[HN Gopher] Gallup: U.S. church membership dips below 50% for fi...
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       Gallup: U.S. church membership dips below 50% for first time
        
       Author : cwwc
       Score  : 566 points
       Date   : 2021-03-29 13:01 UTC (10 hours ago)
        
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       | muad_kyrlach wrote:
       | I can only speak from experience about Christianity: I have found
       | very few sects of christianity that don't have some mixture of 1.
       | arbitrary claim to absolute certainty regarding the "Will of God"
       | --Bible is inerrant, the denomination's understanding of it is
       | inerrant, etc 2. Non-sensical "lesson-of-the-week" structure"
       | where very few actually make any progress on any lesson 3. blind
       | acceptance that the church has to be a functional business. the
       | first one is the most hurtful -- the leaders offer certainty when
       | certainty is far from possible. It amounts to "God gave you your
       | brain, but it's mostly for decoration, you don't need to think
       | when it comes to your faith, just accept what we tell you/is
       | written." The business side can also be hurtful.
       | 
       | I was reading recently about scientists attempt to measure
       | cognitive differences between the religious and non-religious --
       | by looking at things like math proficiency. I think that's really
       | missing the impact of religion. Religion doesn't make you bad at
       | math, but it likely makes you bad at 1. finances -- how much pct
       | of your income are you regularly giving away? 2. philanthropy --
       | how much of that income really went to helping people vs church
       | administration, continuing the Sunday lesson? 3. Political
       | engagement -- i would hypothesize that being religious leads
       | folks to more frequently vote against their own self-interests.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | BenoitEssiambre wrote:
       | Whether this is good or bad depends on what the substitute is.
       | 
       | Whatever it is, imo, intellectuals should be more involved in
       | communities that cater to simpler folks. Otherwise, these often
       | get co-opted by nefarious forces. See Qanon, Trumpism etc.
       | Hopefully this is not people jumping to these.
        
         | Applejinx wrote:
         | But that IS intellectuals getting involved. QAnon is quite
         | cleverly constructed. Just because it uses mechanisms similar
         | to Nigerian email scams doesn't mean it's not intelligently
         | constructed and administered. There are already intellectuals
         | involved, they're just not pursuing disinterested goals.
        
           | BenoitEssiambre wrote:
           | I meant non evil intellectuals who oftentimes don't want to
           | have anything to do with these communities which leaves them
           | open to be manipulated by the evil ones.
        
       | legitster wrote:
       | This misses the forest for the trees: Membership is down at
       | organizations across the board - scouting, group athletics,
       | Rotary clubs, unions, even things like PTAs and neighborhood
       | associations and model train clubs.
       | 
       | There is a society wide "apathy" event happening right under our
       | noses. Maybe we're just seeing a new generation moving to new
       | niche groups that aren't being seen yet. But it seems that
       | technology is doing something with our desire to form communal
       | bonds.
        
         | __turbobrew__ wrote:
         | Membership is down at in-person organizations across the board.
         | I doubt the census includes the many different online
         | communities I am a part of.
         | 
         | I have friends I have known for 10+ years which I have never
         | met in real life. Friendships which are deeper and longer
         | lasting than anything I have "in real life".
        
         | randcraw wrote:
         | I don't see it as apathy. I suspect people are simply choosing
         | to put their time into pursuits other than attending meetings
         | with other people.
         | 
         | In the past 20 years, there's been a large rise in the time the
         | average person spends on the social web. In the past 10 years,
         | with the rise of mobile platforms, that time has gone up even
         | more. In addition, streaming media has become very big, thereby
         | consuming even more of our free time.
         | 
         | That additional time spent online has to come from somewhere.
         | As Sherry Turkle put it, we are increasingly choosing to be
         | "Alone Together" probably at the cost of old school forms of
         | togetherness like church and social clubs.
        
         | cochne wrote:
         | Yes I agree. This seems to be a continuation of the trends
         | described in "Bowling Alone". The book argued in 2000 that
         | television was a contributing factor. It is probably further
         | worsened by the rise in online entertainment since.
        
         | UweSchmidt wrote:
         | Our "communal bonds" are being replaced by 1-to-n relationships
         | between influencers, streamers, content providers and their
         | "followers".
        
       | nly wrote:
       | For comparison, UK church membership is <10% and forecast to fall
       | to to 4% by 2025.
       | 
       | Numbers for those claiming to be of "No religion" range from from
       | 50 to 60% depending on region. 38% don't believe in God or any
       | higher spiritual power.
       | 
       | The interesting thing is people will identify as Christian on the
       | census while also not claiming to subscribe to any particular
       | religion in other surveys.
       | 
       | 2021 census (just completed this month) results will be
       | interesting
       | 
       | https://faithsurvey.co.uk/uk-christianity.html
        
         | xioxox wrote:
         | Yes, reading this thread as someone from the UK makes me
         | realise the US is very different culturally from the UK. I'm
         | sure the proportion of people for whom religion is important in
         | their lives is much much smaller in the UK than the US. I think
         | most British people only encounter religion at Christmas and
         | weddings, unless they're of a religious minority group.
        
           | TinkersW wrote:
           | It isn't evenly distributed and the US doesn't have one
           | culture, plenty of Americans never encounter much religion,
           | particularly in the Western US which is overall less
           | religious.
        
           | cronix wrote:
           | The US's First Amendment deals with that, in great part to
           | get away from the (at the time) Church of England and prevent
           | that (mixing church and state) from happening here. It
           | doesn't logically surprise me that the country who left that
           | scenario to worship freely has higher numbers of religious
           | people 300 years later than in the country that still lived
           | under much of the corruption for a longer period of time.
        
           | incompatible wrote:
           | The groups that take it seriously are more likely to observe
           | Diwali or Ramadan.
        
         | wussboy wrote:
         | I think part of the problem is that there is no clear tradition
         | of "cultural Christian" like there is for "atheist Jew". I
         | don't believe in God. I love the high church and choral
         | traditions. I attend a church where the minister feels the
         | same. Am I a Christian? No. And yes.
        
           | DoingSomeThings wrote:
           | No. And yes.
           | 
           | I think there are more of you floating in the pews with you
           | than you may expect. As I've grown older it's been hard to
           | belong to a dogmatic religion. But I miss those same things
           | you describe. I too attend on occasion for those exact
           | reasons.
           | 
           | It was startling to me, however, to realize that I'm not
           | alone. A large % of people there in the church find value
           | even if they don't actually believe. And that's a strange
           | comfort that let's me continue to appreciate the tradition
           | without claiming the title.
        
           | oh_sigh wrote:
           | I've been an atheist my entire life, raised by two atheists.
           | But I celebrate christmas and easter, attend my friends
           | weddings in churches even though they are atheists too, so I
           | think I'm a cultural Christian.
        
           | tyxodiwktis wrote:
           | This isn't necessarily true outside the US. The running joke
           | about Greeks is that they are 98% Greek Orthodox (official
           | stats from a while ago) and 40% atheist. You might be atheist
           | and communist (a fairly common combo in Greece) but will
           | still probably roast a lamb on Easter with your family.
        
             | stephenr wrote:
             | In Australia most historically "Christian" holidays are for
             | the majority of people just time off to spend with family.
             | 
             | How or why they started or what the religious think of them
             | now is irrelevant.
        
               | 8note wrote:
               | The traditional Christian holidays are largely former
               | Roman holidays, so they're mostly just good times to have
               | parties.
               | 
               | Rename lupercalia to Valentine's Day, Saturnalia to
               | Christmas, etc. To make Christianity a seamless switch
               | for the Roman populace
        
             | wussboy wrote:
             | I agree. I first learned that Christian Atheist was
             | possible in an Anglican Church in England.
        
               | [deleted]
        
             | ic0n0cl4st wrote:
             | Turkey is the same way. The government says 99.8% of the
             | population are Muslim by default but it's probably closer
             | to 60%.
             | 
             | Until a few years ago religion was listed on government
             | identification cards. When you're born your parenrs must
             | state a religion for your birth certificate or it is
             | automatically listed as Muslim.
             | 
             | You had to go through a burdensome official process as an
             | adult to change this, and once you did this you legally
             | admitted to Apostasy, which opens you up to discrimination
             | (and future consequences if the government were to fall to
             | islamists or neo-ottomans).
             | 
             | Furthermore, it was very common to be discriminated against
             | by HR departments / hiring managers if Islam was not
             | present on your Kimlik (government ID).
             | 
             | This only went away with recent passport and national id
             | standards changing in their futile attempts to join the EU.
             | 
             | (Consider that Turkey is by far the most liberal and
             | secular Muslim nation.)
        
             | polygotdomain wrote:
             | Having married into a Greek family, I can certainly attest
             | to this, but I'll shed a bit more light to the sentiment
             | behind that statement. To the Greeks, the Greek church is
             | part of their cultural identity, rather than a purely
             | religious entity. There is a community that stems from the
             | church, traditions that are intertwined in it, and just a
             | general presence in their daily lives in a way that I don't
             | think I've really observed in the US. Oddly enough, it
             | doesn't really outwardly express itself as dogma or
             | doctrine, in the way that I've noticed with a lot of
             | Evangelicals or Catholics in the states. The church is more
             | of an ever present fixture in Greek life than a strong
             | belief in Orthodox teachings.
        
           | mustafa_pasi wrote:
           | "Cultural Christian" is just what western culture is.
           | "atheist Jews" can exist only because they exist in the
           | cultural Christian west.
        
         | CodeGlitch wrote:
         | Growing up in the 80's (UK) as a Roman Catholic, I remember the
         | services being full on Sunday mornings. Not been since I left
         | home at 18, because frankly I stopped believing in God the same
         | time I stopped believing in Father Christmas (7?). The only
         | reason I went was to make my parents happy.
         | 
         | Now I'm in my 40's I do wonder if the lack of religion in
         | society is leading us to a bad place. We know from numerous
         | studies that 2 parent families (mother and father) give the
         | best outcomes for children (education, jobs, etc). In modern
         | no-religion societies, where is the pull for good old family
         | values? What we are seeing is better rights and fairness for
         | individuals (same-sex marriage, etc) but is that good for
         | society as a whole?
        
           | fuzzer37 wrote:
           | > What we are seeing is better rights and fairness for
           | individuals ... is that good for society as a whole
           | 
           | Yes. This shouldn't even be a question.
        
             | sethammons wrote:
             | Why should something be excluded from questioning? I think
             | more things should be regularly questioned.
        
           | simplerman wrote:
           | As someone who is semi-atheist, I have started to think that
           | the invention of God was mostly to discipline children and to
           | give them hope. Eventually, those children grew up and told
           | same stories to their kids and until one day those stories
           | became religion. Then came prophets who decided to prey upon
           | these people and sold organized religion.
           | 
           | I say this because I got a toddler and sometimes it is easier
           | to make up stories instead of telling truth, like when
           | someone dies they go to heaven. Or if you clean up your room,
           | then maybe elves will come at night and leave a present. It
           | is almost like I can see a religion forming in front of my
           | eyes. Sometimes I am using traditional religious stories like
           | for life and death questions. And at other times, I am using
           | fairytale creatures. This whole thing has made me more
           | atheist while at the same time let me appreciate what
           | religion does.
           | 
           | Which leads me to Santa Claus. I think Santa Claus is a great
           | way to give subtle hint for thinking minds to realize that
           | childhood stories are not real.
           | 
           | But can people still feel good without believing in religion?
           | Do we have atheist societies? What do atheists tell their
           | young kids?
        
           | alfiedotwtf wrote:
           | > We know from numerous studies that 2 parent families
           | (mother and father) give the best outcomes for children
           | (education, jobs, etc). In modern no-religion societies,
           | where is the pull for good old family values?
           | 
           | That's ironic given that the Church of England was solely
           | setup so that the King could divorce his wife)!
        
           | Denvercoder9 wrote:
           | > Now I'm in my 40's I do wonder if the lack of religion in
           | society is leading us to a bad place.
           | 
           | It's important to make a distinction between lack of religion
           | and lack of community.
        
           | EliRivers wrote:
           | _where is the pull for good old family values?_
           | 
           | That's a term that everyone interprets their own way, without
           | even realising that they have different values to the person
           | standing next to them; different people's "family values" can
           | conflict in significant and very incompatible ways.
           | 
           | So what are "good old family values"? If your young,
           | unmarried daughter falls pregnant, should you cast her out or
           | should you double-down on helping her? Both of those are good
           | old family values.
        
             | jaywalk wrote:
             | Good old family values would discourage young, unmarried
             | women from getting pregnant in the first place. That is
             | absolutely not how society works today, so let's start
             | there instead of your absurd example.
        
               | pmyteh wrote:
               | It wasn't how it worked then, either, at least for any
               | value of 'then' in England for the past thousand years or
               | so. Yes, premarital pregnancy was strongly discouraged.
               | But it still happened _a lot_. And both of GP 's family
               | responses were absolutely common at different times, and
               | both came from a deeply family-centred place. So I don't
               | see it as absurd at all. Religion has always been for the
               | sinners as much as the saints.
        
               | SamoyedFurFluff wrote:
               | Is there a causative study that evidences that
               | religiosity prevents unwanted teenage pregnancies? My
               | understanding is that, even as religiosity is decreasing,
               | _so are teenage pregnancies today!_
        
               | ketzo wrote:
               | Well, to pick a more contentious example, how would you
               | find a marriage partner for that young women?
               | 
               | In many parts of the world, the answer is that her
               | parents would either simply pick her partner or heavily
               | influence her options. In much of the U.S., that would be
               | unthinkable! How do we reconcile those different family
               | values?
        
               | jaywalk wrote:
               | How about the way my parents found each other:
               | traditional dating?
               | 
               | Can we stop trying to go to absurd extremes with
               | everything here?
        
               | hexane360 wrote:
               | Unless you can demonstrate how to separate what you
               | classify as "absurd extremes" from your cultural context,
               | I think it's fair to use any examples of stable,
               | religiously upheld, prosperous cultures to criticize
               | traditionalism for the sake of traditionalism.
        
               | TimTheTinker wrote:
               | They would also encourage helping the weak, the down-and-
               | out, etc.
               | 
               | There was a time in the US when a needy person could walk
               | up to nearly _any_ door (except perhaps those of a few
               | known scoundrels) and expect to find a meal, a bed for
               | the night, clothes if needed, breakfast, and (depending
               | on circumstances) some work to do the next day for pay.
               | 
               | The first great awakening had a _profound_ effect on
               | society - sermons preached in the 1700s directly
               | influenced the US founders, belief in God and moral
               | accountability to him became a basic assumption of
               | society.
               | 
               | "Family values" is a term that focuses on where Biblical
               | teachings have the most impact (the family) but it fails
               | to capture the worldview within which such values arise.
        
               | SamoyedFurFluff wrote:
               | > There was a time in the US when a needy person could
               | walk up to nearly any door (except perhaps those of a few
               | known scoundrels) and expect to find a meal, a bed for
               | the night, clothes if needed, breakfast, and (depending
               | on circumstances) some work to do the next day for pay.
               | 
               | Do you have a source on this? Genuinely asking because
               | I've never heard of this depiction of early America, but
               | I'm also a layman and not at all educated on American
               | history beyond 101 college. What if you were black or
               | East Asian?
        
               | [deleted]
        
           | wonderwonder wrote:
           | This is an interesting point, I think its a valid argument
           | that as America has fractured into vastly different competing
           | social / political groups that the country as a whole has
           | gotten weaker. Media now profits on widening those splits and
           | people find themselves having less and less in common with
           | each other. Religion very likely used to provide a common
           | ground to people and as it fades so too does that ground. I
           | don't think I have ever believed in God or religion but I can
           | understand that it has provided some good. If I was an enemy
           | with a very long timeline (say 100 years) I would work hard
           | at continuing to widen these faults and differences.
        
           | mhh__ wrote:
           | "God is dead. God remains dead. And we have killed him. How
           | shall we comfort ourselves, the murderers of all murderers?
           | What was holiest and mightiest of all that the world has yet
           | owned has bled to death under our knives: who will wipe this
           | blood off us? What water is there for us to clean ourselves?
           | What festivals of atonement, what sacred games shall we have
           | to invent? Is not the greatness of this deed too great for
           | us? Must we ourselves not become gods simply to appear worthy
           | of it?"
        
           | nsilvestri wrote:
           | There is no evidence that heterosexual parents are better for
           | children than non-het parents. An important factor is that
           | their parents have a stable relationship.
           | 
           | https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/01494929.2015.10.
           | ..
           | 
           | https://journals.lww.com/jrnldbp/Abstract/2016/04000/Same_Se.
           | ..
        
             | Sigmoid wrote:
             | Heterosexual couples have been the norm for thousands of
             | years, and the traditional family has been proven through
             | survival to be a good way to raise children. People don't
             | know the long term societal consequences of a homosexual
             | marriages. Could be no issue, or it could be Pandora's box.
             | Either way, it's stilly to take these studies of <200
             | families seriously, especially when there's a clear a
             | agenda among political groups to promote normalization of
             | homosexuality.
        
               | TimTheTinker wrote:
               | ^ questioning assumptions is good, even if (or
               | _especially_ if) those assumptions underpin the orthodoxy
               | of the day.
               | 
               | Beware any religion, ideology, or group that punishes the
               | honest questioner.
        
               | jasonwatkinspdx wrote:
               | Yeah, an agenda of having equal rights under the law in a
               | nation that supposedly separates church in state, but
               | where in practice religious justifications are used to
               | deny equality and justice.
        
               | Sigmoid wrote:
               | I personally dont believe being gay is a right. Just a
               | lifestyle that society happens to tolerate. Using
               | equality and justice to defend LGBT means any fetish or
               | degenerate behavior that is not socially accepted can be
               | justified as oppression.
        
             | CodeGlitch wrote:
             | I was referring more to single parent households.
        
               | joefife wrote:
               | Yeah, screw those widows.
        
               | caslon wrote:
               | Despite (in my opinion) missing the point & also leaning
               | a bit toward "yay heterosexuality!", what that poster
               | said wasn't exactly insinuating anything bad about any
               | other group.
               | 
               | When a child has a parent that's died, or a parent that
               | leaves, or a parent that _insert 90% of reasons for
               | parental absence_ , it's natural that they'll have a
               | harder time than anyone else. It's not that the widow
               | would be a bad parent, it's that the kid would have to
               | deal with the terrible situation of having a parent die.
               | 
               | If you were really wanting to get to the source of truth
               | there, though, you'd _also_ show how children that get
               | adopted by a non-couple perform. If I had to guess, they
               | 're probably doing the best by far, because adoption as a
               | single person is only really possible if you're
               | _incredibly_ stable.
        
           | agentdrtran wrote:
           | is people publicly debating your existence good for society
           | as a whole?
        
           | keithnz wrote:
           | many of the largely atheist countries seem to be doing ok.
           | But atheism isn't really anything other than a lack of belief
           | in the claim there is a god. So what becomes more important
           | is what you choose to make judgements, and many of the more
           | atheist countries tend to have more secular humanist values.
           | It's much more worthwhile talking about positive belief
           | systems like secular humanism rather than lack of belief.
           | 
           | Also I'd be careful with any kind of statistics that measure
           | people who conform more closely with Christian values in
           | societies who are largely Christian or structured around
           | christian ideals. Being outsiders in any society is often
           | problematic because of how the society ends up
           | treating/valuing you.
        
           | stephenr wrote:
           | > where is the pull for good old family values?
           | 
           | Whose family? Which values?
           | 
           | This honestly just sounds like a "back in my day..." rant to
           | be honest.
        
             | CodeGlitch wrote:
             | It did occur to me that perhaps people who weren't brought
             | up in a traditional (mother+father) Christian family might
             | not know what "good old family values" means. Not meaning
             | to make an assumption about you of course.
        
             | cjameskeller wrote:
             | Is this perhaps an intentional parallel to '_Whose Justice?
             | Which Rationality?_" by Alasdair MacIntyre?
        
           | Teknoman117 wrote:
           | > because frankly I stopped believing in God the same time I
           | stopped believing in Father Christmas (7?).
           | 
           | I had a very similar experience. My mother is a (now non-
           | practicing) catholic and my father is more or less an
           | agnostic. We stopped attending church about the time I was 10
           | because our parish had one of the pedophile priests. My
           | "faith" died out after I learned that all of these
           | supernatural things I was told existed actually didn't, why
           | was the existence of god any different.
           | 
           | Personally, I'd say I ended up an agnostic. I don't go around
           | telling people what I think they should believe and
           | internally I don't really lean one way or the other. One of
           | those "unknowable" things, along with whether there is an
           | afterlife or not. I kind of hope there is something, I can't
           | exactly fathom non-existence.
           | 
           | But as far as "family values" go, I've never felt my parents'
           | moral teachings to be any less reasonable without an
           | underlying fear of damnation to keep you on track. I'd like
           | to think that I'm a good person and that being a good person
           | is my own choice and not something I'm told to do "or else".
           | 
           | Maybe it was Stephen Fry who said it, but there is a quote
           | along the lines of "I'm commiting as many murders, thefts,
           | and rapes as I want - that number is 0" that kind of
           | resonates with me.
        
           | simplerman wrote:
           | > In modern no-religion societies, where is the pull for good
           | old family values? What we are seeing is better rights and
           | fairness for individuals (same-sex marriage, etc) but is that
           | good for society as a whole?
           | 
           | I understand where you are coming from, I struggle with my
           | atheism/beliefs too.
           | 
           | But without doubt, this is good for society. Think about it,
           | we had slavery because bible and other religions, approved of
           | slavery. Then women had no rights because of religion,
           | finally they do. These are good things. I believe
           | homosexuality is next big step for humanity. Once this is
           | accepted, no one would even think about questioning it.
           | 
           | As for old old family values, I am not really sure what it
           | means, but if it means close family ties, then I have seen
           | non-religious families who are very close and religious
           | families who fight all the time. And vice versa.
        
           | Gustomaximus wrote:
           | > Now I'm in my 40's I do wonder if the lack of religion in
           | society is leading us to a bad place
           | 
           | I'm an atheist and have considered the same quite a bit. I
           | wonder if some people need something to believe and direction
           | and religion helps fence these people into society friendly
           | pockets.
           | 
           | I wonder today if what I would consider is that overly woke
           | pocket (which I respect is very relative to personal views)
           | and generally more extreme politics on all sides need
           | something to believe in a fight for and religion when done
           | well is a brilliant force for good in society this way to
           | coral that energy to good places.
           | 
           | ...but at the same time religion can be horribly controlling
           | and toxic. And when religion finds absolute power it tends to
           | go badly so I think the trade off between too much and too
           | little, we are better going towards too little.
           | 
           | Maybe somehow we need to look at the good parts of religion
           | and work that into a non-religious society. Even little
           | things like I'd love to see shops closed on Sunday again and
           | return this as more simple downtime for family, friends and
           | self. Also realise we dont need to spend money every day.
        
             | ur-whale wrote:
             | > I wonder if some people need something to believe
             | 
             | I totally understand your point (and agree with the stated
             | goal of a non-religious society with the "good bits" of
             | religion baked in), but, the "some" in your sentence above
             | ... there be really scary dragons.
             | 
             | Here's what I mean: would you say that "some" people
             | deserve the right to vote while others don't?
             | 
             | The argument that "some" people need religion has the
             | implication that they're too dumb to figure out a path for
             | themselves without the help of a guiding book.
             | 
             | And that because of their limitations, the only way for
             | them to "stick to the book" is to shrink-wrap the message
             | into a fairy tale.
             | 
             | In other words, that'd be a world where one part of the
             | population (those who don't "need" religion) brainwashes
             | and manipulates the other part into "doing the right thing"
             | (whatever "right" actually is).
             | 
             | You can see why this line of reasoning is a very slippery
             | slope.
        
         | Milner08 wrote:
         | Other than my Grandma who is in her 90's and one friend who
         | joined a church later in life (his family are atheist) I don't
         | know anyone in the UK who goes to church. At least among my
         | friends its just not a thing. I find it bizarre how many people
         | in America attend church, but I hold nothing against them for
         | it.
        
           | nprateem wrote:
           | Yeah but they do all the gospel and dancing stuff over there.
           | Don't tell me you don't want to FEEL THE POWER
        
         | pratik661 wrote:
         | UK has historically had low church membership. Even novels from
         | the mid 1800s (Far From the Madding Crowd by Thomas Hardy) talk
         | about how village churches lay mostly empty due to lack of
         | adherents
        
         | codeulike wrote:
         | The difference in politics is interesting too - in the USA
         | politicians have to be shown to be religious - people discuss
         | the possibility that Bernie Sanders' might be atheist like its
         | a potential major scandal. In the UK its the exact opposite, we
         | don't want our leaders to be religious. Its ok for them to go
         | to a big church service or lay a wreath or something but if
         | they start talking about their 'faith' (as Tony Blair did
         | somewhat) we get weirded out.
         | 
         | Jeremy Corbyn's atheism is an interesting example - the right
         | wing press found all sorts of ways to vilify or criticise him,
         | but his atheism never came up as a criticism - because atheism
         | in the UK is a complete non issue. No-one cares. Compare with
         | Bernie Sanders.
        
           | zuminator wrote:
           | If you're running for major office in the US, announcing your
           | fealty to God is a kind of real-world implementation of
           | Pascal's wager. That is, if you are openly atheist you will
           | earn the condemnation of a large cohort of believers, and
           | lose many votes. But if you're religious, only a small few
           | atheists will write you off as a candidate. So it's always to
           | your political advantage to claim religious adherence, even
           | if you're not. Arguably patently insincere lip-service
           | actually works better than principled devotion in this
           | respect.
        
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             | codeulike wrote:
             | _real-world implementation of Pascal 's wager_
             | 
             | Indeed, well put
        
         | thinkingemote wrote:
         | It's Holy Week this week (the week before Easter starts) and
         | every day there is a service in each parish. UK, Roman Catholic
         | churches. You have to book online to reserve a place. A quick
         | look at a few parishes in an area for big and small churches
         | shows that all the services for each day of the week and
         | weekend are booked out in advance.
         | 
         | Obviously the numbers able to fit in the churches are capped
         | because of Coronavirus, but it appears as if there are more
         | people who are wanting to attend than can. What I can say with
         | some confidence is that there is at the very least more demand
         | than the capacity.
        
           | gpderetta wrote:
           | I might take my kids there. Then again I also took them to
           | see Santa.
           | 
           | Unfunny quip aside, it is a social gathering and it is
           | undeniably positive for the community.
        
             | mcculley wrote:
             | That really depends on the church. Many flavors of religion
             | are a net negative for the community.
        
               | gpderetta wrote:
               | Possibly. I was mostly talking about the specific mild
               | flavour of Roman Catholicism practised by church we
               | frequent here in London.
        
           | Milner08 wrote:
           | Roman Catholic... in the UK? That makes up a very small
           | number of churches...
        
             | dghf wrote:
             | Roman Catholicism is the second largest Christian
             | denomination in the UK (after the Church of England).
             | Something like 7% of the population of England and Wales,
             | 16% of the population of Scotland, and 40% of the
             | population of Northern Ireland are Catholic. Catholicism is
             | the dominant religion in many parts of Northern Ireland,
             | and even in some parts of western Scotland.
        
             | thinkingemote wrote:
             | It's bigger than you think, it's about the same size as the
             | Church of England.
             | 
             | https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/11297461
             | 
             | https://faithsurvey.co.uk/uk-christianity.html
        
           | jedberg wrote:
           | You have to get tickets to get into Temple on the Jewish High
           | Holy Days too. I know because I take my kids. It doesn't mean
           | we are religious though. I just like to take them for the
           | singing and to see the blowing of the ram's horn, fond
           | memories I have from my own youth.
        
       | Balgair wrote:
       | Because no-one has yet linked the actual poll, here it is:
       | 
       | https://news.gallup.com/poll/341963/church-membership-falls-...
       | 
       | It's a pretty short poll. Here are the highlights that Gallup
       | cites:
       | 
       | - In 2020, 47% of U.S. adults belonged to a church, synagogue or
       | mosque
       | 
       | - Down more than 20 points from turn of the century
       | 
       | - Change primarily due to rise in Americans with no religious
       | preference
        
       | hacknat wrote:
       | Correction: _Since the 1940s_
       | 
       | "For the first time" is probably not true. This is since Gallup
       | tracked this number. Post WWII church attendance really sky
       | rocketed for reasons that are still not fully understood, but a
       | lot of people think the emergence of the Evangelical movement
       | bears a lot of the responsibility. It's much harder to track pre-
       | WWII numbers, but according to the "Mapping America's Past"
       | authors[1] church attendance was as low as 35% in the 19th
       | century (sometimes).
       | 
       | [1]
       | https://www.amazon.com/dp/0805049274/?coliid=I38DOW2LIAPT9J&...
        
         | perrylaj wrote:
         | In mid-century US, religiosity/faith were also promoted by
         | capitalists as counters to rising global popularity of
         | Communism/Socialism. The 1954 addition of "Under God" to the
         | USA's Pledge of Allegiance was marketed (in part) as a means of
         | differentiating from the Godless Communists. I'd be surprised
         | if this big push toward an obvious "Blessed Nation" wasn't a
         | primary driver in the shift.
        
         | hinkley wrote:
         | Do you suppose it has anything to do with all the
         | infrastructure that had to be built out new for the baby
         | boomers? All of a sudden you needed twice as many grade
         | schools, then middle schools, etc.
         | 
         | We don't do catholic boarding schools as much any more (too
         | much bad PR of several flavors, for example) but they
         | definitely did at the time. I wonder if the church-going came
         | first or the religious schools did.
         | 
         | I think a number of the traditionally religious immigrant waves
         | arrived well before WWI, so that probably doesn't have anything
         | much to do with it, unless those groups had far more children
         | post WWII...
        
         | captainredbeard wrote:
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Great_Awakening
        
       | throw7 wrote:
       | I think life, in general, is pretty good and has been in the U.S.
       | As a result, it's not surprising to see the numbers decline over
       | the years.
       | 
       | That said, religion isn't going anywhere. The metaphysical
       | questions we have are still the same since the dawn of mankind.
        
       | lend000 wrote:
       | I'm amazed it was that high. Shows how much of a bubble I live
       | in.
        
       | jbluepolarbear wrote:
       | I went to a Protestant Christian school for 9 years and church
       | until I was 16. As someone with learning disabilities,
       | Tourette's, and (at the time) gender identity issues; Christian's
       | made my life a living hell for things I had no control over.
        
       | ubermonkey wrote:
       | I suspect one factor in the declining membership is shared with
       | other mid-century social groups that have also dwindled (e.g.,
       | men's lodges): it's easier to find community elsewhere.
       | 
       | For my parents -- born in 1940 -- church and men's service
       | clubs/lodges were the primary areas of social interaction outside
       | work. Dad ran his own veterinary practice, so his social
       | interaction there was limited (I mean, everybody worked for him).
       | Mom stayed at home until the late 70s. Church was the center of
       | their social life.
       | 
       | Now, nobody wanted to say that out loud; it was all about the
       | faith. But that's what it was.
       | 
       | In my life I've had no need for that, because people of my
       | generation (b 1970) have generally found other communities of
       | support/friendship/connection. None of my friends are Masons,
       | either.
        
         | at_a_remove wrote:
         | Men's lodges, fraternal organizations, and so on around here
         | tend to have a religious underpinning of specific faiths, or
         | seem to be charities of some kind with a connection to
         | religion. As such, I think declining church membership would
         | drag them down as well.
         | 
         | I wonder if men's clubs exist which are neither, just
         | completely secular. I haven't been able to find any when
         | searching, aside from The Club, which technically fits but as a
         | bathhouse for hookups, wasn't really what I had in mind. I know
         | lodges centered around professions more or less fell apart, and
         | perhaps the last vestige of secular groups would be country
         | clubs.
         | 
         | It's hard to tell how much of this is just "people aren't
         | joiners anymore" and how much is declining church membership.
        
           | Robotbeat wrote:
           | men's Groups are now often political in nature.
           | 
           | Social justice groups (which are not that secular, actually),
           | libertarians, militias.
           | 
           | Church membership declined. Qanon membership soared.
        
       | AuthorizedCust wrote:
       | So many of the comments here are affirming what I have long
       | observed: much anti-religious sentiment ("much", not "all"!) is
       | actually a reaction to fundamentalism, which is the bad theology
       | of scriptural literalism, which brings heresies like hating LGBT,
       | insisting the Bible is also a science textbook, superstitious
       | views of certain Middle Eastern lands, and more.
       | 
       | Growing up as a mainline Protestant, I thankfully didn't have
       | much of this to react against in my own churches. But we saw the
       | bad fundamentalist theology in Southern Baptist or too many
       | independent churches (those two mentioned because they were
       | dominant where I grew up). I can appreciate the difference.
       | 
       | I'm still happily a mainline Protestant. I'm not instructed to
       | hate anyone, I'm not told to vote a particular way. I'm not going
       | to church to check in my brain to a charlatan who saves me from
       | an angry (false) god. I'm going to be better and to grow my
       | relationship with God.
        
         | clairity wrote:
         | it also depends on the church and with time. the southern
         | baptist church i went to when young didn't have much if any
         | extreme fundamentalism. the one i attended for a bit as a
         | teenager (not by choice) was a little more fundamentalist, but
         | not extreme. i stopped going to church after that.
         | 
         | but really, teasing apart the strains doesn't matter in the
         | long run. our gods are changing, just as they always have.
        
         | throwawaygal7 wrote:
         | Since mainline protestantism is in full collapse, is it really
         | true the progressive christianity has any chance of surviving
         | long term?
        
           | randcraw wrote:
           | A lot can change in a couple of centuries. Right now,
           | Catholicism is still growing in South America and Africa. As
           | people in those regions become better educated and affluent,
           | they may indeed follow the evolutionary path of other more
           | affluent economies.
           | 
           | But with the resounding recent rise throughout the world in
           | populism (which is a form of faith, but in a person or a
           | dream rather than an economy), it's hard to know how
           | humankind will respond to the challenges of the modern world.
           | 
           | We could choose to retreat from our current immersion in
           | fast-paced life via technology and withdraw into one (or
           | many) 'simpler' ways of life. If we do it wouldn't surprise
           | me if we also choose to reimagine the world that surrounds us
           | as being less concrete and more a realm of possibility in
           | which choose our own reality.
        
             | throwawaygal7 wrote:
             | I find it perplexing that you describe catholicism as
             | progressive, since it maintains strict sexual purity
             | standards, a male clergy, anti abortion and homosexuality
             | etc.(Perhaps I misread you)
             | 
             | Isnt it true that SA is having extreme growth of the
             | prosperity gospel form of fundamentalism too?
        
           | sudosteph wrote:
           | I wouldn't write it off yet. The popularity of protestantism
           | is very prone to wax and wane with the times. A really
           | charismatic preacher or two can make a big impact. Most of
           | the mainlines we see in the US today started from just
           | itinerant preachers and camp meetings. Personally, I think
           | that's because the emphasis on "personal relationships" with
           | God lends itself to more of a "social contagion" model of
           | popularity, as people seek to imitate friends and neighbors
           | who share spiritual experiences. That's not a negative thing
           | necessarily. But they can't lean on tradition like the
           | Orthodox or Catholics do.
        
         | snarf21 wrote:
         | Unfortunately, you are the exception. I grew up in a church
         | household and family. It is sad that so many people see the
         | bible as a weapon to enforce their point of view instead of a
         | manual to direct their own life. It is crazy the amount of hate
         | that my "christian" family members post on FB.
        
         | ben_w wrote:
         | I was raised liberal Catholic by an atheist father and an
         | eclectic hippie New-Age-Catholic-Hindu-dowsing-crystals-
         | homeopathy-and-runic[0]-divination mother, for the purposes of
         | getting into a good school.
         | 
         | While it is fair to say that one specific fundamentalist young-
         | Earth creationist Baptist certainly turned me from "it isn't
         | true but it doesn't matter" to "it is actively harmful for
         | people to believe this", I should also say that the liberal
         | version of Catholicism at my school -- liberal enough to _not
         | explicitly condemn_ abortion or homosexuality, even though this
         | was the U.K. in the 1990s and Section 28 still in force -- had
         | terrible sex education which completely ignored the existence
         | of e.g. chlamydia, and I do think that was due to the religion
         | given how quickly I learned about it the moment I moved to the
         | next step in my education.
         | 
         | The open-mindedness may have been good for me as a teenager
         | going through a goth-paganism phase, but it also meant she gave
         | my dad homeopathic remedies when he got bowel cancer, and she
         | got Alzheimer's 15 years younger than her mother "despite" her
         | use of Bach flower remedies for memory.
         | 
         | [0] naturally this meant I learned to read the outer border of
         | the Allen & Unwin edition of The Hobbit, and the text in the
         | hand drawn maps inside: https://www.theparisreview.org/blog/wp-
         | content/uploads/2013/...
        
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         | analog31 wrote:
         | That's fair, but to play devils advocate, every sect can point
         | the finger at some other sect, or at heretics within their own
         | sect. No sect will agree to any negative critique, and because
         | their doctrines tend to be self consistent, critique is
         | pointless anyway. Yet the sects are not completely separate,
         | but are collusive to some degree. And individual beliefs may be
         | a mishmash of ideas from multiple sects. Indeed for this
         | reason, the divisions between sects are not hard edged.
         | 
         | American fundamentalism would have no political power without
         | the tacit consent of the mainstream. The predominant sects in
         | my state are mainline, yet they voted _en masse_ to outlaw gay
         | marriage (before the US supreme court ruled otherwise).
        
         | jboynyc wrote:
         | Not just other commenters, the (sociological) science backs you
         | up as well: political backlash is a big reason for recent
         | disaffiliation. https://sociologicalscience.com/articles-
         | vol1-24-423/
        
           | burlesona wrote:
           | That's the predictable, and in the end, best outcome. The
           | most foolish thing cultural "christianity," could do is pick
           | a political party. Now that we're a generation past that, the
           | so-called "religious right" has evolved into a thin veneer of
           | pseudo-religion over a very specific political faction, and
           | that shallow falseness is driving most people away.
           | 
           | As for actual Christianity and those who study it, in many
           | ways the teachings of Christ could not be more different than
           | the "religious right" advocates today. Christ taught
           | followers to love their neighbors as themselves, and not to
           | judge other people, because in God's eyes all humans were
           | equally and impossibly flawed. When a mob formed to stone an
           | "adulteress," as was the prescribed punishment for that
           | "crime" in ancient Judaea, Jesus said "let the person who is
           | without sin throw the first stone." The mob dissolved, and he
           | told the woman she was forgiven.
           | 
           | Note that this is not what the religious-political faction of
           | Jesus day wanted either, and in the end they arranged for him
           | to be crucified as a result.
        
             | coliveira wrote:
             | I emigrated from another country to the US and, having
             | participated in religion in the past (even if just for
             | socialization), became frightened to discover that American
             | churches (at least 90% of them) are nothing more than a
             | cover to conservative political activism. I never entered
             | into a single one after that.
        
               | burlesona wrote:
               | I doubt that the number is 90%, and I have no idea how
               | anyone would rigorously measure it, but I understand your
               | point.
               | 
               | One of the annoying things is that it isn't even quite
               | true to say they preach "conservative," political action.
               | There's a particular political philosophy of the
               | "religious right," which is really it's own flavor of
               | thing and doesn't fit the classical definitions of
               | liberal vs conservative that we would have used in say,
               | 1980.
               | 
               | That's a lot of what's turning over the Republican Party
               | right now. Old-fashioned "conservatives" like Mitt Romney
               | and Liz Cheney are being uprooted in favor of... whatever
               | you call the hodgepodge of today's Republican ideas.
        
               | ryandrake wrote:
               | I'm not religious, so I don't go to my wife's church, but
               | with the pandemic now, they are streaming their services
               | on Sundays for the few of their congregation who are
               | respecting stay-at-home. Now that it's background noise
               | Sunday mornings, I can hear what they're saying, and it's
               | essentially a Republican sermon. Sure, the pastor
               | mentions Jesus every once in a while, but for the most
               | part it's straight up conservative talking points and
               | propaganda. If I didn't know it was a church service, I
               | would have thought she was streaming Fox News. I know,
               | anecdote and sample size of one, but wow.
               | 
               | They're all anti-maskers, too. She had to stop by once to
               | deliver something during service, and everyone's packed
               | in there singing and shouting, zero masks to be found.
               | Pretty scary.
        
               | [deleted]
        
             | Karunamon wrote:
             | Jesus also told the woman to "go forth and sin no more" as
             | part of being forgiven, which is a significantly important
             | detail that often gets overlooked when paraphrasing this
             | story.
             | 
             | The entire story of Christ is based on redemption from sin
             | - if one tries to eliminate that because having
             | extrajudicial demands on one's conduct is not fashionable
             | in the modern day, what's left is, objectively speaking,
             | not Christianity anymore, not even qualifying as a moral
             | framework, and leaves you with nothing more than a nice
             | story about a nice guy.
             | 
             | Let us not forget that Jesus was described as fashioning a
             | whip (which is not something you do on a momentary whim in
             | the bronze age, that takes time and effort, and in this
             | case, likely stewing the whole time) and deploying it
             | against scalpers in the temple. What the "judge not"
             | passage calls for is recognizing that you aren't the
             | ultimate authority worthy of meting out punishment at the
             | end of the day (which also jibes with significant portions
             | of the Israeli covenant and its lethal punishments being
             | deprecated), but it _does not_ demand that people remain
             | tolerant or silent in the face of sin.
        
               | burlesona wrote:
               | I agree with everything you said. I'll also admit, it's
               | hard for me to see much difference between today's
               | "religious right" and the temple market that Jesus
               | personally wrecked.
        
               | Karunamon wrote:
               | Agreed.. but I think that intent factors into it a lot
               | more than people tend to give credit for. If one of the
               | key takeaways of Christianity is "don't sin", then right
               | behind it is "you (and everyone else) will screw up, try
               | to be better anyways". And that applies just as well to
               | things like lying and cheating as it does to scrupulosity
               | and being judgmental.
               | 
               | Your typical fundamentalist might be nominally Christian
               | by declaration, but they give short shrift to so many
               | things they deem not important that it amounts to shallow
               | virtue signaling. The moral guidelines are all-or-
               | nothing. You either accept it all or you might as well
               | save yourself the time because there's no such thing as
               | partial credit. Sin is sin.
        
         | fullstop wrote:
         | I was raised Roman Catholic and attended Catholic schools until
         | college. When I was in high school I recall having serious
         | issues with what they were teaching. Here's a few of the gems
         | they left me with:                   1. You should only get
         | married if you intended on having children.         2. If you
         | were unable to have children, the marriage should be annulled.
         | 3. Homosexuality was abhorrent and sinful.         4. Women
         | should not obtain positions of power in the church.  They used
         | Adam and Eve to justify their position.
         | 
         | Many years later I found out that the reason why my freshman
         | year biology teacher left unexpectedly over the summer was
         | because he had been shuffled to another location after
         | molesting young boys. He was eventually imprisoned for this,
         | after being extradited to Australia. The church and the school
         | knew this but said nothing to the parents or the students and
         | it was swept under the rug. It was complete silence until they
         | were forced to say something at a point where those who were
         | molested were fairly far into their lives.
         | 
         | Thinking back on all of this still makes me angry today. A
         | priest in my elementary school was brought in and then quietly
         | and suddenly left a few months later and I am left with
         | unanswered questions.
         | 
         | I don't need that in my life. I don't need religion to be a
         | moral person, and from my point of view the system that I was
         | raised in was very far from moral. The Catholic church has done
         | more to affirm my Atheist .. non-beliefs? .. than anything
         | else.
        
           | philsnow wrote:
           | > If you were unable to have children, the marriage should be
           | annulled.
           | 
           | This depends on a lot of things. If two people get married,
           | and one of them already knows that they are sterile or for
           | whatever reason cannot have children, but they don't reveal
           | that to the other until after they are married, that is
           | _grounds_ for the other person to seek an annulment. This is
           | not the same thing as saying that the marriage  "should" be
           | annulled.
           | 
           | If on the other hand, knowledge of the person's sterility
           | doesn't arise until after they are married, I don't think
           | that's grounds for an annulment.
        
         | gspr wrote:
         | Even without the hate, isn't it harmful to indoctrinate
         | children into believing in fantasy?
         | 
         | Sure, adding hate makes it far worse, but one fantasy god with
         | a fantasy origin story and fantastical powers is one too many.
        
         | ykevinator wrote:
         | But god is not real and you speak with some certainty that he
         | is. Clutching on to the premise is so much of the problem with
         | society. Just because you're a nice believer ( not you
         | personally) doesn't mean you're not part of the problem. Belief
         | in the supernatural retards consensus on science based
         | solutions because it presumes that supernatural based solutions
         | are a legitimate alternative.
        
         | dawg- wrote:
         | I became an atheist/agnostic as a teenager and now in my late
         | 20's I have slowly come back to religion. So I am really
         | interested in this topic.
         | 
         | My comment is specifically about online atheist communities,
         | because I think they are often toxic to both religion _and_ to
         | atheism itself. A lot of these communities are hyper-focused on
         | fundamentalism, to their own detriment.
         | 
         | These online atheists communities can be very unfortunate. Your
         | noble search for the truth leads you to question religion - but
         | then you get caught in an echo chamber spending _a lot_ of
         | energy hating on others for their beliefs. A noble pursuit
         | devolved into hatred and groupthink. On the other hand,
         | fundamentalists took a religion which preaches love and
         | acceptance and twisted it into something bitter and hateful. I
         | think it 's kind of poetic how much those two communities
         | mirror each other.
         | 
         | The fixation on fundamentalism is a combination of two things.
         | First, there are people from those fundamentalist churches who
         | were damaged in some way and have now swung way to the opposite
         | extreme of hating all religion. They grew up learning to see
         | the world through rigid dogma, and online atheist communities
         | tend to be fairly dogmatic themselves. Not hard to see the
         | appeal there. Second, and probably more common, are atheists
         | who never had any close contact with fundamentalism but they
         | justify their beliefs by taking on the low-hanging fruit. It is
         | very easy to pick on young-earth creationists, vehement anti-
         | gay groups, prosperity gospel, etc. Those groups' thinking
         | really does rely on fear and hate, things that the bible
         | actually tells us to reject.
         | 
         | What happens when you tell one of those angry atheists that
         | yes, you're a Christian, but you also find evolution to be very
         | cool, you know that the universe is billions of years old, you
         | are pro choice, and you don't believe everything in the bible
         | literally happened? Well, they aren't really sure what to do
         | with you. Because they spend all their time congratulating
         | themselves for being smarter than the lowest common denominator
         | of religion, they aren't really able to have a more
         | sophisticated conversation about their beliefs.
         | 
         | As a religious person, it is a bit frustrating that you never
         | see atheists confronting the great theologists and religious
         | philosophers - Origen, St. Augustine, Thomas Aquinas,
         | Kierkegaard, or even contemporary thinkers like Alasdair
         | McIntyre. If Christians' beliefs are really so shallow and
         | stupid, those guys should be super easy to refute, right? They
         | think that all Christians are anti-science when Christian monks
         | were pivotal in the discovery of genetics and the big bang
         | theory, among other scientific achievements. They ignore that
         | some giants of Enlightenment philosophy, like Descartes and
         | Spinoza, were attempting to use new rational methods to affirm
         | the existence of God in their major works.
         | 
         | The problem is, when you are an atheist engaging in the really
         | complex arguments posed by the most intelligent and eloquent
         | religious people of history, the waters become very muddy. You
         | might even have to concede, just a little bit, that you take
         | your atheism on faith, too. It's much easier to feel good about
         | bashing the usual suspects - Joel Osteen, the 700 Club,
         | Westboro Baptist and friends. And so a lot of people get sucked
         | into that low-level discourse, and never get a chance to make
         | the exhilarating journey back to religion. I don't really care
         | if someone stays an atheist, many good people are atheists. But
         | I do care if they never get a chance to see the promise of
         | religion because of toxic echo chambers and groupthink.
         | 
         | As a religious person, I don't hate outspoken atheists. In
         | fact, I very much respect them - they are people who care
         | deeply about the truth. In that respect, they have something in
         | common with any thoughtful religious person.
        
           | awicz wrote:
           | This is such a refreshing comment. It's far better to engage
           | in dialogue with those whom you disagree in order to
           | understand their position opposed to assuming they are evil,
           | stupid, or otherwise sub-human. Wouldn't it be wonderful if
           | such an approach was applied not only to religious
           | conversations but those of politics, work disputes, conflicts
           | with your significant other...everything?
        
           | kongolongo wrote:
           | >What happens when you tell one of those angry atheists that
           | yes, you're a Christian, but you also find evolution to be
           | very cool, you know that the universe is billions of years
           | old, you are pro choice, and you don't believe everything in
           | the bible literally happened? Well, they aren't really sure
           | what to do with you. Because they spend all their time
           | congratulating themselves for being smarter than the lowest
           | common denominator of religion, they aren't really able to
           | have a more sophisticated conversation about their beliefs.
           | 
           | I'd say you're being inconsistent with your religion and that
           | the religious part of how you came to these views is
           | unnecessary. Sure I agree attacking the very worst of
           | religion is easy, but even at its very best, religion doesn't
           | make a compelling argument for its necessity.
           | 
           | The reason for fixation on fundamentalism is because they
           | have the most consistent story that can be argued against.
           | Once you start cherry picking whatever pieces of the bible
           | seem like it could fit into today's social norms and current
           | understanding of the physical world, you're basically showing
           | none of it necessary.
           | 
           | What would you say to someone that believes a giant turtle
           | created everything, is the one true god and also held those
           | same stances on evolution etc? They just prepend the fact
           | that a giant turtle created everything and then vanished
           | without a trace. Anyone could come up with a number of
           | creative stories that are unverifiable or disprovable and
           | seemingly are compatible with our current scientific
           | understanding of the world. What makes your god or any god(s)
           | in particular more reasonable or necessary than the great
           | turtle?
        
             | dawg- wrote:
             | I think you betray your lack of understanding by
             | categorizing any religious belief aside from fundamentalism
             | as "cherry picking whatever pieces of the bible...". There
             | is a 2,000 year old tradition of hermeneutic interpretation
             | of the bible, resulting in dozens of different, more
             | nuanced approaches to reading and thinking about the book.
             | But you've brushed all that aside as "cherry picking" so
             | that your criticism can still be coherent without having to
             | make any effort to learn more than you already know. You
             | _must_ maintain a narrow, simplistic definition of religion
             | in order to retain confidence in your belief system. Isn 't
             | that a bit backwards?
             | 
             | One individual making up a story about a turtle is not a
             | religion. Religions emerge from thousands of years of
             | collective human consciousness. The stories are told and
             | retold from millions of mouths to millions of ears. You
             | understand that input to a human's cognitive system can
             | shape their perception, consciousness, behavior, of course?
             | These stories and characters have accompanied us through
             | every technological revolution from agriculture to
             | smartphones. Repeated through countless generations, they
             | have literally shaped us as a species. With that suggestion
             | in mind, can you really confront the idea that God is "The
             | Word", and that we are "made in his image", without even a
             | tiny amount of awe and wonder?
        
               | kongolongo wrote:
               | Ok ignoring the appeal to tradition, how would you argue
               | for hinduism over christianity or vice versa? Both are
               | 2k+ years old with very different beliefs at their core.
               | Reincarnation vs an afterlife, single vs many gods.
               | 
               | Nothing about having a long history and nuanced
               | approaches over the years answers my question of
               | necessitation.
        
               | dawg- wrote:
               | Why ignore the main point of my comment? I directly
               | addressed one reason why a random turtle god and an
               | actual religion are very different.
               | 
               | I was talking _about_ traditions, yes, but to write it
               | off as simply an  "appeal to tradition" falls very short
        
               | Grieving wrote:
               | It's easy to see parallels if you really want to look.
               | The cycle of reincarnation is the thing that Hindus want
               | to escape from (both seek unity with god), and it can be
               | described as monotheistic as well.
               | 
               | Just different approaches to the same divine.
        
           | louwrentius wrote:
           | > just a little bit, that you take your atheism on faith
           | 
           | Well, that's the whole point: Atheists don't.
           | 
           | Indeed we can't explain everything, not even close. But we
           | don't have any reason to even remotely believe in any kind of
           | supernatural power, which in turn begs an explanation it self
           | ad infinitum.
        
             | dawg- wrote:
             | You don't have any reason _that you have considered_. Which
             | is totally fine. The problem comes when atheists believe _a
             | priori_ that any argument for God 's existence would be
             | automatically false, even the ones they have never heard or
             | considered.
        
               | randcraw wrote:
               | Your statement suggests there are infinitely many
               | hypotheses that posit "a thing exists, but there is no
               | evidence for it". Then you say others have failed to
               | (properly) consider those hypotheses that _you_ choose to
               | believe. (Which may or not be true, but no evidence
               | either way is evident.)
               | 
               | However, aren't you also saying you are not willing to
               | (properly) consider the infinitely many _alternative_
               | hypotheses to your own, much less the negation hypothesis
               | of  "NOT God"?
               | 
               | Which is better then? To choose to believe in one
               | untestable hypothesis or to believe in none?
        
               | louwrentius wrote:
               | No, Atheism doesn't mean that by definition a priori God
               | doesn't exist. That would be wrong indeed, but I never
               | encountered such arguments.
        
           | Grieving wrote:
           | I'm not a Christian, but a lot of this matches my experience
           | with the overwhelming majority of atheists. There's a severe
           | echo chamber effect and ignorance of both Christianity itself
           | and especially of other religions, to the point that they
           | make wide-ranging pronouncements that only really apply to a
           | single perverted branch of a particular religion.
           | 
           | > As a religious person, I don't hate outspoken atheists. In
           | fact, I very much respect them - they are people who care
           | deeply about the truth. In that respect, they have something
           | in common with any thoughtful religious person.
           | 
           | I disagree here though. In a secular world, rejecting
           | religion isn't exactly the mark of a radical truth-seeker.
           | When I started through my own atheistic phase as a teen, the
           | greatest disappointment was the observation that my
           | 'companions' in that regard weren't exactly insightful, just
           | followers of the zeitgeist; if anything they mirrored the
           | fundamentalists in their ignorance.
        
           | gobrewers14 wrote:
           | > "that you take your atheism on faith, too." This is a
           | nonsensical statement. Atheism is a recognition that there is
           | zero evidence for the existence of any gods. It requires no
           | faith.
           | 
           | > "Origen, St. Augustine, Thomas Aquinas, Kierkegaard, or
           | even contemporary thinkers like Alasdair McIntyre ... should
           | be super easy to refute, right?"
           | 
           | You're shifting the burden of proof; there is nothing to
           | refute. It's not the job of atheists to disprove your
           | assertions. Regardless of a persons' intelligence, they
           | cannot argue their deity into existence. It either exists or
           | it doesn't. None of the aforementioned scholars ever
           | presented evidence for their god or demonstrated supernatural
           | causation.
        
             | dawg- wrote:
             | >Atheism is a recognition that there is zero evidence for
             | the existence of any gods.
             | 
             | You're bemoaning a lack of empirical evidence when the
             | problem is actually a philosophical one.
             | 
             | >there is nothing to refute
             | 
             | Correct me if I'm wrong but it seems like your stance is
             | that God doesn't exist because God doesn't exist? Circular
             | argument much? Atheism is a positive statement, too.
             | 
             | >It's not the job of atheists to disprove your assertions.
             | 
             | Of course it's not your "job". But I'd rather talk to
             | someone who can actually explain why they think what they
             | think.
             | 
             | > It either exists or it doesn't.
             | 
             | We are not omnipotent beings. We must strive to gain
             | knowledge and understanding of the universe we live in. How
             | do you know whether or not it exists?
             | 
             | >None of the aforementioned scholars ever presented
             | evidence for their god or demonstrated supernatural
             | causation.
             | 
             | Disagree completely, they all presented interesting
             | arguments.
        
           | thrww20210329 wrote:
           | "As a religious person, it is a bit frustrating that you
           | never see atheists confronting the great theologists and
           | religious philosophers"
           | 
           | They also conveniently ignore miracles sent from God and seen
           | by thousands of people:
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Miracle_of_the_Sun
           | 
           | "you are pro choice"
           | 
           | I'm sorry but that is not compatible with Christianity.
        
             | dawg- wrote:
             | Why not?
        
               | thrww20210329 wrote:
               | https://www.catholicnewsagency.com/resources/abortion/cat
               | hol...
        
           | mint2 wrote:
           | I don't understand atheist online communities like you talk
           | about. I'm very much an atheist, but I'm baffled by anyone
           | who desires to have atheist get-togethers. What is the point?
           | is it like fake bacon for people who like the taste of being
           | preached to and preaching, but are atheist? Religious people
           | do it because their are supposed to but what reason would
           | atheists do it? When you were exploring atheism why did you
           | go?
        
             | dawg- wrote:
             | People tend to participate in online communities that
             | affirm their sense of identity. Maybe people who get really
             | involved are those who see atheism as a more important
             | aspect of their identity?
             | 
             | I was definitely turned on to atheism on the internet, but
             | I never really stuck around those forums. I grew up in a
             | fairly liberal Catholic church, so I didn't really relate
             | to all the vehemence against fundamentalism. Even though I
             | grew up in a church, I didn't even know about "young earth
             | creationism" until I learned about it from atheists on the
             | internet. In my science class in Catholic school, we
             | learned all about evolution. We used the same textbooks as
             | the public schools. I don't remember hearing anything bad
             | about LGBT, though I'm sure people talked about it since it
             | was the early 2000's and gay marriage was still a real
             | widespread controversy, as incredibly dumb as that seems
             | now.
             | 
             | Overall I guess my experience was very different from
             | someone who grew up conservative protestant and found
             | atheism. As a result I never hated religion, just didn't
             | believe in it for a while.
        
         | gbrown wrote:
         | I think you're missing the bitterness that comes from growing
         | up with a set of coping mechanisms and losing them. Moderate
         | Christianity, taught by moral and good people, nevertheless can
         | lead one to use the thought of eternal life as a psychological
         | coping mechanism to deal with the reality of death and
         | suffering in the world. If you eventually lose your ability to
         | believe in that (which is involuntary for many), it can be
         | quite painful.
        
         | Spooky23 wrote:
         | I had a similar experience as a Catholic in the northeast.
         | 
         | Lately as the politics of old people and loud young people have
         | tilted right-wing, and more extreme philosophy is accepted,
         | it's disturbing how the theology has followed the money.
         | 
         | I probably sound like a simpleton here, but I've always found
         | religion to be a source of peace and solace and a positive
         | influence. Some of that is a result of ignoring teachings that
         | are more... noxious to me personally or focusing away from
         | behavior of the human agents of the church.
         | 
         | Unfortunately, cycles of religious fundamentalism is a feature
         | of the American body politic.
        
         | JeremyNT wrote:
         | The beauty of protestantism is that there is no ultimate
         | arbiter to decide that one sect is "good" or "bad."
         | 
         | You view certain fundamentalists' interpretation as somehow
         | "bad?" So what? They probably view your sect as being equally
         | degenerate.
         | 
         | What gives you standing to cast this judgment?
         | 
         | The framework of Protestantism allows and accounts for these
         | divergent views. So you _really_ can 't throw down the "no true
         | Scotsman" fallacy against those sects you disagree with in its
         | broader defense.
        
         | brundolf wrote:
         | [Posted this under a reply below that got downvoted, so
         | reposting here]
         | 
         | I grew up fundamentalist, then swung hard atheist, then ended
         | up, as one friend who went to seminary described it, "the most
         | christian atheist he knows". I've known Christians ignorant and
         | intellectual, hateful and openly loving, urban and rural,
         | liberal and conservative, and everything in-between (and these
         | are all independent axes, to be clear).
         | 
         | Here's my take: A healthy faith is not about technicalities, or
         | about finding a system for understanding the physical world or
         | anything like that. If you get obsessed with technicalities you
         | become a bitter fundamentalist; if you get fed-up with religion
         | but stay obsessed with technicalities you become a bitter
         | atheist.
         | 
         | A healthy faith is about _people_. Yourself, your community,
         | the world. Cultivating habits of forgiveness and growth toward
         | yourself, and openness and love (as well as forgiveness and
         | growth) toward others. Having a specific segment of your life
         | dedicated to contemplation of the most important things in
         | life, and doing so in a community on a regular basis. The
         | iconography and the texts, ideally, are just a communal conduit
         | for those ideas; symbols people can point to and use to talk
         | about their thoughts and feelings around this stuff with
         | others, and also to spark new thoughts and points of
         | discussion.
         | 
         | Many (not all) of my close friends are christians, and none of
         | them have ever tried to convert me (if they were to do that on
         | a regular basis, we wouldn't be close friends). Some of them
         | don't really think hell exists; most of them don't think some
         | magic prayer is all that's needed to keep you out of it; they
         | know that spirituality is a matter of the heart, and the heart
         | isn't so simple. Most, I think, see that even if hell does
         | exist, the best thing they can do for others is simply to love
         | them and to help them be better through example and friendship,
         | if anything. They know they don't control others and they can't
         | force them into anything. They can only be Good and hope that
         | it spreads.
         | 
         | I like this quote from Pope Francis:
         | 
         | > We must meet one another doing good. 'But I don't believe,
         | Father, I am an atheist!' But do good: we will meet one another
         | there.
         | 
         | ADDENDUM: So where has that left me? I don't practice religion,
         | though I read from the occasional religious author and I think
         | spirituality in the broader sense is a useful metaphor for
         | matters surrounding the heart and trying to be a better member
         | of the world. I have really nice conversations, even with
         | religious people, around those subjects. I've been known to go
         | with a friend or relative to the odd church service (as long as
         | it's at a church that's reasonably compatible with the above),
         | and I often get some benefit from it in the form of meditation
         | on myself and my relationship with the world. I've thought
         | about finding a church to join for the sake of community,
         | though I go back and forth on that since I don't believe in
         | even the smallest literal sense (I try to let go of my
         | literalism, but I still have mental habits from the days when I
         | thought it was all about that, both religious and not). Maybe
         | one day I'll find the right church and get past that.
        
         | mustafa_pasi wrote:
         | And what did you gain out of it?
         | 
         | I grew up in a non-fundamentalist Christian cult (catholic) and
         | it was at best a massive waste of time. I detest that part of
         | my life.
        
           | AuthorizedCust wrote:
           | > _it was at best a massive waste of time_
           | 
           | Why? Can you expand on that?
        
             | mustafa_pasi wrote:
             | Because I cannot recall a single good thing I got out of
             | the whole experience.
        
         | frogpelt wrote:
         | Jesus drove people out of the temple with a whip for
         | disrespecting it. He called people (these are all based on KJV
         | translation) "generation of vipers", "hypocrites", "whited
         | sepulchres full of dead men's bones", he said it would be
         | better some people to not have been born, that it would be
         | better for some to have a millstone hanged on their neck and be
         | drowned in the sea.
         | 
         | None of that was hatred. It was love. He was dealing with
         | people's religious and moral failings.
         | 
         | It is not love to tell people they are okay when they are
         | morally bankrupt.
        
           | Trasmatta wrote:
           | In that case, I will show love by saying that many religions
           | are morally bankrupt.
        
         | gameswithgo wrote:
         | For me, and many I know, anti-religious sentiment is pretty
         | simple. We just think it is science fiction, and thus not good
         | to believe it is real. Even if its all very nice and friendly
         | and reasonable fiction, it is better to understand it isn't
         | real.
        
           | smt88 wrote:
           | My anti-religious sentiment goes far beyond that. I could not
           | care less if people believe in science fiction. We all
           | believe lies, don't we?
           | 
           | My problem is that religions dictate universal truth, which
           | is used as a justification to oppress. Many of us were abused
           | or oppressed by mainstream religons as children.
        
         | kodah wrote:
         | Fundamentalism is still a vague description. I left the
         | Catholic church in my teens and was angry for the experiences
         | I'd had. As I grew as an adult my ire went from "religious
         | institutions" to "certain moral communities".
         | 
         | In any moral community there will be outliers and some of those
         | outliers can take hold of a message. You can see this in modern
         | day with secular moral communities as well. My main takeaway,
         | after 20-some years of evaluating this is that morals are
         | something okay to evaluate _your_ group on, but they are not
         | ethics. They cannot apply widely, make their way into law, or
         | try to shape society because by their very definition they are
         | intrinsic to small groups. That doesn 't mean these groups
         | can't teach us something, but the foundation of their ideas
         | requires subscription and often holistically.
        
           | AuthorizedCust wrote:
           | > _I left the Catholic church in my teens and was angry for
           | the experiences I 'd had._
           | 
           | I know of too many Catholics who say the same. Not growing up
           | Catholic, it's hard to relate. Their stories often involve
           | excessively strict dogma or scriptural interpretation that
           | denies or vilifies innocent human nature. E.g., taking your
           | girlfriend to mass to hear an incendiary anti-abortion
           | sermon, then losing said girlfriend due to that mass, then
           | later ending your relationship with the church out of
           | frustration.
        
         | paulryanrogers wrote:
         | After being raised in a non-Fundamentalist denomination I'd say
         | the progressive ones are more insidious and no less harmful.
         | Their foundations are all the same text, no matter how literal
         | or figurative they interpret it. IME they usually also teach
         | the same bad ways of thinking: emotion over logic, testimony
         | over hard evidence, authority beyond your understanding, etc.
        
           | brundolf wrote:
           | I've seen the churches you talk about, and I would almost
           | call them "progressive-fundamentalist". The hallmark of
           | fundamentalism isn't really adhering strictly to the text
           | (after all, the text is so multifaceted that there's not even
           | just one definition of "strict adherence", despite what they
           | would tell you). The defining trait is turning the text into
           | a battle-cry instead of an invitation for contemplation and
           | love and self- and community-work. Progressives are just as
           | likely to do this as conservatives.
        
           | AuthorizedCust wrote:
           | I suspect you're setting up a false dichotomy. There are more
           | choices on theology than ones that require you to check your
           | brain in at the door, such as 1. fundamentalism and 2. feel-
           | good pop psychology.
           | 
           | I am not taught emotion over logic. In fact, the Wesleyan
           | Quadrilateral (a framework derived from but not described by
           | him) has you evaluate beliefs with reason being a co-equal
           | base. In confirmation and later in-depth adult classes, we
           | were instructed to wrestle with the scripture. For example,
           | we dug into the context of the times to understand better why
           | certain things would have been said. We acknowledged selected
           | verses made no sense. We agreed some parts we have no choice
           | but to disregard. We frankly don't take Revelations that
           | seriously because it's mostly batshit crazy. :-)
           | 
           | I am not taught testimony over evidence. My church fully
           | embraces evolution. We see Genesis for the story and the
           | poetry.
           | 
           | Authority beyond understanding: that gets back into the
           | theological allegiance insisted on by the fundamentalists
           | mainly.
        
             | IsopropylHarbor wrote:
             | Methodist Quadrilateral still teaches their followers to
             | view issues and compare them to their scripture, then their
             | traditions, then reason, and Christian experiences...
             | 
             | Those are literally the four pillars of Wesleyan, which are
             | all emotion over logic.
        
               | AuthorizedCust wrote:
               | "reason", one of the "four pillars of [the] Wesleyan
               | [Quadrilateral]" is "all emotion over logic"?
        
               | IsopropylHarbor wrote:
               | Yes, but you've conveniently left out your other
               | pillars...
               | 
               | Reasoning is just the _act_ of thinking. An explanation
               | for something which, according to you, should be framed
               | around: Scripture, Tradition, and Christian Experiences.
               | 
               | Scripture: Tells you how to feel (emotion) Tradition:
               | Tells you this is how we've always felt (emotion)
               | Christian Experience: Is a grouping of Scripture and
               | Tradition (emotion)
        
               | AuthorizedCust wrote:
               | Reason is also the invitation to use our God-given
               | intellect to help us come to conclusions. Otherwise we're
               | disparaging God by disparaging that intellect.
               | 
               | Otherwise, yes, the other three bases of the
               | Quadrilateral aren't "reason".
        
             | coliveira wrote:
             | You just said that beliefs and reason are a co-equal base.
             | This is exactly against reason, as reason cannot be bended
             | in some cases just because you believe it should not apply
             | in certain areas. That's why your denomination continues to
             | subscribe to ideas that go against reason like Trinity,
             | just to name a very common one.
        
             | folkrav wrote:
             | As much as I appreciate your level headed approach of the
             | whole thing, the very basis of most religion is based on
             | _faith_ that [insert relevant scriptures] are holding some
             | truth about the very existence and power of [insert
             | omnipotent entity]. I'll be honest, I have a hard time
             | putting this very fundamental point as having any basis in
             | logic and reason. Even putting beliefs at the same level as
             | reason is rather questionable, IMHO.
             | 
             | Edit: I'm not here to tell you you're wrong or to question
             | your beliefs. You're very much free to hold them. I'm just
             | having a hard time equating religion with objectivity when
             | they are fundamentally rooted in something subjective by
             | nature.
        
               | AuthorizedCust wrote:
               | I agree with you that it's not based on logic and reason.
               | And I am OK with that. The mystery and subjectiveness is
               | part of the point and part of reality that we need to
               | grapple with.
        
               | sidlls wrote:
               | "Mystery" and "subjectiveness" are euphemistic
               | descriptions of mythology and fairy tales, used to
               | justify some pretty terrific political and military
               | policies even today. People who go to church are
               | implicitly supporting these things. Some of them have an
               | excuse, in that they were simply raised that way and
               | never had an opportunity for enlightenment. People who
               | should know better don't have that excuse.
        
               | AuthorizedCust wrote:
               | > _used to justify some pretty terrific political and
               | military policies even today_
               | 
               | People who want to war will use any reason they can. Many
               | have used religion, unfortunately. Mao and Hitler didn't,
               | though.
        
               | Mertax wrote:
               | While I should attempt to create objective and rational
               | explanation for everything, I think most people recognize
               | I'd be hubristic to assume I can do this in all cases.
               | Whether or not a belief system has to come into play is
               | perhaps subjective. The irony is that I think most belief
               | systems have the staying power they do because they
               | cannot be entirely discredited through logic and reason.
        
               | grogenaut wrote:
               | I went to a Catholic highschool as a non-catholic. It was
               | taught by marianists and we had visiting jesuits often.
               | They generally taught that you reached your faith through
               | logic and exploration and doubt of faith until you hit
               | the point where you realize you can't explain it all with
               | logic. They were very harsh on everyone's beliefs and
               | made you analyze them. It didn't work for me but I
               | appreciated the emphasis on critical thinking.
               | 
               | I did enjoy the classes where we just gutted and analyzed
               | the bible like any other literary work, they were not shy
               | about it and it was fun to watch it shock the "devout
               | Catholic kids".
        
               | paulryanrogers wrote:
               | > They generally taught that you reached your faith
               | through logic and exploration and doubt of faith until
               | you hit the point where you realize you can't explain it
               | all with logic.
               | 
               | So the absence of evidence is evidence of the
               | supernatural? Isn't this the god-of-the-gaps?
        
               | folkrav wrote:
               | > They generally taught that you reached your faith
               | through logic and exploration and doubt of faith until
               | you hit the point where you realize you can't explain it
               | all with logic
               | 
               | I'm fine with this... until they start proposing that the
               | explanation for "you can't explain it all with logic" is
               | "therefore there is an almighty God" rather than
               | "therefore we don't how it works yet". At this point, my
               | level of faith approaches zero (I sit somewhere along the
               | lines of agnosticism or apatheism, depending on my mood)
               | so you're losing me completely.
        
