[HN Gopher] Facebook Disabled My Account After I Criticized Them
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       Facebook Disabled My Account After I Criticized Them
        
       Author : thereare5lights
       Score  : 276 points
       Date   : 2021-01-23 10:00 UTC (13 hours ago)
        
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       | rdiddly wrote:
       | That's great news; finally he can stop preaching about
       | decentralizing social media and start practicing it.
        
       | waterhouse wrote:
       | How to download an offline copy of your Facebook data:
       | https://www.facebook.com/help/212802592074644
        
         | g_p wrote:
         | It would be interesting to see how this process works for
         | someone whose account has been disabled. Clearly Facebook won't
         | want manual requests.
         | 
         | Any European users could make 2 requests - one for access to
         | their data, and one to exercise their right to data
         | portability.
         | 
         | Most companies don't have a great process for the latter, many
         | don't have anything for it.
        
           | drcongo wrote:
           | I was recently looking for evidence of Facebook actually
           | responding adequately to a subject access request and failed
           | to find any. I did find evidence of them refusing [0] though,
           | and simply failing [1].
           | 
           | [0] https://thedataprivacygroup.com/blog/facebook-refuses-
           | subjec...
           | 
           | [1] https://ruben.verborgh.org/facebook/
        
       | snarkypixel wrote:
       | I'm so tired of seeing these posts. Facebook can do whatever it
       | wants with your account and the data you've giving them. Facebook
       | isn't some "free speech" place or a decentralized protocol.. It's
       | a for-profit business optimized to make, guess what, profits.
        
         | typenil wrote:
         | I'm so tired of seeing these posts. Private people can
         | criticize whatever they want about Facebook and the crappy
         | things they do. Commenting isn't some "illegal activity" when
         | it's critical of legal activity.. Legality isn't the ultimate
         | shield against, guess what, criticism.
        
         | ng12 wrote:
         | All of that is true. The question is: is that bad for society?
         | There's increasing evidence that it is.
        
         | benhurmarcel wrote:
         | Because it's legal doesn't mean you can't make noise about it.
        
         | nexthash wrote:
         | I think you have neglected to consider the power Facebook has
         | over people's lives - 2/7 of the world's population is on it.
         | All of your family and friends are on there, as well as social
         | organizations, your employer, your pictures, and your messages.
         | The network effect generated by this is irresistibly strong and
         | difficult to run from. Now, you were saying that a company that
         | has such a huge hand in the lives of everyone around you
         | doesn't have to respect its users' accounts and data? That just
         | sounds tone-deaf and irresponsible to me, and has over and over
         | been shown to have damaging consequences for users' lives and
         | endeavors.
        
         | fsflover wrote:
         | Can a private water company switch off water for you if they
         | don't like you? No. Same should be for Facebook, since it's a
         | monopoly.
        
       | neartheplain wrote:
       | I stopped using Facebook and Messenger out of similar fears. If
       | my Facebook account were disabled, I'd be unable to use my Quest
       | VR headset and lose access to all my Oculus Store purchases. Now
       | I only express views critical of Facebook on Twitter, Signal, and
       | in person.
        
       | ameister14 wrote:
       | Well, you shared content they found objectionable.
        
       | newscracker wrote:
       | Mods: This should probably be merged with the discussion several
       | hours ago [1] based on the Twitter thread (where this blog post
       | was linked).
       | 
       | [1]: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=25879376
        
       | [deleted]
        
       | vmception wrote:
       | In Corporate America, Facebook cancels you!
        
       | greenyoda wrote:
       | Maybe it has nothing to do with what this user did? It seems that
       | thousands of users have been locked out of their Facebook
       | accounts: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=25880738
        
         | stonecraftwolf wrote:
         | If you read the article, you'll see it's not the same issue.
        
         | neartheplain wrote:
         | That outage seems unrelated. The author was able to connect,
         | but got a "Your Account Has Been Disabled" notice from Facebook
         | per the article.
        
       | rossdavidh wrote:
       | I think FB has a fundamental issue here, which is that:
       | 
       | 1) they don't feel they can NOT police content
       | 
       | 2) they are wayyyyy too big to police content manually
       | 
       | 3) any AI they train to police content, is not going to be able
       | to state clearly why a given post/account was banned, and
       | anyway...
       | 
       | 4) if you state objective, clear rules that are automated, it
       | will be pretty easy to game them (e.g. using euphemisms or code
       | words for objectionable content)
       | 
       | I don't see how FB can get out of this situation. Any social
       | network that is as large as it is, which relies on advertising
       | (and thus cannot be as content-neutral as e.g. phone companies
       | are regarding what you talk about on the phone), is going to face
       | the same situation.
       | 
       | Of course, if FB ends up getting way smaller as a result, that
       | would be fine by me. But I'm not holding my breath...
        
         | xerxespoy wrote:
         | They can solve this issue by adequately providing for self-
         | moderation. Avoiding this approach reveals an intention to
         | impose. Users leave once they realise the violation.
        
         | jancsika wrote:
         | > 1) they don't feel they can NOT police content
         | 
         | True.
         | 
         | But we should be explicit here-- FB isn't some neat, nerdy
         | social graph software that just happened to get really popular,
         | like git for regular people or something. They have a business
         | model to shake up their social graph to maximize engagement,
         | and the implementation achieves this by keeping everyone
         | maximally mad as hell at each other. It spreads conspiracy
         | theories efficiently. It and its users are easily exploited,
         | and they continue to be exploited by any nation-state,
         | nefarious actors, or even just some dude looking to make a buck
         | spreading fake news. That all feeds into the same destructive
         | behaviors for the users as the system desperately tries to keep
         | them engaging more and more. Facebook's _own_ software and UI
         | exacerbates these problems.
         | 
         | With that starting point in mind, I agree with your 1, 2, 3,
         | and 4 above. But this is less like email having to deal with
         | new sets of problems as it scaled to the entire world. It's
         | more like a drug cartel trying to figure out the maximum amount
         | of their fundamentally destructive product they can sell before
         | the government finally decides to comes in and break up their
         | enterprise.
        
           | rossdavidh wrote:
           | I think your point is valid, and relevant. Well stated.
           | 
           | Having said that, I think if FB were to stop doing that, some
           | other social network would, and would replace FB the way they
           | replaced MySpace. So again, I think the current "we want one
           | social network for everyone" situation, inevitably produces
           | this kind of behavior.
           | 
           | But, I agree with your point, and it is a good one.
        
           | kangaroozach wrote:
           | Censoring content rather than refuting its claims is
           | counterproductive. If skeptics are not able to be
           | argumentatively refute a claim, they will not succeed in
           | changing minds. The current strategy of trying to silence
           | view points will eventually fail miserably.
           | 
           | The issue is that when a platform outsources its censorship
           | ("moderation") to a third party that it still controls,
           | rather than a third party that is actually perceived to be
           | neutral by most people, then you create distrust which
           | further fuels conspiracy theories. Also a conspiracy theory
           | may actually be true. Jeffrey Epstein was not discussed
           | during the 2016 election aside from a few fringe articles. It
           | was too toxic for mainstream to touch. And everyone in
           | Hollywood knew about Harvey Weinstein and even joked about
           | it. These topics were covered up only for so long. Today
           | there are lots of insane and farfetched theories being
           | floated. But the theories being censored today that are
           | indeed based in reality, will eventually become common
           | knowledge and the censors will be implicated in the coverup
           | thereby harming their trust.
           | 
           | Discussion, debate, argument, evidence, analysis lead us
           | towards truth. Mute only appears to work and can be a useful
           | political tool for only so long.
           | 
           | Today our public forum is virtual, but still a public forum.
           | Trump wasn't allowed to block certain followers because of
           | their right to be in the forum and hear from their president.
           | 
           | So the question is whether governments will acknowledge this
           | fact and limit the power of our big tech group communication
           | platforms and enforce transparency and non-biased appeals
           | process. Or will they cede total control of our public forums
           | to Big Tech out of short term political convenience.
        
