[HN Gopher] Why did I leave Google or, why did I stay so long?
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       Why did I leave Google or, why did I stay so long?
        
       Author : mrowland
       Score  : 573 points
       Date   : 2021-02-17 12:59 UTC (8 hours ago)
        
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       | seaman1921 wrote:
       | "Having trouble scheduling meetings because "it's the new Yoga
       | instructor lesson I cannot miss" or "I'm taking a personal day"
       | drove me crazy. The worst thing is that this was inline with the
       | policies and norms - I was the weirdo who wanted to push things
       | fast and expected that some level of personal sacrifice when
       | needed. I don't believe long hours are a badge of honor but I
       | also believe that we have to do whatever it takes to win, even if
       | its on a weekend."
       | 
       | ASSHOLE - Waze employees are probably saying good riddance.
        
       | screye wrote:
       | > It is practically impossible to fire someone for the basic
       | reason that you don't need this role any more or there is a
       | better person out there or just plain old - you are not doing a
       | great job
       | 
       | This is a rather dangerous thought process that reflects the
       | skewed view that some Americans have of employment: that anything
       | less than 'Great' should be considered fire-worthy. Employment
       | security is pushed to its exploitative limit. In such cases,
       | employees react commensurately. Employee and employers end up in
       | relationship that encourages churn & hopping jobs the second that
       | your value exceeds your compensation.
       | 
       | > fast moving and changing needs
       | 
       | I find it hard to believe that a behemoth like Google has that
       | many of these. In new product teams, sure. But, there is a shit
       | load of maintence / upkeep / feature-iteration work that mostly
       | requires sufficiently competent and experienced engineers. But,
       | not much more.
       | 
       | > traditional tech model of risk reward
       | 
       | I am not sure if this was ever true for big tech. The second a
       | company was is big enough to be in S&P 500, no low level IC is
       | ever going to have visible impact to the company's stock bottom
       | line.
       | 
       | The idea that a foot soldier's compensation was ever reflective
       | of their impact is and has always been a lie.
       | 
       | > That tolerance is gone at Google and "words" > "content" is the
       | new Silicon Valley mantra of political correctness. You can say
       | terrible things as long as your pronouns are correct or can say
       | super important things but use one wrong word and it's off to HR
       | for you
       | 
       | That's a shame. I was hoping that the media outburst on these
       | matters were that of a minority. But, it appears that this dogma
       | has taken over Google culture at large.
       | 
       | > When I was growing up in Tech in the '90's - there was no such
       | thing as work life balance. We loved what we did and wanted to
       | succeed so we worked like crazy to achieve great things. As I had
       | kids, I learned the importance of being at home for them and
       | that's how I understood Work Life balance - its a balance,
       | sometimes you need to work weekends and nights, sometimes you can
       | head out early or work from home
       | 
       | I am not sure I can take this serious. This is not what Work Life
       | balance means AT ALL. Maybe that's because I am one of the
       | younger folk.
       | 
       | > the signal to noise ratio is what wore me down. Soon, Lawyers >
       | Builders and the builders will need to go elsewhere to start new
       | companies.
       | 
       | This appears to be well recognized cycle for big companies in
       | every sector. I would characterize the Ballmer era of MSFT as a
       | somewhat similar time too.
       | 
       | Good points and a good read. But, if you want start up culture,
       | work at a startup...I guess.
        
         | Nimitz14 wrote:
         | At will employment is the correct method. Otherwise you end up
         | with stagnant economies with low pay like in Germany and
         | France.
        
       | mlthoughts2018 wrote:
       | > " It is practically impossible to fire someone for the basic
       | reason that you don't need this role any more or there is a
       | better person out there or just plain old - you are not doing a
       | great job. This neuters managers and does not lead to great
       | teams, driven by mission, pushing each other to do better."
       | 
       | Ugh, this refuted myth again?
       | 
       | The "insecure, bad leader who blames subordinates for their own
       | failures" meter is going off the charts with this one.
        
         | Traster wrote:
         | I would like to hear the refutation because I've witnessed this
         | myself in corporate environments. Corporate HR are difficult to
         | deal with, they're very process orientated and risk averse,
         | getting rid of someone reflects poorly on you and your
         | management structure basically doesn't care if there's 1
         | useless person in your team. You have to put a huge amount of
         | work in to document and justify why the person is not qualified
         | for the job and (in my country) you've got to make a reasonable
         | effort to find another role for them, and if you do start this
         | process with HR it creates documentation that means no one will
         | ever take them if they do want to transfer.
         | 
         | Start to end you're probably talking about ~6 months to get rid
         | of someone and over that time you need an intense process of
         | setting them targets and documenting failing to meet
         | expectations. The result is that most managers are more likely
         | to try and shuffle their bad engineers into other teams than to
         | actually give up a big chunk of their time doing this process.
         | Not to mention the fact it puts you in a very awkward
         | positioning having a working relationship with the person
         | you're getting rid of.
        
           | mlthoughts2018 wrote:
           | "Putting effort into helping low performers improve or find
           | better fitting roles" is called "leadership."
           | 
           | It's mind-blowing that you see a 6 month investment in just
           | doing basic leadership 101 as a massive bureaucratic hassle.
           | I think it's safe to say that the low performer you're
           | referring to is not actually the real problem.
        
       | jmull wrote:
       | Is that top 50 brands graphic real?
       | 
       | I recognize every brand on there and know at least a little bit
       | what their consumer-facing products are... except waze (until
       | now).
       | 
       | I realize it might just be me, but I wonder if this is some kind
       | of vanity graphic?
       | 
       | (I have been at a company that would periodically pay for brand
       | surveys, that would always tell us how great our brand was doing.
       | I don't think there was anything explicitly untoward going on,
       | but I think the consultants were finding a way to tell us what we
       | wanted to hear. I wonder if they same is going on here?)
        
       | dtoznayxvf wrote:
       | Many people simply can't hack startup culture. Corp 'culture'
       | created by worthless (damaging) HR dept isn't even that -- its
       | innovation poison. Perfect for hack and hangers on -- u know...
       | people who call themselves 'thought leaders'. Yoga has zero place
       | at a serious busines. It's not a daycare!
        
         | b3kart wrote:
         | > Yoga has zero place at a serious busines
         | 
         | It's "business", and why? Are you paying your (say) coders to
         | write code? Unlikely, otherwise you'd measure their
         | productivity in lines-of-code written, which I hope you realize
         | is a bad idea.
         | 
         | More likely you're paying your coders to solve problems. Is
         | sitting in a chair always the best way to solve problems/think?
         | Not necessarily. If physical activity (like yoga) is conducive
         | to better thinking/problem solving, and the company has the
         | resources (Google does) -- I don't see why not.
        
         | jimmaswell wrote:
         | > Yoga has zero place at a serious busines.
         | 
         | The free market seems to say it's worth the boost to employee
         | retention or PR or whatever.
        
       | _0o6v wrote:
       | "You need to be able to answer the "what have you done for our
       | users lately" question with "not much but I got promoted" and be
       | happy with that answer to be successful in Corp-Tech."
       | 
       | Good quote. Although you can extend the lawyers theme out to the
       | rest of the bureaucratic corp too.
        
         | kevingadd wrote:
         | I think like 1/3 of the people I knew there who got promotions
         | got it purely off of visibility and not actual customer impact.
         | In one case they literally dumped an unfinished API on Chrome
         | users before it was finished and then after collecting their
         | promotion, abandoned it to let other people clean up the mess.
         | In other cases schedules were compressed or important features
         | were cut so that we could "ship" in time for the next promo
         | round. So frustrating.
        
         | mirthflat83 wrote:
         | > at the end of every day, I always ask myself "what did I do
         | for our users today". This simple exercise helps keep
         | priorities straight. When I found myself avoiding this question
         | because I was embarrassed by the answer, I knew my time was up.
         | 
         | I agree. Good quote
        
         | amelius wrote:
         | The problem with that question: who are the real users?
        
           | ethbr0 wrote:
           | If the only user you can identify for the majority of your
           | day-to-day tasks is "my boss" or "my boss's boss", then
           | there's probably something wrong.
           | 
           | Everyone gets mandates from on high, but that shouldn't be
           | _all_ of one 's work.
        
           | Person5478 wrote:
           | If it's an app and the answer to that question isn't clearly
           | the people who download and install the app, your priorities
           | are fucked.
        
         | agumonkey wrote:
         | Parts if society will pressure you to stay on the ladder rather
         | than seeking meaning or utility.
        
         | treis wrote:
         | I think this guy missed the memo that Google bought Waze to put
         | them out to pasture. They were the only real competition to
         | Google Maps and were acquired to ensure Google Maps monopoly.
         | Waze shipping features and winning in the marketplace would be
         | a bad thing. I think a lot of his post stems from missing this.
        
           | asdfasgasdgasdg wrote:
           | Hard to align that perspective with his acknowledgement that
           | Waze was allowed to operate independently, and the fact that
           | Waze has been launching lots of new features for the last few
           | years.
        
             | treis wrote:
             | Straight from the horse's mouth:
             | 
             | >All of our growth at Waze post acquisition was from work
             | we did, not support from the mothership. Looking back, we
             | could have probably grown faster and much more efficiently
             | had we stayed independent.
             | 
             | He also details the constraints and additional burdens
             | imposed by corporate as well the overall lack of support.
        
               | asdfasgasdgasdg wrote:
               | In that section of the article, he was talking about
               | marketing and partnership limitations that are imposed by
               | being a part of a larger conglomerate. This has little to
               | do with feature development.
        
               | Arainach wrote:
               | That doesn't support any claims of "putting them out to
               | pasture". Is Microsoft "putting Github out to pasture" by
               | taking a hands off approach and letting them keep doing
               | their own thing?
        
               | treis wrote:
               | It's not about the hands off approach or letting them do
               | their own thing. It's about their long term goals.
               | Microsoft wants GitHub to be successful while Google
               | wanted Google Maps to succeed.
        
           | bagacrap wrote:
           | You must not be a Waze user.
        
       | dodobirdlord wrote:
       | > The amount of time and effort spent on Legal, Policy, Privacy -
       | on features that have not shipped to users yet, meant a
       | significant waste of resources and focus. After the acquisition,
       | we have an extremely long project that consumed many of our best
       | engineers to align our data retention policies and tools to
       | Google. I am not saying this is not important BUT this had zero
       | value to our users.
       | 
       | So what he _is_ saying is that he wouldn't have done it if he
       | wasn't forced to. Perhaps there's a lesson here about what sort
       | of organizations are trustworthy custodians of data and what sort
       | of organizations are not.
        
       | Shaddox wrote:
       | I'm aware that, as a founder, he's obviously very interested in
       | the success of his product. His mentality however carried over
       | the acquisition and past inertia. Giving him the benefit of the
       | doubt, I think his problem is that he's passionate.
       | 
       | And I don't mean the corporate lingo 'passionate', I mean the
       | actual passionate. I strongly advise any passionate people to not
       | seek to turn their passion into a job. Because it's a long
       | journey full of suffering.
       | 
       | Your bosses will drive you insane. Your clients will drive you
       | insane. Your coworkers will drive you especially mad. You will
       | feel pain every time you will be asked to cut corners. No one
       | will appreciate the finer details of your work. You will become
       | the office insufferable twat. Passed every promotion.
       | 
       | The sweet spot is somewhere between "I don't hate it" and "I kind
       | of like it". You can learn to like something if you do it long
       | enough.
        
         | izacus wrote:
         | Except that this guy IS a boss and he's been demanding that his
         | employees copy his "passion" against their contractual
         | benefits. Or wellbeing.
        
           | microtherion wrote:
           | And he is also demanding that the second those employees burn
           | out (possibly due to too much passion, and too little
           | attention paid to their wellbeing), he be allowed to put them
           | out to pasture.
        
         | ZephyrBlu wrote:
         | Well this is depressing to read, especially this bit: _" The
         | sweet spot is somewhere between "I don't hate it" and "I kind
         | of like it". You can learn to like something if you do it long
         | enough."_
         | 
         | It seems like a great way to waste 40 hours of your life every
         | week.
        
         | mattm wrote:
         | Completely agree. My motto for work is that you want to care
         | the right amount. It's hopefully obvious that caring too little
         | is bad. But caring too much can also be a bad thing.
        
       | whycombagator wrote:
       | > It is practically impossible to fire someone for the basic
       | reason that you don't need this role any more or there is a
       | better person out there or just plain old - you are not doing a
       | great job. This neuters managers and does not lead to great
       | teams, driven by mission, pushing each other to do better.
       | 
       | > I was the weirdo who wanted to push things fast and expected
       | that some level of personal sacrifice when needed. I don't
       | believe long hours are a badge of honor but I also believe that
       | we have to do whatever it takes to win, even if its on a weekend.
       | 
       | > So, why did I leave?
       | 
       | > I did not leave in a confrontational disagreement (which is
       | what anyone who knows me thought would happen, as I have a short
       | fuse...)
       | 
       | From Twitter:
       | 
       | > Noam Bardin, former Waze CEO (2009-21)
       | 
       | He's clearly a smart guy and I don't disagree with all his
       | points, but in general it's sad that there are CEOs/managers out
       | there with short fuses that want to fire old people. Also he
       | wants personal sacrifice & things delivered no matter what. I
       | understand the viewpoint but would likely despise it as an
       | employee.
        
         | harryposner wrote:
         | I didn't read it as firing old people, but rather firing people
         | for the plain old reason that they're not doing a good job.
        
         | aikinai wrote:
         | That sentence is very poorly written and I also read it wrong
         | the first time, but he's not advocating to fire old people.
         | He's saying the "plain old" reason for firing people, "you are
         | not doing a great job."
        
         | ativzzz wrote:
         | He didn't say he wanted to fire old people, "plain old - you
         | are not doing a great job" is just a colloquialism and can be
         | replaced with the word "standard reason" or something similar.
         | 
         | This is probably how he got in trouble for some of the HR
         | things he mentioned, where he says a word and people take it
         | like you did and report him.
        
         | mslack616 wrote:
         | I was thinking the exact same, obviously a very smart guy but
         | damn I don't really agree/align with most of what he expressed.
        
       | iandanforth wrote:
       | I think his derision of entitled ladder-climbing employees is
       | valid from the perspective of someone who sees "building
       | something valuable" as the point of employment.
       | 
       | There is a whole community however that sees wealth acquisition
       | as the point of employment. Even if it's "merely" joining the
       | ranks of the top 5% this is lauded as success by many. Lawyers,
       | doctors, consultants, stock traders, all the high paying
       | professions have people who subscribe to this philosophy. "I want
       | to provide the best life possible for my family" might be the
       | primary goal. Lower status/pay professions might describe this as
       | what a "job" is as opposed to a "career". Something you do for
       | money.
       | 
       | Many hackers want to both provide the best possible life for
       | their families _and_ participate in a grand adventure of changing
       | the world by creating something people want. I am infected with
       | this mentality. But this might be considered a delusion of
       | grandeur by many, or egotism.
       | 
       | It's hard to empathize with a group who doesn't share a drive you
       | see as essential for good character, but that lack of empathy is
       | what is drawing people's scorn here.
        
         | CodeMage wrote:
         | > _I think his derision of entitled ladder-climbing employees
         | is valid from the perspective of someone who sees "building
         | something valuable" as the point of employment._
         | 
         | Call me cynical and jaded, but I don't believe "building
         | something valuable" is the point of _employment_.
         | 
         | "Building something valuable" is the point of my _vocation_. I
         | used to believe that the employment and vocation should align.
         | Over the course of more than 20 years of my professional
         | career, the vast majority of the employers I 've had have done
         | their best to disabuse me of that notion.
         | 
         | The way I see it, the point of employment is to ensure you have
         | the money and the benefits you need to live comfortably. If
         | your employment and your vocation align, it's a nice bonus. If
         | they don't, do what you're passionate about in your free time.
         | 
         | > _Many hackers want to both provide the best possible life for
         | their families and participate in a grand adventure of changing
         | the world by creating something people want._
         | 
         | If you can get that, it's awesome. But if you can't, then you
         | have to choose. And I know what I'm choosing.
        
           | lelele wrote:
           | > I used to believe that the employment and vocation should
           | align.
           | 
           | > If your employment and your vocation align, it's a nice
           | bonus.
           | 
           | That is the meaning of "should", isn't it? And even if they
           | don't align 100%, you can always strive for a maximum.
        
         | freewilly1040 wrote:
         | It's not the drive that is unshared, it's the incentives. He
         | seems to vaguely understand that his employee's incentives at
         | Google are different from his own, and seems resent them for it
         | even though his pay is probably an order of magnitude higher
         | than theirs.
         | 
         | When he talks about perfect alignment between employees and
         | investors in the start up world, he is believing his own sales
         | pitch. In reality the same divide exists there too.
        
         | nonameiguess wrote:
         | This guy is deluded about the meaning of his product. I was a
         | Waze user. It saved me a few minutes here and there getting to
         | work, and that was worth the $0 it cost me. If he ever forced
         | an employee to miss even a single kid's soccer game to save me
         | two minutes getting to work, though, I no longer feel that is
         | worth it.
         | 
         | I spent most of the past five years working on projects for the
         | US geointelligence enterprise where if we failed to meet a
         | deadline, a satellite might not launch. Before that, I was in
         | the Army for 8 years fighting wars. I am perfectly willing to
         | make tremendous sacrifices when it is actually worth it, but it
         | is amazing to see how deluded Silicon Valley types are about
         | the actual importance of what they're doing. Not everything
         | changes the world. Most products are trifling conveniences,
         | nice to haves, and if you miss a deadline here or there, nobody
         | cares. Or at least they really shouldn't care.
        
         | dd36 wrote:
         | Same. I can live in a hut in Guatemala if I feel challenged and
         | am enjoying my work. Wealth is fun but so long as my family and
         | I are good, it's not a motivating factor. Solving problems is.
        
           | noisy_boy wrote:
           | "so long as my family and I are good" - wealth goes a long
           | way to ensure exactly that.
        
             | dd36 wrote:
             | Yes but there is a threshold. Good to me doesn't mean
             | everyone drives a Tesla. It means freedom to do what we
             | want and not be prisoners to what we own or want to own.
        
             | nicoburns wrote:
             | Sure, but if you're a software developer with a few years
             | experience then pretty much any job is going to cover that.
        
               | PNWChris wrote:
               | I generally agree with you here, the sun is shining and
               | we software engineers can make some hay! But...I have
               | words of caution. I grew up in Southeastern Michigan. My
               | dad is a Stanford grad mechanical engineer who worked for
               | a Big 3 auto manufacturer, my wife's parents work in
               | auto, and many of my friends families directly or
               | indirectly worked in automotive.
               | 
               | Everything about that seemed secure and stable until our
               | entire world got rekt in 2008. It took forever for the
               | average automotive worker and their family to recover
               | from that recession, and I've come out of it incredibly
               | cynical about employment and the US economic system. When
               | it matters most, DC will bail themselves and their
               | cronies out first, and will drag their feet and cry
               | deficits when it gets time to help you.
               | 
               | I care about doing great work, but my highest priority is
               | to "secure the bag" as the kids say and ensure a stable
               | life for myself and my family. I keep a big cash savings,
               | save and invest aggressively for retirement, and make no
               | assumptions about my employability in a hypothetical time
               | of crisis. I have a feeling a lot of mid-late-20s and
               | early 30s SWEs share my experience, it's no accident I
               | chose such a lucrative field (though I do love my work!).
               | 
               | Watch out for yourself, don't discount the possibility
               | that software eng is just living in a repeat of the
               | irrationally exuberant 1990s automotive industry.
               | 
               | Side note/PS: It's not all about money: you've got to be
               | politically active, invest in community, and advocate for
               | the kind of world you believe we should live in! Just
               | don't forget to secure yourself financially and make no
               | assumptions if you can afford not to, then you can
               | confidentially support yourself and others in times of
               | crisis.
        
               | Viliam1234 wrote:
               | There is also a risk of health problems. If at some
               | moment my spine decides it is no more acceptable for me
               | to spend so much time sitting by the computer, or my eyes
               | decide it is no more acceptable to spend so much time
               | looking at the screen... I won't be able to work as a
               | full-time software developer anymore.
               | 
               | I want to make sure that when that happens, my family
               | will be economically okay during the following years.
        
               | bradlys wrote:
               | Really varies on the company and where you live. Where I
               | am, unless you're at a select few companies, you'll
               | barely make ends meet or have to choose to live a
               | particularly subpar lifestyle for a professional.
        
               | nicoburns wrote:
               | Interesting. I thought software developers were paid
               | better than most other professions almost everywhere. Out
               | of interest, is this because you live somewhere with low
               | wages, or because you live somewhere with high living
               | costs?
        
               | DC1350 wrote:
               | Most good jobs are in places where it's not possible to
               | buy a house as a single engineer, which is a pretty basic
               | standard of life that even low income people expect all
               | over the country. If you don't optimize for money then
               | your options are to either give up and move away, or
               | accept poor living conditions like hour long commutes or
               | having roommates as a grown adult.
        
               | ska wrote:
               | Unless you set a really unusual bar for "subpar lifestyle
               | for a professional" this is a very atypical situation. If
               | you think of "professional" jobs only, developers
               | typically have better than average compensation for
               | around the least barrier to entry. The lack of need for
               | credentials tends to translate to significantly less debt
               | (more so US & maybe Canada specific) and earlier career
               | trajectory entry too.
               | 
               | This may be regional, but certainly seems to hold for US,
               | Canada, much of EU in my limited experience.
        
               | DC1350 wrote:
               | Most Canadian developers don't get paid enough to live in
               | the tech hub cities.
        
               | ska wrote:
               | And yet, they are tech hubs? How does this differ from
               | devs in Montana be California ?
               | 
               | More to the point, are other professions doing notably
               | better in those "tech hubs" relative to software
               | developers ?
               | 
               | In my experience, no, which suggests your comment really
               | boils down to "there are some high COL places where even
               | professional couples struggle to afford a house" no?
        
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           | kyawzazaw wrote:
           | The problems that I am passionate about are large at scale
           | and really require large amounts of capital and not within my
           | expertise.
           | 
           | So I need wealth (money).
        
           | Aeolun wrote:
           | Working in a corporation where I'm already adequately
           | challenged by the work, is there any other goal to strive for
           | except promotion and compensation increase?
           | 
           | Once you are at the level where your compensation covers
           | everything you want, it's more of a game to increase it than
           | necessity.
           | 
           | It also makes me feel better since a lot of people I don't
           | respect earn a lot more than I do, so increasing relative
           | compensation is righting something in the world :P
        
             | Arainach wrote:
             | >Once you are at the level where your compensation covers
             | everything you want, it's more of a game to increase it
             | than necessity.
             | 
             | This is also why many people choose to plateau at a certain
             | point. In the Google/Facebook scheme, that's often L5 -
             | I've talked with a number of employees who debate whether
             | they even want the responsibility that comes with an L6
             | promo and are quite convinced they wouldn't want L7+
             | 
             | Their mindset would probably be foreign to the author of
             | this article, but I can see it and it lines up with what
             | you said - at a certain point, if comp is high enough, I'd
             | prefer to be well paid AND have free time. I've worked with
             | some truly incredible L7+ engineers, but they correlate
             | strongly with people who never turn off and seemingly never
             | stop working, and that's simply not something that appeals
             | to me in life.
        
         | Raidion wrote:
         | Yea, this seems like a 'scissor' issue where you're going to
         | see the two ends being "I want a project where I care about it
         | and I want to make an impact and personal sacrifices are worth
         | it to make that impact" and "I will never truly be passionate
         | about this, this is an economic transaction where I exchange
         | life for money, and I'm going to try to get the best deal I
         | can."
         | 
         | If you're talking about building a team, having people with
         | similar goals is always important. This guy wants a team with
         | the "we're gonna change the world" view. You're not going to do
         | well on a team like that if you're just looking to maximize the
         | salary/effort ratio.
         | 
         | I think one of the reason people get annoyed at stuff like this
         | is that a lot of people been sold a "we're gonna change the
         | world" vision that turns out to just be some recruiter or
         | manager's excitement and end up parsing TPS reports for below
         | average salary. True change the world opportunities rarely come
         | via a recruiter or job board.
        
       | danans wrote:
       | I have to wonder who is more entitled, the person who expects to
       | do the 11AM yoga class, or the person who expects his employees'
       | weekend time?
       | 
       | To me, the yoga class example is the kind that people can see and
       | point judging fingers at (i.e. images of youthful people in yoga
       | clothes stretching in a nicely lit yoga studio).
       | 
       | Expecting your employees to work weekends to meet your vision
       | (especially if without a clear reward system for doing so) sounds
       | like a much more profound form of entitlement.
       | 
       | Disclosure: Long time Googler, and my experience with managers at
       | Google has rarely been like the author of the article. When it
       | has, I've voted with my feet and changed projects, or avoided
       | projects like that altogether.
        
       | Diederich wrote:
       | A quick story about "entitlement" at some of the most 'employee
       | benefit focused' tech companies. I haven't worked at Google, but
       | I've worked at two of the other so-called FAANG companies. The
       | soft benefits and perks were amazing, no doubt about it.
       | 
       | For a time, a certain (popular) subset of the free snacks became
       | unavailable. My immediate team and I made some jokes about it. A
       | week or so later, word got around that somebody had opened a
       | medium grade internal incident over the 'outage'. So we looked up
       | and sure enough, there it was, an actual filed incident, status
       | ongoing. Ok so that's fine; things were generally pretty 'loose'
       | at the company, so maybe that was a joke.
       | 
       | Nope; not only had many hundreds of people marked themselves as
       | impacted, but the discussion was quite serious.
       | 
       | Mixed in of course were many people making comments about how
       | silly/absurd/outrageous it was that OTHER PEOPLE were taking this
       | snack outage so seriously.
       | 
       | The whole thing turned into quite a kerfuffle. There were now
       | hundreds of comments under the incident, and the associated chat
       | channel was getting pretty heated.
       | 
       | Word came down from my area's management, unofficially, in a
       | friendly way, suggesting that we just stay clear of the whole
       | thing, which was sound advice in my opinion.
       | 
       | To be clear: the vast majority of the heat was about whether this
       | thing should be an incident at all, and the size of the 'sides'
       | were to my eye roughly even.
       | 
       | I'm not trying to make a statement here about entitlement one way
       | or another, but simply recounting a story from a few years ago as
       | I best recall it.
        
         | titanomachy wrote:
         | Lines up with my experience. For every person having an
         | entitled fit, there's two or three people pointing out how
         | silly the whole thing is.
        
           | ryandrake wrote:
           | I don't know if it's an entitled fit. Getting rid of a small
           | perk can sometimes just be that little thing that causes an
           | employee to briefly put his head up and start thinking about
           | why he's still working there. It's not something I'd quit
           | over, but maybe something that might remind me to check the
           | job boards this month rather than ignore them like usual.
           | Steve Blank wrote [1] about this.
           | 
           | 1: https://steveblank.com/2009/12/21/the-elves-leave-middle-
           | ear...
        
       | system16 wrote:
       | > The product is a tool to advance the employees career, not a
       | passion, mission or economic game changer.
       | 
       | Of course it is. With the exception of the founders and possibly
       | the first few, other employees rarely reap the benefits of
       | product success, and if they do it's a promotion. I.e. advancing
       | their career.
       | 
       | It's pretty naive and selfish to expect employees to sacrifice
       | and emotionally invest as much in a product as the founders since
       | they will not benefit nearly as much should it succeed.
        
       | known wrote:
       | Reminds me lack of self-actualization in
       | http://www.netmba.com/mgmt/ob/motivation/maslow/
        
       | choppaface wrote:
       | It's telling that the author now wants to hold a discussion on
       | Clubhouse to discuss the post. Lots of different takes on
       | Clubhouse, but today it's a much more "entitled" venue than
       | Twitter or a Reddit AMA. Holding the talk on Clubhouse shows how
       | much the author values filtering his audience. Whether the
       | blogpost says that or not.
        
       | chubot wrote:
       | _We had lunch in the cafeteria and a Googler online ahead of us
       | was overheard saying "What? Sushi again???" which became our
       | inside joke around entitlement_
       | 
       | Back in 2006 I referred a former co-worker to Google. He quit
       | after a year or so, and this was one of his complaints.
       | 
       | Our joke was "This foie gras is TERRIBLE. Just terrible".
       | 
       | Yes they literally served foie gras!
        
       | shadowgovt wrote:
       | Interesting article all around. I have to raise one minor quibble
       | with the author's points:
       | 
       | "No one buys technology, you buy a team and a way of doing
       | things."
       | 
       | If the author means in the sense of what a big company like
       | Google is purchasing, that's kind of correct (though there's no
       | guarantee the company sees it as in their best interest to keep
       | that team or way of doing things together).
       | 
       | If the author means in terms of _why_ a company like Google
       | purchases another company... That 's only one reason. Here's a
       | short list of additional reasons I'm aware of Google has bought a
       | company:
       | 
       | - To acquire the data (and agreements to share data) a company
       | has built up over the years
       | 
       | - To acquire a company's customers (big in the ad space;
       | traditional advertising is a trust network, and the easiest way
       | to get into the inner circle of big client service is to buy
       | someone who's already serving big clients)
       | 
       | - To remove a competitor from the field of companies in a space
       | 
       | - To acquire the team that built something Google wants to build
       | fast (this is a gamble; Google's in-house, NIH-ist software stack
       | is an absolute space alien, and teams that built something Google
       | wants will likely have to rebuild it atop that stack while
       | simultaneously limping along their existing tech stack that
       | already does the thing but that Google has immediately labeled
       | "DEPRECATED DO NOT EXPAND UNTRUSTED SOFTWARE WE DIDN'T BUILD THE
       | KERNEL THIS IS RUNNING ON").
       | 
       | As an owner thinking of selling to Google, I have no idea if you
       | know which of these they're thinking of your company as. But it's
       | worth noting that many of those reasons don't imply your company
       | will stick around as an independent coherent entity in Google (or
       | even that Google intends to hire all your employees).
        
       | tejohnso wrote:
       | > It is practically impossible to fire someone for the basic
       | reason that you don't need this role any more or there is a
       | better person
       | 
       | I found this surprising. I thought this was primarily a problem
       | in union / government positions.
        
         | sct202 wrote:
         | It's how it works at most big companies. There's a very big
         | impact to morale if people think they'll get sacked at the end
         | of a big project or if VP's best friend needs a job. The normal
         | way to onboard a new better person is to open up a new
         | position, like repurposing an open headcount from somewhere
         | else, and then shift responsibilities between the new person
         | and old person.
        
           | selimthegrim wrote:
           | EA apparently hasn't gotten this memo
        
         | Eridrus wrote:
         | It's both true and not.
         | 
         | It's certainly a lot harder to fire people than at a startup.
         | You need multiple review cycles with poor ratings, a
         | Performance Improvement Plan, more review cycles of bad
         | ratings, etc. But most people don't want to hang on through
         | that, so they leave since it just sucks to be on a team where
         | you are not valued. But you can definitely hang on for 18
         | months pretty easily with everyone unhappy with your work if
         | you want to.
         | 
         | So it's not really the same as government jobs where you really
         | can't be fired, but it's very different from a startup where
         | everything can be going fine, you lose a big customer and a
         | week later 10% of the company is gone to keep the burn rate
         | low.
        
         | izacus wrote:
         | Considering his other values, the question here might be if he
         | couldn't fire people for reasons the rest of the corporation
         | considers normal - like taking time off, not working on
         | weekends or similar.
         | 
         | For someone trying to do that, it might look like its
         | "impossible for fire someone".
        
       | rkagerer wrote:
       | Thanks for sharing this. It correlates with what I've
       | (subjectively) experienced from the outside, i.e. my user
       | experience across Google's products has steadily deteriorated
       | over the last decade.
       | 
       | This quote really hit home:
       | 
       |  _at the end of every day, I always ask myself "what did I do for
       | our users today". This simple exercise helps keep priorities
       | straight. When I found myself avoiding this question because I
       | was embarrassed by the answer, I knew my time was up._
        
       | tomerbd wrote:
       | I think it's ok to put additional effort when needed even
       | weekends, as long as when it's possible you get it back as days
       | off, no problem with it. Same for oncall responsibility, need to
       | get back days off after your shift, even if nothing happened due
       | to psychological tension. If you go to a company where you need
       | to do oncall shifts ask for an additional day off for each week
       | you are oncall during a typical year that's it.
        
       | strken wrote:
       | There's a pervasive belief by managers that involuntarily working
       | weekends for an extended period of time will increase rather than
       | decrease the total work done, and that engineering output can be
       | measured in "hours", that I find absolutely ridiculous.
       | 
       | If I think back over the times when I've been most productive,
       | I've had the kind of trusted flexibility that allows me to work
       | 14 hours one day to get a feature in before the big demo, but
       | also leave an hour early the next day to go catch up on all the
       | real life stuff I didn't do. Reading the article, I get the
       | impression the author is praising the 14 hour day while
       | condemning the leaving early, which is failing to see that
       | they're two sides of the same coin. I'm not going to work myself
       | to exhaustion unless my manager helps facilitate it.
        
         | BugWatch wrote:
         | I guess you probably heard that classic joke that the (project)
         | manager is the person who thinks that a baby can be produced
         | and delivered in a single month given nine women to do it.
        
           | not2b wrote:
           | It's from Frederick Brooks' book, "The Mythical Man-Month",
           | the earliest good book on management of software projects.
           | "The bearing of a child takes nine months, no matter how many
           | women are assigned."
        
       | pyb wrote:
       | A lot of interesting things here, but also the usual "billionaire
       | complaining about all these entitled employees" vibes.
        
         | geodel wrote:
         | Yea, billionaires complaining about millionaires is a
         | phenomenon in valley and vice versa too.
        
           | ccozan wrote:
           | Well, we wouldn't move forward if we don't complain, right?
        
         | kenneth wrote:
         | Not sure why everyone is assuming Noam is a billionaire. He
         | mentioned he had little equity, and from what I could find that
         | amounted to single-digit millions out of the acquisition's
         | billion-dollar price tag. Of course, compensation since then
         | and Google's rising market capitalization have surely increased
         | that, but I would bet it's still quite far off from the
         | billion, and even far off from the 9 digits.
         | 
         | Not that it matters -- his observations are just as valid
         | regardless of his net worth.
        
           | darkwizard42 wrote:
           | When people say "billionaire" in this line of comments they
           | are trying to point out the perceived hypocrisy that Noam is
           | likely VERY well off... even having a few million dollars can
           | set your family up for life. You are immediately in the top
           | 1% in the US which puts you even higher anywhere else in the
           | globe.
           | 
           | Noam could never pick up a job again and he will have likely
           | made more money than the average US worker will in their
           | lifetime.
           | 
           | His observation of scorn at employees who are well-
           | compensated NOT jumping at the opportunity to work weekends
           | to get something done for users is a sign of privilege (and
           | probably also a sign of his drive, which is commendable) and
           | maybe a little lack of empathy.
        
         | paulcole wrote:
         | The whole thing is one red flag after another, but the biggest
         | standout to me is the author being annoyed coworkers are taking
         | personal days.
         | 
         | That's what they're there for! When I don't want to work, I use
         | the benefit that lets me not work.
        
           | jpm_sd wrote:
           | Try managing a team where people take last minute personal
           | days all the time, without having to give advance notice or a
           | reason.
        
             | paulcole wrote:
             | I've got a chronic illness and I have personal days. I
             | don't plan when I can't work. Deal with it, don't give me
             | personal days, or fire me.
        
             | UncleMeat wrote:
             | Your job as a manager should be to ensure that things don't
             | fall apart if people get sick. If there is a critical
             | process managed by a single person then _you failed as a
             | manager_.
        
             | watwut wrote:
             | In every single work I was at people sometimes took a day
             | off next day. It is not like everyone would had infinite
             | amount of days off - it was never a massive problem.
             | 
             | Once in a while someone is missing. Typically, rest of team
             | moves on through their day normally.
        
             | astura wrote:
             | I mean, are the employees required to give advanced notice
             | if possible? Are absences expected to be explained? You
             | can't hold employees up to an expectation without telling
             | them that it's an expectation.
             | 
             | Are your deadlines so tight that _any_ time off, even
             | planned time off that corespondents to the employee 's
             | allotted vacation days would put you behind? If so then
             | it's an indication the issue is with the project being
             | understaffed or not staffed with the proper personnel, or
             | the deadlines being unrealistic.
             | 
             | Are you requiring Herculean effort and unpaid overtime
             | regularly? If so your employees are going to eventually
             | breakdown and need a day to recharge. Sidenote: I've
             | noticed some people are happy to work optional paid
             | overtime but unhappy to work mandatory unpaid overtime.
             | 
             | Are your employees regularly missing so many days to the
             | point they are regularly taking leave without pay and not
             | getting prior approval? That is an upper management/HR
             | issue.
        
             | [deleted]
        
             | compscistd wrote:
             | Unless they interfere with scheduled meetings, I can't see
             | why this would bug you as a manager. Pair programming,
             | counting hours for clients, or sprint planning are the only
             | other things that could possibly conflict with last minute
             | personal days. It doesn't really seem to bug the managers
             | at my organization if there are no calendar conflicts.
             | 
             | If there are calendar items that have to be rescheduled, I
             | think the onus is on them to find an alternative time
        
             | izacus wrote:
             | Tried, worked well, built a successful amazing product
             | that's still successful and amazing.
             | 
             | And all that with European PTO benefits across the team!
        
