[HN Gopher] Employees are quitting instead of giving up working ...
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       Employees are quitting instead of giving up working from home
        
       Author : mancerayder
       Score  : 873 points
       Date   : 2021-06-01 12:54 UTC (10 hours ago)
        
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       | yawaworht1978 wrote:
       | Depends on what you want, I wanted to go beyond just from home, I
       | wanted forever remote with good location flexibility. And after
       | the old employer could not or would not accept the location part,
       | I simply quit.
       | 
       | I have found a forever remote in a FAANG and it is the best
       | decision I have made in a long time.
        
       | greedo wrote:
       | I don't see a hybrid model working well at all. The scenarios
       | that have been thrown around at my company are like these:
       | 
       | 1. Everyone comes back to the office (extremely unpopular)
       | 
       | 2. Everyone continues to WFH (gives management the hives)
       | 
       | 3. Some teams WFH full-time, while others go BTTO).
       | 
       | 4. A hybrid schedule where you come into the office once a week,
       | and WFH the remainder.
       | 
       | I don't see how these can work. BTTO is going to cause huge
       | issues, the cat is out of the bag. And if some teams get to WFH,
       | but others don't then that will cause turmoil as well.
       | 
       | A hybrid schedule seems to be the worst option actually. Say that
       | everyone has to come in on Mondays for team meetings. Then Tue-
       | Friday, the office is a ghost town. If you're required to come in
       | one day a week (but you can choose), then the odds are the most
       | of the office will be empty, and that's a waste of company
       | resources in having an office sized for pre-COVID times.
       | 
       | If a hybrid BTTO plan is for F2F with mgmt, then it'll need to be
       | mandatory, on the same day. Otherwise my poor manager has to be
       | in the office 5 days a week. Eventually, mgmt will just require
       | everyone to come BTTO.
       | 
       | Changes like what COVID caused aren't bells you can unring. It's
       | like having women work in factories during WW2. Sure when the
       | troops return home, things seem to go back to "normal", but
       | that's just delaying the change. Remote work is here to stay, and
       | the companies that embrace it will have a leg up. All the
       | friction that we experienced in the las year will diminish over
       | time with faster/better Internet, with workflows and
       | communication tools that are better suited to WFH.
        
       | darthrupert wrote:
       | There's a trivial fix to all these problems: declare time spent
       | commuting as billable work time. I'm amazed how this is not
       | reality already, but the pandemic time should have made this
       | obvious now.
        
         | intricatedetail wrote:
         | Not only commuting time, but time spent on dressing up and so
         | on.
        
         | rebelos wrote:
         | It's also quite obvious that the net result of this will be
         | companies preferring employees who live closer to work and bear
         | a higher cost of housing.
        
           | thehappypm wrote:
           | Or, perversely, incentivizing long commutes -- incentivizing
           | people to sit in traffic, creating more traffic, burning more
           | carbon.
        
       | vodkapump wrote:
       | I am quite glad I can go to my office to work, having the
       | separation is quite nice, I don't want to associate my home with
       | work at all.
       | 
       | Though it does probably help that my commute is only 900 metres.
        
         | one2three4 wrote:
         | Commute is the most important reason for WFH for me.
        
         | GianFabien wrote:
         | Maybe you'd think differently if it was 2 hours commute each
         | way in bumper to bumper traffic.
        
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           | carschno wrote:
           | When reading on all these work-from-home discussions, it
           | seems pretty clear that the commute is the main factor. If I
           | had to commute to my office by car or (crowded) public
           | transport for an hour or more, I would hate going there. I am
           | lucky to have a 25 minutes commute by bicycle, so I don't
           | mind that, and prefer the office amenities: a work space
           | provided for me, clear separation from working and living
           | space etc. Of course, there are other advantages in working
           | from home such as more flexibility in terms of working and
           | break hours. However, my impression remains that commute
           | times and conditions outweigh all other (subjective)
           | preferences for most people when arguing for or against
           | working from home.
           | 
           | It seems to me that the pandemic and the practice of
           | massively working at home has mostly raised this question:
           | how had we accepted for such a long time that so many people
           | go through a commute nightmare every single day of their work
           | life? How can we establish working standards that require
           | neither turning homes into offices nor going back to the
           | commuting nightmare from "old normal"?
        
             | post_break wrote:
             | I work literally 10 minutes from my house. I would rather
             | work from home. It's 5 traffic lights to the office. I can
             | drive, waste fuel, clothes, time, insurance, tires, etc. Or
             | I can work from home and do exactly the same shit I do in a
             | box only from the comfort from my own home. And if I need
             | to come in I'm 10 minutes away. Yet here I am, back in the
             | office, and flex time is going away soon.
        
               | bradlys wrote:
               | This is the other differentiator - quality of the office.
               | Some people seem to not have an office that is anything
               | other than a bunch of desks put near each other.
        
               | asdff wrote:
               | Even if you had a nice office, you might get looked at
               | funny if you showed up every single day in your pajamas
               | or some stained gym shorts (like I do now from home).
               | Another big benefit is I can double time stuff. If
               | someone is hosting a meeting and I'm merely in attendance
               | rather than have to present something myself, I usually
               | eat food, do laundry, garden, showering, or workout with
               | the zoom meeting open. I'm still listening, I'm just
               | actually doing something productive and useful to my life
               | instead of sitting silently watching a power point in a
               | dark room fighting the urge to fall asleep.
        
             | 1270018080 wrote:
             | That also makes me wonder if Europe also has a ton of the
             | workforce wanting to stay remote too? They have density and
             | public transportation, while most of America is an abject
             | disaster in that regard.
        
           | Dumblydorr wrote:
           | What percentage of commuters have 2 hours bumper to bumper
           | each way? That sounds like an outlier to me.
        
             | auspex wrote:
             | San Jose to Mountain View commute
        
             | ghaff wrote:
             | Probably an outlier but I've had a 90 minute commute
             | through some combination of car and transit in the past and
             | an hour or so (so 2 hours per day) is very common,
             | especially if you're commuting into a city from
             | suburbs/exurbs.
        
             | HappySweeney wrote:
             | With the price of real estate these days, a two hour
             | commute is not out of the ordinary.
        
             | TuringNYC wrote:
             | I think it depends on the age range of who you survey. When
             | I was younger, a small apartment sufficed and I couldn't
             | imagine a long commute. As I had children and started to
             | prioritize 1. space (individual rooms for children) and 2.
             | good school districts, something had to give -- you either
             | pay exorbitant prices in the city for space+private school
             | or you go to the suburbs.
        
             | offtop5 wrote:
             | I've had to commute an hour 30 before. If you're in an
             | expensive city, like LA you're very likely to have this.
             | 
             | It's stressful, expensive and dangerous. I'm really hoping
             | work from home becomes a permanent thing.
        
               | fabianhjr wrote:
               | If you live in a car-centric city without walkable and
               | bikeable streets nor great public transit and force car-
               | dependence that is what you get.
               | 
               | There are plenty of non-car-centric expensive cities that
               | one can travel across in less than an hour.
        
               | lupire wrote:
               | Employers don't put many jobs there. Even in NYC, very
               | transit oriented, is do crowded and expensive that
               | commutes are long, and often too crowded ("straphanging")
               | and with transfers that don't let you get that time back
               | for book/podcast.
        
               | asdff wrote:
               | People have over an hour commutes riding transit in nyc
               | too. You only luck out if you manage to secure a job and
               | an apartment along the same transit line, and that's
               | rarely easy or cheap. Especially if you suddenly get a
               | new job.
        
               | offtop5 wrote:
               | Oh I'm in full agreement, this is one of the many reasons
               | I left la.
               | 
               | Once I went to car free I got rid of about 25,000 in
               | credit card debt in 6 months or so. Much of why so many
               | Americans are so desperately poor has to do with car
               | ownership. While it's possible to get Uncle Jimmy's Old
               | Jeep running, most people just finance something. Once
               | you make your car payment your insurance and gas, that's
               | easily a third of your income. Compared to a $100 a month
               | bus pass
        
               | bart_spoon wrote:
               | Not in the US there isn't. And the ones there are are:
               | 
               | 1. Expensive
               | 
               | 2. Not particularly family friendly
               | 
               | So if you are a high earner with roommates or a partner
               | and no children, you have options. For the remaining 90%
               | of the workforce, it isn't particularly feasible.
        
             | Lucasoato wrote:
             | Well, 2 hours bumper to bumper may seem too much but almost
             | everyone I know spends at least one hour commuting every
             | work day.
             | 
             | (Don't worry, I know that my only experience is not enough
             | to make statistics, but check that out with your friends)
        
             | bloqs wrote:
             | This is completely common throughout the western world, if
             | not the wider world too.
        
               | ginko wrote:
               | In the US maybe. Certainly not in Europe.
        
             | [deleted]
        
             | btbuildem wrote:
             | I think it's not that uncommon in the US
        
               | stjohnswarts wrote:
               | It's pretty uncommon except in some select areas like the
               | Bay Area and california cities. I would not do a 2 hour
               | one way drive to work and most people I know wouldn't, at
               | least not for a long period of time.
        
               | nervousvarun wrote:
               | It's very uncommon in the US. It less uncommon in Silicon
               | Valley...which is disproportionately represented on HN.
               | 
               | To be fair it's also a problem in some cities outside SV
               | though (Austin, Atlanta, Seattle) but the overwhelming
               | majority of Americans don't face this issue. Even
               | Americans working in tech.
               | 
               | Again, the overwhelming majority of Americans don't face
               | this issue to the degree being discussed here (1+ hour
               | commutes)
               | 
               | https://www.census.gov/library/visualizations/interactive
               | /tr...
        
             | prepend wrote:
             | In my org of maybe 10-20k, the last time they did a commute
             | survey, a few years before covid, the average commute was
             | 40 minutes each way. So not 2 hours but 1.3 hours. This was
             | the mean, not median so 2 hours of commuting is not a rare
             | outlier in my experience.
             | 
             | This article [0] claims the national average is 26 minutes
             | total, so I guess my org just has a rough time.
             | 
             | [0] https://bestmattress-brand.org/comatose-commuters/
        
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               | lupire wrote:
               | 2 hrs each way is 4 hrs per day.
        
               | prepend wrote:
               | Thanks, I misread as total time.
        
           | city41 wrote:
           | Commute length is a huge factor. But I also think commute
           | type matters. When I lived in Chicago, my commute was a 1
           | hour train ride. I rather enjoyed it, I used that time to
           | read and play video games.
        
           | lmm wrote:
           | I would definitely quit a job that required a 2 hour commute.
           | That doesn't mean I want to work from home, it means I want
           | to work somewhere a sane distance away.
        
             | auspex wrote:
             | In the Bay Area a two hour commute (an hour each way) is
             | only a 15 mile distance in morning/afternoon traffic
        
               | bradlys wrote:
               | If you're averaging 15mph, you may as well ride a bike
               | and just get the exercise in. You'll be very fit and well
               | off doing 2 hours of cardio multiple times a week. I knew
               | guys at some of my jobs who did these commutes - they
               | were ecstatic about it. Favorite part of their day.
        
               | MillenialMan wrote:
               | Why drive, at that point? Isn't it easier to use BART + a
               | scooter?
        
               | auspex wrote:
               | No Bart on the west side of the bay. You can to some
               | extent use light rail If you are close enough to a
               | station.
        
               | MillenialMan wrote:
               | Man, that sucks. I didn't realise Bart was so sparse. Are
               | there any plans to expand it, or add something like a
               | subway? They must have the tax revenue. It seems absurd
               | that they'd drive everyone toward increasing traffic
               | given how wealthy the area is.
        
               | drewmate wrote:
               | It's worth reading a bit about the history of BART. The
               | Bay Area's NIMBY roots run deep. Initial plans would have
               | included lines in the peninsula, with eventual
               | connections all the way around the bay. Santa Clara
               | County never joined, and that started a cascade of other
               | counties dropping out which financially crippled the
               | project and left only the scaled-back system in place
               | today.
               | 
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bay_Area_Rapid_Transit#Orig
               | ins...
        
               | ub99 wrote:
               | Even that resulted in an hour each way for me pre-
               | pandemic. Then you also need to factor in the exhaustion
               | that comes with using Bart, especially in the evening.
        
               | MillenialMan wrote:
               | Oh man, is that worse than driving? I'm in London, so I
               | don't really know what it's like in SF. What's so
               | exhausting about it?
        
               | ub99 wrote:
               | I moved from London to Oakland several years ago. In
               | London I would take a bus to work and then walk for 5
               | minutes to the office. Taking Bart is just not pleasant -
               | the cars are packed, so you stand super close to other
               | sweaty people for 45 min or so. I guess it's comparable
               | to taking Underground during rush hour - same thing.
        
             | ciisforsuckas wrote:
             | My 15 mile commute has reached 45 minutes and withing the
             | next couple years it will be 60 minutes. American cities
             | have given up on public transportaion and infrastructrure
             | and are crumbling under the weight of capitalism.
        
               | kory wrote:
               | It's capitalism's fault that public transit isn't
               | popular? What?
               | 
               | Car companies may have dismantled some streetcar systems
               | years ago, yes. However, we continue to build car focused
               | communities largely because people want to live in big
               | lots in suburbia. Density that can support transit is
               | just not popular in the US.
        
           | vodkapump wrote:
           | That is why I added the part about having such a short
           | commute.
        
           | 015a wrote:
           | That's reasonable, but the issue here clearly isn't the
           | workplace; its the commute. They're sometimes, maybe even
           | usually, intertwined. But we can't make sweeping decisions
           | based on a subset of people who both (1) have long commutes,
           | which (2) they hate. Tons of people have short commutes, and
           | tons of people have long commutes which they actually quite
           | enjoy, as it may be the only hour(s) during their workdays
           | where they can remain totally disconnected from both work and
           | home life.
           | 
           | Years ago, I commuted by walking 10 minutes. I loved that;
           | get outside, stretch your legs, put some music on, if I
           | forgot something at home it was just a jaunt away. Today, I
           | commute about an hour each way by car. I love it too. It
           | forces me to wake up early, which is something I enjoy but
           | have problems doing naturally, creates a ton of time for
           | podcasts, I've got my car right at the office if I need to
           | run anywhere during lunch (versus, previously, it being 10-15
           | minutes away), and there's a delicious doughnut shop on the
           | way in so I can sometimes stop and grab a morning snack for
           | the team (or just me).
           | 
           | Maybe two hours each way is too long. But, you're also
           | strawmanning. The average commute in the US is 27 minutes [1]
           | (in 2019).
           | 
           | [1] https://www.census.gov/newsroom/press-releases/2021/one-
           | way-...
        
         | gwbas1c wrote:
         | (hahaha)
         | 
         | Your statement raises an interesting point. The "savings" in
         | remote work really aren't there, when you take into account the
         | need for people to have dedicated space in their homes.
        
           | ghaff wrote:
           | People with houses often have dedicated desk space already.
        
             | gwbas1c wrote:
             | That was the case before children. I moved into a 4-bedroom
             | house and one of the rooms became my office.
             | 
             | Seven years, one house, and three kids later, we had to
             | make sure to plan a dedicated office area when we built our
             | current house.
        
       | GianFabien wrote:
       | All the more the power to employees who have the fortitude to
       | stand up against demeaning, demanding, power hungry bosses. They
       | might think hustling is good, but does it actually produce
       | anything of value?
       | 
       | Without productive staff, businesses can either change and thrive
       | or resist change and become Dinos-R-Us Inc.
        
       | JustSomeNobody wrote:
       | Some people are energized by other people. Some people are
       | drained by other people. The workplace shouldn't discriminate
       | against either group.
        
       | jlos wrote:
       | Commute time is one of the biggest factors on your quality of
       | life. Increasing your commute time has been to shown to:
       | 
       | - decrease your number of friends
       | 
       | - increase your likelihood of divorce
       | 
       | - increase your over all mortality
       | 
       | And then with kids the reality is you have this 3-4 hour window
       | when you can see them each day. Not to mention the struggles for
       | shared and single parenting.
       | 
       | The curtain has been pulled back and it's going to be a lot
       | harder to justify the kind of rigidity that existed before the
       | pandemic.
        
       | Zelphyr wrote:
       | _...there's also the notion that some bosses, particularly those
       | of a generation less familiar to remote work, are eager to regain
       | tight control of their minions.
       | 
       | "They feel like we're not working if they can't see us," she
       | said. "It's a boomer power-play."_
       | 
       | I'm not an "OK Boomer" kinda person but this is spot on. However,
       | I would add that it applies to the Boomer generation and older. I
       | worked at a company a few years ago that was started by a man who
       | was in his late 80's at the time. A good man, I should add, but
       | he was all about "butts in seats" (he is also a former Marine).
       | 
       | He didn't understand technology at all and was constantly at
       | loggerheads with my boss about where her people were. She never
       | could get across to him that just because he didn't see us didn't
       | mean we weren't working. We took the department from barely
       | breaking even to being the most profitable in the company in nine
       | months, so, obviously we were doing _something_ when our butts
       | were in different seats.
       | 
       | COVID accelerated remote working but I suspect it won't become
       | fully embraced until the Boomer generation of managers and
       | company leadership retire.
        
       | CloudyWeather wrote:
       | Won't workers prefer a forward-thinking, agile workplace versus
       | being stuck in high traffic and/or high cost areas?
        
       | hinkley wrote:
       | Effectively we all got a raise by being sent home. I know some
       | companies have exploded during the quarantine, but not everyone
       | has been so lucky.
       | 
       | For myself it's the last big raise I've gotten in some time, and
       | I expect I'm far from the only person for whom that's true. Going
       | back to work for these people is going to reduce their effective
       | salary back to what it was 15 months ago.
        
       | MattGaiser wrote:
       | I love the fact that with WFH I can blend work and life together
       | very seamlessly.
       | 
       | I can work for several hours then put in laundry. Or take a nap.
       | Or collect my parcel. I can sleep until it is work time. I can do
       | work at 11PM as that is when there are the fewest distractions.
       | 
       | It's been wonderful.
        
       | mancerayder wrote:
       | I like the option. Poor sleep, shitty weather, subway issues, or
       | early meetings are all motivations for that day to be a WFH day.
        
       | musicale wrote:
       | > They feel like we're not working if they can't see us
       | 
       | Management has been reduced to counting butts in chairs.
        
       | clarge1120 wrote:
       | I've been WFH since '07, only occasionally returning to the
       | office for short periods of time. There is absolutely no pressure
       | on me to return to an office.
       | 
       | I was surprised that the first question was: "Will I have to be
       | vaccinated or show proof thereof?"
       | 
       | Why is that? I thought there was very little hesitation. Was it
       | the sample the author chose?
        
       | duxup wrote:
       | I wonder how much it equates to trust too.
       | 
       | My employer trusts me to work from home, that's good.
       | 
       | If they suddenly announced I had to come in because some
       | disconnected management chain doesn't trust me to do the thing,
       | or wants to make the policy because some managers can't handle
       | it, or other employees can't handle it. That changes the
       | relationship entirely, I'm just a widget, I'm way more likely to
       | move on.
       | 
       | It also impacts my family and that changes the dynamic as well.
       | 
       | The employer might see it as a rudimentary policy, but to me it
       | is a lot more.
        
       | dghughes wrote:
       | If you are IT-literate it's OK. People stress if they are not IT-
       | literate, a failed router or no Internet is very stressful for
       | people who have no clue how it works.
       | 
       | I've never worked from home until recently and now I find it very
       | isolating. I feel like a device a tool not a person who has
       | coworker friends I only interact via emojis towards usernames.
       | There's no flow to the day it's quite compartmentalized.
       | 
       | Sure the commute short which is great but my small home has lost
       | a good part of space what was formerly not an office. I like the
       | separation of work from home even if it involves a commute. It's
       | great sometimes but not all the time.
        
       | swader999 wrote:
       | The only thing that would get me back in the office is a 4 day
       | work week, full pay. That would be an equivalent trade imo.
        
       | kraig911 wrote:
       | I hope things continue to change. Pre pandemic I feel all my
       | labor was rewarded on the results and not effort. I felt that for
       | myself too. Long commutes and messy house and difficult family
       | relationships. I think a lot of people are finally seeing the
       | relative effort sometimes far out-weights the results/cost.
        
       | Oras wrote:
       | While working from home is fantastic for many, there are some
       | real issues coming up due to WFH:
       | 
       | - From my observations, people with commitments (family,
       | partners, pets .. etc.) prefer to work from home while single
       | people prefer to go to the office. This will create a noticeable
       | gap between the two groups.
       | 
       | - While working from home can be productive for med to senior-
       | level employees, I suppose it will be a nightmare for juniors and
       | interns. They will have no one around to mentor them or at least
       | to ask for immediate advice. When working from home (as pointed
       | by others), we tend to get into deep focus on avoiding
       | distractions from messaging tools.
       | 
       | To clarify, when I start hiring, the work will be fully remote,
       | but I just wanted to list observations from different
       | perspectives.
        
         | mixxit wrote:
         | Odd, the person in our team who has a family is the one that
         | wants to go in
        
         | johannes1234321 wrote:
         | > From my observations, people with commitments (family,
         | partners, pets .. etc.) prefer to work from home while single
         | people prefer to go to the office.
         | 
         | I also have seen the opposite.
         | 
         | Some folks with family want to work from office, so that kids
         | can play loud without interrupting and when coming home it's
         | clearly family time.
         | 
         | And I living alone like the flexibility. Got a new partner? - I
         | work from their place. Want to visit some friends/family in a
         | different town? I work from there. Want to hang out with some
         | friends? I work from their office.
         | 
         | Very individual choices.
        
         | Taylor_OD wrote:
         | Facebook has started approving remote work but only for E5's
         | and higher. I think that will limit the usefulness of having
         | the more junior folks in the office but I guess it makes sense.
        
         | wdhilliard wrote:
         | Single people can have plenty of commitments that don't include
         | a spouse or pets. It is much harder to accomplish most tasks as
         | an individual vs a team. The case you present seems to be
         | closer to those who are codependent vs those who are committed
        
         | intricatedetail wrote:
         | This is what I don't get. Why do juniors need someone around to
         | mentor them? That's just promotes lazy behaviour. I had
         | countless times when junior asked me for help with something
         | where all they needed to do was to just type same question to
         | Google or search through documentation.
        
           | Oras wrote:
           | You just made 3 assumptions:
           | 
           | - Asking for help means laziness. There is a high chance that
           | this is the first job for juniors or interns. They need
           | someone to tell them how to find the answer. What is obvious
           | for you is not for others.
           | 
           | - Everyone is working on something that can be Googled. Which
           | is not the case. Even for tech, there will be some specific
           | tasks that are related to the project, domain, company that
           | can not be Googled.
           | 
           | - Documentation? really? If you're fortunate to work in a
           | company that has proper documentation for every single task
           | and are always up to date then not many people share this
           | experience.
        
         | Buttons840 wrote:
         | I'm full remote and mentored a recent CS graduate this last
         | month. I put in the effort to send him a slack message at least
         | once a day (I didn't say it was a lot of effort). And we do a
         | mix of working together on tasks and working separately.
         | 
         | When we do work together we use a new code-with-me feature of
         | IntelliJ and I'll lead the development but when I need a
         | utility function or something I ask him to write it and he goes
         | off and writes it separate from my current coding.
         | 
         | This is a legitimate help, not a burden. He wrote an interface
         | to another service for me, and I never had to be distracted by
         | it. I had a concern about something but he said he had read the
         | documentation and that the way he wrote the code was correct. I
         | trusted him, he turned out to be right.
         | 
         | In the editor this is like having 2 or 3 cursors moving around
         | in the project editing things independently, Google Docs style.
         | I flip tabs to check in on him periodically. If I want to show
         | him something I just place my cursor and type, in contrast to
         | telling him what to type with words which was never very
         | effective in the office. This is a form of pair programming
         | that is actually productive and enjoyable, imagine that!
         | 
         | If he were sitting 5 feet from me I would want to collaborate
         | the same way. Two screens, keyboards, one codebase, casual
         | voice communication. We have all this.
        
         | cpitman wrote:
         | I think the second one is a massive issue. In an in-person
         | world, mentoring and role-modeling happen all the time. Junior
         | employees see what their seniors are doing, _even when the
         | seniors do not plan on being seen_.
         | 
         | In the remote work world, junior employees can only see their
         | seniors at defined events. Lots of mentoring needs to move to
         | explicit mentoring relationships, and people have to move from
         | "showing the right behaviors" to "explaining the right
         | behaviors". And that assumes the mentee/mentor even know what
         | behaviors they need to focus on! In person, you just get to see
         | everything.
        
         | ngc248 wrote:
         | Mentoring is also possible when doing remote work, Why do you
         | need to be in front of the person to do mentoring?
         | 
         | In our company all new joinees (during covid) were paired with
         | existing employees and we were able to onnboard and get them
         | contributing in a short amount of time. The new joinees
         | included both recent graduates and experience people.
        
         | fullshark wrote:
         | Broadly speaking I think the future for tech at least will be
         | junior people work in person, going to a tech hub and going
         | into the office to learn the ropes/best practices. Basically
         | offices will become somewhat like graduate schools for these
         | employees, and they can bear the brunt of cost of living issues
         | in some of the more expensive regions living like grad
         | students. Managers will also be in office to facilitate
         | coordination.
         | 
         | Once the engineers become senior and start families they will
         | go remote.
        
         | lowbloodsugar wrote:
         | 1. Not going to get much advice if the mid and senior-level
         | employees have all left.
         | 
         | 2. "They will have no one around to mentor them or at least to
         | ask for immediate advice." This is a meme most loudly heard in
         | Cathy Merrill's disastrous Op Ed and has no basis in fact. When
         | I sat in an office, a junior sat opposite me behind screen.
         | When they wanted help, they could stand up and ask for help.
         | Now, when they want help, they ping me on slack, and we start a
         | screen share / voice / video chat. I have my own computer, I
         | can find the necessary information using my setup and my tools,
         | and guide them to a solution more quickly.
         | 
         | "Think of the children^H^H^H interns" is propaganda and we
         | should push back on that nonsense whenever it is expressed.
        
       | Tycho wrote:
       | I wonder if the mood will eventually swing the other way, with
       | companies preferring remote working arrangements, and then people
       | will recall the quaint oddity of employees _demanding_ the
       | change.
       | 
       | Living in a high cost of living city, with a high salary, has its
       | advantages - many goods have the same price point nationally,
       | holidays cost the same regardless, and any raise or bonus
       | calculated as a percentage of your base salary will be more
       | generous in absolute terms. The housing market will be brutal but
       | if you plan to relocate eventually, you'll be way ahead.
        
         | prepend wrote:
         | I think soon companies will begin exploiting teleworkers as
         | there's lots of cost savings there. Already most people in my
         | org have bought their own monitors, desks, chairs, etc.
         | 
         | Instead of allowing it, companies can start requiring it and
         | save quite a bit not just on office space, but supplies,
         | equipment, etc.
         | 
         | I'm hoping smart companies get on the ball with equipment
         | allowances.
         | 
         | Also, I think it will finally get us to a "green" office place
         | as COVID finally stopped the oldsters around me printing copies
         | of everything. So the sheet amount of paper saved is quite
         | nice.
        
           | SketchySeaBeast wrote:
           | > Also, I think it will finally get us to a "green" office
           | place as COVID finally stopped the oldsters around me
           | printing copies of everything. So the sheet amount of paper
           | saved is quite nice.
           | 
           | I kid you not, my company recently had us print something
           | out, scan it, and send it in. From home. I had to run out and
           | buy ink. I wonder how many of coworkers had to run out to buy
           | printers.
        
             | prepend wrote:
             | I had a few ask for this. I've been able to "print out,
             | sign, scan" by just using a digital signature using Preview
             | and then printing as a new PDF. And that worked. I've even
             | been asked to help other people with how to print and scan
             | from home.
        
             | amadvance wrote:
             | There are tools that allow to sign a PDF with the mouse. I
             | started using it and HR didn't complained.
        
             | Guillaume86 wrote:
             | Yeah I don't have a printer at home, last time I had to do
             | something like that, I wrote the required stuff on a paper,
             | took a picture with my phone, used PAINT.NET to put it on
             | their document at the right place and messed the
             | colors/contrast a bit to look scanned.
        
           | lnsru wrote:
           | I happily pay for equipment by myself as long as I don't need
           | to sit in open space office all day and waste time commuting.
        
         | Bancakes wrote:
         | Yes when companies start demanding dedicated home offices with
         | corporate memorabilia and multiple cameras.
        
           | walterlb wrote:
           | Don't forget to display one or more books written by company
           | execs!
        
       | newsclues wrote:
       | Will the capitalist who prefer office workers offer higher
       | salaries for workers who come into the office instead of working
       | from home?
       | 
       | Or will office only businesses fail to compete with work from
       | home businesses?
       | 
       | I hope the market decides.
        
         | dangerface wrote:
         | Rent is often the second largest cost after salaries for most
         | businesses. I think it's more likely that work from home
         | businesses will offer more money to offset the cost of working
         | from home, also because they have the money to do that.
         | 
         | I think the biggest challenge from in office businesses will be
         | brain drain why commute to a shitty office when I can get paid
         | more to not do that.
        
           | newsclues wrote:
           | I think evaluating this as purely financial decision is an
           | error.
           | 
           | The power, control and ability to monitor workers to ensure
           | "productivity" is part of the decision making matrix.
        
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       | zerop wrote:
       | Another advantage on wfh I see is that there is a less impact
       | from the "visuals".. for example what you are wearing, what is
       | your body language, how much attention others pay you during a
       | meeting and all that nuance that could distract.. now in wfh,
       | when you talk to someone over zoom, your whole attention is on
       | the voice and contents, so the visual distractions has become
       | less... I also see junior engineers who were getting intimidated
       | in the meeting are able to verbally contribute more... Though
       | both the things I mentioned have their own downsides..
        
         | asdff wrote:
         | I think its kinda a disadvantage to lose body language. You
         | could have a presentation and have no clue how well anyone
         | understood anything, since everyone's camera is off. During a
         | normal talk you can see when their eyes glaze over and you lose
         | the room.
        
       | dbrueck wrote:
       | That's basically what I did 12 years ago: the benefits of working
       | from home were too appealing, so I quit my job, started my own
       | company, and have worked from home ever since (the only exception
       | was a post-acquisition stretch where I had to go in occasionally,
       | but after I paid my dues I quit and started another company).
       | 
       | It might not be for everyone, but I absolutely love it. Of all
       | the benefits, the biggest is time - it's a precious resource, and
       | for me at least, working in an office wastes way too much of it
       | (commute, tons of meetings, etc.).
        
       | CoastalCoder wrote:
       | The article talks a lot about executives' desire to "maintain
       | company culture". Can someone unpack that for me?
       | 
       | I was already fuzzy on the concept of "company culture". But if
       | executives are worried about it at the same level as
       | "productivity" or "profitability", I'm definitely missing
       | something.
        
         | geodel wrote:
         | I too am not sure what these buzzword means. To me, however, it
         | looks company culture bullshit is controlling my time instead
         | of work. So this way they can keep me feeling guilty if I take
         | break, go to doctor's appointment, or myriad little bit of
         | things when there is no work/meeting pending. If it were just
         | about work that'd be done well within reasonable and agreed
         | upon timelines.
         | 
         | The hilarious thing about office for me was most meeting
         | including daily morning meetings still happen over webex. So
         | nothing of that in-place collaboration crap.
         | 
         | We even had those staged bullshit videos with management where
         | they tried to show how they were in office during pandemic.
         | Basically if they can manage to work from office with their
         | executive compensation then anyone with 1/10th or 1/100th of
         | salary should be able to do that.
        
         | btbuildem wrote:
         | "Company culture" has always been an elusive thing for me. The
         | more you try to be specific about it, the more the generalist
         | corp-speak terms shimmer, flutter and dissolve into nothing.
         | The only places where there was some "culture" (in my
         | experience) were some of the tiny startups I worked at. Nobody
         | talked it up, it just existed.
         | 
         | So my rule of thumb for that is, if they're talking about
         | Corporate Culture, it means there is none.
        
         | dangerface wrote:
         | The culture of all companies is a hierarchy of power and
         | control. Any time the status quo changes those who gain the
         | most from it like JP Morgan will fight against it for no other
         | reason than the status quo being good for them.
         | 
         | Company culture is just a way of saying we want to control you
         | out of work and we want you to like it.
        
         | throw483829 wrote:
         | In MBA speak, company culture is a euphemism for median tenure
         | / employee churn rate.
         | 
         | Remote work lowers switching costs for employees, and makes it
         | harder to distribute and monitor the consumption of corporate
         | "sweeteners".
         | 
         | It tilts favor in the direction of companies that are actually
         | fulfilling to work for, and not merely "sticky" (in the high
         | fructose corn syrup way). I think executives are right to be
         | worried, to the extent they fall in the latter camp.
         | 
         | As to why they're worried about it: if you have high churn, it
         | means your training costs and hiring costs are much higher. And
         | this directly impacts profitability and productivity, which
         | like you say is what they "actually" care about.
        
         | 1123581321 wrote:
         | Culture is the cumulative result of many small preferences and
         | demeanors. It's easier for people to transmit and adopt those
         | when they are physically proximate.
        
           | CoastalCoder wrote:
           | Thanks, that definition fits how people seem to use the term.
           | 
           | Still, I'm curious as to why _maintaining current culture_ is
           | seen as important. Is there a loss of productivity  /
           | profitability associated with the non-transmission of
           | culture?
        
             | 1123581321 wrote:
             | Yes; if the attitudes and habits common in the business are
             | effective ones, then losing them may cause some harm. For
             | example, a software company might have seen a benefit from
             | junior developers watching how senior developers get help
             | when they're stuck, and observed a connection between that
             | lower defect rate, more highly rated features, etc., and
             | they might be noticing their juniors have had more trouble
             | raising their hand during COVID. That's just one example of
             | how a company might perceive cultural transmission and its
             | potential link to success.
        
             | biztos wrote:
             | If you think your current culture gives you a productivity
             | advantage, and the way you've cultivated that culture is
             | very in-person, wouldn't you worry about losing it?
             | 
             | As much as it can be corporate BS, I do think there are
             | companies that have a culture that gives them an edge over
             | the competition.
             | 
             | I worked at one place where the culture was very much about
             | treating everyone as valuable contributors regardless of
             | level, and pretty much every Friday you could chat with the
             | CEO (and most of the VPs) over beers if you felt like it.
             | As a junior it made a huge difference in how much mental
             | energy I put into innovating and helping others succeed.
             | Just as an example, I could see that kind of thing being
             | hard to maintain in a remote context with thousands of
             | employees.
        
         | binarytox1n wrote:
         | I am a manager and do have a concern for company culture.
         | Culture is how the teams work together - socially,
         | professionally. It's harder to maintain culture remotely. It
         | switches from something that "just happens" with a bit of care
         | to something that has to be actively fostered.
         | 
         | It's easy do dehumanize a voice on the phone. Many people don't
         | want to even use cameras for video calls. How much empathy do
         | you have for a voice on the phone versus a human being you
         | interact with in person on a daily basis?
         | 
         | I think the benefits of remote work far outweigh the work that
         | needs to be done to maintain culture remotely, but it is a new
         | challenge that doesn't have a lot of good understanding around
         | how to make it work.
        
           | noisy_boy wrote:
           | > I am a manager and do have a concern for company culture.
           | Culture is how the teams work together - socially,
           | professionally. It's harder to maintain culture remotely.
           | 
           | The main aspects of firm culture that make difference in a
           | day to day life are minimizing company politics, avoiding
           | blame-game, honest interaction and manager's support. In my
           | experience, it is the manager who contributes the most
           | towards either improving these or screwing them up. None of
           | these things require you to be physically present in office.
           | Rest of stuff like events, group lunches etc are nice to have
           | but not having them won't impact you as much as a political
           | and toxic work environment would.
           | 
           | > How much empathy do you have for a voice on the phone
           | versus a human being you interact with in person on a daily
           | basis?
           | 
           | Since when basic human decency became incumbent upon seeing
           | someone in flesh in front of you? Are you saying that people
           | can't behave professionally unless they are not physically in
           | office? How do fully remote companies work?
           | 
           | > Many people don't want to even use cameras for video calls.
           | 
           | For the same reason people hate meetings - resolutions to
           | that are also the same that apply to face-to-face meetings.
           | 
           | > I think the benefits of remote work far outweigh the work
           | that needs to be done to maintain culture remotely, but it is
           | a new challenge that doesn't have a lot of good understanding
           | around how to make it work.
           | 
           | Agreed on that - a good starting point would be not use
           | culture as a justification to force people to be in office.
        
           | adwn wrote:
           | > _How much empathy do you have for a voice on the phone
           | versus a human being you interact with in person on a daily
           | basis?_
           | 
           | Judging by the toxic office culture at some traditional (non-
           | WFH) companies, lack of empathy has little to do with only
           | hearing "a voice on the phone" vs interacting with "in
           | person".
        
