[HN Gopher] Liberal Societies Have Dangerously Low Birth Rates
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       Liberal Societies Have Dangerously Low Birth Rates
        
       Author : neverminder
       Score  : 26 points
       Date   : 2021-03-18 18:59 UTC (4 hours ago)
        
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       | rayiner wrote:
       | Socially liberal societies, in their current form, are literally
       | not sustainable. And what sustainability they appear to have is
       | actually propped up by socially conservative natives,
       | https://finance.yahoo.com/news/republicans-more-kids-democra...
       | and immigrants from socially conservative countries.
       | 
       | This isn't related to modern society, necessarily. The US total
       | fertility rate was well over 3.0 in the 1960s, but even then most
       | women worked outside the home. It's also not necessarily
       | preference. The average number of children women say they want is
       | 2.7, while the fertility rate is now well under 2.0. I strongly
       | suspect it's the result of the sexual revolution in the 1960s and
       | 1970s, which made it socially acceptable for men not to commit to
       | raising families.
       | 
       | [1] This is actually a fairly new phenomenon, appearing in the
       | last few decades.
        
         | throwaway0a5e wrote:
         | >which made it socially acceptable for men not to commit to
         | raising families.
         | 
         | I'm sure the government assistance rules that discourage
         | marriage (i.e. the several thousand year old stable child
         | raising family unit) aren't stalling that trend.
        
         | wetmore wrote:
         | I wouldn't be so quick to blame the sexual revolution. There
         | are many other relevant factors that have changed since the
         | 60s, such as the cost of owning a home and raising kids. People
         | are less likely to have nearby family to share childrearing
         | responsibilities, and so on. It's likely a confluence of
         | factors.
        
       | 5tefan wrote:
       | I think liberal is rather a label, a brand to have something to
       | be proud of. Actually our societies are very opressive. We have
       | to function as expected at all times. As a parent I can tell you
       | this is impossible. Toiling along and working through live and
       | spending money on meaningless stuff is the new meaning of life.
       | There's precious few headroom to have children. You can't have
       | them or can't afford them.
        
         | AnimalMuppet wrote:
         | If you think _this_ is oppressive, you ought to try living in a
         | society that 's _actually_ oppressive.
         | 
         | > We have to function as expected at all times.
         | 
         | No, we don't. (I mean, yes, we do to the degree necessary to
         | keep a job and not get arrested. Other than that, though, no.)
         | Nothing is forcing you to "function as expected at all times"
         | except your bowing to others' expectations for you.
         | 
         | > Toiling along and working through live and spending money on
         | meaningless stuff is the new meaning of life.
         | 
         | Only if you make it so. As it sounds like you have figured out,
         | there's no actual meaning there. Don't keep chasing down that
         | dead end; you won't find anything there.
        
         | unknown_apostle wrote:
         | It's also an expression of choice and priorities. Every child
         | is a new person that really exists, that can experience the
         | world and continue to live forever in the love of God.
        
       | Barrin92 wrote:
       | There's a lot of high minded philosophizing in the piece
       | including the notion that not having children is some kind of
       | subconscious death wish of liberal modernity, but I want to
       | propose a much simpler answer, what if people have fewer children
       | simply because they want to, with no deep sinister ideological
       | underpinning?
       | 
       | It's not like people in impoverished nations have half a dozen
       | children because of some deep intrinsic philosophical vitality,
       | they have that many children because family is both social
       | security and primary source of labour. In 'liberal' societies,
       | but more accurately to say is developed societies (because the
       | trend is the same in Japan and China etc), investing more
       | resources in fewer kids is what pays off, and all material
       | reasons aside grants more freedom to women in particular.
       | 
       | The whole tone of discussions about low birth rates always
       | contains this implicit assumption that there's anything wrong
       | with it. My spouse and I also don't want kids, and it's not
       | because we're doing coke every weekend and can't wait to die,
       | it's because we never felt like we wanted kids, and only in
       | recent times do people actually have the kind of liberty to live
       | that way.
        
