[HN Gopher] We Expect 300k Fewer Births Than Usual This Year in ...
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       We Expect 300k Fewer Births Than Usual This Year in the US
        
       Author : pseudolus
       Score  : 197 points
       Date   : 2021-03-04 11:55 UTC (11 hours ago)
        
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       | mensetmanusman wrote:
       | Two in-laws and ourselves are expecting pandemic babies in the
       | next 6 months.
       | 
       | In our part of the country it seems like a baby boom (midwest),
       | so I'm curious to see how this plays out demographically.
        
       | xnx wrote:
       | At some point we will have to confront the fact that younger
       | generations supporting older ones is the ultimate ponzi scheme.
        
         | yortpyperty wrote:
         | At some point we will have to understand what debt is.
        
           | toomuchtodo wrote:
           | We've always understood it, the challenge is empowering those
           | who would otherwise be encumbered with it against their will.
        
       | gumby wrote:
       | While the demographics are interesting, the forecasts of doom are
       | overwrought. These authors should be celebrating a future of
       | increased prosperity with lower resource contention.
       | 
       | Population, especially in a country like the US, can easily be
       | augmented through immigration, as it has been in the past. If
       | that even matters.
       | 
       | But does it? A top heavy aging population does need an improved
       | "GDP production" base (the article calls it "tax base" as most
       | policy people think of it, but retirees are supported by a
       | combination of tax funds, retirement funds, family support, and
       | other sources). But working against this requirement is a long
       | term secular decline in commodity and goods prices due to
       | increased automation, increased productivity, increased resource
       | efficiency (e.g. see the decreasing energy intensity in GDP),
       | shift of energy production from op ex to cap ex, et al.
       | 
       | And there's clear economic ignorance in the article's claim that
       | "a smaller work force... portends lower economic productivity".
       | The very definition of productivity is the same or greater
       | economic output per unit labor.
       | 
       | The next wave of automation boom is like the computing boom of
       | the 80s and 90s, which was famously "visible everywhere but the
       | statistics."
        
       | andrew_ wrote:
       | Anecdotally, my experience within my immediate geography in a
       | southern state are opposite from the hypothesis in the article.
       | My wife and I had a child in late 2020, and with my social circle
       | I can name a dozen more newborns last year that were conceived
       | after we became aware of the pandemic. Just last week two friends
       | announced they were expecting.
       | 
       | This could be regional, as the economy where I live hasn't taken
       | as big a hit. I wonder if the state's lax policies amidst the
       | pandemic, which have and are sure to continue to draw strong
       | emotional responses, are responsible for a different outlook
       | amidst the turmoil.
        
         | bluedino wrote:
         | Also had a child last year, the staff at the hospital said they
         | are busier than usual.
        
       | antattack wrote:
       | Deviation, up or down, from the mean will cause inefficiencies
       | and extra costs to our society. Still, 300k less births, however,
       | is less than 10% of total number, and is not significant enough
       | to be of big concern. 10% is going from 1:16 teacher to student
       | ratio to 1:14.
        
       | SamuelAdams wrote:
       | I wonder if there's a good way to model the cost of children over
       | the last 100 years? My guess is fewer people are having children
       | due to the financial costs rising considerably.
        
         | dahart wrote:
         | There are certainly tallies of the expenses. I don't know about
         | over time, but Googling immediately got me the number $233k in
         | 2015 from the USDA.
         | https://www.usda.gov/media/blog/2017/01/13/cost-raising-chil...
         | I've seen _many_ other such lists over several decades, so
         | charting the average costs over time should be possible.
         | 
         | It might be worth checking out the countries that have
         | implemented child bonuses to check the hypothesis that costs
         | are the reason. https://money.com/government-pays-have-a-baby-
         | low-birth-rate... (Not to mention what others nearby have
         | called out: look at birthrates tallied by socioeconomic status.
         | If birthrates go down with increasing income, maybe costs
         | aren't a major factor in birthrate declines, perhaps increasing
         | income is the reason?)
         | 
         | What this kind of thing doesn't tell us is anything about the
         | alternative choice that is much more difficult to model: what
         | is the cost of not having children. There are cities in the US
         | and countries in the world whose economies are collapsing due
         | to population loss. And I've watched people in my life go
         | through breakdowns due to angst over not having kids. I've lost
         | at least one very close friend in part because I chose to have
         | kids and he chose not to.
         | 
         | The costs also don't really help evaluate the goals or the
         | choice to have kids or not. The reason to have them usually
         | isn't primarily financial, and for most people the reason not
         | to have them also isn't primarily financial, even if there's a
         | secondary influence like costs.
        
         | ph4 wrote:
         | My first kid was just born last week. The hospital billed my
         | insurance company $45k. This is for an uncomplicated, straight-
         | forward vaginal birth.
        
           | ed_balls wrote:
           | is it really $45k in US? Or just the company told you they
           | are billed 45k but they "negotiate" it down to 10k. In my
           | country a birth in private hospital cost $3k...
        
             | ph4 wrote:
             | I'm sure there are all sorts of negotiations and esoteric
             | adjustments going on behind the scenes - $45k was the total
             | of the itemized invoice sent to my insurance company. I'm
             | unsure exactly of how much it will cost me out-of-pocket,
             | but I'm expecting $3-4k.
        
         | ploika wrote:
         | Much more of the decrease in the past century is due to
         | increased access to education and full time employment for
         | women, increased availability of contraception, and decreasing
         | child mortality.
        
           | curiousgal wrote:
           | I wonder when will the hostile immigration policies kick in
           | and accentuate that.
        
             | mywittyname wrote:
             | What part of the world are you from? Hostile immigration
             | policies seem to be alive and well in most of North America
             | and Europe and have been for a while now.
        
           | ldbooth wrote:
           | That is tied to the changing of jobs as well. Jeremy Diamond
           | has a lot to say bout this in Guns,Germs,and Steel. My
           | grandfather was raised on a farm, where at the age of 16-18
           | he was fully employed without a college education or debt.
           | Today, parents plan their families with a view toward paying
           | for college. Corporations own the housing stock and get
           | between people and equity, pushing up the cost of housing.
           | It's so many things, I sure hope to hit that stability and
           | start a family. No one makes plans to struggle economically.
        
             | gautamcgoel wrote:
             | It's Jared, not Jeremy.
        
               | ldbooth wrote:
               | Ah thanks, touche!
        
         | jokethrowaway wrote:
         | Yes, I agree with you. People are overall better off because of
         | technological improvement, but making a living is harder (wages
         | didn't grow with prices, modern life has more costs attached to
         | it).
         | 
         | Also families are much more unstable nowadays, with divorces
         | being common. Children growing up in stable families do better
         | in several parameters, therefore instability has a ripple
         | effect on society.
        
           | HelloMcFly wrote:
           | Divorces aren't rare, but they also hit a 50-year low last
           | year. This wasn't a COVID outlier, it's the continuation of a
           | trend. Lots of reasons for this that don't necessarily
           | undercut your argument though (e.g., fewer people getting
           | married in the first place).
           | 
           | https://ourworldindata.org/marriages-and-divorces
        
         | MeinBlutIstBlau wrote:
         | I would argue that it's also due to kids having "more" rights
         | via the culture perpetuating entitled rights. So a mild
         | spanking could be consider by many as straight up child abuse.
         | People scoff if you let your kid just poke the world around
         | without asking who, what, where, why. Kids needs to grow into
         | their own and the current culture doesn't allow that.
        
           | kingkawn wrote:
           | Sorry you can't beat your children as you'd like
        
             | nindalf wrote:
             | I love this comment because it can be interpreted in two
             | ways - "sorry, you can't beat your children", telling them
             | what they can't do. Or sarcastically empathising like
             | "sorry you can't use violence to coerce your child".
        
         | afavour wrote:
         | I don't know that isolating the cost of raising kids is
         | necessary when you can see the drop in overall wealth by
         | generation. Millenials (who are the prime "kid having"
         | generation right now) own far less wealth than any generation
         | that came before them. Is it really in any way surprising that
         | fewer are having kids?
        
           | jseliger wrote:
           | The rent really is too damn high:
           | https://jakeseliger.com/2015/09/24/do-millennials-have-a-
           | fut...
        
           | missedthecue wrote:
           | Don't poorer people have more kids on average?
        
             | gryn wrote:
             | because historicaly wealth was correlated with levels of
             | education, but in this case people are more educated so
             | they nope out of it.
        
         | ed25519FUUU wrote:
         | The clearest impact is has is on accounting for our social
         | safety nets. For example the Social Security program is solvent
         | to 2035, and that will probably come down quite a bit in the
         | short term even with increased immigration.
         | 
         | https://www.ssa.gov/policy/docs/ssb/v70n3/v70n3p111.html
        
         | swiley wrote:
         | Housing and Education are probably the biggest costs. Maybe
         | healthcare too.
        
           | LargeWu wrote:
           | Childcare can easily run over $1000/mo per child. More for
           | infants. When my 2nd child was born, it cost us over
           | $500/week.
        
             | stevekemp wrote:
             | This really does depend where you live; we paid
             | EUR250/month for daycare for our child from the age of 1
             | upwards.
             | 
             | Even having a baby is very expensive in the USA, in terms
             | of costs for the delivery, and the very very short
             | maternity leave available to the majority of women. By
             | contrast we had almost a year of paid leave, and paid
             | something like EUR250 for a birth - which was mostly based
             | around the cost of the room we had for a week after the
             | delivery.
        
               | toomuchtodo wrote:
               | How does the total fertility rate in your country compare
               | to the US (1.78 in 2020), considering your country's pro-
               | natalism policies?
        
             | andrew_ wrote:
             | We're at $1800/month for an infant and toddler in daycare.
             | Wife and I both work. Thankfully the company I work for has
             | an HSA for childcare.
        
             | rayhendricks wrote:
             | $1000/mo per child plus needing to spend at least half a
             | million in the desirable parts of the USA for a house are
             | the real reasons.
             | 
             | Got shipped because IMO this is just a bit too much money
             | to spend.
        
             | mywittyname wrote:
             | Expanding low cost or free daycare is probably the best way
             | that the state can incentivize people having children. I've
             | also read that it serves as an effective anti-poverty
             | measure as well.
        
       | hinkley wrote:
       | The reason people have sex at the end of the adventure movie is
       | because the heroes just went through a harrowing experience
       | together, possibly almost dying.
       | 
       | Sex falls under "life affirming activities". It's not a movie
       | trope, it's a human trope.
       | 
       | This last year has been a shit show. You get people vaccinated
       | and employed and people will hear their biological clocks again.
       | There will be a rebound effect, and there will come a time when
       | 5th grade teachers are temporarily working as 4th or 3rd grade
       | teachers because there are few 5th graders this year but a bumper
       | crop coming up behind them.
        
       | drivingmenuts wrote:
       | How much of that loss in birth rate will be taken up by
       | immigration or is that even a consideration?
        
       | buttholesurfer wrote:
       | It's okay the biden admin will just import that many more
       | foreigners and grant citizenship to those 11 million illegals.
       | Problem solved. /s
        
       | theNJR wrote:
       | Important to note the 300k is a hypothesis
       | 
       | > Official birth data from the U.S. National Center for Health
       | Statistics will not be available for many more months, but some
       | states have already released provisional birth data. In January
       | 2021, which would be the first month in which all full-term
       | babies born were conceived after the lockdown began, births fell
       | by 7.2 percent in Florida and 10.5 percent in California, after
       | adjusting for secular trends, seasonal variation and the use of
       | provisional birth data.
        
       | ouid wrote:
       | great
        
       | andred14 wrote:
       | Of course because the experimental biological agents that people
       | somehow still want will likely sterilize if not outright kill
       | millions.
        
       | ianai wrote:
       | This is probably mostly covid related. But I personally don't
       | even consider kids. Kids are a life long commitment. I'd only
       | make that commitment if I felt long term stability or at least
       | optimism. Austerity and cynicism dominate the US right now
       | though. It's a recipe for strife, struggle, and things that rip
       | families and countries apart. It doesn't have to be this way in
       | the US.
        
         | refurb wrote:
         | Makes sense. Time are certainly filled with more strife and
         | struggle than the Great Depression, Dust Bowl, polio epidemics
         | and two World Wars.
        
           | Dirlewanger wrote:
           | Seriously, people need some fucking perspective. Yeah, things
           | aren't too hot right now, but that's because all you do is
           | consume the 24/7 newscycle and worry about what some nobody
           | on Twitter is agonizing over about Disney's latest TV show.
           | The world is the safest it's ever been. Aside from Covid,
           | many massive killers of the past are no longer a problem. Our
           | ancestors would be shaking their heads if they saw the
           | prosperous times we live in now, but don't choose to have
           | children.
        
             | carapace wrote:
             | I was reflecting just this morning how glad I am that I
             | don't have children. (And I don't follow the 24/7 newscycle
             | or use Twitter.) You want perspective?
             | 
             | The Doomsday Clock is still set to 100 seconds before
             | midnight.
             | 
             | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Doomsday_Clock
             | 
             | > Aside from Covid ...
             | 
             | Covid isn't the last virus. And the tools we use to fight
             | it are also the tools we could use to make worse ones.
             | (Every tool is also a weapon. As long as people are willing
             | to hurt each other technology is fraught with danger.)
             | 
             | Here's a brand new failure mode to worry about: "A puzzling
             | lack of thiamine is disrupting some marine ecosystems."
             | https://www.hakaimagazine.com/features/the-oceans-
             | mysterious...
             | 
             | We don't yet know how bad it is nor what's causing it.
             | 
             | And where the hell are all the bugs!? It's warming up now
             | and there's nobody out there. That should scare the fuck
             | out of you. It does me.
             | 
             | How many habitable planets are there? One. There is one
             | habitable planet.
        
               | Helloworldboy wrote:
               | Imagine not having children because of the fucking
               | Doomsday clock lmfaaaaaaaaao
        
               | gruez wrote:
               | >The Doomsday Clock is still set to 100 seconds before
               | midnight.
               | 
               | >https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Doomsday_Clock
               | 
               | The same article points out it's not exactly objective,
               | and I'm inclined to agree. It's more of a political (ie.
               | subjective) statement that the world is fucked rather
               | than an objective measure.
               | 
               | >Cognitive psychologist Steven Pinker harshly criticized
               | the Doomsday Clock as a political stunt, pointing to the
               | words of its founder that its purpose was "to preserve
               | civilization by scaring men into rationality." He stated
               | that it is inconsistent and not based on any objective
               | indicators of security, using as an example its being
               | farther from midnight in 1962 during the Cuban Missile
               | Crisis than in the "far calmer 2007". He argued it was
               | another example of humanity's tendency toward historical
               | pessimism, and compared it to other predictions of self-
               | destruction that went unfulfilled.[24]
        
               | carapace wrote:
               | It's not like I can link to an _objective_ measure, eh?
               | There 's no actual Doom-o-meter?
               | 
               | The point is that serious thinkers (not just talking
               | heads or twitterers) see cause for concern, so it's not
               | all hysteria and click bait.
        
               | Dirlewanger wrote:
               | Doomsday Clock is a politically-driven relic from the
               | Cold War era. We don't trust politicians to be experts on
               | the climate, so why do we trust a bunch of scientists to
               | be foreign policy experts?
               | 
               | I contend there's a lot of potentially existential
               | threats out there, but to use it as a crutch for not
               | having children is weak, especially when people still
               | procreated through much worse times.
        
             | solosoyokaze wrote:
             | Where will those children sleep? Every bedroom you add
             | drastically increases the cost of already exorbitant
             | housing. That's just one of many basic necessities out of
             | reach to most people, but it's probably the biggest.
        
           | Clubber wrote:
           | >Time are certainly filled with more strife and struggle than
           | the Great Depression, Dust Bowl, polio epidemics and two
           | World Wars.
           | 
           | I really don't see how you could possibly come to that
           | conclusion. I think your outlook may be affected by Mean
           | World Syndrome:
           | 
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mean_world_syndrome
        
         | opwieurposiu wrote:
         | I did not want to have kids. Then one day I realized that for
         | the past 3 billion years my ancestors had been passing the
         | torch. I was not going to be the one to let down the team. I
         | felt a duty to give my genes a chance to fight it out in
         | darwin's cage match. I can not guarantee my genes will win, but
         | if I fail to reproduce I guarantee they will lose.
         | 
         | Looking back, I am not sure this justification makes any sense,
         | but it was how I thought at the time.
         | 
         | In any case it's moot now because it turns out kids are great
         | fun to have around and generally make life better. Except the
         | car seats, car seats are a pain in the ass.
        
           | tshaddox wrote:
           | Perhaps it would be better for your other genes (shared by
           | living relatives) for you to not have kids and thus not
           | potentially spread the genes that are causing hesitancy
           | around having kids. :)
        
           | Barrin92 wrote:
           | >I can not guarantee my genes will win, but if I fail to
           | reproduce I guarantee they will lose.
           | 
           | It's probably not so wise to make decisions based on
           | anthropomorphizing genes. They don't want anything other than
           | to replicate, given that they're replicators and if they
           | didn't they wouldn't continue to exist, that's all there is
           | to it, it's a pretty meaningless affair.
           | 
           | I feel paying more attention to one's cultural legacy
           | probably makes more sense than passing one's hair colour on.
           | 
           | That's not to say that having kids can't be fulfilling
           | because many people get a lot of joy out of raising kids, but
           | having attachment to a bunch of nucleotides seems kinda
           | degrading to be honest
        
           | tenacious_tuna wrote:
           | I'm always suspicious of anecdotes that go "I never wanted to
           | do [thing], and then I had a thought that changed my
           | perspective on [thing] though it's not really logical up
           | front, and then [thing] happened and now I love [thing]." I
           | always suspect it's the psycological immune system [1]
           | kicking in to alter your own perceptions of [thing] so you
           | don't go crazy, because [thing] was originally something you
           | Did Not Want and being stuck with the consequences otherwise
           | would just drive you nuts.
           | 
           | Specifically with the biological imperative argument... I've
           | always felt the opposite effect: being aware that my biology
           | so wants me to have children makes me doubt whatever impulses
           | I may have towards having children as being motivated by what
           | I want, and instead being motivated by an evolutionary
           | adaptation that doesn't take my psychology into account.
           | 
           | [1] https://www.ted.com/talks/dan_gilbert_the_surprising_scie
           | nce...
        
             | a_wild_dandan wrote:
             | It also reminds me of the choice-supportive bias.[1]
             | 
             | 1. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Choice-supportive_bias
        
               | dennis_jeeves wrote:
               | Lol, not many parent will come forward and openly say
               | that they regret having kids.
        
           | nonameiguess wrote:
           | I've never had kids, but I have many sisters and cousins who
           | have, so my genes have already been passed on.
           | 
           | I'm personally mostly indifferent and sometimes want my own,
           | but it's my wife's choice more than mine and she has medical
           | issues that would make pregnancy extremely unpleasant and
           | dangerous.
        
           | globular-toast wrote:
           | Your ancestors were just fucking without contraception. They
           | weren't trying to "pass on the torch" or anything silly like
           | that.
        