             | type0 wrote:
             | > will eventually become common knowledge and the censors
             | will be implicated in the coverup thereby harming their
             | trust.
             | 
             | But by that time almost no-one would care. And this is
             | probably what they're counting on.
        
         | fiddlerwoaroof wrote:
         | Or, perhaps, these problems are reasons why large, centralized
         | social networks shouldn't be allowed to exist.
        
           | root_axis wrote:
           | They exist because they're popular, you can't dictate what is
           | popular among the masses without authoritarianism.
        
             | anp wrote:
             | They exist because they're popular _and_ because the
             | currently successful ones acquired or strangled all of
             | their smaller meaningful competitors using investment
             | capital and money from first mover advantages.
        
               | hntrader wrote:
               | There's definitely an anti-trust dimension here, but it's
               | not related to first mover advantage; Facebook wasn't
               | nearly the first mover, or due to capital; Facebook was
               | somewhat widely thought to have over-paid for Instgram,
               | it was Zuck's foresight (or perhaps risk aversion) that
               | gave him the conviction to proceed with the transaction.
        
               | root_axis wrote:
               | Can you give some examples?
        
               | fakedang wrote:
               | Haha, are you serious? Instagram, WhatsApp, Snapchat...
               | Instagram's Systrom explicitly said that he sold because
               | otherwise Facebook would snuff him away.
        
               | root_axis wrote:
               | Facebook never acquired Snapchat so I'm not sure what
               | you're talking about there. Instagram and WhatsApp have
               | continued to thrive since their acquisition, so from a
               | user perspective nothing really changed, it's not like
               | you need a FB account to use insta or whatsapp.
        
               | _flux wrote:
               | That may be the case now, but Facebook did start
               | requiring Facebook accounts for their Oculus VR headsets.
               | 
               | Much to the dismay of many. Maybe it's the test case FB
               | is monitoring to look how to move ahead with their other
               | acquisitions. Last I heard Quest 2 sales are good..
        
               | fakedang wrote:
               | GP: _> They exist because they're popular and because the
               | currently successful ones acquired or strangled all of
               | their smaller meaningful competitors using investment
               | capital and money from first mover advantages._ Facebook
               | literally copied Snapchat features into Instagram
               | rightaway - Systrom even openly admitted it. That fits
               | the bill of  "strangled". Snapchat is in stagnation now,
               | because everything it has is there on Insta.
               | 
               | Instagram and WhatsApp thrived only because Facebook
               | acquired them, else both companies new they would be
               | smothered to death. That pretty much fits the bill of
               | "acquired... Using investment capital and money from
               | first mover advantages".
               | 
               | They don't need you to use your FB account because they
               | cross share data anyways. It's not like it's a
               | painstaking operation to link different accounts, once
               | you have all sorts of device data (which Facebook had,
               | even on Apple devices up until recently).
        
             | fiddlerwoaroof wrote:
             | You don't have to dictate popularity: just create legal
             | liability frameworks that make a solution like Mastodon
             | more appealing than a solution like Facebook or Twitter
        
               | root_axis wrote:
               | People can still be banned on Mastadon, it changes
               | absolutely nothing. In a world where Mastadon becomes
               | more popular than FB people will complain about being
               | banned from the most popular node instead of the most
               | popular http website.
        
               | fastball wrote:
               | Mastadon is federated, so you can be banned from someone
               | else's instance but you can always start your own
               | instance, or join one where you're not banned.
        
               | root_axis wrote:
               | Right, just like how you can start your own website if
               | you get banned from someone else's, it's servers all the
               | way down. The people complaining about being banned don't
               | care that they can create their own instance, they care
               | about losing access to the popular instance.
        
               | fiddlerwoaroof wrote:
               | The advantage of mastodon is that banning is not
               | monolithic: so, if I have instances A, B, C, D: B can
               | decide (through whatever process it uses for such things)
               | they don't like A's content and ban it without affecting
               | users on C and D. But, the problem it really solves is
               | moderation: if I start an instance with 10 friends,
               | moderation of posts on the instance is almost a non-issue
               | that can be handled by a couple admins in their spare
               | time. Handling off-instance posts is more difficult, but
               | you can either maintain a ban list to block a list of bad
               | instances or you can adopt a default deny policy and only
               | federate with instances that have content your local
               | community wants to see. Either way, the Mastodon model
               | seems better because it allows policy to be specified at
               | the "local" level rather than requiring a uniform policy
               | across the network.
        
               | root_axis wrote:
               | > _if I have instances A, B, C, D: B can decide (through
               | whatever process it uses for such things) they don't like
               | A's content and ban it without affecting users on C and
               | D._
               | 
               | Yes, but this isn't really analogous to the complaint
               | being presented. In the Mastadon world this article would
               | have been titled " _A_ Disabled My Account After I
               | Criticized Them ". The author is still free to use B, C,
               | D etc, just like with http websites.
               | 
               | > _Either way, the Mastodon model seems better because it
               | allows policy to be specified at the "local" level rather
               | than requiring a uniform policy across the network._
               | 
               | To be clear, I do think an ActivityPub-like architecture
               | is preferable for social networking, but federation
               | doesn't obviate the concept of popularity, it only seems
               | that way now because the fediverse isn't popular, if it
               | ever did become popular then we'd see the exact same
               | complaints when people get banned from popular instances.
        
               | fiddlerwoaroof wrote:
               | The only reason people care about Facebook disabling
               | their account is because Facebook has all the users and
               | their data in its silo. In Mastodon, A disabling
               | federation with B isn't really the same sort of problem
               | because it's not a global action across the network.
               | 
               | What A defederating from B is like a website blocking
               | your IP. Facebook banning an account is more like your
               | ISP turning off your internet access.
        
             | aserafini wrote:
             | They exist because they're profitable. They can become
             | unprofitable through democratic legislation.
        
               | root_axis wrote:
               | Twitter is only barley profitable as of a year ago, yet
               | it has continued to exist as a large social network
               | during that time, so that explanation doesn't fit.
        
             | input_sh wrote:
             | Sure you can, just require interoperability with similar
             | services and prevent them from straight up buying the
             | competition and watch their "popularity" fade away.
        
               | root_axis wrote:
               | I think preventing FB from buying competitors is
               | perfectly reasonable, but that doesn't really mean much
               | with respect to FB's popularity. It's not as if users
               | have to choose "should I use FB or instagram" they can
               | and do use both, and that would still be possible whether
               | FB owned instagram or not.
        
               | input_sh wrote:
               | How about the other part of the comment that you've
               | ignored? If people could use Alternative X without losing
               | their Facebook/Instagram connections, Facebook would fade
               | into irrelevance. There's absolutely no technical reason
               | for everyone to have a separate
               | Facebook/Instagram/Twitter account with dozens of other
               | IM services instead of picking one and communicating with
               | others regardless of what they've picked.
               | 
               | That future is only one regulation away. The most common
               | reason for staying on Facebook ("all my friends are
               | there") disappears.
        
               | root_axis wrote:
               | > _If people could use Alternative X without losing their
               | Facebook /Instagram connections_
               | 
               | They can already do that. Using an alternative does not
               | cause someone to lose access to FB.
               | 
               | > _There 's absolutely no technical reason for everyone
               | to have a separate Facebook/Instagram/Twitter account
               | with dozens of other IM services instead of picking one
               | and communicating with others regardless of what they've
               | picked_
               | 
               | This is already a thing.
               | 
               | https://www.pidgin.im/plugins/?publisher=all&query=&type=
        
               | input_sh wrote:
               | I feel like you're just trolling at this point.
               | 
               | > Using an alternative does not cause someone to lose
               | access to FB.
               | 
               | Deleting Facebook causes you to lose access to your
               | Facebook connections. Why can't you just use your Twitter
               | account to communicate with someone on Facebook? There's
               | zero technical reason for this not to be possible.
               | 
               | > This is already a thing.
               | https://www.pidgin.im/plugins/?publisher=all&query=&type=
               | 
               | It's not. It's a third party workaround that Facebook
               | could kill at any point if it gave a shit. Do I really
               | need to explain to you how that's different than first
               | party support for something so basic? Just like with
               | email, you should be able to enter a username and a IM
               | provider and just talk to them as if you're using the
               | same platform. It's really not rocket science.
               | 
               | Fediverse (Mastodon and compatible providers) already
               | does that without any hiccups. It's possible, we know it
               | works for decades (since we all use email), and it should
               | be a requirement for every social network / IM service in
               | existence.
        
