have the right to insist.
       | 
       | On the other hand when they're hiring new workers they're going
       | to have to face up to the fact that a lot of workers are going to
       | want to work from home, or do so for a substantial part of their
       | working time. They're going to need to meet that expectation to
       | be competitive for talent.
       | 
       | It's not as if 95% of workers are going to be able to just walk
       | into 100% wfh roles. The roughly 95% of companies these workers
       | currently work for are also the ones hiring people.
       | 
       | So this is going to take a while to work itself out as each
       | company or worker figures out their best way to navigate through
       | this transition, but the transition is going to happen.
        
         | HelloNurse wrote:
         | WFH-friendly employers will lose less staff AND hire more
         | easily than places that insist on returning people to office
         | for no perceived good reason. But competition isn't the strong
         | point of badly managed companies.
        
           | bluGill wrote:
           | But in person companies believe that personal interactions
           | will make the people they can hire better than the WFH
           | companies so it works out.
           | 
           | WFH is hard to manage. A lot of things that get shared in
           | "hallway communication" become formal meetings. I make no
           | claim as to who is right, but there are downsides to
           | everything.
        
             | bregma wrote:
             | It's hard to have a hallway conversation when you're
             | constantly being watched to make you keep your bottom in
             | your seat.
        
               | jq-r wrote:
               | To add two points to that. First, people here always
               | point out about the boss looking over the peons in their
               | open space office. That may be true for a lot of
               | situations, but what is also depressing is that even if
               | there is no boss/manager/whatever overlooking the
               | employees, those will watch each other.
               | 
               | Second, I can second the hallway conversations, those
               | never happened at the places I've worked. If anything, it
               | was more akin to "send me an e-mail/message" about it.
        
               | simonh wrote:
               | At most of my employers useful conversations in hallways,
               | at the kitchen, or just dropping by someone's desk
               | happened all the time. It's an incredibly valuable
               | opportunity. In the last year there are many people I
               | used to talk to regularly I've either not talked to, or
               | only talked to once or twice that otherwise I'd have
               | checked in with on an almost weekly basis. I really miss
               | those chats and I know I'm poorer for not having them.
               | 
               | Having said that, I used to work for a big international
               | bank and apart from a few people in my direct team, most
               | if the other people I worked with were in other
               | countries, let alone other offices. They had outstanding
               | collaboration and communications software and
               | infrastructure though. By far the best of any company I'd
               | worked for. They were very well set up for remote
               | collaboration and I learned lessons there I've found very
               | useful in the last year. You work with what you have.
        
       | dcolkitt wrote:
       | I'm honestly perplexed what the FANGs are even thinking in being
       | so aggressive about pushing an end to WFH.
       | 
       | Sure it could all work out fine for them. Maybe employees will
       | grumble for a bit, then settle back into office life. But maybe
       | it _wont't_. There's a very real possibility that you lose a non-
       | negligible percent of your staff (disproportionately the most
       | talented who have other options), handicap your ability to
       | recruit replacements, and destroy morale for the remaining. For
       | companies who's entire value is the intangible human capital of
       | their workforce, this seems like a pretty big fucking risk to
       | take.
       | 
       | I get it. Maybe you think WFH is long term unsustainable and it
       | will erode corporate culture and what not. But the point is it's
       | pretty clear that it's not _short-term_ unsustainable. Obviously
       | companies have survived for a year without the train swerving off
       | the tracks. Why would any rational company want to be the first
       | back? Why not just wait six months after the other FANGs go back
       | to see what happens? At worse you lose a half year in the office,
       | which clearly isn't that bad. At best, you potentially save the
       | entire company from collapsing.
       | 
       | Making such a big push to go back in September instead of waiting
       | until January just seems reckless to the point of irrationality.
        
         | throwawaynumber wrote:
         | Like most of hacker news, I think you vastly underestimate
         | really how replaceable smart and skilled people really are.
         | There are literally millions of them, most with far lower pay
         | and conditions than offered by FANGS.
        
           | lmilcin wrote:
           | You are forgetting how _expensive_ it is to replace smart and
           | skilled people.
           | 
           | There sure are millions of them, sure, but not necessarily
           | millions of them available when you post your opening. I know
           | because I am searching for senior Java devs for a stable,
           | global, wealthy corporation and yet it takes months to fill
           | positions.
           | 
           | Then to the expense of searching you need to add the expense
           | of the guy having to spend at least a year on the job to
           | _really_ become productive, learn the system, the
           | organization, learn the problem to be able to effectively
           | design quality solutions, etc.
           | 
           | If this guy leaves in 2 years on average you have spent most
           | of the time basically searching for him and waiting for him
           | to warm up.
           | 
           | Smart and skilled people spend a bunch of time learning your
           | problems, figuring out solutions, only to take all that
           | knowledge and experience with them to be replaced for a green
           | guy who will have to start mostly from scratch.
        
           | zerr wrote:
           | Even more, as it is measured, the more replaceable you render
           | yourself in your work the smarter and skillful you are, and
           | the quality of the work is considered higher.
        
           | rajacombinator wrote:
           | Have you ever tried hiring these people? At FAANG scale? Good
           | luck ...
        
         | pc86 wrote:
         | Not directly addressing your point, but how common is it for
         | someone to be a FAANG developer - extremely well compensated
         | and smart by all accounts - and _not_ have other options? An
         | argument like this makes sense for the random dev shops and
         | non-tech company dev departments across the country. For many
         | of those, the top 1 or 2 people are arguably good enough to
         | switch over to FAANG or HFT or some other very highly
         | compensated thing if they really want to.
         | 
         | I would expect everyone at a FAANG to basically walk into a
         | comparable or better role at a more "traditional" employer.
        
           | endtime wrote:
           | Sure, there are always other options. But there's also
           | inertia - switching jobs is stressful and risky. Forcing
           | people back to the office provides a push that might get
           | people to think, "Y'know what, maybe <competitor> will hire
           | me at L+1, _and_ let me work remotely. " The employees who
           | can actually get the L+1 offer are the stronger ones.
        
           | phreeza wrote:
           | As a FAANG employee myself, I think your opinion of the
           | average FAANG developer is perhaps a bit too generous.
        
             | r00t4ccess wrote:
             | As a fellow FAANG, I completely agree
        
             | sumtechguy wrote:
             | What many miss is also these large companies are doing
             | something very interesting in the labor market. They are
             | starving the competition. They spend a bit extra on labor
             | but they get a long term benefit of lower number of
             | effective competitors. MS did this for years in the 90s.
             | Apple/Atari/Sony/IBM did it in the 80s. Being in office
             | ('free lunch', perks, etc) is part of that lock in. If
             | people are at home then they are more likely to wander off
             | and find another job as at that point the only real
             | difference between jobs is the kind of thing you work on
             | and money.
        
               | phreeza wrote:
               | I agree with the first part, not so sure about the
               | conclusion though. What makes you think that WFH
               | increases attrition? The FAANGs could easily spend some
               | additional dollars to make "their" WFH more attractive
               | than the competitions, similar to what they did with
               | offices.
        
               | bluGill wrote:
               | Depends a lot. WFH when most companies won't allow it is
               | a perk that will keep people around. However once WFH is
               | a common thing it is much easier to switch. If you WFH
               | you can work anywhere in the country (in theory world,
               | but there are tricky issues there that I don't know much
               | about) which means you can switch from a job in the Bay
               | to NYC with no problem, then jump to the one job in some
               | tiny village in Montana - all without leaving your
               | family.
               | 
               | Family is the key above. I moved to a different state
               | from my family and I often feel the loss. It is now a big
               | deal to go visit. I can't "call in a few favors" when I
               | need my house painted (I'm also not called upon to help).
               | Once you don't live near friends/family moving is just
               | about the relocation package. Once you have friends and
               | family around it is personally hard to move as you throw
               | all of that away. By WFH you can ignore all that and live
               | where it works best for your life.
               | 
               | Now yes FAANG can give me a bit extra money if they want.
               | However I've reached the point where money isn't my only
               | motivation. I want interesting/fulfilling work, which if
               | I decide they don't offer they can't really change the
               | offer to give me.
        
               | phreeza wrote:
               | I guess I was unclear in my comment. I meant that FAANG
               | can spend money on WFH related perks (premium equipment,
               | food delivery, whatever) that second tier companies are
               | maybe not willing to pay, thus retaining the same
               | advantage they had in the office work era that was
               | mentioned by the grandparent in their post.
        
               | bluGill wrote:
               | But they can't create a culture of WFH like that. For WFH
               | to really work it needs to be first class in the company,
               | otherwise those who work from home are cut out from the
               | day to day office politics. In that environment WFH
               | people are less valuable.
        
             | pc86 wrote:
             | That's certainly possible :)
             | 
             | Even as someone with over a decade of work experience it's
             | somewhat aspirational to work for a FAANG and get that big
             | paycheck and all those RSUs. But no WFH is a deal-breaker
             | unless they start opening up offices in Milwaukee soon.
        
               | BooneJS wrote:
               | Google and Amazon are both in Madison.
        
               | pc86 wrote:
               | I actually did look them all up after posting this
               | comment, and you're right. And Microsoft says they have
               | offices in Waukesha and Wauwatosa but it looks like they
               | both point to a sales-only office in downtown Milwaukee.
        
               | OldHand2018 wrote:
               | I doubt a lot of people would commute between Milwaukee
               | and Madison when the Amtrak Hiawatha is 1.5 hours from
               | Milwaukee to Chicago, within walking distance to Google
               | Chicago.
        
               | jhickok wrote:
               | I know the Google building but I was not aware Amazon was
               | in Madison in any substantive manner. Is it an Amazon
               | building or a company they acquired?
        
               | BooneJS wrote:
               | Shopbop. https://www.amazon.jobs/en/location/madison-wi
        
               | randcraw wrote:
               | It's probably like Google's office in Ann Arbor -- 450
               | people in advertising, marketing, and sales.
        
           | cnzac wrote:
           | You may walk in because of your CV, but the new employer may
           | find out that an elite university and FMAGA resume does not
           | guarantee programming and software design skills.
           | 
           | Some of the stacks at these companies are quite horrible.
        
         | long_time_gone wrote:
         | ==Making such a big push to go back in September instead of
         | waiting until January just seems reckless to the point of
         | irrationality.==
         | 
         | Maybe the goal is to get the type of expensive, experienced
         | employees that inhabit HN to resign?
        
         | rajacombinator wrote:
         | It seems to mostly be driven by managers who are not part of
         | the productive class and therefore can't perceive the hit to
         | productivity and WLB the office incurs. If you spend your
         | entire day in pointless meetings anyway, then yes, maximizing
         | your commute time and "random office conversation" time is a
         | rational choice. And it's not like you can measure the
         | productivity of the code monkeys anyway so who cares?
        
         | lkrubner wrote:
         | "destroy morale for the remaining"
         | 
         | This depends on how you define morale. Morale can be thought of
         | as the willingness of people to make difficult sacrifices to
         | maintain community ties, in the sense offered by the essay "Why
         | Strict Churches Are Strong":
         | 
         | https://www.journals.uchicago.edu/doi/abs/10.1086/230409?jou...
         | .
         | 
         | In that essay, they make the point that there are no
         | freeloaders in a strict church, and that is what draws people
         | to strict churches. Strict churches will be smaller than non-
         | strict churches, because non-strict churches allow a lot of
         | members who do not participate very much in the life of the
         | church. In a strict church, people obey a large number of
         | rules, and make substantial sacrifices, to belong to a group in
         | which everyone else is also making sacrifices, and therefore,
         | in a sense, everyone earns their place. And by most definitions
         | of "morale" strict churches have better morale than non-strict
         | churches.
         | 
         | It's the same with any organization, including the military,
         | and including corporations. Asking people to show up to an
         | office means you're asking people to make a sacrifice to
         | continue being a member in good standing. Such a request can
         | weed some people out, but that is the point of the request. For
         | those who are left behind, morale is higher because everyone is
         | known to be making that sacrifice.
         | 
         | There are several qualifiers that are normally added at this
         | point, raising questions over the fairness of the rules, the
         | fairness of the enforcement, and the group perception of the
         | fairness of the enforcement. I'm not going to write all of that
         | out in a comment on Hacker News, I think the essay I linked to
         | above covers most of the details.
        
           | throwaway743 wrote:
           | I mean, your examples of organizations are homogeneous in
           | their nature, and borderline cult level communal. Unless
           | you're in management or one of those workers who's an over
           | zealous corporate kool-aid drinking yes-man who screams about
           | company culture and has substituted any outside social life
           | with the office and coworkers, these examples might be
           | extreme and irrelevant.
           | 
           | We're all slowly dying, and personally, I value having more
           | control over what little time I have left alive while getting
           | done what needs to get done to make a living, and do it right
           | without being tied down, more or less against my will, to any
           | office.
        
             | lkrubner wrote:
             | You're confusing your personal feelings about some
             | hypothetical organization with the separate question of
             | what the definition of "morale" is. That organization will
             | have a level of morale even if you are not a part of the
             | organization.
             | 
             | As to this:
             | 
             | "We're all slowly dying"
             | 
             | That is a double-edged sword. Many people find meaning
             | through the commitments they make: marriage, the military,
             | the nation, their religion, children, parents, friends. Why
             | make a commitment? Because we are all dying and so we
             | wonder "What is the meaning of life?" And for those who
             | find meaning through their commitments, then the fact that
             | we are all slowly dying would be a reason to make more,
             | deeper commitments, not less.
             | 
             | "I value having more control over what little time I have
             | left"
             | 
             | Unless someone puts a gun to your head, no one is taking
             | away your control over your time. Whether you decide to
             | make any kinds of commitments to marriage, the military,
             | the nation, your religion, children, parents, or friends,
             | those are your choices, both if you reject all such
             | commitments or embrace them.
        
