[HN Gopher] Families of Choice: On the Shakers and Catholics in ...
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       Families of Choice: On the Shakers and Catholics in Early America
        
       Author : Vigier
       Score  : 18 points
       Date   : 2021-06-29 05:49 UTC (1 days ago)
        
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       | dr_dshiv wrote:
       | If you are interested in early Christianity, I've put together
       | some quotes from Philo of Alexandria (b.25 BC) -- he describes
       | the hellenized Jewish scene in Egypt that Jesus would have been
       | connected with.
       | 
       | The core idea in Philo is that god is conceived as an ineffable
       | Oneness -- from which emanates the Logos (translated poorly in
       | English as "word", but is much more complicated than that-- see
       | Plato). Philo describes the Logos as "the son of god". This is
       | all very esoteric though; it is definitely not referring to
       | personality gods or large persons living in the sky. Seeing this
       | as the root of Christianity may help make sense of why it
       | resonated with some of the philosophical intelligensia of the
       | time. (Because otherwise, Christianity makes is really
       | incomprehensible). See what you think.
       | 
       | https://docs.google.com/document/d/1JATMRSh4b6wlFlYWw8t1FdrG...
        
         | bobthechef wrote:
         | Esoteric? Maybe his version, but see John 1:1. It's practically
         | the first sentence. Jesus is the Logos incarnate (the "Word").
        
       | aeneasmackenzie wrote:
       | I don't know about Shakers, but dragging Catholic religious into
       | this is laughable.
       | 
       | > Breaking away from families of origin and remaking them into
       | families of choice were not incidental for ... Catholic men and
       | women, but should be understood as a deeply political act. The
       | alternative structures of ... monastic family life and the
       | intimacies they created without sex built an explicit,
       | nonnormative sexual culture in a society that rigidly presented
       | heterosexual love and family as the only legitimate and legal
       | option.
       | 
       | Catholic religious will be happy to tell you that "heterosexual
       | love and family" is the only moral option.
        
         | mensetmanusman wrote:
         | Maybe Protestant Catholics, but that hasn't been true since 34
         | AD :)
        
         | pessimizer wrote:
         | Early Christianity had indifference bordering on disdain for
         | marriage, and there's no record of a Christian rite for
         | marriage until the 9th century. Celibacy was considered the
         | ideal. Same for the Shakers, which is why they died out.
        
           | iammisc wrote:
           | Catholicism taught that celibacy is ideal until vatican II.
           | Nominally, it still does.
           | 
           | That being said, marriage is still the only appropriate place
           | for sex, and then only heterosexual sex, by church teaching.
           | So both you and the one you replied to are correct.
        
         | dragonwriter wrote:
         | > Catholic religious will be happy to tell you that
         | "heterosexual love and family" is the only moral option.
         | 
         | The Catholic _heirarchy_ will be happy to tell you that
         | consistently.
         | 
         | Catholic _religious_ are...not the same thing, and
         | substantially more diverse.
         | 
         | (Source: been Catholic approximately my whole life, and known
         | quite a few religious, having spent a long time in a parish run
         | by an order, and some more time regularly attending and
         | volunteering in a retreat center run by a different order.)
        
           | aeneasmackenzie wrote:
           | Can you be specific? I anticipate that the people you are
           | thinking of are heretics. I mean specifically that they
           | deviate from dogmas of the church, not any colloquial
           | definition.
        
             | ijasidfjiajsdf wrote:
             | Some Catholic priests and parishes are considerably more
             | "progressive" than others. Every major city has at least
             | one progressive parish, often it can be the Jesuit parish.
             | Catholic teaching is quite strict that the purpose of sex
             | is "bonding and babies." (More formally, sex is "unitive,
             | marital, and procreative.") The progressive priests and
             | bishops don't blatantly contradict this, but they do stress
             | how "welcoming and inclusive" they are to practitioners of
             | sexual acts that are neither unitive, marital, nor
             | procreative, while never choosing to preach any homilies
             | about God creating sex for the purpose of strengthening the
             | bond between husband and wife and to enable the two to "be
             | fruitful and multiply."
        
               | trasz wrote:
               | This is true in certain places, but far from universal.
               | I'd be quite surprised if you found such progressive
               | priests in Poland, for example. The official Catholic
               | stance - essentially "teaching" people are no different
               | from cattle, sexuality-wise - seems to be enforced very
               | heavily there.
        
               | javagram wrote:
               | > The official Catholic stance - essentially "teaching"
               | people are no different from cattle, sexuality-wise
               | 
               | The church is perfectly fine with promiscuity, artificial
               | insemination, sterilization etc. among cattle or pets.
               | 
               | The same behaviors they tell humans are immoral, because
               | they think humans aren't just cattle.
        
               | mensetmanusman wrote:
               | "The official Catholic stance - essentially "teaching"
               | people are no different from cattle, sexuality-wise -
               | seems to be enforced very heavily there."
               | 
               | This is a straw man assertion...
        