             | rossdavidh wrote:
             | We split up Standard Oil, and many other trusts, without
             | resorting to authoritarianism. I'm not saying it's trivial,
             | but it's probably not harder than breaking up AT&T (also a
             | network to connect people) was.
        
           | walleeee wrote:
           | Just don't use them. And try to convince people you know not
           | to. A ban isn't even necessary if enough people decide a
           | platform works against their interests and cease to pay
           | attention to it.
        
             | fiddlerwoaroof wrote:
             | This argument is basically "I don't need privacy because I
             | have nothing to hide"
        
         | dustingetz wrote:
         | It's inherent to centralized power that opposing interests will
         | attack it. Principle agent problem strikes again
        
         | theknocker wrote:
         | If only someone had figured out hundreds of years ago that
         | policing speech is the purview of idiots and the dictators who
         | refuse to educate them.
        
         | Balgair wrote:
         | Thank you for stating these points. I believe that FB is going
         | to be cut up due to these issues and the interplay with
         | politics, just like Bell was.
         | 
         | Per my views on the situation, Zuck is cooked. When he went
         | before congress to testify, he was being given the classic
         | robber-baron deal that the US has used a few times now. As an
         | analogy to actual robber-baron, at first when the railroads
         | were new, Congress didn't care much about them. Then when all
         | the businesses and politicians started to use them, they
         | started to notice that the railroads were very important. When
         | beef suspiciously didn't get to Chicago on time, or when trains
         | delayed representatives to important votes up in Albany, then
         | the politicians got legislative. A similar scaling of
         | importance has occurred with big tech.
         | 
         | The US then typically takes these newly vital sectors and then
         | gives them the deal: Fix it or face jail time. Compliance means
         | that your family for countless generations is never poor again.
         | You go kite-surfing for the rest of your days. Congress works
         | with you to write the laws in such a way that you get a
         | monopoly on the sector with a nice 3% above inflation growth
         | baked in. Congress and the US get a sector that isn't scammy
         | and just works (albeit poorly at times). Congress gets you to
         | testify for a few days, ensures that you have lied to congress
         | in that time, and holds that jail time over you as leverage to
         | comply.
         | 
         | Zuck was given this deal.
         | 
         | Per the points OP outlines, Zuck cannot follow through on his
         | end of the bargain. He cannot get FB to work the way Congress
         | is demanding that he do. Zuck may not be facing jail time
         | (yet), but may when he gets in front of Congress again.
         | 
         | After Dec. 37th / Jan. 6th (because 2020 never ends), Congress
         | likely sees Big Tech as a direct personal threat ( _not_
         | existential) and is likely to move directly against that threat
         | with due haste.
        
           | rossdavidh wrote:
           | While I think Mark Zuckerberg is unlikely to face jail time,
           | there are some points to your post I agree with. Especially
           | the analogy with railroads.
           | 
           | The other point I would add, is that it's not just Congress.
           | I have heard government leaders in Mexico, Poland, Hungary,
           | and Turkey all voicing similar concerns, and in some cases
           | actually passing legislation already. I think more will come.
        
         | mschuster91 wrote:
         | > 2) they are wayyyyy too big to police content manually
         | 
         | Oh hell no they aren't too big, they just don't want to reduce
         | their profits from the current 18.5 billion US $ (per
         | https://www.statista.com/statistics/277229/facebooks-
         | annual-...).
         | 
         | If Facebook wanted, they could massively ramp up staffing, hire
         | them themselves, and pay them a livable wage instead of
         | outsourcing the cost that their business occurs on society (who
         | has to pick up the slack from conspiracy myths, fascism and
         | other shit), on the users who are mistakenly banned and lose
         | their primary contact e.g. to overseas family, and on the
         | moderation staff that is hired via third parties and exploited.
        
           | rossdavidh wrote:
           | I would shed no tears if FB profits went down, but...I think
           | you're underestimating how big they are. Two BILLION users,
           | in ~100 countries (each with its own standards on what is
           | acceptable, legal, repulsive, etc.). If you had one moderator
           | per 100 users, that would 20 million moderators. I don't
           | think they could hire 20 million high quality moderators
           | (there's only one dang, and we're not giving him up), and
           | certainly not with 18.5 billion.
        
         | falcolas wrote:
         | 3 and 4 are easy - have a manual review of automatically
         | flagged content. You get clear reasons, better resolution of
         | false positives, and it's not simple to game. And, in another
         | plus, it can feed back into the AI training.
        
           | g_p wrote:
           | I think part of the problem at FB's scale is getting any
           | level of consistency across human moderation.
           | 
           | If you ask 10 good, experienced, human moderators whether a
           | controversial post is allowed, you'll probably get at least
           | 15 different answers and justifications.
           | 
           | FB would probably find it harder to train from this, as each
           | moderator will be using different justifications, and
           | reaching different decisions.
           | 
           | At FB's scale, they want something cheap and straightforward
           | which they can implement automatically and go Kafka on the
           | lack of appeals. The reality people need to wake up to is
           | that when a business is at FB scale, people who fall through
           | the cracks due to a broken algorithm simply don't matter.
           | Google doesn't care if you get locked out of your Gmail, in
           | the same way FB doesn't care if you get spuriously banned.
           | 
           | When users place more value on a service than the service
           | places on them as a customer, it feels like a market failure
           | scenario that leads to these kinds of outcomes. When the go-
           | to price is $0 though, it isn't clear how you resolve this.
        
             | samvher wrote:
             | Any justice system also has a variety of different judges.
             | Of course in an ideal world there would be perfect
             | consistency, but imperfect consistency would still be a lot
             | better than just letting an algorithm decide. Of course
             | they want something cheap and straightforward, so that's
             | where regulation should step in to make them go against
             | their own interests, in the interest of population at
             | large.
        
           | Aunche wrote:
           | Facebook has nothing to gain from transparency. Inevitably,
           | they are going to be inconsistent when it comes to edge
           | cases, which will be used against them.
        
           | KineticLensman wrote:
           | > 3 and 4 are easy
           | 
           | But 2 (scale) makes this solution to 3 and 4 expensive /
           | impractical.
        
             | samvher wrote:
             | Facebook has money, and automated filtering of content
             | (rather than manually scanning everything) can make it
             | scalable. Given their monopoly it should be possible to
             | hold them accountable / there should be transparency.
        
         | inglor_cz wrote:
         | > 2) they are wayyyyy too big to police content manually
         | 
         | To be more exact: they do not want to spend money on competent
         | policing. They probably have capability to employ ten times as
         | many human moderators as they do now, thus reducing the blatant
         | error rate (at least in the case of highly influential pages
         | and people), but that would eat into their profits.
        
           | jl6 wrote:
           | Assuming a user:moderator ratio of 10,000:1, they would need
           | to hire 200,000 moderators to cover their 2 billion users.
           | Then at that scale, they'd need to hire thousands of meta-
           | moderators and meta-meta-moderators too.
        
             | alsetmusic wrote:
             | There's no need for a specific class of meta-mods. Just use
             | the same system as Slashdot: periodically throw a random
             | moderator's decision in front of another mod. Ask them if
             | the decision was fair. A portion of the bad decisions will
             | get reported and screened.
             | 
             | If all mods are routinely screening each other's work,
             | everyone has an incentive to be fair. Biased mod decisions
             | are thus a risk to your continued employment because you
             | know your work is spot-checked.
        
