[HN Gopher] What if remote work didn't mean working from home?
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       What if remote work didn't mean working from home?
        
       Author : haakonhr
       Score  : 54 points
       Date   : 2021-05-25 11:00 UTC (12 hours ago)
        
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       | mtalantikite wrote:
       | I've been working remote for 13 years now and I really wish I had
       | rented an office outside of my house much earlier than I did. At
       | 23 your threshold for pain and discomfort is I think much higher
       | in many ways, but I definitely burnt myself out by having my
       | workspace also be my living space (small apartment in NYC).
       | 
       | Once I started sharing a loft space with some friends to co-work
       | out of things got a lot more enjoyable. My space was a 20 minute
       | walk from my apartment, I could keep a more robust setup there,
       | had space for an electronics/soldering station, kept a library of
       | CS and math books there, etc. And if I needed to just do some
       | work on my laptop and stay at home, that was always an option
       | too.
       | 
       | Highly recommend having a situation like that if it's at all
       | possible. I gave up my space in Brooklyn mid-way through the
       | pandemic and definitely am going to go find a new one soon. (If
       | anyone has got a hacker space in north brooklyn let me know!).
        
       | hprotagonist wrote:
       | At least in spirit, I feel like this idea was WeWork's business
       | model.
        
         | cedricd wrote:
         | Exactly. I wonder if this trend will create a meaningful
         | turnaround for them. What a wild world.
        
           | lotsofpulp wrote:
           | They're problem was that the land owners can do what they can
           | do pretty easily and cut out the middleman.
        
         | Taylor_OD wrote:
         | Yup. I ran an office out of a wework for a while and it was a
         | mess. But the folks who used their office as a secondary part
         | time space to do focused work seemed to really enjoy it. They
         | were also the only people who were there during our entire
         | lease.
        
       | spaetzleesser wrote:
       | If you can afford it that's a great setup. I had this for a while
       | in Munich with my office a five minute bike ride away from home.
       | But it costs a lot so it's probably not a good choice for a lot
       | of people.
        
       | rado wrote:
       | Yes, please.
        
       | jenkstom wrote:
       | This doesn't help those who have to work from home because of a
       | disability. Finding excuses to discriminate against the disabled
       | is toxic behavior. So I'm going to go ahead and label this
       | article as "toxic" since it recommends a "solution" without
       | mentioning that it's completely inappropriate for some people.
        
         | YetAnotherNick wrote:
         | By the same logic almost all of the companies pre covid are
         | toxic?
        
         | loco5niner wrote:
         | > Finding excuses to discriminate against the disabled is toxic
         | behavior.
         | 
         | I see no attempt to do that in the article. You are not helping
         | your cause.
        
         | CodeGlitch wrote:
         | You're right in that it ignores the disabled, but is that
         | toxic? Surely it would have to be outright hostile to the
         | disabled for it to be "toxic".
         | 
         | What I think has happened is that the author just hasn't
         | considered the less abled, which is a common mistake. Far from
         | toxic though.
        
       | eruci wrote:
       | This was my life even before the pandemic (Since 2005 I've worked
       | in coffeshops, parks, in my car and in beaches nearby) with the
       | only difference that coffeshops are closed at the moment and I'll
       | have to make do with what is left. Leaving home while working
       | from home is very important.
        
       | swader999 wrote:
       | My shed that I can easily convert to an office is not home but
       | close to home so...
        
       | beforeolives wrote:
       | Works out best if "near home" = "the actual office of my
       | company".
        
         | throwaway3699 wrote:
         | An underlying issues nobody is talking about is real estate
         | prices need to crash then. The quality of life outside a city
         | is just so unbelievably better that I'm not going back to live
         | in a box for hundreds of dollars a month, on a filthy street
         | with no sense of community.
        
           | riskneutral wrote:
           | Quality of life outside the big city is better? Do you mean
           | in the suburbs? Or in a small town? Or in a village? Or in
           | the wilderness in a cabin?
        
             | bluefirebrand wrote:
             | Yes, all of those things are better than living in cities.
             | 
             | Less noise, less crowding, less violence and crime, more
             | space, more peace, and more friendliness.
        
