[HN Gopher] Italy Blocks Users on TikTok After 10-Year-Old Girl ...
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       Italy Blocks Users on TikTok After 10-Year-Old Girl Died in a
       Blackout Challenge
        
       Author : sodrick
       Score  : 86 points
       Date   : 2021-01-23 11:15 UTC (11 hours ago)
        
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       | sirsuki wrote:
       | I wish there were certifications that parents could enforce kids
       | to get concerning topics like drugs, sex, social media, sexual
       | harassment, etc. the world has many dangers for developing
       | children. Having a talk about them and then having refreshers
       | yearly is a good thing. Adults do this for topics like CPR etc.
       | why not these. Especially since now a days it isn't a few dangers
       | but many in places even parents are ill equipped to understand
       | themselves.
        
         | andygcook wrote:
         | Wouldn't a better solution be for parents just to talk to their
         | kids regularly about safety? An outsourced certification to me
         | just seems like a way for parents to skirt around the hard
         | topics and deflect responsibility.
        
           | tgv wrote:
           | Many people aren't responsible and/or caring. They drink and
           | drive, drive too fast, have loaded guns lying around, etc.
           | Getting parents to raise their children according to certain
           | norms is going to fail.
        
       | toomanybeersies wrote:
       | Not to be flippant, but hasn't this kind of thing been going on
       | since long before the internet?
       | 
       | It sounds like the addition of social media has created a media
       | circus, rather than a new problem itself.
        
         | aaron695 wrote:
         | Clearly this is a game kids have always played. I'd think most
         | adults know of it. We have records 100 years ago of this game,
         | I assumes there would be records further if someone looks.
         | 
         | This also sounds like typical moral panic, it's a pretty shitty
         | "high".
         | 
         | > to their brain in order to get high.
         | 
         | It'd be nice to put a bit more structure to all this. Are
         | deaths going up for this particular game, is it more dangerous
         | because participants do it alone, are children doing it
         | younger. Are suicides and other things that kill the youth down
         | because of social media.
        
           | BenjiWiebe wrote:
           | My off the cuff guess would be that social media has
           | increased the rate of teen suicides.
        
         | tgv wrote:
         | Would the girl have done it, and died, without TikTok, that's
         | the question.
        
           | packersville wrote:
           | No, they are wondering if this type of activity has been
           | going on all along but now the internet just informs us of
           | the case by case.
        
           | tokai wrote:
           | <<Youth who participate alone in the choking game are a
           | particularly high risk group, exhibiting substantially higher
           | rates of suicidal ideation and poorer mental health compared
           | with youth who participate in the choking game in a group.>>
           | 
           | I would guess her risk was elevated.
           | 
           | https://pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/138/6/e201607.
           | ..
        
             | tgv wrote:
             | That doesn't mean much without knowing why they did it
             | while alone. What does "participation" in that context even
             | mean? And it doesn't change the possibility that a
             | "challenge" on social media had an influence.
             | 
             | Any guesses about the risk she was in a priori are not
             | relevant, and cannot be determined from that paper.
        
       | layoutIfNeeded wrote:
       | Well at least this challenge will only cause self-harm, unlike
       | the "knockout game" from a few years ago.
        
       | devops000 wrote:
       | Social media are too dangerous for <15 yo
        
         | mbg721 wrote:
         | As with most everything else that's too dangerous for people
         | under 15, saying that will instantly make it popular.
        
         | concordDance wrote:
         | Letting children be able to communicate with eachother means
         | they'll goad eachother to do stupid things. This has always
         | been true and the choking game (and consequences) is ancient.
        
       | kodyo wrote:
       | She died a winner. How many of us will be able to say the same?
        
       | slim wrote:
       | children suicides have been attributed to the internet without
       | any proof since 2010 at least (remember blue whale challenge?).
       | but they are always conveniently used for propaganda against the
       | designated enemy of the moment
        
         | [deleted]
        
       | notorandit wrote:
       | Pur parents in jail.
        
         | C19is20 wrote:
         | Despite all the talks from my parents, I still did silly and
         | dangerous things, as I suspect the majority of us did.
         | Personally, mine would be up for 20-life for all my crap.
        