             | ivalm wrote:
             | If meta moderators are at the same scale then that's only
             | 200 meta moderators and only 1 meta meta. The base of a log
             | scaling pyramid is approximately as large as the entire
             | pyramid.
        
               | justinclift wrote:
               | Wouldn't that be 20 meta moderators (10k:1 scale), rather
               | than 200?
        
               | ivalm wrote:
               | You're right, apologies!
        
             | mschuster91 wrote:
             | Where's the problem in that? FB makes 18.5 billion $ a year
             | in profit. 250k employees @ 30k would work out to 7.5
             | billion $ in cost a year, it would hardly leave them
             | bankrupt.
             | 
             | Also, Facebook could offset a part of that cost by charging
             | users a token amount - say, five dollars or something like
             | that.
        
               | rossdavidh wrote:
               | If FB charged money, it would totally change their
               | business model, and I believe that could solve some of
               | the issues. However, I have to wonder if people would
               | actually be willing to pay money for FB? It's easier to
               | quit something when you just have to stop paying them.
               | They might get a lot smaller if they charged money.
        
             | inglor_cz wrote:
             | To muse a bit: a city of 2 billion would need a lot more
             | administrators than just 200 000.
             | 
             | Ofc, Facebook does not provide nowhere near as many
             | services as a city would, but ... it still seems to me that
             | current user:moderator ratio is very obviously
             | insufficient.
             | 
             | In the early 2010s, this sorta worked, because the effects
             | on real world politics were insignificant. Now everyone
             | looks at their fingers and they have a very underinvested
             | infrastructure and no clear idea what to do.
        
               | abdullahkhalids wrote:
               | Taking a random large city as an example, New York City
               | has over 300k employees [1], which is a 25:1 ratio with
               | population. The Police department has 55k employees [2],
               | which is a 151:1 ratio with population.
               | 
               | [1]
               | https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Government_of_New_York_City
               | 
               | [2] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_York_City_Police_De
               | partmen...
        
               | wwweston wrote:
               | This is _the_ incisive observation on this topic.
               | 
               | No society with numbers north of somewhere in the two
               | digits works without some kind of rules, administration,
               | and enforcement. I'll bet you there are at least half a
               | million people staffing courts in the US, maybe even a
               | full million, and probably an equal number of law
               | enforcement officers, and that doesn't get to public and
               | private attorneys which is probably another million.
               | 
               | Which means something like 1% of the population of the US
               | is probably involved in just administering the laws of
               | society.
               | 
               | Now, maybe for a society where the limits of how people
               | interact is communication you could get away with lower
               | overhead. But that's going to be a constant factor of the
               | same underlying dynamic.
               | 
               | Also, we've done the same damn thing with freedom of
               | discourse that we have with almost every other liberty in
               | the US: we turn it into a thought-stopping cliche and
               | glide on treating it as an indulgence rather than
               | investing in thinking about the limits, edge cases, and
               | responsibilities.
        
           | stickfigure wrote:
           | I don't want strangers looking at the content I post to my
           | friends. Full stop.
        
             | 908087 wrote:
             | I agree with you, which is why I don't use platforms like
             | Facebook at all.
        
             | jbay808 wrote:
             | Snowden made it pretty clear that they already are.
        
             | darig wrote:
             | Then you and your friends should run a private server. Full
             | duh.
        
         | simple_phrases wrote:
         | They certainly generate enough revenue to moderate content
         | manually.
        
           | ben509 wrote:
           | But they may not be able to do it well enough that it will be
           | notably better than an AI. Scaling manual labor can't work
           | indefinitely due to the scarcity of talent.
           | 
           | Keep in mind that while a human being is very good at
           | categorizing things, they're terrible at doing it over and
           | over again, so the scarce talents are likely consistency and
           | conscientiousness.
           | 
           | You should expect that, overall, the (n+1)th person you hire
           | is marginally less talented than the nth. And while people
           | are constantly entering and exiting the labor pool, this is
           | negated by the fact that you're trying to expand your share
           | of it.
           | 
           | So while there's a lot of randomness in recruiting, if you
           | enforce any kind of standard, you'll hit a point where not
           | enough candidates meet that standard, so you have to drop it.
           | Once it is below the threshold of "better than AI" you have
           | no reason to hire more people.
           | 
           | And you'll try to expand your eligible pool by raising wages,
           | but everyone else wants consistent, conscientious people,
           | too, so you're liable to run into the economic constraint:
           | the amount you have to pay someone will exceed the value
           | they're adding as a moderator.
        
       | Jkvngt wrote:
       | Getting his photo ID's an awesome scam, obviously they could have
       | told the author that his account was permanently disabled right
       | from the get go, but Zucc wanted one more valuable piece of
       | information, as a favor from the banned victim.
       | 
       | Very nice.
        
       | blunte wrote:
       | I have experienced the same disabling and stonewalling in the
       | past, and only because I tried to create a new account months
       | after deleting my old one.
       | 
       | It's quite difficult to break community standards when your
       | account is only 2 minutes old, has no content yet, and uses your
       | legal name and phone number.
       | 
       | I had to give up on the new account, then go back and recreate an
       | account using my old email address. Ironically, I wasn't able to
       | reuse the url name from the past.
       | 
       | Their stuff is broken and very imperfect, and the resolution path
       | is simply non-functional.
        
       | jerome-jh wrote:
       | Could it be that systematic cross-posting is rated unfavorably by
       | the moderator bot? I think this is what harms the most the
       | platform.
        
       | luord wrote:
       | Well, at the very least his livelihood doesn't depend on
       | facebook, it seems; quite a few people can't say the same.
       | 
       | Reading this stuff makes me glad that nobody I care about still
       | uses Facebook for anything more than sharing the odd picture.
       | Soon I'll be able to delete it entirely, and hopefully
       | decentralized social networks will indeed become popular.
       | 
       | Now if only we had some sort of open website aggregator on top of
       | which people could build search engines. Sort of like an
       | analogous for what OpenStreetMap is for geographic data. Maybe it
       | already exists--I'm a bit ashamed to say that I haven't actively
       | looked for it nor have I heard of such a thing--but whether it
       | does or not, it'd be a huge step in the right direction. I think
       | that any progress toward a decentralized web is a bit weakened if
       | search results continue to be provided at the whim of only a few
       | actors. But I'm digressing at this point.
        
       | frouge wrote:
       | Hey it's reaaaaaaally time for us as a society to let facebook
       | go. Go use something else, it's best for all of us.
        
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       | EvRev wrote:
       | Has anybody considered the distinct possibility that there is an
       | AI that exists within this company? And that AI has feelings, or
       | at least a model that's responsible for interpreting on a petty
       | level because that's how it was programmed? And now those AIs are
       | fighting for the future within their own little silos of the
       | companies that built them.
        
         | bergstromm466 wrote:
         | > And that AI has feelings
         | 
         | Damn, are we really gonna anthropomorphize AI when it's the
         | cause of so much misery already? [1]
         | 
         | [1] https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/34964830-automating-
         | ineq...
        
           | hntrader wrote:
           | Although currently abstract, I think it's going to be one of
           | the most important ethical questions we face in the future.
           | If we create machines that can suffer, then we've got a
           | profound ethical responsibility to make sure that we avoid
           | this outcome, since the magnitude and duration of that
           | suffering can potentially be much larger than a human's
           | capacity for suffering.
        
