[HN Gopher] Feynman: I am burned out and I'll never accomplish a...
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       Feynman: I am burned out and I'll never accomplish anything (1985)
        
       Author : ent101
       Score  : 826 points
       Date   : 2021-04-25 09:05 UTC (13 hours ago)
        
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       | SavantIdiot wrote:
       | This reminds me of my first year out of college in 198x at my
       | first job when I really really enjoyed learning and playing and
       | growing. Fast forward 20 years into my career I was burned out
       | and forced higher and higher up, to the point where every
       | misunderstanding or new idea was a chance for me to stumble and
       | be overcome by interdepartmental competition. Constant joy turned
       | into constant fear in just two decades.
        
       | shannifin wrote:
       | Love that sort of infectious enthusiasm. I guess the question for
       | me is how to balance that sort of explorational play with
       | actually trying to accomplish something, like starting a start-
       | up. The lure of playing with something constantly challenges the
       | need to focus on finishing something that in the moment seems
       | less interesting.
        
       | Netcob wrote:
       | Goal-oriented work, creativity and motivation definitely have a
       | difficult relationship.
       | 
       | In programming, I learn the most things simply by experimenting
       | at home on my own. I'm thinking about switching jobs, so I wanted
       | to learn some new frameworks and concepts to help with that, and
       | I decided to make my personal projects a bit more "professional".
       | Use continuous integration, focus more on web stuff, build and
       | automatically deploy containers and so on.
       | 
       | Big mistake. I don't want to spend my leisure time fighting with
       | tools, debugging build processes that break all the time, make
       | sense of docker's tagging system and so on. I don't mind
       | programming all day, because I love programming, but I do mind
       | working all day.
       | 
       | So I let it go. I'll come up with my own tools. They won't be
       | great, but I'll have fun making them. And then it'll feel nice
       | using them. And then I'll work on whatever excites me.
       | 
       | Once in a while someone will ask me "how do you know all these
       | things?" and my answer has always been "I don't know that much, I
       | just randomly got interested in this particular topic and decided
       | to play around with it". Over the years/decades, that adds up!
        
         | swat535 wrote:
         | This is exactly why the more I think about it, the more I just
         | want to git-push-heroku-goodbye and be done with it.
         | 
         | I don't care about setting and maintaining AWS instances,
         | docker containers and jenkins.
         | 
         | The older I get, the more I realize how precious my time is and
         | now I have very little patience for anyone or anything that
         | wastes it.
         | 
         | This is also why I've basically cut off all social medias from
         | my life (except HN occasionally), have always preferred working
         | from home to avoid wasting time in traffic, have cut off people
         | who I don't enjoy spending time with and spend more time with
         | my family instead.
        
           | SaltyBackendGuy wrote:
           | Same.
           | 
           | I completely overbuilt a recent side project and ended up
           | scraping the whole thing because it wastes too much time to
           | maintain it. As much as I love building new projects, having
           | children at home reminds me that time is my only true
           | resource and it's better spent with the kiddos (at least at
           | this stage of my life).
        
             | yowlingcat wrote:
             | Asking because I feel this way a lot too -- is this the
             | kind of thing that was avoidable (IE if you built it on
             | Rails/Django + Heroku would that have cut down the
             | maintenance), or was there intrinsic complexity to the
             | project that made it unavoidable?
             | 
             | More and more, I want to build things that are in the
             | former category if I build them at all outside of work.
        
               | ativzzz wrote:
               | Depends on what you're building. Rails/django/heroku are
               | web app accelerators. If you are building a web app, then
               | yea they make it super easy and take away a lot of having
               | to think about complex systems, but if you're building
               | anything else not really
        
               | SaltyBackendGuy wrote:
               | In my particular case, I opened the CI/CD can of worms
               | using Docker (which obviously has great use cases). My
               | use case could have fit into a Rails/Django + Heroku
               | model that would have saved me a bunch of time. I thought
               | by investing in the infra early it would save me time
               | later, however later will likely never come. So basically
               | I spent more time debugging issues due to adding
               | infrastructure complexity than developing the actual
               | project.
               | 
               | TLDR; Wasn't a total loss as I did learn some, however I
               | would have rather spend more time on developing the
               | actual product (or in retrospect more time with my
               | family).
        
           | TranquilMarmot wrote:
           | I recently switched all of my personal projects from being
           | self hosted on a linode with a complex nginx setup to just
           | using Netlify... never going back.
        
           | Oras wrote:
           | Hear hear! I wish one day the dev community will understand
           | that its never about the tools and more about the delivery.
           | The customer does not give a monkey if the backend is node,
           | go or PHP. You do not impress anyone by using React, redux,
           | amber, angular ... etc. All people care about is a solution
           | to a problem they have.
           | 
           | However, from my experience, this is not a popular opinion
           | among developers.
        
             | moksly wrote:
             | Isn't the development community sort of there? I mean, most
             | things are still run on PHP, and honestly, I recently saw
             | an open source "forms for the public sector" thing build in
             | Drupal, and now I'm wondering if we'll ever need another
             | custom programmed form for our web facing applications.
             | 
             | Yet if I go back to my non-management dev friends and talk
             | about this, they are all like "eeeew, what about X and Y"
             | and I'm just like, but neither the citizens or my IT
             | operations staff gives two shits about any of that.
             | 
             | I'm not going to say what is right technically, because I'm
             | not qualified to do that, but I do know what will happen as
             | it's my decision, and we'll be slowly moving all our
             | customs forms to a PHP CMS system and we're just going to
             | shoot the docket container it comes in directly out into
             | our internal Azure cloud with public access through our
             | national identity system (NemID). My developers aren't
             | going to be out of work either, but instead of making the
             | same form with small differences 9000 times, they will be
             | building Drupal modules with actual challenges.
        
               | Oras wrote:
               | > Yet if I go back to my non-management dev friends and
               | talk about this, they are all like "eeeew, what about X
               | and Y" and I'm just like, but neither the citizens or my
               | IT operations staff gives two shits about any of that.
               | 
               | That's exactly what I meant. I remember arguing with a
               | colleague who over-engineered a simple ORM table by
               | having 3 classes. One was just an empty class, the other
               | was an empty interface, and the third was the actual
               | class. When I asked why did you make it this way? He
               | said: "What if we decided to use Mongo later?
               | 
               | Technically he was right but practically, he was wrong! I
               | saw this overthinking and over-engineering pattern across
               | many in-house dev teams. But this is just my experience,
               | and I'm not judging what is right and wrong from devs
               | point of view. Every decision has its context, but I saw
               | how these complications affecting the delivery and
               | customer experience badly.
        
               | 01000101 wrote:
               | For some reason the first time I do something I always
               | over engineer it... it took me a lot of self growth to
               | take feedback like yours seriously and not get defensive
               | of my "what-if" thought patterns.
        
               | pocketgrok wrote:
               | I've gotten into the habit of just pumping out a naive
               | solution without worrying about anything and then
               | throwing it away and re-building more thoughtfully
               | because now I have full sense of the scope and some
               | immediate edge-cases. As long as the thing is small
               | enough to do that.
        
             | allenu wrote:
             | Yup, I agree it's likely not a popular opinion. In my
             | experience, developers love developing frameworks and
             | tools, even when it isn't necessary.
             | 
             | I mean, it's just fun. Developers are biased to do things
             | that make work interesting, even if it's superfluous. We
             | think that coming up with a better framework or tool will
             | save time in the future. I think that often it's just a
             | wash or a net negative since you now have to maintain this
             | tool AND when you first start on creating it, you are sort
             | of naive about what it needs to support, so you open
             | yourself up to a lot of hurt later when clients of your
             | tool come up with more requirements than you envisioned.
        
             | nkingsy wrote:
             | Popular open source tools are a poor substitute for
             | standards, but they are better than nothing.
             | 
             | Standards matter if you want to show your code to someone
             | else
        
             | paledot wrote:
             | Which is why I open my conversational interviews with,
             | "There's an emergency, sales promised a customer a to-do
             | list app yesterday. It's getting shipped out and forgotten,
             | you're doing it on your own, only thing that matters is
             | it's done fast. What do you use?". And then of course I
             | spring the, "Okay, now it's becoming a flagship product.
             | How do you onboard co-workers? How do you pivot to ongoing
             | maintenance? What problems do you anticipate scaling it
             | out?". But it's always important to have a tool in your
             | toolbox to hack something together in an afternoon, even if
             | it's just to prove a point.
        
               | scottLobster wrote:
               | As a candidate that would be a hell of a red flag,
               | particularly as an opener. After answering I would
               | definitely follow up with "are situations like those an
               | expected part of my day-to-day?" and minutely examine
               | your response. Even if the rest of the interview went
               | swimmingly that opener would give me pause after the
               | fact.
               | 
               | That question translates to me as "your sister
               | teams/leadership/communication infrastructure are
               | completely incompetent/lacking and you're on the spot to
               | pull an 18 hour shift to clean up their mess. What do you
               | do?"
               | 
               | Sure occasional unforeseen emergencies/breakdowns in
               | communication are expected even at the best of companies,
               | but I'd replace it with a hypothetical that makes the
               | company sound fundamentally competent. Perhaps something
               | like "The company has promised the customer a To-Do List
               | App, however automated testing failed to catch a mission-
               | critical edge-case. This comes to light the day before
               | it's supposed to be delivered. The flaw is so fundamental
               | that the app will have to be re-written. Everyone else is
               | handling other parts of the delivery, so you're on the
               | spot to do it on your own. The only thing that matters is
               | that it's done fast. What do you use?"
        
               | Viliam1234 wrote:
               | Devil's Advocate: Interview questions are almost never
               | related to the actual job. Why would the candidate assume
               | otherwise in this case?
        
               | scottLobster wrote:
               | Fair point. I'd say it's sensible for the candidate to
               | assume that context added to any hypothetical is there to
               | inform their answer. Why add the context if it's not
               | meant to inform? At that point it becomes fluff at best
               | and misleading at worst.
               | 
               | It would make no sense for an interviewer to provide
               | meaningless context unless they were deliberately
               | attempting to distract from the the question, or are
               | otherwise simply incompetent/unfocused. I don't see how
               | gas-lighting candidates would be a productive mode of
               | interview, particularly given that each party only has
               | the interview from which to judge each others' character.
               | Even if the candidate were to successfully discern the
               | gas-lighting, all it would do is prevent trust from being
               | formed. At that point every interaction would be subject
               | to question.
               | 
               | So with the assumption that gas-lighting is not the
               | intent and that the hiring party is competent, the
               | question is how is the context meant to inform the
               | response?
               | 
               | Given that the interviewer is gauging the candidate's
               | ability to perform a job, it is sensible to assume that
               | realistic-sounding context applied to a question is meant
               | to see how the candidate would perform in what the
               | interviewer deems a "realistic" scenario.
               | 
               | If the scenario is unrealistic but meant to impart other
               | information, then it should be obvious or stated as such,
               | so that the candidate can attempt to parse to the correct
               | information from the scenario to inform their response.
               | 
               | If the point is merely to motivate the candidate to
               | answer the question by placing themselves in a narrative,
               | I'd argue they should be motivated enough by the fact
               | that they're in a job interview, without the need for
               | unrealistic scenarios. If they aren't then they clearly
               | aren't taking the position seriously or likely have other
               | issues that would impact their job performance even if
               | hired.
               | 
               | Take the hypothetical removed from context: "You have
               | make a deployable to-do list app as quickly as possible,
               | speed and basic functionality are the only priorities.
               | What tools do you use?..." That format accomplishes the
               | same goal of revealing the candidate's knowledge of what
               | a quick/dirty workflow looks like. The followup questions
               | mentioned "what problems to you anticipate when scaling
               | the solution? How would you on-board coworkers? How would
               | you shift from rapid development to ongoing maintenance?
               | etc" would then flesh out the candidate's knowledge
               | equally as well.
        
               | paledot wrote:
               | I'd make a note of that response and count it in your
               | favour. But if you get sidetracked enough that you never
               | end up answering the question, that's also not a good
               | sign.
               | 
               | IMO your counterexample is wildly implausible, and is
               | likely to sidetrack the candidate. "Is nothing
               | salvageable? What was the flaw? What automated testing?
               | Do I have to use that testing in my alternative fix? How
               | does that reflect on the rest of my tech stack choice?"
        
               | scottLobster wrote:
               | True, just came up with it off the top of my head. I
               | suppose it is possible to be too detailed in such
               | questions. Point being it at least makes it sound like
               | the company was doing the right things and got hit out of
               | left field, vs stepping in a pile of their own making and
               | making you responsible for fixing it.
               | 
               | Perhaps a more innocent miscommunication like the
               | customer failed to clearly communicate requirements, and
               | it was just discovered in an email conversation that they
               | were expecting and as-of-yet un-implemented To-Do List
               | App in the current release, which is shipping
               | tomorrow/this week/etc. I've experienced situations like
               | that before, not sure how applicable it is to your
               | business.
        
               | ric2b wrote:
               | That would give me a bad impression as a candidate.
               | 
               | It's like you're aware of the issue (sales doesn't give
               | two shits about the capacity of the engineering team) but
               | you want someone that is good at wasting a lot of time
               | efficiently instead of improving communication with the
               | sales team.
        
               | solipsism wrote:
               | And then as a hiring manager I get the impression that
               | this candidate doesn't understand hypotheticals, which is
               | a big red flag. Happily, we will come to mutual agreement
               | on whether you proceed.
        
               | scottLobster wrote:
               | As a candidate I by definition know practically nothing
               | about your company and how it operates internally save
               | for maybe some glassdoor reviews, and you're supposed to
               | be judging how I would perform as a part of said company,
               | same way I'm judging whether the position is worth my
               | time or not.
               | 
               | If all your hypotheticals revolve around cleaning up the
               | mess of flagrantly incompetent coworkers/leadership I'm
               | going to get the impression that that's what I'm expected
               | to do all the time. You could get the same information
               | with different hypotheticals, so there's no point in
               | making your company sound like a horrible place to work.
               | 
               | Happily, we would come to a mutual decision that I should
               | produce profits for someone else. It sounds like you're
               | one of those managers who wants supplicants, not
               | applicants. Good luck with that.
        
