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Stardate: 20230915.0201
Location: The Lab
Input Device: Alienware Alpha R1
Audio: Fan
Visual: nano
Emotional: here.
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Things have been pretty quiet on my end lately in gopherspace and
other online haunts. I have not been feeling too motivated in
participating or showing up much. I have been a bit stuck.
Since I have been on leave since I tore my achilles, I have been
taking it slow. Some times so slow that I feel stuck for days. Back
in the cave, consumed by helplessness and hopelessness and just
passing time, not being productive, staring off into space, staying
up late, sleeping in late, watching bad tv...I did revisit some old
depressing favorites, like The Deer Hunter and Leaving Las Vegas.
I also spent some time in SDF Minecraft-land, which can be a good
distraction and trick me into feeling "productive," even though now's
not the time to be productive...but society says I need to be
productive...duty now for the future, HA!
It has been said that at first, sitting in your shit can be warm
and comfortable. And familiar. After sitting there awhile, the shit
gets cold and starts to stink. Eventually, it becomes really
uncomfortable and you have to do something about it. I am not quite
out of it, but I do see some forward movement.
There has been some activity on my end recently, mostly dealing with
and processing the consequences of recent months and my part in it,
as well as more being revealed about my "shadow self," not by
actively looking for anything or questioning, but just by being
present. For some reason, the insights seem to come when I least
expect it. I realized that part of the processing required of me was
to revisit the cave and stay and just be there, broken and in pieces.
Having a torn achilles helped me to not worry so much about being
there.
Without getting into too much detail, there are parts of me that
have been uncovered and are hard to look at. Even though it sucks,
as it usually does when shadow stuff becomes uncovered, I can't help
but not see it anymore. For me to ignore or deflect or place blame
would be doing my self a dis-service. I think that since I am aware
of them now, I am closer to becoming accepting of these parts of me.
Sorry if this phost sounds confusing or cryptic, but I don't think I
am at the point yet of having words to really express much. I
figured that I should at least try writing something. That is all
for now.
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