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           | f38zf5vdt wrote:
           | Not sure I follow. If the religious outfit is teaching things
           | like:
           | 
           | - This book is a set of moral guidance aimed to cause
           | favorable social outcome.
           | 
           | - These stories are myths.
           | 
           | - We should analyze these books to critically determine their
           | relevance to our modern lives.
           | 
           | - Your personal understanding of spirituality is unique to
           | yourself.
           | 
           | It seems only productive? It seems a much more dangerous
           | stance, one even paralleling a fundamentalist stance, that
           | there might be nothing to learn at all from scripture and
           | millennia of human organized religion and so it must be
           | completely discarded.
        
             | TeMPOraL wrote:
             | I haven't encountered a single religion that would teach
             | what you just described. Can you name some?
             | 
             | I can't imagine such religion staying around for long, as
             | presenting things this way leads to obvious question: what
             | makes $holyBook special over, say, Harry Potter? Or Star
             | Trek? Or your national fiction writer of yore that wrote
             | stories to cheer up their readers in difficult times[0]?
             | 
             | This is not a joke question, by any means. I grew up as a
             | Jehovah's Witness, so I had (my religion's interpretation
             | of) the Bible down pat. And yet, looking back, even when I
             | still believed I already realized my moral compass was
             | built 50% on the Bible, and 50% on Star Trek: The Next
             | Generation. It's probably the latter that kept me from
             | becoming a fundamentalist believer :). Alas, while I could
             | easily find a community of people willing to wait for Jesus
             | with me, I have a hard time finding people who want to work
             | towards the utopian ideals of the United Federation of
             | Planets with me.
             | 
             | --
             | 
             | [0] - E.g. Henryk Sienkiewicz in my country.
        
               | f38zf5vdt wrote:
               | Universalists, Reconstructionist Judaism, Quakers with
               | unprogrammed worship, virtually any panentheist religion
               | which asserts that the concept of God is universal and
               | inherent in every element we can perceive. Even early
               | Christian Gnosticism had echoes of this style of thought.
        
             | MisterBastahrd wrote:
             | You're missing:
             | 
             | - These myths are the only ones we believe. The other ones
             | are false and harmful.
             | 
             | - There is an invisible man who created everything and sits
             | in judgment of all of us for the purposes of what happens
             | to us in an afterlife that nobody has been able to observe.
             | 
             | - Follow us so that he does not judge you unfavorably.
             | 
             | The problem with the Bible is that the main character is
             | God, and so everything that happens in the book affects
             | him. The lessons do not give proper ethical cause and
             | effect reasons for why you should do or not do something
             | except that God is displeased with your humanity. Churches
             | can add to these lessons and actually teach ethics, but
             | they originate with the idea that a perfect being is really
             | bad at creating perfect beings.
             | 
             | Despite how many churches start having pastors with spiked
             | hair and jeans and sneakers and tattoos, THAT does not
             | change, and it's fundamentally ridiculous and harmful.
        
               | f38zf5vdt wrote:
               | This is a strawman for what you believe all religious
               | organizations to be. In fact, you don't even need to be a
               | religious organization to hold such beliefs. See:
               | Alcoholics Anonymous.
               | 
               | The problem that religious doctrine seeks to address is
               | one of how to preserve our sanity when we're inexplicably
               | stuck on this rock together. Science doesn't seem to have
               | any good explanation for why we're here either -- just
               | that we exist and the universe has for a long time too.
               | There a multiple colliding personal beliefs of
               | individuals on things like: fairness, justice, or
               | whatever a favorable outcome socially even might be. I
               | think it's fine that people might seriously study the
               | mythos of Greek, Abrahamic, and Eastern religion
               | together.
               | 
               | People are born without a purpose other than survival and
               | it is perfectly normal, if not recommended, that they
               | maintain a healthy curiosity about the meaning of their
               | existence. The alternative, unless I'm mistaken, is
               | nihilism.
        
               | coliveira wrote:
               | But you don't need religion for that. The ancients
               | already knew this by creating the arts as an expression
               | of humanity looking for its meaning. My opinion is that
               | modern humans debased art and nowadays have difficulty
               | finding things that are meaningful. Religion and
               | superstition, on the other hand, have maintained their
               | focus.
        
               | gumby wrote:
               | > In fact, you don't even need to be a religious
               | organization to hold such beliefs. See: Alcoholics
               | Anonymous.
               | 
               | Alcoholics Anonymous _is_ an explicitly religious
               | organization is it not? To me they certainly cast
               | themselves so strongly in that manner that to claim they
               | are a not is to make a distinction without a difference.
               | 
               | Note: I have not attended ?A itself but spent time with
               | adjacent ?anon groups designed to support people whose
               | friends and family members are struggling with addiction.
               | The messages I received were, to me, pretty hard core
               | religious, and one specific kind of religion in
               | particular.
        
               | MisterBastahrd wrote:
               | It isn't a strawman. It is a fundamentally accurate
               | description of the major Western religions. The kind you
               | would go to a church to.
        
             | whatshisface wrote:
             | They didn't keep the Bible around for thousands of years
             | because they compared it with other myths and thought it
             | was the best, they did it because they thought it was true.
             | The "natural selection" argument for the Bible leaves out
             | the fact that reading it as a myth is not its "habitat," to
             | keep up the analogy. On a comparative mythology basis, the
             | winner will probably be a work of fiction written after the
             | printing press.
        
               | f38zf5vdt wrote:
               | Who is "they"? This seems like an argument against
               | organized religion because of religious hegemony in
               | certain cultures.
               | 
               | Certainly people _do_ gravitate towards moral mythology
               | whether they like to admit it or not. The popularity of
               | superheroes in North American culture speaks to this in
               | modern times, most of which appear to be stories about
               | defeating evil in ways that parallel those of ancient
               | myths.
        
               | whatshisface wrote:
               | The argument is that the Bible is a really great myth
               | because it survived for so long. The fallacy in that
               | argument is that the Bible did not survive as a myth, it
               | survived as a written record of events.
        
               | mbg721 wrote:
               | The Catholic approach, at least, is that the Bible
               | contains a variety of literary styles, and so it's both.
               | Some books are records of events, some are letters, some
               | are myths in the Joseph Campbell sense of stories that
               | are meant relate deeper truths about human nature and
               | mankind's relationship with God. Most of the people who
               | did this preserving over the centuries didn't subscribe
               | so much to literal-minded fundamentalism.
        
               | whatshisface wrote:
               | The Catholic approach doesn't allow for swapping out
               | biblical myths for other myths, which means that the
               | Bible wasn't competing as a myth in their cannon either.
               | If there was a form of "natural selection" operating on
               | it, it was not operating on it _as a myth_. However I
               | grant that  "they thought it was true" is a vast
               | oversimplification of the many motivations that people
               | have had for printing copies of the Bible - which can
               | include purely financial ones!
        
               | mbg721 wrote:
               | Ah, I think I see what you mean. Yes, most of the
               | curation of the biblical canon was settled by the 4th
               | century or so, and after that it came along with the
               | religion as a fixed entity. But that doesn't mean there
               | wasn't some natural selection of myths before that,
               | especially those that had already been around for a long
               | time before they were written down. Some weren't
               | exclusive to Judaism; compare Noah to Utnapishtim in the
               | Epic of Gilgamesh.
        
               | whatshisface wrote:
               | I don't think 3rd century Christians were comparing
               | different accounts and selecting them on the basis of how
               | well they would function as allegorical myths. I could be
               | wrong, but as far as I know that is a modern invention,
               | developed to reconcile the supernatural elements of
               | scriptures with the naturalistic worldview that developed
               | during the enlightenment. To understand the setting of
               | early canonization, you have got to picture a world of
               | persecution, faith and martyrdom that is hard for us to
               | imagine in our liberal, secular and comfortable world.
               | 
               | I understand that the view of the Bible as a product of
               | natural selection is a way to transpose the belief that
               | it was not made through purely human forces to a
               | philosophical system where all nonhuman forces are
               | natural. However, the argument for relevance to modernity
               | is severely weakened by this rebasing. It is not the
               | present environment that determines the shape of the
               | animal, but the historical environment, and while the
               | survival of a species is a testament to its adaptation
               | for the historical environment, it is not a testament to
               | its adaptation for the present environment. Since the
               | historical environment was a combination of true faith,
               | and later illiberality, there is no reason to think that
               | it should be adapted for the modern environment of the
               | allegorical view and religious freedom. That is why I do
               | not think the naturalistic view works as a justification
               | for the providence of the scriptures.
        
             | bushbaba wrote:
             | I've met a handful of Jewish rabbis who teach exactly this
             | btw.
             | 
             | However their comment is not the stories are "myths". But
             | instead are verbal stories that likely greatly exaggerate
             | the situation to teach us a lesson and keep us engaged.
        
         | eslaught wrote:
         | I'm not sure the narrative you're trying to paint here actually
         | works. If you dig deeper into the actual poll, it says:
         | 
         | > In addition to Protestants, declines in church membership are
         | proportionately smaller among political conservatives,
         | Republicans, married adults and college graduates. These groups
         | tend to have among the highest rates of church membership,
         | along with Southern residents and non-Hispanic Black adults.
         | 
         | From the actual first-party news article on the poll:
         | https://news.gallup.com/poll/341963/church-membership-falls-...
         | 
         | For better or worse, conservative (both politically and
         | theologically) people seem to be holding on to their Christian
         | faith in greater numbers (at least marginally) than their more
         | progressive or liberal leaning counterparts.
         | 
         | Anyway, as someone who almost left the faith, I would agree
         | with the overall narrative that Christianity became ineffective
         | in the late 20th century. Personally though, I would attribute
         | it to a lack of focus on youth and issues relevant to youths. I
         | can't find it now, but I'm pretty sure I saw a poll that
         | indicated most people who leave do so in the transition from
         | high school to college. That certainly lines up with what I
         | observed, most people just didn't care enough to keep going
         | (regardless of what branch they were in). I would have been one
         | of them myself, if I hadn't been able to find a college
         | Christian community that was dramatically more vibrant than
         | what I grew up with. But overall I think I'm one of the lucky
         | ones.
        
           | randcraw wrote:
           | Yeah, I suspect this news story (and poll) only scratches the
           | surface as to identifying the multiple demographic trends
           | afoot. Most notable to my eye was the 15% drop in church
           | membership between GenX and Millenial. Of course, to do that
           | metric justice we'd need to monitor change in that age group
           | over time. Are today's 18-to-30 year olds so different than
           | 18-to-80 year olds were in the 1970's or 1990s?
           | 
           | I suspect the range of ages that are today's Millenials has
           | forever been less traditional than other age groups. That's
           | unsurprising given they have the least personal history of
           | any adult group to weigh when deciding their life's
           | priorities, and are likely to think least about their
           | relationship to others in their family (since they just left
           | the parents behind and have yet to add any more). At that
           | age, the need to join another 'family' and adopt a bunch of
           | new familial responsibilities is likely to be less compelling
           | a notion than it may be a few years hence.
        
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         | m0llusk wrote:
         | My own experience being raised mainline Protestant was a bit
         | different which might be illustrative: My parents were not at
         | all devout, but still took wisdom and moral lessons from the
         | Bible, especially from the teachings of Jesus. At the same time
         | the preachers in town leaned right in their beliefs and focused
         | on reading and interpreting more obscure passages. This
         | resulted in a modest ongoing tension about what exactly it all
         | meant. Then one Sunday School a conservative leaning preacher
         | taught the kids how to spot witches. That was the last straw
         | and we never went back to Mass or Sunday School and gradually
         | withdrew from everything else with Easter and Christmas being
         | the final holdouts. So I drifted to atheism but still find
         | wisdom in the Bible and dare to compare the passages that focus
         | on Jesus to stories of the Buddha. Culturally there is still
         | quite a bit of influence there, but the fundamentalist
         | component is a massive division like a great wall.
        
           | AuthorizedCust wrote:
           | Witches? Seriously? That's just looney crap.
           | 
           | I take it that "last straw" means the "straw that broke the
           | camel's back". I just hope that stories like that won't be
           | conflated with healthy practice of Christianity in people's
           | minds.
        
             | krastanov wrote:
             | I get your point, but isn't this the "no true Scotsman"
             | fallacy? I know Christians like you exist and I like that
             | most media portrays "good" Christians to look basically
             | like the prototype you described. However, I have
             | personally met only one Christian of this type and all my
             | other interactions have been with the fundamenlist
             | caricatures described elsewhere here. (Who is vocal about
             | their Christianity might be skewing my observations, but
             | this is a problem in its own: why are only the
             | fundamentalists vocal around me)
        
               | nicbou wrote:
               | You've probably met a lot more, but only noticed the more
               | intense ones.
        
               | AuthorizedCust wrote:
               | > _isn 't this the "no true Scotsman" fallacy_
               | 
               | You have a point. The definition of Christian is
               | flexible, so how do you define "true"-ness? In my
               | denomination, you'll find a wide variance of views on
               | whether Mormons are Christian, for example.
               | 
               | > _all my other interactions have been with the
               | fundamenlist caricatures described elsewhere here_
               | 
               | Like what you later intimated and what someone else said,
               | I'll bet significant money that it's because they are so
               | vocal. They are called capital-E evangelicals for a
               | reason. The United Methodist church is lowercase-E
               | evangelical; very much not in your face.
        
           | whatanattitude wrote:
           | Mass is very much not main line Protestant.
           | 
           | Spotting a witch would be no different than spotting any
           | other sinner who exists. We are everywhere. At the end of the
           | day we are all sinners and will all stand accountable for our
           | sins on the day of judgement. We can either be found in
           | Christ forgiven or on our own.
           | 
           | You can say you don't believe it and it's all a fairy tale.
           | That's fine but most Christians are only warning others of
           | the eternity that waits based on the special revelation of
           | Christ in the Bible.
        
           | DaedPsyker wrote:
           | This isn't an excuse, more curiosity, but did that take place
           | during the mass hysteria about supposed satanic cults?
        
           | coliveira wrote:
           | This demonstrates the big flaw of Christianity. Even thought
           | there are millions of sincere, loving and friendly Christians
           | around the world, the whole thing is based around a book that
           | espouses views that are exactly what you call fundamentalism.
           | Sooner or later someone will be confronted with the
           | fundamentalist ideas about women, non-christians, and sexual
           | diversity (for example), and start spreading the hate ideas
           | contained in parts of that book.
        
             | mrfusion wrote:
             | Are there clear examples of that in the Bible (New
             | Testament) or is it just how people interpret it?
             | 
             | Edit. I'm not challenging or arguing any point. I was
             | genuinely curious.
        
               | sudosteph wrote:
               | There are, but it's worth noting that they are all quotes
               | from Paul, not Jesus.
        
               | coliveira wrote:
               | You mean, the same Jesus who appointed only men to be his
               | disciples, while the women in his entourage were
               | servants? It seems that Paul was just putting into words
               | his practice.
        
               | sudosteph wrote:
               | Funny you mention that! Yes, the four gospels that were
               | canonized by a patriarchal church organization do seem to
               | paint a picture like that. But the Gospel of Thomas, and
               | other ancient "heretical" texts tell a different story,
               | where Jesus explicitly acknowledgd women as equals and
               | Mary as the favorite disciple. So even some very early
               | Christians would disagree with Paul here.
        
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               | jazzyb wrote:
               | Women shouldn't speak in church:
               | https://biblehub.com/1_corinthians/14-34.htm
               | 
               | Homosexuality is unnatural:
               | https://www.biblestudytools.com/romans/1-27.html
        
               | kaesar14 wrote:
               | Eph 22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as
               | you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the
               | wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of
               | which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to
               | Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in
               | everything.
               | 
               | Cor 33 For God is not a God of disorder but of peace--as
               | in all the congregations of the Lord's people.
               | 
               | 34 Women[a] should remain silent in the churches. They
               | are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as
               | the law says.
               | 
               | Tim 12 I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume
               | authority over a man;[a] she must be quiet.
               | 
               | I think those constitute clear sexism and/or misogyny?
        
               | tdozi wrote:
               | I'll add this as a great overview and resource for the
               | context around that letter(and all the others):
               | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y71r-T98E2Q
        
               | TheCoelacanth wrote:
               | Take out the writings of Paul (who never actually met
               | Christ) and the whole thing becomes so much less
               | problematic.
        
               | colinmhayes wrote:
               | Have Christians all agreed to take out the gospel
               | according to Paul?
        
               | josefx wrote:
               | I can't remember ever being in a church where women were
               | required to stay silent. So not quite dropped but at
               | least not enforced by most. Ask me again once everyone
               | dropped miles for metric.
        
               | kaesar14 wrote:
               | There are plenty of modern Christian sects where I'm
               | certain men do get more of a voice than women.
        
               | coliveira wrote:
               | The day Christians remove Paul's letters from the Bible,
               | then your argument will make sense.
        
               | prewett wrote:
               | Paul claims to have met Christ on the road to Damascus
               | (Acts 9:3-6) [1] and claims apostolic authority because
               | of it (Acts 15:3-8) [2]. Furthermore, other apostles
               | agreed that he had, or at least that he had the correct
               | message (Gal 2:6-10) [3] and that his writings had the
               | force of scripture (2 Peter 3:15-16) [4]. It is a letter
               | from Peter, the head of the church in Jerusalem, claiming
               | equating Paul's writing with "the other Scriptures", so
               | you can't take out Paul's writing by claiming that that
               | the original apostles did not believe what Paul wrote.
               | 
               | [1] https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Acts+9&v
               | ersion=...
               | 
               | [2] https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1%20Cori
               | nthians...
               | 
               | [3] https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Galatian
               | s%202&v...
               | 
               | [4] https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=2%20Pete
               | r+3&ver...
        
               | kaesar14 wrote:
               | It's all in the Bible.
        
               | dawg- wrote:
               | There are many different ways to read the bible. Mainly,
               | the bible is not a literal instructional manual unless
               | you are a fundamentalist. And fundamentalists suck. For
               | others, it's a written record of humanity's relationship
               | with God. It's also a collection of writings from a
               | number of different authors and genres - it has history,
               | poetry, letters, and so on. The old testament was written
               | by people thousands of years ago who had an imperfect
               | understanding of God, nature, humans, society, etc.
               | 
               | In large part, the story of Jesus demonstrates how we
               | should reject those archaic rules of our ancestors and
               | act according to very simple principles; nonviolence,
               | love for God, and love for all humans.
        
               | kaesar14 wrote:
               | I have no real bone to pick with Christianity. The asking
               | comment was for examples of sexism and misogyny in the
               | Bible which I provided.
        
               | onwchristian wrote:
               | Note: this is a bit cherry-picking out of context, which
               | I'll admit sometimes happens in Christian circles as
               | well. But I think understanding the context and culture
               | of the time can make things a bit more clear. Yes, the
               | culture of the time had a different handling of gender
               | roles, and some of that persists in other cultures around
               | the world to this day. These were letters written to the
               | Christians in the churches of the day. Likely the content
               | would be written slightly differently if it were written
               | to a church in the modern day USA.
               | 
               | For example: Ephesians 6 goes on from what you clipped:
               | 25 For husbands, this means love your wives, just as
               | Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her 26
               | to make her holy and clean, washed by the cleansing of
               | God's word. 27 He did this to present her to himself as a
               | glorious church without a spot or wrinkle or any other
               | blemish. Instead, she will be holy and without fault. 28
               | In the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as
               | they love their own bodies. For a man who loves his wife
               | actually shows love for himself. 29 No one hates his own
               | body but feeds and cares for it, just as Christ cares for
               | the church. 30 And we are members of his body.
               | 
               | This seems to me to indicate that husbands should be
               | self-sacrificing and putting their wives' needs above
               | their own. All the submission indicated here is similar
               | to the way that Christ (the Son) submits to God the
               | Father. These would have been very strong and shocking
               | words in that culture, that normally would have allowed
               | for husbands to have complete "rule" over their wives,
               | and instead is urging husbands to self-sacrifice for
               | their wives. So if anything, it would have been improving
               | the standing of women rather than "keeping them down."
               | 
               | If you're married, have you ever willingly given up on
               | your own desires, instead following your spouse's
               | needs/wants? Have they ever done the same for you? This
               | seems to be what this passage is encouraging.
        
               | kaesar14 wrote:
               | I'm not cherry picking out of context. The following
               | lines don't make it any better to me. The text is
               | ultimately still saying women should bow and submit to
               | their husbands decisions in all things, as long as their
               | husbands treat them well. Yeah, I get that this was
               | 'progressive' for its time. I still find it absurd people
               | follow text like this as holy.
               | 
               | Your interpretation is well and dandy but perhaps as a
               | society we need to stop holding text that's so dated in
               | such high regard, where many peoples interpretation is
               | far less optimistic and charitable than yours.
        
               | AuthorizedCust wrote:
               | I think you're committing a historical fallacy. What
               | you're saying is like condemning Abraham Lincoln because
               | he said things that today we'd find unsavory or
               | unenlightened. Fact is, Lincoln was highly progressive in
               | his days.
               | 
               | Yes, the scriptures include things that are problematic,
               | especially in the context of today's mores. But in so
               | many cases, understanding the norms of the times really
               | helps understand the "why", which is important.
        
               | coliveira wrote:
               | However, people don't go around claiming that Lincoln was
               | God's chosen one and that his word is sacred. That's why
               | we're fine in understanding that Lincoln was a man of his
               | time and many things he said should nowadays be
               | considered garbage. This is not how religion sees the
               | Bible and the words of Jesus and other prophets.
        
               | kaesar14 wrote:
               | The historical fallacy would be saying that early
               | Christians were reprehensible because of their views
               | independent of the time they existed in. I never said
               | that. What I am saying is that following the teachings of
               | those people 2000 years later is what's foolish, as we've
               | come quite a long way in moral development since then.
               | 
               | In the case of Abraham Lincoln, he deserves credit for
               | being progressive for his time in his pursuit of
               | abolition. Does that mean we should follow his views on
               | the inequality of white and black people, because he was
               | progressive then? No, we've come a long way since then.
        
               | AuthorizedCust wrote:
               | I think we're more on the same page than not.
               | 
               | For Lincoln, celebrate his accomplishments and how he
               | helped us progress. For the difficult things, understand
               | they are artifacts of his time. They are important to
               | understanding him and can further help color who he was.
               | 
               | Reasonable Christians do the same with the Bible.
        
               | kaesar14 wrote:
               | Lincoln was a person. The Bible is meant to be the actual
               | teachings of divinity. That's a key difference.
               | 
               | If we're meant to update for modern morality maybe we
               | need a Newer Testament. Until then, the ambiguity of the
               | words of long dead shepherds leave quite a lot to be
               | misinterpreted, as well-intentioned your interpretation
               | may be.
        
               | garmaine wrote:
               | It's worth noting though that all your quotes are from
               | the various post-gospel letters, not quotes from Jesus.
        
               | kaesar14 wrote:
               | It's all in the Bible.
        
               | dntrkv wrote:
               | My problem with this perspective is that, sure, the bible
               | had some teachings that could be considered an
               | improvement at the time. But if it really is a divinely
               | inspired text, the teachings wouldn't be just a slight
               | improvement of the norms at the time, but would
               | consistently teach equal standing of every person.
               | 
               | And considering we have the old testament which was full
               | of, let's be honest here, barbaric teachings but
               | apparently were appropriate for the time. You would think
               | by now we would have the New Testament V.96 that would
               | contain teachings that are relevant today, not forcing
               | you to pick and choose just the good parts.
        
               | cat199 wrote:
               | Ah yes, the old 'ephesians is mysogyny' out-of-context
               | quote, which always manages to completely omit the lines
               | which follow:
               | 
               | Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and
               | gave himself up for her, 26 that he might sanctify her,
               | having cleansed her by the washing of water with the
               | word, 27 so that he might present the church to himself
               | in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing,
               | that she might be holy and without blemish.1 28 In the
               | same way husbands should love their wives as their own
               | bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 For no
               | one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes
               | it, just as Christ does the church, 30 because we are
               | members of his body. 31 o"Therefore a man shall leave his
               | father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two
               | shall become one flesh." 32 This mystery is profound, and
               | I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church.
               | 
               | won't get into the others, i'm quite sure there are
               | cohesive rebukes / contextualization elsewhere
        
               | kaesar14 wrote:
               | How does saying a husband should respect and love his
               | wife mean that wives having to submit to their husbands
               | isn't misogynistic? Yes, treat them well, but women must
               | bow to their husbands in all decisions. It's a clear
               | reinforcement of a power dynamic that ultimately means
               | men control all the power in society.
        
               | f154hfds wrote:
               | It's hard for me to see how you're reading Ephesians 5 in
               | good faith. Wives submit to your husbands, husbands
               | sacrifice your lives for your wives (like how Jesus ya
               | know, was crucified for his Church). And you read this as
               | misogynistic?
               | 
               | This is not by far the most problematic Pauline passage
               | in terms of male/female roles. Taken at face value this
               | is some pretty deep advice for how to have a functioning
               | marriage where two people need to make decisions for
               | their family and don't necessarily see eye-to-eye on
               | everything.
        
               | kaesar14 wrote:
               | Yes, the husband in a family making all the decisions as
               | long as they respect their wife is for sure misogynistic.
               | 
               | Your interpretation of this being advice for a family to
               | function even when they don't see eye to eye everything
               | makes no sense to me. So if a man and woman in a marriage
               | don't see eye to eye on an issue, the man makes the
               | decision as long as he's kind to his wife? A wife may
               | have her opinion, but really she has to submit in all
               | things to their husband?
               | 
               | I'm all for husbands loving their wives, but maybe text
               | that clearly says that men have the power of decision
               | making in a household could be interpreted as
               | meaning...men have the power in a relationship.
        
               | f154hfds wrote:
               | Perhaps we're working with two different definitions of
               | misogyny?
               | 
               | "hatred of, aversion to, or prejudice against women"
               | https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/misogyny
               | 
               | Where does power come into it exactly?
        
               | kaesar14 wrote:
               | Power has everything to do with prejudice. Divinely
               | ordaining men with the power of the household is
               | prejudice against women.
        
               | f154hfds wrote:
               | 'Power' in the Christian context is quite a lot different
               | from your impression I think:
               | 
               | > And Jesus called them to him and said to them, "You
               | know that those who are considered rulers of the Gentiles
               | lord it over them, and their great ones exercise
               | authority over them. But it shall not be so among you.
               | But whoever would be great among you must be your
               | servant, and whoever would be first among you must be
               | slave of all. For even the Son of Man came not to be
               | served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for
               | many." Mark 10:42-45
               | 
               | To read Ephesians 5 without this in the background is
               | totally misconstruing the text.
        
               | kaesar14 wrote:
               | How does that contradict the idea that ultimately women
               | are to submit to the will of men in the household?
        
               | coliveira wrote:
               | Your explanation doesn't make sense because the roles are
               | unequal. The text requires sacrifice from men but
               | subservience from women, creating a hierarchy of powers
               | inside the family. Your interpretation would be
               | acceptable if the text said that both women and men had
               | to sacrifice and submit to each other.
        
               | prewett wrote:
               | The husband is to love his wife as he would himself;
               | moreso, actually, he is to love his wife in the way
               | Christ loved the church--who sacrificed his life for the
               | well-being of the church (namely so that we could have an
               | intimate relationship with God). It is with this
               | understand of what a husband is that the wife submits to
               | the husband. Submission is not unquestioning obedience,
               | unless you insist on taking the most fundamentalist
               | interpretation. And a husband that insists on
               | unquestioning obedience is failing to even love his wife
               | as himself, and certainly not with Christ's self-
               | sacrificing love.
        
               | kaesar14 wrote:
               | Your interpretation is certainly kind and would probably
               | lead to a great way of life - my issue is still this text
               | can easily be interpreted to be far less charitable and
               | imply that the power of household decisionmaking lies
               | with the husband, so long as he respects and loves his
               | wife. Respecting and loving your wife is really, really
               | up to interpretation. There are plenty of people now and
               | throughout history who would not interpret this text the
               | same way you have.
               | 
               | The text unequivocally gives different instructions for
               | men and women, and the instructions given to men imply
               | having the power in a relationship. Your interpretation
               | doesn't sway my reading of the text as it is.
        
               | codycraven wrote:
               | I'm one of the fundamentalists everyone here seems to
               | hate. My wife is a very strong willed person and she does
               | submit to my decisions (never because I ask or demand it)
               | but because we see Christ submit to the will of the
               | father. Just as I submit to Christ.
               | 
               | For clarity, I in no way rule over my wife, and am in no
               | way of more value than her. The Bible makes it clear that
               | all people are of the utmost value because they are made
               | in the image of God.
               | 
               | For additional context, yes my wife submits to me, but I
               | make no decisions without her consent. I don't even buy a
               | $5 item off Amazon without talking to her. My Biblical
               | role is to serve my wife and family which I'm thrilled to
               | do each day, just as we see Jesus serve his disciples
               | when he washes their feet.
               | 
               | What I'm trying to get to is that please do not mistake a
               | fundamental view of the Bible as misogyny. Any teaching
               | or text can be cherry picked without context to make any
               | view look evil and cruel.
        
               | tpush wrote:
               | Your description of the dynamic between you and your wife
               | is incoherent. You assert that she submits to you, but
               | then you say that you make no decisions without her
               | consent. So when she does not give her consent, she
               | doesn't submit to you? Or does she simply always gives
               | her consent, because the submission to you is a
               | predicate. But then asking for her consent is a complete
               | sham, a pretense to give her some agency in your mind.
               | 
               | Irrespective of those contradictions however, a social
               | dynamic in which the woman must axiomatically submit to
               | the man is always inherently misogynistic no matter the
               | justifications, be they religious or not.
        
               | AuthorizedCust wrote:
               | I'm confused. You say your wife submits to you, then you
               | provide examples of how that is not the dynamic in your
               | home.
        
               | kaesar14 wrote:
               | So your wife submits to you, but she also independently
               | makes decisions which you come to an agreement on?
               | 
               | That's great for your family, does that mean a family
               | where the wife makes all the decisions and controls the
               | power is immoral?
        
               | coliveira wrote:
               | The verses you mention don't negate the previous ones.
               | Yes, they said the husbands should love their wives, as
               | long as the wives are subservient to their husbands,
               | i.e., both things are considered necessary.
        
               | yonaguska wrote:
               | The New Testament is often mistakenly touted as a
               | "reformation" from the Old Testament, and cherry-picked
               | apart into a more progressive form of Christianity, but,
               | it's not all that different from the Old Testament in
               | actuality. New Testament also defines dress codes for
               | women and re-affirms a patriarchal family heirarchy.
        
               | AuthorizedCust wrote:
               | > _it 's not all that different from the Old Testament in
               | actuality_
               | 
               | Um, have you actually read them? They are miles apart.
               | Can you find me the reams of legal codes or origin
               | stories in the New Testament, for example?
        
               | sudosteph wrote:
               | Agree completely. While both texts do largely focus on
               | people of Jewish origins, there is not a lot of actual
               | overlap on content. Some of the NT books are seen as
               | prophetical, so that lines up to some degree - but even
               | those read very different.
               | 
               | It's not just content that differs either - the literary
               | style of the NT also deviates greatly, since it borrows
               | much more from hellenized culture than the OT. Especially
               | the synoptic gospels. For example, John, was composed
               | using a layered "onion" type narrative structure which
               | was popular in other greek texts.
               | 
               | They're even so different, that one form of heresy that
               | was more common back in the day (Gnosticism), would
               | sometimes claim that the OT deity was a false-god (the
               | demiurge), because how else do you explain such a
               | personality change?
        
               | TeMPOraL wrote:
               | Taking the scriptures literally and limiting yourself
               | only to direct recommendations from New Testament (i.e.
               | no backlinking to Old Testament), at the very least,
               | treatment of women in New Testament is pretty old-school
               | patriarchal[0].
               | 
               | It's interesting to observe the ways various Christian
               | groups try to navigate their way around gender roles in
               | their communities. You have a full spectrum here. From
               | some fundamentalist US churches that will take everything
               | super-literally, through groups like Jehovah's
               | Witnesses[1] who sort-of take this literally, but make
               | reasonable exceptions[2], through Catholics in Western
               | countries, where most believers probably haven't even
               | heard or thought about these passages, and any semblance
               | of adhering to them is likely seen as more traditional
               | than religious - all the way to lenient Christian groups
               | that allow women priests.
               | 
               | In my experience, all Christianity is like this. Every
               | group in every location[3] has their own specific
               | understanding of which words are to be taken literally,
               | which ones figuratively (and to what degree), and which
               | ones to be completely ignored.
               | 
               | --
               | 
               | [0] - E.g. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/1_Timothy_2:12,
               | https://www.openbible.info/topics/head_coverings and
               | related references - literally, women should not teach,
               | not usurp authority of a man, should wear head covering
               | when performing the subset of religious functions they're
               | allowed to, etc.
               | 
               | [1] - If I seem to focus on JWs too much in this thread,
               | that's because I spent 20 years being one.
               | 
               | [2] - E.g. over at Jehovah's Witnesses, there's a lot
               | that would technically qualify as "praying or
               | prophesising" where women are't required to cover their
               | heads, and men are not required to uncover theirs. Also
               | definition of "cover" is "with a hat or similar",
               | probably not what the authors had in mind.
               | 
               | [3] - As I understand it, Catholics in the West and in
               | Africa are essentially two different religions. The
               | former, having lived with it for centuries, ignore or pay
               | lip service to all the rules that the latter obey to the
               | letter.
        
               | AuthorizedCust wrote:
               | > _treatment of women in New Testament is pretty old-
               | school patriarchal_
               | 
               | It reflects the mores of the times, which were different
               | than ours. People 2000 years from now will certainly look
               | at us and be aghast at some of our norms.
               | 
               | My denomination has had woman pastors since the mid
               | 1800s.
        
             | barnesto wrote:
             | Why are you singling out Christianity? The same could be
             | said for any of the book based religions.
        
               | coliveira wrote:
               | I know, but the concern about Christianity is that it is
               | a majority religion in the West, with strong political
               | power. This has to be focus at least where I live.
        
             | mikepurvis wrote:
             | > the whole thing is based around a book that espouses
             | views that are exactly what you call fundamentalism
             | 
             | But I think your degree of fundamentalism-ness is defined
             | by your relationship to that book. If you see it as
             | completely inerrant, then yeah, you're instantly in trouble
             | because it can be trivially shown to be in self-conflict.
             | 
             | If you're willing to examine the book critically and in
             | context, you do a lot better. Obviously the risk with this
             | is that those doing that interpretation are entrusted with
             | a lot of power over what people believe. But I think
             | there's a middle ground here between the medieval
             | Catholicism that the reformation reacted against (where the
             | Word is obscured to the point that even the secondary texts
             | like the liturgies weren't given in the vernacular) and the
             | rugged individualism of modern evangelicals (where it's
             | Bible-or-bust and writers like Rob Bell are excommunicated
             | for daring to suggest that universalism might actually be
             | consistent with the character of Jesus).
             | 
             | I would see this wide middle ground as a place where we
             | agree on a _very_ short list of actual fundamentals
             | (something like the Nicene Creed, basically), and other
             | than that people are free to study and believe what they
             | want, as long as it isn 't hurting others.
        
               | coliveira wrote:
               | > If you're willing to examine the book critically and in
               | context, you do a lot better.
               | 
               | Yeah, but in that case you have to concede that the Bible
               | is not miraculous inspired, so why is it any better than
               | other books such as the Vedas or the Iliad? This is the
               | whole problem in the foundation of religion.
               | 
               | It also shows the blindsight of progressive Christians:
               | they're following a religion that at the foundation goes
               | against things they believe. For example, new testament
               | writers say that Jesus came to save from the sin of Adam,
               | but if no Adam and Eve existed, the explanation does't
               | work anymore.
        
               | mikepurvis wrote:
               | I don't think a literal Adam is necessary for the "sin of
               | Adam" to be a thing, particularly if you're in a mindset
               | already where the purpose of Christ's time on Earth was
               | to establish a kingdom, rather than just to deliver some
               | pleasant homilies and maybe troll a few pharisees on the
               | way to his real intention, which was dying and being
               | resurrected.
               | 
               | In any case, the Bible can absolutely be miraculously
               | inspired and still be subject to critical examination.
               | Looking at the history of how the individual books have
               | been studied, translated, and selected, it's obvious that
               | the text itself had always been very much interwoven with
               | academia and tradition.
        
             | prewett wrote:
             | The fundamentalist interpretation is only one way to read
             | the biblical text, and it tends to ignore the context the
             | text was written for.
             | 
             | Women: Jesus' ministry was financially supported by women.
             | Jesus explicitly did not condemn the woman caught in
             | adultery like the Pharisees did although he did not condone
             | her conduct, either. Jesus taught to women (e.g. Mary,
             | Martha's sister) while the rabbis forbid it; one rabbi said
             | he would rather burn the Torah than teach to a woman, and
             | the Torah was so sacred that they put old unusable Torah
             | scrolls in the walls of the synagogue rather than the
             | trash. A woman dealing in purple cloth hosted one of the
             | early churches (and probably led it after Paul left). A
             | woman is mentioned with the title apostle.
             | 
             | Homosexuality: nowhere does the Bible hate homosexuals. It
             | says that it is a harmful behavior and is not to be
             | tolerated in God's people because it leads to death. It is
             | not "hate" to consider someone's behavior unhealthy, or
             | even to disapprove of someone's behavior. We don't "hate"
             | thieves because we disapprove of thievery. In fact, most
             | people hate thievery and think it is so harmful to society
             | that it should be repressed, but it does not mean we must
             | hate thieves. American LGBTQetc seem to require love to
             | look like complete acceptance and consider anything else as
             | "intolerance", but that is a false dichotomy.
        
             | tdozi wrote:
             | I would posit that the most fundamental idea in the Bible
             | is that humanity has fundamentally continued to be selfish
             | and prideful while God has continually chosen to extend
             | grace and keep his promises to people (mainly covered in
             | the Old Testament). He dis this to the ultimate extent by
             | living with us and dying on the cross so that all of the
             | promises could be fulfilled once and for all (new
             | testament).
             | 
             | It is exactly the selfish and prideful that decide to
             | leverage select words/passages/ideas out of context for
             | their own power over others rather than their inward
             | correction of self.
             | 
             | Lastly, I'd add that many of the passages/letters written
             | were to the audience of CHRISTIANS. I bible doesn't really
             | demand that non-Christians apply any of this to their lives
             | until the first foundational stone is set. Paul even writes
             | to this effect in 1st Corinthians.
        
           | thechao wrote:
           | As a non-practicing Jew, I found the Jefferson bible very
           | inspiring. Stripping the religious trappings from the
           | teachings tempers the whole thing; I really like the
           | _humanity_ : it's a story about a man with his own foibles,
           | attempting to teach himself & others to be better people.
        
             | Balgair wrote:
             | For those that are confused as to what a 'Jefferson Bible'
             | is: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jefferson_Bible
             | 
             | " _The Life and Morals of Jesus of Nazareth_ , commonly
             | referred to as the Jefferson Bible, is one of two religious
             | works constructed by Thomas Jefferson. The first, _The
             | Philosophy of Jesus of Nazareth_ , was completed in 1804,
             | but no copies exist today. The second, _The Life and Morals
             | of Jesus of Nazareth_ , was completed in 1820 by cutting
             | and pasting with a razor and glue numerous sections from
             | the New Testament as extractions of the doctrine of Jesus.
             | Jefferson's condensed composition excludes all miracles by
             | Jesus and most mentions of the supernatural, including
             | sections of the four gospels that contain the Resurrection
             | and most other miracles, and passages that portray Jesus as
             | divine."
             | 
             | https://uuhouston.org/files/The_Jefferson_Bible.pdf Free
             | here
        
               | JKCalhoun wrote:
               | Yes, a surprisingly short read.
               | 
               | Reading it I couldn't help but see Jesus as something of
               | a troll. Like in this passage:
               | 
               |  _JESUS went unto the mount of Olives._
               | 
               |  _And early in the morning he came again into the temple,
               | and all the people came unto him; and he sat down, and
               | taught them._
               | 
               |  _And the scribes and Pharisees brought in a woman caught
               | committing adultery; and when they had set her in the
               | midst,_
               | 
               |  _They say unto him, Master, this woman was caught
               | committing adultery, in the very act._
               | 
               |  _Now Moses in the law commanded us, that such should be
               | stoned: but what sayest thou?_
               | 
               |  _This they said, to test him, that they might have cause
               | to accuse him. But Jesus stooped down, and with his
               | finger wrote on the ground._
               | 
               |  _So when they continued asking him, he lifted up
               | himself, and said unto them, He that is without sin among
               | you, let him be the first to cast a stone at her._
               | 
               |  _And again he stooped down, and with his finger wrote on
               | the ground._
               | 
               |  _And they which heard it, began going out one by one,
               | beginning at the eldest: and Jesus was left alone, and
               | the woman standing in the midst._
               | 
               |  _When Jesus had lifted up himself, he said unto her,
               | Woman, whither are they gone? hath no man condemned
               | thee?_
               | 
               |  _She said, No man, Lord. And Jesus said, Neither do I
               | condemn thee: go, and sin no more._
        
               | datenhorst wrote:
               | Funnily enough, this passage is generally considered a
               | later addition to the Gospel of John: https://en.wikipedi
               | a.org/wiki/Jesus_and_the_woman_taken_in_a...
        
               | loveistheanswer wrote:
               | Jesus was the ultimate troll to the religious
               | authorities, that's why they killed him.
               | 
               | Another great example of his trolling was when he was
               | cornered by a bunch of people wanting to stone him to
               | death:
               | 
               | >31 Again his Jewish opponents picked up stones to stone
               | him, 32 but Jesus said to them, 'I have shown you many
               | good works from the Father. For which of these do you
               | stone me?' 33 We are not stoning you for any good work,'
               | they replied, 'but for blasphemy, because you, a mere
               | man, claim to be God.' 34 Jesus answered them, 'Is it not
               | written in your Law, 'I have said you are 'gods''? ( _He
               | 's quoting the 82nd Psalm of the Old Testament here_)[1]
               | 35 If he called them 'gods,' to whom the word of God came
               | --and Scripture cannot be set aside-- 36 what about the
               | one whom the Father set apart as his very own and sent
               | into the world? Why then do you accuse me of blasphemy
               | because I said, 'I am God's Son'? 37
               | 
               | [1]82 Psalm if the Old Testament: I said, 'You are
               | "gods"; you are all sons of the Most High.'
        
               | JKCalhoun wrote:
               | "... But ye shall die like men, and fall like one of the
               | princes."
               | 
               | Great quote.
        
               | leetrout wrote:
               | I brought this up in Sunday school at a baptist church
               | and it didn't go over well...
               | 
               | I said we are gods on this Earth because of our power to
               | initiate the creation of a new life and the power to end
               | a life.
        
               | loveistheanswer wrote:
               | That's great hahaha. There are some who believe that's
               | actually what Jesus was trying to say: the he was _a_ son
               | of god (there was no definite article  "the" in ancient
               | greek), and that everyone else is too (essentially what
               | the Buddhists and Hindus claim); but that message was
               | misunderstood, misinterpreted, censored, and modified to
               | suit political ends.
               | 
               | There are a number of more esoteric quotes attributed to
               | jesus like the one I posted above which make this case
               | quite compelling
        
               | Balgair wrote:
               | If you have that list, I would be very interested to see
               | it! I've never heard of this interpretation, and my
               | ancient greek is very poor. Not trying to be snarky, or
               | clappingback, or anything, I am actually genuinely
               | interested.
        
               | loveistheanswer wrote:
               | I first stumbled upon this theory in an Alan Watts
               | lecture. Here is relevant clip from the lecture:
               | 
               | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r2DbsuzTt6g
               | 
               | There are many quotes where Jesus spoke about the union
               | of all people within him and within god. This is
               | basically the same as the Buddhist concept of Indra's
               | Net: the divine unity and mutual interpenetration of all
               | things.
               | 
               | > _" There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male
               | nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus"_
               | 
               | > _" I in them and you in me, that they may become
               | perfectly one, so that the world may know that you sent
               | me and loved them even as you loved me."_
               | 
               | > _" For just as the body is one and has many members,
               | and all the members of the body, though many, are one
               | body, so it is with Christ."_
               | 
               | This idea seems to be the logical basis for many of his
               | more commonly known teachings:
               | 
               | > _" Do to others whatever you would like them to do to
               | you."_
               | 
               | > _"Do not judge, or you too will be judged. 2 For in the
               | same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with
               | the measure you use, it will be measured to you._
               | 
               | > _" whatsoever you do to the least of your brothers and
               | sisters, you do unto me"_
               | 
               | This last quote seems to indicate that when people
               | realized all of the above, they would also realize their
               | equality with jesus as children of god; which is
               | essentially blasphemy to the modern day mainstream
               | interpretation of the King James translation.
               | 
               | > _" Verily, verily, I say unto you, He that believeth on
               | me, the works that I do shall he do also; and greater
               | works than these shall he do; because I go unto my
               | Father."_
        
               | Balgair wrote:
               | Thank you!
        
               | roody15 wrote:
               | Why is he a troll here? Seems like a solid message.
        
               | saghm wrote:
               | When he was asked about what to do with the woman who was
               | brought in, he immediately started ignoring everyone and
               | started doodling in the dirt, and then continued doing so
               | as everyone slowly left. That's a little trollish
               | (although not necessarily in a bad way!)
        
               | AuthorizedCust wrote:
               | The stories have Jesus trolling the Pharisees and others.
               | Imagining the reactions and situation behind some of
               | these stories are strong LOL moments.
        
               | JKCalhoun wrote:
               | Seems like the scribes and Pharisees that are trying to
               | troll Jesus and he trolls them back?
               | 
               | To be clear, I think Jesus is trolling the _right_ way.
               | :-)
        
             | Noos wrote:
             | Except that without the supernatural part, it was a
             | wandering, homeless religious teacher who got himself
             | killed at an early age teaching things which got his
             | followers killed too, and end up being pointless.
             | 
             | "Blessed are the meek; for theirs is the kingdom of
             | Heaven." Except there is no kingdom of heaven, after all;
             | and the meek are not blessed but oppressed. The
             | supernatural stuff was there to show that the oppressive
             | nature of the world and its cruelty was not the only thing;
             | there was hope beyond it in the world to come, which gave
             | the strength to believe in something absurd.
             | 
             | Otherwise its just John the Baptist; a person preaching who
             | ended up dead on the whims of the powerful.
        
         | utopcell wrote:
         | Nobody hates you. The gallup just shows that your belief system
         | is slowly becoming irrelevant. If you can still draw anything
         | from it (while leaving the rest of the competing sects alone),
         | all the more power to you.
        
         | ramraj07 wrote:
         | 1. Stance on abortion among your brothers in church? As if
         | brothers should even have one that matters?
         | 
         | 2. Do you follow the edict that if you're not baptist then by
         | definition you go to hell? How do you reconcile this with
         | having friends or anyone at all you care about who are then
         | going to hell?
         | 
         | Point is, I'm not sure there is any middle ground that's
         | acceptable. I don't come here as an atheist, just as someone
         | who's trying really hard to believe but finding no acceptable
         | ground to stand at all. The only smart people I find religious
         | (especially Christian) are ones who were born and grew up
         | forced to go to church. Typically they'd give up on practising
         | it in their teens, basically break every rule in their book for
         | two decades and then somehow rediscover it because now it's
         | convenient to find some community and higher purpose in their
         | life. The ones who convert from elsewhere when they are adults
         | are almost always gullible and did so for the most
         | transactional reasons you can think of.
        
           | AuthorizedCust wrote:
           | > _Stance on abortion among your brothers in church_
           | 
           | Denominational stance is reluctance:
           | https://www.umc.org/en/content/ask-the-umc-what-is-the-
           | unite...
           | 
           | > _Do you follow the edict that if you're not baptist then by
           | definition you go to hell_
           | 
           | I am not Baptist. But the ones I speak to, who are dedicated
           | fundamentalists, seem to believe that I am going to hell
           | since I am not and will never be "saved" in the way they
           | prescribe. Furthermore, in their view, nearly everyone who
           | existed before Jesus's time is condemned to Hell except for a
           | select few who foretold of Jesus's coming. Crazy theology!
           | 
           | Also, keep in mind that Baptists have diversity. The Southern
           | Baptists are the firebrand fundamentalists. There are others
           | that are almost indistinguishable from mainline
           | Protestantism.
        
             | coliveira wrote:
             | The idea of hell was widespread in ancient times. For
             | example, the Greeks believed it. They also believed that
             | everyone went to hell. This is exactly the mythology that
             | christians spread nowadays. The only difference is that
             | Christians believed that the few who accepted Christ would
             | be rescued from Hell, the same way Eurydice was saved by
             | Orpheus (hence the idea that the church is the bride of
             | Jesus). It is all a rehash of ancient myths.
        
               | brundolf wrote:
               | I think calling it a rehash is unfair. I would call it
               | "independent discovery", where the same general lived
               | human experience gives rise to the same general ideas
               | about the universe and society and right and wrong.
               | Religion is a technology for dealing with the experience
               | of being a person.
        
               | coliveira wrote:
               | I don't think it is independent discovery, because
               | Christianity was born at a time when Greek ideas were
               | widespread (Palestine having been a Greek-dominated area
               | for centuries before the arrival of Romans). I believe
               | there was an amalgamation of elements from ancient Hebrew
               | religion with other pagan myths mainly from Greece.
        
               | brundolf wrote:
               | "Independent" may have been overstating it, I just think
               | something is being lost when we frame one religion (or
               | even a subset of its concepts) as being purely derivative
               | of another. Just because ideas are similar doesn't
               | necessarily mean they have the exact same origin, and in
               | fact I think it's much more interesting to look at the
               | cases where they _didn 't_ have the same origin, because
               | it tells us something about ourselves as human beings.
        
           | Robotbeat wrote:
           | Mainline Protestant typically relatively neutral leaning pro
           | choice.
        
           | KMag wrote:
           | > 2. Do you follow the edict that if you're not baptist then
           | by definition you go to hell? How do you reconcile this with
           | having friends or anyone at all you care about who are then
           | going to hell?
           | 
           | I'm not a Baptist, but presumably nearly all of them find it
           | sad and unfortunate and feel compassion for most of humanity.
           | 
           | I'm not sure what you're getting at, though. Only believing
           | things that make you happy isn't a very good philosophy of
           | life.
        
           | brundolf wrote:
           | > Point is, I'm not sure there is any middle ground that's
           | acceptable.
           | 
           | I grew up fundamentalist, then swung hard atheist, then ended
           | up, as one friend who went to seminary described it, "the
           | most christian atheist he's ever met". I've known Christians
           | ignorant and intellectual, hateful and openly loving, urban
           | and rural, liberal and conservative, and everything in-
           | between.
           | 
           | Here's my take: A healthy faith is not about rules at all, or
           | about finding a system for understanding the physical world
           | or anything like that. If you get obsessed with rules you
           | become a bitter fundamentalist; if you get fed-up with
           | religion but stay obsessed with rules you become a bitter
           | atheist.
           | 
           | A healthy faith is about people. Yourself, your community,
           | the world. Cultivating habits of forgiveness and growth
           | toward yourself, and openness and love toward others. Having
           | a specific segment of your life dedicated to contemplation of
           | the most important things in life, and doing so in a
           | community on a regular basis. The iconography and the texts,
           | ideally, are just a communal conduit for those ideas; symbols
           | people can point to and use to talk about their thoughts and
           | feelings around this stuff with others, and also to spark new
           | thoughts and points of discussion.
           | 
           | Many (not all) of my close friends are christians, and none
           | of them have ever tried to convert me. Some of them don't
           | really think hell exists; most of them don't think some magic
           | prayer is all that's needed to keep you out of it. Most, I
           | think, see that even if it does, the best thing they can do
           | for others is simply to love them and to help them be better
           | through example and osmosis, if anything. They know they
           | don't control others and they can't force them into whatever.
           | They can only be Good and hope that it spreads.
           | 
           | I like this quote from Pope Francis:
           | 
           | > We must meet one another doing good. 'But I don't believe,
           | Father, I am an atheist!' But do good: we will meet one
           | another there.
        
             | ramraj07 wrote:
             | You say that most Protestants are loving people but that
             | doesn't seem to be the case at least in the US.
             | Evangelicals are not the only group to vote
             | republican/trump, but they are the vast majority. Very few
             | Christians seem to see the problems (fundamental ones) with
             | that regime but just want to vote for a madman because
             | their goals are met at the expense of literal death and
             | suffering (see Birx's statements from yesterday).
             | 
             | Again to iterate, it's not just Christians who voted and
             | continue to vote for him, it's also a bunch of other
             | people, but the common denominator seems to be an undertone
             | of selfishness and heartlessness, people who are afraid of
             | everyone else and want their life to not change the world
             | be dammed, so yeah can't really see anyone supporting this
             | ideology to be a good person.
        
               | brundolf wrote:
               | > You say that most Protestants are loving people
               | 
               | I didn't say that actually, though I also wouldn't say
               | the inverse. I don't really know the exact answer, and I
               | don't really think it's important here.
               | 
               | > Very few Christians seem to see the problems with that
               | regime
               | 
               | It is important to note that Evangelical != Protestant,
               | and Protestant != Christian, and Christian != Religious
               | person. There are huge gaps between each sub-category and
               | the parent category; evangelicals may be one of the
               | larger categories in the U.S., and may be largely
               | Trumpist (though even then, not all of them), but they
               | hardly represent the whole of religion.
               | 
               | > the common denominator seems to be an undertone of
               | selfishness and heartlessness
               | 
               | I feel an immense amount of anger towards Trump and his
               | entire movement, not despite but _because_ many of my
               | family-members have aligned themselves with it. And yet,
               | outside of those contexts, I still see them being good
               | and kind to their loved ones and others. I 've also come
               | to see that their alignment is largely based in fear -
               | which, even if it's ill-founded and driven by false
               | narratives, is an emotion I can feel sympathy for.
               | Wrestling with this dichotomy - seeing the evil they've
               | confused with good and the ways it's changed them, while
               | knowing that they are still my loved ones and they still
               | contain some goodness underneath - has been one of the
               | most stressful and difficult things I've had to grapple
               | with in my entire life.
               | 
               | But one thing I've held onto from my religious days is
               | the principle that human beings are not simply good or
               | evil. All of us contain good and evil, and (both as
               | individuals and as people with individuals that we care
               | about) it's a question of identifying and nurturing the
               | good, and trying to let go of the evil, each day anew.
        
               | reducesuffering wrote:
               | > I feel an immense amount of anger towards Trump and his
               | entire movement, not despite but because many of my
               | family-members have aligned themselves with it.
               | 
               | > Wrestling with this dichotomy - seeing the evil they've
               | confused with good and the ways it's changed them, while
               | knowing that they are still my loved ones and they still
               | have bits of good underneath - has been one of the most
               | stressful and difficult things I've had to grapple with
               | in my entire life.
               | 
               | Hear, hear. It was hard for this to come to a reckoning
               | last year with everything else bad going on.
        
               | gameman144 wrote:
               | > the common denominator seems to be an undertone of
               | selfishness and heartlessness, people who are afraid of
               | everyone else and want their life to not change the world
               | be dammed, so yeah can't really see anyone supporting
               | this ideology to be a good person.
               | 
               | This seems to be a pretty close-minded view. Sure,
               | selfishness and heartlessness could be a big motivator to
               | vote one way. But as someone who knows Christians who
               | voted for Trump, here are a few reasons which I'd argue
               | _aren 't_ due to moral failings:
               | 
               | * Some strongly believe abortion is murder, and are
               | worried about the number of lives thus being
               | extinguished.
               | 
               | * Some believe that there is a growing anti-religious
               | sentiment in their opposition, and they vote against that
               | anti-religious sentiment. Every one of these friends is a
               | strong proponent of religious pluralism.
               | 
               | * Many Christian voters come from less urban, less
               | affluent areas of the country. These voters felt ignored
               | by mainstream candidates, and Trump courted them better
               | than most candidates in decades, actually speaking to the
               | day-to-day issues of that constituency.
               | 
               | * Many Christians have different moral views than society
               | at large. When viewing males as "the head of the
               | household" is considered sexist and oppressive, couples
               | that (both) opt in for such a household-model will
               | understandably not be drawn in by progressive rhetoric
               | castigating them for it.
               | 
               | Again, this isn't to paint a rosy picture saying "Bad
               | people of group X are just as likely to vote either way".
               | But to say that you can't see _anyone_ supporting an
               | ideology to be a good person under the hood is going to
               | lead to a lot of animosity in life.
        
             | Noos wrote:
             | I grew up being bullied by people because I was different.
             | I was a mess honestly, a weird, smelly kid who was a bit of
             | an eyesore. These are people who were nice to each other,
             | and people who would have been seen as caring, loving and
             | kind people to their families and others that liked them. I
             | was even mocked by one of my teachers.
             | 
             | Very few people think they are not forgiving, loving and
             | caring. Many people will open the book, find the things
             | that reassure them they are loving, caring, and a wise
             | person, and close it happy.
             | 
             | Your friends don't try to convert you because they hide
             | themselves around you. If they tried, you would cut them
             | out of your life, despite your empathy; just mentioning
             | that you will pray for someone can make them angry. If they
             | persisted, really believing their friend was in danger of
             | losing eternal life, you would end the friendship.
             | 
             | Really, all the stuff you say sounds nice, but secular
             | people only show love to people who they think are lovable.
             | When you become one of the unlovables, they will cheerfully
             | drop what you say and bring out the knives, and your
             | philosophy is worthless to stop it.
        
               | brundolf wrote:
               | I don't want to minimize your experiences, but you're
               | taking those experiences and projecting them onto people
               | and things (both those I mentioned as well as entire
               | categories) that aren't really tied to them.
               | 
               | > people who would have been seen as caring, loving and
               | kind people to their families and others that liked them
               | 
               | Good and evil can exist within the same person. Evil can
               | also masquerade externally with the signifiers of good. I
               | don't know the people you're talking about so I can't
               | really comment on them specifically; but being a human
               | means being a paradox.
               | 
               | Not that that excuses what happened to you. It sounds
               | like that was very hard and I'm very sorry to hear about
               | it. I can't really speak more to it or to the people
               | involved because again, I don't know much about it. I
               | simply don't believe that even the worst human on earth
               | is irredeemable or worthless in principle, whether or not
               | they ever change in practice. Of course that doesn't mean
               | they should be left to get away with doing whatever they
               | want to whomever.
               | 
               | > Many people will open the book, find the things that
               | reassure them they are loving, caring, and a wise person,
               | and close it happy
               | 
               | The other half of "nobody is completely good or evil" is
               | that life is a never-finished journey of self-work. Doing
               | what you describe is a trap that many people fall into,
               | sure. But I don't think it invalidates the efforts of
               | people who decide to do otherwise.
               | 
               | > Your friends don't try to convert you because they hide
               | themselves around you. If they tried, you would cut them
               | out of your life, despite your empathy; just mentioning
               | that you will pray for someone can make them angry. If
               | they persisted, really believing their friend was in
               | danger of losing eternal life, you would end the
               | friendship.
               | 
               | With respect, you don't know them. My parents, unlike my
               | friends, do try periodically to convert me, and I haven't
               | cut them out of my life. It causes friction between us,
               | sure, and they've learned that and they've dampened it
               | some. But we make the relationship work.
               | 
               | When it comes my friends, I simply know they aren't
               | hiding themselves. We talk openly about this stuff
               | sometimes; we have good conversations. We don't avoid it
               | like I have to with my parents. I don't mind when my
               | friends say they'll pray for me, because I know they're
               | saying it out of open love, and not passive-aggression.
               | We respect each other's agency, we know we're on
               | different journeys. I've known people who weren't that
               | way. I've seen the hollowness of ulterior motives behind
               | their smiles and their social gestures. I know the
               | difference.
               | 
               | Real relationships go beyond and above disagreements, and
               | the ones I get to pick for myself are with individuals
               | who can tolerate nuance and paradox.
               | 
               | > Really, all the stuff you say sounds nice, but secular
               | people only show love to people who they think are
               | lovable. When you become one of the unlovables, they will
               | cheerfully drop what you say and bring out the knives,
               | and your philosophy is worthless to stop it.
               | 
               | I'm not sure where this came from (though I'd be happy to
               | hear more about it). Above you seemed to take issue with
               | religious people, but here you mention secular (non-
               | religious) people
        
         | fossuser wrote:
         | I grew up mainline Protestant too before throwing it away (I
         | was young ~12 which makes it easier). My objection is to the
         | broken nature of the reasoning and how that tends to corrupt
         | evidence based reasoning elsewhere most of them time (though
         | weirdly not always - people are inconsistent).
         | 
         | If the fundamentalists are a problem, maybe there's a problem
         | with the fundamentals?
         | 
         | Obviously religious people remain the vast majority and being a
         | good person or not is largely disconnected from religiousness.
         | It's difficult for me though to not think that a religious
         | person's reasoning is broken in some way, and to be more
         | skeptical of how they verify ideas in general.
         | 
         | If they can't get something basic right, why would they be
         | right about something more complicated?
         | 
         | A lot of the rationalization of religious people is complicated
         | in a way that suggests they have some underlying idea of what
         | the accurate world model is (they just want to believe
         | otherwise):
         | https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/CqyJzDZWvGhhFJ7dY/belief-in-...
         | 
         | One thing I credit the internet for is allowing me to read and
         | learn enough to escape it. I think most people will end up with
         | whatever belief system they grow up surrounded by.
        
           | garmaine wrote:
           | > If they can't get something basic right, why would they be
           | right about something more complicated?
           | 
           | Compartmentalization.
        
             | fossuser wrote:
             | I think that's the reason it's possible, but how can you
             | trust they've compartmentalized the right thing?
             | 
             | Basically you can be a great surgeon and religious, but you
             | can't be a great evolutionary biologist and a creationist
             | (at least not without some _serious_ blinders).
             | 
             | If I'm talking to a doctor that's a creationist and they're
             | skeptical about a vaccine - my prior would be that it's
             | more likely this doctor was corrupted by anti-vaxx
             | pseudoscience woo than has an accurate model of the
             | vaccine's risk. I'd want to talk to someone who I know
             | doesn't have a core example of corrupted reasoning.
        
               | AuthorizedCust wrote:
               | I find your example is more strongly of the corruption of
               | fundamentalism on the person rather than of
               | compartmentalization.
        
               | splithalf wrote:
               | I'd prefer my scientists to be less confident in their
               | understanding of the world, and more humble about their
               | knowledge. Maybe reading Kuhn does that for most people
               | today, but there's a long tradition of religion
               | fulfilling a similar function, allowing "mystery" back
               | in, emphasizing the imperfection of man. Religion should
               | instill an attitude of "I don't know, but I want to
               | know." That's the right attitude for discovery.
        
           | AuthorizedCust wrote:
           | > _If the fundamentalists are a problem, maybe there's a
           | problem with the fundamentals?_
           | 
           | That line would only hold if fundamentalists have correctly
           | identified the fundamentals. I wage they have badly missed
           | it, which is why their theology is so bad.
           | 
           | > _being a good person or not is largely disconnected from
           | religiousness_
           | 
           | Being a good person is not the primary point of religion. It
           | is rather a hoped for outcome. Religion is not therapy.
        
             | fossuser wrote:
             | The thing that scares me about it is when people believe
             | crazy things, they're more likely to believe other crazy
             | things. This means even if most people most of the time are
             | perfectly pleasant, they can get swept up in other stuff
             | that gets out of hand and hurts people. If you can't
             | persuade someone with evidence based reasoning because
             | their position is based on 'faith' or belief in the face of
             | contrary evidence I don't know what to do with that.
             | 
             | There are forms of religious people that dismiss all the
             | 'crazy' things and just have some vague mysticism - which
             | is probably the least harmful form, but is a little odd to
             | me. People like to feel a part of something grand I suppose
             | - but we already are. Existence is pretty amazing even
             | without the human religious myths being true. Maybe one day
             | the myths will be just a part of our collective history (as
             | many older ones currently are).
        
               | Noos wrote:
               | Everyone is crazy in their own way. There is no
               | rationality strong enough to remove the crazy from
               | people, and smart people over time have formed their own
               | craziness not bound by religion or mysticism.
               | 
               | This site for example is pooh-poohing religion now, but
               | five minutes later will gush over LSD's power to give
               | pseudo-spiritual epiphanies. It used to love stoicism,
               | which was shopworn even in the Victorian age. Probably in
               | a year from now some other retread of old belief system
               | will be rediscovered, maybe EST or Theosophy, or
               | something.
        
               | rayiner wrote:
               | > The thing that scares me about it is when people
               | believe crazy things, they're more likely to believe
               | other crazy things
               | 
               | I don't think that's true at all, and possibly the
               | opposite is true. Comparing Bangladesh, where I'm from,
               | to America, people here are a lot less religious. But I
               | wouldn't say the net amount of "crazy" believes is
               | different. People in Bangladesh are a lot more down to
               | earth and less likely to believe in faddish ideas that
               | tend to fill the vacuum in the absence of religion.
               | 
               | American culture around eating and fitness, and
               | particularly the "clean food" stuff is a good example of
               | this. It's for the most part completely unscientific, but
               | fervently believed.
        
               | quickthrowman wrote:
               | > People in Bangladesh are a lot more down to earth and
               | less likely to believe in faddish ideas that tend to fill
               | the vacuum in the absence of religion.
               | 
               | How do you square this position with all the social media
               | fueled mob lynchings/murders in Bangladesh?
               | 
               | One example: https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-49102074
               | 
               | I'm not claiming the US is any better, we have mass
               | shootings and all kinds of violence, but generally not
               | lynch mobs (at least in the 21st century)
        
             | Noos wrote:
             | if you've ever talked to non-fundamentalists, usually they
             | just regurgitate whatever the contemporary secular morality
             | of the moment is with a mild religious gloss, and they
             | suffer in membership much worse than the fundamentalists
             | because it's obvious.
             | 
             | Fundamentalism is usually just taking the source material
             | seriously at what it says; liberal Christianity tends to
             | try and reinterpret the source material to fit contemporary
             | mores. It's impossible to justify homosexuality in the
             | scriptures for example; most progressive arguments end up
             | just setting fire to the inspiration of the bible to do so,
             | by saying "they weren't really speaking about
             | homosexuality" or "why should we trust what Paul says about
             | it?"
             | 
             | Fundamentalists are disliked, but they are a lot more
             | logically and internally consistent than the mainline.
             | Mainline is just the halfway stop to atheism, honestly.
        
             | sethc2 wrote:
             | Exactly. Fundamentalists miss the actual fundamentals.
             | 
             | People mistake the American Evangelical Christianity that
             | is a few hundred years old for the church established by
             | the apostles nearly 2000 years ago. That church was it
             | which considered the weak as equally valuable as the
             | strong, that insisted on helping the poor, that believed
             | men and women both to be of the utmost value. That
             | established hospitals to care for the sick. All of these
             | things were not the norm. The weak were considered less
             | valuable. Women were not worth as much as men. Sick people
             | should be avoided. The poor aren't worth helping.
             | 
             | People are rightfully scornful of American evangelicalism,
             | but they throw the baby out with the bath water and try to
             | pretend that the orthodox (in sense of true and right)
             | church has not done tremendous good in this world.
        
               | AuthorizedCust wrote:
               | > _People mistake the American Evangelical
               | Christianity..._
               | 
               | Hell, people mistake American Evangelical Christianity
               | with "true Christianity". Far too many allow themselves
               | into being duped into thinking that the loudest, most
               | odious, and most forceful are the most legitimate
               | claimants to Christianity.
               | 
               | Barf.
        
               | kajecounterhack wrote:
               | > People are rightfully scornful of American
               | evangelicalism, but they throw the baby out with the bath
               | water and try to pretend that the orthodox (in sense of
               | true and right) church has not done tremendous good in
               | this world.
               | 
               | There's no "true and right" church. In fact the non-stop
               | schism of the christian faith is evidence that the views
               | espoused by christians are incredibly incoherent. One
               | model to use is that the bible is a map and your
               | interactions with actual people are the actual road. And
               | you're trying to navigate your life with this map. You
               | have a few options:                 - Trust the map no
               | matter what (fundamentalists)         - You end up also
               | arguing about how the map *really* reads, because it's
               | incoherent at its core! Denominations are started by
               | people trying too hard to ascertain the "fundamentals."
               | - Trust the road no matter what         - Is your map
               | even relevant then? What's the difference between this
               | and being an atheist?       - Trust the road when you can
               | see it and can't argue with it, trust the map otherwise
               | - This leads to shit like voting against progress because
               | you are ignorant to the harm it does. Since the map is
               | incoherent you still end up drawing incorrect conclusions
               | in directions that are harmful.
               | 
               | These basically all suck and cause problems vs the
               | strategy of "live in the world, and use some other map."
        
               | freewilly1040 wrote:
               | To take a counter example, do you believe that the
               | Catholic Church has had a pattern of covering up for
               | pedophiles in its clergy? If so how far back does that
               | pattern go? Why shouldn't we assume it goes back hundreds
               | of years, or the full 2000 year history of the church?
               | 
               | By the way, that same old church taught wives to obey
               | their husbands and to this day does not allow them to be
               | clergy. The notion that women are not worth as much as
               | men was not recently introduced.
        
               | AuthorizedCust wrote:
               | Virtually every youth-serving organization used to not
               | handle abuse of youth properly. I am not going to pin
               | this just on the Catholic Church. Other youth-serving
               | organizations, like sports, other churches, YMCAs, etc.
               | were all deficient.
               | 
               | I am a volunteer in the Boy Scouts of America. Its
               | market-leading and pioneering youth-protection programs
               | are still examples to this day, and the vast majority of
               | claims in its current bankruptcy process are from before
               | these programs started. Society has changed, and youth
               | are much better off for it.
        
               | jwalgenbach wrote:
               | "Virtually every youth-serving organization used to not
               | handle abuse of youth properly."
               | 
               | This again? The existence of others committing the same
               | crimes does not indemnify the Church.
               | 
               | Love the "Society has changed" argument. Clearly,
               | recognizing that pedophilia is wrong by the Church is a
               | product of changing times...not like they moved clergy
               | from parish to parish to avoid them being caught.
        
               | happilyFIREd wrote:
               | Nice try with the 'whatabout-ism', but nearly by
               | definition the non-religious groups are less
               | sanctimonious.
        
               | sethc2 wrote:
               | I'd say the church from Rome has always had problems like
               | any group of humans. Collectively the churches
               | established by the apostles I'd say got the truth right.
               | Though if I were to pick a date where they went seriously
               | wrong and led to what you saw at the time of the
               | reformation and today I'd say 1054 AD
               | 
               | As for women being treated poorly that is not something
               | the church introduced, but has practically been done by
               | men since time began. If you read early church history
               | you'd probably realize that your moral basis itself is
               | founded upon the work church did.
               | 
               | If you're someone who is open minded you should try to
               | hear good arguments from another perspective. I'd
               | recommend Dominion by Tom Holland perhaps - https://www.a
               | mazon.com/dp/0465093507/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awdb_imm...
               | 
               | What I've found is people who actually don't believe
               | their opinions strongly avoid books challenging those
               | opinions, while those who do are perfectly willing to be
               | challenged, because they are confident their opinion is
               | the right one.
               | 
               | For example a person who weakly believes in a free market
               | will avoid reading Marx, a person who strongly believes
               | it will. And vice versa for let's say Ayn Rand.
        
               | freewilly1040 wrote:
               | If the whole point of an organization is morality, and
               | the organization doesn't do any better in that arena than
               | society at large, I don't see much point in the
               | organization.
               | 
               | On the topic of the treatment of women, you'll note the
               | original assertion was that this was something the church
               | was especially good at, and I pointed out a sexist
               | practice core to the church as currently practiced, not
               | in the dustbin of history.
        
               | sethc2 wrote:
               | Well my guess is you haven't been to many non
               | evangelicals churches nor looked at how they act or
               | behave. The church reveres a woman above all other humans
               | save him who was both God and man. Orphanages were setup
               | by churches. Hospitals, schools, homeless shelters. They
               | do that explicitly because of their beliefs.
        
               | fossuser wrote:
               | You can read the bible directly and see problems with
               | fundamentals (I did).
               | 
               | It's just the 'no true scotsman' fallacy.
               | 
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/No_true_Scotsman
        
               | LadyCailin wrote:
               | I contest that organized religion, particularly
               | Christianity has done net positive to the world though.
               | From the crusades til now, Christianity has always seemed
               | to demonize other groups, and for people in those groups
               | especially (non-Christians, gays, women), the church has
               | not done any good for them whatsoever.
               | 
               | But even I accept your argument that they had, why is
               | organized religion the only way to achieve that good? Why
               | not provide societal benefit through secular and people
               | focused governance, for instance? Why does the teachings
               | of thousands of years old people have to do anything with
               | it, even if we do cherry pick them and only listen to the
               | parts that we as a modern society agree are good? When
               | you draw your philosophy from a book that says at the end
               | "don't change this or you're going to hell", then it's
               | little surprise that extremists arise with what are
               | actually fairly reasonable interpretations of the Bible.
        
               | sethc2 wrote:
               | See, but even your straw man is based on that post schism
               | period. And the church is what taught us that even those
               | traditionally "on the fringe" should be valued and not
               | discarded. You're taking up the position the church
               | convinced the world of to argue against her. I really do
               | think your beef (and a legitimate one) is with
               | evangelical Christianity (and possibly Roman Catholics
               | but probably less so). You should read up on where those
               | traditions arose from.
               | 
               | The question really is did Jesus rise from the dead?
               | 
               | Was Plato actually on to something when he said there
               | were more "real" things which made our reality look like
               | shadows.
               | 
               | The reason the church will continue to be is because
               | there is no higher symbol than that of Jesus. There is no
               | getting beyond that idea. Once you see it, there is no
               | going back. So I'd be very careful reading old books if I
               | were you.
               | 
               | Even quantum mechanics is starting to make us realize we
               | might not understand what really constitutes reality.
               | That at the deepest levels there is two eternally
               | existing relationships.
        
               | BoiledCabbage wrote:
               | > The reason the church will continue to be is because
               | there is no higher symbol than that of Jesus.
               | 
               | Do Hindus agree? Do Muslims? Do Buddhists? If not, are
               | they wrong? Why?
               | 
               | The statement you made is an opinion of a group, stated
               | as a fact. There is nothing wrong with groups having
               | opinions, but they shouldn't be pushed to others as
               | facts. That's the source of many past and present
               | conflicts.
        
               | sethc2 wrote:
               | A lot of christians foolishly think there is not any
               | truth beauty or goodness in other world views and refuse
               | to learn from them. There is a lot a Christian can learn
               | from Judaism, Hinduism, Buddhism, Islam, even Mormons,
               | and probably a whole ton of other religious beliefs. They
               | can learn from Greek myths, eastern myths and so on.
               | 
               | I actually just wish non christians would just at least
               | take the story of Jesus as a myth or legend that they
               | could still learn from like other enduring myths. That
               | would at least give the idea behind it the respect it
               | deserves given its huge influence. The story of Moses
               | even if just fiction is still a powerful story. I mean
               | have you never read a book like Les Mis or LOTR or
               | something and not seen the power those stories have for
               | good?
        
               | sethc2 wrote:
               | Oh don't get me wrong. I know this is my opinion. And I
               | don't think Hindus and Muslims don't have very high
               | symbols and good world views.
               | 
               | I'm just saying from what I've seen the symbol that
               | Christ is it is very high and explains the world well.
               | I'd love to have discussions over coffee with people with
               | different cosmological explanations of the world.
               | 
               | The question why this isn't something to be discarded is
               | because a billion people share my opinion and we aren't
               | unreasonable for having it.
               | 
               | The idea that the most powerful king took up the side of
               | the poor and needy, and aligned himself with them is an
               | idea that I can't see being defeated. The hero looking
               | like he lost only to win once for all, to set the
               | captives free is a story that is endlessly being
               | recreated in books from people of all world views.
               | 
               | True though, to many, Christ is the symbol of what
               | they've seen in American Evangelical Christianity and
               | that symbol might just die out, but the one taught in the
               | 1st century till now I can't imagine ever dying out.
        
               | pedrosorio wrote:
               | > The reason the church will continue to be is because
               | there is no higher symbol than that of Jesus. There is no
               | getting beyond that idea. Once you see it, there is no
               | going back. So I'd be very careful reading old books if I
               | were you.
               | 
               | Many countries in Europe have >50% of young people who
               | identify as non-religious [1]
               | 
               | Don't the declining numbers of religious people in Europe
               | contradict that statement? Younger generations in these
               | traditionally Christian countries are very aware of the
               | symbol and idea - and many are in full agreement with
               | many of the values you mention, except they just don't
               | believe the mystical part (and refuse many of the
               | conservative stances from the church).
               | 
               | If this happened in countries that have had Christianity
               | as their foundational identity for hundreds of years, why
               | can't it happen elsewhere?
               | 
               | [1] https://www.theguardian.com/world/2018/mar/21/christi
               | anity-n...
        
               | nickelcitymario wrote:
               | > Why not provide societal benefit through secular and
               | people focused governance, for instance?
               | 
               | Because they weren't. That's the point. The culture at
               | the time didn't care to support anyone but the most
               | powerful.
               | 
               | Could a non-religious approach have fixed it? Maybe, but
               | none emerged that did so. Not 2000 years ago, anyway.
               | 
               | So Christianity entered the scene at a time when no one
               | was doing these good things, and gave people a reason to
               | rally behind them.
               | 
               | Even today, statistically speaking, Muslims give far more
               | of their income to charity than any other group, and if
               | I'm not mistaken, Atheists ranked last. (Christians only
               | marginally performed better, which says a lot about the
               | state of modern Christianity.)
               | 
               | So why is that? I _think_ it has to do with tribalism.
               | You can 't form a strong tribe around NOT believing
               | stuff. Not believing in something isn't enough of a
               | reason to form strong social bonds and take on major
               | projects.
               | 
               | Does that mean you can't come up with a good secular
               | belief that people can rally behind? Of course not.
               | Liberalism was a secular idea that made massive changes.
               | Same for democracy. But you need a flag to rally around.
               | 
               | "Disbelief" makes for a poor flag. It's not much of a
               | rallying cry.
               | 
               | What's more, the rationalist/atheist community tends to
               | be very strongly individualist. Individualism, almost by
               | definition, isn't particularly interested in things like
               | hospitals or caring for the poor.
        