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             | nitrogen wrote:
             | Historical creation myths seem to say otherwise. E.g. those
             | referring to seed, or fruit of the loins, or commandments
             | to multiply.
        
               | globular-toast wrote:
               | Even if we are to believe that humans need to be
               | commanded to reproduce, you're talking about the last few
               | thousand years, not 3 billion.
        
             | calebm wrote:
             | Maybe not consciously, but what about subconsciously?
        
           | rimiform wrote:
           | Kids might make _your_ life better, but they probably would
           | have been better off had you stuck to your plan of not having
           | them.
        
             | conductr wrote:
             | Not existing is better than existing? Suicide rates should
             | be 99% then right, because if you're not a 1%er it's not
             | worth living.
             | 
             | That said, I do fear my kid will live to see something
             | we've made apocalyptic movies about. Hell, we all might.
        
               | tshaddox wrote:
               | There's a big difference between never existing, and
               | existing but then dying.
        
               | nescioquid wrote:
               | It is antinatalism
               | (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Antinatalism), and an idea
               | to which I'm not unsympathetic.
               | 
               | Basically, life is suffering, and from the view of
               | reducing the amount of suffering in the world, it is a
               | good to abstain from bringing more beings into this world
               | to suffer.
        
               | tenacious_tuna wrote:
               | I think you're making a leap in OP's reasoning: they
               | didn't say that for _currently existing_ people it's
               | better to not be existing. I suspect the point is more
               | that it will be better for future generations to limit
               | the _size of_ future generations, lest we increase the
               | amount of strain on the climate/energy production/water
               | scarcity/etc.
               | 
               | I also think OPs reasoning has more to do with the
               | considerations of inflicting the potentially post-
               | apocalyptic future on those future generations: there is
               | an arguable moral duty to ensure that whatever offspring
               | you have will have a (generally) good life, and that if
               | you aren't reasonably sure of that it's A Bad Thing to
               | have said offspring.
        
               | conductr wrote:
               | > they didn't say that for _currently existing_ people
               | it's better to not be existing
               | 
               | He said the guys kids would be better off if he didn't
               | have them. And basically said he had them for selfish
               | reasons (kids make _your_ life better)
               | 
               | Seems like you're the one making leaps, I read what was
               | written
        
             | 2lwxxtj wrote:
             | I get the impression that you are not very happy in life.
        
             | samr71 wrote:
             | Such doom and gloom! You really believe the future is gonna
             | be so bad that children would be better off not existing at
             | all?
             | 
             | The world has huge issues, sure, but it's still far better
             | to be alive now than any time in human history. The only
             | way the future could be worse is if this idea becomes
             | mainstream and the prophecy self-fulfilling.
        
               | lotsofpulp wrote:
               | >The world has huge issues, sure, but it's still far
               | better to be alive now than any time in human history.
               | The only way the future could be worse is if this idea
               | becomes mainstream and the prophecy self-fulfilling.
               | 
               | What if automation and outsourcing to cheaper countries
               | leads to a widening income/wealth gap such that you're
               | always scraping by and any hiccup along the way will
               | cause you to have to start depending on very unreliable
               | social safety nets?
               | 
               | I think people earning $20 an hour commuting 2 hours each
               | day to work are capable of doing the calculations of
               | figuring out they will probably never build wealth such
               | that they don't have to worry about sacrificing a
               | vacation if their kid breaks their arm or losing their
               | job because their kid became sick and having no family
               | around to help shoulder the burden.
               | 
               | People's wages didn't stagnate because the idea of a
               | worse future became mainstream, wages stagnated because
               | the supply and demand equation for labor shifted
               | negatively for wage earners. People then started thinking
               | about a worse future once they saw friends and family de
               | railed by unexpected medical expenses, or laid off and
               | never rehired at a comparable wage, etc.
        
               | tenacious_tuna wrote:
               | I think this is a rather short-sighted view; The future
               | is not guaranteed to be better, especially not when we
               | have lots of evidence of impending (1) massive climate
               | disruption (2) water shortage (3) political polarization
               | (4) economic imbalance, the list goes on.
               | 
               | Saying "the only way" the world gets worse is if we don't
               | have children is to ignore the potential for all of those
               | effects to grow worse. It's certainly possible that we
               | may overcome them and human life will continue on its
               | merry way, but it's very unreasonable to ignore all these
               | difficulties and the psychological effects they can have
               | on new parents.... And on new children.
               | 
               | What would your response be to a 9 year old having an
               | existential crisis about the polar bears starving to
               | death because of climate change, and the implications for
               | human civilization, and civilization's apparent apathy
               | towards that? "Don't worry kid, just make sure you have
               | children of your own and everything will work out"?
        
               | samr71 wrote:
               | All of the things you listed are solvable problems, with
               | hundreds of thousands of people working tirelessly to
               | solve them. Fear porn about the impending collapse of
               | everything helps no one, and is the reason why that the 9
               | year old is having an existential crisis about polar
               | bears at all.
               | 
               | Should we worry about these things? Absolutely! But the
               | incessant hysteria is counter productive. Us ceasing
               | having children in a form of civilizational suicide is
               | not a solution.
        
               | tenacious_tuna wrote:
               | > All of the things you listed are solvable problems
               | [...] But the incessant hysteria is counter productive.
               | Us ceasing having children in a form of civilizational
               | suicide is not a solution.
               | 
               | I absolutely agree! I'm not an anti-natalist, nor do I
               | think not having children is necessarily the correct
               | choice, either morally or for these hypothetical
               | childrens' well-being: my point was merely that the issue
               | is more complex than "just have kids and sort the
               | problems out" or "don't have any kids because these
               | problems are impossible to sort out." I apologize if I
               | failed in this, but I was just seeking to highlight the
               | empathy needed to understand the reluctance many (myself
               | included) have around the idea of having kids.
               | 
               | Too often I think those who have reservations about
               | having children are told "Oh just get over it," or
               | "You're being dramatic," which does nothing to address
               | the underlying concerns these would-be parents have, and
               | in fact can just make those concerns worse because they
               | feel like nobody is truly paying attention to those
               | concerns. Which just exacerbates them.
        
               | disgruntledphd2 wrote:
               | > What would your response be to a 9 year old having an
               | existential crisis about the polar bears starving to
               | death because of climate change, and the implications for
               | human civilization, and civilization's apparent apathy
               | towards that? "Don't worry kid, just make sure you have
               | children of your own and everything will work out"?
               | 
               | Speaking as a new parent who did in fact have an
               | existential crisis about this as a child, very very
               | disappointed in both myself and the rest of us.
        
         | keiferski wrote:
         | Pretty much every single generation other than your parents
         | (assuming you're 25-40) had a tougher time and lived in a world
         | with a more uncertain future. _Every_ generation, going back
         | millions of years.
        
           | carapace wrote:
           | That's not even remotely true.
           | 
           | The vast majority of humans had very very stable futures.
           | Like tens of thousands of years stable.
           | 
           | Civilization as we know it is very very recent and unstable.
        
             | cat199 wrote:
             | > That's not even remotely true.
             | 
             | I beg to differ - when's the last time you heard of a
             | famine or major war in the 1st world? (same cannot be said
             | of elsewhere, it is true)
        
               | carapace wrote:
               | > when's the last time you heard of a famine or major war
               | in the 1st world?
               | 
               | Does what we're doing (I'm Team USA) in the Middle East
               | count?
               | 
               | In re: expectations of a stable future and the pros and
               | cons of modern civilization, in the USA more people have
               | died in car accidents than in all the wars we've fought.
        
             | keiferski wrote:
             | The Cold War seems to have evaporated entirely from the
             | collective imagination. For nearly half a century, people
             | had a not unreasonable expectation that a nuke might end
             | the world at any moment.
             | 
             | Prior to that, you had WW2, the Depression, WW1, slums and
             | brutal industrial factory jobs and before that mostly
             | subsistence farming. The idea that life today is so
             | precarious and difficult is absurd. We just aren't used to
             | difficulty.
        
               | carapace wrote:
               | The Cold War is still going on.
               | 
               | We are still at risk of nuclear destruction. Not only are
               | the old weapons still around but we are making new ones
               | for some crazy reason. (Check the Doomsday Clock, I'm not
               | the only person who has noticed that atomic war is still
               | threatening this planet.)
               | 
               | You have to take the long view: For approximately a
               | million years we lived in very stable societies (as
               | judged by the artifacts and art left behind.) In fact the
               | people of Sentinel Island and some other places _still_
               | live this way.
               | 
               | Very recently, since roughly 10k to 15k ago, we started
               | doing agriculture and cities. Since then things have been
               | rough: wars, famines, societies collapsing, etc.
               | 
               | Despite that, in the last 400-500 years, we have
               | developed _science_ and _technology_ , which has
               | increased and accelerated civilization _but not
               | stabilized it._
               | 
               | Now of course _some_ people have had it pretty good for,
               | say, the last century or so (I date it from the ready
               | availability of hot and cold running water in the tub. If
               | you can take a hot bath you 're ahead of the game, IMO.)
               | 
               | And that's great! And more and more people are getting in
               | on that, which is also great!
               | 
               | But if you want to say, as you did, that "Pretty much
               | every single generation other than your parents (assuming
               | you're 25-40) had a tougher time and lived in a world
               | with a more uncertain future. Every generation, going
               | back millions of years." that's wrong. It's only going
               | back a few thousands of years, at most, and then only for
               | a small fraction of the people on Earth.
               | 
               | That's before the problem that luxury the few are
               | enjoying is bought at the cost of the life or our whole
               | planet! Is it really so great after all if some people
               | get to live well for a generation or two but then
               | everybody (that survives) has to live in post-apocalyptic
               | hell?
               | 
               | Sentinel Island will be destroyed by the rising ocean in
               | a few decades or so. The folks that have lived there for
               | some 40,000 years will die or be forced to migrate.
               | That's on us, not them.
        
               | gruez wrote:
               | >(Check the Doomsday Clock, I'm not the only person who
               | has noticed that atomic war is still threatening this
               | planet.)
               | 
               | AFAIK in recent years it's only moving forward because of
               | other man-made calamities (eg. climate change), not
               | because of atomic war.
        
               | keiferski wrote:
               | You are dramatically underestimating the difficulty of
               | hunter gatherer life.
        
               | carapace wrote:
               | Maybe. I'm no anthropologist. Most of what I know about
               | the lives of hunter-gatherers comes from watching "The
               | Gods Must Be Crazy". The !Kung family seemed pretty happy
               | (before the bottle fell into their lives... but I don't
               | want to spoil it. It's a great movie.)
               | 
               | I think it's clear though that the ordering of QoL goes
               | roughly:
               | 
               | Wealthy City/Farm > Hunter-Gatherer > Poor City/Farm
               | 
               | So for about a million years most people had it pretty
               | good, then for about ten thousand years most people had
               | it pretty bad, and then the last hundred years or so many
               | people have gone from bad to good conditions, but many
               | still endure pretty bad conditions.
               | 
               | If we could somehow compare the subjective quality of
               | life of the people of Sentinel Island and the people of
               | Manhattan Island I suspect that the least happy
               | Sentinelese folks would be happier than the least happy
               | New Yorkers.
        
               | thesagan wrote:
               | Don't many hunter gatherers have easier lives?
               | 
               | See: "According to Sahlins, ethnographic data indicated
               | that hunter-gatherers worked far fewer hours and enjoyed
               | more leisure than typical members of industrial society,
               | and they still ate well."
               | 
               | Citation: "Notes on the Original Affluent Society", Man
               | the Hunter. R.B. Lee and I. DeVore (New York: Aldine
               | Publishing Company) pp. 85-89. Published in 1966.
        
               | hntrader wrote:
               | Definitely not.
               | 
               | The average life expectancy in Africa today, the poorest
               | continent, is over 60.
               | 
               | The average life expectancy of hunter gatherers was about
               | 30, give or take 5 years.
        
               | disgruntledphd2 wrote:
               | Average life expectancies are very very deceptive. If
               | lots of babies die (which was the norm for much of
               | history), then it's gonna skew the mean massively
               | downwards in a way that doesn't reflect the observed
               | distribution, conditional on not dying as a baby.
               | 
               | For instance, my understanding is that life expectancy at
               | age 5 in both Africa and the UK are approximately equal.
        
               | hntrader wrote:
               | "approximately equal"
               | 
               | Right, because of basic modern medical care, which hunter
               | gatherers don't have, often dying of problems with their
               | teeth in their 20s, untreated infections, etc.
               | 
               | And that's only one of a deluge of reasons as to why
               | hunter gatherer life was much more difficult than modern
               | life, even modern life in relatively poor countries.
               | 
               | We can have a debate about whether life is easier in
               | current South Sudan versus prehistory hunter gatherer
               | tribes. Beyond that there's no debate to be had.
        
               | conductr wrote:
               | > We just aren't used to difficulty
               | 
               | This is it absolutely. We can't even fully understand how
               | easy our lives are. I'm an adult with mouths to feed, yet
               | both my wife and I barely know how to cook. And that's
               | only our biggest problem assuming we have access to food.
               | We certainly have no clue how to procure food outside of
               | retail.
               | 
               | This is part of what worries me for my kids. It's been so
               | easy, the equilibrium is more difficult. As we know from
               | covid, weather events, etc our whole way of life is a
               | fragile house of cards.
        
             | jankyxenon wrote:
             | Stable may be correct. But part of that stability was high
             | infant / child death rates and very low life expectancy.
        
             | burntoutfire wrote:
             | A good fraction of the pre-civilization humans were killed
             | by a blow to the head...
        
               | hntrader wrote:
               | In historical Europe, the probability of dying due to
               | skull fracture varied between 2 percent (some places in
               | England), 7 percent (London) and 20 percent (Croatia).
               | 
               | Not to mention early death from famine and disease and
               | other forms of homicide.
               | 
               | The notion that we've got it harder now is wrong on all
               | counts.
               | 
               | There's a case to be made that we've got new existential
               | risks due to technological progress (climate change,
               | nukes, AI), and that's accurate, but tech/civilization
               | will also help us to offset other existential risks
               | (asteroid impact, pathogen). So that's up for debate.
        
         | gadders wrote:
         | That's a valid perspective, but times have been a lot worse in
         | the past. It's a good job our ancestors didn't think like this.
        
           | minikites wrote:
           | History is not a monotonically increasing function of
           | progress. Things can and often do get worse in the short term
           | and there's no reason the past can't be better than the
           | present.
        
             | gadders wrote:
             | You could say now is a local minimum, but in what time
             | period? Out of the last twenty years? Maybe. The last
             | hundred? Probably not.
        
           | Teever wrote:
           | It's not that they didn't think like this but that they
           | couldn't.
           | 
           | Thanks to readily available and affordable birth control
           | individuals have much more freedom to make reproductive
           | choices that benefit themselves.
           | 
           | What those individual freedoms do to society as a whole is
           | another issue but it is entirely within the ability of
           | western governments to increase birthrates through policy.
           | The fact that they don't is most interesting.
        
             | beaner wrote:
             | Ehh... I wouldn't assume that's the whole reason. It's been
             | known for a pretty long time how to not have a baby if you
             | don't want one, physically.
             | 
             | Two other factors are religion, and the fact that children
             | are now expenses into their mid-twenties rather than
             | income-generating/household-contributing in their teens.
        
               | notsureaboutpg wrote:
               | Yeah this is huge, just 100 years back kids got married
               | and worked at like 13 years old.
        
               | conductr wrote:
               | > Two other factors are religion, and the fact that
               | children are now expenses into their mid-twenties rather
               | than income-generating/household-contributing in their
               | teens.
               | 
               | I'd boil it down to selfishness.
               | 
               | In the past, kids were productive assets as you
               | mentioned. They were also your elder care and retirement
               | plan. So having kids was a selfish act.
               | 
               | Now, kids are liabilities and things like elder care and
               | retirement is a financial consideration and people don't
               | want their kids burdened by it (US culture). Also, you
               | can freely live your life without kids (travel, career,
               | etc). So, in that sense, not having kids is a selfish
               | act.
               | 
               | I personally feel like many of the people who say they're
               | not having kids because overpopulation/fearsome of
               | future/etc are just looking for a pat on the back while
               | really their motivation is selfish.
        
             | ed25519FUUU wrote:
             | There's plenty of counterpoints to this around the world
             | and including in the USA today. Our ancestors just thought
             | differently about family, progeny, and themselves than we
             | do, and that's fine.
        
             | gadders wrote:
             | True, birth control does make that choice easier.
        
             | notsureaboutpg wrote:
             | This isn't true. There were ancient, relatively effective
             | methods of birth control. And if you really couldn't care
             | for kids they became orphans.
             | 
             | Also with larger extended families and closer knit
             | societies many people would "gift" their kids to others who
             | were barren.
             | 
             | 5 out of my mother's 15 cousins were adopted (without their
             | parents dying).
        
               | JasonFruit wrote:
               | Hey, you're dead, though I'm seeing a lot of perfectly
               | fine comments from you that contribute valuable things to
               | discussions. You might want to do something about that.
        
               | notsureaboutpg wrote:
               | Thanks for letting me know. I may create a new account :)
        
         | oh_sigh wrote:
         | Following this logic, Niger must be filled with stability and
         | optimism, and Norway is similar to the US in instability and
         | pessimistic outlook for the future.
        
         | rimiform wrote:
         | That's a very sensible perspective. Unfortunately, you will
         | probably, as most people do, change your mind about this and
         | decide to have children anyway.
        
         | PragmaticPulp wrote:
         | > Austerity and cynicism dominate the US right now though.
         | 
         | This is greatly exaggerated by news media and social media,
         | especially with everyone stuck at home. The contrast between
         | what I read online and what I see in the real world has never
         | felt larger.
         | 
         | Austerity refers to reduced government spending, which is the
         | opposite of what we're experiencing right now. We're spending
         | so much that my CPA friends are working overtime to help
         | businesses figure out what to do with their stimulus money.
         | Prices for goods like lumber are through the roof because
         | construction demand is off the charts. My local construction
         | companies don't have any availability until Q4, if they're
         | taking bids at all.
         | 
         | Obviously we have problems that need to be addressed, but the
         | combination of 24/7 news media and politicians competing for
         | our attention has exaggerated these issues to the point that
         | we're losing our ability to put things in perspective or judge
         | the absolute scale of social issues.
        
           | ok_coo wrote:
           | This is not meant to be a cynical take, but where do you see
           | investment in America right now that's not being done in a
           | corporation?
           | 
           | All I see is "we can't afford to do this" while the military
           | wastes trillions of dollars on pet projects.
           | 
           | When I look at how other countries treat their citizens, I
           | can't help but think of the guy who calls us, "human capital
           | stock."
           | 
           | That, IMHO, is how the U.S. views its citizens.
        
           | r00fus wrote:
           | > We're spending so much that my CPA friends are working
           | overtime to help businesses figure out what to do with their
           | stimulus money.
           | 
           | So really what you and @lanai are talking about seem to
           | identify you both are in completely different strata.
           | 
           | As the US experiences more and more social/economic
           | stratification, these separate realities become more
           | divergent (canonical YMMV).
           | 
           | It's peak ignorance to pretend everyone has the same
           | conditions as you. Stats show many people are suffering.
        
             | EVdotIO wrote:
             | This is pretty much the crux of why we see unrest and
             | increased polarization. There are the afore mentioned CPAs
             | with just too much stimulus money to spend, people buying
             | houses faster than they can be built, or the high net
             | wealth individuals that might as well be aliens on mars
             | (and coincidentally can't wait to do). Meanwhile people are
             | falling deeper behind on rent payments with delinquency
             | figures at 25% in NYC, unemployment figures hovering around
             | 10%, small businesses forced into insolvency, and a
             | radically different landscape when this is all said and
             | done.
             | 
             | Those at the very top made out like a bandit, and there are
             | a cohort of the PMC that will to be fine. For this group to
             | be so out of touch with reality to downplay or outright
             | ignore these issues is a direct path to a very angry
             | segment on society.
        
           | mywittyname wrote:
           | What I experience in real life is pretty bad. My extended
           | family went from being really close and compassionate to
           | hateful and unable to be in the room with others.
           | 
           | Your world might be nice, but not everyone else's is.
        
             | seneca wrote:
             | > My extended family went from being really close and
             | compassionate to hateful and unable to be in the room with
             | others.
             | 
             | I can't speak to your personal situation, but from what
             | I've seen this is usually driven by the exact trends the
             | person you're responding to is pointing out. Exaggerated
             | media and politics.
        
             | oflannabhra wrote:
             | (I'm sorry about your family. I'm not trying to discount
             | your experiences, just bring the GP comment proper
             | context). I don't think you understood the parent comment.
             | They weren't saying that everything is rosy, they were
             | saying that the economic doom and gloom portrayed in the
             | media (especially surrounding COVID) does not make the
             | current economic reality. The context was not social
             | polarization.
        
               | a_wild_dandan wrote:
               | Ultimately people are the cause and our media is a
               | symptom. Folks want to hear doom, outrage, oversimplified
               | & radical takes, and the reinforcement of their beliefs.
               | That sells. Supply and demand. So your outlet can play
               | ball or get steamrolled by someone who will. I think
               | mywittyname is right to focus on the people, not the
               | media symptom.
        
               | TheSpiceIsLife wrote:
               | I'd argue doom and gloom isn't what people _want_ to
               | hear.
               | 
               | It's a weakness in our psychology, we're entertained by
               | drama and it sells well.
        
         | jseliger wrote:
         | http://www.paulgraham.com/kids.html
        
       | foolinaround wrote:
       | Oh well... I was expecting there would be a baby boom,
       | considering all the folks that are 'working' from home, and was
       | thinking that they would get 'busy'...
        
       | fiftyfifty wrote:
       | This is going to have a huge impact on colleges and universities
       | in ~18 years. Imagine an 8% decrease in high school graduates in
       | one year, on top of the already projected drop in high school
       | graduates over the next 10 years. The decline in high school
       | graduates over the next 10 years is largely due to the drop in
       | birthrate during the 2008/9 economic crash and recession.
        
       | lkj45ygw wrote:
       | New York Times needs to be banned on HN.
       | 
       | It is pure nazi propaganda and has nothing to do with startups or
       | code.
       | 
       | Why is New York Times allowed on HN?
        
         | TheAdamAndChe wrote:
         | This site is about anything that's intellectually stimulating,
         | and isn't limited to startups or code(though such topics are
         | always welcome).
        
       | lkj45ygw wrote:
       | This article brought to you by the Branch Covidian's Ministry of
       | Propaganda and public enlightenment.
        
       | theNJR wrote:
       | This study seems relevant
       | https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/2378023121996854
       | 
       | > Fewer young adults are engaging in casual sexual intercourse
       | now than in the past, but the reasons for this decline are
       | unknown.
       | 
       | And this recently discussed article
       | 
       | https://www.nytimes.com/2021/02/20/opinion/sunday/endocrine-...
       | 
       | > Scientists are concerned by falling sperm counts and declining
       | egg quality. Endocrine-disrupting chemicals may be the problem.
        
         | rednerrus wrote:
         | Didn't a study just come out showing that casual sex is
         | declining because kids have other things (mostly video games)
         | to do?
        
         | Frost1x wrote:
         | While endocrine disruption or inhibitors are very likely a
         | factor to blame, I think we also have cultural and
         | socioeconomic factors compounding the problem. There are so
         | many who just don't want to deal with the current dating and
         | casual sex culture. The rewards for time investment and effort
         | just aren't that high compared to alternatives available to
         | many, compounded by other factors of daily life competing for
         | that time.
         | 
         | In heterosexual groups, it's challenging for many men (from my
         | experience) who are interested in casual sex but the effort is
         | simply too high for them to pursue so they largely just check-
         | out (I know quite a few heterosexual males who just feel like
         | it isn't worth their time anymore). In other groups like the
         | LGBTQ+ arena, specifically gay men, it's not nearly as
         | difficult to find the sexual reward many seek and as a result,
         | you'll find casual sex seems quite high. I have quite a few
         | friends here as well and they continue to seek and find causal
         | sexual encounters, dates, etc. or at least they say.
         | 
         | I'd be very interested to see if any empirical data exists that
         | shows casual sex rates over time, normalized, and broken into
         | heterosexual and non-heterosexual groups. If there's a similar
         | decline in both groups then I suspect endocrine disruption may
         | be the real problem. If there's less correlation, I'd tend to
         | think much is culturally driven.
        