       | sodrick wrote:
       | For me, any child below 15 years has no business with social
       | media...social media is highly distractive, even to adult ...the
       | shud be a regulation restricting children from social media
        
         | OneGuy123 wrote:
         | This might protect children for a while but sooner or later
         | they will become addicted to it.
         | 
         | We will have to modify/add this to our educational system,
         | there is no other way around it or parents will have to teach
         | children this themselves (which is problematic since adults
         | themselves are also addicated so we are missing a huge part of
         | the puzzle of how the mind truly works).
         | 
         | A lof of adults think they are not addicted to
         | twitter/facebook/hackernews but they somehow magicaly find
         | themselves browing hackernews and facebook "suddenly and for no
         | reason at all".
         | 
         | This seems to be one of the few books that actually works in
         | practice: it is about porn addiction but it seems to be
         | applicable to social media addication also.
         | 
         | https://easypeasymethod.org/index.html
        
           | andrepd wrote:
           | Skimmed through that book, it sounds like complete hogwash.
           | Masturbation is evil + pseudoscience + "just quit bro".
        
         | choeger wrote:
         | I wouldn't have a problem with social media per se for my kids.
         | It's the sheer size of the population that concerns me.
         | 
         | In most "normal" situations, parents can identify their
         | children's contacts quickly and they can observe the black
         | sheep closely and in the worst case try to prevent any further
         | contact.
         | 
         | In social media, the weirdest and worst people are just a click
         | away and you won't even notice it. Right now, there probably is
         | a new trend or group out there that is extremely dangerous, or
         | outright criminal and I don't even recognize it.
        
           | ComputerGuru wrote:
           | Ok, so you _aren't_ fine with social media, given that this
           | isn't something you can control. It sounds like "I'm fine
           | with it, just not any of it's bad sides."
        
             | __s wrote:
             | The problem is "social media" casts a wide net. Social
             | media use to be friends & friends of friends. It's evolved
             | to recommended content feeds
        
               | thegreatpeter wrote:
               | But it's not that anymore so you're not fine with it,
               | right?
        
             | choeger wrote:
             | So if one is not 100% fine with everything that follows
             | that means they must reject it? Weird world view.
             | 
             | So I have to reject cars because of their negative effect
             | in dense urban areas?
             | 
             | I have to reject alcohol at all or be fine with alcoholism?
        
               | Fargren wrote:
               | The issue is that you said what bothers you about social
               | media is "the sheer size of the population", but I would
               | say the size of the population is what makes it social
               | media. It's akin to saying I like cars except for the
               | fact they move faster than a person. You could
               | technically have something called social media that has
               | low populations, but it would be so functionally
               | different from the actual thing that using the same name
               | becomes questionable.
        
               | coldtea wrote:
               | > _So I have to reject cars because of their negative
               | effect in dense urban areas?_
               | 
               | Yes, sounds good.
        
           | lm28469 wrote:
           | > I wouldn't have a problem with social media per se for my
           | kids.
           | 
           | The thing is that the people/kids dying because of dumb
           | challenges or the occasional illegal/gore/murder videos &c...
           | aren't even the problem
           | 
           | These things are built to steal your attention and use every
           | trick in the book to make you a brainless scroll monkey.
           | There is a reason why not a single SV executive will let
           | their kids anywhere close to social medias. These things
           | destroy people's brains, and especially the brains of kids
           | which are still developing and are extremely malleable to
           | this type of conditioning. tiktok/snapchat/instragram &co
           | bring absolutely nothing good to a kid's life, they're pure
           | distraction devices
           | 
           | > parents can identify their children's contacts quickly and
           | they can observe the black sheep closely and in the worst
           | case try to prevent any further contact
           | 
           | Unless you monitor your kids 24/7: no, and again, these
           | tools, even when used "safely" are still engineered to
           | artificially trigger and reinforce the most basic reward
           | pathways of your brain and this won't bring anything good to
           | your kid's life
           | 
           | You can very well make the analogy with weed or alcohol. What
           | might be fine for an healthy adult (able to set his own
           | boundaries and conscious of the potential risks) would
           | destroy a 10 years old kid very quickly
        
             | tacitusarc wrote:
             | >The thing is that the people/kids dying because of dumb
             | challenges or the occasional illegal/gore/murder videos
             | &c... aren't even the problem
             | 
             | They are maybe a little bit of the problem
        
         | intrasight wrote:
         | I partially credit my daughter's great concentration abilities
         | with not having much exposure to social media until high
         | school.
        
