[HN Gopher] The "Nonplussed" Problem (2011)
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       The "Nonplussed" Problem (2011)
        
       Author : Tomte
       Score  : 30 points
       Date   : 2021-01-22 09:57 UTC (2 days ago)
        
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       | spodek wrote:
       | It begs the question, irregardless of whether we want to
       | maximalize understanding or minimilize confusion.
        
         | tn890 wrote:
         | >irregardless
         | 
         | That's not a word, ironically enough.
        
           | kaishiro wrote:
           | I believe the entire comment was tongue-cheeked.
        
             | spodek wrote:
             | Yes, I was being ironical.
        
               | JohnStrangeII wrote:
               | I didn't see it immediately either, it's amazing how good
               | my brain auto-corrected "maximalize" and "minimilize"
               | without me even noticing.
        
           | jhfdbkofdcho wrote:
           | Merriam-Webster raised the hackles of stodgy grammarians last
           | week when it affirmed the lexical veracity of "irregardless."
           | 
           | The word's definition, when reading it, would seem to be:
           | without without regard.
           | 
           | "Irregardless is included in our dictionary because it has
           | been in widespread and near-constant use since 1795," the
           | dictionary's staff wrote in a "Words of the Week" roundup on
           | Friday. "We do not make the English language, we merely
           | record it."
           | 
           | Merriam-Webster defines irregardless as "nonstandard" but
           | meaning the same as "regardless." "Many people find
           | irregardless to be a nonsensical word, as the ir- prefix
           | usually functions to indicates negation; however, in this
           | case it appears to function as an intensifier," the
           | dictionary writes.
           | 
           | https://www.npr.org/2020/07/07/887649010/regardless-of-
           | what-...
        
             | dingaling wrote:
             | > "We do not make the English language, we merely record
             | it."
             | 
             | Which is an evasion, because they know they are respected
             | as an authority on the language and therefore they do
             | actually make the language, or at least legitimise mis-use.
        
         | 0-_-0 wrote:
         | Allow me to play doubles advocate here for a moment. For all
         | intensive purposes I think you are ALL wrong. In an age where
         | false morals are a diamond dozen, true virtues are a blessing
         | in the skies. We often put our false morality on a petal stool
         | like a bunch of pre-Madonnas, but you all seem to be taking
         | something very valuable for granite. So I ask of you to mustard
         | up all the strength you can because it is a doggy dog world out
         | there.
        
           | jasode wrote:
           | As fyi... the thread's article is about a _change in meaning_
           | for words that people know how to spell.
           | 
           | Your famous paragraph is more about "mishearing" words.
           | Mondegreens:
           | 
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mondegreen
        
       | anotherhue wrote:
       | There was a fine article about how to properly deprecate an API
       | yesterday, so perhaps the same guidance applies?
       | 
       | Track usage, set deprecation headers (air quotes?), update
       | documentation (might take a while), etc.
        
       | ogre_codes wrote:
       | The solution is avoid ambiguous words. If a word "Means" one
       | thing but people use it differently, it is often a poor word
       | choice. This means your vocabulary might get a little
       | constrained, but it guarantees effective communication.
       | 
       | Nonplussed is a particularly bad word. The rest of their examples
       | I think you can figure out based on context.
        
       | hirundo wrote:
       | There seems to be a lot of pressure to rename words that comes
       | from tribalism. Tribalism redistributes power and words can be
       | leveraged distinguish a tribe.
       | 
       | Take for example calling a group of people "guys". Always when I
       | was a child, and still usually now, guys referred to both genders
       | when speaking to a mixed gender group. But it is empowering to
       | the feminist tribe to be distinct, and interpreting guys as a
       | kind of insult to females has that effect. It converts a
       | statement meant to be neutral into a kind of oppression, by
       | giving it a different meaning than the speaker intended. It
       | separates a tribe and gives them reason for solidarity and
       | sympathy.
       | 
       | That's a lot of mileage from a simple redefinition, and the
       | result is positive where the resulting tribalism is a positive
       | force. That it is a positive force is obvious to the tribe
       | member. So I think this strategy will be a permanent feature of
       | language evolution.
        
         | atreyu wrote:
         | If you are addressing a mixed gender group and say "Can all the
         | guys please raise their hand?" what do you think will happen?
         | 
         | I don't think this word really refers to both sexes as strongly
         | as you might think.
        
