Posts by Alda@ltch.fr
(DIR) Post #9fwEOXsUrFrenBLlr6 by Alda@ltch.fr
2019-02-17T21:19:06Z
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Step 1. Accept the feelings. You can't deal with jealousy by wishing it away or by shaming yourself. Our emotions are what they are, and telling yourself "I shouldn't feel this!" won't work.Step 2. Separate triggers from causes. The next step is harder. It involves disassembling the jealousy to find those places where you are afraid and insecure. Long-lasting jealousy management can come only from strengthening the places where your self-esteem is weak.
(DIR) Post #9fwEOXzaQtXH9AfQuG by Alda@ltch.fr
2019-02-17T21:19:25Z
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Step 3. Understand the feelings. Feelings need to be examined to be understood, and the first step in examining them is to accept them for what they are. But that doesn't necessarily mean we have to believe them. We're often told to trust our intuition or go with our gut. But your feelings often lie to you. For example, if you're afraid of snakes, you might feel panic at the sight of a harmless corn snake crossing your path. The fear is genuine, but the thing it's telling you —This snake is a threat to me— is not true.
(DIR) Post #9fxc8Qe4ZaxxmkPYjw by Alda@ltch.fr
2019-02-18T13:15:46Z
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Room shaarli sur [m]atrixJ'ai pas trouvé de room Shaarli sur le réseau matrix du coup j'en ai créé un.Si vous utilisez Riot, l'adresse c'est https://riot.im/app/#/room/#shaarli:matrix.org sinon l'alias pour le rejoindre c'est #shaarli:matrix.org.-- https://riot.im/app/#/room/#shaarli:matrix.org#shaarli #matrix #shaarlien
(DIR) Post #9g5HfIp48QX1J64CHI by Alda@ltch.fr
2019-02-22T05:50:45Z
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Les cis be like :
(DIR) Post #9gC4mBwITljAcSFtlw by Alda@ltch.fr
2019-02-25T12:45:42Z
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Je suis épatée de la rapidité à laquelle mon dossier de changement de genre à l'état civil est traitée au TGI de Strasbourg.J'ai déposé mon dossier le 11 février, ma convocation est datée du 19, je l'ai reçue aujourd'hui et je passe devant le juge le 13 mars.C'est super fast non ?
(DIR) Post #9gGTdw7AhoS2i4LGXg by Alda@ltch.fr
2019-02-27T15:42:59Z
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Nouveau tootname
(DIR) Post #9gtFGPUtzLkahAlaVc by Alda@ltch.fr
2019-03-18T08:21:09Z
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J'ai envie de pisser mais pas du tout envie de me lever.La vie c'est grave de la merde quand même.
(DIR) Post #9h5nJ40flAiBOpX6zw by Alda@ltch.fr
2019-03-24T09:16:03Z
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J'ai fait un #souvenir de @Ram parce que le monde doit être témoin de la manière dont il mange du pain au petit déjeuner.
(DIR) Post #9hIx3N0BlgJeGjJKfA by Alda@ltch.fr
2017-12-20T16:42:41Z
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Here. Have something cute.
(DIR) Post #9hMZRwDyqJhABwmddo by Alda@ltch.fr
2019-04-01T09:13:49Z
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J'ai une question de curiosité pour les mecs : C'est quoi pour vous être un homme ? Qu'est-ce qui fait que vous vous sentez homme dans votre identité ?(lâchez vous je réagirais pas je veux juste lire ce que vous avez à en dire)
(DIR) Post #9hQNaR2duh8qIFLKRU by Alda@ltch.fr
2019-04-03T07:59:12Z
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J'ai posé la question aux mecs il y a quelques jours, je vais la poser aux meufs aussi maintenant.C'est quoi pour vous être une femme ? Qu'est-ce qui fait que vous vous sentez femme dans votre identité ?(lâchez vous je réagirais pas je veux juste lire ce que vous avez à en dire)
(DIR) Post #9hh2RbZU0b8awZoHUO by Alda@ltch.fr
2019-04-11T09:12:46Z
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@framasky C'est intersexe
(DIR) Post #9htjFmxuRpgAjTMmDQ by Alda@ltch.fr
2019-04-17T12:02:11Z
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If I needed a floss markdown editor for windows, what would you recommend?
