Post A6UxBCjvdtRQ5xhei0 by femsola@spinster.xyz
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 (DIR) Post #A6Ui6lhGkMLnkhsyfY by femsola@spinster.xyz
       2021-04-22T04:51:12.758919Z
       
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       @PontiacWitch Yes, I think there are more incels in China than in any other countries. Since Chinese government has been so dedicated to the surveillance of radical feminism, which they called the propaganda of  “overseas activists”, mysogyny of Chinese men is being encouraged. The traditional values of Confucianism Chinese clan system also restrict women in many aspects and rationalize men’s dominance. Chinese men always blame feminists for how they advocate “Western ideology”, as if they are the only patriots. They just have no other excuse to argue how reasonable it is that women should fight for their own right.
       
 (DIR) Post #A6Ui6m65G6CSzfUnLc by BCLADY@spinster.xyz
       2021-04-22T05:12:47.369000Z
       
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       @femsola @PontiacWitch This is why I relate to women first. Women all have bodies which are generally targeted and coerced by the political class specifically because of our biological abilities and disabilities. We can reproduce (or are assumed to be able to) and why are physically weaker. We can't pee standing up. What woman wouldn't have to have control over their own ability to reproduce, to be able to provide a good and stable environment to their future child, including the ability to not gestate a potential fetus if the environment is clearly perceived as threatening? What woman doesn't want the dignity or know the cringe worthy disgust of seeing men cling to their physical strength as if that is all that is needed to demonstrate superiority? It all starts with feeling worthy enough to be listening to and understood. To call out the bullshit of men acting like their pretend authority is real.  It is frustrating to all hell that so many "cultures" just happen to keep men in a higher status than women, despite the fact that humanity only got so far by working together and using socialization to defy brute strength. It isn't Western ideology to want reproductive control, to only sacrifice your own body when you're ready and see a safe environment. It isn't West ideology to want research into women's physical health. It isn't Western ideology to want respect and dignity instead of objectification. It isn't Western ideology to want to be listened to and see as a worthy contributor instead of someone who's dismissed because men want to keep authority. Chinese government freaks me out with out little regard for human life they have. From forced abortions, to abandoning the mentally ill, their working environments. It's creepy as fuck how they use other people are tools to support their princeling dictatorship. I saw a parts of a really fucked up documentary where groups of people where just abandoned in a mental "hospital" in China and I am generally pretty numb to shit but it was cruel.
       
 (DIR) Post #A6UxBCjvdtRQ5xhei0 by femsola@spinster.xyz
       2021-04-22T08:00:47.524142Z
       
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       @BCLADY @PontiacWitch Totally agree. That’s why I didn’t really love my country because I never felt I am living in a sound environment for women. I felt insecure when I was traveling alone, when I was walking on the street after 10 pm, when I was peeing at a public toilet, even when I was just typing on my phone at home (you know big brother might be everywhere). I am not surprised if the government did anything like that. Actually any government may make mistakes but there is no one government in the world like it trying to cover all the bad things it did. People know some of these things although it is never revealed. We just get numb after all these, because keeping yourself angry all the time is just too strenuous. Some women here are just struggling, some planning to emigrate.
       
 (DIR) Post #A6UxOgBnSesLCCACZc by BCLADY@spinster.xyz
       2021-04-22T08:04:05.942652Z
       
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       @femsola @PontiacWitch I can relate so hard to how scary it is to have the government be horrible with how the Canadian government has become and how Trudeau praised China. I don't blame anyone for running away from that. It's like a giant abusive relationship. I think the women who stay and fight are very brave.
       
 (DIR) Post #A6UzbmkQaV81D3jseG by femsola@spinster.xyz
       2021-04-22T08:24:27.442679Z
       
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       @BCLADY @PontiacWitch I think that’s how politics works. They just fake everything to get their own profits. I think to run away or to stay and fight won’t lead to better results, women just need to make choices. It’s hard for those who have already known the truth of patriarchy and the government to live pretending everything is fine, it’s almost like killing oneself.