             | srswtf123 wrote:
             | > I value having more control over what little time I have
             | left alive
             | 
             | This right here is the entire argument. It's about
             | _control_ , and nothing more.
             | 
             | The pandemic displaced a large group of socially successful
             | people from the social hierarchy. Those people want to
             | return to the old normal because they want their status
             | back. They want control back. _" You'll do what you're told
             | because I said so, that's why."_ lies at the heart of it.
             | 
             | Some of those displaced people have been revealed as
             | frauds: they don't actually contribute value that is
             | commensurate with their position in the hierarchy. And some
             | of those who report to them have had just about enough of
             | their shit.
             | 
             | We're collectively asked to give up our lives to these
             | companies. To willingly give over our ability to determine
             | how we order our days. To look the other way as our various
             | employers build a literal dystopia.
             | 
             | Yeah, no thanks. I'll stay in control of myself from now
             | on.
        
               | munificent wrote:
               | I don't necessarily mean this in the context here of
               | "work for a corporation" but one thing I have learned
               | recently (thanks, therapy) is that one can lean too far
               | in the direction of individual autonomy.
               | 
               | At a base level, everyone wants a meaningful, fulfilled
               | life. A key component of that is having enough autonomy
               | and control to feel that your decisions matter because
               | they are _your_ decisions. But another important
               | component is to feel that your decisions matter because
               | they matter _to others_. We are a social primate species
               | and for most of us, our emotional systems are wired to
               | feel the greatest peace when we feel we are helping our
               | tribe and being supported by it in return.
               | 
               | Being part of a group (job or not) where you feel your
               | efforts help not just you but the entire group is deeply
               | important for most people. There's a reason that male
               | suicide rates skyrocket not long after retirement. We are
               | not happy alone and disconnected, even though being in
               | that state in theory maximizes our personal autonomy.
               | 
               | Obviously, this is not to imply that a job is the only or
               | best way to find that kind of tribe or group identity.
               | But there _are_ meaningful jobs out there and _working
               | together_ can be an important part of a fulfilling life.
        
               | imbnwa wrote:
               | > There's a reason that male suicide rates skyrocket not
               | long after retirement. We are not happy alone and
               | disconnected, even though being in that state in theory
               | maximizes our personal autonomy.
               | 
               | That seems to be a completely artificial problem of the
               | modern corporate first-world that discards or isolates
               | anyone it doesn't find useful (the elderly and children)
               | when, for a most of history; the elderly never stopped
               | working in a meaningful capacity ever until they dropped
               | or were incapacitated; children were working with their
               | guardians much much more of the time without dipping into
               | exploitative child labor of industrialism.
               | 
               | > But there are meaningful jobs out there and working
               | together can be an important part of a fulfilling life.
               | 
               | It's like we're making the best of having our village
               | raided for resources and saying some of the raiders don't
               | take all the stuff (and they don't take nothing). What we
               | need are appropriate walls so that our relationship with
               | these outsiders can be one of trade/negotiation.
        
               | jessaustin wrote:
               | Some of these "in control" managers are just extreme
               | extroverts, who can't comfortably live without a steady
               | stream of victi^W "direct reports" to cater to their
               | weird habits. Instead of simply creating a policy and a
               | monthly report for a trivial daily process easily
               | accomplished by a particular employee, it's so much more
               | satisfying for such a manager to drop in unannounced
               | every day to "supervise". These managers have been stuck
               | at home long enough that all the maids and gardeners have
               | quit and the third spouse has suggested a separation. An
               | omnipresence of such people surely justified the
               | invention of the guillotine...
        
               | throwaway743 wrote:
               | I couldn't agree with you more.
               | 
               | > Some of those displaced people have been revealed as
               | frauds: they don't actually contribute value that is
               | commensurate with their position in the hierarchy. And
               | some of those who report to them have had just about
               | enough of their shit.
               | 
               | Oh boy, I could share quite a few relevant stories (as I
               | think many of here could too) that'd make your head spin.
               | It's crazy to think of the number of these fraudsters out
               | there and how awful it is for those who are forced to be
               | stuck dealing with them/their actions day in day out.
               | Been in that situation with a few managers in the past,
               | and it's an understatement to say my time was stolen by
               | them.
        
           | mistrial9 wrote:
           | this is an uplifting example, however, in business, it is not
           | sacrifice in the same way. Business is about making profit,
           | and extracting profit is what they do.. I was told by a
           | retired consultant with decades of experience -- fifty
           | percent of companies manage through fear. That is, you work
           | hard there, or require others to work hard, because, you will
           | be punished or terminated. End of story.
        
         | fatnoah wrote:
         | > I'm honestly perplexed what the FANGs are even thinking in
         | being so aggressive about pushing an end to WFH.
         | 
         | WARNING: ANECDOTAL EVIDENCE
         | 
         | I manage a team of 12 people at a FAANG. One team member just
         | quit working entirely until offices open again. Any information
         | about offices opening is immediately pounced on and celebrated.
         | While most folks have stated that they enjoy working from home,
         | a few others hate it. Interestingly, zero people are interested
         | in being fully remote, even though our org has a stated goal to
         | get more people to go remote.
         | 
         | That said, EVERYONE is excited at the formalization of a hybrid
         | policy that allows up to a 50/50 split between home and work.
         | That policy also leaves it up to individual teams to decide
         | what, if any, restrictions they want to place on that.
         | 
         | I'm sure it's very different in other teams and companies,
         | which is why I prefaced with the warning.
        
           | tonfa wrote:
           | Same context, same anecdote here.
        
         | Spooky23 wrote:
         | Your baseline assumption is that everything is peachy with full
         | WFH. It's not always the case.
         | 
         | The people who are going to leave are people on the fence
         | anyway. COVID accelerated stuff like retirements mostly, or was
         | the straw the broke the back of people driving from rural
         | Pennsylvania to Manhattan every day. Other than childcare
         | issues that are timing-related, the non-medical objections to
         | this are mostly just noise, and people will show up to work.
        
         | sg47 wrote:
         | There are always H1Bs to abuse. They are going to do the
         | employers' bidding. I think FAANGs will be fine.
        
         | hn_throwaway_99 wrote:
         | In my experience at least talking to some younger people there
         | is a clear dichotomy: despite all the talk about Gen Z being
         | "digital natives", people new in their career are _much_
         | hungrier to get back into the office because they don 't yet
         | have good career networks built up and they're eager for
         | mentorship. It is older, or at least more established workers
         | who are less keen on that.
         | 
         | I don't think FAANGs will have _any_ trouble hiring a boatload
         | of eager, hardworking college grads in September even if they
         | lose multi-digit percentage of their current workers.
        
           | ProjectBarks wrote:
           | This is the exact sentiment I hold as well. I think the
           | demographics of hacker news may be slightly swayed towards
           | people who already have established networks and industry
           | experience.
        
             | burlesona wrote:
             | Not just slightly skewed.
             | 
             | Also the HN audience is far more remote-oriented than I've
             | encountered among my coworkers over the course of my
             | career, including > 4 years working full-remote.
        
               | briefcomment wrote:
               | Anonymity probably accounts for a decent portion of the
               | discrepancy (meaning some of your co-workers would
               | probably be anti-WFH in person, and pro-WFH anonymously)
        
               | YinglingLight wrote:
               | Very few are anti-WFH in person. That would be publicly
               | admitting that you can't be trusted to work
               | independently.
        
               | burlesona wrote:
               | We'll, I can't prove or disprove that claim, but most of
               | my coworkers have always been very candid with their
               | preferences. I find it difficult to believe that there's
               | a large number of people who regularly say one thing
               | while secretly believing the opposite.
        
             | TheCanuckster wrote:
             | If this is the case, what are the forums people with less
             | established networks and industry experience use?
             | 
             | It would seem prudent to be aware of these other "HNs".
        
               | selfhoster11 wrote:
               | Reddit would be my guess.
        
               | bart_spoon wrote:
               | The handful of Reddit programming communities I've seen
               | are also very uninterested in returning to work. I have
               | to wonder if the difference isn't so much "established
               | career" vs "newbie" and is more simply self-selection,
               | with people who are comfortable working remotely more
               | likely to engage frequently in online communities, and
               | those more interested in in-person work less represented.
        
               | throwawayboise wrote:
               | Also anyone who has been earning a FAANG salary for 5-10
               | years should have enough FU money to feel a lot less
               | pressure to conform to unreasonable employer demands.
        
               | r00t4ccess wrote:
               | This is my experience as well
        
               | bregma wrote:
               | This week it's TikTok.
               | 
               | There is a really funny one where the guy goes back to
               | work and hits his head on a door.
        
               | majormajor wrote:
               | I think you'd be surprised by how many people don't
               | really engage in outside-of-work anonymous programming
               | forums, vs their personal contacts/friends/coworkers/ex-
               | coworkers.
        
             | some_hacker wrote:
             | Slightly?
             | 
             | If you're suggesting HN is old and cranky...
             | 
             | You'd be correct.
        
           | saiya-jin wrote:
           | A lot of domain knowledge and momentum might be lost due to
           | such reshuffling. Losing competitive edge and whatnot.
           | 
           | But maybe they have excellent documentation, knowledge
           | sharing and mentorship, unlike all multinational corps I've
           | ever worked for (where was generally a cost center and
           | frowned upon).
        
             | throwawaynumber wrote:
             | Monopolies don't need to be as competitive.
        
               | randcraw wrote:
               | Exactly. This is overlooked to an insane degree when
               | extolling the accomplishments of the FANGs and their
               | founders.
        
           | achow wrote:
           | From a single, young:
           | 
           | I miss the office for..
           | 
           | - Free and convenient food.
           | 
           | - Social chatter & engagement.
           | 
           | - Making friends with employees who I don't know and
           | connecting with new employees.
           | 
           | - Work life separation (balance).
           | 
           | - Proper workstation, climate controlled environment.
           | 
           | - Sense of belonging - team outing, after hours beers..
           | 
           | - Intra and inter company sports and games.
           | 
           | - Meeting potential dates.
           | 
           | [Not me. Just empathizing]
        
             | wil421 wrote:
             | Sounds like you need some hobbies. Most of the things you
             | state I get from my hobbies.
             | 
             | Do you not live in a place with climate control? At home I
             | make the temperature decisions not the facility folk.
        
               | tomtheelder wrote:
               | I have lots of hobbies and plenty friends through those.
               | I also really enjoy my workplace and the social
               | interaction I get there. Either one of those alone would
               | definitely be insufficient for me.
               | 
               | I sort of feel like these discussions are just
               | (oversimplifying here) extroverts and introverts arguing
               | back and forth about the best way to find satisfaction
               | socially when they just have profoundly different social
               | needs.
               | 
               | Also FWIW I've never lived in an apartment with climate
               | control past radiators and window AC units. I don't think
               | that's too unusual if you live in older buildings.
        
               | adflux wrote:
               | Spoken like a true 1%er
        
               | lotsofpulp wrote:
               | https://www.eia.gov/consumption/residential/reports/2009/
               | air...
               | 
               | >The latest results from the 2009 Residential Energy
               | Consumption Survey (RECS) show that 87 percent of U.S.
               | households are now equipped with AC.
               | 
               | That was 12 years ago.
        
               | marshray wrote:
               | Note that data doesn't break down the region 'North
               | West'.
               | 
               | I don't have AC and neither do many of my coworkers.
               | 
               | Seattle has the lowest percentage of home AC in the
               | nation. It's not installed standard in new construction.
        
               | stouset wrote:
               | 100%.
               | 
               | Work is a decent place to meet people, but I don't think
               | it's particularly healthy as your only or even primary
               | opportunity for social connection. That might not be the
               | case here but it sure sounds like it could be.
               | 
               | My own life improved immeasurably when I finally started
               | having interests outside of pushing buttons into a
               | glowing rectangle of light.
        
               | bobthepanda wrote:
               | Well, the PNW just had record temps for three days
               | straight (100+ F is unheard of with avg Seattle July
               | highs of 77) and AC is an uncommon residential amenity
               | that is usually offered at large offices.
               | 
               | Does the office run the AC a bit cold? Yes, but to be
               | honest when you reach almost too hot to sweat that's a
               | nice problem to have.
        
               | lotsofpulp wrote:
               | Given someone is working a white collar, air conditioned
               | office job, I would guess their probability of having AC
               | at home is north of 90%.
               | 
               | https://www.eia.gov/consumption/residential/reports/2009/
               | air...
        
               | bobthepanda wrote:
               | Seattle has an air-conditioning rate of about 44% as of
               | 2019.
               | 
               | I know plenty of AMZN and MS employees without AC.
        
               | lotsofpulp wrote:
               | I assume those numbers will skyrocket up pretty quickly
               | for AMZN and MS employees, or anyone else who can easily
               | afford to have AC installed.
        
               | bobthepanda wrote:
               | It's not super easy. A lot of these are apartments that
               | are not easy to retrofit. And a lot of Seattle buildings,
               | houses or apartments, have casement windows that swing
               | out from the bottom to protect the interior from rain,
               | but also are probably the worst type of window to install
               | any type of portable or window AC unit into because they
               | don't swing out very far but the opening is absolutely
               | massive.
               | 
               | There's also the matter of the fact that because Seattle
               | doesn't get very hot or cold, there aren't that many
               | people or companies that do AC installation. Anecdotally
               | I've now heard that they're booked out for months,
               | possibly a year, and with tight local housing and job
               | market that is unlikely to change. You certainly haven't
               | really been able to buy fans or portable units anywhere
               | in the area since May.
        
