[HN Gopher] Having children is not life-affirming: it's immoral ...
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       Having children is not life-affirming: it's immoral (2017)
        
       Author : elorant
       Score  : 19 points
       Date   : 2021-04-01 21:20 UTC (1 hours ago)
        
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       | zaknil wrote:
       | The guy is doing his best trying to eradicate from the gene pool
       | the kind of people receptive to arguments like his. In other
       | words, he's doing God's work.
        
       | mjfl wrote:
       | I'm good hearted, but too stupid to understand his argument, so I
       | will continue having as many children as I possibly can. The
       | world in 400 years will be filled with my descendants, living
       | good hearted lives stupidly, being harmed, causing harm, and
       | reproducing rapidly!
        
       | king_magic wrote:
       | By this same logic, myself drinking a glass of water is immoral.
       | My entire existence is immoral.
       | 
       | Absurd philosophy, absurd reasoning, absurd conclusion.
        
         | anm89 wrote:
         | It's amazing how someone's entire life can revolve around
         | philosophy(ie being a philosophy academic) and they fail to
         | grasp basic tenets or really be any good at it at all.
        
       | virgulino wrote:
       | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Antinatalism
        
       | pmastela wrote:
       | > The question is not _whether_ humans will become extinct, but
       | rather _when_ they will. If the anti-natalist arguments are
       | correct, it would be better, all things being equal, if this
       | happened sooner rather than later for, the sooner it happens, the
       | more suffering and misfortune will be avoided.
       | 
       | By this rhetoric, life itself will one day end and since life is
       | the source of all suffering, one might even argue hurrying along
       | the process of destroying life. This I cannot get behind so I
       | guess that makes me a pro-natalist.
        
         | sneak wrote:
         | There is a huge difference between destruction and failing to
         | create.
        
       | inpdx wrote:
       | "Life is simply much worse than most people think..."
       | 
       | What a weird statement. Your life is literally exactly as good or
       | as bad as you think it is.
        
         | Noumenon72 wrote:
         | Judging other people's lives is a constant feature of my
         | existence. Is starving yourself to be a model a good life, is
         | being a porn star better than my life, should Donald Trump be
         | happy with his life, were British coal miners' lives worth
         | living. I worry that I'm getting my own life wrong and think
         | I'm hot shit when I'm a loser, or that I'm living the life of a
         | loser when I could be enjoying it. Basically, a social animal
         | should constantly be evaluating whether its opinion of its own
         | life is correct, so as not to have unwarranted confidence or
         | low self-esteem.
        
       | digital-cygnet wrote:
       | This does not appear to be an April Fool's Day joke or otherwise
       | satirical. It is, however, hard to make seriously. If I'm
       | understanding him right, the claim is that it is a moral wrong to
       | being someone new into the universe and the supporting evidence
       | for this is:                 - The worst pain is more bad than
       | the greatest pleasure is good       - Satisfaction is fleeting
       | - Lifespan is limited and bad things happen more than they
       | ideally ought to       - Humans cause ecological and social
       | damage.
       | 
       | What astounds me is that nowhere in this 3400 word piece does the
       | author consider (a) the frequencies of pain vs pleasure, or (b)
       | the _good_ done by humans in the world. He notes that  "daily
       | life is filled with dishonesty, betrayal, negligence,... Of such
       | harms, everybody is, to varying degrees, a perpetrator," but
       | misses the obvious corollary: life can also be full of honesty,
       | loyalty, love, etc. These too would not exist without people.
       | This focus only on the debit side of the moral ledger of humanity
       | is an oversight bordering on intellectual dishonesty.
       | 
       | The point about ecological damage, and the existence of adoptable
       | children, are both more reasonable critiques of "natalism". That
       | is a nuanced topic worthy of discussion, but this article doesnt
       | add much to the discourse there, more adding them as an
       | afterthought to the overwrought "existence is pain" thesis.
       | 
       | Edit: formatting and clarity
        
         | theodric wrote:
         | We don't need no people, we need fewer people. A lot of our
         | problems would be less pronounced of we simply reduced their
         | scale.
         | 
         | https://www.worldpopulationbalance.org/
        
           | sneak wrote:
           | There is no consensus or scientific basis for the claim "we
           | need fewer people".
           | 
           | Pure opinions such as this should, IMO, come with an argument
           | for holding such a view, especially when presented as a
           | statement of fact.
        