           | umanwizard wrote:
           | "Guys" (a plural noun) is gendered. "You guys" (a pronoun)
           | isn't. It's that simple.
        
         | automatoney wrote:
         | There's a pretty strong argument that guys isn't a fully gender
         | neutral term. For example, I think most people would read "I
         | have dated a lot of guys" as meaning "men". Or perhaps take for
         | example the title of the 1950 musical "Guys and Dolls". It
         | seems that "guys" is just undergoing the same treatment that
         | has largely happened with "men"; certainly there are people who
         | would argue that "all men are created equal" does in fact
         | include women, but it seems like saying "women are a kind of
         | man" reinforces the assumption that male is the default. Would
         | people be as charitable if I were to state "all women are
         | created equal"? That "men are a kind of women"?
         | 
         | Also the fields which concern these issues are sociolinguistics
         | and the sociology of language, for anyone who is curious.
        
           | mjburgess wrote:
           | words aren't uni-semantic, they are poly-semantic.
           | 
           | "Guys" as said in one context resolves to the meaning
           | "people". In another, "men".
           | 
           | It is pretty much always clear when a speaker means one or
           | the other.
           | 
           | As with, eg., "bank". No banker is complaining about the
           | "collapsing banks" of a river.
           | 
           | It is pretty clearly an opportunistic misreading of "guys" to
           | accuse a speaker of some how implying "men", or even "men" as
           | a plausible implication.
           | 
           | It is only in the eye of the "feminist of language" do words
           | fail to have contextual meanings; and it is this eye we
           | should be suspicious of, rather than any possible double
           | meaning.
        
             | automatoney wrote:
             | You are completely correct that words have contextual
             | meaning. Is part of that context perhaps historical or
             | sociological? Why is it that male words also serve as our
             | generics? Is there a history there worth examining?
             | Downthread someone has linked a few articles about the
             | topic, but I would encourage you to read Douglas
             | Hofstadter's satirical essay, A Person Paper on Purity in
             | Language, in order to get a better understanding of the
             | feminist perspective. http://www.cs.virginia.edu/~evans/cs6
             | 55/readings/purity.html
        
             | elliekelly wrote:
             | > It is only in the eye of the "feminist of language" do
             | words fail to have contextual meanings;
             | 
             | I don't disagree with your conclusion (though I'm not sure
             | I _agree_ with it either) but this is a dubious claim. This
             | phenomenon is not unique to feminism. See, e.g. the
             | singular  "they" which many people in recent years claim to
             | be entirely unable to understand.
        
           | umanwizard wrote:
           | Copy-and-pasting a comment I left elsewhere:
           | 
           | > "Guys" (a plural noun) is gendered. "You guys" (a pronoun)
           | isn't. It's that simple.
        
           | CPLX wrote:
           | I mean, the etymology of the word women itself has this
           | attribute, as a contraction of the concept of "the type of
           | man who has a womb" so the whole thing is a bit complicated.
        
             | JoeAltmaier wrote:
             | I didn't think that was it. Woman means "ones spouse", used
             | to be used by anybody? Or do I have that wrong.
             | 
             | 'Man' still means in some languages what "one" means in
             | English in the sense of "one's friends are important". A
             | person. Not a male.
             | 
             | But it isn't complicated. Today in English 'man' means a
             | male. All the obfuscation using etymology and history are
             | meaningless to a modern young person who knows what they're
             | saying and what they're hearing.
        
               | guerrilla wrote:
               | From Middle English woman, from earlier wimman, wifman.
               | The Middle English forms are from Old English wiman,
               | wimman, from wifmann m ("woman; female servant",
               | literally "female person"), a compound of wif ("woman",
               | whence English wife) + mann ("person", whence English
               | man). For details on the pronunciation and spelling
               | history, see the usage notes below.
               | 
               | https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/woman#Etymology
        
               | JoeAltmaier wrote:
               | It fooled me I guess. Since 'wif' is gender-neutral I
               | thought it meant 'partner'. Sometimes it's used that way
               | (in old writing) but not often.
        
               | CPLX wrote:
               | I stand corrected.
        