               | beforeolives wrote:
               | The friendliness thing is hit and miss, small communities
               | have their own brand of dysfunctions.
        
             | throwaway3699 wrote:
             | Yes to all of those, for me at least. I'm not denying there
             | are some upsides to city living (easy access to office
             | being the big one) but I wouldn't move back to one without
             | at least double the salary.
        
       | avelis wrote:
       | This only works when quiet time to think and work is respected.
       | Cowork spaces are usually terrible at it.
        
       | ryankrage77 wrote:
       | > organizations that allow remote work should not only encourage
       | these employees to find professional spaces near (but distinct
       | from) their homes--they should also directly subsidize these
       | cognitive escapes
       | 
       | Well I can think of one location a lot of businesses could allow
       | an employee to work from - the office.
        
       | Bjartr wrote:
       | I actually have this arrangement with my employer. They're paying
       | $500/mo. to rent a small one room office for me a few blocks away
       | from my home because I am easily more than twice as productive
       | when not at home. It's a no-brainer comparing the cost to value.
        
       | blakesterz wrote:
       | "Here's my proposal: organizations that allow remote work should
       | not only encourage these employees to find professional spaces
       | near (but distinct from) their homes--they should also directly
       | subsidize these cognitive escapes. The cost need not be
       | prohibitive. If we turn back to our author examples, we see that
       | a workspace doesn't need to be aesthetically pleasing, or well-
       | equipped, or air-conditioned (or even have walls or a roof!)"
       | 
       | I'm not sure I agree with the specific proposal put forward here.
       | Those examples probably won't work for most people. BUT I think
       | many of us would agree with the general idea of having a place
       | near home to do some work in some fashion. That's the point of
       | remote work places like WeWork and all the many local places out
       | there, isn't it?
        
         | bluefirebrand wrote:
         | I could not imagine taking anyone seriously who says I should
         | leave my air conditioned house, comfy office set up exactly how
         | I like it, for "that a workspace doesn't need to be
         | aesthetically pleasing, or well-equipped, or air-conditioned
         | (or even have walls or a roof!"
         | 
         | Unreal. The disconnect here is just shocking.
        
       | thatjoeoverthr wrote:
       | I do this exactly. I rented a small apartment very near (fifty
       | meters) from home, declared it my "studio" and set up my
       | workplace. I can work there with my older daughter (studying at
       | home) and my younger daughter (a toddler) is safely separated and
       | home is not a work place. Literally, I don't have a "computer" at
       | home; only my iPad and a 25 year old Nintendo. 10/10, strongly
       | recommend.
        
         | Taylor_OD wrote:
         | Oh wow. That is cool. What area are you in? I've considered
         | this but I would need to move to a much lower COL area.
        
           | thatjoeoverthr wrote:
           | Poland. I'm paying about 500/mo (USD) for the place. That's
           | true, I forget how expensive many places are.
        
             | Taylor_OD wrote:
             | Yup. At that price I'd 100% do the same thing. That's
             | awesome.
        
       | GoodJokes wrote:
       | What if organizations just let employees do what they want and
       | offered them a number of options.
        
       | whywhywhywhy wrote:
       | If work still has to be conducted by videocall they may as well
       | just be at home it's just an inefficient either way and you still
       | lose the ability to have creative ideation discussion that just
       | doesn't work over videocall because of the time delay and forced
       | one at a time speaking.
       | 
       | I do think WFH is here to stay but I also see an uncomfortable
       | divide is going to form both in the types of work given to the
       | two sides and the promotion and salary opportunities.
        
       | golergka wrote:
       | In nice weather, I just grab my laptop and go sit on a bench in a
       | nearest park. Best work environment that I've ever had in my
       | entire life.
        
         | abruzzi wrote:
         | I did this for a bit during the pandemic (because my
         | productivity approaches zero at home) unfortunately, it gets
         | hot in the summer here, so working on a park bench in 110F heat
         | isn't a year round option. I suspect there are few plaes in the
         | US where this could work year round. I ended up just going back
         | to the office--everyone else was gone, at home due to
         | quarantine--and I could be very productive.
        
