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       An Elegant Sufficiency, or the Curious Case of a Victorian Meme
       (2018)
        
       Author : dcminter
       Score  : 20 points
       Date   : 2021-05-14 18:23 UTC (4 hours ago)
        
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       | anyfoo wrote:
       | Anecdotical of course, but I remember "memes" existing in
       | localized/regional form long before the Internet was publicly
       | available. If we had to have a name for it, we said it was an
       | "insider joke"[1].
       | 
       | This was usually small silly stuff like words or phrases that
       | were repeated, sometimes situational and back-and-forth, or
       | callbacks to earlier events that made a mark somehow.
       | 
       | As a small and silly example, I remember that around the part of
       | the city where I grew up, for a while we had this thing where
       | when someone asked why we were going to do something (like going
       | to some other neighborhood), instead of the real reason (like
       | going to get ice cream) we would all answer with fake
       | exasperation "it's about the principle!!"[2].
       | 
       | It's just stupid, fun bonding stuff teenagers do, most of which
       | is probably forgotten when you grew up and absurdist humor
       | becomes a bit less interesting.
       | 
       | I remember that the word "meme" actually was invented to, so it
       | seemed to me, describe exactly this phenomenon, and only years
       | later the Internet meme superseded that more general meaning to
       | something more specific.
       | 
       | [1] Although this was Germany in the 90s, we literally used the
       | English words "insider joke". There's a lot of expressions
       | synthesized using English words in common usage in Germany. [2]
       | This one actually in German.
        
       | allturtles wrote:
       | > How did this concept proliferate and propagate without the
       | internet, or at least written records?
       | 
       | I'm perplexed by the author's perplexity. Isn't it obvious that
       | short sayings like this (and other similar things, e.g.
       | children's playground rhymes) propagate orally?
        
         | jfengel wrote:
         | I don't think it's bafflement, exactly, but an interest in
         | knowing more. There are linguists who study that, including
         | playground rhymes.
         | 
         | It's certain that they propagate orally, but it's an open
         | question of why some things propagate and others don't. Just
         | what is it that took one phrase from that poem and turned into
         | into an increasingly elaborate set of semi-codified structures?
         | The oral transmission puts limits on how fast and under what
         | circumstances it can spread: it requires direct person-to-
         | person contact rather than broadcast.
         | 
         | It's the tip of a ton of research that they only alluded to,
         | and would be curious to know more.
        
         | greatgoat420 wrote:
         | Right like '23-skidoo' which I remember from an ancedote from
         | some survivors of the titanic
         | (https://www.titanicinquiry.org/BOTInq/BOTInq06Joughin03.php)
         | 
         | > 6344. You are quite right; it is No. 23 door? - We used to
         | call it the skidoo door, on account of the number. That is how
         | I remember the number.
         | 
         | 6345. (The Commissioner.) I do not understand that? - It is an
         | American joke.
         | 
         | 6346. Will you explain it? - I could not explain it, my Lord.
        
         | moshmosh wrote:
         | Can confirm that my kids often come home having learned some
         | trick, craft, joke, or rhyme from the other kids, that I _also_
         | learned from other kids in school. One supposes adults may have
         | a role in keeping these alive, but the larger effect seems to
         | just be older kids passing down the knowledge to younger grades
         | (their younger siblings, maybe) who spread the memes among
         | themselves, generation after generation.
        
       | pufinho wrote:
       | This term kind of reminds me of an "joke" that's usually
       | transmitted orally in my country. I can only assume that the
       | origin of the meme may have something in common. A translation of
       | the joke would be like:
       | 
       | After lunch, the farmer boy tells his mom:
       | 
       | - My belly is stuffed!
       | 
       | His mom replies:
       | 
       | - That's so impolite! This Friday when you have dinner on the
       | city with your rich uncle, use elegant words like "I'm
       | satisfied".
       | 
       | - Ok, mom.
       | 
       | Friday, after dinner, the boy says:
       | 
       | - My satisfied is stuffed!
        
         | selimthegrim wrote:
         | A reasonably famous joke in Punjab goes as follows
         | 
         | A rich nobleman is embarrassed at getting food stuck in his
         | beard during a party and his servant motions him over by the
         | bathroom door in order to comb it out. While he is with him he
         | instructs the servant that next time this happens he should
         | come to the table and tell him "Sir, the nightingale is perched
         | on the tree"
         | 
         | Well the next time, the servant walks in, sees the food in the
         | beard and gets flustered because he can't remember his line, so
         | he blurts out "Sir, the shitty thing happened!" (The word for
         | shit and bathroom is the same in very vulgar, rustic Punjabi,
         | cf. shitter)
        
         | dcminter wrote:
         | Could well be - my family's variant was: "I have had an elegant
         | sufficiency and if I have any more I'll bust!" which is very
         | much in the same vein!
        
       | dcminter wrote:
       | I came across this article when googling to see if a variant upon
       | it from my own family was a quotation!
        
       | hyperpallium2 wrote:
       | > But the universe must have decided that this wasn't good
       | enough, and presented me with the phrase the very next day
       | 
       | "Baader-Meinhof phenomenon". You'll see this name again soon.
        
       | gregsq wrote:
       | I'm curious about this and will ask my mother who picked it up
       | from hers, and she from hers and so on. I've even used it myself
       | as a kind of victorian throwback pleasantry. It's a meme rather
       | than a mimic I'm sure. Just being polite when served by those
       | close, together with a whole lot of other cultural context. A
       | descendant on her side had a fruit and veges shop in old Brighton
       | when the royal pavillion attracted aristocrats and so on. Later
       | in deptford, bombed during WWII and surrounded by relative
       | poverty. Stiff upper lip and lower class manners mixed with
       | stoicism. I'd look in the east end and Kent for English context.
        
       | analyte123 wrote:
       | This reminds me of the Civil War meme "Mister, here's your mule"
       | [1]. With the meme supply limited by word-of-mouth, I can only
       | imagine how riotously funny both of these must have been to those
       | at the time.
       | 
       | [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Here%27s_your_mule
        
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