           | com2kid wrote:
           | Our entire society has been flooded with low effort high
           | (short term) reward entertainment activities.
           | 
           | Psychology has been weaponized to optimize addictive behavior
           | loops. Instead of going outside and talking to people being
           | the norm, now people have to make a concerted effort to pull
           | themselves away from their psychologically addictive pocket
           | sized happy fun device, convince others to do the same, and
           | then arrange a time to go out.
           | 
           | Socializing is messy, painful, and difficult. But for the
           | majority of human civilization, there weren't very many
           | alternatives for entertainment!
        
           | captainredbeard wrote:
           | > who are interested in casual sex but the effort is simply
           | too high for them to pursue
           | 
           | They are outcompeted due to a lack of initiative and
           | willpower; that's evolution doing its job.
        
             | mdorazio wrote:
             | This comment is needlessly flippant. The move to online
             | dating (and social media profiles in general) has radically
             | shifted how dating works. A quick look at any research from
             | OK Cupid or others who investigate perceptions, ratings,
             | etc. very clearly shows that it's become a meat market
             | where a small number of men get a disproportionate amount
             | of the available dates. Before online dating, expectations
             | were generally more in line with reality and dating was far
             | less of a chore.
        
             | MichaelDickens wrote:
             | Evolution is not prescriptive. Just because a certain
             | outcome is favored by evolution doesn't mean that outcome
             | is _good_.
        
               | xeromal wrote:
               | I don't think the poster said it was good, just that it
               | was working as expected. The people with less willpower
               | get filtered out
        
         | tomjen3 wrote:
         | >Poverty no doubt discourages marriage, but doesn't always
         | prevent it. And it seems to be positively favourable to
         | generation. A half-starved Highland woman may bear more than 20
         | children, while many a pampered fine lady is incapable of
         | bearing any and is generally exhausted by two or three.
         | Barrenness, so frequent among women of fashion, is very rare
         | among those of lower station.
         | 
         | >Luxury may inflame in the fair sex the passion for enjoyment,
         | but it seems always to weaken--and often to destroy--the powers
         | of generation
         | 
         | Adam Smith, The Wealth of Nations
         | 
         | Given that he wrote that when North America was a rebellious
         | colony where no chemicals were in common use and that we
         | essentially all much, much, much richer than the rich people he
         | talks about here it seems more likely to be something
         | fundamentally human.
        
         | fullshark wrote:
         | Table 2 has several hypothetical factors that seem more likely
         | culprits
        
       | keiferski wrote:
       | Birth rates have a much larger effect on society than I think
       | people realize. I recently read _Shall the Religious Inherit the
       | Earth?_ by Eric Kaufmann. It makes a pretty strong argument that
       | contrary to the widespread assumption that everyone will just
       | become an atheist, the world will actually become more religious,
       | almost entirely because of birth rates.
       | 
       |  _In this 2010 book, Kaufmann argued that the answer to the
       | question raised in the title is in the affirmative because
       | demographic realities pose real challenges to the assumption of
       | the inevitability of secular and liberal progress. He observed
       | that devout factions tend to have a significant fertility
       | advantage over their more moderate counterparts and the non-
       | religious. For instance, white Catholic women in France have on
       | average half a child more than their white secular counterparts
       | while the Amish in the United States have three to four times
       | more children than their fellow Christians on average. Highly
       | religious groups tend to isolate themselves from the secularizing
       | effects of modern mainstream Western society, making it more
       | likely that the children will retain their parents ' faiths. At
       | the same time, secular people generally have rather low fertility
       | rates by comparison for a variety of reasons, such as
       | materialism, individualism, the preference for the here and now,
       | feminism, environmentalism, or general pessimism. Kaufmann
       | projected that secularism will have a mixed future in Europe. It
       | will remain strong in most Catholic countries, notably Ireland
       | and Spain, but has essentially ground to a halt in Protestant
       | Europe and in France, and will falter in Northwestern Europe by
       | mid-century. He told Mercator Net that the only way to buckle the
       | trend involves "a creed that touches the emotional registers",
       | which "can lure away the children of fundamentalists" and "a
       | repudiation of multiculturalism." He suggested that "secular
       | nationalism" and moderate religion associated with the nation-
       | state could be part of the mix, but these traditions have been
       | losing support at a considerable rate._
       | 
       |  _He observed that moderate faith of the Abrahamic variety is
       | under pressure from both secularists and fundamentalists as they
       | find themselves living in the secularizing societies of the
       | West.[13] If it were only true that the religious were having
       | more children than secular people, Kaufmann argues that the
       | effects of the incoming demographic transformation would only be
       | national, but because those who are having the most children tend
       | to be intensely religious, he predicted that there would also be
       | ramifications for international relations. However, Kaufmann
       | rejected the increasingly popular notion that Islam will become
       | the dominant religion in Europe by the end of the twenty-first
       | century. Rather, Muslims would stabilize at around a fifth of the
       | European population by 2100._
        
       | yannick wrote:
       | the force that keeps humans bound to earth won't be gravity, but
       | demographics.
        
       | motohagiography wrote:
       | Birthrates are a powerful, but lagging/post-hoc indicator of
       | public policy effects. It's worth noting that we tend to
       | associate high birthrates with poverty and negative social
       | outcomes. Except, when rates are low we (western countries) use
       | immigration from high-birthrate societies to shore up the
       | population replacement rate, as the article notes. When you look
       | at who is having kids in the US and Canada, the families, (or
       | specifically, women) who have 2 or more children are either
       | exceptionally wealthy (90th+ pc) or exceptionally poor.
       | 
       | I'd speculate this is because if you are either rich or poor you
       | have stability in that your life circumstances aren't going to
       | change that radically, and hypothesize it's mainly educated
       | middle class people who are having kids below the population
       | replacement rate, if at all, because their lives do not find a
       | relatively stable equilibrium. The mix of the promise of upward
       | mobility that is always _just_ out of reach, and the risk of
       | "losing it all," creates a condition of constant low-level stress
       | similar to other species that do not breed in captivity.
       | 
       | If you have the Malthusian or environmentalist worldview that
       | fewer people is better, this is a positive (if cynical)
       | development. But even that's not going to work because public
       | debt and entitlements mean shoring up a replacement rate
       | population with immigration from high-birthrate societies. The
       | other thing is the people who are having kids create even more
       | polarized opportunity, where the life outcomes of a 3-kid wealthy
       | home vs. the outcomes of a 3-kid working class or public-
       | dependent home are going to be alien to each other. An
       | (increasingly rare) person from a single-kid middle class home is
       | not only a social minority, but has to create more of their own
       | opportunities because they are an outsider to both societies.
       | 
       | IMO, the covid baby bust is only a symptom of a much larger and
       | longer term macro-decline, and just the beginning of the real and
       | inevitable consequences of the post-war baby-boom generation.
        
         | TacticalCoder wrote:
         | > An (increasingly rare) person from a single-kid middle class
         | home is not only a social minority, but has to create more of
         | their own opportunities because they are an outsider to both
         | societies.
         | 
         | I don't follow: is a single kid from a middle class family an
         | outsider to kids from other middle class families where they
         | have 2 or 3 kids? I mean, I understand that middle class is
         | neither rich nor poor, but what's the difference for a unique
         | child compared to middle class families with serveral kids?
         | 
         | Do the siblings typically provide opportunities for their
         | brothers/sisters? (I'm personally launching atm a new endeavor
         | with my brother but I don't see that as particularly common).
        
           | Red_Leaves_Flyy wrote:
           | I'm also not sure what they're getting at but here's my
           | anecdote FWIW.
           | 
           | I never fit in well with the other welfare kids that came
           | from families with many kids. Nor did I fit in with the
           | middle class and up kids always flexing their Nikes,
           | vacations, cars, and other vapid things I could never dream
           | of getting.
           | 
           | My circumstance did allow me to mingle with the various
           | classes and see how they live and succeed. The poor families
           | rapidly introduce the kids to low pay manual labor jobs in
           | grocery stores, farms and the like. The better off families
           | got their kids fun summer jobs near their summer homes
           | working banana stands or giving guided tours.
           | 
           | The differences become even more stark in college, for those
           | who went that is. The relationships gained from introductions
           | made by the well offs family and friends pay massive
           | dividends immediately if you speak the right language. By
           | which I mean one doesn't speak like a poor person. Between
           | private job offers, highly paid internships, and favor
           | trading the poor kids don't just have the deck stacked
           | against them, they're playing with the cards and chips
           | that've fallen off the table, but only against the other
           | poors.
           | 
           | The one constant between classes is drug use. There's _a lot_
           | of drug use in all these groups, even the DARE /ROTC/AP kids.
           | The difference is that the poor kids self medicating away
           | their shit hand, while the rich kids are rebelling against
           | their parents, self medicating their home problems like abuse
           | and emotional neglect, or trying to get an edge in
           | classes/work. Rarely do well off kids fall into hardcore
           | addiction. I've seen a lot of kids taken to very expensive
           | rehab clinics multiple times. Poor kids don't get these
           | vacations and access to world class shrinks.
           | 
           | Siblings tend to follow the familial mean. Sure sometimes a
           | rich family has a complete failure of a child, but most of
           | the time they're mediocre middle management coasting through
           | life on their laurels continuing the time honored tradition
           | of trading favors with and smoothing over the rough patches
           | for their kids and siblings. Siblings in poor families do the
           | same things, but with limited means comes limited success.
        
           | motohagiography wrote:
           | To clarify, if you are a 3+ kid poor person, you will come
           | from a family that is likely very poor. If you are a 3+ kid
           | rich person, your parents are probably 95th percentile.
           | 
           | If you aren't from the neighbourhood for the first group,
           | you're not trusted, and if you don't just _know_ certain
           | things, you aren 't trusted by the second, because each group
           | quietly assumes you're really part of the other. It's what we
           | used to call class, and that's what I meant by being alien to
           | each other.
           | 
           | There are exceptions. The most interesting ones are religious
           | communities. Few people who belong to a church would accept
           | being called poor no matter what their income was, and
           | religious people with middle class jobs have lots of kids as
           | well.
           | 
           | The other anomaly is the new institutional who have the iron
           | stability of things like academic tenure, teachers unions,
           | municipal and state employees, who only receive that
           | stability at an age just as their fertility starts to wane,
           | and usually after sacrificing it to get there.
           | 
           | It would be hard to argue that public policy has been
           | anything but anti-natal for the last 50 years.
        
         | logshipper wrote:
         | I could not agree more.
         | 
         | Whereas historically having kids used to be a "social" decision
         | in various respects, it has now become a socio-economic
         | decision for the reasons you point out.
         | 
         | If anything, I would argue that the economic shock of the
         | pandemic (aside from the horror stories you hear from WFH
         | parents who have kids) and the inequality it has exposed in our
         | financial systems has cemented the idea for a lot of middle
         | class millenials to have no kids/fewer kids.
        
           | treis wrote:
           | It was always a socio-economic decision. Kids were your
           | retirement plan before we came up with things like 401ks.
        
             | tenacious_tuna wrote:
             | This is a very interesting perspective to me, because I
             | know it's relatively common in non-Western (or maybe just
             | non-American?) cultures that parents move back in with
             | their kids when they get old, or more generally that
             | extended familial units are far more cohesive than they are
             | in the States.
             | 
             | ....Which then means your extended family (and own
             | children) are indeed a 'retirement plan', because the
             | expectation is that they'll be around to support you when
             | you're unable to support yourself.
             | 
             | But the intensely individualistic American lifestyle
             | doesn't lend itself to that thinking very well, so there's
             | less incentive for folks to have kids for their own
             | interest.
             | 
             | (Indeed, as a mid-20s couple, we're more often told the
             | ways in which children _limit_ the lives of the parents,
             | rather than augment them.)
        
         | IfOnlyYouKnew wrote:
         | I have neither the "Malthusian or environmentalist worldview"
         | nor the opposite, which seems to be dangerously close to a
         | "nationalist or eugenics worldview". In other words: any
         | grievances about birth rate on a population-wide level run the
         | risk of spurning legislation or other changes with the purpose
         | of forcing (with varying level of vehemence) individuals to
         | make reproductive choices they otherwise wouldn't.
         | 
         | Specifically, it's hard to interpret the universal drop in
         | birth rates among societies as they advance on anything but
         | women exercising their newfound freedom not to have children.
         | Many attempts to reverse the trend will thus look to reverse
         | these changes.
         | 
         | To be sure, there are other policy ideas one could advance, and
         | some examples of them working well, such as universal
         | childcare, mandatory parental leave for both genders, and some
         | others that share the distinction of having zero chance to
         | become law in the US.
         | 
         | I'm taking the liberty to advocate for ignoring any population-
         | wide concerns about birth rates because even in the most
         | extreme cases such as Germany or Japan, and even moreso in the
         | US where it's relatively mild, the effect just isn't strong
         | enough to lead to any insurmountable problems. Given a bit more
         | automation and medical advances that keep people not just alive
         | but fit, the problems of an ageing population seem to be
         | solvable, especially as long as there is still significant will
         | to immigrate, which does not seem likely to abate.
        
           | motohagiography wrote:
           | Perhaps this is a marker of the divide in worldviews.
           | 
           | If we can't develop a country and a society people willingly
           | want to have kids in, what is it for?
        
             | nonameiguess wrote:
             | People do want to have kids, but the physical process of
             | going through pregnancy and birth is brutal and dangerous.
             | The people who have to do it quite rationally don't want to
             | do it four times in the same decade once they have any
             | other choice, even if it would be socially optimal. The
             | best thing we can do at this point is develop the
             | technology to create babies outside of human wombs.
        
         | laurent92 wrote:
         | > when birthrates are low we use immigration
         | 
         | This is why I don't believe in ecology. Every 5% we save on
         | water, is being used by our leaders to stuff more population on
         | the same land.
         | 
         | It defeats the purpose of saving: Public policies cancel
         | individual efforts, such as my friends who chose to have no
         | kids for ecology.
         | 
         | Capitalism is a way of forwarding global constraints to
         | individuals, and exponential house prices communicates that the
         | territory cannot survive with more people. Yet, not only do we
         | increase population (so all those "no kids" friends are up for
         | disappointment), but we bring those newcomers to the levels of
         | consumption of middle classes, using lowered prices so they can
         | afford 70% of mid-class consumption levels.
         | 
         | Since our leaders break the relationship between environmental
         | constraints and costs, by offering free housing, food and
         | subsidized public services, people believe it is ok to be 120
         | people per square kilometer, and we can afford to love and
         | welcome more people. No! Each additional individual emits
         | greenhouse gases! We're already emitting ~3x the affordable
         | rate! We should have taken the naturally decreasing population
         | to smoothly become more sustainable, but our government decided
         | to add 0,5-1% population per year, artificially! Our land
         | _can't afford more_ people!
        
           | amanaplanacanal wrote:
           | The only solution is having fewer babies worldwide. National
           | borders don't stop people from moving where opportunity is.
        
         | jtbayly wrote:
         | > public debt and entitlements mean shoring up a replacement
         | rate population with immigration from high-birthrate societies
         | 
         | There are very few of these left, and the ones that still exist
         | are also in declining fertility, even if still above
         | replacement.
        
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         | boh wrote:
         | Unfortunately much of the financial system (in the US anyway)
         | is highly dependent on population growth. Many existing
         | entitlements were created during periods of uncommon birth-
         | rates with the expectation that the babies being born will grow
         | and reproduce at the same rate as their parents. This growth
         | hasn't materialized, and much of the existing growth can be
         | attributed to immigrant inflows. Regardless of the
         | environmental arguments against overpopulation, we are living
         | in a competitive world, and historically, declining birth-rates
         | have often not been favorable for sustaining sociopolitical
         | influence and relevance or economic growth and stability. We
         | are however, living in a unique time were robots and AI can
         | potentially pick up the slack for whatever losses of
         | productivity a lower population may cause. We will however
         | still have to operate in a period of growing stagnation and
         | inequality. Wealth will be less available through incomes (as
         | it already is), and inequality, without the proper counter
         | measures, can inflate to the levels more familiar in Jane
         | Austen's time. You have more economic growth if you give 1
         | million people $100 dollars (since they are more likely to
         | spend it on goods/services) vs giving $100 million to one
         | person (who will likely spend the bulk of their money on
         | financial instruments). An economy needs many people to spend
         | money to grow, we're now expected to have less people with less
         | money to spend.
        
           | ChrisLomont wrote:
           | >You have more economic growth if you give 1 million people
           | $100 dollars (since they are more likely to spend it on
           | goods/services) vs giving $100 million to one person (who
           | will likely spend the bulk of their money on financial
           | instruments).
           | 
           | The US spends the majority of it's Federal Budget on giving
           | small amounts of money to the non-rich, to the order of
           | trillions of dollars per year.
           | 
           | Also, when someone puts money into a financial instrument,
           | that money usually flows immediately into productive use.
           | Capital flows are attributed with about 30% of the economic
           | growth over the last century, which is a huge increase in
           | quality of life, especially for the most poor.
        
             | imtringued wrote:
             | >Also, when someone puts money into a financial instrument,
             | that money usually flows immediately into productive use.
             | 
             | Yes but only under the assumption that aggregate demand
             | always exceeds supply, which isn't true nowadays and that's
             | why the economy is broken.
        
           | rayiner wrote:
           | > Unfortunately much of the financial system (in the US
           | anyway) is highly dependent on population growth
           | 
           | It's not the financial system, it's the underlying economy.
           | Back in the day, people had to have kids so there was someone
           | to take care of them in their old age. The financial system
           | abstract, but does not eliminate, that structural feature of
           | the underlying economy. You still need young bodies producing
           | goods and performing services for the elderly non-working
           | population.
        
           | dcolkitt wrote:
           | > We are however, living in a unique time were robots and AI
           | can potentially pick up the slack for whatever losses of
           | productivity a lower population may cause.
           | 
           | Productivity growth is currently the lowest it's been since
           | before the industrial revolution. AI and robotics may be
           | revolutionizing a few specific domains. But there's no
           | evidence that they're replacing the need for human labor any
           | time soon.
           | 
           | That probably will happen at some point. But probably not in
           | our lifetimes or even our children's lifetime. We still need
           | able-bodied workers to run the economy.
        
           | rsync wrote:
           | "Unfortunately much of the financial system (in the US
           | anyway) is highly dependent on population growth."
           | 
           | I came to this discussion ctrl-f'ing for "deflation" and
           | while I got zero hits, your comment is close enough ...
           | 
           | I will abstract one level deeper and rephrase what you said
           | as:
           | 
           | "Much of the financial system is highly dependent on economic
           | growth."
           | 
           | There continues to be fervent discussion of the results of QE
           | over the last 10 years and the results of various covid
           | stimulus packages and how these things could be inflationary,
           | etc., etc.
           | 
           | Some of this may come to pass - we may, indeed, find
           | ourselves in geographic or temporal pockets of inflation -
           | possibly very high inflation.
           | 
           | Make no mistake, however: the world we are living in is
           | _massively deflationary_ and even dramatic and innovative
           | attempts to maintain (low) inflation are barely keeping us
           | above water ...
        
             | imtringued wrote:
             | If we were truly suffering from an aging society then where
             | is all the inflation? Where are all the rich old people
             | spending their money but not finding enough workers to do
             | everything they saved their money up for?
             | 
             | It's probably because retirement has to be financed by the
             | individuals themselves. Nowadays retirement means cutting
             | spending today so that you can spend tomorrow. There are
             | rich old people who aren't cutting down on spending but
             | simply keep saving their wealth and there are poor old
             | people who are cutting down on spending to build up
             | savings, even though they are officially above the
             | retirement age. This leads to a savings glut which is
             | something you cannot fix by adding even more money into
             | asset markets.
        
             | agent008t wrote:
             | What do you mean? Inflation can be easily created - just
             | create more dollars and credit them to people's bank
             | accounts; you will soon see all kinds of prices going up.
        
               | brandmeyer wrote:
               | If this was true, then the monetary policies of the 2008
               | financial crash and the 2020 pandemic would both have
               | created consumer price inflation. They haven't. We've
               | seen some asset price inflation instead. In effect we did
               | create a bunch of dollars and credited them to people's
               | home equity and mutual funds... where it just sat there
               | doing a whole bunch of nothing to consumer prices and
               | wages.
        
               | WillPostForFood wrote:
               | 2008 policies wasn't that effective at putting money in
               | people's pockets though. 2020 was more effective, but
               | probably to early to tell if it is inflationary until
               | lockdowns go away and people have more options to spend?
        
               | agent008t wrote:
               | Take it to the extreme. What do you suppose would happen
               | if every American household is credited with a billion
               | dollars tomorrow?
        
               | toss1 wrote:
               | Good thought experiment
               | 
               | Not nearly as much inflation as you might think
               | 
               | Most of everyone's newfound Billion would sit idle
               | 
               | The inflation would come from the $200K/year everyone was
               | spending, as in if you just gave everyone
               | $200K*expectedRemainingLifeExpectancy, you'd get the same
               | consumer inflation
               | 
               | The extra billions would go into inflating assets.
               | 
               | The key concept here is velocity of money - really
               | interesting concept that surprisingly (at least at first
               | for me) falls out of the formulas in Econ1 classes. It
               | does relatively equate to the actual turnover of a piece
               | of currency, as in how many times does that George
               | Washington bill change hands in the year after you spend
               | it?
               | 
               | The key policy hack is to give help to people who will
               | SPEND the money, not to banks and corps who will just
               | park it in investments.
               | 
               | That gets the multiplier effect you need out of crashes.
        
               | 0xfaded wrote:
               | Unless everyone moves to protect their new found billion
               | by buying assets, in which case asset prices shoot the
               | roof. This is not a problem, since most assets these days
               | are unproductive, and like you say, no one would notice a
               | difference in their day to day lives. The one place
               | people would notice is housing.
               | 
               | The fix is to see somehow make houses a toxic asset that
               | cost exactly the value the provide in the form of a roof,
               | and no more.
        
