[HN Gopher] Working at a startup is overrated, both financially ...
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       Working at a startup is overrated, both financially and emotionally
        
       Author : dshipper
       Score  : 522 points
       Date   : 2021-05-22 10:01 UTC (13 hours ago)
        
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       | mad_ned wrote:
       | It also makes a huge difference if the startup is your primary
       | source of income or not. My wife worked for several startups, all
       | of which failed. But since I had a more stable paycheck, it
       | wasn't so bad, and we just treated the extra startup income as a
       | bonus, and had very low expectations on cashing in on the equity.
        
         | erwald wrote:
         | though at that point it sounds no different than a hobby,
         | really.
        
           | XorNot wrote:
           | I mean she would've still been paid. What it means is that
           | losing your job doesn't become a pressing financial concern
           | right away.
        
           | amelius wrote:
           | This is the promise of UBI. Everyone can work on their hobby.
        
             | ghaff wrote:
             | Enjoy working on your hobby on the government's
             | $1,000/month because that's what any remotely plausible
             | _basic_ income is going to be like.
        
               | the-smug-one wrote:
               | That's what every Swedish student's income is like :).
        
               | lotsofpulp wrote:
               | UBI is not about working on any hobby you want. It's
               | about redistributing wealth so that people can negotiate
               | for more of the pie since the current system relies on
               | using the cumulative wealth of one's ancestors to
               | determine their bargaining power.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | At least you're candid that it's about taking money from
               | people against their will. Most advocates couch UBI in
               | terms like unleashing individual creativity and things
               | like that.
        
               | lotsofpulp wrote:
               | I'm also candid about my current lifestyle being based on
               | taking things from people against their will.
               | 
               | Their will probably was not to pick strawberries in a
               | foreign nation or clean beers spilled surfaces at 11pm or
               | not being able to breastfeed their infant because they
               | need to go slap hamburgers together for $15 an hour.
               | 
               | I assume not all of those people willingly got drunk and
               | high and got caught engaging in crime in their teens and
               | 20s and willingly threw away their economic
               | opportunities.
        
               | yao420 wrote:
               | > taking money from people against their will
               | 
               | Yes, that is what taxes are.
        
             | rriepe wrote:
             | I don't think mad_ned can afford all of us.
        
               | asddubs wrote:
               | they don't call him mad_ned because of his sound decision
               | making
        
         | FooBarBizBazz wrote:
         | Problem is, how do you support this? You must have made a lot
         | of money to both (a) support your family, and (b) pay for the
         | childcare that your wife would have been too busy to help very
         | much with. Either that, or you lived in a low cost of living
         | area and were able to do some kind of price/salary arbitrage.
         | And if the solution _was_ "make a lot of money", then that
         | again makes childcare doubly important, because if _you also_
         | were focusing on work, then you wouldn 't have had much time to
         | raise your kids either. Right?
         | 
         | Ah. I've left out the obvious option: You don't have kids, and
         | don't plan to?
         | 
         | I bring this up not to be snarky but because this feels like a
         | very real Catch-22.
         | 
         | (Deleted weird coda with mythological references and stuff.)
        
           | hluska wrote:
           | Why do you assume they have children? Not everyone choose to
           | have children and frankly, that's a great decision. I'm a
           | parent but I subscribe to the feeling that instead of
           | assuming everyone has/wants kids, we should praise people who
           | don't.
        
             | FooBarBizBazz wrote:
             | I started out assuming they had kids, but I did catch
             | myself:
             | 
             | > Ah. I've left out the obvious option: You don't have
             | kids, and don't plan to?
             | 
             | Yes, that's their business.
             | 
             | My problem isn't with their personal decision per-se. It's
             | that today's myths ("the glorious and independent startup
             | founder") encourage people to make sacrifices that they may
             | not think about until it's too late. I think most people
             | who chase the startup dream will regret it. I also think
             | that there are other people, not founders on average, who
             | benefit from these myths. So they should be treated with
             | suspicion.
        
             | novok wrote:
             | Children are a public good that funds everyone's
             | retirement, no matter your political system and the people
             | who don't have kids are basically free riders in the end.
             | 
             | In a libertarian perspective, the young create growth in
             | the market that the ownership old use to fund their
             | retirements, and in a socialist perspective, they create a
             | tax base of income that the government uses to fund the
             | retirements of the old.
        
       | anon12345678910 wrote:
       | I did it, took a lot of risk and it has paid off somewhat.
       | 
       | I chose to work at an early stage startup, in my home country
       | (which is known to be adverse to entrepreneurship), in a very
       | monopolized market, even though I could've easily moved abroad
       | and joined a big company.
       | 
       | Despite all the odds it worked out for me financially and I'm
       | proud of what we achieved, but I realize it was basically
       | gambling.
       | 
       | My advice is to take a shot at it if you're young, but try to aim
       | on ambitious startups so you can balance the slim odds with huge
       | potential upside.
        
       | annoyingnoob wrote:
       | I've worked at several startups. If you are new to stock options,
       | I think that the different ways those options can work and be
       | diluted is the hardest part to grok. Personally, I never had to
       | 'take a haircut in comp' to work at a startup, but I've had bad
       | stock deals.
       | 
       | I would say that each of my startup experiences had some dark
       | times, it wasn't always easy by any measure. At the same time,
       | each of those experiences provided a lot of personal growth and
       | opened other opportunities for me.
        
       | ttul wrote:
       | I don't think you're doing it right if you're going to work in a
       | startup out of a desire for enormous riches. The odds are tiny
       | that you'll end up better off financially than you would working
       | for Google and collecting huge RSUs.
       | 
       | Do it because the startup excites you, and be okay with things if
       | the startup fails and you are out of a job. Because the economics
       | likely won't work out, you'll have to derive value in other ways.
        
       | globular-toast wrote:
       | This makes me think of the composition fallacy[0]. There is
       | another, more specific, term called the "apex fallacy". The idea
       | is that people have a tendency to see only the most successful
       | representatives of a particular group and infer that the group as
       | a whole has an advantage.
       | 
       | [0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fallacy_of_composition
        
       | wgyn wrote:
       | This is compellingly well-written but wrong, in my opinion.
       | There's been a steady trickle of articles on the top of Hacker
       | News that make essentially the same argument: your odds of
       | choosing a successful startup are miniscule (2% in this one). I
       | think this does people considering startups a disservice.
       | 
       | The _conditional_ chance of picking a successful company to join
       | is way higher than 2%, or whatever the median success rate of all
       | startups is. In particular, I think really intellectually
       | curious, ambitious, hard-working people can, for the most part,
       | identify each other. This is really different from reading about
       | valuations or what other people think in the news, which leads to
       | a lot more noise. If you meet a bunch of people at the company,
       | you can assess the their caliber for yourself.
       | 
       | While it's not a perfect predictor of success, it's at least the
       | case that such people are usually working on cool, worthy
       | projects. Based on this, it's possible to get conviction on a
       | group before their likely success becomes common knowledge--
       | granted it's getting harder to do this because of how much money
       | is floating around.
       | 
       | To put it another way, there are a handful of companies out there
       | right now at Series A/Series B with a dense accumulation of
       | talent. It's probably a reasonable bet to try and join them
       | before they hit unicorn valuations, when room for growth is
       | smaller. And in these cases, you could be #10-#40 at a relatively
       | de-risked company and have a really great outcome.
       | 
       | On the flip side, if you even remotely enjoy learning and
       | autonomy, working at Google/Apple/Amazon/etc is probably a great
       | way to set yourself up for existential frustration. It's not even
       | a great financial proposition. Even at $500k/yr, it's 20 years--a
       | whole working life--to make it to $10m, the hypothetical number
       | from the article. Even if your first startup doesn't make it
       | after 2-3 years, you can try again a few times and still come out
       | ahead. This is a classic pg argument--I can't remember which
       | essay--but the point of a startup is to compress decades of
       | working life.
       | 
       | Caveat: I happened to join a startup whose success changed my
       | life both financially and in terms of career trajectory. I'm very
       | biased. But this is also why I feel passionately that this
       | article's advice is bad.
        
         | derekdahmer wrote:
         | > Even at $500k/yr, it's 20 years--a whole working life--to
         | make it to $10m
         | 
         | Just one nitpick here, FAANG companies have 2-5x'd in the last
         | five years so with $250k of equity in this example would have
         | had an actual comp of $750k-1.5m/year which would leave you
         | set-for-life rich in just 5-10 years no matter which one you
         | chose.
         | 
         | If you have access to a FAANG job and are optimizing for
         | expected return you have to ask yourself - is it more likely
         | this billion dollar company doubles in value or a seed stage
         | startup that you have 0.5% of becomes a billion dollar company?
        
           | wgyn wrote:
           | Perhaps, but it's possible to invest in Google via the stock
           | market. I'm not sure it makes sense to bake in the stock
           | market performance of a public company when considering value
           | of their "equity." It seems like you should be using whatever
           | your standard discount rate (S&P 500 or NASDAQ)?
        
             | novok wrote:
             | FANG equity packages are an implicit buy option that lasts
             | 4 years. $1 million dollars of options that lasts 4 years
             | is very expensive and very lucrative.
             | 
             | Plus in startup land, your missing that equity half, so you
             | can't take that money and go invest it in google like you
             | could working at FANG.
        
       | oncethere wrote:
       | I agree that the math is very poor for early employees. I went
       | through the best case scenario and it still wasn't worth it.
       | 
       | I joined a startup just after their series A. I was offered what
       | they said was a lot of equity (1/2000 of the company). I ended up
       | with the best case scenario: it grew like crazy and 8 years later
       | went public at a multi-billion dollar valuation. My shares had
       | gone up more than 100x.
       | 
       | My payout was good, but financially not worth it. The company
       | raised a bunch along the way (I stopped counting after series G)
       | so I got diluted a fair bit. I also took a lower than market
       | salary for the time I spent there (which was of course justified
       | by the fact the company was growing so fast and people were
       | jumping to hop on a rocket ship).
       | 
       | I ended up with low 7 figures, which, yes, is amazing, but I
       | actually would have had more at any FAANG company during that
       | same period.
       | 
       | So who really got paid? The founders and the executive team (no
       | matter when they joined). It was a good experience, but startups,
       | financially, are not a great move.
        
       | jFriedensreich wrote:
       | On the other hand i think working corporate jobs is also still
       | way overrated (even if it is maybe already rated low). Whenever I
       | think this will be different i want to shoot myself after 1 or 2
       | months latest, working for a startup just is the lesser evil.
        
         | sbarre wrote:
         | It depends what you value..
         | 
         | Early in my career, I wanted experience with as many parts of
         | the business as possible, I wanted to work on really hard
         | problems and build really cool stuff, and I could take risks..
         | I was young and perfectly comfortable with a bad work/life
         | balance because I had no other commitments.
         | 
         | At this stage in my career, I value stability and work/life
         | balance much more, and while I am still looking to solve hard
         | problems, it's not at the urgent pace that startups demand, and
         | how I define "hard problem" has changed too.
        
         | AdmiralGinge wrote:
         | Yeah, I think I'd be utterly "half a bottle of gin a night"
         | miserable working in the average corporate environment. It's
         | hard to put my finger on the precise reason, but that kind of
         | environment just has absolutely zero appeal to me even though
         | I'd be earning a fair bit more.
         | 
         | Money's nice, but not hating your life is nicer. I'd make a
         | rubbish Sisyphus.
        
         | villasv wrote:
         | _Having_ to work (instead of the privilege of working if you
         | want on whatever you want) is the root of evils.
         | 
         | Startup life isn't working on what I want, it's agile firefight
         | every sprint. Corporate life wasn't working when I wanted, it
         | was plowing through the day unproductive and unmotivated.
        
       | gcheong wrote:
       | Most people I know working for a startup as an employee are doing
       | it mainly because that was the job they could get at the time
       | they were looking not because they were deliberately looking to
       | join a startup. Whether it's financially or emotionally optimal
       | is usually secondary to basic survival or at least not wanting to
       | have to deal with current tech hiring practices longer than one
       | has to.
        
       | itake wrote:
       | The author also fails to mention the stock option trap. I've seen
       | offers at early state companies like this:
       | 
       | * $150k base (take-home $100k)
       | 
       | * $30k/yr options that expire 3 months after you leave or 10
       | years.
       | 
       | You have to either set aside 30% of your take-home to invest in a
       | extremely high risk single stock or you're chained to your desk
       | until the company exits.
       | 
       | If you golden handcuff your way to an exit, you better hope the
       | exit happens before the 10 year mark when your options expire.
        
         | hluska wrote:
         | The ten year expiry is an IRS rule for issuing an ISO.
        
           | itake wrote:
           | Interesting. didn't know that.
        
       | marcinzm wrote:
       | In my experience startups, equity NOT included, pay worse than
       | big tech companies but better than non-tech companies. So if you
       | can get into big tech companies then that's better financially
       | but if you can't then startups beat the alternative.
        
       | scott_meyer wrote:
       | Doing a bunch of math about payoffs and probabilities completely
       | misses the most important point:
       | 
       | When joining a startup you are a minority investor. The value of
       | your options depends 100% on the integrity of the majority
       | investors.
        
       | k__ wrote:
       | For some people it's just that they like to try new stuff.
       | 
       | I did employment and self-employment with consulting.
       | 
       | Trying a product business is simply an interesting new step.
        
       | cudgy wrote:
       | What is success? The article assumes for the most part that
       | success is mainly monetary, and further it makes the classic
       | mistake of comparing success monetarily to companies like
       | Facebook. Success is different depending on many factors. For
       | example, if a person needs or likes guidance and structure, a
       | startup is likely not a good fit, especially when they are
       | inexperienced. There are some good points about the strong
       | community in startups and how it can be used to encourage
       | excessive work hours and lower pay. However, that same community
       | feeling and sense of purpose is what I remember fondest from
       | working at startups. In addition, startups give you access to
       | other capable and driven people that you might create a startup
       | of your own with ... much less likely at a large company full of
       | risk-averse employees who work on a small piece of the company's
       | "mission".
       | 
       | What personality type are you? The author likely comes from a
       | structured, religious background and prefers the "certainty" of a
       | corporate environment. Some of us were raised by hippies with
       | little or no religion and high structure. People like that are
       | miserable in highly structured environments in which gaining a
       | sense of the "mission" is impossible.
       | 
       | The main point here is that career decisions are highly personal
       | and one person's hell is another person's heaven.
        
         | jsonne wrote:
         | > The author likely comes from a structured, religious
         | background and prefers the "certainty" of a corporate
         | environment.
         | 
         | I'm a practicing Catholic and have worked either as a
         | freelancer or a startup founder for >90% of my career. Not sure
         | how you're drawing that conclusion but plenty of my peers are
         | religious in a traditional sense and work in startups.
        
           | kingsuper20 wrote:
           | It's a thing that engineers (particularly software, hardware
           | guys aren't as rude) really have to watch.
           | 
           | Given the tendency for programmers to be that edgy
           | libertarian atheist guy, it's easy to be unthinkingly rude to
           | a coworker who is of a churchly persuasion.
        
         | airstrike wrote:
         | > The author likely comes from a structured, religious
         | background
         | 
         | How on God's green Earth did you jump to that conclusion? Can't
         | it just be a matter of personal preference, as you said it
         | yourself?
        
           | celim307 wrote:
           | Yeah sounds like OP has a chip on their shoulder and is
           | projecting.
           | 
           | I wouldn't trade my years at a startup for anything but they
           | can be run by tyrants in a fiefdom just as much as a VP runs
           | an org, sometimes more so as they have no one they report to.
        
           | jasode wrote:
           | _> >> The author likely comes from a structured, religious
           | background
           | 
           | >How on God's green Earth did you jump to that conclusion?_
           | 
           | The author wrote: "From the ages of 19-21, I spent my time as
           | a missionary for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day
           | Saints, popularly known as the Mormon church. I worked 12
           | hours a day for two years straight with only Christmas and
           | Mother's Day off. [...] For this job, I was paid a total of 0
           | dollars."
           | 
           | It seems reasonable to assume that _non_ -religious people
           | wouldn't do that for $0 pay.
        
             | jsonne wrote:
             | Ironic because Utah is becoming a tech hot spot driven in
             | part by the large Mormon presence.
        
               | selimthegrim wrote:
               | How so? Recursion doesn't scream full of Mormons to me.
        
               | jsonne wrote:
               | Just one example. The Mormon mission program is quite
               | possibly the best sales training program in the world. If
               | you can go door to door in a country that isn't your own,
               | in a second language, selling religion then enterprise
               | SaaS is really a breeze. (Note I am not Mormon)
        
               | hashkb wrote:
               | Selling eternal salvation to the poor will always be
               | easier than selling another support tool to a procurement
               | person spending someone else's money and probably with
               | one eye on a new job.
        
               | steveklabnik wrote:
               | There is/was a significant Mormon contingent in the Ruby
               | community, all the way up to Matz.
               | 
               | I've worked with a lot of Mormons in tech. You may have
               | too and not realized it. In my experience, they tend to
               | not put an emphasis on it, it's a more private thing.
        
               | selimthegrim wrote:
               | I meant the pharma company in SLC.
        
               | steveklabnik wrote:
               | Ah, I didn't know it was a company name, I thought it was
               | a _slightly confusing_ comment about computer science.
        
               | vmception wrote:
               | It does to me.
               | 
               | Their support system and rigid structure is unparalleled
               | for such a large scale in the US. Their funding church is
               | very wealthy, and the discipline churns out people that
               | are very effective in high growth industries, which is
               | just a convenient side effect relevant right now.
        
