[HN Gopher] Azar, a Korean Chatroulette-style dating app quietly...
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       Azar, a Korean Chatroulette-style dating app quietly taking over
       the world
        
       Author : imartin2k
       Score  : 132 points
       Date   : 2021-05-14 09:33 UTC (13 hours ago)
        
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       | simbas wrote:
       | "Do you want to develop an app?"
        
         | keville wrote:
         | You son of a bitch. I'm in.
        
           | chris123 wrote:
           | Me too
        
       | EMM_386 wrote:
       | I could see this as very useful for digital nomads and others who
       | live similar lifestyles.
       | 
       | Want to move to Santiago, Chile next but know nobody?
       | 
       | Assuming this has filters, you can do "show me anyone who is
       | interested in snowboarding around my age in Santiago" and be able
       | to connect with people before you even land there.
       | 
       | Great for dating worldwide too for a variety of reasons.
       | 
       | Sure, it's Chatroulette, but it seems like it has a lot more
       | potential. It's interesting that it is a South Korean company but
       | they have clearly focused on a global concept (most of the users
       | are not in Korea).
        
         | tmpz22 wrote:
         | The more granularity and internationalization the higher
         | likelihood it'll be used for grooming, sex trafficking, and
         | fraud. Tinder, Snapchat, TikTok, and other mediums are already
         | rife with it.
        
           | EMM_386 wrote:
           | I agree with you, but at what point does this become "this is
           | why we can't have nice things"?
           | 
           | One of the reasons dating sites like Match don't work easily
           | worldwide is because there are too many variables. Local
           | customs, society judging online dating, personal information
           | that may work in one area but not another ("do you attend
           | church on Sunday?", etc).
           | 
           | With the added fact it's essentially live FaceTime, you also
           | get rid of people pretending to be a 17 year old girl when
           | they are really a 40 year old man, or claiming they are are a
           | US military veteran who needs some quick help when they are
           | actually a Nigerian prince.
        
       | azar1 wrote:
       | huh...
        
       | cassianoleal wrote:
       | Funny trivia, "azar" means "bad luck" in Portuguese.
       | 
       | Also, gambling is generally referred to as "jogos de azar"
       | ("games of bad luck" - at least in Brazil), which fits neatly
       | into the Chatroulette reference.
        
         | Clewza313 wrote:
         | "hazard" in English is also a cognate.
        
         | trotFunky wrote:
         | That's really interesting to me, because in Spanish we have the
         | exact same word, "azar", but from how I understand it it's just
         | randomness (apparently according to the dictionary some of the
         | other meanings have a negative take). We have the same
         | expression too : "juegos de azar" for games of chance/gambling.
         | 
         | It's also quite close to the french equivalent : "hasard",
         | which also means randomess and has similar usage, with "jeux de
         | hasard".
         | 
         | In all cases it's an interesting fit with the Chatroulette
         | reference.
         | 
         | Anyway, thanks for the insight !
        
           | soneca wrote:
           | Yes, I would guess that in Brazilian portuguese the
           | expression "jogos de azar" comes from this original meaning
           | of the word "azar", as randomness. But the isolated word
           | "azar" took on the specific meaning of "bad luck", which kind
           | of leaked to how one would interpret "jogos de azar" around
           | here.
        
           | sanxiyn wrote:
           | Spanish (ultimately Arabic) is where the name did come from.
           | Source: I worked at Hyperconnect and heard it from the
           | founder who picked this name.
        
             | Majestic121 wrote:
             | Huh, in French, 'hasard' (pronounced azar) means randomness
             | in general. The spelling change is weird
        
               | asveikau wrote:
               | In a Spanish accent (or most of them in Spain anyway) the
               | z would be /th/.
        
               | Mediterraneo10 wrote:
               | The Spanish pronunciation of orthographic z as /th/ is
               | rather late, post-16th-century. So, I would presume that
               | French could have borrowed the word earlier than that.
        
               | asveikau wrote:
               | I believe it was /ts/ and /dz/ before that, depending on
               | if Old Spanish had c or z. It's not like it went from [s]
               | to [th], which I think is what some people assume.
        
