[HN Gopher] Y Combinator kicks out Paul Biggar over a tweet
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       Y Combinator kicks out Paul Biggar over a tweet
        
       Author : bqe
       Score  : 266 points
       Date   : 2021-06-04 22:01 UTC (58 minutes ago)
        
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 (TXT) w3m dump (twitter.com)
        
       | kumarski wrote:
       | Bookface posts are confidential by design.
        
         | H8crilA wrote:
         | By "design" of human nature the only really confidential
         | communication is 1:1 verbal. And even that can be easily
         | recorded. Kinda funny to see people not understand this simple
         | fact over and over again.
        
       | version_five wrote:
       | The behavior he's calling out is obviously abhorrent. But isn't
       | this more due to him airing dirty laundry in public? If this is
       | his last recourse after consulting internally to try and deal
       | with this, then I get it. But there is definitely a trend (maybe
       | not by him) of people running to social media with their
       | complaints before discussing them with those involved. If that is
       | the case i would understand his being sanctioned.
        
         | harzhar wrote:
         | Whatever - every fucking person in SF that wanted a vaccine
         | went and got one already. You didn't need to cheat either.
         | 
         | They're already taking down the mass vaccination sites.
         | 
         | This is all more liberal drama.
         | 
         | I wish someone would drop a nuke on SF.
        
         | jollybean wrote:
         | From the information available publicly, it's obvious the issue
         | was him airing his grievance publicly.
         | 
         | But being banned from YC is a fairly extreme measure -
         | especially for an activity that has a hint of moral impetus.
         | 
         | Both 'skipping vaccine lines' and 'immediately naming and
         | shaming private conversations to the entire world' are kind of
         | selfish and toxic signals.
         | 
         | If I were the King of YC I would have had condescending words
         | with both of them and told them to grow up and then that would
         | be the end of it.
         | 
         | Note however, we don't really know what happened behind the
         | scenes.
        
       | nostromo wrote:
       | Kicked out today for a tweet from March? Why such a long delay?
        
       | minimaxir wrote:
       | The person who the original tweet was referring to (it's not
       | private; they admitted it), just tweeted a GIF about "witnessing
       | karma".
       | 
       | https://twitter.com/Prafulfillment/status/140093402468041523...
        
         | tshaddox wrote:
         | Nice to see that everyone evolved are definitely fully grown
         | adults.
        
         | pton-throw wrote:
         | When did public denunciations become popular in the US? I know
         | they've been a part of the Chinese internet since the early
         | days. It wasn't always so intense in the US.
        
           | chillacy wrote:
           | Probably starting with Puritan (proper noun, religious sect)
           | witch hunts.
        
           | H8crilA wrote:
           | This is getting off-topic, but the US is like the motherland
           | of telling other people how they should behave. Look up any
           | of the "public freakout" videos, they're 80% each side trying
           | to explain why what the other side did was wrong, all the
           | while not realizing that pretty much nobody cares about their
           | opinion and is just there to watch the drama for a few
           | minutes. Every single "Karen" video is full of self-
           | righteousness, that's what makes them so hilarious (until you
           | get bored, which happens rather quickly).
        
             | pton-throw wrote:
             | That's all true.
             | 
             | But US internet culture has changed dramatically in the
             | past few years. And it's not just "eternal September".
             | 
             | I miss the early years. There are still vestiges left. Some
             | public intellectuals still respond to unsolicited email
             | from strangers.
        
               | rootusrootus wrote:
               | > Some public intellectuals still respond to unsolicited
               | email from strangers.
               | 
               | Fauci is on that list, isn't he? I was kinda surprised to
               | learn that from the email dump. I figured his email would
               | be thoroughly filtered.
               | 
               | Of course, whether he actually qualifies as an
               | intellectual seems up for debate these days.
        
               | ska wrote:
               | > I miss the early years.
               | 
               | Whatever else was true of the early years, when internet
               | use was niche it wasn't representative of broader US
               | culture sort of by definition. Now it is.
        