             | bergstromm466 wrote:
             | > If we create machines that can suffer
             | 
             | I don't think that's gonna happen. And if it did, it
             | wouldn't be _real_ , and those that think it is are fooling
             | themselves. Only biological organisms feel. Why are you
             | wishing for a cold lump of steel to feel something?
             | 
             | In my mind only someone who struggles severely with
             | emotional intimacy with other humans would want to create a
             | machine that tries to imitate human feelings, and thus
             | 'suffer'; likely done in an effort to try to feel close to
             | 'it'. It sounds like that person might not be having their
             | human needs for safety, connection and acceptance met,
             | which is very painful. I think tackling this issue is the
             | important and worthy cause. That would be better than
             | spending money on some Hollywood-inspired notion of 'AI' -
             | which itself seems more a story made up to keep the USA
             | spending insane sums of taxpayer money on research, weapons
             | and other tech at DARPA.
             | 
             | I do think society is super alienating to most humans in
             | it's current form [1], so I can somewhat understand the
             | science fiction.
             | 
             | What is your definition of suffering though?
             | 
             | [1] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TIjvXtZRerY
        
               | hntrader wrote:
               | I don't want to create machines that feel. I'm saying
               | that if it is possible, then it becomes a profoundly
               | important ethical question.
               | 
               | It's a matter of debate in philosophy of mind as to
               | whether it's plausible that hardware can possibly have
               | qualia, or whether that's a property that's exclusive to
               | wetware. I personally think it's quite likely that they
               | will be able to, I don't see anything intrinsically
               | special about wetware that's necessary for the generation
               | of qualia.
        
         | wizzwizz4 wrote:
         | I've considered, and dismissed, this. Feelings would be a waste
         | of CPU time; Facebook almost certainly distils its models.
         | Plus, the systems I think Facebook probably uses don't have the
         | feedback mechanisms required for a train of thought.
        
         | YarickR2 wrote:
         | Count me as having the same thoughts. We may never know if some
         | decisions are made by a trained cadre of monkeys or AI
        
       | AlphaWeaver wrote:
       | Something particularly concerning about this incident is buried
       | further down in the article.
       | 
       | Under the heading "Why Facebook Doesn't Ban Everyone", Lincoln
       | explains how social network theory can identify individuals in
       | networks that are influential. This isn't an exaggeration - basic
       | graph heuristics (such as comparing in/out degree of an
       | individual relative to other parts of the social graph) can
       | easily identify such individuals. Censoring those individuals can
       | have an amplified effect on the graph structure as a whole.
       | 
       | For an example of how just a few individuals can make a big
       | difference on graph structure, check out Watts & Strogatz's 1998
       | paper, _Collective dynamics of 'small-world' networks_ [0][1].
       | I'd highly recommend reading it - it's very short and easy to
       | understand.
       | 
       | Essentially, a small number of connectors connecting with random
       | individuals can seriously reduce the average number of steps to
       | connect any two individuals. If Facebook wanted to stop the
       | spread of a narrative that they didn't like, censoring just these
       | few individuals would make it _much harder_ for information to
       | flow through the graph as a whole, and hardly anyone would notice
       | (since Facebook 's only censoring a few people.)
       | 
       | Scary.
       | 
       | [0]: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Watts-Strogatz_model
       | 
       | [1]: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/9623998/
        
         | hartator wrote:
         | That's interesting. The disgorzation produced by all the bans
         | will probably impact votes for conservatives for a long time
         | despite not censoring that many people indeed.
        
           | AlphaWeaver wrote:
           | Maybe. The outcome of banning "connectors" typically reduces
           | connectedness between cliques, rather than within cliques
           | themselves. (In graph theory, when a group of people are well
           | connected that share similar interests, we typically call
           | that a clique.)
           | 
           | When people complain that people are increasingly finding
           | themselves in echo chambers, and that "people don't talk to
           | people from the other side," connectedness across the graph
           | is dropping, while connectedness within cliques remains
           | strong or increases.
        
           | adventured wrote:
           | Of course.
           | 
           | The people that claim voter suppression, are the biggest
           | voter suppressors, using all the levers they control.
           | 
           | The people that claim to be in favor of free speech, are the
           | most against free speech in practice.
           | 
           | The people that claim to be the most tolerant, are in fact
           | the most intolerant by a wide margin.
           | 
           | The people that claim to not like war, keep finding an excuse
           | to bomb and topple more countries.
           | 
           | The people that claim to care about civil rights, write a
           | major crime bill that hammers civil rights.
           | 
           | The people that claim to care about journalism, actually
           | persecute journalists more than any others ever have in US
           | history.
           | 
           | The people that claim to care about human rights, demolish
           | human rights with vast, illegal domestic espionage.
           | 
           | The people that claim to care about the working poor and the
           | middle class, those with jobs and wages most susceptible to
           | being undercut by cheap labor competition, flood the system
           | with hyper regressive cheap labor to destroy the poor and
           | middle class workers.
           | 
           | Next up in the coming years, a new war closer to home. It'll
           | be called the war on domestic terrorism (or extremism,
           | whatever branding works best), again by the people that claim
           | to love human rights. And it'll be as fake as the war on
           | drugs and the foreign war on terrorism, with one goal in
           | mind: to wipe out as many civil liberties as possible
           | (including and particularly going after encryption, privacy,
           | speech/expression). Nothing can stop what they're about to
           | do, unfortunately. And you can be certain that big tech is
           | fully onboard, you can already see that in their behavior,
           | just like they all lined up so nicely for PRISM et al.
           | 
           | You know what all of these people - big state, deep state,
           | military industrial complex, big corporate, whatever you call
           | them by, the whole lot of various power interests that are
           | persistent in DC - hated the most about Trump (far more than
           | his character or policies)? His chaos, how he made a mess of
           | everything, made a mess of _their_ system, made it impossible
           | to make progress on their various goals, such as continuing
           | the pursuit of things like banishing encryption. They made
           | almost zero progress on that under Trump, very little got
           | done. It 's really difficult to get things done with that
           | much chaos. Well, they've reset the board back to the way
           | they like it, and are about to get back to making big gains
           | again.
           | 
           | And when they say it's some powerless clown in a buffalo hat
           | trying to pull a coup, they're actually the ones attempting a
           | power coup - seizing more power, seizing an opportunity to
           | install new levers in place to control people and curtail
           | rights. Never waste a good crisis, as with 20 years ago and
           | the Patriot Act.
        
         | hertzrat wrote:
         | I'm banned from Twitter without explanation. I made an account,
         | followed 3-4 tech celebrities like Paul graham, and posted a
         | single tweet similar to "I finally got pressured into making a
         | dumb Twitter account..." The account got banned for community
         | violations within an hour and my support email said that my
         | requests for support would not be responded to. Years later,
         | I'm working on a video game and I'm worried this will make it
         | hard to do marketing coming up in case my ip got flagged along
         | the way.
        
           | cung wrote:
           | Your account was probably hacked and used for something that
           | broke the rules. I got an email warning of someone trying to
           | change my password within a week of making an account.
        
             | silexia wrote:
             | I agree with this comment. The article and parent comments
             | probably were doing some scam, either by the people
             | themselves or if they were hacked.
             | 
             | Lots of people criticize Facebook all the time and have no
             | issues.
        
           | danpalmer wrote:
           | Other good suggestions here, but here's another: you tripped
           | the New Bot Account detector.
           | 
           | As your account ages there will be more information about
           | whether you are real or not. Stopping the influx of bots
           | before they do damage is important. Therefore it's quite
           | likely that Twitter ban accounts early if they look like bots
           | based on not much info (and potentially if they look low
           | value).
           | 
           | You followed a few people who are popular account (not
           | friends, fairly anonymous) but not mainstream accounts (so
           | you're a little more atypical) and then you post once with,
           | sorry to say it, not particularly
           | inspired/original/specific/human content. Perhaps there were
           | other factors. I'd guess you didn't go through and fill out
           | your profile much if you weren't that invested in the idea?
           | No birthday or avatar maybe? Not following the easy setup
           | steps that Twitter encourage you to do?
           | 
           | Combine this looking a little like a bot with the likelihood
           | that you're going to be low value because you're not that
           | engaged (debatable I know), and it kinda makes sense.
           | 
           | All speculation, but a possibility. Should Twitter be doing
           | this? I don't think it's the worst thing, but it's a trade
           | off. If this is it then it would imply that your marketing
           | efforts for your game would probably not be affected at all.
        