               | Mediterraneo10 wrote:
               | Yes, there were affricates originally, but in the
               | meantime there was first deaffrication to /z/ (and then
               | devoicing, etc.).
        
               | asveikau wrote:
               | Wikipedia for Old Spanish says there were two distinct
               | variants of z:                   The affricates /ts/ and
               | /dz/ were simplified to laminodental fricatives /s/ and
               | /z/, which remained distinct from the apicoalveolar
               | sounds /s/ and /z/ (a distinction also present in
               | Basque).
               | 
               | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Old_Spanish#Sibilants
               | 
               | That's pretty interesting. I don't have any experience
               | distinguishing between sounds like that but reading
               | around I start to wonder if I might produce such
               | differences without being aware of it.
        
               | lowercased wrote:
               | which looks like 'hazard' in english, which is (from mw
               | dictionary)
               | 
               | * a source of danger * the effect of unpredictable and
               | unanalyzable forces in determining events : chance, risk
               | * a chance event : accident * a golf-course obstacle
               | (such as a bunker or a pond) * a game of chance like
               | craps played with two dice
               | 
               | i'd guess there's a connection? i'm no word historian
               | person though...
        
               | andredz wrote:
               | According to the Oxford Dictionary, the origin of hazard
               | is as follows:
               | 
               | Middle English (in hazard (sense 3 of the noun)): from
               | Old French _hasard_ , from Spanish _azar_ , from Arabic
               | _az-zahr_ 'chance, luck', from Persian _zar_ or Turkish
               | _zar_ 'dice'
               | 
               | It bears mentioning, as an interesting fact that I just
               | found about, that _azzahr_ comes from Andalusi Arabic,
               | and that _zahr_ (in Arabic) means  'flower', from which
               | the Spanish word _azahar_ (the white flower on some trees
               | such as orange trees) comes.
               | 
               | Etymologies from the most official Spanish dictionary:
               | 
               | azar: Del arabe hispanico _*azzahr_ , y este del arabe
               | _zahr_ 'dado'; literalmente 'flores'.
               | 
               | azahar: Del arabe hispanico _azzahar_ , y este del arabe
               | clasico _zahr_ 'flores'.
        
               | KptMarchewa wrote:
               | And in Polish 'hazard' just means gambling.
        
               | emayljames wrote:
               | I wonder if that became the word for gambling, on its
               | own, due to the strong influence of Catholicism.
        
               | gpderetta wrote:
               | In Italian "gioco d'azzardo" has the exact same meaning
               | as "juego de azar". But an "azzardo" is a dangerous or
               | risky behavior or action (the implication being that
               | doing it would be a gamble).
        
               | nicoburns wrote:
               | That is far from the only word that sounds almost the
               | same in French and Spanish, but with a lot of silent
               | letters in the French spelling.
        
               | Hello71 wrote:
               | according to wiktionary, they both originate from Arabic
               | alzaWhr (az-zahr, "the dice"). presumably frenchmen were
               | simply wont to add a bunch of silent letters.
               | 
               | https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/hasard
               | https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/azar
        
               | Rexxar wrote:
               | The "h" is necessary to indicate there is no liaison with
               | the previous word and the "d" is an indication that that
               | derivative words use a non-silent "d" (like "hasardeux").
        
               | ivankolev wrote:
               | As another linguistic point, in Bulgarian 'zar' means
               | dice
        
               | Mediterraneo10 wrote:
               | _Zar_ in Balkan languages - it exists in e.g. Romanian
               | and Albanian as well - is an Ottoman-era loanword from
               | Turkish, which in turn borrowed it from Perso-Arabic
               | (i.e. possibly directly from Arabic, but more likely
               | through Persian mediation).
        
               | jogjayr wrote:
               | Huh, "azar" also means "illness" in Marathi (aajaar),
               | although that's not on the Wiktionary page. Coincidence
               | or is it a loanword in Marathi as well?
        
               | narag wrote:
               | _according to wiktionary, they both originate from Arabic
               | alzaWhr (az-zahr, "the dice")._
               | 
               | Just like Latin where Spanish "aleatorio" comes from:
               | alea = dice.
               | 
               | Caesar's famous words "alea jacta est" = "dice has been
               | thrown".
        
           | anonymfus wrote:
           | In Russian the word azart means the feeling of being high on
           | gambling or on risk in general.
        
