Posts by ClovenRed@spinster.xyz
 (DIR) Post #AB0RDKftA7G5ndQWeG by ClovenRed@spinster.xyz
       2021-09-04T03:45:01.343129Z
       
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       If you want to have a conversation about reproductive health, then you don't get to deny biology. If you insist on denying biology and its relevance to social and medical issues, you have nothing of value to say about it. Your identity has fuck all to do with anything. Watering down abortion bans with euphemistic phrases like "the issue of reproductive health" specifically erases the victims of these bans, and the gravity of them."Please do not erase" they bleat, while erasing and censoring women in every single women's issue. They use euphemisms because they find women's voices and anatomy offensive. It sends a message to every girl and woman that her body and what it does is taboo, vulgar, unspeakable. They prevent us from organizing amongst ourselves and speaking candidly about our own problems. They only use "cis" when shaming or coercing WOMEN into complying with their own erasure. It is subversion.
       
 (DIR) Post #AB0XajBimsVmDCr5f6 by ClovenRed@spinster.xyz
       2021-09-04T04:56:35.458751Z
       
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       @tangleofsnakes Yep! Every conversation that involves women is derailed and led into a loops of nonsense meant to silence women, because they want us to believe they are being oppressed by our rights that are still somehow always up for debate. They attack our rights more openly and hatefully than the right. Like the fact we ever won rights is a reason in and of itself to denigrate us act spitefully. We are being targeted from both sides and it keeps getting worse.
       
 (DIR) Post #AB1jIMcJMQmhbXGJrk by ClovenRed@spinster.xyz
       2021-09-04T18:54:51.782347Z
       
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       @GrumpyOldNurse "it's marginally better to be private property than public resource."Wow, what a succinct way to put it. I feel the same after years of considering myself to be much more left leaning.
       
 (DIR) Post #AB1jrc9VamczvEbBSq by ClovenRed@spinster.xyz
       2021-09-04T18:50:37.642819Z
       
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       So, transwomen get to “lead” in crafting legislation over the heads of women, that the legislation directly impacts. I doubt they incorporated the feedback of incarcerated women, but why wouldn’t women as a whole be a part of this decision? It is a malicious way to pass laws over women, because incarcerated women are even easier to dismiss. As for his last point, women are brutalized in women’s prisons by transwomen thanks to this denial of reality, and once again, its up to women to absorb male violence because of the unwillingness to hold men accountable. Make a separate wing in male prisons. Simple. Shame the men who brutalize, not women who don’t want to be brutalized. Women in prison are already vulnerable and voiceless. This is cruel and unusual punishment in an already very destructive system. “You’re ignoring their safety and pretending they’re not women”. For fucks sake… no one is pretending BUT transwomen and their disingenuous allies. YOU’RE IGNORING THEIR SAFETY AND PRETENDING THEY”RE NOT MEN(fixed)why does women’s safety never matter?
       
 (DIR) Post #AB3hgRIshP95YVInM8 by ClovenRed@spinster.xyz
       2021-09-05T17:49:01.484514Z
       
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       Imagine calling your own daughters "vagina owners"...I wonder why they are *both* trans with a parent like this? I wonder what messages they were taught about women that caused them BOTH to try and escape it. Or what experiences they share to be so disconnected from their own bodies. I would hazard a guess that their parents need to be investigated.Note the use of the word female here... *Only* females need abortions, regardless of what they call themselves, or what their own mother calls them. Also, I am so very sick of these "reminders" that anything but gentle. You are asking women to wrap their oppression in meaninglessness and disallow them to discuss the actual issue at hand. What is happening to us is a huge deal, if you care more about HOW women speak about it than WHAT they are speaking about, you are not for women's rights, you are merely after likes and your own gratification.
       
 (DIR) Post #AB3kIwZZ5bsbRnasca by ClovenRed@spinster.xyz
       2021-09-05T18:05:07.184676Z
       
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       @Dingo123 Imo, this is about helping to make sure that only males can discuss or legislate reproductive function. It is only ever women being "reminded" and "corrected" and ran in circles. It's telling how they somehow know exactly who to direct this shit at. They don't seem to be confused about sex when it comes to who is allowed to speak on it.
       