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         | m463 wrote:
         | In my experience, working at a startup can get you more
         | experience and responsibility faster, and the work itself can
         | be more satisfying.
         | 
         | The compensation itself is a lottery and should be treated as
         | such. And there will be shenanigans.
         | 
         | I do think that startups more closely align with people with
         | less personal responsibilities and a higher tolerance for risk.
         | 
         | EDIT: downvotes? just saying - this was my personal experience.
         | YMMV.
        
         | ernopp wrote:
         | Spot on.
         | 
         | I've been working in startups for 10 years (my whole career so
         | far) because I was optimising for learning, not financial
         | return. I made the bet that startups would be the fastest way
         | to learn (breadth of tasks, workload, exposure to more senior
         | people etc) and I am allergic to larger company bureaucracy.
        
         | higeorge13 wrote:
         | It highly depends on the startups, not on people personalities.
         | There are good startups where your work will be appreciated,
         | you will bond with everyone, become friends through the
         | difficulties and hopefully enjoy and celebrate the successes.
         | And there are startups where you will see chaos, poor
         | management, bad attitude to employees, pointing fingers and
         | engineers leaving every couple years. Even startup-oriented
         | personalities cannot stand such workplaces.
        
         | geofft wrote:
         | > _However, that same community feeling and sense of purpose is
         | what I remember fondest from working at startups. In addition,
         | startups give you access to other capable and driven people
         | that you might create a startup of your own with_
         | 
         | Depends a _lot_ on the specific startup and specific big
         | company. The 50-person startup I worked at right out of college
         | never really found product-market fit, and tried many things,
         | and the product I worked on (and deeply enjoyed working on
         | technically) was always a second-class product to the business.
         | And we were selling B2B software, so I was never motivated by
         | wanting to change the world, just by wanting to ship some cool
         | software.
         | 
         | I get that same motivation at my current 1500-person employer,
         | where I work on developer tools; I get to work on interesting
         | technical problems, and the fruits of my work go to help people
         | in, frankly, the same industry as most of our customers at the
         | startup. I'm a little _more_ involved in what out internal
         | customers actually do and therefore find it more motivating to
         | help them, though the work they do, per se, isn 't interesting
         | to me. And there are plenty of driven, passionate, and friendly
         | people around who care about the same problems I care about,
         | and it's much easier to find a few of those people and make a
         | community when I've got orders of magnitude more people to try
         | to work with.
        
         | tuyguntn wrote:
         | > The main point here is that career decisions are highly
         | personal and one person's hell is another person's heaven.
         | 
         | This. From "depends on person" perspective I fully agree with
         | you, from monetary perspective I agree with the author.
         | 
         | After years of working for startups, now success for me means,
         | financially independent to work on whatever I enjoy doing, not
         | some OKR, KPI set by person who already achieved their success
         | story.
         | 
         | Haven't reached my success. I was hesitant to do leetcode and
         | join FAANG companies 10-15 years ago, worked for bunch of
         | startups as an employee and contractor, all failed, financially
         | I still depend on big boss, and even can be laid off if layoff
         | season starts again.
         | 
         | FAANG are not only more stable, but total compensation for 10
         | years can easily beat 1B$ exit startups, assuming you get 0.1%
         | of equity there
        
       | christiansakai wrote:
       | This is why I just do crypto. Say what you want about crypto, but
       | the risk reward ratio is easily exceeding lotteries and startup
       | lotteries.
       | 
       | Edit: and I do it while working at one of the tech giants.
       | Paycheck goes to crypto.
        
       | shrubby wrote:
       | I got out from the last startup. Started sleeping better
       | immediately when I knew I was about to sign the termination.
       | Founders wanted to be famous & millionaires and there was no
       | meaning to be found.
       | 
       | The pay wasn't a critical thing in my suffering. Now I'm making a
       | third less and feeling ten times better.
        
       | markus_zhang wrote:
       | What about ownership? In a startup individuals can and often do
       | take charge of a piece of business, be it technical or marketing
       | or others, but in an existing business you won't have much
       | ownership unless you start from the beginning (i.e. as a
       | startup).
        
       | podric wrote:
       | I heard that being an early startup employee is also a great way
       | to fast-track to a leadership/management position, as compared to
       | working at a big corporation. Is there any truth to that?
        
         | parsley27 wrote:
         | I think that is true in the case of the growth startup I work
         | at; probably 25% of the leadership started out as early
         | individual contributors, and if things go as expected over the
         | next few weeks, I will be making my first big step toward
         | leadership after just six months at the company.
         | 
         | I never had any internal career growth at other jobs in larger
         | or more established orgs.
        
       | 1billionstories wrote:
       | 100%
        
       | jerzyt wrote:
       | One of the biggest risks for a startup is becoming a consulting
       | firm. Once you do that, you won't be able to scale up. Been
       | there, done that. That's why the FAANGs are so successful - they
       | have millions of clients, without a single one who could control
       | their destiny.
        
       | jhbao wrote:
       | This article isn't about if you should join a startup vs. a big
       | company. It's about if you should join a startup vs. a FAANG
       | company, which offers outrageous compensation & benefits. From
       | that perspective, FAANG is the obvious choice 99% of the time.
       | 
       | The more and apt comparison would be if you should work at a
       | startup vs. a corporate job at a HP or Qualcomm. At those type of
       | companies, compensation is not competitive (they often off-
       | shore), benefits are tight, and the work is not interesting. It
       | could very well be argued that a startup, even with high
       | probability of failure, would be more fulfilling.
        
         | SilurianWenlock wrote:
         | Why do HP and Qualcomm want to offshore but FAANGs dont?
        
           | analyst74 wrote:
           | The job of an outsourced position and senior+ IC role in top
           | tech firms are fundamentally different. You can't survive
           | just be churning through ticket backlogs. Sometimes you are
           | expect to come up with initiatives, gather support and
           | resources, deliver said initiatives that have a measurable
           | impact to a global company without much guidance or help from
           | your boss; at higher IC tracks, the kind of initiatives you
           | lead can have meaningful impact to a whole sector.
           | 
           | These expectations, in a more traditional company, is
           | normally reserved for positions much higher up in the org
           | chart.
        
         | axegon_ wrote:
         | There are other aspects that you need to take into
         | consideration: bureaucracy, the enforced-by-law company
         | values(last year I got an offer which seemed really appealing
         | until I saw the contract and some of those clauses), the
         | endless "open a jira ticket" for every little thing such as
         | rebooting a development server or whatever(which ends up being
         | a 2 day task with hours of explanations as opposed to ssh; sudo
         | rebbot), the endless and pointless meetings which are filled
         | with "we should" coming from people who love taking credit when
         | something is going right but will toss the blame to anyone they
         | can when they aren't. Not to mention absurd expenses for
         | "business trips" which are pointless in the vast majority of
         | cases. I've been to several of these and they were all a waste
         | of money and time: seriously, fly 20 people across the world
         | just so they can listen to 3 days of "we should" lectures,
         | there goes a ton of money which could have been spent on
         | something useful like training or even a few small bonuses for
         | the people that have worked their asses off. I've worked in
         | such environments for many many years and the idea of ending up
         | in such a place again terrifies me(I certainly started
         | appreciating the absence of all that crap, though I never
         | really knew how much all that truly bothered me until I ran
         | away from it).
         | 
         | My point is, if you decide to go with a FAANG, you will get the
         | quirky benefits and traits but at the expense of having to
         | throttle yourself much below your capacity and dealing with a
         | ton of frustration coming from the corporate side of things.
        
         | NationalPark wrote:
         | Most tech startups seem to model their hiring practices and
         | organization around FAANG companies (technical screens, OKRs,
         | Agile, reliability teams, etc.) so I think the comparison is
         | actually more interesting if you leave out the "normal" jobs.
         | Since a lot of the skills are transferrable, you're more likely
         | to have the option of either rather than one or the other.
        
         | PragmaticPulp wrote:
         | I'm part of a mentoring group for recent college grads. One of
         | our biggest challenges is that much of the conversation on HN,
         | Twitter, Blind, and other sites assumes that FAANG admission is
         | guaranteed.
         | 
         | This becomes a major struggle for juniors when they realize
         | that there aren't any FAANG offices in their location. Many
         | others apply to FAANG but don't receive offers, which is
         | devastating if every HN comment, medium article, and Tweet they
         | read revolves around getting into FAANG.
         | 
         | It's a strange situation to have to console junior engineers
         | about their "paltry" $130K compensation at comfortable 9-5 jobs
         | in low cost of living cities.
         | 
         | I have to remind a lot of people that the FAANG interview
         | acceptance rate is very, very small. This idea that everyone
         | can call up FAANg and get a $200K+ job in their city is not
         | helpful to anyone but top candidates in a few select cities.
        
           | nrp wrote:
           | I fully agree that the fervor around FAANG is unhealthy.
           | However, if you are just at the start if your career, that is
           | the best time to move to wherever the jobs you are interested
           | in are, rather than restricting yourself to what is available
           | near where you currently are. There will be folks that have
           | obligations preventing that, but most recent college grads
           | should have little holding them from moving.
        
             | PragmaticPulp wrote:
             | This comment is a good summary of the problem I was
             | describing: It's easy to say that anyone who can get a
             | FAANG job should get a FAANG job, but if circumstances
             | don't line up, what else? That's where many students draw a
             | blank, because all of the advice they've consumed revolves
             | around FAANG job offers that may not arrive.
             | 
             | Statistically, more people are rejected than accepted by
             | FAANG companies. A lot of my mentoring time is spent
             | helping students figure out what's next when their primary
             | FAANG plan doesn't (or can't) work out.
        
           | taurath wrote:
           | They also know that the money/prestige they start making at
           | the beginning of their career can vastly change their
           | trajectory in economic terms. I would argue that the chance
           | of making $500k/yr 10 years into their career will be vastly
           | different if someone goes to FAANG vs a Microsoft temp role.
        
             | m463 wrote:
             | I suspect it's not a carefully-planned long-term strategy
             | on the part of new college grads - they're just comparing
             | offers and picking the best.
        
           | reikonomusha wrote:
           | I work at a company that doesn't offer a total compensation
           | package competitive with a FAANG, but still definitely very
           | healthy, and we do lose _many_ straight-outta-college
           | candidates all the time who are demanding base pay of $200k+
           | because "that's what I'd get if I worked for Google." After
           | denying that, unfortunately, some candidates insinuate that
           | being offered $1.x * 10^5 for an entry-level position is a
           | shrewd ploy to brazenly take advantage of their valuable
           | skills at low cost.
        
             | ffggvv wrote:
             | ironically google pay is competitively low when youre at
             | that tier. having worked there and other places google pays
             | the least out of top tier companies. (no im not considering
             | amazon or msft as the same level)
        
           | pydry wrote:
           | I imagine being under mountains of student debt makes them
           | more nervous.
        
         | hashkb wrote:
         | Does anyone consider FAANG to be startups? I'm confused by your
         | comment.
        
           | dinkleberg wrote:
           | No, what they are saying is that people present a false
           | dilemma where your options to work are either at a FAANG or
           | at a startup.
           | 
           | Most people work at non-FAANG companies. If you're going to
           | do a write-up on relative merits of working at a startup vs a
           | larger company things are going to lean heavily in favor of
           | the FAANG because the overall risk to compensation is much
           | more favorable.
           | 
           | But if you compare a startup to a more standard tech company
           | then each side will have more pros and cons.
        
           | bdcravens wrote:
           | No, and I don't think that's the parent is suggesting that.
           | They are saying if you are looking for a challenging, highly
           | rewarding role, FAANG is a better fit than startups.
        
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       | dleslie wrote:
       | I generally agree, having worked for a number of startups most of
       | the concerns seem valid; however, there is a unique arrangement
       | that has benefited me:
       | 
       | As a Canadian, I can generally make a higher wage working for an
       | American startup than working for anything local. Usually I can
       | expect 1.5x to 2x over the mean local rate for my skills and
       | experience; and since I don't _need_ health benefits and I enjoy
       | guaranteed parental leave and such, it works out quite well.
       | 
       | I'm happy, and the startup is happy because _I'm still paid less
       | than an equivalent American_.
        
         | cmrdporcupine wrote:
         | Yah there's another aspect to that, too, which is that American
         | startups are in my experience better managed than in Canada and
         | the investment and startup community far better in the US.
         | 
         | After working at a local startup it becomes clear that most of
         | the founders all know each other, went to private school
         | together, etc. etc. it's kinda gross. A bit over a decade ago I
         | worked at one, had a bad experience, and then went to work for
         | a New York HQ'd late stage startup -- higher pay, good
         | management, decent people, decently managed, and was acquired
         | by Google a year later.
        
         | sinablk wrote:
         | That's interesting. I've just started working for a Canadian
         | startup based in Vancouver and the pay is actually "fair"
         | Canadian market price for someone of my experience level.
         | 
         | Not sure if it's a difference in culture but my small team (a
         | mix of Canadians and Americans) is super respectful of people's
         | personal time. e.g. no texting during after-work hours even
         | with tight and critical deadlines. You're also free to run a
         | personal errand during work as long as you deliver on your
         | tasks at the end of the day. And since it is an interesting
         | work with lots of learning opportunities, a lower pay (compared
         | to an American startup) is a nice trade-off for me if I get a
         | more relaxed work environment. Although I'm sure this is not
         | true of all startups in either country.
         | 
         | I'd love to connect with you and share experiences. Feel free
         | to message me on Discord (Tag in my profile).
        
       | ChicagoDave wrote:
       | If you don't want to work for a startup, then don't.
       | 
       | Many people find value in the experience whether we got paid or
       | not. I'd rather work my ass off for a startup than spend money on
       | an MBA.
       | 
       | I've been a part of five startups. One of them (and the financial
       | collapse) resulted in ruining me financially in 2009, but it was
       | my choice. No one told me to take the job.
       | 
       | Three were mine (two failed, one is in hypothesis mode). The
       | other was with a millionaire and it also failed. I learned to
       | look at things differently because of all of those experiences
       | and my value as a consultant today is because of those
       | experiences.
       | 
       | I know you can get screwed over by sketchy founders and
       | unscrupulous venture capitalists. You should absolutely
       | understand where you stand going in. Stock options are 100%
       | worthless unless you have a startup that succeeds and you have a
       | founder that is honest in their intentions. Even real equity can
       | be diluted, so that's no guarantee.
       | 
       | But there are always cases where the first few hundred employees
       | make a life's worth of wealth in a few years.
       | 
       | I hate these articles bitching about the startup world. If you're
       | gonna bitch, maybe go take a job at a nice safe boring mega-
       | corporation that will maybe just destroy your soul. You'll get
       | paid on time and you'll work 40hr weeks, have PTO, health
       | benefits. If that's what you want, then just go do that.
        
         | throwaway78123 wrote:
         | Agreed.
         | 
         | One of the key issue is that most people do not know or
         | understand how the equity piece works, leaving the door opened
         | for abuse.
         | 
         | It doesn't have to be complicated. Two things to check if one
         | is granted equity or options: - What is the rough value of the
         | stock when granted? 409A is the tool for that although it is
         | usually quite conservative, which is good for the recipient. -
         | Do I have the same class of stock as management/founders:
         | ensures no funny business around dilution.
        
       | neilsharma wrote:
       | I've been an early engineer (first 3) at a startup. I didn't
       | stick around long enough to vest for reasons, but in hindsight,
       | it wouldn't have been worth it financially even if I had. They
       | eventually got acquired by a big brand name Silicon Valley
       | company after 4-5 years for an undisclosed amount. My 0.4% plus
       | salary wouldn't even break $200k/year in total unless the company
       | sold for a fair amount above $100M.
       | 
       | Later in my career, I have had offers at seed stage companies.
       | The compensations were marginally better than the one described
       | above, but most still needed to 10-15x in value over 4 years just
       | so the annualized comp would match the base annual comp at
       | various series C/D companies I also had offers at.
       | 
       | Given the risk, often poor culture, rampant inexperience in
       | leadership, and long hours, the upside is only worth it as an
       | early employee if the company is a unicorn. And every founder
       | says their company will be a unicorn...
       | 
       | After starting a few (failed) companies myself, I've come to
       | adopt the mindset that the total equity allocated to the founding
       | team (pre-seed + seed + maybe series A) should be around 20-25%.
       | Everyone after should get 15-20%. In the event of a $100M exit,
       | there should be no scenario in which the founders/investors walk
       | away with a win financially, but the early employees do not. The
       | early employees took the same risk and secured that win, and thus
       | should be rewarded accordingly.
       | 
       | Edit: fixed grammar and re-ordered sections
        
         | auspex wrote:
         | At the end of the day it is a lot harder to come up with an
         | idea, find market traction, convince people to invest in you
         | than it is to become the third employee.
         | 
         | Additionally, a 100M exit isn't always a win. It depends on how
         | much money was invested / spent to get there as well.
        
           | neilsharma wrote:
           | I agree; founders should have substantially more equity than
           | any one early employee. But its not just about which is
           | harder to start as (founder or early employee), but also the
           | time/energy/emotion invested over years to bring the company
           | to a successful scenario. Being a third employee is still
           | pretty hard if you are working 60-80hrs/week for years and
           | making major life sacrifices.
           | 
           | And you're right; $100M exit isn't always a win. That was a
           | somewhat arbitrary milestone I used to do quick math.
        
             | taurath wrote:
             | Hard work unfortunately only has marginal value in this
             | economy. The real money is in being able to get other
             | people to invest in you. The idea even matters less than
             | your ability to convince investors.
             | 
             | Startup employees are often quite screwed from a promises
             | made perspective.
        
       | tmcw wrote:
       | Little to argue with on the fundamentals here, but ending up in a
       | place where everyone's winning move is to work for one of five
       | unregulated monopolies is, ahem, a bummer, in a macro sense.
        
       | rahulpadalkar wrote:
       | > Say you have a 2% chance of picking a unicorn and being a
       | member of the founding team. That 2% is honestly way too high for
       | most people, and perhaps a bit low for others, but a good median
       | to anchor on. $10M * 2% = $200K. And realistically you're only
       | going to get that this tranche of equity every 3-4 years at most,
       | so that's a risk-adjusted value of $50-$66k.
       | 
       | I didn't understand this math, 2% is the chance of it being a
       | unicorn. 1% of 1B is 10M is the amount you might get if the
       | startup sells for 1B. what does 2% of 10M signify?
        
         | luca3v wrote:
         | $200k is your expected equity payoff if you have a 2% chance
         | that your equity is going to be worth $10M and a 98% chance
         | that it's going to be worthless, which is the simplified model
         | used in that back-of-the-envelope calculation
        
       | acconrad wrote:
       | So what is the solution for startups now?
       | 
       | I've worked the whole gamut from FAANG to 1st employee (and
       | founder of a side project startup) and I just don't know how they
       | compete anymore.
       | 
       | We need innovation and new companies.
       | 
       | But for my own side project I can't imagine hiring someone. I
       | either are hiring if we become wildly successful or we just get
       | acquired with our founding team and still make an outsized
       | outcome.
       | 
       | It's a grim outlook for startups but we need them
        
       | claaams wrote:
       | I'm at a start up and the owner has no intention of going public
       | lol. Oops
        
       | ryanSrich wrote:
       | I'm biased because I run a startup and have only ever worked at
       | startups. But I'd say it basically comes down to different
       | strokes.
       | 
       | If you're in it just for the money AND you have the background
       | and interviewing skills to get a job at a FAANG then you're
       | better off doing that, you'll make far more money.
       | 
       | For me though, there's not many salaries that don't end in
       | "million" that you could pay me to work at a FAANG. Not only
       | because I mentally couldn't deal with the people (see Apple's
       | latest debacle), but because your impact is essentially
       | meaningless. Working on some tiny little fraction of a fraction
       | of a feature means I'd basically have to not give a shit about my
       | job.
       | 
       | At that point you're just a wage slave. A well paid one, sure.
       | 
       | Additionally, building a successful company is one of the most
       | rewarding things you can do. True American capitalism is a thing
       | of beauty. Taking an idea, building a product, and creating
       | value. Working at a startup is a good first step in building your
       | own.
        
         | rantwasp wrote:
         | you'd be just fine at FANG. you are taking horror stories and
         | thinking that is the way things happen at X. Your experience at
         | a big company is mostly dictated by 1) your boss and 2) your
         | team. There are good pockets in the worst places and there are
         | really bad pockets in the best places. The exercise to how you
         | figure this out is left yo the reader.
         | 
         | Regarding impact: you can have an impact at bigCo. It's just
         | that it's not something that's usually visible to the outside
         | world (or sometimes not even internally). Hypothetically: if a
         | change you make or a product you work on helps reduce the power
         | usage of a datacenter or an android phone or a car by 1% you
         | have made a gigantic impact. Even of only 1% of that 1% is your
         | actual work. You're not interested in impact. You're interested
         | in stroking your ego. That's all good and whatever but at some
         | point you're gonna realize that you're gonna die and all your
         | "accomplishments" mean jack shit. I have way more respect for
         | someone that works at Google for example, puts in their time of
         | focused work (even if it's "only" 20 hours per week), invests
         | in themselves and also invests in their families and is an
         | exemplary mother/father and/or invests in the community they
         | live in than I have respect for someone who "hustles" and works
         | 80 hours per week.
        
