[HN Gopher] Tracking the WhatsApp habits of random smartphones
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       Tracking the WhatsApp habits of random smartphones
        
       Author : jorislacance
       Score  : 180 points
       Date   : 2021-04-21 13:06 UTC (9 hours ago)
        
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       | fighterpilot wrote:
       | I hate that you can't log out of Whatsapp temporarily. I have to
       | turn off my internet or my phone to take a break from it, or
       | uninstall and reinstall the app. A dark pattern that means I'm
       | always logged in even when I don't want to be.
        
         | spurgu wrote:
         | What do you mean by "logged in"? You're only shown as "Online"
         | when you have the app open. When you close it it turns to "Last
         | seen".
        
           | fighterpilot wrote:
           | I meant I sometimes wish to take a break from both
           | notifications as well as my counterpart seeing the message
           | got pushed into my client and thinking I'm ignoring them. If
           | there's unattended to messages I feel a social pressure to
           | respond quickly. I want Whatsapp to be more like an email
           | client which is far less intrusive into mental and emotional
           | space.
           | 
           | Now that I think more about it, I could do two things: (1)
           | disable notifications, (2) make it so I disable the blue
           | check and double check and appear offline. It'd effectively
           | simulate logging off.
        
             | SuchAnonMuchWow wrote:
             | Personally, I enable battery saving mode: it prevent any
             | app from using data in the background, so whatsapp won't
             | synchronize with its servers at all unless the app is open.
             | 
             | The drawback is that this behavior can not be enabled on a
             | per-app basis: either all app synchronize, or none. So I
             | don't have new emails either unless explicitly enabled, or
             | any other similar app. The only thing that still works and
             | notify without requiring the app to be open are text
             | messages and phone calls.
             | 
             | I consider that to be a feature, but other might not.
        
             | spurgu wrote:
             | Yeah I know very well what you mean! I do #1 (turn off
             | notifications in the app settings) every now and then when
             | I want to cut off a specific communication channel.
             | 
             | I'm unsure how you'd do #2 though? There's a permission for
             | background data, wonder if that would be enough? Let me
             | know if you test it!
             | 
             | I'm on Android btw.
        
               | Brainmulch wrote:
               | You can do this natively through whatsapp settings by
               | turning off Read receipts, and can control who sees your
               | "last seen" information as well
        
       | smashah wrote:
       | They should really allow people to disable this. I was surprised
       | when a user came to me saying this is possible even with full
       | privacy.
        
       | hudixt wrote:
       | I had done same thing around this in 2019. This doesn't stop at
       | this.
       | 
       | There were quite correlation that I was able to find with basic
       | setup
       | 
       | The results can be quite horrifying as you can predict plethora
       | of things.
       | 
       | - When is someone sleeping.
       | 
       | - When they're working,etc.
       | 
       | - If two person are talking to each other in closed group.
        
         | gsich wrote:
         | Did something similar in 2015, there was even an open-source
         | program to do it with graphical statistics:
         | 
         | https://maikel.pro/blog/en-whatsapp-privacy-options-are-illu...
        
           | jorislacance wrote:
           | Nice work !
        
             | [deleted]
        
             | gsich wrote:
             | Not mine if that was not clear.
        
         | kuu wrote:
         | Can you share that research? Seems interesting
        
         | [deleted]
        
       | perryizgr8 wrote:
       | > Yes, it's a picture. Trackers free
       | 
       | I love that picture of a tweet, instead of an embedded one that
       | takes 1 million years to load _after_ you have scrolled to it,
       | and not before.
        
       | computator wrote:
       | > _Privacy setting for Last Seen: Set by default to Everyone and
       | nobody configures it._
       | 
       | It surprised me that only 10% of his random (French) sample is
       | active daily (179/1751=10%). In my contacts, I do see people who
       | have accounts but haven't used it in weeks, but it's not the
       | norm. However, I see lots of people in my contacts who show no
       | info for Last Seen. Is he underestimating how often people
       | configure the privacy setting for Last Seen? Or perhaps there is
       | another factor that determines when Last Seen gets shown?
        