           | area51org wrote:
           | "Company culture" does not arise from physical presence. I've
           | been at this for a long time, and have worked for all types
           | of companies: mandated office presence, flexible WFH, and
           | fully remote. All had company cultures, and the worst were
           | the ones that forced people into an office. _Being together
           | in an office does not do anything productive._ It does not
           | create camaraderie or a culture, and the mythical hallways
           | conversations that you hear about do not actually happen.
           | 
           | > it is a new challenge that doesn't have a lot of good
           | understanding around how to make it work.
           | 
           | It's been going on for decades now. Time to catch up. Good
           | WFH culture is matter of _effective management_. Skills
           | required:
           | 
           | - good communication (knowing how to use the tools we have,
           | like IM, video, and yes, even email)
           | 
           | - being responsive (this is a habit that must be cultivated
           | in many cases)
           | 
           | - focus on _goals_ and _achievements_ instead of distractions
           | like seeing someone in a hallway and assuming that if they
           | seem to be working, they must be working
        
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           | lupire wrote:
           | I don't want to work with sociopaths who can't be kind to a
           | voice on the phone.
        
             | unionpivo wrote:
             | > I don't want to work with sociopaths who can't be kind to
             | a voice on the phone.
             | 
             | Sociopaths are an outliers and rare. But most people
             | empathize less with people they have not met in person
             | (prof: the internet, even before social media).
             | 
             | Add deadlines and stress to that, and you have otherwise
             | normal people behaving worse than they would otherwise.
             | Source: me, working with remote teams for past 20 years.
             | 
             | Like the person above said, you (or someone) have to be
             | actively on the lookout for such issues, or things can get
             | get bad really fast (I am talking days and weeks not
             | months).
        
             | binarytox1n wrote:
             | Your exaggeration and dismissal is perfect evidence of your
             | inability to empathize with the struggles of people you
             | haven't met in real life.
        
               | adwn wrote:
               | > _Your exaggeration and dismissal is perfect evidence of
               | your inability to empathize with the struggles of people
               | you haven 't met in real life._
               | 
               | Calm down, you're overreacting. A single sentence is
               | hardly "perfect evidence of inability to empathize" with
               | others. Talk about "exaggeration"...
               | 
               | I somewhat agree with lupire: If someone only has empathy
               | with their coworkers - _who they 're interacting with
               | daily_ - if they can physically see them, then that's
               | saying something.
        
               | binarytox1n wrote:
               | I would think that if anyone is overreacting it's the
               | person who thinks people who struggle to identify with
               | remote workers are sociopaths. I haven't made any black
               | and white statements or used absolute terms such as "no
               | empathy". I know people in general struggle with nuance,
               | but come on - I'm making it easy here.
        
               | adwn wrote:
               | > _I know people in general struggle with nuance, but
               | come on - I 'm making it easy here._
               | 
               | Your posts contain one personal attack after the other.
               | Really: please take a step back and relax.
        
         | Taylor_OD wrote:
         | Most leaders feel like they have more control when everyone is
         | in person.
        
         | itamarst wrote:
         | "How can we know people are working if we can't physically see
         | they are sitting in their chair".
        
         | twobitshifter wrote:
         | Company culture - the hierarchical structure, languages,
         | values, and histories that allow a company to control and
         | organize hundreds or thousands of people. Without culture,
         | people will think and act as independent agents or contractors.
        
         | mrbadideas wrote:
         | "Company Culture" - We think you will accept less in
         | compensation because working here is so pleasant and our open
         | office space with snacks and a ping pong table are cool!
        
         | jollybean wrote:
         | If you've worked at a few different companies, you'll notice
         | how different they are in so many things. Communications,
         | privacy, leadership, expectations, formality, processes.
         | 
         | A lot is embedded in that, some execs give it a 'very high'
         | importance.
        
         | ciisforsuckas wrote:
         | They want to build that familial model where you live and die
         | for your teammates and wfh hampers that because you aren't
         | forced to trauma bond with a bunch of strangers.
         | Facebook/Google learned early on that building campuses that
         | look and act like colleges increased worker retention and
         | productivity because they built their whole lives around the
         | company. Shopping, Doctors, Recreation all happened on campus.
         | All your new friends were made on campus after they forced
         | relocation.
        
           | lupire wrote:
           | That's because commuting to all those errands is a waste of
           | time. Remember this was invented before everything gkt Amazon
           | Primed and Uberized.
        
             | bart_spoon wrote:
             | > That's because commuting to all those errands is a waste
             | of time.
             | 
             | Only in the eyes of the employer. People have always taken
             | time out of their day for things like buying food, cooking
             | for yourself, exercising, etc. Those things aren't burdens
             | when your employer isn't demanding complete control over
             | your life. And they are only "perks" in a culture where
             | they do.
        
               | bradlys wrote:
               | Meh - I much prefer having those things done for me or
               | made simpler. I've got exceptional work/life balance
               | compared to my peers (I rarely work more than 40
               | hours/week and usually work 30-35) in SV. But I still
               | would like my workplace to make things easier.
               | 
               | I go to the grocery store quite often and find it just a
               | huge waste of time. We get things delivered more often
               | but I'm not a meal planner type so it doesn't work well.
               | Commuting for 10-15 minutes each way to get to nearest
               | Whole Foods is a PITA. Having someone plan meals for me
               | is a huge timesaver at every step. Same with exercise.
               | Great if the equipment is right there, pound some weights
               | just before eating lunch or play a game of basketball,
               | etc. don't need to manage a membership, coordinate with
               | friends over fifty messages, etc.
               | 
               | Totally could do those things outside of work but they
               | take more time. Gotta go to the gym from my house or
               | work. Gotta go to a specific park and hope there's a
               | pickup game that I can jump into. Etc.
        
       | mdorazio wrote:
       | PSA: The average commute for Americans is about 27 minutes each
       | way [1]. If your commute is 2 hours, you're an outlier.
       | 
       | [1] https://www.npr.org/2018/09/20/650061560/stuck-in-traffic-
       | yo...
        
         | cableshaft wrote:
         | Lots of people both live and work in small towns or cities. As
         | someone who lived in a city of about 100k population, my
         | commute to anywhere in the city was no more than twenty minutes
         | on a bad day, usually fifteen.
         | 
         | Lots of people both live and work from within big cities
         | reasonably close to their job. For those people, their commute
         | is likely less than 30 minutes.
         | 
         | For people who are outside of big cities and have to commute
         | in, or live in one city and commute to another, they will have
         | longer than 30 minute commutes, almost certainly. That applies
         | to most people who live in the suburbs.
         | 
         | Also note this quote from your article: _" Speeds over the five
         | or six years that Uber and others have been in existence have
         | dropped from a very slow 6.5 mph to 4.7 mph," Schwartz says
         | about New York City._
         | 
         | 4.7 miles per hour. So that suggests that if your home is as
         | close as 5 miles away from the city, it could take you an hour
         | just to drive into the city during rush hour.
        
       | momirlan wrote:
       | Wondering what is the corporate next step. Work from office can
       | be enforced in a number of ways : lower pay for WFH comes to
       | mind. I'm sure we'll see some devious schemes.
        
         | intricatedetail wrote:
         | Actually companies should pay more for use of worker's home as
         | office.
        
       | Proven wrote:
       | And the employers can't find anyone in Manila or Bangalore to
       | fill those positions at 30% of the cost?
       | 
       | I don't think so.
       | 
       | I know Bloomberg and the rest of MMT-crazed intelligentsia would
       | be happiest if the US Gov and Fed endlessly poured money into a
       | non-functioning economy where everyone "works" from home, but
       | somewhere out there some employers still need to get shit done
       | and run business.
        
       | elzbardico wrote:
       | I think that overtime some middle-ground will be achieved. Maybe
       | some people companies won't allow full remote work, but will
       | create satellite offices in smaller towns where people would be
       | able to walk or even bike to work. (yes, I know, this is true in
       | big cities like NYC, but then the cost of living is astounding).
        
       | codezero wrote:
       | At my company it feels like it's about 50/50. I expect this to be
       | company and individual specific. Half my team will quit if they
       | don't get access to in office amenities and socialization.
        
       | wdhilliard wrote:
       | Working from home has been nice, but I have enjoyed the freedom
       | of flexible working. I am not surprised by the overwhelming
       | amount of people who never want to return to the office again. As
       | someone who was often in charge of organizing team and social
       | events pre-pandemic, I have been aware of the amount of people
       | who think of social time as an unwanted obligation vs fun. Still,
       | not everything about working from home is better. Here are a few
       | thoughts of my own: - My commute is only 15 minutes. Despite
       | environmental impact, which I can appreciate, I enjoy my 15 min
       | in the car - drinking coffee, thinking about my day. I wouldn't
       | call it meditation, but it's close. If your commute is 2 hours a
       | day, good riddance. You probably should have been considered a
       | remote worker all along. - I truly enjoy interacting with my
       | coworkers. I am a single, mid-30s guy who likes to socialize.
       | It's a nice break and gives me reason to get up from my desk.
       | There are lots of studies on how short breaks impact productivity
       | and mental wellness. I was acutely aware of my declining social
       | skills as I worked from home. I became easily agitated and curt
       | with people. If you consider all forms of casual communication as
       | "small talk", consider that you might be more about the effort
       | you're willing to put into people vs. how innately boring
       | everyone else is. - Scheduling online meetings and Zoom calls IS
       | a pain in the ass. Everything revolves around a calendar of 30min
       | blocks. 5min convo? 30 minutes. I also can't help but get the
       | feeling that many of my coworkers are not actually engaged on
       | calls. If you're colleagues are honest, you have most likely
       | heard them say at least once "sorry can you repeat that. I was
       | distracted". Many issues simply don't get addressed because it's
       | not an appropriate text chat, but it doesn't seem big enough to
       | put on someones calendar. - I am arguably less productive at the
       | office, but my days feel shorter. - I never really wanted my home
       | to be a working environment. This is probably my biggest issue
       | with working from home. My office is an office. My living room is
       | an office. My kitchen table is an office. It feels really nice to
       | come home and have it feel like a home. Not to mention the
       | privilege of even having space for a real office vs having to
       | work from my bedroom like many people do. - There are introverts
       | and extroverts, but being anti-social is not a positive thing. If
       | you believe in mental health, this is not an argument. There ARE
       | plenty of ways to be social online, but many people are bad at
       | it. The ability to be a passive aggressive asshole seems to
       | increase when you know the only way for someone to talk to you
       | about it is over text. - I worry about the impact remote work has
       | on employee appreciation/value. Workers seem more like a
       | commodity. I think this is easier for someone to understand if
       | they have ever worked on a team with distributed contractors.
       | This isn't
        
       | jordache wrote:
       | Every company should just do hybrid. Setup hoteling space at the
       | office, reduce office sq ft. Meet both mindsets in the middle.
       | 
       | Easy peasy. I don't understand why this is not automatic for
       | these companies.
        
       | Grimm1 wrote:
       | WFH is great for > 30 yo, and those with money/space and worse
       | for people just starting out or who live in a studio.
       | 
       | I'm young (26), but successful by financial standards and before
       | the pandemic my apartment was just the place I slept so I had a
       | studio and I liked it that way.
       | 
       | Working, sleeping, eating and socializing from my 800 sqft studio
       | is frankly maddening. I feel like I'm always on call and
       | connected where before my apartment was the place I decompressed
       | and escaped.
       | 
       | It's lost its sanctity and I want it back.
        
         | JakeTheAndroid wrote:
         | I am not sure where you live, but I would expect that WHF
         | allows those under 30 a similar financial relief to those
         | above. For you to be forced to live in an 800 sqft place
         | working in tech, I would assume you live in one of the larger
         | metropolitan areas. WFH should allow you to move further away
         | and capture more space for your dollar, even if you don't end
         | up owning the property like those over 30 might.
         | 
         | At the start of the pandemic I lived in a house full of people
         | working at tech startups in Oakland. So I understand having no
         | space as I worked/lived from my tiny room. But, I was able to
         | leave the bay area, as were my roommates and now we all have
         | our own places (some rent some own) because the same rent in
         | Oakland was able to afford private spaces in other parts of CA.
         | 
         | So I empathize with your position. I recommend trying to move
         | out of the locale that only allows you to afford an 800 sqft
         | studio. Even the shittiest tech jobs in the Bay would allow for
         | you to have your own 2 bedroom apt in other parts of CA. This
         | is how you take advantage of the WFH opportunity as a younger
         | person.
        
           | Grimm1 wrote:
           | You may have misunderstood me, I could definitely afford a
           | bigger space. I didn't/don't want one. I purposely chose my
           | 800 sqft studio because I hadn't signed up to be entombed in
           | it.
           | 
           | I was never home by choice in the before times and I don't
           | want to change that. I want to go back to getting home at
           | 10pm sleeping after work, socializing, going to meetups or
           | whatever and then leaving at 8:30am the next day. The extra
           | space would be wasted in that case. Plus saving 35%+ of my
           | paycheck was/is great.
           | 
           | I only spent time in my apartment later at night and
           | sometimes on the weekends.
           | 
           | Moving away from the city won't help me there. I imagine it'd
           | actually be worse.
        
             | JakeTheAndroid wrote:
             | I am confused then. You want to go into an office so that
             | you can stay living in a small apartment? The position was
             | that the WFH situation helped those that had their own
             | space. But you're saying that not having your own space is
             | a choice.
             | 
             | It would seem that this issue is more around the pandemic
             | itself and less around WFH. Once things open up your home
             | would only be a place where you work and sleep, and you'll
             | be able to spend most of your time away from your
             | apartment. And if you expanded the size of your apartment
             | to a 1 bed instead of a studio, you could theoretically
             | reduce this issue by having an isolated work space that you
             | don't share with your recreational activities.
        
               | Grimm1 wrote:
               | I don't want WFH to become permanent for everyone, I want
               | it to be a choice. A lot of people around this forum seem
               | overly about WFH and it being permanent which often means
               | it becomes a thing everyone has to deal with. I'd prefer
               | it being a well balanced choice or go back to how it was.
               | 
               | So yes, if things return to how they were before you're
               | right my issues will be resolved.
        
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         | mmmmmbop wrote:
         | This is off-topic, but to me as a European, it's fascinating to
         | read that you consider an 800sqft studio to be somewhat
         | limiting. I'm pretty sure most couples in European cities live
         | in apartments smaller than that. Back when I was in university,
         | I lived in a ~200sqft studio. Granted, I'm really happy that I
         | didn't have to lock down or WFH from there.
        
           | 1270018080 wrote:
           | 800 is a giant studio. 400-500 is more normal in the US. But
           | 200? Whew. Maybe only in NYC.
        
             | SauciestGNU wrote:
             | I lived in a 230 ft^2 studio in Michigan with my wife while
             | she was in grad school. They exist, even in the middle of
             | the country.
        
         | Teknoman117 wrote:
         | Apparently it's an unpopular opinion, but I am completely in
         | this boat. I suffer from ADHD and my productivity and emotional
         | wellbeing cratered when WFH started. I eat worse than I did at
         | work, I put on weight, etc.
         | 
         | I lived next to the office before I ended my lease and moved in
         | with family so I wouldn't be completely alone, so the office
         | was never a hassle. I was a 20 minute walk away and the weather
         | is usually nice.
         | 
         | I had a clear delineation between work life and personal life.
         | My home was for relaxing and play, the office was for work. It
         | helped me keep my priorities in order. Going into the office
         | helped me mute out the personal distractions of life - personal
         | projects, entertainment, etc.
         | 
         | I have a dramatically different experience at home. I can
         | hardly focus because it's next to impossible to fully separate
         | myself from my toys, as it were.
         | 
         | It's driven my stress levels through the roof because I know
         | I'm less productive. No one has said anything to me about it,
         | nor brought up anything, yet my self guilt is consuming me. It
         | keeps me up at night and I'm dreading performance reviews...
        
           | Grimm1 wrote:
           | > My home was for relaxing and play, the office was for work
           | 
           | Yup I feel this exactly. I had the exact same separation and
           | the exact same issue when it stopped existing. I'm still
           | struggling with it and we've been living this way for over a
           | year now.
        
       | JansjoFromIkea wrote:
       | What are these employers offering as a concession?
       | 
       | I'd do 4 day weeks in the office; I'd definitely do 3 days in the
       | office and one at home and I'd take a 10% pay cut to be allowed
       | it with basically no difference to my productivity.
       | 
       | If you're offering nothing and simultaneously aren't able to give
       | clear reasons why working remotely isn't a valid option I don't
       | see what you can expect other than people quitting.
        
         | biztos wrote:
         | Why would you take less money for the same work output?
        
           | JansjoFromIkea wrote:
           | It's a hypothetical scenario with two options that
           | conceivably could be seen as a fair trade-off by the
           | employer.
           | 
           | I'd take less money because I dont really care about how
           | productive I am on aggregate, I just care about how much time
           | I have where I am completely free to not be productive. I
           | think the example I gave is a touch extreme though; 5%
           | deduction for alternating 4 day weeks remote and in the
           | office.
        
       | nomy99 wrote:
       | I'll never work from home. I'll go so far to say that I'd only
       | work for companies that require you to come in. My experience WFH
       | has been abysmal.
        
       | sizzle wrote:
       | Employers need to compensate us for the extra wear and tear on
       | our homes, our office furniture/accommodations, and prorated
       | utilities consumed on company time. In return, companies can
       | afford massive savings from a reduced physical footprint and
       | smaller commercial real estate leasing + massive facilities
       | upkeep and utilities cost savings.
        
       | m3kw9 wrote:
       | Here, we've scheduled a high five session with your fellow
       | employees, please come in for it.
        
       | Dumblydorr wrote:
       | I left a job right before the pandemic because the office was
       | terrible and they gave all the older employees WFH but then
       | stopped giving WFH out right when I was due for it. They told me
       | they just couldn't do it anymore, no reason given.
       | 
       | Then, after quitting, covid occurred and they went fully remote.
        
       | elzbardico wrote:
       | and please note Quitting != Leaving the work force. The market is
       | strong right now for developers. Easy to find another job that
       | has a remote option. I bet most of that people that quit, quit
       | because they had already secured an offer with remote work
       | option.
        
       | woeirua wrote:
       | I was a strong proponent of WFH for years. I fought tooth and
       | nail for more flexible policies at my previous employers. After
       | having done it now for over a year full-time, I'm done. I don't
       | want to WFH full-time anymore. Part of it is that I'm at a
       | different point in my life: I have kids now so having some
       | physical separation between home and work is almost required. the
       | other reason is that its so hard to integrate with a company when
       | you're fully remote. I've never felt more like a cog in the
       | machine than this last year.
       | 
       | Ultimately, some companies will move to completely remote work.
       | Most will go back to at least a hybrid in-person model. For the
       | latter, I suspect that most WFH employees will eventually go back
       | to the office once they realize that they're second class
       | employees and that they're effectively frozen out of the
       | traditional career progression model by being remote.
        
         | mtberatwork wrote:
         | > Ultimately, some companies will move to completely remote
         | work. Most will go back to at least a hybrid in-person model.
         | For the latter, I suspect that most WFH employees will
         | eventually go back to the office once they realize that they're
         | second class employees and that they're effectively frozen out
         | of the traditional career progression model by being remote.
         | 
         | I disagree. This is a problem if the majority of workers are in
         | the office full time and only a small group are remote. If the
         | office is entirely WFH _or_ hybrid, then everyone is a remote
         | worker. Also, the traditional career model has been changing
         | drastically even before the pandemic. These days workers need
         | to move horizontally, across companies, to achieve any kind of
         | progression in their careers. The vertical move up the
         | corporate ladder is becoming a relic. Mind you, I 'm not saying
         | that is good or bad, just commenting on the current situation.
        
       | theknocker wrote:
       | I prefer an actual office. An open floor plan that's designed so
       | my boss can walk behind me twenty times a day is not an actual
       | office.
        
       | pawelduda wrote:
       | It's a shame global pandemy had to happen for companies to
       | realize that employeee don't have to be at a particular place at
       | a particular time to do a good job. Never say never, but I never
       | want to go back to office job :)
        
       | xwdv wrote:
       | Forcing someone to be at an office is like saying "Hey can you
       | work an extra two hours everyday for free?" Time spent commuting
       | is work. Getting dressed for work is work.
       | 
       | If you want to keep people working in the office you need to pay
       | more. At least 2 hours per day more.
        
       | theshadowknows wrote:
       | I've been working outside on my deck the past few weeks and it's
       | been glorious. It's a little cooler sometimes than I'd like but
       | it's not frigid (I live in Connecticut).
        
       | a3n wrote:
       | > Some have lamented the perils of remote work, saying it
       | diminishes collaboration and company culture.
       | 
       | Collaboration, maybe.
       | 
       | Company culture is not diminished, it's merely changed.
        
       | rodolphoarruda wrote:
       | I stopped working at the office in 2006. Since 2018 I've been
       | working at stakeholder's location, which can be the prospect,
       | customer, partner or event.
       | 
       | The key aspect I miss the most from my office days is networking,
       | or the capacity to build and maintain a consistent network of
       | contacts. Maybe because I'm latin working in Latin America. We
       | are high touch by definition. But I really feel that remote work
       | damaged my capacity to keep my network of contacts. Now I see
       | myself with the mission to find a new job, and I'm not sure my
       | current network will be enough help.
        
       | kleinsch wrote:
       | When companies start pressuring people to return to the office, I
       | wouldn't be surprised if there's a wave of quitting to switch to
       | another company that's more remote friendly. That will be limited
       | by the actual number of remote jobs, so the early movers will get
       | an advantage. I think you'll end up with a decent number of
       | people who answer surveys that they'll quit before having to go
       | back to the office, but realize there are no comparable remote
       | jobs available.
        
         | agotterer wrote:
         | Early movers will snatch up the currently open remote
         | positions. If remote really becomes the standard then companies
         | who want to remain competitive will have no choice but to adapt
         | and adjust policies.
        
         | ipsi wrote:
         | Interestingly enough, my employer has gone the opposite way -
         | they're "shutting down" (that is, chose not to renew the lease
         | for) our office in this city, and had all of us sign new WFH
         | contracts. Same for the office in another part of Europe.
         | 
         | Some of us were 100% OK with that, and some were really not -
         | since the job wasn't expected to be a WFH job, not everyone has
         | a good location to work from, or reliable internet, etc., etc -
         | those people have been able to work from the office at various
         | points over the last year as the pandemic ebbed and flowed. As
         | a consequence, my employer has walked the office closure back
         | _a little_ - we 're still all full-time remote, but there will
         | be a smaller office available for e.g., project kickoffs, or
         | people who want to get out of their house for a bit.
        
         | dcolkitt wrote:
         | This presupposes that the wave of quitting has no significant
         | impact on the employer side. I'd imagine that many companies
         | who push office-first too hard will find themselves short
         | staffed in a very tight labor market. The likely response of
         | many will be to panic and convert to remote-first to avoid
         | hemorrhaging workers.
        
       | jxidjhdhdhdhfhf wrote:
       | Right now I'm working in my backyard on a nice day, listening to
       | the birds chirp instead of keyboard clacking. One of the MASSIVE
       | downsides of working in an office that I rarely hear mentioned is
       | that you have to be inside during prime sunlight hours for
       | basically all of the summer except weekends and when you're on
       | vacation. We're all cooped up in a shed like factory farmed
       | animals.
        
         | kaesar14 wrote:
         | Well for those of us in dense urban areas, we don't have a
         | backyard and you could really go on a walk whenever it damn
         | well pleased you anyway
        
           | greedo wrote:
           | When I was in the office, the only acceptable reasons to be
           | away from your desk were:
           | 
           | 1. Bathroom break. Better not take too many or it'll be
           | noticed.
           | 
           | 2. Coffee/smoke break outside. Not much scrutiny of this, but
           | I do neither.
           | 
           | 3. Exercise break where people walk around the campus for a
           | bit. Not too fun to do in the middle of either a hot or ice-
           | cold midwestern day.
           | 
           | Anything else was viewed with a jaundiced eye.
        
           | jxidjhdhdhdhfhf wrote:
           | Yeah that's nowhere near the same as what I'm talking about.
        
         | Idunn0 wrote:
         | What is your setup for working outside in the sunshine?
        
           | jxidjhdhdhdhfhf wrote:
           | A laptop on a patio table under a patio umbrella.
        
       | chad_strategic wrote:
       | Aside from the debate of WFH / work at the office, culture, water
       | cooler etc.
       | 
       | Environmentalist should up in arms about return to the office. 2
       | hour commutes are terrible for the environment. 2 hours of an
       | idling car not moving at it's true potential. (I understand that
       | when the car is idling or stuck in slow traffic it is burning the
       | most fossil fuels.) I'm not saying that WFH is going to solve our
       | environmental problems, but taking a few cars off the morning
       | commute surely can't hurt.
       | 
       | It also takes money away from big oil and our criminal frenemy,
       | MBS in.
        
       | throwitaway1235 wrote:
       | Are people so hopelessly dense that they don't realize a remote
       | economy means lower wages, massive outsourcing and the
       | obsolescence of cities?
        
         | Miner49er wrote:
         | How does it mean lower wages? Wouldn't it just mean less
         | variance in wages?
        
         | ks6g10 wrote:
         | Are people so hopelessly dense that they don't realise an
         | office economy means lower net wages, massive outsourcing and
         | the obsolescence of local communities?
        
         | SketchySeaBeast wrote:
         | > lower wages, massive outsourcing and the obsolescence of
         | cities
         | 
         | I don't really know why #3 is said like a bad thing, but I
         | wonder about the other two. If this is clearly and advantage
         | that is sure to happen, why hasn't it? There's still time zone
         | issues and cultural bridges to gap, so I don't know how far one
         | can really go before it becomes a lot of effort to be
         | productive. And speaking as a Canadian who makes what appears
         | to be a university grad-level wage in the states, I wouldn't
         | mind it at all if that forced the more local wage to be a
         | little higher to compete.
        
       | rsynnott wrote:
       | Hmm. I think I'd quit if I was told we were going fully remote.
       | It works for some people, not others; personally I can't wait to
       | be back in an office.
        
       | tinyhouse wrote:
       | For me WFH is not the key but rather having the freedom and
       | flexibility. I've been going to the office for the last few
       | months, about 2-3 times a week. It's been great. First, I bike or
       | walk to the office, so my commute is part of my weekly exercise.
       | The office is empty, so I have all the freedom that I want. I can
       | come and leave whenever I want. The benefit of the office is
       | pretty significant for me - I'm not stuck at home all day, it's
       | quiet unlike my home (my wife is WFH and my kids are sometimes
       | around) so I can concentrate better, etc. I still like WFH at
       | least twice a week, since I like mixing things up and it fits my
       | schedule better on days that I have other activities during the
       | day or early evening.
       | 
       | Now, obviously my current situation is not going to last. Sooner
       | or later others will come back to the office and it's not going
       | to be that quiet anymore, my boss might be around, etc. However,
       | I actually look forward to that. Going out for lunch with co-
       | workers etc. I'm still planning to keep things as they are now.
       | Coming and leaving whenever I want, mixing it between WFH and
       | from the office. Meetings are going to continue to be fully
       | remote anyway, since we have people all over the world. I see the
       | office as a place people can come to have a quiet time, enjoy the
       | office perks, and socialize. Different than what the office used
       | to be pre-covid (at least at some places). Since we have a large
       | office with many areas to connect your laptop and work, I'm not
       | even planning to sit together with my team.
       | 
       | The one thing I'm not looking forward to is rush hour. I'm really
       | enjoying my commute these days, much more than pre-covid. I hope
       | that things will never go back to pre-covid levels. (most likely
       | given that WFH has become much more common)
        
       | juloo wrote:
       | For me, the main benefit is I can choose where I live. There is
       | not many developer positions available outside of big cities,
       | with WFH I get to choose both where _and_ for which company I
       | work. Living in a big city was a bad experience for me, I would
       | quit my job immediately if I were asked to give up WFH.
       | 
       | Commute time, expense and risks are other benefits but others are
       | talking about it already.
        
       | intricatedetail wrote:
       | The moment I get asked to come to office I am going to leave. I
       | may agree to occassional meetings no more than twice a month.
        
       | Simulacra wrote:
       | To play devil's advocate for a moment, is it possible people are
       | becoming spoiled or too coddled by work?
       | 
       | I've always been of the presumption that market forces will align
       | workers with jobs, but it's clear in places where there is little
       | to no choice (i.e. the small towns Amazon puts their warehouses)
       | theory doesn't exactly work out in reality.
       | 
       | That's led me to change my thinking a bit, but I'm having trouble
       | getting over the notion that it's a job, and if you want a job,
       | you work, if you don't want to work at a particular place, you go
       | work somewhere else. I bristle at the notion that employees
       | should, could, or can bend a company to their preference.
       | 
       | It just seems we've gone from free lunch and massages to
       | employees dictating business decisions. I'm not sure if that
       | shift in power is wise.
        
         | jxidjhdhdhdhfhf wrote:
         | They aren't actually dictating anything though. Employers are
         | still in charge of their policies. These employees are just
         | stating their terms and leaving if their terms aren't met.
         | Companies can then choose their response. They can hire other
         | workers who are willing to work in an office or they can cave
         | to worker demands or some other compromise can be made.
         | 
         | This is free society functioning how it's supposed to: free
         | agents negotiating their terms and coming to mutually
         | beneficial arrangements.
        
       | alasdair_ wrote:
       | I'm dreading my commute to Seattle once offices reopen. Over the
       | last year and a half there have been a crazy number of new homes
       | and apartments built all along the two-lane highway that
       | comprises most of my route.
       | 
       | Everything is workable now because people are still at home but
       | as soon as the offices reopen it will be atrocious. This is
       | especially true once the weather turns shitty - snow can easily
       | make a 1.5 hour commute take 3.5 hours even excluding the new
       | homes.
        
       | jes5199 wrote:
       | I spent three years working from home in the pre-pandemic era, at
       | GitHub - the king of remote culture at the time - and I was
       | desperate to have an office again.
       | 
       | I can code fine at home (better, actually, with more privacy to
       | focus), but I can't do the meta-stuff nearly as well. It's the
       | soft-skills that suffer.
       | 
       | I think my pandemic-era company failed (we got acquired but, it
       | was a failing-up situation) because we lost the ability to have
       | course-correcting conversations outside of formal meetings. Which
       | is to say: we just weren't as smart, as a group. We should have
       | done a daring pivot, but there was no way to discuss it
       | (zoom+figma "brainstorming" sessions were completely useless)
       | 
       | I think my ideal would be to have somewhere that we met in person
       | semi-regularly, maybe optionally, like a study hall environment,
       | where we could pair or whiteboard or just chat.
       | 
       | I don't want to go back to being crammed into an open-office with
       | too many people, that is just awful for coding. and Slack is like
       | being in an open-office 24 hours a day; I hope my next gig
       | doesn't use it.
        
       | failwhaleshark wrote:
       | I heard FB is most likely doing-away with WfH and going back to
       | ass-in-seat mentality (AiSM).
        
       | h0nd wrote:
       | This was so obvious. But who will pay and feed these former
       | employees?
        
       | msarrel wrote:
       | Did anyone else notice that they quote hate speech from this
       | worker who won't return to the office? I have to wonder why we
       | have a quote in there ridiculing someone because of their age.
       | Would it have been okay if she had said that this person she
       | worked for was stupid because of their race or gender? Why is it
       | okay that the person she works for is stupid because of his age?
        
       | motohagiography wrote:
       | This idea that voice/video ostensibly reduces empathy may not be
       | all bad. It's easier to set personal boundaries when the poorly
       | equipped project or engineering manager on the other side of a
       | voice or video bridge can't escalate with implied threats or
       | histrionics. Cajoling and haranguing people to work for its own
       | sake is not management, and the tech sets a boundary on a lot of
       | that behavior.
       | 
       | I'd argue the human contact in offices is rarely used to foster
       | healthy long term relationships, and the improved mental health
       | of remote employees appears to have a productivity benefit. Think
       | of the anti-patterns that people use in offices because it works
       | for them, and how those anti-patterns don't work anymore and they
       | must find better tools.
       | 
       | I can see how it's hard for superfluous managers who must compete
       | to extract value from the same set of resources, but for a well
       | aligned organization, remote is a potential renaissance.
        
       | rexreed wrote:
       | For knowledge workers, Work From Home should be the assumed
       | starting point, with offices provided for those who would rather
       | not or can't, rather than the reverse.
       | 
       | For service providers and retail folks, obviously this is not as
       | much of an option.
        
       | efields wrote:
       | Office work never acknowledged how much labor was being done at
       | home by unpaid workers -- usually moms.
       | 
       | Now we've had a couple generations of women in the workforce en
       | masse, partners who have stepped up household responsibilities,
       | longer commutes, and more being asked of all workers.
       | 
       | The only time to get household crap done has been late after
       | hours and the weekend, aka "leisure time."
       | 
       | It hasn't been tenable for a while and now the pandemic showed us
       | another way. This is an improvement.
       | 
       | Offices mostly facilitate interruption, but also collaboration on
       | a good day. So much of that can be done virtually.
       | 
       | Half-day whiteboard sessions are great IRL, no reason why they
       | can't be scheduled a day in advance, or later in the day and give
       | people time to get to a common area to do so.
       | 
       | The office had its issues and the pandemic is forcing a reckoning
       | of them. Great!
        
       | lowbloodsugar wrote:
       | Corporations have missed that we employees are actually
       | customers. We trade services in exchange for cash. We can easily
       | take our business elsewhere.
       | 
       | It's no surprise that the business leaders focus on "culture".
       | "Oh, they have to be here four days per week or we don't have
       | culture". Not effectiveness. Not satisfaction. "Culture". And by
       | "culture" they mean "kissing ass" and maintaining their lordships
       | feudal demesne.
       | 
       | They make noises about "bums in seats" being necessary for
       | productivity, yet they either don't have measures in place to
       | measure productivity, or conveniently forget them, since the data
       | shows that productivity is the same or better when an employee is
       | allowed to choose where to work.
       | 
       | Then there was that article about how junior employees wont be
       | able to learn from senior employees, which is arse. If anything
       | it's easier to work together remotely. Bonus, nobody putting
       | their hands on a junior as they lean in "to get a better look at
       | your work". But in any case, junior employees aren't going to
       | learn from senior employees if the senior employees _arent
       | there_.
        
       | CSDude wrote:
       | I'm going to start my own startup with a friend. We've been
       | planning this for a long while. We will work together in a small
       | office, but I'm not sure how We can build a team fully remote,
       | with no experience. I'm all for flexibility etc. but when things
       | are not in an order, just starting remote feels very heavy and
       | risky for me. Any pointers would be appreciated.
        
       | MrPatan wrote:
       | I'll let someone else reap the 15% extra productivity or w/e
       | office working adds. Knock yourselves out.
       | 
       | For me there's no turning back. The cat is out of the barn and
       | the horse out of the bag. That ship has sailed and it hit the
       | iceberg. The fat lady sang her swan song.
       | 
       | Sorry, bums-in-seatsers.
        
       | ajuc wrote:
       | We build 2 buildings for each person - 1 to live in and other to
       | work in. And then we build roads between them and parking spaces
       | near them. And then we pay these people to use all that
       | infrastructure and waste their precious time doing it, instead of
       | just using their computer and internet connection (which they
       | already use anyway) for 1 more thing.
       | 
       | It's so inefficient it boggles my mind we're still doing it.
        
       | digbert wrote:
       | Personally, I'm the opposite. I have considered quitting as my
       | company has been talking about remote work, but none of my team
       | seem interested, so I'm sticking around for now. If a few people
       | in my team went remote (or mostly remote), I'd probably quit.
        
       | pearjuice wrote:
       | Yeah, I'm never going back and if they want me to go back I will
       | quit too. This is the new normal and productivity has shown that
       | there is zero necessity for people to come to an office. It's all
       | perfectly viable to WFH.
       | 
       | - stress free working if I actually want to get stuff done
       | 
       | - no open office or any obnoxious sounds just me in my room and I
       | can make whatever sounds I want
       | 
       | - don't have to pretend to work hard, just get stufff done and
       | don't be a slacker and I can literally be productive 1/2 days and
       | relax/be async 2/3 days because I can focus very well. No
       | complaints whatsoever from stakeholders or the business.
       | 
       | - not being hyper alert of how I look or what I wear, just my top
       | needs to look presentable when in an meeting with camera on and
       | can wear sweatpants and no shoes or whatever is comfortable
       | without dress code
       | 
       | - can fix the temperature to the exact degree I want it
       | 
       | - no social interactions whatsoever. no "get togethers", Friday
       | drinks with people I don't like, barely any casual conversation
       | just straight to the point business and that's it
       | 
       | - no morning talk or "how was your weekend" NPC tier
       | conversations for the sake of conversing just a daily stand-up
       | (we actually sit) hyper-focused on work and that's it
       | 
       | - eat whenever i want whatever i want no more sandwiches in a box
       | or overpriced canteen food, bake french eggs for lunch or make a
       | soup. Fitness during a break. Take a walk whilst being in a
       | "meeting"
       | 
       | - no commute whatsoever, can practically roll out of bed into my
       | chair if i wanted to
       | 
       | - not ONE colleague seen at the coffee machine or when getting
       | water no SMALL TALK OR STARING of colleagues begging for me to
       | say hi and them to ramble about their kids or whatever
       | uninspiring thing they did in the weekend. I have friends and
       | colleagues. I don't want to socialize with these colleagues, I
       | wouldn't even think about small talking with them in a bar why
       | force it in an office?
       | 
       | And best of all no SJW office politics whatsoever. All of that
       | seem to have disappeared with WFH. Just get stuff done, get paid
       | and that's it. I'm never going back to the or any office.
        