         | novok wrote:
         | FANG also has many lines of business where each one would be
         | equivalent to a startup sized company. You can have way more
         | impact than you think, on the specific product you work on.
         | You'd be surprised how small many engineering teams are at
         | apple for example, working on discrete products used by
         | hundreds of millions of people.
        
           | Brystephor wrote:
           | My understanding is that he was referring to impact on the
           | company. At FANG, there is no single product where your
           | impact has a significant impact on the company as a whole.
           | 
           | Sure you can go to AWS and work on Lambda. And then you can
           | work on a feature of Lambda. It's very likely that the
           | feature is going to have an extremely minimal impact on
           | Amazon as a whole company.
           | 
           | I'd imagine the same is for apple. You can join, go work on a
           | secret feature of a feature on the iPhone, launch it, and
           | then yay. You've now contributed to a feature of a feature of
           | a product with 100s or 1000s of other features.
        
         | JoeAltmaier wrote:
         | Wow and a startup employee is different? Not a wage slave? So
         | many more compromises in work quality and delivery get made at
         | a startup vs FAANG. Not building a quality product. Building an
         | MVP that fools a few early adopters to part with their money.
         | Then sell out and cash in (not you; the founders).
         | 
         | Ok not a wage slave, because the wage isn't worth it. To work
         | overtime without compensation or really any hope of
         | compensation, to help somebody else win the lottery. Just a
         | sucker I think.
        
           | ryanSrich wrote:
           | If you want to make the argument that working for anyone
           | other than yourself is wage slaving I won't fight you.
           | 
           | The difference to me though is that you typically own (or
           | have the right to own given enough commitment) significantly
           | more of a startup than a FAANG. Granted, your chances of
           | owning anything of value is low, but that's a risk I'm
           | willing to take over making Bezos and Zuckerberg that much
           | richer. Knowing I'm contributing to their wealth is not
           | something I'd care to live with.
           | 
           | But again, different strokes, as I said.
        
             | rantwasp wrote:
             | you're making Bezos richer while you get rich yourself. the
             | 2nd part is important
        
               | ryanSrich wrote:
               | Forgoing the latter is worth not doing the former imo.
               | Again, unless we're talking millions per year, which 99%
               | of FAANG employees aren't making. The best one could hope
               | for is high six figures, probably toping out around
               | $800-$900k after 15 years.
               | 
               | As I said though, this only makes sense if your goal is
               | money. I personally don't value money over other things
               | like mental health and enjoying my work. I know I would
               | have much worse mental health, and hate what I do at a
               | FAANG.
        
               | rantwasp wrote:
               | why not both? get the money and do something you enjoy?
        
             | bradlys wrote:
             | Owning a lot of something worth nothing is less valuable
             | than owning a little of something very valuable. 1,000,000
             | times 0 is still 0.
        
       | femiagbabiaka wrote:
       | Almost everything mentioned about startups here has an equivalent
       | trade off at large companies. It's particularly amusing that he
       | mentions Facebook towards the end as a potential place to work,
       | given the pockets of high stress and long hours that I've heard
       | about from folks who have worked there. Most of FAANG is no
       | different. In comparison, most startups that I've worked at
       | valued work life balance highly.
       | 
       | Every workplace has trade offs, it's the nature of the thing. The
       | compensation imbalances at large companies are bad as well, for
       | example, it's just that the total increase in company income
       | allows for much more competitive packages overall.
       | 
       | Really this is more of a question of: what do you want out of a
       | job and career? If you want to maximize compensation, go for that
       | BigCo job. But that isn't the only valid thing to maximize for,
       | which the snark about "higher callings" towards the end misses.
       | Higher autonomy, less complex organizational politics, More
       | ownership of big problems, potential for better alignment between
       | your values and the companies mission, etc. etc.
        
       | flippinburgers wrote:
       | Underpaid and overworked. That is what one gets out of startups.
       | I unfortunately seem to be permanently stuck grinding for
       | startups (10+ years). Don't do it to yourself. It isn't worth it.
        
         | tolbish wrote:
         | Might I ask why it is infeasible to apply for a job at a non-
         | startup?
        
           | mcguire wrote:
           | When your CV is a list of failures, it becomes self-
           | reinforcing?
        
             | bradlys wrote:
             | You can join FAANG and similar. I've had almost nothing but
             | failures on my resume and I was able to interview all the
             | time. It's just about grinding LC and system design - which
             | is really tough and time consuming.
        
       | acconrad wrote:
       | So where do startups go from here?
       | 
       | I feel like all I hear about is how bad it is and FAANG is now
       | the ideal. A crazy thought for a forum whose parent company's
       | sole income is generated by creating and funding new startups.
       | 
       | So what are we going to do about it?
        
       | sealeck wrote:
       | A little more nuance around different types of startups, goals,
       | etc would go a long way.
        
       | ShiftPrintBlog wrote:
       | Social enterprise/public tech startups more often than not are
       | very warm places but then the financial/ESOP discussion become
       | something else
        
       | geofft wrote:
       | > _Rather than being treated as rare phenomenal outliers, these
       | unicorn companies are a necessity for venture capital funds to be
       | successful. So when a startup takes those venture dollars, they
       | are almost always going for a big exit, or they'll be pressured
       | by their investors to hyper-growth their way toward one. Extreme
       | risk, extreme reward._
       | 
       | To expand on this: Venture capitalists are incentivized, by the
       | nature of how they invest, to drive companies towards becoming
       | unicorns and attempting the extreme-risk-extreme-reward scenario.
       | If you put $10M towards a company, and it says "Great, we're
       | stable and our employees are happy and productive and we're
       | building the cool thing we wanted to build and we're about to get
       | enough sales to break even" and it doesn't hire or grow, the
       | investors won't see the $10M back for a very long time. That
       | scenario is only slightly financially better than the company
       | shutting down, and in practice, given that the investor needs to
       | keep thinking about the company, being on its board, etc., it's
       | not worth having that distraction.
       | 
       | So _even if your company would be successful_ , if it's VC-
       | funded, it's going to get pushed to be either hyper-successful or
       | to fail.
       | 
       | And even if it's hyper-successful, it will probably experience
       | mission drift. Early employees at Tiny Speck who wanted to build
       | a neat MMORPG are probably very financially happy with
       | Salesforce's acquisition of Slack, but all that remains of Glitch
       | is a 404 page. (Read their shutdown announcement:
       | https://www.glitchthegame.com/closing/) So if you're going into
       | the startup because you're mission-driven instead of profit-
       | driven, remember that the people who decide your mission are
       | ultimately profit-driven.
        
       | compsciphd wrote:
       | I make it very simple. you don't work at a startup to maximize
       | the size of your wallet (at least in the short term). straight
       | up. most startups fail. most startups pay below market. you have
       | to value the equity at 0 at all times till its actually worth
       | something and then it simply is a nice (or very nice) bonus.
       | 
       | you only work for a startup if 2 conditions hold
       | 
       | 1) the pay is sufficient for your needs (and this is not just in
       | an immediate sense of making ends meet, but also a long term
       | sense of being able to save for future goals / retirement).
       | 
       | 2) the job is something you really want to do and you cannot get
       | that experience elsewhere at a more established company.
       | 
       | i.e. if 2 doesn't hold, why would you take less pay than
       | elsewhere?
       | 
       | if 1 doesn't hold, you are making a bad long term financial
       | decision for yourself, by essentially accumulating an actual or
       | virtual debt (need to makeup retirement contributions or other
       | savings) that you will have to pay back in the future.
       | 
       | the #2 point can lead to earning more money in the long term even
       | if the startup fails (i.e. the personal growth can outweigh
       | experience you'd get elsewhere), but this is far from guaranteed.
       | But even then, you shouldn't put yourself in "debt" to do that.
        
       | sreeramb93 wrote:
       | This is india specific, I chase startups which are best bet at
       | implementing govt policy or is it a problem that I am facing.
       | 
       | 1. One was recruiting phase as median age of India is low and
       | adds overwhelming number of new workers every day. Google uses
       | it. 2. Second one was a fintech during digital india phase. 3.
       | SAAS with global sales and high scale (rpm)
       | 
       | All three were hard and very fullfilling. I made a lot of money
       | with fintech one and learned a lot on engineering at scale with
       | third one.
       | 
       | In the first one, I made lifelong friends and got to meet
       | important people, attended VC talks and part of decisions like
       | hiring PM as new grad, VC was very involved with CEO about it.
       | Something my salary could not quantify.
       | 
       | If I were to do it again, do it well with patience rather than
       | arrogance and anger against founders.
        
       | Animats wrote:
       | If you're good enough to get into Google/Facebook/someone who
       | pays at that level at a good engineering salary level, going to
       | work for a start up is probably a net lose. At least until you're
       | far enough along to do your own startup.
        
       | SilurianWenlock wrote:
       | Are the odds worth it if you are a founder or cant work at a
       | FAANG in the USA?
        
       | dboreham wrote:
       | jwz pointed this out long ago.
        
       | asdev wrote:
       | It's way easier to build up experience and get your hands on
       | impressive projects than at behemoth corporations. FAANG is not
       | what it's all cracked up to be for 95% of people joining these
       | days
        
       | JoeAltmaier wrote:
       | My son was part of a >$300M buyout. His half-percent netted him
       | some hundred thousand. Didn't make up for the lower salary at a
       | startup for the couple of years. The schemes VC's and founders
       | use to skim all the fat are legion.
       | 
       | He's now starting his own company, doing something socially
       | useful that he can be proud of. Got a good team and making good
       | progress. Will see MVP in a couple months!
        
       | hinkley wrote:
       | Many of the things I think I would enjoy about working for a
       | startup are actually the qualities I enjoy about working on a
       | small team. Not at startups retain the small team mentality for
       | long. Not all small teams are at startups.
       | 
       | Plenty of large companies build small teams for new ideas but
       | they too have the problem of often not staying small for long.
       | Empire building is a hell of a drug. But you can often see this
       | coming and I've known a couple people who were very good at
       | moving horizontally within a company every few years to avoid
       | most of these sorts of problems.
        
       | magsnus wrote:
       | Fatfire[1] did a pretty thorough analysis of paths for financial
       | success that ties in to this somewhat.
       | 
       | [1]
       | https://www.reddit.com/r/fatFIRE/comments/bxa3qz/guide_for_n...
        
       | hn_throwaway_99 wrote:
       | I think this is a really good article, but I think that one of
       | the things it misses is that a huge reason the math works out so
       | badly for startup employees is because founders and VCs take the
       | lion's share of the gains.
       | 
       | I mean, in my experience at startups, founders typically own
       | around 40% of the equity. The option pool for _all other
       | employees_ is around 10-20%.
       | 
       | Now, I certainly believe startup founders deserve far more equity
       | than anyone else, but this highlights that the risk/reward trade-
       | off _really only makes sense for founders_. I mean, what founders
       | risk in terms of opportunity costs and lower wages is usually
       | only slightly more than very early stage employees, but their
       | reward is ~10-30x. The reward, in rare cases, may also make sense
       | for C level hires at proven startups that are already growing
       | like gangbusters, because they 'll get a ton of equity. For rank-
       | and-file, though, the issue is that _even if the startup hits_ it
       | usually becomes more like a nice bonus than life defining wealth.
        
         | neilv wrote:
         | > _what founders risk in terms of opportunity costs and lower
         | wages is usually only slightly more than very early stage
         | employees_
         | 
         | Excellent point. And there can also be huge differences in
         | _non-monetary_ value that make the opportunity cost _more
         | worthwhile_ for founders.
         | 
         | If the startup fizzles, but the founders were spending most of
         | their time getting startup founder experience, and building
         | their professional network and personal brand, then the
         | opportunity cost would probably be well-spent, despite the
         | fizzle.
         | 
         | Of course, worthwhile experience value can definitely happen
         | for _junior non-founder_ ICs.
         | 
         | Worthwhile experience value can happen for _already-experienced
         | non-founder_ developers who can get experience /keyword in some
         | very marketable thing they couldn't pick up on their own. (For
         | example, the necessary capital expenditure means they couldn't
         | get experience with Quantum Deep Learning Transhuman
         | Interfacing from their kitchen table. Or they need a team of
         | full-time collaborators to together accomplish something they
         | couldn't do by just organizing hobbyists on an open source
         | project.)
        
           | khazhoux wrote:
           | Or this:
           | 
           | * Startup doesn't outright fail, but gets acquihired...
           | 
           | * Founders gets executive positions with bonus on top of
           | bonus. Their resume has taken a huge leap forward, and if
           | they stay at the acquiring company for just one year, they'll
           | amass enough cash to take another couple of years off to try
           | another startup.
           | 
           | * Employees get regular salary, and some small bonus to make
           | it "worth it". They may as well have never done the startup,
           | because it's an overall net-negative.
           | 
           | Oh, and the employees still have to individually interview at
           | the company, and several won't make the cut.
        
         | _hyn3 wrote:
         | > what founders risk in terms of opportunity costs and lower
         | wages is usually only slightly more than very early stage
         | employees
         | 
         | Very early stage employees (before VCs get involved and impose
         | the 10-20% option pool that you allude to) tend to get an
         | outsized offering. (and, to me, a pre-VC employee sounds an
         | awful lot like a co-founder, unless they're not committed
         | heart-and-soul the way the founder is.)
         | 
         | You might not be aware of the risks that a founder experiences
         | versus a pre-VC employee. These risks are substantial. Many are
         | not even quantifiable. Everyone likes to joke about rewarding
         | failure, but the reality is that the reputational risk is very
         | high.
         | 
         | If you are instead talking about post-VC very early employees,
         | there is an even wilder difference in the risk that those
         | employees shoulder by taking a job with a VC-backed company
         | compared to the founders.
         | 
         | Let's face it; working for and/or founding a startup is really,
         | really tough and possibly even hazardous to your health. It's
         | not for everyone. In fact, it's really not for almost anyone.
         | But it's one of the few shots at winning a lottery where you
         | can actually change the rules of the game while you're playing
         | it.
        
         | an_opabinia wrote:
         | > I mean, what founders risk in terms of opportunity costs and
         | lower wages is usually only slightly more than very early stage
         | employees, but their reward is ~10-30x.
         | 
         | A first employee is, by another definition, someone to whom a
         | professional investor would not give money.
        
           | hn_throwaway_99 wrote:
           | You're being downvoted, but as the author of the post you
           | responded to, I don't really disagree. I've been an early
           | employee and have learned I don't have the temperament or
           | skills to be a founder.
           | 
           | My primary argument is just that if founders and VCs don't
           | loosen their purse strings, though, they will find employees
           | are wising up about wealth distribution in a startup and will
           | see they have better options elsewhere, as this article
           | suggests.
        
             | an_opabinia wrote:
             | > I don't have the temperament or skills to be a founder
             | 
             | If only everyone were as mature and introspective.
             | 
             | > are wising up about wealth distribution... will see they
             | have better options elsewhere
             | 
             | Truthfully, all those people will discover is that the
             | distribution of educational pedigrees - the real predictor
             | of "better options elsewhere" - is far stickier, nepotistic
             | and unfair than a 9 percentage point difference in equity.
        
           | JoeAltmaier wrote:
           | But they do. They pay salaries, benefits, overhead. Its a
           | team that gets funded.
        
         | mathattack wrote:
         | Very true. The system overweights the rewards to the founder.
         | And anyone can be a founder if they are willing to take more
         | risk and go without getting paid.
        
         | NeverFade wrote:
         | Bingo. As a senior engineer, I get startup offers at the Staff-
         | Principal levels, and even those grant no more than 0.1-0.5%
         | equity at most, on top of ~$180-200k salary.
         | 
         | That simply isn't competitive with big established companies
         | like FAANG that offer me $400k+, far better career growth
         | prospects, and far lower risk.
         | 
         | For most startups, the equity will be worthless, and the whole
         | company will either shut down or get acquired, which means you
         | won't have a straightforward career path no matter how hard you
         | work and how many impressive accomplishments you achieve.
         | Meanwhile your friends over at FAANG will be earning twice as
         | much and climbing the promotion ladder simply for doing a good
         | job.
         | 
         | Finally, let's not forget the abhorrent tax treatment that
         | screws you, especially as a senior engineer: while your options
         | will likely end up worthless, you'll have to pay tax for them
         | as if they're worth their weight in gold. That puts a whole new
         | level of risk on the already bad and risky deal of working at
         | startups.
         | 
         | It's beyond me how that tax treatment was allowed to continue
         | given how bad it is for startups, and how much it advantages
         | big established companies that are already deep in anti-trust
         | territory, though I guess that could also be the answer to why
         | it's still the rule.
        
           | pjbk wrote:
           | My humble recommendation: If the company has a valuation or
           | is close to one, ask them to add the necessary money for
           | early exercising to your signing bonus, which is usually
           | pennies on the dollar for them. Then do it the moment you get
           | your options converted to stock.
           | 
           | In that way you minimize any tax risks and at the same time
           | you test how much the company is interested in you and values
           | their employees.
        
           | hluska wrote:
           | I'm curious - where do you pay tax on options before they
           | have been exercised?? Every country whose tax system I'm
           | familiar with treats receiving an option as a tax neutral
           | event, but exercising them is taxed as per the country's
           | capital gains legislation.
        
             | hn_throwaway_99 wrote:
             | The issue is you are taxed on them when you _exercise_ them
             | before you can actually _sell_ them to get the money to pay
             | the taxes.
        
               | hluska wrote:
               | I don't see how that is an issue. Exercising options is a
               | form of income. Why not pay tax on income?
        
               | NeverFade wrote:
               | Exercising options is a form of income _in theory_. In
               | practice these stocks very often go to zero, or a value
               | lower than what you paid to exercise them.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | The issue people have is that you're being taxed on an
               | unrealized (as in not converted to cash) gain--which in
               | general is not the case.
        
               | hn_throwaway_99 wrote:
               | When you exercise startup options:
               | 
               | 1. Usually there is no liquid market, so for lack of a
               | better term, the valuation is made up.
               | 
               | 2. Related to point one, with no liquid market, there is
               | no option to sell the options the raise the money to pay
               | the taxes.
               | 
               | 3. There are often restrictions (e.g. lockup periods)
               | that _legally_ restrict you for selling from a specific
               | period. You are forced to take on the risk that the stock
               | doesn 't crash, often with much less info or freedom than
               | investors and execs.
               | 
               | In fact, in the US, normally startup options are ISOs
               | (incentive stock options) so theoretically they are NOT
               | taxed on exercise. The issue is that AMT (google it)
               | actually nullifies that ISO tax benefit in most
               | instances, and AMT only has stuck around because Congress
               | can not function to deliver reasonable tax policy.
        
               | throwaway78123 wrote:
               | That's right.
               | 
               | The main issue with option is the lack of liquidity.
               | 
               | One may have to put down quite a bit of cash down in
               | order to exercise, and that is a problem, even if in
               | practice, it is usually good value for the option holder.
               | 
               | But most people either 1) do not have a lot of cash on
               | hand, or 2) do not have the appetite to tie their hard-
               | earned cash to anything illiquid-that-maybe-could-go-to-
               | zero.
        
           | throwaway78123 wrote:
           | Not sure where you live, but in the US, options are typically
           | granted with a strike price equal to the latest 409A
           | valuation, which makes the grant neutral from a tax
           | standpoint.
           | 
           | I don't see a world where you have to pay lots of taxes for
           | worthless options, unless someone really screwed-up (i.e.
           | messed up the 409 Safe Harbor election etc...)
           | 
           | Now... if you exercise the option, that is a different story.
           | At least in theory you would only exercise if things went
           | well and the stock went up vs the strike, which makes sense
           | why one would have to pay taxes then.
        