 (DIR) Post #AB3sU3TeYdqJgFdc0m by ClovenRed@spinster.xyz
       2021-09-05T17:11:51.453717Z
       
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       They get closer and closer to just coming out and saying that "terf" is a woman who won't fuck them. You're transphobic when someone imagines that you "probably" are in their own heads. Before you even say the wrong thing or say anything at all. Being gay is an affront to them because they know they bio sex matters regardless how they pretend otherwise."No really I fucking hate [female autonomy]""Fuck can y'all just stop [existing without shame]".
       
 (DIR) Post #AB873hyU9pTzPGnIJ6 by ClovenRed@spinster.xyz
       2021-09-07T19:32:01.236218Z
       
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       When delusion is "valid".
       
 (DIR) Post #AB873j8noxKV1Yd31k by ClovenRed@spinster.xyz
       2021-09-07T19:44:59.632313Z
       
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       @Dingo123 I'm not sure if she couldn't ask or she couldn't tell. But when you let people self ID and change their legal markers, how can you provide the correct care in a medical setting? It's sad and fucked up that so many people are going to be going through completely avoidable health consequences because society is enabling their denial of reality.
       
 (DIR) Post #AB8MdBqOasmBUdO4Lg by ClovenRed@spinster.xyz
       2021-09-07T19:41:04.172497Z
       
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       L.M.A.O. permabanned within minutes from r/blatantmisogyny
       
 (DIR) Post #AB9dSsJGGCYQOJW3Hc by ClovenRed@spinster.xyz
       2021-09-08T14:16:11.168640Z
       
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       "Under the guise of a neutral review"Hahaha, neutral has never been allowed. It's violent and there is zero level of disagreement or concern that is acceptable. Why are they so against even the slightest challenge to their ideas? The gender 'discussion' has been a trans monologue for years already.
       
 (DIR) Post #AB9jH4ACxeb1PD29dA by ClovenRed@spinster.xyz
       2021-09-08T15:15:12.357967Z
       
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       Look at them using the idea of disabled women to seem altruistic while they normalize dehumanizing language (the obvious point of this post/ad. Shameless pandering to the 'woke'). They're trying to claim to be against stigmas while refusing to say the word woman and backing the people that shame us when we use accurate and specific language about our periods, bodies, and experiences. This is part of the transparent effort to water down and deflect every conversation women might have about their issues. Look at the hastags... "ableism", "periodpoverty", "equity" ... Every women's issue has be about every other issue at once, to the point of becoming completely ineffectual.You can't have clear goals without clear language. To get anywhere you have to have some direction. They aren't saying anything at all. The picture they chose is just....Let it flow? As if this whole time, we've been holding back lmao.
       
 (DIR) Post #AB9snitPxvisZxpLEG by ClovenRed@spinster.xyz
       2021-09-08T17:03:47.502291Z
       
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       @senryu It's always creeped me out that the drug they give to chemically castrate pedophiles is the same one they give to children to stop them from puberty.
       
 (DIR) Post #ABDknjOPyusTQfunh2 by ClovenRed@spinster.xyz
       2021-09-10T14:02:33.097006Z
       
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       You know you are dealing with creepy manipulative liars when you see shit like this. Most of us know where this originates from. JK posted a thread for kids to share their art for her book, The Ickabog. TRA's spammed that thread with porn. JK didn't engage with it, in order to not make it more visible or increase *those* kinds of submissions. This out of context quote is in reference to the porn trans people spammed at children because they hate women with opinions. Her actual quote: “I’ve ignored fake tweets attributed to me and RTed widely. I’ve ignored porn tweeted at children on a thread about their art. I’ve ignored death and rape threats. I’m not going to ignore this,” ... “Many, myself included, believe we are watching a new kind of conversion therapy for young gay people, who are being set on a lifelong path of medicalisation that may result in the loss of their fertility and/or full sexual function.”The depths they stoop to in order to discredit and smear her are as disgusting as they are desperate. If they had any legitimate counter argument to anything she has said, or any legitimate way to call it hateful or harmful, they would be able to just say so. What shamelessness. To spam children with porn, and then make a claim like this about your target as if it makes *her* bad. How can anyone stand on THAT side of things? Its the most standard abuser behavior there is, that most would recognize as a particular sick example of DARVO. Yet...they are allowed to carry on this way while successfully silencing people who speak out against it or even just acknowledge its happening. What fucking pigs.
       