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           | dcolkitt wrote:
           | > Obviously religious people remain the vast majority and
           | being a good person or not is largely disconnected from
           | religiousness.
           | 
           | Religiosity is highly inversely correlated with criminality
           | amount Americans.[1] Religious people also donate
           | significantly more money to charity. To a large extent
           | religious participation _does_ seem to make people behave
           | more pro-socially.
           | 
           | It's certainly not the only way to promote ethical behavior.
           | But even as an atheist, I'll freely admit that religion
           | serves a pretty beneficial important role in our society. A
           | role that we haven't really figured out how to replace with
           | secular counterparts.
           | 
           | [1] http://marripedia.org/effects_of_religious_practice_on_cr
           | ime... [2] https://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2017/oct/30/r
           | eligious-p...
        
             | arrosenberg wrote:
             | > To a large extent religious participation does seem to
             | make people behave more pro-socially.
             | 
             | That's different from religiosity correlating with "being a
             | good person" though, which I'm interpreting as "the ability
             | to act both morally and independently".
             | 
             | It does seem that some people _need_ religion to be a good
             | person, because they lack the moral structure to do without
             | (due to trauma or bad parenting or whatever). For those
             | people, religion allows them to function in society with a
             | set of business rules, but they still tend to lack a solid
             | moral /ethical decision matrix to function on their own or
             | act outside the contexts they have rules for.
        
             | TheOtherHobbes wrote:
             | Charity - religious people are more likely to donate to
             | religious organisations. In fact roughly a third of all
             | donation money in the US goes to supporting religion.
             | 
             | Large churches are quite astonishingly wealthy and also tax
             | exempt, so it's not clear why they need the money more than
             | any number of smaller charities and social programs.
             | 
             | Crime: There isn't any _reliable_ evidence that religion
             | reduces crime in general. It may make certain kinds of
             | crime less likely, but it 's very difficult to disentangle
             | all of the influences - because of course religion also
             | affects crime reporting, and defines which actions can even
             | be considered crimes. This can be a huge problem for
             | victims who live in the same religious community as
             | perpetrators.
             | 
             | One textbook example is the history of child abuse in
             | Catholicism. It didn't show up in crime figures for a very
             | long time because the Church worked hard to cover it up.
             | The truth didn't come out until the political power of the
             | Church was reduced to a level where it could no longer do
             | that.
             | 
             | Another example: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Magdalene_La
             | undries_in_Ireland
             | 
             | There's a good case for considering the possibility that
             | religion actually encourages these kinds of abusive
             | cultures - whether or not they're considered criminal at
             | the time.
             | 
             | So there really isn't an argument that religion serves a
             | beneficial role. It has some benefits, but it also causes a
             | lot of social and political distortions, some of which are
             | extreme and persistently harmful.
        
             | randcraw wrote:
             | Does that include war?
             | 
             | Throughout history, religious leaders have very rarely
             | opposed killing "the enemy". Likewise it's a rare soldier
             | in a time of war who is insists on obeying, "Thou shalt not
             | kill".
             | 
             | Yet if this is true, then how do you define religiosity if
             | it overlooks willingly acting in contradiction to the most
             | essential laws that a faith and its faithful claim to
             | believe?
        
               | zdbrandon wrote:
               | > Throughout history, religious leaders have very rarely
               | opposed killing "the enemy".
               | 
               | The 20th century would like a word with you.
        
             | amanaplanacanal wrote:
             | You are assuming causality there. It could be that an
             | individual's mindset could lead to both less criminality
             | and more religious participation. It's not obvious that
             | sending criminals to church would make them less criminal.
        
             | ericbarrett wrote:
             | One of your sources is overtly Christian and the other is
             | quite conservative[0]. Here is an academic survey of such
             | studies; seems a lot more nuanced: https://www.researchgate
             | .net/publication/261834488_Religion_...
             | 
             | [0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Washington_Times
        
             | tstrimple wrote:
             | > Religious people also donate significantly more money to
             | charity.
             | 
             | Religious people donate significantly more to their
             | churches. Whether that's charity which actually goes on to
             | help people is highly variable. You can say we haven't
             | really figured out how to replace them, but to me it seems
             | pretty clear. Replace a patchwork of "charities" with an
             | actual support network which works for everyone and not
             | just parishioners. Fund it through taxes. You know, the was
             | every single other developed nation in the world handles
             | things. The whole "charity is just as good as sound policy"
             | thing has never panned out and is why we have so many
             | medical bankruptcies as just one example.
        
           | elcritch wrote:
           | You make strong assertions that would be difficult to prove
           | in general and based on a lot of assumptions (e.g. that
           | materialistic reductionism is the only accurate worldview). I
           | believe the viewpoint you espouse that religious people have
           | broken reasoning is bit myopic in understanding human
           | rationality and intellectual pursuits as well. Humans are
           | complicated as is our understanding of reality we all share.
           | 
           | Good counterpoints are people like Donald E. Knuth, who is a
           | preeminent mathematician, Turing Award recipient, and also a
           | devout Lutheran [1]. He gave a talk on science and religion
           | at Google even that gives a more nuanced view on science and
           | religion [2]. There's also Francis Collins, head of the Human
           | Genome project who is a devout Christian as well. Other non-
           | western examples include Ramanujan who attributed his
           | mathematics to "divinity" [3]. Of course otherwise rational
           | scientists can also become besot with irrational pursuits and
           | beliefs, like Linus Pauling obessions with Vitamin C [4].
           | 
           | More broadly the religious concepts implicit in the Judeo-
           | Christian creation mythos (and other major world religions)
           | also encourage (in many scholars opinions and mine as well) a
           | view that the world is a result of rational thought and not
           | purely a choatic war that man happens to be besot by and
           | perhaps might survive. For example compare the differences of
           | Genesis to the Enuma Elish "There is no suggestion of any
           | primordial battle or internecine war which eventually led to
           | the creation of the universe. The one God is above the whole
           | of nature, which He Himself created by His own absolute will.
           | The primeval water, earth, sky, and luminaries are not
           | pictured as deities or as parts of disembodied deities, but
           | are all parts of the manifold works of the Creator. Man, in
           | turn, is not conceived of as an afterthought, as in Enuma
           | Elish, but rather as the pinnacle of creation." [5]. It's my
           | belief that the inception of science (not mere technologists
           | vs philosophers as the ancient Greeks or Romans had) is
           | encouraged by a societal belief that the world has rational
           | underpinnings and isn't just mad chaos.
           | 
           | 1: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Donald_Knuth 2:
           | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JPpk-1btGZk 3:
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Srinivasa_Ramanujan 4:
           | https://quackwatch.org/related/pauling/ 5:
           | https://www.jewishvirtuallibrary.org/creation-and-
           | cosmogony-...
        
             | fossuser wrote:
             | I don't mean to imply that a religious person can't be
             | outlier smart in other ways (Knuth being a great example
             | but there are many others), but that doesn't mean something
             | isn't broken with their world view. People are wildly
             | inconsistent by default (myself included) and it takes
             | great effort to try and recognize these kinds of failures
             | in order to correct them.
             | 
             | In fact, the smarter the person is - the more complex their
             | rationalizations typically are.
             | 
             | As far as finding major religions support a rational world
             | view, it's too easy to cherry pick religious text examples
             | to support anything so I won't do that here. I'll just say
             | that while I'd like that to be true, I think that it's not.
        
               | elcritch wrote:
               | Your comment does directly imply that you don't trust
               | their overall decision making and/or rationality based on
               | your personal worldview. I believe that's bordering on a
               | vary narrow and limiting view of human rationality,
               | culture, and worldviews. Though yes I would agree with
               | you to an extent as overly dogmatic religious beliefs
               | leave little for other viewpoints or venues of thought as
               | well.
               | 
               | > it's too easy to cherry pick religious text examples to
               | support anything
               | 
               | Certainly it's easy to cherry pick religious texts --
               | though there is some serious non-religious scholarly
               | works in these areas as well but it's an area fraught
               | with assumptions. The point being that it's not
               | completely unreasonable to argue that (some) major world
               | religions do promote aspects of rational worldviews
               | (those being an orderly universe governed by knowable
               | discernible rules). Perhaps your rationalistic or
               | atheistic worldview is more correct but as with the view
               | that certain religions promote rationality, that argument
               | is fraught with challenges as well. That's my primary
               | point.
        
           | bjourne wrote:
           | > If the fundamentalists are a problem, maybe there's a
           | problem with the fundamentals?
           | 
           | "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" is often
           | quoted as the fundamental tenet of Christianity.
           | 
           | > If they can't get something basic right, why would they be
           | right about something more complicated?
           | 
           | Donald Knuth is a devout Christian and he has been right
           | about lots of very complicated things.
        
           | mgh2 wrote:
           | This is a precursory investigation into some beliefs, using
           | logic instead of emotion: https://m-g-h.medium.com/in-data-
           | we-trust-2978dacc8c22
        
           | goatcode wrote:
           | >If the fundamentalists are a problem, maybe there's a
           | problem with the fundamentals?
           | 
           | What people call fundamentalists are often not all about the
           | actual fundamentals. Rather, they're stuck on one or another
           | bad, but still old idea. Actual fundamentals do not reflect
           | the hateful, angry, bitter image that's conjured up by the
           | term "fundamentalist."
        
           | rayiner wrote:
           | As someone who went in the opposite direction, I observed as
           | I got older that "evidence based reasoning" is less useful
           | than I had assumed. Nearly everyone has beliefs about the
           | world that are based on faith whether they call it that or
           | not. Very few political premises are based on scientific
           | evidence that's well established as say anthropogenic climate
           | change. For the most part the data is mixed and hard to
           | interpret and peoples' views aren't really based on the data
           | anyway. (Try talking with a gun control advocate. First note
           | that homicides went down in Australia after gun buybacks.
           | Note reaction. Then note that homicides were going down at
           | the same rate before gun buybacks as after gun buybacks. Note
           | reaction.)
           | 
           | And basing your world views on faith is fine because for the
           | most part evidence based reasoning can't really tell you how
           | to structure your communities and economies and raise and
           | educate your children. Not for metaphysical reasons, just
           | because the strong conclusions you can reliably reach with
           | the current state of social and political science is just
           | very limited.
        
             | fossuser wrote:
             | I don't disagree really - there's still space for intuition
             | and making a guess in places with limited information. I
             | also agree most people are using evidence to drive
             | motivated reasoning for a pre-existing conclusion rather
             | than using it to try to struggle towards whatever the truth
             | may be.
             | 
             | The god question is pretty old though, and most of the
             | religious arguments are pretty clearly wrong/bad. They've
             | lost most of their ground to actual experiments and the
             | scientific method. I suspect this is why we see church
             | attendance continuing to decline.
        
             | mixmastamyk wrote:
             | The answer to "we don't have enough information," is not to
             | reason less.
        
               | elihu wrote:
               | Many decisions aren't primarily based on reason/logic,
               | but on priorities and preferences. Having more
               | information rather than less is almost always a good
               | thing, but it's a lot more useful when you already have
               | some goal in mind.
        
             | randcraw wrote:
             | > And basing your world views on faith is fine because for
             | the most part evidence based reasoning can't really tell
             | you how to...
             | 
             | I can't agree with either point: 1) basing your view on
             | faith is equally as good as non-faith, or 2) expecting a
             | world view based on _any_ belief will reliably lead you to
             | draw conclusions that won 't be bad.
             | 
             | Both of these assume that beliefs are primary in shaping
             | "your world view" and that that view is what shapes how you
             | interact with the world. In fact, what's important isn't
             | what you believe; what's important is how you choose to
             | _think_. It 's the questions you choose to ask. It's how
             | willing you are to start _without_ multiple choice answers
             | and then go looking for a multitude of possible solutions.
             | And it 's whether you're willing to accept partial and
             | interim solutions, and sometimes, [shudder] no answer at
             | all.
             | 
             | I know it's not popular to look for answers and then be
             | willing to say, "Nope. I can't answer this." But as you
             | point out, sometimes it's impossible to answer a question
             | with a definitive yes or no. Sometimes you have to gather
             | more information. And the useful part of your world view is
             | how you choose to go about becoming more informed.
             | 
             | If you don't look any further and just guess, or just trust
             | someone else to tell you how to think (especially someone
             | who won't explain their sources or their reasoning), then
             | you will make a lot poor choices in your life, regardless
             | of whether faith is part of that formula or not.
             | 
             | If instead you seek out others whom you know are better
             | informed, and if you ask questions yourself and try to test
             | those answers yourself, that will serve you far better than
             | will any belief system. But most of all, if you are willing
             | to stop your quest at some point and say, "I can't answer
             | this question definitively" and accept that you have two
             | choices: a) a tentative best answer that seeks to work
             | around what you don't know, or b) that you simply refuse to
             | answer now and accept that "I don't know", now THAT's
             | enlightenment. In my opinion, that's a world view that will
             | minimize error and make fewer mistakes. Beliefs be damned.
        
               | rayiner wrote:
               | The problem is that for the most part all this asking
               | questions and becoming informed doesn't get your average
               | person anywhere. I read a lot and know a bunch about a
               | lot of things but at the end of the day I'm left with
               | "the science" Lessing us without firm conclusions about
               | pretty much everything I might care about.
               | 
               | And "I don't know" isn't really a practical answer. You
               | have to raise your kids now, decide what to feed your
               | kids now, vote now, not wait around for conclusive proof.
               | 
               | And people who say "beliefs be damned" don't actually
               | mean it. They embrace beliefs and value judgments all the
               | time. Does scientific evidence tell us we're all equal
               | and created in God's image? No, it's something we choose
               | to believe, and even people who aren't religious believe
               | a secular version of that as an article of faith. (Which
               | is good!) Science says the average IQ of people in
               | Bangladesh (where I'm from) is 82, a standard deviation
               | lower than Americans. What do I choose to believe about
               | Bangladeshis? Most decent Americans don't say "well the
               | best answer we have is Bangladeshis aren't as smart as
               | Americans." They start from a belief about equality and
               | work backward from there. The death penalty, how to treat
               | murderers, criminal justice, civil rights. Science more
               | or less doesn't have the answers we need to these human
               | problems.
        
             | bhupy wrote:
             | I found a good articulation of this here:
             | https://www.thepullrequest.com/p/the-holy-church-of-
             | christ-w...
             | 
             | "Suddenly we've got numerical infinities on that ethics
             | spreadsheet, inputs that win out against any finite moral
             | optimization. Where to put the infinities on the
             | spreadsheet is of course the entire point of this
             | metaphysical endeavor. We need the axiomatic moral
             | imperatives, whether they be human life or free speech or
             | something else, to which everything else loses in the moral
             | calculus. The rest is mere arithmetic.
             | 
             | And this is precisely where the rationalist worldview grows
             | mute: there's simply no way to derive the absolute moral
             | principles that should rule our lives from lab experiments,
             | and any such proposal will necessarily require a faith-
             | based leap--the 'dignity' of human life, the sanctity of
             | private property, etc.--not very different than the tzelem
             | Elohim or Imago Dei of Genesis. Science is absolutely mute
             | here. There's no such thing as a 'scientific ethics' or a
             | 'scientific foreign policy', and the people who claim as
             | much are precisely the same naifs who treat science as a
             | body of knowledge rather than an epistemology, i.e., those
             | who've never actually practiced it."
        
             | tptacek wrote:
             | There is no strongly-held opinion anywhere in the world
             | that you can't play that rhetorical trick on, which may be
             | why there are whole papers that have been written about why
             | it's almost never persuasive to deploy gotcha statistics
             | that way.
        
               | leetcrew wrote:
               | is this a rebuttal or an agreement? I think the point of
               | the example was that most people can't rigorously defend
               | their strongly held opinions. they just throw gotchas at
               | each other.
        
               | tptacek wrote:
               | You know, I think you're right. Sorry about that! Just
               | read my comment as an especially annoying yes-and.
        
           | austincheney wrote:
           | > If the fundamentalists are a problem, maybe there's a
           | problem with the fundamentals?
           | 
           | That is pretty ridiculous. It's like saying if there is bad
           | science the scientific theory is broken.
        
           | jariel wrote:
           | " before throwing it away (I was young ~12 which makes it
           | easier). My objection is to the broken nature of the
           | reasoning and how that tends to corrupt evidence based
           | reasoning elsewhere most of them time "
           | 
           | Age 12 is pretty young to come to that conclusion.
           | 
           | Also, it's not about direct rational inquiry, yes it can
           | sometimes a source of aberration, but that would be missing
           | the point.
           | 
           | Spirituality is about who you are, your relationship to the
           | greater good.
           | 
           | 'Reasoning' is just a tool of the mind.
           | 
           | Science is a tool, not a Truth.
        
             | progman32 wrote:
             | > that would be missing the point.
             | 
             | Which is?
             | 
             | > Spirituality is about who you are, your relationship to
             | the greater good.
             | 
             | It can be, for some people. Not all. My personal
             | relationship to the greater good has more to do with
             | reasoned arguments rather than spirituality.
             | 
             | > 'Reasoning' is just a tool of the mind. Would you agree
             | it's a highly important tool?
        
             | jwalgenbach wrote:
             | Religion is just a tool too. It's just not wielded by the
             | flock, but rather by someone that wants to control the
             | actions of the flock.
             | 
             | Spirituality can be something else altogether, but usually
             | just boils down to magical thinking.
        
             | hooande wrote:
             | Isn't Spirituality also a tool, that enables you to
             | understand and improve your relationship to the greater
             | good?
             | 
             | All tools have value, in some context or another
        
           | nickelcitymario wrote:
           | > If the fundamentalists are a problem, maybe there's a
           | problem with the fundamentals?
           | 
           | Not a bad argument, but if we need religion to be 100%
           | accurate then we'd only ever support the most modern and
           | innovative religion.
           | 
           | The issue is that most religions (including my own) place
           | tremendous importance on the accuracy of teachings that go
           | back hundreds or thousands of years. It was impossible for
           | the original authors to know what we know today, yet we
           | either fault them for it or declare any advances in knowledge
           | to be heretical. Clearly, both of these positions are wrong
           | in the extreme.
           | 
           | And yet, there's a good reason for that, too. If we subject
           | religion to every modern idea, then the religion doesn't
           | really stand for anything. It simply mirrors society back at
           | it.
           | 
           | I don't know the solution to this. There may not be one
           | (short of saying "f--- religion" as a whole, which I think
           | would be a terrible mistake).
           | 
           | If anyone has ever participated in a 12-step program, you can
           | see this in action in a much more modern way. Every program
           | has an unchanging dogma, based on the assumption that the
           | founders hit on something special and right, and that any
           | changes would risk watering it down. As a result, you end up
           | with programs that have ideas that would have been very
           | mainstream when they were founded, but are now largely viewed
           | as wrong-headed or even cruel. And yet, these programs
           | continue to be a lifeline to many people who would have
           | otherwise spiralled into self-destruction.
           | 
           | Again, what's the solution? Heck if I know...
        
           | loveistheanswer wrote:
           | >If they can't get something basic right, why would they be
           | right about something more complicated?
           | 
           | Can you steelman what the basic thing is that religious
           | people get wrong?
        
             | fossuser wrote:
             | A lot of the creationist arguments stem from "irreducible
             | complexity" or a misunderstanding of natural selection (the
             | "eye just formed itself somehow"). Both of these things
             | sound reasonable when explained in isolation to someone who
             | grew up with religion, but natural selection is much
             | stronger (light sensing cells benefit survival way before
             | they're an entire eye) etc.
             | 
             | It's the 'watchmaker' argument - things must have come from
             | a creator because nothing can ever just exist. This always
             | ignores the natural follow up - who created god then? There
             | is no good answer for this (and it just creates an infinite
             | regress).
             | 
             | Religious steelmans are weird, because the arguments out
             | front are not the real objections or even the real debate
             | (which makes things confusing). The real debate is more
             | about belief in belief, tribal affiliation, perceived
             | morality, and identity. The arguments out front are mostly
             | rationalizations to try and explain away contrary evidence.
             | 
             | Religious people are arguing from a position entirely
             | driven by motivated reasoning. They're not trying to
             | uncover the truth, they're trying to defend what they
             | already _know_ to be true.
             | 
             | You see this occasionally on the atheist side too
             | (https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/4Bwr6s9dofvqPWakn/science-
             | as...) the difference though, is the evidence is there if
             | you care to look.
             | 
             | If there was real compelling evidence of supernatural
             | behavior I'd change my mind, but whenever it's been claimed
             | and tested - it's bullshit.
        
               | loveistheanswer wrote:
               | Indeed, I've known a lot of religious people like the
               | ones you speak of. And I've known and read from many
               | other "religious"/deist people who think those types of
               | people are silly.
               | 
               | >If there was real compelling evidence of supernatural
               | behavior I'd change my mind, but whenever it's been
               | claimed and tested - it's bullshit.
               | 
               | How is it possible to test for "supernatural behavior"?
        
               | soylentcola wrote:
               | Maybe I'm just being snarky or missing the real meaning
               | of the term, but I think of "supernatural" as something
               | that is beyond any capacity to test or prove. Anything
               | that can be proven would fall under my definition of
               | "natural", even if it's beyond my capacity to explain or
               | understand.
               | 
               | By definition, I'd consider any sort of gods, demons,
               | ghosts, or whatever to be either nonexistent or something
               | that exists (which would imply that it's something
               | natural and operates in some currently unknown way).
        
               | loveistheanswer wrote:
               | >I think of "supernatural" as something that is beyond
               | any capacity to test or prove.
               | 
               | I agree. It's worth noting that the fundamental nature of
               | our consciousness _could_ fall into that realm, judging
               | by how it is scientifically impossible to isolate and
               | control for, and is thus seemingly indefineable.
        
               | mensetmanusman wrote:
               | Free will is supernatural. That is why leading atheists
               | posit that it doesn't exist.
        
               | fossuser wrote:
               | > ""How is it possible to test for "supernatural
               | behavior"?
               | 
               | - "I'm a psychic and can tell what's in these containers
               | without looking"
               | 
               | - "I can detect water with magic rods"
               | 
               | - "I can heal you with the power of god"
               | 
               | It's worth watching An Honest Liar about the life of the
               | Amazing Randi.
               | 
               | What's interesting is even when Randi shows people how
               | they're being tricked they refuse to believe it.
               | 
               | The above examples are pretty easy to test (and people
               | do), but believers just ignore the results or make up
               | reasons why results don't matter or can't be tested.
        
               | loveistheanswer wrote:
               | Those are of course easy strawman examples of charlatans
               | trying to make money.
               | 
               | This Carl Sagan quote is relevant:
               | 
               | >An atheist is someone who is certain that God does not
               | exist, someone who has compelling evidence against the
               | existence of God. I know of no such compelling evidence.
               | Because God can be relegated to remote times and places
               | and to ultimate causes, we would have to know a great
               | deal more about the universe than we do to be sure that
               | no such God exists. To be certain of the existence of God
               | and to be certain of the nonexistence of God seem to me
               | to be the confident extremes in a subject so riddled with
               | doubt and uncertainty as to inspire very little
               | confidence indeed.
        
               | fossuser wrote:
               | Sure - technically every atheist should be agnostic in
               | the sense that you can never know anything with 100%
               | confidence, but pragmatically you live as if you're an
               | atheist. In the strict sense I'm "almost certain there is
               | no god", but no one can be truly certain given the nature
               | of the things Sagan points out.
               | 
               | Just because something is hard to prove with certainty
               | doesn't mean the probability is equally likely. You can't
               | really be a strict atheist about magic sea fairies
               | either, but you probably are (in the sense you that you
               | think they don't exist). Priors matter for things.
               | 
               | While many of those people were charlatans, many of them
               | are also earnest. The water rods people really believe
               | they can detect water with the sticks and have stories
               | about how they helped a friend with a leak and such.
               | 
               | Many astrology people really believe they can make
               | personality predictions (they can't unless they're vague
               | enough to be predictive of nothing). It's not all
               | conartists.
        
               | simplify wrote:
               | As a religious person, I don't see how the issues you
               | describe are any lesser in non-religious populations.
               | You're misplacing your blame; society would still have
               | these problems _without_ religion, and it 'd arguably be
               | worse, too.
        
               | svieira wrote:
               | > things most have come from a creator because nothing
               | can ever just exist.
               | 
               | This isn't the "watchmaker" argument, this is the
               | "principle of sufficient reason" argument applied to
               | existence. The principle of sufficient reason is "an
               | effect must have a cause sufficient to explain it".
               | Things exist _right now_, but (so goes the argument) they
               | didn't always exist (that is they are not things-which-
               | must-by-their-very-nature-exist). Therefore, the fact
               | that they exist _right now_ needs a cause that operates
               | _right now_. The causal chain of why-does-this-
               | contingent-thing-exist-right-now cannot be infinite.
               | Therefore, the causal chain must terminate in some being
               | that must by its very nature exist.
               | 
               | This argument was not made by Christian theists, but by
               | Aristotle over 300 years before Christianity came into
               | existence. It was rediscovered by Christian theists a
               | millenium and a half later (in the 1200s) and accepted
               | because it matched what God said of Himself to Moses 1200
               | years before Aristotle (Exodus 3:14)
               | 
               | https://biblehub.com/exodus/3-14.htm
        
               | fossuser wrote:
               | Thanks - I think this does a better job clarifying that
               | bit better than I did (which notably doesn't address the
               | infinite regress issue).
               | 
               | The watchmaker argument is more narrowly the creationist
               | 'eye can't have just formed itself' argument (basically
               | the eye must have been made by some sophisticated
               | watchmaker: god).
        
               | svieira wrote:
               | When you say "which notably doesn't address the infinite
               | regress issue" are you talking about what you said or
               | what I did? (Just trying to understand if I wasn't clear
               | enough in my explanations).
        
               | fossuser wrote:
               | I think you clarified where the 'something can't come
               | from nothing' argument originates from (and that it's
               | separate from the watchmaker one).
               | 
               | My point was just that as an argument the answer being
               | 'god' isn't very compelling when it then just moves the
               | question to 'where did god come from', nothing is
               | actually explained by this.
               | 
               | In my experience with religious people you get
               | unsatisfactory answers to that, so adding massive
               | complexity (god) as an answer doesn't really help when it
               | can't answer the underlying question (it just introduces
               | a new and more complex one). This is ignoring all the
               | other problems with the god hypothesis which don't hold
               | up either.
        
               | jasonwatkinspdx wrote:
               | This line of reasoning is totally unconvincing to pure
               | naturalists like me.
               | 
               | I simply believe that the universe exists, and that we'll
               | likely never know anything beyond that, as the big bang
               | appears to be the limit of what evidence is possible to
               | measure.
               | 
               | What I don't see is anything that necessitates turning
               | the fact that the universe exists into a principle that
               | the ultimate "cause" must be a being that frankly behaves
               | like a abusive patriarch while threatening humanity with
               | eternal torture.
        
               | svieira wrote:
               | "That the universe exists" isn't a sufficient explanation
               | since we know that it doesn't exist of necessity (since
               | it is composed of parts). The argument doesn't say
               | anything about what this "First mover" is like, only that
               | it must be sufficient to explain the effects it produces
               | (which includes being-a-person since that's qualitatively
               | different than not-being-one). It's only when you come to
               | the realization that to-be is the same as to-be-beautiful
               | is the same as to-be-true that things start to look
               | vaguely like the God of the burning bush and the problem
               | of pain starts to raise its head (and then you have to
               | meet the cross and either break on it or be saved by it).
        
               | fossuser wrote:
               | I'd recommend Max Tegmark's Our Mathematical Universe
               | which goes into some of the more modern theories beyond
               | The Big Bang (Inflation Theory, MWI of QM) - I thought it
               | was pretty interesting and didn't know about.
               | 
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Inflation_(cosmology)
               | 
               | My interpretation of the comment you replied to wasn't
               | that they were trying to justify the argument, but just
               | clarify what the argument specifically was (and where it
               | came from).
        
               | mensetmanusman wrote:
               | What you may not see is that everything is incredibly
               | intelligible.
        
               | jasonwatkinspdx wrote:
               | Of course it is: it's a work of human writing, by people
               | who were quite serious thinkers of their era.
               | 
               | But you can't use the content of the bible to prove the
               | existence of the supernatural any more than you could use
               | Beowufl to do the same.
        
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         | gaoshan wrote:
         | Grew up Protestant and rejected it because of the hypocrisy I
         | saw around me. I saw "good church going people" who I knew were
         | not good people and I saw how they were able to use the
         | authority of their positions to exert influence. I also found
         | that asking too many inconvenient questions in youth group
         | meetings led to uncomfortable situations. It became clear that
         | the religion part of things had little to no impact on how
         | good, bad or decent the people practicing it were. People were
         | good or bad, religious people simply had a metaphysical
         | framework they could use to excuse themselves... and the bad
         | ones would do just this. Led me to reject confirmation and
         | leave altogether. Now it's been 40 years and I am more
         | convinced than ever that I made the correct decision. Religion
         | is fundamentally flawed as I see it practiced around me and
         | needs to be kept out of civil society strictly and completely.
         | You want to practice it in your home or church? Go for it. You
         | want to inject it into civil society (schools, government,
         | etc)... you need to be stopped utterly and completely.
        
           | AuthorizedCust wrote:
           | Just curious: which denomination were you?
        
             | gaoshan wrote:
             | Generic Presbyterian. The vanilla ice cream of religions.
        
               | prophesi wrote:
               | Do you know if it was PC USA (which is more mainline) or
               | PCA (which is more evangelical/fundamentalist)? It's
               | actually a pretty huge split in that denomination.
               | 
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Protestantism_in_the_United
               | _St...
        
               | gaoshan wrote:
               | This was PC USA.
        
         | api wrote:
         | I've talked to people of the younger generations (in the USA)
         | who are not even aware that there is anything other than
         | fundamentalist literalism. Either the Earth is 6000 years old
         | and Jonah literally rode in the belly of a whale, or there is
         | no God.
         | 
         | This sets up a situation where you have to be willfully
         | ignorant or lie to defend the existence of God, since this
         | stuff is bollocks.
         | 
         | In reality fundamentalist literalism is a relatively recent
         | (19th century) theological development, but it's taken over
         | completely in many US denominations.
         | 
         | A further wedge has been driven by the total politicization of
         | religion. Many also believe that you must be a far-right
         | Republican to be a Christian. If you'd asked me as a teenager
         | or early 20-something what it meant to be a Christian I'd have
         | thought "you have to support the military and vote Republican."
        
           | pbourke wrote:
           | > In reality fundamentalist literalism is a relatively recent
           | (19th century) theological development
           | 
           | I was under the impression that it began with the Protestant
           | Reformation - specifically Calvinism (16th century)
        
             | api wrote:
             | Hmm... my answer may have been US-centric. I was thinking
             | of this kind of thing:
             | 
             | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Fundamentals
             | 
             | Early 20th century though, but the antecedents go back to
             | the 19th.
             | 
             | This is regarded by some as the foundational text of 20th
             | century American fundamentalism. Written and published by
             | an oil tycoon, of course.
        
           | luxuryballs wrote:
           | Well given the logical definition of God 6 day creation and
           | riding in a whale are not a problem at all, anything is
           | possible. I never saw a 6000 year old Earth in the Bible
           | though.
        
             | kaybe wrote:
             | The idea is to assume we have an unbroken record of
             | genealogy in the bible and add up all the lifetimes of
             | people mentioned, which gives the ~6000 years. [0]
             | 
             | I'm not sure whether there is any basis for this assumption
             | in the text though..
             | 
             | [0] https://creation.com/6000-years
        
               | luxuryballs wrote:
               | Yeah I don't think there is, and doesn't need to be
               | either. If you believe it's the Word of God then it's got
               | just what it was suppose to have in it, nothing more and
               | nothing less. Most of the debated things are just not
               | that important on the scale with things that are cut and
               | dry, by design.
               | 
               | It's like the science thing, there is science in the
               | Bible, but the Bible is not a science book. Science is
               | more of a way to describe the function of the lego blocks
               | that make up the world around us, the Bible is more
               | concerned with how the lego blocks came about and what
               | the cosmic purpose of them is. Which is why science and
               | Bible are never at odds, just like how metaphysics is
               | never at odds with physics. Or how things like gravity
               | and light are well beyond the scope of biological
               | evolution.
        
         | kongolongo wrote:
         | The reason fundamentalists are so appealing is because they at
         | least try to maintain some level of consistency.
         | 
         | How does one know which parts of the bible to accept or which
         | parts are metaphor and which parts are literal or which version
         | of the bible to believe? At least the most literal
         | interpretation always tries to be consistent.
         | 
         | What makes any interpretation better than scriptural
         | literalism? Is it the fact that some happen to agree with
         | current social trends? Seems like the source material is flawed
         | and unnecessary in the first place.
        
           | randcraw wrote:
           | I think fundamentalists care less about consistency than
           | closure. They want to minimize mystery and unknowns by
           | insisting that even some very implausible parts of the Bible
           | are expressly and unquestionably true. Similarly, Catholicism
           | seems also to be quite formal about Biblical interpretation,
           | but willing to let the church decide which tenets should be
           | explicit vs metaphor. In contrast to both, I understand that
           | Orthodoxy is less concerned about closure and more willing to
           | leave 'lesser' questions unanswered or remain ambiguous.
           | 
           | Religious truth isn't decided only by scripture or church
           | hermeneutics. Sometimes it's just what your community chooses
           | to care about (or not).
        
             | hajile wrote:
             | The whole implausible argument always struck me as lacking.
             | 
             | You accept the idea of an omniscient, omnipotent god, but
             | then say they couldn't possibly do anything supernatural
             | because that would go against the science they created.
        
           | billti wrote:
           | Totally agree. I'm not religious at all, but at least being a
           | "fundamentalist" seems intellectually honesty. If you believe
           | your religious text is the true word of an all powerful God,
           | surely it's infallible? What gives you the right to pick and
           | choose which parts to take literally or not?
           | 
           | Would an all powerful God who wants "true believers" to find
           | salvation leave them for thousands of years muddling through
           | with just an ambiguous and inconsistent book to live by?
        
         | 2ion wrote:
         | > which brings heresies like hating LGBT
         | 
         | This is funny to read because LGBT and a series of other
         | movements cause me to feel much the same as I do about
         | "religious" fundamentalism. Excessive self-styling and
         | countering any adverse ideas with a refusal to compromise or
         | cede any ground. Not tolerating adverse ideas and
         | manifestations thereof in daily life but "calling it out" and
         | attacking them constantly.
         | 
         | Extremism in opiniated/constructed ideas, polarized cancel
         | culture etc has become much more popular and dominating in the
         | public discourse and media than it has been for the past 50+
         | years.
         | 
         | I just don't get how fundamentalists can remain so busy going
         | on about their fundaments. It's all very tiresome.
        
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         | tootie wrote:
         | Fundamentalism is corrosive and detrimental to society. I don't
         | get angry at moderate religious views but I still think they're
         | laughable superstition. I respect your right as a human to
         | believe I just think it's silly.
        
         | loceng wrote:
         | Seeing those same comments in this thread reminded me of
         | something Jordan Peterson questions: with this decline of
         | religious-based narratives for guidelines, what is replacing
         | it?
        
         | Breza wrote:
         | It's so refreshing to see somebody who has had a similar
         | experience to my own. I've never been a member of a church like
         | the ones that people describe in a lot of the comments. We
         | focus on devotion to God and improving the earth. For example,
         | here's how we marked our church's 100th birthday:
         | 
         | https://www.washingtonpost.com/local/on-its-100th-birthday-a...
        
         | ARandomerDude wrote:
         | > ...bad theology...heresies...
         | 
         | Without "scriptural literalism" how do you know what bad
         | theology and heresy are? Is good theology not simply that which
         | most closely corresponds to Scripture? Your comment makes sense
         | on a Roman Catholic view - in which the traditions of the
         | church are authoritative - but not on the Protestant view (sola
         | Scriptura).
        
           | Robotbeat wrote:
           | Some are led by consensus and "spirit-leading." Like the
           | Quakers.
        
       | snicker7 wrote:
       | Speaking as a person of faith, religion has been largely
       | obsoleted by social media and political tribalism. Most people
       | get their moral compass from Instagram or Twitter or whatever.
       | Celebrities, op-end writers, talk show hosts, and corporations
       | have become the bishops of the new American moral universe.
        
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         | soared wrote:
         | I don't think anyone is getting their morals from Instagram.
        
           | timbit42 wrote:
           | The think the OP was also implying "lack of morals" when they
           | said "morals".
        
           | ed25519FUUU wrote:
           | Find the influencers of our generation and you'll find the
           | moral role models.
        
       | justupvoting wrote:
       | A lot of clever folks in here attempting to tailor the Emperor's
       | new clothes.
       | 
       | As to whether church membership slipping below the 50% mark is a
       | good or bad thing for America, I'm agnostic.
        
         | renewiltord wrote:
         | HN has a strong bias in the same direction as Malcolm Gladwell
         | and the "well ackchually"s of the Internet.
         | 
         | This constant search for a counterintuitive result or
         | explanation means that most comments on things just end up with
         | a massive contrarian bias.
         | 
         | This makes sense. After all, no one is writing "oh cool" and no
         | one is upvoting that.
        
       | IG_Semmelweiss wrote:
       | Church membership i think ignores the fact about the explosion in
       | alternative beliefs and practices.
       | 
       | For example, meditation, san pedro, ayahuasca use etc has
       | exploded tremendously and I think there is a significant cross
       | section of the former religious population that have found relief
       | from daily hustle via these alternative non-denominational
       | activities.
        
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       | gobrewers14 wrote:
       | Great news. At some point, hopefully humanity will realize
       | religions are the myths of our less enlightened ancestors and we
       | can all move on to something more interesting and productive.
        
       | cmrdporcupine wrote:
       | Having the Church community while growing up was great. But the
       | fact that admission to this community required total
       | philosophical adherence is just bizarre.
       | 
       | Frankly, growing up in the church left me with a broken moral
       | code. It was only once I left it in my teens and had to work
       | things out for myself that I feel like I could properly ground
       | myself ethically. Having a moral system imposed on you can do
       | that.
        
         | umvi wrote:
         | You'll have a broken moral system imposed on you either way
         | then, if not by a church than by the shifting values of
         | politics and society. You'll never derive an absolute moral
         | code by yourself, you are forced to accept the changing values
         | of society or risk being ostracized. Most people just allow
         | their morals to shift with society rather than dig in their
         | heels or try to develop an absolute moral code.
        
           | wing-_-nuts wrote:
           | Why would my morals be based on other people's beliefs? They
           | simply boil down to a question of 'does this harm others, in
           | a provable way?'
        
             | umvi wrote:
             | > They simply boil down to a question of 'does this harm
             | others, in a provable way?'
             | 
             | And when there are interest groups pumping money into
             | research to ensure the thing does not harm others in a
             | provable way?
             | 
             | It's like cigarettes in the 40s. Tobacco usage was both
             | moral and socially acceptable because big tobacco pumped
             | money into the research to ensure the perception was that
             | it did not cause harm.
             | 
             | That was eventually disproven, but it took decades, and we
             | no doubt have modern day "big tobaccos" pumping money into
             | research to ensure their product/ideology/etc. is "proven"
             | not to cause harm. You may think something is moral now but
             | will change your mind later. For example, you may think
             | it's perfectly fine for a person to attend church today,
             | but what if research comes out later that religion provably
             | harms children, would you then be on board with banning
             | religion? And if so, doesn't that disturb you that a
             | slightly different society might come to an equally
             | "proven" conclusion that atheism provably causes harm to
             | society?
        
               | wing-_-nuts wrote:
               | To expand on my moral philosophy, I think someone should
               | be free to do as they please unless there is evidence
               | that it harms someone else. Harm is defined by the
               | preponderance of evidence. A few contrarian papers
               | sponsored by big corporate interests aren't going to
               | change that. I take a fairly firm stance on what
               | constitutes evidence, and when in doubt, lean towards
               | individual freedom over society's view of something.
        
               | umvi wrote:
               | > A few contrarian papers sponsored by big corporate
               | interests aren't going to change that.
               | 
               | It's more than that. Not just big corps but sometimes
               | prominent scientists, or political movements have agendas
               | and biases that influence research (studies related to
               | racism, sexism, and diversity/equity come to mind). There
               | are also research "cabals" that won't let you publish
               | research contrary to the groupthink. And on top of all
               | that there is a "reproducibility crisis" that especially
               | impacts social science/medicine.
               | 
               | > and when in doubt, lean towards individual freedom over
               | society's view of something.
               | 
               | I think this is the right stance. Too many people (in my
               | opinion) cherry pick papers on topics that do not have a
               | "preponderance of evidence" (or have even been reproduced
               | a single time) in order to fight for policy changes or
               | otherwise bolster their stance.
        
           | tenacious_tuna wrote:
           | > You'll have a broken moral system imposed on you either way
           | 
           | I think this is a fundamental misunderstanding of how moral
           | systems work, one that is perpetuated by the church.
           | 
           | In Christianity, there is a specific "source" of morality,
           | one that's (supposedly) infallible and unquestionable. This
           | leads to problems when the infallible-unquestionable source
           | of morality endorses things like slavery [1]: if it's
           | unquestionable and infallible, how can your moral system be
           | adapted to address this shortcoming? (This is usually
           | handwaved away by theists by saying something like "oh that's
           | the old covenant", or "that was a different god", which uses
           | strange internal doctrinal shenanigans to somehow justify
           | this supreme perfect being's obvious moral shortcommings, and
           | looks to everyone outside the religion like someone just
           | playing the cup game.)
           | 
           | Outside of religion, there is no single "source" of morality.
           | There's a codified system of laws that our societies adhere
           | to, certainly, but there's plenty of examples of how the laws
           | do not codify morality (e.g. I am not required to be even a
           | minimally-decent Samaritan to anyone I encounter on the
           | street). Morality instead is something that an individual has
           | to build for themselves, as a framework for decisionmaking in
           | the wider world: how do you choose between your available
           | actions? what are your guiding principals?
           | 
           | Some decide that, for various reasons, they cannot support
           | industrial animal agriculture, and turn vegan. Some decide
           | they fundamentally disagree with the structure of our police
           | forces. Some turn pacifist--but all come to these conclusions
           | through their reasoning. They absolutely can (and do) borrow
           | reasoning from other sources, but it's impossible for it to
           | be 'imposed' on them because there is no 'higher power' that
           | has the absolute moral right.
           | 
           | This is something that's frustrated me when trying to engage
           | with religious people on other moral issues; a few months ago
           | I was talking to my mom about the concept of wealth
           | redistribution, as to me it seemed incredibly immoral that
           | people like Jeff Bezos can have an insane amount of wealth
           | while we still have children in our schools who can't afford
           | lunch or library books or are even homeless. My mother
           | (Christian) couldn't get around the idea that she had no
           | right to impose her perceived morality on another: that it
           | would be wrong to support laws requiring the redistribution
           | of wealth. She had similar issues with LGBT rights: she could
           | see the harm caused to LGBT people, and did not want to
           | participate in that harm, but struggled to support them
           | because she felt like codifying moral support for something,
           | which she didn't have the power to do.
           | 
           | This removal of one's own ability to develop and test morals
           | is part of what disturbs me greatly about the church. It
           | makes it very difficult to demonstrate when people make
           | mistakes, how they have harmed other people, and how they
           | might go about avoiding that in the future.
           | 
           | [1]: https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Exodus+21&v
           | ersi...
        
             | umvi wrote:
             | > My mother (Christian) couldn't get around the idea that
             | she had no right to impose her perceived morality on
             | another
             | 
             | I mean... you probably can't get around that idea either.
             | Or do you believe that any and all of your rights can and
             | should be taken away if a majority of the people agree you
             | shouldn't have those rights anymore (even if the majority
             | are religious nutjobs who decide you should not have a
             | right to consume alcohol because it's immoral)?
        
               | tenacious_tuna wrote:
               | > even if the majority are religious nutjobs
               | 
               | This is generally why I 'advocate' for atheism
               | speficially, and street epistemology [1] generally: I
               | want people to be able to effectively reason through
               | their morals and beliefs, because I believe that will
               | lead to a generally better society--or at the very least
               | will make it easier for people to identify when they're
               | arguing from different base assumptions.
               | 
               | My issue w.r.t. moral agency in religious folks is it's
               | difficult to start having conversations around things
               | like LGBT rights because their default stance is
               | (paraphrased) "It doesn't matter what I think is 'right'
               | or not, because I'm not the one who gets to say what is
               | 'right' or not--that's God's job."
               | 
               | So before we can even get to the concept of "when (if
               | ever) can you impose these moral beliefs on another"
               | they're refusing to engage with the concept of a morality
               | where that question matters.
               | 
               | To answer your specific question, no, I don't believe
               | "any and all of [my] rights can and should be taken away
               | if a majority of the people agree you shouldn't have
               | those rights" because it doesn't align with my own moral
               | perceptions: I don't think the majority is obviously
               | correct. (For example, I am illegal in 71 countries and
               | can be legally executed in 12. Perhaps not a strict
               | majority, and I"m using laws as an indicator of moral
               | policy, but certainly a lot of people--regardless, I do
               | not agree with these things.)
               | 
               | That said, my perceptions __can be flawed__. I would hope
               | that the tools I use to build them, and my willingness to
               | discuss/argue/test them with others will prevent them
               | from being egregiously wrong, but it is still possible
               | that they would remain wrong. This makes it possible for
               | me to correct my moral system where it is found lacking.
               | 
               | [1]: https://streetepistemology.com/
        
         | rbanffy wrote:
         | > But the fact that admission to this community required total
         | philosophical adherence is just bizarre.
         | 
         | My grandpa's best friend was a catholic priest. I remember him
         | saying that you really don't need to go to the church if you
         | don't want to, but, if you did good deeds selflessly, always
         | tried to make things right (in the sense of least global damage
         | possible) and to avoid wronging others, you'd be a good enough
         | catolic to pass any reasonable judgement day test.
         | 
         | Which is something I would suspect my idealized Jesus would
         | stand behind.
         | 
         | The only time I saw him actually working as a priest, was when
         | my grandpa died and he delivered his eulogy.
        
           | p_l wrote:
           | It's also the official doctrine of Catholic Church since
           | Vatican II...
           | 
           | Thing is, application of it by clergy is not exactly
           | universal :(
        
             | mustafa_pasi wrote:
             | Not really. If you are, muslim yes. But if you are
             | Catholic, then one of your duties is mass every Sunday and
             | not doing so is a mortal sin.
        
               | rbanffy wrote:
               | There are diverging views on the subject. For some, it
               | suffices to act according to what Jesus taught. For
               | others, the more strict observation of rituals is a
               | necessity.
        
             | aeneasmackenzie wrote:
             | This is false. It is true that the church teaches that you
             | can be saved without going through the church, but this
             | does not apply if you are aware of the church. Invincible
             | ignorance does not apply to those who are not ignorant.
        
               | p_l wrote:
               | I believe the main issue is whether one refused god or
               | not (i.e. catholic who renounced the faith). Being aware
               | of faith but not practicing while still fulfilling the
               | requirements does count, iirc.
        
               | mustafa_pasi wrote:
               | No, I'm pretty sure it doesn't. I mean, this is one of
               | the mayor schisms between Protestant and Christian
               | churches.
               | 
               | You can check the catechism if you want. It puts it in
               | black on white.
        
         | Loughla wrote:
         | 100% that second paragraph. Growing up with morals imposed on
         | my, via the threat of fire and brimstone was weird. I did what
         | I had to do, because I was told to do it or else.
         | 
         | Being an adult and doing the right thing, simply because it's
         | the right thing, and developing my own moral and ethical code
         | of conduct has greatly reduced my stress and anxiety.
        
           | jrs235 wrote:
           | I hear you. This, reliance on the Old Testament fire and
           | brimstone teaching is a failure of the church. The Law (and
           | the fire and brimstone) is important to show how we (no one)
           | can live up to being prefect and our need for forgiveness and
           | love. We are to do things out of love, not out of fear.
        
             | bshep wrote:
             | Pretty much sums up my experience as well, I grew up going
             | to church and every week it was 'follow the church or go to
             | hell' and 'you are all sinners going to hell'.
             | 
             | As an adult ( in a different geographic area ) I've been to
             | church with my wife and its a much more positive
             | experience.
             | 
             | In the end my 'belief' is in a moral code and not in a
             | religion.
        
         | sarabad2021 wrote:
         | > But the fact that admission to this community required total
         | philosophical adherence is just bizarre.
         | 
         | I don't think it's bizarre at all. With the church removed from
         | western society something will fill the vacuum. And truly it
         | already has. Our society requires complete unquestioning
         | philosophical adherence to its new religion. What happened
         | during the French revolution? They turned the churches into
         | "Temples of Reason" all the while lopping off the head of
         | anyone that did not wholly and totally adhere to their new
         | moral code. Even in the end the god of this new moral code met
         | his fate by the monster he created. Believe me what is
         | happening is not what anyone here should want. For all of you
         | who are thinking and reasonable. Read the history:
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dechristianization_of_France_d...
        
           | mattnewton wrote:
           | Dechristianization does not equal the french revolution any
           | more than the rise of national catholicism equals Franco's
           | fascist dictatorship. Plenty of western nations have dropped
           | the church as it failed to adapt to modern liberal society,
           | and plenty of atrocious regimes have been aided and abetted
           | by the blessings of churches.
        
           | SketchySeaBeast wrote:
           | > And truly it already has.
           | 
           | I don't think you're arguing that it's the same motivation as
           | the French revolution, so it would help to elucidate your
           | point if you said what you think that new thing is. It would
           | also help to explain how you think that enforced
           | philosophical adherence by all of western society applies as
           | there are still 47% of Americans who DO belong to a religious
           | institution.
        
             | sarabad2021 wrote:
             | I agree that it isn't the same motivation but we're on
             | trend to seeing a similar result. If we do get to that
             | extreme then by that time, we'll have a new moral system
             | which won't allow these types of conversations, in the same
             | way certain extremist sects of christianity didn't allow
             | dissidents to live. However, the form of christianity that
             | we have now simply hurts peoples feelings. Hardly cause for
             | such outrage. Though today hurting someones feelings is the
             | equivalent of violence and there is no way to be forgiven
             | except a life of apologizing and groveling. Exciting time
             | to be alive.
        
               | SketchySeaBeast wrote:
               | You're still avoiding saying what you think that trend
               | is.
               | 
               | > However, the form of christianity that we have now
               | simply hurts peoples feelings. Hardly cause for such
               | outrage.
               | 
               | I believe there are still abusers hidden in Catholic
               | Church are there not?
        
               | sarabad2021 wrote:
               | Yes, there are abusers and that is heinous. The catholic
               | church has done unspeakable amounts of damage to
               | Christianity. However, that damage was done by going
               | against the teaching of Christ who warned against such
               | evil saying: "Whoever causes one of these little ones who
               | believe in me to sin, it would be better for him if a
               | great millstone were hung around his neck and he were
               | thrown into the sea." Mark 9:42. There will be justice. I
               | can't imagine having a worldview where these evil people
               | just die and cease to exist. Totally escaping justice.
        
               | krastanov wrote:
               | And many can not imagine a worldview that relies on
               | justice being provided by some entity after death. I
               | would call that "escaping justice".
        
               | sarabad2021 wrote:
               | Actually that entity demands both. Man's justice and
               | God's justice.
        
               | 8note wrote:
               | Jesus was pretty specific about who should be casting
               | stones, and that generally people are not qualified to do
               | so
               | 
               | Man's justice is forgiveness, not punishment
        
           | jmcqk6 wrote:
           | >And truly it already has. Our society requires complete
           | unquestioning philosophical adherence to its new religion.
           | 
           | Obviously, since speaking heresies like this will get you
           | killed. /s
           | 
           | Take a step back, disengage from the culture war, and take a
           | look at what is actually happening.
        
             | throwawaygal7 wrote:
             | But it can cost you a job, and your place in society
        
               | SamoyedFurFluff wrote:
               | ...so can religion? I mean we literally had to implement
               | laws to say you can't get fired for your religion, so
               | clearly it was a problem.
        
           | allemagne wrote:
           | People have been talking about the vacuum that Christianity
           | has left or will leave in Western society for over a century.
           | Most of the time, however, those who complain about this then
           | completely miss the point.
           | 
           | The new organizations, ideologies, and new-age pseudo-
           | religions "filling the religion-shaped hole" in society
           | aren't inherently "lesser" than religion (or necessarily
           | better). They are simply filling the niches in an ecosystem
           | that many traditional religious structures by and large
           | refuse to adapt to.
           | 
           | Yes, the sudden decrease in religiosity in society is
           | probably just trading one set of problems for another, but if
           | individuals didn't think that leaving their church was in
           | their best interests then they wouldn't have left in the
           | first place. Secularization is an inevitable consequence of
           | freedom.
           | 
           | Religion and Christianity itself probably won't ever go away
           | for the same reason it has clung to life for millennia: it
           | will change and adapt to those new needs. It's only the
           | stubbornly complacent sects and congregations who will
           | dwindle and go extinct.
        
             | notsureaboutpg wrote:
             | People can be wrong about what's in their best interests...
             | Just because people left doesn't mean it was good overall.
             | 
             | In fact, I think one of the keys to any religious belief
             | (even the current scientism that's in vogue today) is that
             | people are not the sole knowers of what's best for
             | themselves.
        
           | boudin wrote:
           | You have to put things in their context though. Not saying
           | that the years of chaotic and arbitrary killing that followed
           | the revolution was great, but religion was a different thing
           | in France back then. It was also (and foremost) politics and
           | a system of power before being a religion. I wouldn't attach
           | the world "moral" to the catholic church back then because it
           | definitely had none.
        
         | tfehring wrote:
         | In response to your first paragraph: I was raised Catholic, and
         | for a long time I've been a little bit envious of my Jewish
         | friends' ability to still associate themselves with their
         | religious identity even after they no longer identify with the
         | theistic elements of it. "If you leave you'll burn in hell for
         | eternity" was effective for a long time, and it worked on me
         | for much of my childhood, but it doesn't seem like a very
         | effective retention strategy at this point.
         | 
         | Of course, I don't really care to associate with most Catholics
         | as they stand today anyway. But that might be different if
         | Catholics and "I was raised Catholic"s had a more formal shared
         | identity in the same sense that religious and secular Jews do.
        
           | thrww20210329 wrote:
           | If you want more solid evidence that the Catholic Church is
           | the right one, check out this miracle:
           | 
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Miracle_of_the_Sun
        
         | bko wrote:
         | Having an imperfect moral system imposed is better than having
         | no moral system imposed. You have a context for which you can
         | deviate, but if morality is all relative, many will be lost.
         | You need something to ground yourself to. That's where familial
         | culture and religion come in. One isn't necessarily better than
         | another, but its useful to have as a starting point
        
           | eloff wrote:
           | I completely disagree that religion is the only moral system.
           | 
           | If you are not religious you still have a moral system. In
           | the West this had been heavily influenced by Judeo-Christian
           | values, but if you look at countries without that influence
           | you still see a lot of similarities in morals.
        
             | bko wrote:
             | I never said its the only one. It's one that has survived
             | over thousands of years. Other places in the East may have
             | their own values imposed outside of the context of
             | religion. But it still exists.
             | 
             | The West for all its flaws based on Judeo-Christian values
             | has its merits. For one, a Japanese person would be more
             | likely to be accepted as an American than an American be
             | accepted as a Japanese.
             | 
             | Religion isn't perfect, but it stood the test of time. It
             | helped guide most of my bloodline to today (apart from a
             | brief detour due to communism). Theoretically you can
             | create a moral system and a way of imposing it outside of
             | religion but I think that's dangerous. How sure are you
             | that your new moral system you just thought of will serve
             | your future generations to be happy and productive members
             | of society? I personally wouldn't gamble my children's fate
             | on it
        
               | todd_t wrote:
               | "Religion-based" morality is dangerous and it evolves
               | _with society_. What was acceptable by religion 300-500
               | years ago isn 't acceptable today. And yet, God is the
               | same yesterday, today, and forever? No thanks.
        
               | eloff wrote:
               | You said you don't have a moral system without religion.
               | 
               | That's preposterous.
               | 
               | You also don't end up with a moral system you just
               | invented. But how much of it is due to religions present
               | and past is a fair question.
               | 
               | Religion is universal, it must clearly serve some purpose
               | and convey some advantage to humans. I'm not arguing it
               | has no value.
               | 
               | It's also unclear if you could get rid of god based
               | religions if they would not just be replaced with
               | something else similar to a religion. Woke culture makes
               | me wonder.
        
               | cmrdporcupine wrote:
               | Supernatural beliefs are universal. Religion is not.
               | 
               | Further, Christianity was the first "religion" to insist
               | on its exclusivity. Others were either "people" religions
               | ("Jews believe this"), animistic/traditional
               | spiritualities, or highly polytheistic systems that
               | willingly absorbed or included other gods / belief
               | systems easily.
               | 
               | Christians were the first to come along and say: you
               | [anyone in humanity] will burn eternally if you don't
               | practice this belief exclusively, only we are correct.
               | And not only that, by the 3rd century they were executing
               | each other for disagreements about very arcane subjects
               | (consubstantiality, etc.) And then later killing non-
               | Christians as well.
        
               | eloff wrote:
               | > Supernatural beliefs are universal. Religion is not.
               | 
               | Can you point me at a pre modern culture that didn't have
               | religion? I don't know any off hand.
        
               | cmrdporcupine wrote:
               | It really depends on your definition of religion. We tend
               | to superimpose Abrahamic religious models onto how we see
               | "pagan" practices, but in reality many belief systems
               | wouldn't fit what we call religion now. Almost all of
               | them, including traditional Roman beliefs didn't include
               | any notion of their own supremacy or unique truth, for
               | example. The gods were not "perfect" beings or all-
               | knowing they were just ... more powerful people. What you
               | _believed_ was less important than what you practiced
               | (sacrifice, etc.) Christianity was the first to make
               | _belief_ primary.
               | 
               | And this goes back to what I was saying at the start of
               | this thread: the church community is nice. But it is tied
               | to an insistence in belief. Like, you have to have these
               | ideas in your head. That's actually kind of f*cked up if
               | you think about it, and kind of an aberration in the
               | context of spiritual practices in all of human history.
               | Most of the time it was: put this idol in your house or
               | give a sacrifice for a good harvest and we're good.
               | Nobody cared if you believed it or not. It's a series of
               | practices to hopefully alter the world. And some good
               | stories to go with it.
               | 
               | The Romans were incredulous at the early Christians not
               | because of what they believed ("sure, Christ, why
               | not...") but because they refused to follow along in
               | community practices (no sacrifices to the emperor or city
               | gods) and insisted that _only_ their beliefs were
               | correct.
        
               | eloff wrote:
               | > It really depends on your definition of religion.
               | 
               | From Merriam-Webster: https://www.merriam-
               | webster.com/dictionary/religion
               | 
               | 2 : a personal set or institutionalized system of
               | religious attitudes, beliefs, and practices 4 : a cause,
               | principle, or system of beliefs held to with ardor and
               | faith
               | 
               | I think that applies universally or very nearly so to
               | human societies - which is amazing because very little is
               | so universally human.
               | 
               | > many belief systems wouldn't fit what we call religion
               | now
               | 
               | I see that as just a blind spot caused by our Judaeo-
               | Christian heritage, not a fundamental issue.
               | 
               | You've got some interesting points though about how
               | Christianity differs from pagan religions (actually I
               | think it applies to Judaism and Islam as well.)
        
           | 8note wrote:
           | Having an imperfect moral system that's not imposed seems
           | just as good as one that is imposed.
           | 
           | What's so good about having somebody else decide your moral
           | system?
        
         | asdff wrote:
         | We were only briefly religious growing up to satisfy some
         | elders in the family, but in truth the community around our
         | church was no stronger or any different than any other family
         | based community we were in while growing up. You could have a
         | just as strong of a family community with your kid in rec
         | league sports, for example, because ultimately people just want
         | to have a good time and you don't need a belief system for that
         | when a plate of food will do.
        
         | baryphonic wrote:
         | > Frankly, growing up in the church left me with a broken moral
         | code. It was only once I left it in my teens and had to work
         | things out for myself that I feel like I could properly ground
         | myself ethically. Having a moral system imposed on you can do
         | that.
         | 
         | How did you derive your moral code yourself? Any action you
         | take has side effects in the outside world, and so some
         | minimal, common understanding of morality is necessary for any
         | beneficial interactions with the world and especially other
         | people (I'll leave God aside for a second). Did you rely on the
         | authorities of non-theistic moral authorities in the past, and
         | if so, how did you examine the bases of their moral beliefs?
         | Were you just relying on personal feelings and maybe some
         | experiences? Did you discover the joys of hedonism?
         | 
         | I want to understand.
         | 
         | Edit: looking at some other comments, it seems you might be
         | referring more to "fire and brimstone" preaching? I never
         | experienced that growing up, despite being on the conservative
         | end of mainline Protestantism and still practicing today, so I
         | can kind of understand the reaction.
         | 
         | I'm still curious though.
        