               | solipsism wrote:
               | I wouldn't hire someone without telling them plenty about
               | where they will work. You don't have to guess what the
               | workplace is like by decoding my questions. You are
               | certainly welcome to, but the obvious danger is that you
               | will get something wrong. A mature person would just ask,
               | and that's the type of person I would want to hire.
               | 
               |  _It sounds like you 're one of those managers who wants
               | supplicants, not applicants._
               | 
               | Absolutely not. I want human beings with whom I can have
               | a good relationship with, based in communication. I
               | definitely don't want to hire a robot who is making
               | important assumptions based on questionable (and totally
               | wrong) heuristics, and Not bothering to ask simple
               | questions.
               | 
               | So yeah, someone applying a weird algorithm to the
               | questions I'm asking them isn't going to be a good fit.
        
             | bstar77 wrote:
             | It's not popular because it's not realistic in most
             | environments. In many cases it's advantageous to use those
             | things you listed because that's what the market can
             | provide talent-wise. I'd rather deal with learning new tech
             | that's well documented than some custom lib that "just
             | works" but no one understands because the architect left
             | years ago. My whole career has been about consistent
             | education, so that doesn't intimidate me. Working on
             | undocumented architectures that I have to make substantial
             | changes to (and not knowing all of the side effects) is
             | what intimidates me.
             | 
             | Turnover is a reality that can't be ignored. New people
             | come in and now have to figure out something that reads
             | like a stream of conscience. It isn't well documented,
             | doesn't follow the latest best practices and doesn't
             | support modern paradigms and uses outdated frameworks/libs,
             | but works great.
             | 
             | The apps I build always take into consideration the talent
             | pool my employer intends to pull from. The reality is that
             | they (usually) can't hire general "technologists" that are
             | proficient at all layers of the stack. If the project is
             | something that only you will ever work on, then you can do
             | whatever you want and this whole conversation is moot.
        
               | solipsism wrote:
               | _it 's advantageous to use those things you listed
               | because that's what the market can provide talent-wise_
               | 
               | More silliness. Pay developers enough so that they'll
               | stick around. If they stick around, then you don't need
               | to hire for talent in a particular framework or language.
               | You can hire for intelligence, creativity, passion,
               | drive, whatever... and invest in training people when
               | they get there.
               | 
               | Jumping from framework to framework and language to
               | language as the talent pool does is incredibly wasteful.
        
               | bstar77 wrote:
               | > Pay developers enough so that they'll stick around
               | 
               | It's amazing FANG companies have any turnover based on
               | that logic. Turnover happens for a variety of reasons...
               | like global pandemics... you can't make a blanket
               | statement like that and expect to be taken seriously.
        
               | solipsism wrote:
               | Sorry, I was speaking in common parlance and assuming
               | most readers would realize that I don't mean _literally 0
               | turnover_.
        
               | Oras wrote:
               | I believe you have agreed with me in your points
               | especially regarding talent and turnover. The shiny tech
               | today will be a legacy 6 months later or a year if you're
               | lucky. Then the talent pool will change and you can't
               | attract the devs who religiously follow new trends.
               | You'll end up hiring people to deal with your {legacy}
               | system or as you pointed out .. substantial changing it.
        
               | bstar77 wrote:
               | React/Redux/Angular all have staying power so I don't
               | understand your point. I don't know what you mean by
               | "shiny" tech. Other than specific libs that go
               | unmaintained, most popular tech has some staying power.
        
           | dontbeabill wrote:
           | it is amazing to me that after 20 years of doing this, and
           | endless river of new "tools" to help, it has become a
           | labyrinth of config files, aws, IAM, deploy complexity and
           | unenjoyable "stuff".
           | 
           | i feel like i used to "build things" to solve problems. now
           | it's just unwind a bunch of complexity for the sake of
           | complexity
        
           | buffalobuffalo wrote:
           | I still use Heroku for almost all my personal projects. I
           | stopped for a while, but they now allow you to dockerize your
           | projects and push them to their registry. They also allow you
           | to have multiple apps with access to shared resources. Those
           | two changes have made it much more flexible than it was back
           | in the early days.
           | 
           | You never realize how much configuration of AWS is like
           | pulling teeth until you stop.
        
             | fakedang wrote:
             | I'm going through literally what you mentioned last. I had
             | a very simply API built on lambdas for a side project, that
             | worked perfectly fine till last month. But now, every minor
             | change I make to that code results in some error or the
             | other that I can't figure out for the life of me. It has
             | been so bad that I had to quit the project altogether.
        
           | dizzy3gg wrote:
           | Ditto, recently moved from AWS to render.com It's like a
           | cheaper Heroku, it's been stable so far. I do use GitHub
           | actions to run a small pipeline on projects but its a far cry
           | from Jenkins.
        
           | hpcjoe wrote:
           | This 1000x.
           | 
           | Sadly the extended out of state family seems to like FB, and
           | I try to follow science/math twitter.
           | 
           | As you get older, something in you clicks, that you realize
           | that time spent being angry, or combative, reduces the time
           | you have for enjoying things (family, life, etc.).
           | 
           | Your time on earth is a zero sum game. Maximize its utility,
           | maximize your enjoyment, minimize your negativity (e.g.
           | outrage of the day on social media). Your life will be
           | better.
        
             | prox wrote:
             | Even better (imo) is going beyond the maximization maxim
             | and realise the "beauty" of the analog, a world you
             | directly see, hear, touch. Just existing without a specific
             | goal, which is indeed similar as a vacation / holiday.
             | However people seem to reserve the "no goal" mindset only
             | on vacation, but you could also integrate it into your
             | life.
        
               | dkdk8283 wrote:
               | I have no goals, it's great!
               | 
               | Absolute freedom. I do as I feel most of the time and I'm
               | very lucky to be able to do so.
        
         | teraku wrote:
         | Your cognitive workload is too high.
         | 
         | There are three forms of cognitive workload: Intrinsic,
         | External and Germane.
         | 
         | Intrinsic is things you just *know*. How to write a class in
         | java, how to write a query in SQL, ...
         | 
         | External is stuff you only need occasionally, and need to look
         | up every time: How to deploy to X, how to set up CI/CD, ...
         | 
         | Germane is context knowledge. Usually referred to as business
         | knowledge.
         | 
         | You want to keep external cognitive load a minimal as possible.
         | You can really dig deployment and stuff, and then this becomes
         | your intrinsic cognitive workload and coding becomes more or
         | less external, but for somebody who just likes to code, it's
         | best to once do a deep dive to deployment logics, write a
         | scaffold and stick with an automated version forever.
        
           | justinclift wrote:
           | > it's best to ...
           | 
           | What are you basing this opinion on? :)
           | 
           | ---
           | 
           | As an aside, the blog in your profile link (
           | https://teraku.me) has an invalid HTTPS cert. Seems to be for
           | a different domain.
        
             | teraku wrote:
             | Moved domains a while ago, but forgot to fix it at HN.
             | Fixed it now
        
             | wizzwizz4 wrote:
             | Once you're connected, it seems to serve the right cert for
             | some reason. Badly-configured shared hosting?
        
           | nickthemagicman wrote:
           | I don't know why you're being devoted, this is interesting.
        
           | Netcob wrote:
           | I tried that, and at first it almost worked. But that
           | scaffolding just kept breaking. TeamCity doesn't want to
           | execute my unit tests since I've upgraded to .Net 5.0, I
           | still don't get how that docker "latest" tag works, my
           | Ubuntu-TeamCity-Agent refuses to acknowledge it's running in
           | Linux and that it has access to docker. After a while I
           | realized I was wasting precious free time.
           | 
           | But I agree about the cognitive load. I have ADHD so in order
           | to qualify as "high functioning" I need to continuously
           | improve my coping strategies when it comes to keeping that
           | load low. I write everything down. My thought process is
           | anchored in long text files with hundreds of indented lists.
           | My programming style is super verbose and perhaps a bit
           | enterprisey, but each class does one thing and I always spend
           | extra effort making sure the things I can re-use work well
           | enough that it's safe to forget how they work.
           | 
           | Oddly enough, my reserves are much bigger when it comes to
           | programming. I remember having trouble with some linear
           | algebra homework - it involved a lot of matrix calculations,
           | and my results just didn't make sense, and I couldn't focus
           | long enough. So I programmed it instead, and it worked
           | immediately and solved my homework. I think it was about
           | change of basis, which actually got me side-tracked because I
           | realized the same code could be used for a simple 3D
           | renderer. And that's what got me into computer graphics. What
           | was the topic again?
        
             | yonaguska wrote:
             | I also programming my linear algebra homework assignments,
             | and then nearly failed the class. Didn't really learn it
             | until I had to use it for more interesting combinatorics.
             | 
             | Also adhd, and our coping mechanisms are similar.
        
         | MeinBlutIstBlau wrote:
         | Quit normalizing work in your free time for this field. There
         | is no other field that has such a brash concept that we all
         | should work for free to do this. We have a skill. If an
         | employer needs a highly specialized version of it, they better
         | pay to train you to learn it.
        
         | temporama1 wrote:
         | > I'll come up with my own tools. They won't be great, but...
         | 
         | They WILL be great. They'll do exactly what YOU need them to
         | do, and nothing else.
         | 
         | Software at present is a disaster, partly because we're just
         | piling on complexity all the time, thinking only of the
         | benefits and never of the huge downsides ("fighting with
         | tools").
        
           | Netcob wrote:
           | That's true, and personally I'd much rather fight with my own
           | code since I usually 100% understand what it does.
           | 
           | In a team of course it would be different - unless I
           | perfectly document my own code, my colleagues would be better
           | off with something they can actually google.
        
           | shawnz wrote:
           | Everyone who develops a tool did it because they thought
           | their tool would be great, and do exactly what they needed
           | better than everything else that existed previously.
           | 
           | Everyone has slightly different needs, so that is exactly
           | what creates the complexity disaster you are talking about. I
           | think that being more willing to re-use the existing work of
           | past developers actually works to reduce this problem.
        
         | goodpoint wrote:
         | > I don't want to spend my leisure time fighting with tools,
         | debugging build processes that break all the time, make sense
         | of docker's tagging system
         | 
         | Now that CV-driven development is the standard, we are forced
         | to learn new bloated "devops" tools and services every year.
         | 
         | This type of knowledge expires very quickly.
         | 
         | Also these tools and services do not develop communities:
         | business users drop last-year tools like hot potatoes when a
         | new cheaper or shit^ny one comes along.
         | 
         | This hype-fueled corporate-driven culture is not going to end
         | well.
        
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           | Uehreka wrote:
           | People on HN are always deriding the "tech hedonic
           | treadmill", but I find it interesting that this meme seems to
           | have reached maturity in 2015, and the list of things they
           | point to as "the new trendy thing this year" has been the
           | same ever since: Some combo of Node.js, React, webpack,
           | Docker and Kubernetes.
           | 
           | I think this meme was still fairly true then: Node was at
           | risk of splitting into Node.js and IO.js, React was still
           | new-ish and people were (rightfully) panicking over the
           | drastic changes coming in Angular v2, Docker was still new-
           | ish and there were arguments over whether Docker Swarm or
           | Kubernetes was the future. But nowadays Node has stabilized,
           | React and webpack have been comfortably dominant for years,
           | Docker's model of containers won out a long time ago and
           | Kubernetes is there if you need it, but is mostly useful for
           | people building a PaaS.
           | 
           | If people don't want to learn these things, then fine, but I
           | do wish the overall mood here would update to reflect the
           | fact that we are now living in a much more stable time than
           | when these memes were created.
        
             | ex_amazon_sde wrote:
             | > we are now living in a much more stable time than when
             | these memes were created
             | 
             | Quite the opposite. The cambrian explosion of tools and
             | SaaS is getting faster and the average useful lifetime of
             | anything released today is getting shorter.
        
             | majewsky wrote:
             | New hypothesis: People like to move on to the next thing
             | once they have mastered the current thing, so in a weird
             | co-evolution, those tools-of-the-year evolved to not be
             | masterable and thus people haven't been able to move on
             | yet.
             | 
             | Also, you shall shortly be smited for not having included
             | Rust in that list. :)
        
           | lumost wrote:
           | Sometimes I wonder if modern corporate culture has adopted
           | soviet style newspeak.
           | 
           | Why are we immigrating to the new thing? For the same reasons
           | as we migrated to the old thing. Why is the new thing better?
           | Because it's just so much better.
        
             | weehoo wrote:
             | If you can convince the higher ups that migrating tooling
             | provides business value, you can do something that requires
             | zero insight or creativity for a few months and at the end
             | of it be promoted for organizing a successful migration
             | despite delivering zero measurable business value. The
             | effects of the migration are gonna be second and higher
             | order effects that are impossible to separate from the rest
             | of the business so you can just claim the tooling was the
             | leverage that let the people doing first order work
             | succeed. Being a tool astronaut lets you claim a portion of
             | everyone else in your orgs success without ever taking a
             | professional risk, since your odds of being called out for
             | an ineffectual change are near zero, since there's no first
             | order signals.
             | 
             | I'm not saying modern tooling is useless; I don't use ed,
             | cc, and make for my development. But there's a huge
             | difference between a zero to one tooling effort and an N to
             | N+1 tooling effort. The first one requires figuring out all
             | the implicit/implied/manual parts of the process. The
             | second one is often just turning one set of configuration
             | languages into another.
        
               | goodpoint wrote:
               | > huge difference between a zero to one tooling effort
               | and an N to N+1 tooling effort
               | 
               | Spot on. There's a serious point of diminishing returns
               | when piling up tools.
               | 
               | At some point the cost of learning, adapting, deploying,
               | maintaining yet another tool becomes a net negative.
               | 
               | Often the solution is to replace 5 fancy tools with 100
               | lines of Python and Bash.
        
