Subj : Valentine's Day
To   : Ogg
From : Arelor
Date : Mon Feb 21 2022 15:17:40

  Re: Valentine's Day
  By: Ogg to Arelor on Mon Feb 21 2022 02:02 pm

 > Hello Arelor!
 > 
 > ** On Tuesday 15.02.22 - 03:55, Arelor wrote to Gamgee:
 > 
 >  A> I am of the opinion that people sucks. Women are people. So
 >  A> women suck. In a bad way, mind you, not in the good way you
 >  A> are thinking.
 > 
 > Oh boy..  what happened to you?  :/
 > 
 >  A> I still need to find a woman who is able to convince me
 >  A> that she is worth the price by the 3rd day. Make no
 >  A> mistake: relationships are ALL about what you are willing
 >  A> to give in exchange for what, and somehow we have made it
 >  A> so women demand so many more resources than they are worth.
 > 
 > Meanwhile.. Are you still engaging in "the social game"
 > (flirting, friendship, communication) with the female people
 > that you cross paths with? Or.. have you decided that none of
 > that is worth it?
 > 
 >  A> People used to criticise me for this way of thinking. A big
 >  A> part of those who used to do, ended up overbuying their
 >  A> relationship and are clearly pumping more resources into it
 >  A> than they'd consider a fair price, and they can't break out
 >  A> the deal because it is not socially acceptable at that
 >  A> point.
 > 
 > Some people dole out the material currency in the relationship
 > only to be overwhelmed with maintaining the status quo.  The
 > emotional currency can be just as costly or unsatisfactory.
 > 
 > What do you want?
 > 
 > ultimately it boils down to respect between life partners.

If I run into an interesting female I will make a move, but I am not hunting actively.

A lot of what people seems to want from a relationship can be gathered from other
places for much cheaper and with less complications. If I want to have fun, or to be
respected, or to be loved, I can get such things from a combination of friends, pets
and family. Most gals around here want to wear you as a fashion accesory so other
girls can see they have a man but their value proposition just does not compete.

As for what I want:

I was once cleaning the barn, and one of my mares was around, trying to grab a bag I
had clipped to my belt. The first time she tried to grab the bag I pushed her away
gently. The second time she tried, I pushed her harder. The third time, I yelled at
her and told her she was a very bad girl. She walked off and stood away with this sad
look of hers until I was finished. She looked very depresed. Eventually I put the
shovel away and told her "Ok, who is the little cute mare who wants horsehugs?"

So she pounced on me and started nosing and cuddling and grabbing me, breathing like a
buffalo and hooking me as to not let me go.

What I want is a girl that is able to love me as desperately as this mare, and who I
can trust as much as this mare.

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