           | wonnage wrote:
           | Jesus how does everything bad about the world end up China
           | related these days
        
             | rootusrootus wrote:
             | To be fair, the CCP seems to put forth a fair amount of
             | effort doing things that are prime targets for widespread
             | criticism.
        
       | worik wrote:
       | Does speak to a sense of entitlement some people have.
        
       | TigeriusKirk wrote:
       | We're about to see the Streisand Effect in action.
        
         | smcl wrote:
         | I agree that it'll get more attention than it otherwise would,
         | but I think that is a desirable outcome for YC. The more people
         | who see the message "if you publicly badmouth us, you will be
         | punished" the better for them.
        
           | Hamuko wrote:
           | The message that I'm getting is mostly "YC is full of
           | assholes like Praful Mathur".
        
       | anm89 wrote:
       | Good for YC. I don't understand why someone would assume that
       | publicly causing drama for the company that is supporting them
       | would be tolerated.
       | 
       | People think that because some opinion of theirs is justified,
       | all consequences related to any public behavior based of that
       | opinion should be nullified. Well, reality seems to frequently
       | think otherwise.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | rafaelero wrote:
       | It's a bit distressing how organizations try so hard to keep a
       | good reputation all the time. I mean, is it really that bad to
       | publically admit that you are composed of people with
       | questionable morals? For example, in the first company I used to
       | work, I was always bitching about how things could improve. I got
       | fired because I was "bringing the moral down" and was "working
       | against the company". I could see why they would think that, but
       | in my mind this kind of loyalty that is required is very
       | immature: very good things arise from conflict, why would you
       | keep that from coming? Or maybe I am being naive and a good
       | reputation is much more important than everything else. I don't
       | know.
        
         | antipaul wrote:
         | Critique is good but depends on whether it is constructive or
         | not constructive.
         | 
         | And that's a bit of a subjective call
        
           | ezekg wrote:
           | Maybe I have a minority opinion, but critique does not always
           | need to be constructive.
        
             | chain-- wrote:
             | What would you say the purpose or goal is of unconstructive
             | critique?
        
         | hn8788 wrote:
         | I obviously don't know your situation, but there's a difference
         | between giving useful feedback and just constantly bitching
         | about everything. You also have to consider that maybe you
         | didn't have the full picture, and there actually was a good
         | reason for what was being done, even though that would be a
         | management failure to not convey why something needed to be
         | done.
        
           | rafaelero wrote:
           | I was always ready to be part of the solution, so I don't
           | think I was being empty when complaining about things. But I
           | have to add that I wasn't maximizing for appearing polite. I
           | never cross the line of not being respectful, though.
           | 
           | Indeed, the management could have a different idea of what
           | was an ideal direction. I just happened to disagree. It was a
           | very small company, so I don't think I had a lot of different
           | information. But even if that was the case, this was a good
           | opportunity to have a perhaps heated but interesting
           | discussion.
        
         | chillacy wrote:
         | Not exactly the same as orgs but it reminds me of the very very
         | difficult skill of "criticizing the king". It's possible, but
         | it requires a lot of finesse and skill, and even then you might
         | get beheaded.
         | 
         | And it goes without saying, overtly criticizing the king is
         | pretty obviously a bad idea.
        
         | ezekg wrote:
         | People don't know how to disagree anymore. It's disheartening,
         | because I like a good disagreement and the deep debates that
         | can come out of them ... that is, as long as the conversation
         | is void of emotional temper-tantrums (and in a lot of cases
         | these days, fear of cancel-culture.)
        
           | chillacy wrote:
           | What I find interesting is that Dale Carnegie published How
           | to Win Friends and Influence People in 1936 covering this
           | topic. Maybe that was the "beginning of the trend"... not
           | really sure.
        
           | gotoeleven wrote:
           | Sorry buddy but if you don't accept my truth and also check
           | your privilege and agree that hearing things I don't agree
           | with causes me harm, how could we possibly discuss anything?
        
           | void_mint wrote:
           | On the internet, anyone can drop in and out of any
           | conversation they want. Combine that concept with
           | anonymity/the ability to disparage people you will never
           | meet, and you've got a recipe for disagreements starting from
           | positions of extreme toxicity.
        