             | falcolas wrote:
             | Any attempts to create a consensus or scientific basis
             | would, based on our current society's views towards
             | science, only further to harden people's stance that
             | science is wrong. Especially if it agreed with the
             | principle that fewer people would be better for the
             | environment.
             | 
             | Which makes sense, logically. Fulfilling a human's basic
             | needs involves world-wide supply chains filled with oil-
             | guzzling vehicles. Fulfilling their entertainment needs
             | requires even more of the same.
        
           | raarts wrote:
           | Human population will peak around 2065, and drop off
           | afterwards. This is the consequence of birth rates dropping
           | (even in Africa) wherever people get our or poverty, and
           | women can afford birth control.
           | 
           | There is no need to be worried about overpopulation in the
           | long run. If the trend continues we'll be extinct in a few
           | thousand years.
           | 
           | https://edition.cnn.com/2020/07/14/world/world-population-
           | sh...
        
         | sneak wrote:
         | I don't think it's hard to take seriously, and at least one of
         | the claims you make about TFA is factually incorrect.
        
         | kbelder wrote:
         | Yeah, I've always found these nihilists to be fairly shallow;
         | they're stuck working from a bad perspective and can't allow
         | for others. If you tell them that your life is mostly good and
         | a net positive, they'll think you're lying or deceived.
         | 
         | I get that their life sucks; but my kids are happy, just like
         | me, and a universe without them is a poorer place. Also, their
         | existence allows for indefinitely more descendants, the
         | overwhelming majority of which will be happy to be alive.
         | 
         | As a capper, I have four kids, so I've MORE than replaced
         | myself.
        
           | BobbyJo wrote:
           | Hey, not all of us nihilists are pessimists. Some of us enjoy
           | existence, whether or not it is an illusion or serves any
           | purpose.
        
       | rayiner wrote:
       | I'm trying to take the article seriously on my own terms, but it
       | seems to me to fall short even then. It mentions that people
       | suffer, and that non-existence may be preferable to suffering.
       | Even insofar as that's true, don't people also experience
       | happiness and joy, and isn't that preferable to non-existence?
       | Why ignore one side of the equation. Surely it's the net balance
       | that matters?
       | 
       | In polling, most people around the world rate themselves as
       | "happy" or "very happy." https://www.bbc.com/news/world-30629478.
       | In Africa, a poor continent where many people experience
       | suffering, 83% of people rate themselves as happy or very happy.
       | The simplest things in life, including having children and
       | forming families, makes people happy, regardless of the suffering
       | that might also be a part of their life.
        
         | Noumenon72 wrote:
         | Does that mean sleep is a bad thing, because it cuts off so
         | much more happiness and joy than suffering? As important to
         | eliminate sleep as death? I'd rather sleep forever and never
         | know happiness than stay awake and ever feel pain. It just
         | doesn't matter what you forgo if you aren't around to miss it.
        
         | jancsika wrote:
         | > Even insofar as that's true, don't people also experience
         | happiness and joy, and isn't that preferable to non-existence?
         | 
         | Unless you're implying an argument from personal incredulity,
         | it seems the quote in the 2nd paragraph of the article fully
         | answers this question.
        