               | toss1 wrote:
               | >> somehow make houses a toxic asset that cost exactly
               | the value the provide in the form of a roof, and no more.
               | 
               | Wow, that seems like a plan just bulging with answers to
               | the question: "What Could Go Wrong?". Yikes
               | 
               | Pretty clearly, rent control doesn't work either, it just
               | creates two distorted markets. Homeless shelters don't
               | work except for a few cold nights. Housing projects don't
               | usually create good conditions either.
               | 
               | With housing, the problem is like cars - there is no
               | answer to "what is best?" because everyone needs/wants
               | something different. It is not just 'transportation' or
               | just 'a roof and walls'. I want a sportscar and a 3-bay
               | garage to work on it; you want a pickup truck to haul
               | bursh and supplies for the small cabin you want, and That
               | Guy wants just a lot of Lyft credits and airline miles
               | and a bedroom in a shared apartment because he's rarely
               | there...
               | 
               | It might be better to approach the demand side, just
               | ensure that the regional minimum wages are enough that a
               | full time job is over the poverty level, so people can
               | afford to get housed.
               | 
               | Edit: Moreover, and maybe more on point:
               | 
               | Housing costs are MANY more things than a mere dry bed,
               | hot shower, and place to cook. Housing is different for
               | everyone, from individuals to families. And the cost
               | includes everything -- the rawaccommodations, the
               | quality, the environment & neighborhood, the convenience,
               | the school district, the expectation that more housing
               | and/or amenities and/or jobs will or won't be built or
               | destroyed in the future, and more.
               | 
               | And so the solution is to either ignore all of that, or
               | destroy it?
               | 
               | Moreover, how would you even do it?
        
               | mikem170 wrote:
               | Fiddling with the demand side causes problems.
               | 
               | Better would be to lift the restrictions on supply,
               | loosen the zoning laws.
               | 
               | /Soapbox (not aimed at you): I've been reading zoning
               | regulations in several localities. "Land of the free" my
               | ass! More like control and conformity. It doesn't make
               | sense to me why accessory dwelling units are not allowed
               | in areas with high demand, or more duplexes, triplexes,
               | and walkups. There's no safety issues involved. It's
               | simply greedy property owners imposing on others because
               | they are selfish and can get away with it.
        
               | JoeAltmaier wrote:
               | You can call it selfish. But a city becomes a crowded
               | warren without any rules. What is the middle ground?
        
               | imtringued wrote:
               | It's the obvious solution. There is a problem with a lack
               | of jobs in rural communities. These people need a
               | temporary solution that lets them get back to their feet.
               | Doing demand side stimulus does help them but in a
               | completely different way and this has absolutely nothing
               | to do with the housing market which is the biggest
               | concern right now.
        
               | dodobirdlord wrote:
               | The economy isn't a linear response system. Thought
               | experiments about extremes tell us little or nothing
               | about non-extreme areas of the domain.
        
               | tomp wrote:
               | > If this was true, then the monetary policies of the
               | 2008 financial crash and the 2020 pandemic would both
               | have created consumer price inflation.
               | 
               | Not really, as this post explains:
               | https://www.lynalden.com/money-printing/
               | 
               | TL;DR: QE is mostly meant for banks, it was used to
               | increase bank reserves (as banks were forced to do by the
               | regulators), and didn't substantially increase the amount
               | of money available in the economy. But this time (COVID-
               | stimulus) might be different.
        
               | dantheman wrote:
               | Have you seen the stock market, housing, and education --
               | there is a huge amount of inflation. Technology is
               | keeping it in check for a lot of consumer goods but the
               | dollar has lost a huge amount of its value.
        
               | PeterStuer wrote:
               | You're forgetting the war backed petrodollar
        
               | willcipriano wrote:
               | Thought experiment: You print a trillion dollar bill and
               | throw it in a underground vault. You look around. "Hey no
               | inflation" so you print some more. You keep this up for a
               | while. Years pass and someone finds the vault and begins
               | to spend the money inside, what happens?
               | 
               | Right now much of that printed money is sitting in stocks
               | and bonds, what happens when that is no longer a great
               | place to be? What if those dollars decide they want to be
               | used to buy say houses, instead of bonds?
        
               | 015a wrote:
               | Exactly this; the Fed has been printing like crazy, but
               | the new money has relatively low velocity. Velocity is
               | required for inflation, not just the money itself.
               | 
               | Look at stock market prices of the past ten years; its
               | the largest bull market in US history. The US Dollar
               | isn't getting inflated by the printing; the stock market
               | is.
        
               | imtringued wrote:
               | You know, the idea that we have run out of profitable
               | investments is absurd when you consider the massive
               | housing shortage in major cities. Is the truth that we
               | simply banned all those investments and companies like
               | Uber are trying to work around that backwards
               | legislation?
        
               | nradov wrote:
               | Those dollars have been used to buy houses. Residential
               | real estate prices are up in most areas.
        
               | frongpik wrote:
               | There's too few building permits being issued these days.
        
               | dv_dt wrote:
               | In 2008 and really also in 2020, the bulk of the created
               | dollars wasn't given to people where it might create
               | consumer price inflation, by a vast degree it was
               | allocated at the top. There it is creating asset price
               | inflation local to the place of major injection.
               | 
               | It's a poor stimulus effect if one is trying to use it to
               | move the economy.
        
               | vp8989 wrote:
               | "where it just sat there doing a whole bunch of nothing
               | to consumer prices and wages."
               | 
               | Your primary residence should be thought of as a
               | consumption item, whether you rent or own. If homes cost
               | more to buy or rent since the QE (and they do) then we
               | absolutely have had consumer price inflation.
        
               | imtringued wrote:
               | Yes, but you have to give the dollars to the right
               | people.
        
               | boh wrote:
               | Having things cost more isn't an issue if the economy
               | grows at relatively the same rate as the nation's money
               | supply. For the economy to be considered inflationary,
               | the money supply has to outgrow economic growth. The OP
               | is making the argument (at least how I interpret it) that
               | economic growth has been stagnant, and that the money
               | supply hasn't been effectively put to work in the real
               | economy. The US inflation rates are more a reflection of
               | central bank activity vs the actual economy (which is
               | deflationary).
        
             | shortandsweet wrote:
             | Why do you feel we're living in deflationary times?
        
               | deelowe wrote:
               | Because we are. Without taking action to curb it, the US
               | will start to see deflation take hold. This is due to an
               | overall aging demographic who are beginning to leave the
               | workforce, an overall increase in savings/investment
               | across the population, lowered rates of consumption, the
               | younger demographic having less children, higher rates of
               | education and on and on.
               | 
               | This has already begun to in both Germany and Japan. In
               | the former, they've been able to curb things through
               | government intervention. Japan on the other hand has
               | really struggled.
        
               | pojzon wrote:
               | On the contrary the price of up-keeping a household has
               | increased dramatically.
               | 
               | 30-40y ago it was not uncommon for a single pension to
               | cover all expenses of:
               | 
               | - food
               | 
               | - car or two
               | 
               | - paying a mortage
               | 
               | - having 4 kids going to school
               | 
               | - other household expenses
               | 
               | - saving up money
               | 
               | /
               | 
               | Currently it is not possible. How in such a case do you
               | still think we live in deflation times?
               | 
               | I would rather say that "some things" became cheaper due
               | to technology advancements, but common things inflated so
               | drastically, its literally impossible for young people to
               | start families with sustainable life.
        
               | deelowe wrote:
               | A fairly simplistic empirical examination of the monetary
               | policy since 2009 proves this:
               | 
               | - Historically low mortgage rates
               | 
               | - Decreasing bond yields
               | 
               | - Increasing withdrawals from 401k and other retirement
               | funds
               | 
               | - Increased savings rates for the younger demographic
               | 
               | - Reduction in consumer spending
               | 
               | - Over a decade of QE
        
               | lurquer wrote:
               | Don't mean to butt in, but personally, the fact that I'm
               | typing this on a piece of $300 hardware (phone) that
               | would have cost millions in the 80's, hundreds of
               | thousands in the 90's, and definitely over a thousand in
               | the 00's is a good indicator.
        
               | u801e wrote:
               | I think computer hardware is one of the few things that
               | decreased in price over time. The price of most other
               | good and services has definitely increased since the
               | '80s.
        
               | Supermancho wrote:
               | And despite the same technological improvements, gasoline
               | is decisively more expensive. Technology is purely
               | deflationary, so the situation with phone cost isn't very
               | telling. What is more impactful is the cost of phone
               | service vs median income across those decades, despite
               | technology's deflationary forces.
        
               | nradov wrote:
               | Gasoline pump prices are highly impacted by taxes and
               | regulations so those don't tell us much about core
               | inflation or deflation. Look at the spot price of crude
               | oil on international markets. The price today is still
               | well below previous peaks.
        
               | UncleOxidant wrote:
               | Been to the grocery store, ordered takeout or tried to
               | buy a house lately? The prices of electronics
               | (calculators, watches) fell consistently throughout the
               | 70s which was a period of very high inflation. You can't
               | cherry pick one sector.
        
               | lurquer wrote:
               | Of course.
               | 
               | It is very difficult to get a good number across all
               | sectors. Despite my post, I'm not all that convinced we
               | are in a deflationary period. The bell-weather asset for
               | me would be Gold, and its price since I've been alive
               | wouldn't make me lean towards deflation.
               | 
               | If anything would, I suppose it would be the number of
               | hours worked. That is, how much labor does it take to
               | support a reasonable lifestyle. In my experience -- and
               | I'm an old geezer, so take this with a grain of salt --
               | it seems like a lazy bastard can get by in this world a
               | lot easier than 100 years ago. The degree of manual back-
               | breaking labor that went into earning a dollar has
               | decreased significantly. I don't know how that would get
               | figured in.
        
               | nradov wrote:
               | Gold prices aren't highly correlated with inflation so
               | that would be a poor indicator. If you look at the actual
               | historical data, gold isn't a very effective inflation
               | hedge.
        
               | sandworm101 wrote:
               | >> It is very difficult to get a good number across all
               | sectors.
               | 
               | That's what cost of living indexes are for.
               | 
               | >> The bell-weather asset for me would be Gold
               | 
               | You probably mean to say gold futures or gold-based
               | derivatives. There are more people who think they own
               | "gold" than there is physical gold on this planet. Unless
               | you have a bar in your hand, you own a contract tied to
               | the price of gold, ie paper.
        
               | ryder9 wrote:
               | that's economies of scale and manufacturing momentum,
               | nothing to do with deflation
        
               | newsclues wrote:
               | Exactly. Just because tech is cheaper doesn't mean food
               | or my cost of living has decreased.
        
               | AnimalMuppet wrote:
               | I also would like to hear rsync's answer. But I'll make a
               | guess:
               | 
               | The (world) population is no longer growing (much). But
               | productivity growth hasn't stopped. The result is that
               | stuff gets cheaper, that is, the same number of dollars
               | buys more. That's deflation.
               | 
               | Worse, we've gotten to the point where many people have
               | what they need - not necessarily everything they want,
               | but most of what they need. (I'm not going to buy twice
               | as much food if my salary doubles. I'm not going to drive
               | twice as many cars. I'm not going to buy a house that's
               | twice as big. I'd use almost all the money to pay off
               | debt and to invest.) That makes it hard to create
               | inflation in the basic stuff, because you can't make
               | demand exceed supply.
        
               | treis wrote:
               | >The result is that stuff gets cheaper, that is, the same
               | number of dollars buys more. That's deflation.
               | 
               | It's more about the number of dollars out there.
               | Fractional reserve means that a dollar saved leads to
               | dollars being created. Boomers saving up for retirement
               | meant lots of dollars being created. Boomers withdrawing
               | and buying stuff means lots of dollars will be destroyed.
               | Fewer dollars means dollars become more valuable i.e.
               | deflation.
        
             | mindslight wrote:
             | > _however: the world we are living in is massively
             | deflationary and even dramatic and innovative attempts to
             | maintain (low) inflation are barely keeping us above water_
             | 
             | That reflection isn't looking down at the surface of the
             | water, but rather up at the air that we need to head
             | towards to stop drowning. Monetary inflation is a large
             | part of what's killing the middle class. All that
             | offshoring was supposed to cause lower prices to compensate
             | for decreased need for domestic labor. Instead a whole
             | bunch of monetary inflation was induced to force everyone
             | to keep working the same amount, at jobs that no longer
             | exist. As long as the Fed continues with its maladaptive
             | policy that is directly opposed to technological progress,
             | productivity gains will continue to accrue to mainly the
             | upper class.
        
         | yortpyperty wrote:
         | As a new father, I share this perspective. To get an anecdotal
         | sense of our financial struggle, we have 2-4x the net worth
         | that my parents when they were our age, but cannot afford the
         | same house that I grew up in and doubt we ever will.
        
           | castlecrasher2 wrote:
           | The exact house or equivalent in a similarly populated area
           | as the one your parents bought in? If the former, I imagine
           | it's because the area has developed significantly since.
        
             | yortpyperty wrote:
             | Exact house.
        
           | IkmoIkmo wrote:
           | Some contend that this isn't a sign of poverty but rather a
           | sign of wealth.
           | 
           | i.e., suppose every consumption good becomes 10x as cheap
           | overnight. Cars, food, phones, clothes, travel by air,
           | electricity, movies, music.
           | 
           | What would happen to home prices? Well, it's likely they'd
           | skyrocket. All the additional disposable income has to flow
           | somewhere, to some asset, and that's often real estate.
           | 
           | There's some indication that that's been happening. Of course
           | there's many other stories in real estate which clearly
           | indicates we're less well off than before, particularly
           | certain groups.
           | 
           | But there's also many indications we're better off, but
           | simply spending more of our money on RE, because in part, we
           | can, because in part, we want to.
           | 
           | For example, compare the average home size (square footage)
           | in 1950 to 2020 and anywhere inbetween, it's a pretty
           | straight line that ends up a 2.5x increase.
           | 
           | Then compare the average persons per home, it decreased from
           | about 3.4 to 2.5, in large part to the large number of
           | single-person household, a luxury not affordable in the
           | 1950s, especially not to women in a much more patriarchal
           | society than today.
           | 
           | This means we've seen a tremendous increase in the square
           | foot per person. That's a measure of wealth. The fact home
           | prices skyrocketed due to the demand for these luxuries, and
           | the (by definition) ability for Americans to afford to push
           | prices to these levels, should not necessarily be seen as an
           | affordability crisis, but rather as an indication of wealth.
           | 
           | Yes, if prices of bread skyrocketed and we were all consuming
           | less because of it, that's poverty. But if the average bread
           | consumption per household grew by 2.5x, and the average
           | number of people eating that bread in the household dropped
           | by 25%, then you can't quite say that on average we're less
           | well-off, bread-wise.
           | 
           | And homes aren't the same as in the 1950s either. Today's
           | homes are well-equipped with many luxuries and comforts.
           | Finally, high prices are a bit misleading without taking
           | interest rates into account. In the 1980s for example
           | interest rates were 15%, you'd pay your home in full every 6
           | years in interest alone. Just look at the historical trend of
           | interest rates, they're at record lows. For example, a 30
           | year mortgage of 100k at the 1980's 15% interest rate, costs
           | as much in total payments, as a 30 year mortgage of 300k at
           | today's 3% interest rate. A 3x price increase alone has
           | absolutely no effect on affordability in the past 40 years
           | due to the massive drop in interest rates. If you take into
           | account the fact that nominal income grew by 5x since the
           | 1980s as well, plus the larger square footage and the fewer
           | people per home, it's easy to see why the cost of a square
           | foot has actually become way more affordable. And given many
           | things got so much cheaper, it's easy to see why so much
           | wealth has flowed to RE.
           | 
           | Definitely don't want to pretend like there's no housing
           | affordability issues anywhere, but I do want to nuance the
           | view a bit that we're generally worse off than previous
           | generations, in which housing is an oft mentioned example.
           | But on balance, it's not really the clearest example for this
           | generational loss of quality of life that people tend to
           | think it is.
        
           | PragmaticPulp wrote:
           | I've been thinking about this lately. Similar to you, the
           | house I grew up in is much more less affordable now than it
           | was when my parents bought it.
           | 
           | However, in my case it's not really the same house any more.
           | At the time, the location was thought to be on the outskirts
           | of town, away from the desirable areas. As the city grew,
           | this location became the desirable area. If I look to what is
           | now considered the outskirts, I still see new construction in
           | the $300K range (pre-COVID anyway), which is similar to the
           | inflation-adjusted price of the house I grew up in.
           | 
           | At some point we can't escape supply and demand with more
           | buyers fighting over the same limited housing supply.
           | 
           | Many of my friends have been moving to less popular cities
           | and up and coming towns as they start raising families, and
           | it pays off. Obviously not an option for everyone's
           | situation, but thankfully the increase in remote work is
           | relieving some of the pressure in overcrowded cities.
        
             | shortandsweet wrote:
             | That's what I don't understand, if population growth is
             | stagnant or declining, how is it these housing prices are
             | reaching such heights?
        
               | usefulcat wrote:
               | You can find cheap housing, the problem is it's all in
               | places where most people don't want to live. For example,
               | Detroit, or any of thousands of small towns all over the
               | US.
               | 
               | Not picking on Detroit, it's just an obvious example of a
               | large city that used to have a much larger population.
        
               | bonestamp2 wrote:
               | That does make sense at least. The places with the least
               | opportunity and/or desirability are going to be the
               | cheapest.
        
               | WillPostForFood wrote:
               | There is a lot of cheap housing in places that people are
               | willing to live, but people need a push to change.
               | Allowing work from home, schools, and lockdowns have been
               | helping provide the push. Most cities have reasonable
               | housing prices, it is just distorted by a few areas which
               | have become extremely unaffordable.
               | 
               | Detroit is an interesting example. People did want to
               | live there, but as the jobs declined, so did the city. If
               | jobs can come back, the city can come back.
        
               | im3w1l wrote:
               | Ah that reminds me, we should not discount racism as a
               | factor. Many would rather become debt slaves for life or
               | forgo children than live cheaply around black people.
        
               | Lammy wrote:
               | Very sad to see this downvoted. I don't know how people
               | can see things like "WTF Happened in 1971?" without
               | realizing the date correlations to the 1968 Fair Housing
               | Act and especially especially to the 1974 Equal Credit
               | Opportunity Act:
               | 
               | https://wtfhappenedin1971.com/
               | 
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Civil_Rights_Act_of_1968#Ti
               | tle...
               | 
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Equal_Credit_Opportunity_Ac
               | t
        
               | frongpik wrote:
               | Using the word racism so liberally devalues its meaning.
        
               | Frost1x wrote:
               | That's a sort of two way street though. In areas
               | affordable housing exists, there often aren't many
               | opportunities financially speaking, especially in the
               | labor market.
               | 
               | It's one thing to live in a city, work for awhile to bank
               | up capital, and then move somewhere with a low COL area
               | to live comfortably with some supplemental income from
               | the region with knowledge of that nest egg if investments
               | you currently have.
               | 
               | It's an entirely different story to live in such an and
               | accumulate enough capital to purchase a home. Often, jobs
               | are few and far between that are competitive, even after
               | adjusting for COL. Employers in these areas often have
               | less competition for positions and therefor have more
               | leverage. Acquiring debt in these areas when you start
               | your career could make it difficult to climb out of. Its
               | not true with all positions. A lot of healthcare
               | positions can pay better in these areas due to what are
               | essentially government subsidies through
               | medicare/medicaid. You'll occasionally have some
               | industrial organization doing specialized work people
               | with advanced degrees can prosper in but they need to
               | strategically target these areas.
        
               | whatshisface wrote:
               | Because nobody wants to hold currency for extended
               | periods of time.
        
               | rgrieselhuber wrote:
               | Bingo
        
               | 0xfaded wrote:
               | Or more precisely, once a house attains some value beyond
               | providing a roof over heads, the price of a house is no
               | longer representative of a house, but a government backed
               | asset that can never depreciate lest the pension funds
               | fold.
        
               | blockyhead wrote:
               | Not when the government is printing it by the trillions.
        
               | nradov wrote:
               | To some extent homes in affluent are expensive because
               | they are expensive. Most rich people don't want to live
               | near poor people and so they'll pay extra for that even
               | if it seems economically irrational.
        
               | rayiner wrote:
               | In the U.S.
               | 
               | 1) Population continues to grow due to immigration and
               | higher birth rates among immigrants.
               | 
               | 2) Population is growing in some areas and declining in
               | others, which is matched by housing prices increasing in
               | some places but falling in others.
        
               | Clubber wrote:
               | We make up for it with immigration. I believe legal
               | immigration is well over a million a year.
               | 
               | https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2020/08/20/key-
               | finding...
        
               | blockyhead wrote:
               | Because people want to live in the city. I bet you can
               | find really cheap houses in the countryside.
               | 
               | Iirc A couple of days ago there was even a post up on HN
               | that listed places where the government would give you
               | land for free, and I think also some starting capital.
        
               | com2kid wrote:
               | > That's what I don't understand, if population growth is
               | stagnant or declining, how is it these housing prices are
               | reaching such heights?
               | 
               | Housing prices around me are directly correlated to
               | school quality. The same house near a good school is
               | literally 1.5x-2x the price.
               | 
               | The supply of good public schools is very limited. A good
               | private school is ~20-30k a year. Figure that is worth
               | 300k, not even counting that that over the years tuition
               | prices will go up.
               | 
               | So people pay to live near one of the handful of good
               | schools.
               | 
               | Seattle stopped busing kids awhile back, instead aiming
               | to keep kids at "local" schools (IMHO to save money), so
               | now unlike the opportunity I had as a kid (test well, get
               | into a good school in the "right" part of town) the city
               | is perpetuating generational poverty.
               | 
               | This has the effect of making pockets of the city have
               | well rated and poorly rated schools. Previously schools
               | were kinda mixed in quality, good programs and teachers
               | at many different schools. Sure some had a reputation,
               | but now the ratings are incredibly bi-modal, and housing
               | prices follow that distribution.
               | 
               | Oh also in the last decade, the population has increased
               | by 21 million. The growth rate is slowing, but it isn't
               | zero. The way American cities are managed, it isn't
               | possible to add sufficient housing. E.g. in 2019 around
               | 40k people moved to the Seattle metro. 14k building
               | permits were granted[1].
               | 
               | To put that in perspective, the most construction
               | friendly city in America, Houston, approved 38k permits.
               | (Not sure if these are for housing units, are permits
               | overall inclusive of multi family dwellings).
               | 
               | FWIW Dallas got ~131k new people (US Census Bureau)
               | 
               | No surprise there is a problem. American cities are not
               | capable of building fast enough.
               | 
               | [1] https://www.wfaa.com/article/money/economy/dallas-
               | fort-worth...
        