       | saltedonion wrote:
       | I'm confused. So YC kicked out the guy who complained about it on
       | Twitter and not the people who advocated for lying to skip lines?
       | Wtf?
        
         | whymauri wrote:
         | I'm guessing it goes like this:
         | 
         | 1. Skipping vaccine line and talking about it is not actually
         | against BookFace/YC ToS, or it would be a stretch to apply ToS.
         | 
         | 2. Publicly talking about matters inside the private group is
         | against ToS since it breaches privacy. In a way that paints the
         | group negatively, nonetheless.
         | 
         | Pretty straightforward. It doesn't really matter *to YC*
         | whether anyone skipped a line or not, what matters are private
         | forum matters getting blasted to hundreds (thousands?) of
         | Twitter users.
         | 
         | Edit: before you get angry, I'm presenting this from the most
         | plausible perspective of YC, not my own feelings on the matter
         | (which are irrelevant).
         | 
         | Edit2: what are people seeing that I'm not seeing here??
        
         | Macha wrote:
         | Is it really that out of character for a tech VC company to
         | have no objections to "disrupting" government processes?
        
         | cryptoz wrote:
         | I'm also confused. But it seems like the tweet in question is a
         | false story that could be libel/defamation or something?
         | 
         | He later issues a 'correction' (why not delete the original
         | wrong tweet?) that says that the story about "advocating for
         | lying to skip lines" is false. [1]
         | 
         | I don't have any part of this and I'm confused and don't know
         | what's going on here. But it does not seem like the tweet
         | everyone is focusing on was even true. So the story becomes
         | possibly, that YC kicked someone out for spreading lies about
         | people in their internal community? I don't know.
         | 
         | [1] "I was incorrect in saying the 2nd founder lied, and would
         | like to apologize."
         | https://twitter.com/paulbiggar/status/1370144350861135881
        
           | ivanbakel wrote:
           | >But it does not seem like the tweet everyone is focusing on
           | was even true. So the story becomes possibly, that YC kicked
           | someone out for spreading lies about people in their internal
           | community? I don't know.
           | 
           | It's still partially true - the allegation of lying was
           | wrong, but the allegation of instructing others how to lie is
           | still being made. This is clarified by the tweet that you
           | linked.
        
           | [deleted]
        
         | kubb wrote:
         | Why is that confusing? If you condemn the in-group publicly,
         | it's a sign of betrayal, and they kick you out. Monkeys strong
         | together, that's all there is to it.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | plusbryan wrote:
       | This is really distressing, especially considering the ongoing
       | public behavior of the original founder. Kicking out Paul seems
       | like the opposite reaction for YC to have. It would be helpful to
       | hear a public comment from them about this situation.
        
         | nailer wrote:
         | He seems to have not advocated lying though just showing up:
         | 
         | https://www.reddit.com/r/oakland/comments/m4bqx9/comment/gqu...
        
       | ipaddr wrote:
       | People have been kicked out of other important things for less. I
       | wish they put a warning label on social media... don't post
       | unless you want your words used against you in a future you
       | haven't envisioned.
       | 
       | It may be too late but I would advise anyone to delete anything
       | you wrote under your real name now. In 10 years you are going to
       | get buried for what is normal today. They are coming for you.
       | 
       | What he did was wrong but in the 80s the info would have passed
       | on to a small group at a pool party.
        
       | arkitaip wrote:
       | They are so thin-skinned and cancellation happy when it comes to
       | their own reputation.
        
       | SamReidHughes wrote:
       | What are the rules for YC's private forum? Is it more restrictive
       | than Chatham House rules? Is it permitted to leak internal
       | conversations and denounce other YC members on Twitter?
        
       | float4 wrote:
       | That tweet is three months old. No way YC bans someone over a
       | three month old tweet (unless they only discovered the tweet
       | recently, which I doubt).
       | 
       | I'm betting there's more to this story.
        