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         | graeme wrote:
         | What do you know, I looked it up and the English word hazard
         | has the same root.
        
           | chrisweekly wrote:
           | oh yeah -- as in the idiom "hazard a guess"
        
             | emayljames wrote:
             | Dukes of hazard
        
         | sikim wrote:
         | If I remember correctly, the founder was just a huge fan of a
         | footballer named Eden Hazard, hence the name
        
         | devy wrote:
         | Azar is also the last name of former Department of Health and
         | Human Services Secretary (Alex. M. Azar II) under President
         | Trump during the height of COVID-19 pandemic[1].
         | 
         | That last name's origin is Lebanese[2].
         | 
         | [1]: https://www.hhs.gov/about/news/2020/01/31/secretary-azar-
         | dec...
         | 
         | [2]: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alex_Azar
        
           | manquer wrote:
           | It is fairly common Persian/Hebrew name.
        
         | fastball wrote:
         | Reminds me of this (mildly NSFW) Silicon Valley scene[1]
         | (though in that case he was making things up).
         | 
         | Also reminds me of this urban legend[2] about poor sales of the
         | Chevy Nova in Spanish-speaking countries because "no va" means
         | "doesn't go".
         | 
         | [1] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OVoFzu-vH4o
         | 
         | [2] https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/chevrolet-nova-name-
         | spanis...
        
       | imtringued wrote:
       | It's interesting that you actually conduct the "date" through the
       | app itself, which makes it a true dating app, rather than a match
       | making app.
        
         | istorical wrote:
         | most of the popular swipe dating apps in the west added this
         | feature during the quarantine, although to be fair it's still
         | preferred to meet in person or do a facetime.
        
         | draw_down wrote:
         | You could agree to move to other forms of communication though,
         | just like dating with any other app
        
       | asiachick wrote:
       | Should match.com get the anti-trust treatment? They seem to buy
       | most new dating sites/apps. Match Group owns Tinder, Match.com,
       | Meetic, OkCupid, Hinge, PlentyOfFish, Ship, OurTime, Azar, and
       | another 35+ dating sites it bought.
        
         | langitbiru wrote:
         | I'm thinking of building a decentralized dating app (without
         | crypto). It's something like WordPress but for dating. People
         | can host it on-premise. You can say it's like white-labelling
         | dating app. So each community (church, gym, yoga studio, etc)
         | can have their own dating app and don't have to live on the
         | mercy of Match.com. This way, we can keep Match.com in check.
        
           | capableweb wrote:
           | Same though popped up in my head, but rather than self-host,
           | use P2P technology like SSB. Easier to use (see Manyverse),
           | doesn't require installing servers yourself and you could
           | easily build those communities as pub servers if needed.
           | Otherwise just match people at random.
        
             | chrisin2d wrote:
             | That still sounds technically out of reach for most non-
             | technical people, so you'll just end up with dating nodes
             | filled with (mostly male) techies.
        
       | lucaspolo wrote:
       | In portuguese Azar can be translated to "bad luck", so here in
       | Brazil I don't think it will be something catchy
        
       | intricatedetail wrote:
       | I wonder how these realtime content sharing services will be
       | compatible with new EU terreg regulation. How such content is
       | going to be moderated?
        
         | bouncycastle wrote:
         | I don't think terrorists use dating apps...
        
           | e12e wrote:
           | Why not? They use game chat, after all?
        
             | dane-pgp wrote:
             | I don't know why you're being downvoted (unless people
             | think you are making a crass joke about toxic gamer
             | communities), but the idea of terrorists using online game
             | chat to communicate was at least taken seriously by the
             | NSA:
             | 
             | https://www.extremetech.com/extreme/172288-nsa-spied-on-
             | xbox...
        
           | eloff wrote:
           | Although if we could get them laid and married off they
           | probably wouldn't be terrorists anymore.
           | 
           | Not really a family man career.
        