       | yboris wrote:
       | I moved from the NYC area (NYC job) to Michigan for cheaper cost
       | of living. I told my employer I either continue 100% remotely or
       | I will find another job. I am grateful my employer let me stay
       | on. I presented it nicely, but it was an ultimatum.
       | 
       | My approach was to express (honestly) that I wanted to stay with
       | the company, but the opportunity of living in a state closer to
       | my friends and with a calmer pace of life was too much to pass
       | up. In my case I bought a house for $150k and will be paying much
       | lower property taxes than I did in NJ.
       | 
       | This move and 100% remote has been a major win across all
       | dimensions for me.
        
       | swader999 wrote:
       | The environmental benefits are massive. For all the press the
       | climate gets you'd think we'd hear this angle more. Perhaps even
       | incentives for employers.
        
         | podgib wrote:
         | This is very place-dependent. In california where everybody is
         | driving to work, you're probably right. But in many European
         | cities where people would take public transport to work, and
         | instead are heating entire homes all day instead of heating one
         | office for hundreds of staff, the environmental effect of WFH
         | is probably negative.
        
           | thehappypm wrote:
           | Ditto this. This summer I'm going to need to run my air
           | conditioning basically 24/7.
        
       | supergeek133 wrote:
       | I still don't like the polarization of this issue "either
       | everyone has to allow full time WFH or I quit!".
       | 
       | I prefer working at the office given the choice, it allows me to
       | see some of my co-workers and helps me with balance. I get
       | distracted at home. Also things that happen organically at the
       | office like lunch together and happy hours are nice to have.
       | 
       | At the same time, I have a VERY short commute compared to most, I
       | can imagine I would feel differently if I lived 30 minutes+ away
       | from the office.
       | 
       | My company has announced we will do "3 days minimum" in the
       | office once things are "normal", this made a lot of people upset
       | in our company with good reason. I think we should be more
       | flexible, but I still appreciate the option.
        
         | Ocerge wrote:
         | I feel like the pandemic has given rise to a winners vs losers
         | mentality with respect to WFH. For the longest time, people who
         | prefer to work in office were the winners, and now it's the
         | people who prefer WFH. In reality everybody is different and
         | wants different things out of the work aspect of their life. I
         | have been in an awful place mentally due to WFH; I can't stand
         | not separating work from life, I'm more social than the average
         | dev so I enjoy being around people, I get easily distracted at
         | home, etc. I don't know why compromise is not more common in
         | online spaces. Reads like 90% of introverts running a victory
         | lap.
        
           | supergeek133 wrote:
           | Yeah this is what I'm getting at, I've started referring to
           | it as "I live at work now".
        
         | paxys wrote:
         | How is it polarization? I want to work from home full time, my
         | employer stops allowing it, so I find a new job. Especially in
         | the software industry where there's an unlimited number of
         | remote/wfh jobs there's no point in needlessly compromising for
         | your employer's sake.
        
           | supergeek133 wrote:
           | I'm not compromising. I literally said I prefer to be in the
           | office.
           | 
           | I feel there is a growing wave of "WFH only or bust", which
           | just throws away the opinion of people like me.
           | 
           | I've been working from home for 18 months like a lot of
           | others, I don't mind it, but given the choice...
        
             | luffapi wrote:
             | People are "WFH of bust" for several reasons:
             | 
             | 1. While _some_ employees legitimately like the office, the
             | push to return there is coming from executives. The
             | motivation is pretty clearly control.
             | 
             | 2. For the first time ever, work style is favoring
             | introverts. Their feelings were never taken into
             | consideration, yet through the accident of the pandemic,
             | intovert friendly work is now the norm.
             | 
             | 3. Cost of living is through the roof near traditional
             | office space.
             | 
             | Because the stakes are so high, the change so recent and
             | the pushback so authoritarian, people _are_ "fighting" to
             | retain WFH. It also feels like a winnable battle for the
             | first time ever.
        
       | choeger wrote:
       | The only thing that nags me about homeoffice is that I was mostly
       | working with people that I met in the office before. I do not
       | know yet how interactions will work with people I only know
       | remotely (pun intended).
        
       | geofft wrote:
       | This seems like the perfect case for differentiation. There's a
       | lot of arguing over the merits of working remotely vs. working in
       | person as if one is universally better.
       | 
       | Just have some companies work entirely remotely, and some work
       | entirely in person, and have employees choose their employer
       | based on that just like how they choose their employer based on
       | headquarters location etc. now.
        
       | stakkur wrote:
       | My last year commuting (2019), I calculated my commute and
       | related prep/travel time: 612 hours.
       | 
       |  _Six hundred and twelve hours_. Almost a solid month.
       | 
       | So, I worked my way into 100% remote, and I make it clear often
       | that it's mandatory for me. There's no going back. If I'm forced
       | to, I'll quit.
        
       | ketanmaheshwari wrote:
       | Unable to read the article due to paywall but how can employees
       | be quitting in such numbers to be noted by Bloomberg? Don't they
       | have families to feed, finances to take care of, worries of
       | future, worries of career and such? How exactly are so many
       | people managing to just quit their jobs?
        
         | cheschire wrote:
         | The article mentions somewhere in the middle:
         | 
         | "A May survey of 1,000 U.S. adults showed that 39% would
         | consider quitting if their employers weren't flexible about
         | remote work."
         | 
         | And towards the end it references a tweet that went semi-viral
         | and got a lot of responses.
         | 
         | https://twitter.com/GenieShinobi/status/1389286585347235847
         | 
         | edit: also here's a non-paywall link. https://archive.is/Yc5UW
        
           | yoz-y wrote:
           | Indeed, the article contains nothing to support the claim in
           | the title.
        
         | FearlessNebula wrote:
         | People have savings. It's not worth making your life miserable
         | over the safety net of your current job, especially when
         | there's so many remote options out there.
        
           | NoGravitas wrote:
           | Most people don't: https://www.fool.com/the-
           | ascent/research/average-savings-acc...
        
         | wepple wrote:
         | It's a weakly supported clickbait article.
         | 
         | A may survey of 1000 people reported that 39% would _consider_
         | quitting if their work didn't provide flexibility.
         | 
         | I'm no statistician but the red flags are n=1000 and "would
         | consider". This is a hugely hit button issue right now, great
         | for clicks.
        
           | elzbardico wrote:
           | Right now for software engineers, quitting is not that
           | complicated. Easy to find another offer. Heck, recruiters
           | can't leave us alone a single day.
        
           | aninteger wrote:
           | Clickbait yes, but it's more than that. It's a
           | momentum/filler piece. NPR's Marketplace ran a short segment
           | on this last week (although I can't find the link), now
           | Bloomberg, coming up MSNBC and CNN(?).
        
           | wgerard wrote:
           | > red flags are n=1000
           | 
           | It's been awhile since I've taken stats, but people semi-
           | frequently overestimate the necessary sample size needed for
           | even a 99% confidence level.
           | 
           | Depends on the standard deviation for sure, but some quick
           | napkin math suggests that a sample size of ~700 people is
           | more than enough to draw inferences about the entire western
           | hemisphere at a 99% confidence level.
        
           | dredmorbius wrote:
           | For a single question survey, 1,000 is a more than
           | sufficiently large survey. Standards are typically for 300+
           | _given random sampling_.
           | 
           | Reasons for enlarging samples have less to do with _accuracy_
           | than with _resolution_. If you plan on looking at specific
           | cross-tabulations or sub-populations, you need a sufficient
           | sample size (typically n >30 for large-sample statistics) to
           | draw inferences.
           | 
           | Error decreases with the _square root_ of sample size. To
           | _halve_ error you must _square_ the sample. A 1,000-element
           | sample has half the error of a _31-element_ sample. To halve
           | error again would require a _1,000,000 element_ sample.
           | 
           | "Would consider" is a fair catch, though here the question is
           | how that compares against previous measures / trend.
        
         | dredmorbius wrote:
         | The subtext to the work-from-home trend is commercial real
         | estate, both office and retail, which is an _immense_
         | investment asset class.
         | 
         | I've seen very little dismissal of the trend that cannot be
         | traced to commercial real estate, banking, or investment
         | interests. Interestingly enough, all sectors which can
         | themselves utilise remote office or work-from-home
         | arrangements.
         | 
         | Bloomberg are first and foremost an investment information
         | service.
        
         | rcstank wrote:
         | No debt but a residence mixed with a 3-6 month emergency fund
         | gives a lot of freedom. I know that's not that case for many,
         | but the emergency fund is my safety net and if I need, that's
         | how I would manage to do it. I'd also try to line up a job
         | prior to my departure.
        
         | loonster wrote:
         | https://archive.is/Yc5UW
         | 
         | Archiving is a way around many paywalls.
         | 
         | The article itself was short on substance. A bunch of anecdotes
         | without any hard numbers of the amount that are quitting.
        
         | Aissen wrote:
         | They pass interviews and accept full remote jobs. I've seen it
         | happen. Some people moved to smaller cities at the start of the
         | pandemic, so they have literally zero incentive to come back;
         | they are even taking pay cuts if needed.
        
         | jbb67 wrote:
         | I quit my job at least partly because of this. I made sure I
         | had a new job lined up first of course...
        
         | pydry wrote:
         | Nobody was spending much money last year.
        
           | humanrebar wrote:
           | Except for all that housing.
        
         | a4isms wrote:
         | Quit != leave the workforce.
         | 
         | Maybe they now have remote work options, or having tasted a
         | year without a brutal commute, they take jobs paying less, but
         | closer to their homes.
        
       | flippinburgers wrote:
       | I deeply dislike going into work.
       | 
       | - You have to look a certain way.
       | 
       | - You have no opportunity to break up your schedule.
       | 
       | - You have to pretend to enjoy being around people.
       | 
       | - You have to commute (much too far).
       | 
       | - You cannot leave before a specified time.
       | 
       | - You cannot arrive after a specified time.
       | 
       | - You cannot open the windows.
       | 
       | - You cannot change the room temperature.
       | 
       | ... etc, etc, etc.
       | 
       | The list goes on forever.
        
         | granshaw wrote:
         | I've worked for a few remote places, including one which was
         | remote-first before it was cool, and I don't think the schedule
         | flexibility part rings true
         | 
         | Everyone was expected to be available 9-5ish for potential
         | collaboration/questions purposes, and you had to inform the
         | team if you're gonna be afk for anything longer than 30minsish
         | 
         | Some teams even had a norm of leaving a "signing off for the
         | day" note and a "getting lunch" note
         | 
         | If there are remote companies out there who truly let you be
         | flexible with your schedule, I'd love to know about them
        
         | evocatus wrote:
         | You still have to look a certain way - even more so on camera.
         | 
         | Speaking from experience.
        
           | flippinburgers wrote:
           | Nobody at my current workplace uses their camera.
        
         | bradlys wrote:
         | You're on camera, so you still have to look a certain way.
         | 
         | You only have an opportunity to break up your schedule if your
         | employer allows it. WFH doesn't just magically make work
         | asynchronous.
         | 
         | Commuting is true but varies a lot on individual. (My commutes
         | are trivial and I found them to be too short sometimes!)
         | 
         | You cannot log out before a certain time on WFH.
         | 
         | You cannot log in after a certain time on WFH.
         | 
         | Varies on office. We opened windows where I worked...
         | 
         | We changed the room temp but usually it was comfortable enough
         | for all of us. But sure been there.
         | 
         | The list doesn't really go on forever. You're describing
         | different types of working cultures, not working at the office
         | vs remotely.
         | 
         | Working from home this last year has not changed one bit of the
         | work culture we had when we were in office for where I've
         | worked. Async and all that shit is not a thing. We've logged
         | more hours than ever before and had to be online for an ever
         | expanding set of core hours that kept going from 9-5 to 9-6 to
         | 9-7 etc etc as the year progressed.
        
           | bumbledraven wrote:
           | You often don't have to have your camera on.
        
           | flippinburgers wrote:
           | Nobody at my current company turns on their camera.
           | 
           | What kind of company do you work at that you are not able to
           | do development on your local machine? Wow.
           | 
           | Too short a commute? What a strange flex.
        
             | bradlys wrote:
             | Cool - my company doesn't really care what you wear, tbh.
             | Look at us - different experiences.
             | 
             | I never said you couldn't do development on a local
             | machine.
             | 
             | A lot of your arguments stem from a different work culture
             | and aren't particular to WFH. You want async work? Argue
             | for that. WFH _isn 't_ async. You want to wear whatever you
             | want? Fine - argue for that. WFH doesn't mean you are never
             | seen or heard.
             | 
             | You're arguing for things that aren't part of WFH or remote
             | work. They're entirely separate, part of a entire work
             | culture, and I've seen both in-office and remote to prove
             | such.
        
             | greedo wrote:
             | Our company requires you to use a company issued computer
             | to access the VPN. I love that. When my day is over, I log
             | off, shut the laptop down, and get on with life. If I get a
             | message on my phone I jump on (if needed) but otherwise
             | work is over.
        
         | recursive wrote:
         | Different work places are different. At mine, all of those are
         | wrong, except "You cannot change the room temperature".
         | Fortunately, it's already good at mine.
         | 
         | Also, I guess technically I have to "look a certain way", like
         | have clothes on. But I'm going to look that way anyway.
        
         | fernandotakai wrote:
         | >- You cannot leave before a specified time. >- You cannot
         | arrive after a specified time.
         | 
         | this is what gets me. i already finished my stuff for the day,
         | i want to go home to do something -- nope, can't. you have to
         | stay until you clock in 8h.
         | 
         | need to arrive later? sucks to be you, you have to clock 8h no
         | matter what, so now you are staying at the office until late
         | hours.
         | 
         | WFH means i can just finish work and relax. if anyone needs me,
         | they can ping me on slack, send me an email, or even call me.
        
       | dfxm12 wrote:
       | Employees are quitting because pay & benefits aren't good enough
       | to deal with the alternatives otherwise. Maybe you can justify it
       | when you're able to save time and money on your commute, day
       | care, etc., _and staying as safe from a global pandemic as
       | possible_.
       | 
       | I'm not a fan of this framing by Bloomberg. It's not that the
       | workers are quitting, it's that _employers are failing to attract
       | /retain workers_.
        
       | area51org wrote:
       | As someone who's now been in the workforce for decades: presence
       | in an office is mostly a waste of time and money. In my
       | experience, those who demand "facetime" do so because
       | 
       | - it's part of a political power/control game
       | 
       | - "this is the way we've always done it"
       | 
       | - they buy into the myth that "magic" happens in hallways
       | conversations and nowhere else
       | 
       | There are plenty of large companies (and god knows how many
       | startups and SMBs) who have recognized what a colossal waste it
       | is to maintain permanent offices and mandatory facetime. It's
       | time for the rest to stop pretending it's 1980.
        
       | apozem wrote:
       | For me, remote work gives personal options. My wife got a job in
       | a small Southern college town. It'll be great for her career, but
       | there are zero, _zero_ tech jobs there. Remote lets me grow my
       | career while she grows hers.
        
       | dcolkitt wrote:
       | What I find really disconcerting is that the senior leaders in
       | the tech industry have been talking for years about increasing
       | gender inclusivity. Yet very few major tech companies seem to be
       | wholeheartedly embracing full remote, despite it being by far the
       | most effective way to encourage more women to join the industry.
       | 
       | Research shows that women are 50% more likely to prefer full
       | remote than men[1]. For better or worse, much more of the burden
       | of childcare falls on mothers in our society.[2] Women are also
       | much more likely to sacrifice their own careers to relocate for a
       | spouse's career.[3] Along similar lines, that tends to mean women
       | prefer careers with geographic flexibility.[4]
       | 
       | Tech companies have spent the past decade sprouting platitudes
       | about creating a more welcoming workplace for women. Now they
       | actually have a real opportunity to make a difference.
       | Transitioning to a remote first model would massively improve
       | gender inclusivity. Yet, despite widespread employee satisfaction
       | with remote, senior management in most places seem to be pushing
       | back as hard as possible on outdated (and often sexist) notions
       | that "people who hustle show up to the office".
       | 
       | [1]https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2021-06-01/americans..
       | . [2]https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4131769/ [3]htt
       | ps://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2014/11/28/why-c... [4]h
       | ttps://science.sciencemag.org/content/205/4412/1225.abstrac...
        
       | achow wrote:
       | I miss the office for..
       | 
       | - Social chatter.
       | 
       | - Making friends with old employees who I didn't know, and
       | connecting with new employees.
       | 
       | - Work Life separation (balance).
       | 
       | - Sense of belonging.. team outing, weekday after hours beer.
       | 
       | - Intra company sports and games, and then teaming up with office
       | colleagues to play inter company tournaments.
       | 
       | - (Not me but others) Meeting potential dates
       | 
       | - Office facilities for breakfast, lunch.
        
         | jessedhillon wrote:
         | I find myself feeling vaguely offended by this response.
         | 
         | These are needs that all previous generations fulfilled through
         | their community, or by meeting strangers. But I have the
         | feeling that (some subset of) current generations find that
         | proposition unacceptably risky. And I guess the offense comes
         | from the idea that we should all be inconvenienced for their
         | sake, and also from how the idea "I can only make friends in a
         | safe space" is presented here and just expected to be believed.
        
           | jayd16 wrote:
           | Why are you appealing to the past when the fully remote but
           | post industrial 9-5 day schedules is the new thing? My
           | parents and grandparents have either work friends or old
           | college friends.
        
           | woofcat wrote:
           | I mean we're in the middle of a pandemic right now, but with
           | my WFH life currently I leave my house once a week to pick up
           | groceries. (Where I pop the trunk and they put them in)
           | 
           | I feel like it's really easy for people to not get out of a
           | comfort zone and meet people just /randomly/ on the road or
           | at the Grocery store. Especially to the point of being
           | friends.
           | 
           | Sadly our community has died, church attendance is massively
           | down in most of the world. Which killed that social circle,
           | clubs seem to not really exist anymore. Basically we're down
           | to meetup.com, work, and bars.
        
             | alexgmcm wrote:
             | Meetup.com are clubs though?
             | 
             | It seems at least there you find people with shared
             | interests rather than the random sample at work or church.
             | 
             | I met my friends through language classes and meetups as I
             | emigrated.
        
         | jayd16 wrote:
         | I just miss being able to meet, pair, collaborate and mentor
         | lag free with the full presence of in person communication. I
         | find zoom really exhausting.
        
         | duckfang wrote:
         | - Social chatter.
         | 
         | I associate with my friends and a few groups I frequent. I've
         | never felt the compunction to do this at work or with work
         | people for the most part.                    - Making friends
         | with old employees who I didn't know, and connecting with new
         | employees.
         | 
         | Too true; there is this. I've a small handful of people whom I
         | met at work and would call friends. But I usually try to
         | maintain work as work - having friends tied up at a workplace
         | can make for some really bad times when you leave or something
         | happens. I think it's like a work-conditional friend.
         | - Work Life separation (balance).
         | 
         | If you can master working on work stuff during the day, once
         | you log out of $workchat and vpn, you're off. Set a schedule
         | when you do everyday and work on being predictable.
         | - Sense of belonging.. team outing, weekday after hours beer.
         | 
         | To me, "hanging out with the team" is definitely work. It has
         | to be work-appropriate talk, on and on. That's enforced team-
         | building activities. My sense of belonging is the paycheck I
         | receive. I will seek elsewhere, not tied down by a job, to get
         | a sense of belonging.                    - Intra company sports
         | and games, and then teaming up with office colleagues to play
         | inter company tournaments.
         | 
         | Again, for me, this seems to unhealthily attach a jobs' modus
         | operandi to your own. In reality, unless you're the owner, you
         | are as expendable as any other machine or cog. And I try not to
         | intertwine work relationships with friends. Only rarely do
         | those actually cross.                    - (Not me but others)
         | Meeting potential dates
         | 
         | Yipes.                    - Office facilities for breakfast,
         | lunch.
         | 
         | My counter is that I have health issues that restrict my diet.
         | At home, I can control exactly what I eat. At work, is what is
         | provided. Its usually good, but sometimes I don't have
         | anything. I would much rather have control of what I eat, by
         | being in my kitchen cooking with my own foodstuffs.
        
         | dehrmann wrote:
         | > Meeting potential dates
         | 
         | On place I worked with 100-120 people in the office saw 5
         | marriages. A big part of that was they employed a lot of single
         | 20-somethings, but that's a lot of couples who met at work.
        
         | jerry1979 wrote:
         | Have you considered joining the rotary club or similar?
        
           | 35fbe7d3d5b9 wrote:
           | I'd agree - there are _real advantages_ in maintaining a
           | friends group outside of work: you spend far less time
           | griping about your day to day, and the connections you make
           | are far more stable.
           | 
           | Get a beer once a month with coworkers, sure, but relying on
           | work to be a primary social outlet always seems risky.
        
             | mirker wrote:
             | Yep, it's more meaningful for someone to go out of their
             | way to meet up with you (when there's only friendship to
             | gain). Also prevents mixing personal life with work.
        
               | RSHEPP wrote:
               | My first job out of school, moved to a new city. For
               | three year my only friends were coworkers. We socialized
               | (drank) couple times a week and almost every damn
               | conversation was work related, mostly complaining. I left
               | that place because I "hated" it so much. I wonder how
               | much those conversations contributed to it.
        
         | bart_spoon wrote:
         | Sounds like the office has become a substitute for social
         | interaction everywhere else in life. That may not be a bad
         | thing for you, but it is a negative in the sense that it forces
         | everyone to make it a part of their social lives. If you are
         | looking for making new friends, a sense of belonging, sports
         | and games, drinking buddies, meeting potential dates, and group
         | lunches, you can in theory find outlets for all of those things
         | outside of work.
         | 
         | But everyone working in an office means that if you aren't
         | interested in those things, (you already have friends, a
         | family, hobby groups, etc), you are forced to spend time away
         | from them to participate in the in-office culture. It seems
         | extremely backwards to me.
         | 
         | Its like if people who make church their social group, which is
         | very common, required people who aren't interested in church to
         | attend to enable their social lives.
         | 
         | I don't know how or why a large number of us have made work a
         | substitute for our social lives, but it has been a major
         | problem for the rest of us who haven't.
        
           | wdhilliard wrote:
           | This feels like a heavy-handed response to me. Socializing in
           | the office doesn't need to be a substitute, but can be one
           | many missing pieces in a well-rounded social life. Many of
           | the ways people found a social life outside of work are
           | either still not available or not the same. I used to love
           | working from the coffee shop down my block. There were often
           | around 50 people working in there at any given time of day,
           | but the chairs and tables are still stacked against the wall,
           | and people come inside only to get their coffee and go back
           | home. Even finding conversation in a crowded bar can seem
           | more difficult as people are still keep physical distance
           | from people they do not know.
        
             | Apocryphon wrote:
             | What about meeting people through volunteering or by even
             | joining an open source project?
        
           | atomicity wrote:
           | I feel like this mindset is actually responsible for a lot of
           | modern-day unhappiness. Why are 1st world countries somehow
           | more lonely?
           | 
           | Something I've noticed while talking to my older relatives
           | outside of the US is that their social life often are the
           | people that they meet in their (first) job in the location
           | they ended up staying in. It feels straightforward that the
           | people that you spend 8+ hours a day with are going to be the
           | people that you feel like you know and can trust.
           | 
           | It seems like some odd modern/corporate idea that work is
           | just for work. Imagine if we had the same mindset for school,
           | and tried to make things "productive" by eliminating all
           | breaks and the assumption that students should get to know
           | each other during class/free time.
           | 
           | I think we need to accept the idea that work is really going
           | to be much of your social life when you move, work friends
           | are not your best buds, and only later on can you have a
           | social life that doesn't deeply involve people at work.
        
             | 1_player wrote:
             | Look up "third place", it's a really fascinating concept
             | which I've been obsessed with for a long time and I really
             | want to solve it, at least for me. I feel my long-term
             | sanity depends on it.
             | 
             | The gist is people used to have at least three social
             | circles they'd hang out daily: family, work, friends
             | outside of work. Note that I don't mean "participate in
             | activities" with any of them, just be among these people,
             | even without any goal.
             | 
             | We've lost the third place. It's only family, work and
             | hanging out with friends sometimes, usually to _do_
             | something. I've noticed this big disconnect looking at
             | older people in Southern Europe which spend their afternoon
             | at a bar playing cards, or in the recent ages men hanging
             | out in clubs and women in sewing/book/gossip clubs or when
             | I visited family in central Africa where it's common to
             | just hang out in the porch after dinner and chat with
             | passers-by and just be there and _socialise_, without any
             | goal in particular. I had the luck of experiencing
             | something like that for a few years and it was incredibly
             | nourishing and I miss it dearly.
             | 
             | Until we restore this third place, and find a way to make
             | it work in the modern world, the loneliness and unhappiness
             | epidemic can only grow, is my opinion.
        
         | andrewzah wrote:
         | You can do all of those things outside of work. There are
         | meetup groups, local sports leagues, etc. There is no reason it
         | has to happen at the office.
         | 
         | Also this is just my opinion, but I find it odd when people's
         | social groups are... just people from their job. There is so
         | much more to life than just people who work in the same company
         | or industry as oneself.
        
         | stjohnswarts wrote:
         | A lot of us don't miss any of that. I can do all that on my own
         | time and have been for several years now. I'm not going back in
         | until I've exhausted every possibility.
        
           | dimitrios1 wrote:
           | Just bear in mind when you say "a lot of us", it's a small
           | minority of the general workforce. For the majority of the
           | workforce, working from home is a.) not even an option, b.)
           | torn 50/50, with your sales and client success type folk,
           | typically customer facing and person interacting jobs
           | overwhelmingly favoring a return to the office, and us
           | mangly, dirty coding bots overwhelmingly favoring continuing
           | to WFH.
           | 
           | I am squarely in the WFH is great if it's possible camp, but
           | perspective is necessary here. Pushing / demanding that the
           | entire work arrangement norms for the majority of the
           | workforce change for a vocal minority is exactly what gives
           | people with cushy desk jobs their (deserved in this case) bad
           | names.
        
             | zeroonetwothree wrote:
             | My employer gave everyone the option to continue wfh or
             | return (no effect on compensation). Only 20% of the "mangy
             | dirty coding bots" opted for wfh.
        
               | EliRivers wrote:
               | That is astounding. When asked to decide, my place went
               | 100% software engineers committing to WFH, and well over
               | two-thirds of every other group as well.
               | 
               | Team admin is tag-teaming a physical presence at the
               | office, the big boss likes to come in, there's one person
               | in sales who likes to come in, and the guy who assembles
               | the hardware has to come in on a number of days. I think
               | that's about it.
               | 
               | Almost the entire company chose to go remote, and we're
               | never going back. The big boss indicated towards the end
               | of last year that we're giving up the lease on one of the
               | two office spaces.
               | 
               | At least one person has already moved hundreds of miles
               | to Yorkshire where he's simply having a better life.
               | That's what it is. It's the opportunity for a better
               | life, just waiting to be grasped.
               | 
               | I do have sympathy for people who have discovered that
               | their social well-being depended on physical interaction
               | with people in the office; I would hazard that the
               | solution to that is not to go back to the office. There
               | are better ways to get that. There is a better life to be
               | had.
        
               | bradlys wrote:
               | It could be that you had a really bad office culture that
               | no one wanted to go back to. It wouldn't be surprising
               | then that everyone was like, "yeah, let's not."
        
         | Taylor_OD wrote:
         | Wow. You get a lot more out of the office than I do. I hate
         | small talk and at work it feels like a distraction. I am
         | friendly with coworkers but I'm not actually friends with
         | many/any. I have tried to decouple my sense of belonging from
         | work as much as possible since that is very unhealthy because
         | its not a situation I control (if I get laid off is my
         | belonging gone?)
         | 
         | Company sports are great but those can be replaced by sports
         | with friends. Dating at work is... Well I'll leave that alone.
         | And food I cook is better than any office food I've ever had.
         | That being said I havnt worked in a FANG office that has a
         | chef.
        
         | kilroy123 wrote:
         | I agree with you and that's why I'll join a co-working space
         | when I feel I'm missing these things. (I've worked remotely
         | before the pandemic) You can get the same thing from a lot of
         | co-working spaces.
         | 
         | I still prefer working form home, because I can pack my bag and
         | go back home anytime I want.
         | 
         | Soon, I'll likely go back to a co-working space because right
         | now, I miss those things as well.
        
           | mdorazio wrote:
           | I had the same thought as you re: co-working spaces, but I am
           | frequently on audio and video calls throughout the day and
           | need an office. Co-working space dedicated offices are
           | expensive as hell if your employer isn't paying for them. I
           | haven't really seen a reduction in prices due to the
           | pandemic, either. Has anyone found a good solution?
        
         | FredPret wrote:
         | I mean this in absolutely the nicest possible way. But all of
         | the above can be solved by getting a social life outside the
         | office
        
         | dagmx wrote:
         | It's interesting that you mention work life balance, when the
         | majority of your points are really in the "life" section.
        
           | bart_spoon wrote:
           | I agree. It only improves work-life balance if you've made
           | work and your life one and the same. For the rest of us, the
           | "balance" tips heavily towards work and away from life when
           | in-office is required.
        
         | skapadia wrote:
         | Exactly.
        
         | treespace88 wrote:
         | That is totally cool with me. As long as I would be able to be
         | fully remote in the same company.
         | 
         | What I need for that is high quality audio and video for
         | meetings.
         | 
         | Do you think that is possible?
        
           | nhumrich wrote:
           | Can (s)he work in office and get all the perks, while you
           | with remotely and receive none of those perks, at the same
           | company? Sure. This "hybrid" model has been working for a lot
           | of companies, small and large, pre-covid.
        
       | wdb wrote:
       | It's hard not to like WFH when you can save thousands of dollars
       | per month on food, drinks, and travel.
        
       | jl2718 wrote:
       | I used to like the office. It was fun. My friends were there. I
       | got help when I needed it. We talked about things informally. My
       | desktop PC and Internet was top-notch, and I didn't have a laptop
       | or mobile. They had a great gym. I worked at work, and did other
       | things at home.
       | 
       | Now I haul my laptop from home to my cubicle to fight over the
       | phone booths for endless remote meetings. I don't work with and
       | have never spoken to my neighbors. My work goes home with me.
       | 
       | Working from home isn't better, but the office is worse.
        
       | api wrote:
       | Amazing news! This has the potential to kill the hideous "you
       | have to be in one of five cities to have a career" insanity that
       | has been a major factor in decimating the middle class. It's
       | created a dichotomy of "no jobs, unaffordable housing, pick one."
        
       | harveynick wrote:
       | Good for them, and good for everyone else here who's happy about
       | the switch to remote working. That said: I think I'd almost
       | rather quit than "work from home" indefinitely.
       | 
       | For me I'm not "working from home", I'm "living at the office". I
       | deeply resent that my work has taken over a part of my home. For
       | the record: I love my job. I also really miss working from the
       | same physical space as my colleagues. Meetings which I used to
       | enjoy are now awkward and draining. Lastly: I even miss my
       | commute home in the evening (not so much my morning commute, to
       | be fair). It used to give my 30 minutes in which to decompress
       | and switch my brain out of work mode.
        
         | evocatus wrote:
         | Fully agreed. I didn't endure over a decade of an abusive
         | household and even a few months of homelessness just so my
         | employer could close down its offices and forcibly relocate
         | them into my living room.
         | 
         | I was absolutely fucking livid. Can't a man just be left alone
         | in his own home any more?
         | 
         | It seems that I am in the minority here.
        
           | greedo wrote:
           | At least you had a job that allowed you to WFH. Imagine being
           | in the restaurant biz where you were just shut down...
        
             | evocatus wrote:
             | Yes, and at least you were not a starving orphan in
             | $COUNTRY.
        
         | lowbloodsugar wrote:
         | I hope we can find a solution where people can choose to work
         | at an office or from home. I expect that the compromises
         | necessary will be difficult. For some, like yourself, meetings
         | were a source of pleasure and are now draining. For others,
         | meetings were a place for dominating (usually male) colleagues
         | to enact competence dramas, often at the expense of more
         | competent but quieter ones. I know some people who already head
         | to the office, but prefer that the meetings are still virtual.
         | For many people getting to the office really is just about
         | having a physical space to work outside the home. So there are
         | a lot of factors. In the end, the market will decide.
        
       | jurassic wrote:
       | Give me a private office with a door that closes and pay me
       | enough to live a 5 minute walk from the office without
       | compromises to other aspects of my lifestyle, and I might
       | consider coming back to the office. Until then, I'll see you on
       | Zoom.
       | 
       | Anecdotally, the dichotomy I'm observing at my company is
       | young/single/apartment-dweller people want to get back to the
       | office because they don't have enough space at home to make it a
       | nice experience. Many I know in this category are also eager to
       | get back to screwing around at the water cooler. Meanwhile, the
       | older, family-oriented people who own or rent a home in the
       | suburbs want to WFH forever because that social dynamic isn't
       | worth the hassle of the trek in for them.
        
         | frockington1 wrote:
         | Unrelated, but why would someone rent a house in the suburbs?
         | Renting an apartment as a young person seems logical as you
         | save for a down payment. Is it mainly people who can't afford a
         | house or is there something else driving it?
        
           | jurassic wrote:
           | Rent vs buy is a complicated question, but I'm sure there are
           | those who would prefer to keep their money invested rather
           | than tie it up in the downpayment on a home. Especially if
           | they think they might only be in that location for a few
           | years. I'm thinking of military families who move every few
           | years, or perhaps someone who is an academic and has to be
           | nomadic in following fellowship and professorship
           | opportunities.
        
       | wjossey wrote:
       | I worked from home prior to the pandemic, then joined a company
       | right at the start. I'm a "remote vet" having been doing this for
       | five years, so I've been doing my best to help folks adapt
       | (because it does take adaptation).
       | 
       | Ironically, today is our first day where the office here in LA is
       | generally open, so I'm driving in at some point for the
       | celebrations. Because I'm going in, I'm going to miss my son's
       | nighttime routine (which I've missed maybe 7 times in his 18
       | months).
       | 
       | The life choice of being able to be there for the development of
       | my son is one that many fathers here in LA do not get to make.
       | The commute alone would be coming 100% out of my time with him.
       | 
       | And, with that, I've gotta jet. Time to go run around and then go
       | on our hour walk around the neighborhood. Remote may not be the
       | best for everyone, but it's certainly a wonderful addition to my
       | life.
        
       | FearlessNebula wrote:
       | I hope this is the start of a nation wide trend towards better
       | work life balance. Production output has gone up over the past
       | few decades and we're expected to work the same amount of hours.
       | I think the future probably looks something like 4 6-hour work
       | days each week. Life is way too short and precious to be spending
       | so much of it working for somebody else, even if you mostly do
       | love your job.
        
         | AYBABTME wrote:
         | I'm doubtful the US would be comfy becoming less productive,
         | when competition abroad is heating up and challenging the US
         | empire. On the contrary, I think Americans will feel challenged
         | and a renewed sense of purpose, versus the last 30y of having
         | no contender to measure itself with. I'm already seeing a bunch
         | of people annectdata-ly getting into covid-inspired ventures,
         | and all the "buy made in USA" people being vindicated by
         | political pressure to develop advanced manufacturing within the
         | US (and aligned countries).
         | 
         | So I think the decrease in daily overhead from the remote-
         | revolution will actually serve an increase in productivity, and
         | not be budgeted toward work-life balance.
         | 
         | I'm saying this and I've been remote for years, and promoting
         | WLB aplenty. But my coldhearted crystal ball hints me that
         | larger forces at play will not primarily favor WLB.
        
         | GianFabien wrote:
         | Managements will have to learn to embrace results instead of
         | mere attendance at their meetings.
        
           | SketchySeaBeast wrote:
           | My concern with this is that we'll get result inflation. I'm
           | not sure which is better - enforced butt in seat for 40+
           | hours or forcing productivity that whole time. Working in
           | consulting I know that it's kind of a unspoken truth that
           | even though you're billing and "working" on something, you're
           | not always 100% working at it.
        
         | ashtonkem wrote:
         | My wife works for a company that was fully remote before the
         | pandemic, and they certainly were self-aware that being remote
         | was a competitive advantage when it came to hiring and
         | retaining talent. Unfortunately for them, that competitive
         | advantage is now gone, given that they now have to compete with
         | companies that are now remote _and_ have deeper pockets.
         | 
         | Our personal theory is that the next equivalent to remote work
         | will be the four day work week. We work way too hard as a
         | society; the 40hr work week is based off the point of
         | diminishing returns for factory workers. There's not a lot of
         | reason to believe that continuing this pattern for knowledge
         | work is desirable for the company or the employees.
        
           | philmcp wrote:
           | Couldn't agree more!
           | 
           | I actually just launched 4dayweek.io - Software jobs with a
           | better work / life balance
        
         | hedora wrote:
         | I'd greatly prefer 5 day weeks and 52 extra vacation days to a
         | 4 day week.
        
         | harryf wrote:
         | Will be interesting to see the impact this has on children
         | growing up in the next 10-15 years and I'd guess it's largely
         | positive. Parents with jobs that required business travel have
         | found they can do their job and be present for their children.
         | And yes while it's not all positive e.g. domestic abuse stats
         | have gone up, I would suspect the overall impact has been
         | generally positive for families.
        
           | nathanaldensr wrote:
           | Maybe it will also change the nature of spousal
           | relationships, as well. We can no longer collectively escape
           | to work to avoid our problems; we must confront them and
           | hopefully grow in the process.
        
           | giantg2 wrote:
           | I would hope it's a net positive. My basic theory is that
           | abuse stats have gone up because exposure to the parent has
           | gone up. I would hope that abusers make up a small percentage
           | of parents. If so, I would hope that means exposure to all
           | the 'good' parents will yield positive results.
        
         | dfxm12 wrote:
         | _Production output has gone up over the past few decades and
         | we're expected to work the same amount of hours._
         | 
         | and for the same pay!
         | 
         | https://cepr.net/this-is-what-minimum-wage-would-be-if-it-ke...
        