             | NeverFade wrote:
             | > _Now... if you exercise the option, that is a different
             | story._
             | 
             | You exercise if you leave, and startup IPOs can take many
             | years, and most startups don't have a compelling options
             | package for you after the first 4 years anyway.
             | 
             | So a senior engineer who got their full 4 year equity and
             | wants to leave, which is the most typical scenario, will
             | indeed have to exercise and get hit by the tax bill.
        
               | throwaway78123 wrote:
               | You only be hit by a tax bill if you chose to exercise
               | the option, which only make sense if the stock is worth
               | more than the strike. If you are "given" something that
               | is worth more than $1, the IRS will want a piece of it.
               | 
               | If you worked at a startup (not a small business), the
               | most likely outcomes after 4 years is either 1) Company
               | went bust, 2) Company grew.
               | 
               | The option protects you from the not having to pay
               | anything if scenario #1 happens. If scenario #2 happens,
               | then you should be happy: you have an option to pay X for
               | something that is usually worth multiples of X after 4
               | years.
               | 
               | I actually think the IRS is being nice not to tax the at-
               | the-money option grant. They essentially assume zero time
               | value, which would be quite high for a startup given the
               | high volatility and the potentially long term for the
               | option.
        
               | novok wrote:
               | Startup engineers are often young and do not have much
               | savings.
               | 
               | Options are a cost, often in the 5 to 6 figures range to
               | exercise. If you exercise at time of hire, your cost can
               | be significant for something that will probably perform
               | less than putting it into bitcoin as far as expected
               | value goes. If you count exercise cost as part of the
               | 'salary', then startup salary is even worse than it
               | usually is.
               | 
               | When you leave, the options expire away typically after
               | 90 days. If you exercise, even if they are ISOs, AMT tax
               | can easily make the exercise cost 6 figures anyway. Most
               | engineers in their mid 20s do not have 6 figures in
               | savings unless they already worked at FANG for the first
               | 4 or 5 years of their career. You have to choose, do i
               | put most of my savings into something that will probably
               | go nowhere? Most do not and lose out on the significant
               | compensation they would of at FANG. It's a system that
               | favors the already wealthy and young adults with wealthy
               | parents.
               | 
               | Companies actively try to prevent giving liquidity to
               | employees through restrictive clauses. The best case
               | scenario is an employee that works hard and then forfeits
               | their equity due to the above math. The company has a
               | financial incentive to screw employees over and seduce
               | them with unlikely projections of life changing wealth.
               | 
               | -----
               | 
               | On the other hand, founders have stock at the start,
               | valued at $0. Even if they have a vesting schedule, they
               | can pre-exercise for no cost. Since it's extremely
               | unlikely that they will sell in the first year, all of
               | their income from that stock in the future will be taxed
               | at LTCG rates. Since the average employee can't afford to
               | pre-exercise (or they get RSUs), they pay at income tax
               | rates, so if they do get lucky, they've compressed 4-8
               | years of equity compensation in one year, which means
               | they pay %25-%35 more in income tax alone. Employees are
               | often subject to 6 month lockups after IPO, which means
               | if it drops, they have to pay tax on a value that is much
               | higher than they can liquidate with the stock they
               | actually have.
               | 
               | Founders often get special liquidity access that
               | employees don't, in secret, during funding rounds. VCs do
               | this to align the founder's interests with theirs, which
               | is going for an outlier $10B IPO vs. liquidate at $300
               | million at series B, because if the founder has %20, that
               | is a life changing $60 million, taxed at LTCG rates, that
               | makes you an ultra high net worth individual, but is
               | basically a failure from the VCs perspective.
        
               | NeverFade wrote:
               | > _If you worked at a startup (not a small business), the
               | most likely outcomes after 4 years is either 1) Company
               | went bust, 2) Company grew._
               | 
               | Right, so the bottom line is this:
               | 
               | After 4 years working at the startup, unless it already
               | went bust, you will typically want to exercise, and then
               | you'll get hit by a big tax bill for purchasing a
               | security which is _still_ very likely to end up at zero.
               | 
               | It's a risk no matter how you look at it. Unless you
               | happen to work at a startup that became a unicorn, which
               | is very rare, you will end up paying good money for
               | something that may be entirely worthless.
               | 
               | So in the best case scenario, you take a risk for an
               | upside that may put your comp around the same level as
               | what you'd get for simply working for FAANG. Worst case,
               | you pay a big tax bill that drops your comp even farther
               | below what your friends at FAANG are making, which is
               | already going to be twice or more to begin with.
               | 
               | Surely you see the problem here, especially for risk-
               | averse engineers.
        
               | comp_throw7 wrote:
               | You don't _have_ to exercise if you leave. That part is
               | totally optional - in fact, the company will probably be
               | quite happy for you to leave without exercising.
        
               | NeverFade wrote:
               | ...in which case I just worked for 4 years for less than
               | half the total compensation I'd receive in Big Tech.
               | 
               | If the plan is to completely give up on my equity, why
               | work in a startup at all?
        
           | derwiki wrote:
           | Why especially as a senior eng?
        
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             | NeverFade wrote:
             | Fatter options package = you pay more taxes when you
             | exercise. Also, the opportunity cost of giving up on big
             | company roles is higher.
        
         | tisFine wrote:
         | At least with the founders I've worked for it's hard to agree
         | they are owed that much more.
         | 
         | They fund raised. Poorly.
         | 
         | They offered zero direction, touted a big number as potential
         | revenue.
         | 
         | They traveled ostensibly to fund raise, but usually just
         | brought back personal stories of fun.
         | 
         | While we all slogged on "their" vision, which meant rearranging
         | deck chairs to the march of some alpha non-contributor who can
         | brown nose.
         | 
         | It was effectively our company with some entitled assholes name
         | on the paperwork.
         | 
         | I'm guessing there's many more founders like that, as I've had
         | the "fortune" to work for 3 in the past, versus the one I work
         | for now, who knows the problem space, has worked directly on
         | solutions for years, and shows up everyday with new customers
         | chomping at the bit to sign up.
         | 
         | So I feel confident saying: Most founders are idea people with
         | no skills. Just a used car salesmen personality and a richer
         | network.
        
         | hellcow wrote:
         | > what founders risk in terms of opportunity costs and lower
         | wages is usually only slightly more than very early stage
         | employees
         | 
         | Maybe this is different for others, but my co-founder and I
         | spent 2 years bootstrapping before we got our first customer.
         | We gave up 2 years of wages and consumed our savings to do this
         | with no assurance of success, and even after that first
         | customer it was another full year before we had any sense of
         | stability.
         | 
         | Years of time and money. I consider that quite a bit more risk
         | than our first employees who got stable income, healthcare,
         | 401k's, etc. on day one.
        
           | jt2190 wrote:
           | > Years of time and money.
           | 
           | Exactly. Additionally, any of that money that you could have
           | saved during those first two years would have had more time
           | (obviously) for interest to compound than any savings you
           | make today [1], so that "lost interest" needs to be factored
           | into the equation as well.
           | 
           | [1] https://www.investopedia.com/terms/t/timevalueofmoney.asp
        
             | JoeAltmaier wrote:
             | Everybody involved is taking some fraction of that risk.
             | "No raises until we're profitable", "Here's stock to make
             | up for the lower pay", "Lets cut benefits again to increase
             | our runway" are all tall tales that essentially squeeze
             | cash out of employees with empty promises.
             | 
             | When there's no way it will every even make up for the
             | sacrifices of the employees, all those demands are empty
             | noises. Just a way to fool folks in to making the founder
             | rich. And nobody else.
        
               | jt2190 wrote:
               | > Everybody involved is taking some fraction of that
               | risk.
               | 
               | I _think_ that by  "that risk" you're talking about "the
               | overall increased risk of investing in a new company". I
               | deliberately use the word _investing_ because that 's how
               | employees should think about their participation in a
               | startup: They're usually giving up _something_ now...
               | salary, extra work hours... in exchange for some possible
               | upside in the future, often in the form of stock options.
               | 
               | To state what you're saying another way: A lot of
               | employees do not correctly assess the risks of the
               | investment they're getting into, for example, of not
               | having direct control over the date when a salary
               | increase will occur, or whether that salary would be in
               | the form or cash or shares. In short, employees often
               | invest themselves into investments (i.e. startups) that
               | bring far more risk than they can personally tolerate.
               | 
               | Avoiding startups completely is one solution. Another is
               | to really start thinking like an investor: Personally, I
               | like to consider whether I would be a passive investor in
               | the company (i.e. just write a check)... If not, it's a
               | sign that perhaps the company is not a good addition to
               | my portfolio overall, and I'd be better off taking the
               | cash from another employer and investing in something I
               | do believe in.
               | 
               | (Aside: I've seen some pretty good "rent or buy your
               | home" calculators out there, but never a good "work for a
               | startup or an established company" calculator. If anyone
               | can recommend one please reply.)
               | 
               | Edit: https://triplebyte.com/startup-equity-value-
               | calculator
        
               | JoeAltmaier wrote:
               | It's been repeated again and again, that the supposed
               | equity bait is almost never worth it. Its just a story to
               | string folks along. Since the 2000's, the VCs and
               | founders have learned to squeeze almost every drop out of
               | any equity event, leaving crumbs for everyone else. It's
               | disingenuous to repeat the con story as if that explains
               | everything.
        
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           | hn_throwaway_99 wrote:
           | I think most unicorns actually have a different experience,
           | though, in that the founders often worked on their own for
           | less than 6 months/a year before they got some funding.
           | 
           | I don't have data on this but I would bet a very long lead
           | time before getting funded is actually correlated with a
           | _worse_ likely outcome.
        
           | JoeAltmaier wrote:
           | Wealthy folks that can afford to start a company for
           | little/no pay are always imagining some kind of moral
           | superiority. I told a startup boss who tried that out on me
           | e.g. "I'm risking my house too!". I said "you mean your 2nd
           | house. I'm risking my first house. And my family's
           | stability." He had nothing to respond to that.
        
           | khazhoux wrote:
           | Let me guess, you're not a Silicon Valley tech company? In
           | S.V., it usually goes like this:
           | 
           | * A couple of people have an idea, and quit their job (or
           | didn't have a job), build a quick prototype, pitch it. Maybe
           | they spend a couple of months at a startup summer camp like
           | YCombinator
           | 
           | * They raise seed funding or a small first round
           | 
           | * ...and then _immediately_ hire Employee #1 at 1% equity,
           | and it 's their job to build the first "real" usable version
           | of the product. Employee #2 follows shortly at <1%.
           | 
           | The risky investment put in by founders often amounts to: "We
           | had to spend a few months grabbing coffee with potential
           | investors"
        
           | grogenaut wrote:
           | It definitely is more risk. However when I evaluate startups
           | I'm comparing them against other jobs. Stable income it may
           | be but the runway is short, and depending on the founders it
           | may or not be well communicated. So it is much less stable
           | than a job in a big company. So to me I want a good
           | multiplier.
           | 
           | Many of the payoffs I've seen for startups that did well for
           | early employees put earnings on par with what I've done at a
           | large company without the startup risk. And that's for the
           | ones that do very well which is a low chance.
           | 
           | So in the end I personally would get a lot more stress and a
           | lot less income to usually being equal in a great case.
           | 
           | So generally it doesn't seem that worth the risk, low
           | control, and probably low payoff.
           | 
           | I'd actually be more likely to join a startup in some years
           | when I'm financially at a retirement or FIRE point. But then
           | it's like, working for a founder on their idea, and maybe the
           | pressure to hold out for 5-10 years there for the actual
           | payout.
           | 
           | Just my mental space around it.
        
             | fastball wrote:
             | Really depends on the job market though. If the startup
             | goes belly up but you were making good money in the interim
             | and you can quickly find a new job, it's not much risk.
             | 
             | A founder who eats in to savings and goes unpaid for two
             | years is on an entirely different level of risk profile.
             | 
             | But yes, if your primary concern is job security, in
             | general you should not be working for a startup, regardless
             | of how many points you get.
        
               | grogenaut wrote:
               | I'm not arguing that it isn't more risky for the founder.
               | I'm saying that the payoff potential that remains esp
               | when you look at the pool of startups, is almost never
               | worth it compared to a job at a bigco, even at the top
               | end.
               | 
               | Eg this is me explaining why I wouldn't work at a startup
               | as I shoulder more risk and very very low chance at a
               | payoff better than I could get at a bigco, and worse case
               | you spend 5 more years at the big co and you can be
               | getting into founder level payoffs.
               | 
               | At that point why even take a risk if there isn't a
               | reward if you are a strong engineer. The only thing that
               | makes sense to me is to be a founder, or go work a stable
               | high paying job if you're able to.
               | 
               | This pay structure greatly limits access to very
               | experienced employees for a startup.
        
               | fastball wrote:
               | I think the key thing missing from your analysis is that
               | some (most?) people aren't optimizing their careers for
               | minimal risk and maximal pay. There are a great many
               | other factors at play.
        
               | grogenaut wrote:
               | I didn't say there wernt, this is a message about my
               | personal pov written while on the phone on the can, not a
               | treatise or full data based coverage of all workers.
        
           | hmmokidk wrote:
           | It's a risk you were capable of taking. People without family
           | they can depend on cannot take these risks. If some of us
           | fall we fall into homelessness, for others their parents just
           | bail them out. The people that risk homelessness do not start
           | startups.
        
           | Eridrus wrote:
           | Stable doesn't really describe early stage startups at all.
           | Just because there is a paycheck doesn't mean there will be
           | one when a big account falls through.
           | 
           | But anyway, I would urge founders to think more about the
           | logarithmic utility of money and whether it makes sense to
           | take 30x+ the gains of early employees. In particular, think
           | of the number that make it all worthwhile and ask if you need
           | to capture all the gains above that, or whether you could be
           | more generous if you hit it out of the park, and if there is
           | a way to write that into your contracts.
        
             | achillesheels wrote:
             | Why should leaders and team builders be more "equitable"
             | than what is transactionally afforded by their diligent
             | appreciation of their assets? How is the utility of money
             | not best suited for those who created something from
             | nothing versus those who entered into the tent after it was
             | pitched? Aren't there gradients of personal ambition being
             | demonstrated between the two parties? If so, wouldn't
             | society be abler if the leaders were able to do more after
             | having created the opportunity in the first place?
             | 
             | The generosity emerges out of the availability for lending
             | the capital to strangers in society thanks to the
             | successful investment realization.
        
               | Eridrus wrote:
               | We're in a thread talking about how equity compensation
               | at startups is generally not sufficient to overcome the
               | pay cut that folks would take from working at a top tier
               | tech company, so even if you come at this from a purely
               | transactional perspective, you may want to be less stingy
               | with equity.
               | 
               | You can do whatever you want of course, but I think
               | people should ask themselves if trying to hold onto all
               | the returns is helping them achieve what they actually
               | want.
        
               | x0x0 wrote:
               | > _equity compensation at startups is generally not
               | sufficient to overcome the pay cut_
               | 
               | ... so don 't take the job. Everything will naturally
               | sort itself out -- a startup will increase their grants,
               | hire different people, or not hire and fail. :shrug:
               | 
               | This thread sure looks like it's full of people who can't
               | get that well paid job at google, are taking jobs at less
               | demanding employers out of necessity, and are mad about
               | it. Otherwise, we're living through one of the absolutely
               | hottest markets for engineering talent we've ever seen,
               | so getting a new job is always an option if you're worth
               | the money.
               | 
               | As for founder vs employee risk... certainly at my
               | company, every employee except for the founders walked
               | into a six figure cash comp, fully paid health insurance,
               | and a runway that's never fallen below 12 months.
        
         | break_the_bank wrote:
         | Also it's impossible for me to tell whether my below market
         | base salary startup offer from a seed/series A startup is at
         | market or not. Especially the equity bit, is 1% equity enough
         | for the second employee(and engineer)? Especially when I am
         | taking a 50% cut on base salary in addition to losing some very
         | real liquid stocks.
        
           | jiveturkey wrote:
           | that's up to you to decide isn't it? what i mean is, there's
           | no correct answer. 1% is a baseline (minimum) offer. many
           | think it's fair. at this early stage there is high variance.
           | i think 3-5% is fair. this early you are an absolutely
           | critical hire. I _personally_ don't want to work for a
           | founder that's stingy and going for bare minimum.
           | 
           | otoh first second third employee jobs don't come along every
           | day. turn in down and you may never see an offer this early,
           | ever again.
        
           | vinay_ys wrote:
           | If you are the second employee (first engineer) at a tech
           | startup with a solo founder company, most likely you can get
           | more than this. Nobody will give you more than what they have
           | to unless you educate yourself and negotiate on your own
           | behalf.
           | 
           | You are taking the same risks as the founder and you being
           | there is directly helping the founder raise funds and hire
           | other engineers. Don't under-value yourself.
           | 
           | Your previous total comp was base + public/liquid stocks. You
           | should compute the growth in valuation of those liquid stocks
           | (if it was similar to FAANG stocks, its growth would have
           | been 50%+) plus the return on investment of your savings. Add
           | that to your total comp.
           | 
           | For your startup comp to beat this total comp, given your 1%
           | stocks, compute backwards the valuation your startup has to
           | achieve. Does it look feasible or too crazy? How long will it
           | take?
           | 
           | Do market research to understand how much revenue and profits
           | a public company in similar sector does to achieve that
           | valuation and how much capital investment and tech innovation
           | is needed to get to that. Ask questions to your founder boss,
           | meet their investors to understand their thinking.
           | 
           | Very important to consider what happens if you quit before it
           | got there. If you have to pay to exercise options, or your
           | options get bought back by the founder at a discounted
           | valuation etc. (some startups have started doing "stock
           | appreciation rights" which are somewhat unfair) understand
           | those for what they really are and factor that into your
           | calculation. Understand how cap tables, dilutions,
           | liquidation etc works and factor the risks into your
           | calculation.
           | 
           | Finally, remember that founders get fired/replaced; your
           | direct boss is going to be someone else very shortly
           | (especially if the company grows fast) etc. so don't go by
           | verbal promises. If you are looking to make millions, invest
           | time and energy to understand and negotiate your employment
           | contracts properly.
        
             | break_the_bank wrote:
             | In this particular scenario I'd be the second employee, not
             | counting the two founders as employees.
             | 
             | I did similar math as you said and I didn't find the
             | numbers fair. I figured how much would I be losing per year
             | at the current valuation and my pay cut seemed more than
             | what the investors got for the last round.
             | 
             | I wish there was more public information about startup
             | salaries at various stages of employment, while the company
             | is still a tiny company. Finding information about FANG
             | salaries is so easy but startup salaries is tough.
        
               | qqqwerty wrote:
               | Yeah, something to consider is that FAANG salaries are an
               | outlier. There is a bimodal distribution in tech
               | salaries. Outside of tier 1 unicorns, no one comes close
               | to FAANG salary. So when evaluating your options, using
               | FAANG salaries as a comparison might not be the most fair
               | benchmark. For example if you work in biotech, even as a
               | programmer, you are probably looking at a salary about
               | half of what a FAANG will pay. This holds true for a lot
               | of other industries.
               | 
               | In general, I agree though. Early employees should either
               | be compensated better or given more equity. In many
               | cases, they have a more direct influence on the product
               | than the founders, because the founders are focused on
               | fundraising, sales, and hiring. And they also can have an
               | outsized impact on company culture. If it was up to me,
               | the first few hires would be getting 2-5% depending on
               | experience, and I would even consider giving them a title
               | of co-founder.
        