               | astrange wrote:
               | This is regional. The Bay Area and PNW have a lot of
               | buildings without AC, typically no need for it, and the
               | landlords don't have any reason to install it.
               | 
               | I used a portable AC in the past but they barely work and
               | are very loud.
        
             | joefife wrote:
             | Several of your reasons for wanting to return to the office
             | are the very reasons I want to stay at home.
        
             | icedchai wrote:
             | I'm not so young any more, but I miss getting out of the
             | house more during the day. The separation between work and
             | home spaces is pretty important. After almost 16 months of
             | this, working from home has simply become old.
        
               | tedivm wrote:
               | There's a huge difference between what we all did over
               | the last year and a normal remote working situation. A
               | lot of the worst part of WFH for most people really is a
               | combination of WFH and pandemic pain, rather than purely
               | being a WFH issue.
               | 
               | I've spent most of my career doing remote work. Since I
               | planned on it, rather than being forced into it, I was
               | able to do things like rent an apartment with space for
               | an office and set it up how I like. That actually adds to
               | my balance as I can "go to the office" and then "leave
               | the office" when I'm done. A lot of people in the
               | pandemic era aren't as lucky there since it was so
               | unplanned.
               | 
               | More importantly to your point though is that remote work
               | normally doesn't mean "only work from home". Outside of
               | the pandemic I would regular take my laptop to parks,
               | libraries, or other spaces for a change of scenery. With
               | the pandemic that wasn't an option as places were closed.
               | I'm hoping to continue this now that things are
               | reopening.
        
               | icedchai wrote:
               | Yes, this is true. It would be different if it were
               | planned for. I hope to get back to coffee shops soon. I
               | am somewhat hesitant at the moment given there's still a
               | decent percentage of unvaccinated folks in the area.
        
             | Luc wrote:
             | > [Not me. Just empathizing]
             | 
             | You made it all up, right? Not cool to wait until the end
             | to say so.
        
             | xj9 wrote:
             | i'm not anti-social at work. i'm friendly and it can be fun
             | to shoot the shit, but i've rarely had workmates turn into
             | real friends. i don't know why, but the people i tend to
             | connect with don't often work in the same industry. i know
             | how to keep work and home separate (i have a couple of ways
             | of setting work context for myself so i have a way to leave
             | when i'm done).
             | 
             | the only good thing about working at an office is the free
             | food, but food isn't terribly expensive anyway. i could
             | probably use transport savings to buy myself a nice food
             | every week or two.
        
             | nkrisc wrote:
             | Not criticizing you, but almost everything in that list is
             | in direct contradiction with work/life separation, which
             | you also listed.
        
             | Florin_Andrei wrote:
             | For more than half of those, the actual thing you're
             | looking for is a bar or pub. Y'all are confused.
        
             | ItsMonkk wrote:
             | I experienced all of these to a much better degree during
             | college. Are you sure you don't just want to live in a city
             | that provides plenty of shared spaces? Relying on your
             | employer for these items seems unwise.
        
               | padobson wrote:
               | _Relying on your employer for these items seems unwise._
               | 
               | This is a brilliant sentiment and can be tide to
               | multitudes of other items. The more that can be
               | voluntarily decoupled from the employer-employee
               | relationship, the more should be.
        
               | aaron-santos wrote:
               | > Making friends with employees
               | 
               | This is a lesson I learned in the last year. Even though
               | I've made real friends with colleagues and I wouldn't
               | change that, I would still advise caution. It can be
               | tempting to make friends at work because spontaneous
               | regular encounters and shared experiences are the natural
               | basis for cultivating friendship. However, making friends
               | at work has hidden hazards.
               | 
               | Most (but not all) colleagues are like fair-weather
               | friends. It is easy to confuse someone being friendly
               | with someone being a friend. If you couldn't imagine
               | spending time with this person outside of work, they are
               | probably friendly but not your friend. If it would be
               | weird for them to call you outside of work to ask how
               | you're doing, they are probably friendly but not your
               | friend.
               | 
               | Why wouldn't you want to cultivate true friendship in the
               | workplace? Don't expect workmates to continue to be
               | friendly when you switch workplaces. If you're not
               | engaging with them outside of the workplace, their
               | friendliness will simply fizzle out. Secondly, confusing
               | friendliness for friendship makes it easier to be
               | exploited. I've stayed at a dysfunctional workplace far
               | too long because I liked my "friends" there. However,
               | when I finally did switch and these "friendships" fizzled
               | out, it became much more clear that these were simply
               | friendly people. This doesn't make them bad people, it's
               | just a social lesson I learned. Finally, the last hazard
               | of workplace friendships has to do with the insulating
               | effect of selection bias. Especially in the tech sector,
               | workplace friends will tend to be a much smaller slice of
               | class, race, and gender and it's easy to have a narrow
               | worldview as a result. Maybe the importance of that
               | differs from person to person, but it makes it easier to
               | wake up one day and realize, "Huh, I have only middle
               | class white guy friends. What's up with that?"
        
               | GavinMcG wrote:
               | It's unwise to rely exclusively on anything, but if I'm
               | going to devote half my waking hours to something, I'd
               | _better_ be able to rely on it to provide more than just
               | money to spend on the other half.
        
               | taylodl wrote:
               | This. So much this. Young professionals need to learn the
               | difference between friends and colleagues. When working
               | from home it's hard to blur that line.
               | 
               | As far as chatter goes, nobody wants that. It's
               | distracting to those around you. When we were at the
               | office we were chatting over IM to cut down on the noise.
               | Guess what? We're still chatting over IM while WFH.
               | 
               | Besides, many companies are adopting a hybrid plan
               | anyway. My team, which includes many young professionals,
               | wants to go to the office once per month. Make good use
               | of that time to build your network.
        
               | hn_throwaway_99 wrote:
               | > As far as chatter goes, nobody wants that.
               | 
               | I interpreted "social chatter and engagement" not
               | necessarily to mean people are yapping at their desk, but
               | that people say hi in the break room, have lunch
               | together, etc.
               | 
               | > Young professionals need to learn the difference
               | between friends and colleagues.
               | 
               | I hear that a lot on HN, and I'm sorry if I have to roll
               | my eyes a little. _TONS_ of humanity make friends at the
               | place where they spend nearly half their waking hours,
               | and there is nothing wrong with that. It 's fine that not
               | everyone does, but this "rule" people like to spout about
               | "your co-workers are not your friends" - well, maybe your
               | coworkers are not _your_ friends, but I 've made plenty
               | of deep, lasting friendships through work.
        
               | forz877 wrote:
               | Not everyone you meet at work needs to be your "Best
               | friend forever and always."
               | 
               | I just like talking to people. I like being able to go
               | down the hall and solving a problem in 5 minutes that
               | would take 3 days and 3 meetings WFH. I am "friendly"
               | with many people in the office. I socialize with them.
               | 
               | They aren't dear dear friends but they are acquaintances
               | that have helped me out of tight spots and I helped them.
               | I can't tell you how many times I've been helped through
               | these sort of relationships.
               | 
               | If you're introverted just say it. There's nothing wrong
               | with it. But there's nothing wrong with socializing
               | either.
        
               | porker wrote:
               | They sound like colleagues. As distinct from other
               | employees or friends.
               | 
               | Some of my best times were working in a university
               | department. We did all this, though the talking to people
               | outside your team was at proscribed coffee times in the
               | staff lounge and sometimes over lunch.
               | 
               | But they remained colleagues not friends. Outside the few
               | parties a year we didn't go round people's houses. We
               | collaborated and fought over work, as that was what
               | brought us together.
               | 
               | I make the distinction between colleagues and other
               | employees as not all employees are colleagues. Colleagues
               | help each other out of tight spots and talk beyond "Nice
               | weather". Friends could be either, but in my experience
               | once everyone is married and has kids, the closest will
               | be "friendly" rather than "friends".
        
               | forz877 wrote:
               | This is just pedantic. I'm sorry in your experience you
               | didn't meet lifelong friends, but many do (I have.)
               | 
               | My point is, there isn't a right or wrong here. It's
               | frustrating see the WFH warrior brigade come out and
               | diminish other's experiences just because they had a bad
               | experience. It's simply not universal.
        
               | taylodl wrote:
               | I'm extroverted, actually. We have several slack channels
               | for each of the departments and hierarchies of our org.
               | People say good morning. You can "go down the hall" and
               | ask a question. We still do pair programming. In short,
               | not much has changed from when we were in the office.
               | 
               | Once allowed we'll be going out to lunch again. I always
               | made it a point to go out to lunch with people - people I
               | work with now, people I've worked with in the past, and
               | people I've met through meetups. I like going out at a
               | minimum every other week and prefer once a week.
               | 
               | Maybe it's company culture? We're in multiple states and
               | have multiple locations within the same state - and I
               | need to work with people from all these different
               | locations and so we've solved this "working together
               | remotely" problems ages ago. It's an important part of
               | our corporate culture. WFH just solved the problem of
               | working in a big, noisy area.
        
               | forz877 wrote:
               | The point I'm making is that people are different.
               | 
               | Some people make friends at work, others don't. While you
               | may struggle blurring friend from colleague in the
               | office, others may struggle WFH with separating their
               | house and leisure from work. Not everyone has a luxury
               | office to walk into. Some work in their dining room.
               | 
               | There are pros and cons, and those pros and cons change
               | depending on individual circumstances. But ultimately you
               | are working for a company that needs to make money and
               | they need to make a decision. You can choose to stay or
               | leave.
        
               | topkai22 wrote:
               | Work, like college, provides directed activity and
               | identity to bond over. Just having shared space isn't the
               | same. Finding/developing institutions that provide that
               | and aren't work is difficult and will take time
        
               | Wowfunhappy wrote:
               | I'm more-or-less the person described in the GP, and I
               | live in Manhattan. Being in a city doesn't mean crap if I
               | spend the day sitting alone in my tiny studio apartment.
               | 
               | 40 hours a week is a huge chunk of my life. I don't want
               | to just be a robot during that time, I want to be part of
               | a community of some sort. (Even as I do try to maintain
               | connections outside of work too!)
        
               | ItsMonkk wrote:
               | Now that others are not working in the office, I hope
               | that communities realize that we are drastically under-
               | creating shared spaces and push for significantly more of
               | them.
               | 
               | As these offices are sitting empty and are no longer
               | required, instead of letting them sit empty, let them be
               | free to all. Community involvement is the only way to get
               | this done.
        
               | tgragnato wrote:
               | Dating at work is especially a bad idea.
               | 
               | Things could be perfect, but (with high probability) a
               | relationship will abruptly end and managing every social
               | aspect can be difficult.
        
               | Matticus_Rex wrote:
               | Dating at work _can_ be a bad idea. But also, a very
               | large proportion of the married people I know met their
               | spouses at work.
        
               | nafix wrote:
               | Maybe for you it is. I know tons of people who do this
               | with 0 issue at multiple places I've worked.
        
               | astrange wrote:
               | Most people don't care about their jobs more than they do
               | about their relationships.
        
               | thatguy0900 wrote:
               | Especially looking for dates in the workplace as a
               | selling point.
        
               | gowld wrote:
               | Sounds great, but there's nothing like college and work
               | for bringing people together all day. Without the
               | structure, most people won't come together.
        
               | awsthro00945 wrote:
               | > Relying on your employer for these items seems unwise.
               | 
               | Why? Work is where you spend one third (or more) of your
               | time during your adult life. Why the hell would I not
               | want such a significant portion of my life to not also
               | provide great benefits like opportunities to make
               | friends, meet people, eat great food, and have fun?
               | 
               | If you scoff at people who want to make their workplaces
               | more welcoming and happier, _no shit_ the workplace is
               | going to turn into anti-social, work-only hellholes that
               | nobody wants to go back to. This attitude is a self-
               | fulfilling prophecy, and a root of the problem.
        
               | nklop wrote:
               | Friends are friends and workmates are workmates. A lot of
               | people confuse these groups and think they are somehow
               | the same.
               | 
               | Workmates might become friends but more likely they are
               | work colleagues that vanish after a contract ends,
               | especially if they didn't mesh with your network.
               | 
               | In my circles we as a group often get work at a company.
               | At least do referrals etc. We also leave together to find
               | new opportunities when the place goes feral. This is
               | partly why we think office work is less than good a lot
               | of times.
               | 
               | I'd argue most offices devolve into hellholes as
               | management forget about people and treat them as things.
        
               | spfzero wrote:
               | Your employer is not really motivated to provide those
               | things for you. They have a different motivation, which
               | is to get you to work productively on a job they think
               | needs doing.
               | 
               | They may provide some of those either explicitly as an
               | incentive, or as a side-effect of putting a bunch of
               | people in close proximity, and that's great. But when
               | profits are looking iffy, I don't think you can _rely_ on
               | it. It makes more sense to be less dependent on your job,
               | which might go away, and to build those social
               | experiences outside of work so you still have them to
               | fall back on if you change jobs.
        
               | drclau wrote:
               | Let me be the devil's (to be read corporate) advocate for
               | a moment here. You say:
               | 
               | > Why? Work is where you spend one third (or more) of
               | your time during your adult life. Why the hell would I
               | not want such a significant portion of my life to not
               | also provide great benefits like opportunities to make
               | friends, meet people, eat great food, and have fun?
               | 
               | I say: aren't you supposed to, you know, work while you
               | are at work? The office is not a social club!
               | 
               | Jokes aside, I always wondered how much time people
               | actually do proper, productive work while in office, in
               | software engineering. My view is rather restricted to my
               | own experience (personal + people around me). I'm asking
               | because if it's, say, 4h a day, I'd rather just spend 4h
               | a day in office, and spend the other 4h however I choose
               | to (alone, with family, or with colleagues, friends
               | etc.), instead of watching YouTube or listen to
               | conversations I don't want to (thanks open plan office!),
               | or whatever people do when they are not productive.
               | 
               | Maybe one day we'll collectively figure out the right
               | amount of time we are actually productive, and get back
               | the rest of the time.
        