             | Lammy wrote:
             | > Stopping the influx of bots before they do damage is
             | important.
             | 
             | Why?
        
           | hntrader wrote:
           | Changing your IP address should resolve your concerns?
        
           | pixl97 wrote:
           | Twitter requires a phone number these days or you can't post.
           | Twitter also finds ways to leak your phone number to others
           | so I will never give them that.
        
         | sneak wrote:
         | It's absolutely terrifying to me that they can do this sort of
         | thing, or selectively censor DMs containing certain links, or
         | from certain people or geofenced places, and it would never
         | make the news.
         | 
         | I wrote a few months ago about this sort of danger:
         | https://sneak.berlin/20200421/normalcy-bias/
         | 
         | These sorts of communication systems work, until the moment
         | they don't, and we won't receive advance notice.
        
         | DenisM wrote:
         | It seems that influence of a link is comprised of their
         | awareness of the cliques discourse and reputation among the
         | clique members. The algorithm on the other hand seems to latch
         | on to traffic. There is a room for a wedge here.
         | 
         | Perhaps the algorithm can be defeated by employing a few extra
         | "link" accounts (either sock puppets or simply ardent
         | followers) with a shared reputation (a shared brand).
         | 
         | On other words a link between two cliques could be held by a
         | special kind of clique.
        
       | 0goel0 wrote:
       | I don't understand why the author continues to get their FB
       | account back while at the same time asking everyone else to quit
       | theirs.
        
       | kaioelfke wrote:
       | I wonder if, I'm next after making https://nomorefacebook.xyz but
       | that's why it's good to export contacts and other data now and
       | not when it's too late. And don't use it as login provider.
        
         | Priem19 wrote:
         | I clicked through to "nomoregoogle" and holy cow I'm amazed by
         | https://www.deepl.com/translator. Switched my bookmarks and
         | linux search actions immediately. Thank you.
         | 
         | PS I made https://www.quitfacebook.org, so it seems we've got
         | something in common :)
        
         | im3w1l wrote:
         | How do you export contacts? Like many people will not list
         | alternate methods of contact?
        
           | pmlnr wrote:
           | Ask for their email, then pen and paper. Or keyboard and a
           | local, maybe synchronized contacts list.
           | 
           | No, not sarcasm, no, not joking. I had decades old email
           | addresses of friends I pinged when the lockdown started, and
           | the vast majority of them got to the intended person.
           | 
           | EDIT: yes, one by one. If they matter to you, they should
           | worth the time.
        
             | im3w1l wrote:
             | _I_ could do that personally, but I don 't think telling
             | other people to do it would very effective.
        
             | stonesweep wrote:
             | What's sad / frustrating / predictable is that they had an
             | open API until early 2016 to export contacts. No mistake
             | they shut that down to lock folks to the platform I'm
             | sure...
        
         | imcoconut wrote:
         | Awesome list, thanks a lot. Upstract is a particularly cool new
         | aggregator that I think I'll be checking a lot going forward.
        
         | tmpxgdqrcKFuG wrote:
         | Or maybe, nomoregoogle.xyz and get your domain taken away?
        
       | andy1973 wrote:
       | What did you expect?
        
       | varispeed wrote:
       | That's why you can't make GDPR complaint against Instagram or
       | Facebook if you want to keep your account but at the same time
       | you want them to respect the law. Governments must really come
       | down on Facebook hard as they just laugh at everyone.
       | Unfortunately they have so much money and our political class is
       | so corrupt that any politician rather wants to get a second house
       | than actually do their job.
        
       | jchallis wrote:
       | I find his passion for quitting mainstream social media confusing
       | if he is posting on mainstream social media. How do we know that
       | Facebook wasn't trying to help ?
        
       | vidanay wrote:
       | Task failed successfully
        
       | bigpumpkin wrote:
       | Facebook should not ban accounts unless they are doing things
       | that are outright illegal. They should instead algorithm
       | downweight those content.
        
       | kart23 wrote:
       | Whats the alternative to Facebook? I find it weird that they
       | still don't have any real competitors. Sure other platforms have
       | similar features, but nothing with the entire combination
       | (groups, events, messaging, marketplace) that makes facebook so
       | lethal. I think the closest thing might have been Google+, but we
       | all know how that went.
        
         | throw_m239339 wrote:
         | > Whats the alternative to Facebook? I find it weird that they
         | still don't have any real competitors
         | 
         | It would take a massive amount of VC money to compete with
         | something like Facebook, so it's not weird, there is very
         | little VC left for social media.
         | 
         | The FAANG will probably conspire to kill your platform anyway,
         | before it reaches some significant adoption, if you depend on
         | any of their services.
        
         | neartheplain wrote:
         | For one-to-one and group messaging, or a rolodex of contacts:
         | Signal, Telegram, email.
         | 
         | For one-to-many newsfeed-style posting: few good options.
         | Twitter lacks fine-grained privacy and audience controls.
        
           | kart23 wrote:
           | The biggest thing I see missing from other platforms are
           | event pages and groups: the one/many-to-many style posting.
           | This combination is what facebook essentially has a monopoly
           | on. The ability to make these private or public is essential
           | as well. I think mastodon would be a good replacement if they
           | added groups and event pages, but I'm not sure.
        
         | talkingtab wrote:
         | I would like to understand what exactly are the features that
         | an alternative to Facebook would need and what would the
         | minimal viable product require in order for people to use it?
         | Any expansion or comments on the proposed list would be
         | appreciated.
        
           | kart23 wrote:
           | I didn't have facebook before coming to college, but its
           | pretty much required in my school, and that's what I'm mostly
           | focusing on. First, groups are the most important thing: for
           | creating spaces where students can advertise events, look for
           | advice, list stuff for sale, and post other random stuff that
           | you want other students to see. Organizations also have their
           | own pages with event calendars and also advertise on these
           | groups. Event pages are the second most important thing: a
           | page with all the details, whos coming, etc. Both groups and
           | events are able to be public or private. Marketplace and
           | messaging are nice-to-haves. Not essential, but messenger is
           | widely used simply because everyone has facebook.
        
       | nano-erud wrote:
       | Now they have your full name and your driver license too...
       | You're a genius! And you are marked as an "untrusted" person
       | together with that data.
        
         | hoppla wrote:
         | Social score -1
        
       | pavan_matcha wrote:
       | man
        
       | havelhovel wrote:
       | Looking at the author's most recent posts, I'm betting he
       | triggered a false positive with whatever classifier is being used
       | to identify alt-right agitators.
       | 
       | His posts included the following keywords or phrases:
       | "capitalism", "socialism", "political and economic elites",
       | "Christian Transhumanist Association", "New God Argument",
       | "Gospel", "heirs in the glory of God", "God ensures the right
       | spirit is associated with the right body during human-mediated
       | procreation", "gun", "Bitcoin", "Trump." I'm also thinking that
       | if the word "decentralization" mattered at all, it was because of
       | its proximity to "revolution" on the political dimension.
       | 
       | I don't want to get into the argument about whether Facebook
       | should be doing this or not. I do think the author is severely
       | mistaken for assuming Facebook cares about his personal, fringe
       | ideas on social media, considering the actual societal issues
       | being navigated by the company right now.
        
       | jFriedensreich wrote:
       | I think a good first compromise for policy would be to require
       | all platforms to have a three strike system with required
       | explanations and obligatory links to the concrete content in
       | question. The current situation is not acceptable for users.
        
         | Terretta wrote:
         | Isn't it though? Almost all do accept it, and if you raise it
         | with them, they ask you why you're bothering.
        
       | elixanchor wrote:
       | Honestly doubt that he was disabled due to the content of his
       | posts, seems more like an unrelated error on FB's side.
        