               | mclightning wrote:
               | Holy cow. This! Exactly this! It happened in big corp., I
               | am working at right now. As an engineer, I just watched
               | it happen. When I tried to explain to other engineers,
               | most didn't get it. Only a few got the trajectory we were
               | put in by higher ups for credits they were aiming to get.
               | But those few were onboard or powerless as me.
               | 
               | We just observed it happen. As the engineers, we did our
               | job best we could regardless. Things broke, we fixed.
               | Somethings rolled back, and even for those they claimed
               | credit & celebrated for re-inventing the wheel.
        
             | jeremyjh wrote:
             | Because there are people for whom "playing" means
             | implementing new devops tools, cluster managers,
             | application servers, etc. In production.
        
         | bredren wrote:
         | I had the opposite happen. I had been building servers for my
         | (largely Django-based) projects using long txt files from old
         | digital ocean tutorials I had customized.[1]
         | 
         | I fought docker and all of that but had some time last year
         | between gigs and spent a few weeks examining the state of
         | things and experimenting. The most influential of works were
         | recent guides by Michael Herman. [2]
         | 
         | In the process I learned to set up not fully reproducible
         | server setups but branch and commit message-specific CI/CD
         | workflows using Github Actions.
         | 
         | It turns out it is like most things, hard and complicated until
         | you know and have living samples and then it seems relatively
         | straightforward and efficient.
         | 
         | GA is still fairly young and there is still opportunity to
         | create and share flourishes of art in devops there.
         | 
         | [1] https://www.digitalocean.com/community/tutorials/how-to-
         | set-...
         | 
         | [2] https://testdriven.io/blog/deploying-django-to-
         | digitalocean-...
        
         | sqqqqrly wrote:
         | I love your "it adds up" comment. I will steal this. It is very
         | true for me as well.
         | 
         | Several years ago, I started using make extensively. Not to
         | compile, but to automate. Make understands failing and
         | dependencies. Also, bash and zsh have wonderful completions.
         | 
         | I used to write a bash or python script to do this. They often
         | turned into their own projects and were painful to document.
         | 
         | A great make example (thanks Aaron) is on YT: Using Terraform,
         | Packer, and Ansible Together": https://youtu.be/pkEezNSFWtA.
         | Aaron automated it all with make.
         | 
         | Ya, I know... Make was created in 1976 to compile Fortran. It's
         | old school. I love it.
         | 
         | I use it to test my kubernetes CSI driver on 5 versions of k3s
         | with a single make call. That call is the tip of a dependency
         | tree. The leaves end up being a line or three of bash running
         | Ansible, Go, Helm, etc, but could be anything.
         | 
         | Documentation is simple because the make dependencies are so
         | easy to follow. They are much of the documentation. The docs
         | are correct because we execute them.
        
         | Balgair wrote:
         | > Once in a while someone will ask me "how do you know all
         | these things?" and my answer has always been "I don't know that
         | much, I just randomly got interested in this particular topic
         | and decided to play around with it". Over the years/decades,
         | that adds up!
         | 
         | "Don't become a well-rounded person. Well-rounded people are
         | smooth and dull. Become a throughly spiky person"
         | 
         | -Bruce Sterling
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | shawnz wrote:
         | Is this really a matter of tooling versus programming, or is it
         | a matter of wanting to create rather than wanting to re-use the
         | work of others?
         | 
         | Even purely in code, you always (EDIT: usually) have the choice
         | of implementing a solution yourself or finding the work of
         | someone else, packaged into a library, which solves the problem
         | for you.
         | 
         | Implementing the solution yourself may be the most satisfying
         | way to scratch that instantaneous creative itch. But does it
         | create the end result which you can be most proud of or
         | satisfied with?
        
           | klyrs wrote:
           | > Even purely in code, you always have the choice of
           | implementing a solution yourself or finding the work of
           | someone else, packaged into a library, which solves the
           | problem for you.
           | 
           | In my experience, this isn't remotely true, especially if
           | you're constrained to use a particular language and don't
           | want to pay the overhead of wrapping another language
        
         | WrtCdEvrydy wrote:
         | > Big mistake. I don't want to spend my leisure time fighting
         | with tools, debugging build processes that break all the time,
         | make sense of docker's tagging system and so on. I don't mind
         | programming all day, because I love programming, but I do mind
         | working all day.
         | 
         | Yeah, I've basically moved on from anything that isn't Caprover
         | + Portainer. Fuck the rest.
        
         | utxaa wrote:
         | this is why if you don't enjoy leet puzzles, you don't learn
         | anything, or can't even do them.
        
         | mancerayder wrote:
         | I'm struggling with this. Manager managing more and more
         | people. Old school on premmy turned AWS and Kubernetes while I
         | was already manager a few years ago, making it hard to learn
         | first principles of k8s and Docker.
         | 
         | Now here I sit, Sunday, staring at a terminal window to force
         | myself to set up a ruby on rails app on Docker so I can shove
         | it into a EKS setup I will set up with Terraform.
         | 
         | Could I do this at work? Yes. Except No. In the hours of 'free
         | time' between meetings and other work, I feel too mentally
         | foggy to play and learn new things.
         | 
         | Please.Help.Me.
         | 
         | I think I just need a vacation.
        
         | rhn_mk1 wrote:
         | There is a sweet spot somewhere between the extreme of not
         | using pre-built tools and drowning in them.
         | 
         | I've been following a similar path: automation and testing give
         | me certainty and peace of mind when I'm working on bigger
         | teams, so they should also improve my personal projects, right?
         | 
         | Well, the difference is that my personal projects are used only
         | by me in limited ways, and I also don't have to worry that
         | someone will break the build when I'm not looking. So the extra
         | work making things super safe would not pay off that much.
         | 
         | Except when I feel I'm losing grip on what I'm doing, either
         | from having to cover many use cases, not being experienced,
         | unstable dependencies, or risk of data loss. That's when I set
         | up CI pipelines for my personal projects.
        
           | ryandrake wrote:
           | Every third party tool (or library dependency, by the way) is
           | something that will have to be well understood, maintained
           | and fixed when broken. Which is why I try to avoid them for
           | the most part in my personal _and work_ projects.
           | 
           | When someone at work says "Hey, lets just use Xyz package I
           | found online! It does just what we want!" you need to ask:
           | Who fixes it when it causes a problem that stops us from
           | shipping? Who does the security audit? What data does it
           | collect, and to where does it send that data? What will
           | adding it do to our software's performance? Who decides when
           | to update it to the next version and verifies compatibility?
           | Is its license compatible with our workflow/software?
           | 
           | All of a sudden, people are less excited about that great
           | doodad they found on StackOverflow! I'm always troubled by
           | the cavalier attitude about relying on external tools and
           | library dependencies. Yolo just pull it in! In some cases it
           | might be the right decision, but not always. And, avoiding
           | third party stuff is not always just blind NIH mentality:
           | There are costs to depending on someone else for your
           | project.
        
             | goguy wrote:
             | If you use third party libs with the appropriate licence
             | then your the one that fixes it, just the same as if you
             | rolled your own.
        
               | zajio1am wrote:
               | If you rolled your own, you invest your time to learn
               | about the problem domain. If you use third party libs,
               | you invest your time to learn about its
               | interface/behavior. That is usually much more ephemeral
               | knowledge. It is good tradeoff if the library does some
               | heavy lifting, but that is not always true.
        
             | nly wrote:
             | The cost of the alternative : doing it yourself, is also
             | often underestimated.
             | 
             | "It's just a simple JSON parser, we can write our own" is a
             | dismissal that can sink you down a rabbit hole of bugs and
             | future technical debt.
             | 
             | The most important thing about using a third party library
             | is that its easy to replace with another one if it doesn't
             | work out.
             | 
             | Don't let third party data types or dependencies leak out
             | of the module where you use them, for example via an API,
             | and things go a lot smoother
        
             | shawnz wrote:
             | I strongly agree that bringing in new dependencies is not a
             | small consideration. But at the same time, third-party
             | dependencies will always be necessary and by carefully
             | choosing those that are best suited for the job, you might
             | be able to get a net reduction in complexity.
             | 
             | Old, established third-party dependencies are not
             | necessarily better for the job than new, trendy
             | dependencies. Their entrenched nature can be an advantage
             | and also a limitation. And when you roll it yourself, then
             | that is of course the newest and least established solution
             | of all.
        
         | ta1234567890 wrote:
         | Reminds me of this slime mold video:
         | https://youtu.be/GwKuFREOgmo
         | 
         | The mold "operates" in roughly two modes: exploring and
         | exploiting. It explores to find the food and then it exploits
         | the best paths to the food to consume it.
         | 
         | I feel our minds work in a similar way, we explore when
         | learning new stuff and then we exploit when using what we
         | learned to accomplish something.
         | 
         | Probably most of the work that majority of people do is mostly
         | exploiting previously learned stuff, with some limited
         | exploration sprinkled into it every now and then.
        
         | schindlabua wrote:
         | Hah sounds like you described me perfectly. But I do have to
         | say, ever since I'm programming full-time I seem not to be able
         | to just code for fun anymore.
         | 
         | I used to program all day long.. and I guess I still do, but
         | now it's for work, and after 8h of work I'm just done, you
         | know? The "stuff I want to look at" list is growing longer and
         | longer and there's no hope of me ever catching up.
         | 
         | (I can't imagine how it is for people with kids. How do you get
         | anything done in your private life at all?)
        
           | Netcob wrote:
           | When things are kinda slow and aimless at work, that's when I
           | really start to do some projects at home again. But to be
           | honest, it all comes and goes.
           | 
           | But yeah, right now I'm both single and in lockdown, and if
           | it was any other way I wouldn't spend a week just programming
           | some sort of custom build/deployment agent.
           | 
           | With kids? One of my colleagues once told me that once you
           | have them, you'll suddenly be out of time you didn't even
           | know you had in the first place.
        
           | hibbelig wrote:
           | I found that the kids running to you and jumping up and down
           | and demanding your attention is an extremely quick way to
           | reset. After an hour or so you completely forgot about work.
        
           | noisy_boy wrote:
           | Speaking as a person with kids, I get into many things but
           | with exceptions of very simple/small stuff, mostly nothing
           | gets done and there are lots of stuff in various stages of
           | incompleteness. It also depends on your level of
           | procrastinating. Doing all these things also has an effect on
           | sleep because I only get time once everyone has gone to bed.
        
           | CalRobert wrote:
           | Dad of two - we basically don't, if I'm honest. I've had to
           | give up on an immense number of things and while lots of
           | people tell you "having kids is expensive" very few will tell
           | you that the most expensive part is the opportunity cost. I
           | have so many things I want to do and it hurts, almost
           | physically, to watch other people doing them because they
           | could hack on stuff after work while I had to deal with
           | making sure a 3 year old wiped their butt OK or get yelled at
           | because they actually wanted a _different_ spoon.
           | 
           | Now, it turns out my career was lacklustre, so no great loss,
           | and I'm sure having older kids is different than mine (1 and
           | 3) but right now I get make 40-60 minutes a day to do what I
           | want. Not much time for a side gig. I'm writing this right
           | now with my kid watching a cartoon next to me when I
           | originally wanted to work on some UI stuff for a side
           | project, because I'm exhausted. Speaking of the above, she's
           | scratching her butt so maybe we need to discuss the
           | importance of thorough wiping.
        
             | pbronez wrote:
             | I'm right there with you man. Same ages even.
             | 
             | The first few years of kids were infuriating and
             | terrifying. I built my career by constantly exploring and
             | learning after hours. Kids made that impossible, and that
             | made me frustrated (because there's SO MUCH I want to do
             | besides diapers) and scared (because how can I maintain my
             | career without learning).
             | 
             | It's somewhat better now. I'm seeing them grow and can
             | believe that this stage of life won't last forever. I've
             | managed to keep up with work by increasing efficiency
             | during core hours, though I still look forward to getting
             | back on the wagon with side projects when I can.
             | 
             | Here are a few beliefs that have helped me build & maintain
             | a positive mind set:
             | 
             | - An engaged parent is priceless to a child. They
             | desperately need you and you are irreplaceable. There is
             | huge value in showing up for them, it's just very different
             | from your prior experience.
             | 
             | - COVID is terrible and we're all struggling to get by. You
             | must ruthlessly prioritize where you spend mental,
             | physical, fiscal and chronological resources. Nobody
             | expects you to maintain the same pace as before; we are all
             | suffering through this together.
             | 
             | - Family and Profession both benefit from strengthening
             | your mind, body and habits. Level up your time management
             | game to improve exercise and diet. When the kids get
             | easier, you'll have more capacity for professional
             | endeavors than before.
        
               | CalRobert wrote:
               | All true, and there are days I'm writing posts more like
               | yours than mine. But today was hard.
               | 
               | A lot of it is fear - I honestly don't know if I can
               | compete with people who can work all weekend or put in
               | late nights.
        
             | earhart wrote:
             | FWIW - in my experience, if their demands upset you, it's
             | not going to go well (you'll get more demands and feel more
             | exhausted); if you laugh at the ridiculousness of the
             | situation, remind them to ask nicely, and still help them
             | with what they need/want, you'll be much less stressed,
             | you'll be teaching them that being unpleasant doesn't
             | bother you and doesn't help but does have the natural
             | consequences of slowing down what they want, and you'll be
             | teaching them a better way of being; at least with my own
             | kids, they picked up on it pretty quickly, and they started
             | being much more fun to hang out with.
             | 
             | (Good luck!)
        
               | CalRobert wrote:
               | True, and oddly given my comment, I adore them and love
               | being their dad. But they destroyed my old life so I've
               | had to build a new one around them. The pandemic hasn't
               | helped.
        
           | mehphp wrote:
           | You either don't or you have to sacrifice sleep, leisure time
           | or something else.
           | 
           | I have a full-time job, two-kids and a small SaaS side-
           | business and it is all consuming.
           | 
           | I either get up early or stay up late to work on my own
           | stuff.
           | 
           | The goal is to transition into working for myself but that is
           | going slowly and I've been at it for a while so I'm feeling a
           | bit burned out lately...
           | 
           | Thoughts of just selling the damn thing and just working my
           | 9-5 are becoming more frequent...
        