         | AnimalMuppet wrote:
         | It's not a death wish for _you and your spouse_. It 's a death
         | wish for _society as a whole_ (anthropomorphized).
         | 
         | For you and your spouse, sure, have kids, don't have kids,
         | nobody cares either way. Do whatever floats your boat. But if
         | the society as a whole consistently doesn't have kids, then the
         | society as a whole is headed to be replaced by a different
         | society that _does_ have kids.
        
         | sanp wrote:
         | Also, liberal societies (correlated with higher income
         | societies) have a higher opportunity and actual costs
         | associated with having kids. Potential loss of income and cost
         | of raising kids arw both significantly higher than in lower
         | income societies.
        
         | RestlessMind wrote:
         | > what if people have fewer children simply because they want
         | to
         | 
         | > The whole tone of discussions about low birth rates always
         | contains this implicit assumption that there's anything wrong
         | with it
         | 
         | First, only certain societies have only recently arrived at a
         | value that there is nothing wrong with having more kids.
         | Traditionally, having babies and raising them was considered to
         | be of utmost importance.
         | 
         | Second, it still is of utmost importance given how our
         | societies are structured. You want to work until your 60's,
         | then retire and live until mid-80's? Fine. But who is going to
         | work/pay for your food, entertainment, healthcare, security and
         | general societal infrastructure? All those things need humans
         | which you are not going to raise.
         | 
         | So "developed" societies seem to convince themselves that there
         | is nothing wrong with not having babies, while at the same time
         | utterly reliant on "underdeveloped" societies to import people
         | from.
         | 
         | > investing more resources in fewer kids is what pays off
         | 
         | How do you plan to balance Social Security and budget with
         | fewer people working?
        
           | tom_mellior wrote:
           | I hate this narrative of "a pyramid scheme was set up by
           | people who were bad at math and/or knew they would be dead
           | before the consequences hit; now you must produce babies to
           | feed the monster they created".
           | 
           | There are so many other ways of stabilizing retirement
           | systems. If by "Social Security" you specifically mean the US
           | system, there is this interesting fact: https://en.wikipedia.
           | org/wiki/Social_Security_(United_States... "If workers and
           | employers each paid 7.6% (up from today's 6.2%), it would
           | eliminate the financing gap altogether." (Also, the payroll
           | ceiling is ridiculously low, and why does it even exist
           | anyway?)
        
           | Barrin92 wrote:
           | I think the most straight-forward answer is that the working
           | age needs to be raised, budgets need to be balanced, people
           | need to be self-reliant and responsible for their own future,
           | and if all else fails we have a safety net.
           | 
           | I don't actually think that retiring at 60 is reasonable in a
           | society like this, but I also don't think this is a huge
           | problem because many people don't want to retire that early,
           | myself included. In a society with fewer kids we'll need to
           | plan ahead more, but we also are much more productive, so I
           | don't see this as a problem, and most importantly not in
           | conflict with liberalism.
           | 
           | Subjecting personal choice about how many kids to have to
           | welfare debates or population planning to me is the opposite
           | of liberalism if anything.
        
       | ku-man wrote:
       | Can someone enlighten me and list the benefits of over-
       | population?
       | 
       | Low birth rates in Norway or the Congo are a net gain, they
       | cannot be 'dangerous'. Unless, of course, you are a nationalist,
       | racist or religious nuts.
        
       | jppope wrote:
       | I've always been curious about why wealthy(ish) individuals in
       | free societies don't want to have (more) children.
       | 
       | Theoretically one would expect the opposite. Subjectively, I see
       | individuals that would prefer to go on vacation then have
       | children, but that is a false dichotomy- thinking that having
       | children would reduce your quality of life or your ability to do
       | fun things.
        
         | Mediterraneo10 wrote:
         | Look at tourist hotspots and how people behave there. A lot of
         | people on their holidays want to drink, stay out until the wee
         | hours of the morning, perhaps use soft drugs, etc. These are
         | perfectly ordinary things to do on holiday, but add a child to
         | the mix and society becomes quite disapproving. _Of course_
         | children mean, for a subset of holidaymakers, no chance to do
         | what they consider  "fun things".
        