             | willcipriano wrote:
             | > Try managing a team where people take last minute
             | personal days all the time, without having to give advance
             | notice or a reason.
             | 
             | Try getting a job where they advertise a benefit, then
             | complain when you use it.
        
               | tester34 wrote:
               | Never heard of benefit called "taking free days last min
               | is no problem"
        
               | willcipriano wrote:
               | I have often heard personal days are to be used if say,
               | you can't get to work due to transportation issues or if
               | your child is home from school. If they aren't to be used
               | that way how do they differ from vacation days?
        
               | tester34 wrote:
               | Generally people don't have to use those last minute days
               | often and I don't think that's what OP meant.
               | 
               | It seems like people just were abusing it.
        
               | a_c_s wrote:
               | That's what "personal days" are for.
               | 
               | Vacation days are days that are long planned.
               | 
               | Sick days are last-minute days for when you are ill.
               | 
               | Personal days are last-minute days for when, say, a pipe
               | breaks in your apartment and you have to spend the day
               | dealing with the mess. Or any other non-medical reason
               | you have to be a person and not an employee for a day.
        
               | tester34 wrote:
               | Generally people don't have to use those last minute days
               | often and I don't think that's what OP meant.
               | 
               | It seems like people just were abusing it.
        
             | Voloskaya wrote:
             | If your team is hemorrhaging personal days left and right,
             | the issue is not with personal days, but with how your team
             | feel.
        
             | badlucklottery wrote:
             | If you're running deadlines so tight or your bench is so
             | shallow that any employee ducking out a day here and there
             | is causing big problems, you have a planning/staffing
             | problem.
             | 
             | The spontaneous employee vacation days are just making that
             | problem more obvious.
        
             | themarkn wrote:
             | I mean, there's an upper bound on how often that can happen
             | (how many personal days people have). Those days are
             | intended to be used at short notice. So if people using
             | them is a problem for the team, imo the team is not
             | correctly matched to the workload.
             | 
             | I do think we often undersize our teams by ignoring the
             | impact of vacation and personal time in taking on work ...
             | but that's not the fault of the people using the time they
             | are entitled to as part of their compensation.
        
               | waheoo wrote:
               | Sick days are compensation?
        
               | wokwokwok wrote:
               | I'm pretty sure it has nothing to do with leave days and
               | team sizes; those things are probably perfectly fine.
               | 
               | The issue is:
               | 
               | > I don't believe long hours are a badge of honor but I
               | also believe that we have to do whatever it takes to win,
               | even if its on a weekend.
               | 
               | but, also...
               | 
               | > Yes, there is a challenge of how to compensate when
               | there is no equity upside...
               | 
               | The complaint here is that people don't have 'skin in the
               | game', so they _dont care_ if the product succeeds,
               | because it makes to difference to them; so they 're
               | taking personal days in a way that _disrupts_ the
               | (probably totally arbitrary) timelines and plans they
               | have.
               | 
               | ...so I mean, it 's probably fair to say that if people
               | are taking leave in a way that is _disruptive_ , then
               | that's more of an indicator that the team culture is
               | totally screwed up than that there aren't enough people.
               | 
               | If one person wants to 'win' and everyone else a) doesn't
               | care, b) that person has no power to punish them if the
               | product doesn't 'win', c) there's no benefit to them
               | personally if it does 'win'... well, its never going to
               | work out for that one person in the long run.
        
             | ForHackernews wrote:
             | TBH, who cares? Waze is a traffic mapping thing, right?
             | 
             | It's not like they're managing a nuclear reactor or
             | staffing an ER.
        
             | dathos wrote:
             | If you treat people like resources I imagine its hard when
             | they dont function like you want them to, consider treating
             | them as humans (like you and me!) and you might just
             | understand that they need some unexpected time off now and
             | then.
        
         | macintux wrote:
         | The "I'm a passionate guy so I can't communicate without
         | cursing" part was entertaining.
        
           | higerordermap wrote:
           | Dignam from "the departed"
        
           | KDJohnBrown wrote:
           | I worked for a guy like that named Mike Homer. There were
           | Wired articles about "is Homer a jerk or just passionate?"
           | 
           | It turns out he actually had Mad Cow disease (really).
        
             | the-dude wrote:
             | Creutzfeld Jacobs. Please think of the cows.
        
           | dijit wrote:
           | Ugh, I'm this guy and I hate myself for it.
           | 
           | I've found that I really have to detach from the situation to
           | use less curse words, such as counting to 5 mentally before
           | saying _anything_.
           | 
           | Any other tips for similarly terrible people such as myself?
        
             | enriquto wrote:
             | Just keep cursing. It's not a big deal.
        
             | waheoo wrote:
             | Not giving a fuck.
        
             | leadpan wrote:
             | Detaching and reflecting is a good practice, especially
             | where swearing is a verbal crutch for yet-to-be-refined
             | thoughts. Give it a moment, dispassionately and accurately
             | frame the thought. In the end, what you say will be much
             | more direct, and far more useful to everybody involved.
             | 
             | Also consider swears like farts in a relationship. A well-
             | chosen place and time, dropping one is hilarious. All the
             | time though, you just stink.
        
             | atraac wrote:
             | I do have the same issue, but since I work in corporate, I
             | have to think about everything I say or write within
             | company. I still do curse a lot when communicating within
             | closest people in my team(which are mostly developers) and
             | noone minds. We even share the hate for the corporate
             | forced politeness together with some.
        
             | nfRfqX5n wrote:
             | I never cursed around my parents, even as I got older, so
             | it's easy for me to switch into that mode
        
             | ido wrote:
             | If you are serious about not being able to not curse if you
             | get excited you may be better off talking to a psychologist
             | than asking the internet for advice.
        
             | saalweachter wrote:
             | Have you tried using made-up or downgraded curse words?
             | Fracked, frelled, dren, sparks, slontz, gorram, jagweeds,
             | cheese&crackers, crackers&toast, etc?
             | 
             | It will probably make you feel silly, but you can meditate
             | on it being literally no sillier than using actual curse
             | words to pepper your ordinary speech.
        
         | jpm_sd wrote:
         | I'm no billionaire, but I am an Xoogler and his descriptions of
         | employee entitlement and misaligned incentives are spot on.
        
           | pyb wrote:
           | Nothing he is saying is wrong, but this is entitlement as a
           | VP : blaming everything on "corporate" rather than accepting
           | your responsibility as a leader to fix those problems.
        
             | [deleted]
        
             | arnon wrote:
             | He is discussing exactly that. That he failed to fix those
             | problems from within.
        
               | callmeal wrote:
               | With his attitude, it's clear why he failed to fix those
               | problems.
        
           | 4eor0 wrote:
           | Another billionaire talking about others having entitlement
           | issues.
           | 
           | Insert line about smelling their own.
           | 
           | This blog post is yet another confirmation for me that
           | similar to how we can have infinitely big small numbers, we
           | can have infinitely verbose rambles around small ideas.
        
           | Macha wrote:
           | I don't believe complaints about covid reductions to perks
           | are unique to tech or well paid jobs however. My father is a
           | slightly above minimum wage factory worker. There was plenty
           | of grumbling in there when they shut down the 50% subsidised
           | canteen with covid too.
        
             | typon wrote:
             | Someone earning high six figure salary needs their
             | subsidized food significantly less than someone earning
             | minimum wage.
        
               | izacus wrote:
               | Just because you're well compensated it doesn't mean you
               | shouldn't be fighting for your perks. Especially when you
               | work for a multibillion corpo which earns 1mil+ per
               | employee.
               | 
               | This "you shouldn't complain if you have it a bit better
               | than others" mindset is a breeding ground for all kinds
               | of corporate exploitation.
        
           | grumple wrote:
           | Why don't these employees take their high skills, work for
           | $30k/year for 100/hours per week, take no days off and like
           | it?
           | 
           | This guy is hopelessly out of touch. You work to live, not
           | the other way around.
           | 
           | As for misaligned incentives, this is how it is throughout
           | the corporate world - it's not exclusive to Google or other
           | big tech companies. As one of the guys who puts the team on
           | his back and works hard for the users, the reality is that
           | doing a good job does not benefit me in the slightest. My
           | executives care about the number of tickets and new features
           | we churn through. I don't get paid for retention; I don't get
           | paid more for writing good code; I don't get paid more if we
           | get new customers. The only way I get paid more is if I get
           | promoted. What's my motivation to work as hard as I do? My
           | only motivations should be getting promoted or getting a new
           | job.
           | 
           | The only reason any of us work for these companies is for
           | money and benefits. We don't care about your mission
           | statement; and neither do these executives, or they would
           | change the incentives. It's a purely business arrangement: we
           | agree to work X hours per week for Y dollars in total
           | compensation under Z conditions. It's in our interest to
           | reduce X, improve Y and Z. It's the employer's interest to do
           | the opposite - but the employer also cares about other
           | variables, such as retention, total revenue, total profit and
           | costs.
        
           | waheoo wrote:
           | I find the idea that the best paid people in the industry are
           | entitled to be a bit rich.
           | 
           | Clearly there is unmet demand for quality engineers or you
           | wouldn't be paying that much and allowing perks to dictate
           | the balance of life equation so royally.
           | 
           | Maybe we're not paid enough.
           | 
           | It's like you're welcome to pay less, watch the talent dry up
           | and move on.
           | 
           | I'm sure you'll be fine?
           | 
           | Doesn't Google still make roughly 150x what their employees
           | are paid?
        
             | pyb wrote:
             | Being an IC is very hard if you want to do the job well.
             | The risks are also underappreciated (massive burnout, etc).
             | It should be compensated fairly.
        
         | 2ion wrote:
         | Another chapter in the book of tales from the big tech ivory
         | tower where on some days the cake" wasn't ok but still pretty
         | good". Fair game in a personal blog, although barely
         | newsworthy.
        
       | joshgoldman wrote:
       | Stockholm syndrome maybe
        
       | scrose wrote:
       | If you're a new engineer reading this article: Startups are
       | talked about as if work-life balance doesn't or shouldn't exist.
       | It only doesn't exist if you (1) choose for that to be the case
       | or (2) Have a manager like this who holds things like firing you
       | if 'someone better comes along' over your head.
       | 
       | There are plenty of startups where you can put in your ~8 hours
       | and call it a day 99% of the time and the business will still be
       | thriving. Having seen the work some engineers put into cranking
       | out code nonstop, a bit less time coding and a bit more time
       | thinking would have likely done way more good for the code base
       | and the company anyway.
       | 
       | Managers who don't value your personal time and are willing to
       | fire you anytime 'someone better' comes along are toxic and
       | should be avoided.
        
         | wombat-man wrote:
         | Yeah, a lot of startups are under resourced in terms of people
         | though. Maybe nobody is threatening you, but as you settle into
         | the role you kind of realize that working a bit more could
         | actually be the difference success and failure.
         | 
         | I do agree that it's better if you're making that call on your
         | own. If management is trying to squeeze you like this by
         | threatening to fire you, it's usually an empty/foolish threat.
         | Hiring a proper replacement takes time.
        
           | scrose wrote:
           | > Yeah, a lot of startups are under resourced in terms of
           | people though. Maybe nobody is threatening you, but as you
           | settle into the role you kind of realize that working a bit
           | more could actually be the difference success and failure.
           | 
           | This is completely my opinion and shaped from my own
           | experience. But if you're working at an understaffed startup,
           | the bottleneck for 'success' is usually _not_ the engineering
           | team, and also almost definitely not correlated with butt-in-
           | seat time and amount of code contributed. Not saying that 's
           | what you were implying, but just want to clarify that's the
           | direction I'm coming from.
           | 
           | It's up to the business's leaders to determine what should be
           | prioritized with the resources they have and take risks on
           | building out those ideas accordingly. If you, as an engineer,
           | begin working nights and weekends to have the company
           | 'succeed', you're now communicating to management there's all
           | this untapped engineering capacity. You give the illusion
           | that more can consistently be done than is actually
           | sustainable and no one wins when the engineering team burns
           | out 6-12 months later. Well, maybe the company does somewhat
           | when you leave and forfeit all your stock options back to the
           | pool...
           | 
           | In my opinion, the biggest impact you can make as an engineer
           | at any level is by stepping away at the end of the day, doing
           | your own thing, and every now and then just think
           | holistically about what you're doing at work and the
           | direction the product you're working on is going in. Your
           | butt-in-seat time will become far more productive as a
           | result.
        
             | wombat-man wrote:
             | Yeah, I think you're probably right about that, but that's
             | not always easy to see at the time. Especially if it's a
             | little earlier in their career.
        
         | kyawzazaw wrote:
         | How do you check for and avoid (2) in new grad interview
         | stages? Especially when you are not assigned to a team when
         | applying
        
           | [deleted]
        
       | tomerbd wrote:
       | When you get a new job, check if you need to be OnCall if yes
       | then ask for 1 day off after every session of being OnCall to
       | recover, even if no event happened, the psychological burdon.
        
       | pratio wrote:
       | Life is different for me than it was 5 years ago, I have
       | colleagues with kids and some are expecting. You start to realize
       | how important it is to have a well rested team. When I say well-
       | rested, I don't mean just physically but also emotionally. People
       | wishing for a work-life balance aren't wrong and calling them
       | entitled is definitely wrong.
        
       | waheoo wrote:
       | > This was the moment I realized what had happened and that we
       | were part of a corporation
       | 
       | Took you a while to notice the hazing hats huh bud?
        
         | kevingadd wrote:
         | This is overstated. As a new hire, sure they put one on my desk
         | but there was 0 pressure to wear it. They didn't even pressure
         | me to attend the TGIF that week (I didn't)
        
       | ionwake wrote:
       | A man who feels he was both needed, and thinks the way forward is
       | to fire members of his team.
       | 
       | The trouble is, the problem is in my life I always see a person
       | getting fired and the solution remaining, the problem being a
       | process and an inability to both see and be able to resolve said
       | issue.
       | 
       | The horror here being both the problem remains and youve been
       | unethical to fire someone who did not deserve it. Which will only
       | create problems down the line.
       | 
       | I believe this is why I feel if I was ever in the position where
       | someone I hire is not right, I continue trying to make it work
       | until I have tried many different solutions. If it still fails, I
       | tell them they are great in they ways they were and explain I
       | want to part ways, and I make sure expectations are made.
       | 
       | My only experience has been with short contracts, but if I wanted
       | to part with someone who I was sure was a problem I would not
       | even consider trying to within a 2 year period, its just
       | unethical.
       | 
       | If I cant make it work within 2 years, well then we all tried. I
       | dont know if this is the right approach but I believe it would
       | both help in giving time to find and fixing the right problem,
       | the right way.
       | 
       | tldr; firing is not cool
        
       | callmeal wrote:
       | >minority that was offended by something (words and not content)
       | made it a pain
       | 
       | We're not mind readers: Words _are_ content.
       | 
       | And if there were people misunderstanding what he was saying,
       | then it's pretty clear that he was either deliberately provoking
       | in his speech or just clueless about the impact words have on
       | people who are not him.
        
         | jldugger wrote:
         | > And if there were people misunderstanding what he was saying,
         | then it's pretty clear that he was either deliberately
         | provoking in his speech or just clueless about the impact words
         | have on people who are not him.
         | 
         | I mean, I've heard stories of someone reported to HR for using
         | the word 'baller' (as in 'That new car is so baller, David.')
         | who clearly did not understand the meaning of the word and I
         | can only speculate as to why they thought it was a vulgarity.
         | 
         | That said we can always strive to communicate more clearly, and
         | someone publicly blogging about how they quit because of it
         | probably doesn't get the same benefit of the doubt.
        
           | system16 wrote:
           | > I began racking up my HR complaints
           | 
           | Doesn't sound like it was an isolated incident in his case.
        
       | caturopath wrote:
       | I agree with almost every point Noam makes, but I feel he could
       | have done a better job steelmanning the counterpoint.
       | 
       | There are upsides of having managers not have the level of
       | control over their reports' futures that they do at most
       | companies. (It accomplishes goals of reducing discrimination and
       | it makes people less vulnerable and thus boosts retention.)
       | 
       | There are reasons that the process overhead to accomplish
       | anything at Google is more than at a company like pre-acquisition
       | Waze. (It simply gets 100x more backlash when Google makes a
       | misstep on some of this stuff than any company, in part because
       | they have a responsibility as stewards of so many experiences and
       | so much data. There's also a culture of doing a really crappy job
       | in a first pass -- I think this might be fostered by the process
       | overhead, but it certainly makes removing it very dangerous.)
       | 
       | There are benefits to a comp model that doesn't actually reward
       | you for what you accomplish. (You can get some of your best
       | people to focus long-term.)
       | 
       | There are OBVIOUS benefits to a culture that values political
       | correctness. The author didn't make it clear that he wasn't just
       | being an asshole.
       | 
       | I think, on balance, that Google is unhealthy and could use some
       | more Noam in it, but I think it's not intuitive to everyone why
       | these things are done.
        
         | throwaway3699 wrote:
         | No, political correctness creates a stranglehold on ideas, the
         | very last thing those in SV need when they are regulating their
         | own monopolies of ideas online.
        
           | titanomachy wrote:
           | _Excessive_ political correctness does that. A good amount of
           | political correctness means that you never have to work for a
           | manager who openly respects you less because of your race or
           | gender.
        
             | yters wrote:
             | On the other hand, if one is not of the viewpoint labeled
             | as politically correct, then prepare to be ostracized in a
             | very passive aggressive way. Not that I mind much, but
             | passive aggressiveness is annoying. E.g. mentioning
             | anything that smacks of religion, or discussing guns, or
             | expressing skepticism that we modern people are the
             | smartest thing since sliced bread.
        
             | TeaDrunk wrote:
             | Or also you never have to work for a manager who openly
             | respects others more because of their race or gender. A
             | wide variety of things apply this way. A sane amount of
             | political correctness allows the meritocracy I want in a
             | workplace.
        
             | throwaway3699 wrote:
             | That's not political correctness. I'm talking about a
             | culture of fear around discussing topics like algorithmic
             | bias.
             | 
             | BTW: A manager who's secretly a racist is still a racist.
             | PC doesn't make this any better.
        
             | 0xbadcafebee wrote:
             | Worth noting that "political correctness" is a phrase
             | created to lampoon/insult the irrational political
             | groupthink of Communism, and was later converted into an
             | indictment of progressive liberal values.
             | 
             | Saying "some political correctness okay" is equivalent to
             | saying either "some irrational groupthink is okay", or
             | "some cultural marxism is okay". What's worse than this
             | general confusion, is then implying that it's the same
             | thing as caring about human rights or the right not to be
             | discriminated against. Thus it makes caring about human
             | rights something to be ridiculed. But only when you defend
             | the use of the term.
             | 
             | The term "political correctness" is only an insult.
             | Defending it at all is like defending some insult you're
             | given on a playground.                 "You're a poop
             | head!"       "Yeah, well... I *want* to be a poop head!"
             | 
             | https://www.intellectualtakeout.org/blog/historical-
             | origin-p...
        
               | caturopath wrote:
               | Etymology isn't definition.
               | 
               | "Politically correct" has enjoyed non-pejorative use for
               | decades.
        
               | thethethethe wrote:
               | I still think it is worth pointing out the origin of the
               | term. Whether the term is being used as pejorative or
               | not, its use still plays into a narrative manufactured by
               | the right to suppress and discredit leftist progress
        
           | caturopath wrote:
           | I doubt you actually think that political correctness is not
           | valuable; I bet you just mean that tech companies have swung
           | way too far in one direction in your view.
           | 
           | I bet you'd not be sympathetic to the blogger if the 'words'
           | mentioned were "nigger" or "wetback" without some special
           | context or if his analogy was a visceral description holding
           | down and raping the head of a department they had an issue
           | with. (I'm sure they weren't!) There's a balance here, and it
           | is silly not to be sensitive to the desire of companies and
           | folks at them to tiptoe around things, even if you think they
           | should be more open to crudeness.
        
       | buildbot wrote:
       | Echoing many others here, this is a perfect example of an
       | incredibly toxic manager. Notice how all things lead back to them
       | and their success, trying to guilt you into not working harder
       | for them. And if you don't? You get fired right away.
       | 
       | Also, this post completely destroyed my desire to use Waze, and
       | makes me question if they are really good stewards of our
       | location data given how much time was spent complaining about
       | policies.
        
       | ElectricMind wrote:
       | What is so special about "Why did I leave Google" posts? Any one
       | else sick of these overlords/ superhuman / apex people outcries?
        
         | tudelo wrote:
         | I assume you don't really believe getting a job at google
         | qualifies you as superhuman, but just want to reiterate,
         | getting a job at google does not make you superhuman and IMO
         | has a lot more to do with time and place than raw ability...
        
       | Pulcinella wrote:
       | > _It is practically impossible to fire someone for the basic
       | reason that you don 't need this role any more or there is a
       | better person out there or just plain old - you are not doing a
       | great job._
       | 
       | Wow I didn't think I would ever see anyone openly state in
       | writing that it is too hard to fire people for being old. (Age
       | discrimination against those 40 and older is against federal law.
       | It's also morally wrong. I would also personally argue that the
       | age cutoff should be a lot lower, but that is directly relevant
       | to this article).
       | 
       | Edit: ahh that makes sense. He likely meant it as "or just plain
       | ol' 'you're not doing a great job.' "
        
         | itsovermyhead wrote:
         | I think you're misinterpreting the sentence, I did too when I
         | first read it. He's using plain old, as a reference to normal
         | or regular.
         | 
         | Like, I just wore a plain old shirt to the concert. Meaning, I
         | just wore a regular shirt to the concert.
         | 
         | In this sentence, it means, "or just the regular reason of
         | 'you're not doing a great job'."
        
         | 48271e wrote:
         | You're misreading the sentence, he's not saying people should
         | be fired for being old. He's saying at Google you can not fire
         | someone for the "plain old reason" of "they're not doing a good
         | job".
         | 
         | Having worked at Google, it is extremely difficult to fire a
         | low performer. It takes about 6-12 months, many visits with HR,
         | and a ton of documentation. So there is a common practice of
         | managers trying to offload their low performers onto other
         | teams, as mentioned in the post.
        
       | jolux wrote:
       | Does anyone else take it as a red flag that somebody had lots of
       | HR complaints and is unwilling to say what, exactly, prompted
       | them? The implication is that they weren't warranted but without
       | knowing what he said it's kind of hard to say. If he was dropping
       | N-bombs left and right, I would find it hard to be sympathetic.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | monoideism wrote:
       | [removing my remark because I was likely wrong about his meaning]
        
         | high_derivative wrote:
         | Im fairly certain he means 'plain old not doing a great job'.
        
         | HiJon89 wrote:
         | I had to read that sentence a couple of times but I think it's
         | just poorly worded. He's not saying that the person is old,
         | he's saying that the reason for wanting to fire them "you are
         | not doing a great job", is a "plain old" reason
        
           | monoideism wrote:
           | I think you're right, but why put the dash in there? It made
           | it really hard to parse.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | igvadaimon wrote:
         | You read the comment wrong.
         | 
         | What he meant wasnt age.
         | 
         | "or just plain old [saying] 'you arent doing great job'"
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | JosephRedfern wrote:
         | I'm 99.9% sure OP the author didn't mean that people should be
         | fired for being old. I agree that the phrasing is open to
         | misinterpretation, but I read it as "plain-old not doing a
         | great job"
        
           | [deleted]
        
       | shmageggy wrote:
       | On top of the many other points raised in this thread, this bit
       | struck me as really odd
       | 
       | > _After the acquisition, we have an extremely long project that
       | consumed many of our best engineers to align our data retention
       | policies and tools to Google. I am not saying this is not
       | important BUT this had zero value to our users._
       | 
       | What? Respecting the privacy and info-rights of your users
       | provides zero value? BigCorp's data policies exist for a reason,
       | one important of which is _the law_. People (aka his users)
       | clearly valued these things enough to make them the law, so how
       | does complying with what they want provide zero value.
       | 
       | This perspective (along with the others pointed out in this
       | thread) betrays what I suspect is a disconnect between what the
       | author defines as "value" and what I and I hope most reasonable
       | people believe makes for a better world. If things like privacy,
       | the ability to take personal days, not having to listen to biased
       | or offensive speech from a superior, etc don't have value, then
       | what does? At a deeper level, it's sad that we have to fight
       | against this all the time. Somehow our society has come to so
       | highly reward these sorts of narrow-minded "value-creators"to the
       | detriment of everything that they don't consider "value".
        
       | nx7487 wrote:
       | People offended here are exactly the bubble of entitled morons in
       | Silicon Valley that this guy is talking about. I totally agree
       | with everything he said, companies where you have to work long
       | hours and don't receive lots of weird benefits like yoga and
       | sushi are the places I want to work. I would much prefer to have
       | my compensation include more equity in the company, and for my
       | performance to actually be related to the value provided to
       | customers and the fundamental value of the company.
        
         | lostdog wrote:
         | > Due to a bunch of mistakes early on, we did not own
         | substantial amounts of equity and had a pretty bad relationship
         | with some of our board members.
         | 
         | Or maybe your work-life balance could be worse AND your equity
         | stake could be meaningless.
        
         | arduinomancer wrote:
         | Why would you be surprised that people at a company where
         | working more doesn't increase the stock price don't want to
         | work more?
         | 
         | Do you want them to work more for no benefit?
        
         | richardwhiuk wrote:
         | Feel free. Just be aware, those aren't the most profitable
         | companies in the world, (i.e. FAANGM) and at some point, you
         | might want to work out why that is.
        
           | Nimitz14 wrote:
           | As if their work culture has anything to do with it! Thanks
           | for the laugh.
        
             | pb7 wrote:
             | Intelligent, skilled, and well-educated people don't want
             | to spend their lives being treated like garbage so they
             | seek out employment that provides an environment for a
             | healthy balanced life. As a result of attracting this
             | talent, these companies become and continue to be
             | successful. It's not that hard to understand.
        
               | Nimitz14 wrote:
               | You're clearly not very intelligent if you can't conceive
               | of people having a different attitude towards life than
               | yours. Basically every big shot entrepreneur ever had
               | opportunity to work at their equivalent of Google, and
               | yet they didn't.
        
         | pb7 wrote:
         | Go ahead, there are plenty of startups that will gladly own you
         | in exchange for some breadcrumb percentage of the company. The
         | rest of us have balanced lives to tend to.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | jrockway wrote:
       | He sounds kind of toxic and out of touch, and didn't really
       | mention why he stayed so long despite that being the title of the
       | article.
       | 
       | You know someone is Up To Something when they rant about HR
       | restricting their speech. It's weird to me that he's now a free
       | agent, rants about how people complained that "I used a four
       | letter word, my analogy was not PC, my language was not PG", and
       | yet doesn't indulge in his blog post. Maybe he learned something
       | about communicating effectively through discussions with HR?
       | 
       | He mentions not getting free distribution on Android phones. It
       | baffles me that he couldn't negotiate some sort of deal. I am
       | sure someone's end goal was to put all of Waze in Maps, and I
       | don't think anyone would have prevented him from doing that. I
       | feel like there was some emotional attachment to his baby that he
       | couldn't get over, and it hurt the distribution of the product.
       | You aren't acquired by a big tech company to be nurtured and grow
       | -- you're there to be assimilated, for better or for worse. I'm
       | surprised that he's surprised. (You can get bought by Google and
       | grow your brand, of course. Android is still called Android, not
       | Google Phone. Maybe Andy Rubin was just a better CEO? Though
       | quite a piece of human garbage, as I understand it.)
       | 
       | Finally, the rest of the rant is about how those dang employees
       | don't work hard enough and want too much money. I can see why
       | that irritates the CEO type -- they risked everything to get
       | where they are today. But, that's not the game the employees are
       | playing. They took a more conservative course and ended up at the
       | top of their field, they're there to make your ideas come to life
       | efficiently and effectively. If you want naive worker bees who
       | will work 80 hours a week for $20,000 a year, you got acquired by
       | the wrong company, plain and simple.
       | 
       | For someone who claims to be savvy, he seems to have a lot of
       | blind spots. I guess it's nice to get it all out into the open,
       | as a warning to people who might choose to work with him on his
       | next adventure.
        
         | guyzero wrote:
         | At the risk of being not politically correct myself, I think
         | there are significant cultural gaps between the west coast
         | American standard and people from Israel (Bardin is Isralei).
         | 
         | With the caveat that this is my experience only, Israelis are
         | more blunt, direct and often openly critical vs Americans,
         | especially Californians. They're often right and all the ones
         | I've worked with have been very smart, but the way a message is
         | communicated is sometimes more important than the message
         | itself.
         | 
         | I think that in this global age people think that the notion of
         | intercultural communication issues has gone away, but IMO it
         | still exists.
        
           | titanomachy wrote:
           | > at the risk of not being politically correct
           | 
           | I don't think it's so controversial to claim that different
           | cultures have different default communication styles.
           | 
           | Israelis aren't the only ones who tend to be more direct than
           | the average Californian. I usually appreciate it: corporate
           | speech tends to dance around the point a bit, and bluntness
           | saves time and clarifies where people stand. That said, I can
           | also understand how some people would be taken aback or
           | intimidated by excessive bluntness, especially from a
           | superior.
        
           | pnathan wrote:
           | East Coast and West Coast too. I've struggled there a fair
           | bit myself, having East Coast parents.
           | 
           | I would love to work with some Israelis or East Coasters
           | sometime. Be refreshing :)
        
           | guytv wrote:
           | Israeli here.
           | 
           | cultural gaps are very much alive and kicking
           | 
           | During my career I've worked with people around the world,
           | all in the Tech industry.
           | 
           | Israeli-Californian cultural gap is huge.
           | 
           | It is made worse by the fact that Israelis usually have a
           | good English level, some even have an okay accent - which
           | makes their US counterpart expect them to use the same
           | communication etiquette they are used to.
           | 
           | Californians will go out of their way to avoid any overt
           | conflict.
           | 
           | Israelis see conflict as a valid form of day to day
           | communications.
           | 
           | An Israeli can go out of a meeting thinking he was just being
           | told "yes", while he was given a glaring "no" delivered in
           | the All-American-speak.
        
             | TulliusCicero wrote:
             | This is interesting to me, because you hear the same thing
             | when discussing Japanese vs American culture, with the
             | Americans being the more direct ones in that comparison.
             | 
             | I wonder what happens when Israelis work with Japanese
             | people.
        
               | mgbmtl wrote:
               | Without getting too much into the politics of it, I think
               | a key factor is how polarized people are.
               | 
               | Another one is how litigious Americans are, or at least
               | are perceived to be.
               | 
               | (Quebec person here, we're not exactly known for our
               | table manners, but you'll always get a direct answer) ;-)
        
           | [deleted]
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | throwaway98797 wrote:
       | Most great things are built out of love.
       | 
       | There is no balance when you love.
        
       | phendrenad2 wrote:
       | My take-away from this is:
       | 
       | When you sell your startup to Big Tech, your employees have "made
       | it". They won't work so hard. They're set for life. That's the
       | reality. Move on. Especially don't begrudge them their success.
       | Start something new.
        
       | adsharma wrote:
       | So much discussion about about work life balance and toxic
       | managers, but not enough about exactly what you've accomplished
       | by working all these hours?
       | 
       | Did you write another object relational manager or another
       | functional programming is great, stop using C++ post?
       | 
       | I wish the conversation was more about how technology was moved
       | forward and how it benefited people using the products based on
       | that tech.
       | 
       | Some of this I think is caused by power imbalances in the
       | employee-employer relationship, prevailing attitudes in SV about
       | acceptable limits of speech and the inability to discuss this
       | freely at workplace due to the lack of trust. So it spills over
       | into anonymous HN and Blind.
        
       | jonahrd wrote:
       | Sorry to nitpick, but this "Top 50 Brands" graphic... Where does
       | this data come from? Where on earth is Coca-Cola??
        
       | didibus wrote:
       | Not going to lie, it just sounds like he failed to adapt and be a
       | good CEO in this new system. What did he say about needing to do
       | with people who can't adapt and don't have the skills needed at a
       | new stage of company growth? Fire them? Well him leaving might
       | give Waze a new life, if they find a CEO with more experience
       | working in bigger companies, who knows better how to navigate the
       | political landscape of a place like that.
       | 
       | Also, my personal issue is that, being part of Google, he seemed
       | to still only focus on the success of Waze, not on the success of
       | Google. And that's contradictory to his own statement of needing
       | to align with company success and investors success. I mean, even
       | his "does nothing for users" argument fails for me, when Waze was
       | acquired I dreamed of all its features just rolling up into
       | Google Maps and Waze going away, so that the best of Maps and
       | Waze would combine into a better Map app.
       | 
       | The only thing I can agree with, but honestly that's really not
       | new insight at this point, is promotion driven development.
       | Though I think he undermines a little how that favors new
       | ventures and moonshots over continued refinement of existing
       | products. Yes this is a common criticism of Google, but it's also
       | how Gmail, Maps, and a lot of the really big money maker success
       | of Google happened. It's not that the promotion process is "bad",
       | but it optimises for people to always try and grow brand new
       | products and enter new markets. Which arguably could be best for
       | Google investors.
        
       | Jabbles wrote:
       | _The Android app store treated us as a 3rd party, there was no
       | pre-installation option and no additional distribution. We did
       | have a lot more marketing dollars to spend but had to spend them
       | like any other company, except we were constrained in what we
       | could do and which 3rd parties we could work with due to
       | corporate policies. All of our growth at Waze post acquisition
       | was from work we did, not support from the mothership._
       | 
       | Look for this blogpost to be quoted by Google in one of their
       | antitrust defences.
        
       | einpoklum wrote:
       | > This counted on the fact that Google had promised us autonomy
       | to continue to act as Waze and we more or less believed them.
       | 
       | Read: The promise wasn't spelled out in the contract. And whoever
       | has experience in organizational politics knows that if it's not
       | put in writing, it effectively wasn't said.
       | 
       | > Distribution - we quickly learned, the hard way, that we could
       | get no distribution from Google. Any idea we had was quickly co-
       | opted by Google Maps.
       | 
       | I know that "hindsight is 20/20", but if you have certain
       | expectations from the purchase, why didn't you put the key items
       | in the contract? This is not some minor loophole that you missed.
       | 
       | ---------------
       | 
       | > It is practically impossible to fire someone for the basic
       | reason that you don't need this role any more
       | 
       | I very much doubt this. But:
       | 
       | > or there is a better person out there or just plain old. This
       | neuters managers
       | 
       | So, the guy basically wanted to totally lord over people and be
       | able to fire them essentially at will, or worse. Can't say that
       | I'm very sympathetic here.
       | 
       | ---------------
       | 
       | > The only control you have to increase your economic returns are
       | whether you get promoted since that drives your equity and salary
       | payments. ... this breaks the traditional tech model of risk
       | reward.
       | 
       | I thought you wanted people who were focused on the product and
       | what helps users, not on maximizing their already-quite-high
       | compensation?
       | 
       | ---------------
       | 
       | > I ... began wearing a corporate persona
       | 
       | Now, this I can very much identify with and commiserate. Of
       | course, for me, I need a corporate persona the moment I'm hired
       | anywhere, since unlike you, I'm not high-up in the hierarchy.
        
         | ido wrote:
         | So, the guy basically wanted to totally          lord over
         | people and be able to fire          them essentially at will,
         | or worse.          Can't say that I'm very sympathetic here.
         | 
         | I've spent some time working for Israeli tech companies (both
         | in Israel and remote) and this guy's attitude does not surprise
         | me at all.
        
         | Person5478 wrote:
         | > So, the guy basically wanted to totally lord over people and
         | be able to fire them essentially at will, or worse. Can't say
         | that I'm very sympathetic here.
         | 
         | That seems like an unfair interpretation to me.
         | 
         | The guy wants to be able to do what's best for the team. We've
         | all worked with that one guy who shouldn't be there, but is.
        
       | campl3r wrote:
       | This sounds like a manager I would love to work for. I think the
       | entitlement of these employees are eventually going to bring down
       | FANG
        
       | SamuelAdams wrote:
       | > These realities lead to extreme focus on promotion vs product
       | success --Me > We > Product/Users. I feel that the risk reward
       | model in Corp-Tech is broken due to ever rising stock prices and
       | lack of personal impact on your returns. Perhaps Corp-Tech should
       | move to employee share buy back where employees must sacrifice
       | some of their salary for equity or change equity to vest by a
       | product related metric to connect the teams performance with the
       | employee returns.
       | 
       | No. Fuck you, pay me, as the saying goes [1]. As a manager / VP,
       | it is your responsibility to set the product vision and goals.
       | Engineers can't build / sales can't sell a great product if
       | prospective clients are not interested, like putting an art
       | gallery online [2].
       | 
       | Additionally, having no personal stake in the product allows
       | developers / engineers to be more objective and professional.
       | This is a problem that most junior engineers will face at some
       | point, and most senior engineers will easily recognize. You put
       | so many hours and so much work into a new project that you start
       | to make it part of your identity. You can see this in a few
       | consumer products like the Xbox One launch, where Microsoft
       | employees received special Xboxs that had "I MADE THIS" branded
       | on the device [3].
       | 
       | But for most companies engineers and developers have very little
       | influence over the product's specifications - they're simply
       | asked to build a thing already specc'd to hell by PM's, VP's,
       | legal, ADA, and other groups within your organization. So if the
       | joint effort of all those groups results in the product failing
       | before it even hits a developers' desk, why should their
       | compensation be impacted?
       | 
       | The best way to tie development teams to the product is by
       | offering bonuses when the product succeeds. But for some odd
       | reason many companies don't want to do that.
       | 
       | [1]: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jVkLVRt6c1U
       | 
       | [2]: http://paulgraham.com/worked.html
       | 
       | [3]: https://www.neowin.net/news/heres-the-best-look-yet-at-
       | the-w...
        