         | guerrilla wrote:
         | I think you might find it interesting to look at
         | counterarguments to that as it's been addressed quite a bit.
         | There's this sometimes cited intro [1] but I think [2] is a lot
         | better with a literature review and history. Then there's
         | Douglas Hofstadter's famous "You've Come a Long Way, Guys!"
         | which you can probably find using sci-hub or something.
         | 
         | 1. https://ovop.pw/whysexistlanguagematters.pdf
         | 
         | 2. https://cogsci.indiana.edu/pub/KerryBodine-CmonGuys.pdf
        
           | skohan wrote:
           | I understand these arguments, but I can't help thinking that
           | the use of the term "guys" is really a non-issue. As someone
           | who's been living as an expat for the past 6 years, I speak 3
           | languages decently and another one poorly. If there is
           | anything this has convinced me of, it's that languages in
           | general don't make a lot of sense, and the meaning of words
           | is purely defined by how they are used.
           | 
           | By that definition, "guys", when used to refer to a group of
           | people, has always been a genderless term. In fact, growing
           | up in a progressive town in the midwest, if I heard someone
           | use the term "y'all" instead of "you guys", it would signal
           | to me that they might not be that good on gender issues (due
           | to an unjustified stereotype we had about southern people).
           | 
           | I think you can pick it apart, and find complex logical
           | reasons why "guys" might be gendered in certain
           | circumstances, but I think in 99% of cases when it's used,
           | people are able to understand with complete clarity whether
           | it's a gendered or genderless usage of the term.
           | 
           | And also I don't think it's going anywhere, because it's an
           | incredibly useful term which has the right level of
           | generality and casualness for a great many situations.
        
             | guerrilla wrote:
             | If you read the linked papers then you'll see that the
             | argument isn't whether it can be genderless. That's not
             | disputed since it's used that way effectively. It's about
             | what the word evokes regardless of which meaning is meant
             | and whether or not that is harmful to women. Connotation
             | vs. denotation and the real world effects of the former.
        
               | skohan wrote:
               | Yes and my argument would be that in 99% of cases where
               | this is used in the real world in a genderless context,
               | there is no gendered evocation or connotation with the
               | word. It simply means a group of people, and there is no
               | harmful effect of using this term.
               | 
               | I believe you have to dig really deep and go through some
               | mental gymnastics to find evidence of harm here. I don't
               | fault the authors of these papers for exploring the
               | potential issues with the term, but I believe this is a
               | case where the academic reading is out of step with the
               | reality of the situation.
        
               | [deleted]
        
         | mc32 wrote:
         | Women use the word guys when addressing a group of men and
         | women as much as men do.
         | 
         | It's a generational thing but even older women now use the word
         | for addressing mixed groups.
         | 
         | Conversely, there seems to be an aversion from actor/actress in
         | some circles whereas before it was observed more.
         | 
         | With regard to presently and momentarily, I prefer the more
         | modern meanings. Disinterested: I'm dismayed it's trending
         | toward a confusing new meaning and hope I'm not misunderstood
         | by the new meaning.
         | 
         | Sometimes prescriptivism works to keep things uniform, but
         | there's only so much you can hold back the tide.
        
       | jrockway wrote:
       | I think I mostly avoid these words because of the ambiguity -- I
       | know I know what they mean, but I also know that other people use
       | them for other things, so as a result, they can't be used.
       | "decimate" is a word I'd like to use on occasion, but I know that
       | the real meaning and the common meaning are pretty much
       | opposites. Best to avoid.
       | 
       | A trend I've noticed is that people take longer words that sound
       | like shorter words, and start using them to "sound smart".
       | Consider "utilization" and "usage", which are just synonyms for
       | "use". Start throwing around three letter words when you could
       | use an eleven letter word and people will think you're dumb.
       | 
       | I still call a pushbutton switch "momentary on", though. I hope
       | people don't think that means that the circuit turns on after a
       | delay.
        
         | jdashg wrote:
         | You know what "decimate" _meant_ , but what it _means in modern
         | English_ is different. It 's less the "real" meaning than the
         | "original" meaning, but age doesn't make it more correct.
         | "axing a question" is over a thousand years old, but its
         | acceptability depends on your audience, not any inherent
         | realness of meaning.
         | 
         | The people who collectively decided what words mean centuries
         | ago were not special. We are them, just with smartphones.
        
           | perl4ever wrote:
           | It _is_ objectively bad when not-very-literate people guess
           | that a rarer word means the same as a more familiar word that
           | it sounds a bit like and drown out the people who made a
           | distinction.
           | 
           | That's because it is destroying useful tools for no gain. The
           | word used to mean X, not Y, whereas now it's just a
           | pretentious version of Y.
           | 
           | "Decimate" may not be a terribly significant word to
           | use/lose, but that's not a refutation of the pattern of loss
           | that's degrading the language. Claiming it's just an
           | arbitrary point of view is not correct.
           | 
           | On the other hand, a lot of people don't grasp that when you
           | Google a word, you likely do not find _all_ the definitions
           | that are in a decent dictionary, so it seems like the
           | misinformation is fairly balanced between ignoring
           | distinctions and making up distinctions /restrictions that
           | didn't exist in the first place.
        