         | watwut wrote:
         | Yeah, complete social isolation from peers during pandemic is
         | much better plan.
         | 
         | This ship sailed before covid already. But with covit, it is
         | online discussion or nothing.
        
       | tedunangst wrote:
       | What evidence is there to suggest the "blackout challenge" was
       | popular?
        
         | Udik wrote:
         | So far, I didn't see evidence that it even exists. Tiktok
         | denies that such material exists, and so far I think there's
         | only the parent's statement. Let's see what the investigation
         | will find out.
        
         | jka wrote:
         | Is popularity a relevant factor?
        
       | 1experience wrote:
       | Yeah, keep children isolated for ten months and then blame Tiktok
       | for their alienation; akin to blaming death on a fever instead of
       | the disease that caused it.
        
       | lucb1e wrote:
       | For anyone else out of the loop, the blackout game involves
       | 
       | > participants blocking oxygen to their brain in order to get
       | high.
        
         | ljm wrote:
         | It's worrying that all someone has to do is put 'challenge' or
         | 'game' at the end of a dumb idea and it'll spread around social
         | media like wildfire. Suddenly everyone's recording a video of
         | themselves to get acknowledgment from strangers in the form of
         | likes or upvotes.
        
           | geoduck14 wrote:
           | After the Bird Box Challenge, I stopped trusting "challenges"
        
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       | 1010010 wrote:
       | What's actually happening: Italy has requested TikTok to disable
       | user accounts beloging to users of unknown/unchecked age. TikTok
       | has until Feb 10 to comply.
        
         | enditruu wrote:
         | Yeah, this isn't a very specific headline. Seriously thought
         | Italy had blocked TikTok access to the whole country for a
         | moment.
        
           | 29083011397778 wrote:
           | Directly from TFA:
           | 
           | > The report shows that the Italian Data Protection Authority
           | had blocked TikTok till February 15th immediately till
           | regulator's demands are met
           | 
           | This certainly reads like TikTok has been blocked till
           | February 15th, at which point they expect TikTok to verify
           | users' ages.
        
         | sodrick wrote:
         | The part was removed due to insufficient space ...
        
       | vanekjar wrote:
       | How is the ban implemented? It doesn't sound realistic and the
       | article doesn't share technical details.
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | collyw wrote:
       | Lets stop calling it "social" media as there is nothing social
       | about it.
        
       | TheChaplain wrote:
       | Hmm, wasn't there some challenge on Tiktok last year where some
       | unsuspecting victim got their legs sweeped and some kid got
       | serious brain damage?
        
         | layoutIfNeeded wrote:
         | Yes. https://www.forbes.com/sites/brucelee/2020/02/19/the-
         | skull-b...
        
       | Abishek_Muthian wrote:
       | I don't use TikTok, I never will (As a disabled person[1]).
       | 
       | But age detection is a hard problem. Several years ago I was
       | running a chat-app network' platform for privacy focused dating
       | allowing communication between,
       | 
       | Messenger <-> Telegram <-> Viber <-> LINE
       | 
       | First major issue I ran into was that in SE Asian countries many
       | used their children photographs for profile picture in chat apps,
       | which obviously was a no go for dating, so I had to implement
       | Amazon Rekognition to detect age, make those users change their
       | profile picture and their profiles weren't displayed until it was
       | changed. At peak it processed 200,000 images/month.
       | 
       | But Amazon's model was biased and resulted in several false
       | positives for darker skin color marking several adults as
       | children; But since false positives were better than false
       | negatives for this case I went on with it. Amazon told me that
       | they are working on fixing their model, not sure whether it has
       | improved.
       | 
       | [1]https://theintercept.com/2020/03/16/tiktok-app-moderators-
       | us...
        
       | amir734jj wrote:
       | That's why I use OpenDNS content filtering. When a kid figures
       | out how to bypass dns filtering, he/she has reached adulthood.
       | I'm 26 and I use DNS content filtering for myself. There is so
       | much nonsense in the internet.
        
       | eznzt wrote:
       | Darwin is going to get upset.
        
       | bitcharmer wrote:
       | It's a really worrying trend that these dangerous challenges gain
       | so much popularity on social media. I wonder what's in the center
       | of this trend. Are we somehow getting dumber as a species or are
       | some other factors at play.
        