               | novok wrote:
               | But negotiations are based on BATNA, and most of the
               | better engineers you actually want to hire can also get
               | hired at FANG. So even if 'FANG is an outlier', it
               | doesn't matter because they set the standard. You have to
               | be willing to do things that FANG is not, like real
               | remote, employees that cannot immigrate (ex: no degree in
               | developing nation) or no leet coding.
        
             | robomartin wrote:
             | > You are taking the same risks as the founder
             | 
             | Not even close.
             | 
             | You can quit and go get another job any second of any day
             | with zero consequences.
             | 
             | You have zero financial responsibility or obligations to
             | the investors.
             | 
             | You have zero responsibilities and obligations to
             | clients/customers.
             | 
             | You have zero obligations to financial institutions (banks,
             | loans).
             | 
             | You have zero or little reputation on the line in the
             | industry being addressed. In fact, in most cases
             | competitors will gladly hire you because you have valuable
             | industry-specific experience and training.
             | 
             | I could go on. I see a bunch of comments on this thread
             | painting founders as greedy bastards. All I can say is: I
             | hope you can one day wear those shoes and actually
             | understand reality.
             | 
             | That said, yes, there's a startup culture that works people
             | to death and often offers dubious outcomes. I really don't
             | like that at all. In technology some things are very hard.
             | If you don't work hard it is often impossible to achieve
             | anything of note. I don't have a problem with that. I am no
             | stranger to 18 hour days, 7 days a week. I get it. A
             | company can't operate like that forever. If it does,
             | there's something wrong with it.
             | 
             | As a founder my standard mode of operation is simple: If I
             | am awake, I am working. There's no way I will demand or
             | request such a thing from anyone else. I am the one whose
             | all-in, not those who work for me.
             | 
             | NOTE: Don't work for less than you are worth. Option are
             | neat, they could be worth zero or a few million. More often
             | than not they are worth zero. Get fair pay for your work.
             | Assume options are worthless.
        
               | 8note wrote:
               | How much of this liability is mitigated through making a
               | company rather than doing all of this in your own name?
               | 
               | Is your business set up such that you personally owe the
               | investors when the business goes under? Or is the
               | business liable?
        
               | dchichkov wrote:
               | Founder has all the control - Employee has none. So
               | employee takes more risk.
               | 
               | Founder has all the information. Employee wouldn't even
               | know, if the stock was diluted twice. Or if the company
               | is going to seize to exist next day. Employee is in the
               | fog - so employee has more risk.
               | 
               | Employee risks with her reputation. A nut case founder
               | can consider employee a traitor for leaving the company
               | and give bad references to future employers.
               | 
               | Employee has responsibility and obligations as well.
               | 
               | Don't get me wrong. A cutting edge startup can be
               | amazing. But it is a lot of risk for everyone involved.
        
               | robomartin wrote:
               | > Founder has all the control
               | 
               | It reminds me of a story. Back about thirty years ago I
               | bought a used surface mount assembly line from this guy
               | who dealt exclusively in used manufacturing equipment. He
               | was much older than me, a father figure, if you will. He
               | was interested in what I was doing in my little startup.
               | We got into a conversation while we setup the assembly
               | line. I talked to him about some of the challenges I was
               | facing. At one point he stopped, thought about it for a
               | while and told me: A business is like a living breathing
               | beast that has a mind of its own. If you think you can
               | train, mold it or control it, you are likely to be wrong.
               | The business tells you what you are going to do every
               | day. The business pushes and pulls you around. The best
               | you can hope for it so generally guide the zig-zag path
               | in the direction you want to go and hold on. It's like
               | sailing in a storm. You are not in control of the
               | sailboat, the ocean is.
               | 
               | Fonder is in control? Ha. Very funny.
               | 
               | > Employee has none. So employee takes more risk.
               | 
               | I am not sure how to say this. Here it goes again: The
               | employee can pick up and go any microsecond of any day.
               | At least in the US. Nobody can force anyone to work under
               | any conditions. That's control. That is having 100%
               | control.
               | 
               | > A nut case founder can consider employee a traitor for
               | leaving the company and give bad references to future
               | employers.
               | 
               | I don't know where you are from. In the US that would be
               | one of the worst mistakes a founder, company, executive
               | or manager could make. Depending on circumstances the
               | resulting lawsuit could yield millions of dollars for the
               | ex employee. Nobody does that (unless they are suicidal).
        
               | achillesheels wrote:
               | How many employees would work for no salary but only
               | equity? Disregard whether they have the material
               | affordances to be able to do so.
               | 
               | Simply put, by necessity the founders have inherited more
               | uncertainty with their life outcome than a salaried
               | worker, regardless of the transience of the work
               | agreement.
        
               | vinay_ys wrote:
               | > Don't work for less than you are worth.
               | 
               | The OP's question was about how to do that and my entire
               | response was to that question.
               | 
               | > Assume options are worthless.
               | 
               | That's bad advise for senior engineers with relevant
               | experience. No startup I know can afford to offer cash
               | compensation that matches the cash+stock comp from
               | previous employment. Startup stocks have value - you just
               | have to get better at figuring out its risk adjusted
               | value and consider it for that worth.
        
               | robomartin wrote:
               | Without having done any accounting I'd be willing to bet
               | that the vast majority of startup options end-up being
               | worthless. This is a simple logical conclusion from the
               | fact that most businesses fail. So, no, I disagree, don't
               | work for less than you are worth and, yes, assume startup
               | options are worthless.
               | 
               | What ends-up happening is that the sexy startup culture
               | sucks in young people with little life experience who
               | haven't seen enough to be skeptical enough about these
               | things. And, yes, under that context, if things go wrong,
               | the end result is that they feel used and abused. You
               | never hear complaints from anyone who worked super hard
               | at a successful startup that made it and the early
               | employees did very well.
        
           | mcguire wrote:
           | Back of the envelope: IIRC, the article indicates that there
           | is a 1% chance of $1B. 1% chance of 1% of $1B is worth
           | $100,000; if $100K is greater than what you're giving up then
           | it is worth it.
           | 
           | Two confounding factors: time and partial payouts. What if it
           | takes 20 years to pay out? How does the range of possible
           | payouts and probabilities change the valuation? That's where
           | you establish your margin of safety and start making
           | conservative assumptions.
        
             | break_the_bank wrote:
             | Also that 1% would keep on diluting before the money would
             | actually become liquid. I figured that the 1% would be
             | 0.35% if the company had IPO'd in say 8 years. At a 1B
             | valuation, I'd net 3Million before taxes, while the company
             | would have gone from 6M to $1B in valuation. This didn't
             | seem fair and I said no to this offer.
             | 
             | I'd have no financial regrets at the $1B valuation, but I'd
             | if they make it to $10B/$100B.
        
         | eecc wrote:
         | That's what Wiener suggests in Uncanny Valley, when she
         | describes the windfall when Microsoft bought the GitHub shares
         | she had the option to buy during her time there.
         | 
         | It wasn't life-defining, plus she noticed that many other
         | employees didn't have enough savings to actually exercise.
        
           | barrkel wrote:
           | The way it should happen with a liquidity event is that you
           | simultaneously exercise your options and sell them, pay off
           | the taxes and bank what's left over.
           | 
           | Savings should only come into it if you're leaving before the
           | liquidity event.
        
             | hibikir wrote:
             | But that is a large problem today, because you have no idea
             | when, if ever, the liquidity event is going to happen.
             | There are companies that spend a whole lot of time private,
             | and if said company is going well, it's going to be growing
             | so fast that in 4 years, it might be unrecognizable. Even
             | if you love the job you joined, you might hate the
             | equivalent a few years later, and you probably still don't
             | have a liquidity event.
             | 
             | Quite a few years ago, a well known company was sending
             | offers where the exercise cost of the shares was around
             | $200k, plus whatever fun you'd have with AMT at exercise
             | time. The company still hasn't seen an IPO, and I know
             | quite a few people that didn't exercise their entire
             | allocation just because it was just way too expensive for
             | something illiquid... and that was with a company that was
             | going (and still is!) going very well. Today you'll find
             | companies that went for a decade without a liquidity event,
             | and where a whole lot of options that were well in the
             | money went back to the company, unused.
             | 
             | Options would be far more worthwhile if there was a
             | standing offer to, on departure, sell the options back to
             | the company at departure time, but we all know this isn't
             | how it works. So you end up in situations when two people
             | join a company and leave at the same time, and their
             | savings separate their final outcomes by 8 figures, because
             | one could buy the shares and wait the necessary X years for
             | the liquidity event, when someone else couldn't.
        
             | hn_throwaway_99 wrote:
             | > Savings should only come into it if you're leaving before
             | the liquidity event.
             | 
             | Which is another way some startups screw people. If the
             | company is not willing to budge on the "standard" 90-day
             | exercise window, there shouldn't be any negotiation. Just
             | walk away.
        
               | hellcow wrote:
               | There are two types of options, NSO and ISO. You want ISO
               | as an employee because it's better for taxes, but that
               | has a 90-day exercise window set by the IRS. You can push
               | for yourself paying higher taxes in exchange for more
               | flexibility, but it's a tradeoff.
               | 
               | https://carta.com/blog/pte-90-day-window/
        
               | alasdair_ wrote:
               | It's completely possible to have ISOs that convert to
               | NSOs past the 90 day window.
               | 
               | The last unicorn I worked for had a ten year exercise
               | window after employment ended.
        
               | novok wrote:
               | ISOs also don't save you from the AMT trap, so they're
               | not really that useful.
        
               | rjzzleep wrote:
               | Zach Holman one of the first github employees didn't get
               | to exercise any of his options for the aforementioned
               | reasons. When they tell you to throw your life away to
               | believe in the vision, nobody tells that 24 y/o to get a
               | lawyer to understand what that actually means.
               | 
               | He compiled a list of startups with sane exercise
               | windows:
               | 
               | https://github.com/holman/extended-exercise-windows
        
               | robocat wrote:
               | At the bottom of that link: "It's worth noting that
               | Andreessen Horowitz has come out in strong favor of the
               | 90 day window. If you feel strongly about extended
               | exercise windows, it might be worth considering whether
               | a16z portfolio companies are a good fit for you." with a
               | link to https://a16z.com/2016/06/23/options-timing/
               | 
               | The a16z link is astonishingly self-serving. Their top
               | line solution was: "One existing solution to the 'dead
               | equity' problem has been -- and still can be -- to make
               | exceptions where appropriate for certain exiting
               | employees. In fact, employers make exceptions all the
               | time for certain employees, depending on their
               | contribution to the company, critical skill set, and so
               | on." Riiiiiiight - asking nicely for a handout when you
               | are quitting is a great strategy!!
               | 
               | And I would love to know how they come to this conclusion
               | "In our model, we estimate that moving from the current
               | 90-day window to a 10-year window will cost the average
               | remaining employee as much as 80% in incremental
               | dilution." - just, wow.
        
             | surfsvammel wrote:
             | That's kind of how it worked out when we sold our company.
             | All the transactions happened simultaneously so the only
             | real payments was the net of it all. Both business and tax
             | lawyers where involved to set up that whole process.
        
           | adflux wrote:
           | Couldnt a bank front the cash to exercise the options? Not
           | familiar with the matter but it seems like an easy thing to
           | get a loan for
        
             | toast0 wrote:
             | If it's to exercise at the close of a deal, the acquirer
             | could also setup a loan too. I had options which were
             | subject to revesting (lame, but worked out ok), and the
             | acquirer fronted the money to exercise everything that
             | wasn't already exercised and then took payments
             | automatically when the chunks vested. Because of the strike
             | prices we had, it didn't feel very risky.
        
             | alasdair_ wrote:
             | Most option contracts forbid the employee pledging the
             | shares for anything, including a loan to pay taxes. Its
             | kind of absurd.
        
             | spoonjim wrote:
             | Yes, but then you're holding illiquid startup stock that
             | can easily to go 0 in value.
        
             | eecc wrote:
             | I guess it's still a question of borrowing money for a
             | speculative investment, you just get a significant discount
             | that makes profit more likely.
             | 
             | Depending on your indebtedness (outstanding student loans,
             | mortgages) savings and current earnings a bank could still
             | refuse to lend you enough money, if at all
        
               | wayoutthere wrote:
               | If you're making a high enough salary to be getting
               | enough options that you can't afford to exercise them,
               | you're making enough to borrow about $100k.
               | 
               | I had no trouble getting an uncollateralized loan at a
               | reasonable rate for $75k; and I had $100k in student
               | debt, a $500k mortgage and little else in the way of
               | assets. And when I say "no trouble" I mean I applied for
               | the loan, was approved 30 minutes later and had the money
               | in my bank account within 2 hours. That loan is paid off
               | now, but if your income is high enough banks will lend
               | you money on that alone (I was making an equivalent
               | salary to a principal developer at the time).
        
               | vmception wrote:
               | If you've ever taken any risk with credit and failed or
               | simply had a disruption in income anytime in the last 10
               | years prior you would have been denied.
               | 
               | Its nice everything worked out for you, that has nothing
               | to do with your ability to perceive a simple solution
               | available to you.
        
               | ptero wrote:
               | The only risk is that one exercises the options, but by
               | the time one sells the shares (which they got as the
               | result of exercising options), the price of the stock
               | falls below the strike price. To avoid this risk, do a
               | quick sell after exercise. This makes risk minimal; in
               | case of bigger companies effectively zero.
               | 
               | Bigger risk comes in if someone wants to do an exercise
               | and hold to sell much later, which can bring tax
               | advantages. But this is a different game entirely. In the
               | case of employee with little spare cash (to the tune of
               | borrowing money for the exercise), not doing exercise and
               | sell is really leaving money on the table. My 2c.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | One thing I learned during the dot-bomb era is think hard
               | about holding too much of your company's stock and,
               | especially, think really hard about exercising options
               | and then not selling. Fortunately the stock drifted back
               | up a ways over time and then my former company was
               | acquired for a nice spike. So between that and tax loss
               | offsets, I didn't do that bad. But I've been careful
               | since. (Of course, more recently, I'd have been better
               | off holding more for longer but I can't really complain.)
        
               | vmception wrote:
               | You missed the point that many people with good finances
               | are denied credit. They cant get a $75,000 loan. Thats
               | the only point I was making. The person provided no
               | insight whatsoever and was unable to see that their
               | experience is different.
        
               | [deleted]
        
               | adflux wrote:
               | Whats speculative about exercising options, dont you know
               | the exercise price and market value?
        
             | vinay_ys wrote:
             | Regular startup employees borrowing and buying their stock
             | options is far riskier than them borrowing to do options
             | trading in publicly traded stock markets because they have
             | very little information about their company's future
             | prospects.
             | 
             | What goes on between the founders, board, current investors
             | and likely future investors is likely known to very few
             | amongst them, if at all.
             | 
             | Even if you believe strongly in the product and know the
             | market-fit is bang on, you don't know if the option is
             | currently priced correctly.
        
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         | emerged wrote:
         | This is why I've found a balance. I like to work at a startup,
         | but they get the amount of hours they invest in me. Typically
         | that means I get to spend much of my day enjoying
         | fitness/outdoor activities but still get the potential for a
         | nice bonus if the equity amounts to anything.
         | 
         | I'll never again work obscene hours without obscene
         | compensation. Even with the compensation I'm highly unlikely to
         | do it.
        
         | rjzzleep wrote:
         | From my own household/wife I have a person who's worked her ass
         | off for a hugely incompetent CEO who has a majority stake. When
         | I say ass off I mean 12-14 hours a day even on weekends. A
         | promise of unlimited holidays and then coercing all employees
         | to work during government mandated holidays and now he's trying
         | to scam her out of her less than 1% options by coercing her to
         | write a maternity leave policy that would make sure she doesn't
         | get to vest. This is a sequoia invested company.
         | 
         | I don't think this company has even 10% of equity allocated for
         | all the other employees. No way it's that much. She's
         | sacrificed her own health, the health of her child and her
         | personal relationships for someone who's coerced a bunch of
         | people who are to scared to talk to a lawyer into a bunch of
         | labour law violations.
         | 
         | When I myself interview with startups and they try to sell me
         | on their BS vision fantasies, I tell them that I'm not
         | available 24/7. I'm not on call duty either and if they have
         | issues with that I'm happy to use my experience to help them
         | transform/automate their business into a situation where they
         | are more efficient and don't need to burn out their employees.
         | Some people respect this as a sign of experience and others,
         | especially the valley considers this not aligning with their
         | "values".
         | 
         | This is exploitation plain and simple. They cheat their
         | employees into thinking taking abuse is acceptable, because
         | that's what you have to do to change the world. If anything
         | such people change the world for the worse if you ask me.
         | 
         | EDIT: also, due to the lack of experience it's clear that some
         | of the directions actually come top down from whatever VC is
         | involved in it.
        