       | raclage wrote:
       | > I began racking up my HR complaints. I used a four letter word,
       | my analogy was not PC, my language was not PG... I actually
       | stopped speaking at events where the majority appreciated what I
       | was saying but the minority that was offended by something (words
       | and not content) made it a pain. I began watching what I said,
       | what I discussed and began wearing a corporate persona (I was
       | still probably one of the less PC characters at Google but this
       | was my cleaned up act...).
       | 
       | At this point I can't help but be extremely skeptical of people
       | that talk about how they've been oppressed by PC censorship and
       | don't provide any examples as if it's not the case that there
       | aren't lots of people who say widely unacceptable things and use
       | this as a shield.
       | 
       | > Having trouble scheduling meetings because "it's the new Yoga
       | instructor lesson I cannot miss"
       | 
       | Yeah that's a pretty lame excuse.
       | 
       | > or "I'm taking a personal day" drove me crazy.
       | 
       | Are you kidding me? Days off is the evidence of poor commitment
       | to the job? That seems extremely telling about the author, not
       | the company.
        
       | asidiali wrote:
       | If your engineers are working on weekends, for normal projects
       | and deadlines, then you have a serious culture and process
       | problem.
       | 
       | On-call engineers for high risk projects and deployments are
       | another situation and not the norm.
       | 
       | The only leaders and teams I have seen push back on this, are the
       | ones who 1) have no kids or 2) have their entire social life
       | wrapped up with their work life. Why would they ever stop working
       | when they can just play video games together at the office and
       | say they are "working late"?
        
       | unnouinceput wrote:
       | Seeing the "top 50 brands picture" - is it bad or is it good
       | that, as freelancer, I have horror stories (and some of them are
       | multiple stories for same brand) for each and every one of them?
        
       | nfRfqX5n wrote:
       | > I began racking up my HR complaints
       | 
       | is this common at FAANG? i've never had anything close to an HR
       | complaint in 8 years
        
       | ChrisMarshallNY wrote:
       | I sincerely wish him luck. It was a blunt, forthright essay. Lots
       | of self-revelation, and he didn't sugarcoat anything. I don't
       | know the chap, but, from what I read, the essay seems to fit his
       | personality.
       | 
       | I might not enjoy working for him (but I could be wrong -I often
       | am), but I completely sympathize with him, and his essay gave me
       | a good window into the current SV mindset. I am glad to read his
       | empathy for folks that don't have it as good as he does, and I
       | suspect he has it pretty good. I don't encounter that kind of
       | awareness too often, and it's nice to hear, from a C-level. He
       | seems to have both feet planted firmly on the ground.
       | 
       | I worked for some fairly "stolid" corporations, for most of my
       | career. It was not a particularly enjoyable experience, the whole
       | time, but it taught me a lot of things about Integrity, Loyalty,
       | personal Honor and Consistency. I was never paid FAANG wages, but
       | was, nevertheless, able to build up enough of a "nest egg" to get
       | to the point where I don't need to work, if I don't want to. I'm
       | currently working with a 501(c)(3) startup, not making a dime,
       | and working harder than I ever have in my life.
       | 
       | And loving it. I currently feel as if it has all been worth it.
       | 
       | The thing that really bothers me, is that the entire tech
       | industry is now built around engineers remaining at a company for
       | 18 months. I was talking to a Facebook manager, some time ago,
       | and he was boasting about being at FB for longer than he had ever
       | worked anywhere.
       | 
       |  _" How long was that?"_ I asked.
       | 
       |  _" 27 months."_
       | 
       | I worked at my last company for 27 _years_. It has drawn a lot of
       | sneers from current SV denizens, but I 'm proud of my record. I
       | went places that people have no concept of. I worked at a level
       | of trust, for a conservative, classic Japanese corporation, that
       | few Americans ever experience, and my tenacity and Integrity had
       | a lot to do with it.
       | 
       | When high turnover is endemic, it has a _huge_ impact on
       | architecture, corporate culture, productivity, hiring, and, at
       | the end of it all, product quality.
       | 
       | I tend to design fairly large, heterodox, infrastructure systems.
       | They take months and years to develop and refine, and I expect
       | them to last for years. I have written software architectures
       | that are still in use after 25 years (albeit greatly changed).
       | 
       | In my experience, "letting go" is vital. I spent ten years
       | developing and refining a project that I turned over to a new
       | team, about three years ago, and walked away completely, so they
       | don't have the "Grandpa can't let go" thing happening. They have
       | done very, very well. My being there would have destroyed a
       | decade's worth of work. Instead, they built out my infrastructure
       | into something amazing.
       | 
       | Walking away also gave me the luxury of working on new stuff. I'm
       | in the middle of refactoring a server system that I wrote two
       | years ago. It lay fallow until the project I'm working on now,
       | and it has aged very, very well. I look forward to, one day,
       | turning it all over to someone else, and walking away to new
       | horizons.
        
       | autoditype wrote:
       | > When COVID hit and we moved to work from home - a huge amount
       | of complaints began around why cant employees expense food since
       | they are not in the office. While most "real" people were worried
       | about keeping their jobs or finding one, many employees were
       | complaining about expensing their food on top of their
       | salaries/stocks/bonuses. This entitlement continued everywhere -
       | while Google is BY FAR the most employee centric company giving
       | tremendous hard and soft value to its employees, they keep
       | creating imaginary problems to complain about, instead of
       | appreciating the hand they have been dealt.
       | 
       | That level of entitlement is incredible. I feel very fortunate to
       | make a well above average salary, and I keep reminding myself
       | that it's unusual, and that I should increase my savings for when
       | the faucet is eventually turned off
        
         | notsureaboutpg wrote:
         | As much as I felt this guy had some unreasonable thoughts (how
         | hard is it to not swear at work?), This really hit me. Many of
         | tech employees are entitled, same with University students. I
         | don't know why people are like this but it always rubs me
         | wrong.
        
       | navbaker wrote:
       | This mention of "yoga at 11am" seems to be rubbing some folks the
       | wrong way, but what if it was "lunch for an hour at 11am"? In all
       | the jobs I've held (including now) where working hours are not
       | dictated by external forces, such as customer service
       | expectations, our teams make sure we get in our hours and are
       | more or less available during a reasonable window, say 8am-5/6pm.
       | It is pretty much understood that there will be 45-60 minutes of
       | (unpaid/unbillable) downtime, which most people will use for
       | lunch, but others will use for a workout, then eat lunch at their
       | desk. I've never seen anyone actually work less hours because
       | they went to yoga or for a run, they just use the time they would
       | ordinarily be using for lunch and still hit their full workday,
       | while gaining the benefit of de-stressing mid-day.
        
         | TulliusCicero wrote:
         | Google has a pretty chill work culture where I think a lot of
         | people work < 40 hour weeks.
         | 
         | Most don't advertise this widely, for obvious reasons, but you
         | see it mentioned occasionally in places like HN, or tech-
         | focused subreddits.
        
         | stonemetal12 wrote:
         | Yeah, I don't get the unhealthy interest in other people's
         | private life. As long as your job is to get work done, and not
         | cover duty station at time xyz, complaining about when people
         | choose to take a break is really weird and invasive.
         | 
         | In my experience people who are permitted flexible work
         | schedules and take advantage of them tend to be the better
         | employees.
        
           | throwaway_dcnt wrote:
           | He was complaining about his inability to schedule meetings
           | because of the 11:00am spot. Even in the most flexible of
           | environments, lunch is usually off-limits, 1:00pm is tricky
           | because people can be late due to lunch and this 11:00am yoga
           | essentially means a nearly 3 hour block with difficult
           | scheduling constraints. I don't agree with a lot he has to
           | say but this one kind of makes sense. Routing un-availbility
           | at 9:00am, 11:00am and 3:00pm are, well in my opinion at
           | least slightly uncool (one off's are fine ofcourse).
        
         | guytv wrote:
         | And I had fellow googles spend all their day between
         | PlayStation, gym, restaurants, cafe's, hairdresser etc...
         | without getting any work done.
        
           | raverbashing wrote:
           | The actual problem is not them doing those things, the
           | problem is them not doing their job
           | 
           | That's where the demands should lie, not on "bottoms on
           | seats"
        
           | navbaker wrote:
           | Wow, that's insane! My point of view is working at an east
           | coast large research lab, that behavior here would for sure
           | be noticed quickly and eliminated!
        
       | 627467 wrote:
       | As seen from many comments this posts would be polemic to say the
       | least.
       | 
       | Obviously the author is from a different time where tech/SV
       | abundance did not exist and had to be created through huge
       | personal sacrifice. He speaks as such person and is judged as any
       | "nasty uncle on dinner table".
       | 
       | But in my view, there's certainly truth in the entitlement he
       | describes. I'm not saying that WBL (as represented as yoga at
       | 11AM) is not alright to aim for. But it's incompatible with many
       | endeavours. And it's certainly incompatible with competitive/low-
       | growth industries, markets and jobs.
       | 
       | The tech sector (still) enjoys high growth and large demand for
       | HR, that's why such entitlement exists. But as growth plateaus I
       | think entitled people will find it hard to find certain WLB perks
        
         | pyb wrote:
         | Noam is not one of the Waze founders.
        
       | tinyhouse wrote:
       | I work in big tech. Not Google. This is one of the best blog
       | posts I have read about big tech. I agree with most things. The
       | most important one is the wrong optimization for promotion.
       | People would happily push something complicated and unnecessary
       | to production just because it can help them to get promoted later
       | on (by showing fake impact). The other thing I strongly agree
       | with is working on things that don't add value to users but
       | rather to follow company guidelines. But it's hard to avoid this
       | one. Finally, moving very slowly due to complex systems and so
       | many teams that need to get involved in making change. In the end
       | most employees end up exactly as described in the post - staying
       | because of the amazing salary and benefits, contributing less and
       | less as time goes by.
       | 
       | Regarding firing people. From my experience it's doable but takes
       | a long time. That's why offloading an employee to another team is
       | usually easier.
       | 
       | With all that being said, I still think for most people who work
       | for someone else, big tech is better than startups once you're
       | experienced. If you don't work for yourself than optimizing for
       | money is a reasonable thing to do.
        
         | haswell wrote:
         | > _The other thing I strongly agree with is working on things
         | that don 't add value to users but rather to follow company
         | guidelines._
         | 
         | At face value, what you're agreeing with makes sense, and I'm a
         | strong believer in questioning / re-affirming the "why" before
         | taking on big projects.
         | 
         | But while the premise seems correct, his one example does not.
         | FTA:
         | 
         | > _we have an extremely long project that consumed many of our
         | best engineers to align our data retention policies and tools
         | to Google. I am not saying this is not important BUT this had
         | zero value to our users._
         | 
         | This is a short sighted take, and ignores some of the reasons
         | that such initiatives are often necessary (and I'd even
         | argue...valuable). Two off the top of my head:
         | 
         | - Alignment with data retention policies = meet my expectations
         | as a user about how Waze handles my data. I realize I'm in the
         | minority by caring about this.
         | 
         | - Integration with standard tooling = easier for existing teams
         | to contribute/maintain, less overhead managing disparate
         | tooling, eventual gains in feature velocity which do equate to
         | customer value.
         | 
         | So yeah, question the rationale for doing something, but look
         | past your own immediate goals when evaluating the value of this
         | kind of initiative.
        
         | UncleMeat wrote:
         | > The most important one is the wrong optimization for
         | promotion.
         | 
         | As a CEO, it is literally his job to ensure that promotions are
         | aligned with company goals. At Google, VPs have final say on
         | every single promotion. If there were people who were getting
         | promoted under his command for stupid reasons, he was literally
         | the person who could stop it.
        
           | drivebycomment wrote:
           | 100x this.
           | 
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Principal%E2%80%93agent_proble.
           | ..
           | 
           | is a fundamental problem that can not go away, ever, and
           | managing this _is_ his job as a CEO  / executive.
           | 
           | So this post is essentially an unwitting confession that he
           | didn't understand what his job was, and how he failed at
           | that.
        
         | foobarian wrote:
         | > That's why offloading an employee to another team is usually
         | easier.
         | 
         | At one point I noticed that our team kept getting these
         | incompetent engineers transferred from other parts of the
         | company. At first I was puzzled, especially because my director
         | was completely unphased by this. Then I realized he kept asking
         | a lot of questions in our 1-1s about how X is doing, what X
         | could do to improve, etc. And finally after a few months X
         | would be gone. I think this guy got a reputation as a "cleaner"
         | so our team would get the garbage to get taken out. I always
         | wondered if/what kind of special favors he got in exchange for
         | doing this from his peers...
        
       | iliekcomputers wrote:
       | >After the acquisition, we have an extremely long project that
       | consumed many of our best engineers to align our data retention
       | policies and tools to Google. I am not saying this is not
       | important BUT this had zero value to our users.
       | 
       | If it prevented a data leak or a security incident, I'd argue
       | that it did actually provide value to your users.
       | 
       | At some point, you have to do the non-trendy infrastructure work,
       | skyscrapers aren't built with bricks.
        
       | gok wrote:
       | I feel like I need a follow up article from Google along the
       | lines of "Why did we let this guy stay so long?"
        
       | good_sir_ant wrote:
       | I always enjoy posts like this. When the comments flow in, you
       | can identify the steadfast obliviousness the urbanites have
       | around how the other 99% of the world approaches work. Just the
       | reactions to a different opinion (which more aligns to one formed
       | outside of silicon valley) illustrate a built-in intolerance to
       | anything resembling reality, difficult as it may be.
        
         | Arainach wrote:
         | What "reality" are you referring to? Statistically speaking,
         | just about everyone who isn't self-employed (and many of those
         | who are) are in it for the money. A boss complaining that their
         | employees have no passion for their job and won't work overtime
         | sounds like an out of touch awful boss regardless if those
         | employees' lack of passion is for a software product, making
         | pizzas, teaching, driving a truck, or whatever.
         | 
         | Are there awful bosses in every industry? Probably. That
         | doesn't mean that has to be "reality" - it just means that such
         | opinions need pushback wherever they're found.
        
       | enos_feedler wrote:
       | "We start companies to build products that serve people, not to
       | sit in meetings with lawyers. You need to be able to answer the
       | "what have you done for our users lately" question with "not much
       | but I got promoted" and be happy with that answer to be
       | successful in Corp-Tech."
       | 
       | The only thing worse than not putting the user first when you
       | build consumer products is having a core attribute of your
       | Googley culture be "put the user first" and not do it.
        
       | phonebucket wrote:
       | > ...in a start-up there is complete alignment between the
       | product, the company and the brand. The employees, management and
       | investors are aligned as well - product does well, company does
       | well, investors do well, employees do well.
       | 
       | Perhaps this can be true for founders/founding employees with
       | significant stock.
       | 
       | Do employees 15 onwards (i.e. the majority of employees working
       | in successful startups) really have so much stock so as to pour
       | their hearts into the company?
        
       | arduinomancer wrote:
       | So much of the discussion here is superfluous.
       | 
       | Why should the employee care about "users" if their equity
       | doesn't increase in value based on those users?
       | 
       | Like--its as simple as that, don't blame the employees for being
       | entitled here.
       | 
       | If my equity isn't related to my job then they're not "my users",
       | and I'm not a true owner of the product.
        
       | bregma wrote:
       | Yeah.
       | 
       |  _sips coffee_
       | 
       | I'm going to need you to go ahead and come in on Sunday, too.
        
       | alcover wrote:
       | 18 scripts, 3 webfonts. For a short text.
       | 
       | Didn't allow, didn't read.
        
       | chrisseaton wrote:
       | Do you really have to wear those hats when you join Google? How
       | long do you have to wear them for?
        
         | darkwizard42 wrote:
         | Truly optional, just a fun thing they give out on the first
         | day.
        
         | mortehu wrote:
         | You don't have to participate in the Noogler orientation week
         | at all. You can just get straight to work if that's what floats
         | your boat.
        
         | badlucklottery wrote:
         | >Do you really have to wear those hats when you join Google?
         | 
         | Nope. Most people put them on for a selfie or two then throw
         | them on a shelf.
        
           | eru wrote:
           | I gave mine to some relatives.
        
         | bjarneh wrote:
         | My first question as well. I guess they pay quite well...
        
       | itg wrote:
       | Another "leader" who complains about employees wanting work life
       | balance and they are extremely entitled. These are the type of
       | managers you want to avoid. I'm sure many Googlers are happy you
       | left.
        
         | andrew_ wrote:
         | The point that's missing here is that there will _always_ be a
         | generational divide. Young will always see Old as antiquated,
         | out-of-touch. Old will always see Young as entitled, perhaps
         | flippant, and out-of-touch. Neither perspective is invalid.
        
         | notRobot wrote:
         | Yeah, how dare they think that they're entitled to hobbies or a
         | life outside of their job? How dare they take a day off because
         | they're not feeling well and want to take care of themselves?
         | 
         | FFS.
        
           | varjag wrote:
           | His point is a job is not UBI, you supposed to contribute in
           | return and adjust your schedule along other workers (aka a
           | 'workday'). I dunno why is that so controversial.
        
             | haswell wrote:
             | His points also include:
             | 
             | > _I was the weirdo who wanted to push things fast and
             | expected that some level of personal sacrifice when needed_
             | 
             | And
             | 
             | > _I also believe that we have to do whatever it takes to
             | win, even if its on a weekend_
             | 
             | So _not_ just about "workdays".
             | 
             | As others have noted, he does make some excellent points.
             | His comments about entitlement (food) ring so true.
             | 
             | But his section on Work Life Balance is pretty terrible.
        
             | spery wrote:
             | That may apply to yoga class at 11am, but asking for a day
             | off? Come on...
        
               | PascLeRasc wrote:
               | After reading the article I think his only problem was
               | that the 11am yoga employee was taking care of their
               | health in a way that he didn't understand, so it was bad.
        
               | varjag wrote:
               | Days off are certainly fine, as long you give enough
               | notice for your coworkers to plan around your absence.
               | Not counting emergencies of course.
        
               | shadowgovt wrote:
               | Especially at a company like Google, which tracks
               | vacation days as compensation.
               | 
               | When you tell a Googler they can't take a day off, you
               | are basically telling them the company will not honor a
               | piece of the compensation package they signed up for.
               | You'd better come to that table with a damn good
               | alternative offer.
        
             | isbvhodnvemrwvn wrote:
             | Have you missed the part where he things that working
             | nights and weekends is expected in a job? "we have to do
             | whatever it takes to win"?
        
               | b3kart wrote:
               | Where goalposts for "winning" can conveniently be moved
               | each weekend, I imagine.
        
               | nivenkos wrote:
               | Yeah, it should be completely unacceptable.
               | 
               | As you get older you realise how valuable your time is.
               | You only get one life, you aren't saving up or learning
               | more to make your next one easier, you get old and that's
               | it.
               | 
               | Having that time to visit family and friends whilst you
               | can is incredibly important.
        
         | mmcconnell1618 wrote:
         | I think the author is correct that some big tech companies
         | create a culture where going to 11am yoga is more important
         | that crunching out a few more lines of code. He's correct that
         | if your focus is on building and scaling product, this culture
         | reduces the velocity of change. However, I see a couple of
         | things the author is missing:
         | 
         | 1) Work life balance is about employee long term retention and
         | places like Google spend a lot of energy in hiring, so they
         | optimize for keeping the people they hire.
         | 
         | 2) Sometimes an 11am yoga class frees your mind enough to
         | foster creativity. Raw working hours may be reduced but novel
         | solutions might increase.
         | 
         | 3) Some tech workers have figured out the odds of hitting it
         | big in a startup or having the next billion dollar idea are not
         | that likely. Instead, they've optimized for a far above average
         | salary with work life balance. There is nothing wrong with
         | choosing that path and this is where the author is missing
         | empathy for people who didn't choose his path.
        
           | Cthulhu_ wrote:
           | The same people that go for an 11 AM yoga class will stay
           | working until 11 PM because they can and are encouraged to.
           | 
           | Second, and another commenter points this out, the
           | desirability of anyone that lands a job at a FAANG means they
           | get away with it. They have Made It, they are the 1% in their
           | field, and they can go anywhere else outside of SF
           | (internationally if need be) and instantly be hired as CTO of
           | any company. Generally speaking. And of course switch to the
           | other FAANG, possibly getting even better compensation and
           | perks and a better 11am yoga teacher.
        
           | shadowgovt wrote:
           | It's the sprint versus marathon mindset.
           | 
           | A small startup has a finite amount of time to either become
           | a big company in their own right or do something so
           | noteworthy that a big company sees the need to acquire them.
           | Nothing else matters. There are minimal incentives to invest
           | in the long-term welfare of your employees because in the
           | long term, the company doesn't exist. You can't even
           | guarantee that an acquisition will keep the employees you
           | have invested in.
           | 
           | Large corporations like Google are incentivized to give their
           | employees reasons to stick around. They can expect the
           | company will be there in 30 years, and they can expect a good
           | employee to put in a career's worth of work for them (and
           | eventually have peer and mentorship contacts that encourage
           | other good potential employees to join the company).
           | 
           | This is painting with a broad brush of how the incentives are
           | structured... Not all big companies see it this way and not
           | all small companies see it this way. But it's the behavior
           | the marketplace appears to reward.
        
             | steveBK123 wrote:
             | Re: It's the sprint versus marathon mindset.
             | 
             | As someone who did track in high school, the whole agile
             | nomenclature around "sprint" continues to rub me the wrong
             | way. If you aren't a startup facing a launch-or-fail
             | moment, the approach should be much more that of a
             | marathon.
             | 
             | I was joking with my wife that "sprint" to me implies that
             | you go all out and then take a long break before you go
             | again. We should be treating the longterm plan like a
             | marathon and the intermediate steps like "splits".
             | 
             | If you are working on a product that's been around for
             | years , the idea that you are an all-star for delivering
             | your 5 points the day before your 2 weeks sprint ends and a
             | lazy jerk if you deliver it the day after sprint ends just
             | incentivizes a lot of shorterm-ism and corner cutting.
             | 
             | The model of working "all out" and your "break" for
             | planning is a 2 hour meeting in between sprints where you
             | get praised or scorned for a 10% difference in delivery
             | speed is..
        
               | matwood wrote:
               | Splits works, but I tend to use iteration. There are
               | benefits to breaking work into chunks and checking in how
               | it's going every 2-4 weeks, but there's no reason to be
               | in perpetual crunch time. There should also be free time
               | at the end of every iteration to do some
               | problem/design/idea exploration.
        
           | duxup wrote:
           | It's such a weird dynamic.
           | 
           | I remember visiting the valley for the first time for a big
           | company I worked for at another location. The scale of work
           | life balance was unbalanced so many strange ways...
           | 
           | The tech support team I worked with was in 'building 3'.
           | Nobody ever left that building through out the day. I went to
           | the big cafeteria and the options were amazing. I managed to
           | get some of my peers to go with me, several of my peers from
           | building 3 were equally amazed as ... they never went there,
           | they just worked all day, ate something at their desk, and
           | kept working...
           | 
           | Meanwhile I'd go to the cafeteria each day and sit outside
           | and watch as some folks would play basketball for an hour,
           | then a while later show up and chat it up with coworkers (not
           | talking about work) over lunch for what seemed like
           | forever...
           | 
           | The game room was always full of the same guys, the other
           | amenities, yoga, etc, and it often included people who I
           | simply never could get a hold of. HR couldn't be bothered to
           | get security to take my photo for my badge for weeks ...
           | because the gym schedule changed.
           | 
           | It was a weird, unbalanced, yin and yang.
        
             | xyzelement wrote:
             | A few reactions to that.
             | 
             | First, there's always a self selecting thing there. For
             | some reason folks from building 3 never bothered to go
             | explore, and it sounds like they didn't keep going to the
             | caf even once you showed them. Nothing was holding them at
             | their desk, they just didn't care/bother.
             | 
             | Second, some jobs are different than others. Some jobs you
             | have to "be there" for. Tech support may be like that - you
             | have to pick up the call/email when it comes in. Other jobs
             | may be more like strategy or research where having a few
             | key insights a year generates millions of dollars for the
             | company and if hanging in the cafeteria helps you do that,
             | everyone wins.
             | 
             | Third, at the end of the day you kinda have to trust the
             | system. What I mean is - if the company is successful it's
             | because it's overall people strategy is working. So in the
             | great net of things, having the caf setup be the way it was
             | may be what was needed, even if some individuals abused it
             | (which you then would hope be detected in their overall
             | output)
        
               | JKCalhoun wrote:
               | A strange work ethic I must have been born with (weird, I
               | know) kept me mashing keys the full 8 hours while some of
               | my co-workers might see fit to stay home one day because
               | a package was due to arrive.
               | 
               | Or maybe I have always felt like I'm an imposter: if the
               | ax fell on the team I didn't want to be the low hanging
               | fruit they culled. Who knows.
               | 
               | But I confess to having had a difficult time across my
               | career accepting the perks, relaxing. It's been a slow
               | awareness that this industry really truly is on fire,
               | they really make boatloads of cash, they really need me
               | more than they compensate me for.
               | 
               | What a strange time to live in for a blue-collar
               | programmer like me.
        
               | duxup wrote:
               | I think it is self selecting ... by every individual.
               | Each makes their choices.
               | 
               | The real challenge is when you value work life balance
               | and ... it starts to hit other people's work.
               | 
               | Like in my case, getting hassled by security every day,
               | multiple times a day ... IMO that should supersede
               | someone's gym class if it was their job to schedule
               | getting me a photo and a proper badge, but it is super
               | easy for those kinda "well we value work life balance"
               | kinda decisions to push important work aside.
        
             | Aromasin wrote:
             | I noticed this when I worked at my first "employee
             | satisfaction" focused company. Half the employees took
             | every perk they could get, seemingly doing as little work
             | as they could under the mantra of "work-life balance". The
             | other half never left their desks. It created a strange
             | dynamic of resentment between the two parties, where one
             | thought the other stupid, and the other thought them lazy.
             | It was hard to know where to stand.
        
               | fileyfood500 wrote:
               | I agree, I think this situation fits in nicely with the
               | discussion of how stock compensation doesn't directly
               | result from the results of your work. Employees who
               | aren't passionate about or motivated by their jobs seek
               | out compensation in return for retention. And even then,
               | they scale their efforts at work based on their interest.
               | I like the independence of Amazon teams, but the
               | independence is limited when the teams don't control
               | their own finances.
        
               | duxup wrote:
               | I once worked for a team was historically over worked,
               | that had changed recently for the better, but the team
               | culture was still pretty stressed and nose to the grind
               | stone. We were working to bring that down, but it takes
               | time.
               | 
               | The offices were being renovated and our team was moved
               | next to HR.
               | 
               | HR formally complained (apparently there was a process...
               | where HR sent some sort of complaint to ... HR) that the
               | team sitting next to them was not very friendly.
               | 
               | Before what I can only imagine would have been a horrific
               | joint team meeting / culture clash could occur, someone
               | very smart put the kibosh on the complaint / meeting ....
               | 
               | The culture / work experience differences were extreme.
        
           | cactus2093 wrote:
           | Another glaring omission - he's now sitting on 7 years of
           | savings from his Google manager salary & equity. If you have
           | a few million dollars in the bank it's much easier to take
           | the pay cut to work at a smaller startup and chase a more
           | high risk/high reward outcome.
           | 
           | It's completely out of touch to judge anyone for wanting a
           | stable and in the scheme of things ridiculously high paying
           | job with good work life balance, like working at Google.
        
             | serverholic wrote:
             | This is also part of the argument for basic income. Having
             | a stable source of income allows people to take risks like
             | starting their own business or joining a small startup.
        
               | JKCalhoun wrote:
               | Or just a more lax unemployment policy.
               | 
               | I worry that if you give everyone $1000/month:
               | 
               | 1) you cannot live on $1000/month so it is an empty
               | gesture
               | 
               | 2) rent goes up $1000/month nationwide so it is an even
               | emptier gesture
        
               | serverholic wrote:
               | 1) So you're saying that giving people $1000/month would
               | open up zero new possibilities for people?
               | 
               | 2) It's not that simple because different goods will
               | respond differently. Certain goods will get cheaper
               | because the increased sales will allow for more economies
               | of scale.
        
               | freeone3000 wrote:
               | Housing is the big one mentioned, and it does not allow
               | for any further economies of scale than already exist.
               | Rent rises based on the prevailing salary of the area --
               | house prices as well, since they represent the years of
               | rental income. It's not even necessarily a supply issue,
               | since Seattle has more empty houses than it has homeless
               | people! Prices simply rise to whatever the market can
               | bear. So under the current system, any absolute increase
               | in money will likely simply be swallowed by landlords.
        
               | serverholic wrote:
               | The implication in his argument was that prices will
               | increase in general.
               | 
               | My argument is that we don't know what the overall effect
               | will be.
               | 
               | Edit: In other words, if housing increases by $10 but the
               | cost of other stuff decreases by $20 then you still come
               | out ahead.
        
               | JKCalhoun wrote:
               | You're right of course, but also way more optimistic than
               | me.
        
               | CydeWeys wrote:
               | Housing is a normal economic market that is responsive to
               | changes on both the demand and supply side. The major
               | problem with housing in this country is that restrictive
               | policies have put a damper on housing supply so that it
               | is not able to keep up with demand. Seattle has a
               | _normal_ amount of vacancies in it. It could have 2X the
               | housing (and thus have a lot more people living in
               | Seattle paying lower rents) and still have the same
               | percentage vacancy. It 's not a real or valid argument to
               | say "look there's more vacancies than homeless people, so
               | supply must be fine".
        
               | freeone3000 wrote:
               | A "normal number" of housing vacancies would only make
               | sense if everyone was housed. Housing isn't a voluntary
               | good, where you'll expect some unsold stock and you'll
               | expect not everyone to buy one -- everyone needs a place
               | to live, and will spend as much as they have to in order
               | to get housing of minimal quality. The entire concept of
               | a "normal" number of vacancies doesn't make sense here.
        
               | CydeWeys wrote:
               | There absolutely is a "normal" amount of vacancies
               | because it takes time for a house to sell, for someone to
               | move out and then someone else to move in, for a new
               | lease to be signed, etc. It's exactly the same dynamic
               | with employment; there is a "normal" amount of a
               | unemployment (a low single digit number) that is
               | impossible to improve past, simply because it takes time
               | to find a job. Housing is no different.
               | 
               | Also, most of the homeless are unhoused because they
               | either can't afford a home or they have mental
               | illness/drug addiction issues that makes them incapable
               | of earning money in order to be able to afford a house.
               | It doesn't matter if housing is vacant if you don't have
               | the means to pay the rent, or if they won't even consider
               | you for a lease anyway because you don't have a reliable
               | source of income.
        
               | Cthulhu_ wrote:
               | It makes more sense in a country that already has a
               | social safety net; I've read somewhere (citation needed,
               | I know, I'm not very deep in the subject) that the cost
               | and overhead of assessing and paying the individual cases
               | of unemployment, long term sickness, disability,
               | homelessness etc is more expensive than just giving
               | everyone a basic income.
               | 
               | But yeah, #2 is what I'm afraid of too. Paraphrasing a
               | cartoon villain, if everyone is wealthy, nobody is.
               | 
               | Besides, in the past decade, cost of living / housing /
               | rent has gone up so much that even a $1000 / month basic
               | income can't give you anywhere decent to live anywhere.
               | In addition to basic income, we need basic housing -
               | which is dangerous, because it invokes the USSR's rows of
               | depressing and substandard apartment buildings. But
               | everybody should be able to live comfortably at a
               | standard of living. Everybody should be able to have
               | access to and afford a two bedroom house or apartment on
               | a single income, or the social safety net if they are not
               | employed.
        
               | jimbokun wrote:
               | > 2) rent goes up $1000/month nationwide so it is an even
               | emptier gesture
               | 
               | Do you also expect food, transportation, entertainment,
               | and technology costs to go up $1000/month nationwide?
               | 
               | Rent goes up due to a lack of available apartments or
               | houses in the area. If public policy is geared toward
               | allowing development of sufficient housing for the people
               | wanting to live in a place, that will have a far bigger
               | impact on rents than UBI.
        
               | JKCalhoun wrote:
               | Not an economist. I liken it to the cost of tuition
               | having gone up, perhaps because of the availability of
               | student loans and the willingness (need?) of students to
               | borrow to get a higher education.
               | 
               | Rent is the one you are sort of locked into. Food, etc,
               | you have choices ... moving, much harder to shop around.
        
               | [deleted]
        
               | cactus2093 wrote:
               | It seems pretty complex to design a version of a lax
               | unemployment policy that eliminates steep cliffs that
               | might disincentivize working, is fair, and also doesn't
               | let anybody slip through the cracks. How do you handle
               | someone quitting voluntarily, or retiring early, or
               | starting their own business which doesn't pay them yet,
               | or only paying themselves a small amount, or working a
               | part-time job on the side while focusing on something
               | else, etc.
               | 
               | The income tax code already exists and has to solve some
               | of these problems, so it seems easier to give everyone
               | the money and then tax it back from the highest earners
               | later (or implement it as a negative income tax, but that
               | has its own hurdles as well, i.e. imagine a homeless
               | person needing to wait until tax season and then getting
               | paid for the whole year, it would be a big hurdle and
               | they'd still need other assistance programs the rest of
               | the year if they didn't budget the money well enough).
        
               | JKCalhoun wrote:
               | I agree it is complex, I have no answers. Certainly
               | though if the requirement for unemployment is that you
               | have to be actively looking for employment ... sort of
               | nixes it for the want-to-be entrepreneurs.
        
           | adrianb wrote:
           | He's giving a few examples for work-life balance and I have
           | completely different feelings about - from the 11 AM Yoga
           | class (pretty ridiculous IMO) to taking a personal day
           | (reasonable, people need their day off, maybe the personal
           | day is for an urgent medical check-up?) to working during the
           | weekend (unless the entire service is down and I'm the
           | oncall, it can wait).
        
             | watwut wrote:
             | In a company I work for, some people take time to exercise
             | at lunchtime - 11yoga seem to fit right there. Basically,
             | lunch then takes longer then if you eat during that time,
             | but not by horribly lot.
             | 
             | I does not seem to me so horrible honestly, assuming that
             | you then stay longer to make up for time spend by
             | exercising. I dont do that, because I need to take kids out
             | of school basically, but when I had time to exercise a bit
             | in the middle of the day I was more productive.
        
             | cbarrick wrote:
             | The 11 AM Yoga class does _not_ sound ridiculous to me
             | precisely because of the nature of tech work: we don 't
             | need to all be working together at the exact same time, as
             | opposed to most other jobs.
             | 
             | Want to trade an hour in the middle of the day on a Tuesday
             | with showing up an hour early Wednesday? Do it. What's the
             | problem?
        
             | vmception wrote:
             | Why are several people denigrating the 11am mindfulness
             | session?
             | 
             | We're not going to talk about people showing up to work on
             | acid to perform but make fun of people out of college
             | taking advantage of the mental health and exercise course
             | offered on site for an hour, and then excuse an entiiiiire
             | personal day just because its ... more familiar?
             | 
             | oooookay.
             | 
             | just a perspective.
             | 
             | this manager didn't know how to schedule his workers, and
             | couldn't calibrate it and chose to go with "entitled young
             | people are the problem" just like people probably said
             | about him and millennials, there's nothing more to read
             | into this article.
        
             | bcrosby95 wrote:
             | It's almost like different people value different things. I
             | knew a guy that got a massage every day at 2pm but he also
             | was at work until 10pm. This is also why - even with a
             | flexible work schedule - it's useful to have some set of
             | "core hours" everyone should be available.
        
             | UncleMeat wrote:
             | Isn't that an indication that he sees these things as
             | equivalent? 11am yoga is just as ridiculous as refusing to
             | work weekends. This is precisely the sort of toxic attitude
             | that keeps a lot of people away from startups.
        
           | inglor_cz wrote:
           | I am self-employed and 11am (or, in my case, anywhere within
           | the 11am-3pm window) exercise is actually a great refreshment
           | for my mind.
        
           | ghaff wrote:
           | "When I was growing up in Tech in the '90's - there was no
           | such thing as work life balance."
           | 
           | BS. I worked for a large computer systems company throughout
           | the 1990s. I mostly headed home by 5-6 and I would take month
           | long vacations. (Of course, there crunch times as well.)
           | 
           | I also found his pissiness at apparently not being able to
           | curse or whatever in presentations sort of offputting. Yes,
           | general standards for language and behavior in the tech
           | industry has shifted over time. This isn't anything specific
           | to Google. And whining about it comes off as being tone deaf.
        
         | emdowling wrote:
         | I've worked as a freelancer, founder, and employee (for start-
         | ups, scale-ups and now FAANG).
         | 
         | The one constant has been my daily exercise session, whether
         | that has been a workout, yoga session or swim. My daily
         | schedule (pre-Covid) usually involves 45 mins at home checking
         | email/chat and addressing anything urgent and modifying my to-
         | do list for the day. Then it's to the gym for 90 minutes, and
         | in the office by 10:30am. It's what I need to do and it keeps
         | me sane.
         | 
         | Building a startup in my early 20's was easily the most
         | stressful period of my life. Going for a swim each day was
         | probably the single most important thing that got me through it
         | in one piece.
         | 
         | I have a lot of respect for what the author has accomplished;
         | building one of the top tech products and brands in America is
         | ridiculously hard. However, this article shows a lack of
         | empathy for how people work and what they need.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | coding123 wrote:
         | > While most "real" people were worried about keeping their
         | jobs or finding one, many employees were complaining about
         | expensing their food on top of their salaries/stocks/bonuses.
         | This entitlement continued everywhere - while Google is BY FAR
         | the most employee centric company giving tremendous hard and
         | soft value to its employees, they keep creating imaginary
         | problems to complain about, instead of appreciating the hand
         | they have been dealt.
         | 
         | I 100% get his position here. I definitely want to be
         | surrounded by people that are grateful.
        