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         | smitty1e wrote:
         | > I hope this is the start of a nation wide trend towards
         | better work life balance.
         | 
         | Key to this is understanding the difference between capitalism
         | and materialism.
         | 
         | The former drives innovation and improvememt.
         | 
         | The latter breeds envy, poorly sorted priorities, and,
         | ultimately, misery.
        
           | giantg2 wrote:
           | "The latter breeds envy, poorly sorted priorities, and,
           | ultimately, misery."
           | 
           | But is not exclusive to materialism. It can be a part of
           | capitalism.
           | 
           | I am miserable. I have to work for food, shelter, medical
           | care, etc. I do get some othe material items, but usually
           | they are very cheap things for hobbies. I just never have
           | enough time to do the things I want to do because working for
           | my necessities takes up too much of my time.
        
             | smitty1e wrote:
             | You can define capitalism that way, but I would not.
        
         | Aunche wrote:
         | >Production output has gone up over the past few decades and
         | we're expected to work the same amount of hours
         | 
         | My hypothesis is that Americans cashed in on their increased
         | productivity by socializing at work or browsing the internet at
         | work. In Germany, it's extremely frowned upon to talk about
         | non-work stuff at work, so they could cash in on this increased
         | productivity by shortening working hours.
        
           | asdff wrote:
           | Most people I know work nonstop until the bell, salaried or
           | hourly. The chitchat and internet browsing is not sustainable
           | at the vast majority of workplaces, you will fall behind and
           | there will be questions asked. IT can also pull logs of
           | internet browsing and show your boss your reddit history.
        
           | dfxm12 wrote:
           | _In Germany, it 's extremely frowned upon to talk about non-
           | work stuff at work_
           | 
           | I wish my German co-workers felt this way. It would cut hour
           | long meetings by half, usually. Not to mention the long list
           | of my other non-American colleagues who are quite chatty. In
           | my experience, I don't really see how one can generalize this
           | behavior by nation...
        
           | an_opabinia wrote:
           | > My hypothesis is that Americans cashed in on their
           | increased productivity by socializing at work or browsing the
           | internet at work.
           | 
           | Many people, yes. But the beneficiaries of an increase of
           | minimum and hourly wages, which would affect like 60+ million
           | US workers - they show up and they just work all day, they're
           | not socializing, they didn't cash in anything.
           | 
           | What you're saying may be factual to some degree, but it
           | almost universally talked about in bad faith.
        
             | drewmate wrote:
             | The divide between 'hourly' workers (even if paid a salary)
             | and white-collar knowledge workers is likely the largest
             | obstacle to changing the 40-hour workweek in the US. Many
             | jobs, and often the highest-paid, could be nearly as
             | productive working 4x6 instead of 5x8. However, there are
             | lots of jobs where output really does scale linearly with
             | input time. The obvious ones are hourly service workers in
             | retail or restaurants, but even some 'high status' jobs
             | really require the hours (healthcare, airlines, union
             | manufacturing, etc...)
             | 
             | It would really upset societal order if suddenly two once
             | comparable jobs suddenly required drastically different
             | time commitments. People will find all sorts of reasons to
             | fight against a shorter workweek, but I think this is the
             | main reason why. We like the stability of believing that
             | everyone (or at least working people) are 'equally yoked'
             | at least in terms of time commitment.
        
               | mschuster91 wrote:
               | > However, there are lots of jobs where output really
               | does scale linearly with input time. The obvious ones are
               | hourly service workers in retail or restaurants, but even
               | some 'high status' jobs really require the hours
               | (healthcare, airlines, union manufacturing, etc...)
               | 
               | With manufacturing, I disagree due to the impact of
               | automation - especially when analyzed over a long time
               | frame, productivity has _exploded_ whereas the number of
               | employees has shrunk drastically and their inflation-
               | adjusted wages barely growing.
               | 
               | In retail, restaurants, even in some parts of healthcare
               | (think lab work) the situation is similar. Automation,
               | mass manufacturing and containers (the physical things,
               | not Docker...) have slashed costs on the input side,
               | menial tasks like stacking shelves or cleaning got cost-
               | cut (by outsourcing and by exploitation of undocumented
               | workers), some places like IKEA and Amazon even eliminate
               | the cashiers by having the customer do that themselves.
               | 
               | The owner class has reaped all the productivity gains and
               | given back _little_ to the workers who made it possible,
               | and now they are asking  "why is the American/Western
               | market for cars shrinking and the only growth in
               | China"... well easy, too many people don't have the cash
               | on hand to splurge on a dozens of thousands worth new
               | car!
        
               | drewmate wrote:
               | This is a great point, and I wish productivity gains in
               | all sectors had been more equitably split. In fact, I
               | think that automation-based productivity gains could
               | extend to the other sectors I mentioned as well (more
               | surgeries/hour, etc...)
               | 
               | However, I still think there is a disconnect. Even with
               | productivity gains, output still basically scales
               | linearly. When your job is producing a specific physical
               | artifact consistently, you are always going to make more
               | of them, the more time you spend doing it. The same is
               | not true for many 'knowledge workers' whose output is not
               | measured in 'lines of code' or 'meetings held' but
               | looser, larger objectives that are fundamentally more
               | limited in how many you actually want. I think you more
               | rapidly get diminishing returns for a lot of this type of
               | work. Even if a project manager could manage twice as
               | many projects in twice as many hours, would that benefit
               | the business?
        
           | caddemon wrote:
           | This is an interesting point but I do think the causality
           | goes both ways. Yeah Americans are probably more inclined to
           | want to socialize at work, but American companies also are
           | way too obsessed with butts in seats. If you're being forced
           | to stick around for 8 hours but you only need 6 hours to do
           | your job, of course you are going to fill the time with
           | something.
        
         | llampx wrote:
         | To me that sounds like wishful thinking. In my experience, even
         | talking to friends and coworkers, hours have gone up and the
         | expectation is that you are available on IM all the time. Maybe
         | not 24/7, but definitely more flexible than the old 9-5
         | expectation.
         | 
         | On top of that, sick days are much less frequent now I daresay.
        
           | hinkley wrote:
           | I'm pretty sure my coworkers have been using this to
           | accomplish the reverse, and I have dabbled.
           | 
           | There are times when your most important work is being
           | available. Maybe less than some managers seem to think, but
           | it does happen. I can go make myself a complicated snack or
           | step outside to do some yard maintenance for half an hour
           | here and there and still be back to my desk in 5 minutes if
           | someone actually needs me for something. At lunch time you
           | can usually stretch that to 15 minutes, which opens up a lot
           | of options for errands.
        
           | cwilkes wrote:
           | Also could be less frequent as you are exposed to less germs
           | from people forced to go into the office when they are
           | feeling a little under the weather.
           | 
           | Sort of like how flu cases went down during the pandemic --
           | with less interaction from abroad less germs are transmitted.
        
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           | OJFord wrote:
           | > On top of that, sick days are much less frequent now I
           | daresay.
           | 
           | But to be honest, that's fine/expected? There's a quite large
           | range where I might not feel up to the commute/office (or not
           | want to cough and sneeze at people - aside, I bet that's
           | going to be more stigmatised in the near future) but up to
           | doing what I can from the comfort of home where it doesn't
           | matter that I'm curled up unshowered or whatever.
           | 
           | I did that a couple of times even when I went in to the
           | office five days a week - gives me something to do other than
           | lying in bed feeling sorry for myself or doing something and
           | feeling guilty that it's not work, and gives my employer a
           | bit of output even if it is less than 100% (which isn't the
           | alternative, 0 is).
        
           | andrewzah wrote:
           | "the expectation is that you are available on IM all the
           | time. Maybe not 24/7, but definitely more flexible than the
           | old 9-5 expectation"
           | 
           | So talk to them about those expectations. Let them know that
           | you won't respond outside of X hours, etc.
        
         | zanderz wrote:
         | People have been saying this for more than 100 years - see the
         | old popular mechanics articles predicting a 10 hour work week
         | due to automation's production gains, quotes from Buckminster
         | Fuller, references to Kurt Vonnegut's "Player Piano", etc., but
         | instead of coordinating these gains with one another we have
         | left them up for grabs for whoever scrambles harder, and the
         | baseline creeps upward. Just like the economics analogy where
         | some people in a seated audience stand for a better view,
         | requiring everyone to stand for more or less the same view as
         | before but with more effort, only with some American Horatio
         | Alger pull-yourself-up-by your-bootstraps mythology mixed in.
         | 
         | This is not inevitable, it is policy we choose, as opposed to
         | some European countries where workweeks have actually shrunk
         | and retail hours are much more restricted. We have decided much
         | of the gains from automation and better average human health
         | and lifespan should go elsewhere.
        
           | 1270018080 wrote:
           | Corporations naturally compete in race to the bottom on labor
           | rights, because labor rights are in direct conflict with
           | productivity. The only way we're getting a 6 hour 4 day
           | workweek is through legislation setting that race to the
           | bottom at a higher threshold. That's what the minimum wage
           | does (and also why it should be raised).
        
         | hrishi wrote:
         | I really don't see that happening except in the very upper
         | echelons of work.
         | 
         | When there's more competition, the guy willing to work longer
         | will always win, especially if the work is such that he can
         | work longer without a decrease in quality.
         | 
         | We're automating more things, there's more of us around, and
         | we're connecting job markets better every day. There's more
         | competition.
        
           | sgift wrote:
           | > especially if the work is such that he can work longer
           | without a decrease in quality.
           | 
           | So, nowhere in reality.
        
         | apexalpha wrote:
         | While I agree with the general sentiment I'd prefer an extra
         | full day off in stead of working 4-6 hours a day for 5 days.
        
         | perfunctory wrote:
         | I took a (quasi) sabbatical recently. I worked 1.5 days a week
         | for one year. I dialed down my expenses so it was enough to pay
         | the bills. It gave me the opportunity to work on some hobby
         | projects, spend more time with my family and just enjoy life.
         | It was fantastic. Now I am planning to repeat this every 5
         | years at least. I only wish my overworked friends did the same
         | so I could spend more time with them as well.
        
           | wing-_-nuts wrote:
           | How on earth did you sell that to your employer?
        
           | philangist wrote:
           | How were you able to set this up? It seems like a rare
           | employer that would be open to a role like this.
        
             | perfunctory wrote:
             | It was indeed a rather rare situation. I guess I got a bit
             | lucky. On the other hand, in the current job market, it
             | doesn't seem too extraordinary.
        
               | mac01021 wrote:
               | You did this as an employee rather than a freelancer?
        
             | zdbrandon wrote:
             | I did almost the exact same thing in the last year. (2 days
             | a week)
             | 
             | For me it came from handing in my 2 weeks notice to take
             | some time off from a company I worked for for over 5 years
             | at the time, and then being offered a schedule of my
             | choosing instead. I didn't even know it was an option, else
             | I would have just asked instead of quitting.
             | 
             | So if you've been there a while, and can afford it, I'd
             | suggest you ask your current employer.
        
       | Sanguinaire wrote:
       | I'm fortunate that I worked from home by default anyway, so all
       | I've lost over the pandemic is the chance for occasional trips to
       | the office for a catch-up with (also generally remote)
       | colleagues.
       | 
       | Reading the comments here, I worry how much the WFH newcomers
       | will have their goals of continuing dashed by the crab mentality
       | of those who want to go back to an office.
        
       | one2three4 wrote:
       | OK. I WFH as well. I know all the benefits. And as I'm WFH for
       | pandemic only I've been trying to find remote work post-pandemic
       | and there I realized some bitter points:
       | 
       | 1. I compete for positions with people all over the world. Who
       | can complete with a fraction of the salary I need.
       | 
       | 2. As a remote worker -most often working as a contractor- I'm
       | even easier to be replaced in a heartbeat. No severance or
       | anything alike.
       | 
       | 3. Did I mention that I compete with all the planet? That makes
       | competition for good roles really crazy.
       | 
       | 4. Work blends into life and it is very hard to keep it from.
       | This gets worse depending on the company/role but in general
       | these things tend to go the employers way not yours.
       | 
       | 5. You need to find new ways to socialize (and the motivation to
       | do so is minimal) or you risk mental health issues.
       | 
       | All I'm trying to say is be careful what you wish for because you
       | might get it.
        
         | ashtonkem wrote:
         | > I compete for positions with people all over the world. Who
         | can complete with a fraction of the salary I need.
         | 
         | Perhaps. On one hand, the office was clearly one barrier
         | separating onshore and offshore talent. On the other hand,
         | there never really was a lot preventing companies from setting
         | up offshore offices to attract cheaper talent worldwide. The
         | fact that many US jobs remain still quite expensive compared to
         | the developing world implies to me that there are still some
         | barriers there above and beyond the ability to drive to a
         | shared office.
        
         | wdb wrote:
         | A lot of the WFH roles I have seen are mostly North America
         | only though
        
         | nathias wrote:
         | You really aren't, if you are from US most companies that are
         | advertising remote positions really want you to be located in
         | US, I've been looking for remote work and I don't really
         | believe that its possible to get a US job as a foreigner.
        
         | MattGaiser wrote:
         | > Work blends into life and it is very hard to keep it from.
         | This gets worse depending on the company/role but in general
         | these things tend to go the employers way not yours.
         | 
         | Am I one of the few that sees this as an enormous benefit? Work
         | becomes a series of tasks I need to achieve throughout the day,
         | like all the other tasks like laundry and doctors appointments.
         | 
         | I get to restructure what I need to do in a way that suits me
         | best. I can push code at 11PM and go for a nap at 4PM if I
         | choose (assuming no meetings).
         | 
         | Then my life isn't segmented into exclusive blocks. It is just
         | one seamless integrated life.
        
           | StavrosK wrote:
           | This is good if you want work to be a part of your life,
           | which almost nobody wants. It's terrible for a good work/life
           | balance, pretty soon you're going to be stressed 24/7 because
           | you "should be working right now".
        
           | juiyout wrote:
           | If you work in a team that requires lots of collaboration,
           | you might not get to restructure work.
           | 
           | Can people call you or message you to clarify what you just
           | now pushed at 11pm? Do you respond immediately? Let's say you
           | do immediately because you restructure your night time as
           | your best work time, does that mean you're automatically
           | exempt from 8am meetings in a few hours?
           | 
           | Come to think of it. Pushing code at 11pm is not that unusual
           | even pre-covid, but the expectation for the associated
           | communication might be totally different.
        
           | triceratops wrote:
           | > Work becomes a series of tasks I need to achieve throughout
           | the day, like all the other tasks like laundry and doctors
           | appointments.
           | 
           | I don't know about you but I'm not smart enough to feel that
           | my job is as easy as doing laundry or going to the doctor.
           | I'd rather finish all my work in one focused block of time
           | and not think about it the rest of the day. Due to the
           | pandemic destroying most childcare options, this is an
           | unattainable dream for many.
        
           | flatline wrote:
           | When an emergency comes up, you are right by your desk and
           | it's hard to not sit down to address it right away, even if
           | it's 11 PM. When you have a deadline it's so easy to log back
           | in after dinner and burn your night away working. As the work
           | life divide begins to erode, burn out is a real risk. I see
           | my computer and if I'm stressed about work I get stressed at
           | times I'd have normally left it behind and not thought about
           | it. I feel guilty if I'm not working late on something I
           | think I'm behind on.
           | 
           | Keep in mind I have kids, a social life, etc. I've built my
           | time around work/life balance and keeping the two distinct.
           | It's healthy for me in ways that having the two conflated
           | never was. May not be an issue for everyone.
        
             | tills13 wrote:
             | If I typically work in an office and an emergency comes up
             | I have to address it anyways... historically, if you were
             | not provided a laptop, this involved driving into the
             | office.
             | 
             | If you personally struggle with keeping your work and
             | personal life separate that's a personal problem and
             | shouldn't be used as a bullet point in your list against
             | WFM.
        
             | Clubber wrote:
             | >When an emergency comes up, you are right by your desk and
             | it's hard to not sit down to address it right away, even if
             | it's 11 PM.
             | 
             | That happens when I work at the office. At least at the
             | roles I work, I'm expected to be on call all the time to
             | support production environments. I'll get a text or
             | something and usually have to address it.
        
               | flatline wrote:
               | I realized that may have been a poorly made point on my
               | part. If you are on call you're on call. But a lot of
               | "emergencies" in non-operational contexts can wait till
               | the next day in my experience, and often do due to
               | societal norms - everyone is home doing other stuff in
               | the evening, we'll reconvene first thing in the AM when
               | everyone is together and fresh.
        
               | Clubber wrote:
               | I can definitely see it when someone works later than
               | usual (me) and is in the middle of something and has a
               | question for someone who usually works at normal time or
               | earlier than everyone else.
               | 
               | When I'm in that situation, I don't expect a response
               | immediately. I know I'm a night owl and other people
               | aren't. I'm sure other people do. At the same token, when
               | I work late and the early people schedule an 8am meeting,
               | it's the same.
               | 
               | Having said all that, the only difference for me in this
               | scenario is whether or not I commute to the office every
               | day. Same, same.
        
               | mschuster91 wrote:
               | Ideally (and, outside of the US, _by law_ ) the employer
               | should set up a rotation schedule for being on-call. 24/7
               | on-call is toxic as hell, it only works for young singles
               | that don't have any other responsibility than making
               | rent.
        
               | sgt wrote:
               | Everyone in the team sharing the 24/7 works well for
               | small teams. Nothing sucks more than knowing you are on
               | call an entire night and having to remember not to do
               | anything that may cause you to forget you're on call,
               | become unreachabld (leaving your phone on silent or in
               | another room for hours etc)
        
               | toomuchtodo wrote:
               | Consider a new, better role if you're not properly
               | compensated for both when you're on call and when a
               | response is required. Remaining in such a role is a
               | choice.
        
               | Clubber wrote:
               | I'm well compensated, but it's just the nature of
               | development in every place I've worked.
        
         | Sevii wrote:
         | 1. I kind of expect a general reduction in the "living in the
         | USA' salary premium for a lot of jobs. It sucks for the people
         | getting paid less, but hopefully the deflationary effects on
         | the economy make up for it a bit.
        
           | drstewart wrote:
           | >but hopefully the deflationary effects on the economy make
           | up for it a bit.
           | 
           | Have you paid attention to the housing market, car market, or
           | really... any market in the last year?
        
         | Avalaxy wrote:
         | Might happen for some companies, but the vast majority not. At
         | least in Europe I'm pretty sure I'm not going to be replaced by
         | someone from India because they don't speak our language, they
         | live in vastly different timezones and their culture is
         | different which doesn't make for the most efficient
         | collaboration.
        
           | valarauko wrote:
           | > _their culture is different which doesn 't make for the
           | most efficient collaboration._
           | 
           | Could you expand on this?
        
         | racl101 wrote:
         | Yeah, I agree.
         | 
         | Aside from the commute itself I don't mind working at the
         | office and seeing people.
         | 
         | It ain't good to be holed up like a hermit not socializing.
         | 
         | I'd like a good balance of some office days and WFH days.
        
         | mixologic wrote:
         | 3. The number of "good" roles is also dramatically expanded.
        
           | bart_spoon wrote:
           | This can't be understated, at least for some of us. I'm in
           | the Midwest and in the last 6 months about 20% of my
           | company's engineering team has left and taken positions at
           | new companies. Virtually none of them had anything bad to say
           | about the company, its just that for a developer in the
           | Midwest, the number of jobs that have opened up to them that
           | were unavailable to them a year ago is unbelievable.
           | 
           | And on the flip side, it hasn't been too rough for my company
           | to replace them because there are now a huge number of devs
           | in places like the West Coast that wouldn't have been
           | interested in working for us prior moving to remote work who
           | now are.
           | 
           | I suspect some of this will all calm down a bit as the new
           | order of things settles in, but for now, remote work is
           | shaking things up in terms of opportunities for workers in a
           | big way.
        
         | throwawaygh wrote:
         | _> I compete for positions with people all over the world. Who
         | can complete with a fraction of the salary I need._
         | 
         | This is what always jumps to the front of my mind when I read
         | about WFH on software engineering forums.
         | 
         | I'm lucky -- I have deep technical expertise in a very uncommon
         | intersection of economically valuable topics. I never compete
         | for positions, because there is way more work than available
         | skilled labor. Even still, I'll be back in the office. One day
         | the education system will catch up -- or my skill-set will
         | become obsolete -- and at that point having a decade-long in-
         | person relationship is my only bulwark against ruin.
         | 
         | I can't imagine being a SWE working on a standard tech stack
         | without deep personal connections in an application domain and
         | thinking of WFH as anything other than an enormous and
         | terrifying threat.
        
           | anonu wrote:
           | > I have deep technical expertise in a very uncommon
           | intersection of economically valuable topics.
           | 
           | Now I'm curious. What is your secret power?
        
             | frockington1 wrote:
             | At your place of employment, talk to the business side and
             | learn what they are doing and why. Copy/paste front end
             | javascript workers are a dime a dozen compared to someone
             | with competence and knowledge surrounding the industry.
             | Simplest way is to talk to the product side. People like
             | talking about themselves, particularly when the other
             | person takes an active interest
        
           | castlecrasher2 wrote:
           | WFH absolutely screws over younger people joining an
           | industry. There's nothing like face-to-face learning, and I
           | don't envy anyone who's had to start their career recently.
        
             | throwawaygh wrote:
             | I've had excellent experience working virtually with new
             | hires, but I've also seen a lot of failures.
             | 
             | Mentoring remotely is definitely a skill that us older
             | workers had to be intentional about cultivating in
             | ourselves. The moment pandemic started, I bought a top-of-
             | the-line iPad for whiteboarding, insisted my new hire
             | mentors get the same from the company, and called up a
             | couple old professors to get all their tips on remote
             | teaching.
             | 
             | Hopefully the next generation will have it easier; their
             | mentors experienced remote learning so might be better
             | equipped for remote teaching/mentoring.
        
             | chrisjarvis wrote:
             | I can confirm that starting in a mega corp during Covid wfh
             | was (and continues to be) awful.
        
             | jdgiese wrote:
             | I've heard this idea repeated several times from people I
             | respect, and thus I take it seriously. That being said,
             | I've seen some contrary evidence. At Innolitics, we've
             | hired several engineers out of college who've blossomed
             | into talented and independent contributors within a couple
             | of years. I'm not sure if we're doing something special or
             | different that has solved the "junior's need face-to-face
             | learning" problem, or if it's not as much of a problem as
             | many people think.
        
               | throwawaygh wrote:
               | I imagine there's a big diff between smaller orgs that
               | hand pick each new hire, vs mega corps that have "cohort"
               | models.
        
               | mac01021 wrote:
               | What does a cohort model look like? I've never heard of
               | such a thing, at least not in software development.
        
         | artichokeheart wrote:
         | 1. That is true whether you WFH or not.
         | 
         | 2. As a contractor, yes, As an employee WFH changes nothing
         | here, particularly in countries with worker favorable
         | employment laws.
         | 
         | 3. See 1.
         | 
         | 4. True, remote workers need to maintain a 9-5ish routine.
         | meaning that remote means you can be flexible about which 8
         | hours you work, but you should still stick to the 8 hours you
         | are paid for
         | 
         | 5. True, but you now have more time to find a social group to
         | join, closer to home and more into things your interested in
         | outside of work.
        
           | one2three4 wrote:
           | About 1: Are you saying that the competition for a role
           | offered in Munich is the same as for the same role offered
           | remotely within +-5 hours CET or planet wide?
           | 
           | I really don't think so. And I'm afraid that this is a
           | classic race to the bottom for the most of us.
        
           | Leherenn wrote:
           | 1. and 3. Most countries have significant barriers to
           | immigration, and even within a country, many people do not
           | want to/cannot move for a job.
        
         | MeinBlutIstBlau wrote:
         | These are my gripes as well. Primarily the socializing one.
         | Can't have a legitimate relationship with someone over Skype.
         | I'm sorry.
        
         | skapadia wrote:
         | +1000. You literally said everything I was thinking.
        
         | Apocryphon wrote:
         | 1. and 3. are still somewhat mitigated by time zones, so it
         | wouldn't be the entire planet.
        
         | metafunctor wrote:
         | It's not like companies can or will actually hire globally.
         | There are huge timezone, language, cultural, trust,
         | connections, and other barriers.
        
           | dcolkitt wrote:
           | Not to mention that the notion that there's a huge global
           | pool of talented devs is largely a myth. It's true that labor
           | is cheaper in India or Russia, but research confirms that the
           | average engineer is far less competent than their American
           | counterparts.[1]
           | 
           | Software wages in the US are high, because it's very hard to
           | replicate the quality of an American workforce. By and large
           | global differences in wages reflect global differences in
           | workforce quality. It's not like this is the first time
           | companies have realized that global labor is cheaper. They've
           | been trying to capitalize on cheap engineers in developing
           | countries since the 1980s. It's always the same issue. Lower
           | price on paper, but delivery and quality issues that scale
           | far beyond the up front cost savings.
           | 
           | [1]https://www.pnas.org/content/116/14/6732
        
             | jokethrowaway wrote:
             | I disagree, I worked with a lot of terrible American
             | software engineers. I would never work with an American
             | developers because I'm competing on price with American
             | employers. If someone is looking for IT work outside of the
             | states, they're most likely not good enough to work for
             | better paying companies in the states. Likewise, FAANGs
             | routinely hire talent from abroad.
             | 
             | As for everything, there are plenty of exceptions: two of
             | the most talented and fastest growing Software Engineers I
             | met were Americans - and they didn't have any formal CS
             | education.
             | 
             | Over the years I definitely picked my political incorrect
             | biased list of countries to avoid for talent sourcing. I
             | could spend hours talking about funny stories involving bad
             | contractors from India, Hungary, Eastern Europe and Spain
             | but it's absolutely pointless.
             | 
             | You'll find terrible engineers everywhere, even in the
             | states. USA companies have incredible wealth compared to
             | other companies and they can afford to spend ridiculous
             | amount to try and weed out the majority of terrible
             | engineers.
             | 
             | Having hired contractors who used to work at FAANGs, I can
             | tell you I found some pretty terrible hires there as well.
             | Almost like memorising algorithms and CS exercises and then
             | spending 4 years trying to build a case for your promotion
             | isn't going to make you improve as an engineer.
        
             | screye wrote:
             | It is not a myth, it is merely overreported.
             | 
             | For every competent Indian that moves to the US for a tech
             | job, there are 4 that decide to stay back home for a
             | $10-15k-ish job.
             | 
             | India is increasingly training several orders of magnitude
             | more engineers than the US. Even if estimates were
             | overestimating the number of competent Individuals in India
             | by an order of magnitude, the number will still over shadow
             | the American workforce.
             | 
             | It has already happened once with China. It would not be
             | surprising if it happens with India. Only this time, the
             | competing workforce will be fluent in English.
        
               | valarauko wrote:
               | > _For every competent Indian that moves to the US for a
               | tech job, there are 4 that decide to stay back home for a
               | $10-15k-ish job._
               | 
               | Given the vagaries of the US visa regime, plenty of
               | talented Indians can't come over even if they wanted to.
        
               | jholman wrote:
               | > several orders of magnitude more engineers than the US
               | 
               | Wait, what? Several orders of magnitude, like at least 3
               | orders of magnitude? So even though India has 4x the
               | population of the United States, it's training at least a
               | thousand times as many engineers? That's amazing!
               | 
               | It's also totally not true at all. Spend a few seconds on
               | Google.
               | 
               | Note that I don't particularly disagree with the rest of
               | your comment.
        
             | rocknor wrote:
             | Logical fallacy. The average competence of an engineer in a
             | pool does not imply that the number of the talented devs in
             | that pool is small. The global pool of talented devs will
             | probably be several times the size of the US pool simply
             | because of the world population (would be good if someone
             | has actual numbers on this though).
        
               | dcolkitt wrote:
               | This presupposes that a hiring manager can perfectly
               | judge the quality of candidates. There are a ton of great
               | engineers in, say Romania. But unless you know how to
               | find and discriminate, you will be stuck with the average
               | Romanian engineer.
               | 
               | As anyone who's done serious hiring can tell you, judging
               | candidates is damn tough. There's only a loose
               | correlation between how a candidate looks on paper and
               | how he performs. Now imagine translating this process to
               | a completely foreign culture halfway across the world. Do
               | you know which universities in Romania are good? Do you
               | know who the most prestigious employers and positions in
               | Romania are? Do you have a network of Romanians to
               | recommend new hires?
               | 
               | In fact, even if you try, most likely you'll be stuck
               | with _below average_ engineers. Not only will the top
               | ones get scooped up by those with better local knowledge,
               | but the lack of knowledge goes both ways. Top engineers
               | aren 't going to join some fly-by-night employer with no
               | local brand, track record in that country, and no career
               | track to senior positions.
               | 
               | The only way I've seen a company actually succeed at this
               | is by being willing to fully embrace the country. It's
               | not just enough to hire off-the-shelf Romanian engineers,
               | the company has to actually become "Romanian". Are
               | companies willing to hire senior management from Romania?
               | Are Romanian employees "first class citizens" with
               | equivalent work to their American counterparts? Is the
               | company raising money from Romanian VCs? Are they pushing
               | Romania as a primary markets for their product? If the
               | answer to any of those questions is no, then it's highly
               | unlikely that you'll succeed in recruiting, interviewing,
               | hiring and retaining top talent in that local market.
        
             | hyperman1 wrote:
             | A company outsourced some work to India. They wanted to add
             | a few forms to their application for managing roughly the
             | tuple (name,surname,medicine taken). A few weeks later, the
             | first release came in. It contained everything to manage
             | the tuple (name of medicine taken, surname of medicine
             | taken). I stopped worrying about India about that time.
             | 
             | Don't get me wrong, there are smart people in India. But if
             | you're outsourcing for cheaper labor, you're not getting
             | these smart people.
        
               | rocknor wrote:
               | This generalization that happens every time "outsourcing"
               | and "India" get mentioned in the same thread needs to
               | stop. The culprit here is your employer who is probably
               | hiring graduates in India at 5-10% of SV salaries, while
               | to get competent graduates you need like 20-25%. So you
               | can still outsource for cheap labor, but don't make the
               | mistake of being too cheap.
        
               | zentiggr wrote:
               | Ok, counterpoint again.
               | 
               | The support contract for a huge multinational I was a
               | small part of a while back, was bought out by an Indian-
               | based company, who wanted the prestige and new line of
               | business, but bit off WAY more than they could chew, and
               | threw the entire tier 1/2/3 process into near chaos.
               | 
               | Had they looked even a little deeper, they might have
               | realized that they had no pratical experience in customer
               | facing sw/hw support, and saved everyone two years of
               | flailing, panic-driven, blame-everyone-you-can-point-a-
               | finger-at, the-technicians-are-wrong-since-our-process-
               | says-otherwise-oh-wait-our-process-is-shit-what-now-MORE-
               | METRICS unbelieveable bullshit.
               | 
               | All because somebody in high level management managed to
               | bend somebodys ear, and the parent company got swindled
               | into it.
               | 
               | So glad to be gone.
        
               | rocknor wrote:
               | This does not counter what I said in any way.
        
               | hyperman1 wrote:
               | My experience is western europe, smaller cities. For 25%
               | of SV salaries you get close enough to the local
               | salaries. Add a language barrier (we dont speak English),
               | a time zone barrier (I like my meetings between 8:00 and
               | 17:00 local time), and a cultural barrier, and its simply
               | not worth the hassle.
               | 
               | Outsourcing for talent is fine, but there is plenty of
               | competition to make India rare, at least around here. So
               | when I hear India, it's unfortunately a pretty safe
               | assumption that someone went for bottom of the barrel
               | cheap.
               | 
               | I'm not saying this is right or fair.
        
               | mrkstu wrote:
               | It is still true that the very best of India is suctioned
               | into the United States- though there is definitely some
               | backflow as they gather enough capital to go back and
               | invest in Indian based companies.
               | 
               | The gravity of magnitudes better compensation insures
               | that the very best will migrate.
               | 
               | FAANG level engineers are completely insulated from
               | overseas competition due to this, but of course the lower
               | echelons will have to worry about this if the current
               | demand spike falls off.
        
             | alexgmcm wrote:
             | But you could hire devs in Western Europe at 50% of SV
             | salaries. With UK-based devs there wouldn't even be a
             | language barrier.
             | 
             | There is quite a lot of red-tape involved with hiring
             | foreign workers though.
        
               | dcolkitt wrote:
               | Even between the US and Western Europe, there's a
               | significant gap in workforce quality. Researchers have
               | found that American companies consistently achieve higher
               | levels of IT productivity than their Western European
               | counterparts.[1]
               | 
               | [1]https://www.aeaweb.org/articles?id=10.1257/aer.102.1.1
               | 67
        
               | wiz21c wrote:
               | How do you think they achieve that ? We use the same
               | tools all over the world, maybe the same processes,
               | intelligence is uniformly distributed. Maybe training ?
               | 
               | I've worked with many people from abroad (even some from
               | the US) and truth is : there were people better than
               | others, there were people who worked more than the
               | others. But this is never tied to nationality. It is much
               | more tied to : does the guy want to be top notch ? If he
               | asks the question then he probably has the ability and
               | willing to make the sacrifices.
        