         | lxgr wrote:
         | At least in my group of friends (which is probably a very bad
         | sample), hiding "last seen" is very common.
         | 
         | I really dearly wish there was one for the online status as
         | well, and I'm glad to have spent my teenage years in a time
         | where SMS was the norm, where neither read receipts nor online
         | status was available. It made for a much more relaxed messaging
         | experience (which iMessage seems to be much better at
         | approximating).
        
         | CiTyBear wrote:
         | His script start from the bottom of 06 XX XX XX XX (french
         | mobile number) and increases. This is not the most efficient
         | way to have working/active numbers.
         | 
         | As he said, starting with 06 numbers are saturated by now and
         | we opened 07 XX... numbers. Thus, 07 numbers are more likely to
         | be fresher et more used by "younger" people. While first 06
         | could be more used by professional and "older" people
         | 
         | As I said in a previous comments, older generation do not use
         | WhatsApp very much as we had unlimited text message before
         | getting internet on our phones (before iPhone 1). Before Covid,
         | my parents did not use WhatsApp at all while texting daily.
         | They use it now to video call during curfew
        
           | jorislacance wrote:
           | good call about 07 numbers being more attributed to youngers.
           | I took the 06 range to maximize the chance to get
           | valid/active numbers.
        
         | gridder wrote:
         | Hiding last seen is useless as the online status cannot be
         | hidden. There are various apps that exploit this for money so
         | you can stalk anybody...
        
       | geek_at wrote:
       | I love these short write-ups of security issues of things the
       | company in charge does not think is a problem.
       | 
       | I remember that the facebook messenger was leaking the same kind
       | of data and facebook said it's not a bug and didn't change it.
        
         | sdevonoes wrote:
         | Why is this a "security" issue? People know that other people
         | can see their "last seen" date, but usually they don't care so
         | they left it. Hell, I leave it public as well. I couldn't care
         | less about this tiny details.
         | 
         | Now, if you tell me that by leaving public my "last seen" date,
         | people can get more data about me (e.g., with whom I talk to),
         | well then yes, I would call that a security issue.
        
           | hellcow wrote:
           | The most interesting part to me wasn't the technical details
           | but rather the MAU, WAU, DAU stats at the end from random
           | sample. Way fewer people than I would have expected use
           | WhatsApp on a weekly basis.
        
             | CiTyBear wrote:
             | This is in France, where text messages were free (unlimited
             | with your subscription) long ago before we had internet on
             | our smartphone. Thus people use text message a lot and did
             | use WhatsApp only to contact people outside from France
        
               | Jiejeing wrote:
               | Text messages were around EUR0.10 for most plans until
               | 2012 though (due to the unlawful collusion of telcos).
        
               | jorislacance wrote:
               | Not in France actually, we mainly use WhatsApp as a main
               | message app; nobody uses SMS nowadays
        
               | seszett wrote:
               | Well I do use SMS, as well as my friends and family in
               | France.
               | 
               | I use WhatsApp with Belgians (I live in Belgium) because
               | SMS's are not free for them, and also for sharing photos
               | because MMS is a mess.
        
               | jorislacance wrote:
               | true, my point is more about the tendency of using groups
               | of people to quickly share. Which SMS does not do
               | properly.
        
           | jorislacance wrote:
           | What was interesting in my writing is that a simple API
           | request quota could be preventing me from scraping this much.
        