               | treis wrote:
               | >Housing prices around me are directly correlated to
               | school quality.
               | 
               | Because "school quality" is basically indistinguishable
               | from "socio-economic status". It has little to do with
               | the quality of buildings or teachers or other resources.
               | It's mostly about the ability and willingness of parents
               | to be involved in their kid's life and the standards they
               | hold.
        
               | amanaplanacanal wrote:
               | The US is still growing its population, via immigration
               | rather than births.
        
               | mgolawala wrote:
               | Home prices keep reaching new heights in some areas due
               | to:
               | 
               | 1) Migration. Immigration from outside the country, but
               | also internal immigration within the country from less
               | economically vibrant parts to more economically vibrant
               | regions.
               | 
               | 2) Falling interest rates keeping the monthly mortgage
               | payment the same or lower despite higher principals
               | 
               | 3) Expectations that the price trend for homes will
               | continue to look like the past. This expectation can lead
               | to people buying more housing than they would normally
               | consume.
               | 
               | 4) Shrinking household sizes. You have gone from an
               | average household size of 3.33 in the 1960s to an average
               | household size of 2.53 today. That may not seem like much
               | but you would need ~25% more housing today to accommodate
               | the same population.
               | 
               | 5) Larger house sizes. From a median of about 1000 sq ft
               | in 1950 to 2300 sq ft today.
               | 
               | The above can combine to keep pushing up house prices in
               | some areas (as we see in the US) even as the population
               | growth of a country stagnates.
        
               | jjav wrote:
               | > Larger house sizes. From a median of about 1000 sq ft
               | in 1950 to 2300 sq ft today.
               | 
               | Maybe it's a California thing, but not so sure about
               | that.
               | 
               | House I grew up in was over 3000sqft and can't think of
               | any friends that had houses smaller than (estimating
               | here) about 2500sqft (in the 70s to 80s). Myself and
               | friends were all lower middle class families. Land and
               | housing was just so cheap then that it was normal.
               | 
               | And yet today, not a single house in this (much more
               | recently built) neighborhood is over 2000sqft. Most of
               | the models are 1300-1500sqft. And of course these houses
               | cost ~40x what my parents paid for the house.
        
               | wishysgb wrote:
               | In my opinion the thing that is leading most to inflation
               | in addition to your points above, is that there are way
               | too many land lords anyone who makes a little money goes
               | and buys a house, increasing demand.
        
               | bobthepanda wrote:
               | Also add; limited housing development.
               | 
               | Most new housing development after the war was gotten by
               | turning farmlands and nature into single family houses. A
               | lot of places have reached the limits of how far one can
               | expand and run into some combination of geographical
               | barriers, legal barriers (e.g. protected park or
               | farmlands), or the barrier posed by time (most people
               | have an upper limit of how long they are willing to
               | commute.)
               | 
               | The next logical step in density, subdivision of existing
               | lots and/or intensifying into homes that accommodate two,
               | three, four families in a place where a single family
               | house stood, is pretty much illegal on most residential
               | parcels in the US. Pre-zoning, neighborhoods were free to
               | densify as they desired, so even in older single family
               | neighborhoods there are sprinklings of slightly more
               | intense development. But in 2021 zoning reform is hotly
               | contested because people feel like they should have
               | control over what their neighbors do with their land, and
               | the overall result is that there isn't too much
               | developable land left.
        
               | frongpik wrote:
               | Ban building new office space in overcrowded areas. Big
               | corps will be forced to build their offices elsewhere, in
               | remote areas with plenty of land, workers will follow and
               | so do small businesses.
        
               | bobthepanda wrote:
               | 1. Who would pass and enforce such a ban? Local
               | governments are self interested and want more jobs,
               | because it makes politicians look good and jobs require
               | minimal additional services while providing lots of tax
               | money. (See: Bay Area) State has same issues. Feds don't
               | have the rights to do so, and good luck passing that kind
               | of legislation anyways.
               | 
               | 2. With the decline of the inner city during the
               | midcentury we already saw what this looked like. It
               | mostly resulted in jobs moving to the suburbs of
               | established big cities, not decentralization of jobs into
               | totally different regions.
        
               | imtringued wrote:
               | Considering how many people insist on their neighborhood
               | staying the same, why haven't they thought long and hard
               | about what it means to let more and more corporations
               | settle in their city without building enough housing to
               | match the new jobs?
        
               | pojzon wrote:
               | Rich elites buy-out all properties/flats in cities
               | because its a better overall investment taking to account
               | inflation.
               | 
               | People who slave in that situation consider themselves
               | unhappy and thus consider moving to a houses outside of
               | the city. Due to limited infrastructure outside of the
               | cities -> only a part of outskirts are really habbitable
               | for those families. The demand in this case is higher
               | than supply.
               | 
               | Demand is so low only because city politicians are too
               | inefficient in providing new places with infrastructure.
        
               | r3drock wrote:
               | One explanation is rising amounts of space per person,
               | the apartments are just getting bigger.
        
               | whatshisface wrote:
               | When you watch the price of the same unit grow over time,
               | it's not usually because the owners are building more. :)
        
               | scatters wrote:
               | And decreasing household size.
        
             | bcrosby95 wrote:
             | Same, but the "outskirts" has gone from a 30 minute drive
             | to work to a 2 hour drive to work. At some point something
             | has to give.
        
           | jjav wrote:
           | Indeed. We make some 25x what my parents did, but with them I
           | grew up in a property with a wonderfully large house and many
           | acres of land. Yet here I am stuck in tiny house with no yard
           | to speak of and couldn't possibly afford anything more given
           | current cost of housing and land.
        
           | rimiform wrote:
           | Makes you wonder whether you ever thought not having a baby
           | might be a sensible option.
        
           | sn41 wrote:
           | Yup. This is the same phenomenon in India as well - the
           | salary is "high", so you can splurge on furniture, buy
           | reasonably priced cars etc. much easier than earlier
           | generations. But we cannot afford to buy the same house my
           | parents lived in at our income level.
        
             | lastofthemojito wrote:
             | This always feels like a weird argument.
             | 
             | In the part of Maryland (USA) that I live in, quite a few
             | areas are named after families who lived here in colonial
             | times, and they were granted huge swaths of land. But a
             | descendant from one of those families today can't
             | reasonably expect an estate of hundreds of acres. There's
             | just not enough land to go around with the size of today's
             | population.
             | 
             | Obviously, that's taking it to the extreme, but the
             | population of India has probably doubled since 1980 or so.
             | I don't know your age or your parents' ages, but there are
             | certainly far more people in India now than when your
             | parents were your age, so it wouldn't make sense for an
             | equivalent amount of wealth to buy an equivalent piece of
             | real estate compared to previous generations.
        
               | wcarss wrote:
               | This mostly makes sense if real estate is already fully
               | utilised, but it isn't.
               | 
               | I can't speak to India, but there's a feeling broadly in
               | North America of having "new development" and "expansion"
               | over time. Cities are much, much larger now than they
               | were 40 years ago, and people imagine that the new farm
               | land subsumed and developed should be available for a
               | similar price relative to income to what it was 'back
               | then'.
               | 
               | The XXX-acre rural farmland wasn't as valuable as the
               | same space in town when purchased as a lot, but now it
               | holds as many homes as that downtown space used to. Is it
               | worth the same today, relatively, as that space was then?
               | No, they're both worth comparatively way, way more than
               | they were.
               | 
               | I don't mean to suggest that scarcity isn't a part of the
               | equation here, more that there are a lot complex factors
               | involved, e.g. wage levels relative to inflation over
               | time.
        
               | lastofthemojito wrote:
               | You're right of course, that it's more complex than just
               | land scarcity. But I feel like people sometimes have this
               | strange default sense that something is wrong if things
               | don't stay the same. "My dad fixed diesel engines and
               | provided for a family of 5, so I ought to be able to do
               | the same thing". Well, your dad lived in a different
               | time. You can't be a Holy Roman warrior anymore, and
               | there's also a chance you might not be able to make a
               | good career at being a diesel mechanic at this point.
               | 
               | Sort of like when you have kids and see them everyday,
               | you only vaguely notice them growing up because the
               | change from day-to-day is so subtle? But when the
               | extended family visits once a year, they notice a huge
               | change? The world is constantly changing like that...you
               | might not notice that today is different from yesterday,
               | but today is drastically different from when your parents
               | were your age.
        
               | [deleted]
        
               | TheCoelacanth wrote:
               | Real estate is only expensive in the highly utilized
               | areas.
        
               | rayiner wrote:
               | > The XXX-acre rural farmland wasn't as valuable as the
               | same space in town when purchased as a lot, but now it
               | holds as many homes as that downtown space used to. Is it
               | worth the same today, relatively, as that space was then?
               | 
               | Yes, they are. It's hard to make a direct comparison,
               | because falling interest rates have caused housing prices
               | to go up, and as people have gained income they have
               | chosen to buy much bigger houses. But the per square foot
               | price of a median-sized new home has been stagnant at the
               | $100-120 range (based on CPI) since 1973:
               | https://donsnotes.com/financial/real-estate.html. And
               | falling interest rates have meant that the monthly
               | mortgage payment per square foot has actually gone down
               | over that time.
        
             | engineer_22 wrote:
             | Have you accounted for development induced appreciation?
             | Perhaps a similar home further from the city center would
             | be a more suiting comparison?
             | 
             | Anecdotally, in central New York housing prices have gained
             | only modestly. The 2008 financial crisis didn't have a
             | large effect on prices here either. But... development in
             | central New York is near zero.
        
               | agent008t wrote:
               | Given that good jobs remained in the city center, and
               | commutes are not faster than they used to be, the point
               | is not very relevant.
        
               | engineer_22 wrote:
               | I think that the internet has eliminated the commute for
               | a lot of service sector jobs. I think that a lot of jobs
               | remain in the city center only because that's the way the
               | older generation has always done it.
        
               | kevin_thibedeau wrote:
               | The Amish are fleeing high land prices in Pennsylvania.
               | There is development of a sort.
        
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           | refurb wrote:
           | But why would you expect to be able to afford the same house
           | even with higher net worth?
           | 
           | I mean, my folks bought a house I can afford either but when
           | they bought it, it was on the edge of the city, not a
           | desirable area in a 2nd tier city. That's why it was cheap.
           | Now it's in a historic neighborhood, highly desirable in a
           | city where everyone wants live.
           | 
           | I _could_ afford a house similar to the one they bought in
           | terms of those qualities. In fact it would likely be cheaper
           | compared to salary.
        
             | threwawasy1228 wrote:
             | Show me an affordable house in on the edge of NYC in the
             | "undesirable" neighborhoods. Even if you pick neighborhoods
             | past where subway lines end (a very undesirable quality for
             | city property to have) that also happen to be high crime
             | areas it is still too expensive for anyone to purchase.
             | Like two examples look at New Lots/East New York and South
             | Ozone Park/Jamaica. Both fit my description above, they are
             | at the very edge of subway access, and are high crime
             | areas, and both are too expensive for normal middle class
             | people to buy property in.
             | 
             | Contrast this with great people I've met who are ~60 now,
             | who just stumbled into the east village/alphabet city in
             | the 1980s in their mid-20s and bought up cheap houses while
             | bumming around paycheck to paycheck. What area of NYC or
             | the valley can I do that in now? If the answer is none, and
             | you can't point me to a city in the midwest or south where
             | buying up cheap affordable property IS going to turn me
             | into a multimillionaire when I'm ~50 what does that mean
             | for our growth/stagnation culturally and as a country? This
             | is the difference, there is no place that even has the
             | faintest whiff of a city that is about to take off where
             | such gains would even be possible.
             | 
             | In other countries that have similar issues in Europe,
             | where a lot of cities are unbelievably expensive there are
             | two solutions that you see a lot. One is that it is
             | culturally common to live with your entire extended family
             | and not be able to afford a house, and the second is
             | welfare or new home ownership incentives that make it more
             | viable. "Rugged Individualism" in American mindsets and
             | cultures makes both options seem untenable but clearly we
             | have to adapt.
        
               | bradleyjg wrote:
               | 1980s NYC did not have "the faintest whiff of a city
               | about to take off". That couple bought property in a
               | crime ridden part of a crime ridden city. Tompkins Square
               | Park was an open air drug market.
               | 
               | The equivalent today is a bad area of Detroit. I'm
               | certain you can find something affordable there today. I
               | doubt it will turn you into a multimillionaire, but if we
               | were having this conversation in 1984 everyone would
               | doubt buying in the East Village would get you anything
               | other than mugged or shot.
        
               | rayiner wrote:
               | Having grown up in the 1990s in the D.C. suburbs, and
               | visiting family in Queens (recent immigrants) I still
               | reflexively do a double take when new associates at my
               | law firm say they're living in Brooklyn, or in D.C., in
               | Capitol Hill. Like--I know you can afford to live
               | somewhere decent!
        
           | bradleyjg wrote:
           | Is is it you that are the outlier or your dad? What kind of
           | housing did your grandfathers and great-grandfathers have?
        
             | yortpyperty wrote:
             | I have the same job as my father. Grandparents immigrated
             | at a young age and grew up in the same area of the city.
        
             | wcarss wrote:
             | The point is precisely that neither of them is an outlier
             | within their respective time -- they are normal people who
             | want "normal" housing: i.e. just enough to raise a family
             | in.
             | 
             | The parents born in the 30s-50s could largely afford to
             | purchase homes large enough to raise a family in, but far
             | fewer people born in the 70s-90s will be able to do the
             | same.
        
               | bradleyjg wrote:
               | My point is that, at least in the US, the post World War
               | II economy was unusual and the factors that lead to it
               | are unlikely to ever be repeated.
               | 
               | We are reverting to the status quo ante about what middle
               | class means.
        
               | solosoyokaze wrote:
               | I agree with the first part of your comment but there
               | wasn't really a middle class prior to the 20th century.
               | 
               | The petite bourgeoisie would probably be considered
               | upper-middle class today. Even the industrial revolution
               | was only a small period of humanity.
        
               | rayiner wrote:
               | This isn't really true. First, what's considered "big
               | enough to raise a family in" has doubled since the
               | 1950s-1970s. I grew up in an 1,100 square foot house
               | built in the 1950s. The starter homes around us are
               | double that size.
               | 
               | Also, as the U.S. grows, the "frontiers" obviously shift.
               | Since 1970, the U.S. has grown from 205 million to 330
               | million, and the number of people per house has gone down
               | significantly. Back when it was built in the 1950s, the
               | house I grew up in was in a new development in a boring
               | suburb of D.C--itself a boring city with mainly GS-scale
               | government jobs. Now, with all the tech jobs in the D.C.
               | area, it's become a more desirable, upscale place.
               | 
               | What used to be the boring, middle-class suburb is now
               | somewhere around Kansas City, MO or Greensboro, NC.
               | Houses in those places are just as affordable as the
               | houses you grew up in. In fact, when you account for
               | growing house size and falling interest rates, they are
               | more affordable: https://donsnotes.com/financial/real-
               | estate.html
        
               | ivanche wrote:
               | This is highly dependent on society/nation standards. I
               | grew up in a 750 sqft apartment (family of 5). My wife
               | grew up in a 440 sqft (family of 4). Now I consider 250
               | sqft/person to be a palace, but in the US it's probably
               | considered unlivable.
        
               | bradleyjg wrote:
               | Exactly. It's not some fundamental biological fact that
               | you can't raise a family in fewer than 1500 sq. ft. of
               | house and 1/4 an acre of property. That was just a
               | cultural norm set in a particular time and place.
        
               | wcarss wrote:
               | I don't understand what the value to you is here in
               | arguing that we all ought to just settle for less. More
               | space is preferable, better conditions are preferable,
               | and we do have the capabilities to work toward these
               | things for all humans.
               | 
               | The specific factors of post-WWII America may be unlikely
               | ever to be repeated, but I can't agree that we should all
               | settle for life as it was in the 1910s or earlier on the
               | basis that that's simply 'how life is' -- the status quo
               | is not an argument for itself.
               | 
               | The average (human, at least) life has improved
               | substantially in the last few hundred years in some key
               | ways (admitting that there are some ways it is likely
               | worse). Even if the potential improvements to life track
               | a sigmoid curve, there's no reason at all yet to think
               | we've maxed it out, let alone gone beyond what's
               | possible.
               | 
               | We can absolutely continue to improve, so it seems
               | totally fair to identify and analyze causes, means, and
               | paths to do so, i.e., recognizing "I cannot afford the
               | same standard of life as my parents did" as something
               | that ideally would be different, and discussing patterns
               | of wage growth, economic trends, and policy decisions
               | that might counteract that perceivable regression of
               | quality.
        
               | rayiner wrote:
               | A sentence with "ought" in it is a signal that what
               | follows is a pointless thought. You can't will things
               | into existence by saying it "ought" to be that way.
               | 
               | As to your other point, some aspects of living conditions
               | are scalable, and others are not--something that's
               | obvious if you're thinking about what "is" rather than
               | what "ought to be." Technology doesn't magic more land
               | into existence. As the population of the country grows
               | (it has grown from 200 million in 1970 to 330 million
               | today) space becomes more expensive. There is no reason
               | to assume that the trend should be toward more space per
               | person. In fact, physics and math tells you the trend
               | should be in the opposite direction.
        
               | bradleyjg wrote:
               | People shouldn't be made to feel like they would be or
               | are bad parents if they put two kids in a room. Because I
               | think the upshot to that is not going to be some workers'
               | movement that produces less inequality but instead fewer
               | people that want kids having them due to fear of social
               | stigma.
        
               | wcarss wrote:
               | That's a really good point! I agree that we should be
               | supportive of parents in the face of circumstances they
               | can't directly control, rather than stigmatize them or
               | hold them to an unfair standard. Thanks for explaining it
               | that way.
               | 
               | I also think we can both do that _and_ work to continue
               | to improve circumstances, which to me includes
               | recognizing that the circumstances can be improved.
        
               | IkmoIkmo wrote:
               | > The parents born in the 30s-50s could largely afford to
               | purchase homes large enough to raise a family in, but far
               | fewer people born in the 70s-90s will be able to do the
               | same.
               | 
               | Does not explain why home sizes grew 2.5x since the
               | 1950s, while the average household size dropped from 3.4
               | to 2.5. (which is in large part due to the many single-
               | person households).
               | 
               | There's many indications that we're enjoying much more
               | real estate per person than ever before, real estate
               | which is also much more luxurious and located in much
               | more interesting locations, with better schools, more
               | safety, more amenities etc.
               | 
               | Second, we tend to easily forget that the past wasn't
               | divided equally. Being a woman and running your own
               | household independent from a husband was a pipe dream for
               | many women back then. Buying a home was a pipe dream for
               | many black families, too. There's lots of such examples.
               | This past we speak of where 'we all' had it better is
               | often actually a bit of a narrow view of certain groups
               | of people having it better, ignoring others who
               | definitely didn't. Whereas now the average person is
               | better off, in small part at the expense of a smaller
               | group who used to dominate before.
        
         | bookmarkable wrote:
         | Interesting analysis, but I think you are discounting the
         | number of people in each of these groups. Percentage basis,
         | yes, the rich and poor will have more children. But both groups
         | are not the 80% of the middle (using your 10% cutoffs on either
         | end).
         | 
         | So I don't think children from the non-rich and non-poor
         | society are going to be aliens in the world anytime soon. Sadly
         | though, fewer will know life with siblings. To meet groups of
         | siblings, you'll find more rich and poor - but only at their
         | birth. Any number of those will change positions in society in
         | any direction.
        
         | abootstrapper wrote:
         | > When you look at who is having kids in the US and Canada, the
         | families, (or specifically, women) who have 2 or more children
         | are either exceptionally wealthy (90th+ pc) or exceptionally
         | poor
         | 
         | Source?
        
         | shortandsweet wrote:
         | I don't understand your view that population growth is required
         | to manage debt. Isn't it inflation that reduces the future
         | value of such debts?
        
           | motohagiography wrote:
           | Population growth ostensibly creates economic growth, which
           | generates tax receipts to pay down public debt. We're about
           | to hit a wave of massive inflation, which rewards asset
           | owners and punishes workers and savers.
           | 
           | Further, I used to think that millennials were poorer than
           | they think they are, but then it clicked they absolutely
           | understand, and that's why they behave exactly like the poor
           | people they subconsciously recognize they in fact are.
           | 
           | If you took the traditional criticisms of how the poor manage
           | their lives you'd get things like, a lack of long term
           | planning, blowing money on gaudy status signalling to attract
           | other poor partners or mates, a temporary and transactional
           | attitude to work, lots of unsecured high interest debt,
           | hyperbolic reactions to perceived slights, superstitious
           | beliefs, extreme promiscuity, isolating and sabotaging people
           | who make their own way as not being authentic, a lot of
           | people would unironically say those are racist and classist
           | stereotypes, without seeing that they accurately describe the
           | lives of ostensibly middle class white millennials.
           | 
           | They know they're poor and they're acting like it, and they
           | have less hope than policymakers imagine. Inflation wouldn't
           | make a difference because they don't have any savings, and
           | they don't have assets, it's just another force they're
           | subject to.
           | 
           | "So we drink and dance and screw, because there's nothing
           | else to do..."
        