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               | lidi122 wrote:
               | Article states, that's because of
               | 
               | "Combining pan-European firm-level IT data with our
               | management practices survey, we find that the US IT
               | related productivity advantage is primarily due to its
               | tougher "people management" practices."
               | 
               | So it's not related to IT engineering skills but rather
               | how the company handles those engineers. An US based
               | company will handle EU based engineers like their own,
               | thus nullifying your argument.
        
               | Apocryphon wrote:
               | And this could lead to higher turnover due a
               | transatlantic work culture shock.
        
               | Kranar wrote:
               | That article talks about multinational companies, not
               | individuals. In other words, American companies are more
               | productive instead of American software engineers being
               | more productive.
               | 
               | That could very well be due to differences in management
               | and in fact that seems to be the conclusion drawn by your
               | link, which states that productivity among European
               | companies increases when those companies are taken over
               | by American firms.
               | 
               | Right from the abstract:
               | 
               | >US IT related productivity advantage is primarily due to
               | its tougher "people management" practices
        
               | oceanplexian wrote:
               | Not saying that there aren't talented developers overseas
               | (I have worked with many) but in general, the culture
               | isn't at the caliber of what happens in SV/The Bay.
               | 
               | I've interviewed and hired many engineers from the UK and
               | the first thing you'll notice are candidates with resumes
               | filled with pointless certifications and years of cookie-
               | cutter experience at financial institutions working on
               | old technology. I could get into the more esoteric
               | aspects of what happens in really hyper-growth SV
               | startups but it would come as a culture shock to a 9-5'er
               | from London. It also involves sacrifices and lifestyle
               | changes I think most of those folks would be unwilling to
               | make.
        
               | theflyinghorse wrote:
               | > But you could hire devs in Western Europe at 50% of SV
               | salaries
               | 
               | You could get that in Canada. No language barrier, same
               | education, same culture (largely), same exact time zones,
               | flying folks in if need be is far simpler.
        
               | Apocryphon wrote:
               | That opens up the labor pool (heck, might as well throw
               | in all of Latin America and the Caribbean too), but not
               | as drastically as the entire world.
        
               | theflyinghorse wrote:
               | I would disagree. Canadians share same culture, same
               | education, and same language (natively). The same cannot
               | be said about Latin America and the Caribbean
        
           | ashtonkem wrote:
           | Many of which are completely orthogonal to where the physical
           | office is; if a company hadn't completely or heavily
           | offshored its workforce for cheaper talent already, it's not
           | clear why WFH would be the final straw.
        
           | giantg2 wrote:
           | And legal barriers around location for data governance too.
        
             | tomatocracy wrote:
             | There are legal barriers around regulated activities and
             | tax problems too, at least in my line of work (particularly
             | tax residency of companies/corporate vehicles).
             | 
             | Many of these are temporarily waived by the authorities for
             | the duration of the pandemic but that won't last forever.
        
           | thereddaikon wrote:
           | Globally may not be a problem but it does make it far easier
           | for hiring managers to reach outside their immediate area and
           | look nationally. That may not change things much in Europe,
           | where distances are short but in the US that's potentially a
           | huge hiring pool. Even if you limit yourself to just your
           | time zone, how many competent developers reside in EST?
        
           | auiya wrote:
           | There's also sometimes quite egregious tax laws in place for
           | this very reason. Many companies aren't willing to hire
           | overseas as a result.
        
           | fairity wrote:
           | The impacts mentioned by OP aren't predicated on companies
           | hiring globally. Simply expanding hiring across the US (or
           | even just your US timezone) will result in a significant drop
           | in salary for your average role.
           | 
           | Employers aren't going to drop salaries in the midst of a
           | pandemic, but if remote work persists, salaries will drop
           | substantially. It's simple supply and demand, and I'm sure
           | there's data out there (for existing remote positions) that
           | corroborates this.
        
       | anonu wrote:
       | The answer, like most things in life, is in the middle. That's
       | why the "hybrid model" has been talked about recently as the
       | world opens up.
       | 
       | Reading lots of comments here and it's clear there are two camps.
       | Which is great. There will be a big realignment of people
       | switching jobs to go remote and moving to cities to get to work
       | with a cool in person team.
       | 
       | But there's also the middle of the road hybrid model where you
       | can still be remote but there will be offsites every month or
       | every quarter.
        
         | greedo wrote:
         | That's not really a hybrid from what I've read. A hybrid is
         | where you work one or more days in the office every week. Your
         | hybrid is much more appealing than the former to me.
        
       | 01100011 wrote:
       | If society accepts global warming is happening and climate change
       | is a threat, commuting is going to be severely limited in the
       | future. If we don't kill the commute, we're going to kill
       | suburbs(and we may do that either way).
       | 
       | Once you accept AGW, you have to commit to seriously reducing
       | energy expenditures until the planet is 100% renewable and we've
       | maxed out our carbon capture mechanisms. Commuting takes energy.
       | Even in an urban environment.
       | 
       | Arguments about the positives and negatives of WFH, which have
       | been discussed in many popular threads on HN ad nauseum, are
       | really secondary. Incentives to reduce energy usage will
       | eliminate commutes and reshape society. Covid helped kickstart
       | the transformation but it would have happened eventually anyway.
        
         | dkjaudyeqooe wrote:
         | You might combine the two, with "WFH" in shared workspaces in
         | suburban environments, that would seem to be the "all of the
         | above" option if it becomes popular and there is sufficient
         | shared workspace availability.
        
       | leet_thow wrote:
       | Honestly, I wouldn't feel safe taking the BART to SF 5 days a
       | week. I'm referring to crime, not the pandemi .
        
       | Jaygles wrote:
       | For me, the utility of being at home versus being at the office
       | is massive. If I need a 15 minute break, I can start a load of
       | laundry, or run the dishwasher, or do some other chore.
       | 
       | I can wake up later since I don't have a commute. I don't lose
       | two hours a day due to the commute.
       | 
       | I can wear as comfortable clothing as I desire. I can delay my
       | shower until after my daily workout (Which I can do since my
       | workout equipment is at home).
       | 
       | I can control my environment so there are as many or as few
       | distractions as i like. I can put on videos or audio that might
       | not be considered work appropriate. I can use speakers since no
       | one is around me to hear the sound.
       | 
       | The number and magnitude of inconveniences we subject ourselves
       | to by heading to an office every day has been fully revealed. I
       | will do all I can to work from home for the rest of my life.
        
         | stjohnswarts wrote:
         | I'm not gonna lie, it lowers my stress levels by at least half.
         | The sheer fact that people can't randomly drop by and I can
         | more control the flow of my day by ignoring email and slack
         | until reasonable interval checks. People can still get me if
         | there's an "emergency" but those are few and far between.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | lpapez wrote:
         | One more:
         | 
         | Depending on company culture, meetings with 10+ people can end
         | up with just a few people talking and others not participating
         | at all but still being forced to attend. Tolerating such events
         | is much easier when you simply turn off your camera and lay on
         | the couch, stretch around etc. instead of sitting awkwardly and
         | pretending to care.
        
         | bsharitt wrote:
         | > I don't lose two hours a day due to the commute.
         | 
         | Realizing I was basically using an entire work day or even a
         | little more per week just to commute was what made me put in
         | the effort to move to remote work(pre-pandemic by a couple
         | years). And once I started, I noticed the little niceties as
         | you mentioned and it would take something drastic to get me
         | back into an office again.
        
         | lukifer wrote:
         | Hear, hear. As someone with dietary restrictions, the ability
         | to make lunch at home every day is also huge (to say nothing of
         | not being in an office which "helpfully" offers the temptation
         | of junk food during moments of stress).
        
           | derwiki wrote:
           | I thought I would gain weight from lack of commute exercise,
           | but healthier eating has meant a net loss for me.
        
         | m463 wrote:
         | I found scrubs (pants) are ultra-comfortable and industrial
         | strength functional.
        
           | failwhaleshark wrote:
           | Flight suits are adult onesies. And resistant to fire and
           | McDonald's coffee.
        
         | ChrisMarshallNY wrote:
         | I guess it depends on the type of job, but for me (software
         | engineering), WFH works _extremely_ well.
         | 
         | I often - _often_ , not "sometimes"- get more done by 8AM, than
         | I used to get done in over half a day (or even the entire day)
         | at the office.
         | 
         | WFH won't work for everyone. It takes _real_ self-discipline,
         | and not everyone considers home to be a suitable place for
         | work.
         | 
         | Even in these cases, I think we'll be seeing alternatives, like
         | small "work hubs," ala WeWork, that are close to people's
         | homes, and allow them to have a lot more autonomy than the main
         | office.
        
           | ehnto wrote:
           | I have gained a kind of hyper-focus and desire to do the work
           | I had entirely lost thanks to the 9-5 grind, I've been
           | working from home since before covid too. 9-5 5 day weeks
           | seem almost designed to cause that kind of long-tail
           | unproductivity.
        
           | sanitycheck wrote:
           | I've worked from home for years, and found the same thing -
           | it's made me look like, maybe not a 10X dev but definitely
           | 2X.
           | 
           | But now everyone else I deal with is WFH too and... It turns
           | out they don't appear to be benefiting in the same way and
           | performance has probably dropped on average.
           | 
           | Give it a couple of years and most people will be back in the
           | office as before, I expect.
        
           | almost_usual wrote:
           | I'm the same I had been WFH in SF for at least two years and
           | joined a new employer pre covid that required me to go into
           | the office. Once COVID hit my manager was really surprised by
           | how much more productive I was. At this point we're on a flex
           | schedule going back, will see how that goes.
           | 
           | My hope is two days in the office for meeting days or
           | interviews, rest engineering time at home.
        
         | sandworm101 wrote:
         | >> If I need a 15 minute break, I can start a load of laundry,
         | or run the dishwasher, or do some other chore.
         | 
         | That is not universal. That is a subset of work-from-home. Many
         | people working from home can no more step away for a break than
         | they would if at the office. For instance, customer
         | support/contact people cannot just step away from the phone.
         | Others working at home have employer systems that monitor them
         | live. Any unscheduled breaks get noticed and recorded.
         | 
         | Even amongst highly-paid "knowledge workers" there are issues.
         | I do occasional home days but am not able to take breaks. At
         | any time one of my five bosses might call. We don't have any
         | monitoring software but they expect me at my desk ready to
         | respond, not walking the dog or doing laundry.
        
           | mrtranscendence wrote:
           | Or my talk therapist girlfriend, for whom working from home
           | still means having phone or video appointments starting and
           | ending every hour. Though at least she can take a short break
           | if someone no-shows (most of that time is for doing notes).
           | 
           | I suspect most people working from home have _some_
           | opportunity to take breaks here and there, though. I 'm aware
           | of certain professions with invasive monitoring (I've seen
           | nurses that work for pharmaceutical companies report this),
           | but it doesn't seem to be particularly widespread. I'm not
           | familiar with anyone in my personal life who have an
           | expectation of immediate response to superiors (though on the
           | rare case the CEO contacts you, you should make sure to get
           | on that pretty quickly ... but that's why I get email on my
           | phone/watch).
        
             | lanstin wrote:
             | I like to take walks around the blocks during very long
             | conference calls. And for that matter I will walk around my
             | house and advance the laundry or make a cup of coffee or
             | just pace and wave my arms for a shorter and more involving
             | call.
        
             | sandworm101 wrote:
             | >> expectation of immediate response to superiors
             | 
             | It depends on whether you are working primarily via
             | email/text or live talk/chat/webcam. When my boss calls me
             | on the phone during the day he expects me to answer.
        
               | Apocryphon wrote:
               | Not being able to take even a 15 minute break and having
               | to report to five different bosses sounds like an outlier
               | occupation in terms of austerity. What if you need to go
               | to the bathroom?
        
           | walterlb wrote:
           | Five bosses? I'm genuinely curious how this works
        
             | teddyh wrote:
             | At least it's fewer than eight.
        
             | sosborn wrote:
             | My guess is that it doesn't work as well as four bosses.
        
               | jholman wrote:
               | I laughed and upvoted, but you never know. Maybe the
               | utility curve turns a corner.
        
         | wdb wrote:
         | One of the benefits of working in the office that you can leave
         | your work notebook in the locker so you can't use it after
         | working times.
        
         | Clubber wrote:
         | Just to add to the plusses you already mentioned, the amount of
         | CO2 released into the atmosphere just by the practice of
         | driving to the office everyday is immense.
        
           | musicale wrote:
           | The best thing about the pandemic has been improved air
           | quality. Do we really want to go back?
           | 
           | https://www.bbc.com/news/science-environment-57149747
        
         | throwaway894345 wrote:
         | Agreed with the above. I'll also add that for many years my
         | wife and I have had the goal of living in Europe (we're
         | Americans) but finding suitable work in Europe seemed nearly
         | impossible:
         | 
         | * EU work visas seem very hard to get
         | 
         | * EU software jobs seem to pay ~40% less than comparable
         | American jobs _before taxes_ (and EU taxes are more
         | significant)--this leaves little slack for travel
         | 
         | * My wife's field is communications/marketing and she's pretty
         | specialized to English/American-culture and the demand is quite
         | a lot lower for her industry than mine
         | 
         | Then there's the hassle of long-term remote: figuring out
         | taxes, selling our home, the logistics and costs of moving
         | those possessions we're unwilling to sell to Europe, etc.
         | 
         | Work-from-home enables us to work from Europe for a few months
         | at a time--we'll have to work odd hours (~2pm-9pm iirc) and
         | we'll probably have to pay Europe rent _and_ our American
         | mortgage; however, we 'll probably take most of our vacation
         | during our abroad months so the odd hours will only apply for a
         | few weeks and we can afford the additional housing cost
         | (especially if we save for it during the months we're in the
         | US). I _think_ the tax situation should be okay since we 'll be
         | in the US for the majority of the year, but I need to find out
         | for sure.
        
           | triceratops wrote:
           | > EU work visas seem very hard to get
           | 
           | Not sure about other countries but it's pretty much automatic
           | in Germany for any job over EUR 55k (or something like that).
           | Which is nearly all software jobs worth taking.
        
             | throwaway894345 wrote:
             | Really? I've looked at France and UK specifically and the
             | requirements on paper seemed really difficult. You
             | basically had to have a letter from the company saying that
             | they couldn't find a EU citizen who could do the work, and
             | even if that's pretty laxly interpreted and IIRC many
             | employers weren't even willing to accept candidates outside
             | of the EU. Perhaps it's changed or I'm misremembering.
        
               | jamesfmilne wrote:
               | Post Brexit the EU thing is no longer applicable, but the
               | news recently makes me fear for anyone trying to travel
               | here for work or leisure. EU citizens visiting family
               | being thrown in jail and deported. We are turning into
               | Gilead. I'd wait it out a few years until we've managed
               | to get rid of Johnson, Patel, Gove, Raab and all the
               | other swivel-eyed loons.
        
           | htrp wrote:
           | IANAL but technically you working remote from Europe on a
           | tourist visa is a violation of a bunch of immigration laws
           | (and probably some tax treaties).
           | 
           | Will your firm catch you? Likely not if you are only working
           | abroad for a few weeks, if you're doing it for longer, you'll
           | probably get an email asking for clarification on your tax
           | status (at best). At worst, they'll pull your VPN logs and
           | demand that you get back to the states before you trigger
           | some payroll issues.
        
             | throwaway894345 wrote:
             | Thanks for the heads up. I'll have to look into this more
             | deeply. I'm curious if anyone knows where the appropriate
             | place to ask would be (foreign embassy?). FWIW, I'm not
             | planning to hide this from my firm.
        
             | ehnto wrote:
             | It does really depend on the country and visa, so certainly
             | look into it. It's not a default no-no, and tax treaties
             | often exist to make international economic activity easier
             | not harder.
             | 
             | My country has a tax-treaty with the country I do most of
             | my work for, and so I only pay taxes in one not the other.
             | Without such a treaty I'd have to pay taxes in both
             | countries and it would make it unviable.
        
               | throwaway894345 wrote:
               | How would you go about finding out for sure? Do you need
               | to visit the foreign embassy? Or is there some kind of
               | lawyer you would talk to? If so, which kind?
        
               | ehnto wrote:
               | I looked up the relevant tax codes myself and got them
               | vetted by my accountant, but I'll admit it was a really
               | clear cut situation for me and my government has really
               | well written descriptions of the codes online.
        
               | jholman wrote:
               | As a non-American working (legally) for a while in
               | America (in Silicon Valley), I ran into a situation where
               | my visa lapsed and I wasn't sure where I stood legally
               | (like I wasn't sure if I was even allowed to be in the
               | country any more). I can't remember how I found a lawyer.
               | Anyway, I did a 15-minute consult over the phone.
               | Actually, he was really casual about payment, at the end
               | he said "mail a cheque to my secretary" and hung up,
               | haha. Probably was mostly treating the call as a loss
               | leader.
               | 
               | Anyway, among other things, he said that doing any work
               | inside US borders, if not on a work visa, is
               | _technically_ illegal. Like apparently if I 'm on
               | vacation in the US, and I pull out my phone to answer a
               | few work emails, that's _technically_ a visa violation,
               | not that in that case anyone 's gonna mind. IANAL TINLA.
               | And of course you're interesting in jurisdictions _other_
               | than the US.
               | 
               | So, yeah, I think the way to find out is find a lawyer in
               | the jurisdiction you'd be wanting to work from, one who
               | advertises themselves as specializing in visa issues.
        
             | himinlomax wrote:
             | You're most probably wrong. The limits to working in a
             | foreign country usually apply to getting a paycheck from a
             | local employer, or performing tasks that are locally
             | regulated. Nothing's stopping anyone from writing a book
             | anywhere, for instance. You clearly don't need any kind of
             | work permit to do that kind of work. But you can't call
             | yourself an independent contractor and start fixing houses
             | in a remote country while invoicing from abroad. Doing
             | software development is much more like the former than the
             | latter.
             | 
             | Consider also that foreign employee of foreign firms have
             | long traveled for business (well pre-Covid they did) and
             | there is typically no work permit required for short/medium
             | stays. In most places it just requires a typical tourist
             | visa or equivalent when under 3 months.
             | 
             | Maybe this will be much more common and laws would change,
             | but it's hard to see why countries would resist such
             | residents; they bring their own job, they spend foreign
             | money locally and they're no strain on the local social
             | welfare system. Economically, they're just as beneficial as
             | tourists and not as much of a risk as the average
             | immigrant.
        
         | stadium wrote:
         | My mental model on commute time is that every 1 hour is a year
         | of my life wasted over a 24 year career. More than that if I
         | work for more than 24 years.
        
         | mgkimsal wrote:
         | I go to a coworking space. Having some semblance of separating
         | home from 'work' (even though I do sometimes 'work' from home)
         | helps. I did total 'work from home' - working out of a
         | converted bedroom - for years, and... it's functional, but the
         | process/ritual of leaving and coming back does help me.
         | 
         | I still 'work remote', as a freelancer. I have had engagements
         | where I go to a client's offices, sometimes for somewhat
         | extended periods of time. I will travel if needed.
         | 
         | But the majority of work I do is still done on terms I have
         | some control over, which, ultimately, I think is the key part
         | of the whole discussion. Where I work, what equipment, what
         | hours, when/where I travel, what I wear, etc - things you were
         | mentioning above - having control over those is key, regardless
         | of whether you want to work from home or in an office or
         | somewhere in between.
        
           | AfterShave wrote:
           | I think it's interesting how "the ritual" of going to or
           | leaving work. Is such a big part of the discussion around
           | working from home.
           | 
           | I felt it myself at first. I had to do something to break up
           | the day into work and not work. At first I'd pretty much just
           | walk to the bus stop and go home from there. Basically
           | pretend I took the bus. After a month or two I think I
           | stopped. The walk was the new commute. The ritual part just
           | became moving all cables back to my own computer from the
           | work laptop dock. A quick minute and it's over. Work has
           | ended and all is well.
        
             | ehnto wrote:
             | I have a similar thing with my laptop. I have lots of
             | variance though, I have co-working space I can go to, and I
             | often take my laptop to various places around the city just
             | for the wander and to feel connected again. (The pandemic
             | hasn't really affected my city in Aus)
             | 
             | The reality is that working from home means I end up
             | spending almost all my time at home. Almost all 24 hours of
             | it. I think about how quickly life goes by, how much I've
             | already spent behind a computer, and realize that's not
             | going to work for me long term. I will be very disappointed
             | if I look back on my life and saw that it almost entirely
             | occurred behind a computer in the one spot.
        
           | abruzzi wrote:
           | I need to separate work from home and home from work. My home
           | is filled with distractions and the first couple of months of
           | the pandemic were horrible becuase I couldn't get anything
           | done. I started going back in to work in the summer (2-3
           | minute commute depending on the single traffic light along
           | the route) and my productivity went back to normal. It was
           | actually better than normal because work was mostly empty, so
           | I had a big office building designed for 600 workers mostly
           | to myself. Now, unfortunately starting today we are all back
           | in the office, so I'm having the same transition issues as
           | all the WFH people, but because my nice empty office building
           | is now filled with people.
        
           | cbm-vic-20 wrote:
           | My neighbor commutes to "work" in the morning by taking a 20
           | minute bike ride, and commutes "home" by doing the same route
           | in reverse.
        
             | ub99 wrote:
             | Ha! That's a genius idea! I might start going on
             | morning/evening "commute" walks too.
        
           | tinyhouse wrote:
           | That's the key for me. I think every remote company should
           | pay for co-working space for their employees if they choose
           | to. Also, it's important that co-working spaces design it to
           | be more like a quiet office with stations with big screens
           | etc. Not like the old co-working concept where it's like a
           | cafe, cramping multiple people together.
           | 
           | I recall once interviewing at a startup. Their office was in
           | a co-working space. When I arrived in the morning I knew
           | after 5 minutes that I'm not going to work there. The entire
           | team of 4 people, including the CTO who was supposed to be my
           | manager, were sitting together in a tiny room with zero
           | privacy.
        
             | pnutjam wrote:
             | I would never use a co-working space. I want to be home,
             | not in some pseudo office.
             | 
             | I also wonder how the end of pandemic norms will effect
             | people who claim they want to be in the office. If they can
             | get their socialization outside the office, we could see a
             | resurgence of neighborhood clubs.
        
               | b3morales wrote:
               | Different strokes, but personally, having worked remotely
               | for several years, I like having it as an _option_. There
               | 's a space not too far from my house with a reasonable
               | day-of hot desk rate, with a nice view and the usual
               | amenities. I like working from my house, but a different
               | scene once or twice a month (that isn't a coffee shop) is
               | refreshing for me. It's also good to have the escape if
               | something noisy turns up in the neighborhood and I need
               | to get away. :)
        
               | ehnto wrote:
               | I hope we do see a resurgence in local clubs and venues.
               | Modern communities can be so isolating, it's no wonder
               | people get most of their socializing done at work.
        
             | mgkimsal wrote:
             | Our space is pretty small. Main room has seating for..
             | perhaps 8, and a separate conference room and a separate
             | smaller 'single desk' space. There's usually only 2-3
             | people in at any one time - 5 is a big day, and for most
             | people, it's a "part time" thing to get them out of the
             | house.
             | 
             | It's not 100% the same thing as 100% total privacy, but
             | it's generally not very noisy, and there's enough quiet to
             | concentrate and focus when needed. There are some larger
             | spaces in the area I've been to that are _nice_ looking,
             | and conducive to group work /meetings/collaboration, but
             | don't work well for "I need solo time to think/work".
        
         | ericmcer wrote:
         | You are pitching being able to do laundry, dishes, clean, etc.
         | as a perk. I feel like it's a negative as part of my mental
         | space is occupied by household chores as well. Blending errands
         | and cleaning with meetings and focused work is a pain now. It
         | feels like I'm doing an insane multitasking balancing act most
         | days.
        
           | ulfw wrote:
           | How did you cope before? Who did all this for you before?
        
             | sidlls wrote:
             | In the evenings and on weekends.
        
               | azemetre wrote:
               | Wouldn't you rather keep evenings/weekends free of chores
               | and do some of them during the work week? That's what I
               | prefer and do at least.
        
             | ericmcer wrote:
             | my mommy
        
           | nickstinemates wrote:
           | I read it as pitching flexibility in your schedule as a perk.
           | The details are the details (and vary from person to person)
        
           | hrktb wrote:
           | This as much as you want to do it though. I share OP's view
           | point, but will also let those house keeping tasks rote away
           | for a while if I'm not in the mood too.
           | 
           | They'll still need to be done at some point, but now we have
           | more choice on when we want to do it, and not just between
           | 8PM and 8 AM or only on weekends, as it was the case before.
        
         | wolfretcrap wrote:
         | I 3d print and make useful things for my house on CNC mill
         | machine I received few months back.
         | 
         | At this point if a company wants me back in office, I'll go and
         | work for the one which doesn't really there's no value in being
         | packed in a shop with people who don't want to be with you.
         | 
         | It's other thing to orchestrate something by purchasing bit of
         | inputs from everyone on team.
        
         | dec0dedab0de wrote:
         | I've been working from home for years, and while all the things
         | you listed are huge. The number one thing I missed the most in
         | the 20 or so times I've been to the office in the last 7 years,
         | is having my own bathroom.
         | 
         | That said, I miss going out to lunch, accidentally meeting
         | people from other teams, reading on the train, meeting friends
         | in the city right after work, and just being around people in
         | general.
         | 
         | I wish I could get an in office part time job that paid
         | benefits, but I don't think those exist.
        
         | cm2187 wrote:
         | Agree with all of this, but it also requires to schedule pretty
         | much any interaction. Also all the interactions are going
         | through your employers systems, which are all recorded. So any
         | gossip or informal catch up, or sharing real "corporate
         | incorrect" opinion is out of the door (if you work for any
         | large organisation).
         | 
         | It was fine the first 6 months of working from home but I feel
         | increasingly professionally isolated, not knowing what is going
         | on, even though I spend half of my day talking to people on a
         | headset.
        
           | Hamuko wrote:
           | > _Also all the interactions are going through your employers
           | systems, which are all recorded._
           | 
           | I doubt all of our Google Meets are recorded. And even if
           | they were, who'd bother listening through all of them for
           | wrongthink?
        
             | ctoth wrote:
             | Google Meet has a transcription option. I would be
             | profoundly surprised if this were not coupled with a
             | keyword filter of some sort.
        
               | Hamuko wrote:
               | I've seen what the Google Meet transcription does and the
               | output is only useful for summoning the Dark One.
        
           | mywittyname wrote:
           | Facetime or Hangout with a personal account.
           | 
           | Also, a lot of people at my work are on Discord. I wouldn't
           | be surprised if that were the common channel for semi-private
           | employee chats.
        
           | gmadsen wrote:
           | your company monitors every zoom call?
           | 
           | not sure how "corporate incorrect" you are intending, but I
           | feel pretty open to discuss things I'm dissatisfied with with
           | my team. I suppose if push came to shove, I would be fine
           | with that being public record.
        
           | nkozyra wrote:
           | > but it also requires to schedule pretty much any
           | interaction.
           | 
           | This is another positive.
           | 
           | > So any gossip or informal catch up, or sharing real
           | "corporate incorrect" opinion is out of the door (if you work
           | for any large organisation).
           | 
           | I'm not sure what "corporate incorrect" means here, but
           | gossip is generally a net negative in the workplace that
           | tends to build cliques and factions that often manifest in a
           | bigger problem.
           | 
           | Assuredly there are other non-company channels to do those
           | things, but the question is ... why?
        
             | JumpCrisscross wrote:
             | > _gossip is generally a net negative in the workplace that
             | tends to build cliques and factions that often manifest in
             | a bigger problem_
             | 
             | It isn't useful at lower levels. It's pretty much the
             | definition of senior management. I wouldn't have wanted to
             | discuss replacing a senior person, whom I found to be
             | ineffective, on corporate Zoom, for example. That said,
             | temporary hierarchical rigidity and some people explicitly
             | opting out of the promotion race isn't a bad thing.
        
             | wizzwizz4 wrote:
             | A problem for _whom_? Unionisation is a net positive for
             | everyone not interested in profit; a good union ensures
             | good working environments which improve efficiency (amount
             | achieved per time spent), and it reduces worker
             | exploitation (e.g. fairer compensation for labour).
             | 
             | How do you arrange something like that behind your boss's
             | back if you can only communicate with your colleagues via
             | corporate-approved communication channels?
        
               | oarsinsync wrote:
               | I use my personal communnications devices to communicate
               | with colleagues when communicating in a personal context.
               | 
               | I use my work communications devices to communicate with
               | colleagues when communicating in a work context.
               | 
               | I suppose some people may have employers that prohibit
               | them from having personal communication devices in their
               | place of residence, but that's going to be a very
               | different high-security type environment anyway.
               | 
               | I don't have a problem with asking a colleague to give me
               | their personal cell number on a work communications
               | channel. I don't think I'd want to work in a place where
               | doing so was prohibited.
        
               | gbear605 wrote:
               | Technically planning unionizing inside of the workspace
               | has always been legally dangerous - the correct way to do
               | it is to meet outside of work, at say a cookout or over
               | drinks. Those methods can work too, although being remote
               | can make them impossible. Unfortunately a fully remote
               | company is much more union-proof, and that's a very sad
               | tradeoff.
        
               | TheCoelacanth wrote:
               | It's not legally dangerous. Legally, you have the right
               | to discuss unionization with your co-workers and your
               | employer is legally forbidden from preventing it or
               | retaliating.
               | 
               | It's dangerous for practical purposes, because that law
               | is not well enforced.
        
               | golergka wrote:
               | Unionization is not net positive for everyone. Why are
               | you looking at "good union" examples instead of much more
               | realistic "bad" ones?
        
               | wizzwizz4 wrote:
               | Because I'm not an American business owner, nor cheering
               | for one.
        
               | golergka wrote:
               | Why does it cause you to pick the evidence that confirms
               | what you already believe in? Do you think that being
               | blind to reality is good for your "team"?
        
               | wizzwizz4 wrote:
               | I'm not being blind to reality. The only unions I have
               | ever interacted with have been good ones. I've only ever
               | heard about bad unions on Hacker News; even police unions
               | are good at being unions (though when you're unionising
               | against _the people_ , that's an inversion of the power
               | dynamics a union is meant to promote, so I still don't
               | like police unions).
               | 
               | Believing second-hand rumours on the internet would be
               | less intellectually honest than believing my anecdotal
               | evidence.
        
               | jholman wrote:
               | > The only unions I have ever interacted with have been
               | good ones.
               | 
               | Wild.
               | 
               | As a non-American non-employer, my current job is
               | unionized, and I believe that union to be a _major_
               | factor in the rampant dysfunction, though probably not
               | the driving factor.
               | 
               | I think that every time I've had a friend or family
               | member working in a union environment that wasn't more-
               | or-less minimum wage (e.g. unionized Starbucks workers
               | are a counter-example to the pattern I'm describing)
               | they've had similar observations.
               | 
               | I'm still very hesitant to attack unions in general,
               | because as a student of history it's pretty clear that
               | the situation we have now is better than the situation
               | without unions. So I'd rather live in a unionized society
               | than a non-unionized society, but I'd rather work for a
               | non-unionized employer than a unionized employer.
        
               | golergka wrote:
               | > The only unions I have ever interacted with have been
               | good ones.
               | 
               | Well, that's what I would expect to see in US too, but
               | it's a survivorship bias at work. Obviously, in country
               | which is (quite commendably, in my opinion) anti-union,
               | only capable unions would be able to survive.
               | 
               | > that's an inversion of the power dynamics a union is
               | meant to promote
               | 
               | Power dynamics that you are talking about are pieces of
               | fiction, which oversimplify reality in order to boost one
               | or another political viewpoint. It's a very popular piece
               | of fiction, too: paint one side as "the ordinary people",
               | the underdog, morally superior, and thus taken advantage
               | of. And the other side is, obviously, the devil.
               | 
               | Anyone sees these stories quite for what they are when
               | it's the story from the other side of political spectrum.
               | For example, if anyone would come here to HN and tell the
               | story of immigrants taking "our jobs", it would be dead
               | in 5 minutes, and all the logical inconsistencies and
               | fallacies in it would be split open. And, just to be
               | clear about my personal political opinions -- this
               | takedown would be completely correct.
               | 
               | But it works for both sides. "The people" are often not
               | much of an underdog, as are "the workers". I know quite a
               | lot of real businesses, even in IT, where "the man", the
               | business owner, takes home less money than he pays his
               | senior engineers. The situation with police unions just
               | highlights this disparity between the story in a way that
               | you can't just sweep under the rug -- but it's always
               | there, even if less apparent.
        
               | triceratops wrote:
               | > even police unions are good at being unions
               | 
               | Right?! They suck for everyone else, but as far as
               | looking out for their members' interests, they're pretty
               | much the gold standard.
        
               | mschuster91 wrote:
               | > How do you arrange something like that behind your
               | boss's back if you can only communicate with your
               | colleagues via corporate-approved communication channels?
               | 
               | I'm a _Betriebsrat_ , a Germany-specific "workers
               | council", member at my employer. By law, the company is
               | mandated to provide us with the resources we need (e.g.
               | access to company wide email distribution lists, a
               | private MS Teams channel, private folders on the file
               | servers, a locked office for personal meetings of the
               | council and with staff members) and is prohibited from
               | interfering with all our duties. Any form of censorship
               | or surveillance would be a big no-no which could even
               | land our execs behind bars.
        
               | htrp wrote:
               | workers councils are a great thing.... too bad they're
               | only in Europe
        
           | moate wrote:
           | I know plenty of people, myself included, who consider most
           | of what you described as a blessing.
           | 
           | Not having to have "how are the kids?" conversations and
           | instead being able to play a video game or watch a TV show
           | during some down time is worth every bit of company gossip
           | I'm missing.
        
           | system16 wrote:
           | > but it also requires to schedule pretty much any
           | interaction.
           | 
           | That's a small price I'm willing to pay.
           | 
           | > So any gossip or informal catch up, or sharing real
           | "corporate incorrect" opinion is out of the door (if you work
           | for any large organisation).
           | 
           | Just speaking personally, any company I've worked at where
           | gossip/whispering/staff looking over their shoulders and feel
           | the need complain/etc. were important factors was not an
           | environment I wanted to be a part of anyway.
        
         | Gibbon1 wrote:
         | > I don't lose two hours a day due to the commute.
         | 
         | One of my bitches about Silicon Valley is top managers of tech
         | companies locate their companies a short drive away from their
         | homes and estates in Palo Alto, Los Altos, Woodside and force
         | the schmucks that work for them into long commutes.
        
         | snarf21 wrote:
         | I'm glad this works for you & others and that you are happy.
         | However, every time WFH comes up here, people present their
         | preferences as universally better or best. I hate WFH but that
         | is my preference. I really wish these discussions were more
         | about how happy people are that they now have a choice instead
         | of things being so authoritative.
         | 
         | For clarity, I enjoy having a hard separation between home and
         | work. If I'm at home, I'm more likely to be distracted with
         | chores instead of working. I leave my laptop at work so I don't
         | need to work off hours unless there is an emergency. I enjoy my
         | 30 minute commute. I listen to podcasts or design board games.
         | I understand I could do those at home, but I'm more likely to
         | just watch a show or something instead of dedicating time to
         | just listening to a podcast. I enjoy being around friends that
         | I've worked with off and on for over 20 years. We go to lunch
         | together and talk about life. Sometimes we play board games at
         | lunch. I enjoy collaborating over a white board trying to solve
         | a problem. It is _sooo_ much easier to do that in person. I
         | personally feel more part of a team in person than I do if we
         | just communicate via Slack. But these are just the things that
         | work for me. I don 't expect anyone else to feel the way I do
         | but there are lots of others out there like me too. I'm glad
         | more companies have options for those with a preference.
        
           | enjo wrote:
           | This is a really good point.
           | 
           | To add to it, WFH has one clear massive weakness: the lack of
           | face to face interaction leads to quite a bit of atrophy when
           | it comes to team cohesion. I've been managing WFH teams for
           | the better part of a decade and I've yet to find a
           | satisfactory solution other than getting people together
           | every couple of months to work on hard problems together and
           | build some trust.
           | 
           | I'm really bullish on the hybrid model right now. I think
           | having an office designed more like a co-working space that
           | can serve as a central meeting place for teams is what the
           | future of software development looks like. No expectation
           | that everyone is in the office every day, but rather
           | reimagine the office more as a place where people come
           | together when they really need (or want) too.
           | 
           | We're experimenting with that now in my organization and the
           | results so far are pretty good. Some people come in every
           | day. Some people come in every now and then. Others come in
           | when their teams needs them. We're continuing to use all of
           | the best practices for remote work and I think people are
           | finding a really good balance right now.
        
             | thethought wrote:
             | >>> atrophy
             | 
             | Have you consider team atrophy as a pre-existing/chronic
             | condition which maynot have cure?
        
             | greggman3 wrote:
             | I don't understand how the "work from the office one day a
             | week" thing would work. If you mandate it's the same day
             | for everyone then the office is empty 80% of the time.
             | That's a huge waste of money. If you don't mandate everyone
             | come in on the same day then all the benefits of being face
             | to face disappear because the person you need/want to be
             | face to face with chose a different day.
        
               | warkdarrior wrote:
               | As far as I know, no one is mandating that every comes in
               | the same day. So you can reduce the office space by some
               | percentage, assuming people come in on different days and
               | not all at once.
               | 
               | If you have 10 teams of 5 people each in an office, in a
               | 3/2 hybrid setting you can expect you'll have 30 people
               | in the office. You can pad that to go to 40 people in the
               | office on any given day -- this gives you a 20% reduction
               | in required office space.
        
               | FooHentai wrote:
               | It is for sure a challenge, especially where people work
               | across multiple teams and each team has a different
               | 'standard' office day. That unfortunate individual is now
               | compelled to come into the office multiple days.
               | 
               | And folks that work across teams like that are often
               | gluing the organisation together in subtle but vital
               | ways, so anything dis-incentivising it is a dark pattern.
        
             | dukeyukey wrote:
             | The way my team (informally, management isn't in it) was to
             | create a Discord with several rooms. If a couple of you are
             | working together, you can jump to a different room and
             | screen-share. If you want a chat, move to a busy room. If
             | you want to do some head-down work, mute and deafen. It's
             | been really valuable, especially for someone like me who
             | joined during lockdown.
        
           | b3morales wrote:
           | Well said. Indeed, the whole "battle" over WFH should be
           | about giving people the ability to choose what works best for
           | them, not forcing either option. And that may even change for
           | a particular person from year to year or job to job.
        
             | ghaff wrote:
             | I agree. But the "battle" is at least partly around:
             | 
             | - People who are technically allowed to WFH but who are
             | concerned that co-workers/managers will pressure them to
             | come in anyway and
             | 
             | - People who want to come back into an office most days but
             | don't want to come into a ghost town with most meetings
             | over video anyway.
        
               | coliveira wrote:
               | > People who want to come back into an office most days
               | but don't want to come into a ghost town with most
               | meetings over video anyway.
               | 
               | I think this battle is lost. Even if people go back to
               | offices, a lot of meetings will happen over video anyway.
               | This has been the norm in some large companies already.
        
               | lanstin wrote:
               | It's been considered best practice (at least according to
               | the people I follow on twitter) that if 1 person is
               | dialed in, the whole meeting is dialed in. The 5 people
               | at a table and some other people on Webex or whatever
               | just doesn't work.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | Yeah, I work with teams that have that as a rule. Pretty
               | clearly it's a best practice in most contexts. (There are
               | some exceptions like a scheduled on-site that someone
               | can't travel to but for most things.) My guess is that a
               | lot of people have noticed that video calls have been
               | working better during the pandemic because of this.
        
           | standardUser wrote:
           | If most people had an enjoyable 30 minute commute like you
           | do, there would be a lot more people who agree with you. It's
           | not that working in person doesn't have tons of meaningful
           | benefits (to most people), it's that 10 hours of miserable
           | commuting every week is such a soul-sucking curse that a lot
           | of people would trade almost anything to get rid of it.
        