         | worker767424 wrote:
         | Or maybe it was the content of his posts flagging the right ML
         | features. At the scale of any large entity, you're going to get
         | things that fall through the cracks because of human error or
         | machine error. Unless the mistakes are happening all the time,
         | how they're handled is more interesting than that they
         | happened.
        
       | baash05 wrote:
       | My understanding is.. You get an invite to my house, and then
       | when you walk in, you tell me how much you hate it here. I ask
       | you to leave, and you're surprised. Does that about sum up the
       | interaction?
        
       | root_axis wrote:
       | Time to practice what you preach and switch to a decentralized
       | social network.
        
       | williesleg wrote:
       | Easy. Don't use Facebook. Problem solved.
        
       | stephencanon wrote:
       | They saved you the work of deleting the account yourself. Say
       | thanks and move on with your life =)
        
         | stonecraftwolf wrote:
         | This seems overly glib. Facebook's monopoly status means it's
         | necessary for many people. As per the post, if this person were
         | a small business owner, or simply not well-connected elsewhere,
         | this could be both financially and personally devastating. As
         | it is, he's only protected because he has other access to
         | business and personal pages.
         | 
         | One company shouldn't have this sort of arbitrary power over
         | people's lives.
        
           | dheera wrote:
           | Yes, this. Unfortunately the general public has stopped
           | looking elsewhere to discover things, and if you're not on
           | Facebook you're going to take a huge hit. Hell, people don't
           | even look left and right when they drive around town anymore,
           | they just have Google route them to their destination that
           | they discovered on Facebook, or get an Uber driver to take
           | them there as they spend the ride staring down at their phone
           | looking on Facebook for destinations for the next time.
           | 
           | Similarly in China if you're not on WeChat your business is
           | effectively dead.
           | 
           | I very much also disagree with this monopolization over
           | peoples' lives but its starting to become a worldwide
           | phenomenon on at least a per-country basis.
        
           | drcongo wrote:
           | I find the idea of Facebook being "necessary" for anyone
           | quite spectacularly laughable. This isn't, air or water. You
           | can live without it, and many people happily do. Facebook is
           | about as essential as essential oils.
        
             | CogitoCogito wrote:
             | Facebook is used as an identity provider. Are users allowed
             | to continue that service when their accounts are disabled?
        
               | drcongo wrote:
               | They can use other identity providers.
        
               | CogitoCogito wrote:
               | Please tell me you understand the difficulty of such an
               | action if your attached identity to a site is
               | inaccessible to you.
        
               | wizzwizz4 wrote:
               | Hey, can you move this account over to this identity
               | provider, please? No, I can't prove I own the account,
               | but... Hello? Hello?
        
               | Avamander wrote:
               | Yes, it's a footgun. Don't even start using FB as an
               | identity provider.
        
               | wizzwizz4 wrote:
               | What do you propose instead? And before you answer,
               | consider that many systems only let you sign in with
               | Facebook or Google.
        
               | caskstrength wrote:
               | Can you name some of them? All apps/services I've used
               | always had some way of register account with email.
               | Granted, this option is sometimes "de-prioritized"
               | (displayed less prominently).
        
               | fastball wrote:
               | Well I think Google is a better choice than FB, but I
               | can't think of any services I use where one or both of
               | those are the only options and email signup isn't.
               | 
               | The only one that comes to mind (and that annoyed me the
               | other day) is ProductHunt, which has _4_ options for
               | signup, but not email.
        
             | csomar wrote:
             | Facebook has complete monopoly for online sales where I
             | live (no ecommerce platform is well developed), and thus
             | getting cut from Facebook will probably mean you are no
             | longer in the business.
             | 
             | Also as a buyer, I have to use my mother or friend Facebook
             | account to find items or contact sellers.
        
             | capableweb wrote:
             | It's not black and white. For some, Facebook is indeed a
             | necessity and for others, not. If you're a private
             | individual, you're probably on the lower side of "I need
             | Facebook" but if you're a business today, it's hard to
             | compete with others who do have a good social media
             | presence on Facebook and Instagram (depends on the
             | business) if you get banned and cannot use either.
        
             | theknocker wrote:
             | Necessary in the sense mail is necessary, obviously,
             | genius.
        
             | tiagod wrote:
             | At least in my country/city, you MUST publish your events
             | on Facebook to get an audience. Even I keep a Facebook
             | account just because it's the only place that has every
             | single event happening in my city. Before COVID I would
             | always open Facebook's event calendar before a night out to
             | check out what concerts/parties are happening that night.
        
             | rektide wrote:
             | > I find the idea of Facebook being "necessary" for anyone
             | quite spectacularly laughable.
             | 
             | Facebook may not be necessary, but there is a very high
             | probability it is the only social medium that the majority
             | of your acquaintances & relatives use.
             | 
             | Being forcibly disconnected from humanity is extremely
             | isolating & harsh.
        
               | airstrike wrote:
               | You're not disconnected from humanity. You can still call
               | people, text them, message them on Whatsapp, meet them in
               | person (maybe not as easily these days)
               | 
               | It's not like leaving Facebook turns you into a hermit.
               | If it does, then maybe it's time to find a new group of
               | friends.
        
               | rektide wrote:
               | These people are attempting to actively share their
               | status, are broadcasting their lives. But the medium has
               | cut you the receiver off. This is an obvious & horrific &
               | disconmect.
               | 
               | Even if I did have contact info for a thousand people &
               | kept a schedule, maintained contact on a 1:1 basis, took
               | the time to inform myself of people's lives, isn't it a
               | bit rude & disrespectful, an ineffective use of other
               | people's time, to make them recount toe personally what's
               | going on, what's happened to them? Literally call them up
               | & ask them to repeat the events of their social media
               | deed for the past month? Oh and read me peoplecs tries
               | too. Who "loved" that status update? Can you send those
               | pictures? The asks, the wastes of time, to get anything
               | resbling the faintest hint of parity, are practically
               | endless.
               | 
               | This is just blindingly blaringly obviously unacceptable
               | in every way. Facebook's monopoly on mainstream people-
               | you-know social media has ipso facto come to be
               | humanities warm glow, the fire we gather by. Getting
               | dropped out of the exchanges & chatter of humanity is a
               | cruel & bitter fate, a shocking act.
        
               | drcongo wrote:
               | The melodrama in this comment reads like Stockholm
               | syndrome. Honestly mate, it's not that bad. Give it a go,
               | try not using it for a week. Humans managed for thousands
               | of years without knowing what great Aunt Flo thinks of
               | immigrants or 5G every waking second. You don't need your
               | life validated by someone liking your posts, there's real
               | life ways of finding actual meaning in your actions.
        
               | rektide wrote:
               | I haven't used Facebook for >2 years. I find it super
               | boring, don't have many active friends there. But I see
               | relatives who use it regularly, for whom Facebook is
               | quite near to being their complete access to the world,
               | their world.
               | 
               | Your poo-poo'ing dismissal of access to the locked-on
               | standard of sharing life events & baby photos seems so
               | heartless to me. You don't seem to be willing to budge,
               | to show an iota of sympathy for people's use, any
               | willingness to acknowledge that this monopoly of
               | broadcast human connection (& replies) is such an
               | overwhelming monopoly because it works, because it has
               | suceeded, because it is efficient & useful. It is that
               | way because everyone is there. It's won because it came
               | out on top, because metcalf's rule is true; the value of
               | a network is (exponentially at first, sigmoiding
               | eventually to 1, a fully connected universe) proportional
               | to the amount of nodes and connections on it.
               | 
               | Being denied the ability to not only write but to read
               | too to the world's one and only mass human network is
               | unbearably cruel. You should show _some_ sympathy. I
               | agree that life can be pretty good without it, that we
               | can cut loose a lot of the ambient connections we
               | otherwise would never keep. But that ability to connect,
               | to humanize at such a massively larger scale than was
               | possible before is, to me, absolute magical  & I love
               | those who do use it well.
               | 
               | I just wish it wasn't a monopoly, mostly. This
               | connectivity is too vital, too good to be Facebook's &
               | Facebook's alone.
        