         | znpy wrote:
         | I'd like to add... That guy seems to be ignoring the point of
         | view of somebody that is _not_ the boss /former-owner of the
         | startup that got acquired.
        
         | ghoshbishakh wrote:
         | I absolutely agree about the fact that us young CS engineers
         | often forget how lucky we are to exist in this space.
         | 
         | I also support the point that the author is trying to make
         | about work life balance. If you are passionate about building
         | something, you would always want your team to be as passionate.
         | And that would mean sacrificing other stuff in your life since
         | this product is also a large part of your life.
         | 
         | In other words, "work life balance" treats work separate to
         | life. Which often might not be the case. There can definitely
         | be an overlap between work and life.
        
           | cashewchoo wrote:
           | Because unless you have significant equity in a company, your
           | work is literally not your life. Your life consists of things
           | you don't lose instantly if you're fired "for any lawful
           | reason including no reason".
           | 
           | The US is potentially one of the worst places to get work and
           | life mixed up without a securitized, legally binding
           | combination of your work and life.
        
         | the_local_host wrote:
         | Indeed. I'm struck by the contrast between this complaint from
         | the author...
         | 
         | > It is practically impossible to fire someone for the basic
         | reason that you don't need this role any more
         | 
         | and this other complaint...
         | 
         | > The product is a tool to advance the employees career, not a
         | passion, mission or economic game changer.
         | 
         | The author wants employees who perceive their job as a passion,
         | and a mission, who can be fired as soon as their role is no
         | longer needed? That strikes me as more "entitled" than keeping
         | a Yoga class blocked off in your schedule.
        
         | twox2 wrote:
         | Seriously, and the next point it's followed up with is
         | "entitlement"....
        
         | CydeWeys wrote:
         | That was my take-away as well. This might be the guy you want
         | to do business with if you're an investor, but that ain't me;
         | I'm just an employee. This is NOT the kind of guy you wanna be
         | doing business with if you're his employee. And it's not just
         | his complaints about employees' supposed entitlement; he's also
         | complaining that a lot of them were making too much money (in
         | his view)! Opt me the fuck out of that!
         | 
         | Also he spends a lot of time defending his "short fuse" and his
         | saying of offensive things; in my experience, when someone's
         | own side of the story is that bad, it's actually much worse
         | even from the other side (i.e. the side anyone not him would be
         | experiencing). You don't want to work for rude assholes. I
         | don't know him well enough to know if he's actually one, but
         | that's how he's coming off in this blog post anyway. Red flags
         | for days.
        
         | secondcoming wrote:
         | If I swanned off to do yoga during my contracted core hours I'd
         | be sacked
        
           | shadowgovt wrote:
           | In this case, the company is offering the yoga as something
           | you can do during your work hours.
           | 
           | Google doesn't really have "contracted core hours" precisely.
           | They have quarterly goals. If you're accomplishing those
           | goals, the corporate culture doesn't much care how. This
           | offers flexibility that can make it easier to accomplish
           | tasks (I knew people who worked 6AM-2PM because the center-
           | of-mass of their team was in a different timezone).
        
         | Mauricebranagh wrote:
         | Yeh the whine about hiring and firing was a dead give away -
         | given the low level of employee protection in the USA.
         | 
         | Sounds like the author a senior leader (presumably) hasn't
         | internalised what it is to lead - I recall a tweet from a
         | serving Army officer about what you must never do is get used
         | to the fact you can send out some one for coffee and become
         | entitled.
        
         | madeofpalk wrote:
         | "I don't believe long hours are a badge of honor but I also
         | believe that we have to do whatever it takes to win, even if
         | its on a weekend."
         | 
         | lmao what a terrible, horrible manager. I would hate working
         | for them, and I would not miss them leaving.
         | 
         | Maybe I'm just playing into their "young people don't want to
         | work" stereotype, but if that's what working means, I don't
         | want to do it with them.
        
           | aidenn0 wrote:
           | I worked for 2 hours this past weekend because doing so would
           | save about a weeks worth of work due to various reasons.
           | 
           | I will also leave work early to pick up a few things on my
           | daughter's birthday later this month.
           | 
           | I think this is reasonable. I don't know if it's the sort of
           | thing the author is talking about, but I think my work/life
           | balance is fine.
        
           | a_imho wrote:
           | Working on the weekend is a management failure.
        
           | bluefirebrand wrote:
           | No kidding. If you're on team "Do whatever it takes to win"
           | then you better at the very least applaud when people do
           | whatever it takes.
           | 
           | You can't tell your team "Do whatever it takes to win", and
           | then when they work their asses off for you turn around and
           | say "Well long hours aren't a badge of honor"
           | 
           | This is an asshole who wants people to work themselves to
           | death and doesn't want to give any sort of reward or
           | recognition for it.
        
           | gambiting wrote:
           | Yep, I was just about to quote this exact sentence here, but
           | I see you already did. Absolutely agreed, what an awful
           | manager.
        
           | plinkplonk wrote:
           | "I don't believe long hours are a badge of honor but I also
           | believe that we have to do whatever it takes to win, even if
           | its on a weekend."
           | 
           | Especially when said "doing" is done by other people
           | (engineers, testers,SREs etc) , not the manager.
           | 
           | Easy enough to hold such beliefs when the cost is paid by
           | others.
        
             | nivenkos wrote:
             | Literally like Shrek: "Some of you may lose your weekends,
             | but that's a price I'm willing to pay..."
        
           | matwood wrote:
           | Agree. My first question would be to ask 'win' what? The
           | reality is, very few are working on things that are so
           | critical if a feature is pushed off a few days because of a
           | weekend, nothing will change.
        
           | natchy wrote:
           | No he's right. This is vital for a growing company who is
           | vacuuming up market share. It's not necessary for big corps
           | who just throw more people at a product or use their
           | economies of scale to stay ahead.
           | 
           | The nasty truth is that every big Corp had a phase where it
           | counted on key people being completely plugged in. If that
           | was never you, then you either joined a company late or
           | weren't one of the key people.
        
           | cashewchoo wrote:
           | Especially when, IME, people are either outright abusers (and
           | blatantly leech until discovered and fired) or people tend to
           | fall into a distribution whose mean centers around a WLB
           | that's slightly tilted in favor of work. Employees in the US
           | are already so guilt-tripped and gaslit and scared of
           | unemployment that you end up doing things for work you feel
           | are unfair even if they don't ask it of you.
        
           | [deleted]
        
           | jskrablin wrote:
           | Last time I somehow ended in a company with culture/managers
           | similar to the one above I quit after only a month and a
           | half. And I don't exactly fit into "young people don't want
           | to work" stereotype. You'll only get this kind of
           | expectations in extremely toxic places.
        
           | ramraj07 wrote:
           | A different way of putting it would be whether an employee
           | takes personal responsibility towards their work. It's not
           | incongruent with a balanced life. To me It just means
           | occasdinally you might stay late at work, once in awhile an
           | interesting problem gets you working on the company laptop
           | all Saturday, and if something breaks you're not able to log
           | off until you fix it. Doesn't mean you cant take Friday's off
           | of or that you have to skip your yoga class if that's what
           | powers your mojo.
        
             | gambiting wrote:
             | Absolutely, 100%. I am hugely against working overtime and
             | work life balance is far more important to me than many
             | other factors. But I have worked 12 hour days and weekends
             | few times in the past, because I felt the personal
             | responsibility to either fix something or make sure a
             | launch goes through smoothly. You know when I absolutely
             | wouldn't do it though? If my manager told me that "they
             | expect a level of sacrifice for the company". Nope. Just
             | absolutely categorically nope. Now I'm a manager myself I
             | would never ever ask someone to do this.
        
               | CydeWeys wrote:
               | Same. I put in a lot of extra work on the launches of
               | .app and .dev to ensure that they went smoothly (and they
               | did!), because I personally believed in the product we
               | were launching. I did it with no expectation of
               | compensation, though I did end up being compensated for
               | it in the long run anyway with a promotion. I took pride
               | in that work.
               | 
               | But if it hadn't been my idea to do so, if it had just
               | been expected of me to work uncompensated nights/weekends
               | at no personal benefit? Hell no. I'm not a manager but I
               | too would never ask someone to do this either.
        
             | tomashubelbauer wrote:
             | I think this is slightly different from what the OP was
             | saying, because in this scenario, you choose to do that.
             | IMO personal responsibility and pride in one's work like
             | this is amazing and totally compatible with a balanced
             | life. But when a manager asks you to have some personal
             | responsibility and balance your weekend life towards the
             | overtime work side, that's a whole other story.
        
               | ramraj07 wrote:
               | The line I draw is that the manager never knows or cares
               | when you work. They only see the output and the
               | occassional indication that you take your work seriously.
               | If someone ever says you should work more or I've never
               | seen you work in a weekend, of course I would also run
               | away.
        
             | BugWatch wrote:
             | Simple question - is there (some kind/means of (extra))
             | payment involved?
             | 
             | If the answer is no, then that's a resounding no (for me,
             | at least). I might _love_ and adore my job (and the
             | workplace), but no way in hell will it be allowed to
             | impinge on my private /personal time: sleeping and
             | "regular" work already essentially takes 2/3 of it ( _too
             | much_ ), and that doesn't even include the time for
             | "context shifting" (mental and physical) between those and
             | the remainder that is "(free) living".
             | 
             | And if (the hypothetical) you considers that to be
             | "entitled", then so be it. Your life's mission is not my
             | mission. I am there to do my work and do it
             | conscientiously; anything more is asking too much.
        
               | Matticus_Rex wrote:
               | Well, that's the thing -- no one _directly_ pays me extra
               | when I work an odd night or weekend to make sure things
               | get out in a timely manner, but I also definitely only
               | have the salary /etc. I do because of the responsibility
               | I take (which includes that willingness).
        
               | ramraj07 wrote:
               | Exactly, you do you buddy. Let's just not act as if it's
               | some God given right that you only work 40 hours for
               | outrageous sums of money. We are not talking about
               | minimum wage workers, and his point is they're not even
               | putting in the 40 hours anyway. All he's asking is that
               | he wants to have a different culture within his team.
               | It's not his intention to force people who don't share
               | his values to work against their will. And as much as it
               | might be hard for some to believe, there are people who
               | don't need a constant amount of private time that's
               | mandated by law (especially when we are not middle class
               | or poor). I want to work on interesting things, learn how
               | to be as effective as I can be at them, keep improving
               | myself in ways that matter to me, and contribute
               | meaningfully to whatever the hell it is that I'm paid to
               | do (and be okay with contributing to that cause). And
               | then I want to find and work with people with similar
               | minds. Clearly we exist.
        
               | isbvhodnvemrwvn wrote:
               | If you are ever in position where you are recruiting
               | people, make sure to put that statement directly into the
               | posting. Not during a phone call or at any later stage.
        
               | ramraj07 wrote:
               | I agree the expectation should be made clear but it's not
               | obvious why it has to be at the level of the post. I try
               | to look for indications in the resume for the type of
               | cultural alignment and set expectations the first time we
               | talk in an interview, and don't necessarily feel that any
               | further "warnings" need to be given.
        
             | madeofpalk wrote:
             | > once in awhile an interesting problem gets you working on
             | the company laptop all Saturday,
             | 
             | I will _never_ do this. I havent done this since I was very
             | very young at my first job and i didn 't know better. I
             | couldn't think of anything sader or more depressing that
             | giving away my own personal time for someone else.
             | 
             | I'm not going to work on the weekend. I've got much better
             | things to do, like play video games or _literally anything
             | else_ , rather than go back to work and generate wealth for
             | someone else for free.
        
               | ThrowawayR2 wrote:
               | > " _I couldn 't think of anything sader or more
               | depressing that giving away my own personal time for
               | someone else_"
               | 
               | The original quote was about "an interesting problem".
               | I'm happy to spend some after hours time on technical
               | problems if they're personally interesting to me. The
               | fact that addressing it helps my employer and makes me
               | look good in their eyes is just a nice little bonus.
        
               | scrollaway wrote:
               | Uh, I agree with the sentiment of not wanting to work for
               | free, but
               | 
               | > _I couldn 't think of anything sader or more depressing
               | that giving away my own personal time for someone else._
               | 
               | You just described a job.
               | 
               | Whether you're giving your time away or getting paid for
               | giving it up makes no difference to the fact you are
               | parting with it in order to produce for someone else.
        
               | Macha wrote:
               | Giving away pretty clearly means the objection is to the
               | free nature. Getting paid makes a big difference - you
               | now obtain tangible value from the interaction that you
               | can turn into things like food or housing.
        
               | scrollaway wrote:
               | There's no concrete difference from the side of the
               | gifter, between giving away time directly, giving away
               | money earned from time spent, or giving away a tangible
               | gift purchased with money earned from time spent. It's
               | just more indirections.
               | 
               | So when someone says there's "nothing sadder", I think
               | they should remember that the time is being given up
               | either way. Doing so for free amounts to gifting the
               | time. Or, flipped on its head, not chasing after the
               | money.
               | 
               | People have their own reasons for making gifts. Feeling
               | good about themselves, making someone else feel good,
               | .... You can have your own reasons for not caring that
               | there is no financial benefit to working extra hours on
               | something. Maybe you enjoy the work. Maybe you are
               | learning something. Maybe you take pride in your work and
               | going the extra mile is rewarding in and of itself.
               | 
               | Unlike GP, I don't judge people who sometimes work for
               | "free", as long as they don't have to and are aware they
               | don't have to.
        
               | ramraj07 wrote:
               | It's perfectly okay that you choose your values that way
               | but it sounds very judgemental to think that's the only
               | way to live. I won't work in a place where I'm not at
               | least proud of what I'm doing. If that's true then
               | whether the company makes money from it is only
               | peripheral to me doing more than what I'm paid for - I
               | genuinely like and enjoy what I do, I like to code and
               | often the most interesting coding problem before me (with
               | the most resources at my disposal by a longshot) is my
               | work related problems so I end up spending a good
               | fraction of my time in weekends when I feel like u want
               | to code, working on side projects that no one asked for
               | but are within the company's domain. Simply because
               | they're intresting to me and I become A better coder and
               | learn new stuff. Also coding too is about practice. 10000
               | hours and all that jazz. I have become a better coder
               | because of this. I probably won't do this forever but
               | I'll learn and get better as much as possible from this
               | time.
               | 
               | If you want to build a car from scratch in your weekend
               | or just chill out, that's an equally meaningful and
               | respectable endeavour as well.
        
               | sergiosgc wrote:
               | Let me give you the perspective from the other side of
               | the trench:
               | 
               | I never ask my employees for overtime, never control
               | their work hours. The typical work week that organically
               | arises out of this is about 35 hours.
               | 
               | I would absolutely fire anyone who would close the laptop
               | for the weekend and left a critical operation pending on
               | Friday. It's about work ethics and personal
               | responsibility of the outcome of personal work.
        
               | notaslave wrote:
               | If the company is paying me for 40 hours, why would they
               | expect me to work more? If the 'outcome of my work' is my
               | personal responsibility, I should also be paid based on
               | the outcome-I should also get a cut from whatever profit
               | the company makes with my work.
               | 
               | If the company thinks they have the right to my personal
               | life because they pay me for 40 hours, then its slavery.
               | Also, threatening me with firing because I refuse slavery
               | is threatening my livelihood, and it's mafia mentality.
               | If a manager thinks they have the right my personal time,
               | I should have right to their personal time too. Traffic
               | should go both way in a bridge.
        
               | Nimitz14 wrote:
               | They're paying you to do a job. They're not just paying
               | you to "put in the hours".
        
               | sergiosgc wrote:
               | I don't hire automatons that turn on at 9h and off at
               | 17h. I don't pay by the hour for intelligent work. I pay
               | for results, defined to be achievable on a regular
               | schedule.
               | 
               | I hire intelligent people, treat them as such, and expect
               | intelligent behaviour in return. Part of the expectation
               | is that everyone manages their own time responsibly. If
               | they fail that management and have to work after hours, I
               | do expect them to take the fall. There's no slavery and
               | no mafia involved here; much to the contrary, it's a
               | healthy work environment with historically excellent
               | work/life balance.
        
               | notaslave wrote:
               | Who defines those schedules? If it's the employees, its
               | fine. If it's the management who sets the timelines,
               | management should take the fall. Otherwise, its forced
               | labor no matter how management tries to spin it. A bunch
               | of parasites and leeches sucking other people dry. If the
               | paycheck says 'num of hours x per hour rate", that's what
               | the company should expect.
        
               | CydeWeys wrote:
               | I'm on an oncall rotation. I get paid 1/3rd my normal
               | salaried rate for all the time outside of normal working
               | hours that I'm expected to be available to respond to
               | critical issues. Note that I get paid this regardless of
               | whether there actually are critical issues.
               | 
               | Do you have this kind of system set up? If not, do you
               | make it clear when you're hiring people that you're
               | expecting them to occasionally do what is effectively
               | uncompensated oncall on nights/weekends? That's the kind
               | of thing you have to know going in in order to be able to
               | compare like-for-like in competing offers.
        
               | sergiosgc wrote:
               | Events like these are exceedingly rare, to the rate of
               | less than one event per year. They have been treated on a
               | case by case basis. When it is personal mismanagement of
               | time, there is no compensation. When people cover for
               | systemic failures, we've historically awarded two
               | vacation days per day used (one is a replacement, the
               | other a compensation), or equivalent monetary
               | compensation.
        
             | groby_b wrote:
             | "whether an employee takes personal responsibility towards
             | their work."
             | 
             | This is an incredibly important factor. It really matters
             | to getting a team that gels and gets things done.
             | 
             | But here's the thing: That has to be a two-way street, or
             | it won't work. The company needs to show responsibility
             | towards their employees too. And that isn't yoga classes &
             | cafeterias, that is basic respect, and a willingness to
             | work with the employees, instead of seeing them as
             | "resources".
             | 
             | This seems to be, as far as I can tell, an approach that's
             | correlated with manager skills & inversely correlated with
             | company size. I've done both manual & "white collar" work
             | in small companies, and the ones where the leaders did
             | right by their employees had employees who would go to
             | great lengths for them.
             | 
             | I've done manual & "white collar" work in large companies,
             | too. None of them had CEOs that cared that much. But some
             | had managers who cared a lot, and were willing to bend
             | rules if it meant doing the right thing - those teams
             | excelled. The ones with the managers who didn't care about
             | their people got teams who didn't care about their work.
             | 
             | And I know the kind of manager who's terribly upset about
             | your 11am yoga class. Without fail, that yoga class was on
             | your calendar, but they wanted the meeting when they wanted
             | it, without a care about you. They could've done 1pm, they
             | could've done 10am, but that would've inconvenienced _them_
             | , and that's not in their playbooks.
        
             | TravHatesMe wrote:
             | > whether an employee takes personal responsibility towards
             | their work.
             | 
             | This is a good take. Something that's perhaps overlooked:
             | those rare occasions where you need to stay late to deliver
             | are very memorable. Isn't it true that strong bonds are
             | often built from intense experiences? I think those few
             | times that you stay late earn you massive respect from
             | those who stuck around, and builds a relationship beyond
             | your career. Especially if it isn't even your
             | responsibility specifically, maybe it's the team lead's ass
             | on the line or a colleague's. It's like indirectly saying
             | "hey I got your back on this, you can trust me I'm a team
             | player -- we ride together we die together bad boys for
             | life"
        
               | ramraj07 wrote:
               | Agreed but also with caveats - I've had talks with
               | coworkers where after helping put out a fire we should do
               | a bit of soul searching on how we can avoid that in the
               | future. As a team and a company we should strive towards
               | creating systems that don't tax its employees as well,
               | that's the company and managers end of the deal with
               | employees who take personal responsibility if you ask me.
               | 
               | And the thing that works absolutely counter to this
               | philosophy is the peer bonus system. It sounds great in
               | principle but seems to incentivize people to continue bad
               | practices that are clearly mostly overworking without
               | proper post mortem on why such out of description help
               | was even needed in the first place. When I was new I used
               | to cherish peer bonuses but now I'm proud that no one in
               | my team has gotten one in a year (because hopefully none
               | of our systems needed such help anymore).
        
               | redleader9345 wrote:
               | I wonder how much wfh and distributed teams change this
               | dynamic. I totally get what you're saying with the whole
               | experience of staying in the office after dark, ordering
               | pizza, and just working through a problem, whatever it
               | takes.
               | 
               | I think with people holed up in their homes doing the
               | same thing, the experience is diminished somewhat.
        
           | greedo wrote:
           | I don't think it's a "young people" stereotype. I'm an
           | oldster and I wouldn't want to work for someone like that who
           | is trying to squeeze every last drop out of his "resources."
        
           | CydeWeys wrote:
           | And that's easy to say for someone who has a large equity
           | stake in the company, who is directly rewarded for working
           | very hard like that. Ridiculous for them to impose it on
           | others though who are salaried employees and aren't rewarded
           | for all this extra work.
           | 
           | If you want me to work as hard as you are, _pay me_. Take my
           | total annual compensation, divide it by 2087, and give me 2X
           | that amount as overtime to work nights and weekends in excess
           | of 40 hours /week. I'd do it. If he's actually willing to put
           | his money where his mouth is I bet he'd get plenty of takers
           | to work that hard. But I bet he isn't; he just wants to get
           | lots of extra work out of his employees for free.
        
         | throwawayffffas wrote:
         | Well he said.
         | 
         | > I don't believe long hours are a badge of honor but I also
         | believe that we have to do whatever it takes to win, even if
         | its on a weekend.
         | 
         | I guess he missed the memo that google had already won.
        
         | ramraj07 wrote:
         | It is not a fake problem. Of course, working hard all the time
         | is not a badge to be worn and is not by itself an end, but it's
         | also true that SV tech community is filled to the brim with
         | people thinking very highly of themselves when the reality is
         | they don't contribute much. What the author is asking for is
         | that employees take a degree of personal responsibility without
         | needing to give up on a concept of personal life. I come from
         | academia that's rife with no work life balance and it was
         | positively jarring how badly the pendulum swings in the tech
         | world. There's surely a middle ground that is not by any means
         | unreasonable.
         | 
         | Importantly, this is a personal choice. I don't want to be in a
         | team where members don't take personal responsibility, and I am
         | willing to contribute the same. If Google does not allow such a
         | team to operate with its own norms then the author is justified
         | in saying it's not a good fit.
         | 
         | And to be clear, are you seriously saying that any person
         | saying, "what? Sushi again?" Is actually going to have a real
         | empathizable reason for saying so? Honestly Google sounds like
         | it's filled with what can be considered the modern equivalent
         | of upper middle class government administrators of past eras
         | who don't really contribute much, couldn't give a rats ass
         | about much more than what their weekend plans are and what
         | their paycheck is and I will be more than happy that they are
         | happy they don't work with someone like me if that thought
         | process ever came up.
         | 
         | Of course, companies like Google have found a way to factory-fy
         | this system of getting "maybe mediocre but never truly bad"
         | engineers and scale a massive software conglomeration that runs
         | the world. But this is only possible because of massive
         | excesses these companies procure through counterproductive and
         | anticompetitive revenue streams like ads and data aggregation,
         | so in some ways people in HN want to complain about how these
         | big tech companies are evil but at the same time draw heinously
         | enormous paychecks from them and act as if they truly deserve
         | them. That seems to be the problem.
        
           | iujjkfjdkkdkf wrote:
           | > Honestly Google sounds like it's filled with what can be
           | considered the modern equivalent of upper middle class
           | government administrators of past eras
           | 
           | I like this, I've thought this before too about a lot of big
           | tech companies that are throwing off cash and essentially
           | want to make sure they have a bunch of top people but don't
           | really need them for anything particular day-to-day.
           | 
           | So the employees become a kind of aristocracy with a few
           | symbolic duties, but largely a life of leisure, attending
           | company events and reading clubs and pushing paper back and
           | forth, while making salaries high enough they dont have to
           | worry about anything.
           | 
           | I know this is an exaggeration, but there is some truth to
           | it, and I definitely know environments where one could behave
           | that way.
        
           | matwood wrote:
           | There's definitely a pendulum with degrees of difference.
           | I've been called militant before at work because I showed up
           | on time, worked while at work, and went home when the day was
           | over. I just call it being professional to not goof off all
           | day.
           | 
           | It seems like what's happened (like in a lot of society) is
           | that extremes have formed. Either people are in the work 24/7
           | camp or play frisbee golf all day camp. Whatever happened to
           | simply being professional?
        
           | Adverblessly wrote:
           | > And to be clear, are you seriously saying that any person
           | saying, "what? Sushi again?" Is actually going to have a real
           | empathizable reason for saying so?
           | 
           | (not the person you responded to)
           | 
           | Benefits are just a part of the total compensation. If you
           | work for Google you don't get "free food", you get food that
           | you worked for and that was a part of a large number of
           | elements you weighed when you decided to work for Google.
           | Maybe you get $X at Google but you were also considering an
           | offer from Elgoog for $(X+Y) and decided that the convenience
           | and cost of Google's food were worth more than $Y for you
           | (Elgoog of course doesn't offer "free food" :)). If that
           | "free food" isn't working out for you, it is natural to be
           | frustrated at being short-changed on your benefits.
           | 
           | If you are in Israel, the norm for tech is to get a Cibus
           | card which lets you buy lunch at local restaurants at the
           | employer's expense, up to some daily limit. When you are
           | comparing offers you can literally compare "this company
           | gives $15/day but that one $20/day, so let's deduct $100/mo
           | from their offer when comparing". If you work for Google and
           | get a "free lunch" maybe you'll evaluate it as a $25/day
           | Cibus. If you get a bad lunch at Google, maybe you'll think
           | "Ugh, if I was working for <competitor> I could have been
           | eating at <favourite restaurant> instead". If you get a bad
           | lunch at Google, you effectively paid $25 for it and got a
           | bad lunch, so it makes sense to complain about it like you
           | would if you went to an actual restaurant, paid $25 and got a
           | bad meal.
           | 
           | I agree that in the grand scheme of things these issues
           | aren't all that important (maybe about as important as
           | someone going to a restaurant and getting a bad meal :)), but
           | I don't see how it is impossible to empathize with that
           | sentiment.
        
           | Nimitz14 wrote:
           | Great comment. I completely agree.
        
         | rkangel wrote:
         | Yes, that made me want to run a mile from ever working for him.
         | He is right that we _are_ entitled though. As software
         | engineers we are extremely lucky to be in a profession that is
         | in demand by companies that make (a lot of) money. Companies
         | compete for us with salaries, quality of work and other
         | benefits. This puts us in a lucky minority compared to the rest
         | of the population (even if we limit to talking about developed
         | nations).
         | 
         | We have expectations based on that. Some things are the norm
         | for us. We should _absolutely_ try to be aware of that and not
         | take it for granted, and we should _absolutely_ understand that
         | for others it is the norm. Everyone feels entitled to what they
         | get all the time. You need to accept reality, even if you don
         | 't like it.
        
         | zarkov99 wrote:
         | Or the people who complain about work-life balance and sushi
         | are the kind of people you would not want to be in the trenches
         | with in any sort of challenge.
        
         | A4ET8a8uTh0 wrote:
         | I think you nailed it.
         | 
         | I will admit that there are pieces of this article that I find
         | myself nodding to, but I am not sure I would want to work for
         | this person.
         | 
         | "The challenge was that, as Google employees, we were subject
         | to all of the Corporate hiring practices. It is practically
         | impossible to fire someone for the basic reason that you don't
         | need this role any more or there is a better person out there
         | or just plain old - you are not doing a great job."
         | 
         | Good grief. If you had any sense as a manager, you did not do
         | that either in the previous non-google position. The
         | unemployment insurance cost alone is not worth it. Sometimes
         | those corporate practices are guided by some reason.
         | 
         | "I used a four letter word, my analogy was not PC, my language
         | was not PG... I actually stopped speaking at events where the
         | majority appreciated what I was saying but the minority that
         | was offended by something (words and not content) made it a
         | pain."
         | 
         | I am more sympathetic here, because I agree that we are way too
         | delicate language-wise in corporate land, but even then I don't
         | say whatever comes to mind. Passionate is barely an excuse
         | here. When you speak publicly ( panels, events ), you should
         | know your audience and have a modicum of self-control.
         | 
         | "Young people want it all - they want to get promoted quickly,
         | achieve economic independence,"
         | 
         | Lol. Duh. All of a sudden, I can sort of understand, why 'OK
         | boomer' became a meme.
        
         | tinyhouse wrote:
         | Of course, focus on the one thing he said you don't like. Not
         | to mention he didn't really say he's against work life balance.
         | But for some people words are more important than content like
         | he said.
        
         | kmeisthax wrote:
         | Yeah, I was sort of getting what they were saying until they
         | started complaining about political correctness. If you don't
         | explain _what_ you were being censured or censored over, I 'm
         | just going to assume it's some vile sexist or racist remark,
         | because 9 times out of 10 that IS the quiet part.
         | 
         | I'm starting to think the Bay Area trend of hyperfocusing on
         | identity politics is just the trendy way of deposing shitty
         | managers.
        
         | phendrenad2 wrote:
         | Work-life balance is always available, but you're not entitled
         | to a top-tier salary if you want to 9-to-5 it.
        
         | chovybizzass wrote:
         | far too common these days. I haven't been able to find a job in
         | a year (fe/js) due to these people rising up the last couple of
         | years or so.
        
         | slibhb wrote:
         | If they really complained about not getting compensated for
         | buying their own food during lockdown I think "entitled" is a
         | fair descriptor.
         | 
         | This is the first time I've read one of these blogs where the
         | author complains about it being "practically impossible to fire
         | someone". To me, that adds an air of authenticity to the
         | complaining. In my experience too, the inability to fire people
         | for reasons other than "this person is a real jerk" has been a
         | looming problem.
         | 
         | As far as work-life balance goes, I think I agree with him
         | there too. I have a lot of privileges and I assume Google
         | employees have even more. But the flipside of that is that,
         | when there's a deadline, I'm very invested in meeting it, even
         | if that means working a lot of hours. To me those two things
         | are related: the privileges are justified by the periods of
         | intense, focused work.
        
           | gambiting wrote:
           | >>If they really complained about not getting compensated for
           | buying their own food during lockdown I think "entitled" is a
           | fair descriptor.
           | 
           | I very much disagree. If you were getting food at work
           | previously, as in - it was clearly your agreed part of
           | compensation - then I would absolutely complain if suddenly I
           | had to buy my own.
           | 
           | >> But the flipside of that is that, when there's a deadline,
           | I'm very invested in meeting it, even if that means working a
           | lot of hours.
           | 
           | Again, that's fine and if you want to do that yourself,
           | great, everyone would love to have you as an employee. But
           | the second your manager walks in and says "john, I expect you
           | to work this weekend" I'd start looking for a different job.
           | Taking personal responsibility and working harder and more
           | hours to finish something is one thing, being told you have
           | to because your manager demands it is unacceptable.
        
             | slibhb wrote:
             | > But the second your manager walks in and says "john, I
             | expect you to work this weekend" I'd start looking for a
             | different job.
             | 
             | Of course. A condition of my personal investment in meeting
             | deadlines is exactly my not being treated like this.
        
             | CydeWeys wrote:
             | For what it's worth, food in the United States is very
             | clearly _never_ a part of your agreed-upon compensation in
             | the way that health /retirement benefits are; it is a
             | "team-building office perk" offered by the employer. If it
             | were actually part of your compensation, then you'd be
             | taxed on it.
             | 
             | I know it may be easy to misunderstand this, and to think
             | of it as part of your compensation, because in a way it
             | feels like it, but in a real legal sense as currently
             | structured it very definitely is not part of your
             | compensation.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | >If it were actually part of your compensation, then
               | you'd be taxed on it.
               | 
               | Which is a somewhat contentious topic. Not an accountant,
               | but seems to be one of those perks that's right at the
               | very edge of IRS rules.
               | 
               | https://www.shrm.org/resourcesandtools/hr-
               | topics/benefits/pa...
        
               | CydeWeys wrote:
               | To be clear, my statement was descriptive of present
               | circumstances, not normative. As you point out this is in
               | flux and may be changing in the future. If food does
               | become a taxable benefit and part of overall
               | compensation, then I might expect to start seeing some
               | people opting out of it entirely.
        
             | matwood wrote:
             | > But the second your manager walks in and says "john, I
             | expect you to work this weekend" I'd start looking for a
             | different job.
             | 
             | It's definitely a failure of management, but if John was
             | playing games all week and now is being asked to work this
             | weekend to finish, that's also on John. His manager should
             | have stopped the all week playing, but people want to be
             | treated like adults and be given personal responsibility,
             | etc...
        
           | asidiali wrote:
           | Agree and disagree. Without pushing a point too hard, I will
           | ask you this - what if your employment contract states you
           | are to receive $X,000 per year in food or food stipend? Would
           | you be in favor of employees pushing for subsidized food
           | while remote?
           | 
           | Ok, and there's a deadline at work. There's also a deadline
           | at your spouses work, your kid is sick, and they took off
           | work to look after them last time. What do you do?
        
             | etripe wrote:
             | Roll initiative!
             | 
             | On a more serious note, that all depends on the type of
             | contract you've got. If you're salaried and get a constant
             | wage, you're not exactly being compensated for going above
             | and beyond, especially in terms of hours worked.
             | 
             | Surely, if the work to be done is important, that means the
             | employer is willing to pay for the privilege of having it
             | done during off hours? If not, I would argue the employer,
             | not the employee is feeling entitled.
        
               | asidiali wrote:
               | Totally agree with what you've said.
               | 
               | Sure yeah, if you're getting the equivalent of overtime
               | or time-and-a-half, ok, it may become worth your time and
               | like you said you are getting compensated for the extra
               | effort and sacrifice.
               | 
               | But the author of the article is talking about salaried
               | FTE Google employees. I'm a salaried tech employee, I
               | don't earn extra comp for working weekends. I assume that
               | is the norm.
               | 
               | Hence why the authors attitude is indeed entitled, and
               | not the employees, as you've stated.
        
             | throwaway667555 wrote:
             | Any reasonable person understands that "compensation
             | includes food stipend of $8000" in a contract means they
             | get $8000 if they're home. Clearly GP is referring to less
             | cut-and-dry scenarios, i.e., nearly all scenarios in this
             | domain.
        
               | asidiali wrote:
               | Agreed yeah, hence the loose question. I'd assume this is
               | a less formal scenario of oh, we have cafeterias, you're
               | welcome to eat there, but this isn't some formal stipend.
               | Makes sense, more curious on if that changes GP's
               | position on the topic with that added info. I've worked
               | for places that did alternatively have a formal stipend
               | amount.
        
           | UncleMeat wrote:
           | A small number of people did this on the imageboard, which is
           | widely known for collecting and upvoting fringe complaints.
           | It is a company of like 130,000 people. A few of them are
           | going to ask for things that seem unreasonable to others.
           | 
           | Google is somewhat known for being slow to fire. I personally
           | like it. Managers are expected to try to get their reports to
           | survive PIPs rather than using them as a boot out the door.
        
           | sciprojguy wrote:
           | On paper that's fine. Do that too much, though, and your
           | willingness to burn personal time for the company's benefit
           | will become the norm and factor into their planning. Getting
           | management to un-learn that is difficult and tricky and often
           | not accomplished without the loss of several employees with
           | that reason pointed out in the exit interview.
        
           | darkwizard42 wrote:
           | I mean in your last sentence, it really isn't a privilege if
           | you have to do "intense, focused work" to get it... it then
           | becomes compensation
           | 
           | Loss of said compensation does certainly warrant some
           | conversation about it. Also I don't really appreciate it
           | being painted as ALL Googlers when, like most things in life,
           | a small passionate minority affected by this brought this up
           | and most people didn't think twice about it
        
           | serverholic wrote:
           | If google provides food for employees then that's essentially
           | indirect compensation. Employees can now use the money they
           | would have spent on food to buy other things.
           | 
           | So now that they're remote and have to buy their own food
           | they have effectively received a pay decrease.
           | 
           | How is it entitled to complain about a decrease in
           | compensation for the same work?
        
             | slibhb wrote:
             | I find this legalistic perspective horrifying. It's as if
             | you think every aspect of the relationship between you and
             | your employer has to be written down as part of a contract
             | and endlessly scrutinized.
             | 
             | For me, and I expect for most humans, the ideal employer-
             | employee relationship is much more tacit. It's like being
             | part of a sports team. There are bounds of duty and
             | privilege that are mutual, acceptable to all parties, and
             | do not have to be written down.
             | 
             | If everything was written down, it would make work
             | intolerable. Every action would have to be catalogued,
             | defined, and priced. In an effort to create a "better
             | workplace," you would be destroying the things that makes
             | work tolerable.
        
               | serverholic wrote:
               | You just pulled that argument out of your ass. I wasn't
               | implying that everything needs to be written down in a
               | legal document.
               | 
               | Also I can't help but feel that your perspective is
               | coming from a place of privilege. If I had to guess I'd
               | say you either A) Haven't been screwed by an employer
               | before or B) Are the employer.
               | 
               | I guarantee that if your employer fucked you over you'd
               | be paying a lot more attention in the future.
        
