[HN Gopher] Show HN: A mindfulness based social network designed...
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       Show HN: A mindfulness based social network designed to be checked
       once a week
        
       Author : jillianschuller
       Score  : 100 points
       Date   : 2021-01-20 17:00 UTC (6 hours ago)
        
 (HTM) web link (www.sundayy.app)
 (TXT) w3m dump (www.sundayy.app)
        
       | __soter__ wrote:
       | I really like this idea and could see it being great to share
       | with family and friends, except for the missing support for web
       | or android. Everyone I would want to connect with on something
       | like this all have a mix of devices and this being apple only
       | would limit that sharing to just a few of them.
        
         | ghiculescu wrote:
         | There's a web version! https://www.sundayy.app/users/sign_up
         | 
         | Android version in review with google as we speak (I built it).
        
       | marcod wrote:
       | Android version planned?
       | 
       | love the idea!
        
         | ghiculescu wrote:
         | In review with Google right now. In the meantime there's a web
         | version! https://www.sundayy.app/users/sign_up (if you sign up
         | we will email you when android is live)
        
       | ep103 wrote:
       | app only?
       | 
       | I can be friends with whomever, but only see reflections from
       | specific people or groups?
       | 
       | I've pretty much stopped using most social media, because the
       | level of noise that is put into my feed (ads, manipulative
       | "news", etc) drops the signal to noise ratio and I have no
       | ability to curtail it.
        
         | jillianschuller wrote:
         | Web version too, my hubby linked just above. Android coming in
         | the next week or so.
         | 
         | Everyone you are buddies with can see your reflections, and you
         | can see theirs. It's best for family and close friends :)
         | 
         | It's all signal, no noise. Sundayy is the only social network I
         | use now. Removed all the others from my phone :)
        
       | reckter wrote:
       | As this is iOS only, it would really benefit from "Log in with
       | Apple"! As with all social networks: People only use it if their
       | friends are using it, whom intern have the same problem. This
       | would be great if it would incoroprate automatic recaps of post
       | on other platforms, if a Contact does not have sundayy.
       | 
       | Autmaticly generate A summary from their instagram / facebook for
       | example.
        
       | lucjac wrote:
       | Amazing idea & execution! I'm running a self reflection journal
       | app (https://mindhappy.page.link/app) and had been thinking about
       | building something like this for couples. Glad to see it already
       | exists now :)
        
       | itoprocess wrote:
       | Jill invited me to this app about 3 months ago, and it's helped
       | me kick my social media addiction.
       | 
       | I wanted to stay on social media to keep up with important stuff
       | going on with my closer friends and family. Engagements, holiday
       | snaps, birthdays, ect. Basically, I had Fomo.
       | 
       | The problem was that I was spending an hour a day scrolling
       | through, mostly ads and low quality news on my feed. I think my
       | last actual post was over 5 years ago.
       | 
       | With Sundayy I know that if anything actually important happens I
       | will find out about it on Sunday. The delayed gratification is
       | refreshing, in a world where everything else is just a click
       | away.
       | 
       | The other benefit is I now have an extra 7 hours a week that I
       | didn't spend mindlessly scrolling.
        
       | wyxuan wrote:
       | Great looking UI for what seems really new but just a few asks:
       | 
       | 1. Can there be a way to see which contacts in my contact book
       | have accounts?
       | 
       | 2. the add profile pic feature just isn't working at all for me
       | 
       | 3. There should be a username system where you can set custom
       | usernames
        
       | artificialLimbs wrote:
       | Beautiful idea, app, and page, but from the Privacy Policy:
       | 
       | >We may share Your personal information in the following
       | situations: With Service Providers, For business transfers, With
       | Affiliates, With business partners
       | 
       | I can't get down with that.
        
       | s0rta wrote:
       | Hey just downloaded this! Pretty stoked to try it out. One
       | question, is there a history of your weeks? I'd love to be able
       | to look back on reflections, or a way to export your weekly
       | reflection if you don't have the server resources
        
         | jillianschuller wrote:
         | Funny you should ask as we were just talking about building
         | this!
         | 
         | We are thinking that on Sunday when reading others reflections,
         | you'll be able to view "your story", which will be that full
         | history (currently you can see your reflections too, but just
         | for the week).
         | 
         | Glad to hear you've signed up! We will commit to having this
         | built before this Sunday so you can use it going forward :P
        
           | s0rta wrote:
           | Thank you for the response! And if y'all start up a patreon
           | or something for donations to pay for hosting in the early
           | stages, so down to support something like this
        
             | ghiculescu wrote:
             | Best way you can support us is to invite a buddy :)
             | 
             | We are just running on a 2 Heroku dynos so it's cheap for
             | now. High hosting costs would be an exciting future
             | problem!
        
       | george-in-sd wrote:
       | Great idea. The only the thing I enjoy about FB is seeing updates
       | from friends and family. Will give it a try
        