       | jollybean wrote:
       | They should have asked him to take it down, or re-phrase it to be
       | more polite about it. Booting someone over that seems kafkaesque,
       | like there's a lot to hide.
       | 
       | Especially if he was being factual, there's an element of legit
       | whistle-blowing there, it's a bad look, YC.
        
       | etc-hosts wrote:
       | I hope Paul Graham takes a principled stand and tweets his
       | support for Biggar.
       | 
       | https://twitter.com/search?q=from%3Apaulg%20%22cancel%20cult...
        
         | version_five wrote:
         | Is Paul B getting kicked out the same thing as "cancel
         | culture"? It seems like he's violated a rule of a voluntary
         | group he was in, and was kicked out of that group. I know its
         | subjective, but I don't think that's "being cancelled" in the
         | sense that it's usually used. Its more like if you lost your
         | diving license for speeding.
        
         | [deleted]
        
       | pokstad wrote:
       | I'm also surprised how many people bragged about jumping ahead in
       | line when elderly people with much higher mortality rates were
       | still waiting for theirs. At least keep it to yourself.
        
         | CamperBob2 wrote:
         | Agreed. When eligibility opened up, we drove 100 miles just to
         | avoid potentially taking doses from people at risk in the metro
         | area. Seemed like a good excuse to get out of the house for a
         | road trip, as well as being the right thing to do.
         | 
         | We were able to schedule immediate appointments in an adjacent
         | county populated by hardcore Trumpers. Upon arriving at the
         | drive-through vaccination site, there was only one other car in
         | the lot. No danger of cutting the line in _that_ county.
        
           | istorical wrote:
           | We don't have full information about this story though. It
           | may well be the case that the YC founder called out for lying
           | about his qualifications for the vaccine was at a vaccination
           | location where there were zero lines and poor community
           | uptake of the vaccine. Idle doses sitting around doing
           | nothing. At this point, the US has so many extra doses that
           | it is shipping millions overseas. Depending on the location
           | and timing of the founder who lied, he may be ethically doing
           | a moral good by reducing his own potential to transmit the
           | virus amidst a population of people who refuse to get
           | inoculated anyway.
           | 
           | My point is only, it's sometimes dangerous to throw stones
           | without asking questions or getting the full picture first.
           | Taking doses when you aren't qualified for them is overall a
           | bad thing I think we can all agree.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | Hamuko wrote:
         | I've seen people solicit stuff like electronics if someone
         | could "get them a vaccine". This stuff is driving people nuts.
        
         | [deleted]
        
       | choppaface wrote:
       | I have worked for YC founders that have shared far more
       | disturbing things from the YC forum to non-members. If the
       | banning is for violating privacy or public mocking (no matter how
       | small of a "public" it might be), the YC moderation here is
       | pretty biased. The internal forum is pretty huge now, I guess
       | they're Doing Things That Don't Scale (TM).
        
       | ible wrote:
       | What an excellent demonstration of what values/norms a group
       | really cares about.
       | 
       | Biggar violated the all time favourite in-group rule: Don't talk
       | out of school. Don't talk about fight club. Don't snitch.
       | 
       | The other founders violated a norm against pushing yourself ahead
       | and taking advantage of others that doesn't even seem to hold in
       | many groups, especially upper class/wealthy ones.
        
       | courtf wrote:
       | I waited until I was eligible, which was about a month ago.
       | Anyone could have lied about their eligibility and gotten shots
       | early, and although I wasn't comfortable doing so, I also don't
       | begrudge people who did. Frankly, the vaccine should have been
       | distributed more widely from the beginning. It was disheartening
       | to watch the politics play out where only the "most deserving"
       | people were granted vaccine, which quickly turned into "hospital
       | executives, their families, & high ranking admin" before they got
       | around to the most deserving.
       | 
       | I certainly wouldn't have encouraged a group of wealthy or soon-
       | to-be wealthy tech founders to lie for vaccine. "Hacking the
       | system" has always implied a sort of robinhood ethos, at least to
       | me, not just greed purely for its own sake. I guess it's easy to
       | be confused when you were raised inside the bubble and everything
       | is monopoly money.
        
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