               | srndsnd wrote:
               | I think that's an exaggeration of what OP is saying. It's
               | fuzzy, but there's a definitive distinction between
               | "every aspect of your relationship" and benefits that
               | impact someone's bottom line like free food.
               | 
               | OP did not say, and I wouldn't either, that every aspect
               | of a employer-employee relationship should be documented
               | and tracked like a PnL. But no one should pretend that
               | it's not a debate over "unwritten compensation", and the
               | value the employer gets from the employee. If employers
               | didn't want to quantify that, there wouldn't be demand
               | for corporate spyware and monitoring of employees. Yes,
               | the Microsoft 365 option was shut down, but it's an arms
               | race, and that's one battle in a war.
               | 
               | Why shouldn't employees want to extract the most value
               | they can for their labor, and push back when the terms of
               | that agreement change? If cost cutting or taking a loss
               | necessitated a firing, would that "tacit relationship"
               | prevent someone from being fired? My guess is no.
               | Business is business, not personal.
        
               | slibhb wrote:
               | I extended the previous poster's argument. He said food
               | should be priced in, my point is that work is only
               | tolerable because we stop pricing things in at a certain
               | point. I agree with you: that line is fuzzy, but we have
               | to place it somewhere (and amenities should not be priced
               | in).
               | 
               | > Why shouldn't employees want to extract the most value
               | they can for their labor, and push back when the terms of
               | that agreement change? If cost cutting or taking a loss
               | necessitated a firing, would that "tacit relationship"
               | prevent someone from being fired? My guess is no.
               | Business is business, not personal.
               | 
               | One conception of employment involves voluntarily adopted
               | shared goals. Another conception is that employees rent
               | themselves in exchange for money.
               | 
               | I suppose I think we need to find the happy medium
               | between those conceptions. Too much of the latter
               | perspective leads to alienation (because you conceive of
               | yourself as a wage slave) whereas the former can lead to
               | exploitation.
               | 
               | The article is arguing that Google is too far into the
               | latter conception. It should towards the former, not all
               | the way, but at least a little.
        
             | sneak wrote:
             | Google has been known to point out the perks, such as
             | catering, when asked by candidates for more salary during
             | negotiation, as well.
        
               | serverholic wrote:
               | Yeah it's interesting that the person I was replying to
               | used the word "privilege" when describing those perks. As
               | if Google was doing this out of the goodness of their
               | heart.
        
               | sneak wrote:
               | It can be privilege to have a job, any job, that comes
               | with perks like included food, or healthcare, even if
               | those are part of one's negotiated compensation package.
        
               | serverholic wrote:
               | Then you're just asking to be taken advantage of. You are
               | more important than your employer. Therefore you should
               | be looking to extract as much value from your employer as
               | possible.
               | 
               | If you don't think your employer is doing the same then
               | you're just naive. Google isn't catering food out of the
               | goodness of their heart. It's a calculated cost-benefit
               | analysis to attract and retain top talent.
               | 
               | Edit: It's also a tactic to get people to work longer
               | hours.
        
           | esotericn wrote:
           | My employer has killed off office perks during lockdown; it
           | doesn't seem intentional, more of a bureaucratic thing.
           | People are still in the office, but the management aren't, so
           | things don't get done.
           | 
           | I've told them that this is an issue for morale - the old
           | "buying the cheap toilet paper" adage comes to mind - but I'm
           | not holding out much hope that anything will happen.
           | 
           | Is it a significant hardship for me to buy lunch? No. It
           | wouldn't be a significant hardship for them to give it
           | either.
           | 
           | To be brutally honest - we all need _more_ support during
           | lockdown and restrictions, not less. In the UK, work and the
           | supermarket are pretty much the only legal reasons for most
           | to be outside at the moment.
        
         | RcouF1uZ4gsC wrote:
         | From the article:
         | 
         | > There are people who are great for a stage of the company and
         | later, do not have the right skills as the company grows. It is
         | not their fault, it is reality.
         | 
         | While at the same time wanting to fire the employee as soon as
         | they don't need the skill. The commitment is entirely a one way
         | street.
        
         | andor wrote:
         | That's not how I read it.
         | 
         | He clearly states that he understands the value of work-life
         | balance, but there are _work_ places where work is just not the
         | #1 priority _during business hours_ anymore. And that 's
         | totally fine and I'm happy if it works for people and their
         | employers. But it's not viable for startups that need to find
         | product-market-fit before burning through all their cash. Or
         | companies trying to make best-in-class products.
        
           | BikiniPrince wrote:
           | It doesn't really work long term for large companies either.
           | 
           | Unless you are riding the back of some cash cow you do have
           | to worry about profit. I have watched the complete erosion of
           | our tech leads and the incoming hires bear so little
           | responsibility. Management is also quite aware of what they
           | have done, but half of them are on the way out too.
        
         | jC6fhrfHRLM9b3 wrote:
         | Get your test levels checked.
        
         | _coveredInBees wrote:
         | It's a good article with a lot of solid points, but that
         | section had me rolling my eyes. Sure reads like someone pining
         | for exploitative "startup" culture to get more than what they
         | are paying for out of their employees. If you consistently feel
         | the need to impinge on your employees weekends or PTO, that's a
         | management failure, not an entitled employee problem.
        
           | isbvhodnvemrwvn wrote:
           | There's also this lovely comment in the "focus" session where
           | he plainly asserted that "privacy has no value to his users".
        
             | bagacrap wrote:
             | I think it's important for all the Google bashers out there
             | to note this example of a high profile employee leaving
             | because Google cared too much about privacy (or "noise" as
             | he terms it).
        
               | marcus_holmes wrote:
               | I read that as "legal got involved and we had a ton of
               | meetings that achieved nothing for our users" rather than
               | "privacy did nothing for our users".
               | 
               | I don't think Google "cares about" user privacy. I think
               | they care about minimising any legal risk. These are two
               | very different attitudes.
        
               | watwut wrote:
               | "we have an extremely long project that consumed many of
               | our best engineers to align our data retention policies
               | and tools to Google"
               | 
               | The only way a big company can somehow ensure that all
               | teams are going to follow the privacy or any other policy
               | is to force the teams to "align our data retention
               | policies and tools to Google".
               | 
               | This is literally Google having process to ensure some
               | privacy policy and op having issue with that.
        
               | marcus_holmes wrote:
               | Again, I read it differently. It sounded more like a
               | pedantic insistence on company-wide protocol rather than
               | a genuine desire to be careful with user data. But I may
               | be being uncharitable.
        
               | watwut wrote:
               | If you want to keep a company of hundreds or thousands
               | people following some rule, really the only way is if you
               | create processes that check and force that. There is no
               | way to keep company following privacy rules (as weak as
               | they are) without company wide protocol and insistence on
               | it.
               | 
               | Otherwise, the pressure from people who want to do other
               | things will ensure that privacy or rules will be ignored.
        
             | shadowgovt wrote:
             | "The amount of time and effort spent on Legal, Policy,
             | Privacy - on features that have not shipped to users yet,
             | meant a significant waste of resources and focus."
             | 
             | Oh yeah. That's going to be entirely incompatible with how
             | Google does business. Google's primary concern isn't even
             | that their customers care about those things (although they
             | do)... It's the Google is a giant target and there are
             | significant legal consequences for doing things or failing
             | to do things that a jury outside of Google's control will
             | decide after the fact was something they "should have known
             | better" about.
             | 
             | Startup companies end up concerned less about this because
             | they have less to lose. A startup company isn't exactly
             | "judgement-proof..." The wrong decision can certainly get
             | them sued out of existence. but the odds of it happening
             | are lower, because at the end of the day they have fewer
             | assets to seize. There's a much smaller target on their
             | backs and fewer high ticket lawyers for whom the possible
             | compensation would justify taking the case. there's no such
             | reasonable constraint on how much you could sue Google
             | for... a case that a high ticket lawyer wins against Google
             | will _definitely_ pay for itself.
        
         | marcus_holmes wrote:
         | I didn't read it as that bad - he states it should be a
         | balance.
         | 
         | Balancing work and life means if you get the Yoga session at
         | 11am, then you're also OK with getting paged at 11pm to fix
         | server downtime.
         | 
         | When I've managed teams, I always held that it's quid-pro-quo.
         | If I want the team to stay late to meet the deadline, then I'm
         | OK with them leaving early to pick the kids up from school
         | (though not on the same day, obviously). If they need to take
         | the morning off to go to the dentist, that's cool as long as
         | they're OK with getting a call on the weekend if there's a
         | problem. It's a give-and-take. If the give-and-take gets too
         | much, one way or another, then that's something we can talk
         | about at a regular one-to-one and work out.
        
           | Mauricebranagh wrote:
           | At googles scale you would have shift coverage for that
           | shurly
        
             | marcus_holmes wrote:
             | good point - at that scale the "team" includes all the
             | people you'd ever need to cover every eventuality
        
         | alephnan wrote:
         | This irks of an entitled Googler.
         | 
         | I reported up to Noam and he's an admirable leader to me. In
         | fact, I will be excited to learn about and join his next
         | project if it has a culture distinct from this Google "work
         | life balance" and the false pretense that "work life balance"
         | == happiness.
         | 
         | I was the lowest of low level bricklayers, on the opposite end
         | of the pecking order, but his comments on The Corporation and
         | its entitled / PC constituent members resonated with me. If it
         | didn't resonate with you, that's why you'd probably stick
         | around at Google for a long time. Sure, many Googlers may be
         | happy he left, but that doesn't disprove his points. If
         | anything, it kind of supports Noam's argument.
         | 
         | In case someone says "if you don't like it, then leave". I just
         | did.
         | 
         | Google is barely the most innovative place for an engineer to
         | work nowadays, nor is compensation "top of market". The rest of
         | the tech world has caught up. Actual top of market pay would at
         | least made me ignorant, for a little bit longer, to the fact
         | that work was unfulfilling. Yeah, we had great work life
         | balance, so what? I'm still expected to be there 9-5, and
         | spending 1/3rd of your life expanding work to fill the time
         | allocated to it doesn't equate happiness. In fact, for me it
         | was outright depression. I'm in a more intense work environment
         | now, pays a fraction of Google, but I am happier on so many
         | fronts. There's much less "abstraction" and needless
         | complexity. Some of us would rather have real work to do than
         | coast or work on projects/problems that simpler do not need to
         | exist.
         | 
         | The state of limbo induced by "work life balance" isn't the
         | fault of Noam, because as I interpretted in his blog, the
         | Googleplex Twilight Zone inhibits fully realizing the culture
         | in the executive team's vision. Maybe the vision is a
         | trainwreck or maybe it's brilliant, but I don't believe the
         | "autonomy" afforded by Google allows realizing these extremes.
         | There's so many layers/indirection between me, the bricklayer,
         | and the person at the helm. Combine that with the misaligned
         | incentives in a corporation where resume projects are being
         | advanced, I wasn't even building the great pyramid of Giza as
         | much as I was building some offshoot resort home for one of the
         | scribes that reported up to the priest who reported up to the
         | pharoah.
        
         | vincnetas wrote:
         | For me it was the opposite, i was thinking, wow, this is the
         | guy i would like to be working with. But i'm not the one who
         | fits this description:                  You need to be able to
         | answer the "what have you done for our users lately" question
         | with "not much but I got promoted" and be happy with that
         | answer to be successful in Corp-Tech.
        
           | mlthoughts2018 wrote:
           | "What did I do for the customer today" is often in principle
           | not answerable within megacorps. If you're the person who
           | fixes a new employee's password issues, you have to do mental
           | gymnastics like "I helped X fix their password, then X
           | created a new Jira ticket for Y, Y helped scope and plan the
           | ticket in Z's sprint, Z gathered requirements and assigned it
           | to A, A paired with B and they wrote code that removed
           | extraneous serifs from the new widget font, C reviewed their
           | code, D took the new deployment to the mobile team who QA
           | tested it, then E stamped approval on a new rollout of the
           | app, and now users of iOS 13.6.9 who also specifically only
           | use Firefox Focus won't see extraneous serifs in the font on
           | the widget tab in their account page. Let's crack the
           | champagne everyone!"
           | 
           | The degree of behemoth incrementalism is so extreme that
           | outside the _immediate_ blast radius of your work, there is
           | no serious, intellectually honest way to connect the dots
           | between your effort and the user. It's like shipping a rover
           | to Mars. You do a shitload of work and hope several time
           | units later when it actually lands, that your work has some
           | barely perceptible positive contribution to the sum total
           | outcome.
           | 
           | And all this is even worse in companies where it's not clear
           | to anyone whether the user is the product or the customer.
           | Just imagine that. "How did you help the user today?" should
           | make you freeze like a deer in headlights. Do you mean the ad
           | company who can target Starbucks-drinking soccer moms in
           | Texas better now because of our cool new image filter for
           | posting kid sports pictures? Or do you mean the soccer moms
           | themselves? Or do you mean the NSA we are allowing access to
           | all this data on both the advertiser and the soccer moms? Or
           | do you mean the VCs?
           | 
           | Leaders who say platitudes like "what did you do for the
           | customer" are just extremely arrogant know-nothings. They can
           | use the stick of "the customer always comes first" to
           | indiscriminately beat, shame or fire anyone that they
           | conveniently need to attack, no matter how unrealistic it is
           | to demand this kind of direct customer impact accounting.
           | 
           | Employees aren't braindead morons who subscribe to your
           | company like a religion. But that is _exactly_ what this type
           | of thinking is meant to induce.
        
             | marcus_holmes wrote:
             | I think you're violently agreeing with the author.
             | 
             | In a startup it's easy to see what value you added for the
             | user every day. In a megacorp it's impossible. In a startup
             | having the managers ask "what did we do for the users
             | today?" helps the whole team stay on track. In a megacorp
             | it's a useless platitude.
        
               | mlthoughts2018 wrote:
               | No, I'm not agreeing at all. The author is asserting that
               | you _should always be_ in the start-up situation of not
               | having incremental work where your ultimate impact on
               | customers comes through long chained sequences of tiny
               | tweaks or accumulated effects.
               | 
               | It's perfectly fine (good even) to work in a large
               | company where your value add is not immediately clarified
               | and is just part of a large agglomerated process. Most
               | net benefit to consumers occurs this way.
               | 
               | It's also fine if you want to work in the start-up
               | manner, but it's not "better" or "more correct" or
               | anything.
               | 
               | The author is taking it to a deeply unreasonable extreme
               | that shows more about the author's arrogance than about
               | any sincere or earnest desire to help customers.
        
       | mabbo wrote:
       | > Being promoted has more impact on the individuals economic
       | success than the product growth. The decision which product to
       | work on stems from the odds of getting promoted and thus we began
       | onboarding people with the wrong state of mind - seeing Waze as a
       | stepping stone and not as a calling.
       | 
       | Their ability to maximize their own income before the acquisition
       | was based on how successful your product was- they had stock
       | options! Their ability to maximize their income after the
       | acquisition was based on getting their next promotion.
       | 
       | They were never actually in love with your product. The passion
       | was not passion for what you did. Their passion was for money.
       | Waze was always a stepping stone.
       | 
       | All the while, here you are complaining that you can't
       | arbitrarily fire people, that you can't "speak your mind" for
       | fear of HR complaints, just generally wishing you could continue
       | to abuse your employees. These are things you only did because
       | those employees were just a stepping stone for your success, not
       | people.
       | 
       | What a whiny hypocrite.
        
       | curiousllama wrote:
       | > Any idea we had was quickly co-opted by Google Maps ... Looking
       | back, we could have probably grown faster and much more
       | efficiently had we stayed independent.
       | 
       | This is a great example of the difference between startup people
       | and big company people. A big-company exec would have known to
       | (how to?) fight that battle. Waze was a superior product, while
       | Maps just had superior resources: they should have built support.
       | But there's no mention of other execs.
       | 
       | As a big company guy, I read this and think "oh man..." - I can
       | only _imagine_ how frustrated this guy must be
        
       | andrew_ wrote:
       | It's astounding in so far as how unique this conversation is to
       | tech. I've worked as a pipefitter, electrician's apprentice, and
       | general construction hand in the past - I could only imagine how
       | it would go telling my former foreman that I'd like to head off
       | to yoga in the morning for an hour. Big jobs that require
       | overtime to complete get folks to work that overtime - even
       | within a union. If it's not you, it's someone else, and they'll
       | be remembered for stepping up.
       | 
       | Bringing experience in other fields, namely the trades, to the
       | conversation here might make it more clear why these things
       | outlined in the article are seen as extreme entitlement. It's not
       | a lack of work-life balance - something I see and hear about in
       | most industries now - it's about caring deeply about your career,
       | your work, and perhaps the project at hand, while not allowing
       | that work to define your life. Pride and dedication to work can
       | be balanced with family. It's not a zero sum game. What the
       | author is trying to explain, in my mind, is that there is large
       | priority on only one side of the equation (life), while
       | indifference towards the other (work).
       | 
       | We have it _AMAZINGLY WELL_ being in tech, and we have luxuries
       | that are unique to tech and bewildering to folks in other fields.
        
         | duxup wrote:
         | Even within the world of tech the contrasts are striking.
         | 
         | I worked for a tech company based in the Midwest that was
         | acquired by a company in the valley. I regularly went on visits
         | to HQ. Some of the folks I met complained strongly about things
         | like lunch not being provided... as often. And their lunches
         | were amazing, with drinks, and socialization.
         | 
         | I came from a place that maybe once a quarter someone would
         | order a bunch of cheap-o pizza... maybe, unless they were
         | concerned about the budget (like $300 worth of pizza matters).
         | And what that meant was you went and grabbed a piece of pizza
         | and went back to your desk...
         | 
         | That's not to say one is right or one was wrong (both locations
         | could have certainly used a little of each's culture /
         | traditions), but the privileges of the tech world (particularly
         | some companies) are generally pretty amazing, and I'm not sure
         | folks who have never left those places really get it...
         | 
         | I sometimes feel like I'm talking a to aliens from another tech
         | world when it comes to their complaints, like they're from that
         | space ship in WALL-E.
        
         | dingo454 wrote:
         | I'm in IT, but I've worked as electrician and carpenter for
         | some years. IMHO this is not easily comparable as you'd think.
         | 
         | You can easily estimate the time required to perform some
         | physical tasks. It's a bit different if you're working on
         | something you never did before, but again as an electrician or
         | carpenter this rarely happens after the training period.
         | Working more hours generally does result in more work done,
         | although the physical factor makes this work-life balance waaay
         | more obvious to whoever is working.
         | 
         | In IT I'm constantly working on things which are slightly
         | different than before. Time estimation is big common issue in
         | the field. I'll be fully honest and say that working 4 or 8
         | hours a day makes absolutely no difference in work being done
         | for me, except in very rare cases. Dedication has nothing to do
         | with it (I love what I do). Technically I'm not stopping to
         | work at the 6pm hour mark, my brain keeps thinking about
         | technical issues also during off hours and the weekend.
         | 
         | I don't know about you but I felt physically tired, but
         | _satisfied_ at the end of the day when working as a carpenter.
         | Sense of accomplishment was much more rewarding. When coming
         | home I would enjoy something different. The next day I was
         | recharged.
         | 
         | When working on problem-solving, I don't feel physically tired,
         | but I can still feel exhausted in a way that prevents me doing
         | other things. It's much, much harder to find a good balance.
         | And I'd stress this again: putting more working hours sitting
         | in front screen is not necessarily achieving anything.
         | 
         | Note also that these crazy perks as outlined in the article are
         | not my experience in IT working in several places in EU. Yes,
         | our working hours are more flexible due to the nature of the
         | job, but I've yet to see such entitlement in my career. Maybe
         | I've been unlucky.
        
           | amykyta wrote:
           | The energy drain of software development is something I
           | struggle with. I've worked as a painter and can relate to
           | wrapping things up for the day and coming home physically
           | exhausted but with energy remaining. Especially with Covid
           | 'work from anywhere all the time' it's very difficult to find
           | a balance as a software slinger.
        
         | yardie wrote:
         | I've worked in union shops as well while not being in the
         | union. Union overtime is highly coveted because it's a 2x-3x
         | bonus that a lot of my union friends used towards a
         | downpayment, kids' college tuition, retiring earlier, or
         | starting a business. No one had to step up because everyone was
         | stepping up. And the shop chief usually decided who got that
         | overtime (i.e. young worker trying to buy a house might get
         | higher priority over a senior.)
         | 
         | Also, shops had extremely good work life balance. You were at
         | the timeclock 4:59 on the dot. No one is asking you to stay
         | late, or be on call uncompensated. Your time was your time from
         | 5pm-8am. By their virtue of being always online, tech companies
         | intrude into that worklife balance and it's not unreasonable to
         | ask for some of it back.
        
           | asidiali wrote:
           | This - the mental overhead of a software job is not something
           | that is easily turned off during non work hours - especially
           | with a pushy employer or coworkers with no work life balance
           | themselves.
           | 
           | You can't cut steel at home after dinner no matter how hard
           | you try if you don't have the tools. Conversely, I'm sure you
           | have a computer, can you just login to GitHub for two seconds
           | to review this PR I submitted at 9pm...
        
             | kryogen1c wrote:
             | > the mental overheard of a software job is not something
             | that is easily turned off during non work hours
             | 
             | this is very ignorant.
             | 
             | the ability to leave work at work is a personality trait.
             | the job, or type of job, has little to do with it.
             | 
             | software development is not some exceptionally difficult
             | thing that tortures and haunts developers.
        
               | chrisweekly wrote:
               | Ignoring your last sentence (which doesn't merit
               | response) to disagree with "the type of job has little to
               | do with [the ability to leave work at work]".
               | 
               | Thought work is fundamentally different from physical
               | labor. Work:life boundaries are so permeable. Any but the
               | most ignorant, junior, "code-monkey" -type developer
               | spends a large portion of their cognitive resources on
               | solving problems (as opposed to strictly sitting at the
               | keyboard writing code like a factory worker).
               | Compartmentalization may well be a personality trait or
               | learned skill, but setting down physical tools in the
               | shop before commuting home is completely different from a
               | software dev's home office and potentially round-the-
               | clock work cycles.
        
               | mattnewton wrote:
               | I couldn't disagree more. I am thinking about hard
               | problems in the back of my mind pretty much all the time,
               | or am not making progress on them. Software engineering
               | can be like pipe fitting, where there is a blueprint; but
               | it can also be a much more creative search for solutions
               | like looking for a math proof, writing a screenplay, or
               | trying to phrase a legal argument that churns up your
               | background cycles.
               | 
               | Without those periods I would never be able to do the
               | best work I've done. There is a lot of pipe fitting in
               | the business - and it's fine to do only that. But it's
               | not some personality defect to have work thoughts kicking
               | around in the back of your head, it's a necessary trait
               | in my experience for the more difficult software jobs.
        
               | asidiali wrote:
               | Well said, totally agree. Thank you for explaining the
               | more nuanced points here better than I could.
               | 
               | IC-level contracting or consulting gigs are often (not
               | always) much more numb - you're handed a design, a user
               | spec, maybe some existing APIs or infrastructure, and you
               | essentially color in the lines. Other roles require much
               | more organic composition, aka, Zero to One.
        
               | jolux wrote:
               | > software development is not some exceptionally
               | difficult thing that tortures and haunts developers.
               | 
               | There's definitely a difference between white
               | collar/knowledge work and manual labor or highly people-
               | focused work, though. I've worked retail and food service
               | before and the mental overhead is absolutely different.
               | It took me a long time (years) to learn how to turn off
               | my brain at 5pm and stop programming when I got my first
               | tech job. Not something I had a problem with in more
               | manual industries: when you're not at the workplace, you
               | can't work, even if you wanted to.
        
               | asidiali wrote:
               | Agreed! Is it black and white? No of course not. You can
               | and need to learn how to properly transition between work
               | and home. It takes time. Totally agree with you.
               | 
               | It's nearly impossible to do when your employer is not on
               | that same page with you, or even worse is instead
               | fighting against it.
        
               | asidiali wrote:
               | > the ability to leave work at work is a personality
               | trait. the job, or type of job, has little to do with it.
               | 
               | This is very ignorant.
               | 
               | There are many outside factors that go into if an
               | employee needs to focus on work after hours, such as
               | accessibility to the working environment, cultural
               | practices at the company, etc.
               | 
               | Who said anything about haunting?
               | 
               | If my manager hits me up at 11pm asking for something,
               | sure I can ignore him or her.
               | 
               | Then I come in the next day, they already did the thing
               | they asked for themselves because [insert business
               | reason], and says "never mind".
               | 
               | Next time it happens, they go to the other dev who is
               | happy to do it at 11pm.
               | 
               | Guess who gets the promotion?
        
               | disgruntledphd2 wrote:
               | The sucker who's working at 11pm?
               | 
               | More seriously, if this is you, find an employer/manager
               | who's not gratuitously invading your non work time.
        
               | asidiali wrote:
               | Very much agreed. You have to do what is in your control
               | as an employee. If it's a cultural problem, that usually
               | means your best bet is to simply find a team with better
               | culture. Culture is a hard problem to solve if it's not
               | right.
        
               | aerosmile wrote:
               | With two comments quoting the same example, you seem
               | really hell-bent on driving this point home. Ok, I'll
               | bite. How often do you get those 11pm requests that will
               | otherwise get rerouted to someone else unless you respond
               | before 8am? Daily? Weekly? Monthly? A few times per year?
               | 
               | Context matters, because believe it or not, most
               | professionals occasionally go the extra mile no matter
               | what industry they are in. I recently dropped off a
               | motorcycle for a repair, and the young guy working at
               | that shop stayed an hour late to get my business. When
               | something breaks in my house, I have hundreds of people
               | jumping at the bit to come to fix it at any given time,
               | before or after work, weekday or weekend.
               | 
               | Nothing is ever perfect in life, but your criticism of
               | your experience as a software engineer would come across
               | as a lot more empathetic if you started off by
               | acknowledging that you made an excellent career choice to
               | start with, and that this allows you unprecedented career
               | mobility, including the option of easily quitting your
               | job should you have the rare misfortune of having landed
               | at any of the few bad apples that do not reward you for
               | your stress with oodles of money that you wouldn't be
               | able to make anywhere else with that amount of effort and
               | work experience.
               | 
               | Not to mention that if stress and money are not your
               | thing, go and work as a software engineer at an old
               | school Fortune 500 company. I promise to you that nobody
               | will ever ask you to do anything at 11pm there, and
               | you'll still get paid well.
        
               | asidiali wrote:
               | > How often do you get those 11pm requests that will
               | otherwise get rerouted to someone else unless you respond
               | before 8am? Daily? Weekly? Monthly? A few times per year?
               | 
               | Multiple times per month. 3/4 weekends per month. How's
               | that? Not uncommon in many small startups I've been a
               | part of as an employee, founder, or advisor.
               | 
               | Your point is fine, except for the fact that it totally
               | overlooks if an employee is actually already putting in
               | that extra effort, and is just getting taken advantage of
               | by their company.
               | 
               | What if I am already objectively going the extra mile?
               | Who's to say I'm not? My boss. And they will say that.
               | See: Tesla Skips 401k Match for Third Straight Year [1],
               | while simultaneously investing over $1B into Bitcoin.
               | 
               | > and that this allows you unprecedented career mobility,
               | including the option of easily quitting your job should
               | you have the rare misfortune of having landed at any of
               | the few bad apples that do not reward you for your stress
               | with oodles of money that you wouldn't be able to make
               | anywhere else with that amount of effort and work
               | experience.
               | 
               | Ok, setting aside the fact that the money is relative to
               | the value created for these companies (see: richest
               | people on the planet and how they got there)...
               | 
               | You didn't actually comment on the main point. You just
               | said, oh if that happens, you are able to leave. Yeah -
               | that's the point. It happens. And if it does, you should
               | leave. Not succumb to Stockholm syndrome and act like oh
               | it's part of "sacrificing for this awesome job". Even you
               | said it. Go find another job.
               | 
               | If you think this is just happening at "a few bad apples"
               | then I'm inclined to assume you have not experienced a
               | wide variety of startup and company cultures in multiple
               | locales - not saying this is true of you but what it
               | sounds like.
               | 
               | I only used the same comment because another person made
               | a similar point which warranted an identical response.
               | 
               | [1] https://www.pionline.com/defined-contribution/tesla-
               | skips-40...
        
               | aerosmile wrote:
               | > many small startups I've been a part of as an employee,
               | founder, or advisor
               | 
               | As a significant equity holder in an early stage company,
               | you cannot compare yourself to regular employees. We're
               | no longer comparing professions, and instead are
               | comparing approaches to wealth creation: salary vs
               | equity. Again, if you're not a fan of risk, get a job at
               | a bank.
               | 
               | To bring it back to your original post - you called
               | someone ignorant for stating that leaving work at work is
               | a choice. It is indeed a choice, as we both concluded by
               | stating that this career gives you plenty of opportunity
               | for career mobility.
               | 
               | EDIT: your post changed a couple of times and most
               | recently added some bizarre criticism of capitalism
               | ("setting aside the fact that the money is relative to
               | the value created for these companies"). This is totally
               | off-topic, and frankly I am having a hard time following
               | your reasoning so I'll disengage and just hope you'll
               | find peace and appreciation for the good things in life.
        
               | asidiali wrote:
               | > To bring it back to your original post - you called
               | someone ignorant for stating that leaving work at work is
               | a choice.
               | 
               | It was tongue in cheek. I was literally quoting them
               | calling me ignorant - it looks stupid and is not
               | condusive to good discussion, I agree!
               | 
               | > As a significant equity holder in an early stage
               | company, you cannot compare yourself to regular
               | employees.
               | 
               | I was expressing the fact that I've seen this many times
               | at several companies, as opposed to it being "a few bad
               | apples" as you originally stated. Not that there is any
               | similarity in the experiences of those roles.
               | 
               | The choice to leave work at work on the daily, vs the
               | choice to switch jobs when you're unhappy, are not the
               | same choice - just so we clear that up because I feel
               | like there are two separate points being made here vs the
               | original comment I was replying to.
               | 
               | It is a choice to leave, yes, definitely agree with you
               | there and I appreciate your perspective here. We are
               | definitely privileged to be in such a fruitful field.
               | 
               | It is also a choice to leave work at work, however, there
               | can be ramifications at your expense and out of your
               | control if you do so. That doesn't happen when you are
               | unhappy and decide to start looking for another job,
               | unless you tell your employer you're doing so...
               | 
               | EDIT: I added some hard data points to back up what I was
               | saying. None of the points changed, only added, didn't
               | delete. Apologies if that confused you.
               | 
               | Criticism of capitalism? Lol, you said we should be
               | grateful for all this money we earn in comparison to
               | other industries. I said no duh, we create a ton of
               | wealth - look at the wealthiest people in the world, they
               | come from software - Gates, Musk, Bezos. It makes sense
               | that compensation is higher in an industry where more
               | value is being created.
               | 
               | > so I'll disengage and just hope you'll find peace and
               | appreciation for the good things in life.
               | 
               | Likewise :)
        
               | bhandziuk wrote:
               | Sounds like if you have the potential to be addressing
               | business problems at 11pm you should have an on-call
               | schedule. Your boss just calling people randomly in the
               | night is not a great way to get things done reliably
               | anyway.
        
               | asidiali wrote:
               | Agreed! It's a business problem. It's not a problem of
               | the employee to shift their mentality to suit the demands
               | of their employer. People want to do a good job though.
               | Hence why there is onus on the employer to provide work-
               | life balance. It's not enough to just "not ask" for work
               | on the weekends. You need to proactively discourage it.
        
             | andrew_ wrote:
             | This is a most excellent point. I will say that movement of
             | scope, scheduling, and the like does change during all
             | hours of the day, and calls to the home to talk about that
             | are common after hours.
        
             | yardie wrote:
             | This is where you ignore the email until the morning. The
             | only place where working offhours has a use is in early
             | startups where money is tight, deadlines are short, and
             | products are loosely defined. If you're working at a well
             | managed company managers will nip it in the bud. Either way
             | I'm not in college and I'm getting my 6-8 hours of sleep.
             | If I work late I arrive late and expect no argument over
             | it.
             | 
             | I've only ever gotten an email like that because someone's
             | ass was on the line for a 12am deadline. You only send an
             | email like that because you are burning a personal favour.
        
               | asidiali wrote:
               | Copying part of my reply to another comment:
               | 
               | If my manager hits me up at 11pm asking for something,
               | sure I can ignore him or her.
               | 
               | Then I come in the next day, they already did the thing
               | they asked for themselves because [insert business
               | reason], and says "never mind".
               | 
               | Next time it happens, they go to the other dev who is
               | happy to do it at 11pm.
               | 
               | Guess who gets the promotion?
               | 
               | Even if it's unfair and shouldn't happen that way -
               | company culture is not something controlled by an
               | contributing engineer.
               | 
               | But I agree with your other points - a well run company
               | will nip this in the bud! That's exactly the point. It's
               | not in control of the engineer. It's company culture.
               | You're right that I'd say this probably happens much more
               | at startups vs larger companies due to the loose and fast
               | nature.
        
               | yardie wrote:
               | > my manager hits me up at 11pm asking for something
               | 
               | One thing I learned about management is they are getting
               | more than salary, usually there is a bonus or RSUs
               | attached to everything they do. But they aren't working
               | at 11pm for the good of the company if the good of the
               | company isn't directly benefiting them. Keep that in mind
               | the next time you respond to that midnight email.
               | 
               | > they go to the other dev who is happy to do it at 11pm.
               | 
               | Believe it or not this dev sounds like management
               | material. That's not a compliment! If you think back to
               | every belittling, sociopathic manager/director story
               | you've observed or heard, these are the places they are
               | formed. Now some managers are great leaders and you
               | recognize why they are in that position. The majority are
               | sycophants who kiss the right ass, by working at 11pm on
               | a saturday.
        
               | asidiali wrote:
               | Sadly I totally agree with you, it is true.
               | 
               | There is a social element to that equation though, which
               | is why management in this particular type of situation
               | has the tendency to so often turn into a "cool club" of
               | people who do everything together, hack on the weekends
               | together, drink after work together, etc, and thus the
               | work/life balance only gets worse as the cycle repeats
               | and new managers are initiat...I mean, hired. Because
               | it's in their personal best interest to keep up this
               | culture.
        
           | mywacaday wrote:
           | It needs to be give and take on both sides, I went back to
           | finish a presentation deck last night until 1am but I'll
           | finish early in Friday or take time when it suits me and I
           | don't have to tell my manager. One of the my direct reports
           | took some time this morning to go do some person errands,
           | didn't use vacation as he steps up when needed. He sent me a
           | courtesy message to say he would be out for a few hours but
           | it wasn't for approval. He gives when he needs to and he
           | takes when he needs to and I trust him to manage that. But
           | trust is needed and I've seen plenty of managers abuse
           | people's goodwill, I can see why unions formalize that in a
           | way.
        
           | andrew_ wrote:
           | I disagree only in that I worked salaried positions in the
           | trades for some time. While most trades are hourly, there
           | does exist a salaried contingent. The thinking that extra
           | asks from your employer is an intrusion into your life is
           | inherently, entitlement. Solid companies and management will
           | repay that extra effort, in one form or another.
        
             | dvtrn wrote:
             | Well by your definition then I've come to makepeace with my
             | entitlement, then, if this is truly entitlement to not want
             | a work life that thinks it can intrude on my non-work life
             | without me saying something about it and trying to minimize
             | the blast radius.
             | 
             | Yes, I'm entitled. I'm entitled to being defined by more
             | than just how I make money. Yep. 100%
             | 
             | Glad we could have this talk. Feels good to finally get
             | that out.
        
               | shrimp_emoji wrote:
               | "Human rights, democracies, and whatever... It's all
               | ~~nonsense~~ entitlement..."
               | 
               | (https://pics.me.me/thumb_translated-by-memritv-org-
               | human-rig...)
        
             | yardie wrote:
             | > The thinking that extra asks from your employer is an
             | intrusion into your life is inherently, entitlement.
             | 
             | Let's get this straight an entitlement is something that is
             | owed. If I buy health insurance and go to the hospital I am
             | entitled to use it. If I pay for unemployment in my salary
             | and become unemployed I am entitled to it.
             | 
             | > in one form or another.
             | 
             | Banking and housing unfortunately does not work this way. I
             | can only present a paystub or W4 when applying for a loan
             | or renting a flat, any other form of compensation is
             | disregarded. My dedication to the job should be remitted
             | through my salary, a employee pizza/ice cream party doesn't
             | mean a thing to me.
        
           | ed25519FUUU wrote:
           | Every tech company I've worked at expected me to bring my
           | laptop home every night "just in case we need you to jump in"
           | 
           | FANG companies also typically pay your cellphone bill, again
           | because they expect to be able to page and call you at any
           | time.
        
             | yardie wrote:
             | I do the same but I don't jump in right away. We have
             | runbooks and escalation routines. If it gets to the point
             | that I need to "jump in" I take that time back in the
             | upcoming days and weeks.
             | 
             | As a personal favour I will fire off a private message to
             | whichever colleague is on call if I see they are
             | floundering. Because I'm a good guy and believe the help I
             | give today may be requited down the line.
        