         | CodeGlitch wrote:
         | Seriously how do you do this for any length of time? I would
         | have neck and back ache and my hands would cramp up after just
         | 1 day.
        
       | _joel wrote:
       | I wouldn't have a problem, but I do feel there's an undercurrent
       | of these kind of "You can't be productive actually at home"
       | articles I'm reading. I wonder if WeWork are pushing these :)
        
         | beforeolives wrote:
         | Of course companies will push whatever agenda suits them and
         | websites will push anything that gets clicks. But there are
         | people who genuinely feel this way (I'm one of them).
        
       | neonate wrote:
       | https://archive.is/CYbFy
        
       | omarish wrote:
       | Yes. I've done this for the past 4 years and it's the best of
       | both worlds. Right now I rent a private office that's ~10 minutes
       | walking from home. Close enough that there's no traffic; far
       | enough that I have a routine. Love it.
        
       | egypturnash wrote:
       | This has been my life for years except without the "renting a
       | place" part. I work in cafes. I work in parks. I work sitting on
       | a bench taking shelter from the rain on my way to somewhere else.
       | I work anywhere I have space to take my Wacom tablet out of my
       | bag and plug it into my laptop, and the desire to spend more time
       | working today.
       | 
       | I also work at home in my studio but getting away from the
       | distractions of home is, as this article notes, important.
       | 
       | I thought "remote work" already meant this? I've been doing it
       | for years, it's one of the perks of being a freelance artist.
       | Sometimes I've toyed with the idea of getting together with some
       | friends and splitting the rent on a shared studio space but
       | really I know I'd only show up a few days a month.
        
         | shard wrote:
         | I wouldn't mind working in a different place than at home, but
         | I've grown accustomed to having a 27" screen, and having to
         | switch to using just the 13" screen of my work laptop would
         | drive me bonkers. Perhaps one day when rollable monitors are a
         | common thing and I can carry a 27" scroll screen in a poster
         | tube...
        
         | Foxfox12 wrote:
         | I have considered this but it seems too inconvenient. A cafe
         | doesn't seem like a great place to work unless it's
         | consistently quiet and mostly empty so you aren't taking a
         | table an actual customer could have. The library seems like the
         | next best place after home but it doesn't seem to provide a
         | whole lot of value over just working from home since I have a
         | pretty good setup there.
         | 
         | Currently my current and ideal situation is working from home
         | 3-4 days a week and then coming in at the end of the week.
         | Those in office days might be less productive but they do
         | provide enough social interaction for the week.
        
         | spaetzleesser wrote:
         | I wish I could work like this but I like my fixed setup. I
         | can't focus while on the beach or in a cafe. I guess it also
         | depends on the type of work.
        
         | spiderjerusalem wrote:
         | very much this, I'm a very restless person and I _need_ to move
         | every 2-3 hours. Cafe hopping is very very important to my
         | general flow. I also need noise and general life happening
         | around me. Offices are too artificial an environment and my
         | apartment is too silent.
        
         | steveklabnik wrote:
         | > I thought "remote work" already meant this?
         | 
         | Like anything, it's a spectrum. To some people, "travel" means
         | "I drove to the next state over for the afternoon," and to some
         | it means "I am going to this island down by Antarctica that
         | requires getting a special government permit".
        
           | peterbraden wrote:
           | As long as the work gets done, why does it matter?
        
             | steveklabnik wrote:
             | I agree!
        
         | the_greyd wrote:
         | Now that you can sit in inside spaces without a mask, I feel
         | libraries and cafes are a real alternative for me! And this is
         | me typing from a desk at a public library 10 minutes from my
         | apartment. Can't express the amount of relief and joy I feel
         | right now
        
           | egypturnash wrote:
           | ooh, thanks for reminding me about libraries, I got a lot of
           | work done upstairs in the main branch of Seattle's library, I
           | gotta get around to checking out the options in my new city.
        
       | cube00 wrote:
       | I already find it distracting enough listening to conversations
       | from other departments that have nothing to do with me, now I'd
       | have to deal with discussions from other companies instead. Open
       | plan needs to die already.
        
