The milkman must be made to understand that it will not do to ring people out of their beds at seven in the morning, and make them catch cold at the front door.
Pianos are not to be locked by the family after using; the servants would like a little music now and then.
The master and mistress must consult the servants before subscribing to newspapers and magazines. The foolish choice that is often made in this respect is very trying to the feelings of the latter.
Another practice that cannot be too strongly reprobated, is that of carrying off books and magazines from the circulating library to people’s bedrooms before the servants have read them.
Madame and the daughters of the house should always knock properly before entering the kitchen.
When visiting the servants’ own rooms, they should always send some one up to announce them first.
When the housemaid is sent to order a cab, it by no means follows that she is to tell the cabman to drive her home by the shortest way.
If the master and mistress are medically attended by a Professor, it will not do to let the servants be treated by an ordinary doctor.
Stale bread will no longer be eaten.
When a serious misfortune is impending—e.g., a bankruptcy or the like—the servants ought always to be warned in time.
If the family have a box at the theatre or the opera, the servants should have the full use of it.
The family should not speak French at table while the maid is in the room, unless it has been previously ascertained that she understands that language.
Tips ought to be compounded for, just as much as tithes.