Posts by Mary_Collier@spinster.xyz
(DIR) Post #A9R1XhzY1DhdjTq20e by Mary_Collier@spinster.xyz
2021-07-19T01:51:02.550420Z
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What is a polite way to decline to describe oneself as "cisgender" or announce one's "pronouns" that does not out oneself as gender critical but also can get the other person to contemplate what they are demanding?
(DIR) Post #A9RBBR5x9tdUV0qvZY by Mary_Collier@spinster.xyz
2021-07-18T22:46:48.035054Z
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@BCLADY I am not sure what else we can do. I wrote my MP and the Minister for Women. I didn't hear a peep back. I won't date men who use porn. That's all I can think of for now.
(DIR) Post #A9RkAAgcB2KpiN8K5A by Mary_Collier@spinster.xyz
2021-07-19T03:31:45.743692Z
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@Ismat Well, unfortunately I am white :ablobspin:
(DIR) Post #A9RkABpVvR31GGIwam by Mary_Collier@spinster.xyz
2021-07-19T03:45:58.537404Z
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@Ismat I’m not rich (relatively speaking) so that’s a good one! Or “don’t bother me with your over educated white nonsense” :blob_cat:
(DIR) Post #A9SvD8dbXjzqsrIoe8 by Mary_Collier@spinster.xyz
2021-07-20T01:53:07.443669Z
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If you are not trafficked, if you are not exploited, if you are not coerced or forced, if you are not a victim of the sex industry and identify as a "sex worker" - then congratulations, you are tremendously lucky. Now move out of the way and allow trafficked and exploited women at the FRONT LINES of the sex industry to make ALL policy decisions that serve THEIR best interests going forward. Better yet, get another job since it's your "choice" and stop normalizing the selling of sex. For the sake of women and children WHO DO NOT GET A CHOICE.
(DIR) Post #A9T4AsK87vZTILBmz2 by Mary_Collier@spinster.xyz
2021-07-19T23:44:55.252487Z
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This they/them non-binary nonsense is interesting. I used to see it as silly, but harmless. Perhaps even a way for women who are gender nonconforming to express themselves better. (It seems mostly women but also some lads.) However after seeing the consequences of giving ground to trans activists I think there could be dangerous unforeseen consequences. Trans activism is ultimately what the self identified non-binary people align themselves with, so they are pushing the same agenda. And besides, I have never heard anyone explain this non-binary/bigender/pangender thing in a way that does not rely on sexist stereotypes.
(DIR) Post #A9T99MNzsszziu5wMi by Mary_Collier@spinster.xyz
2021-07-20T03:41:17.651608Z
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@KamalaHarrisHotComb Lesbian icons are vanishing. Masha Gessen is a they/them now. Russian lesbian. That one makes me sad. Ellen Page...! She looks so unhealthy now. :(
(DIR) Post #A9UOzVZwdzRDlLy2m8 by Mary_Collier@spinster.xyz
2021-07-20T19:12:01.882230Z
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@macha The lady who called out the pervert at Wi Spa. The emperor has his dick out.
(DIR) Post #A9UjDrPIHYUWbD6fM8 by Mary_Collier@spinster.xyz
2021-07-20T22:58:12.998799Z
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@polarisera @rainynebula @MandyJane "using their own child porn alts to get subs they don't like shut-down. They tried to do it to JKR on twitter."Would you mind expanding on that a little bit? I am not a Reddit user so I don't know how it works.
(DIR) Post #A9Uk9cDkty1sIQFW2S by Mary_Collier@spinster.xyz
2021-07-20T23:09:15.183654Z
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DARVO DENY: That man did not show his penis to little girls!ATTACK: That little girl was staring at his penis!REVERSE VICTIM AND OFFENDER: That man was being harassed!
(DIR) Post #A9UolFsqnaHNq6ftDc by Mary_Collier@spinster.xyz
2021-07-20T23:56:52.803364Z
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@susannunes They call LITTLE GIRLS perpetrators...! These kinds of men are truly and utterly depraved.
(DIR) Post #A9V1heVEceNGRLEznk by Mary_Collier@spinster.xyz
2021-07-21T00:55:10.422016Z
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@Fullycaffeinated @Ladyfat I thought Hayton was a gender critical trans?
(DIR) Post #A9WKodLNQFoH9xdGD2 by Mary_Collier@spinster.xyz
2021-07-21T17:34:01.320404Z
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@tangleofsnakes Please tell me a man did not threaten to go into women’s toilets with a blade.
(DIR) Post #A9WrHBd6jqtg8ZaJNI by Mary_Collier@spinster.xyz
2021-07-21T23:34:14.311283Z
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"Silbeberg added that other styles she might like, such as the boyshort, has another layer of cis-normativity stitched into it that only makes the ignorance to trans bodies more distinct. “The name can be off-putting and kinda dysphoria-inducing..."Mmmmk. https://www.vice.com/en/article/m7q493/trans-womens-underwear-doesnt-exist
(DIR) Post #A9Wsii50IYvMYHJxOC by Mary_Collier@spinster.xyz
2021-07-21T23:47:10.704463Z
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"In de Beauvoir’s distinction, as Joyce nicely summarises, ‘sex is a biological category, and gender a historical category; sex is why women are oppressed, and gender is how women are oppressed’."https://www.spiked-online.com/2021/07/16/trans-activism-is-reversing-the-gains-of-feminism/
(DIR) Post #A9Wu3n7EryLWCqyyVk by Mary_Collier@spinster.xyz
2021-07-21T23:57:13.482280Z
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@meogsis That's the part that gets me. You can't find underwear that suits your needs and that sucks, fine. But getting upset over the name is really weird. Anybody who complains about that needs to learn some resiliency, I'm sorry.
(DIR) Post #A9WwZ45K1q0Xij7saO by Mary_Collier@spinster.xyz
2021-07-22T00:02:54.049472Z
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@Dingo123 When I saw the "Human Beings Aren't Clownfish" video, I went, surely this is a bit of a strawman argument? But nope. Here we go. Clownfish are the top of the list. Female Hyenas are "trans girls" because they have enlarged clitorises and fused labia. https://www.vice.com/en/article/8x8bez/yes-there-are-trans-animals
(DIR) Post #A9ahcNJE45SzqPmUue by Mary_Collier@spinster.xyz
2021-07-23T20:01:38.285793Z
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@Gelatinousrube @Hollahollara Gemma needs to get a grip. “OMG Starbucks validated me.” Please.
(DIR) Post #A9b0sHbMx0YZuDZC1Q by Mary_Collier@spinster.xyz
2021-07-23T23:34:50.328034Z
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LOL oh my God. 😅 I can't even with this bourgeoisie white nonsense. Heterosexuals are out here "CLAIMING" to be attracted to biological sex, hmmm? How novel and strange!
(DIR) Post #A9b1FAkIbhqRIperRo by Mary_Collier@spinster.xyz
2021-07-23T23:22:34.516956Z
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@GrumpyOldNurse @Gelatinousrube @polarisera Pokémon writing and “independently writing books” doesn’t pay well. These are white bourgeoisie trust fund babies with stupid elitist attitudes.