           | kbelder wrote:
           | Not disagreeing, but the converse is that there's a large
           | subset of people who feel that playing ball with a kid in a
           | backyard, or helping a kid learn long division, is a lot more
           | fun than partying and smoking pot. Those are the ones that
           | are still having children.
           | 
           | Biologically, if a smaller subset of a species is
           | reproducing, it's going to accelerate evolutionary pressures.
           | Memetically, there may be a parallel cultural effect.
        
             | Mediterraneo10 wrote:
             | In recent years, there have been a lot of articles that aim
             | to remove the stigma around regretting one's children.
             | Women feel pressured to pretend that they love their
             | children so much and think life is better with them, even
             | when deep inside they wish they had never had them. So,
             | even if that subset of people ends up having kids, it
             | doesn't necessarily mean evolutionary pressure towards
             | people actually liking those kids and the activities done
             | with them, and the subsequent generation may end up being
             | anti-natalist regardless.
        
         | steveBK123 wrote:
         | From a status perspective, the wealthier you are the more time
         | & money it costs to have&raise children. Housing, childcare,
         | education, etc... basically all the things that have gone up at
         | a much higher clip than official CPI inflation calculations.
         | Being a wealthy person in liberal western society you are
         | likely to live in a high cost urban setting. Some real NYC
         | numbers that I am sure SF is similar for.
         | 
         | * Housing
         | 
         | No kids? Rent a decent 1BR place for $3-4k/mo in any
         | neighborhood you want. 1-2 Kids you can squeeze into a 2BR?
         | Rent is now $6k (2-3 kids / need a 3BR make that 10k), and you
         | are now limited to neighborhoods that are zoned for "good
         | schools".
         | 
         | * Childcare? $2k/mo per kid
         | 
         | * Education? If your kid doesn't get tracked the way you want /
         | you aren't zoned in the right catchment area / you have bought
         | into the arms race - private school is $4k/mo per kid
         | 
         | So 0->1 kid is +$5-9k/mo
         | 
         | 0->2 kids is +$7-15k/mo
         | 
         | 0->3 kids is +$13-25k/mo
         | 
         | These are post-tax numbers so 1st kid requires +$100k of income
         | and at the high end the 3 kids could mean needing +$500k
         | income.
         | 
         | There are a lot of great cities you could cut these numbers in
         | half, or in a quarter, but scale should be fairly similar.
         | 
         | Without immigration & some more conservative families, we'd
         | probably see the same population aging/declines of Western
         | Europe and Japan/Taiwan/Korea.
        
         | kar5pt wrote:
         | >I see individuals that would rather go on vacation then have
         | children, but that is a false dichotomy
         | 
         | Why is this a false dichotomy? Clearly having children will use
         | up time and resources that could otherwise be used for
         | vacations and other fun things.
         | 
         | I've also heard a theory that in poorer areas, children can
         | become a status marker. So when people see no hope of climbing
         | the socioeconomic latter, they resort to having lots of
         | children to prove their "virility".
        
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           | raducu wrote:
           | It is a false dichotomy because you can go on vacation with
           | your children.
           | 
           | But the added cost per child is just soooo much more than any
           | vacation.
           | 
           | I'd love to be able to handle a second child. I can
           | comfortably handle the financial aspect, it is the lack of
           | energy, lack of free time and my anxieties that prevent me
           | from taking the plunge.
        
         | Grakel wrote:
         | The artificial womb will be the great invention of whatever
         | century. It's not a false dichotomy for women who practically
         | get ripped in half and are never quite the same again, but are
         | expected to stay fit. Of course birth rates go down as women
         | start to get treated like people.
        
           | raducu wrote:
           | I'm sure that's a minor reason why people don't have kids.
           | 
           | The main reasons are economical in nature.
        