               | bobthechef wrote:
               | What's with your condescension? It's horrible.
               | 
               | The Catholic position is grounded in natural law theory.
               | The telos of the sexual organs is essentially
               | procreative; deny the procreative end and sex becomes
               | incomprehensible. To use sexual organs in a manner that
               | _intentionally_ works against their end is to
               | intentionally frustrate their end. To intentionally
               | thwart the operation of your faculties and misuse them is
               | immoral and therefore contradicts one's fulfillment and
               | actualization as a human being.
               | 
               | Calling people cattle for living in accordance with the
               | procreative end of sexual intercourse, which is the
               | ultimate end of sexual intercourse, is nasty, if not
               | irrational. Before you do so, I suggest you acquaint
               | yourself[0] with the actual position held and defended by
               | the Catholic Church.
               | 
               | [0] https://www.catholic.com/magazine/print-edition/lets-
               | think-a...
        
           | dragonwriter wrote:
           | > The Catholic heirarchy will be happy to tell you that
           | consistently.
           | 
           | To correct myself, actually, relevant to the instant article,
           | no, even they won't. Because choosing neither heterosexual
           | love nor family in the usual sense (or, for that matter, even
           | the sense that religious communities are a kind of family, as
           | both lay committed celibacy and eremetic life, both private
           | and consecrated, are recognized vocations) is very much an
           | option, even to the heirarchy.
           | 
           | They hierarchy is fairly certain to say romantic love and
           | family are a moral option only within a committed, exclusive,
           | heterosexual context, though.
        
         | mustafa_pasi wrote:
         | The "nonnormative sexual culture" they are referring to is
         | celibacy. Besides monks and nuns there are also hundreds of lay
         | Catholic organizations that require members to remain celibate.
        
       | mensetmanusman wrote:
       | " rigidly presented heterosexual love and family as the only
       | legitimate and legal option."
       | 
       | This may be a straw man against Catholic culture, and it might
       | have been true in early American Protestant culture, but
       | Catholics have had a theology on vocations of life for over a
       | millennia...
        
         | iammisc wrote:
         | Moreover, traditional pre-Vatican II Catholic teaching (and I
         | mean traditional) says that remaining celibate in the
         | priesthood or in religious life is superior.
         | 
         | This is one of the reasons for the evisceration of convents
         | following vatican II. Whereas before women who entered the
         | convent were seen as holy, and in a superior vocation to the
         | laity, Vatican II 'laicized' them and made them like everyone
         | else. Without the special status, the women left.
         | 
         | It's quite far reaching. For example, Mother Abbesses would be
         | considered on par with bishops in terms of their 'position' in
         | the hierarchy, and could even hear confessions from her
         | subjects, even if she could not impart the sacraments.
         | 
         | People think Vatican II elevated the position of women in the
         | church, but it didn't. It elevated the position of married
         | women, in the same way it elevated the position of married men,
         | who were heretofore considered to be in an inferior vocation to
         | both priests and nuns and brothers.
         | 
         | Note the inferiority/superiority is of the vocation, not of the
         | person. All persons are equally unworthy of God's grace, but he
         | gives it anyway.
        
         | bobthechef wrote:
         | Yeah, this article seems very confused from the start. I'm
         | still unclear what the author was trying to _really_ convey.
         | There's a strange and sustained attempt to suggest some bizarre
         | equivalence between LGBT and Catholic monastic orders and
         | trying to characterize the latter as subversive like the
         | former, "challenging" this or that. Maybe, as you say, American
         | Protestant culture had real issues with celibate life, but in
         | the Catholic view, the good of marriage, which for Catholics is
         | elevated from natural institution to the status of sacrament,
         | is sacrificed for the higher vocation of the religious life
         | (Catholics speak of the married life also as a vocation). But
         | this is not a denial of the goodness and rightness of the
         | natural family. If anything, it is its affirmation. The natural
         | family remains the fundamental pattern that is mirrored in
         | these orders just the same as it is even in government, though
         | perhaps in a more distant fashion. Families where, say, the
         | grandparents take care of their grandchildren is not the
         | natural family, but it is not opposed to nature and not a
         | perversion of it and still patterns itself on the natural
         | family. The same with adopted families. The impediment, such as
         | the death of the parents, forces the formation of a family
         | arrangement that would not naturally be the case, but this does
         | not mean it is disordered (please note: "not natural" is not
         | the same as "opposed to nature"; it is not the natural end of
         | toes to push elevator buttons, but doing so is not per se
         | opposed to their end either). In other words, not natural is
         | not necessarily evil, but evil is necessarily unnatural. Or,
         | not natural is not the same as opposed to nature, but evil is
         | opposed to nature and thus unnatural.
         | 
         | The author seems to be trying to use monastic life and whatever
         | fraternal friendships might arise between members of monastic
         | orders as an vaguely salacious instrument to attack the sole
         | legitimacy of marriage understood as heterosexual union
         | naturally ordered toward procreation and raising of children,
         | and she seems to do this by manufacturing precedent. According
         | to a Catholic understanding, monastic life in no way undermines
         | these notions.
         | 
         | Strange article.
        
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