Post AHbnSWW0MTOyuPz2Q4 by GalacticTurtle@spinster.xyz
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(DIR) Post #AHbnPtS8ciSPBDv9GK by Feminismquestions@spinster.xyz
2022-03-20T14:40:12.643373Z
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I'm constantly thinking about how I physically appear to men. How can I understand myself better, and start to change how I think?
(DIR) Post #AHbnQPdEyyLsyvMT0i by GalacticTurtle@spinster.xyz
2022-03-20T14:47:39.302066Z
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@Feminismquestions Is there a reason you're thinking about how you physically appear to men, specifically?
(DIR) Post #AHbnSW3I5EQvTMY6fA by Feminismquestions@spinster.xyz
2022-03-20T14:49:18.203964Z
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@GalacticTurtle I don't know why I think this way. It's all men, so I think it's something related to what I think men expect of women.
(DIR) Post #AHbnSWW0MTOyuPz2Q4 by GalacticTurtle@spinster.xyz
2022-03-20T15:00:37.527264Z
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@Feminismquestions I mean, to a degree I think it's normal to change your appearance as a reaction to your surroundings. Even my own appearance, to a degree, was influenced by how men in particular reacted to me. In an attempt to decrease the likelihood of male attention, I had a bit of a wardrobe overhaul early on in college, primarily doing away with shorts, short sleeves, and skinny jeans. But I do think if you dwell on such things too much, as I did at the time because I was panicking, it can weigh down your quality of life.
(DIR) Post #AHbpwspOATEYhqeeHY by GrantTK@poa.st
2022-03-20T16:14:54.357622Z
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@Feminismquestions Feminist logic: Keep raging againsts the dictates of biology, that will surely lead to happiness.
(DIR) Post #AHbuFmPKf6vI73jV6e by MeBigbrain@poa.st
2022-03-20T17:03:07.824501Z
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@Feminismquestions Don't change how you think. Having standards and being conscious of other people are good things.
(DIR) Post #AHbux7OAWvYpdYr0qG by Jackuu@beefyboys.club
2022-03-20T17:10:56.707066Z
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@Feminismquestions is this a positive or negative thought process, are you terrified of how you appear, are you intimidated by how you feel? Are you jealous of other women who effortlessly seem hotter than you better than you or are you more envious of women that don’t attract attention? Please elaborate, and no I’m not trolling. I will not give you a route feminist approved answer and I will speak with extreme candor which you may not like but if you want an answer I’ll give it to you
(DIR) Post #AHbuzKnPea9lnWibi4 by Jackuu@beefyboys.club
2022-03-20T17:11:21.352409Z
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@Feminismquestions is this a positive or negative thought process, are you terrified of how you appear, are you intimidated by how you feel? Are you jealous of other women who effortlessly seem hotter than you better than you or are you more envious of women that don't attract attention? Please elaborate, and no I'm not trolling. I will not give you a rote feminist approved answer and I will speak with extreme candor which you may not like but if you want an answer I'll give it to you
(DIR) Post #AHbvABGNR8cFPxRE9Y by Feminismquestions@spinster.xyz
2022-03-20T15:07:58.768986Z
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@GalacticTurtle I go the other way though. When I get dressed, I think about what will please men. When I walk on the street, I'll angle my body the right way. It's... exhausting, and I feel stupid doing it. I want it to stop
(DIR) Post #AHbvABlvXpqwzoCQKW by honky@poa.st
2022-03-20T17:07:14.870707Z
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@Feminismquestions @GalacticTurtle How’s the ass?
(DIR) Post #AHc01UTP8zxaA4CuX2 by IgnorantHussy@nicecrew.digital
2022-03-20T18:07:35.746229Z
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You are thinking about symptoms and forgetting the cause. What you are really lacking is self-confidence. Relying on other people for that is a losing endeavor. Self-confidence is not given, it is something only you earn for yourself. Everyone achieves that goal differently. Mine was earned through sweat. Knowing what you want... and getting up off your ass to do it is the first step. Stop making excuses...stop waiting for other people...Do it for you. You will see confidence grow as you work. Eventually a light will flip inside you and you will notice...You aren't dressing nice or working hard for other people, you are doing it for you. The worst thing you could do is give up on yourself because you foolishly think mens eyes are the problem. Giving up on yourself and how you look will only further your problem. Sometimes you have to fake it until you make it. Feel like shit? Clean your room...take a long walk..test a hiking trail...punch a heavy bag. Find an outlet to declutter your brain. You will be better for it.
(DIR) Post #AHc7EwNbOp869gr02i by LostInCalifornia@spinster.xyz
2022-03-20T19:28:38.694500Z
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@Feminismquestions Most women, if they’re honest, spend their time wondering how they appear to their peer group - women.