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           | jasonwatkinspdx wrote:
           | Not who you were asking, but I had a similar experience.
           | 
           | Ultimately what I ground my beliefs in is empathy, and the
           | understanding that my actions have an impact on other people.
           | The second very important piece is every human being counts
           | equally.
           | 
           | Our society and inner psychology is complex. So we'll mess up
           | and cause harm at times. Occasionally it will be intentional.
           | But I think it's straightforward to understand committing to
           | this as a guiding principle.
           | 
           | If you do that, and also agree with every human being
           | counting equally, then I've got no problem with you or your
           | faith. What disturbs me is how many people use religion as
           | justification for inequality, or how they use concepts of
           | forgiveness and grace to avoid fully owning and learning from
           | their moral failures.
        
           | mattnewton wrote:
           | I sort of feel the opposite, that a moral code that appeals
           | to some authority is much poorer than one justifiable by some
           | first principles. You can get a lot of milage out of just
           | assuming that you do not want to be hurt in some ways and
           | that other people are like you in that regard, and iterate
           | from there.
        
           | cmrdporcupine wrote:
           | > How did you derive your moral code yourself?
           | 
           | By thinking about it.
           | 
           | I also read a lot of Spinoza.
        
           | wing-_-nuts wrote:
           | I can only speak for myself, but I drastically simplified
           | things down to 'If it doesn't hurt anyone, it's probably ok'
           | 
           | Just because a very old book says that X, Y, or Z is sinful,
           | doesn't mean those actions are immoral if there's no harm to
           | anyone.
        
           | asdff wrote:
           | You don't need religion to learn about morality. Watching Mr.
           | Rodgers or reading Winnie the Poo would do. As you get older
           | you can get into Machiavelli and start really becoming a
           | principled person.
        
         | kickout wrote:
         | I also enjoyed the Church community while growing up. It was
         | important and no really 'religious' at the same time. Its hard
         | to replace now that I have my own children. We don't go to
         | church but are most certainly not 'anti-religious'. Like other
         | comments, the sense of community was strong. I think society
         | will be worse off as these communities erode or lose favor
        
         | pmiller2 wrote:
         | > Having the Church community while growing up was great. But
         | the fact that admission to this community required total
         | philosophical adherence is just bizarre.
         | 
         | If you're not talking about the capital "C" church (which I
         | interpret as the Catholic Church), then, it doesn't, really.
         | You can be a Unitarian Universalist and believe in just about
         | anything you want. Their entire philosophy is almost literally
         | "be excellent to each other."
         | 
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Unitarian_Universalism#Belief,...
        
           | the-alchemist wrote:
           | There's pockets of us UUs all over! Is someone asks me
           | whether I got to a church, I have to ask, "Wait, what's your
           | definition of a church?" Some of us Unitarians would prefer
           | to drop the whole "Church" name entirely and call ourselves
           | "Communities."
           | 
           | - Yes, you can believe whatever you want. Everyone is just
           | genuinely curious about your journey. "My father was Jewish,
           | my mother was Catholic, and I'm Wiccan now." is something
           | that people legitimately say all the time, and never in jest.
           | 
           | - We "believe", if that's even the right word, that no one
           | has it all figured out. There's great wisdom in all the
           | world's traditions--and some nonsense too. Let's talk about
           | it with respect.
           | 
           | - The way we teach sex ed is top-notch, educationally and
           | psychologically. It's called "Our Whole Lives" because we
           | know, from a vast empirical literature as well as our own
           | personal stories that human sexuality is a complex, life-long
           | activity. Our sex ed teacher is usually a guy called Mike.
           | Mike is gay, and everyone agrees he is the best one to teach
           | that class, for a variety of reasons.
           | 
           | - We encourage our kids to explore their own spirituality, in
           | a "make your own religion" activity. We ask the kids
           | themselves whether they think there is a god or not (or
           | gods), and help them however we can.
           | 
           | - We vote whether our minister stays or goes.
        
         | Robotbeat wrote:
         | Better to join a church/synagogue/whathaveyou that DOESN'T
         | require total philosophical adherence.
         | 
         | There's a similar problem in political circles, as politics has
         | in many cases (especially last 5 years) replaced religion.
         | Adherence is mandated by many, but the healthiest political
         | circles/communities do not require strict adherence but instead
         | allow healthy debate.
         | 
         | And in part, it is a difference in tradition. In Minneapolis, I
         | was loosely connected with some Christian community houses
         | (which were wonderful BTW), and one of the people who lived
         | there was a (secular) Jewish person who made a kind of funny
         | observation: She noted how Jewish people tended to get together
         | and bond over arguments over the Torah, but in an evangelical
         | Christian Bible study, everyone would "get together and just
         | AGREE on everything!"
         | 
         | I tend to enjoy the process of philosophical/theological
         | arguing as well, although I come from a evangelical Christian
         | background, not a Jewish one. It's just way more interesting to
         | argue over stuff. And there is way less agreement out there on
         | a lot of these topics.
         | 
         | Whether we talk about social justice, the ultimate fate of the
         | universe, simulation theory, politics, utilitarianism, right
         | and wrong and how that can or cannot have fundamental
         | scientific bases. And also how spiritual vs physical interact
         | with ideas as powerful entities themselves... Materialism is
         | probably true on a literal basis, but ideas themselves have
         | immense power, analogous to what the Ancients would talked
         | about spirits ...is the Self a physical thing like a brain, or
         | an idea or thought process or software that runs on the brain?
         | How is that similar to the idea of a soul? Is it any different,
         | and is dualism viewed from that perspective really incompatible
         | with materialism? Why are people so resistant to the idea that
         | a strong AI could have consciousness like a human or animal? If
         | materialism is basically true (probably is), then it seems
         | there's nothing that one couldn't effectively simulate. And why
         | couldn't we be in a simulation at this moment? Who runs this
         | (possible) simulation and what are their goals? How is this any
         | different from theological questions, and can we bring better
         | insight to them? Are there things like "love" & "kindness" that
         | we OUGHT to follow as our guiding principle _in spite_ of lack
         | of evidence of their utility? Is "right and wrong" purely
         | situational or should they transcend merely being useful?
         | 
         | Anyway, these ideas, which one might think are obsolete with
         | modern science, aren't going away even from a purely
         | materialist perspective. And neither do I think the need for
         | community is going away any time. But it sure would be nice if
         | we got rid of the "must have strict philosophical agreement"
         | requirement that many (but not all) religious and political
         | communities have.
        
           | cmrdporcupine wrote:
           | "Better to join a church/synagogue/whathaveyou that DOESN'T
           | require total philosophical adherence."
           | 
           | I'm a philosophical materialist and I don't believe in any
           | kind of deity or supernatural world. There is no "church"
           | that would have any place for someone like me, other than
           | maybe the Unitarians, and, well, honestly, they're not that
           | interesting.
           | 
           | I hung out in Marxist study groups and Trotskyist groupings
           | for a while in my 20s. That was my replacement for a bit. :-)
        
             | Robotbeat wrote:
             | Yeah, the political groups have very similar community
             | effect. The healthier ones allow philosophical differences
             | and debate.
        
       | lettergram wrote:
       | I'd like to see a comparison between synagogue membership over
       | time.
       | 
       | My wife and I are not actively religious but think it's
       | definitely a great framework and moral code. Particularly, it
       | creates a community one can choose to leave or join of good
       | people, working together for the common good of each other.
       | 
       | I grew up Lutheran and don't necessarily believe in god, but I
       | believe in the value code. Which is really what's important. I
       | think that's what's lacking these days, tbh.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | jandrese wrote:
       | I grew up attending church weekly but never considering myself
       | religious. As an adult I don't attend but it does leave a hole in
       | my life. That hole is having forced social interactions with
       | members of the community each week. Without church it's much
       | harder to keep up with what everybody is doing, making
       | connections, and networking.
       | 
       | It's very hard to organize and keep running secular social clubs.
       | A lot of the infrastructure churches take for granted has to be
       | managed manually and you're at the mercy of venue operators and
       | have to do your own membership drives to get people to show up.
       | It's a lot more work than most people expect.
        
       | offtop5 wrote:
       | Even though I'm an atheist this concerns me since Church is one
       | of the last remaining civic organizations.
       | 
       | People need to be apart of an community. In the before times
       | that's how you made friends and meet partners. Now every single
       | indicator of courtship is at all time lows , mental illness is
       | off the charts and we're all miserable.
       | 
       | I don't have a solution but I'm afraid of the future we're
       | entering.
        
         | tonyedgecombe wrote:
         | >Now every single indicator of courtship is at all time lows,
         | mental illness is off the charts and we're all miserable.
         | 
         | I'm guessing this has far more to do with political and
         | economic changes than decline in religion.
        
           | offtop5 wrote:
           | Religion isn't the point, you need to be a part of a
           | community to meet people. It's very rare for you to be able
           | to make real friends, or find a mate by staring at a screen
           | all day. Church provides one mechanism, but in the old times
           | you could also join a bowling league or an elks club.
           | 
           | Now instead of being a member of a community where your
           | actions are held to account, you can hop on Twitter and call
           | all types of people names. And for what, just so you can
           | spread your anger to other people ?
        
             | tonyedgecombe wrote:
             | Actually church is a long way down the list in terms of
             | meeting a new partner:
             | 
             | https://www.eharmony.com/blog/how-you-meet-your-spouse-
             | matte...
        
               | offtop5 wrote:
               | I think you're missing my point, church is one of a
               | multitude of ways to be involved in your community, and
               | being involved in your community is the best way to meet
               | a partner. Aside from that, being a part of a community
               | is a fundamental part of mental health. Lost connections
               | is a great book on this topic.
               | 
               | And come on, you couldn't find a better source than an
               | online dating site when coming up with courtship
               | statistics ? Overall marriage rates are at all time lows.
               | Strange how this coincides with the advent of online
               | dating.
               | 
               | https://www.usnews.com/news/healthiest-
               | communities/articles/...
        
               | tonyedgecombe wrote:
               | _being involved in your community is the best way to meet
               | a partner._
               | 
               | Except that's not what the figures show, if you don't
               | like e-harmony their are plenty of other sources just a
               | Google search away.
               | 
               |  _Overall marriage rates are at all time lows. Strange
               | how this coincides with the advent of online dating._
               | 
               | Marriage rates have been falling in the US since the
               | eighties, well before the advent of online dating.
               | 
               | https://ourworldindata.org/marriages-and-divorces
               | 
               | Just because you want something to be true doesn't mean
               | it is.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | yhoneycomb wrote:
       | Curious about how high that number is for ethnic minorities.
       | Anecdotally, minorities (black, Asian, Hispanic) tend to be more
       | religious.
        
         | yhoneycomb wrote:
         | lol was downvoted for this
         | 
         | classic hacker news
        
         | CountDrewku wrote:
         | They also tend to be more conservative and I think that's
         | starting to change their voting habits. A lot are leaving the
         | left.
         | 
         | Edit: Ok just because you don't like it doesn't mean it's not
         | true. Minorities in this country are highly religious. Take a
         | look at how many blacks and Hispanics voted for Trump this
         | election.
        
           | cmrdporcupine wrote:
           | They tend to be conservative on cultural issues, but "left"
           | on economic issues and the true "triumph" of the hard right
           | and the failure of the "left" has been that they tied these
           | two things so closely together that people routinely vote
           | against their own interests on economic issues because of how
           | they feel about cultural issues.
        
           | darksaints wrote:
           | You're not wrong, at least about hispanics. Many hispanics in
           | the US come from failed socialist states, so they tend to
           | come to the US looking for capitalism. And they tend to be
           | religious and socially conservative.
           | 
           | Luckily for the democratic party, the republican party has
           | doubled down on anything racist they can get their hands on,
           | so many hispanic voters that would probably like to vote
           | republican actually vote democrat.
           | 
           | Now if the republican party actually decided to reverse
           | course on immigration issues and create a legal economic
           | immigration regime with a statutory path to citizenship, they
           | would probably lose a handful of trump supporters but they
           | would likely gain a supermajority of the hispanic vote. And
           | that could be an unstoppable political force for decades.
           | Hell, I could probably be convinced to vote republican again.
        
           | whymauri wrote:
           | You're being downvoted, but this can be true in the Hispanic
           | community. One must realize that a third-generation Cuban
           | American in Miami lives a totally different experience than a
           | naturalized Colombian carpenter in East Boston, both of which
           | might struggle to relate with the trials and tribulation of a
           | Mexican or Guatemalan teenager who crossed the border alone
           | during the past four years.
           | 
           | So yes: some fractions of the Hispanic community are highly
           | conservative (the Cuban abuelitas and abuelitos playing
           | dominos on Sundays LOVE to vote) and others are quite
           | literally the opposite. One thing to note is that _Spanish-
           | language media_ leans conservative -- I think this is what
           | you 're talking about. Previously immobilized voting blocks
           | in South Florida are leaning conservative partially because
           | the news coverage of 2020 has been from a conservative angle.
        
         | jessaustin wrote:
         | TFA links to the Gallup site [0], which doesn't have as much
         | about this as one would expect, but does say that "Non-Hispanic
         | Black adults" are at 59% and Hispanic Americans are shockingly
         | low at 37%.
         | 
         | [0] https://news.gallup.com/poll/341963/church-membership-
         | falls-...
        
       | wayneftw wrote:
       | If Alan Watts or someone like him were speaking near me every
       | Sunday, I'd be there every week.
        
       | agensaequivocum wrote:
       | As a practicing Catholic this is greatly troubling. I truly want
       | all to be saved. I fear "progress" that so many non-religious
       | people will tolerate and irreligious will promote. This is not
       | new. Abortion has been pushed for decades and is the greatest sin
       | of our age. Our generation will be looked back upon the same way
       | we look back at slave holders/traders. Those who dehumanizing the
       | vulnerable to the point were we can kill them because they are
       | not persons. 60 million have been killed since legalization in
       | the US.
        
         | timbit42 wrote:
         | Well, the Bible dehumanizes the unborn so...
        
         | jhgb wrote:
         | > I truly want all to be saved.
         | 
         | But what are irreligious people supposed to do when multiple
         | large groups of people want to "save" them in mutually
         | incompatible ways? Seeing as the largest religious group
         | accounts for something like 30% of the world's population,
         | being religious means at least a 70% chance of being wrong even
         | if there is something supernatural (100% if there isn't).
         | That's a terrible stat figure for life- (and death-)changing
         | decisions.
        
       | softwaredoug wrote:
       | I enjoyed my pretty low key episcopal church upbringing. There
       | was very little dogmatism, and mostly it created a framework for
       | community activities and service. Many of my friends in youth
       | group were agnostic or atheist. And the church felt welcoming to
       | everyone.
       | 
       | I wish something could replace this in my life. Something that
       | felt softly mandatory that brought people together in a spirit of
       | togetherness and service.
        
         | mehlmao wrote:
         | Do you mind if I ask why you aren't going to a church now? I
         | had a very similar experience growing up involved in an
         | Episcopalian church. I met a lot of interesting people who
         | really cared about the community. Not long after I graduated
         | and moved away, the church split over the introduction of Young
         | Life (and their associated fundamentalist beliefs) as a
         | replacement for the home-grown youth group.
         | 
         | It wasn't until I was an adult that I learned about my church's
         | past. The priest there in the 80's molested kids who were part
         | of the Boy Scout troop that met in the church's basement. Some
         | church members found out, they contacted the diocese, and he
         | was shuffled away to another state.
         | 
         | I was horrified. Older church members, people I had a great
         | deal of respect for and spent most of my life looking up to,
         | let him get away with it. They didn't go to the police, they
         | went to the church, which allowed him to keep abusing children.
         | 
         | Looking for that sense of togetherness and community service,
         | I've tried going to other churches since then. But deep in my
         | mind, I know that all of the true believers will look the other
         | way. The church I grew up in was a good influence on me and I
         | met a lot of great people, but now that I'm getting close to
         | having children of my own, I don't think there's any church I'd
         | feel was right to take them to. The odds of anything awful
         | happening are low, but knowing that these communities would not
         | help them has completely turned me away.
        
           | softwaredoug wrote:
           | I probably don't go because of a mix of:
           | 
           | 1. Loss of faith in the institutions behind church (for
           | reasons you cite). Similar debate around having a gay bishop
           | in the episcopal church
           | 
           | 2. I personally don't hold christian beliefs
           | 
           | 3. Local church politics: My family wasn't involved in
           | running the church, so we rarely saw the "politics". But in
           | one local unitarian church I started to go to, the hardcore
           | churchgoers seemed to always have some controversy, usually
           | around left-leaning ideals.
           | 
           | Like many things these days, it's hard to just be casually
           | involved. Those casually involved get turned-off (like the
           | same reason I rarely go on twitter). And the vocal, hardcore
           | folks stay involved, creating various biases towards
           | extremism or a certain point of view.
        
       | KboPAacDA3 wrote:
       | As a believer that Jesus is God and he controls the whole
       | universe and the lives of all people, I am not too concerned
       | about church membership percentages in a particular nation in
       | history. Whoever God calls to be his children will follow him,
       | and they will find each other. Jesus is the head of the church,
       | and people who don't believe in him have no part in it. I would
       | hope that unbelievers would hear the good news of Jesus and be
       | drawn to him and have their hearts changed.
        
       | wing-_-nuts wrote:
       | I grew up in a fundamentalist christian church. I'm now an
       | agnostic deist (I don't know if god exists, but if he does, there
       | doesn't appear to be much evidence that he intervenes much in his
       | creation). My moral code has evolved and simplified from biblical
       | to 'if it doesn't hurt anybody, it's fine'.
       | 
       | Frankly, I can't be bothered with any belief system which relies
       | exclusively on a 2000 year old book and isn't measured by real
       | world effects today.
        
       | dukeofdoom wrote:
       | I see religion as being a useful counterbalance to government
       | power. I'm a little concerned how cultish politics is getting in
       | the US. Racism is the new original sin. You can just call anyone
       | racist to publicly condemn them as unforgivable sinners. I was
       | very concerned about Churches being burned down in last year's
       | Riots, the cult of personality around Trump, and the new woke
       | culture that sees individuals as only members of some
       | oppressed/oppressive group.
       | 
       | Transhumanism which I feel started with the abuse of steroids, is
       | already upon us, and soon tech will give us the power to change
       | and manipulate human DNA. Turns out many people don't like their
       | bodies and would like to change them on mass. Will the changes
       | have unforeseen consequences? Seems to me like things could go
       | horribly wrong. The ultimate irony would be that we would end up
       | looking like the depicted deformed and grotesque biblical demons.
       | The obesity pandemic is already pushing many people that way. And
       | thats probably a consequence of injesting too much plastic, and
       | damaging hormone levels and pure gluttony.
       | 
       | I think at its best, Religion abstracts some useful concepts like
       | humility, guilt, responsibility, and so on, into stories and
       | parables and makes the insignificant individual feel like their
       | life is important and part of a grander story. It adds the
       | practice of rituals, and adds more exposure to art, music and
       | community and self reflection, and reduces death anxiety. And it
       | marks significant life milestones with community celebrations.
       | 
       | Is it better to be a realist, or is it better to add a layer of
       | mental abstraction around reality. And feel like you are part of
       | a (Movie) script and act accordingly.
        
         | antattack wrote:
         | Last thing one should want is to give religion power. People
         | need better education, more tolerance and less judgement.
        
           | dukeofdoom wrote:
           | But that in itself is a value judgment. You go from an "is"
           | to an "ought" on how humans should behave. There's no logical
           | reason why we "ought" to do any of these things. These are
           | just a reflection of your values, and what you perceive in
           | your mind would make the world a better place.
           | 
           | This is the same type of religious "value" based thinking you
           | are criticizing without realizing it.
           | 
           | Why is "education" more important than a million other
           | things. What if my son values playing sports more. He could
           | easily make the argument that the world would be a better
           | place if we played more sports. For one, less obesity. For
           | two, more fun. We all be happier if we just played more
           | sports. Why should I take your value judgments over my sons.
        
             | antattack wrote:
             | Human senses and feelings are easily fooled and influenced.
             | 
             | Scientific method have been established to overcome our
             | personal selection, information and unconscious biases.
             | 
             | We need education to teach us how to learn, apply our
             | knowledge and, most importantly, be aware of what we don't
             | know when making decisions or forming opinions.
             | 
             | EDIT: I don't understand why one would have to choose
             | between sports and education.
        
         | busterarm wrote:
         | There's some interesting points made here. At the very least, I
         | think there would be an immense value to society to add to our
         | school curricula education about liking and taking care of our
         | bodies.
         | 
         | Not just Health and Gym classes.
        
         | msla wrote:
         | Historically, religion and government go hand-in-hand, and use
         | each other to reinforce their own power.
        
       | Applejinx wrote:
       | Now let's tax churches, like Frank Zappa suggested :)
        
         | speeder wrote:
         | I am from Brazil... To be honest this would be a complete
         | disaster here.
         | 
         | 1. My city main hospital, belongs to Catholic Church, same
         | applies to many other cities.
         | 
         | 2. Many of our leading universities, doing research and
         | important work, belong to Catholic Church, notably PUC-RIO, the
         | creators of Lua language.
         | 
         | 3. Protestant churches here are the major organizations driving
         | away drug dealers, some took the donations to build better
         | light system in public parks, provide free food, counseling,
         | and so on.
         | 
         | 4. We have an hospital considered one of the best of world for
         | certain treatments, to the point people from first world
         | countries sometimes come here for this hospital, and it belongs
         | to a Jewish organization.
         | 
         | And the list goes and goes on... a lot of public infrastructure
         | here belongs to religious organizations, if the government
         | taxed them the result would be the government suddenly needing
         | to spend a ton of their own money replacing what these
         | organizations are doing, and I doubt it would work well, for
         | example the government-owned hospital in my city killed people
         | more than once for stupid reasons (including giving penicilin
         | to a guy that warned them he was allergic!), so the population
         | rely on the catholic hospital instead.
         | 
         | EDIT: reading a sibling comment made me remember another
         | important one: the religious organizations here are major
         | drivers for cultural education, for example our public-owned
         | orchestras are often filled with church-trained people, ditto
         | for audio engineering, theather and many other "art"-related
         | professions.
        
           | Gustomaximus wrote:
           | But would it be a disaster. For a 'church' hospital, the
           | money they take in then goes to fund the hospital. Largely
           | expenses meet income so there is very little tax to pay
           | assume they dont pay sales tax on medical good like many
           | countries.
           | 
           | The churches that will pay high taxes are the ones that have
           | the income but dont spend it and put it into investments to
           | build their wealth.
           | 
           | So in this way, I think taxing churches and also charities
           | makes sense. There will be some fringe cases but largely
           | those that do things with their funds will not be effected
           | and those that hoard funds or use it to circumvent taxes will
           | be the ones paying.
        
           | ncphil wrote:
           | Here in the US many major church organizations, including the
           | Roman Catholic Church and mainline protestant groups
           | (Methodist, Presbyterian, Lutheran) used to invest seriously
           | in the same kinds of things. I think they lost a lot of
           | credibility to the extent that their conduct of those "public
           | interest" activities were indistinguishable from their
           | private sector competitors (e.g. in recovery of medical
           | debt). Withdrawing from these activities (for whatever
           | reason) only compounded that problem.
        
           | Applejinx wrote:
           | Bear in mind that the OP says US (not Brazil). I can't speak
           | to conditions in Brazil, and don't intend to cast aspersions.
           | When I say 'let's', the 'us' is Americans, specifically
           | United States. Our experience isn't entirely the same as
           | yours.
        
           | tim333 wrote:
           | You could have tax exemptions for hospital and universities.
        
         | CountDrewku wrote:
         | Ehhh Christian churches are some of the largest charitable
         | donators in the world. Unless those taxes are going to the same
         | places to help people I'd vote no. The government isn't going
         | to spend it on things that help people and we know that.
        
           | [deleted]
        
           | Applejinx wrote:
           | Who is 'we'? Sounds like you are a strongly political church
           | advocate making a political argument.
           | 
           | I don't grant you the unilateral right to decide what places
           | 'help people': that is a political question, and I didn't
           | vote for you. You may not be particularly representative. In
           | fact, according to the OP, you're not a majority here, so
           | your attitude is not democratic, though it is still
           | political.
        
             | CountDrewku wrote:
             | You live in this country and church taxation is expressly
             | forbidden by the 1st amendment for obvious reasons. I also
             | do not attend church so that argument is moot and you can
             | stop trying to attack me on that basis.
             | 
             | Being a majority on an internet forum is obviously not
             | representative of the entirety of the US and is a pretty
             | silly argument for changing an amendment, as is assuming
             | that because people don't attend church they want it taxed.
             | 
             | Maybe you should take some time actually understanding the
             | constitution instead of dedicating your time to inane
             | internet attacks?
             | 
             | Pro tip - stop trying to control things you dislike, it's
             | extremely anti-progressive and reeks of the same sort of
             | intolerance ultra conservative religious groups display.
             | Ironic eh?
             | 
             | Lastly, this country is not a 100% democracy and it's a
             | Republic for a reason. That reason is so that the minority
             | get a say in what happens and don't get stomped out. This
             | is a good thing and you'll realize it when you're not in
             | the majority at some point.
        
           | saddestcatever wrote:
           | Wouldn't it be similar to corporate tax?
           | 
           | Tax profits, so that any existing donations would be tax
           | deductible?
        
             | sithlord wrote:
             | Unsure exactly what you mean, church costs - donations =
             | taxable "profits"?
             | 
             | Not sure I really agree with taxing donations - I do think
             | that it would cut down on how much churches bring in (as in
             | people would be less likely to donate), and are able to
             | distribute as a commenter above said.
             | 
             | Now, I do believe that all other related income should be
             | taxed by churches, whereas I think only "unrelated" income
             | is taxable now. So for example:
             | 
             | Church makes original christian music and makes income from
             | spotify (or other sources)
             | 
             | Church records their services and puts them on youtube (and
             | monitizes them)
             | 
             | Church rents out building for weddings or other events.
             | 
             | etc
             | 
             | (some of these may or may not be currently taxable, I am
             | not an expert but my quick search seems to think they may
             | not be)
        
               | ben7799 wrote:
               | The churches can say they have no profits, but there's a
               | lot of money getting spent on dubious things that a
               | typical non-profit doesn't have.
               | 
               | So you can tax the golden altars they build, or the
               | private jets the pastors fly around on, or the castles
               | the leaders live in.
               | 
               | There's a huge sham in all this.
        
               | CountDrewku wrote:
               | Let's not pretend non-profits don't fall victim to the
               | same bs. All you need to do is look at the Susan G. Komen
               | foundation.
               | 
               | People willingly donate to these places so if they don't
               | care about it why should we?
        
             | bryanlarsen wrote:
             | If we started taxing churches, what would kill them would
             | be the property taxes. Some churches are sitting on
             | immensely valuable property.
             | 
             | In my opinion we shouldn't be taxing church graveyards, we
             | should give the buildings an exemption if they use the
             | buildings for non-denominational community events like so
             | many churches do, and we should definitely be taxing their
             | paved parking lots.
        
             | CountDrewku wrote:
             | Why? What do we need that money for? If you don't like it
             | then just don't go to church and the problem is solved.
             | Obviously less people are attending so it sounds like it'll
             | just solve itself in the future. No one is making anyone
             | attend church and give offerings. It's just letting the
             | government double dip on taxes at that point. Everything
             | given to a church is essentially a donation to begin with
             | and you want to have it taxed a second time after the
             | church gets it?
             | 
             | It's a waste of time to tax them and it's not going to be
             | used for anything helpful in this country. After seeing
             | where the US government is blowing our tax money on these
             | supposed "stimulus" bills I can't understand why anyone
             | would support taxing more things in this country.
        
               | JumpCrisscross wrote:
               | > _It 's a waste of time to tax them and it's not going
               | to be used for anything helpful in this country_
               | 
               | If this is the best argument for not taxing churches,
               | then I switch positions and say tax them and reduce my
               | taxes. (But do it properly, which likely requires some
               | Constitutional hand wringing.)
        
               | CountDrewku wrote:
               | That'll never happen and you know it. It'll be tax the
               | church and your taxes will continue to rise. It's just as
               | silly as the idea that taxing the rich more will reduce
               | your tax.
               | 
               | How about you just leave the churches alone and admit
               | you're being biased because you dislike religion? The
               | burden is on you to prove we need that tax money for
               | something since you're proposing a change to something
               | that's been in place since the US's inception and is a
               | main tenet of the constitution.
               | 
               | And there's also the MAIN reason which is the fact that
               | it's expressly against the 1st amendment since it would
               | give the government the free reign to tax any religion it
               | dislikes out of existence and break church/state
               | separation.
        
         | FooBarBizBazz wrote:
         | Given that corporations, which _are_ taxed, have adopted
         | totalizing ideologies that demand you  "bring your whole self
         | to work" and attend group therapy sessions, and that they are
         | now ostentatiously "values-driven", I can see a point in not
         | distinguishing between them and religions. Pretty soon they'll
         | have us singing hymns and attending confession. I'd hate if,
         | when they finally go all in on that, they get taxed _less_.
        
       | prirun wrote:
       | I grew up going to a Christian church: Sunday school when I was
       | younger, then youth choir on Wednesday nights, then regular
       | church service for a couple of years in my early teens. I sort of
       | grew out of it as I got older, because as I started thinking
       | about it more, it made less and less sense.
       | 
       | For example, I distinctly remember our youth group leader, who
       | was the wife of the minister, saying in one of our classes that
       | we have to fear God. I didn't get it, and asked her "Why are we
       | supposed to fear someone that loves us?" She didn't have a good
       | answer, because there isn't one; it's another one of those things
       | the Bible says that makes no sense. At some point, for me, there
       | were too many of those and I could no longer pretend that
       | Christianity made sense.
       | 
       | To me, the Bible is a major problem for Christianity. If you
       | believe the whole thing, it makes no sense. If you don't believe
       | the whole thing, then it becomes a fragmenting thing where some
       | groups pick and choose these parts and other groups pick and
       | choose different parts. But once you go down the road of "I only
       | believe part of it, you can't take it literally, la la la",
       | you're on a very slippery slope.
       | 
       | The Bible is a story book, written by man. It has some good
       | stories, some good advice, and some bad advice. There is no hard
       | scientific evidence that any of the miraculous things that
       | supposedly occurred really did occur.
       | 
       | Religious people believe that the Bible is the "word of God". One
       | of my big problems with the Bible is that if it truly was the
       | word of God, doesn't it seem reasonable that he would give us
       | some clues about how we fit into the universe? I mean, our whole
       | planet is a spec of dust in the grand scheme of things. If God
       | invented all this, and the Bible is a sort of road map, wouldn't
       | it make sense to talk a little about the other parts of the
       | universe - the overwhelmingly huge part - and not just our little
       | planet?
        
         | pnathan wrote:
         | You've accepted a literalist & inerrantist frame of the Bible,
         | which is a very new way of reading the Bible. There are more
         | sophisticated atheisms out there. :)
        
       | nanna wrote:
       | Church, synagogue or mosque. Not just church.
       | 
       | Also how about updating the link to direct to the Gallup poll
       | itself?
       | 
       | https://news.gallup.com/poll/341963/church-membership-falls-...
        
       | gabythenerd wrote:
       | I am impressed that numbers are that high, looking from the
       | outside the US doesn't look particularly religious. It might be
       | lower still, I don't think young people answer cellphone surveys
       | all that much.
        
         | matsemann wrote:
         | Surveys like that are often designed to get a representative
         | group. It's not like they call thousand people on random and
         | keep their responses outright.
         | 
         | After a while a certain demographic will be "full" and as such
         | the effort will be to get responses for the groups not
         | adequately represented yet.
         | 
         | Or another way is to weigh the answers. If you get 90%
         | responses from elderly and 10% from young, you cannot just use
         | the average. But can use models to apply those groups' answers
         | to how big the group is in the demographic of the country.
        
         | ryneandal wrote:
         | Much of the heartland is _very_ religious. Drive across the
         | country and in the flyover states you'll see A LOT of anti-
         | abortion/sin billboards.
        
           | derwiki wrote:
           | "Hell is Real" was always my fave
        
           | city41 wrote:
           | It's not just the "flyover" states, its more rural areas.
           | I've seem many religious billboards in Oregon and California.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | beaconstudios wrote:
         | you're probably thinking of the main metropolitan and coastal
         | cities, which I also associate with atheism. The heartland and
         | southern states on the other hand are more religious.
        
         | Renaud wrote:
         | >looking from the outside the US doesn't look particularly
         | religious.
         | 
         | I am genuinely wondering how you can get to this feeling about
         | the US where religion permeates a lot of the social and
         | political spheres.
         | 
         | For a Western country, I am actually quite amazed at the
         | prominence of religion in the US, and by religion, I mean
         | Christianity and its various incarnations. Looking at it from
         | the outside it's actually really weird.
        
           | matsemann wrote:
           | I think it's because many deem compassion as one of the main
           | religious messages, and that's not something a European would
           | think it's much of in the US (based on media and the right
           | leaning politics).
        
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           | veddox wrote:
           | > For a Western country
           | 
           | That's the key. For a Western country, the US has a
           | remarkable level of religious influence on social and
           | political life. Many non-Western countries, on the other
           | hand, are vastly _more_ religious - the state is often
           | officially aligned with a certain religion, and religion is
           | permeates all parts of society.
        
       | jordanmorgan10 wrote:
       | It's interesting to read a HN thread regarding theology. It seems
       | there is quite an interest in the topic, and affirms another
       | thing I tend to see: That many in this field identify as a
       | Christian but don't really seem interested in saying so unless
       | it's in a thread which expressly mentions it. Maybe it's my own
       | bias and I'm just viewing it that way, as a Christian myself, as
       | it feels hard to talk about it within the tech sphere with nuance
       | and empathy.
        
         | CydeWeys wrote:
         | > That many in this field identify as a Christian but don't
         | really seem interested in saying so unless it's in a thread
         | which expressly mentions it.
         | 
         | Wouldn't it just be off-topic in other threads though? It's not
         | a surprise it doesn't come up when it's not the subject of a
         | given conversation. I have all sorts of interests that I don't
         | tend to bring up until there's a conversation specifically
         | about them.
        
         | ketzo wrote:
         | Cultural Christianity versus theistic Christianity in action.
         | Anecdotal, but many, _many_ more people had to go to church as
         | kids than actively believe today.
         | 
         | The problem is that this leads to people who feel entitled to a
         | space in the conversation (because it was part of their
         | upbringing), but bring very little love or understanding to it.
         | 
         | (And I say this as someone who was raised in the Church and
         | left it pretty early on).
        
       | viscoelastic wrote:
       | It maybe that I'm in my own personal bubble but it strikes me
       | that so many people still invest a significant time and effort
       | into propagating a delusional interpretation of reality. On some
       | level I bear them no ill will, they are free to lead their lives
       | in whatever way it brings meaning and fulfillment. However many
       | people attending a Christian church seem to have aggressive
       | opinion on how others should live their lives.
       | 
       | The biggest flaw with religion is their story of an afterlife
       | without any proof or evidence. The consequence is that billions
       | of followers of this delusion devalue the importance of their
       | current biological existence, and that of others. They are told
       | they will have an infinite and wondrous existence in a made up
       | paradise. When this shared delusion is the dominant world view it
       | leads to easily excusable murder and abuse of human beings. For
       | example the genocides of indigenous people by European colonizers
       | or slavery.
       | 
       | I suspect our ancestors in a thousands of years will look at this
       | early childhood stage of humanity in shame and contempt for what
       | cruelty this insanity allows.
        
       | swiley wrote:
       | At least where I leave you're not allowed to go to church and
       | haven't been for a year. I'm surprised the numbers are this high.
        
         | timbit42 wrote:
         | This poll is about membership not attendance.
        
       | datavirtue wrote:
       | The spread of information has allowed people to form their own
       | moralistic code and spiritual journey that doesn't rely on having
       | an institutional infrastructure. They are choosing religions that
       | reject elite priesthoods, a trend now going back for thousands of
       | years starting with Zarathustra. I consider this progress.
        
         | analog31 wrote:
         | I think there's a rhetoric out there, that "everybody needs a
         | religion," and that identifies any vehemently held ideology or
         | close-knit social group as a religion. It's tautological. This
         | is exacerbated by the difficulty of forming a general
         | definition of "religion" that isn't riddled with exceptions.
         | Defining "religion" broadly enough to include all religions
         | makes it end up including everything else too.
         | 
         | But "your group is a religion too" seems like a combination of
         | confirmation bias and _tu quoque_ fallacy.
        
           | beaconstudios wrote:
           | replace "religion" with "philosophy" and it reads better -
           | after all, religion is just philosophy.
        
             | analog31 wrote:
             | Indeed, but "your group is a philosophy too" doesn't have
             | the same rhetorical impact.
        
               | beaconstudios wrote:
               | because people don't care about philosophy, but they care
               | about religion - either being for or against their or
               | others' religions. Mainly because many religious people
               | don't think of it as philosophy, and atheists think of it
               | as worthless.
        
         | bad_good_guy wrote:
         | Why do you assume these people are choosing religion at all?
        
         | arbitrage wrote:
         | > They are choosing religions that reject elite priesthoods
         | 
         | Do you have an example of such in the modern age? I don't
         | really see many people I know "choosing religions that reject
         | elite priesthoods"
        
           | flyingfences wrote:
           | Quakerism would fit the bill, though I don't know how many
           | people are choosing it these days.
        
           | xattt wrote:
           | This is hard to define as there is ambiguity between religion
           | and spirituality.
           | 
           | Even a subscription to pure scientific worldview is a
           | religion in itself.
        
           | bryanlarsen wrote:
           | QAnon?
        
             | PeterisP wrote:
             | QAnon seems to have many parallels with "prophetic"
             | religions where you don't have a priesthood class
             | organizing specific groups of followers e.g. parishes, but
             | you have a priesthood class interpreting the words of a
             | prophet and popularizing these interpretations; in this
             | case "priesthood" isn't a formal distinction, but de facto
             | you tend to have specific minority of people fulfilling
             | this role.
        
         | danbruc wrote:
         | _They are choosing religions that reject elite priesthoods
         | [...]_
         | 
         | They choose no religion.
        
           | datavirtue wrote:
           | Religion doesn't have to equal church and rigid dogma. The
           | word is probably ruined in our society by it's connotation.
           | 
           | My religion changes often based on new information, ideas,
           | and philosophical exploration.
        
           | fennecfoxen wrote:
           | They choose politics.
           | 
           | https://www.economist.com/united-
           | states/2021/03/27/religious...
        
             | [deleted]
        
           | ed25519FUUU wrote:
           | Actually they're choosing Islam, which is now by far the
           | fastest growing religion in the world:
           | https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2017/04/06/why-
           | muslims...
        
           | thefounder wrote:
           | Religion is a way of life. You surely have one, it's just not
           | very ritualistic.
        
             | SketchySeaBeast wrote:
             | _A_ , not _the_. I don 't think you can argue with any sort
             | of coherency that rejecting religion is a religion, unless
             | you reduce the concept of religion down to a belief, in
             | which case some people's religion is "bigfoot".
        
             | hobofan wrote:
             | I can understand that viewpoint (e.g. avid sports fans are
             | a prime example), but it always seems to be a talking point
             | of religious institutions themselves, with the goal of
             | people thinking "oh, I'm bound to have some form of
             | religion anyway, so I'll just stay with my current one".
        
             | danbruc wrote:
             | Having a religion may be a way of life but not every way of
             | life is a religion. At least as long as we are not
             | stretching the definition of religion into meaninglessness.
        
             | hn_throwaway_99 wrote:
             | I've grown tiresome of this trend to redefine words with
             | well-known and universally understood meanings to basically
             | "whatever I want it to mean".
        
         | 987yghj wrote:
         | They have chosen new religions and a new elite priesthood, they
         | just have different names.
        
           | joeberon wrote:
           | Agreed, it's been replaced by pure materialism/physicalism
        
             | lapetitejort wrote:
             | There's probably an appreciable percentage (I have no
             | source for this) of people who leave organized religion
             | because of the gaudiness of megachurches and grand gilded
             | cathedrals. Materialism is not unique to the modern era or
             | secularism.
        
           | igetspam wrote:
           | Perhaps that's for the better. I didn't "choose" the religion
           | thrust upon me as a kid. Somewhere around the age of 10
           | though, the inconsistencies were too many to ignore and I
           | "lost" my faith. I spent many years wrestling with that and
           | the contradictions between what I was being told and what I
           | was witnessing, even in my own family. The damage it did to
           | me has never really been undone. There are things in this
           | world that I recoil from because of dogma that I don't even
           | believe. I became and actual good person, without being
           | shackled to some deity or set of books, later in my life. I
           | pushed everything away because of distrust and anger when I
           | was younger. I can't begin to imagine the good I could have
           | done, had not been stunted early on.
           | 
           | We don't need religion and shame on any parents that push it
           | on their kids. They don't know better and they can't consent.
        
           | lazysheepherd wrote:
           | This avenue of thinking are messing with language. And
           | language is what we organize and coordinate with as human
           | beings. So stop this!
           | 
           | Religion is a very precise definition. By which your comment
           | is not only technically wrong but also practically harmful.
           | 
           | Definition of the religion according to dictionary is: "the
           | belief in and worship of a superhuman controlling power,
           | especially a personal God or gods."
           | 
           | So no, they are not choosing new religions. And their
           | "priests" do not claim to be shadow of the divine, and
           | certainly do not threaten them with afterlife.
        
             | visarga wrote:
             | > And their "priests" do not claim to be shadow of the
             | divine, and certainly do not threaten them with afterlife.
             | 
             | Oh yes, if you look at the peddlers of righteous outrage we
             | have today, and their continuous infighting, there's no
             | difference. Dare to deviate from the line? Wrongthink!
             | Cancelled! Even their own people fall pray to this as they
             | get accused of not being outraged enough by their comrades.
        
             | datavirtue wrote:
             | Hmm...not the definition I found. Relativism abounds but it
             | can't be "it depends" all the way down. We at least need to
             | agree on definitions before we start arguing.
        
               | lazysheepherd wrote:
               | It is not a problem with langauges. For that we have
               | dictionaries. It must be a problem with whatever
               | "relativism" happens to be.
               | 
               | I've searched and took the above defition from the Oxford
               | dictionary before commenting.
               | 
               | Just checked Meriam Webster and Cambridge, of course the
               | words differ, but the meanings seemed functionally
               | equivalent.
        
           | cycrutchfield wrote:
           | So deep
        
             | 987yghj wrote:
             | Much sarcasm.
        
           | msla wrote:
           | The sad thing is how many people think deepity nonsense like
           | what you sarcastically posted here is worth consideration, as
           | opposed to being not-even-wrong level laughably bad
           | philosophy.
        
           | rdtwo wrote:
           | Wokeism is the new thing in elite west coast culture. It's
           | just not officially classified as a religion because it's
           | less organized
        
             | gruez wrote:
             | scott alexander sort of covered that.
             | 
             | https://slatestarcodex.com/2019/10/30/new-atheism-the-
             | godles...
        
           | [deleted]
        
       | shadowgovt wrote:
       | What will be interesting to observe is how the US adapts to the
       | ongoing need for the dozens of community-gluing charity
       | responsibilities churches have historically taken on in American
       | towns and cities. As church membership diminishes, the resources
       | to do those tasks also diminish.
       | 
       | They can certainly be taken on by other charities; I'm curious
       | how frictionless that process will be.
        
       | harles wrote:
       | Oh good, HN can finally settle all questions of religion and
       | moralism.
        
       | chad_strategic wrote:
       | My experience with religion came via Mark Twain.
       | 
       | "In high school or at some point in my high school years, I read
       | Huck Finn. There was a part in the book where Huck has to save
       | Jim and if he saves Jim, he knows the church has taught him that
       | he will go Hell. Huck denies the teaching of the church and saves
       | his friend."
       | 
       | The following is my recollection of the book, it might not be
       | exactly accurate but it is the way I remember it and or want to
       | remember. Keep in mind, I read this close 30 years ago, so I read
       | it without our current revisionist/racists history perspective.
       | Please try to take my comments and thoughts only in the light of
       | religion.
       | 
       | I do remember that reading that passage or that part in the
       | story, saying to myself. "FTS"! I can't reconcile this in my
       | conscience. Religion is definitely the opiate of the masses. Look
       | no further than the last few US elections. At that point, I
       | disavowed any organized religion and started listening to Bad
       | Religion.
        
       | tommilukkarinen wrote:
       | Rising standards of living seem to have correlation to
       | suppression of religious instinct.
       | 
       | https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Religious_instinct
       | 
       | I had difficulties understanding religion, until I had few
       | religious experiences in the span of few years. Looking back, it
       | was most definitely some sort of brain chemistry.
       | 
       | As environment becomes more stable, brain probably has less
       | chances to get into religious channnels.
        
       | jimmytucson wrote:
       | Link to the actual Gallup article is better:
       | https://news.gallup.com/poll/341963/church-membership-falls-...
        
       | agomez314 wrote:
       | Bishop Barron had a good writeup on this in his meeting to the
       | conference of US Bishops:
       | https://www.wordonfire.org/resources/article/the-usccb-meeti...
        
         | Alenycus wrote:
         | Bishop barron is great, as a practicing catholic strikes a
         | great balance between the more liberal and traditional wings of
         | the church.
        
       | drewg123 wrote:
       | I used to think that the lower church membership went, the better
       | off we'd be as a nation, because we'd be more rational on
       | average. I still think so, but I'm less hopeful now. The events
       | of the last few years have called that idea into question, as the
       | rampant irrationality that I used to associate with
       | fundamentalists seems to have moved from the pulpit to the
       | airwaves and now to social media.
        
         | busterarm wrote:
         | Sadly, fundamentalism does not limit itself to religion. Yet no
         | matter how much you draw the obvious parallels in the
         | social/political sphere, the teams are decided and criticism of
         | any kind labels you a heretic.
         | 
         | Fundamentalists lack critical self-awareness.
        
       | malwarebytess wrote:
       | Edgy opinion: religion is useful for guiding the human
       | inclination to look for causes and reasons. All people will
       | believe all kinds of nonsense, some people fanatically, so it's
       | useful to make sure these people have healthy outlets. Lower
       | church membership may not be the atheist utopia one desires,
       | especially in the west with our rampant and unapologetic
       | individualism.
        
       | randomopining wrote:
       | Obviously the overrated part of church is the ceremony and
       | mystique, and the past wrongs of the church.
       | 
       | The underrated part is the sense of community and communal
       | energy... which even though I'm agnostic, I envy, and would
       | consider going some day.
        
       | chi_features wrote:
       | I'm not a church-goer and now in my late thirties have seen many,
       | including myself, have significant crises ending up therapy of
       | some kind. Thankfully, these crises have all had successful and
       | revelationary outcomes. Crises such as financial, relationship,
       | burn-out, questioning purpose, depression. In all cases it's been
       | a revelation for the people involved because they were simply
       | unequipped to deal with the situation; didn't have the tools in
       | their toolkit.
       | 
       | It dawned on me that as a kid I did go to church as part of
       | school, and there I would receive almost daily "counselling", or
       | at least broaching life issues, challenges and philosophical
       | concepts regularly.
       | 
       | When not a church-goer, where does one get this same level of
       | regular counselling, self-improvement or self-analysis? I'm not
       | advocating religion though I feel like the concept of meeting
       | regularly and talking about big issues is very positive, and I
       | feel overlooked.
        
         | notsureaboutpg wrote:
         | I became a church-goer (mosque-goer) recently and I never tell
         | this to people in person, but that is truly the best place for
         | counseling for weaning off addictions, etc.
         | 
         | I know everyone will link me to a story of someone in a Church
         | who did Churchy Narcanon or something and died or how these
         | programs are ineffective, etc. But I'm not talking about
         | programs and therapy, I'm talking about the message that you
         | are in control of your destiny and you are responsible for what
         | you do in this world even if no one sees it.
         | 
         | That simple message is something you'll never hear in any
         | therapists office, no doctor's office, no social scientist will
         | tell you this, no think tank, no shelter, no rehab clinic. Most
         | people today are too afraid to say this. They want to blame
         | someone else for the issues you have. The government, your skin
         | color, racism, sexism, ageism, unfairness in life, inequality,
         | capitalism, wokeness, cancel culture, etc. Everyone has
         | somewhere else to blame. I found in the church (mosque) that
         | people are willing to be honest with you and tell you that you
         | are designed and made to be able to handle the trials and
         | tribulations of life, and you are the only one who can do that
         | for you and you are responsible for the choices you make while
         | trying to do that, and it's not easy, the solution isn't easy,
         | but it wasn't ever meant to be.
         | 
         | I struggled with addictions for a while and that message was
         | what got through to me after attempts at therapy, counseling,
         | etc. Etc. Sure not everyone can do well with it but so many
         | more can than think they can.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | arbitrage wrote:
       | the church i belonged to growing up rejects my basic personhood.
       | 
       | good riddance.
        
       | lootsauce wrote:
       | "Because here's something else that's weird but true: in the day-
       | to day trenches of adult life, there is actually no such thing as
       | atheism. There is no such thing as not worshipping. Everybody
       | worships. The only choice we get is what to worship. And the
       | compelling reason for maybe choosing some sort of god or
       | spiritual-type thing to worship--be it JC or Allah, be it YHWH or
       | the Wiccan Mother Goddess, or the Four Noble Truths, or some
       | inviolable set of ethical principles--is that pretty much
       | anything else you worship will eat you alive. If you worship
       | money and things, if they are where you tap real meaning in life,
       | then you will never have enough, never feel you have enough. It's
       | the truth. Worship your body and beauty and sexual allure and you
       | will always feel ugly. And when time and age start showing, you
       | will die a million deaths before they finally grieve you. On one
       | level, we all know this stuff already. It's been codified as
       | myths, proverbs, cliches, epigrams, parables; the skeleton of
       | every great story. The whole trick is keeping the truth up front
       | in daily consciousness."
       | 
       | David Foster Wallace
        
         | stjohnswarts wrote:
         | This is just some philosophical mental masturbation and many
         | others have done it better. To say everyone worships something
         | is to conflate worship with desire, ambition, and god knows how
         | many other emotions. It's all kind of silly and just plain
         | oversimplification.
        
         | lordylord wrote:
         | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0MzyBv4yOPU
        
         | booleandilemma wrote:
         | I could never take this guy seriously. I mean, he killed
         | himself. Why should we listen to what he has to say?
        
           | jumelles wrote:
           | What a horrible sentiment.
        
           | [deleted]
        
           | RankingMember wrote:
           | Do you also not take Alan Turing's works seriously?
        
             | stjohnswarts wrote:
             | This doesn't make sense. You can't argue with Turing's math
             | and algorithmic discoveries/creations (unless you can prove
             | them wrong) but you certainly can some of his flawed
             | philosophies. QED False equivocation.
        
             | ben509 wrote:
             | I discount Turing's works because of his suicide. I think
             | the Turing award ought to be renamed.
             | 
             | Consider all the love and respect directed at Robin
             | Williams after he died. The perverse reality is that for
             | someone in a suicidal frame of mind, that kind of love
             | makes "I'd be better off dead" far more credible.
             | 
             | I think the other extreme, outright condemning someone,
             | probably doesn't work either, as it's liable to make a
             | person with suicidal feelings feel trapped.
             | 
             | So I settle for disapproval, that suicide is a permanent
             | stain on someone's legacy, in the hope that it nudges
             | someone to stick it out for another day.
        
             | booleandilemma wrote:
             | This is completely different. Turing was a genius and one
             | of the founders of computer science.
             | 
             | DFW was kind of a loser, imho, who abused his girlfriend
             | and her son.
        
             | borepop wrote:
             | Turing's work has some independent value, it's not just a
             | mess of philosophical/moral opinions like Wallace is
             | offering up in this speech. If nothing else, Wallace's
             | suicide illustrates to me what a gulf there is between
             | "saying things that sound wise" and actually living wisely.
             | One has very little to do with the other.
        
               | caslon wrote:
               | A suicide doesn't mean your life wasn't lived wisely. He
               | was suffering from a clinically-diagnosed depressive
               | disorder, was told to stop taking antidepressants by his
               | own doctor, and was recommended to try electric shock as
               | an alternative. His suicide was less "stupid man is sad"
               | than "Wow, look! The medical industry isn't even trying
               | to fix depression."
        
               | InvertedRhodium wrote:
               | Given that there topic seems to broadly be about
               | happiness and personal satisfaction, you could argue that
               | someone suffering from depression is either wholly
               | unsuited to the task or someone with excellent
               | perspective. I don't think it's overly surprising that
               | suicide undermines your credibility on those topics with
               | some people.
        
               | bckr wrote:
               | Yeah, I don't think the useful discussion is whether a
               | wise person / person with wisdom would commit suicide, or
               | whether a person who committed suicide could be
               | considered wise.
               | 
               | The useful discussion is "Is this person's way of
               | thinking probably going to help me improve my life?"--if
               | someone committed suicide, I would think twice about
               | thinking similarly to that person.
               | 
               | To illustrate why, I'm depressed. I don't have direct
               | control over this. But I do have some control over what I
               | think. If I bow to the thoughts "this life is not worth
               | living", yeah, I become more likely to slit my wrists.
               | But if I think "I'm not going to identify with these
               | thoughts. I'm going to eat lunch and that will probably
               | make me feel better", I think my life will be longer and
               | better.
               | 
               | Not saying you can think yourself out of clinical
               | depression, but I'm going to be careful about what I
               | decide to think, and who I'm going to model in my
               | thinking.
        
           | throwaway823882 wrote:
           | Aaron Swartz
        
         | rmah wrote:
         | In that quote, Wallace is just morphing, conflating, and
         | fudging the definition of the word "worship". He says people
         | "worship" (with a variety of subtly different meanings) a
         | variety of things and then, implies that because we can use the
         | same word, "worship", to describe those activities, they are
         | equivalent. I despise this rhetorical technique. I find it both
         | insulting, intellectually dishonest and useless.
        
           | temp8964 wrote:
           | Unless you can elaborate and distinguish different kinds of
           | "worship", your accusation is overblown. Maybe he used this
           | word simply because it was the best choice available to
           | capture and communicate the underlined meaning?
        
             | seppin wrote:
             | I think you are right and I think people are attacking the
             | quote because he chose to "attack" atheism.
        
             | Kinrany wrote:
             | 1. To believe in something unobservable by conventional
             | means.
             | 
             | 2. To value something over anything else.
             | 
             | The word "atheist" clearly implies the first, and he never
             | explains what meaning of the word "atheist" he uses in his
             | "there are no atheists". So this is either a rhetorical
             | trick, or a tautology that defines "atheist" as, roughly,
             | "someone who doesn't value anything that much", but never
             | goes anywhere with this definition.
        
               | temp8964 wrote:
               | Apparently he is not comparing religion and atheism. He
               | also mentioned money, beauty, etc. You seems miss the
               | point of the quote as a whole. Even atheism is not
               | worship. Atheists, as human, still need something to
               | worship on, like everyone else. But again, the focus is
               | really not atheists.
        
               | CRConrad wrote:
               | > Atheists, as human, still need something to worship on,
               | like everyone else.
               | 
               | [Citation needed]
        
           | throwaway823882 wrote:
           | Actually he's making philosophical commentary about the
           | nature of what people dedicate themselves to. But if you want
           | to get emotionally wrapped up in the definition of a word and
           | ignore the message, go for it.
        
             | thatcat wrote:
             | Exactly, he's pointing out that the revaluation of all
             | religious values does not lead to atheism, but to
             | individually chosen principles that must also be based on a
             | faith due to the uncertainty that such beliefs are meant to
             | deal with. Even athiesm itself can be viewed as a
             | fundamentalist religious belief that is based on faith.
        
           | chmod600 wrote:
           | It is not logically rigorous, but it illustrates a point.
           | 
           | Can you expand on why the distinction you are drawing is
           | important?
        
             | andagainagain wrote:
             | Trying to steel man David Foster Wallace here, I would say
             | his point is that, if you define "religion" instead as a
             | sort of personal philosophy, then we all have one. And
             | because we all have a philosophy of some sort, we all have
             | desires, rules, and some sort of ethical principles, we
             | don't have atheists.
             | 
             | The point he has relies on a faulty premise. When people
             | talk about religion and atheism, they aren't using the
             | definition of Wallace. They're using the strict definition
             | - non-theist. Not a theist. They don't believe in god. they
             | are saying absolutely nothing about the rest of their
             | philosophy.
             | 
             | He RELIES on changing the definition of religion into
             | something it very clearly isn't. And he does this in order
             | to provide evidence that people, who obviously exist, must
             | not according to his definition. It's like saying
             | "Homosexuality doesn't exist, because all homosexuality is
             | is is rejecting the beauty of certain genders. But we all
             | recognize the beauty of our mothers and brothers and fellow
             | humans, and the grace they give and the home they provide.
             | No human would be human without loving thy neighbor".
             | 
             | It's insulting. And other than that, it has absolutely no
             | value, intellectually, morally, or otherwise.
        
           | pkghost wrote:
           | I could not disagree more. Wallace's use of language here is
           | instructive, poignant, and immensely useFUL.
           | 
           | I'll bet you're an engineer, data scientist, or other
           | technical professional, not simply b/c you're here, but b/c
           | your response to Wallace's use of ambiguity and multiple
           | layers of meaning reveals as much about the nature of your
           | own relationship with language, which I'd guess prefers that
           | things should be clear, precise, and have singular meaning.
           | (I'm certainly oversimplifying you, so apologies.)
           | 
           | Look into "cognitive decoupling", and you may find a
           | dichotomy that illustrates some of your reaction to Wallace.
           | 
           | https://everythingstudies.com/2018/05/25/decoupling-
           | revisite...
        
             | OOPMan wrote:
             | Sounds like the usual post-modern rubbish to me...
        
             | Kinrany wrote:
             | Regardless of words being context-dependent and having
             | uncountable number of meanings, in the context of a single
             | argument a word should generally only have one meaning.
        
               | pkghost wrote:
               | Again, I could not disagree more with your interpretation
               | of what's happening here.
               | 
               | I'd recommend you, too, read the article I linked in the
               | comment above. To characterize Wallace's words as an
               | "argument", as if he were a lawyer in the court of being
               | --as if such a thing exists--, is to employ cognitive
               | decoupling, and to miss the point.
               | 
               | There's nothing wrong with C.D.--it's absolutely useful
               | and necessary to have contexts in which words mean one
               | thing and one thing only, but it's equally if not more
               | necessary to have contexts in which that constraint does
               | not hold, in which we are free to make meaning by use of
               | metaphor and non-literal comparison. Indeed, it's the
               | only way in which we can point to dimensions of
               | experience that do not yet have names; it's how language
               | evolves and expands, it's how technical domains come into
               | existence.
        
           | equality_1138 wrote:
           | Here is a glaring example of debating semantics in hopes to
           | discredit the actual meaning of something or attempt to kill
           | the topic altogether. Appears to be a bad outcome from the
           | rise of STEM worship.
        
           | mcavoybn wrote:
           | Given the degree of your outrage, I think something other
           | than "rhetorical technique" has triggered you here. Then
           | again, maybe you are just really really opinionated about
           | "rhetorical techniques" and following strict definitions of
           | words? In that case, you must despise the vast majority of
           | stories and literature because of their metaphors, parables,
           | and subtly different meanings...
        
             | andagainagain wrote:
             | This is obviously incorrect. If someone is making an
             | argument then there is a higher bar of what word usage
             | means than stories about santa clause. And using words like
             | "religion" with completely different, fuzzier, less
             | meaningful definitions in order to make a point that
             | doesn't address the topic of religion being discussed is in
             | fact worthless at best. Manipulative and dishonest at
             | worst.
        
               | mcavoybn wrote:
               | It's up to the reader to decide what is worthwhile for
               | them.
               | 
               | Also, whether that quote is relevant or not is not what
               | is being argued. The original dispute (on a surface
               | level) was about a "rhetorical technique". Now you say it
               | is manipulative and dishonest, which is a completely
               | different thing and obviously false.
        
           | OOPMan wrote:
           | Most things people say that try to conflate atheism with
           | theism are insulting, intellectually dishonest and useless
        
           | throw0101a wrote:
           | > _In that quote, Wallace is just morphing, conflating, and
           | fudging the definition of the word "worship"._
           | 
           | You're not wrong, but he gets close to it. Generally,
           | Aristotle stated that at the end of the day the final thing
           | we want is happiness, the trick is to figure out what will
           | get us there. Aristotle wrote his Nicomachean _Ethics_ as one
           | answer.
           | 
           | (Saint) Thomas Aquinas had another, which Bp. Robert Barron
           | espouses on:
           | 
           | > _One of the most fundamental problems in the spiritual
           | order is that we sense within ourselves the hunger for God,
           | but we attempt to satisfy it with some created good that is
           | less than God. Thomas Aquinas said that the four typical
           | substitutes for God are wealth, pleasure, power, and honor.
           | Sensing the void within, we attempt to fill it up with some
           | combination of these four things, but only by emptying out
           | the self in love can we make the space for God to fill us.
           | The classical tradition referred to this errant desire as
           | "concupiscence," but I believe that we could neatly express
           | the same idea with the more contemporary term "addiction."
           | When we try to satisfy the hunger for God with something less
           | than God, we will naturally be frustrated, and then in our
           | frustration, we will convince ourselves that we need more of
           | that finite good, so we will struggle to achieve it, only to
           | find ourselves again, necessarily, dissatisfied. At this
           | point, a sort of spiritual panic sets in, and we can find
           | ourselves turning obsessively around this creaturely good
           | that can never in principle make us happy._
           | 
           | * https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/541169
           | 
           | In the modern world, many people's "highest good" is wealth,
           | pleasure, power, and/or honor.
        
           | elmomle wrote:
           | It's pretty clear that that "worship" here refers to where we
           | practice focusing our heart's yearnings, not to a set of
           | religious rites. Synonyms of this meaning of "worship"
           | include "revere" and "venerate".
        
             | ggggtez wrote:
             | No. Because he opens his thought with saying that "Atheism"
             | doesn't exist. Atheism isn't a rejection of "yearning" or
             | "reverence". It's a rejection of religion.
             | 
             | He's just playing word games, and you are falling for it.
        
               | btilly wrote:
               | Correction. Atheism isn't a rejection of religion. It is
               | a lack of belief in God or gods.
               | 
               | The canonical example of the difference is that plenty of
               | religious Buddhists are also atheists.
        
               | aksss wrote:
               | Yes, I know a few atheists whose fervor walks, talks, and
               | quacks like a religious zealot.
        
               | Cookingboy wrote:
               | I absolutely agree. It's just your typical pseudo-
               | intellectualism rant here. It starts with a provocative
               | declaration and then backed up with some explanation that
               | is _technically_ true, but doesn 't offer any actual
               | insights or value.
        
               | throwawaygal7 wrote:
               | I mean, theres some truth on both sides.
               | 
               | From a christian/jewish/islamic perspective whatever you
               | focus most on is your 'idol' - the bible talks alot about
               | worshipping money, for instance.
               | 
               | In that sense, then whatever you focus on in life is
               | idolatrous worship, an atheistic religion.
        
               | kriops wrote:
               | "there is actually no such thing as atheism"
               | 
               | There is no truth to that whatsoever.
        
               | meowkit wrote:
               | Hyperbole. Of course atheism exists, but its used as an
               | engaging opener.
               | 
               | Contrary to some other comments in this thread, the
               | people complaining about the literal truth value are the
               | ones falling for the author's writing technique, not the
               | other way around.
               | 
               | Don't interpret it literally. Its used to assemble an
               | idea that anything can be worshipped/venerated, not to
               | make the argument that atheism doesn't exist.
        
               | wellpast wrote:
               | I think you've already fallen for literalness as the only
               | way to interpret or value anything. Which is unfortunate
               | because all of the momentous truths in life (ie, that
               | matter to _corporeal_ beings, to _us_ ) are not of the
               | literal variety. You probably know this on some buried
               | level but you cling to the literalness anyway. Why?
        
               | nnvvhh wrote:
               | "Just playing word games," he's a writer! Not everything
               | written is documentation.
        
               | acdha wrote:
               | He's a writer, sure, but that doesn't mean that bad
               | writing is not fair game for criticism. Redefining words
               | is a common technique in this style of apologetics to
               | avoid having to engage with an argument intellectually
               | and it being used by a famous writer doesn't make it more
               | worthy.
        
             | tmpz22 wrote:
             | The crux of organized religion is being so vague that an
             | individual can pick whatever parts of it fits into their
             | own self-image. Thats what OP is tapping into in their
             | quote. The Bible is re-written every 100 years to
             | accommodate this.
        
               | cobri wrote:
               | >>"The Bible is re-written every 100 years to accommodate
               | this."
               | 
               | This is provably false.
               | 
               | "It cannot be too strongly asserted that in substance the
               | text of the Bible is certain: Especially is this the case
               | with the New Testament, of early translations from it,
               | and of quotations from it in the oldest writers of the
               | Church, is so large that it is practically certain that
               | the true reading of every doubtful passage is preserved
               | in some one or other of these ancient authorities. This
               | can be said of no other ancient book in the world."[1]
               | 
               | As an example, the New Testament is 25x more accurately
               | copied across manuscripts than the Iliad [2].
               | 
               | "The variant readings about which any doubt remains among
               | textual critics of the New Testament affect no material
               | question of historic fact or of Christian faith and
               | practice."[3]
               | 
               | [1] Kenyon, "Our Bible and the Ancient Manuscripts", p.
               | 23
               | 
               | [2] Bruce M. Metzger, "Chapters in the History of New
               | Testament Textual Criticism", cited by Geisler and Nix,
               | "A General Introduction to the Bible", pp. 366f
               | 
               | [3] F.F. Bruce, "The New Testament Documents: Are They
               | Reliable?" p. 15
        
               | causality0 wrote:
               | I believe he meant that the collective interpretation of
               | mainstream religious leaders changes over time and is
               | radically different from one century to the next.
        
               | Terretta wrote:
               | That doesn't hold water either, or Thomas Aquinas
               | wouldn't still be considered by so many as "the highest
               | expression of both natural reason and speculative
               | theology" and the basis for modern clergical study.
               | 
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thomas_Aquinas
        
               | btilly wrote:
               | It definitely does hold water. Here are several examples.
               | 
               | Until the Counter-reformation, Catholics were not allowed
               | to lend money at interest due to the ancient prohibition
               | against usury. After that point Catholic doctrine was
               | changed to say that this was one of the commandments for
               | the ancient Jews that was not intended for Christians.
               | The Bible didn't change, but doctrine did. (This despite
               | the fact that the only point in the Bible where Jesus is
               | portrayed as acting angrily was throwing the
               | moneychangers out of the temple. And why was their
               | presence wrong? Because they were engaged in usury!)
               | 
               | The doctrine of papal infallibility is accepted by all
               | Catholics today. Yet it was not part of Catholic doctrine
               | until 1870.
               | 
               | Until 1616, the Catholic Church had no official doctrine
               | on astronomy. In fact Copernicus dedicated his book to
               | the Pope. And then the Copernican theory was ruled
               | contrary to scripture. Catholics were banned from reading
               | various books about it. A century later, the bans on the
               | books were lifted. A century after that, the Catholic
               | Church declared that the Copernican theory was in accord
               | with scripture.
               | 
               | In all of these cases Scripture didn't change. Jesus
               | still threw the moneylenders out of the temple for usury.
               | Peter still received the keys to heaven. And Joshua bid
               | the Sun to stand still, and not the Earth. But the
               | beliefs that people had based on these passages /did/
               | change.
        
               | causality0 wrote:
               | A minor point, Jesus has anger issues a number of times
               | in the Bible, not just with the moneylenders. As an
               | example, the time he got mad at a tree for not having
               | fruit and cursed it to never bear fruit again.
        
               | pharmakom wrote:
               | Exactly. Just look at how the attitude to homosexuality
               | has shifted in the church (which I think is a great
               | thing). They didn't change the text, but they changed the
               | emphasis and the oral sermons.
        
               | throwawaygal7 wrote:
               | Love how you uses sources the HN audience is extremely
               | sympathetic with, in order to argue against the
               | groupthink. a great comment.
        
             | belorn wrote:
             | This redefining of the word worship do not work at all for
             | me. We do not worship cooking food. The words do not
             | describe well a hobby. It is negative associated with
             | personal relationships. Worshiping a pet sound crazy.
        
               | cdblades wrote:
               | It is also redefining atheism and religion.
        
             | marc_abonce wrote:
             | It's worth pointing out that this equivalence is only
             | possible in the English language (and maybe other Germanic
             | languages?) where apparently the word _worship_ means a lot
             | of concepts (adoration, veneration, reverence) that in
             | Romance languages are actually separate. In fact, the
             | disagreement over this words is one of the most important
             | differences between Catholicism and Protestantism.
             | 
             | I don't know how does this distinction work in other
             | religions, but based on Wikipedia[1] it looks like
             | adoration, veneration and reverence may also be different
             | on many of them.
             | 
             | [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Veneration
        
           | constGard wrote:
           | In all fairness, this same rhetorical technique was commonly
           | used in the faith that I was raised in. We were often taught
           | that one could violate the Jewish/Christian commandment to
           | "have no other gods before me" by placing more importance on
           | material goods or hobbies (your car, your boat, sports, etc.)
           | than worshiping God.
        
             | krapp wrote:
             | Judaism was a monotheistic religion surrounded by
             | polytheists, their concern was maintaining their cultural
             | integrity and identity.
             | 
             | Other commandments (though shalt not covet, etc) are
             | concerned with materialism and greed. "Though Shalt Have No
             | Other Gods Before Me" is pretty clearly about precisely
             | what it says on the tin.
        
               | ARandomerDude wrote:
               | Not necessarily.
               | 
               | "Their end is destruction, their god is their belly, and
               | they glory in their shame, with minds set on earthly
               | things."
               | 
               | - Philippians 3:19
        
               | aljarry wrote:
               | Letter to Philippians is much younger history, though. I
               | don't recall Old Testament ever mixing meaning of "gods"
               | and hedonism.
        
               | 8note wrote:
               | Especially keeping Seleucid influence down when they
               | tried to hellenize Israel
        
             | incompatible wrote:
             | Does this apply to husbands and wives as well as cars?
        
           | johnfn wrote:
           | He's really not, though. He means that these are the
           | activities from which people derive purpose. People derive
           | purpose from religion, or money, or beauty, or status.
        
           | nnvvhh wrote:
           | You must be fun at parties.
        
           | antonzabirko wrote:
           | Pretty straightforward to me. Worship here just means
           | prioritize.
        
             | ur-whale wrote:
             | Feel free to assign the meaning you find most convenient to
             | random words, but the fact is, we are in the thick of a
             | thread about religion, in which Wallace's excerpt is being
             | used to make a point ...
        
               | seppin wrote:
               | It's pretty clear what his intentions were and what he
               | was trying to say. It's not like he gave the term a
               | completely unrelated meaning. "What one focuses on
               | everyday and builds your sense of self and worth around"
               | is a very good definition of worship, imo.
        