       | gregjor wrote:
       | Living and procreation are natural processes. All living things
       | strive to survive and procreate. Morality does not apply to
       | natural processes: an earthquake that kills people is neither
       | moral nor immoral, it just is.
       | 
       | To call procreation immoral assumes some moral standard human
       | beings have all agreed to, or one we are subject to whether we
       | agree or not. No such moral standard exists. The dominant systems
       | of morality throughout history have placed great value on life
       | and having children, so on the whole it seems human beings have
       | decided reproducing is not immoral. Hardly surprising since
       | nature arrived at that "decision" without any moral question.
       | 
       | I have three children.
        
         | sneak wrote:
         | Dying in terrible agony of preventable childhood diseases are
         | also natural processes. An appeal to nature is not an argument
         | for something's inherent goodness.
        
       | vimy wrote:
       | This must be this year's April Fools article.
        
         | Melting_Harps wrote:
         | > This must be this year's April Fools article.
         | 
         | No, it's just the continued folly of the publish or die mantra
         | of academia; this guy is a professor of philosophy and probably
         | wrote that to cash in the 'controversy sells' narrative that
         | has made so many otherwise mediocre people come into the
         | limelight.
         | 
         | Academia is known for this kind of trite, esepcially in the non
         | Sciences, hence all the trolling for SJW woke, fem-nazi BS that
         | universities in the West have been pumping out all while China
         | has been focusing on sending their kids to the best
         | universities in the West's STEM fields to take advantage of the
         | native's perpetual navel gazing and outrage culture tantrums.
         | 
         | It's gross, and I saw the uptick of it when I left University
         | in before the 2010s and it already looked bad, I'd later visit
         | several prominent university years later (including CalTtech)
         | and all but a place like Caltech had the same thing--safe
         | spaces, genederless bathrooms, outrage culture firings etc...
         | It was pathetic to see as a person that had to struggle just to
         | get a seat in impacted classes just to graduate in 5 years that
         | this much effort was put on such vapid things.
         | 
         | The joke is what academia has become, this is just a symptom of
         | it.
        
         | shishy wrote:
         | It's from 2017.
        
       | postalrat wrote:
       | http://www.philosophy.uct.ac.za/philosophy/staff/benatar
       | 
       | Can't help to feel this guy is some sort of maxed out internet
       | troll.
        
       | yakubin wrote:
       | Is there a browser extension for filtering out HN submissions
       | from nonsense domains like aeon.co?
        
         | anm89 wrote:
         | Sounds great. The other extension Id love is to filter out
         | everything related to Gordon Ramsey on the entire internet.
         | 
         | I would venture a guess that half of a percent of all internet
         | content I encounter is Gordon ramsey related and for some
         | reason this really bothers me that I have to be constantly
         | exposed to the ramblings of this moron.
        
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       | ac42 wrote:
       | And should that noble standard apply to humans specifically, or
       | to life in general?
       | 
       | First world problems, my guess.
        
       | dqpb wrote:
       | Moral philosophy is immoral.
        
       | honkycat wrote:
       | I don't like anti-natalism for the same reason I don't like anti-
       | theism and militant veganism: It isn't an effective strategy for
       | convincing people, and does little other than make people more
       | set in their ways due to the backfire effect. [0]
       | 
       | A lot of this conversation leads from the millennial baby bust.
       | There is a podcast called "Chapo Trap House" that talked about
       | the baby bust ( they are pro-natalist if you were curious ), and
       | I think they put it well:
       | 
       | We have stopped believing in the future. Constant economic
       | downturns, the rise of fascism, the continued destruction of our
       | environment and seemingly NOTHING being done to fix any of it.
       | 
       | We don't have ANY WEALTH. The ultra-wealthy have sucked up all
       | excess capital in the country and people are pissing in bottles
       | while being chirped at from their smart-watches while making
       | pathetic pay. All of this so they can go home to their house
       | where they have multiple room-mates.
       | 
       | We would rather not have children than watch them starve in the
       | event of any number of possible ecological doomsday scenarios end
       | up happening.
       | 
       | 0: Nice pamphlet effect about the backfire effect:
       | https://theoatmeal.com/comics/believe
        
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