             | edsouza wrote:
             | Not sure why you are webscraping, there is a Whatsapp
             | business API you can use to gather a lot more information.
             | 
             | Here is a github repo that implements it, including
             | generating text QR code.
             | 
             | https://github.com/Rhymen/go-whatsapp
        
           | bellyfullofbac wrote:
           | > if [...] people can get more data about me (e.g., with whom
           | I talk to) [...]
           | 
           | It's quite possible, at least among mutual friends. If you
           | have 2 people you know, who are also friends with each other,
           | who have high correlation of online times, then, it's a
           | signal that they could be talking with each other.
           | 
           | It's also amusing (insert a better verb...) that Facebook
           | probably knows who's dating who based on frequency of
           | messages on Messenger/WhatsApp/Instagram, location data
           | ("It's the 3rd Friday night that their phones are close to
           | each other in some venue"), and if they're on the same WiFi
           | (A few hours later: "Well, it's 1AM, and after an hour of
           | inactivity, James' phone is now connected to Jenny's WiFi,
           | they did have their third date earlier...")
        
             | Item_Boring wrote:
             | Reminds me of this talk: Spiegel Mining at the C3
             | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-YpwsdRKt8Q
        
       | 3dee wrote:
       | It's bad that this is happening, but from a developer standpoint
       | it is also very easy to overlook things like this because most
       | APIs are not aware of who the data is for.
       | 
       | When an API always returns the `last_seen` field regardless of
       | who is querying the data, it's very easy to make the mistake to
       | present the data to someone who should not see it.
       | 
       | That's also one of the reasons I think most CRUD APIs use bad
       | practice because they always return all data on a READ and may
       | always store all data on a CREATE or UPDATE.
       | 
       | But.. a company like Facebook should know better. It seems they
       | just don't care.
        
         | luckylion wrote:
         | > But.. a company like Facebook should know better. It seems
         | they just don't care.
         | 
         | I agree 100%. If it was a simple hobby project that somebody
         | had hacked together, I'd agree that it might be easily
         | overlooked. When you have thousands of people supposedly
         | working on making privacy a priority etc: not so much.
        
           | throw_away789 wrote:
           | I think its deliberately kept open. There are 100s of apps in
           | play store that can help in predicting if 2 people in your
           | contacts are in conversation.
           | 
           | People like keeping watch on others and Facebook is
           | exploiting that.
        
       | darkport wrote:
       | I've always wanted to do something similar at scale. Generate all
       | possible random mobile numbers 11^10, check if they have a
       | WhatsApp profile pic and run it through AWS' rekognition
       | celebrity model (https://docs.aws.amazon.com/rekognition/latest/d
       | g/celebritie...). You could identify the personal numbers for a
       | _lot_ of VIPs, politicians, etc.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | rk1987 wrote:
       | I really need "Permanently Archive Chat" feature in whatsapp.
       | There are some chats/groups that I never want to see any message
       | in but don't want to leave.
       | 
       | I believe whatsapp knows how useful this feature is but it will
       | lead to lower usage and they are not rolling out
        
         | kwonkicker wrote:
         | You can permanently mute a chat group
        
         | hansel_der wrote:
         | > There are some chats/groups that I never want to see any
         | message in but don't want to leave.
         | 
         | information age 2.0
        
       | outime wrote:
       | >Nobody uses Signal in France [from the 5000 sample]
       | 
       | If one would've come to HN and read the last few months worth of
       | posts you'd come to think that a lot of people from around the
       | world moved to Signal. But then again this is a reminder about
       | how little HN represents compared to the general population's
       | tech choices.
        
         | Grimm1 wrote:
         | My anecdata but, my friend in France does and has been forever.
         | That's how her and I keep in contact and video chat. Perhaps
         | their sample wasn't representative.
        
           | outime wrote:
           | I'd say a sample of 5000 random phone numbers is more
           | representative than individual comments from a community
           | obsessed (in a positive way) with privacy.
        
             | Grimm1 wrote:
             | That's not my argument. My friend isn't privacy obsessed
             | and not a part of this community.
        
         | 0xcafecafe wrote:
         | That signal move backfired for me. Before it was just whatsapp.
         | Now with some folks from my generation moving to signal and the
         | older folks from the parent's generation staying with whatsapp,
         | I have had to maintain presence across 2 chat applications.
        
