Subj : Re: (none) To : Weatherman From : opicron Date : Sat Jan 29 2022 15:08:07 We> I see both sides of this, because I have experienced both sides of this. We> Speaking for myself that has been married three times. We> That isn't to say that normal good relationships don't go through ups and We> downs. That is life, but there is a big difference between dysfunctional We> relationships and good relationships.. Totally agree. Thats what I tried to convey with the some of my reaction. Its a delicate balance. In my marriage I was selfish, now that I care more and invest more its become a beautiful thing. What boggles me that there is usually not a word of work or investing in. Its always just things go bad. It doesnt work like that. oP --- Mystic BBS v1.12 A46 2020/08/26 (Linux/64) * Origin: TheForze - bbs.opicron.eu:23 (21:3/126) .