Subj : Re: Valentine's Day
To   : Nightfox
From : Arelor
Date : Tue Feb 15 2022 18:22:08

  Re: Re: Valentine's Day
  By: Nightfox to Arelor on Tue Feb 15 2022 12:42 pm

 >   Re: Re: Valentine's Day
 >   By: Arelor to Gamgee on Tue Feb 15 2022 03:55 am
 > 
 >  Ar> I still need to find a woman who is able to convince me that she is worth the
 >  Ar> price by the 3rd day.
 > 
 > 3rd day of what?  The 3rd day after you meet her?
 > 
 > Nightfox

3rd dating day (ie. third date).

By this, I don't mean she has to convince me to sign a social contract in which she
agrees to help me take care of the horses and decorate the house in exchange for a
place to live and back rubs.

She has to convince me she is the sort of person I could have fun with to begin with.
That is kind of the starter contract. The problem is my hobbies seem to be so Macho
that only Commander Chip Hazzard would jump in, whereas girls here have mostly
the Spanish favourite hobby: The Big Bottle (Botellón: night parties in whcih the
only thing you do is walking into the streets and getting blind drunk).

It is kind of hard to have any chemistry whatsoever with people whose idea of having
fun is limited to getting into drunk parties and have nothing else in their wishlist.
Specially because, for all my bourbon talk, I don't drink much.

There are some exceptions of girls who had something cool going on for them, but
happened to be textbook sluts. So they fall, square, into the "I want her only as
friend" category.

There are I think two I actually liked, but those happened to not like me. One of them
was obviously oblivious to the fact her mare LOVED me so much. Since that mare is her
best friend, she was breaking the golden gal rule of listening to your friend's advice
:-P Maybe she was jealeous because the mare was paying me more attention than she did
her...



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