             | nthj wrote:
             | I don't mean to stick my nose in, but seeing as we are on
             | HN: I keep hearing the market is pretty good for capital
             | lately, have you explored raising a round to accelerate
             | dropping the 9-5?
        
           | fulafel wrote:
           | Get a job where you can use part of your time to look at cool
           | stuff. With some luck you may already have one.
        
           | piva00 wrote:
           | I don't know how old you are and for how long you've been
           | programming but your experience mimics my progression.
           | 
           | I started playing with some kind of programming when I was
           | about 9-10, BASIC on a MSX and later HTML that opened up me
           | for web development on ASP 3.0 and PHP at the time.
           | 
           | It was a very big hobby when I was young and turned into a
           | career when I was pretty young, about 16. It stayed as a
           | hobby for another 9-10 years but I got to the point where
           | thinking about programming outside of my paid time was
           | exhausting...
           | 
           | It helped me tremendously, I would never have a career if I
           | wasn't extremely curious about programming for 15-20 years of
           | my life, I just got to the same stage as you did.
           | 
           | There is an evergrowing and endless list of things I want to
           | learn and experience, staying on top of the latest tech on my
           | own free time is just too costly nowadays. I still do it,
           | when I need it for work and during work hours, and all the
           | accumulated experience helps me to figure out things way
           | faster so I don't need to use my free time to catch up.
           | Increasingly rarely I get that curiosity again, to use my
           | free time to study something work-related. When I do it
           | nowadays it's for much larger and abstract concepts such as
           | organisation culture and change, team spirit and building
           | trust and effective communication.
           | 
           | I noticed that the past 5 years of my career has been much
           | more about the human and social aspect of work rather than
           | technical ones. And I didn't try to become a manager, tech
           | lead or product owner, it has just attracted me as I think I
           | always got attracted to gaps of efficiency at work. It seems
           | that seeing this human aspect of work brought me closer to
           | more human aspects of life (arts, music, sociology) and a bit
           | away from controlling the machine I learned when I was a kid.
        
             | jameshush wrote:
             | This resonates with me too. Instead of spending 2 weeks
             | shaving off 100ms in a request I'll spend two weeks shaving
             | off 3-4 days worth of time for a request from the marketing
             | or sales team by figuring out a better process for them to
             | request changes on the management side.
        
           | motiejus wrote:
           | I do have small children, and, for like many others, I get to
           | do my things when everyone are asleep. You seem to have
           | interest (which means you have energy), but the problem seems
           | to be finishing. I have the same issue.
           | 
           | I am maintaining a list of them in a notebook, and am trying
           | to limit the number of them to not more than 8-10 at the same
           | time. And I can only start a new one if I finish an old one.
           | 
           | Everything in that list is a task with a clear Definition Of
           | Done, so I know when I can cross them out. Realistically,
           | each of them would take from 4 hours to a week (assuming
           | full-time). Over the years, many things got done. Slower than
           | I'd like, surely, but I think a SaaS business will come out
           | of those TODOs in a few years.
           | 
           | This way, things are moving forward (since I must complete
           | something), but I am allowing myself freedom to switch
           | effortlessly. That motivates to do *something* when the hour
           | comes. :)
        
           | SanderNL wrote:
           | As a father of two I can relate with some of the answers
           | here, but I'd like to add an alternative viewpoint here just
           | to give young dads some glimmer of hope.
           | 
           | For the first and a half or so we've had a difficult life
           | with the first kid. To be honest, there is just no way around
           | it. Especially your first kid. The SEAL-level sleep
           | deprivation and complete lack of "me time" really takes it
           | toll. I'm also not the type of dad to let mom handle
           | everything. She also has a career and, to be honest, a better
           | one too. So I was regularly up at 2AM, 4AM and 6AM. Then a
           | workday. :) (If you have young parents around you, please try
           | to be compassionate.)
           | 
           | But for some reason I'm more effective now than I ever was. I
           | can remember "not having enough energy" to complete some
           | project for as long as I am alive - even when I was alone. It
           | is clear to me this had very little to do with my actual life
           | and more with my attitude. My life is more complex and
           | demanding than it used to be but somehow I still managed to
           | lose 60lbs, learned to read Latin, took guitar lessons and
           | started a business. Every single one of these items never
           | would have left my todo list without my family. They have
           | endowed me with a keen sense of priority which made planning
           | my life quite easy to be honest.
           | 
           | I know those achievements I listed are not that hard, but for
           | me they are significant. I've found most things in life don't
           | require your eternal soul as a sacrifice, they just take
           | (usually a lot of) time and so you need to be strategic about
           | your goals. Take it slow, don't burn yourself out, but also
           | don't stray from left to right unnecessarily. Keep your eyes
           | on the ball. Don't shift from "write a compiler", "read
           | latin", "write toy OS", "build cpu from nand-gates" to "learn
           | german" and back to "learn to draw realistically" in a month.
           | Focus. A dirty word, I know, but a powerful one.
        
           | pomian wrote:
           | An aside for future or present dad's (and all Parents.) There
           | is so much joy and learning that happens with raising kids,
           | that I think the secret is not fight it, but enjoy it. Almost
           | sounds cliche, but embrace the experience. From the very
           | beginning to when they are adults, to experience a window
           | into your own life, a window into the world. These windows
           | allow you to explore your surroundings and relationships with
           | a different eye, with more understanding. The best way to get
           | into that zone, is to forget your own desires for a bit,
           | forget your schedule. Just live in the moment of the kid (s).
           | After you relax a bit, and surrender to their schedule, then
           | all of a sudden you find opportunities for your time in
           | between. But with passion and effectiveness. As mentioned
           | below in a comment, you can be more focused, I believe
           | because you are more relaxed. If you fight all the time to
           | make 'your' schedule fit, you become frustrated. As you let
           | go, you find a schedule that works, and with enthusiasm for
           | that time to create and build. Cherish the moment with the
           | kids, everything from diaper changing to eating, because they
           | are a reflective window on your own soul, and a fresh mirror
           | to the insanity if the world around you.
        
             | moldavi wrote:
             | How do you let go of the things you want to do? I like to
             | think that my side project is something only I could do,
             | that the world needs but doesnt know it yet... so the
             | thought of giving it up sends chills through me.
             | 
             | You seem to have a really nice outlook on things so I'd
             | really appreciate any hints on how to reconcile this and
             | get to where you are! (I dont have any kids yet)
        
               | MattRix wrote:
               | You can still do side projects when you've got kids. You
               | just have to treat your priorities seriously, which
               | usually means having to give up most of the
               | netflix/social-media time. You also have to realize that
               | in a two parent household, you don't usually need both
               | parents looking after the kids, and it's better for both
               | of you if you take turns (for your sanity AND for your
               | free time).
        
               | moldavi wrote:
               | That sounds pretty promising. Does taking turns work well
               | in practice?
        
               | MattRix wrote:
               | It can, but it really depends on the personalities of you
               | and your partner. It works best if your partner also has
               | some independent work they need to get done (or enjoy
               | doing, ex a hobby).
        
               | ativzzz wrote:
               | For the vast, vast, majority of us, nothing that we do
               | individually is important. Sure we work and provide some
               | value to somebody somewhere, but if we didn't exist or
               | didn't do that job, the world wouldn't be any worse off.
               | 
               | If you think otherwise, it's probably your ego lying to
               | you.
        
               | anonymouse008 wrote:
               | And even still for those "others" - nothing individually
               | they do is that important, it's how the team they've
               | assembled operates when the leader isn't around... and as
               | much as a belief system can anchor people into habits and
               | behaviors, it's still the deputies or vps of a cause that
               | must maintain consistency in purpose...
               | 
               | That's a long winded way of saying, no ones individual
               | contributions are that important... it's only through the
               | concert of others that any person reaches those heights.
        
           | asoneth wrote:
           | In talking with fellow parents of young children the biggest
           | variable seems to be whether there is a stay-at-home parent,
           | live-in relative, or nanny who can help with the recurring
           | labor required to run a household like cleaning, cooking,
           | shopping, bills, repairs, yard work, taxes, etc. Otherwise
           | that work piles up until after the kids go to sleep and on
           | weekends.
           | 
           | You can sacrifice sleep, but that's not sustainable for
           | everyone.
           | 
           | My partner and I block out a couple hours each week for the
           | other to wrangle the kids so we can work on our various
           | hobbies/projects. I've found that when I work on my computer-
           | based hobbies I usually end up frittering away half the time
           | reading online news whereas outdoor construction, yard, and
           | bike projects don't seem to suffer from that so they end up
           | making more progress.
           | 
           | Hopefully in ~5 yrs I can actually do some of these things
           | with the kids and it'll get a little easier.
        
           | Iv wrote:
           | > How do you get anything done in your private life at all?
           | 
           | We don't. It sucks. And if we ever mention the impact of
           | having a kid on our quality of life it makes us bad parents
           | and terrible persons.
           | 
           | I should have resisted more about having a kid. I am happy we
           | made only one.
        
             | SamPatt wrote:
             | Is your child still young?
             | 
             | Because as children age you're able to reclaim some of your
             | life back. At least, if you don't fall into the trap of
             | them living a packed schedule themselves.
             | 
             | I've got three, the eldest is now old enough to babysit the
             | rest if needed. With a consistent bedtime and family nearby
             | to care for them on occasion, my wife and I do get some
             | spare time. We mostly choose to spend that together but we
             | can pursue our own hobbies also.
        
               | Iv wrote:
               | 7. Yes I know, it gets better. That's still going to be
               | 10 years off my already too short life.
               | 
               | And how I envy the idea that living close to family would
               | save you time instead of draining some.
        
               | MattRix wrote:
               | As a parent of two kids who are both past that age, I
               | feel like your perspective on this is all wrong. You've
               | given 70+ years to someone else. And you haven't lost
               | those years at all, since presumably you also have a
               | meaningful day job (and if not, that's not your child's
               | fault).
               | 
               | It sounds like you and your partner should work on
               | splitting the load more. You don't need both parents to
               | look after the kid constantly, you can often take turns.
               | Kids can also watch TV and all kinds of stuff. They also
               | have earlier bedtimes, giving you even more free time.
        
         | localhost wrote:
         | I can't agree more! I make the same argument, but much less
         | eloquently than you did "I just randomly got interested in this
         | particular topic and decided to play aorund with it".
         | 
         | Using the same motivation: "let's play with things and see what
         | I can figure out", I created a video [1] where I figure out
         | what I need to do to create a silly version of the cat command
         | that prints text out upside-down.
         | 
         | I did it for a bunch of reasons: figuring out how to replace
         | system commands, learning a bit more about Unicode, trying out
         | our C extension for VS Code, learning the process for building
         | YouTube video (which was a very deep rabbit hole) ... all to
         | produce a single video. It was fun, scratched an itch that I've
         | had for a while that I'll continue to work on.
         | 
         | [1] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OJ2ivP2llFs
        
         | fuzzy2 wrote:
         | Hm, it's different for me. Since at work I don't really do the
         | Continuous Integration/Delivery stuff (or anything with "real
         | infrastructure"), I find it very enjoyable to fiddle with it at
         | home. There's no pressure to accomplish anything and I can just
         | leave it alone for months or even years before coming back to
         | it.
         | 
         | There's a nice side-effect, too: The CI definition documents
         | how to compile the project. I recently dug out an old LaTeX
         | "project" and there was nothing, no Makefile or anything. Had
         | to look up everything again to get it to run (with XeLaTeX and
         | Biber).
        
           | majewsky wrote:
           | > There's a nice side-effect, too: The CI definition
           | documents how to compile the project.
           | 
           | Okay, sure, but that's not an argument for CI. That's an
           | argument for a Makefile.
           | 
           | In fact, I find myself going back to Makefiles all the time
           | not in spite of all these specialized build tools, but
           | _because of them_. Even if the steps are straight-forward for
           | someone who 's familiar with the tools, just having a
           | Makefile there in the repository root will be helpful
           | documentation to help someone new (or myself in 2 years) get
           | started with how to build the stuff. For example, for LaTeX,
           | it could be something like:                 build: slides.pdf
           | handout.pdf            %.pdf: %.tex         pdflatex $*
           | pdflatex $*
        
           | NBJack wrote:
           | I would caution against trusting your build process
           | definition to hold up to time. It's definitely better than
           | nothing.
           | 
           | Even within the last few years of my job, we've had numerous
           | disruptions to our automated builds due to everything from
           | repo changes to version bumps in our fundamental deploy
           | tools. I've got a self-assigned action to take just tomorrow
           | due to how a change in how secrets management has now
           | disrupted our performance testing process available to devs.
           | Anecdotally, it seems more and more that as newer build tools
           | move forward, they rarely seem to prioritize compatibility
           | with existing methods (I'm looking at you, k8s, and your API
           | versioning; "where feasible" turned out to be a loose
           | definition).
        
             | fuzzy2 wrote:
             | It may not run to completion in the future, that's true.
             | However, if it's something as simple as a shell script or a
             | shell command list, it's at least relatively transparent.
             | 
             | Unlike, say, tasks on Azure DevOps. Not a fan of those.
        
           | spion wrote:
           | It also really depends on what you find cool, there are
           | different ways to look at things. For example if I think of
           | pipelines as these execution graphs that run on their own and
           | make sure your artifacts end up in the right place, then its
           | really fun. CI systems that visualize this make it even more
           | interesting.
           | 
           | A little combination of the right personal interests and
           | perspective goes a long way towards building up resilience to
           | deal with the ugly bits.
        
             | Netcob wrote:
             | I had this interesting experience back in university. We
             | were doing some simple web service project in pairs, and it
             | consisted of a program and some devops stuff. My partner in
             | that project turned out to have skills that exactly
             | complemented my own - he had trouble with the algorithmic
             | stuff that I thought was trivial, yet he easily stitched
             | all the services together by editing some configuration
             | files before I even understood what any of them were for.
        