         | travisgriggs wrote:
         | This. The article author describes a number of symptoms. Viewed
         | through my lens of abstraction, he's arguing about passion for
         | the job/product/team. People who are passionate about what they
         | do are often frustrated when surrounded by those less
         | passionate.
         | 
         | I notice in some of the comments either in support of or
         | against this guy, there's a subtle distinction. Those against
         | say things like "I'd never work _for_ this guy. " And those
         | more supportive, say things like "I'd like to work _with_ this
         | guy. "
         | 
         | I see in tech often that there are those who want to view it as
         | an idyllic "team play" game. We're all on the court together
         | trying to score goals. And there's another segment that see it
         | in the more traditional factory worker. Clearly defined roles,
         | chains of report, advancement up the pyramid.
        
         | saalweachter wrote:
         | I've actually had the opposite experience working as summer
         | labor for facilities maintenance.
         | 
         | It was extremely 9-to-5; well, technically, 7-to-3:30. Most
         | people worked most of the time, because it was hourly, but if
         | you needed to arrange to not, it wasn't a big deal, because you
         | were hourly, and moreover, not customer-focused. If (nearly)
         | everyone took the same day off, you just needed a skeleton crew
         | for emergencies and the maintenance just got done a day later.
         | 
         | I don't think the distinction is really "tech versus non-tech"
         | or even "white-color versus blue". I think the real distinction
         | is jobs that have deadlines for one-off projects versus jobs
         | that ... don't, where you just do the same tasks over and over
         | because they keep needing to be done. Building maintenance is a
         | lot like building construction, it uses the same skills to do
         | the same things, but one uses a small number of people to do
         | the work over fifty years that the other does with a large
         | number in one.
         | 
         | The two types of work require different mindsets and different
         | lifestyles. When you have a deadline, one big thing to
         | accomplish before you rest, it makes sense to work long hours
         | and monomaniacally to meet those deadlines. When you are in it
         | for the long haul, you need to pace yourself.
        
         | enraged_camel wrote:
         | >> We have it AMAZINGLY WELL being in tech, and we have
         | luxuries that are unique to tech and bewildering to folks in
         | other fields.
         | 
         | Yep, even other highly paid fields! Can you imagine a surgeon
         | scheduling their surgeries around yoga classes?
        
           | asidiali wrote:
           | I have news for you buddy...
           | 
           | That's exactly what they do.
        
             | enraged_camel wrote:
             | Nah. My parents are doctors and I know quite a few
             | surgeons. They might schedule their work around kids and
             | family and whatnot, but none of them will opt to go to yoga
             | or whatever when there is a pending surgery.
             | 
             | I know of only one guy who is a plastic surgeon and he is
             | like that, but he's also one of the best in his field and a
             | bit of a prima donna...
        
               | asidiali wrote:
               | Ok, I hear you. However, I cofounded a medical startup
               | with 3 surgeons, seeing their day to day routine pretty
               | closely, at their offices, at home, etc...
               | 
               | And they definitely worked around their own schedule.
               | They either owned their own practice, or worked at a
               | larger one, and controlled their own scheduling via their
               | team. Surgeries are scheduled weeks or months in
               | advanced. Only when an emergency came in they needed to
               | shuffle things around - basically the same thing with
               | engineers and planned deployments vs random outages.
               | 
               | > none of them will go to yoga with a pending surgery
               | 
               | Ok, yeah, of course they are not going to just up and
               | leave when there is an appointment or deadline. That has
               | nothing to do with whether or not they chose the time of
               | that appointment in the first place.
               | 
               | > They might schedule their work around kids and family
               | and whatnot
               | 
               | s/kids/exercise/g
        
             | Balgair wrote:
             | There is the old stereotype of a MD canceling appointments
             | because of a Tee-Time conflict, after all.
        
           | amerkhalid wrote:
           | Yes they do. I have a few doctor friends, like for any
           | customer facing job they cannot just show up an hour late.
           | But they have a lot of control on their schedule and they do
           | schedule it around their yoga classes, prayer schedule, kids
           | stuff etc.
        
         | david38 wrote:
         | Overtime is remembered a lot less than you think. I have family
         | in the trades and they much prefer their union jobs to my
         | programming one.
         | 
         | Yes, I get paid more, but I also work more, in an area where I
         | can't afford a house.
        
           | eropple wrote:
           | You aren't constrained to live in those areas to make a
           | living, though. I'm a senior/principal level developer living
           | just outside of Boston (I can walk to a subway in 30 minutes
           | or just hop on a commuter rail stop in about five) and I can
           | very comfortably afford a 4-bed house on a single salary. And
           | the Boston area _is not cheap_.
        
             | ghaff wrote:
             | Like many cities that have expensive areas (and
             | Boston/Cambridge certainly do), it's often fairly easy to
             | get to suburbs--some of which have downtown areas--that
             | aren't Midwest cheap but are fairly affordable. I live
             | quite a bit further out but I'm still able to drive in for
             | an evening or take commuter rail in for a day.
             | 
             | I think the fact that it's hard to get out of the expensive
             | areas in the Bay Area in a reasonable amount of time gives
             | a lot of people a false impression of the situation with
             | other expensive cities.
        
         | asidiali wrote:
         | You can't commit a fitted pipe to the company repo at 2am on a
         | weekend. You also can't be pressured to. Well you can - but we
         | would instantly recognize that one for what it is - ludicrous!
        
         | thefrog wrote:
         | > We have it AMAZINGLY WELL being in tech, and we have luxuries
         | that are unique to tech and bewildering to folks in other
         | fields.
         | 
         | This all fucking day. The worst part of this industry is the
         | entitlement and straight up lack of gratitude for your
         | position. It's taken for granted.
        
       | jC6fhrfHRLM9b3 wrote:
       | Golden handcuffs.
        
       | OakNinja wrote:
       | Wow. I'm curious what previous colleagues, employers and board
       | members would say about this guy.
        
       | lifeisstillgood wrote:
       | >>> Perhaps Corp-Tech should move to employee share buy back
       | where employees must sacrifice some of their salary for equity or
       | change equity to vest by a product related metric to connect the
       | teams performance with the employee returns.
       | 
       | Wow. It would have to tie into making upper management Pay-for-
       | performance linked to similar metrics ;-)
        
       | second--shift wrote:
       | One question i have about working at Google - a bit embarrassing
       | to ask, but does one's Google account/search history come into
       | play during the application/interview process? I'd rather not be
       | grilled about why I was Googling how to hack Wi-Fi passwords in
       | 2012.
        
         | xdavidliu wrote:
         | Can't tell if serious, but there's not a snowball's chance in
         | hell that happens.
        
         | chad_strategic wrote:
         | Wow! That's the worst you were googling?
         | 
         | You make me look like a saint. :)
        
       | cube2222 wrote:
       | Regular overtime is nothing else than organisational and
       | management failure to me. It means you have more work than you
       | have people for, and should just hire more of them.
       | 
       | I understand having to work late a day or two because there's an
       | outage, or a feature needs to be done ASAP, but I'm taking those
       | hours back the next day.
       | 
       | Also, not sure about others, but I'm wildly productive when
       | working up to 8 hours daily, and my productivity goes out the
       | window if I work more than that for prolonged periods of time,
       | because I get burned out real quick. (Actually, even with up to 8
       | hours I need regular vacations)
       | 
       | And being passionate about my work has absolutely nothing to do
       | with that. (I try to work at places where I'm very passionate
       | about it)
        
       | darig wrote:
       | It been 4 word since I make mistake. Probably good thing I not
       | there now.
        
       | cmrdporcupine wrote:
       | 9 years @ Google, and I too came from a company acquired by
       | Google. (In my case, Google did not keep our product or tech
       | stack around, so.) And yes, I can say many Googlers are entitled.
       | It's a fair descriptor. And the pace of work is slower than a
       | startup. In general.
       | 
       | And I too have many criticisms of Google. But.
       | 
       | Google has entirely different revenue constraints. It can afford
       | an entirely different way of working. That pace allows a more
       | sustainable cadence of development. It can be a more humane place
       | to work, in general.
       | 
       | Google can on the whole accomplish its revenue goals without
       | being a meat grinder. So why be one? I think there is a bit of a
       | problem with this guy's POV where he's come to fetishize the
       | actual process of the making of the sausage versus the sausage
       | itself.
       | 
       | Projects need not be run under insane stress if there's a steady
       | supply of talent and money to make things happen. Google can
       | afford that. Pace will be slower. Perhaps less competitive. But
       | the core business continues to do excellently.
       | 
       | For many of us Google is not an "exciting" place to work. But
       | it's a pretty good job to have and it pays well and gives access
       | to both great benefits and to interesting technology. And that
       | compensation in _most_ people does yield a sense of
       | responsibility for delivery. But maybe not the survival-of-the-
       | fittest-meat-grinder panic that this guy somehow seems to love.
        
         | g9yuayon wrote:
         | What the author said was a typical challenge in big enough
         | company. Big companies over hire as time goes by, and the
         | number of teams eventually outgrows the quantity of work. As a
         | result, you have meetings all day to align, to coordinate, and
         | to drive. The bigger an organization is, the more you hear
         | about such phrases, and the more time you spend in meetings.
         | BTW, I dare you to take away those meetings - so many people
         | need those meetings to "assert influence", to get visibility,
         | and to be promoted. In a large organization, people focus on
         | Produktionsverhaltnisse, aka relation of production, instead of
         | production itself.
         | 
         | This is also why the Bay Area is a truly great place to live
         | in. So many small companies are there for us to choose. They
         | move fast yet have reasonable work-life balance. They offer
         | great financial perspective too, which can be far better than
         | big companies if one's lucky.
         | 
         | Of course, I'm not saying big companies are all bad. Indeed,
         | some people are great at navigating company dynamics. They
         | build solid relationship in a complex environment. They make
         | things happen despite bureaucracy. They lead multiple teams to
         | achieve impossibles. They cut through red tapes like hot knife
         | cutting through butter. They build a company to last.
         | 
         | So, the real question one should ask is: which type of person
         | am I?
        
           | kenjackson wrote:
           | > Big companies over hire as time goes by, and the number of
           | teams eventually outgrows the quantity of work. As a result,
           | you have meetings all day to align, to coordinate, and to
           | drive. The bigger an organization is, the more you hear about
           | such phrases, and the more time you spend in meetings. BTW, I
           | dare you to take away those meetings - so many people need
           | those meetings to "assert influence", to get visibility, and
           | to be promoted.
           | 
           | I think this is overly cynical. Big companies are typically
           | further along the complexity curve. Complexity in
           | engineering, but also sales, marketing, support, and growth
           | opportunities (that is, growing revenue 25% is typically
           | easier when you're revenue is $100K versus $100M).
           | 
           | That said, they are real differences. A lot of people aren't
           | going to enjoy that type of work, and will opt-out of it. But
           | a lot of the lower-risk, better pay will be in this space (a
           | startup is high-risk, potentially incredible payout).
        
         | nixish wrote:
         | Great dissection and incision of the OP's "fetishizing of the
         | actual process of the making of the sausage vs the sausage
         | itself."
         | 
         | Creativity requires space. Space between work and space to
         | think, be it on a yoga mat at 12 PM or a 4 PM refresher.
        
         | fossuser wrote:
         | My take would be Google can afford it for now because they have
         | a web ad monopoly and don't have to compete.
         | 
         | If they ever lose that, the culture they've built will cause
         | them to be destroyed and irrelevant in not that much time.
         | 
         | For now, it's summer.
        
           | knuthsat wrote:
           | You're assuming the rest of the world is different but it
           | isn't. There's a massive amount of companies where working
           | pace is very slow. A large percentage of employees do barely
           | anything and these companies exist forever.
        
             | onlyrealcuzzo wrote:
             | This is mostly because at (a lot of) these places - there
             | is no reward for doing any work. You don't get promoted if
             | you do a good job. If you get a raise, it's like an extra
             | $1k a year.
             | 
             | You get little more than a pat on the back.
        
             | throwmeaway_66 wrote:
             | This is something that was unknown to me until a few years
             | ago and I believe it's unknown to many in the tech
             | industry. I make a close to Google-level salary in my
             | position (say, 85% of it) in a tech company and I barely do
             | any work (or better, I do some work for some hours a week).
             | Little accountability, zero stress. And when I say "I
             | barely do any work", I mean that when I hear start-up
             | people ridiculing the typical Google senior-and-up IC who
             | works 30-35 hours a week with weekends off, I say to
             | myself: that's crazy, what would they think of me working
             | (barely) 1/3 of those hours? Would I be the village idiot?
             | 
             | There is always some drops fear trying to find a way up my
             | limbic system whispering to me that one day this will be
             | over. One day, I will have to work for real again and I
             | will have to pass tough interviews and have new, possibly
             | demanding bosses. But this has been going for more than 4
             | splendid years, very long-termism tend to make one's life
             | pretty dull, and my dream is to open a bicycle shop anyway.
             | 
             | As a famous ad campaign used to suggest: "Think different".
        
               | 01100011 wrote:
               | Don't get complacent. I've been where you are, and when
               | the party is over you're going to have a hell of a
               | hangover unless you can ride that job to retirement.
               | Relearning how to compete after a few years of coasting
               | is brutal. I was just past 40 when my gravy train
               | derailed. The slack years were fun but they went by fast.
               | Compensation for a job is about more than money. It's
               | about where you end up as a person when the job is over.
        
               | throwmeaway_66 wrote:
               | That's a good point and that's the drop of fear climbing
               | making his way up to my brain. But I interview around, I
               | got some offers that I have declined so far and I do some
               | work, just a few hours a week.
               | 
               | You wrote: "Compensation for a job is about more than
               | money. It's about where you end up as a person when the
               | job is over.". It sounds good in theory, but in practice?
               | Should I switch job, maybe/likely accepting less money
               | and more stress in the coal train now because when the
               | luxury train stops I will be in a better place (I am
               | exaggerating for conversation purposes)? I have my
               | doubts. This is specific to my situation and I don't want
               | to explain too much (and that's why I use a throwaway
               | account), but outside of the US that would sound bizarre.
               | Switching from a cushy well-payed job to a demanding,
               | paying-less job because in a few months/years it will be
               | over? Yes, maybe I will get rusty here and there, but I
               | can move to Tulum for 3 months and get ready for
               | interviews, no?
               | 
               | EDIT: typo
        
               | 01100011 wrote:
               | I didn't say you should quit your job. Ride that train as
               | long as you can. I'm saying you should manage yourself.
               | If you only work half the day, spend the other half of
               | the day:
               | 
               | - Look for opportunities to contribute more at your job.
               | Don't wait for a manager to tell you what to do. Rewrite
               | some code. Propose a new feature. Improve the
               | documentation. Write more tests.
               | 
               | - Teach yourself new skills. Don't just skim books on new
               | languages/technologies. Develop a personal project and
               | pretend like you're being paid to work on it.
               | 
               | - Take practice coding tests. Stay up to date with
               | relevent skills.
               | 
               | Enjoy the job you have now, but keep yourself ready for
               | the day when that job goes away. I had a very easy job
               | for about 6 years. I automated most of my job and
               | effectively did not have a boss. I made great money and
               | spent most of my time working on hobbies, hiking, or
               | working on my house. When the job ended I suddenly
               | realized all of my skills were rusty. I regret wasting
               | all of that time, and wish I would have used it to better
               | myself.
        
               | throwmeaway_66 wrote:
               | All very good points. However, if you do (1) (Look for
               | opportunities at work), you don't have the time and
               | energy for (2) and (3) with the regularity needed for
               | making serious advances. At that point, you have a well-
               | paid, non-stressful, truly full-time job. I would skip
               | (1) and keep mostly (3) (well, that's what I do, more
               | than advice. A pat on my shoulder, if you will). They are
               | not paying you more, the more you do, the more troubles,
               | stress, and annoyances you call in your direction, and
               | when the tide turns, it is not that they are looking at
               | some code review you did or improved documentation you
               | wrote to keep you onboard.
               | 
               | As I like to say: there is no second life, the only one
               | that was build was virtual and "failed".
        
               | 01100011 wrote:
               | Yeah I didn't mean to suggest doing all 1, 2 and 3. Pick
               | one. Do _something_ for at least half of your idle time,
               | and do it with purpose.
               | 
               | > when the tide turns, it is not that they are looking at
               | some code review you did or improved documentation you
               | wrote to keep you onboard.
               | 
               | I mostly disagree, but it depends on your employer. As a
               | senior engineer, I very much have the opportunity to
               | differentiate myself and protect my position longer than
               | others. I lost my easy job to lower paid, lower skilled
               | engineer because I chose not to put in the work which
               | would have defined my role as a more difficult one. It
               | was easy to replace me when the time came because I
               | allowed the scope of my role to shrink to menial tasks
               | which did not require much thought.
        
               | 46Bit wrote:
               | > I can move to Tulum for 3 months and get ready for
               | interviews, no?
               | 
               | I've worked with plenty of sysadmins who suddenly had no
               | choice but to become software engineers. That learning is
               | brutal for _some_ of them-years long process, maybe
               | never. 3 months may not be enough if you coast for long
               | enough.
        
               | burntengthrw5 wrote:
               | Honest question from an eng working the last few decades
               | at a FAANG and finding themselves burnt out to the point
               | of panic attacks some mornings (e.g. "can I keep going at
               | this pressure"; which has me laughing at least a little
               | about the "FAANG is easy" sentiment elsewhere in the
               | thread)
               | 
               | Where? How do I find jobs like this?
               | 
               | I get what the sister comment points out about long-term
               | stagnation, but at the same time, I could desperately use
               | a few years without a resume gap, but without a perpetual
               | dagger hanging over my head.
        
               | throwmeaway_66 wrote:
               | There are plenty of high-revenue companies looking for
               | people with prestigious backgrounds in a non-explicitly-
               | called-that-way advisory role. It is not difficult to
               | find jobs like those in general, but IMO most FAANG
               | people lack the finesse needed to understand how to
               | position themselves and understand what other people
               | want, which, most of the time, are not the coding skills.
               | 
               | Panic attacks are brutal and getting employees to the
               | point of having panic attacks is part of what is wrong in
               | the tech world. And it happens, in big corps, because
               | some people want to advance at the expense of others.
        
               | burntengthrw5 wrote:
               | Very true on the last part. There are some quotes I'd
               | love to share from mentors in the space but that would ID
               | me too tightly.
               | 
               | Would you say that any particular background and skill
               | set or credentials/laurels (publishing? writing?
               | speaking? management? management at a certain level?)
               | sets you up most appropriately for getting this sort of
               | role? Basically, how do I take any actionable steps to
               | find those positions or move in that direction.
        
               | throwmeaway_66 wrote:
               | Certainly the FAANG-er needs to be in a senior role. To
               | have a less stressful job, you need to look for senior-
               | IC work, not management. Coming from management would be
               | ok, but mostly companies I am talking about are looking
               | for technical guidance or, more likely, reassurance.
               | Publishing is helpful only if in the very specific area
               | they are interested about.
               | 
               | As to how to find those positions, my recommendation
               | would be to look for (1) high-revenue, big companies
               | (they have the money and they have the space), (2) going
               | through some sort of transformation (moving to the cloud,
               | opening a new business area), and (3) need prestige, both
               | internally and externally.
               | 
               | You can find those jobs in job ads, but you need to look
               | at the ad written most of the time by a semi-clueless
               | recruiter through the lens of points (1-3) above.
        
             | bsaul wrote:
             | in my personnal experience, the only kind of companies that
             | are really comfortable to employees (in terms of perks) and
             | adopt a slow rythm, are benefiting from some kind of
             | monopolistic, regulatory situation.
             | 
             | Either public sector companies, or banks & insurance whose
             | business model can't be disrupted that easily because of
             | regulatory pressures.
             | 
             | Giant IT companies from the valley that successfully built
             | a way to lock down users are the other example.
        
               | sorisos wrote:
               | could also be a niche market product created a decade ago
               | that some other large company depends on. money keeps
               | rolling in with little effort. source: personal
               | experience. the company is no longer in operation but it
               | lasted for a god 30 years.
        
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           | izacus wrote:
           | Except that Google was known for all these perks, 20% time (I
           | wonder what this guy would think about someone wasting ONE
           | DAY A WEEK for something not on his project?!), good food,
           | etc. pretty much since inception.
           | 
           | Isn't that why so many people flocked there to work in the
           | first place?
        
           | lhorie wrote:
           | I recall watching a news report as a teen about how things
           | used to be pretty chill at Microsoft at its heyday. These
           | days it doesn't seem to have a monopoly on much of anything,
           | but it can still crank out interesting projects.
           | 
           | It doesn't have to be a black-and-white do-or-die.
        
             | Der_Einzige wrote:
             | MSFT is _still_ known for good WLB. Just check places like
             | Blind to get an idea of the corporate culture of a company.
             | There are certainly hard teams /jobs at MSFT but it seems
             | on average that the WLB at MSFT is super good.
        
             | eigenvector wrote:
             | Wasn't Microsoft widely regarded as a bit of a meat grinder
             | in the Ballmer days due to stack ranking?
        
             | fossuser wrote:
             | Microsoft became almost irrelevant under Ballmer or was at
             | least trending that way. Nadella's turn around is almost
             | miraculous and is itself probably an interesting story. I
             | wouldn't bet on that as the norm. I'd expect the norm to be
             | more like IBM, RIM, or Nokia.
             | 
             | I agree with most of the article, but one line stuck out to
             | me as particularly wrong:
             | 
             | >"After the acquisition, we have an extremely long project
             | that consumed many of our best engineers to align our data
             | retention policies and tools to Google. I am not saying
             | this is not important BUT this had zero value to our
             | users."
             | 
             | Good retention policy does provide value to users.
             | 
             | --
             | 
             | > "When COVID hit and we moved to work from home - a huge
             | amount of complaints began around why cant employees
             | expense food since they are not in the office. While most
             | "real" people were worried about keeping their jobs or
             | finding one, many employees were complaining about
             | expensing their food on top of their
             | salaries/stocks/bonuses."
             | 
             | +1 on this - I find this behavior really irritating, it
             | makes me roll my eyes to see some of the most coddled
             | employees in human history whining about this kind of
             | thing. The most charitable interpretation is its just a
             | normal way for people to bond over some shared thing by
             | complaining about it, but a lot of the complaining feels
             | like more than that.
             | 
             | > "We had lunch in the cafeteria and a Googler online ahead
             | of us was overheard saying "What? Sushi again???" which
             | became our inside joke around entitlement."
        
               | dcole2929 wrote:
               | I really hate this narrative that Nadella came in and
               | turned things around. He's absolutely made great
               | decisions since taking the reins but most of his early
               | success was just riding out things that Ballmer set in
               | motion.
               | 
               | Not to mention most of Ballmer's misses were more Bill
               | said no.
        
               | sangnoir wrote:
               | > Microsoft became almost irrelevant under Ballmer or was
               | at least trending that way
               | 
               | I'm not Ballmer's biggest fan, but I think he's often
               | sold short (to Nadella's benefit), you'd almost believe
               | Microsoft was tanking, but it grew a lot under Ballmer
               | (mobile failures notwithstanding).
               | 
               | As far as I can tell, Nadella just reprioritized projects
               | that Ballmer launched or shepherded in his boring-but-
               | efficient way: what new tech or project did Satya launch
               | that you can attribute MS's "turnaround" to? IMHO, it's
               | mostly PR/hearts-and-minds stuff, but I quit MS tech a
               | long time ago and haven't been following closely.
               | 
               | In retrospect, I think the Win mobile failures were
               | overblown, the zeitgeist then was _mobile_ would replace
               | desktop /laptop computers, therefore failing on mobile
               | could be fatal to Microsoft, and remained as a stain on
               | Ballmers name. The "post-pc" world suggested by
               | Apple/Jobs never materialized.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | >The "post-pc" world suggested by Apple/Jobs never
               | materialized.
               | 
               | Clearly, it was in Apple's interest to emphasize the
               | ascendance of mobile where they were strong vs. the PC
               | where Microsoft was. I doubt Jobs thought
               | desktops/laptops were going away, just that they'd become
               | a less important part of the landscape--and that's almost
               | certainly true among consumers as a whole.
        
               | rrradical wrote:
               | Stratchery did a nice piece on this:
               | https://stratechery.com/2018/the-end-of-windows/
        
               | sangnoir wrote:
               | That stratechery piece confirms that a number of Satya's
               | "quick wins" were projects mostly developed under Ballmer
               | but credited to Nadella... Which is exactly my point -
               | that Ballmer doesn't always get the credit he deserves,
               | for the sake of magnifying the contrasts between the 2
               | leaders.
        
               | lallysingh wrote:
               | I don't know about this. I think great engineers delete
               | more code than they write. Perhaps something similar is
               | relevant here.
        
               | Miraste wrote:
               | In a company the size of Microsoft, reprioritizing
               | projects correctly is how you create a turnaround. He
               | made Azure and Office 365 the central focus of the
               | company just as software revenue growth was shifting to
               | cloud hosting and SaaS, he stopped lighting money on fire
               | trying to resurrect Windows Phone, he pushed Linux and
               | OSS compatibility/development, and he put Phil Spencer in
               | charge of Xbox which has saved the gaming division. He's
               | also made some really nice acquisitions, IMO.
        
               | MrMorden wrote:
               | Azure was originally Windows Azure, but that was changed
               | a month after satyan became the CEO.
               | 
               | (MS employee; I work in Azure, but didn't become an MS
               | employee until 2019.)
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | Yep. You looked at the revenues and it was Windows and
               | Office which were clearly not continuing growth areas.
               | Azure was floundering and only targeting .Net. Xbox
               | wasn't doing great. They were flaming out on mobile. They
               | had most of the pieces. They just weren't arranged and
               | prioritized properly.
        
               | fossuser wrote:
               | See: https://stratechery.com/2018/the-end-of-windows/
               | 
               | I think that article gets most of it. There's some MSFT
               | narrative that comes up here a lot where people say
               | Ballmer was doing great and Nadella just continued his
               | plans, I don't buy it.
               | 
               | MSFT had a lot of strategic failures as well as product
               | failures under Ballmer. Nadella shifted strategy and made
               | them a serious competitor again.
        
               | sangnoir wrote:
               | > There's some MSFT narrative that comes up here a lot
               | where people say Ballmer was doing great and Nadella just
               | continued his plans, I don't buy it.
               | 
               | Then it should be easy to say which green-field projects
               | Nadella launched then. I can't think of any, but I'm open
               | to learning.
        
               | jariel wrote:
               | "made them a serious competitor again?"
               | 
               | They were making money hand over fist, massive growth in
               | revenues almost ever year under Ballmer. [1]
               | 
               | Which part of that massive money train is 'not serious
               | competitor'?
               | 
               | [1]
               | https://www.statista.com/statistics/267805/microsofts-
               | global...
        
               | fossuser wrote:
               | I'm open to being wrong here and I'd agree that my
               | initial comment was stated in a provocative way, but let
               | me clarify a bit.
               | 
               | Revenue growth isn't the whole story. If you're
               | extracting rents from legacy locked-in products or
               | enterprise deals that doesn't necessarily mean you're a
               | competitor on the new paradigms (phone, cloud, web).
               | 
               | At the time Windows phone was a failure and they missed
               | that entire platform because of Ballmer (there's hints of
               | your argument in this video, "we're making money with
               | windows mobile"):
               | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eywi0h_Y5_U
               | 
               | MSFT cloud wasn't doing well and was overly focused on
               | .NET
               | 
               | They were too focused on Windows rather than recognizing
               | the strategic value they could provide outside of it:
               | https://stratechery.com/2018/the-end-of-windows/
               | 
               | Today I'd make a similar argument for Intel. Intel
               | doubled down on old style fabs and is not competitive
               | with TSMC. They failed to compete on mobile. They're
               | ignoring the end of x86 and mocking Apple: https://hardwa
               | re.slashdot.org/story/21/02/08/2221233/intel-b...
               | 
               | Increasing revenue is a good sign, but it matters how. If
               | you're making short-term decisions to extract money from
               | legacy stuff at the expense of new products - that's bad
               | for your long-term future. It can take a while to catch
               | up to you, but it eventually will. Then you'll just limp
               | a long as a dinosaur that makes enough money to survive
               | but nobody really wants to work there and you're done
               | doing interesting projects. That's basically what I mean
               | by irrelevant.
        
               | zo1 wrote:
               | From my point of view, the things I've most "noticed"
               | coming from MS that are great seem to all have been
               | launched/started during Ballmer's days (2000-2014). For
               | me those are:
               | 
               | Office/Word Online (2010)
               | 
               | Azure (2008/2010)
               | 
               | WSL (Can't find info. Looks like it started before 2014
               | under Project Astoria)
               | 
               | .Net Core (Happened in 2014 - not sure who "started it")
        
               | greedo wrote:
               | "The "post-pc" world suggested by Apple/Jobs never
               | materialized."
               | 
               | I think if you could measure the man hours spent using
               | iDevices and Android devices, as a percentage of general
               | computing hours, you'd find that it would dwarf anything.
               | Everyone has a smartphone now. And tablet sales alone
               | outnumber PCs.
        
               | niketdesai wrote:
               | Nadella I think brought focus on ideas and prioritization
               | that complimented Ballmer's ideas. He doesn't need to
               | launch new projects, but ensure they are managed into a
               | place of relevance. In that regard, it really showcases
               | the excellent people MSFT has in the chain and how they
               | can help each other get to where they collectively want
               | to go.
        
               | newobj wrote:
               | MSFT "irrelevant" ... ah, ok, so you're just measuring
               | capturing zeitgeist vs. sustainability of the business
               | model ... ok
               | 
               | MSFT revenue has NEVER stopped growing: https://www.macro
               | trends.net/stocks/charts/MSFT/microsoft/rev...
        
               | jariel wrote:
               | "Microsoft became almost irrelevant under Ballmer or was
               | at least trending that way. Nadella's turn around is
               | almost miraculous "
               | 
               | This is definitely not true.
               | 
               | Ballmer increased revenues massively, and launched a slew
               | of new products (XBox, MS Live, cloud etc.) and realigned
               | the company. Have a look [1]
               | 
               | Nadella has done nothing approaching that level of
               | importance yet, so far, he is riding the wave that was
               | handed to him.
               | 
               | Now the _stock price_ - this is a different thing. It
               | sagged under Ballmer even as MSFT was massively growing
               | revenues, around Naella 's time investors realized that
               | MS 'was not fading' and all that extra EPS was like a
               | share price slingshot.
               | 
               | Ballmer was as transformative and important as Gates.
               | 
               | Nadella's early transformations were around culture, but
               | that's just PR.
               | 
               | [1]
               | https://www.statista.com/statistics/267805/microsofts-
               | global...
        
               | fossuser wrote:
               | Arguably the stock price is a prediction of future
               | success, not current revenue.
               | 
               | The fact that it sagged under Ballmer and is now up under
               | Nadella aligns with how I'm framing things. I suppose you
               | could argue that's entirely PR, but I don't think that's
               | the case.
               | 
               | People thought MSFT under Ballmer was trending down, now
               | they think it's trending up. I'd argue that's due to
               | strategic shifts that happened once Ballmer left.
               | 
               | I've mentioned in other comments that revenue (while
               | good) isn't the whole story.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | I somewhat sympathize with those living in a small
               | apartment who used to walk, take a shuttle bus, take the
               | subway, etc. to work where they were fed 5 days a week or
               | more--and now they're stuck in their small apartments
               | with most restaurants closed and facing the prospect of
               | maybe having to move to a bigger place. So one can choose
               | to interpret complaints about meal expensing in that
               | vein.
               | 
               | That said, in general, at least for the well-paid workers
               | at these companies, complaints about insufficient expense
               | reimbursement like that come across as pretty whiny.
        
               | fossuser wrote:
               | In my mind the company provides food as a perk in part so
               | people hang around and chat without leaving the office,
               | it also makes it more pleasant to work there.
               | 
               | It's not to feed you in your own home.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | Sure. That's why they do it. (Along with the fact that
               | it's an expected perk in some circles.) Which is also why
               | paying a meal per diem doesn't make a lot of sense. But
               | it's also somewhat understandable why there would be a
               | bit of grumbling about a benefit being taken away,
               | however unavoidably.
               | 
               | Of course, for many employees, the elimination of
               | commuting makes remote work a significant win
               | financially. But others never intended to do much more
               | than sleep in their apartments and the current situation
               | is therefore a net negative, even just financially.
        
               | hundchenkatze wrote:
               | That's still a ton of entitlement...
               | 
               | "Oh no! I make hundreds of thousands of dollars a year,
               | and I have to live in my tiny apartment, buy food, and I
               | might have to get a bigger apartment."
               | 
               | vs
               | 
               | "Oh no! I don't have a job, and I'm about to lose my
               | apartment because I can't pay rent."
        
               | nitrogen wrote:
               | I get pretty tired of this back and forth arguing in
               | circles over who is more entitled than whom, who has more
               | of a right to complain, who is the most aggrieved, who
               | has the biggest disadvantage to brag about.
               | 
               | Really nobody has a right to ask for anything, ever,
               | because there's always someone who has it worse, right?
               | The only legitimate rung of the ladder is the bottom one,
               | and we just keep finding lower rungs to use to shame
               | anyone higher?
               | 
               | Sure, there are people who live charmed lives and just
               | don't understand what the big deal is because nothing has
               | ever gone wrong for them. They sure as heck aren't me.
               | But let's all just stop with the tone policing. It's 100%
               | unproductive, and won't change anything about anybody's
               | situation, good or bad.
        
               | ghaff wrote:
               | Lots of people at Google, including many developers,
               | don't make "hundreds of thousands of dollars." It's also
               | just a unilateral change in the terms of their employment
               | (unavoidable as it is during the current times) that
               | might increase their costs by $25K? after taxes. That
               | other people have it much worse doesn't change the fact
               | that a fair number of people are seeing a change from
               | what they agreed to.
        
               | chad_strategic wrote:
               | Out of ~600 or some comments, this wins the award!
               | 
               | Thank you for really getting to the point of this
               | article.
               | 
               | But I would add...
               | 
               | I left my job etc, but now I going to stand on soap box
               | and write an article about and make myself sound so self
               | righteous.
        
               | hackily wrote:
               | My apartment in SF does not have a kitchen. Food provided
               | by the company helped me get by! With no car, and only a
               | handful of restaurant options within 1 mile, it's not the
               | easiest to get by without a company cafeteria. I can
               | sympathize with why many people would like to be able to
               | expense food.
        
               | vletal wrote:
               | I like how living in the close proximity to the city
               | center might seem somehow special from the perspective of
               | suburban oriented culture even though it is usually a
               | norm in Europe.
        
               | Aeolun wrote:
               | It's always seemed like more of a hassle to expense
               | lunch/dinner etc. given what we're getting paid.
               | 
               | Who the hell wants to deal with concur for every lunch?!
               | 
               | Then again, if your only goal is to extract as much money
               | as possible from the corporate machine, it might work.
        
               | rapsey wrote:
               | I don't know about that. Was MS ever not filthy
               | profitable? They are very successful with azure, was that
               | started by balmer or nadella?
               | 
               | People here give MS too little credit. Their reach is
               | MASSIVE. No american company has the world wide reach
               | that MS has. Practically every enterprise in the world is
               | their customer.
        
               | fossuser wrote:
               | Profit is a lagging indicator that often leads companies
               | astray with short-term decision making at the expense of
               | long-term relevance.
               | 
               | Look at Apple before the return of Jobs (though at that
               | point, they were having profit issues too - but what lead
               | to that was arguably short-term thinking).
               | 
               | Today, I'd argue Intel has made similar decisions that
               | put them on a bad long term path.
               | 
               | MS would have stayed alive for a while, but been a shadow
               | of their former self.
               | 
               | Obviously, it's hard to prove a counterfactual like this
               | - but this is how I model it.
        
               | rapsey wrote:
               | Enterprises are the slowest to change of all and this is
               | MS bread and butter. I completely disagree MS was ever
               | close to becoming irrelevant. Silicon valley is in it's
               | own little world. The rest of the planet is firmly a MS
               | customer.
               | 
               | MS can take all the good ideas, implement them and sell
               | them worldwide before a startup can get out of silicon
               | valley. Case in point: slack vs. teams.
        
               | fossuser wrote:
               | Arguably that focus on O365 and Azure - the strategy that
               | enabled Teams success was due to Nadella.
               | 
               | You're right though - 'irrelevant' is too provocative and
               | strongly worded.
               | 
               | I'm more focused on future bets and trends. I think that
               | trend shifted at Microsoft from trending towards future
               | irrelevance back in the other direction, to being a
               | competitive threat again.
        
               | lhorie wrote:
               | > why cant employees expense food since they are not in
               | the office
               | 
               | This is surprisingly not specific to Google. I've heard
               | of other instances of this in other bay area companies,
               | including mine. For us, it had to be put to rest at a
               | company-wide all-hands meeting, along with other overly
               | entitled complaints like "comp is not competitive", when
               | in reality levels.fyi ranks it higher than even FAANG.
               | 
               | Greed sometimes defies logic.
        
             | kamilszybalski wrote:
             | Microsoft has, imo, a monopoly of sorts on two critical
             | pieces. 1. Its ability to permeate Enterprise, 2. Its
             | channel strategy/network.
             | 
             | What comes to mind most recently? See Slack.
        
             | freebee16 wrote:
             | that happened after nadella changed course from the balmer
             | years. It is not always the case that a new CEO can turn
             | around the company (for example see GE).
        
               | devchix wrote:
               | See also SUNW. McNealy imported the 6Sigma thing from GE,
               | at one time it infected even teams not involved in
               | manufacturing. MSFT had the best outcome for giants of
               | the aughts. It is too bad OpenSolaris was left for dead,
               | otherwise we'd have some choices and competition in *nix
               | OS. AIX, dead. HP-UX, dead. Can't recall the DEC, Ultrix?
               | Who runs that anymore. The last time I saw BSD
               | commercially used was at a telco.
        
