Posts by SleepyCatten@mastodon.lol
 (DIR) Post #ARJJ0nXb0x5vafPfM0 by SleepyCatten@mastodon.lol
       2022-11-28T22:33:40Z
       
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       Another amazing website is TransActual. Their trans health guide is especially amazing:https://www.transactual.org.uk/healthcare-transOf course, even with all this information, you may have trouble getting any support from your NHS GP 😥To this end, you can find maps of known "trans-friendly" GPs in the UK (or at least less-trans-hostile ones) here:https://transhealthcareintel.com/trans-friendly-gps8/
       
 (DIR) Post #ARJJ0pIQUK9H2CKZzE by SleepyCatten@mastodon.lol
       2022-11-28T22:39:27Z
       
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       If you're in England, you can find details about the process for updating your name or gender on the records at the below:https://pcse.england.nhs.uk/help/patient-registrations/adoption-and-gender-re-assignment-processes/#collapse4In terms of changing your name & documents, I highly recommend reading this section of the Gender Construction Kit:https://genderkit.org.uk/category/id-documents/9/
       
 (DIR) Post #ARJJ0r5Npmu6aKFBw0 by SleepyCatten@mastodon.lol
       2022-11-29T20:59:05Z
       
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       In relation to voice, I'm not an expert on this, but you'll find commonly-shared resources on r/TransVoice, especially on their wiki.https://reddit.com/r/transvoice/wiki/indexWhile a lot of people find popular voice coaches like TransVoiceLessons or Zoey Alexandria helpful, I have sadly found neither beginner-friendly or helpful if you're not musically-trained 😢10/
       
 (DIR) Post #ARJJ0skBfZ8ZjALIAq by SleepyCatten@mastodon.lol
       2022-11-29T21:01:29Z
       
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       (voice continued)The video guides by Nicole Gress are much simpler & shorter, but the paid service she runs (Undead Voice) is incredibly expensive, especially when free voice training Discord servers are available.I honestly hope to have sufficient funds (& energy) to return to training with voice coach Louise-Milner Smith sometime. At £60 GBP an hour, she's more affordable than most & so very kind 💟https://allaboutyourvoice.com11/
       
 (DIR) Post #ARJJ0uPhShwCuClxWC by SleepyCatten@mastodon.lol
       2022-11-29T21:02:40Z
       
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       The basic routes for trans/NB people to access HRT in the UK are:1. Solely via the NHS.2. Solely via private clinics3. "Shared care" between a clinic private & the NHS.4. DIY.1. Solely via the NHS.This route is the cheapest, but you will be waiting for years, possibly even decades, to receive care. The costs are low, as your meds are NHS prescriptions & surgeries are free, but there are severe limitations & waits.https://nhs.uk/conditions/gender-dysphoria/treatment/12/
       
 (DIR) Post #ARJJ0w0xVfKrs3DEES by SleepyCatten@mastodon.lol
       2022-11-29T21:04:05Z
       
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       2. Solely via a private clinic.HRT costs are higher, but you will get access to HRT much faster than the NHS. If you're under 18, your only viable option is GenderGP. All private surgeries are very expensive 😢3. "Shared care" between a clinic private & the NHS.Upfront costs are high, but you then receive HRT as NHS prescriptions. A bit slower than solely going through a private clinic (to get NHS GPs to agree), but saves HRT costs, while you stay on the NHS waitlist.13/
       
 (DIR) Post #ARJJ0xfPMlHkzn92v2 by SleepyCatten@mastodon.lol
       2022-11-29T21:05:46Z
       
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       4. DIY.In terms of HRT med costs, it's very affordable if you go for monotherapy injections. GnRH agonists will be too expensive for most people, but injections & anti-androgens/estrogens aren't out of reach for many. Many cannot afford this, of course 😞14/
       
 (DIR) Post #ARJJ0zQwnUuGTWOWem by SleepyCatten@mastodon.lol
       2022-11-29T21:10:13Z
       
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       I personally went through GenderCare to get started on HRT.However, if I'd known then what I know now, I'd probably have just started with DIY HRT injections.Don't get me wrong: going part-private has had advantages, such as:• Private diagnosis will help me apply for a Gender Recognition Certificate sooner.• I got a letter to update the gender flag on my passport.Whether this is worth the money to everyone is highly subjective.15/
       
 (DIR) Post #ARJJ116SadhteYpC08 by SleepyCatten@mastodon.lol
       2022-11-29T21:11:02Z
       