       | alexjplant wrote:
       | I live and work in a 700 square foot apartment (of which too
       | large of a percentage is closet space for my liking). I just
       | discovered that there are two coworking spaces within walking
       | distance; I'm going to see if I can get a reasonable daily rate
       | and shell out a hundred or two a month to go in once or twice a
       | week.
        
       | leecarraher wrote:
       | I think we will soon see a dip in productivity.whenever assessing
       | trends, you should never base conclusions on outlier events and
       | we are basing too much of the wfh success on this past year. A
       | year when you couldn't go out and do things, when people feared
       | for their jobs amid a global crisis and felt a call of duty to
       | keep on working.
        
         | dcolkitt wrote:
         | A lot of managers seem to have an unshakeable convention that
         | as soon as workers are no longer cattle-penned into an office
         | that they'll turn into lazy slobs. As if the only thing
         | stopping them from vegging out on the couch, eating ice cream
         | and watching Jerry Springer during the work day is the watchful
         | and benevolent gaze of their adult supervisors from across the
         | open office floor plan.
         | 
         | Believe it or not, most professionals are actually still
         | productive outside the panopticon. If anything, substantially
         | more productive because of being in a pleasant environment of
         | their choosing. The only reason I can think why so many refuse
         | to accept this evidence is because a lot of middle managers add
         | little value beyond daycare supervisor. Not all, but a lot.
        
         | thrower123 wrote:
         | Possible, but there's the counter-balancing fact that people
         | have been amped up and stressed out the whole last year, they
         | didn't have the hardware they needed or the processes in place
         | to help them succeed, they were dealing with their kids being
         | unexpectedly dumped in their laps, etc.
         | 
         | This time last year companies were scrambling because they were
         | absolutely unprepared for the amount of VPN bandwidth and other
         | resources that would be necessary to handle abruptly shifting
         | their work-force remote.
         | 
         | If anything, I would expect things to go more smoothly, for the
         | companies that don't hastily revert to the asses-in-seats
         | paradigm.
        
       | bluefirebrand wrote:
       | As long as I still have a quiet, private office and don't spend
       | an hour+ per day in traffic and am not expected to give up
       | evenings for "not mandatory but really you should show up to play
       | politics" office happy hours, I don't care where I work.
       | 
       | Currently working from home gives me all of that and I haven't
       | been happier with a job ever.
        
         | geoduck14 wrote:
         | Regarding the Happy Hours:
         | 
         | In 2019, my team would occasionally need to work long hours or
         | would deliver something awesome. I would reward them with HH
         | and dinner/late meal. It gave me a chance to say "thanks" and
         | for us to bond over the challenge we overcame.
         | 
         | I can't do that anymore! I've don't virtual HH, but it isn't
         | the same! I would REALLY like a virtual solution to "bond with
         | your team" and "say thanks in a meaningful way" - cost be
         | damned.
         | 
         | As a side note, politics suck. I really like WFH. Working long
         | hours is bad - bonding is good.
        
           | bcrosby95 wrote:
           | At my workplace, long hours are usually compensated with a
           | bonus _and_ commensurately shorter hours for a period of
           | time.
        
           | bluefirebrand wrote:
           | Spending more time at work (yes, going to a happy hour with
           | my coworkers is still "at work") is not a reward for hard
           | work. More money or time off is.
           | 
           | I work hard to have my own life, outside of work. I don't
           | work hard to be rewarded with a single expensive meal with
           | booze paid for.
           | 
           | I don't even drink anyways.
        
           | conductr wrote:
           | > It gave me a chance to say "thanks"
           | 
           | "Me" is the key word
           | 
           | > and for us to bond over the challenge we overcame.
           | 
           | That occurred already. It happened through the process of
           | overcoming the challenge.
           | 
           | I get the intent, but your people probably just want to rest
           | and get some of their time back. If you must celebrate, do it
           | during hours. I typically did offsite lunch time activities
           | pre-COVID. Now it's more gift driven and individual. I made
           | up award systems like the high school "most likely to ...".
           | If someone renovated their masterbath, give them something
           | that is specific to that as a thanks. Find out if they prefer
           | public or 1:1 gratitude
        