 (DIR) Post #ABDpUT1f6pPOw7u9rM by ClovenRed@spinster.xyz
       2021-09-10T15:03:03.378522Z
       
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       @Clariana Me too. She has some support among famous people. John Cleese being my favorite example. I sincerely hope they ALL start getting more vocal about this and what they see happening to her. Its harrowing to watch them get away with shit like this over and over and over. It's gross and its straight up evil, imo. Real activism is not made of deceit and abuse. The "harm" they claim she did is say her honest opinion based on simple truths. The truth is the most dangerous thing to these people, thats why they target women who speak it rather than men who are violent to them in the actual literal sense.  I have acquaintances IRL who "hate" JK and don't even know why. Just because memes say she's bad. So she must be. When I've challenged them to explain what she did wrong, they can't. They say she is anti trans rights. I ask them what she has said. They don't even know. They just trust it is true because a friend shared a trendy meme. That is how this works. They know what they are doing, they know people don't read past the headline, that memes are propaganda, and everyone is too distracted by everything else going on in the world to actually look at it. No one wants to. This has to change, they have silenced/banned so many people, destroyed reputations and livelihoods with bullshit lies, defended and supported serial rapists and abusers, and astroturfed every social media platform. They are petty dictators and I'm ready to see all of this blow up in their obviously male faces.
       
 (DIR) Post #ABJ4A3awQBalNIvpOi by ClovenRed@spinster.xyz
       2021-09-13T03:32:42.235398Z
       
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       @KittyNati LOL this asshat accidentally revealed so much about himself. "Found out tonight" means that he did a thought check on his coworkers and he didn't come out feeling dominant like he's used to. Calling them "entitled" after calling them "menopausal"(old), "clueless"(stupid), and "bitter"(probably offended) is funny because he's the one upset they stood up to him, and he doesn't even say what it was about because it is probably embarrassing for him, which is why he's so mad. Nothing enrages a man more than being embarrassed. Especially when they ought to be. Then he goes on to imply the lesbian only stood with the other woman because she must have a thing for her, because that's how HIS mind works. He's so textbook male its funny. I'm sure he knows he doesn't have to specify "cis" when he's referring to women, because everyone knows who is female and what a lesbian is. But  its more about specifying a woman with wrongthought or some type of 'original sin' they should feel bad about. Its about granting yourself permission to be the most cliché sexist you can possibly be. Except this new age sexism is more pathetic because he needs to be perceived as powerless or victimized when he is clearly accustomed to being coddled.
       
 (DIR) Post #ABM1uP8wv5kZ8g7wOW by ClovenRed@spinster.xyz
       2021-09-14T02:27:31.019503Z
       
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       Over the last couple of years, I have become increasingly more outspoken with friends about my thoughts on TRA's and the erosion of women's rights. Most conversations go reasonably well, but most people aren't even aware of how far things have gone, or what is getting said and passed in law. They don't seem to care or be invested one way or another when they aren't LGB or aren't women. Other conversations have gone badly in all the predictable ways they do when someone has been steeping in "queer" echo chambers.. I want to get better at talking to people about this. Especially with my more left leaning friends/acquaintances. I want to be able to be concise about the most impactful aspects of all of this, without triggering the "stonewall, shame, shun" programming.How do you talk to people IRL about it?What peaked you to begin with?How do your IRL conversations go?What points have you been able to get through?
       
 (DIR) Post #ABM6PjW7cWL37Y9yr2 by ClovenRed@spinster.xyz
       2021-09-14T14:49:24.745919Z
       
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       @Radfemmery I wondered this about "sex workers" too on the version that has the red umbrella. How do they not realize what they are implying about the LGB community with that? Over and over they validate every "slippery slope" fallacy that was used against gay rights in the first place. I think they use POC like a shield. And other marginalized people like the trafficked and trapped women they lump together with people who do Onlyfans on the side. They steal their voices by speaking over them with a self serving narrative, calling it advocacy and empowerment. They are a presumptuous bunch to put it nicely.
       
 (DIR) Post #ABi2NlXrIXFHWDZWro by ClovenRed@spinster.xyz
       2021-09-25T04:22:50.879702Z
       
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 (DIR) Post #ACCCgSaWRfqkSZ7MNU by ClovenRed@spinster.xyz
       2021-10-09T18:06:00.632602Z
       
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       Cool "fact". What about actual aggression, death and rape threats, coercion, and meddling with the livelihoods and social communities of women for simply understanding the basis of their own reality? The way it is encouraged and excused in the name of your religion? What does that lead to? Maybe history can offer a clue.