           | dukeyukey wrote:
           | Right now I'm maintaining:
           | 
           | * Messenger for family and some friends * WhatsApp for group
           | chats and most of my friends * SMS for older family members *
           | Signal and Telegram for a select few privacy-conscious
           | friends
           | 
           | And at least one family member uses three of these, and it's
           | a toss-up which one he'll use at any given time.
        
           | Hallucinaut wrote:
           | What's the actual cost here? You have one app open or
           | another, no different to two distinct chatgroups in WhatsApp
           | except for some small extra CPU cost for changing app focus
           | if switching between them.
           | 
           | The only issue I've seen is when I want to add someone who's
           | only WhatsApp to a Signal chat, which has happened maybe
           | twice until they also joined.
           | 
           | Personally I feel good about taking even a small amount of
           | Comms out of Zuckerberg's clutches
        
         | GiveOver wrote:
         | Compared to how many of those numbers have Whatsapp (1750),
         | it's more popular than I'd have guessed. 1 Signal user for
         | every 18 Whatsapp users
        
       | toomanybeersies wrote:
       | Any app that gives my peers even an inkling of what I'm doing
       | without me explicitly sending that information gives me the
       | heebie jeebies.
       | 
       | I've gone back to using SMS for messaging these days. No more
       | read receipts, no more "last active 10 minutes ago", no more
       | "Alice is nearby!", and no more "you haven't messaged Bob in a
       | while, send a message?".
       | 
       | Sure SMS is insecure, but at least it doesn't drive me insane
       | with all the bullshit of so many messaging apps.
        
         | foo92691 wrote:
         | Bad news about "plain SMS" -
         | 
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rich_Communication_Services
        
       | Dumbdo wrote:
       | And this is just the tip of the iceberg. As described in the
       | article, you can avoid this by hiding your "last seen" status.
       | 
       | But why use the "last seen" feature, if WhatsApp also has an
       | "online" indicator? Funnily enough, that one can't be disabled
       | and is visible to everyone! That has been criticized for over 5
       | years now, with no reaction from whatsapp/FB.
       | 
       | There was even a similar tool back in 2016 which used this
       | "online" indicator instead, called WhatsSpy [0]. It's no longer
       | maintained, but you can see screenshots of it on this old German
       | article [1] or you might be able to find English articles as
       | well.
       | 
       | I don't know of any current tool which does this, but I'd guess
       | there are a few out there, since it's so easy to do and can't be
       | prevented.
       | 
       | [0] https://github.com/jorik041/WhatsSpy-Public
       | 
       | [1] https://www.heise.de/security/meldung/WhatsSpy-Beliebige-
       | Wha...
        
       | notdang wrote:
       | Another big problem is that Whatsapp automatically previews the
       | URLs, thus leaking the IP of the person. I could not find a way
       | do disable link previews.
        
       | lxgr wrote:
       | Is there any chance that the client needs the online status for
       | some internal optimization, e.g. in order to deliver messages for
       | online contacts to a different server than those destined for
       | offline contacts? I could imagine delivery paths to be quite
       | different (one would be immediately passed through in-memory
       | while the other would be stored in some database and potentially
       | trigger mobile push notifications).
       | 
       | In that case, it is nice to at least visually expose that this
       | information is available to bad actors using custom clients too.
       | 
       | However, this fails as a possible excuse ever since Facebook
       | acquired WhatsApp, given that they have essentially unlimited
       | resources available and could easily implement a privacy proxy to
       | hide this information from clients.
        
         | hiq wrote:
         | In any case there cannot be a good reason to share the online
         | status / last seen date before any interaction has happened
         | between two contacts, and approved by the receiver.
         | 
         | If you have had no interaction with someone, you should first
         | accept a message (and not report it as spam) before this
         | information is shared. Ideally that would be the default as
         | well for the About field and the profile picture.
        