               | stemlord wrote:
               | But part of the value of WFH is the ability to lower
               | work-time to something even less than one third. I've
               | always found it extremely difficult to foster worthwhile
               | relationships and have truly fulfilling fun in a
               | corporate PC environment anyway.
        
               | rytcio wrote:
               | Well, that's the other side of it. If a company is paying
               | you for 40hrs a week, they want to make sure they're
               | getting their moneys worth.
               | 
               | Of course you can argue about how employees, despite
               | being "in the office" are only productive for 2 or maybe
               | 3 hours of their 8 hour shifts. But that's now how
               | management sees it. Having a person visibly in a chair
               | makes management feel like they are getting their money's
               | worth.
               | 
               | I also don't get how people expect to get paid a full
               | living salary for working less.
        
               | Matticus_Rex wrote:
               | Ultimately, at the market level pay rates are tied to
               | productive value. We have a theoretical assumption of
               | 40h/week, but almost everyone understands that it's
               | fictional (and more people are learning that). Most
               | people who are going home and getting the same work done
               | in 2-3 hours aren't working less -- they're working more
               | efficiently, or doing fewer _other_ things (e.g. chatting
               | at the water cooler).
               | 
               | For many types of thought work, 3-4 hours is pushing it
               | anyway; the default assumption of 8 hours doesn't make
               | sense with the heterogeneity of what different types of
               | work actually entail.
        
               | weakfish wrote:
               | PC environment?
        
               | barbazoo wrote:
               | > Work is where you spend one third (or more) of your
               | time during your adult life.
               | 
               | I surely hope this is rare. Even a 40h work week is less
               | than a quarter of work per week and that doesn't account
               | for holidays, vacation etc.
        
               | triceratops wrote:
               | Not if you take out 56h/week for sleeping.
        
               | lowercased wrote:
               | and commute. even a 'quick' commute (and attendant
               | 'getting started for the day') is going to put you closer
               | to 50h/week. Then another... ~50h/week for sleeping, as
               | you say. The 'commute to an office' is closer to a 1/3rd
               | of you week, and ~1/2 of your waking life for many folks.
        
               | MisterBastahrd wrote:
               | Why?
               | 
               | Because if you live in a great place, all those things
               | are available to you without discontinuity regardless of
               | WHO you work for. The reason that there's such a
               | disconnect between 20-somethings and everyone else on
               | this issue is because everyone else has been through it
               | already. Sure, there's a possibility that you will remain
               | friends with people at your former place of work after
               | you leave. There's also a VERY strong possibility that
               | the people who are at that workplace are socializing with
               | the people AT that workplace. The longer you stay away,
               | the more people you DON'T know, and the less you fit into
               | their social crowd.
        
               | awsthro00945 wrote:
               | >Because if you live in a great place, all those things
               | are available to you without discontinuity regardless of
               | WHO you work for.
               | 
               | And how is this an argument for not also getting those
               | things through work?
               | 
               | I have many hobbies outside work. I live in a great place
               | where I am able to spend my free time meeting people and
               | doing things outside work. I still want those things from
               | my workplace, too.
        
               | MisterBastahrd wrote:
               | Because you have a limited amount of time to invest in
               | certain things in life, and it's better to invest that
               | time independently of your work environment. Not saying
               | that you can't ever have it, just that some day will be
               | your last day at wherever you are, and those
               | relationships don't always follow you to your next job.
        
               | pawelduda wrote:
               | The root of the problem you descibe are incentives for
               | why workplaces exist. They exist so employees can go
               | there and work. There's nothing wrong with that, as long
               | as it's an explicit contract between employer and
               | employees that both sides agree on.
               | 
               | Some employers will be very happy with blurring
               | work/personal life boundaries: employees make friends
               | (but the real quality of friendships will only surface
               | after you've changed jobs, unless you plan to stick to a
               | single job forever), eat great food (because maybe it's
               | cheaper than simply paying the employees more) and have
               | fun (enough to make impression of a laid-back place but
               | not too much, because it would hurt company's
               | performance).
               | 
               | It's because all these 'perks' are built on completely
               | different goal. I used to think they're mandatory for me
               | to feel satisfied with the job - looking back they now
               | seem artificial.
               | 
               | That's why I personally love WFH - it let's me focus on
               | the essence of working which to me is providing value for
               | my client. For everything else, there's time outside of
               | job.
        
               | sanderjd wrote:
               | Because you might get fired or laid off or burnt out and
               | leave and only then discover that you have invested too
               | much of yourself into this faceless entity that does not
               | care a whit about you. This is one of those things where
               | peoples' warnings to the young come from hard won
               | experience, but where it doesn't sound right to people
               | who have not themselves yet gained the experience. So we
               | fail to impart the lessons and each generation is forced
               | to relearn them on their own. It can be maddening to know
               | something is correct but unable to convince someone who
               | must experience it themselves in order to see. But it's
               | just life and humanity, it just works that way.
        
               | acchow wrote:
               | > Because you might get fired or laid off or burnt out
               | and leave and only then discover that you have invested
               | too much of yourself into this faceless entity that does
               | not care a whit about you.
               | 
               | I think how much you invest into this faceless entity is
               | independent from whether you WFH or the office, no?
        
               | sanderjd wrote:
               | In theory, yes, but in practice many offices are designed
               | to draw employees into the company being a lifestyle
               | rather than a place to work, in a way that is difficult
               | to accomplish without the office. (This is why there is
               | so much hesitance from these companies to ditch their
               | offices!)
        
               | awsthro00945 wrote:
               | >This is one of those things where peoples' warnings to
               | the young come from hard won experience, but where it
               | doesn't sound right to people who have not themselves yet
               | gained the experience.
               | 
               | Speak for yourself. I am very experienced. I have worked
               | at many companies, some of which I left abruptly, and
               | others where my close friends were fired/laid off.
               | 
               | But guess what? None of that matters. Just because a
               | friendship starts at a workplace doesn't mean it ends
               | when the employment ends. Some of my best, life-long
               | friends are people I met at work. My current SO, who I
               | will marry, is someone I met at at a past employer. My
               | wedding party is going to be half-filled with people who
               | I met at work, even though I no longer work with them. I
               | currently mentor (and am mentored by) people from past
               | jobs, one of which was actually fired.
               | 
               | This is also a self-fulfilling prophecy that I see in
               | these conversations. People begrudgingly make nice with
               | people at work, and restrict those relationships to only
               | happen at work... and then are surprised when those
               | relationships end when employment ends. If you only
               | interact with your "friends" at your employer, then no
               | shit those interactions will stop when your employment
               | ends. But they don't have to, and for many people, they
               | don't.
               | 
               | It's not any different than any other part of life. I'm
               | no longer in college, but I'm still close friends with
               | people I met in college, and I don't regret at all the
               | fun activities I did during college. I no longer go to my
               | old gym (I switched to a new gym), but I still keep in
               | touch with someone I met at the old gym and I still
               | benefit from the exercises I did there. I no longer live
               | in my old apartment, but I still keep in touch with my
               | friend who lived across the hall from me. Why should my
               | workplace be any different?
        
               | throwaways885 wrote:
               | You have to be careful, because work friends can suddenly
               | vanish when you change jobs, but anyone with a bit of
               | social awareness can navigate this.
               | 
               | WFH has changed work from a social experience into
               | something boring. I get it, work _is_ work, and maybe
               | treating it as a more significant part of life isn 't a
               | shrewd move, but I am definitely missing out something in
               | this current state.
               | 
               | (That being said, I do understand that I may change my
               | mind in 10 years, assuming I have a family. But I can
               | only talk about how this seems today.)
        
               | sanderjd wrote:
               | There are two different statements one can make: "don't
               | make friends at revolve one's life around work" vs.
               | "don't _only_ make friends at and revolve one 's life
               | around work". I'm making the latter statement. Edit to
               | add: I think you're also making the latter statement, so
               | I don't think we disagree.
        
               | tomtheelder wrote:
               | Enjoying the convenient food, comfortable workstation,
               | and low level social interactions you get from a good
               | workplace is not an investment at all. If you get fired
               | or quit then you just get the same thing at the next job.
               | I speak from experience having done this multiple times.
               | 
               | Your point about not over-investing into a company that
               | doesn't care about you is valid, but not relevant.
        
               | sanderjd wrote:
               | It is relevant because many people in our industry
               | _replace_ hobbies, diversions, and friendships outside
               | the workplace with those within. If they instead merely
               | _augment_ them, that 's great. But there can be many
               | temptations to transition through augmentation into
               | replacement.
        
               | curmudgeon22 wrote:
               | I think a lot of the benefits you (can) get from this you
               | can take with you after you leave the company. I have
               | good friends I still hang out with from my previous work
               | places 1 and 6 years ago. If it would have been
               | all/mostly virtual interactions, I'm sure things would
               | have been OK, but I don't think it would have resulted in
               | the same level of connection with some of my coworkers.
               | YMMV, different people form connections differently.
        
               | ItsMonkk wrote:
               | We've learned in this pandemic that for knowledge work
               | the workplace is no longer a requirement for
               | productivity. Work should be what you spend one third of
               | your time doing, but it should not be where. During
               | college I did my homework in the computer labs where
               | other students were doing their work and we chatted and
               | built a rapport despite working on different tasks. I
               | look forward to working out of the office and out of my
               | home and building relationships with people that are not
               | contractually obligated to be with me.
               | 
               | I expect to treat my co-workers with respect, but that is
               | no different than what Open Source projects have done for
               | decades.
        
             | Lammy wrote:
             | - Making friends with employees
             | 
             | - Work life separation (balance)
             | 
             | Does not compute.
        
               | throwaways885 wrote:
               | It is possible, much in the same way that making friends
               | at school does not require you to be glued to a textbook
               | all day. But it requires self control and thoughtful
               | boundaries.
        
               | jordache wrote:
               | Sure it does. You're seeing this as a binary thing.. It's
               | anything but that.
               | 
               | You can integrate certain aspects of work and personal
               | life (social circle) while keeping other aspects siloed
        
             | cpursley wrote:
             | Sounds like you just need to put some effort into building
             | a social life outside of work...
             | 
             | And dating a co-worker in today's climate? No way, to much
             | a risk -at least in the US.
             | 
             | The rest of them (comfortable space to work, food) are easy
             | to solve with minimal effort. Especially on a dev salary.
        
             | itronitron wrote:
             | For many people the office only provides work life
             | separation.
        
             | jancsika wrote:
             | How does
             | 
             | > Work life separation (balance).
             | 
             | jibe with
             | 
             | > - Social chatter & engagement.
             | 
             | > - Sense of belonging - team outing, after hours beers..
             | 
             | > - Intra and inter company sports and games.
             | 
             | > - Meeting potential dates.
             | 
             | ?
             | 
             | * "Single, young" "person" rips off its mask out of
             | ravenous anger to reveal a 400 year-old lizardoid smacking
             | its chops at the humans in it's vicinity.*
        
               | tqi wrote:
               | Work / Life separation doesn't mean "Work life" is devoid
               | of social aspects, and while "Work life" is different
               | from "Life life" it can share many of the same
               | activities.
        
           | thatfrenchguy wrote:
           | Can't replace senior engineers with a bunch of college grads
           | though ;-)
        
           | kilroy123 wrote:
           | Yup, I am glad I worked _in_ office during the first ~7 years
           | of my career. I couldn 't even imagine my life not doing
           | that.
           | 
           | I've been working remotely since 2015. Do I want to go back
           | now? Hell no.
        
           | bhub wrote:
           | I'm 45 and have been working partially remote for 4 years and
           | fully remote since the pandemic. I really enjoy working from
           | home. Spending more time with family and finding a good
           | work/life balance and not having to commute are great perks.
           | 
           | I have recently started a new job and was interviewed and
           | onboarded entirely remote. The process was fine and in the
           | future I am not required to be in the office a lot either.
           | 
           | However I am eager to get into the office to meet the new
           | people, have them at hand to ask questions (not just on
           | teams) and generally assimilate into the team.
           | 
           | The problem with teams and other such tools is that I can't
           | see if someone is available or not. Their dot might be green,
           | but they might be in the zone or otherwise not easily
           | interruptible. In an office I can see whether or not this is
           | the case.
           | 
           | I'm not keen to work in the office 100% but I am also aware
           | of some of the benefits of being in the office at times.
           | Especially planning meetings etc.
           | 
           | I also don't think each case suits everyone and IMO flexible
           | location is a good compromise allowing people to work where
           | they would like. Let people come in when they need or for
           | meetings but also let them work from home as they need.
        
             | zffr wrote:
             | IMO what's great about slack is that you can send someone a
             | message and they can choose to respond whenever they're
             | free. If async communication is too slow, you can always
             | ask do to a zoom call for a few min.
             | 
             | In an office I think it is pretty hard to tell when someone
             | is actually available. If you make a mistake and interrupt
             | someone while they are actually thinking deeply about a
             | problem, you can cause a pretty big dent in their
             | productivity.
        
             | randcraw wrote:
             | Assuming your kids are in HS now, and will depart for
             | college soon, it'll be interesting to see how you like
             | working from home when your home occupancy drops to only
             | two (or to one, if your SO is often away).
             | 
             | I'm a soloist, and I've found WFH to be a mixed bag in the
             | past 16 months. I love that I can set up my home workspace
             | exactly as I'd like it. But I very much miss routine social
             | interactions and don't care much for the daily isolation.
             | 
             | If I could return to an office/cube, I think I'd prefer
             | that. But alas, my clueless F100 employer insists we IT-
             | types occupy an open space without personal- or group-
             | reserved seating, so I'll rarely be able to find or sit
             | with anyone I know. NOT something I'd prefer.
             | 
             | Perhaps the exodus of those seeking greener pastures will
             | include me too.
        