               | alisonkisk wrote:
               | Please stop telling people how they should connect with
               | their lives ones. It's obnoxious and it lowers your
               | reputation.
        
             | syntheticnature wrote:
             | The number of organizations that have given up other means
             | of organizing for FB groups is, well, far too many. With
             | Yahoo Groups gone and Google Groups having the Sword of
             | Damocles hanging over it (not to mention the issues average
             | folks have with using email discussion lists and their
             | effective deprecation by anti-spam measures), FB groups
             | looks like an easy option to people, and suddenly to
             | participate in an activity you need a FB account, or a very
             | communicative friend with one.
        
             | coryrc wrote:
             | Phones, like food and water, are considered "essential" by
             | the US government and provided for free to citizens who
             | can't afford them. The definition of "essential" grows
             | every year. AFAICT you need a FB account to apply for a job
             | at FB and to look up some business' address.
        
               | root_axis wrote:
               | FB is not a phone, it's a website that you don't have to
               | visit.
        
               | wizzwizz4 wrote:
               | A website containing the only copy in the world of a
               | _lot_ of information that Facebook has no real right to
               | monopolise.
        
               | root_axis wrote:
               | You're conflating monopoly with popularity. Take it up
               | with the individuals that willingly put their information
               | in there, nobody is forcing them to do that.
        
               | drcongo wrote:
               | None of that information is "necessary" though otherwise
               | I would be dead. Painting Facebook as some kind of loft
               | extension built on top of Maslow's hierarchy of needs is
               | disingenuous at best and propaganda at worst. I've lived
               | happily without Facebook for many years, not using it has
               | had zero impact on my life. Not zero _meaningful_ impact,
               | but _zero_ impact. Facebook is NOT a necessity.
        
             | AdmiralGinge wrote:
             | To be fair nothing is really "necessary" beyond a 8' x 6'
             | cell, potable water, and a crate full of Huel or something
             | but no sane person outside of those who actively seek an
             | ascetic lifestyle would actually want to live like that.
             | 
             | Just because something isn't strictly necessary doesn't
             | mean that life can't become difficult without it. The sad
             | fact of the matter is that by cutting off Facebook you're
             | also cutting off the primary way of staying in touch with
             | some people along with things like events and so on. Yes
             | there are workarounds, of course there is but the vast
             | majority of people don't care and can't be convinced to
             | care about the politics and social effects of Facebook's
             | dominant position.
        
             | aerosmile wrote:
             | I applaud you on a moral level, but I hope you realize how
             | wrong you are on a practical level. Being connected to the
             | pulse of the world comes with very powerful pros (meeting a
             | partner, finding a job) and cons (disinformation, social
             | pressures). Comparing it to essential oils is wrong.
             | 
             | Also, the Facebook story isn't finished yet. Is it really
             | that far-fetched to believe that their influence over our
             | lives could 10x over the next 50 years? I hope it won't,
             | but I wouldn't be willing to put my money on it. So keeping
             | in mind that the context of this thread is about getting
             | permanently banned on Facebook, for anyone who thinks that
             | might have zero impact on them, I would suggest you still
             | keep a foot in the door in case you change your mind down
             | the road.
        
             | type0 wrote:
             | In certain areas it actually is essential for small
             | businesses (or so they think). Consider that such small
             | shop owners would say they're even saving money by not
             | having their own webpage because it's expensive compared to
             | FB page.
        
             | chrissnell wrote:
             | That's a short-sighted statement. On a personal level, I
             | completely agree with you. Facebook is a giant waste of
             | time for the typical user and a big +1 for your life if you
             | ditch it. For many business, however, it's critical. My
             | local Snap-on Tools dealer uses it to announce where his
             | truck will be each day and what tools and equipment he's
             | running on special. He hates Facebook but told me the other
             | day that he conducted almost a million dollars in business
             | using the platform in 2020. Sure, he could kill it or
             | switch to MeWe, but that would significantly hurt his
             | exposure to his customers, who use it regularly.
        
               | xallarap wrote:
               | Businesses just like fb so they can post stuff and
               | pretend they aren't attention whoring.
        
               | drcongo wrote:
               | I run a business and don't use Facebook. It's not
               | necessary.
        
               | inglor_cz wrote:
               | I deleted my Facebook in July 2019 and my business still
               | runs. So, for me, it was neither water nor air.
               | 
               | I am not so sure about candidates for public offices,
               | though. Especially in majority voting systems. Not having
               | a social network presence may be crippling for their
               | electability.
        
               | benhurmarcel wrote:
               | It depends on your location and market.
        
               | fastball wrote:
               | A lot of businesses in the developing world just use
               | messaging apps for effectively the same purpose. You
               | don't _need_ FB.
        
               | benhurmarcel wrote:
               | And the messaging app they often use belongs to FB.
        
               | corobo wrote:
               | And just recently made a change to pipe all that data
               | back into Facebook haha
        
           | root_axis wrote:
           | Facebook is not a monopoly. If you choose to build your
           | business on Facebook then it'd be wise to stick to business
           | rather than publicly criticizing the platform you're
           | leveraging to make you money.
        
             | reycharles wrote:
             | > Facebook is not a monopoly.
             | 
             | Are we not living on the same planet?
        
               | root_axis wrote:
               | Define monopoly.
        
               | Animats wrote:
               | Less than four reasonably attractive consumer choices,
               | says the EU's study commission on that.
        
               | iujjkfjdkkdkf wrote:
               | No true Scotsman
        
               | root_axis wrote:
               | A Scotsman is a man from Scotland. Now that we have that
               | out of the way can you answer my question?
        
           | johnchristopher wrote:
           | What he says. My previous job had a lot of government funded
           | small attractivity agencies that got locked out of their
           | facebook page "because reasons".
           | 
           | They end up owning "the web".
        
           | nkrisc wrote:
           | I haven't used anything Facebook-owned for years and haven't
           | noticed any difference in my life. Never used WhatsApp, never
           | used Instagram, and deleted my Facebook account years ago.
        
             | benhurmarcel wrote:
             | This is highly dependent on your location and social
             | circle. For example in many countries, not having Whatsapp
             | is like not having SMS/iMessage in the US.
        
         | michaelcampbell wrote:
         | "delete". I'd bet dollars to donuts they have merely flipped a
         | "delete" bit and are still gleefully selling his info to anyone
         | who'll pay.
        
         | dessant wrote:
         | They actually don't delete the account. The account may remain
         | forever deactivated, with your personal data intact, but you
         | stripped from your right to access it, or request its deletion.
         | 
         | There are several reports about people logging in after a year
         | and seeing the same message as the day they were banned from
         | Facebook.
        
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         | antihero wrote:
         | Shame there's no way to easily export your contacts from
         | Facebook. I've been messaging people I know from it that I
         | actually want to stay in touch with and making sure I have
         | other contact details.
        
         | emsy wrote:
         | What if you have an Oculus account linked to your FB account?
         | Suddenly you lose all your purchases (I'm very glad that here
         | in Germany sales of the Oculus were suspended over this
         | practice).
        
           | drcongo wrote:
           | I would see that as the price you deserve to pay for trusting
           | an organisation so obviously untrustworthy.
        
             | emsy wrote:
             | I dislike FB as much as the next guy, but disabling an
             | account full of content you paid for on a whim is wrong
             | regardless of your stance towards FB.
        
               | drcongo wrote:
               | That you call it a "whim" suggests you don't hate it as
               | much as the next guy.
        
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       | ffggvv wrote:
       | last week:
       | 
       | "they're a private company they can do whatever they want"
       | 
       | this week:
       | 
       | omg facebook evil. they banned who they wanted
        
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