           | lxgr wrote:
           | I definitely agree - none of my hypotheses make for a _good_
           | reason. I 'm just wondering if there's anything technical
           | behind what seems to be a quite stubborn decision that also
           | sticks out (as everything else has controllable privacy
           | options).
           | 
           | Another weird decision is that read receipts are not possible
           | to be deactivated in group chats, but there is no explanation
           | for that that I could think of (delivery receipts might be
           | required for faster encryption key ratcheting, but the read
           | status has no significance at all for the protocol).
        
       | inasio wrote:
       | I saw a very strange thing in Whatsapp last week. One of my
       | contacts texted me their name in Cyrillic characters (Whatsapp on
       | IOS), five seconds later I got an email to my Gmail inbox in
       | russian. I check my spam folder occasionally (mostly bitcoin
       | scams for some reason) and had never seen any messages in
       | russian.
        
         | giuscri wrote:
         | that's creepy
        
       | puttycat wrote:
       | I've been using WhatsApp for years, reluctantly since it is the
       | de-facto SMS standard in my country.
       | 
       | I will never, ever, understand the "online" status feature. It is
       | ridiculously invasive and cannot ever be turned off or even
       | hidden from specific contacts. This is a SMS client, not a chat
       | client, and revealing a user's online status is highly
       | problematic both socially and security-wise. I can't help but
       | wonder how many lives this feature has ruined.
       | 
       | (I am talking specifically about the "online" indication, not the
       | "last seen" information, which is also invasive but can be turned
       | off).
        
         | perryizgr8 wrote:
         | Whatsapp has nothing to do with SMS? Why would you think so?
        
         | georgiecasey wrote:
         | > since it is the de-facto SMS standard in my country.
         | 
         | Same in my country, I don't think Americans (or the American
         | tech culture) realise how ubiquitous WhatsApp is in Europe and
         | around the world.
        
           | dkdbejwi383 wrote:
           | In the UK, I've basically only used WhatsApp for sms-type
           | communication for the past 4 years. Actual SMS is for one-
           | time passcodes and automated messages from my bank and
           | doctor.
           | 
           | Previous to that, I was in Australia where practically nobody
           | used WhatsApp, favouring iMessage or Facebook messenger.
           | 
           | Messaging app adoption is highly localised.
        
           | ryandrake wrote:
           | There are a lot of things that are "ubiquitous" but I still
           | wouldn't voluntarily use. Between this thread and the YouTube
           | one today, and countless other ones in the recent past, there
           | seem to be a growing number of "Xyz app is bad, but I won't
           | stop using it" threads lately. I mean, talk about being part
           | of the problem and not part of the solution. Whatever
           | happened to "Be the change you want to see in the world?"
        
           | ejolto wrote:
           | I'm in a European country and no one uses whatsapp here. I
           | have it but only to talk to foreing friends.
        
         | harperlee wrote:
         | > This is a SMS client, not a chat client
         | 
         | That is a subjective take that's mainly in your head.
         | 
         | WhatsApp is a client for chatting, so it is a chat client. It
         | does not use the SMS network, so it is not an SMS client.
         | 
         | Some countries such as US and France had free SMS services,
         | that enabled it to be used as chat. Other places SMS being
         | costly it was used as a "write ideally one message"
         | functionality, similar to email (which only costs in other
         | ways, in human time, but not in actual bills). You can see this
         | in the design of the Messages app in iPhone for example.
        
           | beckman466 wrote:
           | > That is a subjective take that's mainly in your head.
           | 
           | Wow that's gaslighty
        
             | LambdaComplex wrote:
             | It's gaslighty to say that a client that does not use SMS
             | is not an SMS client?
        
             | canadianfella wrote:
             | How so?
        
         | murukesh_s wrote:
         | Not sure if its country wise or only in newer versions, but you
         | can turn off last seen and read receipt as well. go to account
         | -> privacy if its available or try to upgrade.
        
         | mahathu wrote:
         | > I can't help but wonder how many lives this feature has
         | ruined
         | 
         | I agree with your comment completely, but isn't this a bit a
         | bit of an exaggeration?
        