           | hintymad wrote:
           | This is what I got from 1-on-1s with my coworkers too. Clear
           | separation: Single people want to go back to office. People
           | who have families do not.
        
           | jackson1442 wrote:
           | Agreed. I'm a college student and have a remote job at a
           | company out of DC, and I don't think I'll be staying there,
           | at least in a remote capacity, after I graduate.
           | 
           | While I'm in school, remote work is actually super useful
           | because I can work wherever, whenever, and working around my
           | coursework is incredibly easy. When I'm not in the middle of
           | a term though, it becomes more of a chore. Working 40hrs out
           | of my bedroom isn't ideal by any means (I go out and work at
           | a coffee shop for a few hours each day to combat this), but
           | the work-life separation has been really hard for me to form.
           | 
           | I just got swapped from 1099 to W2 so now I'll at least have
           | a work machine that I can keep separate from all my personal
           | stuff, but I feel like it'll still have more of a blurred
           | line than it should have.
           | 
           | I might feel differently about this when I eventually have a
           | house with a dedicated office, etc. but living out of an
           | apartment with no formal workspace is really difficult, at
           | least for me. Definition of spaces is incredibly important to
           | how I work.
        
           | flashgordon wrote:
           | This. My observation (and mine alone) is that the FAANGs have
           | commoditized software engineering roles, eg via standardized
           | interviews, disregarding experience - unless you have a
           | "creator" brand etc. This has increased the pool of
           | candidates who are still clamoring to get in (and recent IPOs
           | just made it busier). The FAANG calculus sounds like betting
           | on all this. Infact they are probably calculating this
           | attrition even contributes to some of the unregretable kind!
        
           | InertBrake wrote:
           | Exactly this. The sudden all-remote arrangement last year
           | wrecked my first big summer internship in every possible way.
           | I take responsibility for a good deal of how it affected me
           | emotionally and my subsequent lack of productivity. However,
           | I also wasn't given the physical hardware lab projects I
           | signed up for or any meaningful support. I felt deeply
           | disconnected and unengaged, but pressured to pretend
           | everything was okay.
           | 
           | At this point in my life, I'm one of those people who is
           | screaming to get out of the house. It's a place of comfort to
           | me for sure, but also distraction and stagnation. Couple this
           | great start to my career with having a critical third of
           | college plus youth in general being ripped from me, I think
           | its pretty clear why I am against pure WFH. People in
           | different situations and stages with different needs will
           | want different arrangements, but I am not going to apply for
           | remote positions as a new grad.
        
           | majormajor wrote:
           | My take on HN is that there's a very vocal and fervent anti-
           | office crowd here that cares _more strongly_ about it so will
           | dominate conversations about it, and that the  "typical line-
           | level engineer" employee will roll their eyes, not engage,
           | and just continue waiting until they can get back to normal.
        
           | tolbish wrote:
           | Vets with 5+ years of specific subdomain experience within
           | the company's ecosystem (along with experienced engineers who
           | have experience from elsewhere) are much harder to replace.
        
             | ThrowawayR2 wrote:
             | A big part of the rather documentation and process-heavy
             | development model at FAANGs and other large corporations is
             | to ensure that other people can take over a project if any
             | individual leaves. Much as people will hate this analogy,
             | "cattle, not pets" is a concept managers and HR knew long
             | before the software industry stumbled on it. The people at
             | FAANGs are highly-talented but, even at that level, only a
             | handful are truly irreplaceable (and those people were so
             | valued that they were allowed to work from anywhere they
             | wanted even before the pandemic).
        
               | sgtnoodle wrote:
               | As an individual engineer, I think it's inherently
               | valuable to make my projects easy to hand off (in
               | addition to as maintenance free as possible). The company
               | is less impacted if I leave, sure, and it also means I
               | can take a vacation without constantly getting messaged.
               | Long term, it means that I end up working on more
               | bleeding edge "cool" projects, since I'm not bogged down
               | with years of making myself irreplaceable, and folk want
               | new work to benefit from the same level of redundancy and
               | maintainability.
               | 
               | I believe that I have a perception of being
               | irreplaceable, but it's because of my future value rather
               | than past value.
               | 
               | I've never felt like I was being treated like cattle at
               | work, though, so maybe I've just been lucky enough to
               | work at good companies.
        
               | gowld wrote:
               | It doesn't really work though, thanks to "move fast and
               | break things". Losing a team member on an important old
               | system is a big loss.
        
             | hn_throwaway_99 wrote:
             | FAANGs have 10s to 100s of thousands of employees. "Vets"
             | are a lot less irreplaceable than you might think.
        
               | tolbish wrote:
               | Technical debt is technical debt.
        
           | tayo42 wrote:
           | Who is doing the mentoring then if only early career people
           | are in the office?
        
           | brightball wrote:
           | Yea, this makes perfect sense to me. I had WFH as an option
           | at my first job. After 3 weeks the cool perk wore off and I
           | was in the office by choice everyday.
           | 
           | Now I have a family at home and life is much easier working
           | out of the house.
        
           | ikerdanzel wrote:
           | Most young one doesn't have experience. Once a good
           | experienced senior tech guy left, there usually a lost of
           | know-how. I've seen this happened where the product
           | development stalled for years because a couple of good one
           | left. It took numerous year to get back to track from mass
           | hiring. And even that was largely helped by 2nd or 3rd best
           | tech persons still left in companies in the first place to
           | mentor the new hires. If a huge chunks of good experience
           | persons gone, development will stall even for Apple. There is
           | a reason why FAANG are competitive even when their pays are
           | insane compare to the lower ranks companies. And nowadays the
           | East actively seek out know-how. None of FAANG IP is
           | enforceable there. Any experienced tech guy can just start a
           | new life over there happily. Give it 2-3 more years and
           | Huawei will be back like pre-Covid.
        
           | pm90 wrote:
           | They might be able to hire boatloads of new/early grads but
           | attrition of senior staff is no joke. Maybe they're large
           | enough to throw people at the problem and survive, IDK.
        
             | Spooky23 wrote:
             | Where are all of these senior people with large, cushy
             | BigCorp paychecks and benefits going?
        
               | pm90 wrote:
               | Startups (both early and late stage)
        
           | [deleted]
        
           | zippergz wrote:
           | My purely anecdotal experience is kind of the opposite. My
           | friends and co-workers who are eager to get back to the
           | office are mostly the ones who have kids and want to get away
           | from them during the day (which I am sympathetic to).
        
             | TeMPOraL wrote:
             | FWIW, I have a kid (and a second on the way), and I want to
             | go to _an_ office, _my_ office - not back to _the_ office.
             | That is, I want a separate place to work from, to make
             | work-life balance easier and better insulate myself from
             | the kid-related chaos during work hours.
             | 
             | But this can be solved with just renting a separate flat
             | and using it as an office; something I actually considered,
             | except small flats are the new fad for real estate
             | investors (at least where I live), so prices are
             | ridiculous.
             | 
             | Going back to _the_ office, the company building, removes a
             | lot of the flexibility and freedom that are important to
             | me, and bring in heaps of crap that I don 't want to deal
             | with.
        
           | nklop wrote:
           | Not me. My career networks are online. Offices are full of
           | people trying to give each other eating disorders through
           | passive aggression, politics and generally pointless power
           | games.
           | 
           | That's the perception we have in our groups. We meet up
           | weekly face to face to share air when possible.
        
             | hn_throwaway_99 wrote:
             | > Offices are full of people trying to give each other
             | eating disorders through passive aggression, politics and
             | generally pointless power games.
             | 
             | Seriously, does half of HN work in the real-life equivalent
             | of "The Office"? Yes, office politics exist, but this idea
             | that it's some sort of scheming, back-stabbing environment
             | is a caricature I have never experienced in my nearly 30
             | year career.
        
               | nklop wrote:
               | So you've not seen layoffs? I have. It was a mad scurry
               | of people running around looking busy and indispensible.
               | 
               | Bullying? I've had it done to me and another time had to
               | sit in with HR on someone else's behalf.
               | 
               | People being performance managed just because? I saw a
               | bunch of 40 somethings get targeted and zeroed out. It
               | got ugly.
               | 
               | 30x1 is not the same as 1x30 or 6x5 or 15x2 or 10x3. They
               | all look like the same equation but the experiences can
               | be vastly different.
        
               | forz877 wrote:
               | None of these things are solved by WFH.
        
               | gowld wrote:
               | Is WFH layoff-proof somehow?
        
               | nklop wrote:
               | Why would you ask that? I didn't imply that. No
               | guarantees with WFH either.
               | 
               | Inserted edit: I notice you didn't comment on bullying.
               | That's awkward over a zoom. At least one boss of someone
               | I know has found out the hard way. Especially on
               | playback.
               | 
               | The mind set changes when you start self organising
               | because you're alone in a room. It's a different dynamic.
               | 
               | The gig economy has a lot of twists and turns. Less old
               | guarantees but some interesting new ones.
        
               | jackson1442 wrote:
               | The inverse is also true- I've found it significantly
               | harder to get to know my coworkers over Zoom at my
               | current shop than I have in the past. Granted, this is my
               | first "office job," but at the jobs I've worked in the
               | past it's been super easy to meet other people and get to
               | know each other.
               | 
               | I get that some people want to put their head down and
               | grind for 8 hours a day then move on with their lives,
               | but I tend to prefer at least knowing who I work with. I
               | work at a small company, well under 100 people, and
               | haven't met half of them.
        
               | nklop wrote:
               | I think the future for a lot of businesses will still be
               | in-office. Having the team in one room has its own
               | benefits. Plenty of others will be remote since that also
               | has benefits. A lot more will be somewhere in-between. I
               | think that will be more common. 100% remote won't suit a
               | lot of businesses.
               | 
               | But 30% of the time? Or 20%? For plenty of people this
               | won't seem weird. Spending two days per week working from
               | home won't be strange.
               | 
               | I work remote now. While I still see a need for in-person
               | catch-ups this doesn't include any need for the classic
               | daily commute. That, for me and many others, at least, is
               | now dead.
        
               | jackson1442 wrote:
               | Exactly. My ideal setup would be a flexible week where I
               | could come in between 2-4 days each week and work from
               | home the rest. Maybe have everyone on the team in on a
               | specific day and the rest are up to me.
        
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         | benjaminwootton wrote:
         | They could also play the slow game by tempting some people back
         | and then letting social and career pressure take care of many
         | of the rest. You'll have a much easier negotiating position
         | when half the company and half the world are back at their
         | desks.
        
         | CPLX wrote:
         | > For companies who's entire value is the intangible human
         | capital of their workforce
         | 
         | Yeah no. The core value of these companies is the fact that
         | they've managed to establish a monopolistic position within an
         | important high-margin market segment and now find themselves
         | stewards of a massive money printing machine.
         | 
         | Yes, eventually, without a competent workforce they'll start to
         | face threats and crisis, but I think you're wildly
         | underestimating the usefulness of that money printing machine
         | to solve any problems that crop up in the next year or three if
         | they find they've miscalculated slightly.
        
           | glitchc wrote:
           | Reminds me of Research in Motion.
        
             | bregma wrote:
             | Who are still around, calling themselves BlackBerry, and
             | have not yet declared their return-to-the-office policy.
        
         | handrous wrote:
         | > For companies who's entire value is the intangible human
         | capital of their workforce, this seems like a pretty big
         | fucking risk to take.
         | 
         | Which are those? I'd say e.g. Google's value has more to do
         | with incumbent market position. Google and others (Facebook,
         | for instance) derive a _ton_ of value from access to massive
         | amounts of data and scale-required-as-table-stakes advertising
         | revenue that make it damn near impossible to compete with them
         | unless you 're _already_ an enormous corporation, even on some
         | minor product that 's not part of their core business.
         | Arguably, exclusive access to and ability to leverage data is
         | much of Amazon's value. Microsoft's, too, increasingly.
         | 
         | Granted they need some number of competent people to keep that
         | going in much the same way that any business does, but "entire
         | value" is significantly overstating labor's case here, I'd say.
         | Their historical-data moats and exclusive visibility into
         | valuable data streams are what make them so damn hard to
         | compete with. It'd be more accurate to say that their _users_
         | are their entire value, than their human capital (though still
         | wrong, I think).
        
         | Grim-444 wrote:
         | In my experience the quip about the "train not swerving off the
         | tracks so far" is mainly just because of the momentum we had
         | from years of working closely together in the office. The
         | longer it goes on, the further my group/department/org fall
         | apart. Communication isn't as good, the new hires aren't
         | trained well and aren't integrated with the team well, a
         | percentage of the employees are obviously just slacking off and
         | not getting much work done, etc. Yes you could argue that those
         | things could be fixed/improved but the reality of the situation
         | is that they're real problems that we're really facing. From
         | what I can see of my situation, it isn't sustainable in my org
         | for much longer.
        
         | thorwasdfasdf wrote:
         | it's just supply and demand of labor. when there's a vast
         | oversupply of talented labor, you don't need to cater to the
         | desires of that talent pool. there's a long list of potential
         | candidates that would love to work at a FAANG even if they have
         | to go back to the office.
        
         | outside1234 wrote:
         | Especially since they are throwing out mask requirements and
         | vaccination verification for folks returning to work - who
         | wants to expose themselves to that?
        
         | omgwtfbbq wrote:
         | It's about power. How will FAANG get 22 year old college grads
         | to stay at work 12 hours a day writing advertising software if
         | they don't have them eating dinner and playing ping pong in the
         | office?
        
