Posts by mikayla@nnia.space
(DIR) Post #Aaeq3nNJHgYQD7UZs0 by mikayla@nnia.space
2023-10-11T10:30:02Z
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@comrade_lecter Okay. Thanks.
(DIR) Post #AagttVG2ZqSHG3MM7s by mikayla@nnia.space
2023-10-12T10:22:29Z
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@comrade_lecter @Pappy @Consuela @rubricappula Either way this is karma.After all I talked to both Rae (transgirl admin) and Starchild (transgirl member) about this, and they kept protecting the nazis saying we need to talk to them to convert them, and that they are also MAPs and it is me that is intolerant towards another MAP, this is just so much karma.Don't say I didn't tell you.I've been in MAP communities for too long to be naive about this, I have been transidentifying for too long to be naive about this.
(DIR) Post #AahWzJCSDWxJoLRQ4e by mikayla@nnia.space
2023-10-12T17:40:28Z
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@comrade_lecter Actually, it still happens. Got two such mails today, one just a few minutes ago.
(DIR) Post #AahYTt1FhqbRXoLWWe by mikayla@nnia.space
2023-10-12T17:57:17Z
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@comrade_lecter The mails are mentioning IPv6 addresses.
(DIR) Post #AahYw8aDQvz3vJAfce by mikayla@nnia.space
2023-10-12T17:59:15Z
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@comrade_lecter Actually, open sessions on my account mention an IPv6 address too. But I am connecting from an IPv4 one, so it is odd.
(DIR) Post #AanzO2VosU1Kse8vPE by mikayla@nnia.space
2023-10-15T13:49:54Z
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So, now the last few Youjo members have returned back home again. Just, this time Youjo is defederated.I came to Pediverse with the vision to unite us MAPs, but during the few weeks I have been here, we have become far more divided than we were before. Almost half of everyone I interacted with and had meaningful discussions about activism with are no longer visible to me.If we believe 2024 will be the best year of MAP activism in a long while, we who are interested in activism must stick together. Now we can no longer even see each other.
(DIR) Post #Ab289nJxe6956n8PWC by mikayla@nnia.space
2023-10-21T21:37:18Z
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@violet_rose @Dean Sure, but right now you are spreading pure conspiracy theories.The only reasonable thing to do at this point is to try to secure our instances from these kinds of attacks, because we don't know who the attacker is. All domains on .space are still up. Move to that domain. Or move to .org or .net, some MAP spaces of many years are on these domains, I feel these domains are often underestimated.But if you truly believe Lecter is behind this, recommend Youjo to move to .space.
(DIR) Post #AbAfinlrg7h5RrvRB2 by mikayla@nnia.space
2023-10-26T19:01:09Z
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I know it may feel hopeless sometimes, like all attempts going together and fighting for MAP rights together ends up in futility and despair. Always remember, you don't have to do big things, and you don't have to do it together with others. Everything you do matters.Things everyone can effortlessly do alone without taking much risk: - Participate in verified authentic MAP research! Researchers are driving much of our cause now, and they need your help. - Donate to MAP friendly organizations! Your gift may drive changes that benefit us all. - Just stick around and be active in the community! Your presence matter to many MAPs. - Find MAPs on social media in need of emotional support! You reaching out in a DM can change someones life. - Make and put up MAP flag stickers here and there! Your stickers will spread much hope in every MAP that sees them. - Make and hide secret letters in the public! A letter from you may change someones opinions for good. - Talk about the changes you want to see in the society! Just talking is never wrong, together we paint the vision of our future. - Write lovely stories and make beautiful art! Art can touch and inspire in ways that give rise to movements. - Befriend MAPs from all places and backgrounds! We are diverse in our experiences, but together and united we will stand. - Correct false information about MAPs in news and media! Reaching out to the publisher or journalist may change so they use terms in less stigmatizing ways in the future. - And don't forget to just be a MAP and live! Your life is what makes you a MAP, and your life experiences makes your contribution to the MAP movement.
(DIR) Post #Acu5e2l5c53e9A2cxk by mikayla@nnia.space
2023-12-17T14:49:39Z
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@comrade_lecter @regenbogenfisch Ašme, you know I joined with you first. But you alienated me, because we had fundamentally different ideas about what anti-c activism should be about. If you don't want to work with me, I will rather look for someone else to work with than not doing anything. I feel activism for MAP rights is desperately needed, and I know you do too. We just have different ideas how it should look like, and that is of course fine. It is better we do things than not, and two initiatives may be better than one, we will simply cater to different people. I wish you all the success with what you are doing too. It just saddens me a bit you have chosen to ban me on all other places than here and now try to discredit me. I don't feel that is constructive when we should be fighting together for the MAP rights we all deserve.