             | rchaud wrote:
             | Might work for US-based mass shooters and domestic
             | terrorists. They tend to be broken, single/divorced men
             | carrying out planned but unstructured acts of violence.
             | 
             | For young men in countries where militias offer better
             | paycheques and protection than the government can, I think
             | you might have to come up with a more elaborate solution.
        
             | upofadown wrote:
             | Until someone bombs their family I suppose...
        
             | NullPrefix wrote:
             | Did you just implied that only men could be terrorists? I
             | thought that terrorism was a gender include activity.
        
               | eloff wrote:
               | Yeah, who are we kidding. It's almost exclusively men
               | doing that. Like 95% or more.
        
               | capableweb wrote:
               | > Like 95% or more
               | 
               | Interesting accuracy, I'm curious about the source.
               | Fascinating topic in general.
               | 
               | Here's a good starting point for more as well: https://ww
               | w.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/08974454.2019.1...
               | 
               | Outlines a bunch of interesting factoids.
               | 
               | If you look at "terrorism" more as a whole than just the
               | people going and doing the bombings and similar, like the
               | ones raising children, taking care of the villages and
               | such, I think you'll find that they pretty much end up
               | like any other society.
        
               | [deleted]
        
           | NullPrefix wrote:
           | It depends on how you define what a terrorist is.
        
       | langitbiru wrote:
       | From the article:
       | 
       | In February, Match Group agreed to buy Azar's parent company for
       | $1.7 billion.
        
         | scrollaway wrote:
         | Christ. There's nothing they can't get their hands on, is
         | there?
        
           | standardUser wrote:
           | There's Bumble, Coffee Meets Bagel, Happn, Grinder and plenty
           | of other smaller apps.
           | 
           | But far and away the bulk of dating app traffic goes through
           | a Match property.
        
             | joe_guy wrote:
             | Unfortunately dating apps are an area where popularity does
             | matter. Few are going to stick around on a largely empty
             | app.
             | 
             | I was banned from Tinder about a year into the pandemic. I
             | would sometimes idly swipe over that year to pass time but
             | wasn't having conversations. I can only conclude that
             | something in my profile was misunderstood.
             | 
             | They will not explain why, but I am now banned from all
             | Match owned properties. That more or less leaves Bumble. At
             | least until Match owns them.
        
               | scrollaway wrote:
               | If you're in Europe, thanks to GDPR, you have the right
               | to get the data that led to your ban, as well as the
               | right to correct such data (and thus, potentially,
               | appeal).
        
         | guerrilla wrote:
         | You have got to be kidding... When will someone stop Match
         | Group, who own every dating app most people have heard of:
         | Tinder, Match.com, Meetic, OkCupid, Hinge, PlentyOfFish, Ship,
         | and OurTime.
        
           | abledon wrote:
           | is this why Bumble has a stock price on NASDAQ? they are the
           | only ones holding out against facebook dating & match.
        
           | chongli wrote:
           | Perhaps the solution is to launch a denial-of-service attack
           | in the form of founding so many dating sites that Match Group
           | can't afford to buy them all!
        
             | vidarh wrote:
             | Alternatively there's a good business here in creating a
             | cookie-cutter dating site concept with the intent of
             | selling all of them to Match.
             | 
             | Or take it one step further and sell turn-key dating-site
             | startups. "Optimised for a quick Match Group acquisition".
        
               | adventured wrote:
               | It's the method that was employed successfully against
               | Standard Oil as they were initially building their
               | monopoly. Wildcatters would strike oil and look to dump
               | their oil into the market, which would drop and or
               | destabilize the price of oil. It was understood they
               | could 'ransom' Standard Oil using this tactic and get
               | sums far beyond what their operations would otherwise be
               | worth. Rockefeller in his letters talks about buying up
               | the worst possible operations, in rickety condition, for
               | princely sums to prevent the wildcatters from tanking the
               | price of oil by dumping supply. It apparently was quite
               | the annoyance to the extremely frugal Rockefeller, the
               | monopoly could more than afford it of course.
        
               | colejohnson66 wrote:
               | I've never heard of this. Anywhere I could read more on
               | this?
        