         | void_mint wrote:
         | For me, true programming joy comes from not having to look at
         | docs. To be able to just write code for long periods of time,
         | without running into something weird happening with a library
         | or tool is the "zen" feeling that I hear lots of others talk
         | about.
         | 
         | At work, and in this domain:
         | 
         | > I wanted to learn some new frameworks and concepts to help
         | with that, and I decided to make my personal projects a bit
         | more "professional". Use continuous integration, focus more on
         | web stuff, build and automatically deploy containers and so on.
         | 
         | It's all docs. It's all "This thing was supposed to happen but
         | ____ didn't do what I expected". Fighting with tools and
         | configuration and triggers and stuff like that is the opposite
         | of zen.
        
       | kkylin wrote:
       | For anyone interested: the physical phenomenon is spin-orbit
       | coupling. Here's a somewhat technical discussion of the classical
       | version:
       | 
       | https://mitpress-request.mit.edu/sites/default/files/titles/...
       | 
       | and the quantum analog:
       | 
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spin%E2%80%93orbit_interaction
        
       | throwaway823882 wrote:
       | My favorite problems to solve are the ones I don't need to.
        
       | tjoff wrote:
       | Love it, but for more context, when was this? How accomplished
       | was he at that time?
        
         | rzzzt wrote:
         | Not an answer to your question, but the meta-context is
         | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=26931021 (probably)
        
         | Rerarom wrote:
         | 1946-7, just after his Manhattan Project work, before his work
         | on quantum electrodynamics.
        
       | waihtis wrote:
       | There is power in the startup/business world also in doing things
       | that aren't immediately sensible or predictable. Read Rory
       | Sutherland's "Alchemy" for learning more.
        
         | sideshowb wrote:
         | True perhaps but if you're doing it because there is "power" in
         | it, that paradoxically defeats the object.
        
           | waihtis wrote:
           | Consider it rather an excuse to have fun, and a feasible
           | explanation if you have to explain yourself to anyone (boss,
           | investors)
        
       | dang wrote:
       | Some past threads:
       | 
       |  _Feynman: I am burned out and I 'll never accomplish anything_ -
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=10585890 - Nov 2015 (22
       | comments)
       | 
       |  _Feynman: I am burned out and I 'll never accomplish anything_ -
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=3874875 - April 2012 (66
       | comments)
       | 
       |  _Feynman 's wobbling plate: how to recover from burnout_ -
       | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=2291773 - March 2011 (22
       | comments)
        
       | zeeshanqureshi wrote:
       | "Blocked by Intention" is what the mystics (eastern, sufi, hindu
       | etc.) call this.
       | 
       | John Cleese's book[1] and lecture[2] on creativity also have some
       | thoughts on this.
       | 
       | [1] https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/50719532-creativity
       | 
       | [2] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pb5oIIPO62g
        
       | jmfldn wrote:
       | "The diagrams and the whole business that I got the Nobel Prize
       | for came from that piddling around with the wobbling plate."
       | 
       | This shows the extreme importance of blue sky thinking and
       | allowing people to follow their whims sometimes rather than not
       | starting something unless it fits into existing research goals
       | and funding. This breakthrough all lead from an observation that
       | had no apparent use beyond fulfilling a whim and to have fun with
       | it.
       | 
       | I try to live my life by the ludic principle of 'playing'. It's
       | honestly been the lifeblood that's fueled me, kept me sane at
       | work and allowed me to do OK in my career. All of my best ideas
       | at work and in things like making music came from this spirit I'm
       | convinced.
        
         | nicbou wrote:
         | I learned my trade by playing. I suspect that many other people
         | on HN also did. Now I do something very different, and that
         | also came from playing, as did many of the skills that made it
         | possible.
         | 
         | I still write code, but it's entirely for fun. It's a
         | completely different experience from closing tickets in an
         | office.
         | 
         | I do many other things that aren't very cost-effective, just
         | because they're fun. They might not pay the rent, but they keep
         | me sane enough to do the things that do. For Mr. Feynman it was
         | playing the bongos.
         | 
         | Do things that don't matter. Aside from the doors it can
         | unlock, it's just damn fun.
        
           | mmcnl wrote:
           | You could argue that having fun is the end goal of things.
           | Why do we do things that we consider important? Why is it
           | important? Somewhere down the line everything we do should
           | enable someone having fun. If not, then why bother?
        
             | visarga wrote:
             | > Why do we do things that we consider important?
             | 
             | Fundamentally, to survive. To self replicate. We're self
             | replicators.
        
           | visarga wrote:
           | > Do things that don't matter. Aside from the doors it can
           | unlock, it's just damn fun.
           | 
           | I found this discussion about open-endedness being very
           | illuminating about doing stuff that are just fun. A revolt
           | against objectives.
           | 
           | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lhYGXYeMq_E&t=2192s
        
           | agumonkey wrote:
           | I wonder how much is made by very simple emotions:
           | 
           | - playing - competition - noble obligations (helping someone
           | else)
           | 
           | I keep looking at adult life in dismay because what people
           | consider work would barely amount to 20 minutes of soccer
           | when we were kids. We used to run wild for hours, hurt
           | ourselves, attempt everything that could work and we kept
           | asking for more. Can we plug that back into daily adult jobs
           | ?
        
             | klondike_klive wrote:
             | We can get you another beanbag for the breakout area...
        
             | nicbou wrote:
             | I really wish there was a PE class for adult, where you
             | stretch, run around the track, then play some random sport
             | for about an hour. One day it's cops and robbers, another
             | it's grass hockey, and nobody knows in advance.
        
           | kirse wrote:
           | _Do things that don 't matter._
           | 
           | I've been thinking about this recently and realized that my
           | brain is capable of drawing an incorrect conclusion about the
           | "mattering-ness" of something based on limited data,
           | typically a feeling arising from personal values.
           | 
           | The thing is, everything we do _does_ matter, and it 's one
           | of the reasons why the Bible instructs us to "walk by faith,
           | not by sight". On the cosmic scale of things, we don't have
           | all the information to truly calculate whether something does
           | (or does not) matter. In that regard, choosing to live _as
           | if_ what we do always matters seems like the preferred and
           | life-giving approach.
        
           | saalweachter wrote:
           | You can't really make a learning system that doesn't play.
           | 
           | Physical play is how we train, develop and calibrate our
           | bodies; mental play does the same for our minds.
           | 
           | If we one day build AGI that doesn't skip and dance and draw
           | and make up silly stories for the fun of it, that will
           | surprise me a lot more than the other way around.
        
             | visarga wrote:
             | > If we one day build AGI that doesn't skip and dance and
             | draw and make up silly stories for the fun of it, that will
             | surprise me a lot more than the other way around.
             | 
             | I agree, it would be sad if AI wasn't able to play with
             | human culture. Culture is crystallized intelligence.
        
             | bserge wrote:
             | It wouldn't need to skip and dance, though. Mental play is
             | just randomly trying to piece together different
             | information and see the results (physical play is simpler,
             | a subset of mental play, basically continuous calibration).
             | 
             | It's like having 12 puzzle sets and just taking pieces from
             | each, trying to fit them with others and seeing the
             | results. Sometimes something interesting shows up.
             | 
             | Our brains do it constantly, all the time, 24/7. Most often
             | the results are garbage and discarded, but sometimes
             | something interesting/useful comes out, so it's tagged as
             | such and stored for further processing.
             | 
             | The data used for such play is _everything_ we have stored
             | in memory, recalled either randomly or, more often, based
             | on current circumstances /needs/wants.
             | 
             | An AGI would only play with what it has. And what it has
             | available would be up to the creators.
             | 
             | If it's built to imitate a human, it will have to be loaded
             | with the same data as a human. And I mean _all_ of it,
             | everything from birth to current age or death (that varies
             | a lot by individual, by the way).
             | 
             | Basically, you'd have to recreate a whole human life's
             | experience for this hypothetical AGI. Otherwise it won't be
             | even close to a human.
             | 
             | But such an advanced AI would most likely be built for
             | specific purposes, which would save a lot of resources. It
             | can play all it wants with that limited data, improve it
             | and create new stuff. But it won't be able to do things
             | like applying information from bird flight to car building,
             | because it will simply not have that data.
             | 
             | Just my musings.
        
         | mmcnl wrote:
         | Not everybody is Feynman ofcourse. You have to accept the risk
         | that giving freedom for creativity won't end up with anything
         | useful.
        
           | mikro2nd wrote:
           | But you'll still end up having fun. So a win, whatever the
           | "outcome". (If such a thing matters then you're probably not
           | at play.)
        
           | jmfldn wrote:
           | True. I think most people can benefit from a bit of this at
           | least. Ie. Speaking of software engineering, at work our 10%
           | time is for us to do as we please. A lot of good things come
           | from that. Maybe 50% time would be too much for most though.
           | Google's 20% is probably the maximum I'd opt for if I were a
           | CEO.
        
             | mmcnl wrote:
             | For me setting 10% aside as "do as you please" feels like a
             | restriction on creativity as well. It's hard to "plan"
             | creativity. I think culture and trust is much more
             | important than setting a number.
        
               | jmfldn wrote:
               | I agree about culture and trust, both crucial in this
               | regard. I think something like 10% time can play a part
               | too, it at least gives people the feeling they can do
               | what they want for a fixed period of time.
        
         | oytis wrote:
         | Well, apart from being playful you also need to be a person who
         | can figure out the equation for water funnel effortlessly as a
         | high school kid. The rest of us can benefit from forcing
         | oneself to intellectual effort
        
           | Kinrany wrote:
           | > When I was in high school, I'd see water running out of a
           | faucet growing narrower, and wonder if I could figure out
           | what determines that curve. I found it was rather easy to do.
           | 
           | Wait, is this caused merely by the water being accelerated by
           | gravity?
           | 
           | I bet most people would be able to figure out the equations
           | for that if they got interested.
           | 
           | Edit: there's a separate thread
           | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=26931645
        
           | jmfldn wrote:
           | To win a nobel prize yes, but anyone can benefit from the
           | general attitude in many domains of life.
        
           | Stevvo wrote:
           | You also need tenure, more than anything else.
        
             | jmfldn wrote:
             | "You also need tenure, more than anything else."
             | 
             | Sadly yes. An argument that the current uni system should
             | be changed to make this not so.
        
               | Broken_Hippo wrote:
               | That just can't happen, though. Part of tenure is having
               | experience and being able to draw from that. It isn't
               | just job experience, either: Life experience counts and
               | can give your different ways to think outside of the box.
               | 
               | The best example I can give is art related: Documentaries
               | and other non-art learning puts a variety of concepts and
               | ideas in your brain, making it easier to think of
               | creative concepts for artwork.
               | 
               | The process takes time, though, more time than can be
               | reasonably stuffed into getting a degree.
        
               | ridaj wrote:
               | The uni system couldn't afford to give tenured professors
               | freedom to follow their fancy without the "underclass"
               | working hard to make it possible in the first place --
               | graduate students and untenured staff do the high-volume
               | work needed to make profits: churning out tens of
               | thousands of undergrads per year, paid for by fed-backed
               | loans, and definitely not all of them taught by Feynman-
               | type professors.
               | 
               | I don't know if that's true, that's just my model of how
               | American university works.
        
               | jmfldn wrote:
               | Sure. I just wonder if there is some sort of middle
               | ground? Does it have to be zero sum here between tenured
               | and non-tenured in this regard? I'm not sure what the
               | answer is but other setups are possible unless you
               | consider this one optimal (perhaps some do!).
        
       | bloopy123 wrote:
       | This is a good example of how you can escape from procrastination
       | too.
       | 
       | And I think also a reason why so many side projects go
       | unfinished.
       | 
       | It's also an interesting phenomenon i realized whereby when you
       | are working full time you long for time to work full time on a
       | clever idea you have. But when you have time to work on this idea
       | full time you don't want to do it. But then the feeling returns
       | when you again don't have time to work on it.
       | 
       | I realized that working on something for fun can help you segue
       | back into what you should be working on.
       | 
       | But it seems it only works as long as you don't have grand plans
       | for it becoming a business or a great industry-changing
       | discovery. You must maintain that it's only for fun. To see what
       | can be done.
       | 
       | I like the word "play" vs "work on".
        
         | Trex_Egg wrote:
         | >> It's also an interesting phenomenon i realized whereby when
         | you are working full time you long for time to work full time
         | on a clever idea you have. But when you have time to work on
         | this idea full time you don't want to do it. But then the
         | feeling returns when you again don't have time to work on it.
         | --I totally get this feel(of procrastination on things) in all
         | of my endeavors. I will try to work only for fun to get on with
         | it. Is there any element that might sustain fun for the very
         | end or any other secret sauce to it?
        
       | morelandjs wrote:
       | Just a shoutout to Greg Kilcup whose page this is posted on, and
       | who's another incredible physicist and fascinating personality.
        
       | juancn wrote:
       | I makes me think about how I approach really difficult problems.
       | I use a strategy that I call: "obsess and let go" that has worked
       | wonders for me.
       | 
       | Essentially it has two parts:
       | 
       | - obsession: look at the problem intently, poke it, prod it,
       | think about experiments, talk to other people until you're
       | completely blocked and making absolutely no progress.
       | 
       | - letting go: forget about it, go do something else, exercise,
       | take a vacation, paint, attack a different problem, go to a bar,
       | whatever makes you let go (truly let go).
       | 
       | Eventually, as if by magic, at some unknowable time later (could
       | be days or years), while doing something else the beginning of
       | solution pops into consciousness, like a thread that needs to be
       | pulled and as if by magic the whole problem untangles.
       | 
       | I have no clue why this works (I assume the subconscious part of
       | the brain never really lets go after a good obsessive phase), but
       | it does work more often than not.
       | 
       | The hard part is dealing with outside expectations.
        