(DIR) Post #AcuBh6zevJpdsJhc8W by mikayla@nnia.space
2023-12-17T15:57:26Z
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@comrade_lecter @rubricappula @sirius @regenbogenfisch You did, but okay then, I am talking about MYAP Activism Forum you are all part of.
(DIR) Post #AcuCgnm6TgjkDvmIYC by mikayla@nnia.space
2023-12-17T16:08:35Z
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@comrade_lecter @rubricappula @sirius @regenbogenfisch I won't copy-paste our private conversion here without your consent, but it is the part that begins with you saying "I hope you didn't tell them about my forum", and the following posts.I am uncertain how I would interpret that in any other way than that you forbid me from talking about the forum.
(DIR) Post #AcyhPB8MlUZifZ6izg by mikayla@nnia.space
2023-12-19T20:11:34Z
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@comrade_lecter I think that describes what I feel. Maybe just a little softer, like I believe enough of it does cause harm to children, I maybe wouldn't use the word abuse there, because I don't think there are abusive intentions behind it, just irresponsible behavior. Don't know if we actually mean the same. I think it is irresponsible behavior and something that shouldn't occur until the child is mentally mature to consent, which a child usually is at the earliest around 12-13, some way later of course.
(DIR) Post #AcyhiZ2a6Y9gJhe4rA by mikayla@nnia.space
2023-12-19T20:15:06Z
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@comrade_lecter I am concerned, not super concerned. I am concerned enough that I want to know more about the relationship or tell that it is risky and something that should be avoided, not so concerned I would try to stop it from happening. Unless it is non-consensual of course, then it is clearly abuse, but pro-c MAPs in general agree with that too.
(DIR) Post #AcyjJxCDMHDHtzXmN6 by mikayla@nnia.space
2023-12-19T20:33:04Z
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@comrade_lecter I am not certain I understand actually why it is out of the realm of anti-c stances.I want to clarify though that I do not represent VirPed here. VirPed is just the site I feel most comfortable on, because people are most like me there. I think the defining difference is that VirPed is a friendship and support community, but here the culture is very confrontative and hostile.
(DIR) Post #AcykU9K7Dv5uMffI6y by mikayla@nnia.space
2023-12-19T20:46:03Z
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@comrade_lecter To me, it is very much a personal choice.
(DIR) Post #AcykxsxWd8hGIbHHua by mikayla@nnia.space
2023-12-19T20:51:30Z
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@comrade_lecter For me, being anti-c is a personal choice for me, how I am going to act in this world. I won't ever have sex with a child, I won't ever seek out child porn. It is also what I advocate for, I think we can give love to children in other ways, familiar ways, and that it will be way healthier for children.I don't feel the nomap label described me, because it says nothing about why I have chosen not to have sex. I have chosen it because I think it is ethically and morally wrong, because I feel it is at fundamental risk of causing harm to children. I do not feel comfortable around people who choose to not have sex with children merely because it is illegal or socially unacceptable.This is why I feel so strongly I am anti-c, because not only am I acting in the right way, I am acting in the right way for the right reasons.
(DIR) Post #AcymW5U0fmNywQLRYW by mikayla@nnia.space
2023-12-19T21:08:53Z
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@comrade_lecter I thought "open anti-c" was a good word.
(DIR) Post #Acyss5JKaqXAVFDqMq by mikayla@nnia.space
2023-12-19T22:20:05Z
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@comrade_lecter @paper_crook Okay, I don't agree with that definition of abuse. Abuse to me is something that causes harm, mentally or physically. If it causes no harm, or rather causes feelings of well-being, it is not abuse.
(DIR) Post #AdCjBy3ckDD7RQ3rJg by mikayla@nnia.space
2023-12-26T14:37:33Z
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@comrade_lecter "If you don't report person X, and prove to me that you have done so, I will report you" is both blackmailing and a threat. Especially since there is not even a person X here, I am not aware of any single individual that are sexually abusing children, or abusing children in any other way.If you want to allow accusations, blackmailing and threats like that on NNIA, that is of course your choice, but it will affect what kind of users you have on your platform.You will get a lot of pro-reporting and pro-authority/pro-oppression kind of individuals, and very few pro-preventation/pro-treatment/pro-rehabilitation kind of individuals.I take it you closed the report as not valid? Not that I expected anything else.
(DIR) Post #AdCkh7n0i7v4YWi9Ka by mikayla@nnia.space
2023-12-26T14:54:24Z
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@comrade_lecter I cannot see how their post left anything open to an IF.https://nnia.space/@Liminal@paravielfalt.zone/111633835728528925Quote:"I have zero tolerance for offenders and traitors, I want evidence in private if you prefer of you reporting the people or person you are aware are sexually abusing a child or I'm going to personally report you to the police for covering up child sexual abuse."