               | guerrilla wrote:
               | That doesn't really benefit the customers though. It just
               | makes the problem worse.
        
               | vidarh wrote:
               | Presumably it'd eventually make Match Group's strategy of
               | buying up all the competitors un-viable after some time,
               | as there'd be an ever-increasing stream of dating apps
               | driving up the customer acquisition costs by competing
               | with each other and Match, while making Match effectively
               | pay for the same customers over and over again as
               | customers get convinced to try yet another new dating app
               | and Match has yet another acquisition target.
               | 
               | This entire space is really hard to make work well for
               | users, though, because users interests are so at odds
               | with the service providers, in that anything that helps
               | you meet someone quickly reduces the amount of chances
               | they have to upsell you. It's in their interest that you
               | remain frustrated.
        
               | dane-pgp wrote:
               | > users interests are so at odds with the service
               | providers
               | 
               | So the real innovation that's needed is a new incentive
               | structure.
               | 
               | I'm sure some site has tried to implement a system where
               | you pay only if you end up in a long term relationship,
               | but that seems hard to enforce once two people have each
               | other's contact details.
               | 
               | Another approach that's been tried is for the government
               | to run the site, on the basis that families are
               | beneficial for society, while profit-seeking monopolies
               | and incompatible silos of users are not efficient.
               | 
               | What I don't think has been tried yet is some sort of
               | federated system, perhaps based on ActivityPub, where
               | different providers all share the same distributed pool
               | of users, and therefore can't lock you into their
               | unreasonable pricing scheme.
               | 
               | The success of Mastodon shows that this service could be
               | offered at scale for people to enjoy at zero cost.
               | Possibly there would be an expectation that if you did
               | find someone you really liked, you would make a donation
               | to the one or two sites that you and your partner's
               | profiles were hosted on, and perhaps give a testimonial
               | at the same time.
               | 
               | I assume the difficulty of implementing this is that
               | people don't want bots spamming them with private
               | messages, nor do they want their profiles to be part of
               | some bulk download which a rogue node tries to get away
               | with.
               | 
               | People are understandably quite sensitive about what they
               | write on dating sites, and who gets to see it, and
               | although the safety of traditional dating sites is
               | probably somewhat illusory, a system for moderating
               | interactions is likely to be harder to implement well in
               | a distributed system, and harder than moderating a
               | microblogging service.
        
               | guerrilla wrote:
               | > Another approach that's been tried is for the
               | government to run the site, on the basis that families
               | are beneficial for society, while profit-seeking
               | monopolies and incompatible silos of users are not
               | efficient.
               | 
               | That sounds like a minefield. I have an additional idea:
               | what about a dual-purpose site, one that has value for
               | couples too? Saying this makes me realize Facebook,
               | although their thing is new, might be able to cormer this
               | actually...
        
         | indigochill wrote:
         | So we're still letting monopolies blatantly buy out all their
         | competition, I see (also see: Facebook's purchases of Instagram
         | + Whatsapp).
        
           | 3rly wrote:
           | How do you know that this outcome was not the desired endgame
           | for the creators. It wasn't as if they were harassed to sell.
           | 
           | Lastly, which "we" are you referring to?
        
             | langitbiru wrote:
             | > It wasn't as if they were harassed to sell.
             | 
             | Bumble founder disagreed.
             | 
             | https://www.vox.com/2018/3/20/17141308/bumble-match-group-
             | ne...
             | 
             | From the article above:
             | 
             | "Match, which owns another popular dating app and Bumble
             | competitor, Tinder, is suing Bumble for violating two
             | patents and for allegedly stealing trade secrets.
             | 
             | It was a lawsuit made all the more intriguing considering
             | Match wants to acquire Bumble;"
        
               | swiley wrote:
               | Software patents should require the source of the
               | implementation to be published. That's the whole idea
               | behind patents in the first place.
        
               | joycian wrote:
               | Exactly, you give the government a way to replicate your
               | insight, in return you get x years of monopoly. With the
               | first part being non-existent (didn't inventors even have
               | to supply physical prototypes etc.?) the patent system is
               | easy to abuse.
        