       | nabla9 wrote:
       | The problem comes when words describe an idea or concept.
       | Usually, words lose specificity and become more generic.
       | 
       | Consider the word _racist_ , "the belief that groups of humans
       | possess different behavioral traits corresponding to physical
       | appearance and can be divided based on the superiority of one
       | race over another." Many people who say "I'm not a racist" are
       | correct. They can be xenophobes and/or bigots.
       | 
       | There is no specific English word to describe bona fide racists
       | from David Duke to Charles Murray, without including xenophobes,
       | bigots, and people with strong unconscious prejudge.
        
         | wilshire_nc wrote:
         | There's no word to describe David Duke & Charles Murray without
         | including xenophobes and bigots, because David Duke & Charles
         | Murray are xenophobes and bigots.
        
           | umanwizard wrote:
           | Of course there can be words to describe subsets of larger
           | groups.
           | 
           | They're also people; is there no word to describe them
           | without including all people?
        
           | nabla9 wrote:
           | There is no word to describe Jack Daniel's, and Laphroaig
           | without including all other alcoholic drinks because Jack
           | Daniel's, and Laphroaig are alcoholic drinks.
        
         | jasperry wrote:
         | I agree, it's a big loss to discourse when a useful word loses
         | its specificity and there's nothing else to take its place.
         | That's why I am one of those who would to fight to keep the
         | "correct" meaning of "disinterested".
         | 
         | I think it's important to distinguish between words like that
         | and other entries in the article's list that are just trite
         | figures of speech, and it won't hurt anyone if they shift
         | meanings or even fall out of use altogether.
        
         | watwut wrote:
         | > bona fide racists from David Duke to Charles Murray, without
         | including xenophobes, bigots, and people with strong
         | unconscious prejudge.
         | 
         | Because the primary thing that diatinguishes them is eloquence
         | when they talk and iq. The rest is largely the same.
        
         | Strang wrote:
         | "racists from David Duke to Charles Murray"
         | 
         | I disagree that the absence of a word to link these two
         | ideologically is a fault of the English language.
        
       | hunter2_ wrote:
       | It would be interesting to see whether more people would engage a
       | switch _for a moment_ or _in a moment,_ given the instruction to
       | do so _momentarily,_ if they were also recently educated about
       | the definition of a _momentary_ switch.
       | 
       | Unfortunately, there would be no way to analyze the results, as
       | I'm certain that most people would engage it in such a way as to
       | apply both definitions even if they didn't know two existed.
        
       | xyzelement wrote:
       | There's a very simple metric I use for this - do people
       | understand what I mean or does language choice confuse them?
       | 
       | Once you adopt this metric, your whole life is better. You don't
       | worry about misusing words, you stop using acronyms from your
       | last job when you interview, you stop making that joke to your
       | wife that she never gets and is instead annoyed, etc.
        
       | kristofferR wrote:
       | Mirror: https://archive.is/p8pyL
        
       | GNU_James wrote:
       | I don't need politics in my IT.
        
       | paulsutter wrote:
       | Summary:
       | 
       | > I have a somewhat arbitrary metric... the proportion of the
       | first 20 hits on a Google News search reflecting a word's old
       | meaning
       | 
       | Even more interesting then to compare the Bing ranking to the
       | Google ranking for any ... postmodern language changes, to
       | confirm or disprove the rumor that Google results are 20% more
       | ideological
        
       | cheph wrote:
       | Why should we try and change a word's meaning?
       | 
       | EDIT: Original title was: "How long should we cling to a word's
       | original meaning? (2011)"
        
         | eplanit wrote:
         | Languages experience entropy, too.
        
           | cheph wrote:
           | Okay.
        
         | [deleted]
        
         | syncsynchalt wrote:
         | There's confusion when a word means one thing to one set of
         | people, and the opposite to the other set of people. When
         | someone says they're "nonplussed", what exactly are they
         | saying?
         | 
         | The choices are to either agree more broadly to a single
         | meaning ("change the meaning" to half of the people), or find
         | another less ambiguous word.
        