         | cmrdporcupine wrote:
         | Can't speak for the others, but Google is not being aggressive
         | about return, frankly. Return will be based on regional case
         | numbers, and the expectation is only for 3/5 days, low office
         | capacity at the start, and I'm sure plenty of flexibility will
         | be given.
         | 
         | I personally can't wait to go back, and that's the same
         | sentiment I hear from most people on my team. HN seems to have
         | become a bit of an echo-chamber of people who prefer WFH, but
         | frankly I'm looking forward to the hybrid model.
        
         | nr2x wrote:
         | I was of the same mind until I saw the iOS/macOS reveal and now
         | I'm fairly certain whatever WFH system Apple is doing isn't
         | working.
        
         | notatoad wrote:
         | disclaimer that this is completely anecdotal, but what i've
         | heard from a few people in fortune-500 oil&gas companies is
         | that 30-40% attrition is an acceptable side-effect of returning
         | to offices, because productivity has been down by even more
         | than that during WFH.
         | 
         | the push to get people back in the offices is because people
         | aren't working from home. there's no point retaining your staff
         | if they aren't actually getting anything done. maybe it's
         | different for software engineers at FAANG companies, but keep
         | in mind that even if software engineers are productive, those
         | companies employ thousands of people in sales, marketing, HR,
         | accounting, and other office jobs. and pushing people back to
         | the office in one department while letting another department
         | continue WFH isn't going to play well.
        
         | weezin wrote:
         | Having spent so much money creating billion dollar campuses has
         | them in a sunk cost fallacy IMO.
        
         | _red wrote:
         | Well...FANG products have largely reached the point in
         | development where new features are incremental and not closely
         | tied to growth or churn in a meaningful way.
         | 
         | Not being dismissive, simply pointing out...what fundamental
         | leverage does a developer have against inelastic customer
         | demand? Are customer going to stop using FANG products because
         | advertising feature 3.2.97 isn't added this quarter?
        
           | forgetfulness wrote:
           | The market is neither that local nor that global. I don't
           | mean this in a "threat from China" way, but if US companies
           | just look at the offerings of other US companies and the US
           | labor market they might get blindsided again when it turns
           | out that there's good money, good programmers and good
           | designers in Europe and China as well, as it happened with
           | TikTok.
        
           | HelloNurse wrote:
           | It's feature 3.2.97 missed this quarter, but serious general
           | stagnation in the medium and long term: if junior office
           | dwellers replace senior workers from home moving somewhere
           | else very little is invented, let alone implemented.
        
             | bluefirebrand wrote:
             | And with no one mentoring those juniors, it's very unlikely
             | they will ever reach the same level of experience and
             | knowledge to actually start making those kinds of impacts
             | on the product or company.
        
           | polynomial wrote:
           | In "theory" yes, as measured at scale. Whether or not such
           | correlations really hold is up to a) your data science group,
           | and b) the complex and political negotiation of optics by
           | stakeholders.
           | 
           | I'm sort of kidding here, as I find your point sensible, but
           | it may be a tough sell that demand is inelastic.
        
         | breatheoften wrote:
         | I wouldn't be surprised if it's not largely driven by personal
         | profit motive/asset exposure of the decision maker class ...
         | executives, boards, and upper management at such companies are
         | nearly uniformly composed of wealthy individuals who probably
         | have diversified investment portfolios including tons of
         | commercial and residential real-estate interest in places like
         | the Bay area ... what happens to real estate prices in the bay
         | if tech becomes remote? Personally I can't imagine choosing to
         | live in San Francisco in the first place -- but how many of the
         | folks who did for work, then left during the pandemic to live
         | in more livable places, would really want to go back if given
         | the option not to ...?
        
         | baron_harkonnen wrote:
         | > perplexed what the FANGs are even thinking in being so
         | aggressive about pushing an end to WFH
         | 
         | I think the divide between WFH and return to the office boils
         | down to something surprisingly simple: how much longer does
         | your current lease last and/or how much office property do you
         | own.
         | 
         | Companies that are about to have a lease expire, or are growing
         | at a rate that they would need to soon lease an even larger
         | building are going to be surprisingly friendly to WFH.
         | 
         | Companies that have 5+ years on their current lease and aren't
         | planning rapid growth, or companies that spend enormous capital
         | building mega-offices that they likely can't recoup the losses
         | from unless people keep working in offices are going to be very
         | resistant to wide spread WFH.
         | 
         | The company I currently work for has an office, is not giving
         | it up (so I assume long term lease) but has nearly doubled
         | since the pandemic. They are very WFH friendly. Another company
         | I know had a shorter lease, shrunk considerably and is now too
         | small for there old office: also WFH friendly.
         | 
         | I know a few other companies that aren't growing or shrinking
         | and either own or long term lease several large offices in
         | expensive cities. All of them are pushing a return to office.
         | 
         | Any company that _owns_ commercial real estate is going to be
         | very aggressive about a return to work, not just for their
         | employees, but for everyone.
        
           | drclau wrote:
           | > I think the divide between WFH and return to the office
           | boils down to something surprisingly simple: how much longer
           | does your current lease last and/or how much office property
           | do you own.
           | 
           | Something I need to point out: the office is still cheaper to
           | run when empty, even if the corporation pays the lease. And
           | as far as I know, no company pays extra for working from
           | home, in fact the opposite seems to be sometimes true. So I
           | don't think your assessment holds.
           | 
           | I think the most important factor is... management. Managers
           | just feel they lose the control. Maybe some are even afraid
           | they will become irrelevant.
        
           | vaidhy wrote:
           | I am missing something that connects real estate ownership to
           | WFH policies. Let us assume you have committed to real-estate
           | and you cannot sub-lease it and you are on hook for paying
           | for it. It does not matter whether it is occupied or
           | unoccupied, right?
           | 
           | Is there something that reduces the cost if the building is
           | fully occupied rather than mostly empty? If so, companies
           | could remodel the buildings to have lower density, but more
           | comfortable working spaces - turn all available spaces into
           | small meeting room/working space.
           | 
           | In fact, it might be cheaper if your employees WFH rather
           | than come to office since you can avoid paying for subsidized
           | lunch, snacks, coffee etc. at office, power and cooling all
           | of which I would think are substantial.
        
           | acwan93 wrote:
           | Apple is the prime example, touting the massive $5B+
           | investment into its new campus. Google might be in the same
           | boat with its Downtown San Jose expansion work.
        
             | Finnucane wrote:
             | Here in Cambridge Google began work on an expansion before
             | the pandemic, and it is now almost done. Do they now
             | actually need it? Will be interesting to see.
        
           | lotsofpulp wrote:
           | I agree with this line of reasoning. Owners of real estate,
           | either directly or indirectly via owning interests in a
           | company with real estate will have an incentive for everyone
           | to return to office. Middle management may also have an
           | incentive to return to office, lest they be found redundant.
           | 
           | Otherwise, I am sure most people by and large would enjoy
           | would enjoy not wasting their life transiting back and forth
           | to work.
        
             | jhickok wrote:
             | >Otherwise, I am sure most people by and large would enjoy
             | would enjoy not wasting their life transiting back and
             | forth to work.
             | 
             | I personally find this true, but I think there are a lot of
             | younger tech people that use the workplace to fill a social
             | gap that is hard to fill otherwise. I have nothing but
             | anecdotal evidence but my company sold quite a few
             | properties-- their leases were either up and they didn't
             | renew or they outright sold commercial properties they
             | owned-- and our younger employees have openly expressed
             | concern that we are full time wfh.
        
           | dml2135 wrote:
           | Exactly, this is why you're seeing such a push for returning
           | to the office from financial institutions -- commercial real
           | estate makes up a large portion of their portfolios.
        
         | SpicyLemonZest wrote:
         | You're glossing too quickly over the "corporate culture" part.
         | It's not about sustainability or gaming out disaster scenarios:
         | they're pushing for an end to WFH because they try to cultivate
         | a culture where people _want_ to go to the office. (That 's
         | what all the amenities are for!)
        
         | alexdias wrote:
         | > I'm honestly perplexed what the FANGs are even thinking in
         | being so aggressive about pushing an end to WFH.
         | 
         | Yes, aggressive measures such as:
         | 
         | -Allowing employees to apply to be permanent remote employees
         | 
         | -Allowing 2 WFH days per week
        
           | r00t4ccess wrote:
           | The policy for applying for wWFH at the FAANG I work at
           | involves seniority and VP approval.
        
           | gliese1337 wrote:
           | ...which policies were only implemented after significant
           | employee pushback over the originally-announced "everyone
           | will be going back to the office full-time" plans.
        
             | cmrdporcupine wrote:
             | Google never announced anything like that. The moment they
             | started talking about return to office there was talk of
             | flexibility, lower capacities, and WFH. And in reality WFH
             | at least 1 or 2 days a week was _always_ a possibility, at
             | least in my Google office.
        
           | cableshaft wrote:
           | > Allowing employees to apply to be permanent remote
           | employees
           | 
           | We'll see how this plays out, but I'm expecting this to be
           | just a ploy to keep people from leaving right away and 95%+
           | requests to be remote will ultimately be denied.
        
             | nly wrote:
             | The 2 day WFH thing will fade away as well.
             | 
             | My company has put those optional 2 days WFH to TLs to
             | arrange amongst their teams, with the expectation that the
             | whole team will have the same schedule.
             | 
             | Basically if your TL doesn't care or want you to WFH, or
             | the team can't agree on days, you're done.
             | 
             | It'll be a major inconvenience and staff will ultimately
             | not see the benefits of full WFH with 3, so it won't last.
             | 
             | I think there will be increased churn once the "wait and
             | see" crowd clears
        
               | thebean11 wrote:
               | As someone who's company is doing exactly that (albeit
               | with only 1 day per week) I can't see that happening
               | here.
               | 
               | Agreeing on a day between 6 people isn't that hard
               | (disagreement can just be solved by the TL making the
               | decision) and once the policy exists it's hard to put the
               | genie back in the bottle.
               | 
               | Forcing everyone to come in seems like a huge political
               | blunder for a TL, why would they do that?
        
           | pc86 wrote:
           | Anything but allowing permanent WFH without any approval,
           | never requiring any on-site visits, and never requiring the
           | camera is "aggressive" to a lot of people for some reason.
        
         | hnthrowaway2021 wrote:
         | I work at a FANG (hence the throwaway), and I agree.
         | 
         | Frankly, the COVID-19 pandemic is simply _not over yet_. Not in
         | the whole world, and not even in the U.S. Especially with news
         | about a new variant, it feels like a safety risk to re-open
         | offices so early.
        
           | jstepka wrote:
           | i work in sf. i'm in florida right now for the nhl finals and
           | covid is fake news here, and it's utterly refreshing.
        
         | Taylor_OD wrote:
         | Many of these companies are letting more senior people stay
         | remote while requiring L4 and below to be in office. If they
         | lose a ton of L3's and L4's to other companies its a loss but
         | much less of a loss than losing L5's+
        
         | holdenk wrote:
         | So one of the things to remember about Google is the desire to
         | increase attrition of senior employees (e.g. those with the
         | most flexibility to move elsewhere). It's.... weird, but it
         | would totally match.
        
         | justapassenger wrote:
         | You seem to make very very bold assumptions without any data
         | backing them up: 1. That current WFH isn't degrading company
         | productivity. Some people love WFH, some hate it, and some just
         | don't have space for that. And for FANGs, that are heavily
         | concentrated in high-COL areas, having huge house with extra
         | bedrooms that give you space for work isn't that common. 2.
         | That brining people back to the office is the most horrible
         | thing that can happen to the company. 3. That talented people
         | prefer to WFH.
         | 
         | I get it, you like to WFH - that's great. But your anecdotes
         | aren't data.
        
         | swiley wrote:
         | Introspection is very hard for anyone running the world. That's
         | why revolutions happen and there isn't a single dynasty
         | stretching back to ancient times.
        
           | cmrdporcupine wrote:
           | Pretty sure if revolution breaks out in the western world...
           | it won't be started by overcompensated engineers upset that
           | they have to go back to attending an office with free
           | snacks/food and on-site massages.
        
             | astrange wrote:
             | That's a likely class of people to start revolutions - if
             | anything, they might be too low. See elite overproduction
             | theory.
        
             | swiley wrote:
             | I now see the irony of my comment.
        
         | jandrese wrote:
         | One dynamic that has become apparent to me recently is that at
         | my company everybody has to justify their building space. If
         | too much sits idle we can be penalized for inefficiency. If
         | half of the employees switch to mostly wfh then the corporation
         | would need to sell off/rent out half of the buildings to avoid
         | this.
         | 
         | As a result they announced that everybody has to be in the
         | office at least 3 days a week, and also most people would be
         | losing their permanent offices and only have access to hotel
         | office space. I've heard rumors that employee retention is
         | becoming something of a concern.
        
         | pjc50 wrote:
         | I suspect it's individual managers who've never quite got past
         | "if you can't see someone how do you know they're working?"
         | Never underestimate human irrationality in these things.
        
           | jfim wrote:
           | This varies on the manager. There are managers who do want to
           | see butts in seats, but there are also managers who want to
           | know their directs outside of "what's the status of JIRA
           | ticket X-1234" in a scheduled zoom meeting. Sure, there are
           | 1:1s if the agenda isn't too full, but it still feels kind of
           | contrived as opposed to bumping into someone in the break
           | room and asking them about their weekend, hobbies, or recent
           | projects.
        
           | aikinai wrote:
           | This is the most blatantly ridiculous straw man, I can't
           | believe people on HN keep trying to make it especially
           | against FAANG. Do you really think these companies are run by
           | middle managers that just want to watch people work?
           | 
           | At least at Google, a huge number of employees already work
           | in a different floor, office, city, or even country than
           | their managers that this couldn't even be a factor for them.
        
