[HN Gopher] Ask HN: How can I stay gainfully employed when I jus...
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       Ask HN: How can I stay gainfully employed when I just want to
       "coast" as a SWE?
        
       In my immediate family there is no precedent for following a
       career. I'm the first one to graduate college, so I approach my
       jobs like how my dad treats his blue-collar job. Just doing
       something that pays the bills. I do like programming otherwise but
       not with the pressure to be super-ambitious.  I want a software
       engineer job where most people are basically coasting, but everyone
       seems to look down at my slow career growth. They expect a "story"
       in my resume with a definite "beginning" and "end" with development
       and accomplishments in the middle. Sorry, but I haven't yet
       adjusted to that mindset and I don't know if I can.  This worked
       fine for me in 2010, but in 2015 and beyond it has gotten way more
       difficult to get job offers. I never even have a proper FT job. or
       retirement accounts. I'm now a part-time freelancer that chases
       after short projects but doesn't earn enough for a livable salary.
       Is this the industry telling me I'm not cut out to be a _career_
       programmer? Am I just now limited to using programming as a hobby,
       to tinker around with home projects while I take a job in something
       very different? I don 't know what else I'd like to do (that
       doesn't require returning to college) and I don't like where that
       possibility is heading for me.  I just wanted to model my career
       after the pacing of my parents' jobs since that is what I have been
       most accustomed to in my life. Is there still room for older but
       lower-end programmers who work like this?
        
       Author : indamez
       Score  : 13 points
       Date   : 2021-03-29 21:25 UTC (1 hours ago)
        
       | bellyfullofbac wrote:
       | One time I got an offer to be some small company's (it wasn't a
       | tech company) tech guy that would maintain their PHP website and
       | probably do tech support for employee's PCs. I was really hating
       | my work back then, but if I had taken that offer it would've been
       | a career dead-end, a relaxing job but nothing challenging or
       | exiciting, and I would've probably been too lazy to move since
       | I'm not very ambitious either.
        
       | sigmaprimus wrote:
       | OK I'll bite,
       | 
       | Sigh....
       | 
       | I wrote this and have reread it multiple times, I know it wont be
       | a popular comment but it still needs to be said as "Get your head
       | out of ass" is too simple of a response. So here goes...
       | 
       | You have never had a full-time job, and don't consider yourself
       | very ambitious. You haven't saved anything for retirement and You
       | just want to coast through life? Like Your Dad did? Maybe ask
       | him?
       | 
       | I don't have many ideas other than keep doing what your doing or
       | get a tent and move to a park, or crime until You get locked up.
       | I understand that some states have three strike laws so there's
       | that.
       | 
       | On a more positive note, if You are currently just part time
       | freelancing then You probably have some spare time to try out
       | other ventures until You find one that works, or just keep trying
       | to get more likes and shares for your social media and a higher
       | ranking in what ever mmorpg your currently winning at instead of
       | winning at LIFE, which is the ultimate RTS game.
        
       | icedchai wrote:
       | Have you considered getting a software job at a bank or insurance
       | company?
        
         | indamez wrote:
         | I apply to those kinds of companies sometimes (I apply to tons
         | of different places, almost indiscriminately) though I don't
         | see banks and insurance companies ever get back to me.
         | 
         | I hear their interviews must be very easy to pass. The
         | interviews that I do tend to get never result in offers, though
         | I can go anywhere from 1 to 4 rounds.
        
         | a3n wrote:
         | The people at Wells Fargo seem to be coasting.
        
       | phendrenad2 wrote:
       | I've been noticing this too. Everyone wants to hire an ambitious
       | go-getter who aspires to become Top Hotdog Ultra Tech Lead or CEO
       | someday. I just want to make the websites go until I retire. I'm
       | not looking to become a millionaire or retire early. I look over
       | at my friends who became Mechanical Engineers. They have better
       | lives. They have time for their families. They generally work 9-5
       | like Mad Men. I wonder what went wrong in our industry where that
       | isn't possible.
       | 
       | I think the solution is to give in and become the monster. Become
       | hyper-ambitious like everyone else and try to become CTO of a
       | midsize startup by the time you're 40 or whatever. Or "drop out"
       | and retrain as a mechanical engineer.
        