         | nathancahill wrote:
         | A different environmentalist worldview that I was raised with
         | (as one of four kids of environmentalist parents):
         | 
         | Kids raised with an environmental mindset will have a larger
         | positive impact than having fewer or no children. Their impact
         | will outweigh their environmental footprint.
        
           | tenacious_tuna wrote:
           | I'm curious how the logic works for that. I've always assumed
           | that there's effectively no way for an individual human to
           | net-negative their own emissions/energy consumption/whatnot,
           | just because of the sheer amount of material they
           | need/use/consume (at least, in a Western society). A few
           | outliers (Greta Thornberg?) may be able to effect sufficient
           | policy to counteract their own environmental impact, but in
           | the general case I don't see how raising a kid with a
           | strongly environmental-conscious mindset is at all better
           | than just... not having a kid.
        
             | nathancahill wrote:
             | I've given a lot of thought to this. Here's a few points I
             | think about:
             | 
             | 0. Your own environmental impact is significantly reduced,
             | so the baseline to "counteract" is lower than "Western
             | society".
             | 
             | 1. Change happens incrementally. Moving the needle in small
             | ways slowly changes the big picture. Greta is moving the
             | needle in big ways within her lifetime, but like you say,
             | that's not the norm.
             | 
             | 2. Raising awareness and leading by example can have an
             | outsized impact in your community.
             | 
             | 3. Voting and other political involvement (won't turn this
             | political, but every vote matters, especially for local
             | issues that might be decided by 50-100 votes).
             | 
             | 4. Supporting companies that align with your values.
             | Consider the total dollar spend of an individual over the
             | course of their life.
             | 
             | 5. Charitable giving. Tons of great work is being done
             | around the world by non-profits. Even if you don't pursue a
             | career in non-profit work, donating is tax deductible and
             | goes a long way.
             | 
             | 6. Raising your own children with a similar mindset.
        
               | nitrogen wrote:
               | 7. Inventing and supporting new sources of energy,
               | materials, and efficiency.
        
         | snarf21 wrote:
         | I agree with you. The only way out of this is via automation.
         | If we have high enough automation, costs will drop despite lack
         | of growth. In the end the world will be a stark 0.001% who own
         | the automation and the flat 99.999% who subsist on leisure and
         | boredom.
        
           | knz wrote:
           | > In the end the world will be a stark 0.001% who own the
           | automation and the flat 99.999% who subsist on leisure and
           | boredom.
           | 
           | Leisure? Or poverty?
           | 
           | This strikes me as a return to the default state for much of
           | human existence and the current reality for much of the
           | world's population.
        
         | Balgair wrote:
         | > I'd speculate this is because if you are either rich or poor
         | you have stability in that your life circumstances aren't going
         | to change that radically,
         | 
         | In the U.S. this may be due not to 'stability', but Medicaid.
         | 
         | To be clear, Medicaid benefits are a _hot_ mess of bureaucracy.
         | To paraphrase Voltaire:  'The point of Medicaid is to ensure
         | that no two people are covered under the same set of rules'.
         | 
         | That said, Medicaid covers ~22% of the U.S. population. The
         | Medicaid yearly income cut-off for a 2-person household is
         | ~$57k/year. Most of the costs of a pregnancy are covered under
         | Medicaid [0].
         | 
         | What are such costs? Well, again, it's _very_ complicated, no
         | birth is  'standard'. And googling this is going to lead to a
         | wide range of answers. But in my local area for a first birth,
         | one baby, no c-section, no epidural, no emergency measures,
         | you're looking at ~$20k out of pocket. And that's with a 'good'
         | HCP. C-sections go to ~$80k, and those are ~20% of first births
         | in my area. Again, the costs will vary wildly depending on
         | _many_ factors.
         | 
         | Then you add in check-ups, vaccinations[1], standard illnesses,
         | ear infections, etc. Medicaid will mostly cover these things,
         | while anyone making more than the cut-off must pay them out of
         | pocket with their HCP discounts, if applicable (again, caution,
         | it's super complex bureaucracy).
         | 
         | The interesting thing is to look at other countries with mostly
         | functional universal healthcare systems. What has happened to
         | their birthrates based on income when you look at how much a
         | mother can be expected to pay for a birth? From what I can
         | recall, there seems to be no real difference as compared to the
         | US, correct?
         | 
         | [0] https://www.growingfamilybenefits.com/medicaid-coverage-
         | duri...
         | 
         | [1] They may be free, but it depends on your HCP. Sometimes the
         | nurse to inject will bill pretty high. I've gotten ~$300 bills
         | for vaccinations before.
        
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           | bcrosby95 wrote:
           | I've never heard of anyone paying $80k for a c-section out of
           | pocket, and I know a lot of people that got them. Hell, my
           | wife had to have 2 and the total bills were around $25k, and
           | we paid around $2k out of pocket after insurance.
        
             | Balgair wrote:
             | Again, I'm just going off of what google returned to me
             | about the area where I live. The costs are going to vary
             | wildly from state to state.
        
       | Scandiravian wrote:
       | I'm surprised by this, as I had expected the opposite. Couples
       | are spending a lot of time together being confined to their home
       | without much entertainment, so I'd expected that to result in
       | more baby making
       | 
       | I guess the stress from the uncertainty of the future and lack of
       | personal space more than countered that
       | 
       | Time for me to adjust my assumptions about the world... And
       | probably check my privilege, since I'm massively underestimating
       | the impact the pandemic has had on a large part of the population
        
         | francisofascii wrote:
         | It is a reasonable expectation. There have been studies linking
         | high birth rates to blizzards. "blizzard babies" But of course,
         | this was not a blizzard. Increased anxiety and depression can
         | be a libido crusher.
        
         | sjg007 wrote:
         | I never thought that. The uncertainty was too great. The
         | economy isn't doing well either.
        
         | everdrive wrote:
         | > there home without much entertainment
         | 
         | They were pumped to the brim with entertainment. Passive,
         | internet-based entertainment.
        
         | chrisseaton wrote:
         | But it's the worst possible time to have a baby. Healthcare is
         | all round degraded, hospitals are risky places to be, new
         | parent services are degraded, socialising with other parents is
         | limited. Why would you risk doing it now rather than waiting if
         | you had a choice? Most people have a choice, so are choosing to
         | wait.
        
           | andrew_ wrote:
           | Sadly, that all really depends on where you live.
        
         | jtbayly wrote:
         | > since I'm massively underestimating the impact the
         | s/pandemic/lockdown has had on a large part of the population
         | 
         | Not having money or a stable income causes people to not have
         | kids.
        
         | a_brawling_boo wrote:
         | My wife and I had decided to start trying for a second child
         | around the beginning of 2020, after the outbreak we put those
         | plans hold because we didn't want to have to make repeated
         | trips to the doctor/pediatrician/hospital where all the covid
         | was. What was our employment/financial situation going to look
         | like? In the spring of last year a million people were loosing
         | their jobs a day at one point. Also, friend of ours, a PA in an
         | emergency room, told us witnessed more than one miscarriage due
         | to covid, so no, we are waiting for now.
        
           | gwbas1c wrote:
           | My wife and I started talking about having a kid and..
           | oooops!
           | 
           | The maternity visits are fine. The major consequence is that
           | only mom can go. I didn't get to see the ultrasounds this
           | time around.
           | 
           | For the maternity ward, just make sure to have an N95 or KN95
           | mask. Keep it on AT ALL TIMES that you are outside of the
           | room. The hospital we went to had negative pressure machines
           | in case a mother was covid positive.
           | 
           | Have your kid. You'll be fine, and when you're old, you won't
           | regret it.
        
             | ed25519FUUU wrote:
             | Around here the fathers (or any visitors) weren't even
             | allowed in the delivery room, not to mention being forced
             | to labor with a mask on. An awful experience for the mom.
             | Nevertheless some of us are crazy enough to build our
             | families even during these times because, like you said,
             | it's about the long plan.
        
             | bluedino wrote:
             | Dads were allowed the whole process here. But nobody else.
             | It was nice to be free from in-laws, friends, overbearing
             | family members...
        
           | Scandiravian wrote:
           | I'm sad to hear that you've been impacted by the pandemic in
           | this way. I hope the vaccine rollout and improvements in
           | control of the spread will reestablish the security you need
           | to provide for a second child
        
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         | saiya-jin wrote:
         | Having a kid in western society is massively more
         | difficult/taxing on parents compared to the past, when folks
         | managed to have 10-15 kids and they somehow survived and
         | developed themselves with their siblings (and some died but
         | that's another story). We all know that. Kids are more
         | difficult to manage in age of ubiquitous screens and
         | distractions.
         | 
         | Now you have to put your kids to hobbies, take care of their
         | development, folks often live very far from helping family like
         | parents, you need to have massive income surplus if you want
         | your kid to go to higher education (which is true everywhere,
         | in US particularly dialed to 12).
         | 
         | Many folks are depressed, even without realizing it. Dating
         | trimmed to bare minimum. Places where people would meet are
         | mostly closed, which means almost 0 chance for random
         | encounters.
         | 
         | I could go on for a long time what is worse/properly bad. If I
         | didn't have family on my own, being single during past year
         | would be pretty miserable place to be, probably combated with
         | consumption of copious amounts of weed (not a solution, but I
         | know it would help, even though its just a temporary funny
         | escape).
        
           | leesalminen wrote:
           | > If I didn't have family on my own, being single during past
           | year would be pretty miserable place to be
           | 
           | I feel super lucky to have had my first son born right before
           | the covid outbreak in the US. The restrictions have basically
           | forced me to spend every waking second with him (and my
           | wife), and it's been (mostly) great. I have thoroughly
           | enjoyed getting to know my son, and am happy to have been
           | able to support my wife as much as I have. Like you, I
           | couldn't imagine doing this last year as a single guy- it
           | would've been very difficult for me. My brother, for example,
           | who is in his 20s and single, has had a fairly rough time
           | this past year. Most of the mechanisms he used to combat
           | depression are gone.
        
         | that_guy_iain wrote:
         | Lots of people stopped dating, bars are closed, etc. I suspect
         | the decrease in drunken sex is probably a large reason for the
         | decrease.
        
           | tzs wrote:
           | That reminds me of something I've occasionally wondered
           | about.
           | 
           | Just in terms of total population and ignoring all else such
           | as quality of life and economic impacts, is alcohol's net
           | effect to lower population growth (drunk driving deaths and
           | such) or to raise population growth (drunk sex or other
           | related poor decisions)?
        
             | coldpie wrote:
             | It doesn't answer the question you posed, but I read a
             | study[1] just yesterday that estimated that the largest
             | factor of young people having less casual sex now than they
             | did ten years ago is a reduction in drinking rates. It was
             | still a minor factor (explains about 25% of the drop, by
             | their estimation), but it seems less alcohol use does
             | correlate with less casual sex.
             | 
             | [1]
             | https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/2378023121996854
        
           | andi999 wrote:
           | Actually 300k birth due to drunken sex paints a very dark
           | picture of society.
        
             | _trampeltier wrote:
             | Not all death on the street are because of alcohol.
        
             | boomboomsubban wrote:
             | It's a social lubricant, even in healthy relationships
             | wanting more children I'd bet many are conceived drunk.
        
         | jasode wrote:
         | _> Couples are spending a lot of time together [...], so I'd
         | expected that to result in more baby making_
         | 
         | But a counteracting force is that some couples _think 9 months
         | ahead_ and are afraid of _delivering_ their baby in a COVID-
         | overloaded hospital.
         | 
         | COVID makes the opportunities for _conception_ easier but adds
         | to the stress and uncertainties of delivery and postnatal care.
         | (So maybe more sex activity but also more _contra_ ception to
         | prevent pregnancies.)
         | 
         | It's like that anecdote I heard of the forced shelter-at-home
         | lets people do home-improvement projects but some are afraid of
         | getting on high ladders because if they fall and seriously
         | injure themselves, they are afraid the busy hospital won't be
         | able to see them quickly. COVID changes the risk profile even
         | for people who don't get COVID.
        
           | teeray wrote:
           | > adds to the stress and uncertainties of delivery and
           | postnatal care
           | 
           | Another lurking factor is the availability of grandparents to
           | assume some of the early child care. Movement restrictions
           | can remove this assistance entirely from new parents.
        
           | xwdv wrote:
           | I'd do the opposite. The pandemic is the perfect time to have
           | a kid if you were thinking ahead. Sure, in the short term it
           | might suck, but in the long term, your kid will be amongst a
           | smaller generation. That means more resources can be diverted
           | to them in schools and other activities. Daycares pressed for
           | money because of a sudden drop in the supply chain may start
           | lowering fees a bit for a while. Colleges receive less
           | applicants, mortgage lending, etc... And since a lot of the
           | families that can afford to have kids in a pandemic are
           | probably more affluent, that means a better selection of
           | romantic partners close to the same birth year with better
           | than average socioeconomic status.
           | 
           | It's a great time. You don't want to have your kid during a
           | massive boom. They'll just be a mini boomer.
        
             | bryanrasmussen wrote:
             | I guess, although I do believe I've heard the argument that
             | the baby boomers had every step of their lives tended to
             | politically because of what a massive voting block they
             | represented - nobody wanted to screw over that block. Small
             | generation? Ok let's sacrifice them to the benefit of other
             | interests!
        
           | gwbas1c wrote:
           | > But a counteracting force is that some couples think 9
           | months ahead and are afraid of delivering their baby in a
           | COVID-overloaded hospital.
           | 
           | My wife works in a maternity ward.
           | 
           | Babies are a high priority. They're fully prepared to deliver
           | babies from covid-positive mothers. (And, yes, there's been
           | plenty of covid-positive mothers.)
           | 
           | And, because visitors are strictly limited, it's actually
           | quite easy in the maternity ward.
           | 
           | I went in because we got pregnant thanks to being stuck at
           | home. It's much more peaceful without a parade of visitors,
           | but super-scary because some of the delivery rooms have
           | negative pressure machines in case there's a covid-positive
           | mother.
        
             | sokoloff wrote:
             | We have two kids (meticulously over-planned :) ), but when
             | I look back to the incredible level of uncertainty that was
             | in the world in March-May of last year, we'd have taken
             | significant precautions to not get pregnant during that
             | timeframe.
             | 
             | No one knew what hospitals were going to look like in July
             | 2020, let alone Feb 2021. I'm glad that we are in a stable
             | situation where providing in-hospital labor&delivery care
             | is reasonably safe, but you couldn't have really banked on
             | that to be the case at the critical start of the process.
        
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             | beowulfey wrote:
             | It's not the fact that hospitals cannot handle it.
             | 
             | It's when you consider the cost-benefit of the increased
             | risk associated with being in the hospital during a
             | pandemic and possibly experiencing stronger
             | symptoms/complications because of the pregnancy if getting
             | sick, the scale tips away from trying for kids.
        
             | milesdyson_phd wrote:
             | During the height of severe covid cases in my area a lot of
             | hospitals were not even allowing spouses in during
             | delivery, so yes it was still relatively safe but
             | definitely not the same.
        
           | ldbooth wrote:
           | Outside the couples though, there's a lot less mingling going
           | on. Dating during Covid... Awkward.
        
           | mbg721 wrote:
           | The uncertainty isn't just the COVID overload, but also no
           | doulas/support people, and not knowing if the father is even
           | going to be allowed in the building in case something unusual
           | happens.
        
             | PebblesRox wrote:
             | Caring for a baby once it's born is also harder without the
             | support available from family to bring food, babysit older
             | kids, etc.
        
             | ViViDboarder wrote:
             | I'm in San Francisco, where we've consistently had some of
             | the most restrictive policies.
             | 
             | My wife is pregnant and they've told me the whole time that
             | I'd be allowed in for the birth, but while rates were
             | climbing I've been unable to attend any appointments or
             | ultrasounds. It's been kind of surreal knowing that, yes,
             | we're having a baby, but not having been able to _really_
             | see it.
             | 
             | Now that rates have dropped, I'm finally going to be able
             | to attend my first ultrasound today and I'm totally stoked!
        
               | 1-more wrote:
               | Congrats!! Hope it's smooth sailing for you and your
               | spouse and your child.
        
             | leesalminen wrote:
             | My wife and I had our first son at the end of 2019, right
             | before the outbreak. We've heard from friends that women
             | are delivering wearing a mask now.
             | 
             | My wife thinks that she wouldn't be able to do that and
             | that she would pass out. The level of breathing required to
             | deliver a baby is intense.
             | 
             | She has basically threatened the livelihood of my genitalia
             | if I impregnate her during the pandemic. She's kidding,
             | right? ;)
        
               | avesi wrote:
               | I delivered wearing a mask last year, it's honestly
               | security theater. A little floppy surgical mask does
               | nothing to contain the breathing of a laboring woman. I
               | was more upset I couldn't kiss my baby when he was first
               | put in my arms.
        
               | andrew_ wrote:
               | It's a tough juggle between a hospital that won't allow
               | you to give birth maskless, and the level of care you
               | want. We went through a similar tough choice with our
               | daughter born in August last year - we ultimately went
               | with a Catholic-based hospital that we vetted for great
               | care that allowed my wife to give birth without a mask
               | on.
        
               | dhosek wrote:
               | The level of breathing needed to deliver a baby is
               | intense, sure, but the impeding of breathing from wearing
               | a mask is minimal. Early on when I was wearing homemade
               | masks made with shop towels, rubber bands and staples,
               | mask wearing was uncomfortable, but with masks that
               | aren't made out of random elements are fine. My first-
               | grade kids have no problem running, jumping and climbing
               | with their masks on.
        
               | ars wrote:
               | > but the impeding of breathing from wearing a mask is
               | minimal.
               | 
               | If I inhale hard on a surgical mask, it collapses and
               | seals against my mouth. I have to either use a brand new,
               | very stiff, mask. Or adjust the mask not to seal well
               | against the sides to add some more space between my mouth
               | and the mask.
               | 
               | It doesn't happen during normal breathing, but I could
               | easily see it happening during labor - the sweat would
               | soften the mask, and the level of breathing needed would
               | easily do it.
        
         | andi999 wrote:
         | Actually how does one actually do that 'check your privilege'?
         | Is it like a checklist for takeoff:'privilege on? check!'
        
           | neogodless wrote:
           | Become aware of it and acknowledge it.
           | 
           | Consider ways to improve your perspective around those
           | without the same privilege, and adjust your communication so
           | that it isn't incorporating arcane assumptions.
        
           | draw_down wrote:
           | It's just something people say. It doesn't mean anything
           | real.
        
           | salawat wrote:
           | I don't know, but whenever someone tells me to check mine I
           | cordially remind them it is an overt act of supremacy, if you
           | will, to assign more importance to one person's adversity
           | than another's.
           | 
           | We all have a metaphorical bowl of sh#t to work through in
           | life. Everybody's is different, but we all have to get
           | through it somehow. I'm not getting or letting anyone else
           | get held over a barrel because one person doesn't like the
           | specifics of their own or another's tribulations.
           | 
           | Remember folks, kindly leave your sh#tbowl yardsticks at
           | home, and just enjoy the company of other people.
        
           | tremon wrote:
           | After entering the premises, you make your way to the
           | checkroom, hand over the items you're not supposed to wear
           | inside, and proceed to the venue proper.
        
           | shigawire wrote:
           | You think about things from different socioeconomic
           | perspectives. It should be pretty obvious that the pandemic
           | is not a year long stay at home tea party for many people.
           | 
           | If you only consider you experience as a wealthy tech worker
           | you might not understand this.
        
             | mehphp wrote:
             | I completely understand that I happen to have it good
             | because I'm in the tech industry and have been unaffected
             | financially due to the pandemic. However, I'd hardly call
             | myself "wealthy" and it's hardly the year long tea party
             | from my perspective either...
        
           | pjc50 wrote:
           | A couple of easy wins:
           | 
           | - are you describing what you'd do in a situation without
           | considering that other people are in different situations
           | with different constraints, both external and of human
           | fallibility?
           | 
           | - have you said "why don't they just" or a similar form of
           | words, without at least coming up with your own potential
           | reasons why that might not be easy?
           | 
           | (This is like writing "works on my machine" on a bug report.
           | You know not to do that, so don't write "works on my
           | lifestyle and background" on other people's bug reports about
           | life)
        
         | josephorjoe wrote:
         | So, maybe off topic, maybe not.
         | 
         | i have a cat. She's a good cat, mostly. We get along pretty
         | well, mostly.
         | 
         | Before the pandemic, there were large parts of the day when we
         | didn't see each other.
         | 
         | Because we knew we would be separated much of the day, we found
         | time to play around when we were together. I'd throw a toy and
         | she would squawk and chase after it then look at me excitedly
         | until I walked down the hall, picked it up, and threw it back
         | the other way. Then when she was tired it would be time for
         | treats and petting. Good times.
         | 
         | Play time was a valued time for both of us, as we knew that
         | soon we would be separated for many hours, possibly days. Time
         | together was special.
         | 
         | Now, we have nearly unlimited time together, and when I want to
         | play, kitty is tired or hungry or wants to stare out the window
         | at the pretty birds and squirrels and swats at me and tries to
         | bite me if I persist in trying to initiate play time.
         | 
         | Meanwhile, when kitty wants to play, I'm often at my desk
         | trying to focus on my work and probably trying to understand
         | why this awful corporate group has cut another ticket about
         | outdated software to our team when I'm on call. So when kitty
         | jumps on the back of my chair, climbs onto my shoulder, and
         | then flops down on my keyboard with a 'come pet me' look, I
         | pick her up and toss kitty on the floor and tell her to leave
         | me alone.
         | 
         | There is no play time anymore.
        