             | loopz wrote:
             | In Scrum, Scrum Master is a contributing member, just as
             | everyone else. It's a role without power, but servant
             | leadership and can be rotated.
             | 
             | This doesn't work in practice, as people are too bogged
             | down in their work to take on this. So the role is left up
             | to the nearest manager, ex-manager, clueless business
             | people who're not contributing or otherwise people who just
             | reports upwards. This defeats the role, and it's very very
             | rare to see a contributing member being scrum master, ie.
             | taking up slack and do the necessary stuff around the team.
             | 
             | So you end up with such role, or manager, overseeing the
             | desks in open office, of the servants. Such a one-sided
             | arrangement is both intentional, ignorant and about
             | dominance. Feng Shui explains why it is bad for knowledge
             | workers to have eyes over their shoulders all the time.
        
             | sircastor wrote:
             | It's not hard. It's not as though Sundar Pichai sends out a
             | survey to all Google employees. He asks the VPs, and the
             | VPs ask their reports and so on and so forth. I have no
             | doubt there's data from middle management that is getting
             | weighed more than that of the people they manage.
        
               | seanmcdirmid wrote:
               | > It's not as though Sundar Pichai sends out a survey to
               | all Google employees.
               | 
               | They actually send surveys to everyone. They also talk to
               | the VPs, but surveys have weight.
        
               | throwaways885 wrote:
               | No, they do. And you can see the aggregate scores of
               | everyone in the company on a dashboard afterwards.
        
         | throwaway6734 wrote:
         | As a non-fang employee, I will gladly scab any of them that are
         | not willing to go back to the office.
        
         | dalbasal wrote:
         | >>It's pretty clear that it's not short-term unsustainable
         | 
         | I wouldn't rush to this conclusion. Robustness and
         | sustainability are related, but not equivalent. Being wrong the
         | other way might be higher consequence, in their estimation.
        
         | gaws wrote:
         | > I'm honestly perplexed what the FANGs are even thinking in
         | being so aggressive about pushing an end to WFH.
         | 
         | A lot of people want to work for FAANG. If a current employee
         | resigns because of WFH policies, those companies can likely
         | find a replacement who is more receptive to returning to the
         | office.
        
           | kybernetikos wrote:
           | The pattern I've observed is that younger and more junior
           | people want to work in the office, and older, more senior
           | people with established networks, family life and nice
           | accomodation with a home office are more likely to appreciate
           | working from home.
           | 
           | This means that if you lose a lot of people because you start
           | being stricter about working from home, then you'll probably
           | disproportionately lose the senior people who are hard to
           | replace and not lose very many of the young juniors who are
           | easy to replace.
        
             | tazjin wrote:
             | I'm at a FAANG and for any of these categorisations that I
             | think about I can immediately come up with enough
             | counterexamples (across age, marital status, role, ...)
             | that I don't believe there's any easily pinpointed uniform
             | grouping.
        
         | jordache wrote:
         | >I'm honestly perplexed what the FANGs are even thinking in
         | being so aggressive about pushing an end to WFH.
         | 
         | There is a general acceptance that for the vast majority of
         | teams, they are most productive when individuals are
         | collaborating face to face, in realtime. I've found that to be
         | true as well.
         | 
         | There is still a gap in remote collaboration tooling that
         | results in this differential. Perhaps if the tooling becomes
         | more robust, the difference can greatly diminish.
        
         | sam0x17 wrote:
         | > I'm honestly perplexed what the FANGs are even thinking in
         | being so aggressive about pushing an end to WFH.
         | 
         | Many just built multi-billion-dollar campuses that, in the WFH
         | economy, are big useless pieces of real estate
        
           | wayoutthere wrote:
           | The same can be said of Wall Street banks -- they have
           | significant real estate holdings that would be devalued in a
           | scenario where a sizeable percentage of the workforce never
           | goes back to the office. They have a vested interest in
           | driving utilization of physical spaces.
           | 
           | Meanwhile in tech, I would say folks have been _more_
           | productive over the pandemic. I certainly have been. So
           | there's no big push to go back.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | spoonjim wrote:
         | FAANGs don't need that much monster "talent." They need some,
         | like the Jeff Deans and whatever. But most of the jobs at a
         | place like Google require just basic top 10% software
         | engineering skill which they make too much money to ever have a
         | problem hiring.
        
         | eplanit wrote:
         | Handicapping FAANG companies could be beneficial to society,
         | overall. Covid-19 brought a few positive outcomes -- less
         | pollution last year, more WFH, ... Following that up with a
         | decline or temporary slowdown in FAANG would be another.
        
           | klipklop wrote:
           | What slowdown? My FB stock is up 100% since March 2020. Seems
           | to me they are expecting even more power coming out of covid.
           | Their influence on society has grown even stronger in the
           | past year and a half.
        
         | Tycho wrote:
         | Maybe their plan is to have all the workers on big-city mega
         | wages, currently working remotely, quit, and then hire
         | replacement workers in remote locations at much lower local
         | labour market rates.
        
         | burlesona wrote:
         | As a hiring manager, a lot of candidates I've been talking to
         | lately have been telling me they are looking for a new job in
         | part because their company has decided to stay all-remote and
         | they hate it. The first thing they want to know is if we have
         | an office and/or will open one soon.
         | 
         | People just have different preferences.
         | 
         | I think what we're seeing right now is a significant expansion
         | of remote roles. Previously if you worked remote, chances are
         | it was a lesser job than you could get in the big tech hubs.
         | Now the quality and quantity of remote work jobs has
         | significantly increased.
         | 
         | As a result, there will be a big shuffle as a lot of people who
         | previously would have preferred remote but couldn't find an
         | actual remote job they wanted soak up the new opportunities.
         | 
         | As for the space they leave behind, there are some people who
         | have been hungry for a taste of Silicon Valley in-office life
         | who will happily take those jobs, as well as TONS of tech
         | workers already settled in the Bay Area but working at smaller
         | companies who might jump at a chance to move into FAANG.
         | 
         | The question is just one of supply, demand, and market-clearing
         | prices.
         | 
         | If FAANG collectively decide they want everyone back in the
         | office and after all the turnover they struggle to replace the
         | people they lost, then they'll have to raise pay to compensate.
         | But they have plenty of room to raise pay further if needed, so
         | there's no real reason to think they can't fill up those roles.
         | 
         | The bigger impact is on startup formation and any other smaller
         | business that doesn't have the budget room to compete. I think
         | that is increasingly being priced out of the Bay Area, almost
         | exclusively because of housing shortage, which does not bode
         | well for the long-term. But we'll see.
         | 
         | As to your point on the cultural and institutional knowledge
         | impacts of said turnover... I know it sounds crazy but I don't
         | think they care. So long as you can survive the turnover, it's
         | often easier, faster, and less impactful to just "rip off the
         | bandaid." When you try to drag out a transition you end up with
         | a lot of people unhappy and grumbling internally, but who don't
         | leave yet. Those people kill morale, and letting them go is
         | often one of the best things that can happen to the team's
         | productivity. So yeah, it hurts, but if you know that you're
         | going to lose a survivable percentage of your team due to some
         | policy change, it's often better to just get it over with
         | quickly than to let it drag out. You see this all the time with
         | companies offering enhanced severance packages, exit bonuses
         | etc. when they need to make a big change.
        
           | dahfizz wrote:
           | > People just have different preferences.
           | 
           | I'm always surprised how HN treats WFH as _obviously_
           | superior and desirable in every way, to the point where OP is
           | claiming these mega corps may collapse if they ask their
           | employees to come into the office.
        
             | sjm wrote:
             | I don't think anyone is arguing that WFH is "_obviously_
             | superior" for everyone, but there are clearly companies who
             | are angling to push all of their employees back into the
             | office (and back to the Bay Area specifically), and this
             | isn't going to work for all of their employees, especially
             | given the new competitiveness with other larger tech
             | companies offering much more flexibility.
             | 
             | From what I've seen, people aren't advocating for strict
             | fully-remote work, but rather flexibility for teams within
             | larger companies to decide what works for them and what
             | remote hiring policies makes sense within those teams,
             | rather than having strict guidelines passed down from
             | executives indiscriminately.
        
             | RHSeeger wrote:
             | That's not how I read it. Rather, I read it as the
             | _ability_ to work from home is _obviously_ superior. As
             | some people do better remotely and some do better in the
             | office, requiring that everyone come into the office is an
             | inferior choice. Admittedly, even that isn't unambiguously
             | true (and neither would be the reverse).
        
               | yupper32 wrote:
               | > requiring that everyone come into the office is an
               | inferior choice
               | 
               | For many, going into the office is their preference
               | _because_ everyone is required to go into the office.
               | 
               | For a while I may be the only person going into the
               | office on my team, which defeats the whole point. I want
               | to be in the office because I work better when my team is
               | around in person.
        
               | RHSeeger wrote:
               | > I want to be in the office because I work better when
               | my team is around in person.
               | 
               | That's pretty much why I said that allowing remote work
               | isn't unambiguously the best choice. There's negatives to
               | every arrangement, and your scenario is one of the
               | negatives to allowing remote work. Personally, I don't
               | think it's enough of negative to counteract the
               | positives, but it's enough that it's worth having the
               | discussion.
        
             | Spooky23 wrote:
             | There's a bias towards tech company and startups here.
             | Those are concentrated in places like the Bay Area, NYC
             | Metro, Boston Metro, Atlanta Metro, DC Metro, etc.
             | 
             | Those places are all commuting hellscapes, so there's
             | almost no scenario where you wouldn't do WFH if you could.
             | My dad did the Queens-Manhattan bus/subway/express
             | subway/walk treadmill for most of his career -- not fun.
             | 
             | I live in a small city with a 6 minute commute, my
             | preference for WFH varies by weather (I mostly work
             | outside) and whether my wife blocks my car in the driveway.
             | Overall, I like both -- WFH has advantages for focused
             | tasks, but I tend to work longer hours. Interacting with
             | colleagues in person is much more productive in an office
             | setting, and it's easier on my family. It's tough for my 8
             | year old to not be able to talk to dad when he gets home
             | from school.
        
               | RHSeeger wrote:
               | The ability to choose, on a daily basis and on the needs
               | of your work and coworkers, whether to work from home or
               | the office is, in my experience, far and away the best
               | possible arrangement. Even when my commute was 2 hours
               | each way, I still chose to go into the office once every
               | week or two (and worked from home the rest of the time).
        
               | burlesona wrote:
               | The commute thing depends on where _exactly_ you live and
               | work. I worked in SF for years, but lived in the city and
               | biked to work. It was a nice commute, a great office, and
               | I loved our neighborhood.
               | 
               | These kinds of things are just really hard to generalize.
        
               | Spooky23 wrote:
               | Yes and no. Lots of exceptions exist.
               | 
               | But you can look at data like stuff from the Census
               | Bureau and see detailed comparisons of commute times in
               | different locales that give you a sense of the variation.
        
           | r00t4ccess wrote:
           | It makes sense when you consider that a lot of employees
           | never had a home office or budgeted space for it when they
           | got their living space. It can also be stressful if you have
           | family home all day too.
        
         | atlgator wrote:
         | Also consider that FAANGs (and other firms) likely receive
         | considerable tax incentives from the local or State government
         | for having offices in particular locations and the resulting
         | high-paying jobs it brings. If you suddenly let everyone work
         | from wherever, the government isn't generating the income taxes
         | they bargained for.
        
         | klipklop wrote:
         | Nobody wants to give up a something once it becomes a part of
         | their life that they enjoy.
         | 
         | The FANG workers got a taste of not having a daily long commute
         | and don't want to give this small life improvement back.
         | Getting back several hours of your life is pretty big.
         | 
         | FANG companies however have gotten a taste of nearly unlimited
         | power and have not heard "no" in years. They too don't want to
         | give this up. This is why they demand the butts back in the
         | cramped open seating office. Does anyone buy their "we will
         | allow you to apply for remote work" BS? That is just something
         | to get you back in the office. They will quietly deny your
         | request later.
         | 
         | People can call these FANGers spoiled, but I really hope they
         | win. It would benefit everybody, but the CEOs of the world.
        
           | baud147258 wrote:
           | Where I work, those who want to continue to WFH can and those
           | who want to go back to the office can; living 10 minutes
           | away, I'm happy to go there two-three days a week and be
           | physically in the same space as the colleagues who also want
           | to be there (mostly those who live close by and also want to
           | go to the office); also I appreciate the coffee machine, HVAC
           | and opportunity for lunch and coffee breaks with the
           | colleagues. While those who live 1h+ from the office or
           | prefer to WFH can continue that way. Of course upper
           | management isn't clear on if it will continue to function
           | this way (I certainly hope so for my colleagues who are happy
           | to avoid their commute).
        
           | acituan wrote:
           | > This is why they demand the butts back in the cramped open
           | seating office
           | 
           | It is also the _astronomical_ real estate money they had
           | sunken into new office spaces.
        
             | rcpt wrote:
             | I don't think that's true. 1B is a big office but it's only
             | a couple days of revenue
        
           | claudiawerner wrote:
           | My pay stinks (from what I can tell looking around on the net
           | and at some former friends from university) and I'm going to
           | have to move to the office for the first time soon. I'm
           | unmotivated to work at home, and I'll be even less motivated
           | at this pay to go into work and write C and Python all day on
           | projects that don't interest me in the least.
           | 
           | I don't want to have to move.
        
           | zbrozek wrote:
           | I found that meetings of dubious utility grew to fill every
           | working hour and then some. I'm quitting and accepting a long
           | commute to reclaim lifespan.
        