             | _zamorano_ wrote:
             | I agree. In my case, living in a medium size city of Spain,
             | I get a 30 minute commute from to the office, driving on a
             | very good condition highway, on low-medium density traffic.
             | 
             | For me, a relaxing listening audiobooks while safely
             | driving is like a warm-up for my workday. An activity I
             | wouldn't have time otherwise.
             | 
             | And the same, in my way back home.
        
           | enraged_camel wrote:
           | >>I enjoy my 30 minute commute. I listen to podcasts or
           | design board games. I understand I could do those at home,
           | but I'm more likely to just watch a show or something instead
           | of dedicating time to just listening to a podcast.
           | 
           | You don't have to do them at home. Take a 20-30 minute walk
           | before work and it'll be the same thing, plus you'll also get
           | some exercise!
        
           | rwmj wrote:
           | As someone who has been working from home for 20 years, I've
           | come to realise you need to be set up for it. I've gone from
           | working in a spare bedroom to building a garden office, so
           | there really is a hard separation between home and work.
        
           | sgt wrote:
           | I have worked in IT for two decades and usually I spend some
           | time working on something in the evenings as well. If you
           | make a clear separation, it's hard to spend time on expanding
           | your knowledge, whether the goal is to use it for the next
           | day at work or for own personal programming / tech projects.
           | 
           | WFH lets me mix those two a lot more and become more
           | efficient. There's less interruptions since I am not going to
           | the office, and also I have supreme "quiet time" after work,
           | usually between 9pm and midnight.
        
         | teekert wrote:
         | All of this +:
         | 
         | I can just start calling people, no need to find a room with my
         | laptop where I only have the screen of that laptop, just to not
         | disturb the others in the open office.
         | 
         | I have breakfast with the kids, am home for package/groceries
         | deliveries.
         | 
         | I have much better relations with colleagues in other countries
         | because cam on is the default and we are not with a group of
         | locals and 2 people on cam. It's a big equalizer.
         | 
         | I like it like this and would be annoyed as well if this was
         | taken from me.
        
         | pentae wrote:
         | Not only that but when you combine it with having the freedom
         | to relocate to a low cost of living destination suit your
         | optimal lifestyle the benefits stack up even more.
         | 
         | For example living 15 minutes to world class hiking trails or
         | surf spots. Not having to take a flight or drive for hours each
         | way to go do those things on weekends you can now do them every
         | day before or after work. Getting to live in a large house out
         | in nature, far away from the city crowds.
         | 
         | It's a game changer
        
           | mlrtime wrote:
           | Many fully remote companies are giving reduction of pay from
           | HCOL cities... this still may work out but not always a
           | straight comparison.
        
         | earnesti wrote:
         | The biggest perk for me is the ability to hit that bong in a
         | middle of work day, while watching weird ass japanese hentai
         | with my surround sound home cinema.
        
           | Avalaxy wrote:
           | > The biggest perk for me is the ability to hit that bong in
           | a middle of work day
           | 
           | I'm not sure if you are being sarcastic, but how could you
           | possibly be productive after that?
        
             | cercatrova wrote:
             | It really depends on the type, certain strains can make one
             | more productive potentially. At least that's what I've
             | heard from others.
        
             | meowkit wrote:
             | Going along with the other reply to this comment, there are
             | a select few individuals who can handle low/medium doses of
             | sativa strains and be shockingly productive.
             | 
             | I use it for focusing on purely creative works, but I
             | definitely can't use it in a professional setting.
        
           | golergka wrote:
           | Depending on your company culture, you could do that in the
           | office as well. In some companies I worked at, weed brakes
           | were an everyday occurrence for engineering, but gamedev in
           | general and Tel Aviv in particular are a bit different from
           | the usual white-collar office culture.
        
             | 1_player wrote:
             | Though I'm sure the hentai lunch breaks aren't on the list
             | of perks at even the most relaxed of FAANGs. No idea
             | though, I'm pretty far removed from that world.
        
         | Wowfunhappy wrote:
         | A one hour commute is a very long commute.
         | 
         | Not an _uncommonly_ long commute, perhaps, but only because--
         | particularly in the US--we've made some really unfortunate
         | choices with regard to city planning. It shouldn't be this way.
        
           | ghaff wrote:
           | Pretty much anyplace where someone commutes into a city from
           | comfortably outside the city is going to have a substantial
           | commute. I'm actually very convenient to a decent commuter
           | rail system to a city with a good mass transit system. And it
           | would take me around 90 minutes door to door to commute in.
           | It would be shorter if I lived closer in but it would be hard
           | to be much under an hour.
        
             | ryukafalz wrote:
             | I was curious about this so had to check.
             | 
             | I live in a fairly large city with decent transit options
             | (for the US), and (notably) a high-speed commuter rail
             | system going into the city. I'm considering moving out of
             | the city in a year or so, and if I do I want to be
             | convenient to a station on that rail system.
             | 
             | Using a friend's address in the suburbs as a proxy (who
             | lives near where I might be moving), Google Maps puts the
             | travel time from there to my office at 32 minutes via
             | commuter rail. That's with an 8 minute walk and 11 minute
             | walk on either side, but if you assume a bike ride rather
             | than a walk I'd imagine you can cut each of those down by
             | at least half. The rail line has headways of a little under
             | 15 minutes at rush hour, so that could possibly extend the
             | trip a little bit if your timing's not perfect, but still
             | well under an hour.
             | 
             | Of course if you need multiple transfers to get to your
             | destination (and your local transit system doesn't have
             | very short headways) that will increase your travel time
             | substantially. The commuter line I'm thinking of takes you
             | right into the heart of the city where many jobs are though
             | (including my own) so that's not always a concern.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | That's probably an unusually good commuter rail system.
               | I'm about a 10 minute drive from a less frequent commuter
               | rail, so figure 15 minutes out the door until the
               | scheduled train comes. There don't seem to be any express
               | trains running right now so it's over an hour into the
               | city and that's assuming I don't need to catch a subway
               | on the other end--which I would have to do to go to my
               | company's city office. So, for me, at least 90 minutes--
               | and that's for someone fairly far out (it would also take
               | me a good 60 minutes to go in by car with nominal traffic
               | but more like 90 anywhere near rush hour even leaving
               | early) but convenient to a rail line.
               | 
               | I actually did this for a time, fortunately not every day
               | but frequently enough. Wouldn't really have been
               | sustainable long term.
        
             | Wowfunhappy wrote:
             | The inherent problem here is that you work in the city, but
             | don't live in the city. I think that with better housing
             | policies (namely, better density), this would be far less
             | common.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | That presupposes one wants to live in "better density." A
               | lot of people who work in cities have no desire to live
               | there. (Or they have a partner who works in the suburbs,
               | want the better suburban school options, etc.)
        
               | Wowfunhappy wrote:
               | IMO, that also falls under "city planning". Why do the
               | suburbs have better schools? Maybe if we had better
               | public parks, people wouldn't feel the need to have
               | individual private backyards? Etcetera.
               | 
               | Now, sure, if your partner works XX miles in the opposite
               | direction from you, and/or you have some other unique
               | community attachment, and you can't change jobs, you're
               | always going to have a long commute, and that's a life
               | choice you're going to have to make. But there's no
               | reason that should be the norm.
        
               | ryukafalz wrote:
               | It's not like the only two options are cities and
               | sprawling car-dependent suburbs. (Well okay, in the _US_
               | those are mostly the only two options.) That suburb I
               | mentioned in a sibling comment thread with the 30-minute
               | rail commute is a town of about 13,000, houses there
               | generally have backyards (though not huge front yards),
               | there are plenty of quiet side streets, it 's still
               | walkable, etc. It's an "in between" kind of density. The
               | problem is we've mostly legislated these places out of
               | existence; you can't build places like this anymore in
               | almost all of the US. I just happen to be in an area that
               | was built up before modern zoning codes prevented it.
               | 
               | This video is a good overview:
               | https://youtu.be/MWsGBRdK2N0
               | 
               | Of course, if you _want_ to live super far away from the
               | city and drive in, that 's fine, I just wish that wasn't
               | basically the only option besides living right in the
               | city. Places like this still exist, and I think there's a
               | lot of demand for them, but because they're not expanding
               | (again, legislated away) the cost of living there will
               | just keep going up because supply will never increase.
        
               | jxidjhdhdhdhfhf wrote:
               | I would love for more of the housing you are talking
               | about to exist, but one has to deal with reality as it
               | currently exists even while working to change it.
        
               | ryukafalz wrote:
               | Yes, that's true. But you do also need to work to change
               | it, or it won't change.
               | 
               | Unfortunately that probably means that if you have a city
               | job, for now you'll be stuck with either long commutes,
               | living right in the city, or expensive housing in the
               | remaining walkable suburbs.
               | 
               | Or you can move somewhere that has already figured this
               | out. :) But I understand that's out of reach for many
               | people; it's out of reach for me.
        
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           | jandrese wrote:
           | It's the kind of commute where you have said you don't want
           | to be a renter for your entire life nor devote your entire
           | paycheck to the mortgage.
           | 
           | That said, I actually like my commute that is 30 minutes of
           | bike followed by 30 minutes on the train. I get exercise in
           | the morning and evening and make steady progress on my
           | backlog of books.
           | 
           | I would hate it if I was driving. That's just wasted time.
        
         | dekhn wrote:
         | Yep. I just changed jobs to have a shorter commute to support
         | my wife and children better, and also expect to only be in the
         | office ~3 days a week.
         | 
         | Working from home has been an absolute boon to me. I've done
         | partial WFH for my entire career and it feels totally natural
         | to me. I do miss being in the office, maybe once a week or so.
        
         | michaelbuckbee wrote:
         | The biggest one in this is the 10 hours per week of commute,
         | which if anything actually is a lower estimate of the "all in"
         | time commuting takes.
         | 
         | In a normal job that's 25% of your time that's flatly
         | uncompensated, who would opt for that.
        
           | hervature wrote:
           | Another equivalent view point is that your commute was being
           | compensated and that now employers will begin to pay less as
           | the supply of people who are willing to work remote increase.
        
         | whoomp12342 wrote:
         | I can microwave fish and have no shade thrown at me
        
         | subpixel wrote:
         | I recently committed to a 40m commute for the next three years
         | to take my young child to our chosen school. I rented a desk
         | near the school b/c of course 40m is too far for multiple
         | round-trips each day.
         | 
         | I used to commute an hour pre-pandemic so I thought, how bad
         | can it be?
         | 
         | Let me tell you - after a year of working at home, any commute
         | feels like a giant waste of time and energy, which of course it
         | is. I cherish the time with by child, but being strapped into a
         | car seat in the back of the car is hardly quality time.
        
           | shkkmo wrote:
           | My first response is: Your poor kid has to be strapped into a
           | car seat for an hour and a half every day? That sounds
           | aweful.
        
             | plank_time wrote:
             | You sound like you need to learn more empathy and how to be
             | less judgmental.
        
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             | subpixel wrote:
             | We live in a paradise that is closer to a puffin colony
             | than the nearest streetlight, so we accept the rough edges.
        
         | dougmwne wrote:
         | I've been doing WFH for 5 years and feel like the rest of the
         | world just caught on. In addition to what you mention:
         | 
         | - Control of food. No more bagels or carb dumping ground. No
         | more limited food options. My own kitchen.
         | 
         | - Control of equipment. Need a 4k monitor? Need a trackball? No
         | approvals needed.
         | 
         | - Control of ergonomics. Get exactly the chair you need. Get an
         | electric height adjustable desk without going through
         | facilities.
         | 
         | - Control temperature. Never be too hot or cold.
         | 
         | - So many great options for breaks. Walk down the street.
         | Meditate in the garden. Play Beatsaber. Take a nap, naps are
         | magic.
         | 
         | - Control your lighting. Good color temperature and comfortable
         | brightness make the space more relaxing and can aid sleep and
         | wakefulness.
         | 
         | - The ultimate corner office. Privacy and separate space that
         | you can personalize to your heart's content.
         | 
         | - Location flexibility. Work from a beach rental. Do a city-
         | stay near a WeWork. Find a mountain cabin with high speed
         | internet. Move to a new state without having to change jobs.
         | 
         | - Finances. Live in a low tax state. Have an older car. Spend
         | less on clothes, lunches, parking, gas, tolls. Live in cheaper
         | square footage without worrying about what it does to your
         | commute.
         | 
         | - Stress. More emotional speration between you and your work.
         | Relationships are through Zoom and require less emotional
         | investment. Work forms less a part of your identity and
         | changing it involves fewer changes to your daily routine.
         | 
         | - Caffeine. With more tools to manage your wakefulness, less
         | need to lean on the crutch of caffeine. For me, less caffeine
         | means less alcohol as well.
         | 
         | Other people are free to have their opinions that they don't
         | like WFH or can't wait to get back into the office. For me, I
         | really struggle to understand how you cannot love it. With
         | total control of my environment, I can easily correct for minor
         | downsides such as needing to maintain work-life balance and
         | good social connections. After years of optimization, I have a
         | better quality of life than our CEO. I'd be insane to give it
         | up.
        
           | jes5199 wrote:
           | I actually went through really severe caffeine withdrawal
           | last year, it turns out that the always-ready coffeepot at
           | our coworking space was keeping me way, way more caffeinated
           | that I could reasonably do at home
           | 
           | I also spent the year stressed out by the endless stream of
           | Slack messages, eating poorly, forgetting to take breaks, and
           | slumped on a couch rather that bothering to use my nice
           | ergonomic chair, so, YMMV
        
           | nonameiguess wrote:
           | The other thing I don't see mentioned enough is the impact on
           | disabled people. Thanks to spine issues, I can't comfortably
           | drive. That has limited me to either working where a train
           | line goes or at the same place with my wife where I can
           | carpool with her as a passenger. WFH is one of the most
           | freeing things that has ever happened to me. It not only
           | frees me to work anywhere, but it also means I don't need to
           | take as frequent breaks. I used to have to work at places
           | that could accommodate my need to lay down to decompress
           | several times a day, and that meant I couldn't do any actual
           | work during that time. At home, I can much more easily keep
           | working from bed when sitting or standing gets too painful.
        
             | wayoutthere wrote:
             | Not just disability -- basically everyone in every
             | marginalized group is doing better working from home. My
             | queer friends are thriving in this environment. You don't
             | have to code switch online to the same degree you do in
             | real life, and it gave people time to consider the
             | cognitive and emotional toll that code switching takes.
             | 
             | Like, I'm trans and have kept it hidden most of my career.
             | It's always been hard on me, because I have to carefully
             | curate my image because if I don't I opened myself to
             | discrimination if people could tell.
             | 
             | I started a new job during the pandemic and went full-on
             | "fuck it" mode and I couldn't be happier. Joined the LGBT
             | ERG and helped organize some of the younger trans people at
             | my company into pushing for expanded healthcare benefits (I
             | don't need them personally, but they will). I don't think I
             | would have found the energy to do any of this if I was also
             | worried about how I was being perceived by others -- all
             | that energy would have gone into creating an illusion
             | that's acceptable to the people who do my reviews and sign
             | my paychecks.
        
               | anonu wrote:
               | What is code switching? I know what it means in the
               | context of being bilingual. But I don't think I
               | understand what you're saying here...
        
               | jreese wrote:
               | I can't speak for the GP commenter, but from my own
               | experience being non-binary, I have to expend cognitive
               | energy every morning thinking about what I'll be doing
               | that day (what meetings, any errands, etc), before
               | deciding what clothes I can wear. If I'm staying home all
               | day, with no meetings, or only meeting with trusted
               | colleagues, I will dress differently than a day where I
               | need to go to a store, or if I need to meet with
               | coworkers I've never met before.
               | 
               | For trans people, just existing without conflict or
               | judgement from others is a constant struggle between
               | society's normative expectations and the desire to
               | express who you really are.
        
               | handrous wrote:
               | It's also applied to switching dialect, word choice, and
               | even accent. Lots of people in the US who grow up with
               | any kind of regional or ethnic accent or English-variant
               | end up being capable of code-switching to Standard
               | American English, especially if they move around much
               | and/or attend school somewhere outside the area where
               | their dialect is normal, though even regional schools
               | will provide some social pressure to avoid non-standard
               | accents or dialects that are common in their areas. AAVE
               | (African-American Vernacular English) is a commonly-cited
               | variant from which one may wish (or feel strong pressure)
               | to code-switch to SAE, but similar (if less race-fraught,
               | so perhaps not directly comparable) pressure exists for
               | people with strong Bostonian or Appalachian or rural-
               | midwestern accents, or most anything other than SAE.
               | 
               | The positive reason for this, is that it allows
               | potentially extreme variants and dialects to co-exist
               | while letting everyone still communicate clearly with
               | others (by code-switching to whatever's considered
               | standard). The down-side is that it often exists
               | alongside negative stereotypes about those who can't, or
               | choose not to, code-switch to SAE (but, of course,
               | refusing to becomes its own counter-signal for very high
               | status--Fussell, for instance, observes that adhering to
               | SAE is a middle-class and up tendency, but _not_ among
               | "old money" or his "top-out-of-sight" rich, since they
               | don't need, at any point in their life, to give a damn
               | whether some employer or other gate-keeper judges them
               | worthy or intelligent or whatever).
        
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             | bdcravens wrote:
             | I have cystic fibrosis. It's fairly mild, but I do have to
             | do daily breathing treatments, and it's so nice to be able
             | to take care of those needs while working. To say nothing
             | of when I'm ill but can still be fairly productive around
             | rest. I've even gotten work done from the hospital during
             | an admission.
        
           | ilaksh wrote:
           | I've been doing WFH for the better part of ten years. So beat
           | you. Lol.
           | 
           | But it is kind of vindicating seeing people everywhere start
           | to have the same philosophy. It makes me hopeful that other
           | good things may catch on in the future eventually.
           | 
           | The next stage is possibly moving somewhere with a lower cost
           | of living. Been spending most time in Mexico for almost three
           | years.
        
             | enobrev wrote:
             | I've been WFH for 20 years (by the end of this year).
             | 
             | I've considered moving for a lower cost of living or living
             | the "nomad" life, but I honestly prefer big crazy cities
             | with tons of people and endless possibilities every day.
             | 
             | And so I've lived in big cities the whole time and have
             | loved every minute of it. I pay more, and I charge more,
             | and generally try to make sure my clients aren't local so
             | they don't suddenly get the crazy idea that I should pop
             | into the office. But, even when they are local, I keep
             | office visits to a minimum (once per month or less).
             | 
             | It's been pretty great to see so many start to see the
             | delights of working from home. It get that it's not for
             | everyone. I'm positive it's for a lot of us.
        
               | dougmwne wrote:
               | I don't optimize for cost, I optimize for quality of
               | life. I'm a semi-nomad and try to be in places that offer
               | family, friends, walkability, and nature.
        
           | Mauricebranagh wrote:
           | So your buying a "4k Monitor" and office equipment for your
           | employer - how generous.
           | 
           | Or are you renting them access to your equipment :-)
        
             | stormking wrote:
             | I save 160 Euros per month by not commuting. I invested 3
             | months of these savings in a height-adjustable desk and a
             | 4K monitor. The 90 minutes time each day I keep for myself.
             | I wouldn't call that a bad deal.
        
               | Mauricebranagh wrote:
               | Your literally saying that giving your employer money is
               | a good idea.
               | 
               | I "invested" my commute savings savings in a Tudor GMT
               | watch my ISA and some bullion
        
               | throwaway98797 wrote:
               | some people are pragmatic. others think pragmatists are
               | suckers.
               | 
               | who's happier?
        
             | dougmwne wrote:
             | It is my equipment. I am not buying it for them, I am
             | buying it for me. My health, my back health, my eye health,
             | my wrist health, and my comfort are 100% worth the
             | investment. I don't expect any company to take care of my
             | health for me. I take care of it myself. Are you renting
             | your company access to your car when you drive in? If so, I
             | guarantee you spend more than I do.
        
               | Mauricebranagh wrote:
               | Sorry Doug how did you get so brain washed its the
               | employers responsibility to provide this, you know they
               | should be inspecting your home for H&S
               | 
               | And when I worked in high end rnd if we brought kit on
               | behalf of a client to use on their projects we charged
               | them AND A 25% MANAGMENT FEE.
               | 
               | The company is not your friend as people often say on
               | here but buying equipment for them is OK FFS
        
               | BlargMcLarg wrote:
               | Which also comes with all the hubbub which was already
               | mentioned before. Freedom of choice comes with the burden
               | of payment.
               | 
               | Here's an idea: instead of expecting the employer to
               | provide more than a basic level of ergonomics and
               | potentially having to go through all the bureaucratic and
               | mental hoops, both on receiving and on returning, we
               | just.. pay the employees more money so they can decide
               | for themselves.
               | 
               | Why you're putting this in the frame of "employer is not
               | your friend" is beyond me, no one was framing it that way
               | to begin with. If anything, it is _because_ we can 't
               | expect employers to deliver beyond a basic level and
               | introducing all these rules to make it harder, that it
               | makes more sense to bite the bullet up front and be in
               | control.
        
               | dougmwne wrote:
               | I get the idea you are in the UK and I think that
               | accounts for a significant difference. In the US,
               | employers have very little legal or ethical obligation to
               | their employees. Decades of pro-business lobbying have
               | basically solidified our status as an exploitable
               | resource that companies can use up and dispose of "at
               | will". An employee lives and dies by their share of
               | political capital. I could use my political capital to
               | try to get home office equipment, but the $500 I might
               | have been able to expense is really not worth it in
               | comparison to other perks I might be able to "purchase"
               | with my political capital instead. These asks need to be
               | carefully considered. A team mate asked for an ergonomic
               | chair and was denied. I have asked for far more valuable
               | things and been allowed.
        
               | weasel_words wrote:
               | In addition to all you said, you mentioned your car...do
               | they also pay you for your commute time? Of course not.
               | 
               | Say you have a 1hr each way...2 hours/day, 5 days/week,
               | 48 weeks/year, $100/hr: $100 * 2 * 5 * 48 = $48,000. WFH
               | literally just saved you $48k of billable time.
               | 
               | Buying a 4k monitor (that you can also use for non-work
               | activities) on your own dime is probably reasonable.
        
               | Mauricebranagh wrote:
               | There are specific carve outs in employment law and car
               | insurance for commutes. Try using your personal vehicle
               | for work with out additional have an accident and your
               | insurer will wash their hands of you.
        
               | bradlys wrote:
               | Most people can do this in their office. Unless you're
               | hotswapping (uncommon in my experience) then you can just
               | bring whatever equipment you want in. We had plenty of
               | people do that at all the jobs I've worked at.
        
               | spear wrote:
               | I brought in my own mechanical keyboard to the office. It
               | has clicky keys so it's not quiet. I haven't gotten any
               | complaints yet, but that could change depending on who my
               | next cubicle neighbor might be.
        
               | mulmen wrote:
               | This is the social equivalent of the opt-out dark
               | pattern. A lack of complaints should never be interpreted
               | as approval. Generally people try to be agreeable and
               | avoid conflict. You clearly know that people do not like
               | your keyboard but you are putting the burden on them to
               | ask you to stop. You have made a decision that
               | internalizes the benefits but externalizes the costs.
        
               | spear wrote:
               | I did ask my co-workers. No one complained.
               | 
               | You are otherwise reinforcing the point that you can't
               | just bring whatever equipment you want to the office, as
               | the parent poster claimed.
        
               | mulmen wrote:
               | Asking them is still putting the burden on them to be
               | disagreeable.
               | 
               | I am reinforcing no such point. I bring my own keyboard
               | but it isn't noisy. I also bring my own mouse.
        
               | spear wrote:
               | I didn't say my keyboard was noisy. For someone who gives
               | advice on being agreeable, you sure make a lot of
               | malicious assumptions.
        
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               | unsui wrote:
               | I don't think this is accurate.
               | 
               | Some professionals, notably those whose work culture
               | encourages self-determination, can be allowed to bring in
               | their own hardware or request custom hardware. These are
               | usually the outliers, rather than the norm (and in fact,
               | this is often advertised as a "perk" of being employed at
               | that particular place).
               | 
               | The vast majority of corporate environments are rather
               | locked down and standardized, understandably, with one-
               | size-fits-all or a set menu of tech provisions, depending
               | on role (e.g., designers often get larger screens than
               | accountants).
               | 
               | Even as a developer, I had to fight for larger screens
               | for my team, as IT saw no inherent need for larger
               | screens beyond what they initially provisioned.
               | 
               | Contrast that with my WFH setup, with my 3-monitor setup
               | on a 7-foot standing desk...
        
               | bradlys wrote:
               | Okay? But I've never been in an office or seen one where
               | they banned bringing in your own equipment. Even in
               | places that had the set menu for different roles. If you
               | had some stuff you wanted to bring in, go for it.
        
               | LevGoldstein wrote:
               | I've worked in several in larger/Fortune 500 companies,
               | including one where the desk setups were handled by a
               | labor union, any changes required multiple approvals, and
               | DIYing anything (using personal equipment or even
               | adjusting the existing desk position or height) was a
               | rules violation and prohibited. You wouldn't be able to
               | get past security with personal equipment larger than
               | what could fit in your pocket, and carrying so much as a
               | monitor or laptop that didn't have a company barcode on
               | it already would get you stopped.
               | 
               | So yeah, these sorts of workplaces exist and thousands of
               | people have to contend with their on-site limitations.
        
               | Miner49er wrote:
               | Even if allowed, if you want similar equipment at home
               | and in the office you'd have to buy two of it all, or
               | tear it down and take it home with you every night. If
               | you just work from home you don't have that problem.
        
               | bradlys wrote:
               | Alternative - you just work at the office... then this
               | isn't an issue either. See how that works? ;)
        
               | ArchOversight wrote:
               | Some places don't allow you to bring in your own
               | equipment, and there is an approved list of equipment
               | that you can buy from.
               | 
               | So unless the item is listed on that list, you are SOL.
        
               | bradlys wrote:
               | I've never run into this personally. And I've worked in
               | some old ass enterprise type companies. Maybe for high
               | security clearance places this is an issue or
               | something...
               | 
               | I wouldn't focus on niche places that do this though as
               | an arguing point. It may as well be, "but some chipotle's
               | don't offer guacamole. So, ya know, can't rely on it."
               | Might be true but sounds rare.
        
               | ArchOversight wrote:
               | I've worked at old-school telcos and startups alike.
               | 
               | It was acceptable to bring your own keyboard and mouse to
               | two out of the five companies, other than that, no other
               | hardware was allowed to be brought in. So you are stuck
               | with the monitors provided, with the rest of the hardware
               | that was provided, and while you could bring in limited
               | ergonomic stuff, you were also limited to whatever office
               | furniture was available.
        
               | NateEag wrote:
               | I worked for a US health insurance company for a while,
               | and they were almost this strict.
               | 
               | People got away with breaking some of the rules, but it
               | was definitely a risk - it was theoretically grounds for
               | dismissal to bring in your own hardware, IIRC, let alone
               | to run unapproved software.
               | 
               | The concern in that case was a PHI (personal health
               | information) breach, which could bring the wrath of the
               | US judicial system down on the company.
               | 
               | So, not top-secret or anything like that, but still very
               | conservative and with decent reasons to be so.
        
               | bradlys wrote:
               | Huh - I worked in health with HIPPA data issues as well -
               | never had this hardware specific issue. But, we were a
               | group of software engineers who weren't idiots - so... we
               | understood that bringing our own monitor or
               | keyboard/mouse wasn't likely to do anything and not a
               | real risk.
        
           | kat wrote:
           | I liked how to worded "emotional separation" The reduction in
           | my stress has been amazing, especially considering we've been
           | in the middle of covid. My moods are way better regulated
           | now. I'm no longer trying to ignore my angry office mate
           | who's muttering under his breath. I didn't realize how much
           | upset people influence my own mood. I thought I was good at
           | ignoring angry people, but the action of ignoring took up a
           | lot more energy than I previously thought. My biggest worry
           | about back-to-office is how I'm going to managed my increased
           | stress levels.
        
             | dougmwne wrote:
             | I am the same way. I am very sensitive to the emotional
             | states of the people around me. I think most people are. A
             | stressful office environment was a pressure cooker where we
             | stewed all day in each other's stress hormones. My stress
             | was off the charts.
        
             | blablabla123 wrote:
             | Same, the whole elbow office politics is definitely much
             | smoother. I had a few situations where a work colleague
             | would try to convince me in joining his angry crusade when
             | we had a call. But from home it's much easier to distance
             | from that or just escape the call. No more people coming
             | unannounced to me asking me for unreasonable work tasks. I
             | will very likely switch if office presence becomes
             | mandatory again.
        
           | criddell wrote:
           | I loved working from home because it allowed me more time
           | with my dog. His need to be taken outside occasionally was a
           | perfect reminder for me to take a break. Plus, the light
           | snoring coming from under my desk was super comforting.
           | 
           | While I was more productive at home, I think that came at a
           | cost to others that I work with. Every interruption that I
           | avoided while WFH is a slowdown for somebody I work with.
           | 
           | I'm back in the office again but I'm hoping that I can one
           | day arrange to work from home most days and only occasionally
           | come into the office.
        
           | ravenstine wrote:
           | - Exercise!
           | 
           | In my home office, I've got pushup stands, a pull-up bar,
           | suspension straps, an ab roller, yoga mat, resistance bands,
           | and some dumbells that I use in those moments while something
           | is compiling. No back pain for years and I'm in great shape.
           | 
           | If I did this in an office, I'd get endless remarks and
           | cocked eyes, eventually being told by a superior that my
           | "coworkers find that a little weird". (i.e. stop doing that)
        
             | Guest42 wrote:
             | Same here, when the gyms closed I immediately bought the
             | equipment I use and it made for a much better work
             | experience and home experience as there is the extra time
             | from not going to the office or the gym. It's also more
             | peaceful to exercise in quiet rather than get blasted by
             | loud ads all the time.
        
             | weasel_words wrote:
             | I do this too! It's especially great when I'm starting to
             | doze but don't want a full nap...I can hop up and do a set
             | of _whatever_. After that, I 'm good to go!
        
             | tomjakubowski wrote:
             | This is a cultural thing that varies a bit. It wouldn't be
             | unusual to spot workout equipment at or around an
             | engineer's desk in sports and fitness tech.
        
           | cfontes wrote:
           | I've worked from home for 3 years, than office for 2 and now
           | back to home because of COVID and I moved to another
           | continent.
           | 
           | I have some points on the not good column
           | 
           | - If you have kids, it is hard to focus sometimes, specially
           | small ones.
           | 
           | - Sometimes your SO forgets you are not "Home" and this also
           | can be bad, as it can create stress between you 2.
           | 
           | - I miss software design sessions with my team, we would go
           | thru issues 2x faster being together.
           | 
           | - Onboarding new team members is a lot harder and they feel
           | less part of the "team"
           | 
           | Last one is building culture remotely is a skill a handful of
           | people have, until now at least. So this also becomes a
           | mess...
           | 
           | For me the perfect balance is to be at the office once a
           | week.
        
             | amelius wrote:
             | > If you have kids, it is hard to focus sometimes,
             | specially small ones.
             | 
             | This is what can happen when you WFH with small children:
             | 
             | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mh4f9AYRCZY
        
               | mcbuilder wrote:
               | This is true, the thing is kids grow up and then that
               | stage is gone. With my oldest and second I missed so
               | much, not something I would want to repeat again with my
               | current 18 month old. Kids settle down as they get older,
               | and I'd much rather have a quick play distraction than
               | the annoying conversations that you get sucked into
               | around the water cooler. And I'd also rather get locked
               | into WFH roles now and put up with the young kid noises
               | now with the long-term payoff of less distractions. How
               | many of us are newscasters anyway? I've given up even
               | instructing my wife to take the kids out unless it's a
               | really important presentation, because so many of my co-
               | workers are in the same boat.
        
               | genghisjahn wrote:
               | Every freaking day.
        
             | Unbeliever69 wrote:
             | Great commentary. Regarding 'I miss software design
             | sessions with my team, we would go thru issues 2x faster
             | being together.' My team struggled with this at first,
             | mainly because we had a massive markerboarding wall in the
             | office. We tried setting up whiteboards in our home offices
             | and doing some whiteboard sharing. There was just something
             | about marker on markerboard paint we missed. Then we found
             | Miro which allowed us to virtually markerboard remotely and
             | asynchronously with ease. It doesn't hurt that our video
             | conferencing app Whereby has Miro share feature so we do it
             | directly within Whereby and not have to context-switch so
             | much.
        
             | saurik wrote:
             | As a kid who grew up with a father who worked from home, I
             | will say I loved it, though. I knew I shouldn't bother him
             | much while he's working... but I could if I really needed
             | to, and he was around if something important happened. His
             | flexible working conditions also meant he could be a part
             | of everything and take you places and then you'd want to do
             | something he'd find boring and he'd just say "I'll sit on
             | this bench, come get me when you're done" and he'd put in a
             | half hour of work in the middle of nowhere as _he could_
             | (his job also was for a company half a world away, and so
             | he didn 't really need to be in contact with them
             | constantly--pre-Internet--or work very specific hours). So
             | like... it might be a bit harder on you--particularly when
             | the kid is young enough to not understand "work"--but I
             | feel incredibly lucky that my father did that (and like, he
             | actually was gone three months of the year to work for that
             | company "in the office"... but I still feel like I got much
             | more of a father than anyone else I knew).
        
               | cfontes wrote:
               | Yes, familywise it's great, I just came back from a 1h
               | lunch break on the beach digging sand castles for a good
               | 30 minutes of it with them all, something impossible with
               | any other setup.
        
               | greggman3 wrote:
               | Not impossible at all. I know two companies near the
               | beach where people surf during lunch.
        
               | saurik wrote:
               | With their kids?
        
               | cfontes wrote:
               | Shit are you the "saurik"? Oh man, thanks for all the
               | work you put into Cydia and all that. Seriously you are
               | awesome.
               | 
               | This is why HN is special!
        
               | greggman3 wrote:
               | Yes, their kids and spouse come to that beach
        
               | Wowfunhappy wrote:
               | Sorry, I'm too young, I have a feeling this question will
               | seem very dumb to older folks--what work can you do
               | remotely without the internet?
               | 
               | I guess a lot of stuff happened over the phone? If you
               | write a document, how do you send it to others? Did he
               | use a fax machine, maybe?
        
               | DubiousPusher wrote:
               | Any intellectual work that typically traded on paper.
               | 
               | -Design jobs like architecture and drafting
               | 
               | -Small device repairs (where the device is high value and
               | can be mailed)
               | 
               | -Creative labor like copy writing, editing, etc
               | 
               | Also, where I grew up in rural Montana, a lot of jobs
               | that are considered to require an office but which can be
               | done over the phone were worked remotely up until
               | recently. Sales in many industries was done over the
               | phone with people stationed throughout the Western U.S.
               | states, each managing about a 100,000-300,000 sq mi area.
        
               | saurik wrote:
               | The answer to your direct question is, in fact, "fax".
               | The digital fax machines that started to come out were
               | able to send documents without much loss and then print
               | multiple copies of them (rather than essentially
               | attaching a modem directly to a glorified receipt printer
               | like earlier ones had).
               | 
               | He had a Palm Pilot he would scribble on a lot to work
               | out of the house when those became a thing, and he had
               | one of the first actually-portable laptop computers. We
               | (he involved me in a lot of his process of learning tech)
               | tested out early tablet computing devices (running
               | Windows 3.0 "for Handwriting" ;P).
        
             | lliamander wrote:
             | > For me the perfect balance is to be at the office once a
             | week.
             | 
             | Out of necessity I've been WFH for the past 2 years. While
             | overall I have enjoyed working from home, the issues you
             | describe are real. Once it is no longer necessary for me to
             | be WFH full time, I think one day a week in the office
             | would be ideal.
        
               | ljm wrote:
               | I'd go further and say, make both optional. Come to the
               | office space when you need it, stay at home when you
               | don't. Once a week? Twice a week? Every day? Once a month
               | or never? Doesn't matter.
               | 
               | Maybe some things would need to change in terms of what
               | office space is leased, and the capacity, in order to
               | manage the cost.
        
               | lliamander wrote:
               | I think there's value in consistency in terms of setting
               | expectations (both for my family and for my colleagues)
               | the the flexibility to determine what that consistency
               | looks like is key.
        
               | Apocryphon wrote:
               | Alternatively, what about work from "home" where you work
               | at a nearby cafe or co-working space or even the library
               | or a university?
        
               | greggman3 wrote:
               | My company would very much not want others to see my
               | unannounced work.
        
               | lbhdc wrote:
               | You need to get one of those screen protectors that
               | prevents people from seeing your screen form different
               | angles, and make sure you get that corner seat.
        
               | Apocryphon wrote:
               | Yeah, companies with strict security measures dutifully
               | provide them for free.
        