         | robocat wrote:
         | Similar to "You have to keep a dozen of your favorite problems
         | constantly present in your mind, although by and large, they
         | will lay in a dormant state. Every time you hear read a new
         | trick or a new result, test it against each of your 12 problems
         | to see whether it helps. Every once in a while there will be a
         | hit and people will say "How did he do it. He must be a
         | genius." - Richard Feynman
        
       | noisy_boy wrote:
       | Most of the stuff I have learned well were a combination of them
       | fitting into the need for automation and sufficient time/lack of
       | pressure/deadlines. I personally find deadlines suffocating but
       | sadly that is how most things are.
        
       | paulpauper wrote:
       | This guy was so smart he could observe a physical phenomena and
       | then quickly derive the equation that underlies is. damn
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | debrice wrote:
       | You've got one and only life, do what you love. Life has a fun
       | way to reward the bolds
        
         | bradmcgo wrote:
         | Couldn't agree more. It can be scary at times, but at least
         | you'll feel intrinsically at ease.
        
       | tdhz77 wrote:
       | Not all passions, pursuits and energy return Nobel Prizes.
       | Something to be mindful of when reading too far into this. Still,
       | I learn things that are interesting to me and sometimes I get
       | lucky and people want to pay me and other times a new technology
       | comes out and I wasted a few good years. Since I'm making my
       | decisions on what to learn, it doesn't seem like wasted time, but
       | rather a shit ton of fun.
        
       | jacobmischka wrote:
       | I read (listened to, technically) this book a few weeks ago
       | because I've always been inspired by the idea of Feynman and
       | didn't know much about him. Honestly, I actually like him less
       | after having read it.
       | 
       | As I guess I should have expected, because its subtitle is
       | "Adventures of a Curious Character", it's unfortunately for me
       | filled with many more random personal anecdotes, often involving
       | naked women, prostitutes, gambling, or topless bars. There are
       | some rather more scientific and aspirational anecdotes like the
       | one linked here, and certainly it's beneficial to learn about a
       | man as a whole and not deify him as a scientific god. However I
       | cracked it open hoping to read about nothing but neat ideas he
       | had and what drove him, not read about some rather shameless
       | guy's strange happenings.
       | 
       | I guess I wouldn't say I recommend against reading it, but I
       | wouldn't get your hopes up before doing so like I did.
        
         | practicalpants wrote:
         | I don't think Feynman was that different in this masculine or
         | promiscuous respect from many of that era's greats...
         | Schrodinger, von Neumann, Einstein, to name a few.
         | 
         | Feynman at least writes extensively about his deceased wife.
         | 
         | I imagine you would not enjoy reading history too much as the
         | 21st C Western first world attitudes on these topics are pretty
         | unique compared to any other time.
        
           | jacobmischka wrote:
           | I do enjoy reading history, and I'm not even turned off by
           | knowing that he did and enjoyed those things. I just got
           | tired of listening about it for what seemed like about half
           | of the book when I was expecting a memoir of a Nobel prize
           | winning scientist.
        
             | baremetal wrote:
             | surely youre joking...
        
           | seoaeu wrote:
           | Those other scientists didn't coerce any of their female
           | graduate students to pose naked so they could practice for
           | their painting hobby.
        
           | paulpauper wrote:
           | Dirac was purpotedly very on-point
        
         | svat wrote:
         | One thing to remember about this book that is easy to miss is
         | that it's not a memoir or autobiography in the usual sense. You
         | may have seen this book, and its sequel, _What Do You Care What
         | Other People Think?_ , described as being "by Richard Feynman
         | and Ralph Leighton" or "edited by Ralph Leighton" or "as told
         | to Ralph Leighton". It turns out that it was not written as a
         | book, but his friend Ralph Leighton (son of the physicist
         | Robert B. Leighton) took several hours of (recorded)
         | conversations with Feynman talking to him, and selected parts
         | of them to go into the book.
         | 
         | So although the book is sold as "by Richard Feynman" (which is
         | true in some sense: it's in the first person, published when he
         | was still alive, and he really did say everything that's in the
         | book), it would be more accurate to call it a book by Ralph
         | Leighton, and an appropriate title may be "Things my friend
         | Richard Feynman told me about himself that I thought were fun".
         | (This also explains the subtitle "Adventures of a Curious
         | Character"--this is not Feynman calling himself that, but
         | Leighton describing his friend that way.)
         | 
         | Now consider that (1) Ralph Leighton was not a physicist but
         | Feynman's "close friend and drumming partner", and (2) Feynman
         | was a natural conversationalist, automatically adapting his
         | style depending on whom he was speaking to, whether it was a
         | friend, or undergraduate physics students, or he was talking
         | about computers to a New Age crowd at Esalen
         | (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EKWGGDXe5MA), and you have
         | this result. The friendly conversational style increases the
         | appeal of the book and gives some insight into the speaker, but
         | the technical detail of Feynman's core work, which was very
         | important to him, gets diluted.
         | 
         | (One of my professors disliked the book for giving the
         | impression that you get a Nobel Prize just living a life of
         | having fun and playing around, while in fact Feynman was known
         | to work very hard, at all hours of day and night. He liked to
         | re-derive by himself anything he learned till he was satisfied
         | he understood it, and that took prodigious amounts of pen-and-
         | paper calculation. This may partly be Feynman projecting an
         | aura of effortless brilliance, but I think it's more likely a
         | combination of the fact that hard work doesn't seem hard if you
         | enjoy it enough, and that going in detail about how hard you
         | worked does not make for very good conversation.)
         | 
         | It is true that many memoirs are written this same way
         | (dictating to someone else), but I think this book shows the
         | effects more than most: including the selection of topics, as
         | you observed.
         | 
         | (BTW the audio material that went into the books is available
         | too, as "The Feynman Tapes", and listening to it may give a
         | different impression than listening to an audiobook of someone
         | else reading the text of a book itself transcribed from audio:
         | https://kongar-olondar.bandcamp.com/ )
        
           | jacobmischka wrote:
           | That explains a lot, I did not know that. Thank you, that
           | changes my opinion a bit.
        
         | Borrible wrote:
         | Just read his lectures decades ago.
         | 
         | So, he was an overall great guy, you say?
         | 
         | And there is an audio book version of his illustrious
         | escapades?
         | 
         | Great, have to give it a try. Thank you!
        
           | jacobmischka wrote:
           | I might recommend actually reading it, the narration of the
           | Audible recording at least wasn't spectacular.
        
             | Borrible wrote:
             | Ah, a pity.
             | 
             | I love listen to audio books, but you're absolutely right,
             | the narrator is sometimes more important than the
             | narrative. Some gifted narrators probably could read out
             | operating instructions of kichen machines and it would be
             | entertaining.
             | 
             | Thanks for the advice.
        
         | otras wrote:
         | If you're looking for a deeper look beyond the anecdotes, I'd
         | recommend James Gleick's _Genius: The Life and Science of
         | Richard Feynman_. It covers much more of the ideas he had and
         | what drove him.
        
         | P0l83q4p1Hw3Ul wrote:
         | I like him more after reading it.
         | 
         | All the stories had neat ideas, demonstrated his personality
         | and showed what drove him. Of course it wasn't laid out
         | directly in a boring technical book that no one is going to
         | read.
         | 
         | Also, what's up with people ignoring the fine line between
         | crazy and genius, and thinking all these genius are supposed to
         | be completely normal people?
        
           | ip26 wrote:
           | I don't think people expect them to be _normal_. But we hold
           | these people up as our heroes. People aspire to be more like
           | their heroes. So it comes as a shock when they learn their
           | hero was a notorious philanderer, or terrible father, or
           | chronically depressed, or self-aggrandizing.
           | 
           | Personally, I'm unsettled by how often the kids of our heroes
           | seem to wind up unsuccessful, unhappy and poorly adjusted.
           | 
           | I've kind of lost interest in the unstable genius. I want to
           | learn about the also-rans who made quiet but notable
           | contributions while remaining happy & raising equally happy
           | kids.
        
         | hungryforcodes wrote:
         | You definitely inspired me to read it now. The clockwork of
         | Feynman's human and non geeky character is one of the most
         | interesting things about him.
        
           | 74d-fe6-2c6 wrote:
           | His relationship with women seems pretty immature and very
           | geeky to me.
        
             | daukadolt wrote:
             | Can you elaborate?
        
               | 74d-fe6-2c6 wrote:
               | Can you google "feynman quotes women"?
        
               | klohto wrote:
               | Why even state it then if you're not interested in
               | continuing the discussion?
        
               | 74d-fe6-2c6 wrote:
               | It's a bit too obvious to have potential for a discussion
               | ...
        
         | chris_j wrote:
         | What is it about those anecdotes that makes you like him less?
        
           | UncleMeat wrote:
           | Dude was smart, but definitely a sexist. He didn't believe
           | that women would be as capable of doing physics and engaged
           | in some really awful behaviors that were weird even at the
           | time (having meetings at a strip club? asking to paint
           | students in the nude? really?).
           | 
           | The lockpicking stuff in "Surely..." is a really fun chapter
           | but also makes it clear that Feynman does not actually care
           | that much about inconveniencing others. It was a fun
           | intellectual exercise but actually harmed other people, which
           | is pretty shitty behavior.
           | 
           | It is just a little hard to read a book when assholish
           | behavior just shows up with such frequency. Feynman was a
           | genius, a great storyteller, and a lot of the content in his
           | books is fabulous. But some of the material sours it.
        
             | pcthrowaway wrote:
             | > He didn't believe that women would be as capable of doing
             | physics
             | 
             | Interesting, from having read about his sister[1] I really
             | got the impression that this limiting belief was something
             | he bucked heavily, despite having been explicitly taught
             | women were incapable of science by their mother and
             | grandmother:
             | 
             | > Joan was an inquisitive child, and she exhibited an
             | interest in understanding the natural world from an early
             | age. However, her mother and grandmother both dissuaded her
             | from pursuing science, since they believed that women's
             | brains were not physically capable of understanding complex
             | scientific concepts in the way that men's brains could.
             | Despite this, her brother Richard always encouraged her to
             | be curious about the universe. It was he who originally
             | introduced young Joan to auroras when, one night, he coaxed
             | her out of bed to witness the northern lights flickering
             | above an empty golf course near their home
             | 
             | [1]https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joan_Feynman
        
           | pfortuny wrote:
           | I guess you do not go to a topless bar to pay respect to and
           | trean women with equality and respect.
        
           | jacobmischka wrote:
           | I don't know, I don't disapprove of any of those things
           | morally or anything, but it just got old eventually. As an
           | example, somewhere in the later parts of the book he talks
           | about a period where he starts painting, and very shortly
           | afterward he starts trying to convince women to let him paint
           | them nude, including a student at the institution where he
           | was a professor.
           | 
           | Again, I don't think there's anything wrong with nudity, or
           | anything inherently sexual about nudity in art, or even
           | anything morally wrong with the desire to see naked women.
           | But by that point after some of his other stories I started
           | to see him as a somewhat creepy dude and it just came off to
           | me like, oh of course, shortly after taking up this
           | interesting art form you'd go straight to using it as a
           | reason to see naked women, typical Feynman.
           | 
           | I don't think there's necessarily anything wrong with
           | anything he did in any of his stories, all of the parties
           | were consenting in them all, it just left an unpleasant taste
           | in my mouth.
        
             | chris_j wrote:
             | Thanks for expanding. I had forgotten about the painting
             | anecdote.
             | 
             | As others have pointed out, a lot men in that era seemed
             | similar in a way. I'd been assuming that going through all
             | the changes that happened in the 60s as a middle aged man
             | must have had a certain effect on them. Seeing expressions
             | of sexuality go from being something very private,
             | something to be ashamed of, to being something that the
             | younger generation is much more open about.
             | 
             | For example, I remember reading Asimov when I was a kid.
             | His earlier books were all very buttoned up, with highly
             | intellectual and in depth discussions of galactic politics
             | or robots. Then his later books are full of sex. I gather
             | that Asimov in his later years gained a reputation for
             | being somewhat creepy too.
        
         | mncharity wrote:
         | IIRC Feynman both had a reputation for putting a lot of effort
         | into crafting a persona, and later said he had been less than
         | honest in the sexist stories. So perhaps they reflect a
         | somewhat different mix of sins.
        
         | nicbou wrote:
         | Although I didn't approve of some of the things he did, his
         | book ( _Surely You 're Joking, Mr. Feynman!_) made me want to
         | branch out more, to approach the world with renewed curiosity.
         | His book is a good reminder that there is more to life than
         | your resume.
         | 
         | I often find myself taking random detours like he did with the
         | ants or the bongos.
        
           | fctorial wrote:
           | His ant experiments blew my mind. The only experiment I did
           | with ants was rubbing my finger on their trail and then
           | watching them wander around blindly for a minute or so.
        
         | Yajirobe wrote:
         | lmao. nerd
        
         | StavrosK wrote:
         | There is some pretty bad sexism in the book (because that era
         | was sexist, I guess), but I think your comment goes too far the
         | other way and treats sex as taboo. What's wrong with naked
         | women, prostitutes, gambling and topless bars?
        
           | jacobmischka wrote:
           | Please see my other comment; I don't think there's anything
           | wrong with them necessarily, I just didn't particularly enjoy
           | reading about them and his behavior just seemed sleezy a lot
           | of the time.
        
             | StavrosK wrote:
             | That's fair.
        
         | kstenerud wrote:
         | Or, just approach it with an open mind, as a window into small
         | parts of a man's journey.
         | 
         | The more you judge people, the less you'll enjoy the twists and
         | turns of a human life.
        
           | jacobmischka wrote:
           | That's a better way of phrasing what I intended in my last
           | sentence, go into it with an open mind. I was expecting
           | differently, so I didn't enjoy it as much as I would have had
           | I known ahead of time that it would be largely tangential to
           | his scientific life.
        
       | Dumblydorr wrote:
       | I love those moments when you're warming up, getting into the
       | work, you may hit that first snag or obstacle, but you
       | reflexively enter play mode.
       | 
       | Now you're practicing creatively, now you're finding out new
       | features of your tools and packages and data. You're hacking in a
       | new script, you're trying new ideas. You find the answer,bring it
       | back in, integrate it. You click run, and it just works!! Yess!!
        