               | antonzabirko wrote:
               | Oh yeah i am sidestepping that cause his quote doesn't
               | really apply to religion. It's just a way to appeal to
               | people who see no difference between money and ethics in
               | a nice way.
        
           | mywittyname wrote:
           | This sort of conflations are typical in social commentary
           | situations, comedy especially. This is absolutely something I
           | could see done in an act done by Carlin or Williams.
        
           | throw0101a wrote:
           | > _I despise this rhetorical technique. I find it both
           | insulting, intellectually dishonest and useless._
           | 
           | It is etymologically correct though: _condition of being
           | worthy, dignity, glory, distinction, honor, renown._
           | 
           | * https://www.etymonline.com/word/worship
           | 
           | From the root worth "worth": _weorth "significant, valuable,
           | of value; valued, appreciated, highly thought-of, deserving,
           | meriting; honorable, noble, of high rank_.
           | 
           | * https://www.etymonline.com/word/worth
           | 
           | What do you hold in highest regard in your life? Family?
           | Truth/honesty? Other? (Saint) Thomas Aquinas said that the
           | four typical substitutes for God are wealth, pleasure, power,
           | and honor.
           | 
           | None of those things are necessarily bad in themselves--some
           | amount are often necessary for life, and can be be used to
           | achieve good things--but chasing them for the sake of
           | themselves without a higher principle to guide you once
           | achieve them has probably caused many people problems over
           | the course of history.
           | 
           | Asking yourself " _what is the highest good in my life?_ what
           | do I  'worship'?" can be a good spiritual/moral exercise.
        
         | lazysheepherd wrote:
         | It is sad that so many people do not understand WHY religion is
         | worse over other things mentioned here.
         | 
         | These things are SHARED among many things, along with religion;
         | 
         | - we humans tend to form social hierarchies
         | 
         | - we all want to be belong
         | 
         | - we want to be the hero of our story
         | 
         | - life is hard, and death is terrifying, so we need lullabies
         | 
         | - some rules/codes required wherever there are more than 1
         | person alive. Be it religious, moral or written/legal.
         | 
         | - we all need some ideal to work towards
         | 
         | This however, is SPECIAL to religion;
         | 
         | Religion makes it a habit in believers to believe without
         | evidence, forbits questioning, and delays answers to
         | "afterlife". Hence takes away the power of understanding and
         | reasoning.
         | 
         | It installs a backdoor to people's minds so to speak. From
         | which all the other bullshit are welcome to come in and also
         | take a seat in their mind.
         | 
         | Oh wait, there was this video that was explains these more
         | elegantly than I can. Okay I've found it:
         | https://twitter.com/billmaher/status/1357915846731997185
        
         | igorkraw wrote:
         | I prefer Camus personally. The act of rebellion against ...well
         | everything, but in this case against things to worship, against
         | stories that try to hide the absurdity of the universe seems to
         | me a narrative much less likely to be led astray in harmful
         | ways, since it gives you no power or secret insight, only
         | personal despair and personal happiness.
         | 
         | https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/camus/
         | 
         | https://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Albert_Camus
         | 
         | "I don't know whether this world has a meaning that transcends
         | it. But I know that I cannot know that meaning and that it is
         | impossible for me just now to know it. What can a meaning
         | outside my condition mean to me? I can understand only in human
         | terms. What I touch, what resists me -- that I understand. And
         | these two certainties -- my appetite for the absolute and for
         | unity and the impossibility of reducing this world to a
         | rational and reasonable principle -- I also know that I cannot
         | reconcile them. What other truth can I admit without lying,
         | without bringing in a hope I lack and which means nothing
         | within the limits of my conditions?"
        
           | nickthemagicman wrote:
           | I love Camus as well. His idea of absurdism really struck a
           | chord with me. We're on this ride in life where we just keep
           | passing through absurd situations.
           | 
           | It's a really comical extension to an existentialism.
           | 
           | "Should I kill myself or have a cup of coffee?"
        
         | abootstrapper wrote:
         | I guess this makes sense if you define "atheism" as "not
         | obsessing over something" and "worship" as a synonym for
         | "unhealthy obsession." I take issue with those definitions, and
         | also with the premise that an adult must have an unhealthy
         | obsession over something.
         | 
         | What if I told you, I don't believe in god, nor obsess over
         | money or beauty. Oh, I guess I "worship" all things in
         | moderation and healthy relationships.
        
         | jacurtis wrote:
         | > ...pretty much anything else you worship [other than
         | religion] will eat you alive. If you worship money and
         | things... then you will never have enough, never feel you have
         | enough. It's the truth. Worship your body and beauty and sexual
         | allure and you will always feel ugly. And when time and age
         | start showing, you will die a million deaths before they
         | finally grieve you.
         | 
         | This is implying that worshiping religion/god/spirituality is
         | exempt from extreme obsession. But I have to contest that
         | religion can create far more extreme of obsessions than other
         | forms of "worship" that Wallace references such as beauty,
         | money, etc..
         | 
         | I grew up religious (in a high-demand religion) and saw that
         | the religion created extremists among most of our church
         | members. While an obsessive "worship" of losing weight can lead
         | to anorexia, we see a good thing become bad. Being interesting
         | in beauty isn't bad by itself, but an obsessive/extreme version
         | can lead to depression and many other things.
         | 
         | Religion is no exception (even though Wallace seems to exclude
         | it). An obsession over religion leads people to over analyze
         | their life in the search of being perfect. It forces them to
         | make unnecessary sacrifices for a reward that they will never
         | actually attain. I've seen it tear apart families as bad as
         | alcohol abuse or domestic violence can. There is a very dark,
         | evil side to religion. The religion I was involved with put so
         | much pressure on people to live life a certain way, to be
         | perfect, that it was unattainable. The religion's goal is to
         | enforce compliance and promote unity through shared suffering.
         | But it has negative effects too. I've lost many close friends
         | (including one roommate) who committed suicide from church
         | pressures. Prescription drug abuse is particularly bad within
         | the community that I grew up in, I personally know several
         | people who have life-long addictions to prescription opioids
         | that started from church pressures. I have seen domestic
         | violence and child sexual abuse, all justified (and protected
         | and buried) under religious arguments. My personal experience
         | with religion shows consequences that far exceed those of other
         | obsessions such as wealth, beauty, fitness, drugs, and so on.
         | So I would be very careful about giving religion a "pass".
         | 
         | Are all religions bad? Probably not. I know plenty of people
         | who have healthy relationships with religion. But the bad stuff
         | is definitely there too, and it is FAR from rare. And I am only
         | talking about relatively tame religions too. We can go even
         | more extreme and start discussing the effects that religion
         | have had on promoting unspeakable acts such as the holocaust,
         | the crusades, the jihads, 9/11 attacks, the inquisition, Boston
         | marathon bombs, numerous mass shootings, Incan & Mayan
         | sacrifices, the KKK, witch hunts, wacko in waco, jim jones mass
         | suicide, and this is a short list.
         | 
         | I am no longer religious myself (it was a religion imposed on
         | me by my parents), but I have no problem with other people
         | being religious. I would just caution that there are extremes,
         | and religion is an easy one to fall into an extreme. You are
         | literally discussing something that is "out of this world" and
         | can not have any proof. The rewards are infinite (eternal life,
         | glory without end, etc), which makes them more desirable to
         | attain and justifies more extremes to earn. They also self-
         | exclude and discriminate other people (your religion is right,
         | everyone else is wrong or evil). The stakes that religion
         | creates are simply so high, that it is easy to fall into the
         | obsessive and extreme category, more so than worrying about an
         | obsession over wealth or fitness.
        
           | throwawaygal7 wrote:
           | The orthodox and catholics call this scrupulpsity, the low
           | churches lack the vocabulary to deal with it
        
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         | grae_QED wrote:
         | I think Wallace is right in a sense. But I think 'worship' is
         | the wrong word and if we're interpreting this literally then
         | no, there is such thing as atheism.
         | 
         | I get the sense people too often take this quote out of context
         | to suggest atheism is some form of religion. Wallace was a
         | master of the metaphor. I don't believe that he meant this
         | literally. I think he could have used the word 'nihilist'
         | instead and gotten the point across but I understand why he
         | didn't.
        
         | aftergibson wrote:
         | Conflating and oversimplify yet wholeheartedly highfalutin.
         | 
         | Must be DFW.
        
         | simplerman wrote:
         | I know religious folks who are the most miserable people ever.
         | Because they get jealous when someone else worship more than
         | them. They will criticize and belittle everyone they can. And I
         | know atheists who are way more chill than so called
         | hippie/spiritual/religious folks claim to be. Just because one
         | is atheist doesn't mean they will be greedy capitalist or sex-
         | addict or something else.
        
         | jandrese wrote:
         | I find the idea that faith can't eat you alive to be strange
         | given that we have so many examples of that happening in real
         | life. Faith is no different than money, power, allure, etc...
         | in that regard.
         | 
         | That's one reason people turn to atheism in the first place, to
         | avoid getting gobbled up by religion.
        
           | petre wrote:
           | I really don't understand why some people have to turn to
           | atheism when not participating in organised religion is quite
           | easy enough. This is what the article implies, church
           | membership as opposed to faith. Why even bother to deny
           | something that others believe without proof and needlessly
           | argue about it? Maybe it makes them happy, more secure. Vocal
           | atheists usually annoy me more than christian evanghelists,
           | mostly because of the negative message.
        
             | methodin wrote:
             | Because the U.S. still has not even come close to mastering
             | the separation of church and state which means depending on
             | where you live it will confront you frequently whether you
             | like or not. Burying your head in the sand does nothing if
             | you believe the premise of that separation is virtuous. I
             | am not atheist myself but I have yet to see anyone I know
             | be vocal about their atheism, yet I know many that are
             | vocal about their religious views. I am curious where you
             | see vocal atheists enough that they annoy you?
        
               | petre wrote:
               | Most of the ones I've met acted pretty much like Dawkins
               | and got all worked up by their beliefs, mocked
               | churchgoers and called them names. Maybe it preocupies
               | them a great deal but I did not care to hear any of it,
               | nor asked about it, it was them who sought to share their
               | opinion on the matter.
               | 
               | I also live in a country where the separation between
               | state and church is also not clear enough. The church is
               | quite openly corrupt and gets laughed at by my generation
               | and is becoming less relevant every year.
        
               | cbozeman wrote:
               | > Maybe it preocupies them a great deal but I did not
               | care to hear any of it, nor asked about it, it was them
               | who sought to share their opinion on the matter.
               | 
               | Congratulations, now you know how most American atheists
               | feel about religious people and their beliefs.
        
               | acdha wrote:
               | I don't know about your country but here in the U.S.
               | vocal religion is used to justify racism, sexism, refusal
               | of medical care, and employers dictating their religious
               | views on marriage, reproduction, etc. on their employees.
               | Richard Dawkins is annoying, to be clear, and I am deeply
               | skeptical of some of the factors in how he singles out
               | Islam but as far as I'm aware he's never tried to prevent
               | someone from seeing a doctor or said that a stranger
               | shouldn't be allowed to get married without his approval.
        
           | marcosdumay wrote:
           | Personally, I've seen churches eat way more people alive than
           | greed or any other power allure.
           | 
           | Beauty consumes people at the beginning of life, but most get
           | away from it at the start of adult age. The only other things
           | that come close are political ideologies and personality
           | cults.
        
             | stjohnswarts wrote:
             | I have minor criminal cousin named Jake, Jake doesn't claim
             | to be anything else, unlike most Christians I've known who
             | feel morally superior yet hold some of the least
             | humanitarian ideas I've ever known. At least cousin Jake
             | doesn't lie to himself about what he is.
        
         | goldcd wrote:
         | To cut to the chase "bullshit"
         | 
         | I am an atheist. I am without god. I respect no external
         | judgement upon me.
         | 
         | Am I pure? Have I fallen victim to the seduction of mammon and
         | the innumerable trinkets of existence - of course I have, and
         | accept I will until the day I die.
         | 
         | Do I worship myself and take excessive pride in my self-stated
         | virtues - clearly I do, as you can see if you've read this far.
         | 
         | But outside of my petty rhetoric, I know I came from nothing
         | and at the end of my life-span I will return from whence I
         | came.
         | 
         | I find this comforting.
         | 
         | There's no game to win, no test to pass, no heaven to enter -
         | just a feeling of solidarity with those I share my temporal-
         | blip-in-the-light with.
        
         | alfiedotwtf wrote:
         | > is that pretty much anything else you worship will eat you
         | alive
         | 
         | I've seen plenty of people who have dedicated themselves to
         | religion, made it completely consuming (ie go to church every
         | day, God is the only thing they talk about, and the Bible is
         | their only frame of reference), and they are unhappy because
         | Religion itself has eaten them alive.
         | 
         | How wrong Wallace was.
        
         | MisterBastahrd wrote:
         | Here's what's actually true and not at all weird: religious
         | people from evangelical religions draw parallels to non-
         | religious people by pretending that every human is born with
         | the need to venerate something. It's how they rationalize their
         | evangelism. They have to, because admitting that other people
         | do not share these imperfections is akin to admitting that some
         | people do not need what they have to share. The fun thing about
         | lying is that if you wrap it up in enough gift wrapping, people
         | will tire out and accept it as truth rather than spending the
         | time to uncover the lie.
        
         | ggggtez wrote:
         | Spoken like someone with white privilege.
        
           | CanceledAccount wrote:
           | What does race have to do with this?
        
             | OOPMan wrote:
             | Tarring
        
         | nimbius wrote:
         | forgive me if im not moved by the edict of an alcoholic
         | misogynist trying to assuage his own fears of moral impropriety
         | and existential castaway after failing twice to join the
         | Catholic church. Wallace enrobes the exhausted and derisive
         | narrative of evangelicals confronted with an alternative to the
         | almighty they themselves find personally intolerable in an
         | almost comically dismissive tone. At least Thomas Aquinas had
         | the decency to avoid Reducto ad Absurdum when he published his
         | metaphysical treatise.
         | 
         | Had we only outlawed the semiconductor im sure Gallup would
         | enjoy a more sterling report of gods children, however i myself
         | may be amiss. Christian Evangelism on the whole has seen a
         | marked decline since its apex during the second Bush
         | administration.
        
         | nyghtly wrote:
         | Here's the full speech for anyone who took an interest in this
         | excerpt: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8CrOL-ydFMI
         | 
         | In my opinion, it's one of the best graduation speeches of all
         | time.
        
           | sharkweek wrote:
           | I have absolutely tried to hard wire the "choose how to
           | think" into my brain. It is never easy.
           | 
           | His example of the swerving SUV racing through traffic _maybe
           | just possibly_ driving that way because of a personal
           | emergency stuck with me. I don 't have to assume the worst of
           | people who are acting in a way I don't agree with, and to
           | consider this anytime I'm getting worked up over something
           | can be quite helpful.
        
           | hexane360 wrote:
           | I much prefer Stephen Colbert's Northwestern commencement
           | speech: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m6tiaooiIo0
           | 
           | And a transcript: https://www.northwestern.edu/newscenter/sto
           | ries/2011/06/colb...
           | 
           | > But if we should serve others, and together serve some
           | common goal or idea - for any one you, what is that idea? And
           | who are those people?
           | 
           | > In my experience, you will truly serve only what you love,
           | because, as the prophet says, service is love made visible.
           | 
           | > If you love friends, you will serve your friends.
           | 
           | > If you love community, you will serve your community.
           | 
           | > If you love money, you will serve your money.
           | 
           | > And if you love only yourself, you will serve only
           | yourself. And you will have only yourself. So no more
           | winning. Instead, try to love others and serve others, and
           | hopefully find those who love and serve you in return.
        
       | hprotagonist wrote:
       | first time in 80 years, anyway.
       | 
       | for rather more of the 19th century than we think, regular church
       | attendance was more like 35% of the country.
        
         | dbatten wrote:
         | Thanks for pointing this out.
         | 
         | There's a big difference between church attendance and church
         | membership... Unfortunately, the original linked article
         | glosses over the difference, while the original Gallup study
         | digs into it. According to Gallup, approximately half of the
         | recent reduction in church membership can be attributed to
         | people becoming less religious, while the other half is
         | explained by people who still attend church regularly, but
         | avoid formal "membership" in a congregation.
         | 
         | And, to your point, the historical data is very telling. My
         | understanding is that the idea that basically everybody in the
         | US used to be super religious and go to church all the time is
         | largely a myth. In fact, I believe the high-water mark for US
         | church attendance as a percentage of the population was
         | actually around 1990. (Source: Sociologists of religion Rodney
         | Stark / Roger Finke. Their book "The Churching of America"
         | attempts to get historical stats on this question, and includes
         | this graph: https://madeinamericathebook.files.wordpress.com/20
         | 10/03/fin...)
         | 
         | Take from these stats/trends what you will. Just adding some
         | additional context to the discussion.
        
           | calvinmorrison wrote:
           | > while the other half is explained by people who still
           | attend church regularly, but avoid formal "membership" in a
           | congregation.
           | 
           | I wonder if this can be explained by an increase in people
           | moving around compared to a hundred years ago. I am a member
           | of the church I was raised in, but I am not local enough
           | attend. I do visit when I am with my parents but otherwise it
           | doesn't make sense. I wouldn't go join another church though
           | - even though I do attend other services in my city, I am not
           | a member at those churches
        
             | dbatten wrote:
             | Yeah, likely part of it. I think there's also been a rise
             | in non-denominational and "seeker-sensitive" churches that
             | just don't have any concept of membership at all...
        
         | bryanlarsen wrote:
         | membership != attendance. There's a joke somewhere about people
         | who only attend church for their baptism and their funeral.
        
           | hprotagonist wrote:
           | "C and E C of E" is a well known trope. (read: christmas and
           | easter church of england)
        
           | yostrovs wrote:
           | Imagine ordering from Amazon, but not being a Prime member.
           | That should help put things in a more materialistic
           | perspective.
        
         | ekianjo wrote:
         | Any source for that?
        
       | xyzelement wrote:
       | There's a great discourse in one of Dan Brown's books about
       | whether people leave religion because they have found better
       | answers elsewhere, or because they have stopped asking the
       | questions.
       | 
       | Separately, I observed that that the areligious are much more
       | likely to have few or no kids while the religious folks put a
       | much greater emphasis on it. As the secular world moves towards a
       | place where there's no pressure to marry and procreate at all,
       | how long before it is once again relegated into a demographic
       | minority?
        
         | ckdarby wrote:
         | > how long before it is once again relegated into a demographic
         | minority?
         | 
         | 2-3 more generations to go I suspect based on personal
         | experience where it'll be less than 10%.
         | 
         | My grandparents were religious and my grandma prior to covid
         | hadn't missed weekly service her whole life.
         | 
         | My parents were "partial" religious meaning they went to major
         | events and still have an identity linked to their religion.
         | 
         | I grew up in a religious environment. Decided that belief and
         | faith system wasn't for me in my teenage years and once on my
         | own became an atheist.
         | 
         | My wife and I will raise our children without it being in a
         | religious environment.
        
         | WJW wrote:
         | There was a religious leader making a similar argument some
         | time back, but I don't think it holds together all that well.
         | After all, back in the middle ages the amount of churchgoing
         | people was near 100% and religions were promoting big families
         | then just as much as now. So if religious parents "out-produce"
         | their non-religious counterparts how did we ever get to the
         | current situation where a majority is not religious?
         | 
         | The answer is of course that children choose their own way and
         | don't stay religious just because of their parents.
        
           | analyte123 wrote:
           | It could be because contraception didn't exist in the Middle
           | Ages.
        
           | anonylizard wrote:
           | From basic evolutionary biology, there is no universall
           | "fitness", only situational fitness. In the middle ages, in a
           | world without contraception, with extreme pressures to
           | marriage, without pornography or any other non-intercourse
           | sexual releases, being religious or not matters little in
           | fertility rate. Although in frankness, it still did, that's
           | how rome became christian in the first place, Christians
           | married later (so had higher chances of survival), and
           | treasured their baby girls instead of exposing them to death,
           | small fertility advantages added up expontentially over time.
           | 
           | In the 21st age, the environment has shifted so much against
           | irreligious/low commitment people in terms of reproductive
           | fitness, due to those above factors heavily selecting against
           | them. Literally only religious people, no matter what part of
           | the world you are looking at, are able to maintain above
           | replacement fertility. Irreligious people' population
           | decline, in the long run, at least 25% every generation, will
           | be far faster than they can "convert" religious people. Look
           | at the amish and mormon fertility rates, read decades of
           | research by Eric Kaufmann, and the answer is rather self
           | evident
        
         | simiones wrote:
         | "religiousness" is not likely to be an inheritable genetic
         | trait, so the children of a religious person may or may not be
         | religious themselves, and vice-versa. The overall culture is
         | likely to have a more powerful impact on this than solely
         | parenting.
        
           | criddell wrote:
           | You don't think that the children of religious parents are
           | more likely to be religious than children of atheists?
        
             | Falling3 wrote:
             | Because of genetics or the fact that they were raised by
             | religious parents?
        
         | Jedd wrote:
         | I'm tempted to think that the correlation isn't religion per
         | se, but rather a pragmatic attitude towards the 7b people on
         | the planet today.
         | 
         | If you're reasonably 'rational' (but not especially religious)
         | you're not going to look at those numbers and think procreation
         | is compelling for the sake of keeping the tribe alive.
         | 
         | OTOH if you're thinking that your particular religion needs a
         | numbers boost, then the imperative may feel differently.
        
         | ramblerman wrote:
         | If you take away the "god" element, and adopt a Nietschze
         | approach to religion/culture, i.e. its utility over
         | generations, and where it ends up.
         | 
         | Then areligious would seem to be a pretty useless offshoot, if
         | its always doomed to die out.
         | 
         | Perhaps a third state exists, with purpose and optimism to
         | bring children into the world, but not born out of abrahamic
         | religions.
        
           | twobitshifter wrote:
           | I think that areligious is not a state in itself but a void
           | to be filled. There are secular truths or causes that people
           | adopt and follow with the same passion as those that follow
           | religion.
        
         | Someone wrote:
         | There's out- and inflow, too ((children of) the religious
         | becoming areligious and vice-versa).
         | 
         | I expect those to more than compensate for the religious having
         | more kids, on average.
        
         | hn_throwaway_99 wrote:
         | > how long before it is once again relegated into a demographic
         | minority?
         | 
         | Many children of religious people are areligous, which is a
         | primary reason how we got to < 50% church membership in the
         | first place.
        
       | dotsam wrote:
       | People seek power, and God can be thought of as the highest form
       | of power. Religion empowers some people by building a
       | relationship between them and the supreme power of God. It also
       | offers other empowering benefits like community, tradition and
       | sense of purpose. But our will to power can be satisfied in many
       | ways, and the opportunities for pursuing power have increased
       | over time. Organized religion is being out-competed by
       | alternative sources of satisfaction of the will to power.
        
       | wwarner wrote:
       | For the life of me, I cannot remember his name and I cannot find
       | a reference, but there is a post-war German theologian who
       | _celebrated_ the kind of personal Christianity that doesn 't
       | require a church hierarchy, arguing that acting independently
       | with the values of the faith without being told what to do is the
       | best outcome.
        
         | randcraw wrote:
         | Well Martin Luther certainly qualifies, but I can't guess what
         | war you have in mind that took place before 1517.
        
       | justinzollars wrote:
       | Observation (please don't hate me):
       | 
       | Originally I am from Ohio and I've lived in SF for 12 years. I am
       | not very religious. In college, I lived next door to a cult like
       | "Young Life" Christian club.
       | 
       | I notice people with extreme left wing fervor in the Bay Area
       | behave in a similar manner to the Young Life crew. My thesis is:
       | Their political beliefs are an independent variable and are not
       | important. Had they grown up in a red state, their personality
       | type would have been selected for and they would have become
       | religious young life members rather than left wing activists.
       | People who are right wing in the bay area, have more in common
       | with those who were not religious in the midwest, going against
       | the grain of society.
       | 
       | In short politics has become a modern religion and is replacing
       | religion. And your personality type is being selected for, in
       | your proclivity to join a group; either religious or political.
        
         | nathanaldensr wrote:
         | So "meet the new boss, same as the old boss." They all want to
         | lord over me, whether religious or political. The distinction
         | isn't important to me as I'm forced to bear _their_ crosses
         | regardless.
         | 
         | FWIW I don't hate you. :)
        
       | consumer451 wrote:
       | At the risk of sounding very cold-hearted I am very happy to see
       | this happening.
       | 
       | At its core, belief in a higher power is magical thinking.
       | 
       | Considering the problems we face as a species, we can no longer
       | afford magical thinking.
        
       | avasylev wrote:
       | I've never been religious but for 30+ years I always considered
       | myself christian. If asked on such survey, I'd answer with the
       | church I used to go twice a year for Christmas and Easter. One
       | day I watched Ricky Gervais give interview on Cobert show (who's
       | religios). And geez those jokes made me realize I'm actually and
       | atheist. Now I would answer with no affiliation. From my friends
       | observation, many are on the same edge, where practically they
       | are gone from church, but may still show up on survey. In such
       | cases those membership rates are going to drop a lot and fast.
        
       | kaydub wrote:
       | My wife and MiL both stopped going to church and no longer will
       | go to their old church due to it becoming a mouthpiece of
       | Trump(ism).
        
       | throwaway0b1 wrote:
       | This may be a very bad idea.
       | 
       | But as (in the words of the at-present top comment) a
       | fundamentalist adhering to scriptural literalism (aka a
       | conservative Lutheran) [addendum: who does not hate everyone], I
       | feel compelled to offer to answer questions anyone might have for
       | me, so AMA.
       | 
       | I don't really want to individually respond to everything
       | throughout the rest of the comments, but I will begin by saying
       | that most churches have either very little by way of actual
       | bible-based doctrine, or very little by way of in-depth theology.
       | (Prosperity gospel/megachurches fall in the latter, a decent
       | portion of other churches - eg. the Roman Catholic Church - fall
       | in the former.)
       | 
       | Responses will be sporadic throughout the day, I'm a bit busy at
       | the moment, but I'll do my best to get to it.
        
         | Context_free wrote:
         | > adhering to scriptural literalism
         | 
         | What scripture? As Bart Ehrman has written in his books
         | condensing scholarly tomes for the layman, there are many
         | scriptures, and we don't have the originals. The Comma
         | Johanneum being the clearest passage that there is a trinity is
         | not found in the Greek until the 15th century. Mark thought to
         | be the earliest gospel, it ends without a clear resurrection
         | from the earliest manuscripts - a resurrection was tacked on
         | later. The story of the adulteress Jesus refused to condemn is
         | not found in the earliest scriptures. And on and on. Much of
         | contemporary scripture were things invented centuries after the
         | events recorded.
        
           | throwawaygal7 wrote:
           | Scholars are pretty divided on the long ending of mark , it's
           | TRUE to say the oldest codices do not include it, but some
           | old manuscripts do.
           | 
           | There's also some slight of hand being done by Erhman, the
           | codex Vaticanus does not include the ending but the scribe
           | has left space for it at the end of the chapter, showing that
           | they had access to it and were debating putting it in... So
           | you can say 'oldest manuscripts don't have it' but that isnt
           | as conclusive as one might assume... This slight of hand is
           | extremely common in Erhmans work.
           | 
           | As far as the woman taken in adultery, this passage is found
           | in early manuscripts/lectuonaries but its position is being
           | moved around d. Erhman is more committed to selling books and
           | impressing undergrad baptists at UNC than be is with nuanced
           | treatment of the facts...and his background as a low church
           | protestant shines through all his work.... From an easterner
           | perspective it's far less persuasive
        
         | thrww20210329 wrote:
         | What do you think of the many miracles that the Catholic Church
         | has received?
         | 
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Miracle_of_the_Sun
        
           | throwaway0b1 wrote:
           | I don't know enough about those events to make a judgement.
           | Is this intended to lead to a broader question as to my views
           | about the Catholic church?
        
         | xivzgrev wrote:
         | Here's some to kickstart things. Genuinely curious
         | 
         | 1) did you grow up in the church you currently belong to or did
         | you join later? If the former, did you ever explore other ones?
         | Why/why not?
         | 
         | 2) there can be doubt about what the Bible literally says given
         | the number of authors, editors, and time involved. For example,
         | someone chose x word when translating to English, that also
         | could have meant y. Or, x book was included and y book was not.
         | What are your thoughts on this?
         | 
         | 3) there are a lot of rules in the Bible, especially one like
         | Letiviticus (sp?). As someone adhering to literalism, do you
         | aspire to follow them all? If not, which ones do you? If so,
         | how do you deal with (likely) not following them all?
         | 
         | 4) how do you keep your faith nourished / going in today's
         | society, where membership in churches is declining and Internet
         | denizens can have a lot of skepticism toward religion?
        
           | sumtechguy wrote:
           | I can help here as I have a similar background.
           | 
           | 1) yes I did. I did not join later. I have attended many
           | other church's. Many are trying to put butts in seats and are
           | focusing on which distortion peddle gets more people in than
           | using the scriptures and lessons in those words to do it. If
           | you read the gospels you will find them full of life lessons
           | you can apply right now, today.
           | 
           | 2) This is an issue. What is more of an issue is the way
           | words can and do change meaning over the years. So you can
           | have a translation from 100 years ago and it takes on a
           | different meaning. All because the choice of words they used
           | just happens to mean something similar now vs then. The cure
           | is to read many translations. Also keep things in context.
           | There are online resources which you can use if you are
           | unclear on a particular meaning in that context and go back
           | to the original texts. Context for many translations is also
           | the context of the year it was translated. There are also
           | some translations that leave things out, or change the
           | meaning, because they decided for you what you should hear so
           | you have to watch out for those.
           | 
           | 3) Many of those rules are wiped clean at the end of the 4
           | gospels. As the price has been paid. But there is a simpler
           | price to pay.
           | 
           | 4) It is good to find a church in your area that sticks to
           | the gospels. Does not try to be trendy and use worldly
           | lessons replacing gospel. That does not mean they do not talk
           | about world events, but that they do not take on fads. There
           | is also a _huge_ amount of youtube and individual pages you
           | can go to. In many ways the internet has made it even easier
           | to converge all of these resources. Remember many searching
           | engines try to tailor your search to what you like. So you
           | may not even be seeing them.
           | 
           | I would also add many times you find that if it is out of
           | context it is someone trying to distort a meaning. The trick
           | is do not feed the trolls and ignore them.
        
           | CivBase wrote:
           | I'm not OP, but I felt compelled to offer my own response to
           | this one. Hopefully some people find my perspective
           | interesting.
           | 
           | 1) I grew up in a different church - the Catholic church. It
           | felt more like a social club than anything else so I grew up
           | with barely any understanding of the religion to which I
           | supposedly subscribed. I became somewhat jaded towards large,
           | organized religious organizations and floated around a few
           | smaller-scale churches as I tried to learn more about
           | Christianity and, in particular, the Bible. I no longer
           | attend a "church" but I regularly attend lecture-style bible
           | studies put on by a local middle school teacher.
           | 
           | 2) One of the things that appeals to me about the Bible study
           | I attend is that it's very _very_ slow compared to most
           | churches. We often spend an hour doing nothing but covering
           | as few as one or two verses. That time is spent analyzing the
           | text by comparing translations, linking it to related verses,
           | explaining the Hebrew /Greek words used in various
           | manuscripts, filling in historical context with what we know
           | from archeology and other ancient records, and comparing
           | interpretations of various theologians and denominations.
           | Often times the teacher will present his own interpretation,
           | but invite us to be critical and point to other possible
           | interpretations.
           | 
           | One thing I've discovered since leaving the Catholic church
           | is that studying the Bible goes far beyond just listening to
           | sermons and reading what ever hard copy happens to be most
           | accessible to you at the time. It's hard work and I'm not
           | surprised most people aren't interested. I doubt I'd get far
           | if there weren't scholars and teachers compiling and
           | presenting the information for my benefit.
           | 
           | 3) This question inclines me to believe you don't understand
           | a fundamental aspect of Christianity, which is that God's sun
           | (Jesus) was made a sacrifice so that humans would no longer
           | be bound by sin or the laws of Moses. Christianity teaches
           | that people are saved by faith alone, not by adhering to laws
           | or refraining from sin. Or course, part of that belief
           | suggests a desire to recognize and refrain from sin. I do not
           | use grace as an excuse to sin, but I recognize that I fail
           | from time to time and so does everyone else. Also, while
           | societies values sometimes align with those described in the
           | Bible, I do not expect non-believers to adhere to Christian
           | values nor do I have any desire to enshrine Christian values
           | in secular law.
           | 
           | 4) It's interesting how many people have strong opinions on
           | Biblical Christianity without knowing hardly anything about
           | it. I still consider myself a complete novice, but I know
           | enough to recognize how shallow a lot of the criticism is. Of
           | course, there is also plenty of intelligent criticism and I
           | don't pretend to have all the answers nor can I promise that
           | future me wont be persuaded to abandon his faith. But so far
           | I simply haven't seen anything that compels me to believe the
           | Bible is wrong.
           | 
           | Some people believe science and the Bible are at odds with
           | one another, but I don't see how. I've had no trouble
           | embracing both and I'm perfectly capable of differentiating
           | between knowledge based on science and knowledge based on the
           | Bible.
        
           | throwaway0b1 wrote:
           | 1. Grew up there.
           | 
           | 2a. "Verbal inspiration" - while the words were written by
           | people and they certainly did recount their experiences in
           | their own styles (perhaps involving consulting others who had
           | been there), but God (through the Holy Spirit) breathed into
           | them the words they were to write (cf. 2 Timothy 3:16).
           | Basically God's not going to be like "eh oh well whatever if
           | the Bible just goes away."
           | 
           | 2b. Translation is, inherently, inexact. This is why it's
           | good for pastors to learn Greek and Hebrew; but there are two
           | main points I'd like to make here. The first is that while
           | not all of the meaning may be conveyed perfectly, there is a
           | lot of effort that has been put into ensuring that the
           | essence will remain there. The second is that, when the
           | meaning may be initially unclear, let Scripture interpret
           | Scripture.
           | 
           | 2c. As for which books are included and which are not, I
           | haven't researched this enough to give a thorough answer.
           | 
           | 3. Laws are divided into three categories: civil, ceremonial,
           | and moral. Civil is laws to govern the nation of Israel,
           | which don't apply today. Ceremonial laws related to the
           | worship life of Israel. Jesus is, in essence, the fulfillment
           | of these laws (cf. Romans 10:4, Acts 15); as such, we are no
           | longer required to follow them. This leaves the moral law,
           | God's will for believers. Most of the 10 commandments fall
           | into this category (as summarized further by Jesus saying
           | "love God and love your neighbor"). Anyway (as pointed out
           | below), Jesus kept the entire law because we, with our sinful
           | nature, cannot.
           | 
           | 4. I'm lucky enough to have a church that believes what I
           | believe near me; regular bible studies and a few online
           | devotions that I follow also help.
           | 
           | This was a but rushed to finish; sorry. Feel free to follow
           | up.
        
           | luxuryballs wrote:
           | The entire point of the law was to show that it couldn't be
           | followed, they nearly always failed miserably, even the most
           | famous and well regarded people in the Old Testament that
           | were spoken very highly of like Abraham and David had their
           | fair share of major fuck ups. The point was to show that we
           | couldn't do it, we were fundamentally flawed and needed
           | Christ to take the burden on our behalf, and needed to be
           | wholly remade through death, "born again" literally as a new
           | creation, into a new lineage, that of Christ, after dying to
           | the lineage of Adam that we inherited from our parents. It
           | was never about doing enough right to outpace the wrong, it
           | was always lineage and inheritance that determined our fate.
           | 
           | This paved the way for the Holy Spirit to come at Pentecost
           | and basically kick off the church which has been growing and
           | spreading from there ever since, and the church has only ever
           | grown, never has it lost numbers, because it's not an
           | institution of man measured by attendance, those who are born
           | again and counted cannot become "un" born again.
           | 
           | It also says that the path to life is narrow and few find it,
           | there was never a heavenly expectation that they would ever
           | be in the majority, despite that there is also a desire for
           | all to be saved.
           | 
           | The difference is the human view and the God view. We were
           | instructed to have the human view and act accordingly, spread
           | the gospel far and wide because we didn't know where the seed
           | would fall and take root even though God knows, he didn't
           | want us to be choosy, that is his domain. All part of this
           | grand cosmic theater that is infinitely beyond my limited
           | perspective.
        
         | freddybobs wrote:
         | What's your take on the dead sea scrolls ?
         | 
         | How do the aspects of the early church align with scriptural
         | literalism? Specifically the split of the early church between
         | Paul and Jesus brother James. James was Jesus's choice to lead
         | the church in his absence. A direction which aligned more with
         | Judaism - including circumcision, and kosher foods. Yet later
         | Christianity revolves around Paul at odds vision. Paul was a
         | Roman who 'saw the light' whilst being sent after Jesus. He
         | never met Jesus. His version of 'Christianity' didn't require
         | those aspects - not least because adult male Romans who were
         | interested in Christianity, weren't too keen on circumcision.
         | 
         | If this is correct, it means modern Christianity, is not based
         | on Jesus stated future direction of his church.
         | 
         | What does your 'scriptural literalism' say about this? If your
         | literature doesn't cover these aspects - then what is decided
         | is canonical and what is not? Presumably such a distinction has
         | to be outside of said literature - and therefore not 'scriptual
         | literalism'. Implying 'scriptual literalism' itself is not
         | grounded.
         | 
         | I should probably also say that it seems to me that claiming
         | 'scriptual literalism' is a defensive position against claims
         | of subjectivity. It is 'literal' and therefore not subjective.
         | This is a fallacy - as there is always subjectivity and
         | interpretation in human understanding, and certainly in
         | interpreting something as nuanced and contradictory as the
         | bible.
         | 
         | This might come across as somewhat aggressive questioning, and
         | I'm sorry for that - but I am legitimately curious how it
         | works.
        
           | throwaway0b1 wrote:
           | Indeed, some points were a bit unclear. This is literalism in
           | the sense of "God is real, created the world, Jesus lived and
           | died to save you from your sins", not "there is no figurative
           | language in the bible" or "the Bible is a bunch of stories
           | about how to be a good person."
           | 
           | One important phrase in interpreting Scripture is "let
           | Scripture interpret Scripture." (cf. 1 Cor 1:18f, Romans
           | 11:33-35, 2 Cor 10:5 - our reason is not capable of fully
           | understanding God, so we interpret it as his Word says and
           | leave it at that.)
           | 
           | I should point you toward the Council of Jerusalem for part
           | of the early history of the church, and I'm not really sure
           | where you're coming from with the rest.
           | 
           | As for the rest (mostly about the history of biblical
           | manuscripts), could you please put what I missed into a
           | couple more clear questions?
        
           | cat199 wrote:
           | > If this is correct, it means modern Christianity, is not
           | based on Jesus stated future direction of his church.
           | 
           | One view is that this was resolved at the council described
           | in acts, and all agreed. The view that there was some paul-
           | led split that is covered up by the selection of the NT canon
           | is often used by detractors of christianity, who typically
           | try to frame Jesus as purely a jewish reformer, and that Paul
           | was some 'kook' that invented his own religion (despite the
           | texts that he was working with, rather than against, the rest
           | of the apostles).
           | 
           | YMMV, but probably useful to be just as skeptical to sources
           | on both sides when trying to ascertain what might have
           | actually happened historically
        
           | Context_free wrote:
           | > It is 'literal' and therefore not subjective. This is a
           | fallacy - as there is always subjectivity and interpretation
           | in human understanding, and certainly in interpreting
           | something as nuanced and contradictory as the bible.
           | 
           | At the sermon on the mount, Jesus said "you are the salt of
           | the earth". A literal take would be Jesus was saying the
           | listeners were salt. You can be subjective and think this is
           | a metaphor, but allowing for metaphors in the bible puts an
           | end to literalism.
        
           | throwawaygal7 wrote:
           | the universally considered authentic Pauline epistles are
           | commonly dated from the mid 40s to the late fifties AD.... So
           | any arguments made about church leadership 'before' then are
           | arguing from a very small body of evidence (luke/acts) ...
           | rather a less persuasive argument than the iron clad one you
           | present here.
        
           | phd514 wrote:
           | I'm not sure where you're getting some of these ideas. Paul
           | was very much a Jew. He trained under Gamaliel, one of the
           | most prominent Jewish rabbis of the time. He did also have
           | Roman citizenship, but those two things were not mutually
           | exclusive.
           | 
           | Also, James, while prominent in the early church, was not in
           | any sense Jesus's choice to lead the church. The closest
           | thing to a single designated leader of the church was Peter
           | though that is a point of contention between Roman
           | Catholicism and Protestantism. Nowhere are circumcision or
           | kosher foods required for Christianity, either.
        
         | bopbeepboop wrote:
         | Thanks for doing this!
         | 
         | (Don't have questions; just encouraging more not-mega church
         | public Christianity.)
        
           | throwaway0b1 wrote:
           | You're welcome!
           | 
           | Hopefully it goes well.
        
         | Balgair wrote:
         | A quick google search for 'contradictions in the {bible, new
         | testament, jesus, etc.}' turns up a fair few pages. Viewing
         | them either gives the answer as zero full-stop, or a long list
         | of subject and their relevant citations. In looking at the
         | citations, there does seem to be merit to the contradictory
         | claims. I'll admit that the contradictions are a bit 'small'
         | and may not always alter the main theme or may mix up the new
         | and old testaments, but they seem to exist nonetheless.
         | 
         | I may not be all that up to date on what 'scriptural
         | literalism' is exactly defined as, but as a lay person that
         | would mean to me that contradictions would be a difficult
         | circle to square.
         | 
         | What do you make of such contradictions and how do they affect
         | your adherence, if at all?
        
           | throwaway0b1 wrote:
           | Looking through the top few, most appear to be intentional
           | misinterpretation, one has to do with much of the Old
           | Testament law not applying in the New Testament (see above or
           | below somewhere), different focuses (i.e. something being
           | mentioned somewhere but not somewhere else doesn't mean it
           | didn't happen, the other may have just had a different
           | focus), etc.; if you have anything specifically you want me
           | to take a look at I can, but it generally seems to be a
           | combination of poor understanding of the Bible, failure to
           | let Scripture interpret Scripture, trying to use the human
           | mind to understand the full mind of God, etc.
        
         | phd514 wrote:
         | I think it's helpful to point out that the Bible contains a
         | variety of types of literature including historical narrative,
         | poetry, etc., some of which uses figurative language that is
         | not intended to be taken literally.
         | 
         | We all understand this when we use modern language such as
         | "sunrise" which is not literally true (the sun does not
         | actually "rise" in the sky though it appears that way to the
         | casual observer) even though we're educated enough to
         | understand basic astronomical phenomena such as the rotation of
         | the earth giving rise to daytime and nighttime.
         | 
         | A Biblical literalist who takes figurative language in the
         | Bible literally would end up making the same mistake that
         | someone taking "sunrise" literally would. This is not at all an
         | attempt to classify as figurative language all controversial or
         | supernatural claims of the Bible (its claim that Jesus was
         | crucified, buried, and raised from the dead is clearly
         | supernatural and impossible to classify as figurative), but so
         | many of the lists of contradictory claims in the Bible rely on
         | wooden interpretations of what is pretty clearly figurative
         | language.
        
           | throwaway0b1 wrote:
           | Thank you for making this point. It is important to recognize
           | that the Bible does make use of a variety of literary
           | techniques (eg. psalms, parables, etc. especially). However,
           | there are vast swathes of history throughout; it isn't just a
           | book of fictional stories.
        
           | CivBase wrote:
           | I think when people talk about a "literal" interpretation of
           | the Bible, they mean that it uses human language (including
           | figures of speech like "sunrise", number
           | rounding/approximation, etc) to describe literal, historical
           | events with exceptions for explicit fictions or metaphors
           | (such as psalms or parables).
        
       | throwaway823882 wrote:
       | Cultural politics has replaced religion. I'm sure if you did
       | another poll, 90% of the US would say they are tightly aligned
       | with a single political party and would not befriend/marry/hire
       | someone of a different party. Tribalism and belief systems aren't
       | going away, they're just changing the wallpaper.
        
       | Animats wrote:
       | Not only that, this is self-reported info from a poll.[1] Self-
       | reported church attendance in the US is about 2x higher than what
       | churches report actually showing up. Adherents.com used to have
       | statistics on this.
       | 
       | [1] https://news.gallup.com/poll/341963/church-membership-
       | falls-...
        
       | tgorgolione wrote:
       | I just came here to say that I really appreciate most of the
       | civil discussion going on here on all sides. Doesn't seem
       | entirely one-sided or extremely negative. Thanks everyone for
       | keeping it that way!
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | knodi wrote:
       | I'm not surprised and about time. Churches are taken over by the
       | GOP propaganda and used as a blunt weapon to spread lies and
       | false information by the GOP to steal their votes.
        
       | lykahb wrote:
       | There is an idea of "God-shaped hole" that is an urge to have a
       | belief in something transcendent or greater than oneself. As the
       | organized religion is in decline, politics or activism seem to
       | become a substitute that provides belief, sense of community, and
       | a vision for improving the world. This also explains why there is
       | so little rational discussion across the divide of the political
       | spectrum in the US.
       | 
       | The same political views can come from observations and
       | reasoning, or they can be ingrained as a belief and be a part of
       | one's [group] identity. In the former case a rational discussion
       | is possible. In the latter case it turns into a challenge of
       | one's personal integrity and devolves into a fight of the
       | righteous against the heretical other side.
        
       | ccn0p wrote:
       | The Christian church has gone through an interesting time in
       | 2020. Many churches have lost attendance as pastors closed their
       | doors or tried to stay out of politics, while other stronger
       | pastors who have kept their doors open despite lockdowns and are
       | speaking up against the US government with respect to threats
       | against religious freedom (eg see H.R. 5) -- those churches are
       | stronger and more vibrant than ever.
        
         | fennecfoxen wrote:
         | I'm not 100% sure who and what you're referring to (having
         | followed only my own church of late), but it's worth vaguely
         | agreeing with the sentiment that successful religious
         | establishments have some meaning -- and moreover, a meaning
         | that's materially different than what the secular world around
         | them has to offer. If they're just an extension of whatever is
         | popular these days, people will simply cut out the middleman.
        
         | timbit42 wrote:
         | This poll is about membership, not attendance.
        
         | _1100 wrote:
         | The absolute bias and lack of any self awareness present in
         | your statements here is fascinating.
         | 
         | There really is only the One Way for you, isn't there?
         | 
         | Call me brave, but I would counter that there may, in fact, be
         | at least one other way to interpret ideas like "strong",
         | "freedom", and "vibrant".
        
           | ccn0p wrote:
           | Isn't everything a bias in some way? But point taken. I don't
           | attend multiple churches, I attend one, and it, like others
           | of its ilk, has been under attack, so observations are of
           | course my own. But if you want to mute the language some,
           | let's s/strong//, s/freedom/choice, and s/vibrant/well-
           | attended.
        
             | RankingMember wrote:
             | Under attack how, exactly? By being asked to close during a
             | pandemic?
        
               | _1100 wrote:
               | Ask: Do this hard thing for the greater good
               | 
               | His Church's Response: No
               | 
               | This person obviously has no interest in understanding or
               | conversing outside of bad faith arguments and victimhood.
               | Not worth the trouble.
        
         | RankingMember wrote:
         | Do you have any evidence to back up the causal relationships
         | you're inferring?
        
       | jl6 wrote:
       | Just remember that the lake gets saltier the more it evaporates.
        
       | for_i_in_range wrote:
       | "God does not exist; but don't tell my servant, lest he slit my
       | throat in the night." - Voltaire
        
       | anonAndOn wrote:
       | The comedian Emo Philips has a well-known joke about religion
       | that may explain some of the decline in membership...
       | 
       | "Once I saw this guy on a bridge about to jump. I said, "Don't do
       | it!" He said, "Nobody loves me." I said, "God loves you. Do you
       | believe in God?"
       | 
       | He said, "Yes." I said, "Are you a Christian or a Jew?" He said,
       | "A Christian." I said, "Me, too! Protestant or Catholic?" He
       | said, "Protestant." I said, "Me, too! What franchise?" He said,
       | "Baptist." I said, "Me, too! Northern Baptist or Southern
       | Baptist?" He said, "Northern Baptist." I said, "Me, too! Northern
       | Conservative Baptist or Northern Liberal Baptist?"
       | 
       | He said, "Northern Conservative Baptist." I said, "Me, too!
       | Northern Conservative Baptist Great Lakes Region, or Northern
       | Conservative Baptist Eastern Region?" He said, "Northern
       | Conservative Baptist Great Lakes Region." I said, "Me, too!"
       | 
       | Northern Conservative Baptist Great Lakes Region Council of 1879,
       | or Northern Conservative Baptist Great Lakes Region Council of
       | 1912?" He said, "Northern Conservative Baptist Great Lakes Region
       | Council of 1912." I said, "Die, heretic!" And I pushed him over."
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | ceilingcorner wrote:
         | This is a somewhat funny joke but it doesn't actually map to
         | reality. Inter-Christian conflict is almost nonexistent in 2021
         | and has been so for probably a generation.
         | 
         | Edit: by "conflict" I mean actual real violent conflict. Not
         | people arguing on Reddit. People literally killing each other
         | (or pushing them off bridges) because they are "heretics." This
         | doesn't happen much at all anymore in the Christian world. Even
         | the edge cases like Northern Ireland have little to do with
         | actual religious differences. That issue is mostly political in
         | nature and revolves around the relationship of Ireland to Great
         | Britain, not the intricacies of the Christian religion.
         | 
         | It's easy to observe the difference when you look at the Muslim
         | world, where there still is a lot of violent conflict and
         | people being persecuted or killed because they are "heretics."
        
           | kajecounterhack wrote:
           | Maybe you need to clarify by what you mean by conflict -- do
           | you mean violent conflict? Because ideological conflict and
           | schism seems quite high between denominations, christian
           | branches, and even within congregations. E.g Rob Bell vs
           | Francis Chan / Tim Keller on whether hell is real and if Rob
           | Bell is going there. A lot of evangelical groups today are
           | "non-denominational" meaning they face these ideological
           | clashes within their congregations.
           | 
           | I mean, as an atheist it seems obvious that they're all
           | facing the problem of ill-defined views causing confusion.
           | There's no ground truth so everyone's just interpreting it
           | how they feel is right, whether that's by focusing on literal
           | biblicisms or focusing on real world feedback / interpersonal
           | relationships, and the lines are drawn around litmus test
           | issues across the spectrum of christian beliefs.
        
           | simonh wrote:
           | The violence is just the punchline that makes it a joke. The
           | point is how ludicrous it is that people take these minuscule
           | differences in dogma seriously, and just how seriously they
           | do take it. That's what maps to reality.
        
           | NotSammyHagar wrote:
           | In the us it's conservative christians against everyone else
           | (mostly evangelicals but multiple other groups too, and they
           | also fight among themselves).
           | 
           | The group that isn't fighting much is liberal christians (I
           | try to define them as accepting homosexuality) and non
           | believers. Those are the groups not fighting.
        
           | LeifCarrotson wrote:
           | As an atheist apostate who was raised in a fundamentalist,
           | Baptist, Christian church in the Great Lakes region, it hits
           | pretty close to home.
           | 
           | I was last in church a couple weeks ago for a funeral; it was
           | a little weird hearing about the ways people from various
           | highly-similar churches talked about Grandma's spiritual
           | history as she was enlightened from her Christian Reformed
           | early childhood to know a living and true God. Did she know
           | the theological differences at age 10? We talked about the
           | effect she had as the matriarch of our extended family
           | bringing everyone together for decades by sponsoring an
           | annual summer trip to a nearby Bible conference ground, and
           | about how she justifiably ended that when the Bible
           | conference lost their way and endorsed some speakers with
           | relatively minor theological differences.
           | 
           | It's not "conflict" in the sense of the Spanish Inquisition -
           | no one, as far as I know, would genuinely push someone off a
           | bridge for being in a different sect - but around here they'd
           | pray for the person to accept the truth, call for church
           | discipline/excommunication/speaking bans if in a position of
           | power, or they'd leave the church and find a slightly
           | different sect that didn't make the wrong call on whatever
           | issue was brought up by the council of 1912.
           | 
           | There's a paradox of intolerance at play: A group that aims
           | to be universally tolerant cannot actually tolerate
           | intolerance, and fundamentalist Christianity advocates a
           | singular, accurately understood, unique truth at its core.
           | You can and tolerate love those who hold different theologies
           | all you want, but if you believe in one absolute universal
           | truth as a lot of Christian culture does, then anyone who
           | believes even a little bit differently is not right, which is
           | to say, by definition, they're _wrong_.
        
             | jimbob45 wrote:
             | Karl Popper was a moron. You can tolerate intolerance just
             | fine by assuming there will be someone equally intolerant
             | of such intolerance.
             | 
             | I wish people would stop quoting that denthead. It's as
             | silly as people claiming the Qu'ran has passages
             | specifically commanding them to blow people up.
        
               | alexeldeib wrote:
               | Your conclusion is definitionally the same as Popper's?
               | Intolerance of intolerance is the solution. It is only a
               | "paradox" in that unlimited tolerance leads to this
               | seemingly backwards outcome of the triumph of
               | intolerance.
        
               | jimbob45 wrote:
               | The difference is that Popper thinks you yourself must be
               | the intolerant one. I'm saying that if intolerance
               | exists, then someone else will take care of it because
               | they too must surely exist.
        
               | Grieving wrote:
               | Taken to its logical conclusion, nothing can be tolerated
               | but tolerance itself.
               | 
               | Kind of an inversion of Chesterton's 'Tolerance is the
               | virtue of the man without convictions.'
        
           | ddoran wrote:
           | The "Troubles" in Northern Ireland may be over but there is
           | still tension and violence in Northern Ireland between a
           | subset of Catholics and Protestants. The sectarian violence
           | still happens but does not get reported internationally
           | because the scale is so much lower than it was up to 2010,
           | but to say Inter-Christian conflict has been non-existent for
           | a generation (25 years?) is wishful thinking at best.
        
             | ceilingcorner wrote:
             | See my edit.
        
           | [deleted]
        
           | germinalphrase wrote:
           | Idk, man... about two years ago, I heard an evangelical dude
           | say Catholics aren't even Christians. As a Catholic, I found
           | it a bit startling to learn that I am - by default - going to
           | hell.
        
             | Rule35 wrote:
             | You don't know, they might be of the opinion that a good
             | life dedicated to Jesus may be enough, regardless of how
             | you dress it up.
             | 
             | But, from outside, they appear to be at least half right.
             | 
             | The catholic church seems to be less _CHRIST_ ian and more
             | ... Trinity-ian. I assume it's a fairly large difference on
             | the ground as one is all about a single person, born a
             | regular man, who brings forgiveness for unintentional sins.
             | The other, a story about a much more conscious god who
             | manifests himself in a young body and proceeds to lecture
             | on morality and the afterlife.
        
             | reducesuffering wrote:
             | Pop by r/catholic and you'll come across some people's
             | hush-hush Catholic views that Martin Luther was evil by
             | leading away millions to eternal damnation because there's
             | no salvation outside The Catholic Church.
        
               | germinalphrase wrote:
               | No doubt. I've known some pretty insulated, hateful
               | Catholics.
        
               | slumdev wrote:
               | The Church has always taught that schism and heresy are
               | mortal sins, and the teaching hasn't changed, even if
               | most clergy don't talk about it.
        
             | boomboomsubban wrote:
             | Catholicism also teaches that every non-Catholic person is
             | going to hell.
        
               | epistasis wrote:
               | Catholicism isn't monolithic apparently, because that
               | does not appear to be the first answer in a web search:
               | 
               | https://www.catholic.com/qa/do-non-catholic-christians-
               | go-to...
        
               | boomboomsubban wrote:
               | This says non-Catholics who have not committed a mortal
               | sin can go to heaven, which includes "have no other God
               | before me." Further, I'm pretty sure they consider the
               | sacrament of baptism necessary to go to heaven, defacto
               | ruling out every non-catholic.
               | 
               |  _edit_ I 'm apparently somewhat misremembering things,
               | and any non-catholic without a mortal sin has a supposed
               | chance, but I still would say that rules out all non-
               | catholics.
        
               | slumdev wrote:
               | To be a little more precise, Catholicism teaches that
               | every person in Heaven is a Catholic (even if they
               | weren't necessarily a Catholic on earth.) It admits
               | baptism by desire and the possibility of salvation of
               | those who are invincibly ignorant.
               | 
               | But, at the same time, Catholic tradition has always
               | maintained that even most Catholics end up in Hell.
               | There's even biblical support for the idea in the
               | "wide"/"narrow gate" language of the Gospels.
               | 
               | So, if Catholicism is the one true Faith, and even most
               | Catholics end up in Hell, why would anyone reason that
               | those outside of the one true Faith have good odds?
        
               | relaxing wrote:
               | That's not true. It was long debated, and finally
               | clarified in the Vatican II (in the mid 1960s.)
               | 
               | Any Catholic still saying that today is going against the
               | Church.
        
             | meepmorp wrote:
             | Was it because the Catholic Church is the Whore of Babylon
             | from Revelations, or because it's secretly a pagan religion
             | that worships Saints and the Virgin Mary as gods? I love
             | the rationales people put forward for that kind of stuff.
             | 
             | For a Guy purportedly trying to bring salvation to
             | humanity, some Jesus's followers do seem to relish
             | opportunities to keep the everyone they can out of the
             | Kingdom.
        
               | mulmen wrote:
               | I have been told the same thing. In my case it was just
               | that they didn't know other forms of Christianity existed
               | other than their own.
        
               | Igelau wrote:
               | > a pagan religion that worships Saints and the Virgin
               | Mary as gods
               | 
               | Sometimes I put on my 2edgy4u atheist cap and needle my
               | lapsed-Catholic wife with that notion. It looks like a
               | duck and a quacks like a duck, call it veneration if you
               | like -- it's still a duck. And I do point out that
               | there's nothing wrong with that. Given the choices I'd
               | rather worship a once-mortal mother goddess than a
               | tripartite sky-father who spends most of the book being
               | terrible.
        
           | simplify wrote:
           | This is only true as far as how most Christians and churches
           | are so casual in their beliefs, there's no meaningful
           | difference in their lifestyle vs a non-believer's.
        
           | haberman wrote:
           | I don't think that's true. Churches are deeply divided on
           | some core issues, and in some cases are splitting over these
           | differences: https://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory/united-
           | methodist-conserv...
        
             | ceilingcorner wrote:
             | That link is about Methodists splitting over a fairly big
             | issue (gay marriage) and not the minute differences
             | referred to in the parent comment.
        
               | haberman wrote:
               | I was replying to "Inter-Christian conflict is almost
               | nonexistent in 2021". That's a fairly categorical
               | statement, and seems plainly false.
        
         | brobdingnagians wrote:
         | And yet our society is more polarized than ever. From your
         | anecdote, one would think that declining religion would result
         | in peace and love overflowing in society, but we see the
         | opposite. Public morality cannot be maintained without
         | religion; we will sadly see the end result of that in coming
         | years.
        
           | ouid wrote:
           | Are you claiming that marginally declining religiosity is the
           | dominant factor to be considered in the breakdown of "public
           | morality"? Among such factors as 50 years of stagnant wages
           | and the rise of social media?
        
           | mahogany wrote:
           | > Public morality cannot be maintained without religion
           | 
           | Do you have evidence or arguments for this, or is this just a
           | feeling? I can see an argument for the statement "religion
           | can be and has been used to maintain public morality" but
           | that's not what you said, so I'm curious about your
           | reasoning.
        
             | Alenycus wrote:
             | What is morality? It is not a physical material phenomenon
             | and it is not scientific, so if it exists it is by
             | definition supernatural or its synonym metaphysical
             | 
             | Once you are discussing the supernatural, you are
             | discussing religion.
        
               | mahogany wrote:
               | Since the topic of this thread is about church
               | membership, I would assume religion in this context
               | refers to organized religion, rather than such an
               | abstract definition, in which case someone can believe in
               | the supernatural without being religious.
               | 
               | But in either case, I'm a little confused. Wouldn't this
               | line of reasoning apply to laws as well? They aren't
               | physical or (necessarily) scientific. And are you saying
               | that any study of metaphysics is necessarily religious in
               | nature? Perhaps we are using different definitions of
               | religion.
               | 
               | If you are making an argument that notions of morality do
               | not (or did not) arise from science, or that morality
               | arose from religion, I think that would have weight to
               | it. But that also doesn't imply that morality cannot
               | continue to exist without religion. For example, it's
               | plausible to me that a sense of shared community is
               | something that can "maintain morality" in a society. We
               | may have lost a sense of community in part due to the
               | decline of churches, but I don't see why it would require
               | them to exist.
        
           | hkarthik wrote:
           | It's an interesting argument that you lay out, and as
           | agnostic that came from a religious family, it's something
           | that I've personally grappled with. In the absence of
           | religion, where do people find their moral and ethical
           | compass? I wasn't raised atheist, and when I ask atheists
           | this question they often dismiss it as not important or
           | obvious. I feel like that's half the reason religion
           | persists, because they actually attempt to answer such
           | questions with respect.
        
             | leetcrew wrote:
             | so depending on how you phrase that question, it can be
             | perceived as an insult. it almost implies that, by default,
             | an atheist wouldn't have a moral compass. I'm not saying
             | you think that, just that it's a plausible interpretation
             | for someone who's already feeling a bit defensive. also
             | some atheists are just obnoxious.
             | 
             | but maybe I can answer your question. I think of morality
             | as a way to rationalize the emotions I feel when someone
             | treats me a certain way or I treat someone else a certain
             | way. my morals are rules I can feel good about following.
        
               | ddoolin wrote:
               | I don't feel very defensive about it, but it is
               | definitely insulting to me because to be an insult is
               | about their intent. As far as my dad knew, I was Catholic
               | until 3 months ago (when in reality I've been off that
               | for 20 years) and suddenly I don't have a moral compass.
               | He'll attribute what I have to my upbringing despite him
               | being in absentia for nearly all of it. Cue eye rolling.
        
             | Tarsul wrote:
             | compassion and empathy shouldn't come from believing in
             | God. It should come from believing that humans are all the
             | same, meaning that you shouldn't do to others what you
             | wouldn't want to be done to yourself because otherwise how
             | could you expect other people to treat you fairly if you
             | yourself don't do it? At least that's where I stand and I
             | attribute this feeling of compassion a lot more to cartoons
             | of the 80s and 90s than I do to what I learned in the
             | church. I'm not in the church anymore because I don't
             | believe in God. But I believe in values and if being in
             | church helps to give you good values then church is worth
             | it for society. I see this pragmatically.
        
             | tomp wrote:
             | > In the absence of religion, where do people find their
             | moral and ethical compass?
             | 
             | You do all the same things, except: (1) you can make your
             | own choices depending on your own reasoning (e.g. you can
             | independently decide whether circumcision/being gay is good
             | or bad, independent of what any religion says), and (2)
             | you're doing things to be _good_ , not to please _god_.
             | 
             | In fact, I consider people who are "moral" just because god
             | says so / you fear the consequences / you want to go to
             | heaven to actually be immoral. It's akin to only helping in
             | an accident if the person is rich - you're not doing it
             | because it's the right thing to do, you're just doing it to
             | get something in return.
             | 
             |  _Edit:_ you can also pick any number of philosophical
             | frameworks of morality. Personally I oscillate between
             | golden and silver rules.
        
               | Alenycus wrote:
               | 1. This view also takes the idea that morality can be
               | reached by reason on faith I am not saying I fully
               | disagree, but even the concept of morality at its core is
               | not rational.
               | 
               | 2. It is possible to be religious and do good for the
               | sake of good. Most religious people I know do. I would
               | hope that even if I knew I was going to hell, I would
               | still live the rest of my life on accordance with God's
               | will as it is the right thing to do.
        
               | tomp wrote:
               | Well, if you're both religious and do good for the sake
               | of good, then you can still be good without being
               | religious. So that solves (1).
               | 
               | Morality is "rational" as a solution to a game theoretic
               | problem. You can also derive it via evolution (which is
               | _also_ a game theory solution).
        
             | peferron wrote:
             | I'm atheist, and my answer is simply empathy I guess? I
             | just try to treat others in the same way I want to be
             | treated.
             | 
             | People who say that morality can't exist without religion
             | are scary. If they suddenly lose their faith, are they
             | going to start hurting others? What if their religion has
             | blind spots that doesn't tell them how to behave in a
             | specific situation, or tells them that groups like gays and
             | non-believers are fair game?
        
             | rjtavares wrote:
             | Have you considered that it is not important, that it is
             | obvious?
             | 
             | As a person that wasn't raised religious, the concept that
             | you need religion to find a moral and ethical compass seems
             | weird to me. My parents taught me values, I learned them,
             | society reinforced them. They made sense to me, and I feel
             | bad when I don't follow them. The mechanics of it are
             | pretty simple.
        
               | equality_1138 wrote:
               | This seems to be a very privileged position to have. That
               | if you were taught strong ethics by parents and the right
               | social network, then everyone can obviously/simply have
               | the same?
        
               | anonAndOn wrote:
               | Your comment squares with that guy on the $5 bill and the
               | penny.
               | 
               | "When I do good, I feel good. When I do bad, I feel bad.
               | That's my religion."
               | 
               | -- Abraham Lincoln
        
               | caseysoftware wrote:
               | Your line of reasoning is similar to "where does food
               | come from? The grocery store, obviously!"
               | 
               | The underlying question is not how _YOU_ got your moral
               | compass but where do the people who taught you yours -
               | and eventually society as a whole - get theirs.
               | 
               | If it's a set of principles that civil society generally
               | agrees upon, then the rest are implementation details
               | that will vary from situation to situation.
               | 
               | If it's a set of whims of the people in power and will
               | vary regularly and constantly, then "damnation" comes
               | from breaking today's rules.. maybe without even knowing
               | what they are.
        
               | rjtavares wrote:
               | Your line of reasoning is similar to "Food comes from
               | animals and plants. But where does animals and plants'
               | food comes from?". Do you want to go all the way up to
               | the Big Bang?
               | 
               | You learn your ethics from a combination of your parents
               | and society, and you update your beliefs during your
               | life, you share them to a younger generation. Repeat
               | since humans acquired a conscience until humans cease to
               | exist. That's all there is to it.
        
               | ceilingcorner wrote:
               | No, that isn't all there is to it. You are simply
               | ignorant of the foundations of your beliefs.
        
               | rjtavares wrote:
               | I can assure you I am not: they include the Roman Empire,
               | the Catholic Church, the Enlightenment, the French
               | Revolution, and Marx.
               | 
               | However, the question was:
               | 
               | > In the absence of religion, where do people find their
               | moral and ethical compass?
               | 
               | That's what I was answering to.
        
               | hkarthik wrote:
               | I think having a moral compass is important, because a
               | lot of people will optimize for themselves in the short
               | term, and screw up society in the long term. But I don't
               | think this is obvious at all to people unless they're
               | taught, or if they are really good at learning from their
               | own mistakes.
               | 
               | I think others have pointed this out to you, but there is
               | a high dependence on people learning this through good
               | parenting, good teachers, and being around the right
               | people, all while having security for things like food,
               | shelter, etc.
               | 
               | Some of those things get wrapped up in the over-arching
               | term called "privilege" but I think there is something to
               | be said for the fact that you can't assume most people
               | are securing these things. But you can assume that in the
               | absence of this kind of security, many people (maybe even
               | most) will lose their moral compass.
        
             | ddoolin wrote:
             | I think nowadays they can come from other people. Pretty
             | much anyone/everyone (so maybe "society" is a good stand-
             | in?) But, originally, perhaps when times were a lot
             | different, the word of the Lord, whichever is your flavor,
             | was more useful in keeping people on a more-fulfilling
             | track. People with strong family ties likely didn't need to
             | be as devout and so the church provided a good net for
             | those alienated from society for many reasons. These days
             | we're a lot more likely to have support and a lot less
             | likely to be outcast (or at least not so severely) for
             | being different.
             | 
             | I am also agnostic-raised-Catholic and this type of
             | question is posed a lot. I don't struggle with it since I
             | feel like I know the answer...BUT A) It's difficult to
             | articulate, B) I can't really prove it, and C) it's also
             | that I just know "the Bible" is very likely NOT the answer
             | which just crosses one possibility off a list.
        
             | NortySpock wrote:
             | > Where do people find their moral and ethical compass?
             | 
             | I agree that atheists cannot point to a single book that
             | everyone should use to define their moral and ethical
             | compass, but I do think that utilitarianism (either act-
             | based: "we should act always so as to produce the greatest
             | good for the greatest number" or rule based: "we ought to
             | live by rules that, in general, are likely to lead to the
             | greatest good for the greatest number") provides a healthy
             | starting framework.
             | 
             | Utilitarianism: Crash Course Philosophy #36 (10 min)
             | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-a739VjqdSI
        
           | prophesi wrote:
           | I'd argue that the polarization is a direct result of the
           | rise of evangelical Christianity. And as church membership
           | decreases, their perceived persecution will fan the flames of
           | their crusade against soft drugs, LGBTQ+, and trans rights to
           | name a few.
        
             | throwaway0a5e wrote:
             | >crusade against soft drugs, LGBTQ+, and trans rights to
             | name a few.
             | 
             | So then why have those crusades all but evaporated?
             | 
             | Weed is on its way to being federally legal. Hard drugs are
             | becoming legal or decriminalized in some jurisdictions.
             | Trans people are pretty much universally accepted/tolerated
             | as being a thing that isn't going away with the remaining
             | conflict more or less related to all the gender based stuff
             | that's been codified in law over the years.
        
               | iamatworknow wrote:
               | I mean no offense by this, but this opinion seems to be
               | colored by your direct experience. There's is still A LOT
               | of intolerance to these things to be found in the world.
               | You're just not being exposed to it, most likely.
        
               | gbear605 wrote:
               | Just in the last few weeks, three states have passed new
               | laws targeting the healthcare of transgender people and
               | twenty five other state legislatures are considering
               | them. It's unfortunately not going away. [1] It's not one
               | of the issues you mentioned, but another similar crusade
               | is abortion rights. It's looking like the Supreme Court
               | will have hearings potentially leading to the end of Roe
               | v Wade, and a number of states have enacted laws limiting
               | abortions, though some of them were struck down by
               | previous Supreme Court rulings.
               | 
               | [1]: https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/transgender-
               | rights-in-the-...
        