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       Laser hair removal is a whole, complex topic in itself, but you should check the clinic uses a machine that has a suitable laser mode for your skin tone:• Alexandrite (755 nm) - light to olive skin tones• Nd: YAG (1064 nm) - darker skin tones• "Diode" (810 nm) - most skin typesPopular high-end machines include:• Candela - GentleMax Pro / Pro Plus• Alma - Soprano ICE Platinum / Soprano Titanium• Cynosure - Elite+ / Elite IQ16/
       
 (DIR) Post #ARJTYNeQmG1cgMGIs4 by SleepyCatten@mastodon.lol
       2022-11-25T21:21:17Z
       
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       Voice progress thread 🧵I don't know how helpful this'll be to anyone, but I've been cataloguing the slight progress I've made in feminising my voice since March 2022.I'd been uploading these to the bird site, but now that it's burning down, I guess I'll be uploading these to my Tiktok & linking them here.March 2022 - https://www.tiktok.com/@sleepycatten/video/7170064056110320902June 2022 - https://www.tiktok.com/@sleepycatten/video/7170066062883491077August 2022 - https://www.tiktok.com/@sleepycatten/video/7170066706650434822January 2023 - https://www.tiktok.com/@sleepycatten/video/7184470329937497349
       
 (DIR) Post #ARbICMNrjckGhkKtoe by SleepyCatten@mastodon.lol
       2023-01-13T12:23:51Z
       
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       Me: Why aren't more people following me???Also Me: Why is ANYONE following me??? I'm nobody.🙃#ImposterSyndrome
       
 (DIR) Post #ARdb71rksaLZ4CPMKO by SleepyCatten@mastodon.lol
       2023-01-14T14:52:42Z
       
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       Poll for trans folks :trans_heart: What should be the collective noun for trans fems?i.e., a [choice] of trans fems#trans #TransFem #IrreventHumour #poll #PoopToot
       
 (DIR) Post #ARjPyhqDVw4G64HE7U by SleepyCatten@mastodon.lol
       2023-01-17T10:36:46Z
       
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       Reminder for all trans people in the UK right now who don't have the energy or ability to fight at this precise moment :trans_heart: It's ok if you're not ok today.
       
 (DIR) Post #ARjqGPi2GSuZslYQVs by SleepyCatten@mastodon.lol
       2023-01-17T15:35:54Z
       
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       @james I, too, have concerns about trans people.* Them being used to fight a manufactured culture war by fascists.* Trans healthcare being heavily gatekept by cis people.* Trans human rights being debated by fascists who want to remove said rights.* Trans youths being undermined & denied any medical care.* People pushing conversion therapy on trans people.* The price & waiting lists for trans care.* Lack of mental health support.etc. 😔 :trans_heart:
       
 (DIR) Post #AS0EUZVU8mhLkhKJhw by SleepyCatten@mastodon.lol
       2023-01-25T13:23:15Z
       
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       IdeaTrans support network groups with signs that are only visible to tags people or allies :trans_heart: That way, if bad faith actors try to find them, they won't be able to find out where meetings are being held.I'm just imagining such bad faith actors now complaining about this.Them: "I couldn't find the meeting! There weren't any signs."Us: "Actually, there were plenty of signs. You just weren't looking for them. Plus we're fairly good at hiding them in plain sight."#trans
       
 (DIR) Post #AS7TgzIAxKQOcNCPcO by SleepyCatten@mastodon.lol
       2023-01-11T14:50:05Z
       
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       PSAGender is a ZX Spectrum.Publish post.#trans #transgender #gender #humour #enby #NonBinary #genderqueer #genderfluid #agender #GenderIsASpectrum #queer #LGBT #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA
       
 (DIR) Post #ASI1mNpjTbaHDL5xQ0 by SleepyCatten@mastodon.lol
       2023-02-02T23:18:29Z
       
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       Pssst.Just reminding you that:* You're lovely.* You're pretty awesome.* You matter.:heart_pride: :trans_heart: :heart_nb: :nd:
       
 (DIR) Post #ASTDk6Xk7sSjCPv4tM by SleepyCatten@mastodon.lol
       2023-02-08T09:48:26Z
       
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       Rick rolling, but make it #ActuallyAutistic 🎵 You know the rules, but you often won't tell me what they are or the logic behind those rules 🎵A lot of social rules do NOT make any sense, but so many allistic people seem to get annoyed at me for pointing this out, especially when I was a child 😞#neurodivergent #neurospicy
       
 (DIR) Post #ASVvoMvbvwixTRqa9I by SleepyCatten@mastodon.lol
       2023-02-09T20:23:53Z
       
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       I'm gonna need to migrate to another Mastodon instance 😔
       
 (DIR) Post #ASjzfceTM7iLn8FIZM by SleepyCatten@mastodon.lol
       2023-01-18T10:38:31Z
       
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       @nathan I feel this deeply in my soul 🥱🥺💟