(DIR) Post #9i4sncpreXm3UIN7Uu by Alda@ltch.fr
2019-04-19T11:38:02Z
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If you want to join matrix but do not want to go on matrix.org (and you should go there, it's overcrowded) you can find a list of alternative servers here : https://www.hello-matrix.net/public_servers.phpI like feneas.org (nice domain name), chat.weho.st (established non-profit service provider), tedomum.net (french established non-profit service provider)And of course there is mental.af which has the best domain name of all (that's where I am)
(DIR) Post #9i6dJEtB0l4hXDtTJw by Alda@ltch.fr
2019-04-23T14:46:18Z
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Third gender choice on id cards is just wrong. It only reinforce the idea that cis male and cis female are the two real gender and everything else is freakish and needs to be monitored.Gender does not belong on id cards and official papers.
(DIR) Post #9iOiRHqviqp7L0esJk by Alda@ltch.fr
2019-05-02T09:55:13Z
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Female runners with high testosterone must take hormone suppressants to compete, sports court rules – VICE NewsIn 2018, the IAAF announced a new rule concerning female athletes with a condition called hyperandrogenism, which results in increased testosterone production. The IAAF decided that elevated testosterone levels give them an unfair advantage in races ranging from 400 meters to one mile and instituted a new policy that mandated that female athletes with the condition take medication, such as contraceptives, to reduce their testosterone levels.Contrôle du corps des femmes. Partout. Tout le temps.– https://news.vice.com/en_us/article/wjvda4/female-runners-with-high-testosterone-must-take-hormone-blockers-to-compete-sports-court-rules#sport #sexism #discrimination #intersex #transphobia #shaarlien
(DIR) Post #9ibCosvYrtIKMXt4YS by Alda@ltch.fr
2019-05-08T03:26:01Z
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Antisémitisme : Etienne Chouard s'embourbe sur Sud Radio - Par Emmanuelle Walter | Arrêt sur imagesVous trouvez que la liberté de ne pas aimer une religion est très importante. Mais quand BHL me traite d’antisémite – même si j’étais antisémite, ce qui n’est évidemment pas le cas… “Même si j’étais antisémite, je devrais avoir le droit d’être antisémite. De la même manière que je devrais avoir le droit d’être islamophobe, ou christianophobe…[…]Et quand je disais la dernière fois, y a pas de haine des Juifs, j’exagère, pour forcer le trait, pour montrer ce que je veux dire, mais c’est vrai que c’est une maladresse. Ce que je veux dire c’est qu’il me semble que ce n’est pas un phénomène général. Il y a sûrement des pointes de haine par endroit (…) mais”“ c’est polysémique ce mot-là.Quelle ordure ce type. – https://www.arretsurimages.net/articles/antisemitisme-etienne-chouard-sembourbe-sur-sud-radio#Chouard #antisemitism #fascism #shaarlien
(DIR) Post #9ifgUyVUBleL8Gx7tg by Alda@ltch.fr
2019-05-10T15:24:10Z
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@framasky Well, I sure did. I’ve had 0 contact since. @madsugar @GinnyMcQueen
(DIR) Post #9ijfbmJcakAu1ivIBs by Alda@ltch.fr
2019-05-12T13:17:17Z
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Men Have No Friends and Women Bear the BurdenKylie-Anne Kelly can’t remember the exact moment she became her boyfriend’s one and only, his what would I do without you, but she does remember neglecting her own needs to the point of hospitalization.[…]After three years together, when exhaustion and anxiety landed her in the hospital and her boyfriend claimed he was “too busy” to visit, they broke up.– https://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/features/a27259689/toxic-masculinity-male-friendships-emotional-labor-men-rely-on-women/#feminism #womanhood #shaarlien
(DIR) Post #9ir3QGnxoz6ScZcMQS by Alda@ltch.fr
2019-05-14T09:55:22Z
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I don't think you mean what I thought you meant.