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           | spoonjim wrote:
           | So... why does your wife stay there?
        
             | matsemann wrote:
             | Possibly golden handcuffs (the options are worth much in
             | theory, but cannot be exercised or cashed in until IPO for
             | instance). Another reason why it's often bad to be a normal
             | employee in a startup when it comes to equity. The terms of
             | the options are often against you.
        
           | Aeolun wrote:
           | > that's what you have to do to change the world
           | 
           | It may be what you need to change the world. But making a n
           | uber clone for dogs is _not_ changing the world.
           | 
           | Literally 99% of startups have zero claim to trying to change
           | the world.
        
           | bostonsre wrote:
           | They're not all that bad. I've worked in a horrible startup
           | before and they absolutely forced everyone to work harder
           | with longer hours instead of working smarter. We had a few
           | ~12-16 hour deploys that started after a full work day where
           | the entire engineering department was required to stay and
           | the oncall was brutal 2 week long slogs because no effort was
           | allowed to be put into actually fixing stuff.
           | 
           | But on the other hand, I've also been at ok jobs that were
           | pretty great companies and the one I currently work at is
           | absolutely amazing and it's a joy to work at. The pay has
           | been pretty awesome as well.
           | 
           | Larger companies in my experience can be soul crushingly
           | beaurocratic and the slower pace means your skillet grows
           | more slowly (no big tech companies in the valley, just some
           | large public companies after startup acquisitions).
           | 
           | It's just anecdotal from my experience and I'm not really
           | sure how big of a haystack the amazing startup needles are in
           | but they are out there. Work is work, but you spend a huge
           | portion of your life at work, if you can enjoy it thoroughly,
           | you can live a happier life.
        
             | rjzzleep wrote:
             | If you're saying not all startups are bad, I completely
             | agree with you, but we're talking about a specific kind
             | here. I've worked at some really challenging startups where
             | I also did overtime during deploys(I did get to charge the
             | hours though) in which I learned a lot. AND THEN we
             | actually worked on reducing those issues for the future.
             | 
             | They didn't actually make that part of the job either. I
             | could have rejected if I wanted to. And there was never a
             | vision alignment talk with miniscule equity with an
             | unwritten agreement of doing anything that was asked
             | otherwise I'd kiss my equity goodbye.
             | 
             | EDIT: I can't believe I have to clarify this. Most of the
             | startups that would fit my above description don't market
             | themselves as startups to begin with. I.e. they don't think
             | their distinguishing feature is to be a startup with
             | equity.
        
               | catillac wrote:
               | You're saying not all startups are bad, just a specific
               | kind are bad: bad startups. Seems tautological.
        
           | BurningFrog wrote:
           | > _This is exploitation plain and simple_
           | 
           | If so, it's voluntary exploitation. She can quit on Monday.
           | Don't give 2 weeks notice if you feel the situation is
           | abusive.
           | 
           | You'll lose a paycheck, but you always have to be prepared
           | for that when at startups. Mainly because they die all the
           | time, but also for these kinds of scenarios.
        
           | Grimm1 wrote:
           | I've never had these abuses working for a startup. I feel
           | like you have to push back against things instead of just
           | going with it. Or choose the position better because they
           | sound like bad jobs regardless of the type of business.
           | That's what I can't help thinking when I hear that because
           | I've now worked for 5 different startups and while there was
           | some crunch time occasionally the majority by far was an 8
           | hour day and then I was out, even for one of the companies
           | when I was the 4th engineer. And they just closed another 20
           | million round recently.
           | 
           | I really don't think people do enough due diligence about
           | where they should work plain and simple. Work is a mutual
           | contract where you want to try to extract as much value from
           | your employer while negotiating to the point they'll still
           | hire you. And a lot of the negotiation is figuring out if
           | it's a good job anyway and walking away to another option if
           | you get the sense it's not a good from either a financial,
           | time or social perspective.
        
             | zepto wrote:
             | > I feel like you have to push back against things instead
             | of just going with it.
             | 
             | In a bad startup you typically can't 'push back'
             | meaningfully. If the management doesn't understand how to
             | treat people well, people pushing back won't educate them,
             | and employees have to get work done to justify their
             | presence rather than fighting battles all the time.
        
               | Grimm1 wrote:
               | In that case, you leave.
               | 
               | If you're a decent engineer you'll find work in a few
               | weeks and any other startup will be happy to have you.
               | 
               | Unfortunately for non engineers I understand that may be
               | more difficult and for those starting out too. So matter
               | of perspective definitely since engineers aren't the only
               | employees at a startup, but I would hope with due
               | dilligence that is caught while you're interviewing.
        
             | sgtnoodle wrote:
             | There's certainly some selection bias on these sorts of
             | threads, but I agree with you that it's important for
             | individuals to take as much responsibility as they can for
             | the outcome they expect.
             | 
             | That means vetting a company before joining it, pushing
             | back during negotiations and being willing to walk away,
             | giving necessary feedback to your coworkers regardless of
             | their title, and personally practicing the style of
             | leadership you expect from others.
             | 
             | It takes a team of people though, and if the team isn't
             | solid then you need to either try to fix it or walk away. A
             | good team will build individuals up and support them rather
             | than wear down and exploit them.
             | 
             | I just passed the 5 year mark at my current company. When I
             | joined there were about 30 people, and now it's probably
             | around 400. I took 4 days off this week, but on Friday
             | afternoon I popped into the old "office", which are some
             | portable buildings on a cattle ranch. It turned out to be
             | the once-every-few-years junk cleanup day, and the CEO,
             | possibly a billionaire on paper at this point, was limping
             | around with leather gloves and a sore back, and all he had
             | to talk about was the recent ultrasound of his first baby,
             | and how proud he is of how the company has grown since the
             | last cleanup day.
        
             | harikb wrote:
             | We either need agents who will negotiate on the employees
             | behave or some kind of training that is part of a 4 year
             | degree. Negotiations and finances are hard - this is why
             | some people are good at selling and some are not. Engineers
             | are usually good at their primary job and usually not that
             | good at defending against other social engineering tactics
             | founders use
             | 
             | edit: don't want to blame founders, they also need to
             | preserve their equity for future employees but there has to
             | be a better balance
        
           | rcruzeiro wrote:
           | It's funny how often I got rejected after saying that I am
           | not 24/7 available and that I believe that, if someone needs
           | to have this kind of availability, it means that something in
           | the company is not working and needs to be fixed. The words
           | they used in the rejections were always something like: "we
           | feel like you are not willing to put enough skin in the game"
           | or "everyone else sees the opportunity here is is willing to
           | work their asses off, why are you different?" It's specially
           | funny to hear all this after the CEO has basically told me
           | that they are planning for an exit in a couple of years, and
           | being someone who has seems this first hand a few times., it
           | usually means everyone works til the point of burn out and,
           | in the end, the CEO gets handsomely while everyone else has a
           | regular Wednesday.
        
             | hinkley wrote:
             | They say "skin in the game" but they mean "skin in the
             | machine".
             | 
             | These sorts of word games work on young naive people,
             | especially young men. Maybe we need to broadly educate
             | people that this sort of exploitation is not okay...
        
               | ad404b8a372f2b9 wrote:
               | The valley is a machine, caked with blood, running on
               | flesh.
        
             | swensel wrote:
             | I don't like having to be on call 24/7 either and would
             | prefer to work on a team that has 24/7 ops, so the devs
             | don't have to do that. However, in the case of a startup
             | where the devs also do ops, what is the option? I don't
             | understand the part where you said that this means
             | something in the company is not working and needs to be
             | fixed if devs need to be on call. What happens if something
             | goes wrong with an environment and an auto restart doesn't
             | fix the issue? I am curious because I'd like to have a
             | better answer for potential startup opportunities that
             | won't spend money on a 24/7 ops team and ask this of their
             | devs.
        
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               | vidarh wrote:
               | The option is to compensate for it on top of extra salary
               | to the point where you get enough volunteers for
               | rotation, and/or hire for it.
               | 
               | I had a side gig that very explicitly was being hired to
               | be the guy that gets woken up by PagerDuty. They paid me
               | about an extra $1k/month purely for having my phone on in
               | addition to what they paid me for the time I spent
               | dealing with actual issues. Even then $1k/month was only
               | enough because most of the other work I did for them was
               | explicitly to improve site availability so I could ensure
               | the platform was resilient enough that I rarely got woken
               | up. In effect my hourly rate for being woken up probably
               | translated to $2k-$3k/hour, with it sometimes going half
               | a year between being woken up, before suddenly a bad
               | release might cost me sleep a few nights in a row.
               | 
               | But having felt the stress of this on a full-time basis
               | in the past, without that kind of compensation, I don't
               | think it's cost-effective to have your dev team serve
               | this role vs. having a few people on retainer to at least
               | triage and try the obvious things. You're going to pay
               | for it with staff that do not get proper rest (even when
               | the phone doesn't go off it'll be there at the back of
               | your head).
        
               | rjzzleep wrote:
               | Hire for it? Don't coerce your employees into doing
               | something you you don't want to pay for?
               | 
               | What most people don't think of is that when you're on
               | 24/7 duty your salary is less than half of what it should
               | be.
               | 
               | Halfway decent enterprises will reimburse you for off-
               | hour duty usually at multiple times your normal rate plus
               | a minimum pay. Or just hire someone in a different
               | timezone.
               | 
               | The reality is though, most people don't need panic calls
               | from their CEO at midnight and the company would still do
               | perfectly fine without it. There really is no excuse for
               | this.
        
               | varjag wrote:
               | Isn't that what the company in question was trying to do,
               | hiring the devs who are willing to do 24/7 too?
        
               | danShumway wrote:
               | Sure, but then the lesson to take away from this is that
               | the company in question apparently isn't offering enough
               | to make that job worthwhile, and that's not the fault of
               | the people turning them down.
               | 
               | When the company phrases their rejection as "we don't
               | think you're committed enough to do this", that's when
               | things smell off to me. They're hiring for a specific
               | role, they should act like it.
               | 
               | As an analogy, if you hire me to build software, and then
               | slip in that you expect me to spend 10 extra hours a week
               | doing cold sales calls, I might turn down your job
               | because I don't want to do sales, I'm an engineer. And
               | the problem at that point isn't my commitment to the
               | company, the problem is that the company hasn't figured
               | out it needs to make the sales tasks part of the job
               | description.
               | 
               | How do interviews get to this point? How does a company
               | get to the point where you're talking to the CEO, they're
               | laying out their exit strategies, and the job
               | requirements still haven't been made clear?
               | 
               | > "we feel like you are not willing to put enough skin in
               | the game" or "everyone else sees the opportunity here is
               | is willing to work their asses off, why are you
               | different?"
               | 
               | Those quotes say to me that the owners are viewing this
               | as a question of "loyalty" or moral obligation, not as a
               | normal part of a job negotiation. A good test: if the CEO
               | feels offended that you ask for more compensation in
               | exchange for being online 24x7, then this isn't about
               | trying to hire a specific role, it's about their
               | ego/entitlement.
        
               | varjag wrote:
               | You could be right and it could well be the case, but we
               | don't know really. We are only aware that the GP turned
               | them down, but it's quite possible they had the position
               | filled.
               | 
               | One person wearing many hats is rather typical in small
               | companies and early stage startups. Being asked to do
               | extra is not something insulting per se, as long as you
               | compensated accordingly, either with more hard money or
               | (a lot more) equity.
               | 
               | It is a non-starter proposition to many, which should be
               | respected. But it's not something borderline criminal.
               | 
               | > How does a company get to the point where you're
               | talking to the CEO, they're laying out their exit
               | strategies, and the job requirements still haven't been
               | made clear?
               | 
               | Look, if we're still talking about a startup it could
               | well be the interviewer is the CEO, the guy who brought
               | you coffee is CFO and you're interviewing for
               | CTO/dev/ops/support in one :)
        
               | toast0 wrote:
               | I think you're basically right. At the end of the day, if
               | the servers catch fire, you probably need to call the
               | responsible developers for help getting things back on
               | track.
               | 
               | The real questions then are how is the work divided, what
               | does escalation look like, what steps are taken to reduce
               | incidents outside of office hours, what's being done to
               | allow for urgent maintenance to wait until office hours,
               | etc, and also like how well is that all working, and
               | where is the leadership in this?
               | 
               | I worked somewhere with not great answers to a lot of
               | these questions, but it was okish because the cofounders
               | were waking up with all the pages and hoping on to fix
               | things too, and I had a mediocre experience with a
               | dedicated ops team at a previous job that I didn't want
               | to repeat. Eventually, as the team got bigger, we made a
               | lot of things better, including on call responsibilities.
        
               | michaelt wrote:
               | Where I work, being on call means being able to respond
               | to a call by being at your laptop, with a reliable
               | internet connection within 10 minutes - and able to keep
               | working for as long as may be needed.
               | 
               | That means no stopping at the gym on the way home, no
               | going into the city to see a show, no lengthy car
               | journeys, no getting drunk, no going on dates, no evening
               | classes, no school plays, no sport that takes you more
               | than a block away from home, no taking your kids to the
               | park to feed the ducks.
               | 
               | The idea you could have people be on call constantly
               | sounds crazy to me.
        
             | atoav wrote:
             | > if someone needs to have this kind of availability, it
             | means that something in the company is not working and
             | needs to be fixed.
             | 
             | The crazy thing is, they think they can just throw manhours
             | at bad planning and somehow make it work.
             | 
             | You can literally plan well, have a good life and still
             | come out ahead of these chaotic organizations that make
             | everybody run in circles out of pure panic.
             | 
             | I have seen this so often in film projects: people believe
             | by exploiting themselves, their crew and their cast they
             | somehow "extract" more value and magically make it work.
             | And that one one the point, relexad, but well-planned
             | project will always achieve better results. Because oh
             | wonder: crews and casts that are not overworked and that
             | use their maximum potential where it matters instead of
             | spreading it out over the whole project will always produce
             | better results.
        
               | planet-and-halo wrote:
               | I read a book by a consultant who said he could
               | immediately gauge how well a factory was operating by
               | looking at how relaxed the average workers were. The most
               | efficient factories almost looked like nothing was
               | happening, because they had a smooth and efficient
               | process and knew how to calmly handle emergencies.
        
               | atoav wrote:
               | And what is true for the factory is also true for a film
               | set.
               | 
               | The thing many dont realize is: If you have a good plan
               | and follow it, you will very often have _more_ freedom to
               | try out new things than when your planning is chaotic or
               | non-existent -- because then literally every step is made
               | out of fear, out of panic, to avoid pain or because other
               | decisions froced you into something.
               | 
               | I say this because startups would argue about creativity
               | and all that, but having worked aomw time both in art
               | school and on film sets I can guarantee that the qell
               | prepared always have more freedom than those who just try
               | to figure things out as they go.
               | 
               | Thinking it is somehow more honorable to plan badly,
               | throw peoples lifetime at the thing and getting a
               | somewhat okayish result is really problematic in my eyes.
               | Romantizing things that could have been solved by
               | realistic (or even pessimistic) planning is not cool, it
               | just shows me that you have no experience.
        
               | halsom wrote:
               | Your discounting of the budget factor among many others
               | is brave. Many hardworking directors with high
               | expectations have very different priorities, some which
               | are simply big distractions from producing a quality
               | production. This "be relaxed and chill to make a good
               | film" idea is delusional, but its not necessarily wrong
               | as much as it is just nonsense. And the ability to merely
               | plan and execute plans, regardless how good they are,
               | depends tremendously and straightforwardly on budget.
        
               | jimmont wrote:
               | if you can share the title/author of the book please do,
               | I've seen this pattern in work as well
        
               | planet-and-halo wrote:
               | I can't be sure, but I think it was "Slack" by Demarco.
        
               | sharken wrote:
               | There certainly is a place where working extremely hard
               | pays off, John Carmack is an example of this, though he
               | was a founder at the time.
               | 
               | So i wholly agree that the old adage "work smarter, not
               | harder" applies here.
               | 
               | The fool is most likely yourself if you are available
               | 24/7 and work long hours more often than not.
        
             | gorbachev wrote:
             | Funny how those same companies never are willing to pay you
             | for that 24/7 availability. I'd be happy to do that, if
             | they paid me for it, and not with bullshit options.
        
           | runarberg wrote:
           | Thank you for sharing. As a worker passionate about labor
           | rights, I believe sharing these stories is an important step
           | in raising awareness to what happens when we waive our labor
           | rights.
           | 
           | In a just society these kind of labor violations would be as
           | criminal as a bank robbery. There would be prison time
           | involved and the victims would be paid, both for the value of
           | the work that was stolen from them, plus compensation for the
           | crime committed.
        
         | skohan wrote:
         | I think what's also missing from the equation here is the fact
         | that part of the reason which startup compensation is not
         | competitive is because FAANG salaries have been set in such a
         | way to attract talent which might otherwise go to startups.
        
           | BeFlatXIII wrote:
           | How true to do suspect the following hypothesis is: FAANG
           | overpays for top talent they do not need purely to keep it
           | out of the hands of startups and competitors who do have a
           | present concrete need for the top-shelf talent pool?
        
             | skohan wrote:
             | I don't know to what extent that's an explicit strategy,
             | but I would find it plausible to imagine that FAANG could
             | spend a lot less on engineering - both in terms of salaries
             | and head count - to keep their current velocity on product
             | development, but they see a strategic interest in
             | controlling that talent pool which they have an opportunity
             | to exploit via capital advantage.
        
             | ariwilson wrote:
             | The other side of this is mentioned in the OP - at scale,
             | if you get top talent for $$$ and can squeeze 1% more
             | revenue out of your products, it's still worth your time.
        
       | softwaredoug wrote:
       | Are there VC firms that invest labor instead of direct capital?
       | It seems they could have a group of amazing, employed devs ready
       | to hit the ground running, then continue on if the VC firm
       | continues to invest. They could train the next tier of tech
       | talent when the company could pay more competitive salaries, then
       | step back to go to the next investment. This VC firm could give
       | real equity in the firm to the techies, meaning the technologist
       | could also benefit in the upside of whatever unicorns the firm
       | invested in...
        
         | csa wrote:
         | I think that this is generally more common in PE (investing
         | with both capital and key labor roles) than VC.
         | 
         | That said, good VCs often have vast formal and informal
         | networks of folks they can tap to work with a specific start
         | up. Whether that talent is reliably good or not is a different
         | issue.
        
       | nthngtshr wrote:
       | I only ever worked at startups, always one of the first
       | employees. Different projects, from consumer stuff to enterprise
       | computer vision tech. Most of those companies failed. One was a
       | moderate success (~100M valuation), and when a liquidity event
       | came I made a decent chunk of money.
       | 
       | I love small companies, I love the chaos, I love having that bond
       | around some crazy idea that might never work. I love being in the
       | know about how things work and why people buy our product and all
       | of that.
       | 
       | I used to want to work at Google. I have a few friends that do
       | and the common thing I hear is that it is fun at the beginning
       | but then it gets boring. Things move slowly, people are less
       | excited about work and there's a lot of red tape. Not saying that
       | it's inherently bad, it's just a tradeoff. I could see myself
       | being into that kind of work at some point in life.
       | 
       | ---
       | 
       | One thing that people often miss in these conversations is that
       | if a company is failing it doesn't take a long time to figure it
       | out. If you join a startup and it's tanking or you think the
       | founders are incompetent, you can quit and go try another one.
       | That's more or less what happened to me. I stayed for 2 months at
       | one company, 8 months at another, one company I almost started
       | with some people but quickly realized we'd fail because none of
       | us knew the problem space. Then I worked at a successful startup
       | for 5 years and we all made money.
       | 
       | Another reason to work at a startup is if you ever want to start
       | your own company. Starting a company consists of doing a lot of
       | different things, so it helps if you have some prior experience
       | with them. I learned a ton of random things working at startups,
       | from interacting with lawyers to doing content marketing. I
       | recently started a company and I talk to other founders a lot and
       | I think people who worked at startups before are better prepared
       | compared to people who come out of large companies.
        
       | jp57 wrote:
       | This reminds me of the recent post linked on HN about "why it's a
       | bad idea to write books."
       | 
       | One thing I think people miss is that founding a startup, or
       | working at an early-stage startup, belongs to a class of
       | financially irrational aspirations that includes other things
       | like rock-star, novelist, actor, and professional athlete. For
       | all these careers, the financial rewards are distributed
       | according to a power law. A few superstars take a massively
       | disproportionate share of rewards while the expected ROI is
       | negative across all aspirants.
       | 
       | I stress "financial" rewards because for many of these pursuits
       | there are intangible rewards that make it worth it even for the
       | "losers". I spent most of my 20s playing in rock bands and
       | legitimately trying, and failing, to "make it". During that time
       | I had a day job, so I was working constantly either at the band
       | or at my day job, and really not doing much else. I wouldn't
       | trade that time in my life for anything, despite the fact that it
       | cost me money both out-of-pocket and in opportunity cost, and
       | only perhaps a few hundred people now remember my band. On the
       | other hand, I had no family to support during that time, and I
       | was willing to live a low-rent bohemian lifestyle.
       | 
       | Early-stage startups are probably the same: the camaraderie, the
       | esprit-de-corps, and the joy of building things are the reward.
       | 
       | It's important to enter into these risky pursuits with your eyes
       | open and understand that the most important rewards you receive
       | won't be financial. If those intangibles aren't important to you,
       | or if the base level of financial security you need is higher
       | than that of a bohemian lifestyle, then you should look for
       | something else.
        