           | Taylor_OD wrote:
           | Yup. Ever after 5pm work thing I've been "rewarded" with is
           | still work. Even if it's more fun than working at my desk its
           | still work. I'm not able to do with that time what I want.
           | It's only a reward if it is replacing work. And really it's
           | only a reward if the amount of time that it is replacing is
           | taken out of the sprint planning.
           | 
           | At the end of the day if you take a weeknight from me I'm
           | going to be annoyed at best and upset at worst. If you take a
           | work day from me, or part of one, but still expect me to get
           | a full days or work done we will both be in a bad position.
           | 
           | I get the intention here. I used to be a people manager and I
           | planned lots of things for after work. But I stopped when I
           | realized how difficult it actually made things for many
           | people and people with kids.
        
           | watwut wrote:
           | These things are highly individual. Usually, after crunches
           | and pressures, I tended to be angry at disorganization that
           | caused it and also wanted to go home due to pile of stuff
           | that accumulated there.
           | 
           | I get that there were people who appreciated these, but not
           | everyone does. It is one more added duty after you have
           | already done a lot.
        
             | bluefirebrand wrote:
             | Imo, It's people who have no other life or responsibility
             | outside of work that love work organized and paid for
             | events.
             | 
             | And they seem incapable of understanding that other people
             | have better things to do than get wasted at a bar with
             | their coworkers on a weeknight, even if the company is
             | paying for it.
        
               | patmorgan23 wrote:
               | It's a balancing act. It's good for people to have some
               | bounding time with the people they work with in a non
               | work environment. It builds empathy across individuals,
               | teams, and departments which makes resolving conflicts
               | easier. Work is a big part of your life and there's
               | nothing wrong with building strong long lasting
               | relationships with your co-workers.
               | 
               | On the flip side, work is a big part of your life and it
               | shouldn't be 100% of you life. It's good to have
               | relationships and commitments outside of work. Finding
               | this balance is hard and different for everyone.
        
               | shard wrote:
               | It depends on the kind of work-organized events. My
               | previous company organized free concerts, from pop to
               | classical to jazz, as well as family events such as Theme
               | Park Day. Aside from company-wide events, there are the
               | large team events (~50 people) that included day hikes,
               | museums, activity camps, and plays. I've enjoyed many of
               | these despite having responsibilities outside of work.
        
           | halgir wrote:
           | It sounds like you're the manager in this case, and that your
           | intentions are genuine. But are you entirely sure that your
           | team feels the same?
           | 
           | I've done similar, but in local restaurants during working
           | hours. It's unfair to implicitly demand your team to donate
           | free time, regardless how much you believe they should enjoy
           | and appreciate it.
           | 
           | That aside, virtual options have come pretty close for us.
           | Give everyone a budget to arrange their own food and either
           | organize activities/games that your team will enjoy or just
           | hang out.
        
           | nomoreplease wrote:
           | > I would reward them with HH and dinner/late meal.
           | 
           | Maybe your team would appreciate a $200 gift card instead of
           | HH + dinner/late meal, especially when some people don't
           | drink or prefer healthy meals instead of steakhouses.
        
             | JohnWhigham wrote:
             | Classic HN missing the point of social interaction and the
             | benefits it provides.
        
               | CoastalCoder wrote:
               | I think the problem with something like (specifically)
               | Happy Hour is that it's really welcome by some employees,
               | and really hated by others.
               | 
               | Imagine being one of the few Mormons, observant Muslims,
               | or recovering alcoholics at a company that "rewards" your
               | team with Happy Hours. Or being someone who's been
               | sexually harassed or assaulted at previous events where
               | coworkers drank too much.
               | 
               | I'm not suggesting that it's easy (or even possible) to
               | plan a social event that's guaranteed to be welcomed by
               | _every_ member of a team. But I think events that focus
               | or rely on alcohol as the means of team bonding can be a
               | bad idea depending on the team.
        
               | lotsofpulp wrote:
               | Then do it during work hours, and everyone wins.
        
               | shard wrote:
               | My previous company had done mid-week outings (definitely
               | not Fridays, people want to go home), where everyone in
               | the team kicks off at 3PM, go see a movie together (the
               | team splitting up based on what movie they wanted to
               | see), then have a nice dinner, with games and prizes at
               | the end at around 7PM. I won a Nintendo Switch one time.
               | It wasn't a bad way to spend an afternoon.
        
