Posts by jascha@ohai.social
(DIR) Post #AtnKPltKl27dKNF0gS by jascha@ohai.social
2025-05-05T19:02:28Z
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>> We all said „we‘ll come!“ and so it happened that 15 adults went to a 16th birthday party.We coordinated in another channel that she did not know that we bought presents, made cake and planned games. And of course a cake fight.The day came. Several cars arrived at the house and Metall heads, Goths and Punks arrived at „the venue“ :D >>
(DIR) Post #AtnKPyoqh1G7QEF6zw by jascha@ohai.social
2025-05-05T19:04:35Z
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>> We had so much fun and made her day. We laughed more than her sister with her „cool friends“. We were the perfect guests. We played games, we laughed. SHE laughed. Later she said the first times for months. We just were us. Of course we did not drink or take drugs. Of course we did not swear the amount we normally did. It was a perfect 16th birthday for her. For us it was meeting a friend. I still do not know her „real name“ because her real name is her IRC nick. >>
(DIR) Post #AtnKQ6vWY5LsZFQYVs by jascha@ohai.social
2025-05-05T19:08:00Z
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>> and today, ca. 20 years later, we still talk every now and then. We are still part of her life. 6 years ago she was living in Paris, had a boyfriend in Berlin. She was visiting him for her birthday. He called her when she arrived in Berlin at the airport and told her that this relationship has ended.The person she called was me. She spent the weekend on my couch and again I tried to create her a great birthday. She played with Barbara, I ordered food, we watched silly TV shows. >>
(DIR) Post #AtnKQGPdHVmdzEaEC0 by jascha@ohai.social
2025-05-05T19:11:22Z
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>> at the end she had a a few decent days with some fun and could fly home and was not totally desperate.She can call at 3 in the morning and I will write into an IRC channel that she needs us and we will do everything we could to be there. And she will do the same for us.And that is the internet I hold dear. The internet I love and miss. The internet that made the day for a 16 year old girl that thought she had no one in the world. The internet that proved her wrong.~ fin
(DIR) Post #AtnKQSx2f7dcsKJ4vw by jascha@ohai.social
2025-05-05T19:23:10Z
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Now I have something in my eyes.
(DIR) Post #AuMBQgpwoKyDX7Q4bw by jascha@ohai.social
2025-05-22T12:41:04Z
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Once you start dating someone its like, impossible to insult them"suck my dick" ok"bite me" hell yeah"kiss my ass" sure"Fuck you" well if you insist.
(DIR) Post #AvFRwgGSstwftMSr9U by jascha@ohai.social
2025-06-18T07:12:29Z
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This Blåhaj wants to be drawn like one of your French girls. Chilling on the couch, having its best life.Sidenote: I really like my workplace.
(DIR) Post #AviPVQcsTn58NvqE0u by jascha@ohai.social
2025-07-02T06:36:19Z
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Ich habe die Wohnung verlassen. Der Dune Soundtrack beginnt zu spielen. Warte auf die ersten Sandwürmer.
(DIR) Post #AviPVYdsfwdbFMN8gi by jascha@ohai.social
2025-07-02T06:46:52Z
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Neukölln Fremen Country!
(DIR) Post #AwhPIpqDjpgbP5YdSy by jascha@ohai.social
2025-07-31T06:34:05Z
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One of the many treats of #ADHD I hate the most: ADHDers have no internal motivation and rely completely on external motivation: urgency, novelty, pressure, competition and the need to belong. Except novelty they require negative emotions: anxiety and fear for urgency and pressure, competition and need to belong require shame. Hyperfocus is not for oneself but caused by seek for novelty.To have ADHD is to battle negativ emotions all the time by doing stuff for _others_ and not for oneself. >>
(DIR) Post #AwhPIqvDijHOksu8tk by jascha@ohai.social
2025-07-31T06:40:49Z
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>> This is why many ADHDers have a comorbidity like depression, anxiety disorder, codependency or an addiction.This is why many ADHDers are people pleasers.Cleaning up because someone is coming to visit? Of course, let‘s do the deep clean in 3 hours! For myself? There is no motivation. Of course I enjoy a cleaned up and somehow tidy living room. But this is not a motivator. >>
(DIR) Post #AwhPIs95AfxiYAOj8y by jascha@ohai.social
2025-07-31T06:43:10Z
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>> The treats coming with #ADHD are not a super power but steady injection of fear, shame and anxiety.I would trade all the stuff I know because of hyperfocus for not having the negative emotions all the time. I would trade them for being able to do things for myself and not because of external motivators. I would trad eurem for just having this thoughts stop.
(DIR) Post #AwhPIuQsfTO5dwjyAC by jascha@ohai.social
2025-07-31T07:21:48Z
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@shorterirl For example the fear to get blamed is a harder motivator than the joy of getting praise. An ADHD person needs a higher level of serotonin/dopamin to feel happy than a neurotypical person. But we gain the same ammount of these transmitters as nt folks when we get praise. It is not enough.
(DIR) Post #AwpMJINQtjOTJ8Idpw by jascha@ohai.social
2025-08-04T11:26:15Z
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Neurotypicals: "Just break big tasks into smaller steps!"ADHDer: breaks task into 108 micro-steps, gets overwhelmed by the long list, abandons task, start to research road building in the Roman Empire for 6 hours.#adhd
(DIR) Post #Ax5ZLCZjqX4TpKealk by jascha@ohai.social
2025-08-12T09:03:04Z
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Important for all #starwars fans using metric system.
(DIR) Post #AxGY5T3uooqd6wGH2W by jascha@ohai.social
2025-08-17T13:56:24Z
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I am still not over the situation when someone asked for my “gmail”, I gave them my email address and they were like “No, your gmail!” And tried to explain to me that they only could send messages to Gmail accounts and they do not have an email.We really need to teach more computer literacy. It was not their fault, they just did not know that Gmail IS email.
(DIR) Post #AyZEaTRG9t4LccvH6m by jascha@ohai.social
2025-09-25T07:12:06Z
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ⓘ 𝘛𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘶𝘴𝘦𝘳 𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘶𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘰𝘧 𝘣𝘦𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘢 𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘳𝘰𝘳𝘪𝘴𝘵 𝘰𝘳𝘨𝘢𝘯𝘪𝘻𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘤𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘦𝘥 𝘈𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘧𝘢. 𝘗𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝘳𝘦𝘱𝘰𝘳𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘺 𝘴𝘶𝘴𝘱𝘪𝘤𝘪𝘰𝘶𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘪𝘰𝘳.
(DIR) Post #B0RdJYQ8IcSX8OfJoW by jascha@ohai.social
2025-11-20T08:59:55Z
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Auf dem #39C3 bekommen wir eine künstlerische Dokumentation des Congress-Geschehens von @VeithYaeger. Wie das genau passiert findet ihr auf dem Event-Bloghttps://events.ccc.de/2025/11/20/39c3-creature-chronicles/
(DIR) Post #B0gLKBDETbkZjV3aMa by jascha@ohai.social
2025-11-27T06:58:08Z
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We #adhd folks should start calling all the useless knowledge we gathered while avoiding other work and/or while in hyperfocus „collateral knowledge“
(DIR) Post #B0keOjXJTjOT6eAqdE by jascha@ohai.social
2025-11-29T17:38:45Z
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We just celebrated Black Friday in memory of Rebecca Black who invented Friday back in 2011.