             | MeinBlutIstBlau wrote:
             | I always worry about pregnancy if I'd have a kid. Not only
             | could you get a kid with a disability, your SO could be
             | injured or die too. Not to mention post-partum. I knew of a
             | woman whose sister gave birth and something happened where
             | the birth cause a brain hemorrhage in her and she basically
             | became a quadriplegic. Not only is it devastating for
             | everyone involved, but essentially as the father, you're
             | now a caregiver for two people. How the hell would you work
             | a full time job, take care of a newborn AND your now
             | paralyzed SO? Pregnancy is a real scary dice roll that you
             | just hope luck stays on your side all 9 months.
        
       | aussiegreenie wrote:
       | Educated people have low birth rates. China and Russia are not
       | Liberal states and their birth rates are very low as well.
       | 
       | Covid-19 has caused millions of births to be avoided and birth
       | rates have fallen out of bed. Demographers are constantly
       | lowering their population projections and are still vastly
       | overestimating the 2050 population.
        
         | AnimalMuppet wrote:
         | > Educated people have low birth rates.
         | 
         | Educated people _with access to modern medicine_ have low
         | birthrates. New England was well educated from 1650-1800, but
         | the birth rate was still high.
        
         | monocasa wrote:
         | I think it's more access to quality healthcare. No longer do
         | you have to have as many kids as possible to be sure you'll get
         | over the hill of the childhood mortality rate. Our healthcare
         | system has made losing a child closer to losing a spouse rather
         | than a simple fact of life like it once was.
         | 
         | Education is just a proxy for access to services like that.
        
           | MeinBlutIstBlau wrote:
           | Women not required to get married to have a successful life
           | anymore is more likely the actual culprit. Objectively,
           | women's rights and egalitarian opportunities makes it easier
           | for them not to have to get married to survive or rely on
           | others. Marriage is most likely the #1 way low value males
           | back in the day could've had kids. Now they're essentially
           | not able to have kids and more people are ending up single.
           | 
           | I'm not a traditionalist, pro-marriage, or even religious.
           | The long term cultural effects spanning all cultures show
           | that when both sexes have close to equal rights, birth rates
           | drop.
        
             | monocasa wrote:
             | I don't think that's it, since women aren't also required
             | to get married to have children anymore either. It also
             | doesn't account for childless couples, or the lower rate of
             | having children even among those who have children as you
             | go up the socio-economic ladder.
        
           | bluefirebrand wrote:
           | This doesn't explain why so many skip kids entirely.
        
             | monocasa wrote:
             | They never wanted them and they have access to safe and
             | effective birth control and abortions.
        
               | bluefirebrand wrote:
               | Okay but why did they never want them?
               | 
               | There has to be some kind of underlying reason why humans
               | are going against what we would expect our biology to
               | want, which is to reproduce.
        
               | monocasa wrote:
               | Because our biology relied on us wanting sex, and having
               | no mechanism to stop kids from being produced from sex?
               | Whether you want kids or not didn't really factor into it
               | for the vast length of human existence.
        
               | Mediterraneo10 wrote:
               | Animal biology has a desire to copulate. That doesn't
               | necessarily mean a desire to reproduce per se. Modern
               | birth control lets human beings copulate all they want to
               | satisy those urges without the reproduction part.
        
         | 177tcca wrote:
         | China has low birth rates?!
         | 
         | When, the last year?
        
           | prewett wrote:
           | For quite a while, thanks to the One Child Policy. The birth
           | rate has about about 1.6 babies/woman since about 1990. It's
           | been creeping up, but the current generation got used to the
           | idea of one child per family. In addition, living in the
           | cities is really expensive, and the hukou system means your
           | kid is only guaranteed education in your hometown. I think
           | you can often pay a fee, but I'm not sure, and in any case,
           | it living is already expensive enough.
           | 
           | https://data.worldbank.org/indicator/SP.DYN.TFRT.IN?location.
           | ..
        
       | JoeAltmaier wrote:
       | Every country on earth (but 2?) have birth rates asymptotically
       | approaching just-under-replacement. This is nothing to do with
       | politics of the sort in the title. It has to do with information
       | and accessibility to birth control.
        
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