Subj : Blues Net To : apam From : TALIADON Date : Wed Jan 19 2022 10:08:09 ap> It seems to be the popular thing around BBSing to be condesending and ap> negative. ap> ap> FSXnet came about when there were already general nets that were "dead" ap> and it's become very popular. It just depends how much effort one is ap> willing to put into their net, the energy they put out either will ap> attract others or wont. ap> ap> To be honest, the negativity in bbsing is more likely to drive people ap> away from the hobby, than keep everyone in existing nets or something. ap> I've been at the point the last few weeks, where I'm considering just ap> turning everything off and washing my hands of it all. The only thing ap> that stops me is the handful of friends I've made here, and I'd feel like ap> I was letting down people who use my software. ap> ap> Anyway, good luck to mickey with his blues net. This 'big fish in a little pond' mentality has been a 'thing' in the technology arena since Moses wore short pants. Having been a systems-developer/programmer for many decades (now retired), I've seen just about every kind of ego you could possibly imagine. TBH, this kind of attitude is more indicative of experience than personality: only large scale collaborative projects carry the necessary mass to humble the human ego. Without exception, no man ever makes it alone; I can't think of a single project where I didn't rely upon the skills, talents, and resolve of truly brilliant people. IMHO, it is often a mistake to know a man by his experiences alone, for he is yet to know himself. o-----------o------------o-------------------------o TALIADON | 2:250/6 | 21:3/138 | TALIADON-BBS@MAIL.COM | o-----------o-----------o------------o-------------------------o | "Error is a great teacher, and humility its hardest lesson." | o--------------------------------------------------------------o --- Mystic BBS v1.12 A46 2020/08/26 (Windows/32) * Origin: TALIADON BBS (21:3/138) .