           | beckman466 wrote:
           | > I agree with your comment completely, but isn't this a bit
           | a bit of an exaggeration?
           | 
           | No. Many global south countries like Brazil use WhatsApp
           | instead of sms, and not being able to control what
           | information you push out is therefore dangerous. As someone
           | else wrote in this sub, you don't need to first 'friend' or
           | link with someone on WhatsApp before they can see all your
           | info (like how often and how long someone is online).
           | Stalking and stalkers are more prevalent than you think.
           | Nevermind that the situation is also different depending on
           | your gender (women are stalked and victims of violence more
           | than men).
           | 
           | Also I think a few people here seem really concerned with
           | whether its an SMS or an IM service, but I think that doesn't
           | matter when you ask instead what's affordable and accessible
           | to the average person in the global south. I think you'll
           | find that sms and calls are usually luxuries reserved for the
           | tiny minority in power).
        
             | guenthert wrote:
             | > women are stalked and victims of violence more than men
             | 
             | This is going to be a bit off-topic now, but I'd say by
             | violence above only physical violence is meant. If verbal
             | and psychological abuse is included, the balance isn't
             | quite so obvious.
        
         | breakfastduck wrote:
         | It does nothing but serve to increase paranoia that someone is
         | actively being ignored.
        
         | dec0dedab0de wrote:
         | I only used WhatsApp for a year or so to talk to a specific
         | person, but it definitely felt like a chat client to me. My
         | general impression is that it is a lesser version of AIM but
         | using phone numbers as logins. To be fair, I think of all
         | instant messaging apps as lesser versions of AIM, and I still
         | can't believe AOL dropped the ball so hard on that.
         | 
         | I don't remember the online indication, is that only when
         | you're actively using the app? or just if the app is open on
         | your phone? I'm trying to think of a situation where either
         | could ruin someones life but I'm struggling. Maybe if you're
         | trying to avoid someone important to you, but need to talk to
         | someone else on whats app? Could you give an example of what
         | you were thinking?
        
           | gridder wrote:
           | When you are online anyone can check it. There is no option
           | to hide the online status. Using an easy script anyone can
           | then spy and understand pretty much everything of a person,
           | or a group. This is easy cyber stalking and dangerous.
           | Especially because normal people do not understand this and
           | think that hiding last seen is useful to avoid being
           | stalked...
        
             | IneffablePigeon wrote:
             | You can absolutely hide it - it's in the settings, as
             | mentioned in the article. The tradeoff is you won't be able
             | to see anyone else's status.
             | 
             | I do agree I don't particularly like that it's on by
             | default.
        
               | peterjmag wrote:
               | The parent commenter is talking about the "currently
               | online" indicator, which can't be disabled. From a
               | (strangely worded) WhatsApp doc:
               | 
               |  _> Please note you can 't hide your online._
               | 
               | https://faq.whatsapp.com/general/chats/about-last-seen-
               | and-o...
        
               | Eun wrote:
               | That's one of the reasons I jailbreaked my phone, to be
               | able to control which app can access which data and when.
        
               | zuppy wrote:
               | your answer doesn't make any sense in this context. this
               | is a standard whatsapp feature that can not be turned
               | off. you can disable networking and open whatsapp and
               | that flag will not be sent, but also your conversations
               | won't get updated. jailbreaking doesn't change any of
               | this.
        
               | dec0dedab0de wrote:
               | If you have root you could decrypt the traffic on the
               | fly, and block any data that is not necessary for basic
               | functionality. Maybe even run squid locally, and
               | configure it there. I doubt that's what they meant, and
               | it would take a bit of reverse engineering, but would be
               | kind of fun.
        
             | dec0dedab0de wrote:
             | Do you mean any one of your contacts? or anyone who has
             | your phone number? And I'm still confused about the
             | definition of "online" and how that can give anyone an
             | understanding of you.
        