             | selykg wrote:
             | > Sometimes your SO forgets you are not "Home" and this
             | also can be bad, as it can create stress between you 2.
             | 
             | Simple solution, put a sign on the door that indicates you
             | are working and only to interrupt if it's important. You
             | can still set boundaries here without it being an issue. Be
             | creative, talk it out with your SO.
             | 
             | This can help when kids get old enough to understand as
             | well, but admittedly won't work with small children.
             | 
             | > miss software design sessions with my team, we would go
             | thru issues 2x faster being together.
             | 
             | I think this is something that can be solved with software
             | but it'll take some time to develop workflows that work for
             | everyone. Talk to your team to try to find ways you can
             | optimize.
             | 
             | > - Onboarding new team members is a lot harder and they
             | feel less part of the "team"
             | 
             | This comes down to the culture, which is your last part.
             | 
             | You can help new members feel included in simple ways. Or
             | simply include them in decisions and discussions is
             | helpful. Really it's the same as when you're working in the
             | same location. You just have to be proactive about
             | including someone that you're not seeing. This is more on
             | you and less on the new person.
        
               | antman wrote:
               | > Simple solution, put a sign on the door
               | 
               | Who said anything about a door? We dont have two spare
               | rooms really.
        
               | irrational wrote:
               | Yeah, I've been working out of the living room all
               | pandemic.
               | 
               | We are actually moving soon primarily so that I can have
               | an office.
        
               | djrogers wrote:
               | That's another thing that a permanent WFH mindset can
               | solve - move. I've been WFH for ~20 years, and can't
               | imagine giving up the freedom I have in selecting a home.
               | 
               | I still live in the Bay Area, but it's a 45min (no
               | traffic) to ~1:45hr (typical) commute to the South Bay.
               | It'd be hard to do this every day, but I don't have to.
               | 
               | As a result, I get to live on huge chunk of land, with an
               | office to call my own, for the same $$ I'd spend on a
               | 4br/3ba 'normal' house in San Jose.
        
               | sidlls wrote:
               | I don't know that someone who can afford a multimillion
               | dollar home is working the same kind of job that 99% of
               | the rest of the world works.
        
               | vineyardmike wrote:
               | +1
               | 
               | I suspect anyone that _enjoys_ living in a high cost of
               | living city (SF, NYC, etc) and isn't obscenely wealthy is
               | working from their living or bedroom. If you're not
               | living alone, WFH becomes a lot harder.
               | 
               | I would prefer to live in SF and go to the office
               | (because my house/apt is too small) than live elsewhere
               | but be able to afford a house with a dedicated room for
               | an office.
        
               | asadlionpk wrote:
               | How about a middleground solution: Live close to SF (say
               | San Mateo, ~30 mins to SF)? That way you can get
               | dedicated room for office and be in proximity to the
               | city.
        
               | vineyardmike wrote:
               | Isn't that worst of both worlds?
               | 
               | Still EXPENSIVE as hell, and no big open spaces to
               | yourself, but also still not a quick stroll to all the
               | world-class amenities of SF.
               | 
               | Maybe it varies for other people, but when i think of
               | "live in to enjoy the city" i think 2 blocks from enough
               | food to never cook again, new bars every friday, a quick
               | transit ride to almost any activity i could want - and no
               | car ownership needed. Its a lifestyle of living out of
               | the city as a communal space, not a destination to visit
               | on weekends.
        
             | irrational wrote:
             | > Onboarding new team members is a lot harder and they feel
             | less part of the "team"
             | 
             | On the other hand, we onboarded someone who lives in
             | Vermont (the rest of the team is in the same town on the
             | west coast) and since we are all working remotely, other
             | than changing his working hours to align with our own, you
             | can't tell the difference between him and us.
        
             | ilaksh wrote:
             | Those are all good points. Which is why I think we need to
             | distinguish between different actual situations when we
             | talk about this stuff.
             | 
             | The fact that you are not going to the office is too broad
             | of a category. I mean just look at the name, work from
             | home, and it is misleading right there.
             | 
             | You may need to look into a co-working space or other
             | option to get out of the house with so many distractions.
             | 
             | It's also going to be totally different for people who have
             | no kids or who are employing nannies or day care to occupy
             | the children.
             | 
             | The software design sessions thing, I absolutely do not buy
             | the idea that this cannot be done remotely. Use a Zoom
             | meeting, one of the many collaborative whiteboarding
             | sites/programs and get people Wacom tablets if desired. But
             | just a chat room, phone call, Discord voice channel, etc.
             | should actually be adequate most of the time.
             | 
             | For onboarding and culture, just because people are not
             | coming into the office does not mean that it has to turn
             | into a free for all. You can still have rules about being
             | around at a certain time or using certain software or video
             | calls or whatever you feel you need to keep people
             | integrated or whatever. The only thing that needs to be
             | different is the literal physical presence of the person.
             | Virtual presence can still be facilitated and required if
             | you feel it is necessary.
        
             | myohmy wrote:
             | I've onboarded a few people over the pandemic and that's
             | really the only downside. I can't really gauge their mood
             | while pair coding over zoom. So its harder to pick up on
             | where they are struggling to keep up.
             | 
             | All that has meant is that ramp up time is a little slower.
             | And I can come into the office for 2 weeks for the two
             | times a year we onboard people. Hell, if we did an office
             | rental then neither of us would have to commute into town.
             | It may be shocking to hear, but new people typically live
             | in the outskirts where housing is cheap. Right next to
             | where I live...
        
           | Wowfunhappy wrote:
           | > - Control of equipment. Need a 4k monitor? Need a
           | trackball? No approvals needed.
           | 
           | No approvals, but you have to pay for it.
           | 
           | Prior to COVID, I used vacation time every summer to work at
           | an academic summer camp for three weeks. Most of the other
           | staff members--largely college students--had to go through
           | this dumb supply request system whenever they wanted
           | materials for an activity. I just ordered whatever I wanted
           | off Amazon, which was expensive, but I figured I was
           | technically on a sort of weird vacation, so screw it.
           | 
           | My point being, you can make this trade-off in many
           | workplaces. Working from home just normalizes it--and
           | sometimes removes the choice.
        
             | leetrout wrote:
             | I've had places not allow personal equipment to be brought
             | in so it wouldn't be their fault if it was stolen.
             | 
             | They would buy ergonomic things that could be justified
             | though.
             | 
             | I don't miss that.
        
             | Apocryphon wrote:
             | Many workplaces are giving out home office stipends.
        
             | dougmwne wrote:
             | In open office or hot desking environments, you really
             | might not have the choice. My last office from 2015 on
             | Market Street was all hot desk. You could not have any
             | personal items left on the desk at the end of the day. The
             | only way to get a standing desk was to get a doctor's
             | recommendation and have an ergonomic consultant approve it.
             | You could use whatever peripherals you could fit in a
             | backpack.
             | 
             | I now have an electric standing desk with memory settings,
             | a cushioned standing mat, a great office chair that fits my
             | back perfectly, a kneeling chair, a yoga ball, a stool,
             | plants, original artwork, fidget toys, cozy lamps,
             | excercise equipment, ergonomic keyboard and mouse, a large
             | external display, the best video conferencing headset I
             | could find, laptop and monitor height adjustable stands and
             | probably a few other things as well. I changed jobs
             | recently and didn't have to do anything but swap out the
             | laptop.
        
               | dougmwne wrote:
               | Thanks, moved to reply.
        
               | Wowfunhappy wrote:
               | Fyi, the reply button will appear if you click "X minutes
               | ago" above a comment. It will also appear normally if you
               | wait a few minutes.
               | 
               | There's no depth limit, it's just a subtle cue to
               | consider slowing down, to help prevent flame wars.
        
               | bobthepanda wrote:
               | > the best video conferencing headset I could find
               | 
               | If you could share your findings this would be greatly
               | appreciated. (Is it wired or wireless?)
        
               | Wowfunhappy wrote:
               | I'm not OP and it's not a headset, but I have to say--
               | nothing beats the Blue Yeti for microphone audio quality,
               | and there's a headphone jack on the bottom you can just
               | use with any pair of headphones.
               | 
               | It's a bit of an investment, and very slightly cumbersome
               | at times versus a wireless headset, but I think it's
               | worthwhile in order to sound good.
               | 
               | (Well, okay, a truly professional microphones would
               | presumably make you sound even better, but you're very
               | much past the point of diminishing returns.)
        
               | dougmwne wrote:
               | How does the yeti perform on echo cancelation and
               | background noise isolation? In my experience, the Evolve
               | 40 is good enough that I can turn off Zoom's software
               | filters and get a further quality boost.
        
               | justincormack wrote:
               | That is basically because it is near you and far from
               | anything else. So it doesn't have to do anything to not
               | pick up background noise. You can do that with any mic,
               | headsets just have a bit of an advantage in having a
               | fixed placement right near you however you move. I have a
               | mic on a boom over the monitor so it ends up close to me
               | and I wear headphones so that has much the same effect.
               | But its all about placement.
        
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               | ncphil wrote:
               | Sidetone. The essential hardware feature that Blue Yeti
               | and few others get right. I've had one on my wish list
               | for a while.
               | 
               | On the main topic, as a boomer who suffered through
               | office work for decades (the dictation system in my first
               | job was a DictaBelt, and electronic forms were what the
               | secretaries stored on their IBM Selectrics), going 100%
               | remote 12 years ago was the greatest productivity boost
               | I've experienced since my first work PC (which I built
               | from parts sourced at Jameco Electronics... in 1988).
               | 
               | There is _no_ way I'll ever return to an office, with all
               | the distractions (we used to call them "drive-bys") and
               | already mentioned ergonomic barriers. My manager is a
               | genx who is fully behind remote work, but there are lots
               | of late boomer and genx execs who are really
               | uncomfortable with it for a load if reasons -- including
               | that it denies them opportunities to intimidate through
               | physical presence (never a problem I experienced
               | personally, mostly because those same sorts of managers
               | tend to be intimidated by age, experience and
               | credentials).
               | 
               | I find it ironic that so many execs who now lament the
               | loss of "collaboration" weren't voicing those concerns a
               | couple of decades ago during the massive push to
               | outsource and offshore. I know from personal experience
               | that collaborating remotely is not only possible, but
               | often superior to in-office -- as I think dozens of my
               | colleagues across a couple of oceans who I worked some
               | pretty difficult technical issues with would attest.
        
               | dougmwne wrote:
               | Jabra Evolve 40. I chose wired so I didn't have to deal
               | with Bluetooth audio issues. I wanted something with a
               | professional appearance and strong mic and headphone
               | performance for voice frequencies, plus a mute button.
               | Very happy with it.
        
               | jholman wrote:
               | That sits on top of the ear, crushing the ear cartilage
               | against the skull, right? How can anyone choose that
               | style of headphone?
        
               | FooHentai wrote:
               | They don't put much pressure on the head, certainly not
               | enough to describe it as crushing anything. A
               | characteristic of this type of headset is light weight,
               | so the clamp pressure does not need to be strong to keep
               | them in place.
               | 
               | As a result they're significantly smaller than over-ear
               | cans, and able to be stuffed in a laptop bag easily.
               | 
               | The style can become fatiguing with extended wear, that
               | is probably their biggest flaw along with limitations on
               | how much sound isolation they can achieve.
        
               | enlightens wrote:
               | I'll heartily agree with this recommendation, though I
               | have the Jabra Evolve 75. As best as I can tell it's
               | exactly the same as the 40 with the addition of
               | Bluetooth. I happened to pick it up in February of 2020
               | and it's been fantastic for my hours of daily calls.
        
           | minipci1321 wrote:
           | > After years of optimization, I have a better quality of
           | life than our CEO. I'd be insane to give it up.
           | 
           | Maybe you did run in to it but haven't mentioned, or maybe 5
           | years is not enough to see it -- have you noticed that a big
           | part of the "remote culture" that few know how to build, is
           | proper recognition of remote workers in the mixed- or
           | dominantly-office- teams?
           | 
           | Those CEOs are perfectly aware that your life quality is
           | higher than theirs on a much lower income, they know full
           | well you are not going away anytime soon...
        
             | dougmwne wrote:
             | Heavy are the hands that wear the golden handcuffs.
        
           | paulcole wrote:
           | > Move to a new state without having to change jobs.
           | 
           | I see this point but it's often not a guarantee, particularly
           | if you work at a small company. In the US if your employer is
           | in State A and you want to move to State B, then your
           | employer must become registered as a business in that state
           | and abide by that state's labor laws. Many small businesses
           | aren't capable of (or interested in) maintaining compliance
           | with every state's laws.
           | 
           | I believe this will change in the future, but right now I
           | wouldn't bet on it.
        
           | raducu wrote:
           | I love WFH because I don't have to put up with politics crap.
           | 
           | Also I realized how conscientious I am compared to other
           | people and the message trail means I have peace of mind about
           | stuff that's not my fault.
           | 
           | And I love that some people are forced to hold in their
           | verbal diarrhea and have to think before writing messages.
        
           | vanviegen wrote:
           | Yes, working from home can be very comfortable if you invest
           | in comfort.
           | 
           | But for me, comfort isn't everything. I'd rather be a bit
           | less comfortable if it means being able to feel part of
           | something nice. I really like being among people,
           | experiencing things together. For me, that feeling easily
           | outweighs comfort.
           | 
           | Then again, my work is a 10m walk from my house, and I have
           | quite a bit of influence on how our work environment is
           | shaped - so that may be easy for me to say.
        
             | Florin_Andrei wrote:
             | > _I really like being among people_
             | 
             | That's what the local pub is for.
        
               | throwaway98797 wrote:
               | ah, yes. the smart healthy option.
        
         | throwawaysea wrote:
         | I was a long-time skeptic of remote work, but after this last
         | year I am convinced it can work well - and perhaps not just
         | work well but work better than traditional office work. Our
         | experience has been that people are just as productive in a
         | 'visible sense' as when they were forced to commute and come
         | into the office. But I also get the sense that people are
         | happier, because they are able to skip frustrations (commute),
         | retain their family life in a better way (seeing kids more),
         | and free up mental bandwidth (by taking care of little
         | chores/errands at will). They are able to create the work
         | environment they want, eat more healthily, and do things like
         | go for a walk and recharge. For creative work, I think there
         | will be significant long-term benefits to having a work force
         | that isn't just productive, but also happy, healthy, and
         | fulfilled. Companies that are trying desperately to hold onto
         | the old working model with stopgaps like "hybrid work" are
         | simply dating themselves and will lose their best talent.
        
         | apexalpha wrote:
         | Agreed! I had an hour-long one way commute too and it's been
         | great. My work day went from 11 hours to 9 at most. I have more
         | time to cook, I can get up later of earlier, I can do laundry,
         | dishwasher etc...
         | 
         | My company wants to go 2 days home and 3 days office. I've said
         | I'd do it the other way around.
         | 
         | I do miss my colleagues as well, but two days a week should be
         | enough to garner most weekly advantages of being in the same
         | place.
         | 
         | And it's not just convenience, either. 2 days in office would
         | open up immense possibilities for me regarding housing, I can
         | live in a cheaper home outside the big city and still commute
         | less than 10 hours a week.
        
           | davidgerard wrote:
           | Before the pandemic I did a _lot_ of WFH, looking after my
           | chronically ill partner. I basically got my face-to-face load
           | out the way on a Monday, which was Meeting Day.
        
           | rootusrootus wrote:
           | > My company wants to go 2 days home and 3 days office. I've
           | said I'd do it the other way around.
           | 
           | That's exactly the same as me. Company is talking about
           | everyone coming back in for 3/2 starting in mid-September. My
           | response is I'll see you for 2/3. I have a 20 minute commute
           | which isn't too onerous, and I like having _some_ in-office
           | time as I find it valuable.
           | 
           | What will really be the test for me is how I feel after a
           | month or two of the kids being back in school. Right now
           | being home is still fairly social for me. Previous times I've
           | tried to work remotely it was the loneliness of having only
           | myself in the house for days on end that killed it for me.
           | 
           | I'm also a bit of a realist, though. Being remote (or at
           | least 'more remote' than the rest of the team) is a serious
           | career limit, so if everyone else starts spending most of
           | their time in the office, I will probably follow along.
        
           | mcot2 wrote:
           | I suspect the partial in-office/wfh arrangement will be
           | fairly rare. Office space is costly to use only 2 days a
           | week. Companies can do hoteling but it breaks down when you
           | have very technical employees who like very particular desk
           | setups (multiple monitors, chair positions, special
           | keyboards/mice). The more common arrangement will probably be
           | mostly WFH but meet up occsionally in some per-hour rented
           | office for collaboration. Sucks for WeWork to have blown
           | itself up before this :).
        
             | mcguire wrote:
             | Or if everyone's two days is Tuesday and Wednesday. :-)
        
               | Apocryphon wrote:
               | Just spread it around so all five days get coverage.
        
             | Izkata wrote:
             | > Office space is costly to use only 2 days a week.
             | 
             | So downsize. We were doing partial WFH before the pandemic
             | because our office had more people than seats (open office
             | seating); everyone picked different days they preferred for
             | home and office, and the office ended up mostly full most
             | days.
        
           | slumdev wrote:
           | > My company wants to go 2 days home and 3 days office. I've
           | said I'd do it the other way around.
           | 
           | Mine is pushing some similar nonsense. I don't think anyone
           | thought about it too hard:
           | 
           | 1. I still have to live within a reasonable driving distance
           | of the main office.
           | 
           | 2. I still have to maintain a home office, sacrificing
           | valuable square footage without being reimbursed for its use.
           | 
           | 3. I still have to furnish this home office, without being
           | reimbursed for anything except computer accessories.
        
             | apexalpha wrote:
             | 1. Why? I can live 2 hours from my office and still have a
             | total weekly commute that is less than my pre-pandemic
             | commute. If I can somehow fix an overnight in the city it's
             | even less.
             | 
             | 2. This is true, although you get 'reimbursed' for that by
             | not commuting. And since you don't commute you can live
             | somewhere cheaper, or get a bigger house for the same
             | price.
             | 
             | 3. My company paid for all that, so no issue here.
        
               | slumdev wrote:
               | Two hours from your office? Is this hyperbole?
               | 
               | If you live two hours from your office and go in for
               | three days per week, that's 2h per leg * 2 legs per day *
               | 3 days per week = 12 hours per week on the road.
               | 
               | You were spending more than 12 hours per week in traffic?
               | 
               | The average commute in the United States is a little less
               | than 30 minutes [1]. That's 5 hours per week for someone
               | who works five days per week.
               | 
               | 1. https://www.census.gov/newsroom/press-
               | releases/2021/one-way-...
        
               | apexalpha wrote:
               | I used to commute 1 hour one way pre Covid, so 10 hours
               | per week. If I go into the office for only 2 days a week
               | I could live twice as far from my workplace and still
               | only commute 8 hours a week. I was meaning to say that
               | even with 2 days in-Office per week it opens up
               | possibilities regarding housing.
               | 
               | I was spending 1,5 hours per day in a train, and walking
               | to the station for 10 minutes or so, yes.
        
               | llampx wrote:
               | There are only so many hours in a day. Are you willing to
               | wake up at 5AM to get to the office and be home at 8PM
               | for 2 days a week?
        
             | ryandrake wrote:
             | At least for Bay Area companies, the "hybrid" 2/3 or 3/2 or
             | whatever schemes are insufficient. They partially alleviate
             | the long commute problem, but they do not solve the high
             | cost of living problem. WFH has been nice in that it lets
             | me skip my 4+ hour commute every day, but what would be
             | even better is 0/5, allowing me to completely move out of
             | the Bay Area and still keep my job (at lower comp, fine).
        
               | bradlys wrote:
               | I presume you're in eng because we're on HN but are you
               | not? If you're in the Bay Area, you should be able to
               | afford an okay home here (assuming you stop playing the
               | startup game and join a public tech company). Being only
               | able to afford Tracy or something sounds like very low
               | pay...
        
             | mrtranscendence wrote:
             | My company is going to a 2 days at work and 3 days home
             | setup. But they won't pay for _anything_ except the
             | computer -- if I want a monitor or a docking station I 'm
             | on the hook for that, they won't provide it. I recently
             | shelled out for a $500 chair, and I know two colleagues who
             | paid $2-300 for docking stations (I think I'd be happy with
             | a cheaper one, personally).
             | 
             | I think they'll pay for a monitor if you're full-time WFH
             | but that requires special permission.
        
           | ub99 wrote:
           | Also, depending on the type of commute, I need to factor in
           | the exhaustion that comes with using public transportation
           | like Bart. So for me it was an hour each way plus a
           | substantial time to decompress from standing in a packed
           | sweaty train. In the evening it usually meant that I was just
           | too tired to do anything else after work.
        
         | mahastore wrote:
         | It is time humanity takes lesson from all that happened in the
         | last two years and aim to build a more sustainable environment.
         | Not just for us but for our future generations.
        
         | agumonkey wrote:
         | I think it would be good to sum all the commute free week
         | 
         | - time saved
         | 
         | - gas saved
         | 
         | - car wear saved ..
        
         | me_me_me wrote:
         | Its hard to come up with arguments for working from office when
         | you can save 2 hours of commute. Time alone is huge.
         | 
         | With that standard 8h work 8h personal time 8h sleep. Commute
         | eats up 1/4 of your personal time.
        
           | martin_a wrote:
           | > Time alone is huge.
           | 
           | Don't forget that could also be more time with your loved
           | ones, like your partner, your children or even your pets.
           | 
           | That's a big deal for lots of people and very understandable.
           | 
           | edit: It's also more time for _everything else_.
           | 
           | Personally, I really enjoy cooking lunch and sitting on my
           | balcony for half an hour, something I can't do when working
           | from the office.
        
             | pickle-wizard wrote:
             | The location flexibility is big too. I live in Austin, and
             | my parents live in Kansas. I drove up to Kansas this past
             | Saturday and will work from up here and drive back next
             | Saturday.
             | 
             | I've worked from home for a few years now, and before that
             | I would have to take vacation time to go visit them.
        
               | RSHEPP wrote:
               | For real. My wife picked up travel nursing and it's been
               | a huge life improvement. Just check the taxes in the
               | states you are working in. I have 25 work days in
               | Illinois without income taxes, but all states are
               | different.
        
               | enjo wrote:
               | This is gonna be the real challenge for the WFH movement.
               | NYC is trying to get income taxes out of me because I
               | worked for a NYC based company in 2020... even tho I
               | never stepped foot in their state.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | There have been some efforts to rationalize this at the
               | federal level but AFAIK they haven't gone anywhere. And
               | some states seem to basically have zero thresholds for
               | this and enforcement for business travel seems to be
               | ratcheting up. Some people are probably going to find
               | that they need to file more state tax returns.
        
             | spearo77 wrote:
             | I parsed that quote differently.. the way I think they
             | meant the phrase is- The factor of time itself is huge (no
             | matter how you end up using it)
        
           | maccard wrote:
           | > With that standard 8h work 8h personal time 8h sleep.
           | Commute eats up 1/4 of your personal time.
           | 
           | For people who chose to not prioritise living remotely near
           | their workplace.
        
             | bart_spoon wrote:
             | Often it isn't much of a choice at all. American cities are
             | such that living near a workplace simply isn't feasible for
             | many. It is common to be financially intractable, and
             | American cities are actively hostile to families/children.
             | So the people who get to "choose" to prioritize living near
             | their workplace is generally restricted to relatively high-
             | income earners who are single with roommates or perhaps are
             | dual-income with no children.
             | 
             | That's a relatively small slice of workers.
        
           | Deinos wrote:
           | Agreed, and the resources that a commute consumes (time, wear
           | and tear on a vehicle, fuel, mental reserves either sitting
           | in traffic or dealing with other people on public
           | transportation, etc) are not considered in compensation...
           | 
           | Your most valuable resource, time, which can be neither
           | replenished nor its true quantity known, is being wasted for
           | very little gain.
        
           | apocalyptic0n3 wrote:
           | Personally, I'm looking forward to going back to the office.
           | I am an extremely introverted person and during the pandemic,
           | I've gone upwards of 5 months without saying another word to
           | a person face-to-face. I personally prefer that and don't
           | feel lonely or anything; I just don't need social interaction
           | in my day-to-day life. But I know that in the long term, it's
           | going to have negative consequences for me in terms of
           | networking and just friendships in general. These are basic
           | things that you need that I am completely incapable of
           | achieving without it being forced upon me in an office
           | environment.
           | 
           | Yes, I hate driving. But I'll move closer to the office
           | (which we're relocating to a much further location currently)
           | and I'll get it to <20 minutes each way, which is acceptable.
           | 
           | Just because you can't find arguments for it in your life
           | doesn't mean others can't. I need that environment and if my
           | job went remote-only, I'd quit without any hesitation just as
           | employees are quitting after being asked to return to the
           | office. We shouldn't go from one extreme (everyone has to be
           | in an office) to the other (there is no office at all).
           | 
           | We need to accept hybrid solutions where an office exists and
           | maybe you're expected to be there once every week or two or
           | something. We need to accept that some people work better
           | remote and others work better in an office. We're trying to
           | build the most efficient working environment for the team in
           | general, not just one or two people one way or the other.
        
             | devonbleak wrote:
             | If everybody's only there once every week or two you're
             | looking at something like 10-20% attendance on any given
             | day. Some teams or individuals might coordinate being on-
             | site the same day but so far our experience is that you
             | basically sit in the office talking to the same people as
             | always on Zoom all day.
             | 
             | Unless you're in an industry that requires actual physical
             | presence I don't think you're going to see the same office
             | experience any more. Companies aren't going to keep an
             | office big enough for 100% attendance when there's only a
             | need for a smallish fraction of that.
             | 
             | I'd start looking for other ways to scratch that
             | socialization itch.
        
               | matwood wrote:
               | > I'd start looking for other ways to scratch that
               | socialization itch.
               | 
               | Also, having a social aspect outside of work makes job
               | changes way less scary and stressful.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | I suspect that will be pretty common even if there's more
               | people than that. Which means that people who want to get
               | back to the office of the before times (as opposed to
               | just some office outside of the house) aren't going to
               | like the ghost town very much.
        
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             | antonzabirko wrote:
             | What sort of work do you do? Why don't they have any online
             | meetings?
        
               | apocalyptic0n3 wrote:
               | I'm a software engineer like 90% of HN. I have plenty of
               | online meetings (I'm actually on a team call right now
               | listening to someone discuss a solution to a problem). It
               | doesn't fill the needs, though. Without the in-person and
               | more frequent interaction, I can feel my social skills
               | slipping even further. And I rarely interact with non-
               | developers and non-managers now. It's not ideal for me.
               | It 100% does not work and I need to go back to an office.
               | I fear if I don't, my already-limited social abilities
               | will zero out and I'll have to rebuild them. I now know I
               | can go months without speaking to anyone and be okay with
               | it; that itself is a problem in my mind that I need to
               | address and an office environment fulfills those needs.
        
               | antonzabirko wrote:
               | Hmm makes sense. I used to be the same way in my college
               | days.
        
               | Apocryphon wrote:
               | As a compromise it'd be nice once things are opened up
               | for companies without fixed offices to subsidize passes
               | into coworking spaces, so people can work in public areas
               | more quiet and professional than cafes around others, but
               | not necessarily the actual office.
        
             | mancerayder wrote:
             | I'm not an extrovert but like the office because I live in
             | a one bedroom apartment and I don't like working from my
             | living room, and at the end of the day, being in my living
             | room.
             | 
             | I do like the social interaction and joking, or venting,
             | with co-workers, even as an introvert.
             | 
             | The best approach is a hybrid model.
        
             | j4yav wrote:
             | I don't think we need to do anything of the sort. Companies
             | will sort themselves into all remote/all office/hybrid
             | before "lets make everyone moderately miserable equally"
             | becomes the mandated approach for everyone.
        
           | capableweb wrote:
           | Obviously, people are different. Some people prefer to work
           | from an office (like me) just because you get to spend time
           | with people (I live alone). Me and my teammates also become
           | more efficient when we work together in the same physical
           | space than remotely (we've tried bunch of things like
           | perpetual video calls, among other things). We all live in
           | the same city, the longest commute in our team is ~30
           | minutes, but we all feel like it's worth it to go to the same
           | physical space and work together instead.
           | 
           | Unless you live outside big cities, I'm not sure if 2 hours
           | of commute is that common (at least with my South West
           | European perspective, maybe is different in the
           | US/elsewhere?).
        
             | hourislate wrote:
             | This seems to be the general consensus for folks like
             | yourself where work is the primary focus in their lives.
             | It's understandable, people are lonely and work is the only
             | social interaction for many. If I didn't have a family and
             | lived alone, I would definitely want to return the office.
             | I'm curious if you're the minority or majority? Most people
             | I talk to never want to return to the office. My company
             | (major corp) basically had a revolt during a company wide
             | all hands meeting. It was so bad that they basically said
             | people will be only required to come in 1 day a week and
             | they can pick the day.
        
               | travisgriggs wrote:
               | Do you have data to back your conclusion up?
               | 
               | I am a father of four (though they're here less now that
               | they're leaving the nest), happily married, active in a
               | committed church community and love outdoor things like
               | water skiing, flying planes, snow skiing, biking, etc. I
               | build things like legos, stand up paddle boards, Ford
               | ranger engines, and the 1000 ft addition we added to our
               | home. I enjoy my work--sometimes I love it even, and
               | other days I'm ready to rage quit, because I'm one of
               | those difficult to manage dramatic people--it is hardly
               | my whole life though.
               | 
               | I have spent nearly 10 years (2 different gigs) of my 30
               | working years working from a home office. In both
               | instances, it was awesome at first, and then I came to
               | hate it. I totally concur with the GP. I'm just not as
               | productive at home. I know that most of us in all 3 teams
               | where we've done some remote work are generally more
               | productive when gathered. No amount of technology
               | solutions has improved that.
               | 
               | My suspicion is that there are other factors at play
               | here. In my case, I've worked in companies where the
               | software development components of the company are
               | relatively small (anywhere from 2 up to at most 18
               | people). My commutes have all been (relatively) short (15
               | minutes or less). I've always had flexible schedule
               | available to me--come go when you need, get the work
               | done. And at times, I do actually choose to sequester
               | myself at home to write a mountain of code that just
               | needs a mountain of direct writing.
               | 
               | I'm curious if perhaps it's not so much work at home, as
               | it is some degree of autonomy that needs to be given to
               | people to manage their own work load. That kind of
               | autonomy tends to go down as company size goes up. If
               | corporate overhead burns up a lot of ones time, then it
               | may indeed be that people feel they are getting more
               | creative work down at home.
               | 
               | What I'd like to see is more flexibility, less middle
               | management (because I think this is the real source of
               | most of these issues) and more of the "teach the
               | employees correct principles and allow them to govern
               | themselves" gestalt.
        
               | lanstin wrote:
               | If I could go back to a campus where I had an office and
               | we sat around watching the coordinated people do bean bag
               | tricks and talking about whether we needed a formal state
               | machine for something or just a few flags and also did
               | you see the cool library X did for something, sure, I'd
               | go there. But to go to a crowded place where people take
               | stand up meetings seriously and there's so much noise and
               | I'm cold all day and the coffee sucks, eh, not so
               | compelling. I went into the office park with offices even
               | when my creeping environmentalism had be taking 90
               | minutes of subways and a bus (tho not 5 days a week). My
               | take is always if you have a lot of work to, it's better
               | to do it from home. If you need more work, go into the
               | office and find it.
        
               | hourislate wrote:
               | >My suspicion is that there are other factors at play
               | here.
               | 
               | Do you have data to back up your suspicion?
        
               | burnished wrote:
               | weak
        
               | capableweb wrote:
               | > This seems to be the general consensus for folks like
               | yourself where work is the primary focus in their lives.
               | 
               | Big incorrect assumption here, my primary focus is not my
               | work but my hobbies, family and friends. I don't like
               | working in the office mainly because it's social but
               | because we all are more productive. I like to be
               | efficient at my job, even though I don't think it's my
               | primary focus in life.
        
               | belval wrote:
               | > Some people prefer to work from an office (like me)
               | just because you get to spend time with people (I live
               | alone).
               | 
               | You can't just write something like that and then accuse
               | someone of a "big incorrect assumption". Work is work, I
               | work to do my job, if you want to go to the office to be
               | with people because otherwise you live alone that's okay,
               | but you can't just turn around an say "I have plenty of
               | friends, it's about being more productive".
        
               | barbazoo wrote:
               | I've found that too, I'm more efficient working in an
               | office, but you know what, I don't care as much anymore.
               | Being at home, in my community, with my family more often
               | and for longer time throughout the day, taking breaks to
               | do whatever around the house of go for a walk. That's
               | what matters now. If I'm less productive, I think that's
               | fine because my overall happiness increases. Companies
               | should just factor that in from now on and many do.
        
               | hourislate wrote:
               | So you're choosing work productivity/efficiency over
               | hobbies, family and friends and feel work isn't the
               | primary focus in your life?
        
             | rorykoehler wrote:
             | Ideally it should be a choice.
        
             | nineplay wrote:
             | > Me and my teammates also become more efficient when we
             | work together in the same physical space
             | 
             | I've found it the complete opposite in software. Zoom
             | screen sharing is so much easier than peering over
             | someone's shoulder at their dark-mode IDE. Copy-and-pasting
             | a command in the chat window - what an improvement! How
             | many times have I said this to someone?
             | 
             | > "s c p space s v 0 1 colon forward-slash t m p"
             | 
             | Ug.
             | 
             | Design meetings are so much easier when I can see the UI on
             | my screen, instead of halfway across the conference room.
             | 
             | We also do a lot of work with a team at another location
             | and again - when we are all on zoom together now we can all
             | see each other, we can all interreact when each other. It
             | used to be 6 of us on one conference room and six of them
             | in another conference room trying to talk to each other
             | over a tinny speaker.
             | 
             | I hope I never have to go through any of that ever again.
        
               | jagger27 wrote:
               | All of those things are also possible in person. Of
               | course I just send an instant message to my coworker
               | across the hall. And I don't clutter Slack when I want to
               | make lunch plans.
        
               | nineplay wrote:
               | I don't know what "all those things are possible" means
               | aside from "all those things are possible as long as we
               | zoom together while in the office". You can screen-share
               | in the office - as long as you are both on zoom ( or
               | equivalent ) at which point why is it better to be at the
               | office?
               | 
               | It would be harder in the office - too many people
               | talking over each other in separate meetings. I can't
               | imagine. So we all end up fighting for few conference
               | rooms, or we squeeze once again into each others
               | cubicles, losing the advantage of multiple screens and
               | trying not to talk to loud and disturbing everyone around
               | us.
               | 
               | I've spend decades developing in offices with other
               | engineers, collaboration is always difficult when what
               | you are collaborating on is always tiny text on a small
               | screen. Zoom is better.
        
               | jagger27 wrote:
               | The places I've worked had lots of elegant and obvious
               | solutions to shoulder surfing. Mirroring to a big TV was
               | something we did all the time.
               | 
               | I find Zoom in particular to be a crude place to get this
               | type of work done. Why do I have to send a huge video
               | stream that roasts my laptop just to share a few
               | kilobytes of text? I can't scroll around or select text
               | to point something out.
               | 
               | If the streamer's text is too small, I'm shit out of luck
               | there too.
               | 
               | Visual Studio Code has great collaborative coding tools
               | that I have found work really well in a local network
               | setting sitting near coworkers. Zoom is a total cudgel in
               | comparison for this task.
        
               | r00fus wrote:
               | I don't know if it's just our org, but we do local +
               | slack + conference sharing (ie, you have multiple ways of
               | viewing the content). This, like for every meeting.
        
               | nineplay wrote:
               | How do you manage when different people in the same area
               | are in different meetings? That's where I see the
               | problems occur - there'd be 4 people in my immediate
               | vicinity having 4 completely separate conversations. That
               | would never work.
        
               | r00fus wrote:
               | That seems like a different problem - I'd assume you have
               | a meeting room for each conversation. In your case we'd
               | have headsets at desks - we do that too. The previous
               | question was how meetings are handled (in a conf room).
               | Regardless, chat+conf for everything even if it's in-
               | person in the same room (audio off if local).
        
               | sepin4 wrote:
               | It is surprising how antisocial is the new generation.
               | The dynamic between colleagues is something that comes
               | naturally when the team has great cohesion. Half the time
               | I didn't have to finish the sentence of what you describe
               | and they are on it. I can't remember how many great ideas
               | have come up during the "hey let's get a cup of coffee"
               | break. Now we look less like humans and more like
               | avatars.
        
               | WWLink wrote:
               | It is surprising how social is the old generation. So
               | many face to face interactions could have been taken care
               | of by a 1 line email.
               | 
               | Like, a couple weeks ago I had to waste half my day to go
               | into the office and sit in a 3 hour meeting. I got some
               | useful information out of that, but there was SO. MUCH.
               | OVERHEAD. I could've watched the webex from home and
               | saved so much time because the relevant parts were 2 10
               | minute sections spaced out by like 2 hours.
               | 
               | Plus I hate sitting close to people who had onions for
               | lunch. And alcohol. And it's always that dude you've
               | gotta pair program with that smells like a gorilla and
               | has bad breath. xD
        
             | starfallg wrote:
             | Well for a one hour commute, you lose 2 hours of your day.
             | That's massive and equals around 1/8 to 1/9 of your time
             | awake depending on your sleeping habits.
        