         | simonh wrote:
         | We're not getting dumber I'm afraid, it's just getting more
         | visible.
        
         | simion314 wrote:
         | IMO children were always like this, not thinking about risks. I
         | remember how many risky things I done with my bike and we never
         | listen and always played football on the street, and now this
         | feels to me like as children we are somehow blind to this
         | risks.
        
           | matwood wrote:
           | I grew up mostly before the internet and we did lots of
           | stupid things as kids, including this exact black out stunt.
           | 
           | What I think social media has done though is push people
           | beyond their normal internal brakes. You and your friends
           | might push each other to do risky things, but friends tend to
           | care about one another internally. Anonymous people on the
           | internet don't know you or really care about you, so it's
           | easier for them to push people into riskier situations.
        
           | layoutIfNeeded wrote:
           | My parents were progressive - they considered me and my
           | brother as little adults basically, and they've educated us
           | on many serious topics early on (sex, contraception, drugs,
           | death). Adults were always amazed how well-behaved and mature
           | me and my brother were. But we still did stupid and dangerous
           | stuff as adolescents, like playing with fireworks, making
           | lighters explode, huffing nitrous crackers, smoking, cycling
           | around drunk, painting graffiti, etc.
           | 
           | There's really nothing parents can do, other than pray for
           | the best.
        
             | tremon wrote:
             | _There's really nothing parents can do, other than pray for
             | the best._
             | 
             | I wish this attitude was more prevalent, both among parents
             | and lawmakers. More and more, it seems we're legislating
             | against any possible turn of fate that could happen, and
             | both personal freedom and a sense of personal
             | responsibility suffer for it.
        
             | chokeartist wrote:
             | > But we still did stupid and dangerous stuff as
             | adolescents, like playing with fireworks, making lighters
             | explode, huffing nitrous crackers, smoking, cycling around
             | drunk, painting graffiti, etc.
             | 
             | Lol sounds like we had a common background. There were so
             | many close calls looking back that I just shake my head and
             | am thankful no one ever got seriously hurt.
        
           | avereveard wrote:
           | > children were always like this
           | 
           | however we're in a somewhat novel situation as mistake past
           | will follow you in caches and meme dumps for years and years,
           | well into adulthood.
           | 
           | sure it's comparable to having had a bad reputation back in
           | the days before internet, but you could just escape it by
           | changing town or correct it if your social circle was small
           | enough. with internet, no such luck, getting past one's young
           | self mistake is going to be quite harder.
        
             | yorwba wrote:
             | The internet equivalent of skipping town is deleting all
             | your accounts and signing up for new ones, perhaps on other
             | platforms.
        
               | amelius wrote:
               | This might be a difficult thing to do, though, for
               | someone who is addicted, and deeply invested in different
               | online relationships.
        
               | avereveard wrote:
               | you're stuck at a 199x model of internet social
               | interactions, these company are posing as stand in
               | replacement for personal interactions and as such are
               | trying their hardest (and succeeding, even, especially in
               | the younger population with is the subject of this
               | discussion) in registering people with their true
               | identities.
        
               | yorwba wrote:
               | That makes the similarity to physical social interactions
               | stronger, not weaker. Most people live their offline
               | lives under their true identities.
        
               | avereveard wrote:
               | The image you phisically project in other people head is
               | a) ephemeral b) local c) not indexed and d) inaccessible
               | from unrelated third parties
               | 
               | I can't believe I've to explain this...
        
           | rgoulter wrote:
           | Sure. But I would believe social media exasperates this.
           | 
           | With social media, you're not just showing how brave you are
           | with a stupid dare compared to a few of your friends, but
           | competing against the most dangerous thing you've seen.
        
             | simion314 wrote:
             | I think the effects could be larger but the children are
             | not more dumb because of the media. I am sure similar
             | stupid things were done in the past but you would not known
             | that some child in a far away country died because of a
             | stupid challenge.
             | 
             | Maybe off topic, but some of the risky stuff I done with my
             | bike were when I was alone and were not to show of, it was
             | all about going fast or going fast on dangerous path or
             | just not paying attention.
        