               | tannedNerd wrote:
               | Seriously this is the best solution. Instead of after
               | work, do a (virtual or not) HH at 3 on Friday. People
               | don't have to donate free time and will appreciate it
               | much more.
        
               | bluefirebrand wrote:
               | I'd still bet that many people would rather just go home
               | early on a Friday. I know I would.
        
               | topkai22 wrote:
               | Following up late nights working by expecting people to
               | attend an after-work event is not a benefit to the
               | worker. As others have said, having a big team lunch and
               | then sending them home is a benefit.
        
               | cujo wrote:
               | Classic comment missing the point that not everyone needs
               | or wants the social interaction with their work mates.
        
               | legerdemain wrote:
               | THIS, 100% this. I don't want to be "social" with you, I
               | don't want to "bond" with you, and I don't care about you
               | as a human being. You are 100% just a queue of work tasks
               | and a source of pay checks. The less I see, hear, or know
               | about the other people on my team, the happier I am _and
               | the better off they are_. WFH forever, don 't mess with a
               | good thing.
        
               | JohnWhigham wrote:
               | Writing software in most companies is a team endeavor. If
               | you can't handle interacting with others on a daily
               | basis, find another industry. Better yet, start your own
               | company.
        
               | bluefirebrand wrote:
               | There is a huge difference between working on a team and
               | the team essentially acting as a replacement for your
               | social life.
               | 
               | I love working on a team. I don't want to spend my free
               | time with them. That's what my friends are for.
               | 
               | Sometimes people from the team become friends that I
               | spend time with outside of work, but that's on my terms
               | not my employers.
               | 
               | It really seems like many people do not have any kind of
               | healthy boundary with their employer.
        
               | Ronson wrote:
               | I get away with being "The grumpy Scotsman", it's got the
               | point that I don't even get invited which took some work
               | but wouldn't have it any other way. I am still held in
               | high regard at work and part of the furniture now. I just
               | don't do that forced shit. It's not my personality.
        
               | kristjansson wrote:
               | Not everyone of course, and one should be attentive to
               | and accommodating of teammates that feel that way. But
               | surely "let's knock off at three today and go down the
               | pub, thanks for all the hard work" is a positive for most
               | people?
        
               | Angostura wrote:
               | Try Let's knock off at three today.
               | 
               | I'm going down the pub - anyone care to join me? I'm
               | buying."
        
               | bluefirebrand wrote:
               | "Thanks for all the hard work, let's knock off at three
               | today" Is a positive.
               | 
               | "Let's go down to the pub" is still capitalizing on my
               | time. It's still work, just the location has changed. And
               | in the past it has often started at 3 and then kept going
               | and going until way later than if I'd just worked out my
               | day.
               | 
               | There is always some idealism around it like "oh if you
               | don't drink you don't have to, just come hang out for a
               | bit" or "you don't have to stay late you can leave early"
               | but in practice people aren't actually that
               | understanding. You try to head home and it's all "you're
               | not having a good time?" Or "you're not a team player"
               | 
               | No thanks. I'll pass on all of that from now on.
        
           | time0ut wrote:
           | The kind of happy hour you are describing is great and one of
           | the things I miss about the office. Chilling with your tight
           | knit team after a long day or a big release is great. I
           | assume the GP is talking about the other sort of happy hour
           | where it is a bigger crowd. I can't stand those.
        
             | throwawayboise wrote:
             | I've worked with teams that worked well together and got
             | stuff done, at work. But never wanted to hang out after
             | work with anyone. We all had different lives. Some single,
             | some married, some with kids, some not, etc. At the end of
             | the day everyone just wants to go home to his or her
             | private life.
        
             | shard wrote:
             | I prefer the larger team outings, as there are usually more
             | people that I enjoy hanging out with than the small 4-7
             | people team that I work with. Also, larger team outings
             | usually means more things to do because of the larger
             | budget, so it could be a trip to a tourist attraction or
             | activity camp, as opposed to just a meal when it is the
             | smaller team.
        