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       | tomaszs wrote:
       | Please don't sell it to Facebook when it will kick off
        
       | jillianschuller wrote:
       | Hey all,
       | 
       | A year ago I deleted Facebook and Instagram from my phone. I
       | didn't like the attention hijacking, or the never-ending feed
       | surfing, or how they made me feel.
       | 
       | Looked around for a more minimalist platform I could use to stay
       | connected to family and friends. Couldn't find one, so started
       | building one.
       | 
       | Sundayy is a social network centered around mindful reflection.
       | It is designed to be checked just once a week, on Sunday.
       | 
       |  _Mon - Sat:_ You're prompted to slow down, reflect, and write
       | about what the day has brought you. Once you reflect, that's it.
       | Reflections are kept secret. There are no feeds to check.
       | 
       |  _Sunday:_ Reflections for the week are revealed. You can look
       | back on your friend's and family's week as they lived it; day by
       | day, in their own words.
       | 
       | My husband and I have been building Sundayy together while using
       | it with close family and friends. Has become a nice ritual to
       | read reflections over a tea on Sunday morning, then call
       | family/friends from there.
        
         | voisin wrote:
         | How do these two quotes relate? They are kept secret for the
         | week but then revealed all at once?
         | 
         | > Reflections are kept secret.
         | 
         | > Reflections for the week are revealed. You can look back on
         | your friend's and family's week...
        
           | tryitnow wrote:
           | Yes, this is very confusing. Some people could read this and
           | mistakenly assume that their reflections are always kept
           | secret (because they didn't read the second sentence).
           | 
           | It might be better to change it to "Reflection are kept
           | secret until Sunday."
           | 
           | This might seem like a little issue, but it's not. All it
           | takes is one over eager person to join the app in haste, not
           | really read how it works, post some embarrassing secret
           | thinking it will be kept secret and then become mortified
           | when it's revealed. Then they will raise a storm online and
           | your app will be known as something that causes drama rather
           | than alleviates it.
        
             | trhaynes wrote:
             | I wouldn't use the word secret at all in this case, frankly
        
           | wccrawford wrote:
           | I think they mean that they're hidden until the next Sunday
           | after they were posted.
        
             | ghiculescu wrote:
             | That's right! Every Sundayy you can read everyone's
             | reflections on that day only. Then they are gone forever.
             | It's very whimsical :)
        
         | mempko wrote:
         | I love this idea but I don't own an iOS or Android device. Will
         | there be any effort to make a web version?
        
           | ghiculescu wrote:
           | There's a web version! https://www.sundayy.app/users/sign_up
        
         | primitivesuave wrote:
         | This is a great idea and the UI is beautiful.
         | 
         | I had a similar personal project a while back to just send out
         | emails to people with my "social update" on a
         | weekly/monthly/yearly basis. People would opt-in to the email
         | and select the frequency from a form on my personal website,
         | and on my end I would get a reminder to send out my weekly
         | update. It ended up being a bit buggy and a hassle to manage,
         | and I'm planning to rewrite it soon. I bet if you built this
         | feature into the app, you could organically grow the user base,
         | as users would be able to still send Sunday reflections to
         | certain emails and that email could have a link to download the
         | app.
         | 
         | I think the audience for an app like this is people like me,
         | who want to free themselves from social media altogether. I'm
         | thrilled to see people working on the dopamine addiction that
         | Twitter/Facebook/etc feed on, and wish you the best of luck on
         | this venture!
         | 
         | Also, if you're looking for some free serverless code to power
         | the idea I mentioned above, let me know how I should get that
         | to you.
        
           | jillianschuller wrote:
           | Thank you for the kind words!
           | 
           | That is a very good idea re emailing the weekly update.
           | Ironically we started with it being email based, then
           | switched to the in app "buddies" (addable via a buddy code).
           | Switched because people didn't have an immediate email list,
           | but definitely want to add this back in!
           | 
           | Thank you for the feedback, if you give Sundayy a go please
           | let me know what you think - jill@hey.com :)
        
         | eitland wrote:
         | Brilliant idea! Can you say a few words about how you will
         | protect user data? (What I really want is I want every
         | developer of any such app tied to the mast like Odysseus
         | because we've seen what the sirens song of growth based
         | investments from venture capital funds can do even to nice and
         | smart people line the WhatsApp founders ;-)
        
           | jillianschuller wrote:
           | We have thought about monetizing down the line, but on
           | principle I'm completely opposed to any model re ads/user
           | data. We'd treat it like a tool you pay a one off price for.
           | 
           | Data privacy is something we can be more explicit about
           | (thank you for highlighting this - will work on it). Re
           | developers, it's just my husband and I at the moment, and
           | we're just building it because we want it to exist.
           | 
           | If you want to email me any questions/concerns, I'm
           | jill@hey.com :)
        
           | itoprocess wrote:
           | Can't agree more. If you are wondering how much main stream
           | social apps are sharing, you can see a summary at this link.
           | https://www.facebook.com/off_facebook_activity/activity_list.
           | Mine has over 2,000 websites that are sharing data back.
        
         | secfirstmd wrote:
         | Interesting idea.
         | 
         | But worth remembering. A huge chunk of the world works on
         | Sunday. E.g Middle East has its week days Sunday to Thursday.
        
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