           | siltpotato wrote:
           | My cat died recently and I didn't get that experience before
           | then. He always knew when I was ready, somehow.
        
         | sandworm101 wrote:
         | We are no longer purely instinctual animals unable to control
         | our drive towards reproduction. Oppertunity for sex is no
         | longer the controlling factor. Economic realities now dictates
         | when and where we choose to reproduce.
         | 
         | But after seeing footage of a highschool prom where, because
         | covid, the kids were only allowed to dance back-to-back, and
         | the health advice about having sex through walls, maybe we are
         | soon going to have more basic issues too.
        
           | Scandiravian wrote:
           | I think that's a good point. I probably should have
           | elaborated a bit, that I wasn't talking purely instictual
           | increase in sexual activity, but also an increase in
           | opportunity to discuss and plan having a baby
        
           | auganov wrote:
           | No idea what it really is but it would make sense for the
           | instinct to be quite the opposite to prevent inbreeding.
        
         | beaconstudios wrote:
         | > And probably check my privilege
         | 
         | That's a weird way of putting it. Not having a good model of
         | others' experience is a universal experience, and something
         | that should be treated as a reason to not make assumptions
         | about others, not a sign that you're privileged.
        
           | Scandiravian wrote:
           | > should be treated as a reason to not make assumptions about
           | others
           | 
           | That's what checking ones privilege is. I'm in a position
           | where my financial security, mental well-being, and future
           | prospects would make it a good time for me to start a family
           | if that was what I wanted. Same goes for many of my friends
           | and colleagues, who have in many cases done exactly that
           | 
           | I think this article shows that this security does not extend
           | beyond my social circle and that it's a privilege to have
           | such a level of security
        
             | beaconstudios wrote:
             | But my point is that such a misunderstanding of other
             | people is not a symptom of privilege, its a symptom of
             | being human. You probably don't know how billionaires as a
             | class (and generalising people by a demographic is
             | overgeneralising too) are experiencing covid either, but
             | that isn't a question of privilege.
             | 
             | I guess I just don't like the idea of taking a universal
             | human experience and casting it in terms of privilege.
             | You're not blinded by privilege, you're blinded by the lack
             | of generalisability of the human experience (or the lack of
             | omniscience).
        
               | pjc50 wrote:
               | "Privilege" is a terrible word to have become entrenched
               | for such a useful concept, because many people
               | instinctively get their backs up about being told they're
               | privileged when they don't have to face a challenge that
               | someone else faces.
               | 
               | And it's not just a question of generalization, but a
               | question of whose stories get told through the media.
               | Whose lifestyles make it into the "lifestyle" section.
        
               | beaconstudios wrote:
               | > Privilege" is a terrible word to have become entrenched
               | for such a useful concept, because many people
               | instinctively get their backs up about being told they're
               | privileged when they don't have to face a challenge that
               | someone else faces.
               | 
               | I think people get their backs up because privilege
               | checks as a concept are based largely on
               | stereotypes/generalisations and confrontational
               | behaviour, not empathic individual relating.
               | 
               | > And it's not just a question of generalization, but a
               | question of whose stories get told through the media.
               | Whose lifestyles make it into the "lifestyle" section
               | 
               | That's because the mainstream media is, by definition,
               | normative - so it caters to what are considered cultural
               | norms. The great thing about the Internet (and one of the
               | good things about the postmodern breakdown of the
               | metanarrative) is that while there are still dominant
               | cultural norms, they're not standards to live up to
               | anymore in the sense they might have been in the modern
               | era. We're fragmenting into subcultures of subcultures
               | where everybody can find a place where others share their
               | tastes or beliefs. I find the idea that competing
               | narratives have to share space in the mainstream media to
               | be a strangely modernist-apologetic approach for a
               | (progressive) movement that could do much better by
               | embracing the breakdown of the normative standard by
               | creating competing spaces.
        
               | pjc50 wrote:
               | > creating competing spaces.
               | 
               | Creating a competing space in which everyone agrees your
               | norms are true is completely inadequate if that's not the
               | space that policy gets made in. And within each country,
               | there is effectively only one of those.
               | 
               | It doesn't matter if you create a "competing space" in
               | which black lives have equal worth to white ones if the
               | police are operating in a very different one defined by
               | "killology". Nothing says "normative" like the barrel of
               | a gun.
               | 
               | Besides, when people _do_ create competing spaces they
               | get denounced as  "safe spaces" or "filter bubbles", even
               | if everyone in the space knows full well what goes on
               | outside the bubble.
        
               | beaconstudios wrote:
               | Man, progressivism is _so close_ to an ideology I could
               | get behind, but it 's like half a cup of postmodernism
               | and a teaspoon of systems theory. I'm a glass deep on
               | both.
               | 
               | As an ideology you have correctly identified an inequity
               | in treatment by law enforcement based on race, but the
               | lack of systems theory and postmodern understanding leads
               | you (as an ideology) to ascribe this to human
               | perpetrators who actually want this to happen. I'm sure
               | there are racist police out there, but systemic racism is
               | not caused by racist individuals; its caused by the
               | behaviour of systems (the justice system, systems around
               | poverty, long term effects of previous explicitly racist
               | policy). Until progressivism fully discards modernism and
               | embraces postmodernism and systems theory, I don't
               | believe it will be able to solve any of the problems it
               | has identified.
               | 
               | > Besides, when people do create competing spaces they
               | get denounced as "safe spaces" or "filter bubbles", even
               | if everyone in the space knows full well what goes on
               | outside the bubble.
               | 
               | For what it's worth, people criticise safe spaces for the
               | use of the term "safe" implying that opinions are
               | violence (which is just a bad formulation of the fact
               | that bad opinions can _lead_ to violence), and filter
               | bubbles lead to a lack of dialogue, where in my ideal
               | people can live freely in their bubble but agree to join
               | a dialogue with someone from another bubble with mutual
               | consent so we don 't all spiral into self referentiality
               | (ie hyper reality) through bias reinforcement.
        
               | solosoyokaze wrote:
               | > As an ideology you have correctly identified an
               | inequity in treatment by law enforcement based on race,
               | but the lack of systems theory and postmodern
               | understanding leads you (as an ideology) to ascribe this
               | to human perpetrators who actually want this to happen.
               | I'm sure there are racist police out there, but systemic
               | racism is not caused by racist individuals; its caused by
               | the behaviour of systems (the justice system, systems
               | around poverty, long term effects of previous explicitly
               | racist policy). Until progressivism fully discards
               | modernism and embraces postmodernism and systems theory,
               | I don't believe it will be able to solve any of the
               | problems it has identified.
               | 
               | Weren't all of those systems designed, implemented and
               | enforced by individuals? Racist policy makers, racist
               | voters... from a systems perspective, systemic racism is
               | the function of individual racism aggregated over time.
               | 
               | If anything, it seems modern and not post-modern to
               | extract racist individuals from systemic racism as they
               | are part of and the origination of the systems
               | themselves. It's treating humans as something outside of
               | the system, which is a view I'd align more with
               | modernism.
        
               | beaconstudios wrote:
               | > Weren't all of those systems designed, implemented and
               | enforced by individuals? Racist policy makers, racist
               | voters... from a systems perspective, systemic racism is
               | the function of individual racism aggregated over time.
               | 
               | No, that's not always the case. Take for instance, the
               | racially biased outcome that webcams more easily
               | recognise white than black faces. That probably happened
               | because the webcam was built and tested primarily by
               | white people. Is it an encoding of racist intent? No, but
               | the outcome was racially biased. The intervention,
               | instead of firing all the developers for being racist,
               | would be to simply include more people of different
               | ethnic backgrounds in testing.
               | 
               | The same can be true of more complex systems. A classic
               | not-related-to-inequality case of backfiring being the
               | Cobra effect
               | (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cobra_effect).
               | 
               | Obviously some factors in modern day racial inequality
               | are caused by racist individuals, but that does not make
               | a system of racial inequality - it makes bad people
               | causing hostile interactions on an individual scale.
               | 
               | There are clearly instances where policy is wilfully
               | racist - slavery, redlining, and so on. But even once the
               | system is gone, the repercussions continue until
               | corrective systems are put in place.
               | 
               | > If anything, it seems modern and not post-modern to
               | extract racist individuals from systemic racism as they
               | are part of and the origination of the systems
               | themselves. It's treating humans as something outside of
               | the system, which is a view I'd align more with
               | modernism.
               | 
               | A large piece of the modernist narrative is that we are
               | masters over reality - if I'm a governor and I want to
               | stop burglary, I implement a "no burglary, burglary will
               | be punished" rule and sit back, satisfied that I've done
               | all that I can. Modernism ignores complex causality,
               | which is the field of study of systems theory.
               | 
               | A systems-aware governor would be asking "why does the
               | burglary occur in the first place?" and seek the root
               | cause of the problem in order to redress the outcome. Of
               | course this tends to cross jurisdictions, but the idea
               | that we can draw jurisdictional distinctions and have the
               | justice person fix crime while the economy person makes
               | jobs is also a failure to act systemically and no real
               | systems change will occur in that setup.
               | 
               | > It's treating humans as something outside of the
               | system, which is a view I'd align more with modernism.
               | 
               | To this specifically I will point out that humans exist
               | inside overlapping systems, not apart from them. You are
               | a citizen, a family member, a human being, your job, a
               | member of your communities. We serve many functions
               | inside many systems, but changing systems happens from
               | within them, ie grassroots politics.
        
               | solosoyokaze wrote:
               | > There are clearly instances where policy is wilfully
               | racist - slavery, redlining, and so on. But even once the
               | system is gone, the repercussions continue until
               | corrective systems are put in place.
               | 
               | I'd argue this has far more impact than poorly trained
               | AI.
        
               | beaconstudios wrote:
               | obviously. The point being, the effects last even when
               | the racist policy makers aren't there any more and the
               | policies have been removed.
               | 
               | You can't just oust all the racists and expect things to
               | start getting better. It's a good start, but you're not
               | going to solve systemic racism that way. You have to look
               | at the system itself, not the people who exist within it.
        
               | solosoyokaze wrote:
               | The systems only exists because people continue to prop
               | them up though, which often does require explicit racist
               | intent. This is why I say that your point is more modern
               | than post-modern. It's placing humans external to the
               | systems they create and maintain.
               | 
               | I agree that systems can have a racist effect without the
               | participants realizing it. Progressivism is in large part
               | creating awareness of these systems so people can
               | actively realize their own role in perpetuating them. I
               | don't think we're actually disagreeing on much other than
               | degree of implicit vs explicit participation in systems.
        
               | yesenadam wrote:
               | "the mainstream media is, by definition, normative"
               | 
               | ELI5 please? or, you know, 10ish.
        
               | beaconstudios wrote:
               | sure thing - so the idea is that the mainstream media
               | exists to prop up the status quo. Not in the sense that
               | it was invented for that reason, but the incentives at
               | play force the media to essentially play to the
               | confirmation bias of their audience in order to be
               | competitive. Given that the media also pretends to
               | present an objective truth (the idea of objective truth
               | is also a very modernist ideal, but I don't want to go
               | too deep into the postmodern rabbit hole here), the
               | outcome is that the status quo is presented as the
               | objective ideal. Thus if you believe that narrative,
               | anything that isn't the status quo is treated comparably
               | as inferior.
        
               | nineplay wrote:
               | > prop up the status quo.
               | 
               | > play to the confirmation bias of their audience
               | 
               | I wonder how much overlap their is between the two. It
               | seems to me that lately, if anything, the media pushes
               | the narrative that the status quo is hopelessly corrupt
               | in order to confirm to their audiences conformation bias.
               | 
               | People on all sides of the political spectrum are eating
               | up stories about who's to blame, whether it's the
               | government or the billionaires or probably, more
               | typically, both with the assumption that whatever both
               | are doing is at the expense of the common man.
               | 
               | I'm not trying to imply that those stories are accurate
               | or inaccurate, just that they are the stories you see
               | rising to the top of reddit or FB or other social
               | platforms as proof of what the poster believes.
        
               | beaconstudios wrote:
               | It gets interesting when the status quo becomes
               | "everything is corrupt, including the status quo". See
               | also: selling of expensive anticapitalist clothing,
               | revolution as a brand, etc. Self referentiality and the
               | emptying of meaning from symbols is an important symptom
               | of postmodernism.
               | 
               | > People on all sides of the political spectrum are
               | eating up stories about who's to blame, whether it's the
               | government or the billionaires or probably, more
               | typically, both with the assumption that whatever both
               | are doing is at the expense of the common man.
               | 
               | I'm hoping that the dam breaks and systems theory and
               | postmodernism drive a new cultural revolution, but I'm
               | not holding my breath.
               | 
               | The truth is usually that bad things happen because of
               | unintended consequences of systems behaviour, not because
               | of conspiracy, but to look for an agency behind these
               | things is what people tend to do.
        
               | nineplay wrote:
               | I sometimes go through the thought exercise of making
               | myself responsible of decisions with wide-ranging
               | consequences.
               | 
               | I'm sitting here architecting a little project here and I
               | had plenty of bad ideas and assumptions. In my space,
               | that's fine, it's part of the design process.
               | 
               | If I was head of the CDC and trying to figure out how to
               | handle this unprecedented global pandemic I'd also make
               | plenty of mistakes and missteps. In this case, however,
               | mistakes and missteps mean criticism from all sides and
               | probably people dying.
               | 
               | It's a horrible responsibility and it's sure that rather
               | than people are going to call it encroaching socialism or
               | government incompetence or corruption.
        
               | beaconstudios wrote:
               | yes being a decisionmaker in charger of a large
               | organisation must be hard because you are given
               | responsibility for its failings, and you aren't directly
               | in control - you are in that you can make rules and
               | whatnot, but rules are really just guidelines and fall
               | apart when they make contact with reality.
               | 
               | But we all know this is true, but we still act the same
               | way and then get mad when the leader fails to perform
               | magic. It's 21st century scapegoating.
               | 
               | Sadly we do actually have tools for fixing big problems
               | but we seem to prefer scapegoating to actually doing
               | anything.
        
               | yesenadam wrote:
               | Thank you. :-) Although ..you seem to have used as many
               | jargony or cliche phrases in this paragraph as the
               | previous one, it doesn't seem at a significantly lower
               | level. "exists to prop up the status quo" .. "the
               | incentives at play" .. "play to the confirmation bias of
               | their audience" .. "the status quo is presented as the
               | objective ideal"
               | 
               | All these seem a bit murky, rather hand-wavy. Maybe it's
               | not possible, or would be too lengthy, to ELI10. I kind
               | of know what you mean, but I feel there are unexamined
               | assumptions buried in those murky phrases. Who can tell
               | if they're right or not? It's impossible to say exactly
               | what they mean. e.g. How would you go about finding out
               | if something actually "exists to prop up the status quo"
               | or not? (Sorry if this comment is a waste of time.)
        
               | beaconstudios wrote:
               | It's jargon-y because I'm using terminology you don't
               | regularly use. I talk like this all the time, not to try
               | to sound smart or academic (I really value clear
               | communication, some ideas are just hard to communicate
               | clearly) but because these are the terms I think in. I am
               | trying to translate from my terms into what I assume are
               | yours though (leaning on some cultural assumptions here),
               | so please bear with me.
               | 
               | > (Sorry if this comment is a waste of time.)
               | 
               | I find these exercises inherently valuable because I need
               | to learn to make these ideas understandable if I am to
               | try to help popularise them, which I would like to.
               | 
               | > How would you go about finding out if something
               | actually "exists to prop up the status quo" or not?
               | 
               | So I'm using a concept called teleology here. It's a way
               | of thinking about the purpose of a system in terms of its
               | outcome. The media "props up the status quo" in the same
               | way that Darwinian evolution "adapts species to their
               | environment". There's no conscious agency there; no one
               | is at the helm of evolution, making it do so (with
               | apologies to biblical literalists).
               | 
               | So how do you find out if the media props up the status
               | quo? The same way you find out if Darwinian evolution
               | adapts species to their environment: you observe it and
               | see if your hypothesis holds up over time. If the media's
               | reporting lines up with assumptions you would make from
               | your deepest beliefs, then either both the media and you
               | are perfect truth-uncoverers (which would be impressive
               | given epistemology, ie the study of how we can know
               | things, is still a hotly-debated topic 2000 years after
               | its creation), or the media is blowing smoke up your ass.
        
               | michaelt wrote:
               | When I have to explain something to people who don't know
               | all the specialist terms, I like to state things in terms
               | of concrete real-world examples.
               | 
               | After all, I can think of several concrete
               | interpretations of "propping up the status quo" that are
               | pretty different.
               | 
               | For example, perhaps you think the media's gossip
               | coverage props up the status quo by making already-famous
               | people more famous.
               | 
               | On the other hand, maybe you're arguing that media brands
               | are all owned by Jeff Bezos types, and they prop up the
               | status quo by denying airtime to eating the rich and
               | overthrowing capitalism.
               | 
               | Or you could argue that Fox News tells its viewers what
               | they want to hear and every other media outlet does the
               | same; and what all readers want is the status quo
               | reinforced.
               | 
               | Or perhaps you see propping up the status quo in the
               | media's attempts to be 'unbiased' in political reporting,
               | like when one party says X should be higher and they find
               | someone from the other party to say X should be lower.
               | 
               | Perhaps you're thinking of newspapers' comment sections,
               | where newspapers hire pundits with political opinions
               | that their readers will find right on.
               | 
               | Maybe you see the latest twitter storm is the current
               | status quo, and reporters who follow such things as
               | helpless to do anything but chase the latest trends to
               | get clicks.
               | 
               | Perhaps you see 'propping up the status quo' in the area
               | of broad, unquestioned ideas like love of country, the
               | flag, mom and apple pie.
               | 
               | Maybe you feel reporters are too credulous when listening
               | to politicians, and they're propping up the status quo
               | every time they take someone in government at their word,
               | or fail to point out when someone contradicts themselves.
               | 
               | Perhaps you see the media as a smokescreen, distracting
               | people with low-impact high-emotion issues like who can
               | use which toilet to distract people from The Real Issues.
               | 
               | It's hard for people to know if they agree with you, as
               | some of those interpretations are a lot more radical than
               | others.
        
               | beaconstudios wrote:
               | > When I have to explain something to people who don't
               | know all the specialist terms, I like to state things in
               | terms of concrete real-world examples.
               | 
               | Yeah I do tend to do that too, but I'm also wary that
               | concrete examples in this case tend to make people switch
               | off their minds and think with their ideologies. It's a
               | hard balance to strike - I usually try to concretise the
               | example with an analogy if the topic is messy. But the
               | failure to communicate successfully here is mine, so I'll
               | try to clarify.
               | 
               | What I mean is that the media props up the narrative of
               | its audience. A concrete example is the idea of cultural
               | norms. So to concretise the parent I was originally
               | replying to:
               | 
               | > And it's not just a question of generalization, but a
               | question of whose stories get told through the media.
               | Whose lifestyles make it into the "lifestyle" section.
               | 
               | becomes:
               | 
               | > the media promotes WASPy values, lifestyle sections
               | promote very "white" lifestyles
               | 
               | So my point was that yes, they do, because it sells,
               | because most of their audience is white and share those
               | cultural values - and that is because that is the biggest
               | audience segment available. Hence large WASP-cultural
               | population => media wants large audience => media targets
               | WASP-cultural audience => everywhere you look, WASP
               | cultural standards are promoted. The norm is reflected
               | and promoted by the media. Role models are mostly white
               | and represent WASP values.
               | 
               | But where in a modernist setting, these values are
               | treated as ideals to live up to (and thus that if you
               | have different norms, you'd better shape up), in a
               | postmodern context the idea of "objectively best"
               | cultural norms breaks down because people simply disperse
               | into their own groups with their own media that reflect
               | their own norms. Every groups creates an echo chamber
               | where there is no competing narrative because they shut
               | it out.
               | 
               | My criticism of progressivism is that it hasn't abandoned
               | the idea of a central narrative, and instead of creating
               | parallel media is mostly concerned with reforming the old
               | media to represent every cultural bloc, ie tokenism. Also
               | for confusing race with culture.
        
               | lcc wrote:
               | David Graeber made a really good argument for why
               | misunderstanding others _is_ exactly a symptom of
               | privilege. The whole article is worth reading (as is the
               | whole book I originally read it in,  "The Utopia of
               | Rules"), but here's the argument in a nutshell:
               | 
               | "Those born to working-class families invariably score
               | far better at tests of gauging others' feelings than
               | scions of the rich, or professional classes. In a way
               | it's hardly surprising. After all, this is what being
               | "powerful" is largely about: not having to pay a lot of
               | attention to what those around one are thinking and
               | feeling. The powerful employ others to do that for them."
               | https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2014/mar/26/car
               | ing...
        
               | beaconstudios wrote:
               | The short version of which is "the privileged are just
               | selfish", which is a class based stereotype, ie
               | dehumanising.
               | 
               | If someone starts off poor but becomes wealthy, do they
               | lose the ability to empathise? Or do those those lack
               | empathy seek the power to pursue selfish ends? I would
               | argue the latter makes more sense.
        
               | nitrogen wrote:
               | Could this be explained by class/cultural differences in
               | the manner of expressing feelings? Maybe poor people
               | would be just as bad at reading the feelings of rich
               | people, but each group can read well within the group.
        