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       | babaganoosh89 wrote:
       | The best way to value startup equity is based on their last
       | valuation. Then you can quickly compare the offer apples to
       | apples to cash offers. Obviously startups don't like this when
       | you figure out the 50k shares they offer you is only worth $10k a
       | year at current valuation.
        
       | flybrand wrote:
       | There are a lot of great things about being in a startup, and
       | many people have done well financially and personally with that
       | career path.
       | 
       | It's also true that a great deal of the promotion of this career
       | path is propaganda that benefits owners - both founders and
       | financiers.
        
       | mikeappell wrote:
       | Stories like this make me glad my company has yet to accept VC
       | money.
       | 
       | We're a five-person legal tech startup and the work environment
       | is far and away the best I've ever experienced. Granted, I've
       | only been a developer in total for four or five years now
       | (including almost three here), but of all the jobs I've had it's
       | the best.
       | 
       | My CTO/supervisor is amazing: smart, funny, likable and with a
       | management style that works for me amazingly well. Mostly hands
       | off, but fully available for deep dives on technical subjects
       | when necessary. At this point I've earned enough trust to be able
       | to just get shit done with minimal oversight, though we do check
       | in daily at least, and keep each other apprised of what we're up
       | to, or interesting things we've come across.
       | 
       | The lack of external forcing agents is probably a win for us at
       | this point. Obviously there's benefits to having a pile of money
       | to burn: we'd probably hire several more developers and really
       | work to hone our product. But for a team with two full-time
       | developers and a really great designer, not to mention extremely
       | smart and talented leadership and sales teams, we're doing great,
       | and ship features at a pace that seems to put to shame similar
       | companies with much larger teams and far more money. Honestly, I
       | have no idea what they're doing with their time.
       | 
       | Still working on that product-market fit though...
       | 
       | Anyway, tl;dr I feel like I hit the jackpot here.
        
       | gumby wrote:
       | I'm glad to read this.
       | 
       | I have only worked in the startup environment over the last 30
       | years. I don't miss the big company environment and what I see
       | from my GF (FAANG, plus one F50 brick and mortar) just reinforces
       | that.
       | 
       | But a lot of people choose startup jobs because they read (or saw
       | on TV!) a romanticized version. As described in this article the
       | very things that make it so great aren't the things that most
       | people want...and if you try to blend in too much of the big
       | company thing too early the company doesn't usually make it. It
       | it much more fun to work with people who are really into that
       | environment so anything that steers unhappy people away is better
       | for everyone.
       | 
       | I worked with a guy who had an extreme version of this: his limit
       | was about a dozen people. And looking at his linkedIn he's since
       | worked at some amazing major companies....always at the very
       | beginning. It's just his thing.
        
       | zebnyc wrote:
       | Unrelated, but does anyone know what happens to employee options
       | if there is an exit before the employee's start date?
        
         | ferdowsi wrote:
         | Depends if the employee has signed an options agreement and
         | those options have been approved by the board.
         | 
         | At a recent gig I started up a few weeks before an exit. My
         | options had not yet officially been granted by the board. My
         | company granted my equity but they didn't have to.
        
       | GiorgioG wrote:
       | In the best of circumstances working for a startup is akin to
       | playing the lottery. I worked at a startup almost a decade ago
       | and I took (nearly) no equity in exchange for a much higher
       | salary. The startup failed not long after I left.
       | 
       | If you just want the experience of working at a startup, go for
       | it. But don't do it expecting any financial reward beyond of your
       | salary.
        
       | yawaworht1978 wrote:
       | If the whole c level does not work the same hours and the reward
       | is not reasonably near the horizon and the extra time is not
       | compensated, then you are being exploited, will never see a
       | reward materialize and your salary is diluted.
       | 
       | Jump ship as far and as soon you can.
        
       | zallarak wrote:
       | I've worked at 3 startups, founded 2, and worked at 1 bigco.
       | 
       | 2/3 startups had excellent returns in the form of equity. Life
       | changing over time. Startups: 66% hit rate.
       | 
       | Bigco was mentally draining and sucked. Bigco: 0% hit rate.
       | 
       | Starting the first company was a failure, but the second one
       | seems to be doing pretty well. 50% hit rate.
        
       | kingsuper20 wrote:
       | I was just musing about how the definition of 'startup' has
       | changed. I've worked in a couple plus a few post-startup small
       | companies, but they always involved a fairly expensive piece of
       | boutique hardware. At best, stock options might mean a decent
       | bonus after a few years and you work as long as they pay you. You
       | take the job because it's interesting and because it's more fun
       | to lay track than to fix it. Using folding tables is always
       | better than dealing with some middle managers three ring binder
       | of yearly performance review.
       | 
       | Seriously, just how many startups in the last ten+ years involve
       | anything but some sort of internet service/social
       | media/advertising software construct with (usually) the hope of
       | selling the company? It all sounds kind of depressing.
        
         | cmrdporcupine wrote:
         | Yes, for sure, back in the 90s I fantasized about getting to
         | work for a company like that. Just working on really neat tech,
         | and getting to have some creative input and some technical
         | excitement. I'm sure companies like this exist still, but the
         | term "startup" and the investment around it seems to have been
         | swallowed up into the kinds of things you mention.
        
           | kingsuper20 wrote:
           | Looking around, I've been really blessed by putting together
           | a full career of that very sort of thing.
           | 
           | Some things you have to watch, especially if you are selling
           | domain knowledge as an employee, is that products in a given
           | subindustry will tend to become cheaper/higher volume/lower
           | margin over time, the push for Asian manufacture always
           | becomes a reality, and as companies age they acquire the
           | anchor of supporting and repeating old products.
        
         | novok wrote:
         | Now it's ikea LINNMON reinforced cardboard tables, but same
         | ethic :P
        
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       | nt2h9uh238h wrote:
       | Startups are the most efficient organisations in the economy.
       | Because you have to get shit done and can't fuck around. A lot of
       | people love to fuck around and do "fake work". Only output and
       | impact matter. Hard work is "hard", and at startups you can't
       | hide "not working". It sounds pedantic but that's quite the
       | reality, a lot of people just don't know what "work" feels like,
       | and don't want to do it.
        
         | jdhdhdush7363 wrote:
         | Lol! It is possible to work hard but expend time and effort in
         | the wrong things. Startups, especially if founding teams fo not
         | have deep industry experience, spend a lot of time reinventing
         | the wheel and rediscovering various footguns because they often
         | cannot afford experienced professionals who know better. So
         | there is quite a bit of wasted motion at startups.
         | 
         | Working hard != working smart
        
         | gorbachev wrote:
         | I guess you haven't worked at a dysfunctional startup.
         | 
         | Dude...there are all kinds of startups, as there are all kinds
         | of other types of companies. Good and bad. With incompetent or
         | competent bosses.
         | 
         | There are plenty of people who fuck around at startups. Plenty.
        
         | softwaredoug wrote:
         | There's all kinds of BS you work on at a startup. Dumb projects
         | to impress some VC to get that next round of funding... or
         | chase something because the charismatic founder or influential
         | investor is dead set on a crazy direction... or the CTO decides
         | this company is their personal tech playground... or tech being
         | overbuilt for scale that doesn't exist yet... VCs that hold the
         | company to impress their friends instead of actually being
         | invested in the company's outcomes... politics between
         | competing groups of investors...
         | 
         | Its just a different set of trade offs.
        
         | Mike8435234 wrote:
         | Startups do need to be efficient and optimal, but actually most
         | of them are incompetent. Most of them fail.
        
         | rantwasp wrote:
         | hah. nope. you are simplifying things a lot.
         | 
         | working hard does not mean shit. whenever you hear someone
         | saying they want hard workers you should turn around and run.
         | 
         | delivering results is where it's at. people do this at startups
         | and companies of all sizes. nobody is gonna keep you and pay
         | you if it does not make financial sense.
         | 
         | what happens in the case of a startup is that a lot of corners
         | are cut in order to get something out the door and gain
         | customers/marker share. it's do or die. but: this corner
         | cutting has its cost that, if successful, you will pay back
         | with interest in the later stages. it's not good or bad. it
         | just is what it is.
         | 
         | bigger companies have more structure and are better about both
         | optimizing for cost (ie we don't want to build something that
         | will cost us X now and 100X over the next 5 years) and
         | optimizing for risk (if X leaves or we learn about Y market
         | factor we should be able to keep going without going bankrupt).
         | 
         | the "what work feels like" is some bs. you define what work is
         | for you and diminish other people that just don't know the
         | feeling. please.
        
       | xivzgrev wrote:
       | Great article. One point it kind of touches on but misses is the
       | higher risk of "growing pains" / incompetence in startup land.
       | Leadership, processes (lack there of) etc can all be lacking /
       | poor. Anything from poor strategic judgement to shitting the bed
       | on equity valuation (eg I once joined a "rocket ship" that valued
       | its shares at $50 a piece. I realize of course share price is a
       | function of outstanding shares but given startups want to
       | minimize their share price, it didn't seem well managed at all)
        
       | geophile wrote:
       | This is mostly accurate but it misses one essential point. And so
       | do many of the responses here. One of the reasons to work at a
       | startup is to get a lot of responsibility for something
       | interesting to you, the sort of thing that wouldn't come your way
       | outside of a startup, for a long time, or maybe ever. The point
       | in the article that comes closest to identifying this regards
       | "calling", but that's not the same thing.
       | 
       | I am 64, and worked in many startups, from 1988 through 2013. My
       | main criteria for evaulating a startup were interesting work, and
       | potential financial reward. I would also try to avoid companies
       | whose business model didn't make sense to me. This worked out
       | pretty well. I started out on an academic path, went to an
       | industrial research lab in the 80s, and this led me to the
       | startup world, where some ideas in software research were used as
       | the basis of innovative products. I wasn't comfortable as a pure
       | academic, and I loved writing software, so this was the right
       | path for me.
       | 
       | At each new company, my thought was: if the business fails, at
       | least I've had fun and worked on interesting software. And this
       | often worked out very well:
       | 
       | - Startup 1: The company was building an innovative product,
       | really a new category of software. I was given responsibility for
       | one huge part of it, and this was my first job ever in which I
       | was being paid to create software (as opposed to research). The
       | company had a modest IPO. Nice payout. In my last couple of
       | years, I started a new project which was rejected by the company.
       | But this led to ...
       | 
       | - Startup 2: I took a summer off, built software based on my
       | ideas, and merged with a startup that had complementary ideas. We
       | needed each other. So much fun. This company was acquired toward
       | the end of the dotcom bubble. Nice payout.
       | 
       | - Startup 3: Post bubble explosion, my choices were a consumer
       | startup or interesting tech at a non-startup. I chose the
       | consumer startup. Pretty dull, although fascinating from a
       | sociological point of view. I left when I got bored and tech
       | startups were happening again. Minor payout a few years later
       | when they were acquired.
       | 
       | - Startup 4: My favorite. Fascinating project, three key pieces,
       | I built one of them. I also really enjoyed building the tools to
       | support the development and troubleshooting work. Acquired by a
       | huge company. Nice payout.
       | 
       | - Startup 5: Really interesting idea. I loved the idea so much
       | that I missed the fact it should have been a feature of a
       | product, not a product by itself. Oops.
        
         | raspasov wrote:
         | This!
         | 
         | My guess is this is more wealth and range of experience than
         | 99% of the people on this forum.
         | 
         | I encourage everyone to read this comment.
        
           | mycologos wrote:
           | It's a nice comment with an interesting point of view, but
           | the "range of experience" is somewhat limited by the fact
           | that their first four startup experiences ended in four "nice
           | payouts", which is an amazing and atypical track record.
        
         | throwaway212722 wrote:
         | Throaway for obvious reasons. Sharing my journey:
         | 
         | Startup 1: joined as the first employee pretty much straight
         | out of school. Talked to potential customers, worked on the
         | product and overall learned lot about startups. Modest low exit
         | some years after I left. No payout. (Europe, so not common to
         | have equity back in the day).
         | 
         | Startup 2: joined the founding team of a gaming startup. The
         | company flopped. Built and learned a lot.
         | 
         | Startup 3: started my own company, moved to US, raised funding
         | etc. Learned a lot, we had to shut it down after couple of
         | years as failed to grow the business and didn't see a way to
         | pivot. Returned remaining funds to the investors.
         | 
         | Startup 4: joined another startup. One of the first 20
         | employees. Build a lot, learned lot. Exercised the stock when I
         | left. The company IPOd 6 years later. $50M payout. I had early
         | exercised some stock so some of it was federally tax free under
         | QSBS.
         | 
         | Startup 5: Joined pre-IPO FAANG, got a decent salary. Learned a
         | lot of about politics and presenting to execs. Honed my own
         | craft and skills on the company time. $3M payout from RSU which
         | more than half went to taxes as ordinary income.
         | 
         | Anyway, been lucky with two of my last companies, but I would
         | say the earlier startups gave me skills and confidence to
         | operate in the level I needed.
         | 
         | I think FAANG is nice place to make $1-2M over some years but
         | it's unlikely to make $10M or more.
         | 
         | In all my jobs there were some crunch times every now and them,
         | but I never worked 100 hours or over the weekend consistently.
         | After being a founder I did realize that you don't have to work
         | that hard for other companies.
         | 
         | Startup outcomes are uncertain but you can definitely affect
         | them by choosing the right companies. If anything else, you
         | will learn a lot likely. Time moves faster in startups, so few
         | years in a startup might be like 5 years at FAANG, and you
         | actually learn to build things instead of sit in meetings.
        
           | novok wrote:
           | How many years did you spend at each place, and where to
           | next?
        
         | johnrob wrote:
         | Worth noting that this is an exceptional track record - 4 of 5
         | startups with a paying acquisition. Great story, but it's not
         | likely the normal result of doing 5 startups :)
        
           | geophile wrote:
           | I am aware of that. I was extremely lucky.
        
       | sbarre wrote:
       | It's important for anyone joining a startup to understand that
       | the odds of success are overwhelmingly against you.
       | 
       | For every successful startup we see on here and elsewhere, there
       | are thousands that fail in obscurity, sometimes leaving people in
       | ruins.
       | 
       | Treat options/shares as a literal lottery. Assume your odds of
       | winning are zero when making life choices. Also unless you're a
       | very very early employee, those options/shares are likely to not
       | be worth what you imagine they will be worth even if the company
       | has a successful exit.
       | 
       | Go into it with eyes open and realistic expectations if you
       | choose to try it out.
        
         | swader999 wrote:
         | I remember my CEO laughing at me buying my options when they
         | vested. "Well Swader, you'll be able to wipe your as with those
         | at least". Was a great guy, great company and a great bunch of
         | people to work with. But facts are facts. We were successful
         | but in a very competitive field so nothing was guaranteed.
        
           | sbarre wrote:
           | Indeed! You can still have a very rewarding experience in a
           | startup, it's just rarely the "retire young and rich" outcome
           | that I think a lot of people imagine it will be.
           | 
           | As someone else also said, I wouldn't trade my startup years
           | for anything, but it was just a job like any other, when take
           | a macro view of my career.
        
           | rubyn00bie wrote:
           | I have always said I wish I had gotten toilet paper instead
           | of options. Because at least I can wipe my ass with toilet
           | paper, and at the start of the pandemic I'd have actually
           | gotten rich.
           | 
           | Next time I'm offered options I'm going to request TP instead
           | and see how they take it haha.
        
             | swader999 wrote:
             | Hmmm... There might be an opportunity in combining these
             | into one product.
        
             | sbarre wrote:
             | Yeah the last startup I worked at, I declined options
             | altogether and just said pay me more..
             | 
             | It was a difficult conversation but in the end they agreed,
             | and it worked out in my favour.
        
         | dominotw wrote:
         | I don't understand why people list their options value under
         | 'stock' in levels.fyi . I see lots of pre ipo company people
         | give specific value to their options.
        
           | RhodesianHunter wrote:
           | I'm guessing because these companies are way past what any
           | reasonable person would call a "startup" and are getting
           | regular third party valuations.
        
         | sethammons wrote:
         | Yes, even when you win that lotto, it is not as much as you may
         | imagine. I rode the SendGrid/Twilio rocket; engineer 12 at
         | SendGrid. IPO and acquisition later, I'm still a decade out on
         | even thinking of being able to retire or be financially
         | independent. Don't get me wrong, things are good. But early
         | equity in a multi billion dollar company and I'm still having
         | to work :)
        
           | ZephyrBlu wrote:
           | This doesn't add up to me. According to an article on Twilio
           | the acquisition was ~$3B.
           | 
           | Even 0.01% equity is 300k. Not "time to retire" money, but
           | still a good chunk of change. Yet you're a decade out of even
           | thinking about retirement?!
        
             | zebnyc wrote:
             | 300k is not much money in SF Bay area. If you have a
             | mortgage / looking for a new home, then homes can go
             | upwards of 2 million.
             | 
             | I am assuming that GP means they have not hit their target
             | net worth to FATFire.
        
       | SilurianWenlock wrote:
       | The math changes if you live in London/Europe where the big
       | company salaries are much lower
        
       | alecco wrote:
       | The key thing I recommend is to *prioritize who you want to work
       | for* (or have as clients). People who will care about your well-
       | being. Find what they need and try to match your skills.
       | 
       | I had my own startup at some time, and worked for both other
       | people's startups and for big corps. I used to maximize career
       | and CV over quality of life. I was easy prey to
       | assholes/takers/sociopaths. Burned 15 years of my life without
       | much to show. On the upside, I _really_ appreciate now working
       | for good bosses and good leaders. I could easily earn 1.5-2x in a
       | soulless corporate job. But I know my current employer would go
       | out of its way to try to not screw me over while the 2x employer
       | will throw me under the bus the second I stop being useful.
       | 
       | You can study or do research on your spare time. Good bosses will
       | understand if you eventually move on. And some might even help
       | you progress against their convenience.
        
       | lbacaj wrote:
       | The article is good but it's missing a big point that equity in
       | startups is tied to risk taken not to contributions.
       | 
       | Many people, including myself, make this mistake the first round
       | at startups. The mistake of believing if you work hard the
       | outcome will be good. I wrote an article a little while back on
       | how this relationship works and how it follows a logarithmic and
       | exponential relationship, risk and equity, and how human minds
       | are terrible at understanding those scales.
       | 
       | For anyone interested: https://louiebacaj.com/equity-and-risk/
        
       | yawaworht1978 wrote:
       | To work in a start up some times can be good, if you are a self
       | starter and they appreciate that.
       | 
       | Just never do it for "equity" unless you have enough money on the
       | side.
       | 
       | But to spend the vast majority of the career in a startup without
       | being one of the founders is not recommendable I think.
        
         | nipponese wrote:
         | Yes, it's hard to explain that some people just want to "run
         | fast", and can't operate in any other workplace environment.
        
           | yawaworht1978 wrote:
           | Hard to say which one's the worse place to be, hiding behind
           | massive corporate walls or the ones hiding behind the " break
           | it, apologize later" MO. The latter will not fare well in a
           | corporate environment, unless backed up by managers.
           | 
           | I simply alternative the environments when I get a decent
           | proposal. I have seen successful startups turning into
           | Byzantine corporations pretty fast. Bad things start to not
           | be fixed anymore, instead more manpower with less quality is
           | thrown at the issue, this is one of the tell tale signs that
           | it is time to go if you want to learn something else.
           | 
           | I have found that learning useful things on a job is more
           | important than whether you are in a startup or in an
           | established corporation.
           | 
           | The moment you stop learning and no promotion is in sight,
           | promote yourself, by changing companies if need be.
        
       | notjustanymike wrote:
       | I personally work for startups because I prefer building and
       | owning big projects over maintaining someone else's cog in the
       | corporate clocktower.
       | 
       | I'm not interested in working on the "retention" team, or the
       | "console ad integration" team. I want to build the main thing and
       | feel like I make an impact every day I go to work.
       | 
       | It is possible to do that at a larger business but the odds are
       | stacked against me. Google has a history of killing large
       | projects, and the thought of two years work being cancelled by an
       | accountant because it didn't make enough money just sounds
       | draining on a completely different emotional level.
        