           | 0_____0 wrote:
           | ? how do you explain the relative stability of largely
           | secular nations then?
        
             | ceilingcorner wrote:
             | The two most destructive regimes of the twentieth century
             | were explicitly secular. The stability of modern Western
             | Europe is more of a historical consequence of Pax Americana
             | and the Cold War than secularism.
        
               | julianlam wrote:
               | ... and what exactly are these two destructive regimes?
        
               | ceilingcorner wrote:
               | Do I really need to point that out? Nazi Germany and the
               | Soviet Union.
               | 
               | If one wants to play "edgy contrarian" and argue that the
               | United States was somehow worse than either of those,
               | well...the U.S. is technically secular too.
        
               | adrian_b wrote:
               | Believing that the communist countries were not religious
               | countries is a common fallacy of the Westerners.
               | 
               | In reality communism was a religion and more precisely a
               | variant of the Christian religion, but this fact was
               | disguised by changing the names of all things related to
               | the Christian religion.
               | 
               | Just a few of the correspondences between Christianity
               | and Communism (shown as traditional word => communist
               | word for the same concept):
               | 
               | Christian => atheist
               | 
               | Pagan => Christian
               | 
               | Prophets => Marx, Engels & Lenin
               | 
               | Holy Scriptures => the published works of Marx, Engels &
               | Lenin
               | 
               | Christian martyrs => communist illegalists
               | 
               | Pope => general secretary of the Communist Party of the
               | Soviet Union
               | 
               | Cardinals/patriarchs => general secretaries of communist
               | parties
               | 
               | Priests => members of the communist parties having
               | functions in the party hierarchy
               | 
               | Religious teaching in schools => Political teaching in
               | schools
               | 
               | Priest of a military unit => Political second-in-command
               | of a military unit
               | 
               | Heretics => oppositionists to the party leadership
               | 
               | Happy life in the afterlife => happy life in the future
               | _truly_ communist society
               | 
               | Holy Inquisition => Committee for State Security
               | 
               | ... and so on.
               | 
               | Writing a complete dictionary about all the words used by
               | Christianity with their replacements in Communism would
               | take a very long time.
               | 
               | While the communist vocabulary looks very different, the
               | meanings are exactly the same as in Christianity.
               | 
               | All the communist countries were not countries free of
               | religion, but on the contrary, they were countries were a
               | monotheistic-like religion was intermingled with all the
               | administrative & government institutions and where all
               | the other religions were aggressively persecuted,
               | including the true atheists or agnostics (i.e. not the
               | _communist atheists_ , which was the code name for the
               | believers in the communist religion).
               | 
               | The claim that the communist countries were not religious
               | was just propaganda, they were countries where there was
               | no separation between the religion and the state.
               | 
               | Likewise false was the claim that the communist countries
               | had a different economic system, in reality their
               | economic system was an extreme form of capitalism, where
               | everything was dominated by monopolies.
        
               | ceilingcorner wrote:
               | It's not that you are wrong, per se, because communism is
               | indeed descended from a Christian culture and full of
               | many Christian ideas. Overall, it functioned as a quasi-
               | religious system.
               | 
               | However, the Soviets actively rooted every religion
               | during their rule, especially Orthodox Christianity. So
               | if we are to consider Soviet communism a form of
               | Christianity, it's unclear how useful this actually is.
        
               | adrian_b wrote:
               | Your counter-argument does not work. It actually provides
               | one more similarity between Communism and the various
               | variants of Christianity and it makes stronger my
               | analogy.
               | 
               | Yes the communists persecuted the other religions,
               | inclusive by imprisoning and/or killing many Catholic
               | priests and many Orthodox priests.
               | 
               | However, this is exactly what was previously done by some
               | kinds of Christians against other kinds of Christians,
               | e.g. during the many conflicts between Protestants and
               | Catholics and between Catholics and Orthodox Christians.
               | 
               | Some people downvoted me, but this also just validates my
               | affirmation that most Westerners are not aware of these
               | facts and they do not understand Communism.
               | 
               | I have grown in a country occupied by communists, so I
               | know from direct experience how Communism works, not from
               | the fantastic depictions typical for the Western movies
               | or novels.
               | 
               | When I was in school, there was nothing that I hated more
               | than the mandatory classes of communist religion, the so-
               | called Political teachings.
               | 
               | Also, due to the stupidity of one of my colleagues, a
               | teacher discovered that I had a Bible and, because of
               | that, I was almost expelled from High School a short time
               | before the final exam, but I was very lucky due to some
               | special circumstances and I could avoid the expulsion.
               | 
               | Many years later, after communism failed, I believed that
               | the new generations of students will escape my fate and
               | they will no longer waste time with the mandatory
               | religion classes.
               | 
               | Unfortunately, my hope was wrong, because the mandatory
               | Political teachings classes were not deleted from the
               | curriculum, but they were replaced by mandatory Christian
               | religion classes.
               | 
               | So nothing has changed, when the Communist religion was
               | mandatory, I had almost lost my career because it was
               | supposed that I might be Christian, but if I were a
               | student today, I would have similar problems if I would
               | attempt to criticize in school the Christian religion,
               | for exactly the same reasons that were applicable to
               | Communism.
        
               | ceilingcorner wrote:
               | But again the thing is, if you're going to take this line
               | of thought, then secularism itself is really just a
               | variation of Christianity. And at that point, of what use
               | are the distinctions we are making? If Soviet communism
               | is a kind of Christianity, it's certainly a kind
               | significantly different enough to notice and bracket off.
               | Certainly it has little use for say, The Bible, or
               | priest-like figures, or various other things that do tie
               | together the different branches of Christianity.
        
               | adrian_b wrote:
               | No, there are tremendous differences between secularism
               | and Christianity, while Christianity and Communism have
               | identical consequences for the life of a typical citizen.
               | 
               | Communism, Christianity, and also the other monotheist
               | religions, are extremely intolerant against the believers
               | of any other religion.
               | 
               | Secularism is the opposite, at most you could say that
               | secularism is like many polytheistic religions, where it
               | was considered normal that everyone believes in their own
               | gods and for the other people it does not matter which
               | are those gods.
               | 
               | The life of a normal citizen of a communist country was
               | very similar, for example, to the life in Italy or Spain
               | 600 years ago, when the Church was more powerful. It
               | might have actually been worse, because the Communist
               | Party might have been more powerful than the Catholic
               | Church ever was.
               | 
               | Permanently you had to be very careful with everything
               | you said, because if you ever contradicted some dogma
               | written in the Holy Communist Scriptures or some
               | interpretation given by a High Communist Priest, you
               | could be singled out as an heretic and be excommunicated,
               | with very bad consequences.
               | 
               | Regarding the Communist dogmas, everything was based on
               | "have faith and do not doubt". It was absolutely
               | impossible to have any discussion about communism based
               | on rational arguments or on experiment results.
               | 
               | Like Christianity, Communism blocked any kind of
               | scientific research that could contradict in any way its
               | Holy Scriptures. To make progress in any career, you had
               | to either be or simulate that you are a true believer and
               | you had to display frequently your faith in the Communist
               | religion.
               | 
               | It does not matter what words are used by Christianity or
               | Communism, wherever any of them succeeded to control the
               | state institutions, the consequences were the same for
               | the citizens, no freedom of speech and severe
               | discrimination between believers and non-believers.
               | 
               | Secularism was precisely the reaction against this,
               | having the purpose of allowing the freedom of speech and
               | religion.
        
               | 0_____0 wrote:
               | Not sure whether you intended this or not, but your
               | statement could be extended to imply that secular
               | societies become destructive ones? Which would be quite a
               | stretch - there are many secular stable countries and
               | many unstable, highly religious ones as well.
        
               | ceilingcorner wrote:
               | No, that isn't what my comment says and it's not what I
               | intended. Please, read what I actually wrote.
        
               | 0_____0 wrote:
               | Fair enough.
        
             | brobdingnagians wrote:
             | Depends on how you define secular. Most secular states are
             | simply neutral and promote plurality of culture and
             | religion, i.e. allowing choice. The other type of secular
             | state is one which is openly hostile to religion.
             | 
             | The US is becoming openly hostile to religion, as many of
             | the comments in this thread evidence, which is distinct
             | from neutrality. I agree with religious freedom as such,
             | with everyone being on equal standing.
             | 
             | If you define secularism as the USSR or China, I would
             | disagree with their long term stability, or even with
             | liking their regimes.
        
               | tootie wrote:
               | How about church membership
        
               | prophesi wrote:
               | Funnily enough, one of the most secular countries,
               | Sweden, has a 50%+ church membership. But it's an
               | anomaly; church membership is still a good litmus test
               | for secularity everywhere else.
        
               | ur-whale wrote:
               | > Sweden, has a 50%+ church membership.
               | 
               | Could it be that in Sweden, you get some sort of tax
               | rebate or discounts at supermarkets if you are officially
               | registered with some religion?
        
               | meheleventyone wrote:
               | If it's anything like Iceland people get auto-registered
               | as members. Much better to look at things like church
               | attendance rates.
        
               | Arainach wrote:
               | The evidence doesn't support your claim. The least
               | religious countries are among the most stable and most
               | peaceful: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Importance_of_rel
               | igion_by_coun...
               | 
               | Their crime and imprisonment rates are far below those of
               | the US. Even on an individual level, the presence of non-
               | religious individuals is assocated with a series of
               | positive societal effects: https://www.researchgate.net/p
               | ublication/227616923_Atheism_S...
               | 
               | Religion isn't necessary for public morality, and as
               | America has shown, is often actively harmful. America is
               | full of people who assume that they are good people
               | BECAUSE they go to church rather than because of their
               | acts. By and large, these are generally not good people.
               | Instead, they're among the most judgmental and least
               | helpful members of society.
               | 
               | To paraphrase Gandhi, "I like your Christ, not your
               | Christians". The religious in modern society can't even
               | be bothered to read the Cliff Notes of their own book,
               | otherwise they'd be focused on helping the poor and
               | remembering that rich people have trouble getting to
               | heaven rather than going around promoting guns, no taxes,
               | and slashing social safety nets.
        
               | hkarthik wrote:
               | I think the argument could be made that most of the top
               | countries you mentioned are linguistically and racially
               | homogenous. I don't really have a conclusion on whether
               | religion helps or hurts a more racially diverse
               | population but just something worth pointing out.
        
               | jmartrican wrote:
               | I don't think China is racially homogenous.
        
               | equality_1138 wrote:
               | A Gallop poll serves as your evidence for religion's
               | impact on stability and peace? This is pie-in-the-sky
               | cherry picked data, stylized as a scientific inquiry.
        
               | da_big_ghey wrote:
               | I am trying to avoid a flaming discussion here but am
               | also trying to moderate your comment. I am trying to
               | promote guns, no taxes, and slashing social safety nets
               | but am also spending much time, talent, treasure on
               | helping of those needy. I am disagreeing with state force
               | but am also disagreeing with selfishing. I hope that the
               | comment here is clarifying your view on the generalised
               | population.
        
               | nybble41 wrote:
               | Same here. Frankly if the GP's "Cliff Notes" version
               | tells them that the Bible says to agitate politically for
               | taking away other people's means of self-defense, or for
               | seizing other people's property by force to be
               | redistributed to the GP's preferred causes, then the GP
               | really needs to put down the abridged version and read
               | the original. Pacifism and charity are portrayed as
               | virtues, to be sure, but it says nothing about forcing
               | those virtues on others, and doing so strays about as far
               | from the core message as it's possible to get.
        
               | Arainach wrote:
               | The Bible's thoughts on self defense, taxation, and even
               | "forced charity" aren't obscure - they're well known
               | direct quotes.
               | 
               | https://biblehub.com/context/matthew/5-38.htm
               | 
               | https://biblehub.com/mark/12-17.htm
        
               | da_big_ghey wrote:
               | Jesus teach importance of forgivenes but also realise
               | there exist bad people. Luke 22:36 "Then said he unto
               | them, But now, he that hath a purse, let him take it, and
               | likewise his scrip: and he that hath no sword, let him
               | sell his garment, and buy one."
               | 
               | On tax, Jesus was giving that response to an entraping
               | question from Pharisees they asked because He had in past
               | criticised of harsh tax policy. Force tithing is not a
               | thing of New Testament but old.
        
               | ur-whale wrote:
               | > The US is becoming openly hostile to religion
               | 
               | I don't think the US is becoming openly hostile to
               | religion.
               | 
               | It is becoming hostile to religion in the public sphere,
               | a good thing if there ever was one.
               | 
               | Just like your sexual practices, keep your religion at
               | home and please stop bothering other people with it.
        
             | mensetmanusman wrote:
             | People wonder if they are only temporarily stable, since
             | the only subset groups that are reproducing at replacement
             | rates are the religious.
        
               | gbrown wrote:
               | Religion isn't a genetically inherited.
        
           | DVk6dqsfyx5i3ii wrote:
           | There is a decline in Christianity but there is not a decline
           | in religion. The religions many preach today are non-theistic
           | and secular but they are religions nonetheless and they don't
           | tolerate heretics.
        
           | ur-whale wrote:
           | > Public morality cannot be maintained without religion
           | 
           | This tired, offensive and a thousand time debunked old trope
           | requires imo a little more argumentation than the "it is
           | thus" justification you just provided.
           | 
           | I'd recommend reading Hitchens, specifically [1] where he
           | addresses that lame claim at length.
           | 
           | [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/God_Is_Not_Great
           | 
           | [EDIT]: here's a good summary from the man himself:
           | 
           | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wOHgrnaTxk0
        
             | Alenycus wrote:
             | Ive read Hitchens, and I am not impressed.
             | 
             | Subjective morality is ultimately simple preferance and
             | ultimately just a battle of wills. I, and most other
             | religious people, do not consider such a "moral order" to
             | be morality at all.
             | 
             | Objective morality, with a judge above all judges who is
             | justice itself, is the only way "justice" and morality mean
             | anything at all.
        
               | jfengel wrote:
               | As opposed to the actual battles engaged in by the
               | various religious groups over morality.
               | 
               | To which I say: have at it. I'll get some popcorn. Too
               | bad about all the bystanders. But I'm sure they'll be
               | happy knowing that they died in the service of objective
               | morality.
        
               | dragonwriter wrote:
               | "Objective" morality is a misnomer for religious
               | morality, it's just subjective morality ascribed to some
               | mythical authority figure (and, even if that figure
               | actually exists, for most religions, given the diversity
               | of different moral systems ascribed to the divine judge,
               | those are clearly misascriptions, largely reflecting the
               | personal subjective morality of the people doing the
               | ascribing.)
               | 
               | I'm personally religious, but the myth of objectivity is
               | a very, very dangerous thing; in masks the ways that man
               | creates God in his own image.
        
               | Alenycus wrote:
               | I am not claiming to have perfect vision of this order,
               | but I am asserting that it exists and we have no choice
               | but to sit in it's judgment. We can argue and and discuss
               | about the specifics, but when I and other religious
               | people are discussing morality, that is what we are
               | trying to do. To make our morals and actions more in line
               | with the ultimate objective morality.
               | 
               | I do not mean this as a flame, but I honestly do not
               | understand why a person who believes in subjective
               | morality would even discuss morality at all. If all
               | morality is simply in the eye of the beholder, moral
               | progress is impossible and it is not possible for one
               | view to be superior to another.
        
             | ceilingcorner wrote:
             | Hitchens' knowledge of religion and philosophy borders on
             | 0%. I would not reference him in any way if you intend to
             | make serious arguments.
        
               | ur-whale wrote:
               | >Hitchens' knowledge of religion and philosophy borders
               | on 0%
               | 
               | A rather bold claim, backed by little evidence and easily
               | debunked by a metric ton of counter-evidence.
               | 
               | As example of counter-evidence, I offer:
               | - The man spent a large fraction of his life studying
               | religions of all ilks              - He wrote a number of
               | carefully researched books on the topic of religion.
               | - From his quoting the bible, the coran, jewish sacred
               | texts on the fly in the middle of debates with random
               | religious folks (and usually tearing them a new one in
               | the process), I feel confident he had at least skimmed
               | most of those.              - No one can accuse Hitchens
               | of being dumb, I very much doubt he'd get into high
               | visibility, in-depth public debate about a topic without
               | having researched it thoroughly.
               | 
               | Given the above, I would say the claim that "his
               | knowledge of religion borders on 0%" is - to remain
               | unsarcastic, however hard that is - highly unlikely to be
               | correct.
        
               | ceilingcorner wrote:
               | Anyone with a modicum of knowledge on religious studies
               | finds his, and all of the other books by the "New
               | Atheists" (with the possible exception of Dennett) to be
               | laughable. I'm sorry, they simply don't have much of an
               | intellectual foundation in anything.
               | 
               | Here's an example:
               | 
               |  _Chapter eleven discusses how religions form, and claims
               | that most religions are founded by corrupt, immoral
               | individuals. The chapter specifically discusses cargo
               | cults, Pentecostal minister Marjoe Gortner, and
               | Mormonism. Hitchens discusses Joseph Smith, the founder
               | of Mormonism, citing a March 1826 Bainbridge, New York
               | court examination accusing him of being a "disorderly
               | person and impostor" who Hitchens claims admitted there
               | that he had supernatural powers and was "defrauding
               | citizens".[31][32] Four years later Smith claimed to
               | obtain gold tablets containing the Book of Mormon. When
               | the neighbor's skeptical wife buried 116 pages of the
               | translation and challenged Smith to reproduce it, Smith
               | claimed God, knowing this would happen, told him to
               | instead translate a different section of the same
               | plates._
               | 
               | And where does our concept of corruption or immorality
               | come from? Hitchens just lacks basic knowledge of meta-
               | ethics. He doesn't seem to realize that modern democratic
               | rationalist values are themselves descendants of
               | Christian ideas.
               | 
               | This is the foundational problem of the New Atheists and
               | of the "rational" set in general. They either don't know
               | or don't understand the foundations of modern ethics,
               | _all_ of which has roots in religion.
        
               | ur-whale wrote:
               | This is the second 100% dogmatic and not backed by any
               | argument answer you provided.
               | 
               | This is not really surprising coming from a religious
               | person, dogma being after all the intellectual foundation
               | of religion.
               | 
               | But I wonder: is there anything else you could use in
               | your discourse toolbox?
        
               | ceilingcorner wrote:
               | > This is not really surprising coming from a religious
               | person, dogma being after all the intellectual foundation
               | of religion.
               | 
               | First off, I'm not religious. Second off, this kind of
               | personal attack is not welcome here.
               | 
               | As I already said, _every_ scholar of religious studies
               | finds the books by Hitchens, Dawkins, etc. to be amusing
               | at best. I can 't educate you on the academic study of
               | religion in a HN comment. If you are actually interested
               | in reading criticism of such people and not just bashing
               | non-atheistic people, I suggest looking into comparative
               | religion and religious studies.
        
               | ur-whale wrote:
               | > his kind of personal attack is not welcome here.
               | 
               | This is not a personal attack.
               | 
               | You stated facts without backing them up. Twice. This is
               | being dogmatic. My apologies for assuming you were
               | religious given the fact you're defending religion, it
               | was a fairly reasonable assumption to make
               | 
               | > As I already said, every scholar of religious studies
               | 
               | You are now moving from being dogmatic to using "appeal
               | to authority" [1], another well known logical fallacy [2]
               | 
               | I'm still waiting for a properly argumented backing of
               | the various statements you made above.
               | 
               | [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Argument_from_authority
               | 
               | [2] https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=appeal+t
               | o+autho...
        
               | ceilingcorner wrote:
               | > This is not a personal attack.
               | 
               | Yes, it is, and again, it's not welcome here.
               | 
               | Read the criticism section of the Wikipedia article you
               | posted yourself. There are more than enough intelligent
               | criticisms written of the book.
               | 
               | If you think that my not writing you a lengthy essay
               | explaining _why_ Hitchens is uninformed is somehow
               | indicative that he isn 't, I'm not sure what to tell you.
               | Religion is a complicated topic. Pretending that we can
               | solve it in a paragraph is naive at best.
               | 
               | As I already said, if this interests you, read more about
               | religious studies. I am simply saying that "the educated
               | opinion on this topic is that Hitchens is just a popular
               | writer, not a serious thinker on religion." If you
               | disagree with that, well, take it up with the academic
               | community?
        
               | ur-whale wrote:
               | > If you think that my not writing you a lengthy essay
               | explaining why Hitchens is uninformed is somehow
               | indicative that he isn't, I'm not sure what to tell you.
               | 
               | I'm simply saying that since the beginning of this
               | conversation, you're stating facts without providing a
               | shred of evidence, other than "go educate yourself on the
               | subject".
               | 
               | This is how conversations usually go in my experience:
               | when you state a fact, you back them up by - at least - a
               | modicum of evidence instead of dropping them as self-
               | evident and walking away.
               | 
               | But given your last answer, one thing you definitely
               | cannot be accused of is lack of consistency.
        
         | jeffwass wrote:
         | Emo Philips has another joke which I think was voted somewhere
         | as funniest joke ever, and is a great take on western religion
         | :
         | 
         | "When I was a kid I used to pray every night for a new bicycle.
         | Then I realised that the Lord doesn't work that way so I stole
         | one and asked Him to forgive me."
        
         | nikolay wrote:
         | It's weird how many Americans are completely unaware of the
         | second largest branch of Christianity (or better call it "the
         | trunk" and everything else - "a branch") - the Eastern Orthodox
         | Church, which is the original Christianity without a pope,
         | indulgences, inquisition, and other things, which have nothing
         | to do with the early Christianity.
        
           | dragonwriter wrote:
           | Prior to the East-West Schism, and from the beginnings of
           | organized Christianity, the entities which became the Eastern
           | Orthodox Churches after the schism had the same Pope, with a
           | somewhat different role, as Western Christianity.
           | 
           | Some of them also have had things not unlike the inquisition,
           | though they don't call it that.
           | 
           | And, of course, outside of the Eastern Orthodox and maybe the
           | "Old Catholics", even those Christians who disagree with the
           | Roman Catholic position don't see the Eastern Orthodox as
           | having a particular claim to original Christianity.
           | 
           | EDIT: for example, the Oriental Orthodox Churches and the
           | Church of the East are, in their current form, older than the
           | Eastern Orthodox, and from their perspective the branch
           | containing both sides of the 1054 Schism is a divergence from
           | "original Christianity" in the same way that Western
           | Christianity is viewed by the Eastern Orthodox.,,
        
           | today20201014 wrote:
           | I can understand the belief that Eastern Orthodoxy is more of
           | a "trunk" than more recent "branches", but what about core
           | ideas that predate Jesus? e.g. the immortality of the soul
           | was reasoned by Plato (Republic, circa 350BC); heaven and
           | hell have been portrayed by Virgil (Aeneid, circa 19BC).
           | Aren't these the "trunk", and the Hebrew Bible and Jesus
           | another branch?
        
             | nikolay wrote:
             | Trees have roots, too.
        
           | mixmastamyk wrote:
           | Yes, also Christians in the US are mostly Protestants, which
           | purposely moved away from the things you mentioned.
        
             | Breza wrote:
             | I'm a Lutheran and I've studied the works of Luther. When I
             | learned about the Orthodox church as an adult, I really
             | liked what I saw. If Luther had been an Orthodox priest, I
             | wonder if he would have launched his gentle rebellion (and,
             | later, his not-so-gentle rebellion).
        
           | commandlinefan wrote:
           | So it's like the relationship between modern agile
           | methodologies and the original agile manifesto then?
        
             | nikolay wrote:
             | No, it's more immutable vs mutable... or accepting messages
             | with bad public key signatures.
        
         | RhodoGSA wrote:
         | Rarely does anyone ever ask my religion but when people do i
         | tell them Hellenism (Belief in the greek gods). People often
         | give me a quizzical look - but when you study the 'religion'
         | you find interesting beliefs that help you in modern day.
         | 
         | For instance, claiming you don't have 100% complete faith in
         | the myths and gods wasn't a heretic offense. Everyone respected
         | the fact that the stories were arch-types that displayed
         | courage, anger, revenge, ect.
         | 
         | Also, if someone else came up to you from Egypt and believed in
         | an entirely different pantheon you respected their opinion and
         | could see similarities in your own religion.
         | 
         | Christianity from the very early days (The skims' under
         | Constantine) was a very absolute one. There was a right and
         | wrong. There was only one god and you are wrong and a heretic
         | for believing in another.
         | 
         | That's why Hellenism works so well for me. I do not claim to be
         | a moral precept but i do offer you this; A peace treaty. You
         | can believe what you want to believe as long as you respect my
         | own moral reasoning. In the grand scheme of things as long as
         | there is no direct harm to you for my actions you must accept
         | and respect them but i do not have to bow to them. It cannot be
         | a suicidal pact, meaning if i do not believe in YOUR GOD, slip
         | up and don't call you a 'They' or say somethings 'Gay'.
         | 
         | I truly believe one of the biggest problems with current
         | society is everyone believes they are a moral precept and have
         | all the answers. Love your neighbor.
        
           | jfengel wrote:
           | Note that they understood the myths to be archetypes, but
           | outright atheism was a charge punishable by death. That's
           | what they got Socrates on.
           | 
           | Also note that they were pretty limited in their tolerance.
           | If people got pissed at you, they wrote your name on a piece
           | of pottery (ostrakon). If enough names were gathered, you
           | were banished -- the root of the word "ostracized".
           | 
           | On the upside, they were very tolerant of transgender and
           | intersex individuals. Note in particular the case of
           | Callo/Callon, who changed their sex and pronouns.
        
           | simonh wrote:
           | >Also, if someone else came up to you from Egypt and believed
           | in an entirely different pantheon you respected their opinion
           | and could see similarities in your own religion.
           | 
           | More than that, they believed each others gods were cultural
           | representations of the same actual gods. After all there is
           | only one sky. It doesn't make any sense to think that our sky
           | god is different from their sky god, or our sun god is
           | different from their sun god, though being gods they can
           | manifest in different forms.
           | 
           | But then it's shocking how many people seem to think that
           | Christians, Jews and Muslims worship different gods. There's
           | only one god of Abraham, which arguably Hindus call Brahman.
           | They're all just names and stories, there's only one
           | reality*.
           | 
           | * citation needed
        
             | krapp wrote:
             | >More than that, they believed each others gods were
             | cultural representations of the same actual gods.
             | 
             | Ironically, Christianity kind of did the same thing, rather
             | believing everyone else's gods were just demons or
             | sorcerers in league with Satan. In further irony, this led
             | to a lot of syncretism of pagan beliefs and rituals into
             | Christianity.
        
           | birken wrote:
           | I'm certainly not a religious expert, but from my
           | understanding Christianity's main innovations were not
           | monotheism or absolute morality. Those concepts had been
           | around for a very long time and Christianity adopted those
           | ideas that from others and then added their own innovations
           | on top of that.
        
       | airhead969 wrote:
       | Magical thinking will never die. Just look at Qanon, health and
       | wellness, and Ruby vs. Python.
        
       | yalogin wrote:
       | Looks like I am the only person surprised that the membership is
       | this high, even more so that it was in the 70% range just 20yrs
       | ago.
       | 
       | I admit my guess is based on my interactions but I was expecting
       | it to be in the 20-30% range.
        
         | timbit42 wrote:
         | If you are thinking of Christianity, this poll included Judaism
         | and Islam. Christianity's numbers are around 33%.
        
       | e_commerce wrote:
       | "Official" church membership way down, membership at new
       | dangerous religions like BLM and Wokeness way, way up!
        
       | eruci wrote:
       | Maybe people are leaving church because they have started asking
       | questions.
       | 
       | Not the kind of questions religion 'asks', which are answers in
       | disguise.
        
         | ed25519FUUU wrote:
         | Not all religions and churches are declining. Islam is the
         | fastest growing religion in the world[1].
         | 
         | In Europe is growing especially fast if compared to local
         | demographics. Cyprus is 25% Muslim. France nearly 10%[2].
         | 
         | 1. https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2017/04/06/why-
         | muslims...
         | 
         | 2. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Islam_in_Europe
        
         | galangalalgol wrote:
         | The notion that people have suddenly become smarter or more
         | objective or more rational has been blasted tume and time
         | again, both by uncovering new past instances of rationality and
         | by new blunders reminding us that it is our reason that evolved
         | to serve our intincts, and thinking our reason is actually in
         | charge is thus delusional. When people's physical needs are
         | being met well, they become less religious. Look at relgious
         | growth in undeveloped countries as an example. Those people
         | aren't less intelligent than us, and if we point to education,
         | we have data indicating our quality of education is decreasing
         | while religious affiliation falls as well. Even with physical
         | needs being met, people have certain needs that religons were
         | meeting. We should be careful what part of aociety picks up
         | meeting those needs. Politics? Yikes we know what happens when
         | the passion and absolute certainty of religion gets infused
         | into politics, we are seeing it now. Science? Belief harms
         | science, science requires skepticism even of our best axioms to
         | avoid dogma. Don't drown people who ask questions your theory
         | can't answer. If we dont find a safe outlet for those residual
         | needs, we are better off keeping religion around to fill them
         | without giving it any temporal power.
        
           | eruci wrote:
           | Maybe.
        
       | listless wrote:
       | If they threw in the religion of "Anti-Racism", I'm guessing it's
       | closer to 100.
       | 
       | Human beings seem to need religion. If we find ourselves in a
       | void, we just create new ones.
       | 
       | https://www.persuasion.community/p/john-mcwhorter-the-neorac...
        
       | pengaru wrote:
       | Maybe if they'd stop molesting children and protecting the
       | molesters when it happens they'd have more members.
       | 
       | At this point if you're a member you're arguably complicit in
       | some sick organization facilitating child abuse.
       | 
       | Good Riddance.
        
       | currymj wrote:
       | Fanny Holmes (wife of Oliver Wendell Holmes Jr.) once said, when
       | asked why she belonged to the Unitarian Church,
       | 
       | "In Boston one has to be something, and Unitarian is the least
       | you can be."
       | 
       | Unitarianism by the 20th century didn't have any dogma, even
       | atheists and agnostics could be members, and accepted that all
       | religious traditions had spiritual wisdom to offer. But because
       | it had evolved from Christianity it had institutional legitimacy,
       | in a world where church membership was a social requirement.
       | 
       | People's beliefs might have changed less than we think over time,
       | despite the common perception that nearly everyone in the US was
       | hyper-religious until the last few decades.
       | 
       | There might be other factors around the decline in church
       | membership -- perhaps related to the decline in participation in
       | secular community groups as well.
        
         | cwwc wrote:
         | Superb point. To quote Holmes, 'Most people are willing to take
         | the Sermon on the Mount as a flag to sail under, but few will
         | use it as a rudder by which to steer.'
        
         | drewg123 wrote:
         | My great Aunt who is 95 belongs to a UU church, and remembers
         | when the Universalists merged with the Unitarians. She says
         | "The Universalist brought too much God stuff into church and
         | wrecked it"
        
         | gwbas1c wrote:
         | Living in Massachusetts, what I've found is that the UU still
         | requires a strict adherence to very left-leaning politics.
         | 
         | The dogma shifted from a religious dogma to a political one.
         | 
         | For example: https://barnstableuu.org/about/history.html
         | 
         | > In the early 19th century there was considerable theological
         | debate in the "churches of the standing order" in New England.
         | Many churches actually split over this debate, the
         | traditionalists becoming Congregationalists and the liberals
         | becoming Unitarians.
        
       | toomuchtodo wrote:
       | Late 30s here who was dragged to church by parents and
       | grandparents but who isn't exposing our kids to religion.
       | 
       | It's pretty straightforward for us: you don't need fairy tales to
       | be a good person and to come to terms with death (which comes for
       | everyone). "Be happy, be kind." If others choose to observe,
       | that's their choice.
        
         | SyzygistSix wrote:
         | On the other hand, we are a people of stories. Stories help to
         | explain abstract concepts and elucidate our values. Everyone
         | has a belief system, even if they are unaware of it.
        
         | ScaredOfDying wrote:
         | Do you have any advice/resources for coming to terms with death
         | as a non-believer?
         | 
         | I've had existential dread for as long as I remember, but it's
         | gotten far worse as I've slowly lost what faith I had over the
         | years.
         | 
         | There's a certain irony in being so scared of death that it
         | ruins your life.
        
           | toomuchtodo wrote:
           | "Man is like a dog tied to a moving wagon. If the dog refuses
           | to run along with the wagon he will be dragged by it, yet the
           | choice remains his: to run or be dragged."
           | 
           | We're all default dead in the long run, make the most of what
           | time you have with whatever brings you joy and happiness.
           | Choose to run.
        
         | baryphonic wrote:
         | What is a "good person?" And do you really think people who
         | believe in God are just listening to "fairy tails (sic)" so
         | they can be face the reality of death? Is that really the best
         | portrayal of Christians you can come up with?
        
           | engineeringwoke wrote:
           | Not OP, but yes, I think that any consumer of organized
           | religion is doing it because fairy tales are easier than life
           | and death is scary. That is all it really is, right?
        
             | KMag wrote:
             | Not all religions posit an afterlife.
             | 
             | Though, I guess a meaningless death is scarier than death,
             | and nearly all religions are attempts to form meaning in
             | life when there's no empirically obvious meaning.
        
             | kylebyproxy wrote:
             | IMO, that's the most insidious aspect of organized
             | religion. Rather than acknowledging death as an engineering
             | problem to be solved and overcome, it teaches people to
             | embrace death and conditions followers to not even consider
             | fighting back.
        
               | spaced-out wrote:
               | Exactly this. Humanity is reaching the point where we can
               | truly transcend our biological limitations, yet many
               | follow ideologies that tell them to not even consider
               | this, and instead put their faith in some sort of magical
               | after-death utopia obviously born our of generations of
               | wishful thinking.
        
           | toomuchtodo wrote:
           | Christians base their belief system on a collection of
           | stories from 2000+ years ago and the idea of a deity and
           | other planes of existence (edit: "Heaven" and "Hell") of
           | which no proof exists. Please correct me if any of the above
           | is inaccurate.
        
             | jkingsbery wrote:
             | That was the premise that an investigative journalist had
             | in mind when he started an investigation to demonstrate
             | precisely what you said to the rest of the world. Rather
             | than starting with his assumptions and arguing against a
             | strawman, he went to verify every fact he could and went to
             | talk to experts. Instead of proving Christianity is a sham,
             | he ended up converting to Christianity and writing a book
             | about it: https://www.amazon.com/Case-Christ-Journalists-
             | Personal-Inve... .
             | 
             | TL;DR: Christians wouldn't say that we base our beliefs on
             | a collection of stories. We base our beliefs in the
             | historical fact of the Resurrection. Perhaps we'll find out
             | we're wrong some day, but having considered the best
             | evidence we have (and the book I linked to walks through
             | why that evidence is compelling), Christianity is a
             | reasonable position to hold.
        
             | baryphonic wrote:
             | We base our beliefs in the teachings of Jesus, who was born
             | as a human despite being divine; ministered to people he
             | encountered, performed many signs, taught profound moral
             | truths (e.g. through parables, small debates with the
             | leaders of the time, or even breaking up angry lynch mobs),
             | and then became a scapegoat who suffered, died, was buried
             | and came back.
             | 
             | Everything else follows from that, at least in
             | Christianity.
             | 
             | I suppose I believe in "other planes of existence" (is this
             | supposed to be Heaven and Hell or something?), but those
             | are contingent upon the truth of Jesus' suffering, death
             | and resurrection. I guess I'd say I think we already exist
             | in another "plane" which is immaterial and inaccessible in
             | this life, but is nonetheless real.
             | 
             | I suppose I also "believe in a deity," but not with the
             | connotations you seem to be suggesting. God is not some
             | component of existence or reality or the universe,
             | independent of other things; He is the only source of what
             | it means to exist. I would say I don't even believe that
             | God exists, but that He is below or outside of existence,
             | as He caused everything else to exist that exists. If
             | someone believes in God as a sort of Santa Claus or Jinn
             | granting wishes, then no, I don't believe in that kind of
             | "deity" either. That's just silly nonsense.
        
               | nicoburns wrote:
               | > We base our beliefs in the teachings of Jesus, who was
               | born as a human despite being divine
               | 
               | The teachings of Jesus _are_ a collection of stories from
               | ~2000 years ago. That Jesus is /was divine is something
               | which there is very little evidence for. But even if he
               | was, his teaching are a collection of stories from 2000
               | years ago.
        
               | nonotreally wrote:
               | I think you've conceded too much ground here.
               | 
               | There is _no_ evidence for the divinity of Jesus. These
               | are simply stories from ~2000 years ago.
        
               | nicoburns wrote:
               | I feel like the Bible constitutes some kind of evidence
               | for the divinity of Jesus. _Weak_ evidence for sure. But
               | evidence none the less. As I see it, even  "Jimmy down
               | the bar told me..." constitutes evidence of some kind.
        
               | nonotreally wrote:
               | Isn't that just anecdote?
        
               | gumby wrote:
               | There is no evidence the guy existed, either. They are
               | most likely just stories meant to motivate a movement --
               | nothing wrong with that in principle. Especially given
               | that a lot of the message is "be kind".
        
               | baryphonic wrote:
               | If you really believe that there's _no_ evidence Jesus
               | the man existed, then I wonder what you would consider
               | evidence of any ancient person existing, or even evidence
               | of any fact in general. The evidence does exist, and it
               | is in fact convincing evidence, at least of historicity
               | (even the Gospels are evidence, though several
               | extrabiblical sources mention the historical Jesus as
               | well, including ones opposed to Christianity like
               | Josephus). IMO, the evidence of divinity is fairly
               | strong, too, but can only be resolved as a matter of
               | faith and not solely empiricism.
               | 
               | Also, Jesus said quite a bit more, and quite a bit more
               | often than "be kind," though admittedly that's sort of
               | the Therapeutic Moral Deism version spewed out popularly
               | and in a lot of churches today.
               | 
               | I'd agree that Jesus' ultimate vision is humanity living
               | in harmony with one another, but that this requires
               | living in harmony with God, too. We're pretty terrible
               | when we try to lean on our own understanding.
        
               | gumby wrote:
               | > then I wonder what you would consider evidence of any
               | ancient person existing, or even evidence of any fact in
               | general.
               | 
               | Without opening up a broader epistemic discussion: the
               | question of the existence of specific people is quite a
               | reasonable question. Because Socrates rejected writing,
               | there is some question as to whether he really existed or
               | was a rhetorical invention of his student plato. On the
               | other hand, say, Sophocles is described by various
               | contemporaneous sources. Caesar, Augustus and Marc Antony
               | pretty definitely existed -- there is a lot of surviving
               | contemporaneous evidence.
               | 
               | On the other hand the existence of a much more recent
               | figure, Shakespeare, as the author of a body of work is
               | still hotly debated in some circles (there is evidence
               | that someone by his name was alive at the same time, but
               | was that the person in question?)
               | 
               | There are no contemporaneous accounts of the life or
               | death of Jesus; even Josephus whom you mention was born
               | after the events described in the gospels.
               | 
               | > I'd agree that Jesus' ultimate vision is humanity
               | living in harmony with one another, but that this
               | requires living in harmony with God, too. We're pretty
               | terrible when we try to lean on our own understanding.
               | 
               | That's a particular stance that requires judging terrible
               | people who claim to have religious backing to have not
               | been in alignment with a god. Both sides in a war claim
               | divine support, after all. It's quite possible to live in
               | harmony without any gods.
        
               | nicoburns wrote:
               | > IMO, the evidence of divinity is fairly strong, too,
               | but can only be resolved as a matter of faith and not
               | solely empiricism
               | 
               | If the evidence of Jesus's divinity isn't empirical
               | evidence, then what sort of evidence is it? I've always
               | thought of faith as meaning "belief despite the lack of
               | evidence".
               | 
               | > I'd agree that Jesus' ultimate vision is humanity
               | living in harmony with one another, but that this
               | requires living in harmony with God, too. We're pretty
               | terrible when we try to lean on our own understanding.
               | 
               | In general people seem to be pretty terrible if they lean
               | on religious understanding too. I don't see much evidence
               | that religious people are more moral than others.
               | Personally I'm a big fan of Jesus's vision of living in
               | harmony with one another, but I don't see why this needs
               | to have anything to do with a god.
        
               | Galaxeblaffer wrote:
               | I'd go as far as Jesus being a collection of stories
               | himself along with his teachings. There's no good
               | evidence he even existed. None of the authors of the
               | bible was even alive when Jesus supposedly lived. The
               | youngest of the authors(cant remember which one) was born
               | a couple of years AFTER Jesus supposedly was killed. Not
               | even 1 text from any historian at the time has any
               | mention of Jesus Christ.
        
               | baryphonic wrote:
               | Beyond the narratives in the gospels, Jesus the man is
               | attested to in several extrabiblical sources. See, for
               | example, Eusebius and Josephus. We have more evidence
               | that the historical Jesus was real than, say, Cicero. And
               | of course the gospels themselves and the existence of the
               | apostles (also real) who almost all went to their deaths
               | proclaiming that this Jesus guy was real are in fact
               | evidence that He was.
               | 
               | Very, very few serious Bible scholars, even the atheist
               | "textual criticism" ones, deny that the man Jesus of
               | Nazareth existed. And almost all of them will acknowledge
               | that, for example, the creed in 1 Corinthians 15:3 dates
               | to within a few years (possibly months) of Jesus death.
               | The denial of the historical Jesus is more a meme in New
               | Atheist Internet forums, rather than a serious
               | examination. It's about as serious as Ancient Aliens.
        
               | cogman10 wrote:
               | > If someone believes in God as a sort of Santa Claus or
               | Jinn granting wishes, then no, I don't believe in that
               | kind of "deity" either. That's just silly nonsense.
               | 
               | Isn't that a teaching of Jesus?
               | 
               | > 9 "Which of you, if your son asks for bread, will give
               | him a stone? 10 Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a
               | snake? 11 If you, then, though you are evil, know how to
               | give good gifts to your children, how much more will your
               | Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!
               | (Matthew 7:9-11)
               | 
               | > He replied, "Because you have so little faith. Truly I
               | tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed,
               | you can say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there,'
               | and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you."
               | (Matthew 17:20)
               | 
               | So why don't you believe in that?
               | 
               | I'm an atheist and can certainly see why it'd be silly to
               | think that if you just pray hard enough god will grant
               | your desire, but that's what the bible teaches.
               | Otherwise, what's even the point of prayer?
               | 
               | And before you say "Oh, it was metaphorical" I'd point
               | out the Lord's prayer where Jesus specifically prays for
               | food. (Give us this day our daily bread). What is more
               | good than for god to give a starving person food? Yet
               | plenty of Christians starve, is it because they didn't
               | believe enough?
        
               | baryphonic wrote:
               | If God is the source of all that exists, then wouldn't He
               | be the source of "daily bread"? This doesn't imply that
               | the bread magically appears (though admittedly the OT has
               | manna in the desert), nor does it mean that sustenance
               | doesn't derive from human labor. All it implies is that
               | God is all-powerful, the creator of everything, and this
               | is a request that He look after our material as well as
               | spiritual well-being.
               | 
               | Also, I won't concede that things in the Bible are not
               | often rhetorical or metaphorical when they in fact are.
               | The Gospels themselves are full of the disciples having
               | no friggin clue what Jesus is talking about, and asking
               | him to "speak plainly." I think for maybe a child who can
               | only interpret things literally, the concept of God as
               | wish-granter might make sense.
               | 
               | Also, your own citation conditions the grant on "good"
               | gifts. What are good gifts in God's eyes?
               | 
               | Ultimately, this is a matter of faith whether you believe
               | this or not. But I only ask that you reconsider your
               | juvenile straw-man of what we believe.
        
               | cogman10 wrote:
               | > though admittedly the OT has manna in the desert
               | 
               | Didn't Jesus split the loaves and the fish to feed
               | thousands? Didn't Jesus turn water into wine? Or were
               | those also metaphors? Why was manna in the desert literal
               | while Jesus miracles metaphors?
               | 
               | The only reason you are saying "Oh, those were just
               | metaphors" is because believing them literally is crazy.
               | You have to insert meaning into Jesus's words because
               | otherwise what he's told you is obviously false (and
               | Jesus can't say something false, right?).
               | 
               | And yet the bible is filled with miracles both in the old
               | and new testament. Miracles that directly contradict the
               | notion that "Oh, they were speaking metaphorically when
               | they said god would do miracles!"
               | 
               | Ultimately, this is a matter of reality whether you
               | accept it or not. I only ask that you reconsider your
               | juvenile beliefs.
        
               | baryphonic wrote:
               | You're misunderstanding me. I believe God did, can and
               | still does perform miraculous signs. That was never at
               | issue.
               | 
               | I said that the simplistic Jinn-granting-wishes
               | interpretation of God is silly and is not what I believe.
               | 
               | There is no actual contradiction.
        
               | cogman10 wrote:
               | Do you believe god performs miracles based on prayer?
               | 
               | If you do, that's a "Jinn-granting-wishes interpretation
               | of God". If you don't, why don't you? Given the scripture
               | references I gave you (and there are plenty of others),
               | NT and OT are all about performing magic based on spell
               | casters saying the right magic words the right way.
               | 
               | Of course, in modern times there are plenty of examples
               | of failed Jutsus. (Not enough faith! Not in God's plan!)
               | And I'd contend that all the examples of successful spell
               | incantations are no more convincing than a wiccan's
               | spells. The success rate of Buddhism has curing cancer
               | will exactly mirror the success rate of Christianity or
               | the Roman parathion interfering with humanity.
        
               | dragonwriter wrote:
               | > You have to insert meaning into Jesus's words because
               | otherwise what he's told you is obviously false
               | 
               | Jesus didn't describe the miracle of the loaves and
               | fishes, he was described as having performed it. Even if
               | one accepts the traditional authorship of the Gospels
               | (which even modern Christian scholarship doesn't
               | consistently), Christ isn't the traditional author, just
               | the subject (a small percentage of each of the Gospels is
               | words attributed by the author of the gospel _to_ Christ,
               | but that 's not the description of any miracles, though
               | it's often the takeaway message associated with a
               | described miracle.)
               | 
               | > And yet the bible is filled with miracles both in the
               | old and new testament. Miracles that directly contradict
               | the notion that "Oh, they were speaking metaphorically
               | when they said god would do miracles!"
               | 
               | This is really only a contradiction if you assume that
               | nothing in Bible can itself be metaphorical.
        
               | cogman10 wrote:
               | Biblical authorship is a huge issue all unto itself.
               | Particularly if you are someone that believes the new
               | testament is the word of god. The only sources we have
               | were written 90+ years after the events they describes.
               | It's very likely that Jesus said and did nothing written
               | in the bible. Hell, it's even possible he did not exist
               | as a person (Though, I tend to believe he did, I don't
               | think Christianity would have formed without Jesus
               | existing).
               | 
               | > This is really only a contradiction if you assume that
               | nothing in Bible can itself be metaphorical.
               | 
               | Christianity has this interesting trick where their
               | sacred texts are metaphorical whenever they say something
               | they don't like or impossible. What good is the bible if
               | it's all metaphors yet nobody agrees on which parts are
               | metaphors?
        
               | unknown_apostle wrote:
               | The elders used this logic to mock Christ suffering on
               | the cross for many hours: "He trusted in God; let him
               | deliver him now".
               | 
               | And yes, Christ told us to ask for the things we need,
               | including material things.
               | 
               | Other reasons for prayer: thanking God; glorifying God;
               | offering things to God, like our happiness or our good
               | works but also our misery and our flaws. Contemplation;
               | meditation; or just being silent and inviting Him to do
               | the talking.
        
             | AuthorizedCust wrote:
             | Sounds accurate, from a super high level, except for the
             | "other planes of existence" part. I'd need to dig into that
             | with you to understand more.
        
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             | thrww20210329 wrote:
             | What counts as evidence?
             | 
             | Some of the Catholic miracles sure seem pretty solid to me
             | in terms of conveying God's will to us.
             | 
             | Like the one in Fatima, which was witnessed by thousands of
             | people:
             | 
             | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Miracle_of_the_Sun
        
               | elteto wrote:
               | So we should accept the 2000 year old book based on a
               | miracle from 1917?
        
               | thrww20210329 wrote:
               | In terms of evidence occuring in modern times, I think
               | the various miracles in the 20th century are strong
               | candidates.
               | 
               | One might also look into the testimonies of various
               | exorcists in modern times for evidence that the
               | supernatural exists:
               | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nhhi7Fk3ueI
               | 
               | We also have stigmata, such as those received by Padre
               | Pio: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Padre_Pio
               | 
               | Just trying to offer a few more things that count as
               | evidence from modern times.
        
               | vidarh wrote:
               | Thousands of people producing wildly inconsistent
               | stories, including many who reported not seeing anything
               | at all, and a wide range of photographers who all failed
               | to get a picture of the purported "miracle".
               | 
               | Get a bunch of people convinced they'll see a miracle and
               | make them stare at the sun, and sure, you'll be able to
               | get a lot of people saying they've seen a lot of things.
        
               | nonotreally wrote:
               | Every single miracle we have investigated seriously has
               | been proven to be perfectly normal.
               | 
               | As an example:
               | 
               | https://www.theguardian.com/world/2012/nov/23/india-
               | blasphem...
               | 
               | Just because something is unexplained _currently_ does
               | not give any weight to the idea that it was a miracle.
               | 
               | Millions of people saw David Copperfield vanish the
               | Statue of Liberty as well... But I certainly wouldn't be
               | tempted to pretend he _actually made it vanish_
               | 
               | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=823GNH4Rczg
               | 
               | We don't have a _single_ example where the opposite has
               | been true.
        
               | unknown_apostle wrote:
               | When you use that word "we", are you also speaking for
               | me?
        
               | nonotreally wrote:
               | _Humanity_ doesn 't have a single example where the
               | opposite has been true.
               | 
               | Yes. I am speaking for all of humanity here.
               | 
               |  _I welcome evidence to the contrary._
               | 
               | But that is kind of the point...
        
               | thrww20210329 wrote:
               | https://cruxnow.com/commentary/2017/05/fatima-and-the-
               | atheis...
               | 
               |  _The miracle was also seen by sailors on a British ship
               | off the coast of Portugal. Foley recounts an experience
               | in England. He gave a presentation on Fatima at a college
               | in England and was told by one of the teachers that her
               | grandfather saw the miracle from his ship and wrote about
               | it to his wife -- "without obviously understanding what
               | it meant or its significance."_
               | 
               |  _And finally, what most convincingly shows that the
               | miracle was not only in the minds and perception of the
               | witnesses is the fact that the crowd at Fatima felt the
               | heat of the sun as it approached them, and their clothes
               | and the ground -- which had been soaked by torrential
               | rain -- were dry at the end of the miracle._
               | 
               | How does one claim this is just some optical mirage?
        
               | vidarh wrote:
               | One doesn't. At least not _only_ an optical illusion.
               | There is no consistent set of reports. Given that the
               | reports are all wildly inconsistent and contradictory,
               | and many reported seeing and feeling nothing at all, it
               | 's clear the reports can not be be taken at face value.
        
               | nonotreally wrote:
               | Exactly this.
               | 
               | In addition, the default shouldn't be "therefore
               | miracle".
               | 
               | The default assumption should be "humans are easy to
               | trick".
               | 
               | My claim here, is that if we put our brightest minds on
               | this, they will come back with a terrifically mundane
               | explanation for it. In the same way that weeping statues
               | are _always_ just water from a pipe somewhere.
        
             | hajile wrote:
             | The incompleteness theorem proves unequivocally that our
             | formulations that describe the universe are either
             | incomplete (aka wrong) or cannot be proven correct. The
             | question of planes of existence or deities sits at least on
             | equal footing.
             | 
             | The most fundamental question is where everything came
             | from. Even the Big Bang theory requires starting materials.
             | The more generic -1 + 1 = 0 is neither useful nor has any
             | mechanism for initialization.
             | 
             | Is little wonder that so many scientists tend toward
             | simulationism. This is just god(s) with different trappings
             | where unprovable metaphysics are studied through modern
             | math and curves instead of ancient math and geometry.
             | 
             | It seems observational true that humans have an innate
             | desire for god that is not seen in other species.
             | 
             | As a final note, the Bible teaches a final end of the
             | wicked along with the final destruction of Satan along with
             | the wicked (this was the proclamation at the beginning of
             | the Bible telling them that if they sinned, they would
             | cease to exist, through the major prophets like Isaiah's
             | woes against "the king of Tyre" to the New Testament
             | talking of a final destruction of the wicked. The current
             | tales of hell entered into Christian theology in the 3-400s
             | when the mainstream denomination mixed in ideas from the
             | pagan Roman religion. For this reason, you won't find
             | eternal torment for a few years of sin anywhere in the
             | Bible.
             | 
             | Likewise, Heaven is simply the place where God resides
             | (being called New Jerusalem). It is told that the city will
             | descend to earth after judgment is complete. People don't
             | go to Heaven after death as some other plane of existence
             | in the Biblical text. Instead, we see the archangel
             | contending with Satan to raise Moses from the dead.
             | Likewise, we see people raised from the dead when Jesus is
             | raised. This would be unnecessary if they were already in
             | Heaven. In fact, the whole Second Coming would be
             | unnecessary if that were what was actually taught. Once
             | again we see this idea entering from the same pagan sources
             | at the same time.
             | 
             | Putting aside whatever people have told you and reading the
             | book yourself, you'll find something much different than
             | the interpretations and sophistries people layer on top.
             | This remains true whether you read as a believer or a non-
             | believer (myself having experienced both at different times
             | in my life).
        
           | cogman10 wrote:
           | > What is a "good person?"
           | 
           | I know why you are asking this, but honestly it's a silly
           | question.
           | 
           | Most humans have empathy. Most humans know "things and people
           | that hurt others are bad. Humans helping others are good".
           | For the few that don't, we've got legal codes built on the
           | same principles.
           | 
           | The bible has very little morality in it that's "good" and a
           | lot of really questionable moral statements. For example,
           | beating slaves is OK so long as they recover in a day or 2
           | (Exodus 21:20-21). These questionable moral passages have
           | been used to make a lot of good people, bad people. From
           | justifying slavery, anti-"race mixing", anti LGBT+ rights,
           | etc. So why hold it up as a good moral code? Because Jesus
           | said "love one another"? He also said "No, I have come to
           | divide people against each other! 52 From now on families
           | will be split apart, three in favor of me, and two against--
           | or two in favor and three against." (Luke 12:49-56)
           | 
           | > And do you really think people who believe in God are just
           | listening to "fairy tails (sic)" so they can be face the
           | reality of death?
           | 
           | That's a large part of it. Most believe in god because their
           | parents taught them to believe in god. They continue to
           | believe in god usually because of the fear of what happens if
           | that world view is challenged or changed. A lot take
           | "Pascal's Wager" very seriously, the believe because "If I'm
           | wrong, I'll go to hell". Many believe because they are
           | constantly reinforcing that belief, they surround themselves
           | with others that believe.
           | 
           | Unless you are a fundamentalist, you'll look at the bible and
           | see it's mostly a bunch of impossible tales. Most people
           | don't seriously believe that god decided to kill the
           | population of the world in a great flood because they broke
           | his rules, they try and make it an allegory (or fairy tale).
           | 
           | So, stripe out all the tales that are allegories and what are
           | you left with?
           | 
           | > Is that really the best portrayal of Christians you can
           | come up with?
           | 
           | It's a pretty charitable portrayal. A less than charitable
           | one is one that sees them as trying to force everyone into
           | christian law. It's watching as they constantly push hate
           | filled rhetoric into the public space because "The bibles
           | says this is a sin". A less than charitable view of
           | Christianity is one that sees all the megachurch pastors
           | preaching a prosperity gospel to bilk old women out of their
           | retirement savings. Those of us outside of religion see the
           | most popular religions as cons draining capital while
           | providing little in return other than "feel good"s. For all
           | the good you can point that a religion might do, the most
           | successful religions have multimillion dollar buildings,
           | large salaries for their preachers, and starving
           | parishioners.
           | 
           | You opened asking what is a "good person". I'd say a good
           | person is one that doesn't take money from the poor and give
           | nothing in return. Most christian churches can't be called
           | "good".
        
             | hajile wrote:
             | > Exodus 21:16 KJV And he that stealeth a man, and selleth
             | him, or if he be found in his hand, he shall surely be put
             | to death.
             | 
             | The only lawful way to enter slavery was debt. Jews were
             | freed in seven years and non-Jews in at most 40 years. This
             | would actually be indentured servitude. Barbaric by today's
             | standards, but eminently humane by all other standards
             | until the last 100 years or so.
             | 
             | > Exodus 21:20-21 KJVS [20] And if a man smite his servant,
             | or his maid, with a rod, and he die under his hand; he
             | shall be surely punished. [21] Notwithstanding, if he
             | continue a day or two, he shall not be punished: for he is
             | his money.
             | 
             | The punishment implied here is death (an eye for an eye).
             | 
             | Someone owes you a ton of money. How do you get it from
             | them? Today, large scale professional lenders spread out
             | risk, but that wasn't always the case. Instead,
             | historically, not paying meant selling them into slavery to
             | recoup what loss you could. Now, how do you ensure you get
             | your money through their labor?
             | 
             | The logic follows. Likewise, if killing your slave risks
             | your own death, it's not something you'll take lightly. If
             | you did give out such a beating, you'll be praying they
             | pull through and are likely to never do it again. This
             | falls into a similar category:
             | 
             | > Exodus 21:18-19 KJVS [18] And if men strive together, and
             | one smite another with a stone, or with his fist, and he
             | die not, but keepeth his bed: [19] If he rise again, and
             | walk abroad upon his staff, then shall he that smote him be
             | quit: only he shall pay for the loss of his time, and shall
             | cause him to be thoroughly healed.
             | 
             | In fact, I don't think there was a penalty if the slave
             | fought back against such a beating.
             | 
             | Even so much as knocking out a tooth was reason to be
             | forced to free your slave.
             | 
             | > Exodus 21:26-27 KJVS [26] And if a man smite the eye of
             | his servant, or the eye of his maid, that it perish; he
             | shall let him go free for his eye's sake. [27] And if he
             | smite out his manservant's tooth, or his maidservant's
             | tooth; he shall let him go free for his tooth's sake.
             | 
             | Once again, such severe restrictions did not exist anywhere
             | else in all known history. Jesus said that some
             | restrictions (he directly referenced divorce) were less
             | that God really desired because of humanity's stubbornness.
             | Divinely inspired or not, they were still revolutionary in
             | their morality.
        
               | cogman10 wrote:
               | > Divinely inspired or not, they were still revolutionary
               | in their morality.
               | 
               | That's not a game you can play with an all knowing all
               | powerful arbitrator of absolute truth.
               | 
               | It would have been so easy for god to say "Hey, slavery
               | is absolutely wrong and immoral and I don't condone it".
               | So why didn't god? Why didn't god speak out against rape
               | (instead putting a price tag on it and selling the woman
               | to the rapist)? Why did god command genocide? Why did god
               | kill millions? Why didn't god give basic health and
               | hygiene advice? "boil water before drinking it to avoid
               | death"? Why did god mark animals as "unclean" rather than
               | just saying "Hey, you need to cook pork more so you don't
               | get sick".
               | 
               | See, that's the problem with an all knowing being. God
               | can't be fallible or else it's not God. The fact that you
               | and I can come up with what we'd both agree are moral
               | rules not found in the bible is very problematic. Things
               | like "Woman deserve to be treated equally", "Hitting your
               | child is wrong", "It's ok for people of different races
               | and nationalities to marry each other", "Inflicting pain
               | on heretics is wrong". All problems of history easily
               | addressed. Yet instead, god felt the need to talk about
               | not eating shellfish and the right way to trim your
               | beard.
        
               | spaced-out wrote:
               | >Barbaric by today's standards, but eminently humane by
               | all other standards until the last 100 years or so.
               | 
               | Why are we judging the laws of an omnipotent being by the
               | standards of humans thousands of years ago? Why can't we
               | judge his laws by the standards of today? Why can't he
               | have made the societies he ruled better for the poor,
               | women, slaves, etc... He could have told the Israelites
               | that women should be equal to men, why didn't he?
        
               | hajile wrote:
               | The core tenet of the law as seen by Christians today is
               | justice tempered with mercy because of love and the the
               | death of Jesus in payment for that mercy. If you break a
               | windows, society is out the cost of that window. Justice
               | demands payment by the breaker are the expense of
               | something else they could do with the money. Mercy is
               | when the window owner takes that debt theirselves. The
               | debtor walks away free, but the owner must now still pay
               | the price.
               | 
               | "The borrower is slave to the lender."
               | 
               | While modern societies hold this to be untrue in name, it
               | is very true in principle. Countries that owe large debts
               | do what they're told. Companies do the same. Even on an
               | individual level something like student loans follow you
               | forever. Even sin is referred to as an unrepayable debt
               | to God. To take debt without repaying would be theft.
               | 
               | Even today, direct theft or deprivation of property or
               | life is grounds for enslaving people for decades in
               | something called prisons. You're only complaint here is
               | about what debts to people and society are punishable by
               | slavery.
               | 
               | It's also worth noting that debtors prison and indentured
               | servitude existed over a half century after slavery was
               | ended and slavery as punishment is still explicitly
               | allowed under the US constitution.
               | 
               | To reiterate, the slavery presented in the Bible as a
               | means of repaying debt is actually what we'd call
               | indentured servitude. In contrast, slavery as practiced
               | in the US was absolutely indefensible according to the
               | Bible. The Bible proclaimed the slave traders as worthy
               | of death. All the massive abuses would have immediately
               | led to slaves being released and more than a few slave
               | owners being executed. Finally, with all slaves being
               | freed every 40 years making multigenerational slavery
               | impossible (don't forget that freed slaves were also to
               | be provided with a means to sustain themselves --- the
               | oldest source of "40 acres and a mule").
               | 
               | Has society actually improved on this point? At most
               | we've replaced it by stealing from every individual and
               | giving that to pay the debt of others, but a group buying
               | a slave's freedom also existed with the difference that
               | the money was to be volunteered rather than taken by
               | threat of force.
               | 
               | The Bible clearly says enslavement without cause is
               | injustice worthy of death. Once debt is accrued, someone
               | must pay. The old law gives justice at all costs (forgot
               | to mention, but slavery was a court matter). Jesus
               | differed in teaching that while justice was fair, mercy
               | and the self sacrifice of forgiving debt was better. By
               | the way, this argument is rather similar to the one given
               | by the original abolitionists who were almost universally
               | fundamentalist Christian sects.
               | 
               | Now, the burden of proof is on you. Prove without
               | religion that slavery is immoral and indentured servitude
               | is unjust.
        
             | everdrive wrote:
             | >No, I have come to divide people against each other! 52
             | From now on families will be split apart, three in favor of
             | me, and two against--or two in favor and three against."
             | 
             | This is somewhat oblique to the point you're making, but I
             | find a lot of bible passages totally incomprehensible. What
             | is Jesus saying here? That families will likely be for or
             | against him, and that families will consist of 5 members,
             | and each family will have an uneven split? (2-3 vs 3-2) It
             | seems like a very pedantic and odd way to make the point I
             | believe the author is trying to make. Does this rely on an
             | old colloquialism? Is there some reason it's phrased so
             | strangely? Would it not have sounded strange to
             | contemporary ears?
             | 
             | I actually had a bit of a shock when I finally read old
             | Greek writing: Herodotus, Plato, etc. Everything they write
             | is meant to be clearly an precisely understood. Depending
             | on the translation, the writing feels simple and modern. I
             | had naively expected all old writing to be like the bible:
             | incomprehensible, metaphorical, nonsensical.
        
               | cogman10 wrote:
               | Because you are comparing the best and most well known
               | authors of the period to the writings of a crazy
               | underground offshoot of a minority religion. Masters of
               | the craft vs that guy that believes in lizard people.
               | 
               | If you want a fascinating case study, look at what
               | happened with the "book of mormon". It's a hot mess of
               | gobbledygook and plagiarized stories yet to mormons it's
               | the best book ever written.
               | 
               | Meanwhile, you had literary giants like Charles Dickens
               | and Victor Hugo writing time honored classics in the same
               | time period which are still very readable and accessible
               | today.
        
           | IsopropylHarbor wrote:
           | > What is a "good person?"
           | 
           | "How we ought to live,"
           | 
           | -Socrates
        
             | whatshisface wrote:
             | "How ought we to live?"
             | 
             | "How we ought to live."
             | 
             | I think that's a bit circular, Socrates.
        
               | majewsky wrote:
               | Well yeah, that's the Munchhausen Trilemma. When looking
               | for a final reason, if you don't want to make an
               | axiomatic argument like "because God", you must end up
               | either going in circles or down an infinitely deep rabbit
               | hole. Since none of these options are satisfactory, the
               | search for a final reason is doomed from the start
               | (though it can still be fruitful).
        
         | peterlk wrote:
         | > you don't need fairy tails to be a good person and to come to
         | terms with death
         | 
         | I don't think this is true in general. I have a pet theory that
         | much of the conspiracy theory following we are seeing is
         | actually a weakening of church. People need spirituality - it
         | doesn't matter where that spirituality comes from (except for
         | local social pressures - but those aren't relevant to this
         | point). If they're not getting spirituality from church, it has
         | to come from somewhere. So people latch on to conspiracy
         | theories because it provides higher purpose in their lives.
         | 
         | If you are teaching your children to be good and to not fear
         | death, you need some philosophical backbone with which to unify
         | these ideas. You may well be able to provide that, but not
         | everyone is. Religion serves as a common philosophical
         | substrate for discussions that people don't know how to have.
         | It is imperfect, and definitely not as good as thoughtful
         | parenting in my opinion, but it fills some of the gaps.
        
           | randcraw wrote:
           | > [religion] fills some of the gaps.
           | 
           | But what does it fill the gaps _with_? All monotheistic
           | religions demand that you believe that an all powerful deity
           | underlies and motivates everything in the universe. That 's a
           | pretty bold premise, especially since we're told that belief
           | must be based not on evidence but solely on blind faith.
           | 
           | A 'gap filler' like that doesn't passively serve only to
           | connect one social principle with others. In the case of
           | Christianity, it compels you to believe that all of human
           | existence arises from an invisible monarch who rules the
           | universe and will damn you to eternal hell if you disobey
           | Him.
           | 
           | If a 'gap filler' is what you seek to give life a bit more
           | meaning and coherence, religion is a very inelegant way to do
           | just that.
        
           | praisewoke wrote:
           | > much of the conspiracy theory following we are seeing is
           | actually a weakening of church
           | 
           | I completely agree. Critical Theory / Wokeness / Social
           | Justice is a new secular religion on the rise for the
           | sophisticated and cults of personality are there for the
           | unsophisticated
        
             | ccn0p wrote:
             | Agreed. God help us all.
        
           | etrautmann wrote:
           | I think you have a reasonable point embedded in a false
           | dichotomy. People need to feel a sense of purpose, and that
           | can come from spirituality, engagement with a community,
           | service, fulfilling work, etc.
        
           | dntrkv wrote:
           | > I have a pet theory that much of the conspiracy theory
           | following we are seeing is actually a weakening of church
           | 
           | Except the vast majority of conspiracy theorists I know are
           | devout Christians and the stats seem to tell a similar story.
           | 
           | https://fivethirtyeight.com/features/why-qanon-has-
           | attracted...
        
         | JKCalhoun wrote:
         | We raised our kids the same. Even allowing that they might want
         | to go to church themselves. While I suggested it only once or
         | twice they were not interested.
         | 
         | I think we all know what is right and wrong. And regarding
         | death, none of us know anything at all.
         | 
         | Religion then might offer a sense of community and also solace
         | for those times when there is nothing you can do but suffer.
         | And for that I wish I could have found a religious community
         | that I was comfortable with and could have shared with my
         | children.
         | 
         | The closest I ever came was a Quaker Meeting my mother took my
         | sibling and I too when we were young. Perhaps I should have
         | tried harder to find another but it didn't seem as important as
         | other aspects of raising children -- finding as much time to do
         | stuff with them, take them traveling, etc.
        
         | gher-shyu3i wrote:
         | > to be a good person
         | 
         | It's the other way around. The religion needs to be
         | investigated to see if it provides proof of its correctness,
         | and if it does, there really isn't reason not to accept it
         | other than wanting to follow personal desires.
        
         | justaman wrote:
         | It goes beyond fairy tails. There is a sense of community that
         | (for the most part) only religion has been able to maintain in
         | the information age.
        
           | MisterBastahrd wrote:
           | Any crawfish boil in Louisiana will disabuse you of that
           | notion.
        
           | nonotreally wrote:
           | That's a lie that religions keep perpetuating. Many social
           | groups exist that are just as fulfilling.
           | 
           | My gym for example is full of people who actively work in the
           | community, help each other and gather multiple times per week
           | to better themselves and encourage their community.
           | 
           | Religion has nothing to offer that secular society cannot
           | offer.
           | 
           | It does offer a lot of downsides though.
        
             | dagw wrote:
             | _Religion has nothing to offer that secular society cannot
             | offer._
             | 
             | While this might be true in theory, I have not found it
             | true in practice. I am no longer religious and I have not
             | attended church for 20+ years, but despite trying many of
             | these secular 'alternatives' to church I have yet to find
             | anything as open, welcoming and socially supportive as I
             | found church.
             | 
             | edit: Yes, I know this isn't everybody's experience, and
             | yes some churches can be extremely bigoted, exclusionary
             | and downright evil to people they perceive as 'others'.
        
               | randcraw wrote:
               | What you say about churches being welcoming agrees with
               | my experiences too, from what I've seen of others, given
               | that I don't attend. But I think faith is only part of
               | the reason for attending.
               | 
               | Essential in the choice to join a church is the desire to
               | seek out a kind of 'marriage', where for better and
               | worse, you promise to look out for others in an extended
               | family and to help them when they need you. That sense of
               | belonging is one of the big things that brings everyone
               | in a church together -- the wish to be part of a
               | community that regularly joins together and where you can
               | share your life with others.
               | 
               | Membership in a social club can't do that.
        
               | nonotreally wrote:
               | In the strongest possible terms, I reject this entirely.
               | 
               | I'm trying to put into words how much I disagree and why,
               | but I'm failing. Others have done a better job than I
               | can.
               | 
               | I can only recommend you read the strong counter opinions
               | to your position.
               | 
               | I wish you well. But I wont participate in these groups.
        
