Subj : Re: Life and all that stuff To : Avon From : Spectre Date : Thu Apr 06 2023 23:38:00 Av> My mum has been in rest home care now since November and her health is Av> declining. I last saw her in February. I'm a couple of plane flights away Av> from her and not sure if/when I will see her next. I'm lucky we moved her closer, even if she feels the facility has gone downhill since she moved in. She recently tested positive for covid, but has been asymptomatic so thats something at least. She's noticed she's not as stable as she was, I'm noticing that she sounds more frail than she used to. I try and send her over some food every now and then, facility food is a bit like bad hospital food, and with inflation in the food prices I'm sure they're cutting whatever corners they can to stay inside their budget. The choice to use a facility is a bit tough. A lot of "inmates" don't last for long after you take them out of a familiar environment even if they weren't doing well there either. Here you can get in home care, haven't pushed far down that path though. Good luck with your Mum.. If you can manage it, make the trips, you won't have her forever. Spec *** THE READER V4.50 [freeware] --- SuperBBS v1.17-3 (Eval) * Origin: Good Luck and drive offensively! (21:3/101) .