               | Scandiravian wrote:
               | I agree that this type of misunderstanding is something
               | every human experiences. Those assumptions will however
               | impact my decisions - who I vote for, what charity I
               | donate to, how I approach other people in life, etc
               | 
               | My current situation is very safe and secure, so if I'm
               | not aware that this is a privilege that is only enjoyed
               | by a small subset of the population, my assumptions could
               | lead me to making decisions that negatively impact a
               | disproportionately large part of the population who do
               | not share that privilege
               | 
               | I want to leave things better than I found them and to me
               | this a helpful tool for doing that. Other people have
               | different goals and different tools, and that's great as
               | well
        
               | beaconstudios wrote:
               | Maybe rather than expanding your assumptions one checked
               | privilege at a time, just drop your assumptions
               | altogether? You simply can't know the experiences of
               | others; even direct communication only transfers a very
               | loose approximation of experience, and that's if both
               | sides are both communicating earnestly and are skilled
               | communicators. So if you can't know the experience of
               | just one person then you certainly can't group people by
               | their experience.
               | 
               | Generalisations are a poor substitute for empathy and
               | curiosity.
               | 
               | But that's all very abstract so to concretise my point:
               | 
               | > Those assumptions will however impact my decisions -
               | who I vote for, what charity I donate to, how I approach
               | other people in life, etc
               | 
               | I try to support people who don't play zero sum games,
               | who create lasting systemic changes. Some fraction of
               | most political movements are based on this, while other
               | parts are about tribalism - so try to back leaders who
               | want what's best for all.
               | 
               | To cast people in terms of privilege is to make moral
               | judgements on people based on pure circumstance.
               | 
               | And approach people as if you know nothing about them -
               | because you don't. To think you know something about
               | someone you don't know is literally the textbook
               | definition of prejudice.
        
               | HelloMcFly wrote:
               | The entire point is that people are inherently unaware of
               | many of assumptions or personal "theories of the world"
               | they are applying to their evaluations of people, places,
               | and things. Asking people to "drop their assumptions
               | altogether" is like asking people "just don't behavior
               | with any cognitive biases." You may as well punch the
               | ocean for all the good it will do. People, like the OP,
               | just will not be self-aware enough across contexts and
               | moments, especially when thinking and reacting in real-
               | time.
               | 
               | And I do not degree, nor do I really understand (which is
               | likely the issue) the idea that trying to become aware of
               | your own privileges that you take for granted others
               | don't have is somehow tied to a _moral_ judgment of
               | others.
               | 
               | EDIT: But I do think in support of your point that all of
               | us could do with more intentional mindfulness in how we
               | see and react to the world. I don't want my comment to be
               | a signal that efforts to have fewer pre-baked assumptions
               | or biases are futile. But saying "drop your assumptions"
               | is like telling someone upset to "just calm down."
        
               | beaconstudios wrote:
               | I totally agree that fully breaking down your own
               | assumptions is very, very hard, and basically an
               | impossible ideal. But the great thing about impossible
               | ideals is that they give you a goal to strive towards
               | where the closer you get, the better you get.
               | 
               | The end goal is replaced with the process of gradually
               | increasing mindful self-awareness of your biases and
               | generalisations.
               | 
               | > And I do not degree, nor do I really understand (which
               | is likely the issue) the idea that trying to become aware
               | of your own privileges that you take for granted others
               | don't have is somehow tied to a moral judgment of others.
               | 
               | My apologies, I'm still trying to formulate my thinking
               | in this area. I think it's because considering people
               | from the dichotomy of privilege/underprivilege leads to
               | empathy with the less privileged but not the more
               | privileged, which implies that people who are more
               | privileged are less deserving of empathy. Saying that one
               | person is more deserving of empathy than another is what
               | I mean by a moral judgement. And while people who are
               | less fortunate are in need of more support (inherently),
               | failure to empathise with the privileged (key here being
               | empathise, NOT sympathise) can lead to the bad things
               | associated with dehumanisation - scapegoating, us vs them
               | narratives, that sort of thing. I think this is a major
               | failing of the progressive movement that is so very close
               | to being a powerhouse for positive change. It's inches
               | away from being both postmodern and system-oriented, so
               | I'm liable to focus on its failings as a critic who wants
               | it to improve.
        
               | Scandiravian wrote:
               | I think it's naive to believe it's possible to drop
               | assumptions all together. Without assumptions this thread
               | wouldn't have happened
               | 
               | Taking the word "privilege" as an example, you have an
               | assumption about what I mean when I use it and that it
               | entails "moral judgement". These are not things I've
               | expressed in any of my posts
               | 
               | > try to back leaders who want what's best for all.
               | 
               | I'm confused how you can know what's best for all without
               | making assumptions. Could you elaborate?
        
               | beaconstudios wrote:
               | > I think it's naive to believe it's possible to drop
               | assumptions all together.
               | 
               | Dropping assumptions altogether isn't what I meant and is
               | trivially shown to be nonsense. We couldn't live our
               | lives if we didn't assume the sun would come up tomorrow.
               | 
               | What I mean is making unfounded assumptions about other
               | human beings and their experiences.
               | 
               | > Taking the word "privilege" as an example, you have an
               | assumption about what I mean when I use it and that it
               | entails "moral judgement". These are not things I've
               | expressed in any of my posts
               | 
               | Then I've made a mistake, by making an assumption that
               | was unfounded. I'm not claiming to be perfect at avoiding
               | unfounded assumptions about people or what they say, just
               | that it's a better ideal than growing out your set of
               | assumptions. After all, if you take people and keep
               | dividing them into groups based on shared
               | characteristics, take that to its terminal limit and
               | you're simply treating people as unique individuals.
               | 
               | [edit] having reflected further, I think there might be a
               | legitimate meaning behind my thinking of it as a moral
               | judgement, but I'm interested to see if you agree. It's
               | on my other comment here:
               | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=26343064
               | 
               | > I'm confused how you can know what's best for all
               | without making assumptions. Could you elaborate?
               | 
               | I don't know what's best for all, nor do I believe that
               | anyone else does - and I'm suspicious of anyone who
               | claims they know what is best for any other person. What
               | I try to do is look for people who navigate through
               | empathy. The way I see it, politics is predominantly
               | driven by finding the "bad people" to blame your voters'
               | problems on and make them stop doing the bad thing. In
               | reality people's behaviours are driven by structural
               | incentives, so I am more inclined to trust people who,
               | instead of pointing fingers at other humans and their
               | moral deficiencies, focus on changing the incentives. I
               | think a lot of green initiatives contain this kind of
               | systems approach, as an obvious candidate; but so do some
               | people of many different political movements. It's
               | basically an individual rather than an ideological thing,
               | hence why I say backing individual leaders.
        
               | Scandiravian wrote:
               | > just that it's a better ideal than growing out your set
               | of assumptions. After all, if you take people and keep
               | dividing them into groups based on shared
               | characteristics, take that to its terminal limit and
               | you're simply treating people as unique individuals.
               | 
               | I'm confused as to how becoming aware of how my
               | privilege, which has lead to wrong, sometimes harmful,
               | assumptions, would lead me to expand my list of
               | assumptions
               | 
               | Removing assumptions about others is exactly the goal of
               | checking ones privilege. The reason for privilege being a
               | focus point is that assumptions arising from social class
               | differences causes more harm in the world than any other
               | cognitive bias
               | 
               | When you write "dropping unfounded assumptions about
               | other humans and their experiences", you're describing
               | half of what "checking ones privilege" is about
               | 
               | The second part is to find out how and why those
               | privileges are not extended to everyone by contributing
               | to causes that promote and work towards a more fair and
               | equal access to those privileges regardless of social
               | class, race, socioeconomic status, sexual orientation,
               | etc
        
               | beaconstudios wrote:
               | > I'm confused as to how becoming aware of how my
               | privilege, which has lead to wrong, sometimes harmful,
               | assumptions, would lead me to expand my list of
               | assumptions
               | 
               | To be clear, I don't think privilege-checking causes more
               | harm than not-privilege-checking. But I think it causes
               | less good than the version of privilege-checking that is
               | applied to everyone regardless of demographic privilege,
               | which is to say, empathy.
               | 
               | By being choosy about who deserves empathy, rather than
               | your ideal being focused on general human equality you
               | propagate class divides but simply change which ones you
               | value. I think it's a mixup between empathy and sympathy.
               | You end up valuing the humanity of the disenfranchised
               | more than the privileged, which is dangerous. You can
               | think that people who are marginalised deserve better
               | without either thinking those who are privileged deserve
               | worse, or that they are active perpetrators of said
               | marginalisation. I'm not saying you necessarily make this
               | mistake yourself - I don't know your feelings on the
               | matter - but I see people go down this line of reasoning
               | all the time after acknowledging the concept of class
               | privilege and I just think we can do better than that.
        
       | t0bia_s wrote:
       | There are so many pregnant couples between our friends. We mostly
       | expect baby boom in our country. In news they say that we have
       | biggest mortality in world due to covid. Well... People are
       | probably not scared that much as agenda says.
        
         | jeffbee wrote:
         | Your observations of your own peer cohort are not informative.
         | People get older, their friends get older, they all have babies
         | at the same time. It appears to you like a baby boom but
         | demographically it isn't data.
         | 
         | We already have enough vital statistics data to know that 2020
         | has clobbered the birth rate in the US.
        
           | t0bia_s wrote:
           | I'm not from US. I just share my personal view.
        
       | NDizzle wrote:
       | Sorry for letting you down, everyone. Three is our limit!
        
         | mehphp wrote:
         | Three!? I got the.. ahem... boys taken care of immediately
         | after the second. haha
        
         | tibbydudeza wrote:
         | Most middle class homes in our suburbs only have 3 bedrooms so
         | that sort of caps kids to 2 or less.
         | 
         | While we have a public schooling system if you want you kid
         | into the "better" schools you need to pay extra for additional
         | teachers to reduce the classroom ratio and facilities.
        
           | frockington1 wrote:
           | When you factor in taxes, the math can change. Sometimes 12
           | years of private school is cheaper than municipal income and
           | property taxes
        
       | sadfev wrote:
       | What a wonderful "problem" to have. That means less UBI, more
       | advances in automation and more impulse to productivity.
       | 
       | No one wants to live in an overpopulated hellhole (aka India).
       | 
       | This should be lauded!
        
       | HenryKissinger wrote:
       | This is a good thing. The carrying capacity of the planet is
       | finite, and our large global population is largely responsible
       | for the destruction of the environment and climate change.
       | Further, the high standard of living of Americans places a
       | significant burden on the resources used to sustain this
       | lifestyle. 300k fewer Americans will have a much greater impact
       | on the environment than 300k fewer people of any other country.
       | 
       | There's also the fact that the global population has to decrease
       | at some point, a la Japan.
        
         | JoeAltmaier wrote:
         | Many places have less than replacement now. Spain is very much
         | less. Nearly every country on earth is headed asymptotically
         | toward that. We've just taken a jump ahead by several years on
         | that path.
        
         | chriskanan wrote:
         | I highly recommend David Attenborough's 2020 Netflix
         | documentary "A Life on Our Planet."
         | 
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/David_Attenborough:_A_Life_on_...
         | 
         | https://www.netflix.com/title/80216393
         | 
         | It is his "witness statement" on how he has personally observed
         | enormous environmental damage over his ~70 year career
         | documenting wildlife throughout the world.
         | 
         | He argues that the solution is to reduce our population growth
         | worldwide.
        
           | kmlx wrote:
           | on the other hand our planet has seen 5 mass extinction
           | events.
           | 
           | at the same time, 56 millions years ago the planet was
           | extremely hot: https://www.climate.gov/news-features/climate-
           | qa/whats-hotte...
           | 
           | and, to top it off, all we're doing is prolonging the
           | inevitable warming of the planet.
           | 
           | things aren't so clear as that documentary makes it
           | unfortunately.
        
             | nindalf wrote:
             | What has this got to do with anything?
             | 
             | The planet used to be hotter, agreed. But the species alive
             | then were completely different, adapted to living in those
             | conditions. The species alive now (including us!) can
             | thrive in current climatic conditions. A drastic change in
             | a short span of time will lead to a mass extinction.
             | 
             | Unless you think a mass extinction event is ok because it
             | happened millions of years before humans existed? It
             | happened to the dinosaurs so it's no big deal if it happens
             | to most living creatures alive today?
        
             | leesalminen wrote:
             | > things aren't so clear as that documentary makes it
             | unfortunately.
             | 
             | I've been wondering lately what happened to the documentary
             | genre. When was the turning point where they started
             | becoming political in nature, driving an ideology based off
             | FUD and pseudo-science? Or have they always been this way
             | and I'm just realizing it now?
        
               | adrianN wrote:
               | I suppose the turning point was when we stopped living in
               | a shared reality where scientific consensus was worth
               | something.
        
             | adrianN wrote:
             | There were no humans 56 millions years ago. I'd like the
             | planet to remain in a state that is good for humans for at
             | least a few more millennia.
        
               | kmlx wrote:
               | "a few more millennia" is basically nothing in terms of
               | the planet's history.
        
               | adrianN wrote:
               | The entirety of human civilization is basically nothing
               | in terms of the planet's history. That doesn't make it
               | less important to me though.
        
               | kmlx wrote:
               | to me it's an important aspect. try as we might, we'll
               | still be subject to planetary forces outside of our
               | control.
               | 
               | the planet is warming. we can delay it for a bit, but the
               | planet will continue to warm no matter what we do.
               | 
               | of course we should manage our impact on the planet. but
               | this will represent just a small delay in the grand
               | scheme of things. a few generations, maybe even a few
               | thousand years as you've put it.
               | 
               | but a multi generational effort to tackle either moving
               | to a different planet or something like living
               | underground will be needed.
               | 
               | unfortunately our extremely limited existence will make
               | these efforts extremely hard to tackle.
        
           | neogodless wrote:
           | It's really odd to me. 200 years ago, the population was
           | about one billion. Now it approaches eight billion. If the
           | trend really is lower over the next 100 years and it drops...
           | don't we think it would eventually reverse again? Why do we
           | want the population to be stable or always growing? Why would
           | it be bad for it to be going down for a while?
        
             | toomuchtodo wrote:
             | It would not reverse if woman have universal access to
             | contraceptives and are empowered and educated. It's a one
             | way ratchet.
             | 
             | https://ourworldindata.org/fertility-rate#what-explains-
             | the-...
        
               | neogodless wrote:
               | That's an assumption though, based on the current
               | conditions and population. You can't extrapolate that
               | same assumption to a future modernized world that has
               | returned to one or two billion humans. Perhaps in that
               | world, women happily choose to have more children than
               | they are having now, for a variety of unforeseen reasons.
               | Perhaps the world is just so _great_ for everyone that
               | women choose to bring additional children into the world,
               | knowing just how much joy that children will experience.
               | Perhaps children become a new popular hobby or some
               | entertainment scheme we would find abhorrent in today 's
               | world.
               | 
               | I don't believe there's anyway to know today that it's a
               | one way ratchet forever.
        
             | adrianN wrote:
             | Many parts of our economy assume perpetual growth. The
             | easiest way to ensure growth is to increase the number of
             | humans. Look at countries with shrinking birth rates for a
             | glimpse of the problems an aging population can cause.
        
               | jfk13 wrote:
               | Perpetual growth based on an ever-increasing population
               | is a recipe for eventual disaster.
               | 
               | The earth's resources are not infinite. We may not be
               | able to say precisely what its carrying capacity for
               | humans is (and the answer would depend to some extent on
               | the conditions in which the humans are prepared to live),
               | but I am entirely confident that there _is_ a limit.
        
               | rocgf wrote:
               | It definitely is, and believing anything else is
               | delusional.
               | 
               | With that said, would you like to be the politician to
               | stop the madness, if that's even possible? Things will
               | not change until we have a crisis.
        
             | rocgf wrote:
             | Because our economy is somewhat of a Ponzi scheme, in which
             | everything needs to keep growing forever. We are
             | perpetually borrowing from the future, with the assumption
             | that everything will be growing forever.
             | 
             | As people get older, they start getting more expensive. If
             | you don't have a larger generation coming from behind to
             | provide for that ever-increasing older generation, then the
             | costs have to be spread among fewer people.
        
         | rocgf wrote:
         | It is very hard to understand why your comment was downvoted
         | this badly.
         | 
         | I thought everyone understands that the planet is overpopulated
         | as it is and that bringing as many children into the world as
         | possible is not a net positive.
        
           | kmlx wrote:
           | it's not overpopulated.
           | 
           | this is a myth that has been going on since the 1970s:
           | 
           | https://www.vox.com/the-big-
           | idea/2017/12/12/16766872/overpop...
        
             | tremon wrote:
             | The earth is not overpopulated in the same sense that Covid
             | is just a flu: people argue their position with anecdata
             | instead of statistical trends.
        
             | Tepix wrote:
             | The author Lyman Stone writes mainly for IFS Institute for
             | Family Studies, which is moderately to strong biased to the
             | right according to
             | https://mediabiasfactcheck.com/institute-for-family-
             | studies/
             | 
             | He also writes for The Federalist, another biased
             | publication: https://mediabiasfactcheck.com/the-federalist/
             | 
             | If you look at the destruction of natural resources world-
             | wide, you don't have to be an expert to see that the
             | current resource usage is unsustainable. At the same time
             | the rich countries are unwilling to give up their status.
             | The trend is going in the wrong direction.
        
               | tryonenow wrote:
               | >which is moderately to strong biased to the right
               | according to
               | 
               | And? Are we really at point where even technical forums
               | like HN are going to discredit people simply for leaning
               | right? Please, keep that partisan ignorance on reddit.
        
             | toomuchtodo wrote:
             | 700 million people in the world face food scarcity at any
             | one time. The world is overpopulated and its resources
             | strained by the existing 7.4 billion humans (CO2 budget,
             | natural resources reserves, etc).
        
               | rimiform wrote:
               | More people than that are overweight. The total amount of
               | food might be enough, but simply ill-distributed.
        
               | inglor_cz wrote:
               | How many people are fat from having a calorie-rich but
               | nutrient-poor diet?
               | 
               | We may produce enough calories in sugar, but stuffing the
               | world with cheap junk food is not a solution. Total
               | amount isn't a good metrics; total quality and
               | availability would probably be better.
        
               | leesalminen wrote:
               | It seems like that's artificially constrained food supply
               | though. There's plenty of land to grow crops on the
               | planet. It's not like there's not enough seeds or dirt to
               | grow food.
        
               | kmlx wrote:
               | those are two unrelated ideas.
               | 
               | again, overpopulation is a myth. a convenient and lazy
               | one. but still a myth.
               | 
               | there are too many resources on the web explaining this.
        
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               | jnwatson wrote:
               | Practically speaking, we make enough food for all the
               | humans on this planet, and we'll likely be able to until
               | at least 10 billion people exist.
               | 
               | The reason that folks face food scarcity is a
               | distribution problem, not a production problem. We don't
               | do a good job at making sure people don't go hungry, even
               | in the US.
        
               | toomuchtodo wrote:
               | https://www.nationalgeographic.org/photo/biodiv-clearcut/
               | 
               | https://www.theguardian.com/environment/2019/sep/06/phosp
               | hat...
               | 
               | https://www.nationalgeographic.com/science/article/sea-
               | runni...
               | 
               | https://www.siwi.org/latest/the-worlds-natural-aquifers-
               | at-r...
               | 
               | https://www.nationalgeographic.com/science/article/ground
               | wat...
               | 
               | https://www.idtechex.com/en/research-article/the-meat-
               | indust...
               | 
               | https://www.pnas.org/content/117/36/21994
        
             | RankingMember wrote:
             | This is a super-anthropocentric perspective. If we could
             | talk to the non-human inhabitants of the planet, they'd
             | have much to say about the encroachment of humanity into
             | every corner of their world and its unremittingly negative
             | impact upon them.
        
             | rocgf wrote:
             | > it's not overpopulated.
             | 
             | I'm sorry, but this is just a ridiculous statement to make,
             | except maybe if our opinions on what overpopulation means
             | are vastly different.
        
           | JeremyBanks wrote:
           | My impression is that most people who talk about
           | overpopulation are basing it on old trends before population
           | growth rates dropped off so much.
        
             | adrianN wrote:
             | It is a fact that we're currently using a large number of
             | resources much faster than they replenish. That seems like
             | a good criterion for calling the planet overpopulated.
             | 
             | One can of course argue that _sufficient technology_ can
             | curb our resource consumption without reducing the number
             | of humans, but I find it a bit odd to use hypothetical
             | technology deployment as an argument against the planet
             | being beyond its sustainable carrying capacity today.
        
               | RankingMember wrote:
               | I think a lot of the disagreement in the comments here
               | comes down to different ideas wrt the definition of
               | overpopulation. When I talk about overpopulation, I talk
               | about a human population that reaches the point where
               | it's detrimental to quality of life for all beings on
               | earth. Sure, we can sustain population growth for a long
               | time by continuing to destroy more and more of our
               | natural resources and wantonly disregarding the existence
               | of all other life on this planet (and ultimately, our
               | own), but can anyone who cares about the whole of the
               | planet really look at that and consider it a net
               | positive? In my mind, an anthropocentric perspective is
               | as misguided as a purely misanthropic one, and is
               | certainly more evidently virulent.
        
         | Peepootoler wrote:
         | It's a good thing, but I expect politicians to just use this as
         | another excuse for more mass immigration. They've been using
         | this narrative for decades now after all.
        
       | tsjq wrote:
       | https://archive.is/jVKmU
        
       | jackschultz wrote:
       | There was an article I read in the Econonmist[0] (paywall, sorry)
       | a couple months ago, that talks about a paper [1] (read the
       | abstract) how raising the age that children are required to stay
       | in car seats, 8 yo in the US, causes birth rates to decline. The
       | reasoning is that cars have room for two, but not three, children
       | in car seats. Thus the cost of the third child includes upgrading
       | to a larger sized car or van. Very interesting unintended
       | consequence of a safety measure. Also this doesn't deal with the
       | pandemic results, but when I read about it I thought it was
       | interesting and that if this is a thread about birth rates,
       | others might want to read about it too.
       | 
       | [0] https://www.economist.com/science-and-
       | technology/2020/11/26/...
       | 
       | [1] https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=3665046
        
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