               | rpadovani wrote:
               | Anyone with your number, and it reports when you have the
               | application open. Assuming WhatsApp is the first and last
               | app you open in the day (good morning and good night
               | messages) you know how long a person sleeps, and this is
               | only a very easy analysis you can do. I am sure you can
               | find something more interesting recording when people
               | open an app.
        
               | dec0dedab0de wrote:
               | OK, yeah I agree that should be configurable, or at least
               | limited to contacts. Maybe it should only count as online
               | if you're actively using the app instead of having it
               | open in the background. I'm sure many people just have it
               | open 24/7. If I still used it, I would want an option to
               | only receive messages when I'm online.
        
               | filoleg wrote:
               | >Maybe it should only count as online if you're actively
               | using the app instead of having it open in the background
               | 
               | Not sure about desktop clients and not sure about what
               | you mean by "open in the background" in this specific
               | case, but I can answer this for mobile WhatsApp apps
               | specifically. For those, it only tracks when you actually
               | have the app open in your main view.
               | 
               | More specifically, if you just have the app in the
               | background while using some other app, it doesn't count
               | as online. If someone sends you a WhatsApp message and
               | you receive a notification but don't open the app itself,
               | it doesn't count. Only when you actually open the app is
               | when it shows you as being online.
               | 
               | Personally, I agree with you that the simplest solution
               | that would already resolve a ton of those issues is to
               | simply only display your "online" status to those who you
               | have added to your contact list (instead of to literally
               | the entire world).
        
             | temp667 wrote:
             | " understand pretty much everything of a person, or a
             | group."
             | 
             | How does this work - does it leak status or location,
             | messages, contact lists etc? We have a number of folks who
             | are absolutely freaking out over how folks are being killed
             | because of this - can someone walk us through how it leaks
             | all this info?
             | 
             | A quick note that I make my entire calendar public in terms
             | of available times so that folks can schedule their time
             | with me.
        
               | young_unixer wrote:
               | > We have a number of folks who are absolutely freaking
               | out over how folks are being killed because of this
               | 
               | I can totally see that happening:
               | 
               | Person X suspects their partner is cheating on them with
               | Person Y. So they start logging every time their partner
               | is online and every time Person Y is online. Person X
               | becomes obsessed with this theory of cheating and
               | discovers a correlation between their online times,
               | concluding that they're being cheated on, so they explode
               | in rage and go kill their partner.
        
           | matheusmoreira wrote:
           | > I'm trying to think of a situation where either could ruin
           | someones life but I'm struggling.
           | 
           | Ruining someone's life might be hyperbole but people
           | certainly notice when the people they're messaging are
           | online. Especially when they send messages and are ignored.
        
         | temp667 wrote:
         | I can't help but wondering how many lives WhatsApp has helped.
         | 
         | And it is definitely NOT an SMS client. The entire reason it
         | has become so popular is that it does not use SMS. Before
         | WhatsApp - the govt in these countries - supposedly looking out
         | for the common good - allowed telecom carriers (usually giant
         | oligarchs) to charge OBSENE per msg rates.
        
           | guenthert wrote:
           | I do remember when SMS where actually free in Germany (where
           | customarily telecoms charge you an arm & a leg). This led to
           | people carrying mobile phones (era before smart phones), but
           | only ever used SMS. You've seen them 'simsen' in bars, coffee
           | shops, everywhere. Looked quite funny then (even though we
           | appreciated that they stopped talking loudly on their phones
           | all the time everywhere). I still can't quite get used to the
           | view of people with a screen glued to their face.
        
         | guru4consulting wrote:
         | you can turn on airplane mode, quickly check whatsapp messages,
         | get out and turn off airplane mode. It is a dirty hack, but it
         | also helps you to spend minimal time on whatsapp.
        