               | [deleted]
        
               | dragonwriter wrote:
               | > Membership in a social club can't do that.
               | 
               | As someone who has been involved in both Churches,
               | Church-associated social clubs, and no -Church social
               | clubs, yes, it absolutely can; in fact, what you describe
               | is explicitly part of the concept of many non-Church
               | social clubs, some of which evolved from (or in the
               | tradition of) organizations which started as sub-church
               | organizations within churches by which this function was
               | more tightly expressed for members than in the broader
               | church.
               | 
               | But even where it isn't explicitly part of the deal, it's
               | very common to evolve as an implicit part of a social
               | club.
        
             | danans wrote:
             | > Religion has nothing to offer that secular society cannot
             | offer.
             | 
             | Similar to ethnic nationalism, it can and throughout
             | history has provided the glue that holds groups together
             | when they are in conflicts with other groups.
             | 
             | Unlike a secular club, religion cements this power inter-
             | generationally by insinuating itself into the key human
             | institutions of marriage, reproduction, child rearing, and
             | membership in the religion. If you look at any ethno-
             | religious state in the world (i.e. many middle eastern
             | countries), they function this way.
             | 
             | The experiment of a secular national identity (based on
             | shared beliefs about people's rights and dignity) is the
             | only institution that can effectively fulfill this aspect
             | of religion, but as we are now seeing, it can also stumble
             | if it doesn't tend to the needs of its constituents well
             | enough.
        
               | nonotreally wrote:
               | I accept this.
               | 
               | But I don't actually see how that is different than
               | religion. Religions have failed many times throughout
               | history.
               | 
               | Modern society has been working well enough for a while
               | now. How long do we have to do it before we can ditch
               | these superstitions?
        
             | randcraw wrote:
             | Do you imagine that one of the social groups you belong to
             | would willingly play the role in your life that church
             | members often do? Would someone from one of your groups:
             | 
             | - drive you to a doctor appointment?
             | 
             | - repair your house when you can't (perhaps due to injury)?
             | 
             | - take you in for a few days after a crisis at home?
             | 
             | - prepare a week of meals for you, if needed?
             | 
             | These are fairly commonplace roles that I've seen filled
             | routinely by members of a church that I've seldom seen
             | arise from other social networks. And never from a health
             | club.
             | 
             | I don't attend church but I've regularly seen this kind of
             | extended community in others who do. The role churches play
             | of an extended family is incomparable to any other social
             | network I know. This degree of compassion and service to
             | non-family members seems to require a greater common bond
             | than just sweating together.
        
               | nonotreally wrote:
               | Yes to all of this. I have either participated in or can
               | think of examples of all of these examples from this gym
               | group.
               | 
               | People are people. We don't need gods to make us care
               | about each other.
        
           | jordanpg wrote:
           | While I agree that there is something important to be said
           | for maintaining a sense of community, it obviously does not
           | require any kind of supernatural belief to do so.
           | 
           | I would argue that the cost paid by society due to the
           | institutionalized anti-intellectualism embodied by the church
           | and largely embraced by the government far exceeds whatever
           | communitarian benefits the church itself contributes to
           | society.
           | 
           | Let's find those benefits elsewhere.
        
             | praisewoke wrote:
             | > it obviously does not require any kind of supernatural
             | belief to do so.
             | 
             | How is this so obvious? Where's the counterexample? I've
             | never lived it
        
               | InitialLastName wrote:
               | Some alternative church-like organizations further out on
               | the no-theism-required spectrum (maybe more limited in
               | area affected).
               | 
               | - Ethical Cultures Society
               | 
               | - Unitarian Universalist Church
               | 
               | - Quaker meetings (for non-pastoral Friends, theism is
               | present but not necessary).
        
               | fader wrote:
               | You've never seen a non-religious club? Or a political
               | group? Or a volunteer society?
               | 
               | There are plenty of non-religious communities all over
               | the world. Look at any co-op if you want an example.
        
               | TeMPOraL wrote:
               | But the thing is, these non-religious communities tend
               | not to be stable long-term, they're not as well-
               | coordinated, and don't seem to influence people's
               | behavior all that much.
               | 
               | Abstracted from all particulars of a given belief system,
               | religions seem to be a refined, hyperoptimized form of
               | community building.
        
               | nonotreally wrote:
               | This isn't true.
               | 
               | Secular society is an example of this. We have common
               | goals that we work towards.
               | 
               | We don't have words for "gather once a week and do xyz"
               | in many context, but that doesn't stop us for doing it.
               | 
               | Join an electronics club and meet up every week for the
               | next 10 years. People do this ALL the time and it isn't
               | an issue.
        
           | toomuchtodo wrote:
           | Yes, we've had to create our own social fabric that a church
           | would've been, but as our loved ones and friends are spread
           | across the country and world, a weekly gathering would do us
           | little good.
           | 
           | The challenge is to build community without the judgement
           | that comes along with the beliefs required to attend a
           | church. We strongly support LGBTQ+ folks, the idea of ethical
           | non monogamy, people who elect to be child free, etc, which
           | through our travels and experiences with religious believers,
           | we've found incompatible with any church social fabric.
        
             | splithalf wrote:
             | You may find that you judge others, and others judge you,
             | without the help of religions. Some would say that's one
             | theme of Christian belief, "judge not, lest we be judged
             | ourselves." You are ironically doing what you find fault
             | in, judging others. "Christians are too judgmental." Well,
             | so are non-religious folks and they don't have any
             | scripture or religious leaders to remind them to be humble,
             | not to cast stones, turn the other cheek, love thy
             | neighbor. If nothing else look for counter examples, the
             | many people of faith who do a lot of good in the world
             | through charity and spiritual work. I assure you, these
             | people exist. Don't fall prey to confirmation bias and a
             | culture that stigmatizes faith and spirituality as
             | unsophisticated and oppressive, it's literally the opposite
             | of the truth if you look at it empirically.
        
               | praisewoke wrote:
               | Woke scolds are more judgmental than any old church marm
               | but have no God they feel they should humble themselves
               | before. The leaders of the Intersectional crusade see
               | themselves as the highest moral paragons and the whole
               | faith lacks self awareness
        
               | nonotreally wrote:
               | More judgemental than the church? How do you reconcile
               | the entire gay communities experience with this
               | statement?
        
             | AuthorizedCust wrote:
             | > _...without the judgement that comes along with the
             | beliefs required to attend a church._
             | 
             | You're responding to fundamentalism and certain non-
             | fundamentalist denominations that take fundamentalist views
             | on selected issues.
             | 
             | Look at recent denominational schisms: Episcopal Church
             | (United States), the United Methodist Church (resolution is
             | on the table but delayed due to the pandemic), etc. The
             | people on the right side of history and the church are
             | winning, and the bigots and fundamentalists are splitting
             | off.
        
           | gspr wrote:
           | > There is a sense of community that (for the most part) only
           | religion has been able to maintain in the information age.
           | 
           | Would it not be healthier to center that community around
           | something real? It doesn't have to be something serious, but
           | something _real_ would be good.
        
           | jimhefferon wrote:
           | > a sense of community
           | 
           | I'm sorry to see the downvotes since this as an intelligent
           | point. I'm not religious but one thing I do envy in my
           | church-going friends is fellowship.
           | 
           | I'm a man in my 60's, and maybe all this is not applicable
           | for the majority of folks here. But people don't have groups
           | like clubs or bowling leagues very much anymore. Watching TV
           | at home is fine, but not enough. (I'm in a club that is now
           | breaking up, as these things do, and I think there is a very
           | good chance I will not see these friends regularly again,
           | which is too bad.) Of course, I could volunteer at a food
           | bank, etc., but people I know that are in a church seem to
           | find it more natural.
        
             | justaman wrote:
             | In my experience nothing has been able to replicate what
             | religion does for communities. Every Sunday hundreds of
             | people get together and chat over coffee before service.
             | This mass gathering offers the opportunity to find other
             | people with similar interests which in turn leads to small
             | groups. Some will say, "That's what meetup.com is for.". I
             | agree, meetup.com is great, but it doesn't have that
             | central core of hundreds of people before splitting up into
             | smaller groups. Meetup.com cuts out the larger group
             | entirely and pushes people into smaller groups
             | automatically. That's an important thing that gets lost.
        
               | gumby wrote:
               | I meet like minded friends from the group classes at they
               | gym, working at a homeless shelter, some conferences,
               | being on the school board. "Like minded" means these
               | aren't folks with whom I only discuss things related to
               | how we met.
               | 
               | That's kind of how society works, right? If you go to
               | some sort of religious festival it's merely another form
               | of this.
               | 
               | I'm not even particularly gregarious.
        
             | jordanpg wrote:
             | Much like claims about morality, the claim of the religious
             | to be the only glue that can hold communities together is
             | an obviously false claim that the religious get to make
             | with a straight face because of the moment in history that
             | we live in. In the United States, the primacy of
             | Christianity over the last few hundred years has resulted
             | in a culture that maintains nonsensical claims like these
             | enshrined and untouchable.
             | 
             | Of course, this had to change eventually because the
             | underlying supernatural theories are self-evidently false.
             | 
             | For minus the supernatural claims, religious is just
             | another secular organization which fosters certain cultural
             | and social beliefs, like many, many, many others. There is
             | nothing special about religion and there never has been.
             | Human beings do not _require_ certain questions to be
             | answered with recourse to magic in order to function. See
             | the atomic theory for a counterexample.
             | 
             | I beg the moderates among us to agree that community is
             | good, but to insist that it need not come with ridiculous
             | magic strings attached.
        
         | splithalf wrote:
         | You don't care about it's positive influence on other people? I
         | understand feeling like you are enlightened and psychologically
         | adjusted such that you don't need anything beyond science and
         | your own intellect, but surely you see the positive effects it
         | has on other people, and cultures? Do you really think a world
         | without black churches is a better world?
        
           | toomuchtodo wrote:
           | If people need to fear a God or Hell to be a good person,
           | there is value in the stability that generates. Plenty of
           | people out there who do believe and still do terrible things
           | to others.
           | 
           | If someone has a positive experience at church and it adds
           | value to your life, I'm not judging nor do I have anything
           | bad to say about the value it provides.
        
           | MisterBastahrd wrote:
           | My black kids are doing just fine without a church and I've
           | got to wonder why you think they need one.
        
             | splithalf wrote:
             | That's a crazy leap to make from my statement which was
             | that killing off black churches would not make the world
             | better. That is the key counter factual for those who claim
             | religion has no benefit to society, or even stronger claims
             | that it retards our moral progress. I think the evidence is
             | clear if you're honest about the data. Faith helps people
             | with life's difficulties. I'm certainly not saying any one
             | group needs faith more than any other group. No Christian
             | person will ever make such a claim which is antithetical to
             | the core premise of Christianity, universal brotherhood.
        
               | MisterBastahrd wrote:
               | > No Christian person will ever make such a claim which
               | is antithetical to the core premise of Christianity,
               | universal brotherhood.
               | 
               | Ah yes, no true Christian.
               | 
               | A visit to the American South will disabuse you of that
               | notion.
        
         | undefined1 wrote:
         | I agree, but beware that many people end up filling a religion
         | shaped hole with other things. look at how many of our fellow
         | atheists have joined the church of social justice. adhering to
         | a new kind of religion and dogma. things you can't say,
         | heretics who must be cast out, good vs evil, original sin,
         | preachers, zealots, self flagellation. it's all there, except
         | for a path to redemption.
         | 
         | https://reason.com/2020/06/29/kneeling-in-the-church-of-soci...
        
           | gumby wrote:
           | > religion shaped hole
           | 
           | Your statement presumes that there is something innate about
           | religion.
           | 
           | There are billions of people who live completely off the line
           | of explicitly atheistic <-> avowedly devout. They are by
           | their nature not generally considered in such discussions.
        
           | nicbou wrote:
           | I'm not sure if it makes sense to connect those two. Is there
           | any more political zealotry among atheists than among the
           | religious?
        
           | oblio wrote:
           | I think that at some level you need a belief system. There
           | will always be things beyond us, so at some level the only
           | thing we can do is guess. But we shouldn't let those guesses
           | dominate our life and we should re-evaluate them completely,
           | say, at least every decade.
        
           | freewilly1040 wrote:
           | QAnon is also a filler of this void.
        
       | mrfusion wrote:
       | I think a lot of people have thrown the baby out with the
       | bathwater so to speak. There's so much value in being spiritual
       | but we get offended by the extremes of religion and toss it all
       | away.
        
       | karmasimida wrote:
       | I don't care about religions in general. It is not necessary to
       | my daily operations, and I have no interests to have it
       | intertwined with my life either.
       | 
       | Why would I assume there is some God anywhere anyway?
        
         | timbit42 wrote:
         | Before science was a thing, people used the idea of God to
         | explain the unexplainable. Today science explains those things
         | for us.
        
           | nathanaldensr wrote:
           | Science cannot explain love, nor why it is better to love
           | than to be selfish. Science says survival of the fittest, so
           | why aren't we all killing each other in a quest to stand atop
           | the pile of bones?
           | 
           | There is more to the universe than what it observable. This
           | in and of itself does not mean there is or is not a God.
           | Spirituality provides us the motivation to be ethical and
           | good instead of selfish and evil.
        
       | whalesalad wrote:
       | I had a unique experience growing up in a religious family (that
       | is very tolerant and respectful of all world religions) while
       | simultaneously being immersed in Scientology via a private school
       | experience.
       | 
       | The thing that underscores all of my experiences has been
       | hypocrisy. So many people just want to belong to a group, or were
       | raised in it and know nothing better. They don't practice what
       | they preach.
       | 
       | I can't help but think the world will be better off when we
       | abolish big religion.
        
         | vlunkr wrote:
         | I think hypocrisy is inevitable for a couple of reasons.
         | 
         | 1) In theory, people go to church because they want to improve,
         | not because they are already perfect. It's not hypocritical to
         | make mistakes.
         | 
         | 2) Hypocrisy is everywhere. No one really does scrum, no one
         | really does TDD, no motivational speaker is happy all the time,
         | and no christian is without sin. This shouldn't be surprising.
        
         | symfoniq wrote:
         | The world will be better off when we abolish freedom of belief?
         | That doesn't sound like a world I'd want to live in.
        
           | visarga wrote:
           | There's a long way from freedom of belief to the kind of
           | identity politics practiced by religious groups. Ironically
           | religious people are under the risk of getting cancelled by
           | their own group if they dare wrongthink, so they are less
           | free.
        
             | throwaway0a5e wrote:
             | >There's a long way from freedom of belief to the kind of
             | identity politics practiced by religious groups. Ironically
             | religious people are under the risk of getting cancelled by
             | their own group if they dare wrongthink, so they are less
             | free.
             | 
             | Are we discussing organized religions or political parties?
             | Your comment could apply to either.
        
           | whalesalad wrote:
           | When I say abolish big religion I mean the way it's
           | integrated so tightly in society. The war on drugs, abortion,
           | non profit tax avoidance, so many fucked up things stem from
           | the belief that my religion is better than yours and you need
           | to believe what I believe.
           | 
           | You can believe whatever the hell you want - but it's not for
           | you or society or anyone else to decide how I can live my
           | life.
        
             | bobthechef wrote:
             | > When I say abolish big religion I mean the way it's
             | integrated so tightly in society.
             | 
             | There has never existed a society that didn't have a
             | religion. Everyone has a religion, what they take to be the
             | highest good, what they worship. It just so happens that
             | those who naively brush off what they take to be "religion"
             | simply, probably tacitly, take on some vulgar and crude
             | variety.
             | 
             | > The war on drugs, abortion, non profit tax avoidancee, so
             | many fucked up things
             | 
             | You realize that your views are also views, right? You
             | presume some kind of objectivity while denying that right
             | to others. Sounds kind of intolerant to me, especially if
             | we go by your own prejudices.
             | 
             | You also appear to have scapegoated religion for various
             | things you don't like (mind you, things like the opposition
             | to abortion is a moral question, not a sectarian one,
             | though sadly, the myth that it is seems to persist,
             | probably because it allows militant pro-choice types to
             | exploit "religious freedom" as a way to frame it as a
             | "private matter" since religion under a liberal regime is
             | subordinated to liberal doctrine, which has the interesting
             | effect of elevating liberalism to the rank of state
             | religion).
             | 
             | > the belief that my religion is better than yours and you
             | need to believe what I believe
             | 
             | Hold on. Two things are being conflated. First, if there is
             | one truth, then either a religion is true (or at least
             | contains some truth), or it isn't (or contains falsehoods).
             | That which is true should be accepted, that which isn't
             | shouldn't. The idea that religion is just a thing we
             | believe simply because we wish to believe it is absurd. You
             | believe something because you have good reasons to believe
             | it, not because you wish it to be the case.
             | 
             | Second, what do you mean by "you need to believe what I
             | believe"? This has nothing to do with what others believe.
             | It has everything to do with whether something is true. Of
             | course, you shouldn't try to force anyone to believe
             | anything, even if it is or you think it is true, though any
             | society will punish or constrain someone _acting_ on wrong
             | beliefs in some cases. All legal and judicial systems do
             | this, obviously, and they can do this with a tangible
             | tenacity.
             | 
             | I'd also add that there what falls under "religion" differs
             | enough that it makes no sense to criticize "religion"
             | categorically. This kind of approach typically conceals a
             | particular real or imagined religion that the person in
             | question has in mind, perhaps particular experiences, and
             | from which that person hastily generalizes to "religion" as
             | a category. The error here should be obvious, especially if
             | you take into consideration what I've already written,
             | namely, that everyone has some kind of religion, however
             | vague or crude or mundane or insane.
        
             | scythe wrote:
             | >The war on drugs
             | 
             | WoD wasn't started by religious authorities at all, but by
             | (secular) technocrats. Whether the motivation was really
             | public health or political persecution is disputed, but
             | blaming the Church is just silly. Some quasi-religious
             | justification was used, but that's just political strategy.
             | 
             | >non profit tax avoidance
             | 
             | All religions are guaranteed equivalent tax privileges in
             | the United States Constitution, as Madison intended and the
             | courts have affirmed.
        
         | liaukovv wrote:
         | As you said yourself, people do it to belong to a social
         | circle.
         | 
         | What are you replacing this extremely important function with?
         | Vacuum?
        
           | WJW wrote:
           | Sports, online forums, student fraternities, social clubs of
           | every variety, etc. There are many ways to get active in
           | society that don't involve beliefs in higher beings.
        
             | mantas wrote:
             | None of these bring the whole (or even the majority of)
             | community together. It's just social bubbles further
             | fragmenting society.
        
             | da_big_ghey wrote:
             | in theories these are perhaps able to replace a religions
             | activities. in reality we are notice large decreasing in
             | socialisation in young people and so this replacement is
             | maybe not working so well as in theories. even social clubs
             | you have mention are on declining also. one go to rotary or
             | others and it is all old persons. have a shared value
             | system is making for great connecting between persons.
        
             | Mertax wrote:
             | Few of these instill purpose and influence behavior of a
             | person in the same way that religion does. You might
             | disagree, but I would argue that the virtues extolled by
             | the vast majority of religious organizations are good
             | ideals to be striving for and wonder what is going to
             | replace this?
        
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               | RankingMember wrote:
               | I can only speak for myself, but I try to treat the
               | people I encounter well because people that don't are, in
               | my experience, dicks. No higher power necessary. I've
               | also found in my life that trying to derive purpose from
               | some external motivator (religion, self-help books, etc.)
               | is a recipe for temporary motivation only. Real, lasting
               | change comes from self-discovery and discipline, in my
               | opinion.
        
               | gregkerzhner wrote:
               | I would love to see stats on religious prevalence and
               | incidence of crime, homocide, etc. My guess is that such
               | stats won't put religion (especially Christianity) in a
               | favorable light.
        
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               | MisterBastahrd wrote:
               | You mean self-righteousness and a superiority complex.
               | The person who lives a decent life because it is right
               | for everyone is morally superior to someone who lives a
               | decent life because he fears of being cast into a lake of
               | fire.
               | 
               | And even then, Christians murder more people in the US
               | than anyone, per-capita or otherwise.
        
             | ISL wrote:
             | Those activities don't help much when you encounter the
             | really big challenges in life.
             | 
             | Spirituality offers frameworks for dealing with, and often
             | embracing, many of the questions for which there may never
             | be a satisfactory answer.
             | 
             | Whether you believe the postulates of a religion or not,
             | there a ton of higher-level lessons to be learned from
             | those who do.
        
               | WJW wrote:
               | You make it seem like religion is some sort of
               | prerequisite for gaining wisdom, while at best it seems
               | to be orthogonal. For example, reading philosophy from
               | both modern and ancient sources can provide the framework
               | you mention without ever getting all that close to the
               | trappings of traditional religions.
               | 
               | There are tons of higher level lessons to be learned from
               | both religious and non-religious sources.
        
           | tiborsaas wrote:
           | The problem is not with the goal, it's the quality of those
           | circles. There are groups without much hypocrisy, mysticism
           | and abuse.
        
         | Loughla wrote:
         | >The thing that underscores all of my experiences has been
         | hypocrisy.
         | 
         | This is, consistently, what I hear from friends and family as
         | to why they have drifted away from the Catholic church, and is
         | solidly my own reason as well.
         | 
         | You see people, day-in-day out being terrible, judgmental,
         | hateful people, except on Sunday when they're in the front row
         | being holier than thou. It grates on you, and leaves a bad
         | taste. It's even worse, because those people tend to be the
         | ones who gravitate toward leadership positions within your
         | local church.
         | 
         | My theory is that people have always felt that way, but it was
         | harder to nail down these awful people _before social media_.
         | Now that everyone puts everything on social media, it 's easy
         | to see, in plain black and white print, that the deacon really
         | is an asshole.
         | 
         | The one thing that I do genuinely lament from the death of
         | large religious congregations (at least in my part of the
         | states), is that there are no replacement social constructs for
         | people to gather and feel a sense of community. I'm certain
         | this has something to do with the splintering of American
         | discourse; not the religion inherently, but the social aspect
         | is lacking and legitimately missed by most folks.
        
           | RHSeeger wrote:
           | > You see people, day-in-day out being terrible, judgmental,
           | hateful people, except on Sunday when they're in the front
           | row being holier than thou.
           | 
           | But you see this nearly everywhere, with every type of
           | organization/group. A prime example would be politicians and
           | political groups who constantly talk about how they want to
           | help people, but then throw those same people under the bus
           | to get what they want. This is not something unique to any
           | one type of organization.
           | 
           | From my experience, there are lots of good people in most
           | religious organizations. I would venture to say, at least in
           | the northeast US (which is where most of my experience is),
           | it's the majority of the people. However, as with any
           | organization, it's common for the bad apples to be the ones
           | that rise in power, because they don't care who they hurt to
           | get do so. This, too, is true everywhere.
        
             | nonameiguess wrote:
             | Those other institutions are also losing credibility. Fewer
             | people than ever claim membership in unions, political
             | parties, and public office holders and legislatures as
             | groups are continually setting new records for low approval
             | ratings.
        
               | RHSeeger wrote:
               | > Fewer people than ever claim membership in unions,
               | political parties,
               | 
               | That is exactly the opposite of my experience.
        
               | tablespoon wrote:
               | >> Fewer people than ever claim membership in unions,
               | political parties,
               | 
               | > That is exactly the opposite of my experience.
               | 
               | How so? Union membership has undergone a well-documented
               | decline. While politics/political ideology does seem a
               | lot more prominent, the role of the political parties has
               | seemed to wither. Political activity seems much more
               | ephemeral and individual.
        
           | gwbas1c wrote:
           | > This is, consistently, what I hear from friends and family
           | as to why they have drifted away from the Catholic church,
           | and is solidly my own reason as well.
           | 
           | I was raised Catholic and decided, as a teenager, that I
           | didn't want to be Catholic as an adult.
           | 
           | > My theory is that people have always felt that way, but it
           | was harder to nail down these awful people before social
           | media.
           | 
           | IMO, two things:
           | 
           | 1: The changes in the 1960s to the English (native language)
           | mass
           | 
           | 2: The shift towards conservative politics
           | 
           | Have you been to a latin mass? (The old-style mass that the
           | Church conducted until the 1960s.) It's a very different
           | experience than modern Catholicism, and much more similar to
           | eastern-style worship.
           | 
           | But, more importantly, the latin mass has a lot less
           | preaching. It's a meditation, and then a social gathering
           | afterwards. It's a lot more universal in the sense that you
           | don't really have to explicitly align with the beliefs to
           | still be comfortable with the community. (Edit: As in, if you
           | don't believe in the whole Jesus thing, you can just enjoy
           | the chanting at let your mind drift away.)
           | 
           | But, the thing that really turned me off of the Catholic
           | church was the drift towards conservative politics. I
           | attended a friend's wedding where the church had a massive
           | anti-abortion billboard over their parking lot for the whole
           | town to see. Another time I went to a mass in honor of some
           | deceased family members and there were posters in the church
           | advocating that members vote against marijuana legalization.
        
             | AnIdiotOnTheNet wrote:
             | At least the abortion thing makes sense: Catholics believe
             | that the soul enters the body at the moment of conception,
             | so abortion is effectively murder. It would be odd for the
             | church to not openly oppose it.
        
               | MisterBastahrd wrote:
               | They also believe that state sanctioned executions are
               | murder, yet somehow the vast majority of Catholic
               | adherents tend to be less willing to make political or
               | advocacy decisions based on that.
        
               | AnIdiotOnTheNet wrote:
               | I'm not here to defend hypocrites, just to point out that
               | there is nothing inherently unreasonable about a Catholic
               | church putting up an anti-abortion billboard.
        
               | Analemma_ wrote:
               | > Catholics believe that the soul enters the body at the
               | moment of conception,
               | 
               | They don't, though, or at least they didn't always. No
               | less a Church authority than Saint Thomas Aquinas said
               | ensoulment didn't happen before quickening. The total
               | prohibition on abortion is a relatively recent
               | theological innovation, and this insistence that it has
               | always been thus is one of the things above mentioned
               | that leaves a bad taste in people's mouths can they can
               | plainly see it isn't true.
        
               | svieira wrote:
               | St. Thomas also held that _contraception_ was wrong, not
               | merely abortion, so the fact that ensoulment didn 't
               | happen before quickening (in his learned opinion) didn't
               | change his understanding of how moral contraception and
               | abortion are (he believed they were both gravely sinful).
               | 
               | St. Thomas said ensoulment happened at quickening because
               | the science of the time said that the zygote was a simple
               | thing. Given that understanding, St. Thomas held that the
               | rational soul was not necessary to explain the
               | developments that happened and in fact, that the soul
               | which animated such simple matter must be simpler. Modern
               | science tells us that the zygote is anything but simple
               | and so St. Thomas' objection on the basis of a "simple"
               | material component are incorrect. St. Thomas also said
               | that all that he had ever written was "so much straw"
               | after receiving a mystical experience of God's love (not
               | _wrong_, just completely inadequate).
        
               | gwbas1c wrote:
               | Spend a little time researching how the Catholic church
               | used to oppose infanticide. The anti-abortion stance
               | makes a lot more sense when put into historical context.
        
               | gwbas1c wrote:
               | Well, when I went to a steakhouse in India, I didn't need
               | to cross a picket line. Nor did I see billboards
               | condemning me for eating beef.
               | 
               | > It would be odd for the church to not openly oppose it
               | 
               | There's a difference between politics and religion.
               | Getting back to my point, my opinion is that treating
               | abortion as a _political_ issue is one of the many
               | reasons why people leave.
        
               | RHSeeger wrote:
               | > Well, when I went to a steakhouse in India, I didn't
               | need to cross a picket line.
               | 
               | The comment was specifically about how it didn't seem
               | unreasonable for the church to publicly oppose abortion,
               | in response to a billboard on the church's property.
               | 
               | > the church had a massive anti-abortion billboard over
               | their parking lot
               | 
               | It wasn't about the members of the church protesting at a
               | hospital or other facility that performs abortions.
               | Admittedly, that does happen in some places, but it's not
               | what was being discussed.
        
               | gwbas1c wrote:
               | The Catholic opposition to abortion is very similar to
               | the Hindu opposition to consuming beef.
               | 
               | Talk to some people from India about political/religious
               | issues there. Eating beef, meat, and/or eggs is as
               | offensive to some people in India, for religions reasons,
               | as abortion is in the US.
               | 
               | Yet India doesn't have the same mass exodus from its
               | churches as the US does.
        
               | bitcurious wrote:
               | > In northern India, cow slaughter is illegal in all the
               | states, with Jammu & Kashmir and Jharkhand leading the
               | list in the terms of severity of punishment. A person
               | found guilty of cow slaughter can be sent to 10 years
               | imprisonment in these two states.
               | 
               | > Kerala is the only state in the south where there are
               | no restrictions on the slaughter and consumption of cow
               | meat
               | 
               | https://indianexpress.com/article/india/india-news-
               | india/bee...
        
               | selimthegrim wrote:
               | That law in Kashmir is from RPC and was abolished when
               | state was abolished (and isn't enforced in Muslim
               | majority areas). Furthermore you can read DN Jha on how
               | Brahmins ate plenty of beef in Vedic times until
               | Buddhists showed up.
        
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         | YinglingLight wrote:
         | 2013 is calling, it wants its fedora back.
        
         | gottebp wrote:
         | As one who loves the Catholic faith, despite the failings of
         | its members, and who yet also fails to live it well -- I agree
         | with you that hypocrisy is a massive problem.
         | 
         | The group Jesus is harshest with in the Gospels is in fact the
         | hypocrites. He even calls them white washed tombs full of dead
         | men's bones! What a lamentable state of things.
         | 
         | G.K. Chesterton's words in "What's Wrong with the World" come
         | to mind where he points out "The Christian ideal has not been
         | tried and found wanting. It has been found difficult; and left
         | untried." Perhaps this applies to all major belief systems
         | though, and not Christianity alone.
        
         | giantg2 wrote:
         | "I can't help but think the world will be better off when we
         | abolish big religion."
         | 
         | So those people who want to belong to a group and believe in it
         | without seeing what might be better can move into political
         | groups for their identity? The actions and methods are human
         | nature, so I think they will just move to a different domain.
        
           | Applejinx wrote:
           | The OP says 'U.S.'. US churches ARE political groups, in
           | practical terms.
        
             | giantg2 wrote:
             | Any organization is political. The difference is whether we
             | are talking about the organization or the members. Most
             | members are not that politically involved. There are plenty
             | of people who are very religious and participate in the
             | religious ceremonies. If these people no longer had that,
             | it's possible some of them would move into material
             | participation in political parties, offices, etc.
        
         | bitshiftfaced wrote:
         | > So many people just want to belong to a group, or were raised
         | in it and know nothing better. They don't practice what they
         | preach.
         | 
         | And it's not necessarily a bad thing when you frame it as a
         | cultural institution. For many people, they grew up with the
         | church and its traditions. Their families and friends share the
         | same traditions, and it's part of their identity. They may not
         | believe in the supernatural stuff or even feel aligned with the
         | moral system, but it's still part of their culture.
         | 
         | You could say that's hypocritical, but we expect a an attitude
         | of humility in regards to many cultures who have even more
         | "backwards" practices than this. I think we ought to apply the
         | same attitude here.
        
           | whalesalad wrote:
           | It becomes a problem though when you don't subscribe or even
           | understand the core tenets of your faith - and yet it _is_
           | your identity. So you vote with your friends and family even
           | if you don't know what you're voting for. And when you feel
           | your tribe being threatened, you get defensive and defend
           | your tribe - even when you don't know what you are defending.
           | 
           | That is why the US has become so divided recently. That is
           | why the blind devotion to a cause should be questioned by
           | every believer. "Wait a sec, do I really believe this? Do I
           | really want this to be my identity?"
           | 
           | You can be a good person without being a Catholic or a
           | Muslim.
        
             | bitshiftfaced wrote:
             | Sure, there are some people out there like that, and it's
             | true for every culture, and it's true that people ought to
             | think for themselves.
             | 
             | I think we can agree that religion and goodness can run
             | orthogonally, but let's not be so paternalistic to assume
             | that people are unable to participate within a community's
             | cultural traditions without sacrificing their ability to
             | think for themselves.
        
         | Guthur wrote:
         | The hypocrisy is that they preach and ideal and fail to achieve
         | it?
         | 
         | One thinks this is because ideals are meant to strived towards
         | but not necessarily achieved.
         | 
         | A solution of throwing out ideals because they are hard to
         | achieve and a little myopic in my opinion.
         | 
         | What i find an interesting thought is that you either believe
         | these teachings are from a higher power or they are just from
         | man.
         | 
         | The former had obvious implications, but the with the latter
         | you will then need to answer the question is it written by
         | lunatics or people that actually knew what they were doing?
        
           | AnIdiotOnTheNet wrote:
           | > The hypocrisy is that they preach and ideal and fail to
           | achieve it?
           | 
           | No, I don't think that's the case. I think the hypocrisy is
           | that they _don 't_ try. What turns people off of organized
           | religion is seeing so many who participate with words but not
           | with their hearts. Of course when you have Jesus Christ as
           | your role model you're going to fail to live up to it a lot
           | of the time, but if you're not at least trying then in what
           | sense are you a Christian?
        
         | AcerbicZero wrote:
         | I'm not religious in the slightest, but the hypocrisy has
         | always been fairly obvious from the outside.
         | 
         | That said, I have serious doubts religion and hypocrisy are
         | aligned anymore than the other sources of truth - especially
         | when followed without applying critical thinking skills.
        
         | ubermonkey wrote:
         | You went to Delphian?
         | 
         | I had a coworker who went there. He had, uh, stories.
        
           | whalesalad wrote:
           | Delphi Academy was actually next door. I attended a school
           | called Renaissance. All of the "Applied Scholastics" schools
           | are a joke.
        
       | DonnyV wrote:
       | Good!!! We can finally move forward as a species without the
       | chains of religion.
        
       | propogandist wrote:
       | There's no call out of how churches and places of worship /
       | community were all shutdown through 2020 for fear of the virus.
        
       | lazyninja987 wrote:
       | I am interested in one more detail. average family income for all
       | church members.
       | 
       | I have observed hindus, muslims, christians, jains. My
       | observation so far is, religious fervor is directly to 2 factors.
       | 
       | 1. is that religion a minority in a given state ? 2. whether you
       | grew up in prosperity (not wealth, but above middle class)?
       | 
       | societies which are poor tend towards fundamentalism. religion
       | gives some sort of escape place where poor might forget their
       | harsh reality and usually its provides some sort of alt-reality
       | that their after life is going to be good. rich people who
       | already seen those comforts dont search for such answers.
       | 
       | Also, if that particular religion is minority in a country, the
       | religion offers companionship and keep the group close. also, it
       | forms the main identity of that group which is difficult to get
       | away from.
       | 
       | for the above reasons, In india, there are a lot of atheist
       | hindus, but not many athiest muslims or atheist christians.
        
         | krastanov wrote:
         | I have the impression this does not necessarily apply to the
         | US. There are plenty of examples of... vicious(?)
         | fundamentalists that are rich and of the ethnic majority.
        
           | lazyninja987 wrote:
           | ketzo is accurate. if a rich person is supporting
           | fundementalism, its mostly to consolidate their power and
           | protect his/her wealth.
           | 
           | Rich hindus allways have means to do so with out resorting to
           | fundementalism.
           | 
           | for example, ambani supported congress (which is anti-hindu),
           | and when congress got weak, he started support BJP (which is
           | pro-hindu). In both cases it is to protect his own interests.
           | 
           | Same is happening in US.
        
           | ketzo wrote:
           | I think that the people about whom you're talking tend to use
           | fundamentalist religion as means to enforce existing power
           | structures from which they benefit; there's a reason that
           | modern American conservatism is so inextricably tied to the
           | evangelical churches, and why Southern Baptism was once used
           | to justify the capture, sale, forced labor, and breeding of
           | human beings with different skin colors.
           | 
           | I guess what I'm saying is that your point is not mutually
           | exclusive with the comment to which you're replying, and that
           | extreme religious values can have multiple "purposes,"
           | explicit or implicit.
        
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       | mrfusion wrote:
       | Ten years ago I would have said this is a good thing. But now I'm
       | actually terrified of whatever replaces religion for these
       | people.
        
       | bushbaba wrote:
       | A post religious society might not be a better one.
       | 
       | Religious institutions bring a sense of community and belonging.
       | They are a large powerhouse in many social programs. Heck most
       | children likely are preschooled through religious institutions.
       | 
       | I fear that post religion we could very well end up worse off.
        
       | whiddershins wrote:
       | In my opinion the main problem for religion right now is the
       | failure to explain their arguments at the highest intellectual
       | level, publicly, consistently.
       | 
       | Once I was exposed to better theology and philosophy of
       | Christianity I was blown away. Edward Feser's 'The Last
       | Superstition' helped open this up.
       | 
       | I have no idea why the level of discourse is on average so
       | primitive, I think church leaders have been systematically
       | underestimating the populace.
        
         | cableshaft wrote:
         | I grew up Protestant but have considered myself Agnostic for a
         | while.
         | 
         | However, lately I've been having the urge to dig into
         | spirituality more, as I'm starting to suspect there can be
         | something there, it's just that, except for a single sermon I
         | sat in about people destroying natural rock formations that
         | have been around for millions of years on a whim (yeah the
         | pastor actually said millions of years), I haven't found
         | anything that seemed worth reflecting on in church services
         | I've attended in a very long time.
         | 
         | The book you posted seems interesting, I'll give that a read. I
         | also found Tolstoy's 'A Confession' very interesting back in
         | the day. Do you have other resources you would recommend I
         | check out?
        
           | AnimalMuppet wrote:
           | Francis Schaeffer, _He Is There And He Is Not Silent_.
        
           | whiddershins wrote:
           | Jordan Peterson's lectures on Genesis are pretty great. I
           | only listened to the first few but they are very powerful.
           | 
           | Are you looking primarily for Christianity or spirituality in
           | general?
           | 
           | Braving the Wilderness (I haven't finished this one)
           | 
           |  _For addiction_ : Breathing Underwater
           | 
           | New Seeds of Contemplation
           | 
           |  _By reputation_ : any CS Lewis, Bertrand Russel, and more
           | contemporary is David Bentley Hart
           | 
           | Catching the Big Fish by David Lynch
           | 
           | The Four Agreements
           | 
           | Basically that's what I'm see in my kindle at the moment that
           | is relevant.
           | 
           | edit: The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle is incredible I hear
           | the Bhagavad Gita is great Start Where You Are by Pemma
           | Chodron is great
        
             | cableshaft wrote:
             | > Are you looking primarily for Christianity or
             | spirituality in general?
             | 
             | I'll take either. Thank you for those.
        
         | CivBase wrote:
         | > I have no idea why the level of discourse is on average so
         | primitive, I think church leaders have been systematically
         | underestimating the populace.
         | 
         | They're not underestimating the populace. They're catering to
         | them in a desperate attempt to stay economically viable. The
         | big beautiful building, supporting staff, production equipment,
         | etc doesn't pay for itself.
         | 
         | Many churches are operated as businesses - ones which have
         | realized that the easiest, most profitable mode of operation is
         | to refrain from teaching/challenging your supporters as much as
         | possible. Mix in a sense of tradition, some political activism,
         | and a touch of self-righteousness and you've got yourself a
         | recipe for a successful organization. At least until your
         | congregation passes away and their children realize they have
         | no use for you.
         | 
         | There are still a few churches out there which use the
         | hellfire-and-brimstone approach, but it's not very effective on
         | Gen X and younger. Nowadays, I'm certain it drives more people
         | away from Christianity than it brings in.
        
         | rantwasp wrote:
         | lol. you really fail to understand why everything is dumbed
         | down? it's because 1) people don't have a lot of time 2) a lot
         | of people don't need or can't understand the arguments. why
         | bother?
        
         | bobthechef wrote:
         | Oh, yes. Quoting Fulton Sheen:
         | 
         | "There are not one hundred people in the United States who hate
         | The Catholic Church, but there are millions who hate what they
         | wrongly perceive the Catholic Church to be."
         | 
         | In this case, I would include the majority of Catholics who are
         | oblivious today about the very basics of what the Church
         | believes, much less why, and practice it seldomly on one hand
         | or cliquishly on the other. When the culture becomes hostile to
         | the faith, it is little wonder that many fall away if all that
         | kept them there was vacuous habit and social inertia.
         | Obviously, if your ideas are primitive and stupid, and the
         | culture within the Church enters a malaise, and the promised
         | rewards of defecting and joining the popular chorus seem so
         | enticing, then you will experience defections and apostasy. The
         | intellectual mediocrity of people like Dawkins impresses only
         | the uneducated or the mis-educated.
         | 
         | But frankly, the kinds of apostasies we're seeing in the US are
         | mostly a formality. Those defecting are effectively apostates
         | already. They're just not going through the motions anymore,
         | either because they're tired of faking it, or because the
         | social incentives of putting on appearances no longer seem to
         | exist. You might even fear being seen as a "weirdo", though you
         | will find that most people will admire, even feel intimidated
         | by, a well-informed and educated Catholic who unapologetically
         | and without a feeling of shame or cowardice is frank about his
         | beliefs.
         | 
         | Of course, FWIW, the Church itself is growing in numbers. It is
         | growing rapidly in Africa and in Asia, though Catholics, and
         | more broadly, Christians are the most persecuted group in the
         | world (persecution also tends to produce more conversions). The
         | West is undergoing a period of cultural decadence. Whether it
         | will survive or whether the carcass will rot out completely, I
         | don't know. At the moment, it looks like the future of the
         | Church is on those continents.
         | 
         | Feser has written a few other books that others might also find
         | useful. I have greatly enjoyed his writing. Some find Peter
         | Kreeft, himself a convert, a good introduction (his
         | "Apologetics" for instance), and I've heard some good things
         | about Scott Hahn. These are probably good entry points before
         | venturing into the vast literature of the last few millennia.
        
           | jwalgenbach wrote:
           | "There are not one hundred people in the United States who
           | hate The Catholic Church, but there are millions who hate
           | what they wrongly perceive the Catholic Church to be."
           | 
           | Oh, that's crap. There are more than 100 victims of child
           | sexual abuse by Catholic clergy where the Church itself
           | covered up the crime. You can play with definitions however
           | you want, but that is not a misperception of the Church, but
           | a realistic view of the actions of the Church.
           | 
           | I've been Catholic, and the Church exists to extend the
           | existence of the Church. Any other action is in service to
           | that goal.
        
             | Alenycus wrote:
             | Catholic priests are less likely than the general
             | population to be predators. You only hear about it because
             | the media Is hostile to the church. School districts across
             | the country have done similar things in terms of cover ups
             | but I don't hear the outage there.
        
               | twobitshifter wrote:
               | I guess there's someone willing to defend anything.
               | 
               | I don't see anything about the general population, but to
               | bring up schools is whataboutism. Unfortunately predators
               | seek out jobs that will put them close to children. The
               | Catholic Church coverups go up to the chain of command
               | and they continue to let pedophile priests serve. These
               | issues were well known to the church but they let abuse
               | continue and did not turn priests over to the police. Are
               | you not outraged by this? If your son or daughter was
               | abused by a priest who has been abusing others for
               | decades would you not blame the church?
        
               | jwalgenbach wrote:
               | So the Church, an organization that sets itself up as the
               | moral arbiter between God and man, doesn't have more of a
               | moral responsibility than school districts across the
               | country?
               | 
               | And there is plenty of moral outrage for coverups, no
               | matter the source.
               | 
               | Please. People hate the Church because it says it is one
               | thing and is another. The media is critical of the Church
               | because the Church has tried to make itself the authority
               | on people's behavior, yet itself behaves in a
               | reprehensible manner. Maybe it should just go back to
               | being the Mafia's bank and just obliquely supporting drug
               | cartels and human rights abuses via loans?
               | 
               | Your whole comment is just whataboutism. You've an
               | opportunity to refute the assertion that the Church
               | knowingly covered up abuse of children, and you've
               | decided that if others have done it, it can't be that
               | bad.
        
               | svieira wrote:
               | The Church only claims that it is a hospital for sinners.
               | It doesn't claim that it is a country club for saints
               | relaxing on earth for a vacation. The surprise that such
               | a hospital should be full of those who need its cures is
               | not Biblical. The sadness that it is so, on the other
               | hand, _is_ , so thank you for your moral outrage!
        
               | jwalgenbach wrote:
               | And no one is claiming that there aren't sinners in the
               | Church, and no one is outraged that there are. The
               | problem is that the "hospital" was moving abusers around
               | from floor to floor to avoid responsibility.
               | 
               | Heck, if the Church defrocked the abusers (those in need
               | of its "cures") when they were reported, and took actions
               | to keep them from abusing and answer for their crimes to
               | the legal authorities, no one would have this
               | (particular) problem. But the Church didn't, because it
               | was protecting itself. The Church is more important to
               | the Church than the victims of those crimes.
               | 
               | Hence, the Church exists to ensure the existent of
               | itself, and all it's actions are in service of that
               | singular goal.
               | 
               | Frankly, moral outrage at child sexual abuse and the
               | systematic cover up of the abuse and protection of the
               | abusers is justified. If the Bible is written in such a
               | way that such moral outrage is a sickness, then it is
               | truly awful foundation to base your morality upon.
               | 
               | But thank _you_ for minimizing the responsibility of
               | those covering up the crimes and ensuring that they could
               | continue.
        
               | svieira wrote:
               | My point is that the Church is not the churchmen and that
               | those who cover up others crimes, like those who commit
               | them are all in the beds. You do not see the Divine
               | Physician and so conflate those under judgment with the
               | One Who judges the living and the dead.
               | 
               | Moral outrage is not a sickness - moral outrage is
               | thinking God's thoughts after Him and so is to be
               | commended!
        
               | jwalgenbach wrote:
               | The Church is composed of the people in it. And should be
               | judged by the actions of those that comprise it,
               | otherwise you are abandoning all agency, and it may as
               | well be dismantled as it could not be responsible for
               | anything it does.
               | 
               | Also, no evidence of any god exists, but that is another
               | argument. Let's stick with arguments that postulates the
               | existence of a God in the Catholic tradition.
               | 
               | First, according to the Bible, papal infallibility has
               | whatever the Church does held as law in Heaven. Stupid
               | rule, but there you are. Therefore, if we judge that
               | covering up and enabling child abuse is immoral, then the
               | Church is by its own rule, immoral. Well, that doesn't
               | work out so well for the Church. So let's leave that
               | aside.
               | 
               | The Catholic Church (and other denominations) tries
               | explain evil (and thus side step the "All Good, All
               | Power, and All Knowing -- pick two problem of God), but
               | claiming that it is all part of God's greater plan. The
               | difficulty here is that it doesn't side step the problem,
               | but tried to solve it by adding a layer of abstraction to
               | it. What you end up with is that God's plan has to be
               | definitionally immoral because it came from the mind of
               | God.
               | 
               | The answer is, of course, who can know the mind of God?
               | It sort of kicks the can down the road much the way the
               | Millerites (now Seventh Day Adventists) do on the end of
               | the world and QAnon does with Trump coming back (was it
               | January 20th? Or March 6th? Or March 20th?). Evil exists
               | because God's plan demands it, but somehow removes the
               | responsibility of God's plan from God.
               | 
               | So, the children were abused by the men acting in God's
               | name because God's plan demanded their suffering, but God
               | owns none of the responsibility because you can't
               | possibly understand the reason that God required the
               | suffering of those children. Nice work, if you can get
               | it.
               | 
               | Free will (in the Catholic tradition) allows the ability
               | to see the harm that actions do upon others, but somehow
               | we are supposed to turn a blind eye to that done under
               | the protection of God. Because those children were
               | clearly not under the protection of God.
               | 
               | Divine Physician, indeed. Physician, heal thyself.
        
         | shireboy wrote:
         | I haven't read Feser, but I do agree there is a huge gap
         | between, say, the theology and level of discourse of C.S.Lewis
         | and Tolkein and popular megachurch pastors. Culturally it's
         | interesting to me - all but the most die-hard atheist will
         | likely see some value and truth in Tolkein's work even if they
         | disagree with his theology and choice of church. They may not
         | agree, but would respect him. Where are today's Inklings?
        
           | __aintit__ wrote:
           | >Where are today's Inklings?
           | 
           | As someone who has read and studied the Inklings extensively,
           | I think the fact that these few misfit professors had such an
           | impact is astounding in that they were able to do it.
           | 
           | To be clear - their level of thought and depth was immense
           | and powerful. All impact is merited. I think these sorts of
           | collections of intellectual individuals are not as rare as we
           | might think; they just don't break out into wider society in
           | the way (in particular) Lewis and Tolkien did.
           | 
           | The average person of today (anecdotal citation here) is less
           | read, less cultured, less knowledgeable of language, history,
           | religion, philopsophy, and literature than the average person
           | of yesteryear. Maybe this has something to do with it.
        
             | Robotbeat wrote:
             | The Inklings were overall extremely well-read and literate.
             | Literally professors on mythology, linguistics/etc. Not
             | necessarily fair to compare the general population to them.
             | ;)
        
             | cmrdporcupine wrote:
             | The average person of that time was far less educated.
             | Because only the elite went to university.
        
           | luxuryballs wrote:
           | Speaking of CS Lewis, everyone should read his cosmic
           | trilogy. It's so astounding that I'm surprised it didn't get
           | the attention that the Narnia books did, and the third book
           | is on par with 1984 and Brave New World, written as a modern
           | fairy tale yet also as a sci-fi in the tradition of HG Wells.
           | 
           | It's such a good series and probably paints a better
           | understanding of what a fallen world means and what a proper
           | relationship with God is like, yet using sci-fi literalism
           | instead of religious dogma.
        
             | shireboy wrote:
             | Yes! Some of my favorite, and definitely less well known
             | than Narnia.
        
         | christiansakai wrote:
         | I thought I knew what Christianity was, growing up in church.
         | After I attended a theological seminary, I realized I knew
         | nothing. Also I stopped debating religion with people online
         | because I realized majority of religion debates are extremely
         | shallow, yes even those with popular sciences like Richard
         | Dawkins are shallow.
         | 
         | On the other hand, being just a regular member of my church, I
         | also don't want to bring my background when I talk with my
         | church community. Majority of people don't have the education
         | that I had, and to explain half-assedly will just confuse them
         | more.
        
           | phd514 wrote:
           | I've come to a similar place after doing graduate work in
           | Christian theology. The theology, philosophy, and literature
           | of the Bible is the most-studied of any book in the last two
           | millennia and pretty much any question or objection that can
           | be raised about it has been addressed by some of the greatest
           | minds in history. You might not find their conclusions
           | satisfactory, but a serious criticism of Christianity must at
           | least acknowledge and engage with that work.
        
             | christiansakai wrote:
             | Pretty much. 100%
        
         | lookdangerous wrote:
         | I agree.
         | 
         | I grew up in a conservative congregation with a difficult-to-
         | understand theology. I went through some dark and nihilistic
         | points in my life but after being exposed to Jordan Peterson's
         | study of Christianity as the mythology that underpins the
         | culture of the west I developed a deep appreciation for these
         | ideas and now consider myself a Christ follower.
        
         | Alenycus wrote:
         | Reading dostoesvsky brought my back to the church on a
         | spiritual and emotional level, and the Abolition of Man and
         | Mere Christianity bt CS Lewis brought me back on an emotional
         | level.
        
         | sarabad2021 wrote:
         | The same can be said of science in that science can't explain
         | the supernatural or the after-life. Science was never meant to
         | explain those things but we have tried to make it a replacement
         | by trying to naturalize everything. Things that go beyond this
         | realm of understanding and reason.
        
           | jwalgenbach wrote:
           | There's a lot of conceit in this notion that just because
           | _you_ can't understand or explain something means that it
           | goes beyond understanding and explanation.
           | 
           | Religion exists because of that conceit, that notion that
           | either something is immediately explainable or that it is
           | supernatural. Science exists because the idea that something
           | isn't understood now doesn't mean that we (as a species)
           | won't ever understand it.
           | 
           | We stand on the shoulders who have come before us, and not
           | one of them was a god.
        
           | wussboy wrote:
           | In my opinion it explains both perfectly well: The human mind
           | is not perfect and sometimes it gets confused, believing that
           | the supernatural is real and that there is life after death
           | even though time and again these phenomena turn out to have
           | completely naturalistic explanations. If you want to go one
           | level deeper I encourage you to read Darwin's Cathedral where
           | you'll learn this tendency to believe in the supernatural is
           | not a bug but a feature.
        
           | seneca wrote:
           | > Science was never meant to explain those things but we have
           | tried to make it a replacement by trying to naturalize
           | everything. Things that go beyond this realm of understanding
           | and reason.
           | 
           | Criticizing a flashlight for being a poor saw is a flaw in
           | the criticizer, not the flashlight.
        
           | 34679 wrote:
           | The whole point of science is to explain "the supernatural".
           | Lightning was once considered "supernatural". Now it isn't.
           | Science did that. Science does not acknowledge the existence
           | of an afterlife because there is no evidence to support such
           | a conclusion.
        
       | jawns wrote:
       | Americans' religious affiliations and degree of religious
       | adherence tend to follow a generational step-down pattern.
       | 
       | For instance, in my grandparents' day, both religious affiliation
       | and religious adherence were relatively high. In Philly, where my
       | mom grew up, Catholic schools were practically overflowing, and
       | parents expected that the school would _supplement and support_
       | the religious upbringing they were receiving at home.
       | 
       | Then in the next generation, there was a shift. Religious
       | affiliation remained relatively high, but religious adherence and
       | attendance began to decrease. Those Catholic schools continued to
       | bring in students, but there was a marked difference; parents who
       | were not particular devout themselves expected that the school
       | would _replace and make up for_ the religious instruction that
       | many of the kids were not receiving at home. These people might
       | still have identified themselves as Catholic, but they weren 't
       | really actively practicing their faith.
       | 
       | Nowadays, Catholic schools are largely on life support, because
       | the decrease in religious affiliation that was precipitated by
       | the decrease in adherence/attendance has now cut down enrollment
       | to a much smaller number of families who either have high
       | devotion or who have low devotion but see the schools as better
       | than the public alternatives. Parents who in the previous
       | generation might have sent their kids to Catholic school to
       | replace the religious instruction they weren't getting at home
       | have instead decided to disaffiliate and not give their kids
       | outsourced religious instruction. Whereas in previous
       | generations, they might have continued to identify as Catholic
       | even though they were inactive, in this generation it's much more
       | common to just shed the identity.
       | 
       | Obviously, I'm just painting a small part of the picture, of
       | Catholicism in the mid-Atlantic region. Many other parts of the
       | country with other religious makeups have followed different
       | patterns. But I think we can basically predict what the religious
       | landscape is going to be like over the next generation or two by
       | following this step-down pattern. (This assumes that religiosity
       | will continue getting weaker, which is not necessarily a sure
       | thing. Religious revivals have been relatively common throughout
       | history.)
        
       | danpalmer wrote:
       | It looks like the U.S. is running along a similar trend to the
       | U.K. (and I'd guess many other countries, but I'm from the U.K.).
       | Church attendance falls, followed by membership, followed by
       | people considering themselves "religious".
       | 
       | One of the tricky things in the UK over the last 3 censuses has
       | been accurately capturing this, so that government funding and
       | policy can be best targeted. People think "I celebrate Christmas
       | so I'm a Christian", while never attending church, not
       | identifying with any particular type of Christianity, not being
       | able to talk about the content of the Bible even in a very
       | general sense, and only generally thinking that there's probably
       | some sort of god or something, and hopefully an afterlife.
       | 
       | This was so ingrained that the British Humanist Association (I
       | believe humanism in the US is very different, here it's a secular
       | belief system) had a big campaign during the previous census
       | (2011) titled "If you're not religious, for God's sake say so!".
       | 
       | Despite not going to church or really taking part in any
       | organised religion, people really don't want to be non-religious.
       | I think we could better recognise this sort of generic
       | "spiritualism".
        
       | freedomben wrote:
       | Are there individual churches that are doing really well and
       | bucking the trend?
       | 
       | Maybe an individual church can't tell us much about the broader
       | trends, but it would be interesting to see if people are moving
       | to more extreme churches, or more liberal, etc.
        
       | kypro wrote:
       | Although I believe religion is outdated and in many ways I'm
       | happy to see it in decline in the West, I do worry about the side
       | effects the decline of religion has.
       | 
       | It seems to me that people my age today (late twenties, early
       | thirties) are extremely self-centred and struggle to see any
       | higher pursuit in life than self-satisfaction. This is in
       | contrast to the few religious people I know who are far more
       | family focused and believe in self-sacrifice in the pursuit of
       | what they believe to be morally good - charity, children,
       | community, etc.
       | 
       | As a teenager who went to a catholic school I often found myself
       | in trouble for mocking things we were taught from the bible, but
       | as I've grown up I've come to appreciate religion and the role it
       | has historically played in our society.
       | 
       | For example, my sister has made a lot of bad decisions in life -
       | drug use, having a child to get a council house, arrested for
       | violent behaviour, etc. Something that made me reflect on my
       | attitude towards religion was that I realised my sister would
       | likely be in a much better place today if we lived in a more
       | religious society. Many of the legal things she did for self-
       | satisfaction would have been look down upon just a few decades
       | back and if that happened she may not be the way she is today. I
       | see this all the time as someone who grew up in a poor area of my
       | city, the lack of religion promoting family values and self-
       | sacrifice is clearly hurting those on the lower end of the
       | socioeconomic ladder the most. Almost everyone young female in my
       | family is a single mother living in government housing today,
       | many struggling with drug addiction and mental illness. This just
       | wouldn't have been the case in past decades.
       | 
       | If you educated and middle-class you're far more able to go a bit
       | crazy in your twenties before you you settle down in your
       | thirties. If you're able to responsibly navigate between self-
       | satisfaction and self-sacrifice then religious values are less
       | important and perhaps even seen as a burden in your life, but if
       | you have less self-control and perhaps don't have the intellect
       | to form your own secular spiritual meaning to life, then what
       | else is lack but the pursuit of self-satisfaction?
       | 
       | Sorry for the ramble. This is a topic I think about a lot because
       | I'm so split in my thoughts towards religion today. I don't think
       | we should go back to religion, but I suspect we might need to
       | find a substitute for it.
        
         | ookdatnog wrote:
         | > I realised my sister would likely be in a much better place
         | today if we lived in a more religious society.
         | 
         | I'm really not so sure about that. For instance, the top 10
         | states in terms of teenage pregnancy in the US is mostly
         | dominated by religious states[0]. I'm not sure I've ever seen a
         | stat like crime, drug use, etc, where the more religious states
         | perform better than more secular states.
         | 
         | Of course, other factors might influence these stats. But at
         | the very least it seems that, even if religion isn't actively
         | harmful, it doesn't seem to be helping all that much.
         | 
         | [0]
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Teenage_pregnancy_in_the_Unite...
         | ; the data is from 2010 though
        
         | pnathan wrote:
         | Quick note: your sister's story was also common enough in the
         | 1880-1950 timeframe. She'd also have been considered a loose
         | woman, immoral, etc, and come under vicious religious censure.
         | Now, statistically, would that have improved things more
         | generally? I don't know. But it was a thing.
         | 
         | If we were to spin the clock back to pre-industrialization and
         | its concomitant labor crunching, I don't know that period of
         | history quite as well.
         | 
         | While I think the lack of good religious thinking is causing
         | all sorts of odd misfires across society, I'm not sure it would
         | improve "bad choices" though. C.f. canturbury tales...
        
         | some-guy wrote:
         | I'm in a similar boat. I grew up Christian and then became a
         | very "online atheist", but since the mid-2000s I've become more
         | worried about the lack of what feels like a real in-person
         | community.
         | 
         | My wife is Reform Jewish and one thing that I have come to
         | appreciate is what seems to me a good balance between community
         | and a good dose of secularism--I agreed to help raise our
         | children this way with her for this reason (without converting
         | myself). The most dogmatic thing you could maybe argue is some
         | kind of allegiance to Israel, but this isn't present as much in
         | the younger / millennial Bay Area Jewish community that I've
         | witnessed.
        
       | forrestbrazeal wrote:
       | My personal observation (having left a fundamentalist background,
       | though still identifying as Christian) is that hardcore young-
       | earth creationism of the Ken Ham variety has driven a ton of
       | deconversion in my generation.
       | 
       | Ken Ham & his ilk have been teaching for decades, explicitly and
       | repeatedly, that if you do not buy into their specific 6-day
       | literal interpretation of Genesis, then you might as well be an
       | atheist. [0] This line works great to rile up the faithful,
       | but...
       | 
       | Fast-forward to today, and you have an entire generation of young
       | adults who can no longer square YEC with reality, going: "Huh, I
       | guess I'm an atheist then?"
       | 
       | Ham-flavored fundamentalism rules huge swaths of orthodox
       | Christian tradition out of bounds, and it's been devastating for
       | the future of the American church.
       | 
       | [0] https://www.au.org/blogs/wall-of-separation/a-flood-of-
       | nonse...
        
         | LeifCarrotson wrote:
         | How did you personally abandon fundamentalism and end up still
         | identifying as Christian? I grew up learning from Ken Ham
         | (literally shook his hand at summer camp), but I'm now a
         | genuinely atheistic apostate and I can't comprehend what you
         | have left of Christianity when you abandon a literal
         | understanding of the Bible.
         | 
         | Young Earth Creationism pseudoscience is one reason, but there
         | are tons of others. Ham, I think, is mostly right: Either (1)
         | it's all true, in which case you have all the problems of
         | fundamentalism and have to disbelieve science. Or (2) or some
         | subset of the factual claims it makes are true - the Bible as
         | miraculously inspired and truthful, YEC, the very existence and
         | nature of the supernatural, Old Testament miracles, New
         | Testament miracles, eschatology, and so on - but as Ham
         | eloquently points out, once you abandon one of the claims that
         | the supposedly truthful book makes, you call them all into
         | question. Or (3) none of it is true, it's all fiction, in which
         | case you can use whatever you want as a moral framework, but it
         | has no special value. In that case, it's merely a socially
         | evolved construct like every other superstition throughout the
         | history of our species.
        
           | forrestbrazeal wrote:
           | I don't know you, but I love that you commented on this
           | because your history and perspective is a _perfect_ example
           | of the phenomenon I 'm talking about.
           | 
           | TO your question, I don't claim to have all the answers (let
           | alone all the "Answers in Genesis") but I've come to
           | understand there's a lot more nuance to a "literal"
           | understanding of the Bible than Ken Ham may have led you to
           | believe.
           | 
           | A couple of resources I've found helpful when navigating the
           | intersection of historic Christianity and modern science are
           | biologist Joel Duff [0] and physicist Aron Wall [1]. (Fun
           | side note on the latter: he's the son of Perl creator Larry
           | Wall.)
           | 
           | [0] https://thenaturalhistorian.com/ [1]
           | http://www.wall.org/~aron/blog/
        
         | brundolf wrote:
         | Trumpism (and the past couple decades of political lead-up to
         | it among fundamentalists) being the other big one. I think
         | these are the two major forces that actively drive people away.
        
         | dcolkitt wrote:
         | Except, mainline Protestants are shrinking at a much faster
         | rate than evangelicals. If church attrition was driven by a
         | rejection of fundamentalism we wouldn't expect Unitarians and
         | Episcopalians to be losing members faster than Baptists and
         | Pentecostals.
        
           | forrestbrazeal wrote:
           | There are certainly other factors at play in the decline of
           | mainline Protestant churches. I'm not sure that
           | evangelicalism's problems (subject of my comment) imply
           | anything about whether they should be shrinking faster or
           | slower than other types of churches.
        
       | benja123 wrote:
       | I am agnostic, but, I don't necessarily see this as a good thing.
       | 
       | I was raised Jewish and as a kid we would go to the reform
       | synagogue on and off throughout the year. My parents are
       | completely secular (atheist and agnostic), and yet that did not
       | stop my mom from becoming President of the local reform
       | synagogue, so at least for a period it was a big part of my life.
       | 
       | The main benefit of the synagogue, and I assume it is the same
       | one you get from being involved in your local church, is the
       | community that is built around it.
       | 
       | When someone was sick, someone died or someone needed help,
       | people from the community were always the first ones to help.
       | They would took care of the poor, help the weak and also the
       | elderly. They would lead food drives and volunteer efforts.
       | 
       | I have yet to find any community that is as strong and as helpful
       | as the one that was built around the local synagogue. There is
       | something unique about places of warship that drives people to be
       | more generous and helping. My only assumption is the communities
       | they build are passed down from generation to generation with
       | their own traditions which makes them stronger.
       | 
       | As an adult, I don't go to synagogue at all. The weird thing is I
       | miss it even though I hated it as a kid.
       | 
       | One last thing. I see a lot of hatred for religion in the
       | comments and as of late in general. Please don't hate! Understand
       | that extreme anti-religion is no better and no less dangerous
       | than people that take religion to the extreme. Yes, religion has
       | caused or been excuse for a lot of bad and intolerant behavior.
       | You aren't going to end intolerance by being intolerant yourself.
       | Assume best attentions, judge people by how they act and help
       | through education to change their misconceptions.
        
       | pyrrhotech wrote:
       | Hopefully the declines will continue so that we approach the
       | levels in Scandinavia over the next few decades. Religion has
       | been a force of oppression and division for far too long. It has
       | negatively affected my life, to the point that I am nearly
       | estranged from my parents due to religious conflict, so my
       | loathing of it is perhaps more personal than most here.
       | 
       | 400 years ago I would have been executed for my atheistic views.
       | 200 years ago I would have been a social pariah. Today my views
       | are largely accepted in silicon valley and among millenials and
       | zoomers on the internet, though I still face discrimination in
       | the bible belt where I happen to live. Progress is being made,
       | however slowly it may seem at times.
        
       | arunc wrote:
       | Just curious, would this slow down the rate of conversion to
       | Christianity around the globe (India, Africa, etc)?
        
       | CedarMills wrote:
       | As a believer and someone who attends church regularly, this is
       | sad but not unexpected. From my own personal experience - if the
       | church cannot answer questions clearly, their members will look
       | for answers somewhere else. A lot of churches unfortunately are
       | so elementary in their teaching or turn to "feel good preaching"
       | (see Elevation Church). The longterm effect is that a person ends
       | up being tired of getting the same "baby food" and they look to
       | other places. The churches where theology is solid (and clear)
       | tend to be stronger in number and in regular attendance.
        
         | outside1234 wrote:
         | Agreed - especially in the face of obvious sinful behavior in
         | the case of Trump that they somehow can't speak out against.
        
         | dagw wrote:
         | I grew up attending church, and on the whole have nothing but
         | good things to say about the whole experience. It gave me both
         | spiritual and moral support when I needed it the most and some
         | of the best people I have ever known, I got to know through
         | church. In fact in ways I mourn the loss of both my faith and
         | my 'church'.
         | 
         | However once I realized that, on a very fundamental level, the
         | core of what they where claiming as true wasn't in fact true, I
         | felt I had no choice to walk away.
        
           | xtracto wrote:
           | I was "in touch" with religion for 12 years (my parents sent
           | me to a very catholic school even though both are atheists)
           | 
           | My experience was seeing huge amounts of falsehood and
           | hypocrisy as religious people followed and repeated all the
           | rituals of the mass but in the day to day life they just did
           | not care about others and pretty much ignored what their
           | religion taught them.
           | 
           | Thank God after those 12 years I saw everything I needed from
           | religion to get as far away from it as I can.
        
             | chmod600 wrote:
             | It depends on the religion. Some are just better at
             | applying religious teachings to lifestyle than others.
             | 
             | In my opinion, Catholicism (for all it's good qualities) is
             | too theoretical and abstract. It's easy to walk out of
             | church without any real takaways that you might apply to
             | your ordinary life.
        
               | aftergibson wrote:
               | Catholicism is so mired in needless hierarchy and
               | ceremony that it severely inhibits any genuine value it
               | might provide.
               | 
               | It hit home as a teenager during Easter Sunday mass. A
               | priest enters the church, wearing his extra religious
               | garb, a crucifix is carried behind him. The procession
               | take several steps, the worshippers then kneel down and
               | immediately stand back up. Several more steps, then
               | kneeling and standing. Then several more steps, then
               | kneeling and standing.
               | 
               | The third time I stood up I felt like it was outside my
               | body looking at myself. Following the crowd with
               | absolutely no idea why or the meaning behind it. To me, I
               | looked like an idiot. My father was religious his entire
               | life, so afterwards I asked him what the ceremony
               | represented, he had no idea. I went to church less and
               | less after that.
        
               | yepguy wrote:
               | Unfortunately this is an example of exactly what
               | CederMills said above about failing to properly teach the
               | faith. There is an incredible amount of meaning imbued
               | into every moment of a Catholic mass, and the more of it
               | you understand the more engaging it is to attend and
               | participate.
               | 
               | Earlier this year I attended a 90 minute "walkthrough" of
               | the mass where my priest explained the structure and
               | meaning of a normal everyday mass. At the end of it he
               | had still only scratched the surface, but it was probably
               | more explanation than most (ex-)Catholics ever receive on
               | the topic.
        
               | honatommy wrote:
               | I think religion is primarily cultural and based on
               | traditions. A lot of people do not go for their faith,
               | only cause they are used to it. I wonder how many people
               | stopped going because of the pandemic, then realized they
               | didn't miss it.
        
             | LadyCailin wrote:
             | Is this the religious equivalent of a parent making the kid
             | smoke a carton of cigarettes at once, to turn them off
             | smoking?
        
               | xtracto wrote:
               | Haha it could very well have been that! In reality what
               | happened is that we lived in a small town (in Mexico,
               | called Campeche. Late 80s and 90s) and the only quality
               | schooling at that place and time was catholic schools.
        
               | tracedddd wrote:
               | A carton would be challenging. As a dumb smoking teenager
               | I competed to smoke a whole pack and even then it made me
               | quite nauseous. Took about 5 or 6 cigarettes back to
               | back.
        
               | walshemj wrote:
               | Or they want a good education I recall my mum saying that
               | if we had stayed where I was born, they would have tried
               | to use my Grandfathers (ex headmaster in another school )
               | to get me into King Edwards.
               | 
               | That is THE King Edwards Tolkien's Alma mater and is
               | normaly first or second ranked in the UK.
        