           | agent008t wrote:
           | How about reward them with a cash bonus?
        
           | zelphirkalt wrote:
           | It can be great to sometimes (!) put in a little more time to
           | reach a goal, deliver something the team wanted to deliver
           | for a long time or improve upon some annoyances in status
           | quo.
           | 
           | Working extra hours is not to be expected and should be
           | valued. A team probably works better when extra effort is
           | valued. I think it is great, that you are trying to thank
           | your employees / coworkers.
        
             | lotsofpulp wrote:
             | You can thank employees and coworkers without using their
             | non work time. Do it at lunch.
        
               | zelphirkalt wrote:
               | True, you got a point, but consider: Saying a few words
               | at lunch time can become a kind of automatism quickly.
               | Perhaps inviting people to social time going out to eat
               | somewhere will leave a more lasting memory. It might not
               | be for everyone. For example people having children and
               | all that. But it does give people a chance to be in a
               | setting outside of work, but with people from the job,
               | which might give a chance to bond through other topics.
               | 
               | I think there might not be the perfect reward/thank you
               | for everyone.
        
               | bluefirebrand wrote:
               | > I think there might not be the perfect reward/thank you
               | for everyone
               | 
               | There is actually.
               | 
               | It's called big stacks of money.
               | 
               | Oddly, companies don't seem to want to reward people with
               | it, the one universal thing that basically everyone could
               | appreciate and is the entire reason anyone works anywhere
               | in the first place.
               | 
               | Crazy. It's almost like playing relatively small amounts
               | for a big expensive catered meal saves the company way
               | more money than rewarding people with meaningful sums of
               | money would.
        
           | SteveNuts wrote:
           | Take the money you would have spent on this and give it to
           | your team directly.
        
           | dao- wrote:
           | > I can't do that anymore!
           | 
           | Good. You'll have to think harder to find ways not to
           | overwork your team in the first place.
           | 
           | This attitude towards workers rubs me the wrong way, but your
           | side note saved you in my eyes:
           | 
           | > Working long hours is bad
           | 
           | Yes! Overworking people and then saying "thanks" by
           | exploiting the fact ("using the chance", as you put it) that
           | you locked them into the office isn't exactly fair. If this
           | is what people mean by happy hour, that's absurd. If they
           | chose to stay for social stuff after a normal day of work,
           | that's of course another thing.
        
           | dcolkitt wrote:
           | What about the occasional company ski trip?
        
           | reidjs wrote:
           | If you all still live in the same area would it be impossible
           | to organize a little offsite at a bar or restaurant?
        
         | gajjanag wrote:
         | Also, the ability to tune out of useless meetings by muting
         | audio/video is great.
        
           | devoutsalsa wrote:
           | I wish Zoom had an in-app mute button. I'd love it if I
           | didn't have to mute the entire computer.
        
             | hwbehrens wrote:
             | A trick I've used before in a pinch is to set your monitor
             | connection (via USB-C/HDMI/DisplayPort) as the Zoom audio
             | output. I never use it as an output, so it's permanently
             | muted in the on-screen menus. Since Zoom makes it fairly
             | easy to customize audio, it can act as a simple mute
             | effect.
        
             | patmorgan23 wrote:
             | You can mute individual applications in windows volume
             | mixer (right click speaker icon in the taskbar, click open
             | volume mixer). I don't know if there's a Mac equivalent but
             | I would be really surprised if there wasn't.
        
               | zaptheimpaler wrote:
               | Also Windows+G brings up an on screen overlay over any
               | application with the volume mixer and other stuff. Its
               | super useful.
        
       | k__ wrote:
       | It never did.
       | 
       | I work remote for 7 years now and the first year I worked mostly
       | from libraries and coffeeshops.
        
       | kenneth wrote:
       | I've worked like this since way before Covid. Unfortunately the
       | lockdowns have pushed me more at home than at my usual haunt of
       | cafes and bars (or occasionally the beach). I'm completely
       | incapable of getting anything productive done at home. I work for
       | myself so an office is kind of a waste. A bustling cafe or a bar
       | gives me the best ambiance in which to focus distraction-free.
        
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