         | soneca wrote:
         | There is no "we" trying to change. Individual people just start
         | doing it, then it catches on, and then the meaning has already
         | changed for a lot of people.
        
           | mkr-hn wrote:
           | It can even happen at the level of subculture-specific words
           | (possibly NSFW depending on your W):
           | https://en.wikifur.com/wiki/Yiff
        
           | cheph wrote:
           | Title was changed, it was: "How long should we cling to a
           | word's original meaning? (2011)" - clearly containing the
           | word "we", thus implying a "we".
        
           | salex89 wrote:
           | Yet decades after it got a new meaning, we can't use "master"
           | as a branch name because it had a different meaning in 1800.
        
             | umanwizard wrote:
             | Sure you can and plenty of people still do.
        
             | watwut wrote:
             | I do use master for branches. I use also master and slave.
             | 
             | But, outside of tech, the meaning of slave did not changed
             | one big. I did not seen "master" anywhere except master
             | slave relationship (whether history or bdsm).
             | 
             | So I find theory that calling these two master and slave is
             | unrelated to historical slavery implausible. People who use
             | it first time being inspired by that seems most plausible
             | origin of that name.
        
               | lr4444lr wrote:
               | The etymology of "master" goes back at least to the Latin
               | "magister" meaning "teacher", and is used in a multitude
               | of contexts where one person is recognized as having some
               | kind of revered knowledge or authority about some topic.
               | 
               | While I don't agree with the position that the word
               | "slave" be expunged from tech for some putative role in
               | trivializing historical slavery either, at least the
               | argument does have a plausible premise. The anti "master"
               | crowd though is laughably ignorant of language.
        
               | JohnStrangeII wrote:
               | Well, if you start arguing this way, then you can also go
               | all the way back and muse about what the word meant in
               | Proto-Indoeuropean.
               | 
               | It's still obvious that the modern use of the
               | master/slave combo comes from centuries of slavery, not
               | from any prior meanings. As OP said, that can be shown by
               | studying their meanings outside the technical context.
               | The original meaning was retained in Academia but merely
               | as jargon. Magister artium is a "master degree." There is
               | no "slave degree", though. There is also "mastery",
               | master/apprentice, and so on.
               | 
               | In other words, the offensive component of the combo is
               | "slave", not "master." You can safely continue to use the
               | master/apprentice combo.
        
             | loceng wrote:
             | No, you can still and should still use master and slave in
             | the non-human slave contexts because that's how you hold
             | the line against irrationality - and not coddle that
             | unreasonable crowd.
        
               | Hnrobert42 wrote:
               | To some those words have a hurtful meaning. You may
               | consider them irrational, but they would consider you
               | irrational.
        
               | Mediterraneo10 wrote:
               | I question the amount of people who find "master" in
               | computing truly hurtful. The activist demographic pushing
               | to change the terminology is exceedingly small, and I
               | simply don't see much authentic pressure from the masses
               | behind it, unlike in the case of other terms that are now
               | eschewed.
               | 
               | Also, once one is aware of etymology as a science,
               | changing "master" in this context does seem irrational:
               | in very many languages the general word for "mister, sir"
               | and the word used for "master to a slave" are identical,
               | and are we to change all these terms of address, too?
        
               | loceng wrote:
               | That's an emotional reaction and not grounded in logic
               | because they're not differentiating the contexts.
               | Differentiation, boundaries and context with words and
               | language, is something then they need to learn - and if
               | you coddle them, they're not going to learn that - so
               | you're actually doing a disservice to them and society.
               | 
               | If a child is having a temper tantrum because you won't
               | let them taste the bleach, you don't give in to let them
               | taste the bleach.
               | 
               | And re: they will consider my response irrational - I
               | just explained it with logic, and there is truth and
               | logic - you don't fold to that behaviour just because
               | someone's emotional maturity is underdeveloped or blocked
               | - likely from coddling and adults in their life not being
               | integral to hold boundaries for certain types of
               | thinking/behaviour; this has lead to what's considered a
               | neoliberal group - the same extreme exists on the
               | conservative side as well, though it manifests
               | differently.
        
               | eplanit wrote:
               | Maybe they're too fragile.
        
               | VoodooJuJu wrote:
               | I really like Mental Outlaw's take on this push against
               | "offensive" language and toward "inclusive" language:
               | https://youtu.be/tx2v0Y9Ci7I
        
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