         | danielrpa wrote:
         | Social media algorithms can exploit weaknesses in our bodies
         | and minds, presenting a threat for which evolution hasn't
         | prepared us.
         | 
         | The kids like it exactly because it's dangerous and can make
         | them feel older and "cool". Ultimately, the powerful, data-
         | driven algorithm discovered that and showed the video, among
         | certainly others, to optimize some engagement metric for the
         | poor little girl.
        
         | Out_of_Characte wrote:
         | I think people need a reminder of what the internet really is.
         | anyone anywhere can start a website with questionable content
         | and people. It was your own responsibility to deal with the
         | information you voluntarily searched in an apropriate manner.
         | Now the internet feels like a honeytrap with how safe and
         | moderated everything seems. The same goes for kids for example.
         | It is normalised that they are allowed to be on the internet
         | yet seemingly no one actually thought trough what the
         | implications are.
        
         | djohnston wrote:
         | This challenge was around in the early 2000's, probably before.
         | I don't think anything has really changed it's just a new app
         | so journalists can write new articles. Is there any evidence
         | this challenge is more popular now than it was 15 years ago?
         | 
         | This seems like another case of Politician's Syllogism:
         | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Politician%27s_syllogism
        
           | usrusr wrote:
           | Well, pretty much everything you can do alone at home would
           | be more popular now than 15 years ago. But the general
           | pattern of kids bonding over imitation and acknowledging an
           | informal hierarchy via imitation order is certainly not new
           | at all.
        
           | __s wrote:
           | For more info on how this activity has existed for awhile,
           | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Choking_game
        
           | psyc wrote:
           | We used to do this in middle school. That was 30 years ago.
           | We used to do it a lot. You stumble around on autopilot
           | talking gibberish. The world looks like that shadow world
           | Frodo goes to when he puts the ring on. Then you come to on
           | the ground with short term amnesia. You can see how 11 year
           | olds would think it was awesome. I didn't know it was
           | dangerous until my dad found out and completely lost it with
           | me.
        
           | klyrs wrote:
           | I discovered the effect all by myself. I noticed that I could
           | deliberately make my face beet red (as a ginger, the effect
           | was quite drastic). It was hilarious to my peers, but I was
           | always the wild one, so it was a spectator activity for them.
           | One day, I clenched too hard, or too long, passed out, and
           | fell to the ground. I got up quick as I could, brushed it
           | off... but never did it again.
           | 
           | So in a sense, yeah, I'd bet that kids have been doing this
           | "forever." OTOH, what's missing from my story is the peer
           | pressure (albeit their amusement encouraging me) and the
           | network effect. Social media can transmit memetic disease
           | faster than we've ever seen. Is social media to blame for
           | this behavior? Hell no. Does social media aggravate the
           | situation? Without question.
        
         | amelius wrote:
         | > Are we somehow getting dumber as a species or are some other
         | factors at play.
         | 
         | Perhaps one problem is that we now have a front row seat in
         | Darwin's theater. When stuff like this happened in the past, it
         | resulted in a small article in a local newspaper, at most. The
         | internet makes us think that this stuff is happening all the
         | time, when in fact it isn't really.
        
         | usrusr wrote:
         | The ruthless attention economy on the networks. It's not
         | inherently dangerous, many participants get by perfectly fine
         | competing for attention with other things than outdoing each
         | other in dangerous stupidity, but some don't know a better way.
         | And the participatory nature of the "challenge" pattern spreads
         | it to the less desperate. Remember "planking"?
        
         | MayeulC wrote:
         | To add to other replies, the population is growing.
         | 
         | Also, there might be less children proportionately (is "peak
         | children" behind us in absolute numbers?), and survivability is
         | higher, making these dumb games proportionally more visible.
         | 
         | Of course, social media doesn't help. Firstly, for visibility.
         | Secondly, everyone now has more connections to "dumb" friends,
         | and a direct window into their lives. Lastly, current
         | attention-focused recommendation algorithms often promote
         | shocking, attention-grabing content, which makes such things
         | both more visible, and likely to go viral. It also rewards
         | sharing such content: more prominently displayed, it is more
         | likely to "get likes", and fuels the pool of attention-grabbing
         | posts the platform can use.
         | 
         | Today's social media is full of perverse incentives, for a very
         | marginal benefit to its users (even if that might not be
         | obvious to them, as they are led to believe the contrary).
        
       | polyterative wrote:
       | boredom kills
        
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