         | Abishek_Muthian wrote:
         | > I will never, ever, understand the "online" status feature.
         | 
         | Fun fact: WhatsApp was initially just that i.e. It showed
         | status of its users online and people started using it to share
         | messages leading up to the development of full-fledged chat
         | app.
         | 
         | We may be from the same country, Where peer pressure to have a
         | WhatsApp account is so high that friends and relatives get
         | offended if you don't have one.
         | 
         | So I have isolated WhatsApp to a android VM, it sends me an
         | encrypted email of the incoming messages, lets know the sender
         | the same and that they need to message me on Signal if expect
         | faster reply[1].
         | 
         | [1] https://abishekmuthian.com/send-and-receive-whatsapp-
         | message...
        
         | peterjmag wrote:
         | Totally agreed that it's invasive. Same for the "typing"
         | indicator, which also can't be disabled. If I'm writing
         | something longer than a sentence or two, I usually just compose
         | it somewhere else and then copy/paste it into WhatsApp, just to
         | avoid feeling observed.
         | 
         | The fact that those two things can't be disabled actually makes
         | me want to use WhatsApp less. I doubt I'm alone in that. Makes
         | me wonder if Facebook's "engagement" stats account for those
         | types of disincentives.
        
           | sdiq wrote:
           | I also type elsewhere and copy paste to Whatsapp anytime I am
           | writing something longer than a couple lines. I have also
           | disabled the last seen feature. The currently online status
           | seem way worse than last seen and can't be disabled.
        
         | femiagbabiaka wrote:
         | With Android phones you could possibly use an app like NoRoot
         | Firewall to cut off net access for the app when you want to
         | appear offline. Unfortunately that's a pretty "advanced" use of
         | apps for the average consumer and definitely not a replacement
         | for building this in natively.
        
           | mahathu wrote:
           | Or turn on airplane mode
        
           | NotEvil wrote:
           | Actually pointless as online status is shown when you open
           | the app.
           | 
           | And you have to do that fir checking messages.
        
             | femiagbabiaka wrote:
             | Depends on your reasons for showing offline. If offline is
             | a proxy for "I am not here to check and respond to
             | messages", such as when you're sleeping, quite useful. If
             | not, and you'd prefer to be constantly offline for privacy
             | reasons, less useful.
        
               | livre wrote:
               | You don't "show offline" in WhatsApp, either "online"
               | appears below the contact name or nothing appears.
               | Nothing doesn't mean offline, it means the person doesn't
               | have WhatsApp running in the foreground, they could or
               | could not be online (which most define as "using or not
               | using the phone right now").
        
               | femiagbabiaka wrote:
               | It was a euphemism, but good clarification! Colloquially
               | you can interpret the lack of online-ness as offline.
        
         | m_st wrote:
         | I totally agree. Except that I very much call it a chat client.
         | It is way beyond SMS.
        
           | kzrdude wrote:
           | It's sms that is way behind the needs of chat :)
        
         | throw_away789 wrote:
         | > I can't help but wonder how many lives this feature has
         | ruined.
         | 
         | and relationships
        
           | mahathu wrote:
           | This seems like a stretch to me. I agree this feature is
           | unnecessary and invasive. But why would it destroy
           | relationships?
        
             | mcjiggerlog wrote:
             | It doesn't take much imagination to come up with a
             | hypothetical scenario. Person is writing to their partner
             | but receiving no reply, however they can see that their
             | partner has been online for the past 30 minutes. Person is
             | convinced that their partner is talking to that one guy
             | from the gym.
             | 
             | I have definitely been called out for being online but not
             | replying, so I can easily imagine how that can end up
             | becoming a big drama in some relationships.
        
             | crocsarecool wrote:
             | Maybe you have a crazy manager. They see you were online
             | when you were meant to be working. They use this to justify
             | their thoughts you're lazy. Who knows?
        
       | vxNsr wrote:
       | The general consensus here seems to be, let me hide from my
       | friends and family. All the comments are focused on how annoying
       | it is that Facebook is generously sharing information that you
       | might not otherwise think they were collecting about you.
        
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