               | CoolGuySteve wrote:
               | A lot of my early jobs were porting various Unix things
               | to Linux. I spent time writing cross platform C++, perl,
               | and bash on Solaris, IRIX, HP-UNIX, and DEC Tru46, but
               | mostly Solaris and IRIX.
               | 
               | I gotta say, all those Unices fucking sucked. The
               | userland tools were abysmal, with missing flags or bugs
               | in their getopts, the compilers and their sockets
               | libraries were extremely finicky, and their man pages
               | were anemic.
               | 
               | GNU/Linux won because if something sucked, somebody
               | somewhere would fix it. By the early 2000s, and
               | especially after Linux 2.6, it was obvious closed-source
               | UNIX was both worse and overpriced.
               | 
               | Even now it seems like the best part of the closed source
               | MacOS Unix stack is the open source homebrew/macports
               | stuff.
        
               | devchix wrote:
               | Agree with you that tooling was abysmal but all of those
               | *nix had their bright flowering that subsequently
               | pollinated other *nixes. AIX service management (SRC I
               | think?) eventually saw life in Solaris as SMF. BSD jails
               | reborn as containers. The HP-UX had batch job management
               | that was very good. Solaris ABI/API compat between
               | versions was exemplary, you can count on the OS upgrade
               | not breaking your application. When the compiler was
               | still being sold (thousands of dollars by the seat
               | license), it was optimized for the SPARC processor and
               | outperformed same code compiled by the GNU compiler. I
               | wish we had all of that still.
               | 
               | Apropos of the "curated App Store" or "free-for-all"
               | discussion currently active, I remember talking to a
               | colleague in the early 2000s that Apple with its curated
               | BSD-derivative OS was exactly what open sourced OSes
               | needed. Users don't want to do more work than necessary;
               | in retrospect, the selling point that users can do
               | anything+everything with *nix OS was the wrong message.
               | 
               | You didn't mention package management and network booting
               | to be pain points. They were nightmares, which Linux
               | eventually solved. I think that's where the race was
               | lost.
        
         | jeffbee wrote:
         | I've worked at 8 different companies and none of them could
         | even hold a candle to Google's pace of work. Everything just
         | works. The quota system works, the identity and authorization
         | system works, observability works, the build and release system
         | works. You can be a productive engineer at Google on day 2 if
         | you read the codelabs on day 1. Nobody at Google has ever
         | needed to have their manager email the Jira admin to get them
         | added to the right group to edit tickets. Nobody at Google has
         | a need to raise a ticket with some ops group in Bengaluru to
         | partition a Kafka topic, renew a certificate, bridge two VPCs,
         | or any of that type of thing. It's almost frictionless. I don't
         | get people who say that Google's pace is slow. I've definitely
         | worked in startups where some kid thought they were ultra-
         | productive with their late-night merges of 20000 lines of
         | untested code, but on longer time scales those startups
         | inevitably ground to a complete standstill under the weight of
         | that debt.
        
           | gresrun wrote:
           | 5+ yrs @ Google, Google is my 5th company.
           | 
           | Google has all the building blocks for great backend services
           | and front-end development and, if you know where to look and
           | have some experience with them, you can build a rock-solid
           | product in <6mos, also assuming you have a team that can
           | execute and the political will to ship it.
           | 
           | Politics/consensus building is where the real roadblocks lie
           | in Google, and presumably other large companies. Trying to
           | make high-level product & technical decisions when you have
           | 10 stakeholders with 3 VPs, all in different orgs, is serious
           | exercise in patience; months of emails & meetings await you.
        
           | brandon wrote:
           | > Nobody at Google has a need to raise a ticket with some ops
           | group in Bengaluru to partition a Kafka topic, renew a
           | certificate, bridge two VPCs, or any of that type of thing.
           | 
           | Except when your team wanted to initially onboard with GOOPS
           | and your request sat in Buganizer for 2 weeks waiting for
           | someone to triage. Uh oh -- we're turning down this service
           | next quarter, you will need to go start this onboarding
           | process again with its replacement.
           | 
           | Or when you needed quota in a cell where your product area
           | didn't have Flex. Maybe you can set up a VC with your PARM?
           | Does next week work for your launch plan? Hopefully they can
           | do _something_ for you!
           | 
           | Or when your logs access request sat in GUTS for a month
           | because both of the approvers were on vacation and no,
           | there's not an escalation path.
           | 
           | Or when you needed to change a firewall rule for a project
           | your team inherited which for some reason runs on GCE. Make
           | sure you bring your Ariane link when you open your request.
           | Have ISE reviewed your code? No? ISE currently have a
           | quarter-long backlog, so we're not sure we can grant your
           | firewall exception.
           | 
           | None of these examples are contrived; the weight of the
           | operational bureaucracy is staggering. It may well be that
           | this stuff is felt more on the SRE/Security side around
           | production launches than on the SWE side for experimentation
           | or iterative development, but I struggle with the idea that
           | Google is nimble.
        
             | jeffbee wrote:
             | That was some T7-9 whining right there. Do you think it's
             | easier to get unplanned compute capacity at some other
             | company?
        
               | [deleted]
        
             | throwaway3699 wrote:
             | Sure, things get hairy when you go off the beaten path, but
             | day-to-day infrastructure is not the issue. As a user of
             | Google products I don't care as much about developer
             | velocity as I do them shipping swiss cheese products
             | security-wise. If I have to wait a few months more for some
             | new feature, I'll take that trade-off.
        
               | jeffbee wrote:
               | Right, the slothful approval process for log retention
               | and access is a feature, not a bug. It's part of the
               | reason why Google's technical privacy story is
               | incomparable.
        
             | throwaway-dos wrote:
             | Registered account to reply here, because your complaints
             | feel one sided to me.
             | 
             | Most of what you described i felt as well _sometimes_ for
             | security related stuff, like dedicated machines in that one
             | cluster or an ISE review on short notice--but security
             | related is also somewhat out of the norm and considering
             | that is, Google does a great job.
             | 
             | For "normal" services what you described does not match my
             | experience at all. Even for medium sized infrastructure
             | services mostly everything just works (IME).
             | 
             | Never had a GUTS ticket that was not answered within a
             | business day, but obviously just n=1 sample--imo support
             | staff is mostly amazing.
        
           | xmprt wrote:
           | All the reasons you've given for fast pace are tech reasons
           | and I don't think anyone is arguing with that. The author
           | mostly discussed how people reasons is why the pace is slowed
           | down and that's something that's a lot more prevalent at big
           | corporations than at startups.
        
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         | chubot wrote:
         | The problem is that it can hurt your career, especially if
         | you've never worked anywhere else. (random guess: somewhere
         | between 15% and 30% of the workforce falls in that category)
         | 
         | You can learn the wrong lessons: you learn how to go up for
         | promotion rather than build things that work for users.
         | 
         | In the last 10 years it's become extremely common at Google do
         | work that is simply thrown away (because of issues above your
         | pay grade). You could work at Google for 5 years and nothing
         | you worked on ever sees the light of day. That is a problem.
         | 
         | You don't learn what works when your work gets thrown away. You
         | can still get promoted anyway. So why do the work? Just pretend
         | you did it. (It's usually not as black-and-white as that;
         | employees are usually well intentioned but then are surprised
         | when the work that was hyped up by management gets suddenly
         | thrown away.)
         | 
         | I'd say that if you want to have a good career as an engineer,
         | you should focus exclusively on building things from 22 to 26
         | (or whatever your first 4 years are). If you miss a year or 2
         | of that because of corporate politics, then you missed a lot of
         | learning, and you may be unqualified for future jobs.
         | 
         | There is legitimately a lot to learn about writing software on
         | the job -- IMO it's more than the equivalent of another 4 year
         | CS degree.
         | 
         | ----
         | 
         | This is probably the best description of it that I've read
         | (after working there myself for over a decade and seeing the
         | change in values):
         | 
         | https://mtlynch.io/why-i-quit-google/
         | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=16483241
         | 
         | I heard someone describe grad school as "17th grade" for some
         | people with the wrong attitude. Google might be "21st grade"
         | for others. That is, you're following metrics set up by an
         | organization -- getting "graded" -- rather than building things
         | for "the world".
         | 
         | The way some Google employees speak about "the world"
         | highlights that disconnect. (e.g. the wearables thing on the
         | front page yesterday was mocked)
         | 
         | To be fair, this is how things work at most jobs. If you work
         | at a big bank or insurance company, you don't really care about
         | "customers" either -- they are too far away from you. You care
         | about what your boss thinks and his or her boss. This is sort
         | of the "default" configuration of society.
        
           | cmrdporcupine wrote:
           | Yes, well, I agree with all those criticisms. It's been 9
           | years of frustration for me, here at Google. But that's not
           | what my comment was about. I took issue with his griping that
           | he couldn't hire and fire and drive a meat grinder. To me
           | that's an entirely other kind of dysfunction...
           | 
           | Perf at Google is broken. But I think it's endemic to large
           | companies, probably. I only worked at smaller ones before. I
           | worked for some that were meat grinders, and others that were
           | better.
        
         | ryandrake wrote:
         | > Google can on the whole accomplish its revenue goals without
         | being a meat grinder. So why be one?
         | 
         | This is a great take. I've worked in a place where the revenue
         | was astronomical, to the point where the entire company could
         | probably do nothing for 100 years and still be viable, yet it
         | was run like a meat grinder, where everyone did insane hours
         | and you always worried that it wouldn't be enough and you would
         | be stack ranked out of a job. Truly awful, because it was so
         | unnecessary. On the other hand, I've worked for a start-up with
         | a visibly short runway, where it was obvious to everyone that
         | if everyone didn't bust their asses, the company would fail. At
         | least there you have an actual reason to be a meat grinder.
         | 
         | I think a lot of companies could succeed yearly and make Wall
         | Street happy and still _not_ be a meat grinder, but some sick,
         | stubborn cultural norm makes  "meat grinder" the default mode
         | of operation.
        
         | 627467 wrote:
         | Isn't there a place for this kind of fetish? It doesn't need to
         | be in today's Google (but maybe in 5 year old Google).
         | 
         | > Google can on the whole accomplish its revenue goals without
         | being a meat grinder. So why be one?
         | 
         | I too hope Google can prove that this state can be maintained
         | after certain quasi-monopolies it holds start to vanish...
        
           | titanomachy wrote:
           | I agree that there's a place (probably not Google) for this
           | attitude, and my impression is that this is the realization
           | that the author eventually arrived at: he wouldn't change
           | Google, or change his nature, so he had to leave. Even though
           | his frustration was clear, the message that came through for
           | me was not simply "Google is bad" but more "Google and I are
           | too different to work together". A lot of what he dislikes
           | about Google is true of any large company.
           | 
           | Although, he was very critical of Googlers' entitlement in
           | particular. This is a real issue, especially among those who
           | have never worked elsewhere, but IME people are more self-
           | aware about it than he implies.
        
             | Aeolun wrote:
             | > A lot of what he dislikes about Google is true of any
             | large company.
             | 
             | Lol, yeah. A lot of what he said made me nod along :)
        
         | dmayle wrote:
         | *This
         | 
         | I came here to say something similar. I'm a founder, I've been
         | a manager and a software engineer, I did 5 years @ Google.
         | 
         | When I hear someone in "upper management / founder / in a
         | position of power over employee's lives" say that what they
         | really needed for their own success was a way to threaten/risk
         | the livelihood of their employees so that they would work
         | harder, it just makes me sad for anyone affected by them.
         | 
         | Yes, sometimes employees need to be fired... but sometimes
         | management also needs restructuring. The truth of the matter is
         | that at a company the size of Google, it gets harder and harder
         | for an individual employee to directly influence success. I
         | think that's mostly because of the policies in place to make
         | sure that employees don't directly *damage* success either.
         | 
         | This means that you have to work within the system you have. An
         | employment contract is two-sided, you're offering something
         | that the employee wants, and they're offering something that
         | you want. If your first reaction when there's a problem is to
         | cut their pay or fire them, then you're the one with the
         | problem, not them.
         | 
         | Yes, there are times you need to fire someone (and I have), but
         | that should be reserved for one of two cases: 1) they are
         | actively damaging the business (e.g. destroying company
         | property, morale, hurting business prospects), or 2) despite
         | your best efforts, they are unable/unwilling to fulfill their
         | side of the contract. Just realize that firing someone has a
         | cost for your company and team as well as for the employee.
         | 
         | I'd rather part ways amicably, finding them something that
         | works for them if possible, and I think what Noam said about
         | managers recommending great employees is unfair both to the
         | managers and the employees. I've had employees who were hard-
         | working and passionate, just not passionate about the project
         | they were working on. When that happens, the best thing you can
         | do for both of you is to find them the fit that works.
         | 
         | Can you build a large company that doesn't get mired down in
         | things like management and governance and legal and policy? I
         | hope to someday get large enough to find out, because I've got
         | some ideas... (Like separating those functions out in the same
         | way there are engineering teams dedicated to software tooling.)
         | 
         | But it requires a will and effort from the top down, and the
         | people who get excited about building billion dollar businesses
         | don't seem to get excited about maintaining them once they get
         | that size.
        
           | apohn wrote:
           | I wish I could give you more than one upvote for this.
           | 
           | I work for a huge company. For every person I've worked with
           | who I thought needed to go, there at at least 10 (probably
           | more) who have become ineffective because of
           | management,politics, and bureaucracy.
           | 
           | I had a very different view of "who should be fired" when I
           | joined this company, but I think I've grown up a bit.
        
         | JMTQp8lwXL wrote:
         | A lack of any real time pressure may lead to unusual or
         | unjustifiable architecture decisions, or needless complexity.
         | It's true that not every place needs to be a meat grinder, but
         | you should timebox your projects.
        
           | hanniabu wrote:
           | There's a difference between time pressure and burning out
           | your employees. I believe the present is referring to the
           | latter.
        
       | JohnCarmack wrote:
       | I can certainly see a lot of parallels with Oculus / Facebook.
       | 
       | Perhaps unusually, I actually wanted FB to impress itself more
       | strongly on Oculus post acquisition because, frankly, Oculus was
       | a bit of a mess. Instead, Oculus was given an enormous amount of
       | freedom for many years.
       | 
       | Personally, nobody ever told me what to do, even though I was
       | willing to "shut up and soldier" if necessary -- they bought that
       | capability! Conversely, I couldn't tell anyone what to do from my
       | position; the important shots were always called when I wasn't
       | around. Some of that was on me for not being willing to relocate
       | to HQ, but a lot of it was built into early Oculus DNA.
       | 
       | I could only lead by example and argument, and the arguments only
       | took on weight after years of evidence accumulated. I could have
       | taken a more traditional management position, but I would have
       | hated it, so that's also on me. The political dynamics never
       | quite aligned with an optimal set of leadership personalities and
       | beliefs where I would have had the best leverage, but there was
       | progress, and I am reasonably happy and effective as a part time
       | consultant today, seven years later.
       | 
       | Talking about "entitled workers" almost certainly derails the
       | conversation. Perhaps a less charged framing that still captures
       | some of the matter is the mixing of people who Really Care about
       | their work with the Just A Job crowd. The wealth of the mega
       | corps does allow most goals to be accomplished, at great expense,
       | with Just A Job workers, but people that have experienced being
       | embedded with Really Care workers are going to be appalled at the
       | relative effectiveness.
       | 
       | The communication culture does tend a bit passive-aggressive for
       | my taste, but I can see why it evolves that way in large
       | organizations. I've only been officially dinged by HR once for
       | insensitive language in a post, but a few people have reached out
       | privately with some gentle suggestions about better
       | communication.
       | 
       | All in all, not a perfect fairy tale outcome, but I still
       | consider taking the acquisition offer as the correct thing for
       | the company in hindsight.
        
         | projectileboy wrote:
         | But as someone who recently bought a Quest 2, it really is an
         | amazing product, so some things there must have been very
         | right. In retrospect, do you know what those things were?
        
         | afdgadfgadfh wrote:
         | Along the lines of leaving oculus/fb, can we ask what would
         | have to happen for you to stop using an oculus/fb product?
        
         | Rebelgecko wrote:
         | Just curious, what things did you want/expect FB to be more
         | hands-on about? General things like company organization, or
         | more specific product decisions (I'm thinking of one
         | particularly controversial product decision but I understand if
         | that's a sensitive topic)?
        
           | dasm wrote:
           | I suspect he won't want to get into thorny PR issues, but
           | probably company organization. It's easy to imagine a
           | disorganized startup scaling poorly, and those within it
           | wanting guidance from highly-scaled FB.
        
         | choppaface wrote:
         | While I totally agree with your Really Care and Just A Job
         | characterization, I think that money does play a significant
         | role in overall picture. People behave very differently after
         | they run into six, seven, eight figures. And that behavior
         | isn't perfectly correlated with how much they put into the job.
         | There's a fair place for the "entitled" narrative, and when
         | these people have outsized leverage on the company or product,
         | it can create outsized problems.
        
           | draw_down wrote:
           | The entitlement is all over; talking about entitled employees
           | keeps us from turning our attentions elsewhere. Because then
           | we'd have to ask bigger questions and oh boy, our heads may
           | begin to hurt.
           | 
           | Let us not forget that industry heads have colluded to
           | suppress pay for engineers. Let us not forget that in
           | general, executives act as though we should be grateful for
           | our pay, rather than being remunerated for building the
           | systems that pour money into their bank accounts. Their
           | compensation is a fact of life, just the way it is. Ours is a
           | handout from the generous leadership team to the undeserving
           | peons.
           | 
           | Even the "just a job" framing is a form of entitlement; I
           | should not have employees who simply do a job for a wage,
           | they should _really care_ about that job. And if they have
           | moved from a place of _really caring_ to simply  "doing a
           | job", that isn't the fault of leadership or a symptom of the
           | organization. Those people are just, you know, entitled.
        
         | dasm wrote:
         | It's surprising to me that your (former) title wouldn't entail
         | more direct leadership, even as a simple messenger for "shut up
         | and soldier."
        
         | danans wrote:
         | > people who Really Care about their work with the Just A Job
         | crowd
         | 
         | These aren't discrete categories.
         | 
         | There are a lot of people who care about their work and also
         | recognize that at the end of the day, it is a job, and the
         | reality is that they can only play a role in shaping the
         | outcome, not dictate it per their vision.
         | 
         | Also, depending on the job, the team, the project, and the
         | product, people can go from one of those perspectives to the
         | other. There are a lot of people whose current job/role
         | situations aren't intrinsically motivating, but then find
         | incredible motivation due to a change in project or role (I've
         | experienced this multiple times).
        
           | ashkankiani wrote:
           | Then consider it a spectrum with Really Care on one end and
           | Just A Job on the other. I don't think it takes away from the
           | original point.
        
         | yks wrote:
         | Often workers are perfectly capable and eager of Really Caring
         | but then the company incentives and politics force them into
         | Just A Job category. Especially when joining Big Tech not via
         | acquihire.
        
         | allenu wrote:
         | Thanks for sharing this. It just goes to show that even the
         | best of us can find it difficult to effect change in a big
         | company. The nature of a large organization is it requires lots
         | of communication, alignment, and on-the-ground politics to make
         | things happen, which is definitely a challenge for those of us
         | who just want to get shit done.
        
       | leroman wrote:
       | Known Waze practically since inception (I'm from Israel) always
       | carry a grudge for mis-advertise themselves as "open data" and
       | eventually go on to privatize the platform (which was originally
       | built on OSS) and hijack and delete OSM Israel data.
        
         | toyg wrote:
         | _> hijack and delete OSM Israel data_
         | 
         | What? How did they do that? I'm not an OpenStreetMap but I
         | thought that sort of "privatization / removal of crowdsourced
         | data" could not be done if not globally...
        
           | leroman wrote:
           | This was a long time ago, maybe my wording is off, probably
           | along the lines of stopped contributing data to OSM and
           | changed it's license for the data after a certain point..
        
       | freewilly1040 wrote:
       | Of the author's many entitlements, the funniest one to me is that
       | he feels entitled his employee's drive and passion for his
       | product, the _second most important mapping app at his own
       | company_.
       | 
       | He couldn't perceive that Google was buying him out to neutralize
       | a competitor? He was surprised that the distribution priority of
       | Waze was lower than Google Maps?
        
       | Kototama wrote:
       | "As I had kids, I learned the importance of being at home for
       | them and that's how I understood Work Life balance - its a
       | balance, sometimes you need to work weekends and nights,
       | sometimes you can head out early or work from home - we balance
       | the needs of the employee and the company."
       | 
       |  _sometimes you need to work weekends and nights while your wife
       | take care of the kids alone so that your career progress and her
       | 's not._
       | 
       | Here, fixed for you.
        
         | dominotw wrote:
         | my wife sometimes has to do this on the weekends ( non tech
         | job) and sometimes i have to do on call stuff on weekends.
         | 
         | Why are you making this about gender?
        
           | watwut wrote:
           | To be fair, the above attitude is more common among my male
           | colleagues.
        
             | 627467 wrote:
             | In this is also how gender discrimination perpetuates.
        
         | throwaway667555 wrote:
         | Also why doesn't balance mean "now you've earned an extra hour
         | or two mid-day for yoga, 0 judgement"? I call it the "retail-
         | worker mentality" when I point it out in friends. It isn't
         | meant to deride retail workers, but to draw attention to the
         | inhumane people and conditions they live under. The conditions
         | aren't justified at low pay nor high pay, and people need an
         | impolite analogy to have this simple but life-changing
         | epiphany. Just look at the deathbed surveys of happiness and
         | regrets.
         | 
         | If I do good work for a rich, high-margin company, I'm going to
         | act like it (towards the employer) and reap the rewards.
         | Because if I don't, someone is, and they're up the chain, so
         | let's pull those rewards back down a bit and reclaim our
         | humanity, ok? This isn't entitlement, this is taking the
         | rewards I've had a hand in building rather than leaving them on
         | the table and saying "thank you for letting me leave these
         | extra 20% of rewards to you".
         | 
         | Separate from this, I might vehemently advocate politically for
         | reversing the upwards redistribution of wealth to the tech
         | elites (me), and that's not hypocritical. Hoping for Richard
         | Stallman-level principaledness among the professional working
         | public isn't the answer to political and social problems such
         | as this, so let's not armchair and claim that working half your
         | Saturdays moves the needle towards wealth fairness better than
         | saying no and going home and taking the paycheck.
         | Inconsistencies can coexist without resolution, and most of
         | life is exactly that. If you can't live with it, then the
         | answer is to quit, not routinely work Saturdays.
         | 
         | The company's budget has room for more staff if it's truly
         | needed (it's not); my life budget of personal hours does not
         | have room for more work, nor should it if my employer is among
         | the wealthiest in human history.
         | 
         | Germany's auto-workers union negotiated a 28-hour workweek.
         | Like them, we shouldn't be ashamed to rebalance our lives
         | towards leisure, personal hobbies, personal relationships, etc,
         | now that technology is so productive. In general, why is it
         | wrong to favor broader participation in the fruits of human
         | effort? I'll do my part by going home and taking the paycheck.
         | Now I have more time and financial security to spread my
         | politics if I want.
         | 
         | Elon Musk is right that companies and communities are fully and
         | precisely the human-machine cyborgs of fiction, just at a
         | different scale. Can that apparatus rebalance towards leisure
         | etc? I think yes, so I'm taking my paycheck and going home
         | early. It's not entitlement, it's living my valid and
         | reasonable politics.
         | 
         | If this post seems off topic, then maybe you haven't thought
         | all the way through what "sure, I can give you more hours of my
         | life" means when you offer it to an employer. We might disagree
         | on some or many points, but all of this post is directly
         | relevant to that negotiation of hours.
        
           | jldugger wrote:
           | > Also why doesn't balance mean "now you've earned an extra
           | hour or two mid-day for yoga, 0 judgement"? I call it the
           | "retail-worker mentality" when I point it out in friends.
           | 
           | A 28 hour workweek is fine if consistently applied. The daily
           | 11am absence however, is likely treated with disdain because:
           | 
           | - doing mid-day yoga while I'm attending daily release
           | engineering meetings to accommodate someone else's schedule
           | slip is grating
           | 
           | - for some reason mid-day workouts are okay but leaving the
           | office at 4pm isn't
           | 
           | Both of which is why it strikes many as slacking off.
        
         | kleiba wrote:
         | Baloney. Who's to say that the wife isn't doing the same to
         | further her own career on other nights and weekends?
        
           | watwut wrote:
           | Because then he would have to say no to overtime or weekend
           | work once in a while.
        
           | asidiali wrote:
           | That implies then that there will indeed be weekends where
           | your boss expects you to work, your spouse is working, you
           | cannot, and therefore you "fail".
        
         | asidiali wrote:
         | Thank you
        
         | ramraj07 wrote:
         | Contrary to popular belief, kids are not some tamagotchi pet
         | that needs constant attention and helicoptering after they're
         | babies. You can perfectly be a good parent and raise
         | independent well minded kids without needing two parents always
         | present every moment of every weekend.
        
           | rkangel wrote:
           | No, but until they're mid-teens, they do need one parent most
           | of the time. If one of them is working weekends a lot, then
           | that assumes the other one is available to parent.
        
             | ramraj07 wrote:
             | Sounds exorbitant tbh. After they're seven or eight it's
             | not clear why they need constant direct supervision (as
             | opposed to being in another room minding ones business).
             | What are we afraid of?
        
             | aidenn0 wrote:
             | Mid teens? My 8 year old can read a book in my office while
             | I get a couple of hours of work in.
        
           | i_haz_rabies wrote:
           | And this is a good enough reason to expect people to work on
           | the weekend? Kids are not some tamagotchi pet that exists as
           | it is for a long time... kids are constantly growing and if
           | you blink, you miss it. Some people would rather spend their
           | weekends with their kids for purposes other than just keeping
           | them alive.
        
             | ramraj07 wrote:
             | I'm not advocating we work full weekends, but I'm not sure
             | why I would not have a few hours for myself and do things
             | that don't involve my kids. Some weekend's it would be work
             | but other weekend's it might be something else, but it
             | surely doesn't have to be 24/2 just kids kids?
             | 
             | Of course if you blink you miss them, it's not like you're
             | in a cave across the world, you're probably literally in
             | the next room staring at a screen for a couple hours after
             | a heavy lunch while the kids play on their ps5. How's that
             | weird.
        
               | i_haz_rabies wrote:
               | If spending your free time on the weekend working doesn't
               | sound awful to you, I think we're just very different
               | people.
        
               | ramraj07 wrote:
               | It definitely does not! And clearly we are different
               | people! I would love nothing more than to grab a drink
               | with you sometime and learn from each other though!
        
       | kgog wrote:
       | > Today, in Silicon Valley, work life balance has become
       | sacrificing Work for Life - not a balance. Young people want it
       | all - they want to get promoted quickly, achieve economic
       | independence, feel fulfilled at Work, be home early, not miss the
       | Yoga class at 11:00am etc.
       | 
       | He lost me here.
       | 
       | Grouping "young people" -- an entirely arbitrary delineation --
       | and calling them entitled is typical agist bullshit. Just because
       | one person wants to work like a dog, doesn't mean others who
       | don't are entitled.
       | 
       | Check yourself jerk.
       | 
       | > I don't believe long hours are a badge of honor but I also
       | believe that we have to do whatever it takes to win, even if its
       | on a weekend.
       | 
       | This is the reason why I refuse to work for managers who work
       | outside of business hours AND expect others to be available then
       | too. Working like a dog permeates a toxic work environment where
       | everything is a competition and zero-sum.
       | 
       | For the vast majority of people, work is an avenue to a better
       | work. It's just a job. I think generally the people we consider
       | "successful" worked themselves out. However, there is survivor
       | bias here as well that needs to be called out. For every 1 burned
       | out "successful" workers, there's 99 that failed, and many that
       | probably have some form of trauma.
       | 
       | In reality, in large-corp you can cruise and still be in the top
       | <5% by income and wealth. I have nothing against people who want
       | that as long as they recognize their privilege. I don't call them
       | entitled, I just call them people.
       | 
       | Lastly, I'm glad Noam Bardin wrote this post because it's very
       | indicative of the kind of person he is. I will run far and fast
       | away from every working with him.
        
       | forgotmypw17 wrote:
       | https://archive.is/ujrka
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | toyg wrote:
       | On some level, I feel for people like him, I really do. They have
       | this massive drive and just cannot understand why others (like
       | me) don't share it. It drives them fundamentally insane, and
       | pushes them towards sociopathic tendencies. Sometimes they "wake
       | up" after decades and have well-documented breakdowns, if they
       | realize their passion was fundamentally pointless. Sometimes they
       | do move the needle.
       | 
       | On other levels, though, just fuck him. His mindset is the
       | typical rationalization of normalizing employee exploitation. If
       | you want cult-like devotion to the cause, build a coop; the
       | minute you take away real ownership of the fruits of one's
       | labour, it is unreasonable to ask for personal sacrifice to any
       | significant degree. You tell me how much you pay me for what, and
       | I'll do "the what", not "the what but something extra too, just
       | because".
       | 
       | As for Google, they now look a lot like early-2000s Microsoft
       | (both inside and outside), but this we kinda knew already.
        
         | izacus wrote:
         | No idea why your post is downvoted because it really mirrors my
         | thoughts. I can see that he doesn't understand why he's
         | percieved as overbearing and disliked. We also have way too
         | many people like that floating around making people miserable.
        
       | pacificat0r wrote:
       | It was so hard for him to act like an adult and be considerate
       | about the way he speaks. Such a tragedy requiring immense
       | sacrifice from this poor soul.
        
         | BugWatch wrote:
         | Maybe others could consider growing "thicker skins", not
         | applying their personal standard to everyone equally, and not
         | getting offended at every single (and/or little) opportunity.
         | Exposure therapy is a wonderful thing.
        
           | richardwhiuk wrote:
           | If every presentation insulted you, or implied you didn't get
           | exist, maybe you'd get pissed off at it as well.
        
       | RcouF1uZ4gsC wrote:
       | > we began onboarding people with the wrong state of mind -
       | seeing Waze as a stepping stone and not as a calling.
       | 
       | > There are people who are great for a stage of the company and
       | later, do not have the right skills as the company grows. It is
       | not their fault, it is reality. But not being able to replace
       | them with people that do have the right skills means that people
       | are constantly trying to "offload" an employee on a different
       | team rather than fire them - something that is not conducive with
       | fast moving and changing needs.
       | 
       | One thing that really irritates me is one way commitment. The
       | author wants people who will see their work for the company as a
       | calling, while at the same time having no loyalty to the employee
       | and seeing them as just a stepping stone, to be used when needed
       | and then discarded.
       | 
       | In Japan, the work culture historically was one of crazy
       | dedication to the company. However, it was reciprocated. The
       | company was expected to take care of your whole life, even to the
       | point of coming up with a sinecure for you in your old age. They
       | didn't just use you and discard you when they thought you were no
       | longer needed.
       | 
       | Every time I see a company talking about how they want employees
       | to see the company as their mission and calling, I look at how
       | they treat employees to see if they plan on reciprocating that
       | loyalty. The answer if pretty much always no. They plan on using
       | your loyalty when it is useful to them, often burning you out,
       | and discarding you when they think you don't provide value.
        
         | darkwizard42 wrote:
         | Your point is spot on... and Google might be one of the places
         | where I have heard they will do just nearly anything to keep
         | you at the company.
         | 
         | Internal mobility is exceptional, perks and compensation are
         | exceptional (regardless of if you are single, young, married,
         | old, disabled, male, female, gay, straight, <other
         | qualifications I've missed> etc. there are GREAT perks
         | available to you), scope of impact is huge (billions of users
         | use your work), and a high bar of employment (though some
         | lament the bar has been lowered) means you work with people who
         | are generally quite smart/on your level
        
       | rvn1045 wrote:
       | Another post about some Faang employee quitting their jobs and
       | giving their rational for it. It's thoroughly uninteresting when
       | said employee has already spent years working there and
       | potentially saved millions of dollars. They stuck around long
       | enough to never worry about money and then they write a post
       | about philosophizing their quitting.
        
       | gurumeditations wrote:
       | Yet another person learns what millions of everyday people have
       | learned throughout history: your relationship as an employee with
       | a large corporation is one of minimal give and maximum take.
       | People like the author are the types that give far more than they
       | should and ironically make the situation worse because they hide
       | the failure of the incentive setup through their voluntary
       | overworking (money coming out of their pocket instead of the
       | company's). If the company was exposed to the true cost of their
       | incentive structure, unwarped by the guy or gal found in every
       | department that pointlessly kills themselves for the company,
       | then the company would be forced to adjust itself, and thus make
       | this guy less disgruntled.
        
       | Siecje wrote:
       | Why does Google want two map apps? Why not just integrate into
       | Google Maps?
        
       | waheoo wrote:
       | > Entitlement - everyone working in the tech space is SUPER
       | LUCKY.
       | 
       | Few good things in this but I found the remark about weekends a
       | bit much.
       | 
       | I chose a career in a space I don't need to work weekends.
       | 
       | And none of it is luck. It's careful planning 20 years in the
       | making.
        
         | typon wrote:
         | "None"? Really? At the very least you can't control where you
         | are born and what language you learn as a child...two extremely
         | important factors in deciding whether you end up in a cushy
         | tech job.
        
       | cbushko wrote:
       | Ooof. I think people are picking and choosing too many points to
       | make it seem like this guy is an asshole and a toxic manager.
       | 
       | I read that he wants people to:
       | 
       | - Do their work - Provide value for their users - Get stuff done.
       | 
       | vs
       | 
       | - Work on flashy stuff to only get promotions - Be stuck with BAD
       | employees that do very little - Have employees spend all day
       | doing recreation
       | 
       | Work/life is important to stay healthy but at the same time
       | employees need to get their work done. He is saying that the
       | pendulum has swung too far towards the recreation side of things.
       | 
       | I think I am biased as I worked at a startup that was chasing
       | Google level of perks. They were fantastic but caused a huge
       | divide between the people that abused them and the people that
       | worked their butts off.
       | 
       | All I want is for people to be reasonable and get their stuff
       | done...
        
         | Arainach wrote:
         | As the head of Waze, the author was the one responsible for
         | setting the OKRs that people were judged against. He also had
         | final say in promotions. If people were getting promoted for
         | the wrong things, it was directly their fault.
         | 
         | >They were fantastic but caused a huge divide between the
         | people that abused them and the people that worked their butts
         | off.
         | 
         | Who was forcing these people to "work their butts off"? There
         | are some people who seem to always feel that nothing is good
         | enough and who put in unreasonable amounts of hours. If that's
         | demanded by management (say, by a CEO who things that working
         | weekends is OK), that's a cultural problem. On the other hand,
         | there's a uniquely American problem with fetishizing long hours
         | and no perks. People in general aren't "abusing" perks, they're
         | taking advantage of them. If people are having to "work their
         | butts off" on a regular basis, then teams need to be better at
         | setting cadence and expectations. Once in a great while some
         | crunch time will happen, but in general people shouldn't be
         | having to work more than 40 hours.
        
         | EricE wrote:
         | >I read that he wants people to:
         | 
         | Yes! Most insightful post in this entire thread.
         | 
         | Talk about shallow interpretations of what someone wrote from
         | most of the other commenters.
        
       | MattGaiser wrote:
       | Do companies actually find themselves tons of employees that care
       | so deeply about their mission that they sacrifice pay, equity,
       | promotions, life interests, weekends, and benefits for "the
       | cause"?
       | 
       | I get having a team of 20 that is like this, but it does not seem
       | like a concept that scales unless you are SpaceX.
        
         | ravenstine wrote:
         | I doubt it, since I believe recognition and impact on outcomes
         | are highly relevant to someone feeling motivated to go above
         | and beyond in a corporation. When a team scales, the hierarchy
         | becomes dithered and camaraderie decreases overall, resulting
         | in the "mission" meaning different things to different people.
         | This ultimately results in an 80% of people who do as much work
         | as they need to so they don't get fired, a 10% on one end that
         | does a crapton of work, and 10% who work as little as possible.
         | Even the former 10% can only work so hard before their
         | performance is perceived as a threat to the rest of the team
         | whom simply can't keep up their pace.
        
         | toyg wrote:
         | _> Do companies actually find themselves tons of employees that
         | care so deeply_
         | 
         | No, but they find tons of employees who really need a job and
         | hate job-hunting, so once they get in they'll do what it takes
         | to keep the paycheck going. This is particularly common in
         | sectors where the median hire can be young, like... the
         | software industry.
        
         | ativzzz wrote:
         | There will be a few people, but companies like this will look
         | for "passionate" people, or people who are good at pretending
         | to be passionate to get paid.
        
         | hashingroll wrote:
         | Video game industries kinda get away with lower salaries,
         | longer hours than rest of the "tech standard".
        
         | izacus wrote:
         | Well this guy quit because Googlers wouldn't work weekends on
         | his command so the answer might be... "no" ?
        
       | izacus wrote:
       | This is an amazing post - it describes exactly how bad manager
       | looks like and what kind of expectations does he have from his
       | employees. No emergency PTO (despite being a benefit), ability to
       | just get rid of people who don't suit him, cursing at people, not
       | having a proper work/life balance. It just keeps on giving.
       | 
       | And all for what? A mapping application having features which
       | really don't save lives 99% of the time.
        
