https://arxiv.org/abs/2505.09509 Skip to main content Cornell University Learn about arXiv becoming an independent nonprofit. We gratefully acknowledge support from the Simons Foundation, member institutions, and all contributors. Donate arxiv logo > cs > arXiv:2505.09509 [ ] Help | Advanced Search [All fields ] Search arXiv logo Cornell University Logo [ ] GO quick links * Login * Help Pages * About Computer Science > Human-Computer Interaction arXiv:2505.09509 (cs) [Submitted on 14 May 2025] Title:Partnership through Play: Investigating How Long-Distance Couples Use Digital Games to Facilitate Intimacy Authors:Nisha Devasia, Adrian Rodriguez, Logan Tuttle, Julie Kientz View a PDF of the paper titled Partnership through Play: Investigating How Long-Distance Couples Use Digital Games to Facilitate Intimacy, by Nisha Devasia and 3 other authors View PDF HTML (experimental) Abstract:Long-distance relationships (LDRs) have become more common in the last few decades, primarily among young adults pursuing educational or employment opportunities. A common way for couples in LDRs to spend time together is by playing multiplayer video games, which are often a shared hobby and therefore a preferred joint activity. However, games are relatively understudied in the context of relational maintenance for LDRs. In this work, we used a mixed-methods approach to collect data on the experiences of 13 couples in LDRs who frequently play games together. We investigated different values around various game mechanics and modalities and found significant differences in couple play styles, and also detail how couples appropriate game mechanics to express affection to each other virtually. We also created prototypes and design implications based on couples' needs surrounding the lack of physical sensation and memorabilia storage in most popular games. Comments: Proceedings of Designing Interactive Systems (DIS '25) Subjects: Human-Computer Interaction (cs.HC) Cite as: arXiv:2505.09509 [cs.HC] (or arXiv:2505.09509v1 [cs.HC] for this version) https://doi.org/10.48550/arXiv.2505.09509 Focus to learn more arXiv-issued DOI via DataCite https://doi.org/10.1145/3715336.3735773 Related DOI: Focus to learn more DOI(s) linking to related resources Submission history From: Nisha Devasia [view email] [v1] Wed, 14 May 2025 16:02:34 UTC (907 KB) Full-text links: Access Paper: View a PDF of the paper titled Partnership through Play: Investigating How Long-Distance Couples Use Digital Games to Facilitate Intimacy, by Nisha Devasia and 3 other authors * View PDF * HTML (experimental) * TeX Source license icon view license Current browse context: cs.HC < prev | next > new | recent | 2025-05 Change to browse by: cs References & Citations * NASA ADS * Google Scholar * Semantic Scholar export BibTeX citation Loading... BibTeX formatted citation x [loading... ] Data provided by: Bookmark BibSonomy logo Reddit logo (*) Bibliographic Tools Bibliographic and Citation Tools [ ] Bibliographic Explorer Toggle Bibliographic Explorer (What is the Explorer?) [ ] Connected Papers Toggle Connected Papers (What is Connected Papers?) [ ] Litmaps Toggle Litmaps (What is Litmaps?) [ ] scite.ai Toggle scite Smart Citations (What are Smart Citations?) ( ) Code, Data, Media Code, Data and Media Associated with this Article [ ] alphaXiv Toggle alphaXiv (What is alphaXiv?) [ ] Links to Code Toggle CatalyzeX Code Finder for Papers (What is CatalyzeX?) [ ] DagsHub Toggle DagsHub (What is DagsHub?) [ ] GotitPub Toggle Gotit.pub (What is GotitPub?) [ ] Huggingface Toggle Hugging Face (What is Huggingface?) [ ] ScienceCast Toggle ScienceCast (What is ScienceCast?) ( ) Demos Demos [ ] Replicate Toggle Replicate (What is Replicate?) [ ] Spaces Toggle Hugging Face Spaces (What is Spaces?) [ ] Spaces Toggle TXYZ.AI (What is TXYZ.AI?) ( ) Related Papers Recommenders and Search Tools [ ] Link to Influence Flower Influence Flower (What are Influence Flowers?) [ ] Core recommender toggle CORE Recommender (What is CORE?) * Author * Venue * Institution * Topic ( ) About arXivLabs arXivLabs: experimental projects with community collaborators arXivLabs is a framework that allows collaborators to develop and share new arXiv features directly on our website. Both individuals and organizations that work with arXivLabs have embraced and accepted our values of openness, community, excellence, and user data privacy. arXiv is committed to these values and only works with partners that adhere to them. Have an idea for a project that will add value for arXiv's community? Learn more about arXivLabs. Which authors of this paper are endorsers? | Disable MathJax (What is MathJax?) * About * Help * Click here to contact arXiv Contact * Click here to subscribe Subscribe * Copyright * Privacy Policy * Web Accessibility Assistance * arXiv Operational Status