         | ryandrake wrote:
         | I made the decision early on in my 20s to bust ass and drive
         | hard, and then retire when I'm 40. Then I would have all the
         | time in the world to coast and do what I want. Trouble is, I'm
         | over 40 now and still busting ass just to keep head above
         | water. There is something about software that makes it so
         | workaholism and burnout is the median, normal track.
        
       | airhead969 wrote:
       | Find another field where you're happier. Chasing money isn't
       | worth it.
        
       | hindsightbias wrote:
       | Look at traditional firms, banks, public, utilities. IBM, GE,
       | BofA, state/federal.
       | 
       | Skill in niche areas where everyone else is at retirement age
       | (mainframe integration stacks/web). Everything else is chasing
       | flavor-of-the-month and you'll work 60 hours just to keep a
       | resume current. Expect to have to lead a team or move into
       | architecture at some point.
       | 
       | Traditional firms will blow smoke about innovation, tell them you
       | want to work on an MS or MBA at nightschool or something
       | attractive to an interviewer and then stall until you figure out
       | the org and find a place to camp.
        
         | indamez wrote:
         | I come across some companies from the financial industry when
         | I'm sending in online applications. Places like DRW, which by
         | the way never replied back and I sent in my application two
         | months ago. Same story with state jobs, I never hear back from
         | them.
         | 
         | How does one usually get knowledge in niche and very old areas?
         | I don't know anyone personally that works in mainframes or
         | systems. My professional knowledge is focused on vanilla
         | JavaScript, PHP, MySQL and Ruby. Not too current, but also not
         | old enough to be associated with retirement age devs.
         | 
         | It would be awesome if a firm would let me work on a MS on the
         | side and have it paid for but that sounds like a unicorn
         | scenario. In my experience most companies neglect training on
         | the job.
        
           | anon_tor_12345 wrote:
           | >Places like DRW, which by the way never replied back and I
           | sent in my application two months ago.
           | 
           | DRW is a prop shop with a workload comparable to any FAANG.
           | Most certainty not a place you would be able to coast.
        
       | yuppie_scum wrote:
       | One word: Academia
        
         | mb7733 wrote:
         | The schedule / lifestyle of an academic is almost opposite to
         | the 9-5 'just a job' the OP is looking for.
        
         | neuroticfish wrote:
         | guess it depends on where you land. i'm in academia now and
         | it's absolutely horrifying. understaffed, constantly dropped
         | into new projects while other ones are on fire, tons of
         | overtime, professors don't respect your standard 8-5 schedule,
         | frequently working weekends, under endless stress,
         | unappreciated, etc. i write software in a research facility,
         | not university IT, so YMMV.
        
       | quickthrower2 wrote:
       | Are you in the US? The Europe/UK work culture might suit you
       | better.
       | 
       | Also a weird tip is change jobs every 2 to 3 years. Companies
       | tend to get less cushy and more process oriented over time. Find
       | the company that isn't measuring time on tasks etc.
        
         | el_dev_hell wrote:
         | > Also a weird tip is change jobs every 2 to 3 years. Companies
         | tend to get less cushy and more process oriented over time.
         | 
         | Hell is an agile sprint system that has been optimised to
         | require 10 hour days.
        
       | a3n wrote:
       | You could consider trading stocks and other assets in an
       | automated way.
       | 
       | https://duckduckgo.com/?q=day+trading&t=fpas&ia=web
       | 
       | https://duckduckgo.com/?q=swing+trading&t=fpas&ia=web
       | 
       | https://duckduckgo.com/?q=trend+trading&t=fpas&ia=web
       | 
       | https://duckduckgo.com/?q=back+testing&t=fpas&ia=web
       | 
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       | 
       | https://duckduckgo.com/?q=book+financial+instruments+weiss&t...
        
         | BitwiseFool wrote:
         | Do not do this. Automated trading is hyper competitive and only
         | feasible for institutional investors.
        
           | indamez wrote:
           | I won't and it sounds just as unstable as my last jobs. Even
           | if I wanted to I certainly don't have that kind of money to
           | throw (monetary net worth < last stimulus check)
        
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