           | soco wrote:
           | I feel and felt the same. As many other commenters mentioned,
           | a church must be a few elements in order to be sustainable: a
           | community, a set of beliefs, an organization... and each one
           | of these can be more or less important for the individual,
           | and each on of these can go awry in its own way, often
           | without affecting in the same way the other individuals or
           | the other elements. Thus the discussion becomes even more
           | difficult, when individuals have different experiences on
           | each one of those dimensions. I think calling the debate
           | "comparing apples with oranges" is a _massive_
           | understatement.
        
             | dagw wrote:
             | Yea. In some ways I feel slightly uncomfortable speaking up
             | for or defending the church in any general way. For as
             | positive as all my experience have been and all the good I
             | have seen churches do, I have also seen churches (even
             | churches within the same general denomination as the church
             | I attended) completely destroy the lives of people.
        
           | brundolf wrote:
           | I was in the exact same place as you about 10 years ago.
           | 
           | A key thing for me (I'm still not religious, though I'm
           | religion-adjacent in some ways) was seeing that religion -
           | despite what some would tell you - is at its best when it's
           | not made to be about material truths at all. Its truths,
           | really, are truths about the human condition and how best to
           | live it out.
           | 
           | In this sense, even as someone who doesn't believe in
           | metaphysical spirits, the heart of what they're claiming (if
           | you really dig down deep past many of the surface-level
           | particulars) contains a lot of truth.
        
           | bopbeepboop wrote:
           | What would that be?
           | 
           | I've encountered this claim more often than I've encountered
           | actual fundamentalist churches I think are making any sort of
           | strong claim about the world.
           | 
           | So I'm curious to hear what people think is wrong.
        
             | soco wrote:
             | I mentioned in a parallel comment that I had similar
             | experiences, so I'll jump in until the other commenter
             | does. And to keep spirits cooler, I'll mention my
             | experiences in martial arts. I gained my black belt in
             | Aikido in a wonderful dojo, wonderful teachers, doing many
             | activities together otherwise. I found a few lifetime
             | friends there and love as well, so it was definitely more
             | than "training", it was a real community. Yet I'm not going
             | there anymore for a dozen years already. The entire
             | teaching is based on life energies and ki flows which...
             | just weren't there for me. I was able to progress nicely
             | also without them - faking them to be more honest, I could
             | have been continued growing in the technique, but what was
             | the point continuing something I don't believe in? What was
             | the point in rebelling and showing them how simple
             | sportmanship gets the same peace of mind, does the same
             | precision, builds the same attitude towards "martial" and
             | life in general? People are good if they choose the good,
             | and not everybody needs the supernatural element in order
             | to stay good. And I don't mean a fear of supernatural
             | punishment, but in my Aikido case, a belief in supernatural
             | and benevolent support.
        
               | zests wrote:
               | I read a book by Eckhart Tolle that gave me two
               | takeaways. The first was that the book was full of
               | nonsense. The second was that it was clear why this
               | nonsense was so effective for people.
               | 
               | What are the downsides to suspending scientific accuracy
               | for the purposes of doing Aikido?
        
               | klibertp wrote:
               | The same as with every other sport: injury. You don't
               | want to risk injury by extrapolating a faulty training
               | method from magical thinking. In my experience, the arts
               | and systems geared more towards full-contact spars have
               | way, way less Ki/Qi in them.
        
               | soco wrote:
               | I did it for years _for myself_ but at some point when
               | you 're supposed to tell _your pupil_ to bend more
               | forward to not obstruct the ki flow, you just can 't
               | bring yourself to do it anymore... you can't bear the
               | dissonance anymore.
        
               | mythrwy wrote:
               | "All models are wrong, but some are useful"
        
               | bopbeepboop wrote:
               | > The entire teaching is based on life energies and ki
               | flows which... just weren't there for me. I was able to
               | progress nicely also without them - faking them to be
               | more honest, I could have been continued growing in the
               | technique, but what was the point continuing something I
               | don't believe in?
               | 
               | I had a similar experience -- in Kung fu and Buddhism.
               | 
               | Beliefs are a model of the world: just because a model
               | isn't phrased in terms of my core beliefs doesn't mean it
               | has nothing to teach me.
               | 
               | In the case of Kung fu and Buddhism, I don't believe I
               | would understand things as well as I do (physics,
               | physiology, neurology) without having taken the time to
               | understand what those other models were trying to express
               | about the world.
               | 
               | To use an analogy: just because I have an irresolvable
               | dependency conflict with a new piece of software doesn't
               | mean it has nothing to teach me about software and
               | programming.
        
               | 8note wrote:
               | I think the question still stands: what's the point of
               | staying in the versionthat doesn't match your core
               | beliefs vs finding an equivalent that does?
        
             | tenacious_tuna wrote:
             | > What would that be?
             | 
             | not OP, but I would presume "the claim" is that (a) there
             | is a God, (b) the church knows which one, and (c) they know
             | what he wants.
             | 
             | For comparison, I (atheist) normally state my position as
             | "There is insufficient evidence to conclude there is a
             | God," so any statement about there being any god, or about
             | what influence they should/do have on our lives I treat as
             | a "claim," which requires supporting evidence.
        
             | dagw wrote:
             | _So I'm curious to hear what people think is wrong._
             | 
             | We know there is a God AND the Bible is some sort of
             | authoritative (most would claim the most authoritative)
             | description of who/how God is and how he wants us to behave
             | towards him.
             | 
             | Often there is also a third correlating claim that our
             | interpretation of the Bible is the most correct
             | interpretation.
        
               | hootbootscoot wrote:
               | Tell that to all the practitioners of all the other
               | religions... "um sorry folks, you are wrong, we are
               | right"
               | 
               | I have issues with 1) "God told me to tell you" (any
               | human claiming to represent God to their fellow humans.
               | They surely would be devoid of ulterior motives, right?)
               | 
               | 2) This collection of hitherto uncompiled writings
               | (including a wholesale incorporation of Judaism) that
               | were uncontestedly written by humans, some of which we
               | know the names of, has now become a singular "book" and
               | it's the world of God, shut up or else, etc.
               | 
               | I smell humans, not divinity.
               | 
               | Oh, and YES you nailed it on the last point. Witness the
               | smug way some Evangelicals dismissively tell a Catholic
               | "but I am CHRISTIAN"...
        
         | drumttocs8 wrote:
         | I grew up in a church that was very serious about "serious"
         | preaching- Primitive Baptist, very focused on Calvinist
         | doctrine and what could be considered scriptural literalism. It
         | was definitely not "baby food"... but they still could not
         | answer some questions clearly, and that is because it is an
         | invention of man rooted in a prescientific understanding of the
         | world. I would argue that church are losing members not because
         | it is being watered down, but because it is losing relevance.
        
           | throwawaygal7 wrote:
           | Original anabaptists were not calvinists... primitive
           | baptists are inherently unserious
        
             | ARandomerDude wrote:
             | Never thought I'd see the day when HN would turn into the
             | Reformed Pub!
        
               | selimthegrim wrote:
               | Don't give them any bright ideas...they'll turn into the
               | Reform Club next
        
         | psychometry wrote:
         | The most "solid" theology is just shaky philosophy, though.
        
           | sarabad2021 wrote:
           | I see no issues with Christianity from a philosophical
           | standpoint. It explains things which our beyond our
           | natural/physical world. Those things impact how we live in
           | this world. I'm curious what you mean in your statement,
           | please unpack your claim.
        
             | whatshisface wrote:
             | The parent is referring to the (actually, legitimately,
             | really bad) philosophy that you can find in the most
             | puffed-up theology books. It comes from the same process of
             | domain envy that makes some philosophers put the worst math
             | ever in _their_ papers, except it started several hundred
             | years earlier. To cut one slice through it, I can point you
             | to a page of _100% fallacious_ arguments[0] that only
             | survived as long as they did because they had a popular
             | conclusion.
             | 
             | [0] https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/ontological-
             | arguments/
        
               | User23 wrote:
               | The very page you link lists a logically sound
               | ontological argument[1]. It appears to me that you're
               | judging the argument fallacious because you don't like
               | the conclusion.
               | 
               | [1]https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/ontological-
               | arguments/#Go...
        
               | whatshisface wrote:
               | The fallacy in that one is thinking that accepting those
               | axioms is any different than directly accepting the
               | conclusion. :) Stating a bunch of axioms and deriving
               | something doesn't prove what you derived, except in a
               | technical sense of the word "prove," not in a useful
               | sense related to determining the truth. Even if we accept
               | that Godel's logic was sound, there is plainly no more
               | reason to believe in his starting point than there is to
               | directly believe in the end.
        
               | [deleted]
        
               | Mediterraneo10 wrote:
               | Claiming that Anselm's ontological argument "survived"
               | for centuries is rather misleading. Being known as a
               | thing did not mean it was viewed as a viable argument. It
               | was subjected to some harsh criticism literally as soon
               | as it appeared, and whenever it was brought up in later
               | centuries (and not very often, because it was something
               | of a curiosity) it was treated more critically than
               | reverently.
        
             | michaelt wrote:
             | It depends what philosophical questions you want an answer
             | to.
             | 
             | If you're asking "What happens to us after we die?" then
             | the church has as good an answer as anyone, because
             | nobody's bringing any hard evidence to the table.
             | 
             | If you're asking "How should I act and think to be a good
             | person?" then religion has some ideas - some of them really
             | good ideas, like the golden rule - but it's a huge question
             | touching on almost everything. And some of today's
             | questions require a lot of extrapolation over and above the
             | words of the bible.
             | 
             | If you're asking natural philosophy questions, like "what
             | is lightning" or "what do we need to do to prevent future
             | flooding" then you probably won't reference religion at all
             | (except perhaps when you get back to moral questions, like
             | if your flood defence displaces people)
        
             | gspr wrote:
             | > It explains things which our beyond our natural/physical
             | world. Those things impact how we live in this world.
             | 
             | (1) These two statements seem to me to be incompatible. We
             | live in the natural world. If something "outside the
             | natural world" (whatever that nonsensical statement means)
             | affects the natural world, then surely it's partly part of
             | the natural world?
             | 
             | (2) It is not my business to define what e.g. christians
             | believe, but if I am not mistaken the actual resurrection
             | of an actual man is quite central. How is this not a
             | (bold!) claim about the natural world?
        
               | Digory wrote:
               | "Naturalism" posits that natural laws are the only rules
               | that govern the structure and behavior of the natural
               | world.
               | 
               | So "beyond the natural world" would be shorthand for
               | alternatives to naturalism; the idea there are rules that
               | govern the 'natural world' beyond natural laws or things
               | that can be measured or observed scientifically.
               | 
               | The resurrection is a prime example of rules "beyond the
               | natural" impacting our natural world.
        
             | psychometry wrote:
             | What exactly is there to unpack? You have modern-day humans
             | going around believing that an omnipotent God impregnated a
             | human female so that his son could sacrifice himself for
             | the sins of humanity. It's patently absurd (though really
             | no more absurd than any other religion).
        
             | engineeringwoke wrote:
             | I would advise you to head down to your local university
             | and take a religious studies course covering a bit of the
             | Bible. It's usually split into OT/NT.
             | 
             | What you will find there is that we know that the Bible is
             | an amalgam of a script that was pieced together by many,
             | many human authors. It is trivial today to tell because we
             | can cross-reference Koine Greek versus translations and
             | authors chose different words consistently for the same
             | concepts.
             | 
             | So, no. Not really beyond the natural/physical world at
             | all. Just one lie of many competing lies.
        
               | objectivetruth wrote:
               | I would advise you to head down to your local church and
               | meet some more Christians so you don't keep presuming
               | we're all ignorant of Biblical studies, analysis,
               | exegesis, and historical interpretation.
               | 
               | What you may _also_ find there is that telling a person
               | that the amalgams of history, philosophy, and
               | spirituality that make up that person 's religion "one
               | lie of many competing lies" is an incredibly
               | disrespectful and ineffective way to discuss religion
               | with that person.
        
             | postingawayonhn wrote:
             | For me it raises more questions than it answers.
        
           | whatshisface wrote:
           | That's like saying "the most solid philosophy is shaky math."
           | Yes, while plenty of philosophers have physics envy and wish
           | that they were mathematicians, it's not necessarily the best
           | philosophy that is written from that perspective.
        
           | shadowgovt wrote:
           | It's always fascinating to me to observe the small distance
           | between the two in some philosophies.
           | 
           | The Discourse on the Method of Descartes, in which his famous
           | phrase _je pense, donc je suis_ occurs also includes a
           | preceding segment where he considers whether he can know
           | anything at all, or whether he 's a disembodied consciousness
           | fed false information by evil demonic powers (if you will,
           | the "Matrix hypothesis"). He rebuts that hypothesis with a
           | simple assertion that a just and loving God wouldn't allow
           | such an arrangement of events to be the true nature of
           | reality.
           | 
           | Depending on your bent, that can either allow the discourse
           | to continue or put the brakes completely on it.
        
           | fennecfoxen wrote:
           | It's a question of whether or not you buy into the set of
           | assumptions. _If_ you do, you can avail yourself of any one
           | several strong, coherent, self-consistent philosophies and
           | world-views, which many of history 's great minds have
           | reasoned about and scrutinized. Catholicism, Orthodoxy,
           | Protestantism, Judaism, Islam: all of them spend a lot of
           | time on this stuff.
           | 
           | It's the on-the-fly, off-the-cuff, brand new, modern
           | theology/philosophy which tends to end up shaky, simply
           | because it's been done with fewer resources and has seen far
           | less attention.
        
             | [deleted]
        
             | whatshisface wrote:
             | If you're not allowed to change the orthodoxy, then the
             | contribution of that generation's greatest minds would by
             | definition be heterodoxies. So what you are really saying
             | is that we should expect the most-patched-up theology to be
             | found in the most recent versions. :)
        
             | vkou wrote:
             | > It's a question of whether or not you buy into the set of
             | assumptions. If you do, you can avail yourself of any one
             | several strong, coherent, self-consistent philosophies and
             | world-views, which many of history's great minds have
             | reasoned about and scrutinized. Catholicism, Orthodoxy,
             | Protestantism, Judaism, Islam: all of them spend a lot of
             | time on this stuff.
             | 
             | As an atheist, I do not find[1] those philosophies to be
             | particularly coherent or self-consistent - but obviously,
             | my criticism is only superficial. So, I'll do one better.
             | 
             | A large number of theistic philosophers share my opinion on
             | this - hence the innumerable schisms within Abrahamic
             | religions. Those philosophers looked at their religion,
             | found inconsistencies in it, and forked it.
             | 
             | The problem is that the survivors of those schisms
             | (Catholicism, Eastern orthodoxy, Russian orthodoxy, the
             | Anglican church, Protestantism in its many flavours, Sunni
             | Islam, Shiite Islam, etc, etc, etc) did not survive because
             | of their logical or intellectual rigour, or because they
             | were more consistent or coherent then the parent branch
             | that they splintered off from. They survived because they
             | won political, violent power struggles. They survived
             | because might made right. They survived because some
             | influential autocratic warlord was personally swayed by
             | their ideas, and imposed his will on his subjects and
             | neighbours.
             | 
             | Less successful heresies (that, to me have about as good a
             | _claim_ at providing strong, coherent, self-consistent
             | philosophies and world-views as their parent religions)
             | have gone extinct. Not because their arguments or ideas
             | were bad, but because they didn 't have enough spear-tips,
             | sword-points, and gun-muzzles behind them.
             | 
             | This sort of selection process does not seem to be like it
             | leads to accurately determining which of these systems
             | survived because they are _actually_ strong, coherent,
             | self-consistent, and which survived because they were
             | better at killing heretics.
             | 
             | [1] My impression of religion is that it tends to identify
             | its inconsistencies and incoherentness, and neatly package
             | it into a black box that it does not engage with, and
             | expects you to have faith. You get a highly self-consistent
             | system, as long as you don't look inside the box.
        
               | dragonwriter wrote:
               | > The problem is that the survivors of those schisms
               | (Catholicism, Eastern orthodoxy, Russian orthodoxy, the
               | Anglican church, Protestantism in its many flavours,
               | Sunni Islam, Shiite Islam, etc, etc, etc) did not survive
               | because of their logical or intellectual rigour, or
               | because they were more consistent or coherent then the
               | parent branch that they splintered off from. They
               | survived because they won political, violent power
               | struggles.
               | 
               | Actually, in many cases, they survived because _neither_
               | side won the power struggle. E.g., Both sides of the
               | Chalcedon( /Ephesus) schism, the East-West Schism, the
               | Protestant/Catholic schism, the Old Catholic/Catholic
               | schism , the Catholic/Anglican schism (even in England),
               | the reverse schisms between the Uniate Churches and their
               | previous Church of the East/Oriental Orthodox/Eastern
               | Orthodox communities, etc. survive.
        
               | vkou wrote:
               | Yes, you are correct. 'Won' is a loaded term there - but
               | my point was drawing a distinction between heresies that
               | are still around, and ones that very convincingly lost
               | the struggle for their survival.
               | 
               | From my understanding of European history, that didn't
               | happen because their rhetoricians and intellectuals sat
               | down to peacefully hash things out over tea and crumpets.
               | They didn't survive because of the strength of their
               | arguments - but because of the economics behind them, and
               | because of the caprices of the particular personalities
               | involved.
               | 
               | I'm willing to accept that in the past two centuries,
               | these processes of religious selection have changed
               | substantially [1] - but the fact that this entire
               | argument is painted in the framework of major religions
               | that were established _long before_ the end of European
               | religious wars leads me to believe that  'how religions
               | splintered in 500 AD' is far more relevant for surveying
               | the modern religious atlas than 'how religions splintered
               | in 1900 AD.'
               | 
               | [1] As long as we close our eyes to that Sunni-Shiite
               | thing that's still on-going, and is likely to keep going
               | for the foreseeable future.
        
             | klmadfejno wrote:
             | Appealing to history's greatest minds is a weak appeal to
             | authority. Several of history's greatest minds also spent
             | significant time on pursuits such as alchemy. It does them
             | no disservice to suppose that given modern tools and
             | knowledge they would have formed different opinions. But
             | now we have the ability to explain evolution, brains,
             | astronomy, energy, weather, etc.
             | 
             | Whatever your take on religion is, pointing to the opinions
             | of people living in a much more inscrutable world is not
             | good evidence.
             | 
             | Personally I fall into the camp that omniscience
             | omnipresence and omnibenevolence are just logically
             | incompatible with the christian belief of a good god.
        
               | fennecfoxen wrote:
               | Excuse me. You will notice that I am not talking about
               | authority. I'm talking about self-consistency in the
               | theology of major world religious.
        
               | [deleted]
        
               | yxwvut wrote:
               | This is the fundamental problem, though. There's an
               | internal consistency so long as all evidentiary
               | evaluation is predicated on the underlying assumption
               | that the attestations are true. Confirmation bias does
               | not make a firm foundation for truth-seeking. Once you
               | realize that your standard of evidence could just as
               | easily support any number of (contradictory) belief
               | systems (were you to start from the premise that that
               | particular religion, not yours, was true) the whole thing
               | begins to crumble.
        
               | fennecfoxen wrote:
               | You would think that putting Islam and Protestantism in
               | the same comment would indicate to a reader that I'm well
               | aware that the same standard supports mutually exclusive
               | visions of reality but I guess that doesn't do enough to
               | _evangelize_ atheism or agnosticism or rationalism or
               | whatevertheheck so go ahead and have a fun thread
               | (without me)
        
             | oblio wrote:
             | > Catholicism, Orthodoxy, Protestantism, Judaism, Islam:
             | all of them spend a lot of time on this stuff.
             | 
             | They did spend a lot of time and they mostly failed. In
             | many cases those school of thought that ultimately failed
             | were also squashed during a religious power struggle (which
             | is gives organized religion a bad outlook).
        
         | filoeleven wrote:
         | The American evangelical movement is particularly rabid, and
         | subscribes overwhelmingly to Christian nationalism. It is
         | entirely too mixed into politics, and is trying to create a
         | theocratic state where "everyone must live like Christians (for
         | my definition of Christian)."
         | 
         | One of the high points for me regarding religion in the past
         | couple years was finding The Holy Post podcast. One host is
         | Phil Vischer, AKA Bob the Tomato, the creator of Veggie Tales.
         | I have some fundamental (heh) disagreements with their
         | perspective at this point, but they remind me of what I thought
         | the church was while growing up within it, and they still
         | largely reflect what I think it should be. They acknowledge
         | that there's lots of room for disagreement, they don't think
         | they have all the answers, and they strike me as genuinely
         | loving people.
         | 
         | If I had heard more people talking like them 20 years ago, I
         | might not have left the church. It's not a question of "baby
         | food" so much as "cultural identity," and the cultural identity
         | of the American church is largely flag-waving rah-rah
         | nationalism. Not sure what stats you're referencing, because
         | megachurches are still quite popular here and quite clear on
         | their "theology."
         | 
         | If you the parent poster are not located in America, please
         | disregard this post entirely.
        
         | cwwc wrote:
         | I get this, but wouldn't the flip side be the brightness and
         | relief that hypocrisy is being culled through this? Just a
         | thought -- but if you stop acting in a way (attending church)
         | that doesn't jive with what you believe, that seems to be
         | revealing truth (something which all ca rejoice over, even if
         | it's a tough truth).
         | 
         | On the other hand -- if it is people that are losing their
         | faith, that is perhaps different, and I can see your concern.
        
           | CedarMills wrote:
           | I think the word hypocrisy is thrown around easily. I think
           | churches have made mistakes and there are no excuses for them
           | - but painting every single church and every single believer
           | with a broad brush and calling everyone a hypocrite is
           | intellectually dishonest.
           | 
           | My personal worldview - at the end of the day, we're human
           | and should see others as humans who make mistakes and give
           | enough grace for them to try to improve.
        
         | rchaud wrote:
         | What are the questions that church leaders are getting from
         | their flock these days? Some big questions are being debated in
         | society, sure, but the church's position on a lot of things is
         | set in stone, is it not?
         | 
         | Maybe this is my ignorance talking, but I thought those with
         | active church membership continue to go to participate in
         | social events and make friends/partners?
        
           | objectivetruth wrote:
           | The Christian Church has been getting steadily less
           | monolithic for the past 1700 years or so.
           | 
           | Some of the topics being discussed in our (US) church in the
           | past couple of years:
           | 
           | * the devastating personal and economic toll of the pandemic
           | and how we can help individually and in aggregate
           | 
           | * race relations in the US and the history of injustices
           | caused by racism, including police brutality, and how we can
           | respond in our daily lives
           | 
           | * LGBTQ-related topics, including the ability of people of
           | different sexual identities to participate fully at all
           | levels of the church hierarchy
           | 
           | * the environmental impact of our actions at the personal
           | level all the way up to the institutional level as it
           | pertains to human-caused climate change
           | 
           | You can find many churches in the US with people that believe
           | in every possible belief related to all of these issues.
           | 
           | No, it's not just potlucks and singles nights :-)
        
         | bko wrote:
         | What are those questions for which you seek answers that you
         | believe some churches are not adequately addressing?
        
           | pmiller2 wrote:
           | Take a look at the popularity of "prosperity gospel" with
           | poor and middle class individuals. This is as a response to
           | the inequality and social immobility brought about since the
           | mid 70s. I'll leave out explicit mention of the "C word,"
           | because I'll get downvotes for it, but the sociological
           | analysis is fascinating on its own.
           | 
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prosperity_theology#Socioecono.
           | ..
        
             | bko wrote:
             | Whats the alternative for those less fortunate?
             | 
             | I mentored kids for much of my life and you can bet I told
             | them they could be anything they want if they set their
             | mind to it. What should I preach? That they're victims and
             | screwed because of accident of geography/genetics? Is that
             | a useful framework for life?
             | 
             | You can say that you teach them the system is unfair will
             | help them break it. But that amounts to political
             | indoctrination if you're not careful. Instead, teach them
             | to change the world themselves by being kind to those
             | around them.
        
               | pmiller2 wrote:
               | There is no separating economics from politics, really.
               | If God can't deliver, people have to, and that's
               | inherently a political position.
        
               | bko wrote:
               | So indoctrinate your children into your current political
               | ideology?
               | 
               | Sure, many people do that. Not exactly a new or novel
               | idea, but personally I'm not a fan.
        
               | pmiller2 wrote:
               | I'm not sure what you mean by "your children" and "your
               | current political ideology," but, no matter what you do,
               | children are going to acquire a political ideology,
               | there's nothing you or anyone else can do to stop it, and
               | there's no guarantee at all that you're going to like
               | their ideology. Most of them get at least the initial
               | version of it from their parents. A lot of peoples'
               | ideology gets shaped in early adulthood, when they're
               | either at school or on their own for the first time. My
               | parents didn't raise a communist, but that's what they
               | got, for better or worse.
               | 
               | I have never personally known a clergy member to be
               | particularly political, but we know that a large part of
               | the US is politically driven by religious forces. Like it
               | or not, church and state are not fully separated.
               | 
               | I guess what I'm saying is that none of what I've written
               | here was particularly intended as advice to you in your
               | position as a religious teacher of children. I will say,
               | however, that Jesus himself did have some explicitly
               | political teachings. Matthew 19:24 comes to mind:
               | 
               | > And again I say unto you, It is easier for a camel to
               | go through the eye of a needle, than for a rich man to
               | enter into the kingdom of God.
               | 
               | Do with this what you will.
        
               | bko wrote:
               | > I will say, however, that Jesus himself did have some
               | explicitly political teachings. Matthew 19:24 comes to
               | mind
               | 
               | Sounds like there's something you got out of religion
               | after all!
        
               | pmiller2 wrote:
               | No, I have never been religious. I did, however, read the
               | entire Bible in high school for a literature class. Well,
               | okay, except for all those pages of "this dude begat that
               | dude, and so on...." I just mentally substituted "uh,
               | yeah, Methuselah was old and Jesus was descended from
               | King David and all those dudes."
               | 
               | That's not nearly as strange as it sounds, because one
               | really does need to understand the Bible to really grasp
               | the nuances of much of Western literature.
        
               | tenacious_tuna wrote:
               | > What should I preach? That they're victims and screwed
               | because of accident of geography/genetics? Is that a
               | useful framework for life?
               | 
               | > Whats the alternative for those less fortunate?
               | 
               | (disclaimer: atheist)
               | 
               | Your stance is a classic of church thinking: remove the
               | agency from the people in the situation, and delegate it
               | to god, saying he will fix the problem __somehow__, but
               | they need'nt involve themselves.
               | 
               | The alternative is honesty and historical accuracy. To
               | try to conceal or ignore what forces in their past have
               | done to minimize them is to make it impossible for them
               | to decide for themselves how they want to deal with these
               | problems--you're removing their agency.
               | 
               | Maybe they'll choose to dedicate their lives to
               | researching genetic problems, or to correcting social
               | injustice, raising awareness of subconscious bias or
               | changing how certain systems in our culture purposefully
               | minimize portions of the population.
               | 
               | This attitude, that being kind to those around them will
               | bring change, while noble, is incredibly naive and
               | shortsighted. Nearly every major social change in United
               | States history was brought about through groups of people
               | uniting and demonstrating their combined force, demanding
               | the rights they'd been denied.
               | 
               | > You can say that you teach them the system is unfair
               | will help them break it. But that amounts to political
               | indoctrination if you're not careful.
               | 
               | Your alternative will lead to stunted critical thinking,
               | and serves only to prevent the questions many
               | deconverting folk have asked of the god they believed in:
               | "How is this fair?", "How could you let this happen?",
               | "How will you fix this?"
        
               | [deleted]
        
         | yalogin wrote:
         | Interesting. Can you give a few examples of what questions
         | these are?
        
         | Freak_NL wrote:
         | There does not seem to be a shortage of church variety to
         | choose from. It's not about churches not being able to answer
         | questions clearly; the reality is just that fewer people
         | believe in gods.
         | 
         | For comparison: in the Netherlands we already dipped below 50%
         | in 2017, and the number of religious people keeps dropping
         | steadily.
         | 
         | In 2019 the remaining religious minority was composed of 20.1%
         | Roman Catholics, 14.8% protestants (various types), 5.0%
         | Muslims, and 5.9% adherents of other religions.
         | 
         | Edit: bear in mind that this is people who consider themselves
         | religious. The percentage of people actually member of a
         | church/mosque/whatever is below 30%.
        
           | CivBase wrote:
           | > There does not seem to be a shortage of church variety to
           | choose from.
           | 
           | I think this is a deceiving metric. Most churches are less
           | places of worship or religious education and more social
           | clubs dressed up in religious phrases and iconography. There
           | are so many of them because each is designed to appeal to a
           | particular social group, but they all feature a very similar
           | watered down message that just reinforces the congregation's
           | preexisting beliefs. They tend to focus less on education and
           | more on community events, activism, fundraising, and growing
           | their community - just like any other social club.
           | 
           | If you're looking for a church that genuinely _teaches_ its
           | congregation, that 's much harder to find. They don't tend to
           | be as successful in terms of growth or wealth. To teach
           | someone, you must either add to what they know or challenge
           | something they think they already know. Most people don't
           | like being challenged - they'd rather go somewhere that
           | reinforces what they already think or just ditch religion
           | altogether.
           | 
           | It's no surprise that the social club churches are
           | disappearing. Even the least devoted members of a church
           | congregation feels bad leaving, just as they might feel bad
           | cancelling a gym membership they never actually use. But
           | their kids often have no such attachments.
        
           | subpixel wrote:
           | Even if one believes, the notion that these often corrupt,
           | sometimes malignant control organizations we call churches
           | are a necessary expense of both time and money is a harder
           | sell in the modern world.
           | 
           | The social role that churches play is where the opening
           | raises real concern. What comes after organized religion may
           | well look more like conspiracy theory.
        
             | bopbeepboop wrote:
             | I would argue several modern problems trace to the collapse
             | of churches as a social institution:
             | 
             | - loneliness
             | 
             | - lack of dating/marriage
             | 
             | - lack of community infrastructure
             | 
             | - lack of elder care
             | 
             | If you look at existing charities, much of the rubber meets
             | road work gets done by churches or church affiliated
             | groups.
             | 
             | You don't have to like the message or the people, but I
             | think it's pretty obvious ditching churches without a
             | replacement was a mistake.
             | 
             | Edit: reply here since rate limited //
             | 
             | > Yes, this can obviously vary by church--but it's a
             | fallacy to claim that churches as a whole prevented
             | loneliness.
             | 
             | No, you're the one making a fallacy: your mothers singular
             | bad experience doesn't refute that churches made a
             | statistically positive impact, which was my claim. You just
             | told an emotional anecdote then declared that I'm wrong due
             | to a straw man. (I never made a universal claim.)
             | 
             | > an entire generation growing up in the shadow of the 2008
             | financial collapse, as well as unprecedented debt from
             | college
             | 
             | Okay?
             | 
             | The downwards trend in dating and marriage didn't start in
             | 2008 and doesn't seem to hold across cultures -- there's a
             | clear cultural component related to social changes in the
             | US.
             | 
             | If you're saying you think the collapse of churches is on
             | par with excessive college debt as to why two-ish
             | generations aren't flourishing: I agree.
             | 
             | That's _my_ point.
             | 
             | > it's a self-selecting population that inherently
             | echochambers, making it difficult to relate to outside
             | groups, thus further damaging community
             | 
             | This sounds like a stereotype more than a fact -- and is
             | exactly counter to my experience, where multiple churches
             | collaborate on things like homelessness charities.
             | 
             | That fine grained social structure is a necessary layer of
             | how governments distribute resources effectively, one very
             | poorly replaced by private actors. (In my experience.)
             | 
             | > you don't give any supporting arguments for them
             | 
             | I must have missed yours.
             | 
             | > you quite nicely fit the churchgoer stereotype in that
             | way
             | 
             | Here's the crux of it: you're making faulty arguments
             | because you need me to be wrong for your stereotypes to be
             | right.
             | 
             | Eg, calling me a "churchgoer stereotype" when I don't
             | attend church and you made similarly unsupported arguments.
             | 
             | You're just a bigot: factually wrong and stereotyping
             | people.
        
               | hackflip wrote:
               | We threw out the baby with the bathwater.
        
               | tenacious_tuna wrote:
               | I think you're likely ignoring other confounding effects;
               | 
               | > - loneliness
               | 
               | I'm not convinced churches ever solved this meaningfully
               | --my mother left her church specifically because they
               | never treated her as an equal adult, being a single
               | parent. She was lonely _within_ the church. Yes, this can
               | obviously vary by church--but it's a fallalcy to claim
               | that churches as a whole prevented loneliness.
               | 
               | Especially not for those subjugated *by* the church
               | (LGBT, single parent, unmarried, women [depending on
               | doctrine]...)
               | 
               | > - lack of dating/marriage
               | 
               | * an entire generation growing up in the shadow of the
               | 2008 financial collapse, as well as unprecedented debt
               | from college, climate change, etc. driving down the
               | desire to start a family
               | 
               | > lack of community infrastructure
               | 
               | This is much more influenced by increasing polarization
               | and tribalism, which churches have helped cause by
               | providing a platform and existing insular in-group--it's
               | a self-selecting population that inherently echochambers,
               | making it difficult to relate to outside groups, thus
               | further damaging community.
               | 
               | Overall, you make these claims that churches are
               | significant in these ways, but you don't give any
               | supporting arguments for them--you quite nicely fit the
               | churchgoer stereotype in that way.
        
               | tenacious_tuna wrote:
               | Followup to embedded reply;
               | 
               | > You just told an emotional anecdote then declared that
               | I'm wrong due to a straw man
               | 
               | ...
               | 
               | > That's my point.
               | 
               | ...
               | 
               | > ...and is exactly counter to my experience...
               | 
               | ...
               | 
               | > Here's the crux of it: you're making faulty arguments
               | ...
               | 
               | Apologies; You didn't provide any evidence or elaboration
               | on claims in your original post, just that "I think it's
               | pretty obvious ditching churches without a replacement
               | was a mistake," so I did make assumptions about your
               | motivations etc. It would have been better of me to ask
               | "Why do you think churches would have addressed these
               | problems?" instead of blindly countering what I thought
               | your arguments were.
               | 
               | That said:
               | 
               | > I must have missed your [supporting arguments].
               | 
               | I'd thought I gave several possible counter-arguments to
               | your points--which you then responded to? I'm confused as
               | to what you 'missed'.
               | 
               | > Eg, calling me a "churchgoer stereotype"
               | 
               | I did not call you a churchgoer, I said you fit the
               | stereotype, in that you made claims without bothering to
               | effectively support them (at the time); you may consider
               | this 'bigoted' to stereotype in this manner, but to me
               | it's a chronic frustration with defenders of churches.
               | I'll grant that it's implied that I called you a
               | churchgoer, but the specifics there are beside the point.
               | 
               | At this point I would also add on the stereotype that,
               | when your ideas are confronted, you act as if you're
               | under "attack" and are being "oppressed," a la "war on
               | christmas."
               | 
               | > You're just a bigot: factually wrong and stereotyping
               | people.
               | 
               | I'm not certain I agree with that definition of 'bigot';
               | I'm also not certain you've demonstrated my factual
               | incorrectness.
               | 
               | I'm also rather frustrated around the disconnect of you
               | treating churches as a roughly homogenous group (as in
               | "ditching churches without a replacement was a mistake",
               | "[most charity] work gets done by churches", "several
               | modern problems trace to the collapse of churches"), yet
               | when I similarly generalize it's "stereotyping" and I'm a
               | bigot.
               | 
               | We clearly have different experiences w.r.t. churches, as
               | most people do. I have plenty of friends who have a
               | litany of issues with the churches they grew up in; I
               | have several other friends and family members who have
               | had wonderful experiences in their churches. Both of
               | these common classes of experience (you may call them
               | anecdotal, I call them endemic) existing in the same
               | space makes it very frustrating to me when people make
               | claims around the positivity of churches with little
               | support and ignoring these widespread flaws. You say it
               | was a mistake to ditch churches without "a replacement"--
               | I'd claim there are many whose lives are better off for
               | having not been subject to the whims of their church, and
               | calling it a mistake to abandon them is to ignore the
               | church's share in their own faults where they exist.
               | 
               | > [saying churches are a self-selecting population that
               | inherently echochambers] sounds like a stereotype more
               | than a fact
               | 
               | People who go to church literally self-select in that
               | they all believe in __roughly__ the same doctrine, god,
               | etc. Even more so if you account for the fact that
               | "church shopping" is a thing where people try to find one
               | that "fits," and then they get their general beliefs
               | reinforced by going. I really don't see what's a
               | stereotype here.
               | 
               | The "outside groups" they struggle to relate to is
               | demonstrable by things like how they interact with LGBT
               | people, or folks of other religions, or atheists. There
               | are certainly examples of where some churches do these
               | things well, but again your claim of "ditching churches
               | without a replacement was a mistake" __does not__ makes
               | these distinctions, and ignoring them is tantamount to
               | ignoring the harm churches--generalized or no!--have done
               | to these groups.
        
               | RankingMember wrote:
               | > I would argue several modern problems trace to the
               | collapse of churches as a social institution: > -
               | loneliness
               | 
               | > - lack of dating/marriage
               | 
               | > - lack of community infrastructure
               | 
               | > - lack of elder care
               | 
               | Do you have any evidence to back this argument up?
        
               | greedo wrote:
               | Haha. My mom was divorced and told by the church that she
               | couldn't remarry. Not because it was against church
               | policy, but because the rector at our parish was against
               | it. So she had to petition the bishop who basically
               | ordered the rector to allow it (and forced him to
               | officiate). So I'm pretty sure that at least this church
               | didn't give a flying hoot about whether my mom was
               | lonely, or seeking marriage etc.
        
               | engineeringwoke wrote:
               | I think you are looking for a regular socially democratic
               | government, not a church.
        
               | bopbeepboop wrote:
               | Why would a government be involved in any of those
               | things?
               | 
               | That sounds like a Soviet-style dystopia.
        
               | subpixel wrote:
               | Only the state-sponsored dating, which I'm sure is not
               | what the commenter was implying!
               | 
               | If you've never lived in a society that offered socialist
               | advantages like affordable health care, elder care,
               | government-funded community engagement programs, etc.
               | then I guess it's easy to be scared by things you don't
               | understand.
               | 
               | I'm not putting this on you, but when people turn to
               | religion with fear already pulsing through their veins,
               | good things never happen.
        
           | xyzzy21 wrote:
           | I no longer see "believing in God" as being necessary per se
           | to practice or benefit from religion. More important is the
           | self-discipline it can create through repetition and habit.
           | 
           | Religion has the same function as "branding" - it's an
           | efficient short-cut to bypass intensive, and possible
           | unavailable intellectual rigor for some. And because Bell
           | Curves are truly reality, providing a moral and ethical
           | framework that works for everyone and that is internally
           | consistent ENOUGH absolutely matters.
           | 
           | NOTHING we can ever know will be absolute truth or knowledge.
           | You can make a simple proof by physical volumes of an
           | individual and of the universe, combined with Shannon's Law.
           | Humans must always come up short on knowledge and
           | understanding of the universe as a result.
           | 
           | Like all things (even science) you can take a thing too far
           | and exceed its limits of explanation or prediction. But
           | that's unavoidable in a static system sense; which is why you
           | dynamic systems defined by reliable and simple rules and
           | waypoints. Religion absolutely provides that in a minimal
           | effort form.
           | 
           | And we shouldn't project upon "average" and "below average"
           | for what we might be familiar with or assume about intellect.
           | Again: Bell curves for all things are reality. The biggest
           | mistake that intellectuals make is that EVERYONE is just like
           | them and thinks exactly the same way. Nope. Not even on a
           | good day.
        
         | cjameskeller wrote:
         | Agreed. This was a major component in my switch from
         | Protestant/Baptist to ("Greek"/Eastern) Orthodox. Having
         | thousands of years of prior religious & philosophical
         | discussions to draw from, as well as the experiences of people
         | living under all manner of political regimes provides a much-
         | needed grounding against whatever may be the current, trendy
         | topics.
         | 
         | And a direct result of that history is that the Church mandates
         | certain practices to shape one's willpower: fasting (roughly
         | half the year, in total, though "fasting" here means small
         | vegan meals), some form of tithing &/or charitable work,
         | explicit self-examination (not only standard prayers, but also
         | Confession with a priest, who helps make a plan against bad
         | habits, as well as an annual event where everyone in the parish
         | asks forgiveness of each other) etc.
        
           | ur-whale wrote:
           | This approach, "religion as an operator's manual to living
           | one's life" is one of the very rare arguments in defense of
           | religion I can vaguely resonate with.
           | 
           | Unfortunately this argument entirely fails to support all the
           | rest of the luggage, especially the metaphysical hokum: you
           | can perfectly chose to live your life according to a set of
           | rules that will help you (and others) without having to
           | justify it via the existence of some bearded dude sitting on
           | a cloud.
        
             | joshuacc wrote:
             | > some bearded dude sitting on a cloud
             | 
             | You do realize that this idea is explicitly condemned by
             | Christianity, Judaism, and Islam?
        
               | ur-whale wrote:
               | You do realize that, when talking about a bearded man on
               | a cloud, I was making a point about the fact that most of
               | what the three monotheistic religions you mention (BTW 3
               | out of many, many equivalently deluded things) are
               | essentially fairy tales designed to control the minds of
               | men?
               | 
               | If at one time the bearded man on a cloud was the useful
               | tool of the day to manipulate crowds and was later
               | "condemned" because better ways were devised to keep the
               | flock believing, in what way does that affect my argument
               | that 90% of religion is utter, unprovable, fairy-tale BS?
               | 
               | [EDIT]: and yeah if you insist on plowing the dirt of
               | literal interpretation, I'll point you to this argument
               | made by another poster : please take a look at the first
               | image that pops when querying google for "god" and come
               | back and tell us that the argument has no basis.
               | 
               | https://images.google.com/search?q=god
        
             | eszed wrote:
             | You're right, but there is value in the community of
             | accountability that churches provide. Fasting, tithing,
             | charity work, and self-examination are objectively
             | worthwhile, but not things I'm likely to muster up the
             | will-power to do on my own, at least not regularly. It's
             | like physical exercise: easier to get yourself off your ass
             | when you go to the gym with a friend, or join a regular
             | class.
             | 
             | Also, even though I don't really believe there's any
             | "metaphysical hokum" going on behind it, I'm still moved
             | (aesthetically, and -- dare I say? -- spiritually) by
             | liturgy and church architecture. I'm sitting in the same
             | place, while seeing and smelling and saying the same things
             | that people have for hundreds or thousands of years. That's
             | pretty cool, and I always feel better afterwards. So, even
             | if I'm rationally convinced that it's a psychological
             | (rather than metaphysical) effect, it's still worth doing.
        
               | ur-whale wrote:
               | > easier to get yourself off your ass when you go to the
               | gym
               | 
               | Yeah, I hear you, but this is where we part ways: to me
               | it's not a matter of willpower, but rather one of - a
               | sin, I know - pride: I can't bear the idea that I'm
               | walking the path of my life using the equivalent of moral
               | crutches.
               | 
               | As to your second argument: no argument there, not
               | everything about religion is bad, even if, in the case of
               | beautiful churches, you could argue that the way they
               | were erected wasn't necessarily "ethical".
        
             | redsummer wrote:
             | Of the hundreds of communes that have been started in the
             | US, those that were just secular or political never lasted.
             | And the only ones which flourished were religious. People
             | need to believe in a higher power, rather then just
             | themselves, otherwise their communities just dissolve.
        
             | hudon wrote:
             | > bearded dude sitting on a cloud
             | 
             | That's a strange straw man. No God-fearing person I know
             | believes in such a thing. God is not a being, but rather is
             | _being itself_. In fact, when Moses asked God what his name
             | was, God replies something like "I am who am". If you
             | prefer an Aristotelian frame, he is the "unmoved mover" [0]
             | 
             | [0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Unmoved_mover
        
               | today20201014 wrote:
               | God is a being in Genesis. He walks through the Garden.
        
               | rbp wrote:
               | Some Christian commentaries interpret this as God in the
               | person of Jesus Christ: https://www.blueletterbible.org/C
               | omm/guzik_david/StudyGuide2...
        
               | joshuacc wrote:
               | And when someone is in love we say they "walk on clouds."
               | That doesn't mean we're literally ascribing the power of
               | levitation to them.
        
               | today20201014 wrote:
               | > That doesn't mean we're literally ascribing the power
               | of levitation to them.
               | 
               | Exactly, it's figurative language. My point is that when
               | we read in scripture that
               | 
               | > Moses asked God what his name was, God replies
               | something like "I am who am".
               | 
               | the notion of Moses asking God may also be figurative.
        
               | deergomoo wrote:
               | If you search Google Images for "god" there's an awful
               | lot of bearded men sitting on clouds, so it must be at
               | least a somewhat popular belief
        
               | petre wrote:
               | Most likely caricatures than popular belief, or
               | caricatures that shape popular belief. Maybe this is why
               | muslims get angry when others make depictions of their
               | prophet?
        
               | ur-whale wrote:
               | > God-fearing
               | 
               | I rest my case.
        
               | krapp wrote:
               | God, as portrayed in the OT, is clearly a being. God has
               | specific thoughts, agency and expresses emotions. God
               | _gets tired_ after making the universe and takes the
               | weekend off. God _despairs_ of humanity and decides to
               | kill everyone in a flood. God calls himself a _jealous_
               | God. God even argues with Jonah about a houseplant (Jonah
               | 4) and haggles with Ezekiel over what kind of excrement
               | to bake his bread over (Ezekiel 4).
        
         | MeinBlutIstBlau wrote:
         | The internet and the ability to discuss these issues
         | anonymously has exacerbated irreligion faster than communism
         | ever could. And unlike stalinist/maoist regimes, people are
         | doing it on their own free will.
        
         | avasylev wrote:
         | Could you please share which churches you think have solid
         | theology?
        
           | luxuryballs wrote:
           | Calvary Chapel churches are usually pretty solid.
        
             | [deleted]
        
             | pantalaimon wrote:
             | Like their prediction of Jesus return in 1981?
        
         | adkadskhj wrote:
         | Couldn't agree more. The thing that drove me away from faith
         | was feeling like it was a set of truths that required obscuring
         | the rest of life to keep true.
         | 
         | To me faith is something that you _have_ to understand through
         | the lens of your life. There is no understanding faith before
         | life. Your experiences allow you to understand faith. Which
         | isn't to say that life is more important than faith, not at
         | all, just that life is the lens in which you view faith.
         | 
         | In that mindset, faith seems exceptionally deep and complex.
         | Full of discussion, learning, change. Not a black and white
         | truth, but a series of learnings and understanding. You can't
         | learn (in my mind) without change, and so the idea of a churn
         | that teaches absolute truths felt fundamentally broken to me. I
         | think faith is a journey in knowledge. And so many churches
         | seem almost aggressive towards knowledge. They favor rote
         | memorization, i think, as a method to avoid change. To avoid
         | their doctrine as being mutable.
         | 
         | This mindset also seems pervasive into how these people behave
         | in life, too. Just like how children need to learn to think
         | critically, adults need to practice thinking critically. Such a
         | strong emphasis on rote memorization has wide affects, i think.
         | 
         | No grand statements here, and i mean no offense to religion.
         | Just my thoughts on _some denominations_.
        
         | dookahku wrote:
         | i mostly got tired of being told i going to burn and choke and
         | scream forever and ever, amen, because i like guys and gals.
         | and if i disagreed, the pastor made sure i got punished.
         | 
         | the long term effects wast that this not a healthy thing to
         | tell a young teenager, and it's time for society to move on.
        
         | 49531 wrote:
         | As someone who was raised in a religious home who no longer
         | attends any church I think it's less to do with not answering
         | questions and more to do with a hostile rejection of religion
         | generally. It wasn't until I had children of my own that I
         | realized I needed to distance myself from religion. I know
         | there is a large variety of what is taught from religion to
         | religion and sect to sect but I'd like to steer clear from any
         | organization that takes a negative view on basic things like
         | homosexuality. I cannot fathom exposing my (or any) kids to
         | that kind of worldview.
        
           | CedarMills wrote:
           | I think it heavily depends on the church and community. One
           | of the reasons we are staying in our current church is
           | because we're open to a wide community (multi-ethnic) with
           | the same core values. Our kids grow up in this community but
           | at the end of the day, it will be their decision if they
           | decide to no longer attend.
        
             | tenacious_tuna wrote:
             | I also grew up in a Christian house and am now atheist--I
             | never understood how people could reconcile "church
             | shopping" for a community that aligns with their views
             | (e.g. not homophobic) with the notion that the core
             | religious concepts are supposed to be infallible. If you
             | disagree with various churches on some
             | doctrinal/sociological point, how do you know that your
             | current church is correct on God existing, or knowing what
             | he wants?
             | 
             | Part of my de-conversion was driven by what looked to me
             | like people willfully deceiving themselves that it was
             | possible to "choose" a church who fit their worldview,
             | without treating the cosmology claims the church inherently
             | makes with the same skepticism.
        
               | tablespoon wrote:
               | > I also grew up in a Christian house and am now atheist
               | --I never understood how people could reconcile "church
               | shopping" for a community that aligns with their views
               | (e.g. not homophobic) with the notion that the core
               | religious concepts are supposed to be infallible. If you
               | disagree with various churches on some
               | doctrinal/sociological point, how do you know that your
               | current church is correct on God existing, or knowing
               | what he wants?
               | 
               | That doesn't actually seem like a problem specific to
               | religion, but a problem with truth, generally. If anyone
               | believes their beliefs are true, they have to reconcile
               | that with the fact that people disagree, which usually
               | proceeds by believing those people are in error or that
               | the differences aren't significant. I don't think
               | Christians actually believe that the truth is something
               | easy to access, given the emphasis on faith and belief
               | that everyone is flawed, etc.
        
               | tenacious_tuna wrote:
               | > given the emphasis on faith and belief that everyone is
               | flawed
               | 
               | Forgive my possibly abrasive tone, but "given the
               | emphasis on faith and belief that everyone is flawed"
               | falls apart when the focal point of the church and the
               | religion it purports, the god, is held to be infallible.
               | 
               | The notion that all these disparate groups can cite the
               | same 'source of truth' as their guiding principles, yet
               | come to such significantly different conclusions as to
               | fight wars over them shows those principles aren't as
               | useful or reliable as members of any church make them out
               | to be.
               | 
               | That's where my frustrations come in: churchgoers seem
               | inherently aware of these intense differences, yet don't
               | seem to question the reliability of their text (or view,
               | or belief, or...) despite all these alternative
               | conclusions from the same tools and evidence.
               | 
               | (In Street Epistemology the "Outsider Faith Test" is used
               | to demonstrate this; broadly phrased, "If it is possible
               | for a person of Hinduism to use faith to justify their
               | belief in their god(s), and it's possible for a Christian
               | person to use faith to justify their belief in their god,
               | yet those beliefs are in opposition to one another, is
               | faith a reliable tool to determine what is true?")
        
               | tablespoon wrote:
               | > Forgive my possibly abrasive tone, but "given the
               | emphasis on faith and belief that everyone is flawed"
               | falls apart when the focal point of the church and the
               | religion it purports, the god, is held to be infallible.
               | 
               | Not really. That only falls apart under particular
               | assumptions (e.g. an assumption that a perfect thing will
               | only create other perfect things, or that perfection will
               | be the particular kind you imagined it must be).
               | 
               | > (In Street Epistemology the "Outsider Faith Test" is
               | used to demonstrate this; broadly phrased, "If it is
               | possible for a person of Hinduism to use faith to justify
               | their belief in their god(s), and it's possible for a
               | Christian person to use faith to justify their belief in
               | their god, yet those beliefs are in opposition to one
               | another, is faith a reliable tool to determine what is
               | true?")
               | 
               | I've got a pretty clear sense that there are regions of
               | truth that our "reliable tools" cannot access. Faith is
               | basically the hope that some of those regions can be
               | accessed in other ways.
        
               | tenacious_tuna wrote:
               | > there are regions of truth that our "reliable tools"
               | cannot access
               | 
               | This is a contradiction in terms. If you have a set of
               | tools such that some tools reliably determine truth and
               | some don't, inherently that latter set can't be used to
               | "access" other "regions of truth." Put differently, when
               | I examine the universe with my reliable truth-tools
               | (roughly, the scientific method), I see no reason to
               | believe that these other regions of truth that my tools
               | cannot detect exist. If I use tools that are demonstrably
               | flawed, like faith, I can conclude those things are true,
               | but why would I use known-bad tools to reason with?
               | 
               | It almost feels like a weird inverted understanding of
               | object permanence; I can't see into the other room, so I
               | cannot reliably determine what is inside it. It's
               | possible since I left it that a ninja suck in and left a
               | million dollars in my couch cushions, then retrieved it
               | later--I would have no way to detect that from here, so
               | my 'tools' can't determine that. Why would I choose to
               | believe in the ninja?
               | 
               | It is possible that you could come to believe something
               | that is true by faith (as in, "I have faith we live in a
               | heliocentric solar system, although I cannot prove or
               | determine this with my current set of tools"), you cannot
               | use faith to prove that what you believe is true. A
               | practitioner of Street Epistemology, Anthony Magnabosco,
               | has a very good conversation [1] with someone on that
               | very topic.
               | 
               | [1] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CmFyiLICAa8
        
               | tablespoon wrote:
               | > This is a contradiction in terms. If you have a set of
               | tools such that some tools reliably determine truth and
               | some don't, inherently that latter set can't be used to
               | "access" other "regions of truth." Put differently, when
               | I examine the universe with my reliable truth-tools
               | (roughly, the scientific method)...
               | 
               | You'll notice I put "reliable tools" in quotes. I do not
               | think they are as reliable as you do. For instance, to
               | give a secular example, they're unlikely to be able to
               | give an answer to the simulation hypothesis. Say physics
               | ultimately derives from a certain configuration in
               | Conway's Game of Life, and that configuration is in-fact
               | running on some kid's Hyperpentium 4 PC. Science _may_ be
               | able to access the truth of the configuration and game
               | rules, but it 's totally blocked from probing the region
               | of truth beyond that. However, that block is one way, and
               | the kid's totally capable of editing the configuration to
               | add a message "LOL U DOODS R IN MY PC." Now (with or
               | without the message) you may decide to have utter faith
               | in your tools, and deny or dismiss as meaningless what
               | they can't perceive, but that's just denial or averting
               | your eyes. There is truth there, it's just outside the
               | grasp of your tools.
        
               | tenacious_tuna wrote:
               | I'm perfectly content to leave things such as the
               | simulation hypothesis as "I don't know."
               | 
               | This is another tool in the Street Epistemology toolbox,
               | one normally done at the start of the conversation: you
               | display a container of tic tacs and ask if there's an
               | even or odd number in there--your conversation partner
               | shouldn't be allowed to closely examine the tic tacs.
               | There is a 'true' answer, but it's impossible to
               | determine from their vantage point: as such, what use is
               | either stance? The only "correct" answer is to
               | acknowledge while there may be a true answer, they're
               | unable to determine it from there and as such they don't
               | know.
               | 
               | My tools are perfectly reliable in the sense that they
               | are reliable indicators of truth where they can be
               | applied, e.g. to things that can be observed. You're
               | completely correct in that if we are in a simulation they
               | can only probe the bounds of the problem, and offer no
               | answer as to if we are indeed in a solution (beyond if an
               | observable event occurs that would indicate such)--but I
               | don't feel compelled to choose a "side" on that issue,
               | and I remain skeptical of people who choose to do so in
               | the absence of evidence--the same skepticism I regard
               | folks who believe in a god with an absence of evidence.
               | They may be correct, depending on the claims they make
               | about that god and it's ability to influence the
               | universe, but I see no reason to allow that possibility
               | to influence my life and decision making, just as I don't
               | allow the simulation hypothesis to influence my decision
               | making: having seen no evidence, why would I affect
               | change in my life for this thing?
               | 
               | It seems as though we've disagreed on the meaning of
               | "reliable tools"--I don't mean omniscient, I simply mean
               | they're the best way I've found to believe things that
               | are true with regard to reality; put differently, they
               | don't yield false positives. (Though it's wholly possible
               | for me to reach false conclusions, I am only human.)
        
               | tablespoon wrote:
               | > This is another tool in the Street Epistemology
               | toolbox, one normally done at the start of the
               | conversation: you display a container of tic tacs and ask
               | if there's an even or odd number in there--your
               | conversation partner shouldn't be allowed to closely
               | examine the tic tacs. There is a 'true' answer, but it's
               | impossible to determine from their vantage point: as
               | such, what use is either stance? The only "correct"
               | answer is to acknowledge while there may be a true
               | answer, they're unable to determine it from there and as
               | such they don't know.
               | 
               | So, I should conclude that I don't know if LIGO has ever
               | detected gravitational waves? I am unable to determine
               | that from my vantage point.
        
               | tenacious_tuna wrote:
               | You could ascribe reasonable certainty that folks using
               | the scientific method have accurately modeled the
               | universe, as determined by their documented and
               | repeatable experiments.
               | 
               | I've previously seen people phrase that as "having faith
               | in the beliefs of others," which usually boils down to
               | semantics on what "faith" means: I believe it is likely
               | those people have observed the things they say they have,
               | because of the nature of the scientific community and how
               | these experiments are structured.
               | 
               | I also think we're getting rather far off the specific,
               | original issue: the existence of a god. In my experience
               | this has been the kind of thing a single individual can
               | experiment with and reason around--at least, in all the
               | ways people tend to give evidence for their belief in
               | god:
               | 
               | (1) hearing him communicate with them in some way
               | 
               | (2) seeing him influence the universe in ways they'd
               | expect a god to
               | 
               | (3) believing a god must have been necessary to create
               | the universe due to its complexity/beauty/etc.
               | 
               | You'd contended (please do correct me if I've
               | misunderstood your argument) that the tools I suggested--
               | the scientific method--were incapable of determining what
               | lies behind the observational curtain, which I agree is
               | certainly true: if you can't observe a thing or its
               | effects in any way, you cannot determine its existence.
               | The thing we seem to get hung up on is what we should
               | believe about what lies behind that curtain.
               | 
               | My stance is to take the null hypothesis and assume
               | nothing exists beyond the curtain; at the very least, not
               | a god that interacts with our world and the people in it
               | as the Christian faith claims. In short, "I have not seen
               | sufficient evidence to conclude a god exists."
               | 
               | Your stance seems to be that it is acceptable to believe
               | facts about things beyond this curtain; that we are not
               | in a simulation, that there is a god, etc, framed as
               | having faith in those facts being true, despite
               | observational tools not functioning in this realm.
               | 
               | The tic-tac example wasn't supposed to be an indictment
               | of extrapolative beliefs from experience ("these people
               | have reliably observed the universe before / predicted
               | things / modeled things for years, it seems reasonable to
               | continue to trust their motivations and methods"), just a
               | demonstration of when "I don't know" is a more correct
               | answer over taking a stance when observational tools have
               | reached their limit.
        
               | tablespoon wrote:
               | > I also think we're getting rather far off the specific,
               | original issue: the existence of a god.
               | 
               | Huh? I picked up that you're kinda evangelical and were
               | drifting there, but that's not where we started and it
               | wasn't actually the conversation I was having.
               | 
               | > My stance is to take the null hypothesis and assume
               | nothing exists beyond the curtain;
               | 
               | Isn't that a little unreasonable? You see a floor, so you
               | assume nothing exists on the other side because it blocks
               | your vision?
        
               | tenacious_tuna wrote:
               | > Isn't that a little unreasonable? You see a floor, so
               | you assume nothing exists on the other side because it
               | blocks your vision?
               | 
               | You keep taking my statements to strange extremes; I'm
               | going to try to avoid metaphors for clarity.
               | 
               | I use observation and experimentation to determine true
               | things about the world. I extend my belief in these
               | things to other humans in the world who I believe
               | practice observation and experimentation effectively;
               | scientists, mostly.
               | 
               | When we reach the limits of these observation and
               | experimentation based tools, like with the simulation
               | hypothesis, I stop and say "I don't know." By the fact
               | these things and their effects cannot be experimented on
               | or observed, they also cannot affect my life, so why
               | bother making conclusions that I can't verify and won't
               | affect me anyway?
               | 
               | In the case of a god who created the universe, has an
               | interest in my life, has declared certain things to be
               | "right" and certain things to be "wrong," and
               | hypothetically takes action in my life (e.g., the common
               | Christian understanding), this is well within what can be
               | observed and experimented on. As such, I take the null
               | hypothesis like a good scientist: I don't assume there is
               | some god and begin running experiments to determine
               | _which_ one is there, I assume there is _no_ god and
               | begin looking for any evidence that shows there is _any_
               | god.
               | 
               | In my experience thus far in life, I have not encountered
               | any evidence that makes me suspect there may be any god
               | of any kind, and certainly not the one of the Christian
               | description.
               | 
               | Your original statement was:
               | 
               | > I've got a pretty clear sense that there are regions of
               | truth that our "reliable tools" cannot access. Faith is
               | basically the hope that some of those regions can be
               | accessed in other ways.
               | 
               | The implication I read here is that you believe in things
               | that cannot be demonstrated through observation and
               | experimentation, and that it is reasonable for people to
               | use faith to support these beliefs.
               | 
               | My frustration is with people who make claims about
               | things in those regions without any way of actually
               | demonstrating them, and then making life- and policy-
               | based decisions around those beliefs that affect me and
               | others in the world.
               | 
               | I've tried to convey why this seems unreasonable to me,
               | and you keep taking my points to strange extremes that
               | seem disconnected from our original discussion.
               | 
               | To return to your floor metaphor (which may be a poor
               | choice on my part): I see a floor, and I assume there is
               | no dragon in the basement that I must not aggravate
               | because I've never seen any sign of any dragon, why would
               | I worry about that?
        
               | fock wrote:
               | while I think this is a sensible stance for most highly
               | educated people, for most this just is something they can
               | not cope very well with. And I think that these "simple"
               | minds are then prone to all the other cults out there
               | (like QAnon - what is it else than replacing things
               | people can't know about with faith.) - and from their
               | teachings these are _much_ worse.
        
               | LargeWu wrote:
               | I get what you're saying, but there's plenty of
               | disagreement on what those concepts even are.
               | 
               | td;dr: Denominations vary wildly, and it's almost
               | impossible to separate one's personal biases from
               | choosing a congregation.
               | 
               | For example, Catholicism is very heirarchical, stating
               | that one cannot receive salvation except through the
               | Catholic Church. Methodism states that good acts + belief
               | are the gateway to heaven. Lutheranism promises salvation
               | to all that believe in Christ.
               | 
               | Or take the infallibility of the Bible. The Roman
               | Catholic faith places a lot of emphasis on church
               | doctrine, which is based on the Bible to be sure, but
               | also a lot of church constructs. Baptists believe in a
               | very literal interpretation of the Bible. Mainline
               | protestants emphasize historical context and nuance. ELCA
               | does not even claim the Bible is the literal word of God.
               | 
               | Plus, individual congregations within a denomination
               | might have differences in emphasis, sociopolitical
               | leanings, etc. It's important to know that "The Church"
               | is in many cases, and especially for Protestant
               | denominations, made up of congregations from the bottom
               | up, and reflects the aggregate of its membership.
        
               | skissane wrote:
               | > stating that one cannot receive salvation except
               | through the Catholic Church
               | 
               | The contemporary position of the Catholic Church is that
               | non-Catholic Christians and non-Christians _can_ be
               | saved. What you 've said there will be read by many
               | readers as saying that only Catholics will be saved,
               | which is not the Catholic position at all, in fact it is
               | the condemned heresy of Feeneyism.
               | 
               | Now, the Catholic Church also teaches that when non-
               | Catholics and non-Christians are saved, they are saved
               | _through_ the Catholic Church - but in a mystical rather
               | than visible way - so what you 've said is literally
               | true, but is prone to misinterpretation.
        
               | tenacious_tuna wrote:
               | I talk about this more in another reply [1], but I'll
               | restate here:
               | 
               | If it's possible for all these varied denominations to
               | come to wildly different conclusions about god, the
               | world, and his desires for us, all based off the same
               | source materials and epistemological tools (e.g.,
               | faith)--differences that're important enough to have
               | fought wars and divided nations over--why then do people
               | believe these source materials and tools are still a
               | reliable way to determine how one should live their life?
               | 
               | The fact that these huge disagreements exist is evidence
               | to me that the bible specifically and religious texts
               | generally aren't reliable systems to learn about the
               | world.
               | 
               | What frustrates me is people who "church shop" seem to be
               | aware of this, because they're seeking a church that is
               | similar enough to their existing beliefs yet the
               | indicators of that are difficult to find because even
               | within the same denomination a specific population can
               | hold different beliefs, yet they don't extrapolate to the
               | wider issue of the base beliefs being the issue.
               | 
               | [1]: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=26624502
        
               | LargeWu wrote:
               | Because on the main point, they're all pretty much
               | aligned: Salvation is achieved through Jesus's death on
               | the cross. And fundamentally, it's the only thing that
               | really matters in Christianity.
               | 
               | In that respect, shopping for churches is mostly
               | irrelevant. What you see as fundamental differences are
               | really more social than theological, in which case the
               | shopping around makes a lot of sense.
               | 
               | "the bible specifically and religious texts generally
               | aren't reliable systems to learn about the world."
               | 
               | I think most mainline Christians would reject the notion
               | that the Old Testament is a factual historical record.
               | (Less so for Evangelical and Pentecostal, however).
               | Religion teaches us "why", not "what".
        
               | tenacious_tuna wrote:
               | My experience in life with self-identified Christians has
               | largely been in the context of those people disagreeing,
               | on moral grounds, with actions I take or people I support
               | --almost always citing religion in their reasoning. It's
               | possible the people I've dealt with just aren't
               | components of this "mainline christianity" you're
               | familiar with, but they use the same tools to believe
               | these things. To me, those tools are egregiously flawed,
               | and I have a vested interest in making sure those tools
               | don't get used to believe false things that bring harm to
               | myself or my neighbors.
               | 
               | > Because on the main point, they're all pretty much
               | aligned...
               | 
               | Historically, wars have been fought over these
               | disagreements--both within only Christianity, and in the
               | wider religious space.
               | 
               | I think it's worth considering other religions personally
               | because it's what led to my de-conversion: I couldn't
               | answer the question of why, other than being raised in
               | it, I should believe Christianity over, say, Buddhism or
               | Islam. As I regarded other religions with skepticism,
               | when I was a Christian, I should also regard
               | Christianity.
               | 
               | While the specific point I've made previously deals with
               | selecting a denomination and a church within that
               | denomination it's also true that people choose religions
               | for similar (flawed?) reasoning.
               | 
               | Further:
               | 
               | > What you see as fundamental differences are really more
               | social than theological...
               | 
               | I'm not sure I'm convinced on this. Take gay marriage,
               | for example: I vividly recall being 12 in our church,
               | sitting in on a conversation between my (single) mother
               | and our pastor, on how to deal with people who chose to
               | sin in our lives, specifically referring to my father who
               | was openly gay at the time. The church we went to was
               | firmly against homosexuality, but was of the love-the-
               | sinner-hate-the-sin cloth. On the upshot, they were
               | relatively kind to those of the LGBT community, but they
               | did still make it clear they did not support their
               | "choices" and largely ostracized them--with reasoning
               | that, in their view, was ensconced in theology.
               | 
               | While LGBT rights have certainly been a social issue
               | throughout the world, I think dismissing this
               | "difference" between my church and the one on my college
               | campus who made a point of welcoming LGBT members is to
               | minimize these actual theological differences. There's
               | part of me that wonders if this is a bad-faith
               | maneuvering (not on your part, but organized religion as
               | a whole) to downplay socially repulsive beliefs without
               | having to sacrifice their supposed moral authority.
               | 
               | > I think most mainline Christians would reject the
               | notion that the Old testament is a factual historical
               | record.
               | 
               | This certainly hasn't been true across history, and even
               | now I harbor doubt. Perhaps I've only dealt with more
               | fundamentalist types than you, but the opposite has been
               | true in my experience, and is definitely not true of the
               | more loudmouthed Creationist/Ken Ham style evangelicals.
               | While they may not be representative of the majority,
               | *they are affecting policy* in many regions of the
               | country. My mother, an elementary teacher, frequently
               | voices her frustrations that she's not allowed to pose
               | creationism as an "alternative" to evolution in her
               | classes science units--something that is allowed in
               | several other states[1, though from 2014].
               | 
               | You see similar flaws in other arenas, too: my
               | grandparents view climate change as an issue outside of
               | human concern, squarely in God's hands, in part because
               | they believe in life-after-death and the eventual
               | rapture, so while they should do reasonably well to
               | steward the planet, they don't think we're going to be
               | here forever so it doesn't matter if Earth becomes an
               | unlivable rock; while some may suffer the effects of an
               | adverse climate, it won't matter when everyone's in
               | heaven.
               | 
               | I also wonder about what motivates these changes in how
               | doctrine is viewed. Supposing your right, what drove the
               | digression that the Old Testament is not factual? I doubt
               | it was the Church deciding on its own, outside of
               | societal pressure. I'm sure it's because of pressure from
               | those who found fault in the Old Testament teachings--
               | those who were condemned by it, or ostracized by the
               | churches of their time, and the Churches granted this
               | concession without wholly usurping their power. But what
               | about the next issue? Maybe folks are believing less in
               | Noah's Ark, but how will they contend with folks who're
               | trans, or polyamourus, or take issue with abstract (i.e.,
               | not historical) teachings of the bible like not rebelling
               | against kings, for they have been ordained by God [2]?
               | 
               | [1]: http://www.slate.com/articles/health_and_science/sci
               | ence/201... [2]: https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?se
               | arch=Romans%2013&ver...
        
               | wonderwonder wrote:
               | This is not an attack, just something I have wondered and
               | your comment "Salvation is achieved through Jesus's death
               | on the cross." reminded me of it. Jesus dying essentially
               | allowed God to forgive humanity and allow for salvation.
               | Why worship a God that was willing to destroy humanity
               | and required a blood sacrifice of his own son instead of
               | just saying, you know what, I forgive you. Why is an
               | entity like that worthy of worship for any reason other
               | than fear? Please note, not trying to attack your faith
               | here, just wondering on your opinion.
               | 
               | Edit: Thought about it a little more and I guess fear is
               | a pretty legitimate reason to do so. If one truly
               | believes that if one does not worship then an eternity in
               | hell is on the plate then worshipping does make sense but
               | it cant be anything except a Stockholm syndrome style of
               | worship.
        
           | thrww20210329 wrote:
           | You might enjoy this video:
           | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Vw_X7IkXB0
        
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