             | BasedInfra wrote:
             | Monopolies aren't hostile takeovers.
             | 
             | It's companies buying competitors for market dominance with
             | no regulatory pushback that's the issue.
        
             | adrianN wrote:
             | What the founders want is not terribly relevant for
             | monopoly laws. They're for the protection of the consumers,
             | not of the company owners.
        
         | FriedrichN wrote:
         | Doesn't the Match Group own the majority of dating sites/apps
         | used in the west? Why are we still allowing these monopolies to
         | gobble up any and all possible competitors?
        
           | meowkit wrote:
           | Anti trust is defanged unless the target steps on the
           | legislatures toes.
           | 
           | Accountability is kind of old fashioned in the modern world
           | if I had to opine.
        
       | rchaud wrote:
       | So they can use AI to block video of users flashing or harrassing
       | others, yet my OK Cupid profile (same parent company) continues
       | to be full of women from the Phillippines that set their location
       | to my city because "they're planning to move there next year" or
       | are "just looking to make friends outside my country".
       | 
       | As if it wasn't bad enough that online dating was already this
       | dehumanizing "swipe to accept/reject" rigamarole.
        
       | kowlo wrote:
       | "Azar" means Fire in Persian... sounds fitting, and related to
       | "Tinder"!
        
         | v0x wrote:
         | Isn't fire "aatesh"?
        
           | kowlo wrote:
           | Azar and Atash both mean fire[1], so yes :)
           | 
           | [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Azar_(name)
        
       | the_arun wrote:
       | Do these sites run background checks? Because people could use
       | these apps to brainwash others to get them do what they want. Am
       | I missing something?
        
         | desmosxxx wrote:
         | can't they do that in any app? or do you mean face to face is
         | more dangerous or something?
        
           | the_arun wrote:
           | Not really. May be this is applicable to any app that lets
           | anonymous people communicate in private. Dating context is
           | more sensitive.
           | 
           | Eg. https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=26513413
        
             | oblak wrote:
             | Since my other comment got flagged, I am going to try
             | again.
             | 
             | Looks like you have some very strong, yet suspiciously
             | unclear, opinions on the matter. Do you mind articulating
             | the point that you're trying to make?
        
         | [deleted]
        
       | meesterdude wrote:
       | Match is a plague and needs to be stopped. They homogenize all
       | their assets and thus break dating in the same poorly thought
       | out, woke signaling, profit driven kind of way. All dating apps
       | are broken in the same ways because Match has broken them. It was
       | not always this way.
        
         | ibrahimsow1 wrote:
         | Woke signalling? How?
        
       | permo-w wrote:
       | > Prince, who asked to be identified by only his first name for
       | privacy reasons
       | 
       | > A professional football player originally from Ghana, Prince
       | immigrated to Turkey two years ago to join a local team
       | 
       | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kevin-Prince_Boateng
        
         | phreeza wrote:
         | So immediately obvious to anyone following German (and probably
         | also Turkish) football, this has to be a joke or diversion?
         | It's not exactly a common name.
        
           | permo-w wrote:
           | or at least anyone halfway paying attention. Maybe Prince is
           | a common name in Ghana? Even then, the odds are really low
           | that it's real and not him
           | 
           | You're probably right. Maybe it's an reference or an in-joke
           | of some kind that we're not getting
        
         | rchaud wrote:
         | KPB was born and raised in Germany. He has a Ghanaian passport
         | and has represented Ghana in international competition. He's
         | had a long career at some top clubs and definitely wouldn't
         | need to be in Turkey for economic reasons.
        
           | permo-w wrote:
           | He's currently playing in the Italian second division, so who
           | knows what his financial situation is. This is probably some
           | kind of joke, or weird reference that we're not getting
        
             | rchaud wrote:
             | Or there could just be another footballer named Prince.
             | It's not unheard of.
        
               | permo-w wrote:
               | Another Ghanaian professional footballer called Prince
               | who recently moved to play for a Turkish team local to
               | Istanbul?
               | 
               | Does that seem likely to you?
        
       | clydethefrog wrote:
       | For anyone wondering why there is a random confetti effect
       | opening the article -- the publication is 1 year old.
        
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