       | hprotagonist wrote:
       | _If you pay a man a salary for doing research, he and you will
       | want to have something to point to at the end of the year to show
       | that the money has not been wasted.
       | 
       | In promising work of the highest class, however, results do not
       | come in this regular fashion, in fact years may pass without any
       | tangible result being obtained, and the position of the paid
       | worker would be very embarrassing and he would naturally take to
       | work on a lower, or at any rate a different plane where he could
       | be sure of getting year by year tangible results which would
       | justify his salary.
       | 
       | The position is this: You want one kind of research, but, if you
       | pay a man to do it, it will drive him to research of a different
       | kind. The only thing to do is to pay him for doing something else
       | and give him enough leisure to do research for the love of it._
       | 
       | -- Attributed to J. J. Thompson by Lord Rayleigh, c. 1940
        
       | dqpb wrote:
       | I think this roughly boils down to information theory and the
       | exploration / exploitation tradeoff. Play is fun because it's
       | information-rich. It's personally rewarding because exploration
       | opens new doors.
       | 
       | Exploitation is boring because it mostly discovers nothing new.
       | It's information-poor, and its reward is mostly fixed, and
       | doesn't open any new doors.
        
       | cannabis_sam wrote:
       | You get a couple of lines in, and it's painfully familiar, since
       | it's sadly so incredibly similar to my waning love of
       | programming...
       | 
       | It's wildly destructive for society to have these completely
       | devoid of ethics, fascist-style assholes with capital/power, that
       | can dictate what what more useful people than can spend their
       | time thinking about, yet no-one even thinks it's a problem.
       | 
       | Although to be fair it's just a sub-problem of how humanity has
       | forced itself into self-destructive patterns, by ignoring reality
       | and following fanatical ideologies about "unrestricted
       | capitalism" and "the free market" as if that is some sort of
       | divine power...
       | 
       | Imagine spending your short life developing ads for Google or
       | Facebook. It would have been objective better for all of humanity
       | if all these naive assholes people had become alcoholic bums
       | living on the street... that would at least have curbed their
       | ability to fuck with the rest of humanity.
        
         | iamgopal wrote:
         | So the solution is ... ?
        
           | cannabis_sam wrote:
           | Primarily to redistribute capital from clueless geriatrics
           | that can't separate Ivanhoe from an iPhone...
           | 
           | The bigger problem is of course how we as a society
           | legitimizes destroying young people's future, just to fund
           | exorbitant pensions for clueless old people who still think
           | 1968 was a "leftist" moment, instead of actually being the
           | starting point of the fanatically far-right fantasy world we
           | live in today. (The next step is of course to dismantle this
           | fantasy world)
           | 
           | (Edit: tldr: let's stop letting pension funds kill children,
           | okay..?)
        
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       | kjrose wrote:
       | I love reading this when I was in university. I remember thinking
       | to myself, may I be burned out enough one day that I can play
       | with Mathematics and not have to worry about how to pay rent or
       | support my family.
        
       | LordHumungous wrote:
       | A while back I realized that I don't care about my career
       | anymore: Promotions, politics, etc. I'm just going to work on
       | what I enjoy. So far I'm a lot happier this way.
        
         | tryauuum wrote:
         | So what do you do for a living nowadays?
        
       | bvsrinivasan wrote:
       | The meta-principle is that in complex domains there is no
       | straight line, well worn, "plannable" path to greatness.
       | 
       | Kenneth Stanley calls it "The Myth of the objective" and has
       | spent the last several years trying to formalize this idea
       | (within AI as well) and get it more traction.
       | 
       | Book -- https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/25670869-why-
       | greatness-c...
       | 
       | Talk -- https://youtu.be/dXQPL9GooyI
        
         | bvsrinivasan wrote:
         | In all probability, Youtube's algorithm will already suggest
         | this to anyone who watches the talk, but there is a (very)
         | long, ML Street Talk interview on this idea here
         | https://youtu.be/lhYGXYeMq_E
         | 
         | Stanley addresses some strong and subtle criticisms here but I
         | actually preferred the book the most. The book is a bit
         | repetitive but has some very good ideas in the appendix.
        
         | humanistbot wrote:
         | Reminds me of Suchman's "Plans and Situated Actions" --- an
         | anthropological study of plans and planning, which also has a
         | lot of implications for AI. Resonances to that famous
         | Eisenhower quote "Plans are nothing, planning is everything"
         | 
         | https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/342380.Plans_and_Situate...
        
         | ddoubleU wrote:
         | Woah, thanks for sharing this. I can see a connection with the
         | way Feyman stopped trying to go for his objective yet he still
         | achieved it
        
         | paulz_ wrote:
         | Just finished the talk. Plan on reading the book. This is one
         | of the most interesting concepts I've come across in recent
         | memory. Really appreciate you sharing.
        
         | slx26 wrote:
         | Very interesting talk, thanks for sharing, it really adds some
         | weight to the intuitive idea showcased in Feynman's note.
        
       | hungryforcodes wrote:
       | A couple of comments here focus on the ability to play -- which
       | is important -- and on blue sky thinking, etc. All very
       | important, true!
       | 
       | But what really strikes me is how this situation Feynman was in
       | is a perfect example of Deep Work. He could expore whatever his
       | mind needed to explore, and do it for as long and in whatever way
       | he needed.
       | 
       | I'm pretty sure this is an often overlooked success factor for
       | his Nobel win.
        
         | thisismyswamp wrote:
         | Why try to fit this story into some arbitrary modern concept
         | that was invented in order to sell books?
        
         | jmfldn wrote:
         | Very true. I guess in my original comment I meant to imply this
         | in talking about blue sky thinking and following through on it.
         | For me this is work which is original, out of leftfield,
         | probably intrinsically motivated and which you have the time to
         | follow through on deeply for a sustained period of time.
         | 
         | I definitely agree on this being a factor in his, and likely
         | several other, Nobel wins
        
       | alskdj21 wrote:
       | Intrinsic motivation does lead you to better places. Programming
       | was such a breeze before, I enjoyed it. But now, as I start to
       | build a portfolio, anxiety creeps up. "Should it be like this or
       | this? Man, this doesn't feel right." I admit my way of thinking
       | is flawed, which I'm also working on. But it really is different
       | when your goal is to enjoy the process than to please prospective
       | employers.
        
         | baremetal wrote:
         | Just chunk it out. Review and reflect. And then iterate.
         | Doesn't have to be perfect the first time.
        
       | mrobot wrote:
       | I found an article which points out some negative things
       | Feynman's did that i was not aware of. It is an interesting take
       | by a woman who was essentially driven away from her natural
       | direction in science by bad behavior of men in academia, and i
       | sympathize with it. I really liked the original article posted
       | here, though, and respect the way Feynman looked at the world.
       | 
       | https://caltechletters.org/viewpoints/feynman-harassment-sci...
        
       | decasteve wrote:
       | > And before I knew it (it was a very short time) I was
       | ``playing'' - working, really - with the same old problem that I
       | loved so much, that I had stopped working on when I went to Los
       | Alamos: my thesis-type problems; all those old-fashioned,
       | wonderful things.
       | 
       | Given the circumstances of the time, post-war, and his
       | circumstances, the loss of his wife and stress of the Manhattan
       | project, I might argue a guess that he was grieving.
       | 
       | So it's not just that he found playfulness with physics, it's
       | that he was ready to find it.
       | 
       | What I'm trying to say is don't force it if you're grieving or
       | suffering from some traumatic event. Feynman could play with
       | physics again because he was ready to do so.
        
       | ibic wrote:
       | The last sentence "There was no importance to what I was doing,
       | but ultimately there was. The diagrams and the whole business
       | that I got the Nobel Prize for came from that piddling around
       | with the wobbling plate." reminds me of Steve Jobs' speech at
       | Stanford - "Of course it was impossible to connect the dots
       | looking forward when I was in college. But it was very, very
       | clear looking backward 10 years later."
        
       | egberts1 wrote:
       | Applying a real world observation toward something not related is
       | called cross-domain technological transfer.
       | 
       | I did the same with fishing at a lazy brook in 1983.
       | 
       | I observed how the river get all bendy shape of the letter "S",
       | how the banks are shallow on inside curves, recalled a geostat
       | photos over decades and finally noticed how these increasingly
       | curvy S finally touch the other curve to a point of making a new
       | waterway path, leaving behind a stagnant bend to dry up.
       | 
       | Network modeling, and the many architectural variants of TCP
       | flows came soon afterward, notably delay-tolerant TCP variant
       | called Space Communication Protocol Specification (SCPS).
       | 
       | TCP-SACK was instrumental precursor toward its delay-tolerant
       | design.
        
         | bserge wrote:
         | It's an amazing ability humans (and maybe other animals?) have.
        
       | bradrn wrote:
       | > When I was in high school, I'd see water running out of a
       | faucet growing narrower, and wonder if I could figure out what
       | determines that curve. I found it was rather easy to do.
       | 
       | Out of curiosity, does anyone know the solution to this problem?
       | I wouldn't even know how to approach it. (I'm an undergraduate
       | physics major; I know nothing about fluid dynamics, but from
       | Feynmann's description I suspect that isn't necessary...)
        
         | EVa5I7bHFq9mnYK wrote:
         | I think it's a power of -1/4: velocity of a falling object is
         | proportional to square root of height, and the stream diameter
         | is inverse proportional to square root of velocity.
        
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         | jackdawed wrote:
         | I imagined it has to do with how the water coming out of a
         | faucet is affected by gravity, and gains velocity. If you
         | imagine two cross section slices, one near the faucet, and the
         | other near the sink, the bottom slice is going faster than the
         | top due to gravity. Another insight is that the amount of water
         | (flow rate) passing through these slices remain constant. To
         | keep the flow rate the same, it has to be narrower. If you let
         | the water fall far enough, it would hit terminal velocity and
         | it would not narrower any further. I looked it up and found it
         | was called the continuity equation.
        
           | benrbray wrote:
           | I like this way of looking at the problem, I wouldn't have
           | thought of this! I think this relies implicitly, too, on
           | incompressibility of the fluid, no? As well as surface
           | tension? Otherwise, we might imagine the fluid having less
           | density at the bottom, while occupying a circular cross-
           | section of the same area.
        
             | leephillips wrote:
             | It does rely on incompressibility, but, to this order, does
             | not include surface tension.
             | 
             | The water faucet puzzle that interested me as a student was
             | after the water had reached the sink and begun to spread
             | out radially from the stream. Have you noticed that there
             | is a circular boundary where the layer of water suddenly
             | changes depth?
        
               | brilee wrote:
               | google "hydraulic jump"
               | 
               | Separately, when you model surface tension, you get an
               | equation for when a stream breaks up into droplets - http
               | s://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Plateau%E2%80%93Rayleigh_insta.
               | ..
        
               | Lichtso wrote:
               | You mean the hydraulic termination shock?
               | 
               | Something like this: http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-ryzFfMYaEV
               | 4/TZist3z0dxI/AAAAAAAAAE...
        
               | leephillips wrote:
               | Yup.
               | 
               | It turns out to be more complicated than one (or than I)
               | would think at first.
        
               | bradrn wrote:
               | > Have you noticed that there is a circular boundary
               | where the layer of water suddenly changes depth?
               | 
               | I stumbled upon an explanation for this a while ago:
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hydraulic_jump
        
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           | marcosdumay wrote:
           | > If you let the water fall far enough, it would hit terminal
           | velocity
           | 
           | Does it ever hit terminal velocity? There is no air in front
           | of it, just more fast falling water.
           | 
           | It's well known that water gains velocity until it vaporizes.
           | I assume it vaporizes because some small flow turbulence gets
           | strong enough to atomize it once it reaches enough speed.
        
             | mikewarot wrote:
             | The water will break apart into raindrops which fall at
             | terminal velocity. Depending on relative humidity, they
             | evaporate as they go, making them cool and get smaller,
             | which lowers the weight/surface area ratio, and they get
             | slightly slower.
        
               | robocat wrote:
               | Surely it depends on the diameter of the water column.
               | For diameters much less than a rain drop, surface tension
               | will dominate, and perhaps no column is produced (unless
               | initially at high velocity, like water cutting?). For
               | larger diameters air pressure will keep the column in
               | shape at initiation. For very large diameters I am fairly
               | sure the column would very easily exceed the terminal
               | velocity of a rain drop. That would be a fun experiment
               | to do from the top of a tall building!
               | 
               | Most of our intuition is with columns that have turbulent
               | flow and standing waves (e.g. taps), which affect how
               | quickly the column disperses.
               | 
               | A non-turbulent column of water acts very differently,
               | see https://google.com/search?q=laminar+water+jet
        
         | MaxBarraclough wrote:
         | _Bernoulli 's principle_ seems relevant here, I'm surprised no
         | one has mentioned it.
         | 
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bernoulli%27s_principle#Incomp...
        
         | Anon84 wrote:
         | It's not. It's just conservation of volume. Imagine a thing
         | disk of water just as it comes out of the faucet (pi r^2 v*dt)
         | as it falls, the speed increases so the same volume of what is
         | now thinner and longer (r decreases to account for the increase
         | in v).
        
           | fastasucan wrote:
           | *volumetric flow
        
           | robochat wrote:
           | I think that you mean pi.r*2.v.dt ?
        
             | robochat wrote:
             | pi.r2.v.dt
        
             | Anon84 wrote:
             | Yes, thank you for noticing it :)
        
         | phonon wrote:
         | The water is accelerating downward due to gravity...but the
         | amount/s flowing out of the faucet is equal to the amount/s any
         | distance below it...so the stream has to get thinner as it gets
         | "faster".
        