         | rrdharan wrote:
         | The average engineer at a startup is far more likely to work on
         | something for two years that ends up being pointless, and
         | canceled, by economics, when the entire startup fails.
        
           | cblconfederate wrote:
           | But if you view your work as something that you do primarily
           | for yourself, you end up with a net gain
        
           | WJW wrote:
           | Or even if the startup _is_ successful, because no initial
           | MVP survives 10x userbase growth. Every company I 've ever
           | worked for was constantly reworking parts of the codebase
           | that were "good enough" 2-3 years ago but aren't anymore.
        
       | hprotagonist wrote:
       | My expectation is that the total compensation i receive from any
       | employer is limited to salary per paycheck, health benefits,
       | maybe retirement matching, and that is it, startup or no.
        
         | jmartrican wrote:
         | And RSUs. I love me some RSUs.
        
           | hprotagonist wrote:
           | can't say i've ever had the pleasure.
        
       | stephc_int13 wrote:
       | A starving wolf asks a very well-fed dog what he should do to be
       | bulky too. The dog advises him to put himself at the service of a
       | human: the services rendered, he will be spoiled. The wolf then
       | realizes that the dog has a wound where the human puts a leash on
       | it. When he finds out that this injury is from the object
       | depriving him of his freedom, he decides to run away with his
       | freedom and return to the woods.
       | 
       | This animal fable opposes two animals similar in morphology but
       | which have two different lifestyles: one is wild and the other is
       | domestic. This confrontation allows La Fontaine to present two
       | conditions: the insecurity linked to freedom and the comfort
       | linked to servitude.
       | 
       | https://fr.wikipedia.org/wiki/Le_Loup_et_le_Chien
        
         | mcguire wrote:
         | If the wolf is truly starving, the only thing he is free to do
         | is search for his next meal---at least until he becomes too
         | weak to do that.
         | 
         | Freedom requires some level of security.
        
       | hewrin10 wrote:
       | Reason 4 for joining a startup is very underrated. Not all of us
       | studied CS in fancy schools
        
       | s17n wrote:
       | People work at startups because they want crazy hours and stress.
       | It's fun. You get a bond with your coworkers that you can't get
       | any other way.
       | 
       | If that doesn't appeal to you then yeah you shouldn't work at a
       | startup. But tbh I've never met these mythical people who joined
       | a startup thinking that it was actually a rational financial
       | decision - everyone I know did it because they wanted an intense
       | experience.
        
       | user3939382 wrote:
       | In my experience as a manager I've found that the two major
       | motivating factors for most people are stability and vertical
       | mobility, and that most people and organizations favor one at the
       | expense of the other. Startups, especially early stage, are great
       | for those who value the latter. You may not choose the
       | opportunity for "two in the bush" but that's the compensation
       | some people want.
        
       | blakesterz wrote:
       | As much as I agree with everything said in this article I
       | wouldn't trade my years at a start up for anything. Both
       | financially and emotionally it was awesome. I didn't get rich,
       | and I worked way too much, but it was awesome. I loved the
       | constant change and chaos. I learned so much, way more than I
       | would've in any other type or work place. I made great friends
       | too. It was as bad as the article, but it was way waaaay better
       | too.
        
         | BelenusMordred wrote:
         | This is relatable. It's incredibly satisfying building new
         | things rather than maintaining decades old cruft, regardless of
         | the paycheck, hours and stability.
         | 
         | Also the joy of working in small nimble teams and the freedom
         | to experiment with new technologies. Like everything in life
         | these things are a tradeoff.
        
           | toomuchtodo wrote:
           | I will give you the other perspective. I get paid double what
           | I've made at startups, for 35 hours a week, no overtime, no
           | on call, and clear expectations of what success looks like
           | for both myself and my team. I get six weeks of PTO (real
           | weeks, not "unlimited"), 4 months off if we have another kid,
           | and significant bonuses, while being fully remote. This is at
           | what you'd call an "enterprise".
           | 
           | I am happy to keep existing lines of businesses in
           | maintenance mode for the above comp. My work is _just work_ ,
           | I find satisfaction outside of it. My comp and work life
           | balance affords me the ability to indulge my curiosity and
           | academic endeavors outside of work while also providing high
           | quality of life to my family.
           | 
           | As a friend once taught me, "Money and wealth are options,
           | and options are freedom."
        
             | dbancajas wrote:
             | Sounds like an outlier? Can you also tell us the actual
             | comp? is that like 500K or 200K? YOE? I mean it's an online
             | forum with unknown identities.
        
               | toomuchtodo wrote:
               | ~$220k base, role required 6-8 YOE. Not FAANG comp, but
               | doesn't need to be.
        
             | sdfin wrote:
             | Is that 35 hour work week the one available in France? That
             | sounds awesome, it allows a nice work/life balance.
        
               | toomuchtodo wrote:
               | US based multinational.
        
           | tkiolp4 wrote:
           | Umm, I do enjoy the things you mentioned (building new stuff,
           | experiment with new tech) but I love doing that on my free
           | time, without pressure, deadlines and bosses.
           | 
           | At work, though, I love: boring stuff I can deal with easily,
           | long epics that end up in features that are barely used (so,
           | no big deal with critical bugs, also no need to be on call).
           | At work I can be done in 4h and call it a day (which gives me
           | TON of free time to experiment with new tech, keep my cv up
           | to date and even fantasize with making my side projects
           | profitable).
        
             | gscho wrote:
             | I often think about leaving my job for an enterprise role
             | and doing exactly what you describe. After working for
             | years in the professional services space I am confident I
             | could do that job in a few hours per day and spend the rest
             | on other more exciting things.
        
         | devoutsalsa wrote:
         | I value my experience in startups because you learn so much in
         | a short period of time. Meanwhile, in a recent enterprise gig,
         | I had to participate in weeks of debate and upfront planning to
         | add three non-interesting CRUD endpoints to a service.
        
         | vinceguidry wrote:
         | Everybody's got to make their bones somehow. The problem comes
         | when you think you have to keep making them. Then you just get
         | exploited your whole career.
        
       | moron4hire wrote:
       | I firmly believe that one should never, ever take a pay cut to
       | work at a startup. We've all heard the numbers, 80% of startups
       | fail in the first year, by year 5 it's 90%. If you're taking a
       | pay cut, you're not building savings for the inevitable thin
       | times. When the startup fails, you're going to have a period of
       | zero pay while you look for a new job. How long is that period
       | going to be? If anything, one should be demanding more money.
       | 
       | And this is _especially_ true if the field is one you 're excited
       | about working in. You're putting yourself at an emotional
       | disadvantage. You're more likely to put up with missed paychecks
       | because you're supposedly "working your dream job". And when you
       | end up in a bad situation, if you don't have a cushion of cash to
       | fall back on, it could very well sour your view of your "dream".
        
       | softwaredoug wrote:
       | 10+ years ago part of the allure of tech startups was they really
       | "got" what made technologists jobs fulfilling. Back then
       | companies had management that had no idea how to build high
       | quality software. There was lots of waterfall like process and
       | TPS report style bureacracy.
       | 
       | Fast forward to the present. FAANG companies dominate the
       | economy. They pay well, offer upside in actual stock, AND most
       | crucially: they _do a better job giving more fulfilling tech work
       | than most startup_
       | 
       | Who wants to work at a startup where management likely sucks?
       | They might have no real track record building good tech or
       | empowering great technologists.
       | 
       | You'd rather have your 40 hr / week FAANG job doing what you
       | love, spend time with your kids and family, where you know the
       | balance of risks means you'll likely end up in a position of
       | upper middle class life (if not outright wealthy...)
        
         | taurath wrote:
         | The current stereotype among my circle in FAANG is that they
         | move slowly and you're more likely to be working on something
         | dreadfully boring and also have few opportunities to branch
         | out. That's what keeps a lot of people going to startups though
         | I agree with the OP the financial and work life arrangement
         | gets less and less ideal.
        
           | reikonomusha wrote:
           | More anecdotal experience, but I agree. Most people I know
           | doing FAANG only "don't hate" the work, but love the pay and
           | benefits, and the fact that laying low rewards them.
           | Quizzically, previously politically active friends have
           | turned quite quiet about their beliefs and morals as soon as
           | they started earning a fat paycheck from Facebook.
           | 
           | For a lot of people, vast amounts of money really is the most
           | attractive aspect of a job.
        
       | dang wrote:
       | This article is responding to the romantic version of the startup
       | story that was popular 10-15 years ago, in the early heyday of YC
       | and HN. In that sense it is 10 years out of date.
       | 
       | There has been since at least one major wave, which was
       | characterized by disillusionment and cynicism about startups
       | ("just buy a lottery ticket", "startup equity isn't worth the
       | paper it's printed on", etc.). This became standard fare on HN
       | and until recently was probably the dominant view.
       | 
       | That has become old hat in its own right--you can tell that such
       | a wave is in its later stages when the comments become
       | predictable, and then compensate for that by getting snarkier.
       | When information gets worn out through repetition, comments have
       | to add in extra spice to get interesting again--though not
       | necessarily the good form of 'interesting'.
       | 
       | It's too soon to tell but I think we might be at the beginning of
       | another wave now--a more balanced weighing of pros and cons. Many
       | comments in this thread are good examples of that.
       | 
       | There's another dynamic too, which I've not yet seen anyone
       | comment on: these waves are staggered geographically. This became
       | obvious to me when looking at the geography of HN comments
       | (judging by IP geolocation, which is mostly pretty good). These
       | waves don't get started and then subside in lockstep all over the
       | world--rather, they exist in different stages in different
       | locations. It took years for the romantic story to make its way
       | to certain locations, and those places are now in the early
       | stages of the cynical wave. Other parts of the world are still in
       | the crest of the romantic phase. This creates unfortunate
       | misunderstandings where someone in one of those areas posts an
       | enthusiastic startup story, of the kind that was popular on HN in
       | say 2008, and then gets blasted with flames by people in
       | locations where the cynical wave is strong.
       | 
       | I hope I'm guessing correctly that the next wave is more balanced
       | and nuanced, because I think we need to look beyond "startups:
       | yay or nay" to asking [oops - phone just rang - will complete
       | later]
        
       | cmrdporcupine wrote:
       | Fun story, I worked at as employee #3 or #4 or something at a
       | startup many years ago, and it was fun at first, trying out
       | various product ideas and strategies and pivoting a lot. Then the
       | first serious funding crunch came, and the founder ran out of
       | money to pay us, so we worked for a month without compensation.
       | 
       | Except during this unpaid period the founder took off to Costa
       | Rica to "work on his vacation" while we continued to work in the
       | office with delayed pay. He came from a wealthy background, while
       | I had a young child and a pregnant wife at home and a mortgage to
       | pay.
       | 
       | So he didn't really get it, I think, when I raised a stink. I was
       | offered more stock options and a higher title to retain me
       | (without that title being communicated to anybody else). But a
       | mark was put on me for my whining and my attitude and the
       | founder's attitude toward me took a turn. He pivoted again, and I
       | was either fired or I quit (I was already interviewing elsewhere
       | and had an offer) depending on who you talk to.
       | 
       | Through some hand waving the ability to buy the options
       | disappeared, though I couldn't be bothered.
       | 
       | He built that business up, and a few years later he sold for an
       | OK sum. But the business itself was dubious, I doubt the company
       | that acquired his business kept any talent or tech worth anything
       | and he's now living in Costa Rica. The people I know who worked
       | there and were there from day one certainly didn't get rich.
       | 
       | So yeah, that's when my attitude towards startups in general
       | changed significantly. I used to be very interested and motivated
       | by being early in the process in a company and getting to be
       | technically creative and involved in the decision making and
       | architecture, and I loved the feeling of _coding like crazy_ and
       | really pounding metal on something greenfield. But honestly, it
       | 's not worth it when you start to see the kinds of people and
       | egos involved.
       | 
       | So I'm getting older and maybe I'm not the ultimate talent that a
       | startup today would be looking for, but there are plenty of other
       | people like me who've been burned in this game and their advice
       | would most likely be: don't bother. This isn't the 80s or 90s,
       | you're not likely to change the world tech wise, and you're
       | unlikely to get rich out of it, and jobs at FAANGs are soul
       | sucking boredom in many ways, but they'll treat you well.
       | 
       | (FWIW I went from there to a later stage 50-100 person company
       | that was acquired by Google a year later and did OK out of that,
       | but that was a properly managed company run by ethical human
       | beings.)
        
         | gnicholas wrote:
         | > _acquired by Google a year later and did OK out of that_
         | 
         | What does it mean to "do OK" in an acquisition by FAANG a year
         | after you joined? I would assume if you didn't think a
         | liquidity event was coming soon, this would be seen as a
         | windfall (assuming you were retained).
        
           | cmrdporcupine wrote:
           | It certainly was not expected, so it was nice. And yes, I'm
           | still there, 9 years on. So I've done well for myself. I'm
           | just saying, it's not like I got rich :-) Thing is, I liked
           | the company before Google bought it. It was just the kind of
           | small->medium sized company I enjoy working at.
        
       | lalokaya wrote:
       | I wish I got that advise decades ago.
       | 
       | I joined several startups in SF throughout my journey.
       | 
       | Took me forever to realize that not all levels of hard are the
       | same:
       | 
       | - Working harder than most for 1% was not worth it. Small team
       | comradery dissolved as soon as the company started going under.
       | Sometimes founders screwed you over at the end. Nowadays I
       | sometimes wonder why I worked so hard for other people's
       | companies.
       | 
       | - Working for FAANG pays well, but golden handcuffs are not for
       | everyone.
       | 
       | - Doing your own startup is super hard. Emotional roller coaster.
       | It sucks all the time, until it doesn't.
       | 
       | All of these are hard, but the last one forces you to learn
       | skills you wouldn't have cared for otherwise. Again, not for
       | everyone, but if I had to pick my "level of hard", that would be
       | it.
        
         | amir734jj wrote:
         | > sometimes wonder why I worked so hard for other people's
         | companies
         | 
         | I have the same feeling. I'm working at FAANG now but I worked
         | very hard when I was just starting my career for a small
         | manufacturing company to create a e-commerce website. I can't
         | work as hard as those days, I have a back problem and I'm much
         | older now.
        
       | domano wrote:
       | Man, if i look at the numbers people are throwing around i start
       | to think that Europe is another planet.
       | 
       | Well at least we have better social benefits all around i guess.
        
         | wreath wrote:
         | We do indeed have better social benefits. But are they really
         | benefits for a SWE in 2021? The social benefits in Europe are
         | great for people with low-mid salaries but as an SWE, I'd
         | rather take a US salary with less social benefits than a
         | European salary.
        
       | encoderer wrote:
       | Startups shouldn't be romanticized so much, but it can be a good
       | job.
       | 
       | A good startup experience can help you figure out what you really
       | like to work on. In a big company things are already specialized
       | -- it's pretty hard to be a data engineer and move over to the
       | android team. Not impossible, but hard. That's why people say you
       | go to startups to "learn" -- because in our line of work you
       | learn by doing and in a startup you can usually do a lot.
        
       | throw123123123 wrote:
       | Onne important point of startups that pay less than established
       | companies is that it is the best way to get into the industry by
       | outsiders. Sure, if you can choose a FAANG or similarly sized
       | company, startups are not a great bet at all.
       | 
       | But FAANG big as they are are a small fraction of the action.
        
         | moolcool wrote:
         | There's also the geographic restrictions if you want to work at
         | a FAANG
        
         | thrav wrote:
         | This is a huge one, which won't work in the best startups, but
         | is a great strategy for someone trying to break in --- leverage
         | a position at a cool tech, bad market fit, middling or even
         | failing startup.
         | 
         | When my Mountain View startup disbanded, most of the team
         | dispersed into Google, Facebook, Salesforce, and other large
         | soon-to-IPO companies. Almost everyone ended up in a better
         | place, and many of us would've had a hard time doing so before
         | we joined.
        
       | SergeAx wrote:
       | The article is quite comprehensive and well written. There's also
       | a lot of assumptions and false alternatives, like that people
       | work to maximize financial outcome or that there's an
       | equalprobable choice between working for startup or for FAANG.
       | 
       | My opinion is to try working for early stage startups while one
       | is young and idealistic, choosing it by heart, thus maximizing
       | its chances to success. Getting familiar with different techs and
       | stacks. Getting a good networking while visiting meetups and
       | hackathons. Even if the startup won't fly, it will help to get
       | much more interesting position in established company later.
        
       | hintymad wrote:
       | I don't think the author is comparing apple to apples. Instead of
       | contrasting joining startups and joining FAANGs, we should really
       | compare joining top-notch startups with joining FAANGs. That is,
       | just like good companies are scarce, so are good startups. Look
       | back, and we can see that those who join square, pinterest,
       | airbnb, uber (before early 2015), facebook (before its IPO) all
       | did really well. By the way, Netflix circa 2008 was still in a
       | sense a startup, as they were still being threatened by
       | blockbuster and most doubted their streaming initiative and the
       | company had fewer than 150 engineers.
       | 
       | Even those who joined Uber in 2016 or later got something back.
       | Uber's success did give halo to its employees. As a result, many
       | became senior managers or directors or staff engineers in other
       | reputed companies, even though they had started their career only
       | 3 or 4 years before.
       | 
       | The trick to land on a promising startup is taking sunken cost
       | seriously. Switch to a different company decisively and swiftly
       | once you are convinced that the company has a bad leadership. And
       | trust me, there will be many signs. Take Uber after 2016, for
       | instance, you would see 1. Head of HR reported to this hot-head
       | VP, who was the buddy of the CEO; 2. CFO told employees that they
       | RSU hold period was a year instead of 6 months and the reason is
       | for employees' own good; 3. CEO told employees that he didn't
       | want to go IPO simply because he didn't want the employees to
       | check stock price all day. 4. Uber copies pretty much every
       | policy from Amazon yet could execute well and everyone was
       | launching project for promotion and the company had more than 800
       | services. 5. CEO forced managers to A/B test packages to see how
       | low a package can go to hire people. 6. Company splurged 10s of
       | millions hosting extravagant parties for 4 days straight in Vegas
       | for bogus metrics like total number of trips; 7. HRs used number
       | of people hired as the key metric to boast that Uber was the
       | fastest-growing company.
       | 
       | See? When you see so much distrust from the top, you should just
       | jump ship, and use the halo you get from UBER to land on a
       | different top startup, whatever that is, and rinse (in case you
       | ended up joining WeWork).
        
       | tarkin2 wrote:
       | Between working for a startup and a corp, I can't say I have
       | massive emotions either way now. I'd definitely suggest working
       | for a startup at one point, but not for too long, while taking
       | care of your physical and emotional state.
        
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       | rohanstake wrote:
       | It depends.
       | 
       | If you want to learn a lot, get a sense of startup, have great
       | founders, bootstrapped company then startup is a good idea.
       | Especially at the start of your career.
       | 
       | But if you are late in your career with family, responsibilities
       | and health issues - then startup isn't the best place to work.
       | 
       | I hope - you decide weighing everything and enjoy the process.
        
       | davidw wrote:
       | I would love to see more small-ish companies in a niche with a
       | good product, and competent people that are maybe slowly growing,
       | but not on the rocket ship ride. That kind of environment has
       | always felt like a place where you can get good work done.
        
         | cmrdporcupine wrote:
         | Exactly! But it could be that a company like that is just
         | really hard to run now. Investment very difficult to get and
         | potential talent eaten up by FAANGs.
        
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