           | philote wrote:
           | Before the pandemic FANGs seemed to want everyone in the
           | office as much as possible. That's why they have their own
           | cafeterias/restaurants, daycare, workout rooms, etc. They
           | wanted employees in the office, working a minimum of 40 hours
           | a week. I'm guessing even though remote work is going fine
           | for now, they're concerned they're not going to be able to
           | keep getting over 40 hours of week out of employees. (This is
           | conjecture on my part, I have no idea how many hours FANG
           | employees tend to work).
        
             | brandmeyer wrote:
             | > (This is conjecture on my part, I have no idea how many
             | hours FANG employees tend to work).
             | 
             | Then don't conjecture. Speculation doesn't add to the
             | conversation. In the absence of evidence, it just spreads a
             | misinformation virus.
        
               | MarkPNeyer wrote:
               | > . Speculation doesn't add to the conversation. In the
               | absence of evidence
               | 
               | This is an interesting claim. Do you have evidence for
               | it?
        
               | lotsofpulp wrote:
               | I listened to a Cartalk or maybe This American Life
               | segment many years ago that asked the question "Are two
               | people talking about something they do not know anything
               | about better or worse off after talking about it?"
               | 
               | The consensus was that the downside risk is the two
               | people coming to various conclusions even though they
               | knew nothing about it simply due to our cognitive biases
               | and how we interact with each other. Therefore, two
               | people talking about something they do not know anything
               | about might very well be worse off than had they not
               | talked about it at all.
        
               | echelon wrote:
               | I hate every time this mandate is slinged around as if
               | this is the only way humans can operate intelligently.
               | 
               | Humans are deductive creatures and we're not terrible at
               | constructing and testing hypotheses. A lot of value can
               | be derived from discussing inconclusive topics, and an
               | understanding of new subject matter can be established
               | for those unfamiliar. It's a valuable exercise to walk
               | through supporting facts.
               | 
               | I wish we didn't cry every time we conjecture.
        
               | acituan wrote:
               | Without due speculation we could only talk about fully
               | established facts. That would make a very infertile
               | conversation.
               | 
               | Also you should have more trust for your fellows in
               | dialogue here, that they do have some immune function
               | against misinformation viruses.
        
               | brandmeyer wrote:
               | My experience in the software industry is that engineers
               | are just as susceptible to misinformation as everyone
               | else. It is the exact same process which reinforces
               | beliefs in flat-earth, anti-vax, chiropractic,
               | homeopathy, the stolen-election narrative, and other such
               | nonsense.
               | 
               | A number of folks are asking the question, "why does the
               | HN consensus appear to be so far away from my
               | experience?" I think the answer is really that noise is
               | being amplified and echoed above the signal.
               | 
               | If you _know_ you 're just guessing based on what "seems
               | reasonable" and "matches what other people are saying"
               | you need to _stop_ and re-evaluate the validity of your
               | beliefs. That 's an important part of critical thinking
               | which is sorely lacking in this forum right now.
        
               | philote wrote:
               | I hope you see the irony in this. Many of your comments,
               | including this one I'm replying to, have "I think ..."
               | which is really just speculation.
               | 
               | I mean, you say "It is the exact same process which
               | reinforces beliefs in flat-earth, anti-vax, chiropractic,
               | homeopathy, the stolen-election narrative, and other such
               | nonsense.". But is that true? How do you know? Do you
               | have all the facts? I'm sure it seems reasonable and
               | matches what others think...
        
               | acituan wrote:
               | Thanks for your input regarding critical thinking skills.
               | Below are my suggestions for you, inspired from CBT
               | skills. Normally it is a faux pas to point out cognitive
               | distortions in other people's thinking, but looks like
               | you're up for a direct conversation so I'll reciprocate;
               | 
               | - don't read minds; dialectic can only happen if we allow
               | the flow of conversation back and forth. Cutting that
               | flow prematurely happens for example when we assert that
               | _we know_ what the other person is thinking.
               | 
               | - don't use should statements; don't enter the scene with
               | imperatives and normativities. At best it is insulting to
               | fellow adults you're talking to, at worst it again kills
               | the dialectic. Conversation _requires_ trust in the other
               | person being able to unpack and reality test what is
               | being said. It requires an assumption of good enough
               | character. Talking down to people is a self fulfilling
               | prophecy; when you show you have very little expectation
               | in having a good faith conversation you have already
               | created it.
               | 
               | - let go of black and white thinking; simple categories
               | are useful but have serious precision errors. I invite
               | you to consider "truth", "knowledge", "validity" as
               | shades of gray instead of discrete categories while
               | talking to people, because it allows parties of a
               | dialogue to puzzle together the subsets of truths they
               | have.
               | 
               | - don't overgeneralize; don't take a comment and
               | overgeneralize that to a person's essence e.g "they are a
               | person who always does this". Don't take a few comments
               | and overgeneralize that to the entire forum. Don't use
               | labels.
               | 
               | - don't discount the positives and filter in only the
               | negatives; instead of focusing where people might have
               | missed your expectations in critical thinking, see if
               | you're downplaying or outright ignoring when they _are_
               | in fact demonstrating it.
               | 
               | Hope it helps.
        
               | philote wrote:
               | Many comments in this thread are speculation/conjecture,
               | I was honest enough to label mine as such. We're not
               | running studies or experiments here, this is a place to
               | converse. My comment allows others to provide additional
               | evidence for or against my theory.
        
             | jensensbutton wrote:
             | At my FAANG they did studies and on average people are
             | working MORE hours each day since the switch to WFH. If
             | they were concerned about maximizing hours then they'd
             | leave it as in. I suspect there are other concerns.
        
               | philote wrote:
               | There could definitely be other concerns too. Such as
               | security. It'd be much easier for someone to copy a code
               | base, or get evidence of wrongdoing by your employer, or
               | whatever, when at home rather than in an office. It's
               | also harder to secure all your employees' home networks
               | than one office network. But I wonder how many people who
               | work at offices still bring their laptops home to use.
        
               | MisterBastahrd wrote:
               | I have to wonder whether they're available for more hours
               | or actually putting in more work. Home distractions tend
               | to extend the work day for people who have pride in their
               | craft.
        
               | IggleSniggle wrote:
               | At least for me, the hours I used to spend driving my car
               | are now spent doing actual work, because that's what I'd
               | rather be doing anyway. The only reason I don't work more
               | hours as it is is that I have other obligations. Just
               | seems like a total waste of resources along multiple
               | dimensions to have me driving around my brain.
        
             | klipklop wrote:
             | Sure it's N=1, but I worked more than 40 hours every single
             | week when I was at a FANG. I used to laugh at all the perks
             | because who actually had the time to use most of them other
             | than interns.
             | 
             | Times I used a climbing wall or nap pod: 0
             | 
             | In the end even the free lunch was annoying. (Yes I am
             | going to complain about "free" food.) It just lead to short
             | lunches where people go back to their desk as soon as they
             | could.
             | 
             | I love the social aspect of lunch and it's the highlight of
             | my day to eat with friends. When you are trapped on campus
             | that rarely happens. I was immediately happier when I left
             | and got the social aspect of the middle of my day back.
             | Went from taking like 20-30 minute lunches to like 70.
             | Leaving the office and eating lunch with good friends a few
             | times a week is a huge moral boost over waiting in some
             | silly named tech cafeteria.
             | 
             | Don't get me wrong pre-FANG I dreamed of how nice it would
             | be to eat at on campus free cafes. Later on I realized it
             | was mostly there to keep you from taking a long lunch stuck
             | in traffic.
        
               | yupper32 wrote:
               | See I was the opposite. I had no time as an intern but
               | have plenty of time as a full timer.
               | 
               | It seems like it's almost completely self-inflicted if
               | someone doesn't have time as a full timer (at the 2 Big-N
               | tech companies I've been at). I didn't have time as an
               | intern because I wasn't confident and felt I needed to
               | prove something. Now, many years into it, I know I can
               | work my 40 hour weeks, enjoy the perks for what they are,
               | and relax most of the time.
               | 
               | I've never understood why people consider perks like food
               | as traps to keep you on campus. Nothing stops you from
               | leaving campus for lunch, as long as there's not some
               | meeting you scheduled. Nothing stops you from working 40
               | hours a week, unless you choose to work more to get ahead
               | faster.
        
               | klipklop wrote:
               | I agree with you there about some interns being very
               | busy. I do remember interns that had a lot of self
               | imposed pressure to perform. If they even had say a minor
               | issue with their work issued laptop they would be in a
               | panic because of the time lost.
               | 
               | Also totally agree with you not having to work so many
               | hours, but this is exactly why they love the college grad
               | pipeline. So many fresh workers with something to prove.
               | 
               | The problem with nothing stopping you from leaving campus
               | for lunch is that it's hard to convince your work-buddies
               | to join you. Free is very compelling to some. And all
               | your co-workers plan their meetings around this truncated
               | lunch break.
        
           | totalgeek wrote:
           | Let's not also forget the ability to take your pay from say a
           | major metropolitan area like San Francisco, and work remote
           | where you get more bang for your buck like Wyoming.
           | 
           | When I was working in the bay area I would've happily taken a
           | 10-20% pay cut in order to work remote from anywhere. I
           | would've been happy with a mandate of 'come into the office
           | for a week (on the company dime of course) once a quarter,
           | bi-annually or whatever'
        
             | ryandrake wrote:
             | I think many of the companies that have announced remote
             | options will also be adjusting salaries based on the local
             | area's cost of living or cost of hiring or some other
             | similar factor.
        
             | Finnucane wrote:
             | Of course, a lot of people taking their big tech paychecks
             | to some lower-cost place will just be exporting the problem
             | to another place. A sudden big inflow of cash into a low-
             | cost area is going to raise prices.
        
               | lotsofpulp wrote:
               | Some people earning more money and reducing the
               | income/wealth gap is not a terrible problem to have. The
               | rapid-ness might cause some friction in the short term,
               | but the alternative of stagnation and deflation in the
               | long term is a far worse problem.
        
               | jstepka wrote:
               | Since before anyone on this board was born companies,
               | have adjusted pay based on location using charts like
               | this;
               | 
               | https://www.usatoday.com/story/money/2019/05/25/us-
               | dollar-ho...
               | 
               | To think this time is different is to be ignorant.
        
               | imtringued wrote:
               | You're assuming that every city refuses to build housing.
               | That is true in California but not in the US as a whole.
        
               | 8note wrote:
               | the economics are there for every city.
               | 
               | Who's going to let housing be built if it devalues the
               | houses they own?
        
         | minsc__and__boo wrote:
         | Simply put: It's easier to to restrict WFH policies and then go
         | lax on them later, as opposed to the opposite which would build
         | a workforce accustomed to WFH that would revolt.
         | 
         | I think there's a chance we'll see WFH loosening up eventually.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | UncleOxidant wrote:
         | Of the FAANG companies, aren't Facebook and Netflix saying that
         | people can work from home forever if they like?
        
       | pixelmonkey wrote:
       | Quitting is good. It shows confidence in the overall economy and
       | a certain economic vibrancy. We should be much more afraid when
       | workers feel trapped by employment.
        
       | herewhere wrote:
       | The tech stock appreciated a lot during this pandemic. For
       | example:
       | 
       | - FB stock is up ~75%. - GOOG almost up 100%. - AMZN almost up
       | ~50%.
       | 
       | Stock portion of the compensation could be big enough carrot to
       | keep the talent.
        
       | arduinomancer wrote:
       | I think the obvious problem is that the people who make the
       | decision of office vs. WFH are the people who benefit the most
       | from working in office: people managers
        
       | minikites wrote:
       | It's hard to feel sorry for employers that have been treating
       | employees like garbage for decades. I hope this new freedom
       | awakens the spirit of collective action in enough employees that
       | labor unions make a comeback.
        
       | avelis wrote:
       | There is a massive loss of productivity to commute to and from an
       | office for large durations of time. Cities actually calculate
       | this loss per year in the millions.
       | 
       | I find it so odd that with the endemic ending that there is a
       | call to return to an office without the commute problem solved.
       | If productivity is lagging at home it's signs of other issues for
       | the employee and the office doesn't magically solve them they
       | just temporarily remove them.
        
       | 6gvONxR4sf7o wrote:
       | > 92% are even willing to switch industries to find the right
       | position
       | 
       | I'm increasingly convinced people not switching industries is a
       | huge barrier towards equity in the job market. If another
       | industry/location treats workers much better, but the cost of
       | switching is too high, then the industries/locations aren't
       | really competing for your labor. Competitive labor markets seem
       | to be table stakes for fair work.
       | 
       | COVID just lowered the cost of switching, so I'm hoping the built
       | up differences can finally equalize.
        
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       | mirrorlake wrote:
       | I want to see genuine competition between businesses to try and
       | make their offices better. People got off the treadmill long
       | enough to realize that their workplace sucks. But many issues are
       | completely fixable.
       | 
       | Make workplaces better. Ask people what they want improved, and
       | then actually improve it.
       | 
       | The future can't be about squeezing out every ounce of
       | productivity at the expense of happiness and autonomy--it has to
       | be about increasing every ounce of happiness to make small gains
       | in productivity. The equation was looked at backwards for far too
       | long.
        
       | quaffapint wrote:
       | These posts are silly. Sure there are some that will leave their
       | full time office to a more flexible one.
       | 
       | I myself do not want to go back to our open office layout full
       | time and Im checking out my options. Still though its going to
       | just be a small percentage. Of course there might be more slowly
       | over time as more remote/hybrid opportunities become available.
        
       | underseacables wrote:
       | I think this will be temporary. Eventually the WFH crowd will get
       | so demanding that it will be easier and cheaper for a company to
       | hire less qualified people. Eventually the wfh crowd will have
       | to..get a job... and we'll be back to where we started.
        
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