               | sepin4 wrote:
               | I used to read books during commute. No time was wasted.
               | In fact, now I seem to have a lot less time for reading,
               | because there is always something more pressing at home.
        
               | rmah wrote:
               | It's only 1/8th of your awake time if you don't count
               | weekends.
               | 
               | If you count weekends, you have 5 * 8 + 2 * 16 = 72 hours
               | of "free time". so 5 hrs commute / 32 hrs = 6.94% or
               | 1/14.4 of your time awake.
        
               | capableweb wrote:
               | I guess the same can be said about doing laundry, sitting
               | and watching the machine while it does its job would lose
               | you an hour or two. Luckily both of these activities can
               | be done while doing other things like reading/listening
               | to audio books or catching up on other things.
        
               | bluefirebrand wrote:
               | Most people's commutes are spent sitting in a car.
               | 
               | Even listening to an audiobook or podcast is such a
               | passive thing it's hard to call it "doing" something.
        
               | starfallg wrote:
               | Yes, you can make the most of your commute by listening
               | to audiobooks, etc. But that's so limited in utility
               | compared to having 2 hours of extra free time at home
               | where you can do so much more. It's almost an apples to
               | orange comparison.
        
               | bart_spoon wrote:
               | The same thing can't be said about doing laundry. If they
               | are doing the laundry at home like they said, you are
               | sitting and watching the machine, you are starting it and
               | letting it do its thing.
               | 
               | And besides that, laundry is going to have to be done
               | regardless, so its not like they would be saving time by
               | commuting to work instead. The laundry will still be
               | waiting when they get home.
        
               | capableweb wrote:
               | > If they are doing the laundry at home like they said,
               | you are sitting and watching the machine, you are
               | starting it and letting it do its thing
               | 
               | You can do the same way with commuting, enter the
               | bus/subway/train and then do other thing while there, you
               | don't have to wait until you arrive to start doing other
               | things.
               | 
               | > And besides that, laundry is going to have to be done
               | regardless, so its not like they would be saving time by
               | commuting to work instead. The laundry will still be
               | waiting when they get home.
               | 
               | You could have someone else do the laundry for you.
               | 
               | Maybe it was a bad example. I wanted to compare
               | activities that we usually do where you can perform
               | multiple things at the same time. Commuting is generally
               | a passive activity while we wait to arrive to our
               | destination, just like laundry is a passive activity
               | until the machine is done.
        
               | adregan wrote:
               | > You can do the same way with commuting, enter the
               | bus/subway/train and then do other thing while there, you
               | don't have to wait until you arrive to start doing other
               | things.
               | 
               | In my pre-covid life, I often couldn't even hold a book
               | on the subway as it was too crowded for that. There were
               | times (near daily) I couldn't even reach into my pocket
               | to take my phone out to put on a podcast due to the crush
               | of people (and oh my god the stress when your headphone's
               | cord would get hooked on an exiting passenger).
               | 
               | My commute, while long enough to do something useful, was
               | never useful. Crowded platforms, crowded trains, and
               | transfers down long crowded corridors made it impossible
               | to do anything else. And I'll be damned if I'm going to
               | do more work on the way to and from work!
        
               | barbazoo wrote:
               | > You can do the same way with commuting, enter the
               | bus/subway/train and then do other thing while there, you
               | don't have to wait until you arrive to start doing other
               | things.
               | 
               | This works but only in very specific types of commutes. I
               | used to take the train which took 30 minutes each way and
               | I always got a seat, perfect for reading, maybe even
               | light work. Now after almost 2 decades I know that that's
               | the exception and almost always my commute was pretty
               | much wasted (I don't consider listening to music or
               | podcasts productive, it's nice but not productive).
        
               | bdefore wrote:
               | 8 hours of sleep plus 8 hours of work leaves 8 voluntary
               | hours. You could make a case then that 2 hours of commute
               | is giving up on a fourth of your weekday free time.
               | Factor in the prep for commute or time needed afterwards
               | to decompress and perhaps a third is more accurate.
        
             | slumdev wrote:
             | > Me and my teammates also become more efficient when we
             | work together in the same physical space than remotely
             | (we've tried bunch of things like perpetual video calls,
             | among other things)
             | 
             | What do you do?
             | 
             | Constant talk and interruption are not conducive to the
             | work of a software engineer.
        
               | rootusrootus wrote:
               | > Constant talk and interruption are not conducive to the
               | work of a software engineer.
               | 
               | During the times you are coding, yes. But a software
               | engineer is more than a coder, so there are times when
               | collaboration is very useful.
        
               | slumdev wrote:
               | There are times when collaboration is useful.
               | 
               | But nothing distinguishes a junior and a senior more than
               | the ability to work independently.
        
               | majewsky wrote:
               | If anything, I'm collaborating more as a senior than I
               | did as a junior. Junior dev work often means getting a
               | work assignment and working on that by yourself. Senior
               | dev work often means getting together with different
               | stakeholders to work on a design.
               | 
               | (Although obviously those statements aren't absolutes,
               | hence the use of the word "often".)
        
               | Mauricebranagh wrote:
               | And as a senior your quite often working with several
               | external teams and having some meetings FTF produces a
               | massive productivity boost
               | 
               | We are talking Months and Months" by stopping other teams
               | going of at a tangent or flat out just not doing what
               | they are told.
        
               | grillvogel wrote:
               | at my company the seniors are mainly responsible for
               | driving projects/design and leading teams of juniors who
               | do the implementation. working independently is not
               | really an option
        
               | slumdev wrote:
               | This is a very old model, and it's as dumb today as it
               | was in the 1990s.
               | 
               | The seniors used to be called "architects," and the
               | "driving projects/design" used to be called RUP.
        
               | grillvogel wrote:
               | architect is a higher level, they tell us why our designs
               | are bad
        
               | slumdev wrote:
               | LOL. I feel for you. It's the same way in a lot of
               | places.
               | 
               | Your seniors should definitely be thought leaders, but
               | when they get "too senior" or "too important" to write
               | code, the company is done innovating. That's a major
               | organizational smell.
        
               | grillvogel wrote:
               | why is that? isnt the main innovation done in design?
               | anyone can code something up that has been designed for
               | them already
        
               | slumdev wrote:
               | If your design is so detailed that any code monkey can
               | implement it without screwing it up, then you've probably
               | spent more time writing design documents than you would
               | have spent just building it.
               | 
               | And if your code isn't expressive enough that the design
               | can be extracted without major effort, then the two will
               | inevitably diverge at some point. Many bugs will appear.
        
               | devilduck wrote:
               | I have been doing my job for over 15 years and I still
               | require input from my colleagues. Does that make me a
               | junior? Of course it doesn't. Stop doing this
               | immediately.
        
               | recursive wrote:
               | If you're really working totally independently, then
               | you're running a 1-person company. As soon as you get two
               | "seniors" on the same project, if they're working
               | independently, then you're just going to two different,
               | unrelated outputs, by your definition.
        
               | TeMPOraL wrote:
               | Isn't this why microservices are a thing? :).
               | 
               | More seriously though, it's part of skilled project
               | management to organize work in such a way that seniors
               | don't need to constantly collaborate to stay in sync.
        
               | lanstin wrote:
               | It's skilled software architecture. Some layerings of the
               | problem into decomposable pieces allow for less
               | communications and some layerings of the problem require
               | more communication. The emergent but desirable property
               | of more parallelizable is dependent on details that are
               | small and subtle. Project management cannot possible
               | guarantee this. The outcome of the architecture, how much
               | do people need to communicate, is an input to the project
               | management.
        
               | slumdev wrote:
               | What one programmer can do in one month, two programmers
               | can do in two months.
        
               | sepin4 wrote:
               | We are not microservices. People in a team have a lot in
               | common, they do systematically the same type of work
               | albeit in a different context and they can be a lot more
               | useful to each other when they communicate seamlessly
               | instead of at scheduled time slots.
        
               | sidlls wrote:
               | Your "skilled project management" is my "unnecessarily
               | complex process." There's a reason collaboration of this
               | sort is used in real engineering disciplines: it's
               | because it's more efficient than having some middleman
               | (and/or process) mediating all the communication.
        
               | TeMPOraL wrote:
               | I didn't mean middleman/process mediating communication.
               | By "skilled project management", I meant structuring
               | tasks and setting priorities in such a way as to
               | _minimize_ the required amount of communication -
               | particularly, _synchronous communication_ between the
               | workers. An hour (on average) or two per day replying to
               | messages and doing code review, an occasional meeting
               | every other week - sure. But if your senior devs are
               | spending most of their time each day in meetings, then
               | either you 're running a bootcamp, or something is very
               | wrong.
        
             | acituan wrote:
             | > Some people prefer to work from an office (like me) just
             | because you get to spend time with people (I live alone).
             | 
             | I live alone too and I hate for me when people at the
             | office became an erzats social circle. It is not. It is not
             | a social circle but a workgroup you have little control
             | over; you might end up with _really_ difficult people,
             | great teammates you love might leave, project might get
             | cancelled and that group might get disbanded altogether.
             | 
             | Even if you had the best workgroup, most of the time those
             | people will not be in your life for long or deep. They
             | won't help you move, drive you to and from an outpatient
             | procedure, won't play with your kids or even be by your
             | deathbed. And you do need people who would do those things
             | in your life. For this reason, I liked the social lack WFH
             | created because it was closer to the state of reality, and
             | forced me to invest in my real, non-workplace
             | relationships.
             | 
             | To be clear, I am not saying you can't make lifelong
             | friends _in_ a workplace, I am saying you shouldn 't
             | satisfice your social needs _with_ a workplace. Just like
             | hunger is a signal to point you towards nutrition,
             | loneliness is a signal to point you towards nourishing
             | allies. And workplaces are not places to procure that.
        
               | Grimm1 wrote:
               | I only have superficial social needs for the most part,
               | anything more is somewhat exhausting, I think the work
               | place interactions fit that quite well.
               | 
               | Any deep social needs are satisfied by my long time close
               | friends who I see every few months or my partner if I'm
               | dating.
               | 
               | I don't think you can make that call what someone should
               | and shouldn't do to satisfy their social needs because
               | everyone has very widely ranging needs in the first
               | place.
               | 
               | I feel perfectly topped off just by being in the room at
               | a coffee shop with people for a few hours for instance.
        
               | acituan wrote:
               | > I don't think you can make that call what someone
               | should and shouldn't do to satisfy their social needs
               | because everyone has very widely ranging needs in the
               | first place.
               | 
               | That is why I said _satisfice_.
               | 
               | Good on you that you know _exactly_ what you need. I
               | thought I did too, and it took a burnout and extended
               | time off work to realize how I was mostly deceiving
               | myself. Most people are not that transparent to
               | themselves, that is why they have to be careful with the
               | stimuli that seem to fulfill a need in the short term but
               | create serious deficiencies in the long run.
               | 
               | A bag of potato chips will curb your hunger but you'd be
               | severely malnourished if it was the only thing you ate
               | for a year. Cocaine, amphetamines even caffeine will give
               | you an elevated sense of agency but you'll quickly spiral
               | down to addiction with little corresponding real-world,
               | long-term gains. A workplace, a coffee shop or even
               | binging netflix alone might create a sense of a peopled
               | life, but none will be real allies that can have your
               | back in a time of need.
        
             | Frost1x wrote:
             | >Me and my teammates also become more efficient when we
             | work together in the same physical space than remotely
             | (we've tried bunch of things like perpetual video calls,
             | among other things).
             | 
             | I tend to agree with this, and I've worked remote (hybrid)
             | for over 12 years now. For me, a hybrid is the best. Most
             | tasks and problems can be solved well asynchronously and
             | for those, give me a WFH option. It's great for all the
             | reasons this thread creator mentioned and time cannot be
             | understated. The commute alone typically requires a vehicle
             | and the much of maintenence time I spend in my free time
             | comes from wear and tear of commute driving as do expenses
             | to expedite repairs for necessity of a car for work. This
             | stuff all adds up.
             | 
             | Once every now and then, in person meetings and problem
             | solving synchronously is good where virtual just fails.
             | Usually this involved external clients and so forth or some
             | physical, hardware related aspect of work. Software alone I
             | can typically do fully remote as it's assumed everyone is
             | competent and can easily share needed information and
             | visuals with one another.
             | 
             | >Unless you live outside big cities, I'm not sure if 2
             | hours of commute is that common (at least with my South
             | West European perspective, maybe is different in the
             | US/elsewhere?).
             | 
             | I lived in rural US and my experience is that commutes tend
             | to be _longer_ , both in distance and time, in rural areas.
             | While traffic related commute times tend to melt away, with
             | less density, people tend to drive further for better
             | employment opportunities. Sometimes this involves living
             | near but not in a large metro area and driving hours daily
             | to pull in high income with low COL at the sacrifice of
             | great commute times. I know a surgeon in Texas who commutes
             | around 4-6 hours each trip (nearly doubles his income),
             | someone near NY/NJ who commutes 6 hours daily to drive in,
             | and people in small areas that would drive 2-hours to a
             | nearby plant that pays more. One of my peers used to work 3
             | positions and one required driving an hour each way to. One
             | of my older directors actually lived 2 hours away and
             | purchased a condo near his job where he worked and stayed
             | throughout the week then returned home on weekends. I
             | presume his wife who didn't work would sometimes stay at
             | his condo but never felt comfortable breaching that
             | discussion.
             | 
             | For them, the time they lose can't be spent working
             | elsewhere and average out to the same higher rates and
             | they're willing to sacrifice that time to pull more in and
             | provide for their families. This is ultimately because good
             | paying opportunities are often few and far between in low
             | COL areas and highly competitive as well. For me, living in
             | a metro area makes more sense these days. You pay more for
             | property but recover that in terms of commute time and TC.
             | You also have more security depending on the area by there
             | being more opportunities to transfer to should you
             | want/need, without changing commute times too drastically.
             | If you live in a rural area and the diamond in the rough
             | position you found disappears, you have to consider
             | significant lifestyle changes for you and your family or
             | even consider uprooting and moving. There are trade-offs
             | either way you go.
        
             | dspillett wrote:
             | _> Some people prefer to work from an office (like me) just
             | because you get to spend time with people (I live alone)._
             | 
             | And/or (like me) you like work being somewhere different to
             | home, and don't have room for a dedicated home office. In
             | fact even if I have the room I'd prefer for work to not be
             | in the house. Being able to work from home is useful to me
             | on occasion, for both work and personal reasons, but I did
             | not like it nor feel myself to be productive when I was
             | there all the time. If I had no choice but to work remotely
             | I'd probably rent an office space and have to factor that
             | into my costs and benefits analysis of the job.
             | 
             | Then again I currently work a 15 minute slow-ish walk from
             | home (or less than a 10 minute run back) if I take the most
             | direct route, and can get home to entertain the cat at
             | lunch many days, so the commute isn't a significant factor
             | like it will be for many.
        
             | GuardianCaveman wrote:
             | I live in a big city not the suburbs. No traffic it's
             | twenty minutes to the office but during 7-1030 am and 2-7
             | pm it's 45 minutes to an hour and 5. I listen to a lot of
             | podcasts and happen to be learning Italian as well.
             | Podcasts are not popular at all in Italy and I can only
             | assume it's becUse of what you describe with the lack of
             | commute. I'm glad to be fully remote now.
        
               | Swizec wrote:
               | I live in a big city and while I don't have a car, I've
               | stopped using Uber/Lyft during rush hour because walking
               | or bicycling is faster. Boosted Boards (et al) offer
               | similar gains.
               | 
               | Your top speed is less and your average speed is more.
               | Cars never seem to get past 15mph in that kind of
               | traffic.
               | 
               | Motorcycles are nice too. Good top speed, lane filtering
               | to avoid traffic, plus real brakes, rear-view mirrors
               | etc. Feels a lot safer than my electric skateboard used
               | to.
        
               | bart_spoon wrote:
               | I used to listen to a bunch of podcasts on my commute to
               | and from work, and thought I was a big podcast person. As
               | soon as we went to remote work, I stopped listening
               | because I realized that I only "like" podcasts when there
               | is literally nothing else to do while sitting in my car.
               | I would listen to at least 1 podcast episode a day pre-
               | pandemic to not having listened to a full podcast episode
               | once in the last year.
        
               | egypturnash wrote:
               | Now I'm wondering how many people who do podcasts for a
               | living have seen their numbers drop due to the lack of
               | commuters over the past year.
        
               | frumper wrote:
               | I used to listen to a mix of audiobooks and podcasts on
               | my drive to work, but not 1 podcast since last spring. I
               | still have listened to a few audiobooks though.
        
             | htrp wrote:
             | Was the last year difficult for you because of lockdowns
             | forcing remote work?
        
             | a3n wrote:
             | Subjectively, commutes are bad in the US and getting worse,
             | because housing is getting more expensive relative to
             | wages. On top of that, we live in a car culture, and it's
             | much easier to build more freeways and housing developments
             | than figure out how people can sustainably work and live in
             | employment centers.
             | 
             | The pandemic has done some of that figuring out for us.
        
               | splithalf wrote:
               | That little kid that was shot due to road rage recently.
               | That's how bad commutes are. People who insist we go back
               | to the office have blood on their hands.
        
               | IMTDb wrote:
               | That wife that was shot due to domestic violence
               | recently. That's how bad working from home is. People who
               | insist we stay home have blood on their hands.
               | 
               | Yep, that sounds as ridiculous as your statement.
        
               | sanitycheck wrote:
               | I don't disagree about commuting being bad, but I think
               | you're missing a more direct way to reduce shootings.
        
               | alexgmcm wrote:
               | Housing is a huge issue in Europe as well, yeah we have
               | shorter commutes, but that comes at the cost of higher
               | population densities which often means living in
               | high/medium-rise flats.
               | 
               | These flats would be considered tiny by American
               | standards and you have a lot less privacy/independence
               | from your neighbours.
        
           | hnlmorg wrote:
           | The commute isn't always dead time though. For me, the 3hr
           | round trip was spent playing computer games on my Nintendo
           | Switch, or reading a book, or just letting my mind wander
           | while listening to music. All of these are activities I don't
           | get time to do at home because of the thousand other
           | commitments I have at home.
           | 
           | You'd think working from home would give people more free
           | time, but that's not always the case, for example if you have
           | small children. Don't get me wrong, I love spending time with
           | my family, but the commute was the only "me time" I had in a
           | given day and I miss that dearly.
        
             | zentiggr wrote:
             | The pre-WFH work 10-15 minutes away from home routine had,
             | for me, the same hidden benefit.
             | 
             | Now that I've been 100% WFH for 14 months, I've realized
             | how easy it is to just get caught up even deeper in the
             | assumption that "you're home, can you do _?" and wind up
             | devoting more and more time to the house and projects and
             | the pets and realize that the last time I was in a space by
             | myself, at least briefly not 'monitoring' or 'on deck', was
             | how many days/weeks ago?
             | 
             | That time where I'm not on call every second to potentially
             | deal with a pet or household or any other 'now' thing, is
             | way more precious than I realized. I've survived with very
             | little of it this past year.
        
               | Apocryphon wrote:
               | But this sounds like a personal boundaries matter that's
               | helped by having a work commute, but not dependent upon
               | it. Perhaps the commute could be replaced with a
               | dedicated time for oneself for a walk, fitness,
               | meditation, etc. That time shouldn't be (indirectly)
               | provided by one's employer.
        
               | Freestyler_3 wrote:
               | small ridiculous example: Boss my marriage is failing,
               | can you give me more overtime so my wife will love me
               | more.
        
           | konschubert wrote:
           | If you consider all the other chores you have to do in a day,
           | saving 2 hours of commute will probably double your free
           | time.
        
             | Mountain_Skies wrote:
             | It saves me even more time than that because of tasks like
             | laundry that are mostly hands off and waiting become easy
             | to intersperse with my work. I can also throw one of my
             | pre-prepped meals into the Instant Pot at 11am and have it
             | ready when I start lunch at noon. Those who work at a desk
             | all day should get up to move around at least once an hour
             | anyway. These small tasks the start hands-off processes are
             | a good way of making that happen.
        
           | EarthIsHome wrote:
           | A 2-hour round trip commute is insane.
           | 
           | Let's look at a 1-hour round trip commute assuming 240
           | working days per year. This means 240 hours gone in a year to
           | your commute. That's 10 full whole days. A 2-hour round trip
           | commute means 20 full whole days... almost a whole month
           | gone. 3-hour round trip commute = 30 full days.. and so on.
        
             | ghaff wrote:
             | For pretty much anyone going into a city or commuting in
             | heavy stop-and-go highway traffic, an hour each way is
             | extremely common.
        
             | chrisseaton wrote:
             | I wouldn't like a 1-hour commute either... but it's not
             | time 'lost' - you can use that time to read, work on your
             | hobbies, listen to music, have a drink or supper, or just
             | sleep if you want. Doesn't have to be wasted if you don't
             | want to.
        
               | mancerayder wrote:
               | You ever try standing on a NYC subway, surrounded by
               | strangers, at least a few of which are playing video
               | games or listening to music videos / TV out loud on their
               | phones, having to move every 6 minutes as the doors open
               | and close, and having to keep tabs on who's around you
               | since there are sometimes shady and angry individuals --
               | for a 45 minute stretch mornings and night? I have, and I
               | can assure you, it's no way to start your day - or end
               | it. Reading is extremely difficult with a bag on one arm
               | and a phone or kindle on the other, if you need to hold
               | onto a pole to not fall over.
        
               | zentiggr wrote:
               | I commuted 45 minutes each way to a prior job for a
               | couple of years. Yes, I ate my breakfast in the car on
               | the way there.
               | 
               | No, I didn't sleep, read, or do anything distracting on
               | my drive because when you're in deer country, dawn and
               | dusk are times to be vigilant and ready to brake or
               | swerve if horribly necessary.
               | 
               | Still had $4100 of damage one January.
               | 
               | Commutes can be anywhere from 0 - ? percent
               | multitaskable.
        
               | chrisseaton wrote:
               | I guess most people commuting as long as an hour or more
               | are doing it on a train where you can do all these
               | things.
        
               | zepto wrote:
               | You conjure up the idea of a Victorian train carriage
               | with plenty of space and waiters to serve you dinner etc.
               | 
               | Most people are experiencing a noisy packed out train car
               | lit by bright fluorescence lamps, full of tired,
               | irritated people, where they could easily be standing for
               | half the trip.
               | 
               | Not exactly the ideal environment to dine or work on your
               | hobbies...
        
             | mytailorisrich wrote:
             | I think it's very common (I'm in Europe/UK). Things add up
             | extremely quickly to reach ~1h door-to-door between home
             | and office.
             | 
             | Saving that time does make a huge difference, indeed.
             | 
             | It's exactly my case, actually. My commute was just under
             | an hour each way, walk and train, so I have been saving a
             | lot of time and money since WFH. I go for a walk at
             | lunchtime, though, in order to do some exercise but it's
             | much nicer than walking on busy roads to train stations.
        
             | robertlagrant wrote:
             | It's not insane. It's what people do to feed their families
             | and keep their kids in the same school. It would be better
             | not to, but it is far from insane.
        
             | deathanatos wrote:
             | Do you pay the quite significant rent increase to reduce
             | the commute, or do you pocket that money & try to deal with
             | the lost time as best as possible?
             | 
             | At some point, I'm going to want to buy a house (so money
             | now can be saved), the total cost of which is >$1M in not
             | just the Bay Area (which I've now left, for these very
             | reasons); even where I am now, housing remains that pricy
             | ... unless you give up having a sub 2h commute.
             | 
             | > _A 2-hour round trip commute is insane._
             | 
             | My employer doesn't believe that. If they did, they would
             | pay me sufficiently that I wouldn't need to choose. The Bay
             | Area doesn't believe that: if they did, they'd address the
             | housing crisis.
        
               | nly wrote:
               | Equivalent housing on overground commuter lines to London
               | in the UK, compared that of inside London, is basically
               | <rail fare> per month cheaper to mortgage.
               | 
               | For many people it comes down to whether they can afford
               | to deposit or get the income multiple loan to buy in the
               | city, not monthly expense.
        
               | spacedcowboy wrote:
               | The difference being that the UK's rail infrastructure
               | (especially around London) is orders (plural) of
               | magnitude better than that in the Bay Area.
               | 
               | I lived and worked in London (South Kensington/Pimlico at
               | college, Streatham, Walthamstow, Acton Town, Notting Hill
               | - all over, really) for about 16 years. I've been in the
               | Bay Area for ~17 years. There really isn't any
               | comparison. Londoners have it made, even if it doesn't
               | feel it when the train is packed/a few mins
               | late/cancelled.
               | 
               | I see the light-rail here going by on occasion. It's
               | empty. BART is inadequate (there are 270 stations on the
               | tube, there are 50 on BART covering a larger area), and
               | it runs with a 10-20 minute cadence, not the 2-5 minute
               | cadence of the tube. As far as real trains go, Caltrain
               | is pretty good if you're on the track (really, the train
               | itself is nicer than most in the UK) but it's coverage is
               | very limited.
               | 
               | Just like the NHS, you don't know what you have until
               | it's gone.
        
               | greedo wrote:
               | My dad told me something I thought was a good guiding
               | principle; you can always make more money, but you can't
               | get back wasted time.
        
               | TeMPOraL wrote:
               | > _My employer doesn 't believe that. If they did, they
               | would pay me sufficiently that I wouldn't need to choose.
               | The Bay Area doesn't believe that: if they did, they'd
               | address the housing crisis._
               | 
               | There has to be a name for the logical fallacy of
               | treating the market as some kind of oracle, as if it was
               | a global optimizer, instead of a greedy optimizer that
               | will happily ignore the costs it can externalize.
               | 
               | "The Bay Area" doesn't "believe" the housing crisis needs
               | to be addressed because for most interested actors, it's
               | in their personal interest to further the crisis. You
               | paid a lot for your house, and you want it to appreciate
               | in value. You paid a lot for your house, _because_ others
               | who bought before you wanted theirs to appreciate in
               | value. Someone else will pay a lot for their house,
               | because you want yours to appreciate in value.
        
               | egypturnash wrote:
               | I propose "First Church Of The Invisible Hand".
        
               | dougmwne wrote:
               | That's a good one. I propose "Efficient Market Fallacy".
               | The Efficient Market is such a tempting idea with simple
               | explanations for complex human behavior. The reality can
               | be very broken, very inefficient, wasting many human
               | lifetimes and with tons of horrific externalities in
               | situations that basically amount to a kind of organized
               | crime.
        
               | Mauricebranagh wrote:
               | And if more housing was built it would be snapped up by
               | speculators - is a bit like building better roads =to
               | reduce congestion.
        
               | sidlls wrote:
               | Potential solutions to that: prohibit ownership of
               | residential property (whether small scale, like single
               | family up to 4-unit properties, or large scale, e.g.
               | apartment complexes) except as a primary residence by
               | foreign individuals or businesses that have foreign
               | individuals as their true beneficial owners, and have
               | additional taxes on properties that are not owner-
               | occupied a substantial fraction of the year (say, 9
               | months).
        
               | sumtechguy wrote:
               | It is called regulatory capture.
        
               | KptMarchewa wrote:
               | If you live in big city in a country not totally ravaged
               | by car culture, you can also subtract car price.
        
               | jxidjhdhdhdhfhf wrote:
               | And it's often not just more expensive living near a big
               | city, it's also a different lifestyle. The type of
               | housing near in to the city where I work is different
               | than the housing further away. For example you may have
               | to live in a smaller apartment/condo in a more urban
               | neighborhood vs. living in a SFH in a more green
               | neighborhood. Some people like the former, others like
               | the latter.
        
               | an_opabinia wrote:
               | While this "enumerate all the costs and benefits"
               | calculus is really appealing, the "how much is the land
               | (de)appreciating?" factor dominates everything. This is
               | why most people can buy homes without much serious
               | thought and still come out very happy and ahead, because
               | the land appreciation (or depreciation) sort of bakes in
               | all your complex considerations for you.
        
             | 0_____0 wrote:
             | I know people who had 4-5 hour RT commutes in the Bay.
             | (Tracy <-> SF) It's ludicrous, but I suppose it's a bit of
             | a boiled frog scenario. People just got used to having to
             | commute from further and further away as housing has gotten
             | less affordable.
        
               | ryandrake wrote:
               | I'm in Livermore, so not as far out as Tracy, but
               | depending on traffic, the one-way commute can be 1 hour
               | 45 minutes (best case) up to 4 hours (worst-case Friday
               | 4:00PM before a holiday weekend). Usual case is a little
               | over 2 hours each way. The real soul killer is the
               | unpredictability of it all. Every morning there's at
               | least one jackass on each interstate highway leg that
               | manages to crash their car into something, slowing
               | everything down in a random, unpredictable way.
        
               | tjr225 wrote:
               | I had a similar commute from Olympia to Seattle for about
               | 6 months. Absolutely soul crushing. The amount of people
               | on their phones is mind boggling.
               | 
               | My solution was to figure out how to afford to live in
               | the city. I am privileged in that sense, however.
        
               | hnlmorg wrote:
               | If you're not having to drive then commutes can be easily
               | optimised. You can read a book, chat to your commuter
               | buddies on the train/boat/coach (in some instances over a
               | beer so it's little different than being down the pub).
               | I've even used my commuter time to catch up of pending
               | PRs on open source projects I maintain.
               | 
               | This obviously depends on your city / county / state
               | having good public transport infrastructure but if the
               | option is there and its practical then I'd take the train
               | over driving to work any day of the week.
        
               | rcpt wrote:
               | Door-to-desk plus desk-to-door was 3 hours for me. Even
               | with the google bus that was pretty rough.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | I had one of those--typically by train--for about 18
               | months though I didn't go in every day. I had to get up
               | by about 6am to drive to the train station and it was
               | just a big chunk of the day. I don't think I'd have found
               | it sustainable over the long-term.
        
               | watwut wrote:
               | But it makes equal chores split with partner regarding
               | kids literally impossible. Practically, you barely ever
               | see them and your dad role amounts to being wallet.
        
               | bluefirebrand wrote:
               | So many of the arguments made by pro-office people seem
               | to boil down to "If you have a family or other non-work
               | responsibilities, screw you"
        
               | lanstin wrote:
               | Fortunately, they aren't the boss of me, and also
               | fortunately, the job market means my skills gives me
               | enough power to push back against this idea all on my
               | own, with no support from a union or strong laws or
               | anything. A family isn't just a responsibility, it's a
               | delight, a fulfilling life, human connection, everything
               | you need wrapped up into a big ball of inconvenience and
               | imperfection.
        
             | myth_drannon wrote:
             | Most people I know who have families and live in suburbs
             | have longer commutes (Toronto or Montreal). 3 hours is the
             | norm.
        
               | pc86 wrote:
               | "3 hours is the norm" is objectively false. The average
               | commute is under an hour:
               | https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2019/10/07/nine-
               | days...
               | 
               | And in case you think Canada is wildly different than the
               | US, not only is it not, but it's actually even better:
               | https://www150.statcan.gc.ca/n1/daily-
               | quotidien/190225/dq190...
        
               | gbear605 wrote:
               | "3 hours is the norm" can both be true for people in a
               | certain area while false for the country as a whole.
        
               | pc86 wrote:
               | https://www150.statcan.gc.ca/n1/daily-
               | quotidien/171129/t002c...
               | 
               | "3 hours is the norm" is just not true for any area of
               | the US or Canada.
        
             | pc86 wrote:
             | It's just someone prioritizing things differently. I would
             | never commute more than 20-30 minutes (one way) pre-COVID.
             | I will only work remotely from now on, _maybe_ a scheduled
             | day in the office every week for a killer opportunity with
             | a resume-changing company.
             | 
             | But if you live in a HCOL area, and you want a yard, you're
             | pretty much locked in to hour+ one-way commutes.
        
               | mcguire wrote:
               | Back between 1990 and 2005, I lived in Austin before
               | moving to north Alabama. My commute when I was working on
               | Redstone Arsenal was exactly an hour each way. I didn't
               | really mind for several reasons.
               | 
               | One of which was that my 6 mile commute in Austin took
               | between 45 minutes to an hour.
        
             | biztos wrote:
             | I had a 2h round trip daily commute from downtown Sunnyvale
             | (about 10 minutes walk to Caltrain) to downtown SF (2nd and
             | Folsom). It was pretty normal.
             | 
             | Basically an hour each way, of which 20m fast walking, if
             | you timed it right. Hit a slow train, try for the 10 bus
             | and miss, get rained on, train late, miss the train, train
             | runs over someone -- sometimes it took longer.
             | 
             | I moved up to the city and had about 40 minutes each way by
             | bus, and if you haven't tried it let me tell you: an hour
             | on Caltrain is much nicer, not to mention safer, than half
             | an hour on a MUNI bus.
             | 
             | On Caltrain I could at least read the news, on the bus it
             | was pretty much watch your back.
             | 
             | I haven't commuted at all in the last 12 years but I accept
             | that if I ever work onsite in the USA again I probably will
             | need to, and the trick is to try and find a form of commute
             | that isn't a complete waste of time.
        
               | poopypoopington wrote:
               | When my commute was biking 30 minutes from the inner
               | sunset to SoMa a few years ago I found that I really
               | enjoyed that. Honestly a 30 minute bike ride is my ideal
               | commute I think.
        
           | nly wrote:
           | I consider my commute time part of work and deduct it from my
           | contracted hours (8 to 6).
        
             | bluefirebrand wrote:
             | That doesn't fly with most employers I've worked for.
        
           | Zelphyr wrote:
           | When interviewing with a company who demands commuting say,
           | "I value my time as I'm sure you do. I will commute if
           | required but I charge a premium for my commuting time. My
           | rate is $x/hr and since I will be commuting 2 hours a day, 5
           | days a week, an estimated 48 weeks (accounting for holidays,
           | vacation, sick, etc...) a year then I request you increase my
           | salary by $x * 2 * 5 * 48."
           | 
           | I say that partially in jest because, of course, no employer
           | is going to increase your salary by $48K simply because you
           | value your commuting time at $100/hr (a reasonable rate if
           | you're in tech). Still, I think it's a useful way to gain a
           | perspective on just how valuable one's time really is to
           | them.
        
             | j4yav wrote:
             | I have proposed doing it during work hours and got a
             | positive response.
        
             | Mauricebranagh wrote:
             | Why not in the UK jobs in London factor in the extra
             | required for commute and housing costs.
             | 
             | I reckoned that it would be PS10k post tax just for the
             | additional cost of commute (65 miles)
        
           | ojbyrne wrote:
           | It does depend on the type of commute. If you walk or ride a
           | bicycle to work that is at least somewhat personal time, and
           | I personally enjoy the structure. If you use a train or bus
           | or something similar and don't have too much rigmarole around
           | transferring etc, that also can be personal or work time or a
           | combination. The only real lost time is driving, and even
           | then some people enjoy podcasts etc.
        
             | agonmon wrote:
             | In the Bay Area the train and bus system is a crammed,
             | stressful experience where you have to worry about being
             | robbed, harassed, or being annoyed by loud music, homeless
             | _smells_, or inebriated people trying to smoke in a packed
             | car. Regarding cars: don't forget the increase of risk of
             | accident and death from driving, as well as the constant
             | stress of avoiding collisions; I can barely retain podcasts
             | while driving.
        
           | agumonkey wrote:
           | covid gave us a lot of data, and things are not as obvious as
           | imagined, many people said they just couldn't operate at
           | home, but it seems the majority was utterly happy
        
         | twobitshifter wrote:
         | The pandemic has flipped things on their head. Before it was
         | "how can I know that you'd be productive outside of the
         | office?" and now it's "how is the office is any way necessary
         | or an improvement on working from home?"
         | 
         | Businesses have to justify offices and cubicles to their
         | workers but from all of the arguments I've read, they're coming
         | up short.
        
         | flexie wrote:
         | This, and
         | 
         | - Walk kids to school in the mornings, pick them up in
         | afternoons
         | 
         | - Buy groceries when it suits you in the middle of the day.
         | 
         | - Do sports in the middle of the day
         | 
         | - Start slow cooking during the day
         | 
         | - Avoid being called into pointless meetings (no-one can see
         | that you are actually not in another meeting or phone call)
         | 
         | - Take breaks with your wife
        
         | golergka wrote:
         | Laundry? I regularly take a 20-minute bath in the middle of my
         | workday. With salt, bubbles, scent candles and a book.
         | 
         | Why would I ever go back to the office?
        
           | failwhaleshark wrote:
           | No bath bombs?
           | 
           | How do Zoom calls work? Do you just throw on an Afghan monk-
           | style or use a Snap filter?
        
             | golergka wrote:
             | I haven't had a single zoom call in my current company
             | since the interview. Audio calls are extremely rare, one in
             | 4 months on average.
             | 
             | I've never been so psychologically stable and productive in
             | my entire working life.
        
       | latenightcoding wrote:
       | There are certain jobs that are very easy to outsource yet
       | companies pay a premium to hire locals. I feel quitting instead
       | of going back to the office will backfire for many. I'm not
       | necessarily talking about tech jobs, which led the way in WFH
       | positions even before the pandemic.
        
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