         | knolan wrote:
         | Surface tension plays a role. Water wants to reduce its surface
         | area because forces between molecules at the surface pull them
         | together. So a droplet of water will want to form a sphere.
         | 
         | A column of water will first form into a cylinder and then
         | break up into spherical droplets. It's called the Plateau-
         | Rayleigh instability.
         | 
         | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Plateau-Rayleigh_instability
        
           | eigenket wrote:
           | The only role surface tension plays in the Feynman problem is
           | to ensure that the cross section of the stream is a circle.
           | The rest you can work out based on classical mechanics and
           | the fact that the amount of water is conserved.
           | 
           | You actually get exactly the same "thinning" behavior if
           | somehow the stream is square shaped or anything else in
           | cross-section.
        
             | robocat wrote:
             | Air pressure probably dominates over surface tension.
             | 
             | Imagine a water column large enough that surface tension is
             | very weak, say a tap with an outlet 1 metre in diameter.
             | 
             | At the exit of the tap the pressure of the water is at air
             | pressure ( = 1 bar: any less and the water would be pushed
             | back into the tap).
             | 
             | As the column speeds up, the pressure inside the column
             | "wants" to decrease, however the air pressure outside
             | forces the column to be narrower to maintain 1 bar of
             | pressure.
             | 
             | Also the forces within the column depend on the hydrogen
             | bonds between the water molecules, which will "pull" the
             | column together. Effects at the actual surface will have
             | little overall influence (the term surface tension seems
             | misleading to me).
             | 
             | Disclaimer: I have only done undergrad physics, and
             | although I do try to think things through, I am regularly
             | surprised at how wrong I am about basic physics!
        
               | knolan wrote:
               | > Also the forces within the column depend on the
               | hydrogen bonds between the water molecules, which will
               | "pull" the column together. Effects at the actual surface
               | will have little overall influence (the term surface
               | tension seems misleading to me).
               | 
               | Water is a polar molecule with positive and negative
               | charges corresponding to the hydrogen and oxygen atoms.
               | This makes it a very 'sticky' molecule and so water
               | coalesces into droplets and reaches an equilibrium
               | internally. It's the forces between molecules at the
               | surface that are not at equilibrium, they experience a
               | net attraction which causes the pressure in the droplet
               | to increase -- the Laplace pressure. The smaller the
               | droplet the higher the Laplace pressure, lots of
               | interesting stuff to read about there for you.
               | 
               | Now, consider the water tap, a very small flow rate of
               | water will form a droplet which increases in size held in
               | place by adhesion to the metal of the tap. Surface
               | tension and the wet ability of the metal determines the
               | shape of the droplet until it's weight due to gravity
               | overcomes the surface tension forces and it falls. The
               | ambient pressure has no effect, the pressure of the water
               | supply and the air are pretty much balanced, the pressure
               | in the droplet is slightly higher due to the surface
               | tension.
               | 
               | Increase the flow rate a bit and you will get a thin
               | laminar column of water. Here the thinning effect due to
               | acceleration is observed. However, the column quickly
               | breaks up as per the Plateau-Rayleigh instability; the
               | water is pulled into a chain of droplets. The air
               | pressure is invariant so you can continue to ignore it.
               | You can even work in a vacuum.
               | 
               | Increase the flow rate and the diameter increases due to
               | the greater supply pressure needed to drive the flow. The
               | supply can have zero velocity but higher pressure. Now
               | you get a longer stream of laminar flow before the
               | breakup occurs.
               | 
               | Increase the flow rate further and you start to see
               | turbulent flow.
        
               | robocat wrote:
               | Thanks.
               | 
               | "For the water droplets of 1 micron and 4 mm, the
               | capillary pressures are of the order of 10e5 Pa and 102
               | Pa, respectively (s=0.072 N/m for water)."[[?]]
               | 
               | Atmospheric pressure is approximately 10e5 Pa at ground
               | level. Capillary pressure is another name for Laplace
               | pressure from a quick Google.
               | 
               | So as your water column increases diameter, air pressure
               | matters more and.
               | 
               | For my example of 1m diameter, I would expect Laplace
               | pressure and surface tension to be negligible. And the
               | rayleigh instability will still occur at a small column
               | diameter, when the fluid is going very fast.
               | 
               | I guess there are two thought experiments:
               | 
               | 1. what happens when you use a liquid with an extremely
               | low surface tension in air? (Or maybe even a column of
               | heavy gas like uranium hexafluoride thick enough that
               | diffusion doesn't dominate?).
               | 
               | 2. How could you model a system to avoid the dynamic
               | effects of air circulation (donut flow as occurs with a
               | helicopter) and the dynamic effects of having water laden
               | air where the column starts to break up. Does a thick
               | downwards jet of water at speed (over the terminal
               | velocity of rain) still show narrowing? Or do other
               | surface interface effects cause problems? What happens to
               | a thick downwards jet that is over the speed of sound?
               | 
               | Edit: what I was trying to point out was that "surface
               | tension" is misleading, and that air friction and gravity
               | are not the only other major forces acting on a stream of
               | water from a tap.
               | 
               | [[?]] https://towardsdatascience.com/the-shape-of-a-
               | water-droplet-...
        
           | hyperman1 wrote:
           | I love HN. Start with feynman fooling around, and end with
           | wikipedia explaining how close a man has to stand from a wall
           | to minimize splashback while urinating.
           | 
           | (15cm, to spare you the lookup)
        
             | filoeleven wrote:
             | Along the same lines, the "chain" shape of a urine stream
             | explained: https://youtu.be/eOuai2p3qgw
             | 
             | It's a property of the shape of the orifice and surface
             | tension.
        
       | Zelphyr wrote:
       | I've been thinking about this a lot since I first heard this
       | story about Feynman. I've been in this industry now for 25 years
       | and there have been three times when I wanted to quit. During the
       | first two, in the back of my mind I still knew I wasn't going to
       | and shouldn't. I'm working in an industry doing what I wanted to
       | do since I was ten years old.
       | 
       | The third came this time last year. I had lost a parent (not to
       | due to COVID), my business had failed (also not due to COVID),
       | and then COVID hit so my prospects seemed low for employment. I
       | found a contract with someone who turned out to be easily one of
       | the most unethical people I had ever worked with.
       | 
       | Little of this had to do with technology but, compounded, I found
       | myself in such a deep state of burnout that the thought of
       | picking up my computer made me sick. I genuinely didn't want to
       | work in technology anymore once that contract had ended. I was
       | trying to decide whether I wanted to go back to school for
       | something else or try to get on at Costco. The problem with going
       | back to school is, I couldn't really pinpoint anything I wanted
       | to study so I had all but made my mind up that when things opened
       | back up I was going to put my application in at Costco. Hard work
       | for lower pay but I have more respect for Costco than I do for a
       | lot of companies in my industry. At least Costco solves a real
       | problem and is beloved by their customers. They're not pretending
       | to be innocent to fomenting sedition while making a buck off of
       | abusing peoples privacy.
       | 
       | Fast-forward to around December and I had found employment back
       | in tech. This company provides a quality service that directly
       | benefits real people. I had quite earnestly tried to avoid it,
       | though. It will go down as the oddest interview I've ever had
       | because I was basically trying to talk them out of hiring me but
       | to their great credit, they did anyway. Due to the nature of the
       | job, I have a lot of leeway in deciding how to solve problems
       | since I'm responsible for all of the code. I needed a simple log
       | server for the various scripts that were running. I looked at all
       | the Open Source options and found they offered way more than I
       | needed so I decided to write my own. Almost all of the code I
       | work with is PHP so I started writing it in that.
       | 
       | One Friday night after work I thought, "Hm, I wonder how hard it
       | would be to port this to Clojure?" I had a little experience with
       | Clojure from a contract I worked on a year prior while trying to
       | bring some much needed cash into my business at the time. I could
       | see the power and beauty in it but, still, coming from languages
       | that descended from C, the syntax was foreign enough that it was
       | tough going at first. I suspect that contract ended because they
       | didn't think I was picking it up fast enough for their needs. I
       | don't blame them.
       | 
       | Anyway, I found that I had actually picked up enough Clojure
       | during that contract that my fingers started flying across the
       | keyboard porting my log server. It was... so - much - fun! I was
       | playing with programming again! I was exploring and learning and,
       | importantly, being productive and solving a real problem.
       | 
       | Now, let's not kid ourselves, this log server isn't some sexy
       | blockchain-containerized-whatever. It isn't a product that is
       | ever going to be sold for millions of dollars. It isn't going to
       | change the world or disrupt any industries. It is very simple and
       | pretty much only helps me and one other person at the company.
       | You know what? That's really great to me.
       | 
       | I've learned a lot over the years about burnout but they were
       | really reinforced in a big way last year. It's important to step
       | away from the computer and you need to do so frequently. We get
       | weekends and vacations for a reason. Use them! Get outside when
       | you can. Get some exercise in whatever ways you enjoy most. Eat
       | good, healthy food with people you enjoy being around. (social
       | distancing notwithstanding) Have a hobby that is not related to
       | your job. I love technology and playing with it can be fun like a
       | hobby but the fact is that it's not because my livelihood depends
       | on it.
       | 
       | So far, 4-5 months later, that log server written in Clojure is
       | still cranking away dutifully. I get a little smile each day when
       | I check the latest logs to see if anything needs my attention.
        
       | jll29 wrote:
       | Interesting how Feynman can be inspiring people long after his
       | death.
       | 
       | He sounds as if he likes to talk about himself rather too much,
       | so I wouldn't be surprised if there was a fair amount of
       | exaggeration in his prose.
       | 
       | That said, if I made a list of dead people I'd like to spend a
       | day with if I could, he'd sure be on it (as an aside, who [else]
       | would you add to such a list?).
       | 
       | And he could be serious, too: despite being an outspoken atheist,
       | he deeply loved his wife to the extent that he wrote a letter to
       | her after she had passed away.
        
         | ibrahimsow1 wrote:
         | Viktor E Frankl
        
         | majewsky wrote:
         | > despite being an outspoken atheist, he deeply loved his wife
         | to the extent that he wrote a letter to her after she had
         | passed away.
         | 
         | I honestly don't see how the first part of the sentence factors
         | into the second part.
        
       | agumonkey wrote:
       | Shannon also had a peculiar way of working, very scattered, I
       | think he prioritized bursts of inspiration above everything.
        
       | deepzn wrote:
       | one in a quadrillion, but really he's in every one of us. We just
       | need to learn to let that inner child come out.
        
       | shoto_io wrote:
       | _> Physics disgusts me a little bit now, but I used to enjoy
       | doing physics. Why did I enjoy it? I used to play with it._
       | 
       | When I was at uni other grad students often referred to us
       | studying physics as "Spielkinder", play children. No one could
       | say to what end they really wanted to study physics for. Mostly
       | it was just fun understanding how things worked. It was a lot of
       | fun.
       | 
       | The downside of this was that when I was finished I really didn't
       | know a lot about the real world.
        
       | ArcMex wrote:
       | To an extent, this is my attitude towards programming. At the
       | very base, my motivation is genuine interest in the project and
       | tinkering with it. Even when I build useful apps, straying has
       | done more good than harm. By doing this for no reason at than fun
       | curiosity, I've broken builds... But more importantly learned how
       | to fix and document those scenarios.
        
       | 55555 wrote:
       | > I had nothing to do, so I start to figure out the motion of the
       | rotating plate. I discover that when the angle is very slight,
       | the medallion rotates twice as fast as the wobble rate - two to
       | one [Note: Feynman mis-remembers here---the factor of 2 is the
       | other way].
       | 
       | To me it's even more inspirational that Feynman misremembered
       | basic things about physics he understood better than almost
       | anyone. He achieved so much, and yet fundamentally was human and
       | imperfect. Any curious smart mind can achieve something great.
        
       | chris_j wrote:
       | This is one of my favourite anecdotes from that book. In recent
       | decades, we've learned how important intrinsic motivation is, and
       | this is a great example of it.
       | 
       | My father was a massive fan of Richard Feynman and also happened
       | to be extremely cynical about formal education. He believed that
       | if you wanted to learn something, you had to take the initiative
       | and learn it for yourself, rather than waiting for the education
       | system to suck the enthusiasm for the subject out of you. It was
       | only after Dad died that I picked up his copy of Surely You're
       | Joking Feynman and learned where he got a lot of his ideas from.
        
         | _ph_ wrote:
         | I think you need both. Formal education is great for "basic
         | skills". Most people won't invent calculus on their own. Most
         | of us learn reading and writing in a formal way. But equally,
         | formal education is only half of what is needed to be good in a
         | field of work. Then there comes the experimentation, the
         | practise. All the knowledge that can't really be taught by a
         | book. Sometimes a good teacher or mentor can help on that side,
         | but real excellence comes through your own tinkering.
         | 
         | The anecdote of Feynman shows this actually well. He gained a
         | lot of knowledge and inspiration for other problems solutions
         | by working out the motion of the plate. But he did so by using
         | the calculus and tools of theoretical mechanics. Those were
         | what enabled him to do the theoretical description which then
         | yielded the insights.
        
           | ip26 wrote:
           | In different terms, we've all heard _If I have seen far, it
           | is only because I stood on the shoulders of giants_.
           | 
           | Those who came before give you a leg up so you can work on
           | the next problem. There aren't enough years in a life to
           | develop particle physics by yourself, completely from
           | scratch.
        
           | Trex_Egg wrote:
           | Wise as Wisdom
        
           | chris_j wrote:
           | Wise words. I'm sure most of us would never have learned all
           | the of the basics of mathematics on our own. Though I do
           | remember Feynman claiming in the book that he'd come up with
           | certain trigonometric concepts on his own and then had to un-
           | learn the names that he'd created for them and learn to call
           | them sin, cos etc. That was pretty mind-blowing.
           | 
           | I suppose the question for me is: how do you find the right
           | balance between formal learning and the self-directed
           | learning, experimentation and practice?
        
             | Tyr42 wrote:
             | I think he was fed up with the notations, and made his own,
             | rather than coming up with trig from scratch.
        
       | zackbloom wrote:
       | I wish that in each generation we got to choose 100 people to
       | keep alive just a bit longer. Feynman would be on my list.
        
       | oceliker wrote:
       | This is very nice, but I'm more curious about why there is a
       | "repostindays=413" parameter in the URL :)
        
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