         | ed25519FUUU wrote:
         | You don't get it. It's about the users! The users!!! /s
        
         | nicioan wrote:
         | 100% this! The work life balance section in particular was an
         | eye opener. I'm sure the Waze employees that were part of the
         | acquisition have a _completely_ different perspective, and I
         | bet they've been much better off after the acquisition.
        
         | heavyset_go wrote:
         | > _And all for what? A mapping application having features
         | which really don 't save lives 99% of the time._
         | 
         | Are you saying you aren't willing to sacrifice your well-being
         | to increase the value of this manager's portfolio? /s
        
         | w0mbat wrote:
         | A mapping application that frequently diverts traffic off the
         | freeway into narrow residential roads, probably does the
         | opposite of saving lives. In my experience, it doesn't even
         | save time, just gives you a more complicated route
        
         | hctaw wrote:
         | > A mapping application having features which really don't save
         | lives 99% of the time.
         | 
         | And ruins thoroughfares not designed for heavy traffic, while
         | degrading quality of life for people who don't use it!
        
         | cafard wrote:
         | How would children on otherwise quiet streets get to hone their
         | reflexes if Waze didn't divert traffic down them?
        
         | moreranchplease wrote:
         | This guy is something else. That entitlement section was an eye
         | opener. That stuff should be the norm. Felt like guilt tripping
         | people at one of the most wealthy companies in the world
         | because they don't have a job that treats them poorly.
         | Companies make a lot of money it should be spent on the people
         | that make that money for the company.
        
         | Demoneeri wrote:
         | I came exactly to say that, the guy is a nut job manager.
         | Working weekend and probably being belittled by this guy while
         | doing that, for what? A driving app, wow.
        
         | thethethethe wrote:
         | I'm glad that this is the prevailing sentiment in this thread.
         | At first, the article was just run of the mill complaints about
         | Google culture but it took a nasty turn towards the end so I
         | came looking for validation in the comments
        
         | throwaway98797 wrote:
         | He made money tho...
         | 
         | Maybe bad for mental health of the average employee but not for
         | everyone.
        
         | ck425 wrote:
         | I agree with all of that except the swearing part. Is swearing
         | in work a big deal in US? I'm Scottish (even worse Glaswegian)
         | so perhaps have a skewed view.
        
           | CydeWeys wrote:
           | It depends entirely on the context. If swears are being used
           | in a way that even remotely touches on other employees or the
           | company's products, then it's a huge morale drag.
           | 
           | Yelling out "Fuck!" because you just stubbed your toe on your
           | desk, or because you've been stuck on a frustrating problem
           | for awhile that you just can't solve, is fine. Saying "Why
           | does team X's product suck so fucking much?" or "Why do you
           | keep making this same fucking mistake?" is a huge problem.
           | 
           | It's not exactly about the swears per se, but about being
           | overly negative / anti-collaborative. The OP post gives off
           | the vibe of someone who prides themselves on being "brutally
           | honest" in their feedback but which in fact really just comes
           | off as being an asshole to most people.
        
             | reidjs wrote:
             | My view on swearing in the workplace is that you can only
             | do it if everyone who hears it is one of your immediate
             | peers. Swearing down rank is an abuse of power (lower ranks
             | are expected to be polite). Swearing up is a sign of
             | immaturity (can't contain emotions, etc).
             | 
             | Also swearing should only be used verbally and only in
             | humorous ways: "this code I wrote is fubar" is ok, "Johnson
             | is an asshole" is not.
        
           | thethethethe wrote:
           | You don't "rack up HR complaints" for swearing at Google. You
           | definitely have to be an asshole for that to happen. One HR
           | complaint? Maybe it could have been unreasonable. But
           | multiple HR complaints? The probability of him not being an
           | asshole seriously diminishes.
           | 
           | Source: I work at Google
        
           | mabbo wrote:
           | In the article he says that whatever language he was using,
           | HR was involved over it.
           | 
           | > I began racking up my HR complaints. I used a four letter
           | word, my analogy was not PC, my language was not PG
           | 
           | He's not just swearing. He's an asshole. But he wants to
           | blame the "PC brigade" for not letting him be an asshole,
           | which he was used to when he had power over everyone else,
           | including HR.
        
           | nicoburns wrote:
           | Swearing culture is definitely very different in the US
           | compared to Scotland. I've noticed that people from the US
           | have a tendency to say things like "heck" or "frick" because
           | saying "hell" or "fuck" is seen as something that one ought
           | to do. That's definitely not a thing in Scotland, where in my
           | experience you're likely to hear far "worse" even in formal
           | or professional contexts.
           | 
           | - An Englishman (England is culturally somewhere between the
           | US and Scotland on this I think).
        
             | ghaff wrote:
             | I'm sure it depends on the industry and the circumstances.
             | Way back when, I worked in the US oil industry as an
             | engineer and I remember one rig superintendent in
             | particular who basically couldn't get out a sentence that
             | wasn't punctuated with some cuss word or other. But even in
             | the 90s in tech, some level of cussery was pretty normal.
             | It's definitely true, at least at large companies (and
             | events) these days, anything other than the very occasional
             | f-bomb, especially in public is definitely frowned upon.
        
           | izacus wrote:
           | No idea about US (I'd guess - yeah), but it's certainly a big
           | deal here in continental Europe. I've also not seen anyone
           | casually swear in London either. It's considered quite
           | unprofessional and aggressive.
        
             | ed25519FUUU wrote:
             | In the US it's not uncommon to hear f** or sh*. I don't
             | personally like it when people do it but it's not uncommon.
        
             | ck425 wrote:
             | Really? I've went to London office a couple of times and
             | have had many colleagues there and they didn't seem notable
             | different to Scots in terms of swearing.
        
           | notsureaboutpg wrote:
           | US is a far more religious society. At least my religion
           | expressly forbids cursing and swearing. I still kind of have
           | a visible reaction when people curse, but I think it makes
           | people regard me poorly, so I am trying to correct it.
        
           | darkwizard42 wrote:
           | Swearing just changes the dynamic when used in a professional
           | setting (in the US). It is casual, widely interpretable use,
           | generally negative language.
           | 
           | At worst, if targeted to a person, project, or role it
           | immediately heightens the tension in the relationship.
           | 
           | At best, it is used to emphatically describe something ("this
           | code is a bit shitty") but again because of swear words
           | generally inflammatory nature it can be interpreted poorly.
        
         | kyawzazaw wrote:
         | > I don't believe long hours are a badge of honor but I also
         | believe that we have to do whatever it takes to win, even if
         | its on a weekend.
         | 
         | That's a no for me when the incentives are different in
         | magnitude.
        
       | 0xbadcafebee wrote:
       | > Google had promised us autonomy
       | 
       | Of the many lies in business, the most blatant is when a company
       | tells you they'll give you autonomy that they aren't required to
       | give you.
        
       | DC1350 wrote:
       | Still cannot begin to understand the mindset of people who
       | believe their employees actually care about their boring
       | projects. Give people a reason to care and they will. I gain
       | nothing if my manager or CEO succeeds.
        
       | blodkorv wrote:
       | He is right on almost all of what he is saying regarding work
       | life balance and such.
       | 
       | But if you have the oportunity to not have to work under a guy
       | like that. Why would you? At most you will get a salary raise but
       | ultimatley you would be working very hard under his wip to
       | realize his dreams and goals.
       | 
       | The mind set he has can be really benefitial for certain
       | companies and it is really helpful for start-ups to work like
       | this because you establish an base line of dicipline in the
       | company culture that is valuable.
       | 
       | But he obviously is not capable to reflect back on himself and
       | see who he are. These sort of people rarely are capable of that
       | and if they do they dont really care.
        
       | carapace wrote:
       | I worked at the Google campus in MV as a TVC for a while, and one
       | of my first thoughts was "Yeah, this is a baseline for quality of
       | life. If we can get to the point where people live this well,
       | that's a win." I mean, we will still have to contend with the
       | human condition, but at least the reasonable problems are all
       | solved.
       | 
       | To me complaining about "entitlement" just sounds like a kind of
       | mild "Stockholm Syndrome" for primitive conditions.
       | 
       | Googlers may have some issues but I don't feel that their
       | expectations around baseline quality of life are among them. We
       | should all be so fortunate. No really, we should. Let's work on
       | that together.
        
       | anticristi wrote:
       | I had a similar experience when I worked as a contractor in a big
       | corporations coming from a start-up background. You could tell
       | that the corporation had a different risk appetite than a start-
       | up. At a start-up, your highest risk is running out of runway. At
       | a corporation, your income is rather safe, so your biggest risk
       | is getting sued. No point launching a product one year early, if
       | it costs 4% of your total annual income.
        
       | CompensatedGrnt wrote:
       | When highly compensated people moan about the less compensated
       | people not putting in the same kind of hours I wonder what kind
       | of blinders they have on. Anyone who has even a little bit of
       | smarts realizes that they generally shouldn't work as hard as
       | their boss, because they will not be compensated the same.
       | 
       | Early on in my career I believed the mantra that managers
       | shoulder more risk, so that is why they deserve higher
       | compensation. But in my 30 year career I have never seen anyone
       | in my management chain face legal trouble. At most managers were
       | fired, same as regular employees.
       | 
       | Very high level position hiring tends to be slower than lower
       | positions, so you could argue that that is the reason the VP
       | salary should be higher. But the compensation is so out of whack
       | that this doesn't hold water either. Companies could save a lot
       | of money if they paid employees more uniform compensation, and
       | when firing someone, the compensation package would be
       | proportional to how long a person in that position typically
       | takes to find the next job. So maybe an engineer would get a
       | month, and a VP 6 months equivalent of salary.
        
       | watwut wrote:
       | > online ahead of us was overheard saying "What? Sushi again???"
       | which became our inside joke around entitlement.
       | 
       | Yeah, I dont like Sushi either. Not sure why not liking Sushi is
       | entitlement, but as I said, normal food tastes better.
        
         | toyg wrote:
         | ... implying that sushi is abnormal...?
        
           | watwut wrote:
           | In here it definitely is. It is more expensive for same
           | amount of food and you have to go to sushi bar to get it.
           | When you go to restaurant, then you don't get sushi. It is
           | not something canteen would give you, ever.
           | 
           | Also, the "Sushi AGAIN" complain can be entitlement only is
           | Sushi is something special where you live. If sushi is
           | ordinary food, then it is no more entitled then "chicken
           | wings again" - perfectly normal thing to overhear if your
           | local cafeteria is giving chicken wings every other day.
        
       | alexashka wrote:
       | The author has a hard time telling apart what works, vs what
       | aligns with his personality and energy levels.
       | 
       | Not everyone who is an excellent contributor needs to be willing
       | to work on weekends or have that 'go-getter' energy.
       | 
       | The optimal path is one of optimizing for the path of least
       | resistance, while this fella seems intent on rushing ahead, head
       | first, until something breaks, or as he calls it, gets 'worn
       | down'.
       | 
       | Of course if you lack the brains to be able to comprehend what
       | the path of least resistance is, the next best thing is to be
       | extra energetic and try everything until something sticks.
       | 
       | That's this guy in a nutshell. This type of approach to life is
       | often destructive and abusive, what the author calls having a
       | 'short fuse'. These extra energetic folks need to be reigned in
       | by people who have a working brain, then the extra energetic
       | people can be excellent. This can be seen in sports, where a
       | group of intelligent people take extra energetic maniacs and mold
       | them into championship teams.
        
         | Macha wrote:
         | Yeah, my contract stipulates my working hours are monday to
         | friday. This is what we agreed to when I started working. I
         | will make an exception if the system is on fire (but don't
         | expect me at 9am on Monday after it), but not for a management
         | imposed deadline looking like it will be missed. That just
         | encourages setting tighter deadlines to get more work out of
         | employees.
        
       | justapassenger wrote:
       | While he has valid points of how corp life is different from
       | startup, he seems like a horrible, entitled person to work for.
       | 
       | General attitude that comes out of it to me, is that your
       | employees growth doesn't matter, only his vision of product
       | matters. He complains about people being entitled, and at the
       | same time he complains that as CEO of subsidiary of one of the
       | biggest company in the world, he cannot say offensive things in
       | his talks.
       | 
       | And most entitled one - he's sold his company (that he actually
       | didn't own, from the beginning, like with most startups) and he
       | cannot control it fully anymore? And complaining that he cannot
       | fire people on the spot?
       | 
       | He should check his entitlement before complaining about other
       | being entitled by not wanting to put his product vision above
       | their wellbeing.
        
         | tinyhouse wrote:
         | I think you misinterpreting what he's saying. I didn't get the
         | impression that he claims that employees growth doesn't matter.
         | He's saying that most people optimize for promotion rather than
         | building a better product. That's indeed the wrong thing to
         | optimize for, esp for the company.
         | 
         | Not being able to fire people is indeed a big disadvantage. Bad
         | employees are much worse than just not contributing. They make
         | the people around them worse and have a negative impact on the
         | morale. As a manager you want to be able to get rid of such
         | people as quickly as possible. I'm not saying firing on the
         | spot is a good thing. But it should be reasonable to fire
         | someone within 6 months and it shouldn't come as a surprise to
         | the employee. Good managers communicate to their employees when
         | they are not performing.
        
           | justapassenger wrote:
           | > He's saying that most people optimize for promotion rather
           | than building a better product. That's indeed the wrong thing
           | to optimize for, esp for the company.
           | 
           | It's literally his job, as a CEO, to make sure promos and
           | career progression align with increased product quality.
           | 
           | Sure, it's harder as a part big company, where there's more
           | bureaucracy to deal with (both for good reasons of
           | consistency and equality, and bad reasons of just because)
           | but no one said growing is easy. As an engineer I'd be fired
           | if I wouldn't solve technical challenges of scaling.
        
             | nqo wrote:
             | Was literally about to type this out. The issue of
             | prioritizing promos over product value doesn't exist when
             | delivering product value is what gets you promoted. If
             | that's not the case, it's the fault of management and not
             | the employee.
        
           | cmrdporcupine wrote:
           | While optimizing for promotion is definitely a corossive
           | aspect of large company culture, it's simply not true that
           | you can't "fire" people in Google. There is a bi-annual perf
           | cycle, and there are ratings, and they mean things, your
           | peers are involved, ratings are discussed among managers,
           | results are callibrated, and there are "needs improvement"
           | flags and "performance improvment" processes.
           | 
           | No you can't fire a person on the spot, but the assumption is
           | that if they got into Google in the first place there's
           | something of value there, so the company has a commitment to
           | fix the problem before jettisoning the person.
           | 
           | What this guy seems to be complaining about is his inability
           | to make personal arbitrary choices from his own authority and
           | only his.
           | 
           | Yeah, you for sure can't do that at Google. Thank god. It's
           | not a feudal kingdom.
        
             | Aeolun wrote:
             | I dunno, based on what you wrote about the process it
             | sounds impossible to actually _fire_ someone.
             | 
             | Unless they are so toxic that everyone hates them, they'll
             | be able to swing performance to an even average.
             | 
             | Or at least squeak along until they leave of their own
             | volition.
             | 
             | I can kind of see why that would be annoying to someone
             | that used to be able to make personal arbitrary choices
             | from his own authority.
        
               | drclau wrote:
               | > they'll be able to swing performance to an even average
               | 
               | Ok, but then they're just average, not bad. Hence, no
               | need to fire them.
        
             | jstrong wrote:
             | you make him sound like Uhtred in Last Kingdom season 1,
             | returning home to find his chief servant pilfering from his
             | land, prompting him to leap off from his horse and plunge a
             | sword through his heart ("now THAT ... is justice!" Uhtred
             | boasts to his horrified wife). perhaps 'feudal kingdom' was
             | a bit over the top?
        
           | viklove wrote:
           | > He's saying that most people optimize for promotion rather
           | than building a better product.
           | 
           | If you want them to optimize for building a better product,
           | give them more equity. Most people don't want to work during
           | the best 40 years of their lives. Give them a way out or they
           | will try to find one themselves.
        
             | moreranchplease wrote:
             | Exactly! Give people equity if you really want them to care
             | about the product over what's best for their career.
        
             | ZephyrBlu wrote:
             | In the article he says this doesn't work because people
             | effectively view equity as salary.
        
               | Aeolun wrote:
               | And rightly so. Your google equity is absolutely
               | disconnected from whatever product you are building
               | there. External forces are more likely to affect it than
               | anything you do personally.
        
               | ZephyrBlu wrote:
               | Yes, exactly. But this is the complete opposite of what
               | people are saying in this thread.
        
           | the_local_host wrote:
           | But he's not strictly talking about "bad employees"; he
           | explicitly mentions firing people for "the basic reason that
           | you don't need this role any more".
           | 
           | That's not invalid by itself as long as everyone knows that
           | the game is purely transactional. But it isn't fair to expect
           | employee "passion" when their own continued employment is
           | contingent on whether management thinks they're still
           | necessary.
        
             | tinyhouse wrote:
             | I agree. Not sure he meant that. People are much more
             | important than roles. If you have someone who is good but
             | in a role that is not needed anymore, you'll find another
             | role for them. Esp in big tech.
        
             | theptip wrote:
             | The OP is 100% right here. Sometimes the needs of the
             | company change as the company grows, and people can't keep
             | up. Or people change and they can't give what the company
             | needs from them any more. This is one of the hard aspects
             | of being a manager in a startup that's growing quickly.
             | 
             | The easiest example to grok would be if you had hired a VP
             | of sales who is an expert in B2C selling, then you pivot
             | your product to a B2B offering. Or say you pivot into being
             | a data-heavy product and your CTO has no idea how to build
             | a data pipeline.
             | 
             | In these cases you could say "they will figure it out", and
             | sometimes that works. But sometimes you need to recognize
             | that through no fault of their own, your employee now does
             | not have the skill set they need to do their job, and find
             | someone that does have those skills.
             | 
             | This is most pronounced in hyper-growth startups because
             | bigger companies seldom pivot dramatically or change their
             | scale rapidly enough that a motivated and smart employee
             | can't grow with the role.
        
               | dwohnitmok wrote:
               | > That's not invalid by itself as long as everyone knows
               | that the game is purely transactional. But it isn't fair
               | to expect employee "passion" when their own continued
               | employment is contingent on whether management thinks
               | they're still necessary.
               | 
               | This still seems to hold no?
        
               | theptip wrote:
               | Maybe to some extent, but I'm not certain. If you are
               | passionate about what you do, then you are probably not
               | enjoying the job which shifted into not being a fit for
               | your skill set, so the need to find someone else can be a
               | mutual/positive conversation. It's also really fraught
               | with ego and self-worth landmines so it doesn't always go
               | that way.
        
               | dwohnitmok wrote:
               | There's a significant difference between being passionate
               | about what you do and being passionate about the
               | company/mission. A software developer might care
               | immensely about the craft of software and the intricacies
               | of tooling, programming languages, etc. but none at all
               | about the company or mission, or a developer might care
               | only about the company and view the craft of software as
               | just the thing that happens to be most helpful for the
               | company at the moment. Most people probably fall
               | somewhere in the middle.
               | 
               | I suspect employers would like both, but would prefer to
               | subordinate the former to the latter, because otherwise
               | that employee is easily going to jump ship to a
               | competitor or potentially not be an effective employee at
               | all and get lost in the weeds of their craft rather than
               | the mission. This sort of passion for the mission/company
               | itself is also the impression I get from the article.
               | 
               | And that's a pretty big ask if as an employer you also
               | want the ability to discard people who are no longer good
               | skill fits for the company.
               | 
               | I mean you can ask it and you may well succeed, but I
               | would expect quite a few burned bridges along the way.
        
               | theptip wrote:
               | > There's a significant difference between being
               | passionate about what you do and being passionate about
               | the company/mission.
               | 
               | Absolutely.
               | 
               | > I suspect employers would like both, but would prefer
               | to subordinate the former to the latter
               | 
               | I think this depends on the company - size in particular
               | seems very relevant. A lot of startups want their hires
               | to be "mission driven", i.e. passionate about the
               | company's objectives. This is more important if (like
               | most startups) you're hoping for your hires to be
               | generalists, and figure things out as they go along. In
               | this scenario you can have meta-level "passionate about
               | what you do" regardless of what the object-level task is
               | (or more realistically, within a broad range of tasks
               | that fall within your area of competence-but-not-
               | expertise). But that's not as important as passion for
               | the mission, and I do wonder if "passionate for whatever
               | thing you're working on" is an oxymoron. In this
               | situation I think your point is correct, the small
               | companies want passion about the mission.
               | 
               | One of the complaints in the OP was that Google employees
               | are _not_ (as) mission-driven. My model here would be
               | that at a big company, you're looking for a bunch of
               | highly-specialized individuals that are effectively PhD-
               | level experts in their field (not saying you completely
               | discard/devalue generalists, but the trend is towards
               | more specialists as you get bigger since you have more
               | tasks that can actually keep a specialist busy full-
               | time). For hiring/motivating specialists, you need to
               | select for people that are passionate about the craft,
               | not necessarily the mission. Not to mention if I
               | understand correctly at the lower levels at least you
               | tend to apply to a broad "Software engineer" role and get
               | slotted in to a team, rather than applying specifically
               | for a role in a specific subject area. I'm guessing the
               | median Googler is substantially less mission-oriented
               | than the median 10-person-startup engineer. Indeed to the
               | extent that your mission is "boring" (I don't know many
               | people that are excited by selling ads, for example) I
               | suspect you want to actively select for people that are
               | passionate about the craft, not the mission; these people
               | will be happy with any mission, as long as they get to
               | craft well. So for large companies I think I disagree
               | with your theory about preferences between the two
               | passions.
               | 
               | Note with all of this -- you can still be a primarily
               | mission-based small/growth startup, and have a situation
               | where a skill mismatch emerges, and you need to replace
               | someone. I don't think it's hypocritical to want your
               | employees to be passionate about the mission, while also
               | having the skills required to do the job, and recognize
               | that sometimes your passionate and mission-driven
               | employee is just not the right person for the role they
               | are currently in.
               | 
               | > And that's a pretty big ask if as an employer you also
               | want the ability to discard people who are no longer good
               | skill fits for the company.
               | 
               | Perhaps there is some hypocrisy if you are really
               | encouraging passion about _the company_, and selling the
               | "we are a family" story, and then turn around and
               | terminate someone because you pivoted and no longer need
               | them. I know some startups do this and it's a bit
               | awkward. Your company may be close, but you're not a
               | family. But I don't think "hires mission driven people"
               | and "fires fast if there's a lack of fit" are mutually
               | incompatible asks/expectations in general.
        
               | modeless wrote:
               | > when their own continued employment is contingent on
               | whether management thinks they're still necessary
               | 
               | Talk about entitlement. You think that when a company
               | hires you, that should be a commitment to employ you
               | forever regardless of need?
               | 
               | Passion can come from your own investment in the success
               | of the business, through equity and through the
               | opportunities that come to productive employees at
               | growing companies, both before and after they leave. Or
               | it can come from a belief in the mission, distinct from
               | faith in the company. You can pursue the same mission at
               | a different company. But I guarantee you one thing:
               | passion does not come from a guarantee of continued
               | employment.
        
               | Viliam1234 wrote:
               | > passion does not come from a guarantee of continued
               | employment.
               | 
               | Then why do founders work harder than hired managers?
        
               | dwohnitmok wrote:
               | I think the answer for most people is perceived control
               | of one's destiny.
               | 
               | As long as that holds, I think a lot of people,
               | especially founder types, are happy. The moment that's
               | wrested away, whether by excessive board oversight, or by
               | perceived meddling from investors, or by perceived
               | interference by a manager, passion drops.
               | 
               | That's why autonomy was so important for the article
               | writer.
        
               | modeless wrote:
               | Because founders are the most invested, and often have
               | the most passion for the mission. But founders do not
               | have a guarantee of continued employment anyway. There is
               | always the threat of the business failing, and in some
               | cases there's a threat of being ousted by investors or
               | the board.
        
               | dwohnitmok wrote:
               | > You think that when a company hires you, that should be
               | a commitment to employ you forever regardless of need?
               | 
               | Hardly. I can't speak for the original comment I quoted,
               | but I personally view employment as pretty transactional.
               | You pay me this, I give you this. I may or may not have
               | passion, but that should be immaterial to the job at
               | hand.
               | 
               | The employer sets a bar. The employee clears it or does
               | not. That bar may change over time. If the employee does
               | not clear the bar the employer fires the employee. If the
               | employee clears the bar the employer continues paying the
               | employee.
               | 
               | To the extent that passion comes into the conversation,
               | it's an internal issue for the employee to sort out by
               | themselves and not really the business of the employer.
               | 
               | Are you saying something different? Because I don't think
               | we're actually in disagreement, but maybe we are?
        
               | modeless wrote:
               | > I may or may not have passion, but that should be
               | immaterial to the job at hand.
               | 
               | Perhaps this is our disagreement. Employees with passion
               | often perform better and there is nothing "unfair" about
               | employers desiring passionate employees for that reason.
               | 
               | I agree that passion shouldn't be a requirement per se
               | (whatever that means) if job performance is otherwise
               | good, but passion is _very_ highly correlated with job
               | performance.
        
               | dwohnitmok wrote:
               | > Employees with passion often perform better
               | 
               | That sounds really weird to me to bring up, regardless of
               | whether it's true or not. As in this makes sense when
               | you're thinking of trying to hire folks trying to gauge
               | passion as a proxy for their performance when you can't
               | directly observe it, but when they're working for you,
               | you don't need proxies! You can directly observe
               | performance!
               | 
               | So passion seems pretty irrelevant as soon as someone is
               | hired, unless you're afraid of them jumping ship. But
               | that's the nature of the beast. Employers can fire
               | employees and employees can jump ship. Such is life.
               | 
               | > there is nothing "unfair" about employers desiring
               | passionate employees
               | 
               | I'm a bit confused; I mean there's nothing unfair about
               | desires in general? Someone could want a billion dollars
               | to fall from the sky into their lap and I might say "good
               | luck," but there's nothing unfair about it. Employers
               | might desire their employees to want literally zero pay
               | and employees might desire their employers to give
               | literally zero work. Good luck to the both of them.
               | 
               | The question then is not so much desires as it is the
               | actual dynamics of the job itself and to what extent
               | those desires are actually manifested in observable
               | behavior.
               | 
               | I think the overarching theme that the_local_host was
               | bringing up has to do with the language of morality in
               | general.
               | 
               | You can talk about the employee-employer relationship in
               | a very dispassionate sense as one of mutual transactional
               | need with one discarding the other when one is no longer
               | needed, which is fine. You can also talk about the
               | relationship in the language of fairness and passion,
               | which is also fine.
               | 
               | But there's something pretty unsettling about crossing
               | the two together, especially when the perceived dynamic
               | is that when it's convenient for the employer they slip
               | into one or the other rather than when it's convenient
               | for the employee.
               | 
               | EDIT: In response to your additional new line: "I agree
               | that passion shouldn't be a requirement per se (whatever
               | that means) if job performance is otherwise good, but
               | passion is very highly correlated with job performance."
               | 
               | I think the original point of the_local_host's comment is
               | that it's just kind of weird to talk about passion at all
               | or whether an employee "should" do something or not or
               | even the notion of employer/employee entitlement.
               | 
               | Just make the job expectations explicit. If an employer
               | wants employees to work weekends make that explicit in
               | the job description. If the employer wants a work product
               | that a typical employee can only produce after 100 hours
               | of work in a week then fine, ask for it, just make it
               | clear upfront. If the employer wants employees to work
               | extra hours for deadlines, fine just make it explicit.
               | 
               | The employee then takes it or leaves it. And from the
               | employer side either the employee fulfills those
               | expectations or doesn't.
               | 
               | But don't leave it implicit and then complain about the
               | lack of passion, which is what I think the_local_host was
               | pointing out.
               | 
               | (There's wider policy questions of whether you want to
               | incentivize or disincentivize that behavior on a societal
               | level, but that's an altogether different scope/level of
               | conversation.)
        
               | asmosoinio wrote:
               | > You can directly observe performance!
               | 
               | From my experience this can be extremely hard - to be
               | able to know how much one employee is contributing
               | compared to another one.
        
               | modeless wrote:
               | The thing you quoted literally said it was "unfair" for
               | employers to expect passion from their at-will employees.
               | I guess you're saying it's fine for employers to "desire"
               | passion but not to "expect" it? OK, sure.
        
               | dwohnitmok wrote:
               | > I guess you're saying it's fine for employers to
               | "desire" passion but not to "expect" it?
               | 
               | I'm personally saying it isn't really the business of the
               | employer to talk about employee passion to begin with. In
               | the same way that the employer may desire an employee to
               | keep a clean home and healthy living habits, because of
               | the various signaling benefits it has for their job
               | duties, but it isn't really the employer's business to
               | care.
        
               | modeless wrote:
               | OK, but that's very far from the quote you originally
               | made. So you can understand my initial confusion.
               | 
               | While I agree that there should not be a specific job
               | requirement to keep a clean home and healthy living
               | habits independent of job performance, I absolutely
               | disagree that employers shouldn't "talk" about it in
               | general terms. It's perfectly appropriate for companies
               | to encourage and help their employees to lead healthy
               | lives (e.g. providing healthy food, gym access,
               | encouraging taking vacation time, promoting appropriate
               | work-life balance, etc), just as it is appropriate for
               | companies to encourage having passion for the mission
               | even if it isn't strictly a job requirement.
        
               | dwohnitmok wrote:
               | > OK, but that's very far from the quote you originally
               | made.
               | 
               | I don't think so. I mean I guess you'd have to ask
               | the_local_host whether I'm accurately representing the
               | thrust of the quote, but the operative word here is
               | indeed "expect" as opposed to desire or encourage.
               | 
               | Rephrasing the original quote in my own language I'd say
               | something like:
               | 
               | Employers and employees can use purely transactional
               | language to talk about employment and it's fine.
               | Employers and employees can use emotional and moral
               | language such as "passion" to talk about employment and
               | that's fine too. But which language to use should depend
               | on what forms the bedrock of the relationship. If the
               | transactional needs form the ultimate bedrock of the
               | relationship, an expectation of "passion" is no bueno.
               | 
               | There is a difference between encouragement and
               | expectation. And I think employees would chafe under the
               | _expectation_ of e.g. eating healthy food or using the
               | gym (probably not vacation time though, although a select
               | few might, in the same way that I don 't think, absent
               | flight concerns, employers would be terribly offput by
               | employees refusing raises).
               | 
               | In the same way that team activities, team meals, happy
               | hour, providing materials about the mission etc. can all
               | be viewed as perfectly fine _encouragement_ for passion
               | for both the mission and the company, that is not the
               | same as expecting passion.
               | 
               | Expectations are two way streets. You get things if you
               | meet them. You don't get things or have things taken away
               | if you don't meet them.
               | 
               | Desires and encouragement are not.
               | 
               | > I absolutely disagree that employers shouldn't "talk"
               | about it in general terms.
               | 
               | Talk is indeed too strong of a word on my part in the
               | sense you're using it, but the point I was trying to get
               | across is that if transactional needs ultimately dominate
               | the relationship then those are the ones that should be
               | emphasized.
               | 
               | I would prefer employers tell employees upfront that
               | they're expected to work long hours and nights for
               | deadlines or similar things in that vein, rather than
               | leave it implicit and then tut-tut them for a lack of
               | passion.
               | 
               | And because of that that's why I emphasize the word
               | "expect" rather than "desire."
        
               | the_local_host wrote:
               | I agree that expecting permanent employment based on
               | passion would be an overly-entitled attitude. But the
               | author's _complaint_ , that employees treat the product
               | as "a tool to advance the employees career, not a
               | passion, mission or economic game changer", seems
               | ridiculous in a context where an employee can be fired as
               | soon as they're no longer useful. Why should he complain
               | that employees look out for themselves if no one else is
               | going to?
        
             | Viliam1234 wrote:
             | Exactly. It is natural when "human resources" treat their
             | company as a "salary resource".
        
           | indeedmug wrote:
           | Sometimes I find reading HN comment to be a bizarre
           | experience because people seeming read an entirely different
           | article than I did. All the article's author is saying that
           | at large corporates the incentives are about personal
           | promotion as opposed to delivering user experiences. He
           | justifies this by saying that individual contributions get
           | diluted in large organization. To me, this makes a lot of
           | sense and is an interesting and thoughtful conversation.
           | 
           | Somehow the person two comments above me twisted his message
           | into the author being the entitled one. I think this is what
           | the author is referring to by PC and putting on a corporate
           | face.
        
         | apozem wrote:
         | Yeah, it shows a lack of self-awareness to complain about
         | employees' entitlement and then wish they'd work more, without
         | any talk of extra compensation. Seems a bit _entitled_ to
         | expect other human beings to sacrifice their weekends and
         | happiness to bump the value of your shares.
        
           | johncessna wrote:
           | That's a bit unfair. He's clearly passionate about the
           | product and its customers. The ask to sacrifice for your
           | customers is a reasonable position to take, especially in
           | weird one of situations. It also ties into his risk/reward
           | compensation section.
           | 
           | I didn't get any indications that he expected 80 hour work
           | weeks 52 weeks a year from everyone. To paraphrase, I think
           | he was frustrated with his employees going to the townhall or
           | yoga class in the quad instead of working on the customer
           | outage.
        
             | Viliam1234 wrote:
             | A charitable explanation is that he would like to motivate
             | his workers by equity... but in the company as big as
             | Google, equity doesn't work that way anymore, and there is
             | no good substitute.
        
         | ZephyrBlu wrote:
         | He seems like the kind of CEO I would love to work for.
         | 
         | It seems like he tries to care about his users a lot, and wants
         | his team to as well.
         | 
         | Also, the "offensive things" in his talks were only offensive
         | to a small vocal minority by his own account.
        
           | DC1350 wrote:
           | Why would you ever prioritize your users over yourself? They
           | have no idea who you are and they don't care. Don't you have
           | your own goals to worry about?
        
             | ZephyrBlu wrote:
             | Where does he say to prioritize users over yourself?
        
               | DC1350 wrote:
               | That's what caring about the users or the product at the
               | expense of ladder climbing is.
        
               | ZephyrBlu wrote:
               | I think having a mercenary-like attitude is just as bad
               | as naively sacrificing your time for the company. Why
               | can't there be a middle ground?
        
           | thethethethe wrote:
           | > offensive to a small vocal minority
           | 
           | I really don't see how this is an excuse. it's like saying
           | "black people are a minority in the US so who cares if they
           | say they are oppressed"
        
             | ZephyrBlu wrote:
             | I think it's reasonable to assume that not everyone is
             | going to like everything that you say. I don't think this
             | is an issue.
             | 
             | If there's a specific demographic that is consistently
             | affected by what you're saying, there might be an issue
             | though.
        
               | thethethethe wrote:
               | > I think it's reasonable to assume that not everyone is
               | going to like everything that you say.
               | 
               | Sure but it's really not that hard to keep things under
               | control in the work place. I have my own opinions,
               | sometimes I share them at work, sometimes people may
               | disagree, however, I don't "rack up multiple HR
               | complaints" like this guy did.
        
               | ZephyrBlu wrote:
               | _" After the acquisition, I was invited to speak on many
               | different Google panels and events and very quickly, I
               | began racking up my HR complaints. I used a four letter
               | word, my analogy was not PC, my language was not PG"_
               | 
               | Firstly, these came from events he was _invited_ to speak
               | at. If you invite someone to speak and then don't let
               | them speak their mind what was the point in inviting
               | them?
               | 
               | Secondly, as a non-american none of the things he
               | mentions are egregious. A bit unprofessional? Yeah,
               | probably. But not worthy of being reported to HR.
        
               | thethethethe wrote:
               | I'm sorry but this makes no sense. So what if he was
               | invited to speak? Can we not hold people accountable for
               | their actions just because they were invited to speak?
               | 
               | How do you know whether or not the things he said were
               | worthy of reporting to HR? He didn't say what they were
               | for a reason
        
               | ZephyrBlu wrote:
               | It seems like we're at an impasse.
               | 
               | To me, it sounds like people wanted to "hold him
               | accountable" for upsetting them. You clearly think
               | otherwise.
               | 
               | And I don't know, but the article makes me believe he is
               | not out to attack people. Some people have also pointed
               | out cultural differences that are likely at play here:
               | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=26168899.
               | 
               | Again, you clearly think differently given one of your
               | other comments:
               | https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=26170030.
        
               | thethethethe wrote:
               | > To me, it sounds like people wanted to "hold him
               | accountable" for upsetting them. You clearly think
               | otherwise
               | 
               | No this is exactly what I think. I think it is valid for
               | people to air the grievances. I think the difference here
               | is that you are skeptical of the validity if their
               | complaints. If I am right, this is a pretty fundamental
               | difference in world view that I doubt can be reconciled
               | on a HN thread at this point unless you disagree
        
           | raclage wrote:
           | > Also, the "offensive things" in his talks were only
           | offensive to a small vocal minority by his own account.
           | 
           | Is that really something we should take at face value? There
           | are plenty of instances of people getting unreasonably
           | offended but it's also extremely common for people to be
           | shitty to their colleagues and use this as an excuse. He
           | provides no actual examples.
        
             | ZephyrBlu wrote:
             | Well, there is a little context provided by the post
             | itself. While a lot of people seem to be calling him toxic,
             | he comes off as quite genuine to me.
        
               | raclage wrote:
               | People can be genuinely toxic though.
               | 
               | Personally I've met and worked with lots of people that
               | were in many ways friendly and genuine but had some
               | weakness or quirk that induced them to mistreat their
               | coworkers.
        
             | campl3r wrote:
             | It aligns nearly perfectly with most other reports out of
             | google.
        
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